Talking Dateline: The Watcher

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See CapitalOne.com for details. Hi everybody, it's Josh Mankiewicz and we're talking Dateline.
Today we're talking about an episode called The Watcher, and we're here with the correspondent who is, let me see, I have that here somewhere. Oh, it's Keith.
Yeah, hi, Keith. You know, that's a good title, don't you think? It is a good title, although one could argue that it gives it away.
Because there were points in this where I thought, like, oh, yeah, it's called The Watcher. So, yeah.
Which means that there's somebody else watching. Yeah, that's true.
It's true. This is a very good episode, I thought.
Now, if you have not seen it, this is the episode right below this one on your Dateline podcast feed. So go there, listen to it, or you could stream it on Peacock and then come back here.
So just to recap, in 2011, Georgia law student Lauren Giddings vanished. Investigators were pretty certain that this wasn't an ordinary missing persons case.
And then in what really amounted to some very lucky happenstance, investigators found some dismembered remains at Lauren's apartment, and then they knew what had happened. What they did not know was who had committed that crime, and it turned out that someone who was the watcher, her next-door neighbor, had actually done it.
Now, for this talking dateline, we have the very latest developments in this case, because the man who ended up pleading guilty to the murder of Lauren Giddings tried to appeal his conviction. One of his defense attorneys revealed some significant details of the murder that his client may not have wanted to make public.
So let's talk Dateline. The sense that I get from Lauren Giddings is that she was a lot of fun.
She was really smart. She was really interesting.
And she was, you know, maybe the glue that held all her friends together. They all seem to sort of coalesce around her.
Yeah, you've got it right. She was that person.
She certainly struck me as being a very smart woman. Additionally, she felt she had a calling.
And that was one of the ironies of this story. Her goal in life was to be a defense attorney who would represent the very kind of person who wound up killing her.
And ironically, again, her professor, who was teaching her the techniques of representing such people, went ahead and represented him.

And the feeling among her friends and compatriots at law school was,

had she survived this attack somehow,

she would probably have defended them anyway.

She was just that kind of person.

I think that's probably unusual as people who come out of law school

wanting to work for the PD's office.

I mean, some people want to do defense work,

but wanting to work for, you know, essentially people who can't afford lawyers is something else. Yeah, it's a rare thing, and it doesn't pay a lot compared to other kinds of legal work.
No, and it's underfunded, and you don't have, I mean, every time you go to court, there's a, you know, the deck is very heavily stacked in favor of the prosecution because they have the police department and you, you know, you have maybe a, you know, an investigator who's working on a bunch of different cases. It's just not, you're starting off behind the eight ball a lot of the time and you're juggling a zillion cases.
So you have to really want to do it. Some of the loveliest people I know do that kind of work.
They tilted windmills their whole lives and don't make very much money for it. Anyway, that's one of the aspects of this story that appealed to me.
And there's also a MacGuffin in it in the sense that they probably wouldn't have discovered so easily what happened or at least gotten on the right trail to find out what happened had it not been for the fact that it was in Macon, Georgia, and it was hot as hell that day.

The torso was creating an odor. Yeah.
And, like, literally, like, if the trash had been picked up a day sooner, if the police had gotten there three hours later, you know? Yeah. The trash truck was on the way.
I mean, it was, and I think that probably the killer had expected and planned for that trash truck to be there before there was any hoo-ha about what happened.

And that moment in the story that really stuck out to me, this guy, he's a terrible, terrible person, but also not terribly bright.

And when he is confronted with the recognition that somebody announces that they have found the body and his reaction to that. It's in the middle of that TV interview.
Now, yes, you've got to be prepared if you're the killer or you would think you'd be prepared for, you know, when you're told that she is dead because you're the only person that knows that she is dead at that point. So when somebody says, hey, we found her and she's no longer with us, you should be, well, I can't believe it.
That's the worst news. But instead, he's like, wait, they found the body? Body, he says? Yeah, that was, that's not the way.
I should laugh, but I mean, that was. No, but I mean, it's astonishingly telling is what it is.
Yeah. So the other thing besides the hot day, as they're looking around, they found those.
He had insisted that he was a celibate guy. He was waiting for marriage.
And then they found those condoms. And he was so determined to retain the idea that he wasn't, you know, messing around.
And therefore, he couldn't have attacked her and had sex with her. So why do you have the condoms? And he, rather than, you know, give up his story, he then confesses that he stole them from a neighbor.
Which allows them to arrest him. To arrest him and hold him.
Because there certainly wasn't enough to arrest him for her murder at that point. Right, exactly.
So he talked himself right into the jailhouse. I think one of the lessons here is you never really know who's living next door.
Right. I mean, I know my neighbors to say hello to.
I certainly, you know. Sure.
You know, beyond that, I couldn't tell you much. And you've lived there for quite a while.
I have. I have.
And I don't think anybody's spying on me. I think most people who get spied on don't think anyone's spying on them.
What's interesting, you know, something we talk about all the time here is how you need to listen to your instincts. And she had this sense that somebody was stalking her, following her.
Something was up. She did.
And, you know, her friends just kind of chalked that up to, well, you know, men are always interested in her. You know, this is probably not a big deal.
And it's one of the things that women have to put up with a lot is having, you know, men look at them whenever they possibly can, including, you know, some creep peeping in the window once in a while. Now, let me ask you this.
I don't know the answer to this um uh that video that they come up with that closes the case essentially that that is taken obviously by him looking in her window she's not in that video right you don't ever actually see her you don't ever actually see her but you see him uh attempting to see her you her window. It's clearly her apartment that he's looking into through the blinds, but he doesn't actually get any video of her, at least not that they recovered.
That's right. But, you know, his whole setup was exposed by that.
Would they have got a conviction without it? I suspect they might have, but that certainly sealed the deal. Steve McDaniel pleaded guilty, but years after confessing the crime, he made a bunch of attempts to appeal his conviction.
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A couple interesting things in this story, particularly from a storytelling point of view that I thought you did very well, as you always do. One was you just sort of barely mentioned the neighbor, like he was, we wanted to help and he had some thoughtful things.
You just mentioned that there's a neighbor who wants to help but then clearly you've got it down to joe the ex-boyfriend uh and uh and david yeah and then david the current boyfriend right uh and so you're thinking if you're the audience okay it's one of them and then you throw in the maintenance man and i'm like okay well that's clearly who it is like it's nearly probably the maintenance guy it's neither joe nor it's the maintenance man obviously and then it turns out of course it's somebody else entirely and so from a dateline storytelling point of view i thought that was great well that's very kind of you to say josh thank you when we're telling these stories when we're writing them is we have to do the storytelling in a way that it's not obvious from the get-go what happened, but we also have to stay completely faithful to the truth. Like, we're not going to say, you know, the maintenance man was a suspect if he wasn't a suspect.
We're not going to say the cops were looking at Joe and they were looking at David if they weren't, but they were. Yeah, which brings up another little piece of advice for people who may be listening to this, which is if you're – pay careful attention to whether you're watching a program that is journalistically sound and you tell all the facts as best you possibly can.
Right. But then there's a scripted series that comes along that takes a point of view and therefore will fudge on certain details and will reduce the effect of some things and increase the effect of some other things.
In other words, they're manufacturing the story out of raw material, which may be true in the first place, but stops being true as you're telling it. Anyway, this character reminds me of a lot of other people who've done stories about.
He is the boogeyman. And boogeyman exists.
They're very, very rare, but they do exist, and they get all the attention. And I mean, usually, almost always, the person who ends up being the culprit is the Joe of the story or the David of the story.
Well, yes, usually. It's almost never the random guy who was not on police radar, but sometimes it is.
Those random psychopathic killers are very, very unusual. So sometimes I think I worry that we might put a little too much fear into an audience that there are those kind of people out there in numbers, and they're targeting and watching and, you know, scary.
Yeah, I mean, look, I mean, I'm going to say upwards of 90% of Dateline stories involve some sort of relationship between the killer and victim. Of course, yeah, sure.
They're not unknown to each other. And in fact— And I think that probably mirrors, to to some degree the statistics in murder investigation.
I mean, the person who leaps out of the bushes and attacks someone and rapes them, that's the least common kind of rape. That's right.
Almost always it's somebody that the victim knows. That's overwhelmingly likely.
That's true. But that's sort of not widely known.
And so people fear one maybe more than they should and fear the other maybe less than they should. Exactly the point.
Yeah. So since this happened, Steve McDaniel has tried to appeal his case in Georgia State courts.
Yes, and to interject only slightly, he tried to appeal the case, even though he pleaded guilty.

Right.

To what he did.

Which usually means you give up any right to appeal.

That's what a guilty.

Generally speaking.

Yeah.

Yeah.

But he in the 2018, he claimed his constitutional rights were violated, asked for a new trial.

He represented himself.

He called one of his own defense attorneys as a witness in his case. Not the right move.
No. No.
No. That backfired because to do that, to call your attorney to testify in your appeal, he had to waive attorney-client privilege.
Sure. Which means the attorney can now say anything that the defendant said to him during a time when that was privileged.
And that attorney undoubtedly had stored all this stuff up for a long time, thinking he'd never be able to tell anybody. Yeah, well.
Until that opportunity came along. What Stephen McDaniel's defense attorney, Floyd Buford, said when he could speak freely about what his client had shared with him, in other words, outside lawyer-client privilege, well, it's like something out of a horror movie.
He testified that McDaniel had admitted to decapitating Lauren, cutting her fingers off, and flushing them down the toilet. Really awful stuff.
And he also said that McDaniel possessed some of the worst child porn that the attorney had ever seen.

This normally would have been protected by privilege, but in this case, it wasn't.

And it's not what you want your defense attorney revealing in court.

That appeal didn't go anywhere.

Well, yes.

I guess he has a possibility after 30 years of getting out, but it seems unlikely somehow.

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Let's take your questions from social media. Good idea.
So a lot of people wrote to us saying that they lived in Macon at the time. They remember the coverage of this case.
I will say this. I had not been before doing this story.
I had not been to Macon, Georgia before. And what a lovely place it is.
That's great. It has a history.
I realize. It is complicated, but it is, my gosh, some of those wonderful homes and the atmosphere is really quite delightful.
That's nice. Yeah.
Just thought I'd add that. I like going places like that.
I used to live in Atlanta. This was like 40 years ago.
So I was in Macon and other parts of Georgia back then a lot. You know, you loved Macon when you were there.
Did people love you back? Were they nice to you? They were very nice to me, yes, absolutely. But, you know, come on, TV guy.
People are not going to be mean, I don't think. a lot of questions about uh about lauren's dog what became of lauren's dog everybody wants to know well it's an important thing you know the dog was a was part of her persona it was part of her life and dogs i don't know if you know this josh yeah but dogs are important to a lot of people dogs are really important to a lot of people and in nearly every dateline episode that I've done that involves a dog, there are social media questions about what happened to the dog.
Of course, of course. And in this case, the dog was, you know, went to live with Lauren's family.
Right. And if it had been there that night, it might have woken her up.
Well, it might have. And because, right, she had left the dog with him, given the fact that they were writing their bar exams and a lot going on.
Another piece of bad luck. Yeah.
On the other hand, it may also have been that he waited until the dog wasn't there anymore, you know? That's also possible. Yeah.
Yeah. Gail Brown Salvo on Facebook.
Keith and I are on Facebook all the time. She says that this was such a sad story.
So strange that the man who did this had a promising law career ahead of him and would end up destroying his life and the lives of this woman and her family, which is all true. I will say that in most cases, I don't see people who end up being the killers sort of thinking about the ramifications of what happens.
You know, I'm going to get caught.

I'm going to, you know, end up in prison.

My family will be ashamed of me. I'll impoverish them because they had to hire an attorney.
You know, I'll wreck somebody else's family's life by taking away this person. Right.
I gather the desire to kill to to get sexual pleasure from killing a woman or a man but generally speaking a woman uh is so powerful it's the only emotion that these folks can feel they don't feel any compassion for a human being no i mean that guy presumably went into law for some he thought, you know, he could help people or he could help himself or he could help his family. And, you know, he's going to be locked up for the rest of his life.
Or he would know how the system works so that he could dodge it. Right.
So he can get away with it. Yeah.
I'm reminded of Brian Koberger in Idaho facing those charges there. And, of course, he's still facing charges.

He hasn't been convicted of anything yet. But he, you know, attempted to join a police force because he was kind of interested to see how the police would work.
He wanted to be a lawyer. Yeah, I must say, I have only followed that case by watching your stories.
But that is a weird story. And that's the kind of thing we were talking about earlier in which this is not a traditional dateline defendant in which they're involved with or close friends with, you know, or married to somebody in the case.
And they stand out because they're so unusual, so rare, you know. I remember them.
You remember them. We all remember them.
I do. Because they're monsters.
And the monster, I'm not saying Brian Koberger's a monster. We don't know yet.
He's not been convicted of anything. But the people who do these things are monsters.
And so they kind of fit into the template of the scary story we tell ourselves at night before we go to bed. Well, that's a happy thought to go out on.
Yes, exactly. Thanks, Keith.
However, I spend my time thinking about you, Josh, and then I drift off to sleep happily. Oh, that's nice.
That's a sweet thought. Yeah.
Just for the audience's benefit. None of that was true.
Keith, Happy New Year. Happy New Year to you, too, Josh.
And one more thing. Yeah.
I have a new podcast out um called deadly mirage what's it's a what's a it's a called deadly mirage or something deadly mirage we called it deadly mirage because uh the other like seven or eight titles that we thought of were all taken my choice was keith wasn't interested but that apparently was also taken uh yeah but uh anyway it's called deadly mirage and it's going to run on dateline as a tv episode friday at nine o'clock eastern so if you've been listening to this podcast you can now watch the tv program and you'll see what all these people look like oh just to see what the places looked like um Deadly Mirage, that's this Friday on Dateline. And here's pretty good, Josh.
So congratulations on that. Thank you very much.
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