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Speaker 1 Hi, everybody. I'm Josh Maykiewicz, and we are talking Dateline.
And today, our guest is Keith Morrison. Hi, Keith.
Hello, Josh. How are you today?

Speaker 1 Okay, that was cool. What do I say? I said hello.
Hello. You said hello, Keith.
I said hello, Josh. It's starting right away.

Speaker 1 This episode is called The Sisterhood. Now, if you haven't listened to it or if you haven't watched it on television, the link to the episode is in the description to this episode.

Speaker 1 So go there, listen to it. You can also watch it on TV TV or stream it on Peacock and then come back here.

Speaker 1 Now, today, Keith has a clip that he's going to play for us: interviews that did not make the episode.

Speaker 1 And then later we will answer some of your questions about this broadcast from social media. So stick around for that.
All right, here we go.

Speaker 1 It really

Speaker 1 is quite a journey, at least in the mind of the viewer, of Bob from kind of like, you know, good guy, husband, to sort of hapless loser who can't really hold a job to, you know, widower

Speaker 1 to possible murderer. No one will hear you if you scream.
I mean, you know, he's going from Fred Flintstone to Hannibal Lecter.

Speaker 1 There is a character who appears often in fiction and more often than we would like to think in real life as well.

Speaker 1 And that character is one who puts on a pretty good impression in the first place and can don all kinds of disguises.

Speaker 1 But when it comes comes right down to it, he's a selfish person who really is not very ambitious about working and supporting a family. He just wants stuff.

Speaker 1 And that appears to have been what this situation was. He doesn't clean out the garage.
He just pretends to clean out the garage. He doesn't go to work really.

Speaker 1 He just kind of keeps a job enough that he can say he works. And at the same time, he is a very controlling individual in the marriage.
I want my candy. I want my girls.

Speaker 1 I want to have something going on outside the marriage. And so even after he murdered her, even after he was on bail, awaiting trial,

Speaker 1 he was going for bicycle rides around the neighborhood where he wasn't supposed to be going and having dates with people.

Speaker 1 Among all the horrific things that Bob was proven to have done and then also alleged to have done,

Speaker 1 I have to say that using grief counseling as a place to hook up with people

Speaker 1 would, for me, fall very near the top of the list.

Speaker 1 Taking advantage of who are certain amount of

Speaker 1 worst, yeah.

Speaker 1 Well, it, it, and, and all, you know, when you know what happened back at the beginning, which was that he killed her, and then he was going to a kind of a religious school and talking to people who run the religious school and picking up his children

Speaker 1 and bringing them home from school. He was able to hide himself during those occasions, and nobody knew otherwise, frankly.

Speaker 1 He then put on such a show in his 911 call that that's one thing that the initial responders were a little suspicious of.

Speaker 1 That's one thing I

Speaker 1 one thing I want to talk about is that 911 call.

Speaker 1 I thought it was great the way you play it at the beginning, and then at the end, you do the analysis of it

Speaker 1 with people who have listened to it, you know, sort of more carefully. And, you know, he sounds like he's calling for help, but he's really talking about himself,

Speaker 1 which I thought was

Speaker 1 interesting. And he's using that.
He's using his hysteria as a way of covering the fact that he's not actually doing anything. It reminded me a little bit.
of

Speaker 1 the IVF doctor that you did the story about. A little bit, although the IVF doctor put on his ⁇

Speaker 1 if he made an error in that 911 call,

Speaker 1 at least one that made people suspicious, it was that he adopted too much of the

Speaker 1 examination room attitude. My patient, and I'm a doctor, and I'm going to keep my cool...

Speaker 1 Bob's hysterical, but he's not actually doing anything. No, he actually wasn't doing anything.
And as we now know, those bruises on her body came from some other activity altogether.

Speaker 1 And again, if we're to believe prosecutors uh and clearly the jury did then she was already dead at that point not dying not not breathing her last she was already gone at that point in which case she had been gone for some time yeah in which case bob did not i mean again if you're gonna sell the idea that you are trying to bring this person back this person you have just killed you're gonna have to do a better job of it than that that is that is true um you had great interviews in this i mean her friends were great.

Speaker 1 I thought the stuff about, you know, the dress, which they sort of loaned back and forth, the sisterhood of the traveling dress. I thought that was something.

Speaker 1 And the detective, I thought it was terrific

Speaker 1 because he felt it just like everybody else did. He carried that case around with him for a long time.
And

Speaker 1 I think it bothered him. more deeply than I may have realized when we began to talk.
Yeah. And Susan McBride, who, you know, I think Bob thought, you know, okay, well, that didn't work out.

Speaker 1 I'm never going to hear from her again. And she ends up like sort of driving a stake into him.
Oh, he's, yes, she was the, she was absolutely the key to the case.

Speaker 1 Without her, it wouldn't have happened. But again, it's, you know, it's the happenstance of things, right?

Speaker 1 If she just, you know, not kept in touch with the home front as she went off to Italy, would she ever have known about this? Would she ever have contacted anybody?

Speaker 1 Clearly, something made her want to investigate Bob a little bit more after

Speaker 1 the way he behaved. Right.
Now, plenty of women would just have thought, okay, that guy's a loser. I'm going to block him on social media.

Speaker 1 I'm going to ignore his emails and I'm going to move on to somebody else. I'm not going to look him up.
I'm not going to discover that he's married.

Speaker 1 I'm not going to even have any debate about whether or not to contact his wife. But she did all of those things.
Yes.

Speaker 1 This woman figured out he was a cat after all, called the wife and blew the whistle. She thought she was doing a good thing.
And then she went away.

Speaker 1 And when she came back, she discovered that the victim had died that very day. And it hit her like a Mac truck, as you can imagine.
Like, I called, I made that call. I talked to that woman.

Speaker 1 And a matter of hour or two later, she's dead. And so, yes, that's something that Susan has carried around with her.

Speaker 1 At the same time, you know, it was her testimony that made the difference in convicting him.

Speaker 1 The woman who was terribly attacked by Bob, that was a great interview. Was it difficult to get her to tell that story? She was reluctant, yes.

Speaker 1 But she thought about it for a time and realized that it was an important story to tell. And often women,

Speaker 1 in the experience of doing these stories, will tell us, tell me, and I'm sure they tell you, that somehow they feel like they can't really do anything, like they are powerless in the face of somebody who has taken advantage of them or abused them.

Speaker 1 And it doesn't matter what they say, it's not going to make a difference, but it does.

Speaker 1 And this is one of the stories that indicates it truly does make a difference. When we come back, we have more from Keith's interview with former prosecutor Gail Strz and attorney Casey Gwynn.

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Speaker 1 So, I guess my first question about this is, how

Speaker 1 did this death go down as anything other than suspicious from the get-go? Because it feels like it took a long time to sort of build suspicion about this.

Speaker 1 It seems like they just kind of bought it from the beginning, bought Bob's story.

Speaker 1 This case took a long time to get to trial, to get to conclusion. Seven years was the process between the time she was killed and the time it was

Speaker 1 resolved. They thought he behaved a little oddly.

Speaker 1 And they thought, boy, there are a lot of abrasions and things on her body,

Speaker 1 but that makes sense because he dragged her out of the shower and took her into the middle of the room and he was giving her CPR. The medical examiner who

Speaker 1 did the autopsy could not find a cause of death right off the top. There was no obvious sign of strangulation, for example.
There was no obvious sign of enough brute

Speaker 1 blunt object force to kill her. So they just didn't know for sure.

Speaker 1 That detective was always kind of suspicious and he kind of kept at it, but he was unable to move against the husband because he didn't have the medical examiner on side.

Speaker 1 There wasn't an indication it was actually a homicide, so he couldn't charge the guy.

Speaker 1 I think that the issue was that the medical examiner who looked at the body initially didn't recognize that that was potentially from a strangulation case.

Speaker 1 One of the interesting things about this is that, you know, that initial determination by law enforcement or by a coroner or medical examiner carries so much weight in so many of these cases that we've covered.

Speaker 1 And everything sort of cascades from that, whether it's, you know, the weight of innocence or the weight of guilt. Yeah,

Speaker 1 the system is front-loaded in that interesting way.

Speaker 1 But everything takes so long. The initial determination is so weighty, is so important that it takes a long, long time to undo that, to see a case from the other side.

Speaker 1 That happened in this case, for sure. Let's talk about the Training Institute for Strangulation Prevention.
I've never heard of them before.

Speaker 1 How'd you guys come across them and tell me a little bit more about that?

Speaker 1 Our victim's sister, who located those people, when we were doing the story and heard about them, they happened to be having a conference not far away from where

Speaker 1 both the producer and I live.

Speaker 1 And that's where that interview came from that you will see in addition to the the material here.

Speaker 1 It's a group to recognize that medical examiners, most prosecutors, most people in local law enforcement in the country are only aware of, you know, one very specific kind of injury from strangulation, and they miss a lot.

Speaker 1 This feels like a good place to listen to this extra sound. If you want to see the full video of this, you can see it on our website.

Speaker 1 It's an interview with the former prosecutor Gail Strzack and attorney Casey Gwynn, and they're talking about the Training Institute of Strangulation Prevention and what can be learned from their work.

Speaker 1 So let's listen to that.

Speaker 4 The Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention actually started probably in 1995. Casey put me in charge of the domestic violence unit.
We had two teenagers.

Speaker 4 Both of them had been choked before they were killed. Neither case got prosecuted, and it really changed my life personally.
And ever since then, we've been trying to figure out what happened.

Speaker 4 Can we make it better? And can we make it right?

Speaker 5 Strangulation has been missed for decades and decades in this country. There's no black eyes, there's no broken bones.

Speaker 5 And we didn't understand that for almost 30 years in our work as prosecutors and as social change advocates.

Speaker 5 But the other thing we didn't understand is that men who strangle women are not the same as men who push or slap or punch women.

Speaker 5 If you go after stranglers before they kill, you're getting the killers before the victim is dead. Our work has prevented homicides in San Diego, in California, and across America.

Speaker 1 That is certainly provocative.

Speaker 1 The idea that strangling

Speaker 1 is a precursor to domestic violence, which is in

Speaker 1 one form or another, so many dateline episodes and so many stories that we cover. The idea that they have

Speaker 1 prevented deaths was something I wouldn't ever have considered. You know, maybe you discover a death, a reason for death that you

Speaker 1 weren't aware of. That seemed obvious.
But to prevent them,

Speaker 1 well, I guess so. You know, there's an assault on a woman.
And

Speaker 1 if she is able to report what happened to her and they can have a proper look at, you know, her, the, the, the medical indicators, they can stop that person.

Speaker 1 One of the things I really like about this episode is I always like it when we can sort sort of take our eyes off the actual story that we're telling and do something a little bit bigger.

Speaker 1 In this case, I'm sort of talking about domestic violence and strangulation and the whole issue of, you know, sort of controlling men like that and where that can lead. Well, thank you, Josh.

Speaker 1 But it does go to the heart of what you and I do and have been doing for years,

Speaker 1 which is as we set out to do these kinds of crime stories, we came to understand that

Speaker 1 these are stories of abusive, largely

Speaker 1 of abusive husbands or abusive men who are damaging women. And it's unfortunately very common.

Speaker 1 If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE.

Speaker 1 After a break, we will be back to answer some of your questions from social media.

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Speaker 1 All right, let's look at some questions from social media.

Speaker 1 Joy Gimbel says, chilling story. I pray those kids are getting therapy to heal from years alone with their toxic father.
Well, you know, we're not going to know for a long time, sort of

Speaker 1 what the fallout of this is. That's one of the problems with this.

Speaker 1 Right. Although there is a support group around those children,

Speaker 1 happily. So I think they're probably better off than many other children are in similar circumstances.

Speaker 1 Something we were already talking about. Dr.

Speaker 1 Lyndon P.

Speaker 1 says,

Speaker 1 just listened to this episode. I think the investigation was shoddy.
Two fentanyl patches, none in her blood. They must have been placed on her after death with none in the blood.

Speaker 1 One of the major red flags,

Speaker 1 you know, poor work

Speaker 1 by all.

Speaker 1 You know, it

Speaker 1 clearly did take a long time.

Speaker 1 Yes.

Speaker 1 Yes.

Speaker 1 It's a fair point. And the fentanyl patches were a tell

Speaker 1 that should have sent them off in a different direction right off the bat.

Speaker 1 You don't

Speaker 1 take a shower with touches. I do want to say this.

Speaker 1 No, I do want to say this, which is frequently when we do these stories and it takes a very long time to try somebody,

Speaker 1 we can say, or it can be said, that the delay,

Speaker 1 you know,

Speaker 1 didn't really have any result. It didn't matter, but they didn't kill anybody else in the interim.
They did eventually go to prison for killing their wife or husband.

Speaker 1 But in this case, that's not true. That delay allowed Bob Feldman to do some terrible things.

Speaker 1 Sure. And could have been more terrible.
We could have had a repeat of that,

Speaker 1 of the reason that he was on trial.

Speaker 1 Girl that J says, good for you, Susan, retaining those emails from nasty Bob Feldman. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Good for her.

Speaker 1 Again, like

Speaker 1 there's there would be ample reason and precedent, and no one would ever wonder if she had just thought, you know, that guy's a loser. That guy's a jerk.
That guy's a liar.

Speaker 1 I don't like the way he's acting. Just to erase it all.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 That's it. I'm done with you forever.
Instead, she sort of, you know, kept going, dug into it.

Speaker 1 Good for her.

Speaker 1 Here's somebody who wrote, An Awkward Swim with Bob Feldman is my new band name. It does, that does have a great,

Speaker 1 a great punk rock ring to it, I have to say. Yeah.
It just shows you if you have a pool, you'll have a lot of friends. Sure.
A pool in Denver and places like that, especially.

Speaker 1 There aren't quite as many pools as

Speaker 1 there are right around where you live, I know, Josh. No, it's just one big pool here in California.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 I don't personally have one because you probably do. You do.
You're probably cleaning it this morning, aren't you?

Speaker 1 I see you with one of that big long thing fishing the leaves out of there and holding this glass of wine in the other hand while you're doing it, saying, you know, that would be perfect, wouldn't it?

Speaker 1 Is that a leaf on the bottom of the pool? I actually, I have something that I've got for you that I keep waiting to see you in person so I can give it to you. It's a fabulous wine glass, which

Speaker 1 holds up something white behind it so that people can see it a little better. There, it's got, it's got your

Speaker 1 sketch on it, which is pretty good. And what does it it say there? It's printing there.
What does that say? It says here, an ordinary glass of wine, or was it? Or was it?

Speaker 1 So this is going to be yours someday when next we meet. That's very kind.

Speaker 1 This has been waiting for you for a long time. I've been meaning to give this to you, and then I never see you.
So how are we going to arrange to get this thing transferred?

Speaker 1 I don't know. Maybe, yeah, give it to one of the producers who sees you more than I do, which would be, you know, all of them.

Speaker 1 Keith, as always,

Speaker 1 it's been a pleasure. And when I say pleasure, I'm making quote marks with my fingers.
I'm so touched by that. Very impressed.
I knew you would be. Yeah.
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