13 Alibis - Ep. 7: Lost Time

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It's a saltwater cooler. The ruling is according.

Legion is hereby ordered. As the president's motion of making, the victim is granted.
You are hereby releasing. They let you go like if nothing ever happened.

And I have to live with all the scars internally, and people expect me to be happy?

It's now been three years since Richard Rosario was freed after spending 20 years in prison.

He says the transition has been harder than he expected.

I was in a cage, and I would lay in that bed thinking all day about what I would do if I came home.

And when I finally came home, it wasn't nothing like I thought it would be.

I'm Dan Slepian, and this is the final episode of 13 Alibis. Being released was the happiest day of my life, but then I had to try to figure out how to, you know, just deal with society, deal with people, you know, just to learn the rules of life again.
And it's been difficult what to do, what not to do, how to talk, how to present myself. There's a stereotype that after an innocent person has been freed, he must be thrilled.
But it's a little more complicated than that, says Rosario. I caught up with him in mid-March 2019.
He says he has flashbacks, almost like a prisoner of war. Just recently I was in the kitchen just cutting something.
I was preparing food and I started crying. And it was because I had a dream when I was in jail that I was home doing exactly that.
And I froze. I didn't know if I was still there.
I didn't know if I was still in jail, so a lot of times I feel confused. I know I'm home, I'm happy, but then I go through different emotions, stress and depressions.
I can't stay still. I can't be around too many people.
And it's caused a lot of problems between me and my children and, you know, relationships with people in general. He says the trauma of his ordeal has made it difficult to work.
You haven't gotten a job? Well, I tried working. I had gotten a job.
They gave me a job in construction. I was part of a work crew that I realized came from prison.
And as soon as I felt like I was back there, I just walked off the job site. I didn't even come back.
I couldn't be around that. Despite all the challenges, Richard's wife Minerva, who stood by him since the very beginning, is still there.

Minerva's a great person.

She's a strong woman.

She's been through a lot.

And it's challenging for her because I can't imagine what it is being in her shoes,

having to deal with me daily and having to see what I go through. Richard admits he is not the easiest person to live with.
My wife is still, you know, suffering the burden of having a, you know, she raised my kids for 20 years and now she's paying for a grown man to live in her house and she loves me and I want to help her and I have in some, but, you know, it's not enough. I don't get out, and I can't really do nothing.
I'm still trying to get my life together, so it's making her life difficult. It's just been difficult.
Relationships with my children, just being able to understand what they went through and try to make them understand that we all been victimized. But I didn't really know how to adapt to adults at this point.
So it's been hard. Just over a year after his release, Rosario filed a civil lawsuit against the city of New York for his wrongful conviction.
He wants compensation for what he went through. One of his attorneys, Emma Freudenberger, joined us for the interview.
Richard has an incredibly strong case, in part because the proof of his innocence is so strong. It's ironclad.
Nobody can contest that Richard was in Florida on that day when George Galatza was murdered. What was clear all along that Richard went to prison because of intentional police misconduct.
Lawyers for the city declined an interview, but did send a statement that said, we will not comment while this case is pending. We do not try cases in the's mind-boggling.
What is their argument? For the civil portion, you need to prove intentional misconduct. You need to prove that the officers knew what they were doing.
Not necessarily that they knew that they were framing an innocent man, but that they did something improper that they knew was improper. So it's not enough to prove that they made a mistake? It is not enough to prove that they made a mistake.
I think that that concept would seem unfair to a lot of people, that it has to be intentional misconduct. The laws seemed unfair in that people like Richard might not be able to meet that bar.
They are. They're absolutely unfair.
I mean, Richard went through something unimaginable to most of us, and just for having gone through that, he should be compensated. You released me.
You know I didn't commit this crime. What happened to the investigation they were doing into the wrongful conviction, into who could have possibly committed this crime? That's a good question.
George Galazzo's murder remains officially unsolved. There was a murder out.
If there's an innocent man in prison and he was released and declared innocent, because everyone knows I'm innocent, then there's a murder out there and you promise the people that you would investigate. Although Richard Rosario is a free man, he remains consumed by this case and what's happened to him.
I asked him about getting emotional help. I can't.
I don't want medications. I don't go to doctors.
I've, every doctor I've seen, I've stopped seeing. Every therapist that has seen me, I've stopped seeing.
Because nobody's going to ever understand. Nobody's going to ever understand what I've been through.
Nobody was there for me when I was bleeding in hospitals

and being kicked in the face by correctional officers

and having a fight to defend myself.

Nobody was going through none of that.

Nobody had to survive what I had to survive.

So I really, I'm angry now that nobody in particular,

I just, I can't relate to nobody.

No matter how tough I look, this hurt me in a way that I've never been hurt in my life. Remember what I said at the beginning of this podcast? If 2% of people in prison are actually innocent, then there are about 40,000 Richard Rosario's out there.
For those men and women, there's no time machine to give back what they lost. There's no way to remove the scars they suffer.
It's scary to think Rosario is one of the lucky ones. I'm Dan Slepian.
13 Alibis is a production of NBC News and Dateline NBC. The podcast was reported and written by me,

produced and edited by Robert Allen and Grant Irving.

For Dateline NBC, our senior broadcast producer is Adam Gorfain.

Executive producer is Liz Cole,

and David Corvo is the senior executive producer.

Barbara Rabb is the senior producer of podcasts at NBC and MSNBC.

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Our music is by Nolan Schneider.

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