"Demenz – wenn ein geliebter Mensch langsam verschwindet" mit Friederike
Am ersten April 2019 erhalten Friederike und ihr Mann Marc seine Diagnose: Alzheimer. Marc ist gerade mal Mitte 50. Erste Anzeichen für die Erkrankung gab es bereits mehrere Monate im Voraus. Ein Blackout an der Supermarktkasse war der ausschlaggebende Moment, einen Termin beim Neurologen zu vereinbaren – hier bringen ein auffälliger Gedächtnistest und anschließende Untersuchungen die traurige Gewissheit.
Friederike arbeitet sich akribisch in die aktuelle Forschung ein, um sich auf die neue Lebenssituation einzustellen: Nach einem Besuch in einem Workshop stellen die beiden zum Beispiel ihre Ernährung um. Was zunächst Hoffnung gibt, kann die Krankheit aber nicht aufhalten. Die Rückschläge kommen nach und nach. Denn Demenz entwickelt sich nicht langsam fortlaufend, sondern immer wieder sprunghaft.
Es ist schmerzhaft mit anzusehen, wenn geliebte Menschen frustriert über ihre eigenen nachlassenden Fähigkeiten sind. Friederike weiß, dass man Demenzerkrankten Bestärkung entgegenbringen und ihnen ihre Souveränität nicht absprechen soll – aber das kann sie nicht immer. Nicht, wenn sie das x-te Mal in einer Nacht ihrem Mann im Badezimmer hinterherwischt. Die Entscheidung, sich professionelle Hilfe zu holen, erweist sich im Nachhinein nicht nur als notwendig, sondern auch längst überfällig und als eine große Erleichterung, weil sie Friederike insbesondere nachts wieder die Möglichkeit gibt, ihre Kräfte für den nächsten Tag aufzutanken.
Bis heute hat Friederike ihre Liebe zu Marc nie angezweifelt. Natürlich wünscht sie sich ihren gesunden Mann zurück, aber die Krankheit hat sie auch viel gelehrt: Dankbarkeit für kleine Momente, das Hier und Jetzt zu nutzen und zu genießen.
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in the Polymo app is the next episode of Designer Moment.
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And thanks to the Trump
in the state
of
September, or Nazi officials, and
the other thing.
I mean, I would
say in the presence of
nichts.
Much more
guns,
the
complete,
aichnes, a winter,
and stannach, is all.
I feel
in this podcast
and
now this
moment
of
mind.
In this
traffic, a
normal name of the other
podcast,
Frederica, and for a
anime
and
these animals
and a
von Folktad observed
and
went to the house.
I totally
get hat and
also
a emotional focus,
then
Alzheimer's and this
is the
same.
contacts
and then
I have
to do it when
English
and strengthening that
person.
And I think
I
have a demand for
the moment.
And this is a
sophomore.
That finishes
the robot,
and Freud,
that's hello, Friedrich.
Hello, Philip, and Fiend.
Yes, that's what we want to do.
I would
like to say a moment of
family completely
and a healthy thing.
It is
the Aster April 2009
as a family diagnosis,
in a neurological practice and the
water to EFAN
was
that a diagnosis.
That is
a great diagnosis, Alzheimer's dementia, but
it's not a very good thing.
My damage
would be
a very 15.
This is
that I
feel
the menace and the altar scope
and that
is
not a sexuality.
We
now diagnose
in the moment,
so what
fools in the moment in the
world?
All this
And I
think this neurologist for me
is
a trend,
and then
we have
to
do it, and then all of a sudden,
this is
what
we
have
a copy of the world, but
for her
moment in my drink, and I think
it is
too, and you have
to try and
also be
here.
The man is the student
that
was doing?
Is that what
the forest or woman is?
Yes, I think,
and I find
that, and I sober
is
a huge side.
So, what the
price for
or not,
and then
even
that
is one person, or you can
also
diagnose the
I have a moment
to decline
and
of music, so that
in mid-highness
and
the material, it's not a very important thing.
The
question is, I can
also
make
Alzheimer's demand
for
the majority of
the tombs
and feelings that
music is and platform
and total fields.
in the
middle.
That
was
a warning,
that we
have a campaign.
The habit also,
or can you
say that we have
what
I
forgot to do.
My mother is good park and
autophon and
platform by parklock.
I
think
it's
the park and autos, and I
was
that
shield,
So, what
is
the
left?
And the Teller Darwin,
and
the Loffie Gabeling.
So, for
this
statement and also
the
Gabling.
So, what about
the essence of
the world?
The tomb and
total field and that is
the
total.
Alzheimer's is a form of demand and
extremes.
I mentioned Alzheimer's is the communication
of
the future, the nerves not and nothing, and that
image.
Besones within the kangaroos of hypocampus, that is a break
that
is the orientation.
But
now
or under
the altars, I would
say that the kangaroos
also
understood
immediately
for
the first time.
Also,
the problem is oriented,
or in
the world.
Wait,
the altar
we have unseen, or that
von Alzheimer's,
that
factor,
and the
role of
alternation
in the
field, so we are
also fully.
The
end potential
and the person,
soon the
the world, Mistra, or
Swank.
That also
commented.
Many
of the
stakeholders,
that
clown will
be the falles.
But
also, that's
what I've been doing.
The same way that we can
find emotions,
I have to say,
we all
in the hole that
we have.
So, that's why I wish that the
convention
with another,
and so there is a safe space, the world,
and we have
to
go.
Is what
Mark also?
And in this side,
and it is a
tribute
to not
And so,
I would say
that it feels like
depression and
even
the music, but there is no club,
and music is
a little bit
more
music.
So, I think
it would
have a very nice club,
That also
November 2008,
and
we
have
to go to the next step, and I
think
decline for upwards, or whatever we have, and that to do, and it is
the camp and come
up and
my warnock, but my niche, and
we
find that
the house
and this is
from Nettomark
with
the
United States,
also
with the Luske
Park,
and I would say
that
we
are
not so much
and
also
demand.
I I wish I would
so concretely.
So,
they wouldn't have announced it.
So, and I wish I was,
and I was then
going to be able to do that.
That also means
with
the niche,
and there is no
you
can
do.
Total.
So, also
the diagnosis, and then we feel
and I also want to estude
and I
do
it.
And he
demonstrating,
and the other
frustrated,
but not
that
weak, and
that is what I
would
say.
This is not
the chaos that
we
have, but I was also
I was
not,
and
I
can
see
it.
I
think that the crank can also inform
and
even
what is
even the ground
that
you can.
I
have a blackout moment
in the supermarket.
I
can
see my
marketing, I stand under cases and
the casino
and
inloss, and then
the cases
within the
market, so
in this case,
that
is a combination
of neurolog
and derivatives.
That was
it, and we have a
test,
and there were so
many things that
we have lumbar,
and this lumbar function
element.
And
what
is even
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and I
think I should
have
an arm
and
then I
demoed
Facebook and contacted when
Yes, I think it's an art coping strategy that
we have.
Mark
from Artforce
and Wickschield.
That's
the wicket
And what I was
then
sprung up
is a garnish pass.
The
wider
diagnosis
within Schwermanny
and
I
deny in lecture
and cook whatever.
And we have a wider
completely.
feel
that
we
have also
come.
And then we start
a book
that the Alzheimer's revolution and the
US American American
neurologist.
There are
Alzheimer's and
the commercial
complex
but a
pillar behind
the
spiel and the
solution and
also
the former character
transactions
can be and optimize
a
water,
hormone, mineral, whatever.
And get
a new one, and
then
for
example, and there is a stop.
The size
of the rate,
and therefore,
and then we
have
these
forms of
the same thing.
And half
the group
Alzheimer's,
but we can stop.
It's a
very
important
thing.
And that
function is a morning.
But I think
with Butterdrunner,
Butterdrun, and
Ur,
and when I get
it, it's also
So, we
have to
do it.
But then, I think
the rule is the crank
and so
on by
the crank
warden.
and the hatred
and
floor and hatred
and hat floor and
the
seminar and
reflection
and we do have
normal
patients and the
patient has nothing to do with
the
is a
mirror.
Self-government
and
this
is the
same.
And the strategy is that we have
to be able to do it.
And then
I
went
to
the bottom.
And that was
not a shock
in the moment.
And
in the moment,
and
I
think here in Florida, whatever, what
we do is that it is not a problem.
So, in a way, that feels
so
oriented.
is
not and that is meant to be
mentioned
on the other side.
I have to take
it and that also
comes originally
And
when
the Spanish
and the platform is
not the same,
so I think that
is
what we're doing.
And then
I
think
we
a moment now.
The market
in the wall
and
we can now
also
definitive.
Yeah, so there is
also
the spring
and the won the part and
actually
a wig.
And
I
think
in space,
and
here it is.
So, and then
even
spets,
or not,
is is and
then.
And then how do you
club
clubs?
So, many,
and
then I would also smitten
the wicket sector, and then
to let you know
the same thing and what
we do is
also
in
the audience,
Mark, Cook Martin, Toletta Mark, Mark Toletto, so
and then flames
with blue
clothes, and
so is not
her, and
also the craft,
and also
here.
And when
you
function,
so that's what we
write, I think it is
partnering that we
have
nothing.
And when
you
have frustrated,
So, and
also
that is
a very important thing.
Ach maldenach,
is
the study
parallel?
Do you lecture in
the world
and then it's kind of
like
complete,
and what
I mean?
and that's a principle
for Bayes.
I mean, I would
say
in the person, but I want to
have it, and I can also seen it, and
then
in
the
transport, auflies, but also my content.
I think.
I
think
that's what we're talking about.
And then
in this situation, these
are
higher,
And
then we
speak
to the women
and often.
I think
I have a demo
to build
and
And this would be in the moment.
And
I would say,
and then Christian, and then Freud
in the moment
compliments.
I think in the moment,
what is complimentary when you
where the best
control in the moment.
What is
in this
schlimpster
by continuous?
What
can
you do or kind of perspective?
So
when kind of
is okay,
it has
to be a little bit more than that.
So, in the talk, they
also
can't mention.
That was great,
it's
not in 2008, is a stop social media.
So, that was a very important thing.
And so, this
perspective
is
a
fertility.
have to
speak
that
video from the
film is and
it can be done, but
it really builds a continuous
dimension
that I think
and
the money
also needs.
And Mark is
under
him.
Mark
this.
Yeah.
A morning,
so we won't
be here.
And I think my wife
is
a continuous work,
but
it
must be.
we have to do is
not decode
and
cloud.
I
regulate that
dimension and partner partners and
clouds, and that okay.
That is so
And
aggressive, and I
also want to say
that
I
feel in the moment
that
Photoshop
can
be.
So, a lot of
people
in the moment,
or that
what
aggressively
I
mean and then
okay,
that's why we want to
inspire
the other
aggressive
and
in so aggressive and
also
cooked aggressively
and
awareness what
we want.
And then also
we have
that
in the
info, and
what is so aggressive, that is,
in their own
way,
I have nothing, and also
in the moment,
and that's what I'm a man, and that was
angst for the moment when we
do that.
And
what
we
had, and I
also winsel
politics.
And the camera police.
And have
the situation,
and when
my
film platform
total
and this situation
and the
inputs of the candidates,
and this policy,
and
then
we can
politics and
that's what
we have
in the
moment.
And that we
do not
read, I wish we had
to do it.
And I
would
say I must
function.
We have an unknown and
what
kind of
tags.
I claim that
I
think this
is also
in the
demand,
and
the
complete
and I wouldn't do that.
And
so, what I
mean is, and
also
another sign.
When my
exact
and then
the station would be
social
market that
these characters
and this
is not the same,
but
that is
the better building.
I don't know Mr.
Alzheimer's, that
great
man
that
is
not and the smart
allies, and I
think
now we
find
and
what is
and
allied
it?
And I say
in the gesture, it's a
very important thing
or
a anecdote
and I spread
it.
And then how to
take this.
And so
now
I'm going to go and I have
to
say,
and also
we try,
not going to be trinkets.
This is what
it is.
Man,
a
fancy
solution.
And then we
have to think about
people.
That's what I want to
do
in the
world where
I
mentioned there
and then
a
lot of people
had to freedom.
So, I think we have this.
And this is not
legal, but I think
and
film order of Alzheimer's.
But the friendly legend and
the total
is not
there.
And
this film
in Hollywood films and
they had to flag.
And that is just
photos.
And
this is my wider.
And I
in the moment and
build
the menu, with the Ek Poland, with
the same thing to me.
I can't
win.
And
when this first Libra is
like this floor in this moment, I wish that totally
can't.
I wish you were to be able to do that.
How do you
angle in it.
We are going to
be able to
smile.
And my
wife and
Simon had
also angry and aggressive models.
and
when
I
come
and
spiel is not bringing
it.
And I
will
say that it is
a market.
okay for you.
I would say
that
my
name is
the same thing.
They had mentioned the niche, that was
also
the
metallic.
Or I
wanna
make
angry and classical.
Sat also
Christian telephone, and I
think
it escalated.
And then there was
a
second,
and I would say
telephone, and
And that is
the same thing.
And the clang,
and the container,
and
the
practice
of
it,
the kindergarten
and
the fragment of the track.
This is okay for the
same thing.
And
what
And we wanna
criticize
and
Frederick
is
okay
to
contend
with.
And I don't know how to come
and make
it
have
political.
And in Zurich, and my
teacher, and that
policy.
And my fraud,
and often,
policy
and
the money.
And then my glaup sanitary
is a very important thing.
And then we
have sociological crisis,
the social shoulder, and
the mission in the clinic that.
so
now
you can.
And we are okay,
the gods are
cats to come and
come and
make a party, and
then
we have
an event also.
So, this is
the first time,
and I have a manager,
I had
this Icham Endeben, the satellite.
So this is
what
we
can do.
I
had
order the kind of angst
we have to do.
I had
separate total
funding, so
I personally
couldn't.
And that gives me an odd
interference.
So, a course
and then any clinic,
and there were no solids in the corona, and I
was a satellite,
and then this year did
not work, and then
the corona corona,
and we
have
to do it.
I have not chosen
and these coronaviruses.
I don't know what
to do.
But
there were
Alisle
and
the Arts in the clinic.
And when
you
talk here,
we have
So, as
the situation is
in the clinic,
I
think the mention with masks in
Corona, I think,
in Kentucky, we are alien
planets,
and that's why
we have
to
And the
artwork is
there.
And that
demonstrates nothing,
therefore,
we
have
a very specific.
And has this
party,
and yeah.
That's what I say in the moment,
okay.
I
think
my party and all the criteria
comes anywhere.
And that is
in the moment.
That
means
in their form, it would be
a very important thing.
And I
know
this
is
the moment.
And it's
a moment where I
speak
emotional.
the emotions are.
And the Andrew Geddanke and the Staffordshire
in the moment.
So, I was
in spite of it and I can't.
And
I have
to think about it, if you
want to see and
that
is so good and
not
in space.
I would just say,
Alzheimer's, when you
get
the person
and she
also comes, that I can
20 meters.
And that is the
Glippe mentioned,
but it is
not
more strengthened.
I think
that very definitively not
this
is Danny Glaube also
can't
in the clinic
in
telephony or so.
What
also is
that
in the Ulafan control?
We had an olap
beginning,
and I had to
give it a vector, and you
can see I can't
do it.
And
what we have allowed, okay.
So, the chat and
this
is what
my motorcom is and I think we have to figure out, and
that
flund.
what
I think.
That's good.
And
I
forgot to
say that
I
was
here and had
nothing to do with
it.
That was a computer.
When I come from
And there we
go,
we can all
get
some personal
thanks,
so I wax in
mass,
that we
And when you
are
not
underloaded,
and that
is
the hospital, and
can be social,
then
the frigate and
the hospital,
and then
Frederick
Ganswich
in Deutschland.
Will spread from
that,
so that we have an alternate.
The new
issue is a problem.
And what
Neukon is also in,
what is Beda, but not also personal
and
the same.
That
mention is
perspective with me, the
power of the Emma Schwillman.
The
first thing is
a reason
that
thousand.
That
is so unattractive,
Kerpelich, and
that all the
fields.
Statistics
is
not very
strong with a
flagster.
So,
all
these jobs are attractive,
that makes it
a
geld.
And that's the mirror for
the young people and
experts and experts in Ganspolitik in the world.
They problem with
Ansonim.
For Frederica, and for a few marks, it is about better reality that the situation
is.
I think
have
to do it.
I would say
that it's not a good thing.
I can soften
my
feelings,
I think,
have
seen Muslim, and I warn you,
and I would
say
that I spent and then we
have a lot of people who are not going to be able to do it.
I bring some gardens, so you have to
be able to
do it.
And it's
not
a window,
yeah.
And then come on this garden, and the
prachnic, and
that's
what
this
moment
is.
And that moment
and
And I
think
it's the end of a year and a library, and in the moment, I think
I would
say
I live this
man and I
would say
that
this
market
was in in the
case.
But
we get Mark Reuters.
I should have a
fund in the Gutenberg
personality, I can also give
Oluban, and we have
that side is good.
This is
what
is
the
one that is.
But not
and
also
And
fever in bed and is not
aware of it.
And that
can be a physiotherapy,
and the craft and I don't possess
permanent.
And so
it feels
like
this
right now.
And the men
important
and all
the
name and
seem bad and the same.
They are
spand and okay good.
When the faster is the
artist,
but then
the
unruly camp zuric is.
I forgot to take
a look at
Schmidt and Sen or
Brule
against Zoom
and
Weinfeld and Schreid and
Reichmann in Eucharist and
Mark Tutmel
and
Schoenstein,
I think relatively,
so
I have
to
speak,
so help us
then and a ganiche
and
the
presentation that
we have then.
We
also
have to
And the annotation
so that
in my life,
I cannot
and isn't there.
But I
mean, I got
also
and also
that the good are
not and
I think this is
to Danny Liebert and Mark Reuter Besche.
Nach for the Tifen and Glauber Danknet and the
Habs and
Claw
and
the people who are in the world.
I think
it's not
Gannig and
I learned my priority and
momentum and then the level
were solved.
Well, we
should
have
And when Schlimmer emotions,
then
the Leibniz Aus and then Master Witter, the Saturday,
Springrein, that is also
good
the method.
Then we have medicines
and Zwelfa Auchlav.
And when
you
say that when
you
And
what
is it?
And a von Weiden comes also a
meeting and I also
feel
Absolutely.
This is
the same thing.
I would not say that we
can't
we
had nothing.
And that
young
men, it is
a proof.
So,
that we have no possibility and we are
not.
Alzheimer is
not
able to
do that.
The level
of diagnosis
by
the
individual
and the auspices are
not diagnosed.
The crank self is not directly
functional, we
can
start.
Will be
a complication, we can
infection that the Kerbal Geographic.
We feel anger, is this
not
a library
or
not senior with this?
So, we have
a clinic
here, I had
to
spy.
But I
think
it was
a little bit more difficult.
So, this is
the first time I
and I think
that
we
are
all
going to be
able to do it,
but we have no
idea, but
I think
that
the
clue that
is hosted.
and it is
a libel, so
I
think
in fact,
what
kind of
herds
when
Professor Nellie mentioned
And I can't
do that when you feel
a caster,
or
no,
but
It's also
a podcast
where
we have
have to do it.
Do hasty in the
stream that
has opted
and not
a moment
or more.
So a
lot of myself, so
I do
these interviews
that I think
are good.
And I have the podcast,
and
it's not a good idea.
This is egalitarian,
and
I think, wow, this is good that
you can't do it.
We can
line up
that and
we
were
and
the world and seine
is super
good.
So Daddy, the podcast,
we
have
to do
this moment, so the moment diagnoses
by the house.
I group
a path, but it is
a complicated
cook.
So,
I
would say
the allegories
that function
financing
is clear.
So,
in
the middle, and Spanish is another
official,
but
from
here, I think we
have
to do and that is
another
partner.
There were
contemporary
line.
And this is
a melancholy.
And we
have
this moment.
That's
totally good.
So we do
not superficial.
God and criticize
the
good.
And what
I
think is the TV
emotions and the second,
and when
we do it and also be
good, and
the
right,
totally.
So, I cannot
feel
and that is
myself and
the forest that
absolutely is that
feeling
and that's a
very important thing.
I have
an ungraceful
thing.
So, we
have
also the demand,
but
a
mention of Global Series, this
market
that is a library
extreme,
I feel
like we
shouldn't
sell
Frederick from the Russian Edge, and we all
emotionally.
That is not
true, and what we have,
that we
can
also
And I cannot
familiarize the satans allegedly,
and this is not
a
mention of the library
and in websites, but I think this is
Frederic Gerholfenhad Michel and my reaction.
Let's get this moment for this year.
This was
a absolute ferrule, perhaps, emotional, and tolerance
with Euchar of the unrealistic podcast.
That
I have one
gallery and organization
that
we have, and the fruit is
not yet, and also
spandex
here in this podcast.
These are a moment, the podcast with Philip Fleiter is a production von Philip Fleiter and Remind and
Podimo Reduction Philipp Fleiter, Lila Koitago and Remind, sound design and schnett, Marius Fuchtmann for Remind.
That was this
when the noise
then later died in the Podimo appear, and
naturally
The info status finally
in the show notes.