"Demenz – wenn ein geliebter Mensch langsam verschwindet" mit Friederike

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Am ersten April 2019 erhalten Friederike und ihr Mann Marc seine Diagnose: Alzheimer. Marc ist gerade mal Mitte 50. Erste Anzeichen für die Erkrankung gab es bereits mehrere Monate im Voraus. Ein Blackout an der Supermarktkasse war der ausschlaggebende Moment, einen Termin beim Neurologen zu vereinbaren – hier bringen ein auffälliger Gedächtnistest und anschließende Untersuchungen die traurige Gewissheit.


Friederike arbeitet sich akribisch in die aktuelle Forschung ein, um sich auf die neue Lebenssituation einzustellen: Nach einem Besuch in einem Workshop stellen die beiden zum Beispiel ihre Ernährung um. Was zunächst Hoffnung gibt, kann die Krankheit aber nicht aufhalten. Die Rückschläge kommen nach und nach. Denn Demenz entwickelt sich nicht langsam fortlaufend, sondern immer wieder sprunghaft.


Es ist schmerzhaft mit anzusehen, wenn geliebte Menschen frustriert über ihre eigenen nachlassenden Fähigkeiten sind. Friederike weiß, dass man Demenzerkrankten Bestärkung entgegenbringen und ihnen ihre Souveränität nicht absprechen soll – aber das kann sie nicht immer. Nicht, wenn sie das x-te Mal in einer Nacht ihrem Mann im Badezimmer hinterherwischt. Die Entscheidung, sich professionelle Hilfe zu holen, erweist sich im Nachhinein nicht nur als notwendig, sondern auch längst überfällig und als eine große Erleichterung, weil sie Friederike insbesondere nachts wieder die Möglichkeit gibt, ihre Kräfte für den nächsten Tag aufzutanken.


Bis heute hat Friederike ihre Liebe zu Marc nie angezweifelt. Natürlich wünscht sie sich ihren gesunden Mann zurück, aber die Krankheit hat sie auch viel gelehrt: Dankbarkeit für kleine Momente, das Hier und Jetzt zu nutzen und zu genießen.


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in the state

of

September, or Nazi officials, and

the other thing.

I mean, I would

say in the presence of

nichts.

Much more

guns,

the

complete,

aichnes, a winter,

and stannach, is all.

I feel

in this podcast

and

now this

moment

of

mind.

In this

traffic, a

normal name of the other

podcast,

Frederica, and for a

anime

and

these animals

and a

von Folktad observed

and

went to the house.

I totally

get hat and

also

a emotional focus,

then

Alzheimer's and this

is the

same.

contacts

and then

I have

to do it when

English

and strengthening that

person.

And I think

I

have a demand for

the moment.

And this is a

sophomore.

That finishes

the robot,

and Freud,

that's hello, Friedrich.

Hello, Philip, and Fiend.

Yes, that's what we want to do.

I would

like to say a moment of

family completely

and a healthy thing.

It is

the Aster April 2009

as a family diagnosis,

in a neurological practice and the

water to EFAN

was

that a diagnosis.

That is

a great diagnosis, Alzheimer's dementia, but

it's not a very good thing.

My damage

would be

a very 15.

This is

that I

feel

the menace and the altar scope

and that

is

not a sexuality.

We

now diagnose

in the moment,

so what

fools in the moment in the

world?

All this

And I

think this neurologist for me

is

a trend,

and then

we have

to

do it, and then all of a sudden,

this is

what

we

have

a copy of the world, but

for her

moment in my drink, and I think

it is

too, and you have

to try and

also be

here.

The man is the student

that

was doing?

Is that what

the forest or woman is?

Yes, I think,

and I find

that, and I sober

is

a huge side.

So, what the

price for

or not,

and then

even

that

is one person, or you can

also

diagnose the

I have a moment

to decline

and

of music, so that

in mid-highness

and

the material, it's not a very important thing.

The

question is, I can

also

make

Alzheimer's demand

for

the majority of

the tombs

and feelings that

music is and platform

and total fields.

in the

middle.

That

was

a warning,

that we

have a campaign.

The habit also,

or can you

say that we have

what

I

forgot to do.

My mother is good park and

autophon and

platform by parklock.

I

think

it's

the park and autos, and I

was

that

shield,

So, what

is

the

left?

And the Teller Darwin,

and

the Loffie Gabeling.

So, for

this

statement and also

the

Gabling.

So, what about

the essence of

the world?

The tomb and

total field and that is

the

total.

Alzheimer's is a form of demand and

extremes.

I mentioned Alzheimer's is the communication

of

the future, the nerves not and nothing, and that

image.

Besones within the kangaroos of hypocampus, that is a break

that

is the orientation.

But

now

or under

the altars, I would

say that the kangaroos

also

understood

immediately

for

the first time.

Also,

the problem is oriented,

or in

the world.

Wait,

the altar

we have unseen, or that

von Alzheimer's,

that

factor,

and the

role of

alternation

in the

field, so we are

also fully.

The

end potential

and the person,

soon the

the world, Mistra, or

Swank.

That also

commented.

Many

of the

stakeholders,

that

clown will

be the falles.

But

also, that's

what I've been doing.

The same way that we can

find emotions,

I have to say,

we all

in the hole that

we have.

So, that's why I wish that the

convention

with another,

and so there is a safe space, the world,

and we have

to

go.

Is what

Mark also?

And in this side,

and it is a

tribute

to not

And so,

I would say

that it feels like

depression and

even

the music, but there is no club,

and music is

a little bit

more

music.

So, I think

it would

have a very nice club,

That also

November 2008,

and

we

have

to go to the next step, and I

think

decline for upwards, or whatever we have, and that to do, and it is

the camp and come

up and

my warnock, but my niche, and

we

find that

the house

and this is

from Nettomark

with

the

United States,

also

with the Luske

Park,

and I would say

that

we

are

not so much

and

also

demand.

I I wish I would

so concretely.

So,

they wouldn't have announced it.

So, and I wish I was,

and I was then

going to be able to do that.

That also means

with

the niche,

and there is no

you

can

do.

Total.

So, also

the diagnosis, and then we feel

and I also want to estude

and I

do

it.

And he

demonstrating,

and the other

frustrated,

but not

that

weak, and

that is what I

would

say.

This is not

the chaos that

we

have, but I was also

I was

not,

and

I

can

see

it.

I

think that the crank can also inform

and

even

what is

even the ground

that

you can.

I

have a blackout moment

in the supermarket.

I

can

see my

marketing, I stand under cases and

the casino

and

inloss, and then

the cases

within the

market, so

in this case,

that

is a combination

of neurolog

and derivatives.

That was

it, and we have a

test,

and there were so

many things that

we have lumbar,

and this lumbar function

element.

And

what

is even

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and I

think I should

have

an arm

and

then I

demoed

Facebook and contacted when

Yes, I think it's an art coping strategy that

we have.

Mark

from Artforce

and Wickschield.

That's

the wicket

And what I was

then

sprung up

is a garnish pass.

The

wider

diagnosis

within Schwermanny

and

I

deny in lecture

and cook whatever.

And we have a wider

completely.

feel

that

we

have also

come.

And then we start

a book

that the Alzheimer's revolution and the

US American American

neurologist.

There are

Alzheimer's and

the commercial

complex

but a

pillar behind

the

spiel and the

solution and

also

the former character

transactions

can be and optimize

a

water,

hormone, mineral, whatever.

And get

a new one, and

then

for

example, and there is a stop.

The size

of the rate,

and therefore,

and then we

have

these

forms of

the same thing.

And half

the group

Alzheimer's,

but we can stop.

It's a

very

important

thing.

And that

function is a morning.

But I think

with Butterdrunner,

Butterdrun, and

Ur,

and when I get

it, it's also

So, we

have to

do it.

But then, I think

the rule is the crank

and so

on by

the crank

warden.

and the hatred

and

floor and hatred

and hat floor and

the

seminar and

reflection

and we do have

normal

patients and the

patient has nothing to do with

the

is a

mirror.

Self-government

and

this

is the

same.

And the strategy is that we have

to be able to do it.

And then

I

went

to

the bottom.

And that was

not a shock

in the moment.

And

in the moment,

and

I

think here in Florida, whatever, what

we do is that it is not a problem.

So, in a way, that feels

so

oriented.

is

not and that is meant to be

mentioned

on the other side.

I have to take

it and that also

comes originally

And

when

the Spanish

and the platform is

not the same,

so I think that

is

what we're doing.

And then

I

think

we

a moment now.

The market

in the wall

and

we can now

also

definitive.

Yeah, so there is

also

the spring

and the won the part and

actually

a wig.

And

I

think

in space,

and

here it is.

So, and then

even

spets,

or not,

is is and

then.

And then how do you

club

clubs?

So, many,

and

then I would also smitten

the wicket sector, and then

to let you know

the same thing and what

we do is

also

in

the audience,

Mark, Cook Martin, Toletta Mark, Mark Toletto, so

and then flames

with blue

clothes, and

so is not

her, and

also the craft,

and also

here.

And when

you

function,

so that's what we

write, I think it is

partnering that we

have

nothing.

And when

you

have frustrated,

So, and

also

that is

a very important thing.

Ach maldenach,

is

the study

parallel?

Do you lecture in

the world

and then it's kind of

like

complete,

and what

I mean?

and that's a principle

for Bayes.

I mean, I would

say

in the person, but I want to

have it, and I can also seen it, and

then

in

the

transport, auflies, but also my content.

I think.

I

think

that's what we're talking about.

And then

in this situation, these

are

higher,

And

then we

speak

to the women

and often.

I think

I have a demo

to build

and

And this would be in the moment.

And

I would say,

and then Christian, and then Freud

in the moment

compliments.

I think in the moment,

what is complimentary when you

where the best

control in the moment.

What is

in this

schlimpster

by continuous?

What

can

you do or kind of perspective?

So

when kind of

is okay,

it has

to be a little bit more than that.

So, in the talk, they

also

can't mention.

That was great,

it's

not in 2008, is a stop social media.

So, that was a very important thing.

And so, this

perspective

is

a

fertility.

have to

speak

that

video from the

film is and

it can be done, but

it really builds a continuous

dimension

that I think

and

the money

also needs.

And Mark is

under

him.

Mark

this.

Yeah.

A morning,

so we won't

be here.

And I think my wife

is

a continuous work,

but

it

must be.

we have to do is

not decode

and

cloud.

I

regulate that

dimension and partner partners and

clouds, and that okay.

That is so

And

aggressive, and I

also want to say

that

I

feel in the moment

that

Photoshop

can

be.

So, a lot of

people

in the moment,

or that

what

aggressively

I

mean and then

okay,

that's why we want to

inspire

the other

aggressive

and

in so aggressive and

also

cooked aggressively

and

awareness what

we want.

And then also

we have

that

in the

info, and

what is so aggressive, that is,

in their own

way,

I have nothing, and also

in the moment,

and that's what I'm a man, and that was

angst for the moment when we

do that.

And

what

we

had, and I

also winsel

politics.

And the camera police.

And have

the situation,

and when

my

film platform

total

and this situation

and the

inputs of the candidates,

and this policy,

and

then

we can

politics and

that's what

we have

in the

moment.

And that we

do not

read, I wish we had

to do it.

And I

would

say I must

function.

We have an unknown and

what

kind of

tags.

I claim that

I

think this

is also

in the

demand,

and

the

complete

and I wouldn't do that.

And

so, what I

mean is, and

also

another sign.

When my

exact

and then

the station would be

social

market that

these characters

and this

is not the same,

but

that is

the better building.

I don't know Mr.

Alzheimer's, that

great

man

that

is

not and the smart

allies, and I

think

now we

find

and

what is

and

allied

it?

And I say

in the gesture, it's a

very important thing

or

a anecdote

and I spread

it.

And then how to

take this.

And so

now

I'm going to go and I have

to

say,

and also

we try,

not going to be trinkets.

This is what

it is.

Man,

a

fancy

solution.

And then we

have to think about

people.

That's what I want to

do

in the

world where

I

mentioned there

and then

a

lot of people

had to freedom.

So, I think we have this.

And this is not

legal, but I think

and

film order of Alzheimer's.

But the friendly legend and

the total

is not

there.

And

this film

in Hollywood films and

they had to flag.

And that is just

photos.

And

this is my wider.

And I

in the moment and

build

the menu, with the Ek Poland, with

the same thing to me.

I can't

win.

And

when this first Libra is

like this floor in this moment, I wish that totally

can't.

I wish you were to be able to do that.

How do you

angle in it.

We are going to

be able to

smile.

And my

wife and

Simon had

also angry and aggressive models.

and

when

I

come

and

spiel is not bringing

it.

And I

will

say that it is

a market.

okay for you.

I would say

that

my

name is

the same thing.

They had mentioned the niche, that was

also

the

metallic.

Or I

wanna

make

angry and classical.

Sat also

Christian telephone, and I

think

it escalated.

And then there was

a

second,

and I would say

telephone, and

And that is

the same thing.

And the clang,

and the container,

and

the

practice

of

it,

the kindergarten

and

the fragment of the track.

This is okay for the

same thing.

And

what

And we wanna

criticize

and

Frederick

is

okay

to

contend

with.

And I don't know how to come

and make

it

have

political.

And in Zurich, and my

teacher, and that

policy.

And my fraud,

and often,

policy

and

the money.

And then my glaup sanitary

is a very important thing.

And then we

have sociological crisis,

the social shoulder, and

the mission in the clinic that.

so

now

you can.

And we are okay,

the gods are

cats to come and

come and

make a party, and

then

we have

an event also.

So, this is

the first time,

and I have a manager,

I had

this Icham Endeben, the satellite.

So this is

what

we

can do.

I

had

order the kind of angst

we have to do.

I had

separate total

funding, so

I personally

couldn't.

And that gives me an odd

interference.

So, a course

and then any clinic,

and there were no solids in the corona, and I

was a satellite,

and then this year did

not work, and then

the corona corona,

and we

have

to do it.

I have not chosen

and these coronaviruses.

I don't know what

to do.

But

there were

Alisle

and

the Arts in the clinic.

And when

you

talk here,

we have

So, as

the situation is

in the clinic,

I

think the mention with masks in

Corona, I think,

in Kentucky, we are alien

planets,

and that's why

we have

to

And the

artwork is

there.

And that

demonstrates nothing,

therefore,

we

have

a very specific.

And has this

party,

and yeah.

That's what I say in the moment,

okay.

I

think

my party and all the criteria

comes anywhere.

And that is

in the moment.

That

means

in their form, it would be

a very important thing.

And I

know

this

is

the moment.

And it's

a moment where I

speak

emotional.

the emotions are.

And the Andrew Geddanke and the Staffordshire

in the moment.

So, I was

in spite of it and I can't.

And

I have

to think about it, if you

want to see and

that

is so good and

not

in space.

I would just say,

Alzheimer's, when you

get

the person

and she

also comes, that I can

20 meters.

And that is the

Glippe mentioned,

but it is

not

more strengthened.

I think

that very definitively not

this

is Danny Glaube also

can't

in the clinic

in

telephony or so.

What

also is

that

in the Ulafan control?

We had an olap

beginning,

and I had to

give it a vector, and you

can see I can't

do it.

And

what we have allowed, okay.

So, the chat and

this

is what

my motorcom is and I think we have to figure out, and

that

flund.

what

I think.

That's good.

And

I

forgot to

say that

I

was

here and had

nothing to do with

it.

That was a computer.

When I come from

And there we

go,

we can all

get

some personal

thanks,

so I wax in

mass,

that we

And when you

are

not

underloaded,

and that

is

the hospital, and

can be social,

then

the frigate and

the hospital,

and then

Frederick

Ganswich

in Deutschland.

Will spread from

that,

so that we have an alternate.

The new

issue is a problem.

And what

Neukon is also in,

what is Beda, but not also personal

and

the same.

That

mention is

perspective with me, the

power of the Emma Schwillman.

The

first thing is

a reason

that

thousand.

That

is so unattractive,

Kerpelich, and

that all the

fields.

Statistics

is

not very

strong with a

flagster.

So,

all

these jobs are attractive,

that makes it

a

geld.

And that's the mirror for

the young people and

experts and experts in Ganspolitik in the world.

They problem with

Ansonim.

For Frederica, and for a few marks, it is about better reality that the situation

is.

I think

have

to do it.

I would say

that it's not a good thing.

I can soften

my

feelings,

I think,

have

seen Muslim, and I warn you,

and I would

say

that I spent and then we

have a lot of people who are not going to be able to do it.

I bring some gardens, so you have to

be able to

do it.

And it's

not

a window,

yeah.

And then come on this garden, and the

prachnic, and

that's

what

this

moment

is.

And that moment

and

And I

think

it's the end of a year and a library, and in the moment, I think

I would

say

I live this

man and I

would say

that

this

market

was in in the

case.

But

we get Mark Reuters.

I should have a

fund in the Gutenberg

personality, I can also give

Oluban, and we have

that side is good.

This is

what

is

the

one that is.

But not

and

also

And

fever in bed and is not

aware of it.

And that

can be a physiotherapy,

and the craft and I don't possess

permanent.

And so

it feels

like

this

right now.

And the men

important

and all

the

name and

seem bad and the same.

They are

spand and okay good.

When the faster is the

artist,

but then

the

unruly camp zuric is.

I forgot to take

a look at

Schmidt and Sen or

Brule

against Zoom

and

Weinfeld and Schreid and

Reichmann in Eucharist and

Mark Tutmel

and

Schoenstein,

I think relatively,

so

I have

to

speak,

so help us

then and a ganiche

and

the

presentation that

we have then.

We

also

have to

And the annotation

so that

in my life,

I cannot

and isn't there.

But I

mean, I got

also

and also

that the good are

not and

I think this is

to Danny Liebert and Mark Reuter Besche.

Nach for the Tifen and Glauber Danknet and the

Habs and

Claw

and

the people who are in the world.

I think

it's not

Gannig and

I learned my priority and

momentum and then the level

were solved.

Well, we

should

have

And when Schlimmer emotions,

then

the Leibniz Aus and then Master Witter, the Saturday,

Springrein, that is also

good

the method.

Then we have medicines

and Zwelfa Auchlav.

And when

you

say that when

you

And

what

is it?

And a von Weiden comes also a

meeting and I also

feel

Absolutely.

This is

the same thing.

I would not say that we

can't

we

had nothing.

And that

young

men, it is

a proof.

So,

that we have no possibility and we are

not.

Alzheimer is

not

able to

do that.

The level

of diagnosis

by

the

individual

and the auspices are

not diagnosed.

The crank self is not directly

functional, we

can

start.

Will be

a complication, we can

infection that the Kerbal Geographic.

We feel anger, is this

not

a library

or

not senior with this?

So, we have

a clinic

here, I had

to

spy.

But I

think

it was

a little bit more difficult.

So, this is

the first time I

and I think

that

we

are

all

going to be

able to do it,

but we have no

idea, but

I think

that

the

clue that

is hosted.

and it is

a libel, so

I

think

in fact,

what

kind of

herds

when

Professor Nellie mentioned

And I can't

do that when you feel

a caster,

or

no,

but

It's also

a podcast

where

we have

have to do it.

Do hasty in the

stream that

has opted

and not

a moment

or more.

So a

lot of myself, so

I do

these interviews

that I think

are good.

And I have the podcast,

and

it's not a good idea.

This is egalitarian,

and

I think, wow, this is good that

you can't do it.

We can

line up

that and

we

were

and

the world and seine

is super

good.

So Daddy, the podcast,

we

have

to do

this moment, so the moment diagnoses

by the house.

I group

a path, but it is

a complicated

cook.

So,

I

would say

the allegories

that function

financing

is clear.

So,

in

the middle, and Spanish is another

official,

but

from

here, I think we

have

to do and that is

another

partner.

There were

contemporary

line.

And this is

a melancholy.

And we

have

this moment.

That's

totally good.

So we do

not superficial.

God and criticize

the

good.

And what

I

think is the TV

emotions and the second,

and when

we do it and also be

good, and

the

right,

totally.

So, I cannot

feel

and that is

myself and

the forest that

absolutely is that

feeling

and that's a

very important thing.

I have

an ungraceful

thing.

So, we

have

also the demand,

but

a

mention of Global Series, this

market

that is a library

extreme,

I feel

like we

shouldn't

sell

Frederick from the Russian Edge, and we all

emotionally.

That is not

true, and what we have,

that we

can

also

And I cannot

familiarize the satans allegedly,

and this is not

a

mention of the library

and in websites, but I think this is

Frederic Gerholfenhad Michel and my reaction.

Let's get this moment for this year.

This was

a absolute ferrule, perhaps, emotional, and tolerance

with Euchar of the unrealistic podcast.

That

I have one

gallery and organization

that

we have, and the fruit is

not yet, and also

spandex

here in this podcast.

These are a moment, the podcast with Philip Fleiter is a production von Philip Fleiter and Remind and

Podimo Reduction Philipp Fleiter, Lila Koitago and Remind, sound design and schnett, Marius Fuchtmann for Remind.

That was this

when the noise

then later died in the Podimo appear, and

naturally

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in the show notes.