Approach Her with Easy Confidence: Top Dating Expert Kezia Noble on How to Attract Women In Real Life

I get the Prince Harry thing every now and then. Oh, yeah.
I go, oh, you're like Prince Harry. I'm like, yeah, I'm like a very poor Prince Harry compared to him.
All right. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast.
I'm your host, dating coach and author, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help

you confidently flirt with women and attract your dream girlfriends all by being authentic. No toxic

pickup tricks needed because women like you for you. And let me ask you a question.
Do women

confuse you? Do women ghost you? Do you ever struggle with what to say, what to talk about?

Well, today's very special guest is here to help you truly understand what women want and how to give them what they want in the dating game so that you can get a great girlfriend. Kezia Noble is the leading female dating and attraction expert for men.
Her videos have received over 72 million views on YouTube, and she wrote a best-selling book called The Noble Art of Seducing Women. Kezia has helped over 100,000 guys, just like you, overcome their sticking points, their limiting beliefs, to achieve some pretty fantastic success with women, which you're going to hear about.
The kind of success that guys never thought was possible. And you can learn a lot more about Kezia on her website at kezia-noble.com.
And that's K-E-Z-I-A. Kezia, welcome to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast.
Hello. Hi.
Thank you for that lovely introduction. You're very welcome.
It's a long intro because you've done a lot. You've achieved a lot.
By the way, dear listener, hang out to the very end of the episode because Kezia is going to share a very powerful tip a powerful insight about women that you're going to want to hear so stand by okay Kezia here's the first question I want to ask you before we get into some advice on helping men flirt and date can you tell me a little bit about your journey to becoming a dating expert was there a moment or a time in your life when you had an aha moment and said, oh, I really need to help men. I'm going to become a coach and an expert and a guide.
How did that happen? Well, it didn't happen like that. I was essentially headhunted, which sounds bizarre, but it's true.
You know, that's the closest way I can explain it. This is back in 2006.
I was essentially headhunted, which sounds bizarre, but it's true. You know, that's the closest way I can explain it.
This was back in 2006. I was minding my own business and I was in a bar and a guy approached me and he said that he worked for or he was part of a company that helped men pick up women because this was 2006.
So pick up was a thing. Right.
And you I don't use that phrase anymore but it was then and I was like what is pick up what's a pick up artist and he explained it to me explained look we teach guys like how to call women essentially how to attract women and I was a complete skeptic I was like you can't teach it either there's chemistry or there's nothing. So he said, well, I've actually come over to approach you because I'd like you to come along to one of our workshops and to give feedback to the guys that are on our program on one of our boot camps, because we're looking for like attractive young women.
I was an attractive young woman then okay and so we have to give back we have to give our feedback to the guys and um because we were talking a little bit and he found me very honest and direct and he said look that's really what we're looking for so I went there and thought okay let's just give this a go and there were two things that I noticed pretty quickly, which was the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change. I saw that within the space of the time I was there.
And the second thing that I noticed is that there were no women in this movement or industry or community, whatever you want to call it. The other women that were there were giving very, excuse me, let me turn off my emails, were giving very wishy-washy advice, you know, like just be yourself, smile more, be more confident.
Vague. Very vague, because I think a lot of women are people pleasers essentially, whereas I've never been a people pleaser i've never felt the need to please other people i think that's probably a masculine trait in me um and so i was just very honest very direct and i left thinking okay um they're gonna come after me with pitchforks these guys but actually they all just were queuing up for like a personal one-on-one it's like what's that like I just came in to help today and get paid for a session um but then the owner of the company's name's Richard Larowina or some people know him as Gambler back from the day he said no we're really looking for this and we want you to like come next weekend and do the same thing.

So I was coming more regularly.

And then I was like listening to what was being taught.

And I didn't realize that I could really help men,

but I realized that I loved human psychology,

but not in the way that it's taught.

You know, if you go to university,

I like the kind of, I'm not gonna lie,

I like the manipulation tactics.

I like reverse psychology,

just learning new ideas of how to, can I swear on this or no? I won't if you don't want me to. Hell yeah, you can.
Like how to mind fuck people and stuff. I found it really interesting.
I found what I found really interesting is how unattractive women and men got such good looking guys and women. Like I wanted to know that and I'd seen it.
I said, this is, it's not looks, it it's game because that's when I realized I didn't give it a name before I'd just be like sex appeal psychology but then I sort of put it all into game and that's what I got really fascinated about and I realized I was really good at it really good at spotting things spotting what people were doing and breaking it down like what the naturals were doing and passing it on and because I was very honest and I was very I have a very unfiltered kind of presentation of my life and my opinions and I just felt it worked perfectly and it did because I started getting a name for myself it's like this is the go this is the go-to woman and then I set up a YouTube channel on the side which I wasn't really allowed to do but I wasn't under contract so I did this YouTube channel and it really took off and I realized okay there's there's millions of guys out there that want to hear an honest female insight you know they want they don't want the bullshit they want to hear the woman just giving it raw what do I do how does it make women feel and I did that and then that got a lot of attraction and then I was approached by a publishing company here in the UK they offered me a book deal and then I left the company and set up my own company around 2011 when the book when I got the book deal and the media attention from that so that's that's like a very streamlined version of my story

and how I got into this.

What lights you up the most about your work with men?

When do you feel the best by helping these guys?

I am very success driven.

I do want to see results.

I don't get a lot from a guy going, oh, that really helped me in terms of like theory like I get it now Kezia I want to see them actually get results and come back and say to me I got laid last night you know I met a beautiful woman and we went on a date I'm very results focused and driven so I prefer that rather than people just I do like a when someone says like, I really value that theory that you've given and I'm going to put it into use, but I prefer it when they actually come back with the results. Absolutely.
Are there any results, any, any specific clients, former, current, whoever that comes to your mind right now and makes you remember a moment where, oh, Jake didn't know how to approach a woman. And the next thing you know, he's messaging you saying, I'm lying in bed with the most beautiful woman today, or whatever the story is.
Do you have any fun success stories? This came yesterday, Tuesday. I don't want to show his name that's the thing this came Tuesday which is

hello don't know if you remember me says his name no I don't remember him I'm not gonna lie I don't

I worked with you some 15 years ago when I had gone through a breakup you worked with me and I

came out the other side I doubt you get many people thanking you but I am I've just gone through

my 10th year happily married together I am where I am because you worked magic with me

Thank you. I doubt you get many people thanking you, but I am.
I've just gone through my 10th year happily married. Together I am where I am because you worked magic with me.
Wow. Look, we have lots of video testimonials of guys going, you know, I dated a model by the end of the seven-day mastery program.
But kind of like these little intimate messages that I get on my phone or on my, you know, private, you know, DMs on Instagram. I mean, a lot.
Weddings, pictures of their babies even. It's really nice.
It's great. Yeah.
I remember the first baby I helped bring into the world. The only baby I've ever brought into the world in any way, because I'm not a father.
And my client, Michael, sent me a picture of his new baby And I thought oh my god. I kind of helped do that

I did you do not I'm not blocking the cock. I'm guiding the cock

Why calm down man what?

His cock blocked McLovin. Okay, he's our friend.
We don't do that. We should be guiding his cock not blocking it

like

The court is from 40 year old virgin don't don't block the cock guide the cock so that makes me feel amazing well let's talk about some good game let's talk about what it takes to get these results that you're so proud to get your clients i was checking out your ebook last night which is a great super fast download 10 rapid one i've got which one oh it's the the one the first one that popped up on your website called 10 rapid ways to get a woman oh yeah okay fine we wrote that a long time ago yeah yeah it but it's a quick download it took 10 minutes to read it there's a couple tips in it that i really liked that i had never heard before and i wanted to run a couple by you and ask you why why this works and one of the tips in your e-book was what you call the double-sided compliment. Yes.
Could you give an example of what the double-sided compliment is and how to use that on a woman you're talking to? So it's a form of validation, positive validation. A double-sided compliment is a a mix actually of positive and negative i should say

so um if you say to a woman um i think you'd look better if you wore those kind of shoes that's kind of like an insult almost right you've got to cushion the blow so you say look those shoes look really good on you but if you were wearing and then you put in the type of shoe or it could be dress or anything that you find sexy then you say to her if you were wearing these kind of shoes x you know dot dot dot i would be totally making a move on you or i wouldn't be able to control myself so it's also a form of sexual escalation you are flirting with her but you're not saying to her i want you quite yet you are titillating her you are teasing her and women respond very very well to that but you need that cushion to begin with you need to say you look good but you can't just go in straight for you should be wearing this because she can translate that as an attack and then you get the hostile reaction you don't want a hostile reaction i like that a lot i like it because as i read that to me if if i'm saying to a woman oh i really like those shoes yet if XYZ, you'd look even more amazing. To me, that's sending a message to her that says, I'm liking you, but I have high standards and I could like you even more.
In other words, I'm not saying myself. Is that part of it? It's doing that, but it's also saying, yeah, you've got boxes that need to be ticked and you know what you want sexually you're

just lacing it with you know just that it's just that tease okay it's very important at the beginning so yeah i love double cider compliments i i think people should use them much more yeah i'm a fan early on in a date or especially a first date or a first approach something to what i call a negative spike something that's a tease or a little bit of a challenge just to show just to show i'm a nice guy a kind guy but also i have some edge i have some self-confidence i think that's very important it's it's also just um to go a little bit of a deep dive on it it's it's kind of showing the shadow, which is something I teach about how to use the shadow side to seduce a woman. And it's very important that if you are that kind, great guy, that you show the element of the bad guy, you know, or the very sexual guy.
And it's that polarity and contrast that make women go crazy. Pol that's the magic word i like i love that

you must know your psychology you know you're carl jung do you have you studied some psychology the dark side i know of some of the theories but i know no i try to i have a lot of friends who've been to psychologists i have a lot of clients who went to psychologists and most the time is it does not help them. I just don't, I'm interested into it to a certain degree, but I just have learned so much psychology from hanging around strip clubs, from honestly, like ridiculous level of psychology there, from hanging around people who are marketers, salespeople, game, pick up artists.
These people know psychology because they practice it. It's not just theory.
They can look at the things that are theory and go, that's crap, let's get rid of that. That's good in theory or it's good in this situation.
It's not good in that situation. So I prefer to be with people who understand psychology but not from a book they've done it you know they've experienced it and they lived through it and go no this is bullshit this does not work okay you know like some people that i'm trying to find a really like basic like basic psychology would be like oh you need to mirror the person and i'm just thinking it doesn't work it's it doesn't not it doesn't not help but it doesn't work so waste your time on that you know let's work on this instead if that makes sense right i agree that part of why i got addicted to learning about this when i was a student of experts was yeah my dating results were getting better which felt incredible but I was fascinated by how the mind works, how to persuade people, how to essentially understand sort of seeing the matrix of psychology in terms of practical human interactions.
I was fascinated by it. Like, for instance, you know, like I have this thing where I don't want to talk about too, I've got a video coming out about it, but it's reverse psychology, how to use use anti-cell right how to sort of go the opposite and undersell yourself on purpose like try and put the person off you now they would never teach that in a psychology book but it's fucking powerful when you know how to do it and it's got some rules to it and things but I've been using it now for about a year I'm passing it on like sort of in private people.
And they're like, wow, this stuff is real. It works.
But again, you would not find that in a book. Like, oh, no, always, you know, oversell yourself and show your best possible self.
And it's like, no, you've got to use a bit of this other stuff also in the mix, which doesn't make sense on paper, but does work when you do it correctly. Yeah.
Well, paper, you know, there's the map, and then there's the actual terrain of life.

And what works on paper in a book is very different than what would work in life, which

is why you've got to get out there and have the real-life interactions.

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You talk about the importance of breaking patterns, conversation patterns with women on first dates or in those first conversations. And instead of asking cliched questions like, oh, how long have you been at your job? Or what do you like about what you do? To break the pattern and ask questions like, if you had a zero chance of failure, what would you love to do most in the world? Can you talk about why we want to break patterns, why men want to break patterns with women in terms of those early conversations on a date? Well, because women have been on so many dates, and what they do is women like to categorize men.
And if the man is asking the same kind of tired, unimaginative questions that all the other guys have been asking, then she's not going to be on her toes. She's going to be in, you know, I call it autopilot mode, where she's not making the effort, because she's kind of already been through that.
She She's gone through the motions and she's already kind of got the outcome of how it's going to end. Oh, he's going to ask me this now.
And his response is going to be A, B and C. So it becomes predictable.
Women like excitement. They like excitement more than men do.
Okay. Men don't want a headache.
Men want someone nice, calm and compliant compliant women want excitement much more than men and it has to be they have to feel stimulated emotionally and mentally that doesn't mean you have to have this very serious highfalutin conversation about something that's very deep no i don't mean that but it just means about making her forcing her to have to think forcing her if she has If she has to think, it means she has to invest. And if she's investing, it means that she's trying to impress you on some level.
So it's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question. It's about your interesting responses.
So we could take a very, you know, two things that are always going to come up in conversation is where you're from and what do you do so we know that those two questions are going to come up and I'm not telling anyone that they shouldn't be asking those questions but it's very easy for those questions to end up in a boring conversation so let's say like most of my students work in IT the first thing will be like what do you do he says IT and she will just give a very polite unimaginative response which is like oh you know do you like it and most of the time the guy will go yeah it's okay or it's all right you know and that's it that's already the conversation's gone but if he turned around and just said you know know what, I love it and I hate it.

Immediately, she's curious because people don't answer like that. It's an unusual answer.
It's not a weird, crazy, you know, fucked up answer. We don't want those.
It's just a little bit unusual. And it's going to just reel her in her curiosity.
Oh, what do you mean? Like, what do you love and hate about it? And and then from there the guy can start talking about things which have nothing to do with his job you know I love it because I get to do a b and c and that's a reflection then of something that's positive about him but I hate it because this is what I really want to do this is what I'm super passionate about so we're already taking it from it which no one really wants to talk about to this fun interesting information is this high value data about myself kezia i love that answer but i also hated it a little bit of why did you hate it you see immediately i want to know why do you hate it okay that's a lie i actually it. I loved it because it's very similar to something I coach.
I do a little exercise with my guys. I call it the love-hate cafe.
We imagine we're sitting in a cafe or they're sitting in a

cafe with a woman and whatever topic that comes up, they have to tell that woman why they both

love and hate that thing. So that paradox is two contrasting emotions, love and hate.
So opposite,

right? When you put them together, to your point it creates something interesting that that a woman's not expecting to hear and it's also honest most people don't love everything about their job or hate everything about their job life is life is nuanced and it's also emotional loving and hating is more interesting than informational exchanges about what you do people it is unfiltered and that's very important because women want to have that very authentic unfiltered conversation with a man um and it just shows that he's he's just that's his truth and he's unapologetic for it well you just said the magic word for me i'm all about authenticity and helping a man channel that real raw self can you talk a little bit a little bit from your point of view why if and how rawness realness authenticity why does that work in dating or how can it work um i think it's important okay so i do show guys how to bring their more appealing qualities forward and some of the less appealing qualities like keep them in the back burner but that's more things such as not like personal achievements and things like maybe they haven't achieved a lot in their life maybe they're still living at home with their parents i don't say to them that you've got to cover that it's more's more that you've got, because that's you, that's your reality, that's the position you're in. It's how you communicate it.
So if you do anything with shame or embarrassment, then that's going to translate as I'm an ashamed person. I'm embarrassed.
I'm not happy. And all these, these are the things that women don't find attractive in a man but if you said for instance yeah I I don't really have a very good job but I've chosen that because I don't want to be on the rat race like everybody else I look at everybody else every day getting on on the train, stuck in a little office.

No way. Not for me.
Now, she might think, again, on paper.

Yeah. Well, that guy going in on the train every day, he's you know, he's got drive.
He's he's going somewhere and you're just slobbing about. Sure.
Sure. She might think that.
However, she will not think that you're ashamed or that you are trying to sort of like get in her good books, tell her what she wants to hear. So you have that pride and that can work.
That can work more than the guy who's doing all the right stuff, but he's deeply unhappy and he's insecure and all the rest of the stuff. It's better to have both of those things.
But if aren't i don't say to guys oh pretend you've got a fancy job just just tell like i sit down with them and go why are you doing this dead-end job why like what's the reason for it and a lot of the time they come up with a pretty good reason which is i don't want to be a slave to work i said well that's beautiful that's interesting that's wow okay so you're a bit of like one of those kind of guys. Okay, sell it, let's do it.
You know, don't be ashamed of it. So that's the way that I try and get them to be authentic.
I love that. Yeah, well talking about, oh, I don't want to be a slave to the rat race.
So I do X, Y, Z because I'm about freedom. I'm about being free.
Repacketed. It's an attractive way to talk about why you don't have a boring job.
To me, it's all about emotional conversation that's genuine, but also compelling to that woman. Yeah.
And it's very important to always tap into the woman's emotional buying motives rather than her rational buying motive so again yes as you said speaking with emotional language works better with women they're not for them lust and attraction is not rational at all it's purely emotional so yeah I agree just tap into the emotional narrative earlier you mentioned how looks don't really matter matter that much or they're way overrated. Talk a little bit about how important looks are or aren't to women in terms of a guy getting a great girlfriend, having a great dating life.
So looks, a good looking guy has to do less at the beginning, way less than a less good looking guy just a caveat though a lot of good looking guys doesn't mean that it's going to be every woman's type certainly i've seen some men and the women are just oh he's so good looking i'm like i don't know what i'm looking at here like have i missed something so that does happen just to put that little caveat in but let's just take like the average very good looking guy that appeals to most women he has to do so much less and he will get away with so much more i'm sorry to say that guys that's the truth however he doesn't have the same length of time to make a mistake like a beautiful woman has okay he is maybe five ten let's just say five minutes he has to ride on his looks ride that wave beautiful woman can ride on that wave for months and just be a total bitch and not have anything interesting to say because men are much more governed by how a woman looks so yes it's important but i don't want men to internalize this and see it from their point of view as oh but a beautiful woman you know can get away with everything yeah not a beautiful man so looks are important um but what's more important than how the man makes her feel i met a man recently i swear not my type at all i wouldn't even say he's good looking, let alone like not my type. And I'm thinking about him now.
He's got a little bit stuck in my head. That's what happens with women.
You get in their heads, you know, and it's an emotional feeling. Because male desire and female desire just operate completely differently, completely differently.
And so that's something I teach, obviously, to understand how female desire works. No, I totally get it.
I mean, I'm not bad looking, but I basically look like Ron Weasley's brother or the lead singer from Weezer. But I can get in a woman's head in a way that makes her feel really good and she'll look at me like I'm Brad Pitt, even though I'm not.
See, I get into a man i get these young guys and they like ask me out and then you know during the day i realize they've all got this thing in common which is they've all got a crush on jennifer aniston oh we're here again are we it's like yeah and not when she's in friends how she is now like oh i'm like oh great you get the jennifer aniston thing so men are very visual they'll go on

a date with me because i kind of look like jennifer aniston a bit right i get the uh prince harry

thing every now and then oh you're like prince harry i'm like yeah i'm like a very poor prince

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A couple final points here and we can wrap up. Your YouTube channel has some really great videos.
There's a couple videos that have 8, 9, 10 million views. And I was looking at one of your videos a couple days ago.
You do a good video with one of your coaches named Mark J. Video is called The Best Way to Approach Girls.
And I was watching that video because a lot of guys come to me today in 2024 in the Me Too era. And they say, oh, I can't approach girls.
It's creepy. It's wrong.
It's weird. I can't do it.
I assume you have a different viewpoint on that. Is it OK to approach women? And if so, what's the right way to do it it's 100 okay to approach a woman um we've been doing this now since 2000 since 2006 which is before the me too movement and hashtag me too movement after that you know we we've never the most we've ever had is a girl say i'm not interested no slapping in the face no calling the police no running down the street screaming nothing like this just literally sorry not interested and we even know things to say to make them interested if they say i'm not interested right um so no i think in fact it's gone the other way women are absolutely dying to meet men this way they're sick of dating apps my sister and her friend in their early 30s they're going to an event called i hate dating apps they've quit i'm like everyone's quitting the dating apps they have had enough of them they are horrible things these dating apps and they're all wanting that you know, I met this guy.
He just approached me in the park. They want that story more now than ever because during the pandemic, it reached breaking point.
The dating apps and Zoom. I mean, we're doing Zoom now.
It's very useful. But everything was on Zoom.
Everything was online. And it just hit, like, peak.
I can't do this anymore. And people are just looking for those organic ways to meet people now.
This is the best time, actually. This is the best time since fading apps came out, I would say.
I agree with you a million percent that this is the best time to approach women. Because if you're the 800th guy who swipes right on her on Tinder or Hinge,

she won't even see your profile.

If you're that one guy who charmingly comes up to her and chats

and has some good game, oh, my God,

you're going to give her that rom-com movie moment.

Especially you've got more chance if you're not good-looking.

If you're a good-looking guy on the apps, when I say good-looking,

I'm talking about the top 5% here. Yeah'll clean up you'll clean up but if you're below average or average even forget it it's much better to go to approach a woman because there's so much more she can understand about you from the approach a lot of a lot of the guys that I've dated my first impression of them wasn't great and then after a few minutes I was like okay things have changed now and also if I'd seen a photograph of them online I would never have agreed to go on a date with them really not my type but it was just like the way that they operated the room the way they spoke to me made me feel the way they ordered the drinks the aftershave they were wearing you know multidimensional.
So is attraction. And it's all being reduced to a photograph.
And a photograph that's not even an accurate likeness of us anymore. None of us look like our photos.
Do you remember like in the old days when we had bad photos? And we had to say to the other person, look, they look better than their photo. We were setting up people with dates because we all took bad photographs.
Now you have to sit there and go, look, okay, she or he doesn't quite look like that photograph. So it's already like you're starting from a down point, you know, like a minus because you meet the person's like, oh, you're 10 times bigger than you said you were 10 times older or whatever it is, you know.
Okay. Let's part.
Speaking of finishing strong, let's finish strong with a parting tip. Earlier, I teased a powerful insight.
It could be about approaching, it could be about mindset, it could be anything that you think the introverted nice guy listening to this episode should know about women or approaching or dating. What is your parting tip for our listener? I'm stuck between two, but I'm going to go for one because i did mention about like if a woman says i'm not interested what to say yeah what do you say when she says that so let's and we've been doing this for ages and it's had really good response rate so let's say you see two women and they're chatting in a bar and you approach them and they're like she goes no no thank you i'm we're talking rather than just walking off like feeling sorry for yourself or apologizing or being aggressive just say no problem I just wanted to come over and say I think you're absolutely stunning have a beautiful night and then walk away because you've taken that moment to flip it and show her what she's missing so you have to say this with regal confidence regal confidence she's not expecting you to respond like that first of all so it makes her go huh and secondly you're showing how confident you are and she's watching this thinking oh shit oh shit this this one's going now and then she sees you operating the rest of the room talking to people you don't go back to don't ever go back to she has a very high chance of coming back to you she'll either smile look at you or she might even as you're leaving say oh i'm sorry i was a bit rude come join us so that's a good little trick guys that's fantastic i did that once not knowing I probably got it from you 15 years ago.
But I did that once. Five minutes after I said, okay, fine.
Have a good night. You're beautiful.
Tap, tap, tap on my shoulder. And she came back.
And all of a sudden it was on. So thank you.
Okay. Okay.
If a man listening to this would like to work with you or learn more about you or take a program, I understand you do training in London. I understand you, a man can work with you or your team from home.
How can people work with you or learn more about you? yeah just go to the website kezia-noble.com you'll find out more information about my seven

day mastery program and my online acceleration home training program and everything is one-on-one

we don't do boot camps or anything so it's going to be you me uh or you and the coach just one-on-one and uh yeah check out all the testimonials we've received over the years and you'll find like at least one of them will resonate with you personally because we've just just helped hundreds of men from across the globe, a range of different sticking points and from different cultural backgrounds and age groups. So, yeah, that's my that's my website.
Check it out. Do you still offer training in in London, which would happen in London? Yes, I do.
Great. I recommend that because I once took a training course in London, not with you, but I took a training course there.
It was such a great experience being in London, British accents. Oh, my gosh, I fell in love so many times.
So working on this in London is a great option if you are able to travel. Okay, thank you, Kezia, so much for being here.
You were fantastic. Thank you.
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And remember, your dream girlfriend, she's out there. She's going to love you.
She just has to meet the real authentic you. So go take authentic action.

Carpe datum. Seize the date.
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