S03 E19: What Happened to Beata?

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A heads up, the today's episode includes detailed descriptions of suicide.

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Beata Kowalski's tragic death by suicide in January of 2010 has played a huge role in how the Kowalski's lawsuit against Johns Hopkins All Children's has played out.

In court, the blame ultimately went to Johns Hopkins as they are being asked to compensate the family for Beata's death to the tune of many millions of dollars.

This death was presented in the plaintiff's story as the ultimate act of motherly love, a heroic sacrifice to save her daughter.

Here is lead attorney Gregory Anderson in his closing arguments.

What else have they tried to say?

What are their other defenses?

Well,

they blame Beatta for taking her own life.

And although we'll get into a lot of this more, the fact is that Beata was reacting to a maternal instinct that she had almost no, and in fact, no ability to control.

It was the same thing as a mother jumping out in front of a truck to push her two-year-old out of the way, knowing that it would take her life.

And when there's a competition between the maternal instinct and the self-preservation self-preservation instinct, the maternal instinct is going to win each time.

And in the film Take Care of Maya, they draw a straight line between the judge not allowing Beata to hug Maya in court during that final hearing to Beata's death two days later.

It never made any sense to me why she was denied giving her child that hug.

And I can tell you as we left the courthouse that day that Beata was devastated.

Devastated.

And the one thing that I know to this day is none of us can get that hug back now.

That hug is gone.

Do you think if she had hugged her, things would have turned out differently?

Yes, I do.

I do.

But the real story is far less straightforward.

And today, we're digging into it.

What really happened to Beada?

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You know, I really worry about the impact that this all has on Maya to think that her mother somehow died to save her, especially because we now know from email exchanges between Beata and the social worker that Maya was talking to her mom on FaceTime hours before her death.

She seemingly was the last person to speak to her.

But while this tidy narrative about Beada dying to free Maya from the hospital seemed to have moved the jury, I don't believe they got the full story, especially as they couldn't hear any testimony from the defense about medical child abuse, thanks to Judge Hunter Carroll's ruling halfway through the trial that the medical child abuse allegations against Beata were no longer relevant to the case.

I just want to say at the top of this episode that I do not know what to make of everything I'm about to share with you, which comes from documentation in the public record.

I am not in a position to draw any conclusions about what happened here, but as has been my goal all along, I'm trying to present a more complete picture of this complicated case.

So we already covered some of the really strange circumstances of the days leading up to Beada's death in a previous episode.

That's episode four of last season called Retaliation.

And this episode is really a companion episode to that one.

I will go ahead and and link to that in the show notes.

But what we mostly had to go off at that point was Jack's retelling of things, as well as what was in the police reports of the night of the death and the night before.

So to recap, here is Jack's version of events of the night before Beada's death when she went missing for many hours, as he talks about in his interview with the police.

Did your wife give you any indication that this would happen?

No, but the night before, I called the police because she was missing.

You know, it was unusual for her to be gone.

She said she went to CVS or going to CVS.

And she well, I was bottling wine with Kyle and

I bottled all the wine, I cleaned up, and it's like she's still not here.

So I did call the police.

That that felt weird.

And I looked in my safe.

Don't know why I did, but my handgun was missing.

And then

she came back about 12.30 that night.

So what time did she leave?

I honestly don't know.

If you

I honestly made a report to you.

Yeah, yeah, they came here in Sarasota County.

With Sarasota, okay.

And then when she came home, I called them again and said she was home.

But there was no fighting or anything like that.

She just been, that was

most likely because what the judge, you know.

Okay.

Jack goes on to describe the hours leading up to Beata's death.

Next morning, I got up, I took Kyle with to go visit Maya,

and

she went for a massage, and she had a 10 o'clock appointment.

Do you know where that was at?

No, I don't.

You know, she buys so many, I don't even, it's in Sarasota somewhere.

And then what time did you guys come back?

We left the hospital around three, so we got back at four.

Beatta was sleeping in Kyle's room with the door door locked.

And Kyle goes, I got a little screwdriver up above my door.

He unlocked it.

He went in there.

He talked to her for a while.

One of my biggest questions surrounding this series of events was: why did he leave her alone in the house?

He was obviously concerned enough to call the police the night before when she went missing.

And according to him, he also was worried enough about her to call her family.

You know, what really bugged her the most, we went to court Friday.

My daughter was at court.

She was promised to see my daughter at that, you know, at court.

And the judge refused to let her see her.

And that really hurt her.

I called her family all yesterday because, you know, she's upset.

She needs support.

Yeah.

Beata appeared to have been in really bad shape after the court hearing.

And it seemed like the fact that Jack Jack didn't keep a closer eye on her over the weekend could be a sign of a growing rift between the couple.

But according to Jack, they had remained a united front.

This whole thing didn't put a strain on your marriage.

Oh, definitely.

Yeah, but we're stuck together.

I mean,

okay.

So it's not like there's...

No, no, no, no.

No, there's, it's, you know, it affects you.

So just to recap.

The night of her death, Jack and Kyle go to a birthday party and Beada stays home.

And honestly, while I don't think there's anything necessarily suspicious about this, it does seem unwise to me to leave your spouse alone under the circumstances.

And it always seemed even more inexplicable to me that, worried about her as he says he was, Jack didn't even check on Beata when they got home from the party.

What times did you guys come back?

We were there,

I could be wrong, maybe 9:30 or so.

And that door was closed again, so we didn't bother her.

Okay.

Was it closed or locked?

Do you know?

I don't know.

I don't know.

Okay, that's fine.

So Jack gets home.

He goes to sleep.

Kyle falls asleep on the couch.

Then at some point, Beata's brother, Peter, shows up at the house, evidently unannounced.

And I didn't even know he was coming.

You know, it was

somebody was banging on the door and ringing the bell, and I heard a voice, and I didn't know who it was.

What time was that?

That was after midnight.

I honestly don't even know what what time he could tell you.

Okay, so he came in.

Where did he sleep?

Obviously, he said he slept in Kyle's bed.

When we got back home, we watched

some home shows, and then we were on the couch.

And I can't sleep on those things.

You stick to them.

So what time do you think you went to bed?

Oh, it had to be about...

10 or 11, maybe 11.

And then the next thing you were woken up by your brother-in-law?

Knocking on the ringing the bell and.

Did you guys stay up, or you just?

No, no, I opened the door.

I was in my underwear.

I just opened the door and

went back.

All right.

And finally, in the early morning hours, it was Peter who discovered Yada's body.

Actually, her brother came in last night and he went in the garage because he couldn't find her and

he started screaming.

This is is obviously a really sad and disturbing series of events.

And the way it played out just always seemed odd to me.

And I've had questions since first reading the police reports.

But after hearing Beata's brother Peter talk about these events via the interview he did with the same police detective Jack spoke to the day of Beada's death and via his deposition in court, I have some new questions.

So let's back up to the days leading up to Beatta's death.

According to Peter, he became extremely alarmed when he heard from his older sister Elizabeth, again, there are four siblings altogether, Beada was the youngest, that Beada had disappeared for many hours the night after the court hearing, seemingly with Jack's gun.

I was calling all the time.

I think when I entered the home, it was basically after midnight.

After midnight.

Dino was home.

Jack, well, it was a strange story.

I called Jack several times.

I was calling on all phone number.

He's here his line line.

I knew

and Early morning

Early morning we started like I have no knowledge that at home he had a gun.

Basically my older sister told me that or my sister told me that she said him

to take the gun away.

My sister reported to me that he said that the gun was in his brother house.

So when I talked to him the last time yesterday,

he reported, he asked him why the gun is here because you told my older sister that the gun is with your brother.

I brought it for security.

And after I asked him, is it true that you gave my sister a divorce letter?

He disconnected.

Well, he said he has to take care of the coyote.

And I called him, sir, maybe 20 times.

He didn't know.

This is what time did you come when he hanged up on you?

It was yesterday, early morning.

Okay.

Yes, so after this,

my older sister called me and we decided immediately arranged that something going on.

And I decided about the noon time that I'll be flying at 5.25 from Chicago.

This was the flight available.

We both were flying, but only one place was available.

So we make a decision that I'm flying first.

I'm renting the car.

And I'm supposed to pick her up today about noon.

Beada was, understandably, very distraught about the court hearing.

and according to their depositions, her siblings were very worried that she might hurt herself or someone else.

So, by the way, there do appear to be conflicting reports about whether or not Beata was actually in possession of Jack's gun when she disappeared the night before her death, which eventually led Jack to call the police.

What is clear is that everyone, including Jack, believed that she had the gun with her, and her siblings were really angry about this because they had previously asked Jack to get the gun out of the house, given everything that was going on.

But the court case wasn't the only thing that Beatta was so upset about that night.

Evidently, Jack had just served her with divorce papers.

And according to his deposition, as they were going back and forth on the phone the day before Beata's death, her brother, Peter, attempted to confront Jack about this.

I asked him, is it true that you gave my sister a divorce letter?

And after this, he hung up on me.

And after what this, I called him I can provide all the record I was calling he doesn't know that actually I was phone on the phone with his lawyer

okay when I was talking Laurie I was talking with his lawyer before because what it was time before the departure from Chicago so I think we talked like 40 minutes with Deborah with his lawyer Did he ever give her divorce papers?

You just don't know.

What it is, my oldest sister said that this was basically multiple instances.

He was pressing her.

And basically what it is, is

during the court hearing he without letting her know he took the car

and without letting know

he took the car and they drove took suitcases they actually went to his brother and Bata was very crying I told Beta that that I'm standing by her that we have a money

that going to be better date well Peter, it seems, was especially upset about this and felt betrayed because he had been trying to help the couple out financially.

So, let me take you back.

Last night, when you asked Jack, where is Beatta?

What did he tell you?

I don't recall that he provided me an answer.

Did he talk to you at all?

We didn't talk at all.

He basically opened the door.

I said, oh, Peter is here.

He was surprised, but because he didn't know that I'm coming, even though I tried to basically call him so many times.

And also, I told Deborah when I spoke yesterday with his lawyer, he doesn't have a knowledge of it, that I was coming.

And basically, you know, I told him, bro, that I gave my brother, you know, $10,000 and he gave my sister divorce paper.

Throughout his deposition, Peter makes various mentions of paying some expenses for the kids and offering financial help to the Kowalskis, though I don't have independent confirmation of these transactions because it didn't ultimately come to play in court.

So the night after the court hearing, Beada disappeared, seemingly with Jack's gun, for many hours, and Jack called the police.

According to Jack, Beada returned on her own late that night and appeared to be intoxicated.

It was the following evening that Jack and Kyle went to that birthday party and left Beada alone in the house.

Peter then arrived at Jack and Beada's house late that evening after taking a last-minute flight from Chicago, and he was met with a very strange scene when he arrived.

So let me bring you back to over here last night.

So you get here after midnight.

Who opens the door for you?

The door opened after I call Yasek opened the door after I call security company because he did not open it the door and I called him 100 times.

Okay, so he finally comes to the door.

Yes, I basically flip the lights in the you know the headlights up.

Yeah.

I illuminated the entire house.

I was very surprised, very surprised, the house totally dead, totally dark.

So like

something very strange.

Normally the house was always illuminated outside the light.

I'm coming so it's no light.

After ringing the bell for a couple of times, I have a security code to open a garage door.

But I didn't want to basically, you know, frick everybody, so I called the security company, and the security company gave me the instructions how to disable the alarm if the alarm goes off.

So I'm keeping the numbers and I'm pressing, and then Jack opened the doors.

Gotcha.

Because it was very cold, and I realized that I was going to sleep in the car eventually.

Okay.

So what did he say to you?

He says, I was asking for brother.

We did not discuss much.

It appears that Peter had been to this house many times.

And since on this occasion, he arrived in the middle of the night and presumably didn't want to wake everyone up, he attempted to let himself into the house using the key entry pad on the garage door.

But when he went to do so, he found that it had been disabled.

And furthermore, all of the lights in the house were off.

Eventually, Jack came and let him in and then went back to bed.

And I have to say again,

this is just weird.

Your brother-in-law, whose calls you've been avoiding all day, shows up in the middle of the night at your house and you have no questions?

Okay.

Peter, understandably, wanted to find Beata as soon as he got there.

First of all, I start looking for Beat.

And, you know, first thing, where is Beata?

I don't know if he, I cannot say that he told me that he was on the couch with her, but on the couch, I found it.

I thought first that it was Beata.

So I tried to touch her, but it was Kaio.

And asking, where is your mother?

Where is your mommy?

He said that he sleeps in his room.

So I went to the Maya room because that what I slept the last time.

It was full of packages.

And I went to his rooms.

Basically, she was not there because I was driving.

And I get up usually at 4 a.m.

and I did not sleep.

And that means I was chew up.

So basically, I follow up immediately.

And basically, every morning, what happened is I checked the security alarm and I was looking for Bear.

While Kaya was there, I realized that basically I thought that maybe she was in his jack sleeping bedrooms.

I opened the door.

The door was actually open.

No, the door was open.

And I look for him.

Only one thing or one body was there, one person.

One of my questions after I read the initial report about this night was where Peter thought Beatta was when he arrived at the house, because Kyle had just told him that she was in his room.

But then Peter checked and she wasn't there and she wasn't in Maya's room either.

From what he says here, it sounds like he assumed that Beatta was in Jack's room.

And given the context that Peter wasn't necessarily a welcome guest and it was the middle of the night, I can see where he maybe just decided to look for her in the morning.

But when he saw that she wasn't in Jack's room, he started to get worried.

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So I start basically looking, you know, and I had, I brought from my car a cooler, which I had the orange and two apples, as basically I took for the trips, and I was handling, going, they had a second refrigerator.

Second refrigerator.

And I think this is, when I saw her, it was second times I went there.

Because what it is,

when I went to the garage for the second times, I realized I was like a kind of, you know, what's going on?

Basically, like a Halloween Halloween decoration was hanging for me and I said well they they try I first of all I thought they tried to entertain the kids but I tried to push it because it was hard body and I realized it was the injections you know that people get it and that basically I touched him and I touched her she was caught

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The picture of the relationship between Jack and Beata looks very different in Peter's version than in Jack's.

And I realized that Jack was absolutely actually start, started, they didn't care about her.

Jack didn't give her like a

New Year's wishes.

I was very surprised that Jack brought the gun to home.

Okay, because if he promised my older sister the gun actually, I don't know whether it is even true.

And honestly, sir, I don't know based on what it is, because

after I asked Jack, after he came up with me, that this is true.

I gave you $10,000, you gave her a divorce paper.

You know, for entire day, if you are calling her 20 times, you're not responding.

So what is the reason for this?

So while this is all going on, Peter and Beata's older sister Elizabeth is also on her way into town.

And though we didn't hear from her during the trial, she also gave a deposition, which corroborated much of what Peter said in his.

Basically, that her sister was very distressed because Jack had served her divorce papers and that the relationship had been devolving for months.

It seemed that at one point, Jack even threatened to leave with Kyle.

Here is Peter describing that in his deposition.

What was your understanding of the marital relationship between Jack Kowowski and Beata Kowalski around the end of 2016 and early 2017?

Sir, honestly, for this,

I am not really competent to talk about it because I try to stay out of marital problems.

I can say that I was shocked, I was surprised that a day or night before Judge wanted to see Cayo at the court, Jack basically lying

and basically he didn't have authority.

He removed the car from home.

I don't know whether it would be good to word kidnap Cayo, but he didn't have authority without the actor, removed the car, he took her suitcase, and I realized that was basically the end of the marriage.

This part of the deposition is a little bit tough to decipher, but Peter goes on to describe the series of events where Jack disappeared for a time with Kyle.

And this was during the time that Maya was sheltered at Johns Hopkins All Children's, and they had a dependency court hearing coming up.

Then someone noticed that Jack had taken a packed suitcase.

No, I went just buying shoes.

Okay, but I had no clue what are the suitcases for.

It was two later, the Atta came and I tried to figure out from the Ata what he was doing.

And also, Jack told me that he is going to the store to buy shoes for Kyle.

Well,

and

I was kind of shocked, but the other started crying.

Well, I will get back to the store.

So I try to find out where is Jack.

So I text her daughter.

Jack has a second daughter in Wisconsin.

And I couldn't answer.

Where is Jack?

So the other start calling.

And basically, we look me on the other, the other on me.

Tomorrow, we're all going to go to judge.

Why?

And what judge is going to be your actions if it's not Kyle?

When Peter and Beata can't get a hold of Jack, they start panicking, especially given the fact that they're all supposed to be in court the next day.

So basically, Beata was heartbroken.

And I understood this was beginning, the end of the marriage.

And at the time, sir, I went to the

every like a light controller.

And actually, I turned off all unnecessary light.

But it was not to the point like when I came in there, you know, and I found dark house with the, you know, and Beata was heartbroken.

However, because previously was talking that Maya might return to home, but the required would be like a speculation, so.

Because Beata was the parent being investigated for abuse.

There had been some talk of her possibly needing to move out of the house in order for Maya to be released from Johns Hopkins back into Jack's custody.

Peter wanted to reassure her that if that happened, he would would help her pay for somewhere to live.

And the family had evidently scraped together everything they could so that Beata would have what she needed.

But this was all a cold comfort to his sister, who, it seemed, was watching her life fall down around her.

So to ease this, to help the judge, in case the judge would ask, I'd already had prayer approved a mortgage, quarter of a million, for continuing for Beata.

And I beat her started crying.

I pulled out the paper book that was basically Beata.

You don't believe it.

I bought it here.

It's a a quarter of a million dollars.

I said, Beta, let's get hide from the house.

I told Alex today.

So Beata said, this is my house.

I don't want to go from this house.

I said, well,

if you cannot go, okay.

So we're going to go tomorrow to judge.

We have a Beta show.

I'll show Beta.

I'll show Beta also our financial papers.

But basically, I scrambled the plan, everything that I could sell.

My retirement, houses,

including

water.

Things had obviously become increasingly strained between the two families throughout the investigation into Beada, and immediately following her death, they completely fell apart.

Peter became understandably emotional during this part of the deposition, and because it was a bit hard to understand him, the translator took over to describe what went down in the immediate aftermath of Beata's death.

And later on, after Beata's death, in time of two hours, my older sister, Arjbieta, who came in, we wanted to ask Jack about that document.

Jack took Kyle out of the house and later, a few minutes later, his brother, Robin, came, the one who was with Jack in court.

He came with his wife of girlfriend.

I don't know what relationship they have.

That woman that came with Robin, the brother, Jack's brother, he pulled

harshly pillow from underneath my sister's head and they told us to get out of the house.

I thought they were joking.

Elizabeth, Peter and Bianna's older sister, corroborated these events in her deposition, saying that Robert's wife, or potentially his girlfriend, is unclear, actually yanked the pillow out from under her head and demanded that they leave the house.

And things escalated from there.

Mr.

Zorowski,

why did you call the police while you were staying at the kowalski's house practically felt like uh i belonged there that was my uh place i had all the security uh codes and my i never really had to ask uh if i could come or not my sister always allowed me to come

excuse me i'm just trying why did you what what police

agency did you call and why did you call them?

It was hard for me to believe believe that Jack was kicking us out of the house, that he told us to get out.

It was hard to believe.

Why was that hard to believe?

Because we were helping Jack financially and that documents that he was supposed to sign were for three quarters of a million of dollars.

Why was Mr.

Kowalski going to sign a document for three quarters of a million dollars?

That was after Jack took Kyle out of the house and when Beata

said that she doesn't want any more financial

gifts from us and that she asked Jack to pay all the money back.

Peter brings up money numerous times in his deposition, and it's unclear to me what role this played in how all of this unfolded.

Now, obviously, this was probably one of the worst days of Jack Kowalski's life, but this seems like utterly bizarre behavior to kick your wife's grieving siblings out of your house hours after her death.

During his cross, Gregory Anderson, lead attorney for Jack Kowalski, puts a couple of theories to Peter about why this behavior might have happened.

Could it maybe have been that Jack just wanted to be alone to grieve his loss?

But Peter's just not really having it.

And furthermore, this whole thing seems fishy to him.

I found my sister, which was very disturbing.

And I had several questions and doubts to the investigators.

And also

I had questions to the letter.

This is from the examiner.

Understood.

And what were your suspicions?

So, sir, first of all, who turned off the light at home upon my arrival?

Why Jack was at home with the car,

with the light being turned off,

why Jack was at home with the security system disarmed.

Second group of questions was, I found my sister, she had attached medical device.

It was not surprising me that she had, because in her car, in the trunk, she had a stack of it because she was the infusion nurse.

And after

the examiners sent sent me a letter that in my sister bodies there was no chemical no alcohol

the letter so i think you forwarded to me as well i started questions

so what it is whether it was examiner error or something else well we'll get to your questions about your suspicions later but is it fair to say that you had questions about whether Jack Kowalski was involved in your sister's passing?

So everyone is innocent until proven guilty.

And as I said, Jack came to me with his Bravo and they admitted circuit breakers were off.

And it was strange because Jack is very particular on maintaining the house.

He is perpetual.

And so, why he stayed at home without light?

The circuit breaker was basically in the garage where I find my sister.

Just to explain what Peter is saying here, he had questions about the medical examiner's report on his sister's death, which he followed up with him about in a series of letters, which I will link to in the show notes.

And he couldn't make sense of why the circuit breaker was off when he arrived at the house.

And this stuck out to him because the breaker was right near where he discovered his sister's body.

Peter also appears to have some questions about possible financial motivations.

Why did you contact her employer at CVS Cornhill?

I contact her employer.

I try to find details about my sister's life policy and what happened.

What did you learn upon contacting Beata Kowalski's employer at CVS Quorum after her passing?

I don't recall the details, but

I might recall that she might have additional health insurance that her husband was basically entitled to collect.

So, if I'm understanding you correctly, there was a life insurance policy that Mr.

Kowowski would collect in the event of her passing?

Yes, sir.

For sure,

that would be correct.

My sister, she had personal life insurance, which might be multiple what she would get from an employer.

And it appears that Peter looked into hiring a lawyer to look into the circumstances around Beada's death.

I try to collect as much information and contact for my potential attorney in case I will go to, in case I have to decide to hire a criminal lawyer.

Why did you think you might have to hire a criminal lawyer?

As I said, first of all, who turned off the lights?

Why Jack stayed with child at home with the dysfunctional security system?

The security system was dysfunctional from outside, so I could not enter the house.

Who attached the device, the medical device with the fluid?

In my, well, let's assume my sister want to take her own life.

But in my sister's body, according to the medical examiner, there was no alcohol, no any chemical.

But this is not all.

Actually, I appreciate you, Artoni, your letter information.

I was eliminated because the reasons that triggered my flight that night to Florida was that Jack called my sister, Elizabeth and he was basically complaining that the other was drunk.

Let's assume, of course, we have to believe the chief because Jack Kowalski is the chief.

He was the best training chief at Illinois.

So let's assume we don't have any doubt that Mr.

Kowalski would say that my sister was

lying, or he was lying, okay?

So let's assume my sister was drunk and he was carrying weapon, okay?

Well, according to the medical examiner, so in my sister's body, there was no alcohol.

So how Mr.

Kowalski finds the statement that my sister was drunk carrying the weapon.

It's a little unclear to me what Peter is questioning here, as though I don't know the exact science, it seems to me that Beata could have been drunk more than 24 hours before her death and that it wouldn't necessarily have shown up in the medical examiner's report.

But what Peter brings up next is less easily accounted for.

And this entire event, so, could be recorded on the video, could be available on video.

What do you mean this whole event could be be on video?

Well, the house is packed with the security camera.

And actually, I want to say thank you to the investigator because I was eliminated.

The investigator asked if they in the garage were camera.

There were camera, but of course there was no power.

But before the power was turned off, all the events should be recorded.

Also,

the security system, which was part the American, the AEDT company, which I talked to them as well, it has a backup.

So basically in case hurricane in the news, there is a backup for a few hours.

And in fact, when I woke up every morning, there was a red light on the panel.

But actually, the system was disarmed.

So the system was power, even though the breaker was off.

And basically, the ADT will not disclose any details until they're going to get requests.

And also, just for information of Tony, Mr.

Kovanski canceled the contact with the company.

I don't know how much is available right now, but based on my discussion with the technicians, it is possibly that's going to be a recorded event that someone entered the garage and after this the light went off.

It's possible.

I don't want to speculate, Arthur.

If I'm understanding you correctly, you had some suspicions that there might have been

video.

of what happened in the garage to your sister in January of 2017.

That's correct, sir.

And why did you come to conclude that there might have been video?

What it is, I spoke with the technicians and ADT and the technicians providing that it depended on options.

And in Garage, actually, thanks to the detective at the time, a detective was asked about the video from camera.

And Jack said it was not.

Of course, it was not because no power.

So I guess what I'm asking is, is there video of what happened in the garage or not?

And sir, I cannot answer.

Basically, ADT, the company, they hold all the records.

And unfortunately, my authority doesn't go so far.

So, basically, Peter arrived at the house in the middle of the night and all of the lights were off, which was, according to him, highly unusual.

And the circuit breaker was cut.

The ADT security system previously in place, which included cameras in the garage where Beada's death took place, had been canceled by Jack.

Like so much of this case, most of this new information just leaves me with more questions.

What's clear is that Peter is not convinced that Beata's death was a suicide.

He mentions speaking to several local lawyers for help in his deposition, as well as visiting with Dr.

Hanna, one of the doctors who'd been treating Maya Kowalski, in what appears to have been an attempt to get some insights into his sister's state of mind before her death.

Throughout the fall of 2017, Peter sent a pretty stunning series of letters to the medical examiner's office and the state's attorney about his suspicions that something else was going on here.

Interestingly, In addition to his questions about Beata's death, he also claims that Jack was lying about how bad Maya's condition was in the hospital at the time of Beata's death.

He says that Jack claimed Maya couldn't roll over or use the toilet on her own and that she was covered in wounds.

These would be the skin lesions that she supposedly had because of her CRPS, which, just as a reminder, multiple doctors testified in court that these, quote, lesions appeared to be scratches.

Peter also said correctly that Dr.

Hannah had evaluated Maya at this time and did not document any of these changes.

And that furthermore, Peter and his sister Elizabeth saw Maya the day after Beata died and they did not notice any quote wounds.

He also indicates that he believes the suicide note could have been fabricated as Kyle, Beada's younger child, had demonstrated to both him and the police that he knew the password to Beada's phone.

He also recounts all of the strange circumstances around the death, the circuit breaker being cut, the windows of the garage where Beata's body was found being covered in plastic, and Jack canceling the security system contract that would have got this whole thing on video.

He also makes a mention that Jack was involved in his former job in a quote sex for money case.

So, just a note that Jack was involved in a wrongful termination suit with his previous employer, but I don't know what the sex for money reference is about here.

This appears to be about something different, and I couldn't find any additional information on it.

Look, it is plausible that Peter is grasping at straws here, trying to make sense of what feels like a senseless tragedy.

But the fact remains that the series of events around Beada's death doesn't make any sense.

There are definitely pieces missing.

What those pieces are, we may never ultimately know.

In the end, I don't know if Jack really believed before the investigation that Maya was sick, or if he was in some ways enabling this abuse.

And if it's the latter case, what might have motivated him to do that?

But I think we can all take a guess at what's been motivating him ever since Beada's death, namely, many millions of dollars and a hugely sympathetic portrayal as a heroic father to millions of viewers.

We may never know the whole truth about this case, but after spending many months digging through the evidence, I don't think Jack Kowalski is the hero he'd like you to believe him to be.

Not even close.

Next week on Nobody Should Believe Me.

You know, for years, mandatory reporters operated under the assumption that if they participated in the process, that they would have immunity for their participation.

And now there's a lot of open questions.

Mandatory reporters are wrestling with the question that if I have a reasonable suspicion of abuse and neglect, and I call in that reasonable suspicion, what if I'm wrong?

Can I be sued for that?

Can my name be in the paper?

Can I be the subject of the intimidation and harassment that some of my clients were?

And am I exposing my hospital, whose mission is to provide for the sickest and the most vulnerable in the community to wiping out their assets and destroying that mission?

This episode was written and produced by me, Andrea Dunlop.

Our sound engineering and mixing was provided by Andrew Kindred.

Thanks to Nola Carmouche for additional support and also to Cadence 3, where this episode was recorded.