Out of the Cold
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Speaker 1 welcome to bedtime stories for everyone
Speaker 1 in which
Speaker 1 nothing much happens
Speaker 1 you feel good and then you fall asleep
Speaker 1 I'm Catherine Nikolai
Speaker 1 I read and write all the stories you hear and nothing much happens
Speaker 1 audio engineering is by Bob Wittersheim.
Speaker 1
We give to a different charity each week. And this week, we're giving to Howell Nature Center.
They pride themselves in being a second home to any person
Speaker 1 who wants to heal, grow,
Speaker 1 and be wild in nature.
Speaker 1 You can learn more at the link in our show notes.
Speaker 1 Before we dig in tonight, I just want to share something with you. I hear from so many folks who are feeling anxious,
Speaker 1 and I want to give you all the tools I can to help.
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Speaker 1 Now.
Speaker 1 I have a story to tell you.
Speaker 1 And just by listening, will shift your brain from default mode where it can wander endlessly to task positive mode
Speaker 1 where sleep is natural and accessible and all you have to do is listen
Speaker 1 I'll tell the story twice
Speaker 1 and I'll go a little slower the second time through.
Speaker 1 If you wake later in the night, often just
Speaker 1 thinking back
Speaker 1 through any part of the story that you can remember,
Speaker 1 or replaying a sweet memory, will put you right back to sleep.
Speaker 1 But if it doesn't, don't hesitate to turn an episode back on.
Speaker 1 This is a kind of brain training, and it takes some time to build up the response you want.
Speaker 1 Our story tonight is called Out of the Cold.
Speaker 1 And it's a story about a windy day
Speaker 1 and a place to warm up.
Speaker 1 It's also about pine boughs,
Speaker 1 an open wrought iron gate,
Speaker 1 smoke rising from a chimney in the distance, a black cat,
Speaker 1 cookies and tea,
Speaker 1 and the good feeling of stepping into the warmth with a friend.
Speaker 1 So, switch off your light,
Speaker 1 slip down under your blankets,
Speaker 1 and get as comfortable as you can.
Speaker 1 Take a deep breath in through your nose
Speaker 1 and sigh from your mouth.
Speaker 1 Again, breathe in
Speaker 1 and out.
Speaker 1 Good.
Speaker 1 Out of the cold.
Speaker 1 I was bundled up,
Speaker 1 but the wind was blowing this morning.
Speaker 1 I'd heard it blow all night as I was tucked into my bed,
Speaker 1 my thick old quilt pressing me down into my mattress.
Speaker 1 You know that feeling
Speaker 1 when you are
Speaker 1 very glad and grateful
Speaker 1 to be safe and warm inside your house
Speaker 1 when your bed feels like a sanctuary
Speaker 1 and you can sense sleep about to pull you down
Speaker 1 and you rub your feet together like a dog wagging his tail
Speaker 1 and the sound of the wind had only helped
Speaker 1 Each time I'd come close to waking,
Speaker 1 the whistle of it through the eaves of my old farmhouse
Speaker 1 had sent me right back down
Speaker 1 into my dreams.
Speaker 1 But today,
Speaker 1 even though I was properly bundled up against it,
Speaker 1 it was making my morning walk a bit colder than I'd expected.
Speaker 1 At least the sun was out,
Speaker 1 bright and golden,
Speaker 1 reflecting on the thick frost in the fields.
Speaker 1 I was tromping down the dirt road,
Speaker 1 breathing the cold morning air
Speaker 1 through a layer of crocheted cotton,
Speaker 1 my warmest winter scarf,
Speaker 1 and I could smell
Speaker 1 only the absence of scent,
Speaker 1 just as snow muffles sound,
Speaker 1 the cold
Speaker 1 muffles aroma.
Speaker 1 The landscape rolled out in front of me,
Speaker 1 mown down fields,
Speaker 1 dotted with barns and farmhouses.
Speaker 1 A frozen over pond where two mallards waddled on the surface.
Speaker 1 Even when it is cold,
Speaker 1 something about a morning walk
Speaker 1 always sweetens my day.
Speaker 1 It's like setting a table
Speaker 1 with your favorite dish and mug.
Speaker 1 Every bite tastes a bit better.
Speaker 1 So I kept going
Speaker 1 past the crossroads,
Speaker 1 past the shuttered farm stand, where I bought tomatoes and sunflowers in the summer.
Speaker 1 and past the giant willow,
Speaker 1 which caused the whole road to jog
Speaker 1 a bit to the right,
Speaker 1 then correct to the left.
Speaker 1 I appreciated
Speaker 1 that little divergence from the straight and narrow.
Speaker 1 Glad that rather than cutting a tree down,
Speaker 1 someone a hundred years ago
Speaker 1 had just adjusted their path.
Speaker 1 I came to a long drive
Speaker 1 at the edge of the road
Speaker 1 and noticed that the evergreen garlands were up at the entrance to the inn.
Speaker 1 The drive was framed by a tall iron gate,
Speaker 1 which always sat open
Speaker 1 and on either side were regal stone plinths topped with giant urns.
Speaker 1 In the summer, they overflowed with vines and flowers,
Speaker 1 but now were stuffed with pine boughs and holly branches and strung with lights.
Speaker 1 The innkeeper had been busy.
Speaker 1 I crossed the road,
Speaker 1 eager to see
Speaker 1 how far the decorations extended,
Speaker 1 and saw the whole drive was lined with garlands and velvety red bows.
Speaker 1 In the bright daylight,
Speaker 1 I couldn't see any lights on the inn itself.
Speaker 1 But I knew they were there
Speaker 1 and looked forward to to driving past it all season,
Speaker 1 seeing the roof line and windows framed with light.
Speaker 1 I squinted to look closer
Speaker 1 and saw a bit of smoke rising out of the chimney
Speaker 1 and decided to drop in and see how she, the innkeeper, was doing.
Speaker 1 The inn closed for the season each autumn.
Speaker 1 And though there had been a big Halloween party,
Speaker 1 it had otherwise been very quiet over here.
Speaker 1 They would open again
Speaker 1 at the end of the year for the holidays,
Speaker 1 be booked with guests over Christmas and New Year's,
Speaker 1 and then spend another couple of months empty and hushed.
Speaker 1 As a neighbor, I'd known her and her staff for years
Speaker 1 and knew that it worked well for all of them.
Speaker 1 This rhythm of on again, off again.
Speaker 1 I hoped a visit would be welcome and not an interruption of her solitude.
Speaker 1 The inn sat on a large plot of land,
Speaker 1 and the drive curved first one way
Speaker 1 and then the other,
Speaker 1 showing off the gardens
Speaker 1 and tall trees.
Speaker 1 I noticed bird feeders hung in branches
Speaker 1 and guessed this was one of the ways she kept busy over the winter.
Speaker 1 Hospitality must be built into her bones.
Speaker 1 When her guests were gone,
Speaker 1 she took care of the birds.
Speaker 1 As I got closer,
Speaker 1 I started to glimpse the lake out past the house,
Speaker 1 while the pond I'd spotted earlier was frozen over.
Speaker 1 The lake was too big for that
Speaker 1 this early in the season.
Speaker 1 There was a rim of white at its edge.
Speaker 1 But the water was still moving,
Speaker 1 whipped up a bit by the wind,
Speaker 1 and sparkling like diamonds in the sun.
Speaker 1 The row of trees along one side of the house looked strange without their hammocks.
Speaker 1 Though I'd been there myself to help her put them away in September,
Speaker 1 Chef's garden was tilled over
Speaker 1 only a few
Speaker 1 of the last hardy stems of kale and cabbage
Speaker 1 still glinting with frost
Speaker 1 I could hear music playing as I crossed the circle drive
Speaker 1 where guests unloaded their cars
Speaker 1 and stepped to the front door
Speaker 1 That usually meant she was cleaning
Speaker 1 And when I pressed the doorbell
Speaker 1 and heard the chimes ringing through the giant old place
Speaker 1 I wasn't surprised to see her poke her head out into the hall
Speaker 1 a scarf tied over her hair
Speaker 1 and a feather duster in her hand
Speaker 1 Sycamore
Speaker 1 her black cat,
Speaker 1 shot down the long hall and bounced around the foyer like a pinball.
Speaker 1 He was obviously excited to see a guest.
Speaker 1 I pulled my scarf down
Speaker 1 and waved a mittened hand, and she smiled as she recognized me
Speaker 1 and rushed forward to open the door.
Speaker 1 Come in out of the cold, she urged
Speaker 1 and ushered me through the entryway.
Speaker 1 I hope you don't mind an impromptu visit, I said,
Speaker 1 as I unwound my scarf and pulled off my hat.
Speaker 1 The inn was cozy and warm, and I could smell wood polish
Speaker 1 and breakfast tea and lemon.
Speaker 1 No, I'm so glad you stopped by.
Speaker 1 I've got the kettle on
Speaker 1 and Sy wants a break anyway, she laughed.
Speaker 1 I followed her down the hall to the library,
Speaker 1 where a fire was going in the grate,
Speaker 1 and the just-finished record was spinning on the turntable.
Speaker 1 I stepped over to the window seat as she fixed a cup of tea for me
Speaker 1 and looked out past the yard and down to the lake.
Speaker 1 Sycamore jumped up onto the seat
Speaker 1 and rubbed his head against my hand.
Speaker 1 I scratched between his ears and down his back.
Speaker 1 It would be another long, windy walk back home.
Speaker 1 But I was so glad to stop in and see these friends,
Speaker 1 to be asked in out of the cold,
Speaker 1 to sit by the fire with tea and windmill cookies
Speaker 1 and stories to catch up on
Speaker 1 out
Speaker 1 of the cold
Speaker 1 I was bundled up
Speaker 1 but the wind was blowing this morning
Speaker 1 I'd heard it blow all night
Speaker 1 as I was tucked into my bed,
Speaker 1 my thick old quilt
Speaker 1 pressing me down
Speaker 1 into my mattress.
Speaker 1 You know that feeling
Speaker 1 when you are very glad
Speaker 1 and grateful
Speaker 1 to be safe and warm inside your house
Speaker 1 when your bed feels like a sanctuary
Speaker 1 and you can sense sleep
Speaker 1 about to pull you down
Speaker 1 and you rub your feet together
Speaker 1 like a dog wagging his tail
Speaker 1 and the sound of the wind had only helped
Speaker 1 each time I'd come close to waking
Speaker 1 The whistle of it through the eaves of my old farmhouse
Speaker 1 Had sent me right back down
Speaker 1 into my dreams
Speaker 1 But today
Speaker 1 Even though I was properly bundled up against it
Speaker 1 it was making my morning walk a bit colder than I'd expected.
Speaker 1 At least the sun was out,
Speaker 1 bright
Speaker 1 and golden,
Speaker 1 reflecting on the thick frost in the fields.
Speaker 1 I was tromping down the dirt road,
Speaker 1 breathing the cold morning air
Speaker 1 through a layer of crocheted cotton,
Speaker 1 my warmest winter scarf,
Speaker 1 and I could smell
Speaker 1 only the absence of scent,
Speaker 1 just as snow muffles sound,
Speaker 1 the cold muffles aroma
Speaker 1 the landscape rolled in front of me
Speaker 1 moan down fields
Speaker 1 dotted with barns and farmhouses
Speaker 1 a frozen over pond
Speaker 1 where two mallards waddled on the surface.
Speaker 1 But even when it's cold
Speaker 1 something
Speaker 1 about a morning walk
Speaker 1 always
Speaker 1 sweetens my day.
Speaker 1 It's like setting a table with your favorite dish and mug.
Speaker 1 Every bite tastes a bit better.
Speaker 1 So
Speaker 1 I kept going
Speaker 1 past the crossroads,
Speaker 1 past the shuttered farm stand,
Speaker 1 where I bought tomatoes and sunflowers in the summer.
Speaker 1 And past the giant willow,
Speaker 1 which caused the whole road
Speaker 1 to jog
Speaker 1 a bit to the right
Speaker 1 and then correct to the left.
Speaker 1 I appreciated that little divergence from the straight and narrow.
Speaker 1 Glad that rather than cutting down a tree,
Speaker 1 someone a hundred years ago
Speaker 1 had just adjusted their path.
Speaker 1 I came to a long drive at the edge of the road
Speaker 1 and noticed that the evergreen garlands were up
Speaker 1 at the entrance to the inn.
Speaker 1 The drive was framed by a tall iron gate,
Speaker 1 which always sat open,
Speaker 1 and on either side
Speaker 1 were regal stone plinths
Speaker 1 topped with giant urns.
Speaker 1 In the summer
Speaker 1 they overflowed with vines
Speaker 1 and flowers
Speaker 1 but now
Speaker 1 were stuffed with pine boughs and holly branches
Speaker 1 and strung with lights.
Speaker 1 The innkeeper had been busy.
Speaker 1 I crossed the road,
Speaker 1 eager to see how far the decorations extended,
Speaker 1 and saw the whole drive was lined with garlands
Speaker 1 and velvety red bows.
Speaker 1 In the bright daylight, I couldn't see any lights on the inn itself.
Speaker 1 But I knew they were there,
Speaker 1 and looked forward
Speaker 1 to driving past it all season,
Speaker 1 seeing the roof line and the windows
Speaker 1 framed with light.
Speaker 1 I squinted to look closer
Speaker 1 and saw a bit of smoke rising out of the chimney
Speaker 1 and decided to drop in
Speaker 1 and see how she,
Speaker 1 the innkeeper, was doing.
Speaker 1 The inn closed for the season each autumn.
Speaker 1 And though there had been
Speaker 1 a big Halloween party,
Speaker 1 it had otherwise been very quiet over here.
Speaker 1 They would open again at the end of the year for the holidays,
Speaker 1 be booked with guests over Christmas and New Year's,
Speaker 1 and then spend another couple of months empty and hushed.
Speaker 1 As a neighbor,
Speaker 1 I'd known her and the staff for years
Speaker 1 and knew that it worked well for all of them.
Speaker 1 This rhythm of
Speaker 1 on again,
Speaker 1 off again.
Speaker 1 I hoped a visit would be welcome
Speaker 1 and not an interruption of her solitude.
Speaker 1 The inn sat
Speaker 1 on a large plot of land,
Speaker 1 and the drive curved
Speaker 1 first one way
Speaker 1 and then the other,
Speaker 1 showing off the gardens and tall trees.
Speaker 1 I noticed bird feeders hung in branches
Speaker 1 and guessed
Speaker 1 this was one of the ways she kept busy over the winter.
Speaker 1 Hospitality must be built into her bones.
Speaker 1 When her guests were gone,
Speaker 1 she took care of the birds.
Speaker 1 As I got closer,
Speaker 1 I started to glimpse the lake
Speaker 1 out past the house.
Speaker 1 While the pond I'd spotted earlier had been frozen over.
Speaker 1 The lake was too big for that
Speaker 1 this early in the season.
Speaker 1 There was a rim of white at its edge, though
Speaker 1 the water was still moving,
Speaker 1 whipped up a bit by the wind
Speaker 1 and sparkling like diamonds in the sun.
Speaker 1 The row of trees along one side of the house looked strange without their hammocks,
Speaker 1 though I'd been here myself
Speaker 1 to help her put them away in September.
Speaker 1 Chef's garden was tilled over
Speaker 1 only a few hardy stems of kale and cabbage,
Speaker 1 still glinting with frost.
Speaker 1 I could hear music playing
Speaker 1 as I crossed the circle drive
Speaker 1 where guests unloaded their cars
Speaker 1 and stepped to the front door.
Speaker 1 Music usually meant she was cleaning
Speaker 1 and when I pressed the doorbell
Speaker 1 and heard the chimes ringing through
Speaker 1 the giant old place,
Speaker 1 I wasn't surprised to see her poke her head out into the hall,
Speaker 1 a scarf over her hair,
Speaker 1 and a feather duster
Speaker 1 in her hand.
Speaker 1 Sycamore,
Speaker 1 her black cat,
Speaker 1 shot down the hall
Speaker 1 and bounced around the foyer
Speaker 1 like a pinball.
Speaker 1 He was obviously excited
Speaker 1 to see a guest.
Speaker 1 I pulled my scarf down
Speaker 1 and waved a mittened hand.
Speaker 1 And she smiled as she recognized me
Speaker 1 and rushed forward to open the door.
Speaker 1 Come in, out of the cold, she urged
Speaker 1 and ushered me through the entryway.
Speaker 1 I hope you don't mind an impromptu visit, I said
Speaker 1 as I unwound my scarf and pulled off my hat,
Speaker 1 the inn was cozy and warm,
Speaker 1 and I could smell
Speaker 1 wood polish
Speaker 1 and breakfast tea and lemon.
Speaker 1 No, I'm so glad you stopped by.
Speaker 1 I've got the kettle on,
Speaker 1 and Sy wants a break anyway.
Speaker 1 I followed her down the hall
Speaker 1 to the library
Speaker 1 where a fire was going in the grate
Speaker 1 and a just-finished record
Speaker 1 was spinning on the turntable.
Speaker 1 I stepped over to the window seat
Speaker 1 as she fixed a cup of tea for me
Speaker 1 and looked out
Speaker 1 past the yard
Speaker 1 and down toward the lake.
Speaker 1 Sycamore jumped up
Speaker 1 onto the seat
Speaker 1 and rubbed his head against my hand.
Speaker 1 I scratched between his ears and down his back.
Speaker 1 It would be
Speaker 1 another long,
Speaker 1 windy walk back home.
Speaker 1 But I was so glad
Speaker 1 to stop in and see these friends
Speaker 1 to be asked in
Speaker 1 out of the cold,
Speaker 1 to sit by the fire
Speaker 1 with tea and windmill cookies
Speaker 1 and stories to catch up on
Speaker 1 sweet dreams.