Rainy Day Rituals
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Speaker 1 Now,
Speaker 1 I have a story to tell you. And just by listening, we'll train your brain to respond more reliably,
Speaker 1 to fall asleep, and to return to sleep quickly and easily.
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Speaker 1 If you wake later in the night, don't hesitate to restart a story.
Speaker 1 Our story tonight is called Rainy Day Rituals.
Speaker 1 And it's a story about small tasks attended to as a storm blows through.
Speaker 1 It's also about a fuzzy radio playing in the background, terry cloth and tidally folded towels, thunder and lightning, flickering lights and candle flames,
Speaker 1 and allowing yourself to do less and enjoy more.
Speaker 1 So lights out,
Speaker 1 devices down.
Speaker 1 You have looked at a screen for the last time today.
Speaker 1 Relax your jaw.
Speaker 1 Soften your shoulders.
Speaker 1 And feel your whole body dropping heavy into the bed.
Speaker 1 You are safe.
Speaker 1 And I will be here,
Speaker 1 guarding you with my voice as you sleep.
Speaker 1 Draw a deep breath in through your nose
Speaker 1 and release from your mouth.
Speaker 1 Do that again. Breathe in
Speaker 1 and sigh.
Speaker 1 Good.
Speaker 1 Rainy Day Rituals
Speaker 1 It was a stormy day at the cottage,
Speaker 1 and I didn't mind it.
Speaker 1 The week had been hot and humid,
Speaker 1 and I'd been soaking up as much sun as I could,
Speaker 1 wanting to store it away in my cells to tide me over
Speaker 1 in winter.
Speaker 1 But I'd also been a little worn out by it.
Speaker 1 My eyes were tired of squinting at the sun.
Speaker 1 I was tired of sweating through my t-shirts
Speaker 1 and wanted a day to spend inside
Speaker 1 without feeling like I was missing out.
Speaker 1 Of course, we are never really missing out.
Speaker 1 Just seeing other spaces,
Speaker 1 living different moments.
Speaker 1 So even before I'd opened my eyes this morning,
Speaker 1 I'd already given myself permission
Speaker 1 to spend the whole day inside.
Speaker 1 Reading books in a room with the blinds drawn or watching movies on the sofa,
Speaker 1 even if it was sunny and hot out,
Speaker 1 when I'd heard the rumble of thunder
Speaker 1 and the drumming rain on the roof.
Speaker 1 Well,
Speaker 1 it had made the decision all the sweeter.
Speaker 1 I tuned the dial of the radio on the porch as I sipped my coffee,
Speaker 1 listening in for the forecast.
Speaker 1 Pack your umbrellas, they suggested.
Speaker 1 A perfect day if you're a duck, they quipped.
Speaker 1 I chuckled to myself
Speaker 1 as I sat wrapped in my robe,
Speaker 1 watching a stream of water pour from the gutter spout.
Speaker 1 That smell of summer rain,
Speaker 1 especially when lightning was crackling through the sky,
Speaker 1 petrichor
Speaker 1 and ozone,
Speaker 1 earthy,
Speaker 1 sweet, and slightly crisp and metallic.
Speaker 1 It was refreshing,
Speaker 1 energizing.
Speaker 1 I found that my need for a day of rest
Speaker 1 was being replaced with a yen for a day of quiet, quiet, satisfying activity.
Speaker 1 I strolled over the uneven floors of the old cottage,
Speaker 1 considering what tasks might feel rewarding,
Speaker 1 not too taxing,
Speaker 1 and those that I might especially wish I had seen to when the heat and humidity returned.
Speaker 1 There were just a few dishes in the sink,
Speaker 1 and I had them washed up and drying in the rack.
Speaker 1 The whole kitchen wiped down and returned to factory settings within a few minutes.
Speaker 1 I moved on to the bedroom, where I made the bed
Speaker 1 and changed into soft terry cloth pants and a tee.
Speaker 1 Something about terrycloth
Speaker 1 always reminds me of coming in from a day swimming when I was a kid.
Speaker 1 I must have had a few matched sets back then.
Speaker 1 I'd be tired from all my cannon balls and doggy paddling,
Speaker 1 all my sprints up and down the break wall,
Speaker 1 all the sunshine I'd drunk in,
Speaker 1 and I'd trade my damp swimsuit
Speaker 1 for fresh, clean clothes,
Speaker 1 a terrycloth set,
Speaker 1 which would feel so good against my sun-kissed skin.
Speaker 1 Then,
Speaker 1 nearly without fail,
Speaker 1 I'd fall asleep on the porch swing or sofa,
Speaker 1 and eventually be woken up when dinner was ready.
Speaker 1 Oh, to be a child,
Speaker 1 sitting down at the table, rubbing the sleep from your eyes
Speaker 1 as your plate was filled with favorite foods,
Speaker 1 and knowing you could do it all again to morrow.
Speaker 1 I smiled to myself as I hung my robe on the bathroom door,
Speaker 1 thinking that the grown-up version of that might be takeout
Speaker 1 delivered at the end of your nap.
Speaker 1 Not a bad idea for later today.
Speaker 1 I noticed a full laundry basket heaped with clean towels and washcloths beside the dryer.
Speaker 1 Remembering that I'd emptied it before bed the night before,
Speaker 1 but hadn't had the energy to fold and put the things away.
Speaker 1 That felt like the perfect kind of chore for me today.
Speaker 1 And I would take my time
Speaker 1 and fold them right,
Speaker 1 not just shaking them out
Speaker 1 as I stood in front of the shelf,
Speaker 1 trying to flip them into thirds.
Speaker 1 I carried the basket to the kitchen table,
Speaker 1 freshly wiped down from my quick reset,
Speaker 1 and laid the first one over the surface.
Speaker 1 Now I've found over the years
Speaker 1 that bath towel folding can be
Speaker 1 highly personal.
Speaker 1 Many of us tend to have very strong feelings
Speaker 1 about rolled versus flat,
Speaker 1 spa style versus retail,
Speaker 1 or even just the way my dad did it versus the way your mom did.
Speaker 1 Luckily, I was queen of my own cupboard, and shape and stacking style were all up to me.
Speaker 1 I'd tried the spa rolls before,
Speaker 1 and I have to admit, they were appealing.
Speaker 1 I loved the way they looked on the stool beside my tub when I'd stack one crossed over another.
Speaker 1 as if my bathroom were about to be photographed for a magazine.
Speaker 1 But they didn't stack well in the linen cupboard.
Speaker 1 Several times I'd reached for one.
Speaker 1 The fuzzy material caught on two others and pulled them out to land in an unrolled pile on the floor.
Speaker 1 Since then, I'd gone to the retail fold.
Speaker 1 One that stacked neatly and reminded me of the piles of new towels in a fancy shop.
Speaker 1 I folded that first towel in half widthwise,
Speaker 1 then in thirds lengthwise,
Speaker 1 and once more in half
Speaker 1 from top to bottom.
Speaker 1 It left me with a tidy rectangle,
Speaker 1 no tag hanging out, and flat and even for stacking.
Speaker 1 As I worked my way through the basket,
Speaker 1 I listened to the hum of the radio in the background,
Speaker 1 the soft hush of steady rain,
Speaker 1 and the occasional crackle of thunder.
Speaker 1 Just as I was pulling the last towel from the basket, a bright branch of lightning
Speaker 1 sliced through the sky,
Speaker 1 And a moment later,
Speaker 1 the lights went out around me.
Speaker 1 I stood still,
Speaker 1 held the towel in my hands, and waited.
Speaker 1 I've always found this moment, the moment when the power goes out,
Speaker 1 just a bit exciting.
Speaker 1 My stomach took a little flip,
Speaker 1 and I let myself imagine an afternoon without electricity.
Speaker 1 I'd light a few candles,
Speaker 1 reach for the book on the top of my to be red stack,
Speaker 1 and settle in on the porch glider,
Speaker 1 the cool stormy air blowing through the screens,
Speaker 1 and the quiet of the street
Speaker 1 like a balm on my nerves.
Speaker 1 I'd keep the fridge closed to preserve the cold inside
Speaker 1 and would have no choice but to order myself my favorite meal from the restaurant on the other side of the river,
Speaker 1 where I could see that the lights still shone.
Speaker 1 Just then,
Speaker 1 the lights flickered and came back on.
Speaker 1 The radio buzzing back to life,
Speaker 1 and the oven giving a friendly beep, as if marking itself present in class.
Speaker 1 I shook out the towel
Speaker 1 and laid it on the table, folding and stacking it on the others.
Speaker 1 Ah, well, I thought,
Speaker 1 as I carried them to the cupboard and put them away,
Speaker 1 I can just pretend.
Speaker 1 I flicked the light switches off as I walked through the house,
Speaker 1 struck a match and lit my candle,
Speaker 1 and carried my book to the porch.
Speaker 1 Rainy Day Rituals
Speaker 1 It was a stormy day
Speaker 1 at the cottage,
Speaker 1 and I didn't mind it.
Speaker 1 The week had been hot and humid,
Speaker 1 and I'd been soaking up as much sun as I could,
Speaker 1 wanting to store it away in my cells
Speaker 1 to tide me over in winter.
Speaker 1 But I'd also been
Speaker 1 a little worn out by it.
Speaker 1 My eyes were tired of squinting at the sun.
Speaker 1 I was tired of sweating through my t-shirts
Speaker 1 and wanted a day to spend inside
Speaker 1 without feeling like I was missing out.
Speaker 1 And of course, we are never really missing out,
Speaker 1 just seeing other spaces,
Speaker 1 living different moments.
Speaker 1 So even before I'd opened my eyes this morning,
Speaker 1 I'd already given myself permission to spend the whole day inside,
Speaker 1 reading books in a room with the blinds drawn
Speaker 1 or watching movies on the sofa,
Speaker 1 even
Speaker 1 if it was sunny and hot out.
Speaker 1 When I'd heard the rumble of thunder
Speaker 1 and drumming of rain on the roof.
Speaker 1 Well,
Speaker 1 it had made the decision all the sweeter.
Speaker 1 I turned the dial of the radio on the porch as I sipped my coffee,
Speaker 1 listening in for the forecast.
Speaker 1 Pack your umbrellas, they'd suggested.
Speaker 1 A perfect day if you're a duck, they'd quipped.
Speaker 1 I chuckled to myself
Speaker 1 as I sat wrapped in my robe,
Speaker 1 watching a stream of water
Speaker 1 pour from the gutter spout
Speaker 1 That smell of summer rain
Speaker 1 especially when lightning was crackling through the sky,
Speaker 1 petrichor
Speaker 1 and ozone,
Speaker 1 earthy, sweet,
Speaker 1 slightly crisp and metallic.
Speaker 1 It was refreshing,
Speaker 1 energizing.
Speaker 1 And I found that my need for a day of rest
Speaker 1 was being replaced
Speaker 1 with a yen for a day of quiet, satisfying activity.
Speaker 1 I strolled over the uneven floors
Speaker 1 of the old cottage,
Speaker 1 considering what tasks
Speaker 1 might feel rewarding,
Speaker 1 not too taxing,
Speaker 1 and those that
Speaker 1 I might especially wish I had seen to
Speaker 1 when the heat and humidity returned.
Speaker 1 There were just a few dishes in the sink,
Speaker 1 and I had them washed up and drying in the rack,
Speaker 1 the whole kitchen wiped down
Speaker 1 and returned to factory settings
Speaker 1 within a few minutes.
Speaker 1 I moved on to the bedroom,
Speaker 1 where I made the bed
Speaker 1 and changed into soft terry cloth pants and a tee.
Speaker 1 Something about terry cloth
Speaker 1 always reminds me
Speaker 1 of coming in from a day of swimming when I was a kid.
Speaker 1 I must have had a few matched sets back then.
Speaker 1 I'd be very tired
Speaker 1 from all my cannonballs
Speaker 1 and doggy paddling,
Speaker 1 all my sprints up and down the break wall,
Speaker 1 all the sunshine I'd drunk in
Speaker 1 And I'd trade my damp swimsuit
Speaker 1 for fresh, clean clothes,
Speaker 1 a terrycloth set,
Speaker 1 which would feel
Speaker 1 so good against my sun-kissed skin.
Speaker 1 Men,
Speaker 1 nearly without fail,
Speaker 1 I'd fall asleep on the porch swing or sofa
Speaker 1 and eventually be be woken up
Speaker 1 when dinner was ready.
Speaker 1 Oh, to be a child,
Speaker 1 sitting down at the table,
Speaker 1 rubbing the sleep from your eyes
Speaker 1 as your plate was filled with favorite foods,
Speaker 1 and knowing
Speaker 1 you could do it all
Speaker 1 to morrow.
Speaker 1 I smiled to myself
Speaker 1 as I hung my robe on the bathroom door,
Speaker 1 thinking that
Speaker 1 the grown-up version of that
Speaker 1 might be
Speaker 1 takeout
Speaker 1 delivered
Speaker 1 at the end of your nap.
Speaker 1 Not a bad idea
Speaker 1 for later today.
Speaker 1 I noticed a full laundry basket heaped with clean towels and washcloths beside the dryer.
Speaker 1 Remembering that I'd emptied it before bed
Speaker 1 the night before,
Speaker 1 but hadn't had the energy
Speaker 1 to fold and put the things away.
Speaker 1 And that felt like the perfect kind of chore for me to day.
Speaker 1 And I would take my time
Speaker 1 and fold them right,
Speaker 1 not just shaking them out as I stood in front of the shelf,
Speaker 1 trying to flip them into thirds.
Speaker 1 I carried the basket
Speaker 1 to the kitchen table,
Speaker 1 freshly wiped down
Speaker 1 from my quick reset
Speaker 1 and laid the first one over the surface.
Speaker 1 Now, I've found over the years
Speaker 1 that bath towel folding
Speaker 1 can be
Speaker 1 highly personal.
Speaker 1 Many of us
Speaker 1 tend to have very strong feelings
Speaker 1 about
Speaker 1 rolled
Speaker 1 versus flat
Speaker 1 spa style
Speaker 1 versus retail,
Speaker 1 or even just
Speaker 1 the way my dad did it
Speaker 1 versus the way your mom did.
Speaker 1 Luckily,
Speaker 1 I was queen of my own cupboard,
Speaker 1 and shape and stacking style
Speaker 1 were all up to me
Speaker 1 i'd tried the spa rolls before
Speaker 1 and i have to admit they are appealing
Speaker 1 i loved the way they looked on the stool beside my tub
Speaker 1 when i'd stack one crossed over another
Speaker 1 as if my bathroom
Speaker 1 were about to be photographed
Speaker 1 for a magazine,
Speaker 1 but
Speaker 1 they didn't stack well in the linen cupboard.
Speaker 1 Several times
Speaker 1 I'd reached for one,
Speaker 1 and the fuzzy material
Speaker 1 caught on two others
Speaker 1 and pulled them out to land
Speaker 1 in an unrolled pile
Speaker 1 on the floor.
Speaker 1 Since then
Speaker 1 I'd gone to the retail fold,
Speaker 1 one that stacked neatly
Speaker 1 and reminded me of the piles of new towels
Speaker 1 in a fancy shop.
Speaker 1 I folded that first towel
Speaker 1 in half widthwise,
Speaker 1 then in thirds lengthwise,
Speaker 1 and once more in half from top to bottom.
Speaker 1 It left me with a tidy rectangle,
Speaker 1 no tag hanging out,
Speaker 1 and flat,
Speaker 1 uneven for stacking.
Speaker 1 As I worked my way through the basket,
Speaker 1 I listened to the hum of the radio in the background,
Speaker 1 the soft hush of steady rain,
Speaker 1 and the occasional crackle of thunder.
Speaker 1 Just as I was pulling the last towel from the basket,
Speaker 1 a bright branch of lightning sliced through the sky.
Speaker 1 And a moment later, the lights went out around me.
Speaker 1 I stood still,
Speaker 1 held the towel in my hands,
Speaker 1 and waited.
Speaker 1 I've always found
Speaker 1 this moment,
Speaker 1 the moment when the power goes out,
Speaker 1 just a bit exciting.
Speaker 1 My stomach took a little flip
Speaker 1 and I let myself imagine
Speaker 1 an afternoon
Speaker 1 without electricity.
Speaker 1 I'd light a few candles,
Speaker 1 reach for the book on the top of my to be red stack,
Speaker 1 and settle on the porch glider,
Speaker 1 the cool stormy air blowing through the screens,
Speaker 1 and the quiet of the street,
Speaker 1 like a balm on my nerves.
Speaker 1 I'd keep the fridge closed
Speaker 1 to preserve the cold inside,
Speaker 1 and would have no choice
Speaker 1 but to order myself my favorite meal
Speaker 1 from the restaurant on the other side of the river
Speaker 1 Where I could see that lights still shone
Speaker 1 Just then
Speaker 1 the lights flickered
Speaker 1 and came back on
Speaker 1 the radio buzzing to life,
Speaker 1 and the oven giving a friendly beep,
Speaker 1 as if marking itself present in class.
Speaker 1 I shook out the towel
Speaker 1 and laid it on the table,
Speaker 1 folding
Speaker 1 and stacking it on the others.
Speaker 1 Ah, well,
Speaker 1 I thought
Speaker 1 as I carried them to the cupboard
Speaker 1 and put them away.
Speaker 1 I can just pretend.
Speaker 1 I flicked the light switches off as I walked through the house,
Speaker 1 struck a match,
Speaker 1 and lit my candle,
Speaker 1 and carried my book
Speaker 1 to the porch.
Speaker 1 Sweet dreams.