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I'm PJ Vote.
Welcome to Search Engine.
Each week, we try to answer a question we have about the world.
No question too big, no question too small.
This week, how do you survive fame?
We ask a person who was the most famous teenager in America, Molly Ringwald, after some ads.
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Um, can I, um, can I turn up the volume on mine?
Yeah.
Because I don't really hear myself.
Let me see which one you are.
I think you're this.
Say something?
Yeah, I think that's better.
Yeah.
No, that's good.
That's good right there.
Okay.
Cool.
Okay.
I'm going to read you an introduction.
Okay, wait.
Can you turn it down a little bit?
For breakfast, I had...
I went to Whole Foods and I got a whole box of cheese sticks.
Oh.
The like crackery ones?
I love those.
I love that.
I really love those.
The ones that are like kind of twisted.
Yes.
Yeah.
Those are so good.
I ate an entire box.
Okay.
Does that sound okay?
Yeah.
Okay.
This is my least favorite part.
It's just weird to like talk about someone while they're in a room, but that's okay.
Molly Ringwald is an American actor, a writer as well.
But she rose to fame in the 1980s playing a teenager in a series of very popular movies, 16 Candles, Breakfast Club, Pretty in Pink.
She's a grown-up now and still a beloved actor.
She was in the Big Dahmer series on Netflix last year, which gave me nightmares.
One feature of fame is that it turns real living human beings into metaphors for something else in everyone's imagination.
Maybe in real life, you really are that thing.
Maybe you're not, but you become, for strangers who haven't met you, a kind of living metaphor.
Molly Ringwald in the 1980s was maybe a metaphor for the American teenager, like the person that a lot of people pictured when they thought about what a teenager was in the 1980s, or a teenage crush.
What would that do to a person?
We've been friends for a long time.
We've never talked about this.
I have always been in awe of just how well-adjusted Molly is.
Not well adjusted for a famous person, well-adjusted for a human being.
I've had friends who have had varying degrees of success on the internet, which has meant that I've watched people lose themselves to even just micro amounts of fame.
I've watched people's egos expand and collapse over doses of fame much less strong than what was being manufactured in Hollywood in the 1980s.
And the more I've seen this, the more I've wondered about Molly, who remains a paragon of normalness.
So much so that I feel a little bit weird talking to my friend about her other life, about being famous.
But I've been thinking about this stuff lately, and I wanted to know how she got to a place where her brain seems to work very well.
That's my introduction.
That's a good introduction.
I'm curious, like,
how would you introduce yourself?
Hi, PJ.
Hi.
How would I introduce myself?
I think it depends on who I'm talking to.
I usually just say I'm Molly, or I'll say I'm Matilda's mom, or Adele and Roman's mom.
Usually I'm just Molly or I'll say I'm Molly Ringwald.
I'll use my whole name and then people will be like, yeah, I know.
I know who you are.
Yeah.
Or they don't because not everyone knows who I am.
And before I even like start to ask you questions, just to check my premise,
the question I want to ask you by the end of this interview is, how do you survive fame?
Do you feel like you have survived fame?
Yeah, I think I'm out of the woods now.
I mean, now I've been famous much longer than I haven't been famous.
So I don't really even remember a time when I wasn't in the public eye.
What was your first entry point into even like acting?
Like what was the first time in your life you were in front of a camera?
The first time I was in front of a camera, I mean, I think I was like in front of a camera doing a commercial when I was little, but I started out doing theater.
So I was on the stage first.
Even my first professional job was a long musical.
I did the first West Coast production of Annie for 15 months.
She's famous.
Wish I was on the radio.
Me, too.
Nani, who wants to be on a double radio?
I do.
So, for all of the Hour of Smiles family, family, this is Berkeley Sang!
Hey, Hobbleman, hey, Dapper Dan!
You both had your style, but brother, you're never fully dressed without a smile.
How old were you?
Just aged myself there.
I was 10.
And do you remember what it felt like?
I loved it.
I mean, I really felt like I was kind of born to perform and born to entertain people.
I mean, that's what I said I wanted to do when I was little.
That's what I told everyone, that I was going to be a famous entertainer.
From when you were 10?
Oh, from like way before that.
I was on stage with my dad when I was three and a half.
Like, that's when I started.
Your dad wasn't an actor, was he?
No, he was a jazz musician.
So the world's youngest jazz singer is how I was touted.
So you were three and a half years old singing like jazz standards?
Yeah.
Yeah.
So did you never have an awareness of stage fright?
Evidently not.
That's so crazy.
No, but you know, I was always kind of a shy kid, considered myself an introvert.
Yeah.
The only time I didn't feel shy was when I was performing.
Why?
I don't know exactly, but it had to be like a lot of people.
It had to.
The only way I didn't feel shy is if I was performing and like you couldn't really see the people, it was like there was a light on you and like you knew the people were there, but it was like that, that to me is different.
Like if I was asked to sing for a couple people in the living room, that felt really hard to me.
So like wedding toast difficult.
Exactly.
Enormous theater, not difficult.
Exactly.
Yeah, because it's almost like you're alone, but you're not alone when there's just like a light on you.
It's just like a weird thing, but a wedding toast would keep me up at night trying to prepare for that.
Or speeches.
If I have speeches that I have to do, like by myself, that gives me anxiety.
I relate to that.
I like two of my sisters have gotten married and both times they asked me to give a speech and it was like I crammed for it.
Like it was like I was talking in front of the present.
Like it really, really stressed me.
And like also just wanting to get it right, but also talking in front of faces you can see is a very scary feeling.
Yeah.
Yeah.
It always that that's scary for me.
But performing is not, singing a song that somebody else wrote is not, or performing as a character.
And I don't think this is unique to me.
I think this is something that actors experience.
I think there's a lot of shy actors out there that don't feel shy.
And they're able to express something that they can't.
feel like they can express in their ordinary life.
And that's kind of part of the appeal.
And so when you were a kid acting, can you just paint me a picture of what that was like?
Like you're
10 and a production of Annie on the West Coast.
How did that fit into the rest of your life?
Well, that became my life
for 15 months.
And when you're 10 years old, 15 months is a really long time.
So that was just like, that's what you did.
I didn't go to regular school.
I went to school with all of the annie orphans during the day with a really nice teacher named Miriam who wore bell bottoms.
And then at night, I performed.
I was friends with all the girls and that was just kind of like everything.
It was my social life.
It was my school.
It was, it was, it was a job because I was paid for it.
And then I slept late, unlike other kids.
I didn't go to school until later because I had to perform late.
It was fun.
It was something that I really wanted to do.
You get to express big emotions that like everyone is telling you as a kid, like behave yourself.
don't yell don't scream settle down don't behave like that you're just told all of this stuff but when you're on stage acting you just get to like express all of the stuff that's in there in a in a really I guess pretty healthy way yeah and were you like you were describing how for you at that point school was like you're being educated with like the other orphans from Annie Were you like immediately kind of just removed from normal school life, like from like normal school kids, basically?
Yeah.
For the 15 months that I did that show, I was only going to school in the Annie schoolroom, which was in the theater.
Totally strange, but it felt completely normal because you just, you adapt when you're a kid.
Kids adapt to just about anything, whether it's good or bad.
It just was.
That's, that's what life was.
But it was really, really hard when it ended.
Basically, you aged out of Annie.
You aged out of the play.
You got to be a certain height, you know, and they measured you.
And like, you, you could only get your wardrobe like refitted so many times until you were just too tall.
You could literally like physically feel yourself growing out of the thing you wanted.
Yes.
That's so bizarre.
Yes.
But by that point, I think I'd gotten an agent and was like auditioning for things.
And fortunately for me, I left Annie and like a week later was in my first television series.
It was Different Strokes, which was a Norman Lear series in the 80s.
And then that became Facts of Life.
You in your books are what you there about what looks and what you care about.
The time is right to learn the facts of life.
That was really, really lucky.
And what your family, were they like, how invested was your family in you doing this?
Like was their feeling?
I mean, they must have been pretty invested because I wouldn't have been able to do it otherwise.
My mom was a stay-at-home mom
when we were growing up, me and my brother and my sister.
I was the last.
So then after that, she went to chef's training and got a job.
But like while I was growing up, Somebody needs to take you to auditions and take you to classes and do all that.
It's kind of like a full-time job.
Yeah.
I mean, mothering is a full-time job anyway, but she mothered.
She took care of my dad, who was blind, and then also like took me to auditions.
Morning, girls.
Here I am, the only headmaster that makes house calls.
How are you, girls?
We're women, okay, Mr.
Badley.
Sorry, Molly.
I keep forgetting.
You're a woman.
And then not too long after that, I got my first movie.
And what was that?
It was called Tempest.
And what was Tempest?
By Shakespeare?
It was a modern adaptation.
It was directed by Paul Mazurski, and it was with John Cassavetes and Jenna Rollins.
Oh, wow.
And Susan Sarandon and Raul Julia.
And yeah, it was a really big,
important movie with a lot of like really big, important actors.
How old were you?
13.
What did that feel like?
It felt amazing.
I was really excited.
I mean, I didn't know who John Cassavetes was because I was 13 years old.
So I wasn't necessarily excited about that per se, but I was really excited.
I just got along with the director really well.
He was a really great director, and he really got me.
And it was smart and it was interesting.
And then I got along so well with John Casavetes and Susan Sarandon.
All of them.
I mean, the whole experience was incredible.
And that's when I decided that I really wanted to focus on film.
Does it feel strange looking back at how comfortable you were?
I don't think I necessarily would have been that comfortable except for
the fact that Paul Mazurski was such a great director and was such a strong actor's director.
He was also an actor before and
like really just wanted the best out of me and like knew how to tap in to that.
And I was basically playing his daughter, who was kind of a little bit of a wise ass.
And so he wanted to make sure that I could bring it.
And so during the audition process, he said, tell me your life story and I'm going to like throw you a penny every time you say something dumb.
Okay.
And so I was like, okay, I'm Molly Ringwald.
I was born in Roseville, California.
And he would just like fling a coin at me.
Why is that dumb?
Because it's just like a straight fact.
No, it's not.
He was just fucking with me.
Like he was just,
he wanted to see how I would respond, But I knew that he was fucking with me.
Like it felt like a game.
It didn't feel like a test.
It felt like a game.
And so he just, like, and then he ran out of pennies and then he started to throw quarters.
And then I, and then I gathered them.
I just kept like gathering them up.
And he was like, okay, give me back my money.
And I was like, no, I'm going to, I'm going to keep it.
And it was just, he was just smart.
He was just a good director.
Yeah.
And he got me.
And other directors that I've worked with haven't.
Frozen daikiris are too sweet and they make you dizzy.
It's a principle of the thing.
I don't really want a frozen daiquiri.
I tasted one once in Emma's bars, but I'm not free to do what I want.
Mom is, you are, my mom.
We're not free.
We're just older.
You can do what you want.
I dream what I don't do.
Like what, besides quitting your job?
But my job is part of what I am.
It's not that simple, Dodo.
School sucks, but I can't quit.
It's not that simple for me either.
But this was your first experience of working on a film, and it felt like home and it felt fun and it felt like the right type of challenge.
And that was the director.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And it was the actors.
I mean, it was Cassavetti's, it was Jenna Rowlands.
I was working all of a sudden in this whole other caliber of quality.
I mean, to go from like a sitcom, which was just like set up, set up, joke, set up, set up, joke, set up, set up, joke.
And then suddenly I was doing this movie that had three weeks rehearsal ahead of times, which you don't even get now on practically anything.
It was really like another time of movie making where everybody was just, you know, rehearsing and then improvising and then talking about the characters.
It was just a whole other thing.
And it was so fascinating to me.
So it's like you're both doing it and you're getting an education.
Exactly.
So then what happens?
So then that movie came out and didn't really, for the budget, it wasn't really considered a success, even though it's still one of my favorite movies that I've ever done.
But then I kind of like got put on lists, like the casting director lists, this is somebody, this is a new up-and-coming person.
And is that like a formal thing or like a metaphorical thing?
I don't think it's a formal thing.
It's just kind of like, they're always like hunting for fresh blood.
So I was fresh blood.
I was 13 years old.
And at that point, I was still going to like regular school.
What was it like at regular school?
Well, it depended on the year.
Seventh grade was
great.
It was fine.
I had a group of friends.
And
then
the summer between seventh and eighth grade is when I did my first movie.
And then I came back like a month late to start school.
It was enough time for all of the clicks to have formed while I was away.
And I lost my entire friend group.
And I did have a bully.
And she, she just hated me.
She was big.
She had a Page Boy haircut, big eyes.
Name was Laverne.
I don't remember exactly what she said, except for like that she was going to like kick my ass after school.
Classic bully.
She just like would just like make fun of me and like just kind of, it seemed like I was always afraid of like turning a corner that I was going to like run into her.
Anyway, so I did my movie over the summer.
I did Tempest and then I came back and all of my friends were gone.
And then my bully befriended my best friend.
And that was just basically hell.
And that it all felt very connected to what I did, the professional thing that I was, that I had done a movie over the summer.
It was just like
the jealousy.
I mean,
middle school is hell for everyone.
Yeah.
Anything that you do that's
at all different, I think is really not looked upon kindly.
No, it's just funny because it's like, it sounds like this is your first moment of actually having to survive fame.
Like this is your first moment where this thing you like to do was causing unforeseen problems that were particularly yours and particularly difficult to know how to navigate.
Yes, absolutely.
I felt like I wanted to be a normal kid in certain ways, but I wanted to be able to do this other thing and still be a normal kid.
But then I realized that I couldn't.
Were you surprised that people were jealous of you?
Had people been jealous of you in your life before?
I mean, I had definitely gotten bullied before for something that I did.
Like, I made a record when I was six years old with my dad.
What was the record?
It was a jazz record.
It was a jazz record.
It was called I Want to Be Loved by You, Molly Sings.
And the album had like a red album cover, and there was a heart, and there was like me in the heart wearing like a little gingham dress.
I wanna be loved by you, just you, and nobody else but you.
I wanna be loved by you
along.
Boop, boop, boom.
It was very, um, you know, I'm really glad that I did it now.
But when I was six or seven years old, I remember going to school.
Actually, a girl that I became really good friends with brought the album to school because she had it and wanted me to sign it for her, which I did.
But then her older brother made fun of me.
Right.
But in like a really kind of like mean way.
It's like the rules of surviving grade school are don't be different, don't be special, don't be vulnerable.
And so
recording music is different and maybe special.
And then you're doing it with your father, which is vulnerable.
And so that moment of like a kid signing the album, it's very like
risky yeah I guess the other thing I'm curious about is
when people were reacting badly to you in school
did your brain complete it do you remember as they're jealous or is that like the perspective you have as an adult
I think that's that's a perspective that I have as an adult I mean I'm sure it's something that my mom might have said to me.
And it's something that, of course, I say to my kids too.
But yeah, when you're young, it's like you don't think people are going to be jealous of you.
Like, I didn't think that I was like pretty or I didn't really think that there would be any reason for anyone to be jealous of me.
Yeah.
Of course, I look back on it now and I'm like, I was really cute.
I was adorable.
So at some point, did you have to stop being a middle schooler?
at the same time as being an actor or did you keep toggling between the things?
I left that school where I lost my whole friend group.
And if I stuck it out, it probably would have gotten better because, you know, that stuff usually, I think, calms down.
But it had already been difficult with going away and getting my homework.
Like the teachers were not very amenable.
So for a year, I went to professional children's school.
It was professional children's school.
Exactly what it sounds like.
It's for children who are professionals.
Because in my head, I was like, is it for people who are professionals at being children?
Like, that doesn't.
Oh, it's for the time you were doing.
Yeah.
who else is at professional children's school?
Jason Bateman was.
Oh, wow.
Yeah, professional child.
Yeah.
Now, professional adults.
Yeah.
We went to school together in eighth grade.
Although we never talked, I kind of would sort of sneak glances at him.
He was very cute.
Yeah, I did that for a year, but you only had to go for three hours a day.
To professional children's school.
Yeah.
I mean, it was so like not going to school.
I couldn't even handle it.
I just said, like, I feel like I'm not learning anything.
And then I went to a good school the next year, but I really
no longer had much of a social life.
I got very wary of other girls.
So there was a while that I just didn't really have many friends because I became really sort of fearful about interacting with other girls that were my age.
And did you understand that like at the time where you just like girls are scary basically or people are scary or
like did you understand that as related to what you were doing or not related?
I knew that it was related to what I was doing.
Yeah.
Yeah.
But that didn't mean that I wanted to stop doing what I was doing.
Yeah.
It just meant that I kind of protected myself for about a year.
I kind of like opted out of female friendships
for a good year, year and a half.
Yeah.
And then the summer after ninth grade is when I did 16 Candles.
After the break, Molly experiences an unfathomably large wave of attention and learns how to survive it.
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16 Candles was released in 1984.
The first of three movies from director John Hughes in which Molly starred.
Movies about high school kids having crushes and fighting with their parents.
Movies that at the time were revolutionary in part just for what they were willing to treat as important, the lives of regular American teenagers.
The Breakfast Club was the breakout hit, a movie filmed for a million dollars that would make over 50.
The movie's about a group of outcast kids who spend a day in Saturday detention together.
Molly plays Claire Standish, the popular girl who gets made fun of by the other troublemakers because she's the popular one.
Well, well,
here we are.
I want to congratulate you for being on time.
Excuse me, sir.
I think there's been a mistake.
I know it's detention, but um,
I don't think I belong in here.
It is now 7.06.
You have exactly eight hours and 54 minutes to think about why you're here.
Molly's written about these movies in an essay for The New Yorker.
She describes their enduring power and remarks on the ways that they don't entirely hold up.
You should read the article, It's Smarter Than Anything I'd Say Here.
But for our purposes today, all that matters is that these three movies made Molly into a teen idol, launched her into a kind of fame that was, is, pretty rare and confusing.
This is a scene from 16 Candles, a teen comedy about a girl named Sam whose family forgets her birthday.
Molly plays Sam.
The movie opens with her character looking at herself in the mirror, hoping that she's aged.
I decided that turning 16 would be so major that I'd wake up with an improved mental state that would show on my face.
All it shows, they don't have any sort of a tan left.
I better get downstairs.
My family's probably pissed off.
I haven't let them wish me happy birthday yet.
Did you understand that 16 Candles was going to be
a big deal?
No.
No.
No, I did not.
I mean, I thought that it was going to be fun,
which it was.
It was really fun to do.
Why was that fun?
It was over the summer.
It was my first movie with John Hughes, and we had like hit it off.
And he was somebody who I felt like really saw something in me.
And we had a connection.
And I knew that it was just going to be a fun movie.
I didn't expect for it to necessarily be a hit or anything.
How old were you when you were shooting it?
I was 15.
And when did you understand that it was a hit?
Like, what was the moment where you understood that either it was different or your life might be different?
Well, actually 16 Candles was not, it wasn't really a big hit when it came out.
I didn't know that.
It was actually like a little bit disappointing at the box office.
But
I had done 16 Candles and then I did Breakfast Club.
John Hughes, he asked me and Anthony Michael Hall just at the end of 16 Candles to do Breakfast Club, which was funny because he was originally going to do the Breakfast Club and then he wrote um 16 candles over a weekend with my picture over his computer or his typewriter or whatever his workstation and then he sent that to the studio and they said oh we we like that one better we want to do that one first and so he said oh i want to meet the girl that's in this picture how did he have your because you were on these lists like how did he have your yeah well he he had left one agency and went to another i think he went from caa to icm or something which is where i was at the time and they gave him a bunch of pictures of their clients and I was one of them.
It's such a strange way, or maybe it's not.
I don't know how anyone normally writes a movie, but it's such a strange feeling to be like, this adult person has kind of had a dream inspired by you and now you're going to walk into that dream.
Yeah, it is.
It is.
But I was so young and didn't really have all of that much experience.
Although I did have more experience than John Hughes had at that point.
I mean, he had an advertising background.
And And then when he wrote like a lot of comedy stuff and wrote for like the National Lampoon and all of that, but like 16 Candles was his first experience as a director.
And I think the Breakfast Club was his second.
So I had done more movies than he had in that point in time.
But, you know, I was still whatever, 15 years old.
I didn't have that much experience.
So yeah, it is extraordinary.
So then
16 Candles comes out.
It's not earth-shattering.
Breakfast Club is the thing that is.
Yes.
Yeah.
Breakfast Club was a huge hit, like really big.
Which is also just funny because it's like the thing that had taken you off the path of the life of a normal American teenager was largely being filmed acting as a normal American teenager.
Yeah.
It's really funny because Hollywood really loves to put people in boxes where they think, okay, that's all you can do.
Like if you do something well
and you succeed at that thing, then that's all you can do.
And I succeeded very well at projecting this, what Pauline Kahl, a famous film critic, called charismatic normality.
What did you make of that?
Well, I didn't like it at the time because I was like, I don't want to be normal.
That sounds boring.
But charismatic is also.
Yeah, but charismatic is good.
So it's kind of seemed a little bit like a backhanded compliment, but I get what she was saying now.
And I was like, I projected this very like normal teenager, but I was so not normal as a teenager.
And my experience had never been like a normal teenager.
So I was acting in this thing that was actually kind of like foreign to me.
And then suddenly I went from
being sort of known as the shy girl who acted at school to being like the most famous teenager in America.
Do you remember when it became clear to you that that was the case?
I remember like certain things
like when all of the girls who had kind of like dumped me at school wanted to get together and go out and like
talk about what
it was like making these movies and the people that I acted with.
And it's just like this feeling that you get.
Obviously, I'm like recognized a lot more.
What did the feeling feel like?
It felt a little bit overwhelming and sometimes really embarrassing.
It's like being taken by a wave that's just like, okay,
I know how to swim, but I can't swim in this like tidal wave that's taking me away.
I don't know how to navigate that.
So I'm just going to like try to get a gulp of air when I can and just sort of like let this wave carry me where it's going to take me.
When you were talking earlier about how
it feels good to be on stage when you can't see the crowd, but you can also be a person who's shy when you can see a bunch of faces.
You're talking about,
I think, wanting to be open in places where you feel safe being open.
And I would imagine the experience of like being that young and suddenly being that famous, it means
you're always going to be on stage in a way.
Yeah.
And you're not going to have control over it.
And you're never going to feel,
I don't know, like the comfort that comes with knowing that your life has a backstage to it.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I was always really jealous of people that had stage names like Bono or Sting or like people that had changed their names because I felt like that way it would be really clear.
Like when I'm Bono, I'm doing that.
There would always be people that would know.
the real me and then know this other version of me, but but Molly Ringwald is my name and that's it.
And I'm always that person, but there's obviously like a Molly who's a performer and Molly who is
performing as Molly too.
Like when I'm doing interviews, now it's a little different because I know you.
But, you know, when I'm doing interviews, not to say that I'm lying, but I'm obviously like, I am a version of myself
that
I put out there.
And I don't talk about the most private.
parts of myself unless I decide that I want to for whatever reason.
I feel feel like there has to be a part of me that's just for me.
Right.
And you don't really get to do that when you have fame that's like at a certain level that's burning that bright.
It's like everybody wants everything of you all the time.
And every interaction that you have with somebody, whether it's a good day or a bad day, you have to be on all the time.
But I don't know anybody that can be on all the time.
I certainly couldn't.
And I felt like it was really
hard because anytime you like make a mistake or if you are just having like a bad day, it suddenly shapes this narrative about you.
Was that happening like where you would say the wrong thing to the wrong person in the wrong way or whatever, and all of a sudden it's a story?
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
Definitely.
And I could feel it sort of happening.
Like I was also really worried about it too.
I was like, there's no way that this can stay at this level.
There has to be a backlash.
You knew that?
Oh, yeah.
Why did you know that?
I don't know.
I just instinctively knew.
I just knew.
I mean, you also like see it too.
You see people who are built up and then torn down.
Yeah.
Like, I was smart enough to know that everything is cyclical and that there is no way that I could stay at that level.
I don't even think that I really wanted to.
So there might have been a little bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy there as well.
But I remember exactly like when my backlash started, People Magazine had organized for me to do this story with Lillian Gish.
She was a really famous like 20s film star.
Okay.
I guess they were saying I was like the Lillian Gish of my time.
I see.
So they wanted to do this like old Hollywood, young Hollywood.
And I was really excited about it.
Like I know who she was.
I had watched silent movies, but I was in New York and I didn't have a very good sense of direction and I got lost and I couldn't find a taxi and it was in winter and I didn't have a cell phone like tried to call and then finally my publicist said it's too late just forget it just like go home and send her flowers which I did and I felt terrible about it and while this was happening I thought oh my god here is the beginning of my backlash really yeah And it was.
I mean, it was a better story for them because it was like, oh, oh, young Hollywood is so awful and doesn't care.
They're brats to the brat pack.
It was like poor Lillian Gish was there and she had baked me cookies and she was this old woman that was there feeling so sad and rejected by this brat.
It was just like, I could have written the story myself.
And that kind of like started this whole thing.
And then you get branded for like being difficult.
You know,
you're still famous.
It's just that instead of getting this warm embrace from everyone, people like start thinking that you're a brat and you're not a nice person.
It's just so funny.
I mean, it's not funny.
And I know that the experience of it wasn't funny, but as a scandal, it's so
tame.
Yes.
It's very tame.
It's like this person wasn't punctual.
This person disrespected their elders.
It feels like it's from like another different older culture.
It feels like a scandal from the 50s or something.
I know, I know.
It's so ridiculous.
But then that's like enough because it's just perception.
And by the way, can I just also
say like, oh, boohoo, poor me.
I mean, I think in terms of like problems that you could have in the world, I've led a very privileged life.
I have to acknowledge that.
I don't hear a person asking for sympathy.
I mean, at least the question I'm trying to ask you, and I think the question you're answering, it's not how hard is it to be you?
It's just like,
how did you learn to navigate a life that
the one person who they could put you in touch with who had a similar life, you were late for cookies and full of your spot in People Magazine.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
It's like everyone's going to have an opinion about you.
If everyone has an opinion about you, you can't control it.
But you have to kind of learn that.
And you were somebody who was trying to behave in like a hyper-conscientious way.
so you wouldn't fumble something and then you get lost in new york City one day,
and the world decides you're a terrible person.
If being careful hadn't made you safe,
what was the lesson you took?
Like, what did you learn from that?
What did you adjust?
Um,
I don't know.
I feel like I just kind of kept like trucking along and like doing my best.
And I felt very hyper-vigilant, yeah, um, very careful, but like to a point of where
it was just exhausting.
Like I felt exhausted, felt tired all the time because to be that vigilant when you're supposed to be like a young person just kind of like fucking up and making mistakes.
Yeah.
I didn't really have the chance to do that because I was expected to be a role model because I was like the perfect teenager.
I was like a good girl.
It was just this image that I had that, you know, I mean, aside from standing up Lillian Gish and not eating Lillian Gish's cookies that she baked for me, I felt like there were like a lot of expectations for me to like be a certain way.
Where would you, like when you were like
15, 16, 17, when you weren't getting in trouble with People Magazine, where was the place you could go where you felt like you could be like a person?
Like in the privacy of my own home.
That was the only place I think that I felt safe anywhere else.
Like if I was out somewhere, somebody could take a picture or like overhear a conversation.
I was followed in my car a couple times.
By just strangers?
Yeah.
Strangers or people like wanting pictures or photographs.
Yeah, it was kind of scary.
You were living in New York at this time.
Well, I was going back and forth between New York and L.A.
And what would it look like to just like try to have a life?
Like camera phones don't exist, but paparazzi does.
Like, did you pick your nose?
I feel like I really
was not able to have any kind of like a normal life in Los Angeles or in America at that point.
I couldn't do it, which is, I think, why I ended up moving to France.
As a way to get away from it?
Yeah.
I didn't realize it at the time, but I think that that choice to move away had a lot to do with fame.
That's That's crazy, though.
I mean, it's crazy to be, to correctly look at your life.
Most of the people who have to leave a country as big as America have done something really terrible.
You know what I mean?
Yeah.
Well, I didn't realize it at the time.
I just fell in love with France and fell in love with that feeling that I had there.
And what was the feeling?
That I could breathe.
Right.
Everything felt new and it felt very colorful.
I mean, it was colorful.
It was summer in France.
There was like flower stalls everywhere and the sky was like impossibly blue.
And I felt better than I had felt in a really long time.
And did you understand how much of that was being able to like still be like yourself, but not Molly Ringwald all the time?
I think it was pretty clear to me that it had a lot to do with feeling free.
I was a free woman in Paris.
I felt unfettered and alive.
And I mean, French people have access to films.
Why can you turn American fame off in France?
Well, you can't now, but at the time, the movies that I had done, they weren't huge hits there.
Now they're known because they've, of course, played on television.
They're sort of like considered cult movies now, like iconic films, which is always kind of like surprising now when I'm in France and I'm recognized.
Because it's the place where you're used to having fame camouflage.
Exactly.
Exactly.
But when I moved to France, like there are whole bits of the 90s that I feel like I kind of missed because I was living in a country where everything was not available.
Like where you didn't have like every single television channel that exists.
Were they like not watching Seinfeld?
No.
Something French instead?
Yeah.
Interesting.
Something French.
But yeah, the movies that I did weren't that well known.
And then I also dyed my hair like dark brown
to kind of like blend in because the red does kind of set you apart a little.
So what was it like to be able to take off like the robe of fame?
Did you miss it at all?
No.
Not at all.
I didn't.
I mean, I will say like the only
thing that I think I missed
would be automatically being able to get a good table in a a restaurant.
I knew that's what you were going to say.
I absolutely knew that's what you were going to say.
Restaurants.
Yeah,
that's it.
I feel like it was, there was something really nice about feeling like
if somebody responded to me, they were responding to me, like the real me,
or as much as they knew the real me.
You weren't constantly in conversation with your own reputation or wondering what someone was reacting to or what they wanted or how you might disappoint them.
Yes.
Yeah.
Which you probably hadn't had as an adult, like just the normal, the normal levels of self-consciousness that a normal person has.
Yeah.
It felt like I suddenly was somewhere like without a weapon.
I didn't have this fancy sword or whatever.
It was just me and my muscles got strong because of it.
Were there things you had to learn how to do?
Well, yeah, speak French.
I mean, like,
I mean, we're like, I don't know.
I imagine that if you're very famous in America in the 1980s, you probably don't know how funny you are because people are going to like laugh at your jokes a little bit more or something.
Like, you don't know, you don't know what your level of charm is separate from people's excitedness to just like see a person who they've seen in a film.
Yeah, definitely.
And then also you throw in the extra thing about being American too.
And so you're dealing with the French that French.
They sort of don't like you.
Yes.
Yes.
And were you acting in france i was still acting but i think i definitely put my career on the back burner like it wasn't as important to me and i also felt kind of like burned in hollywood
i i felt like i wasn't really valued at that point
but also i will say
because i've thought a lot about it too.
I'm like, did I kind of tank my career because I moved to France or were there other elements at play as well?
And I had done one of Miramax's first movies that Harvey Weinstein produced.
And I had to sue Harvey Weinstein.
Back then?
I did, yeah.
Not for any sexual impropriety.
I was very lucky in that regard.
He just didn't pay me what he was contractually obligated to pay me.
He just didn't.
He just like, the film was not a success, but I had like a percentage of the gross.
And he just didn't pay.
And he just didn't pay.
And my lawyer called and said, Harvey Weinstein's not paying you for this.
And I think that we need to go after it.
And I said, go ahead.
And she did.
And I got paid.
But it was just coming into an era where everything interesting that was done.
pretty much was done by Harvey Weinstein.
So I think that might have had something to do with it.
I don't know.
It was just kind of like this, this
period of time where I wasn't obscure, but it was just like I felt like everyone was kind of like waiting for a comeback.
Did you want to come back?
I wanted to do movies that were interesting to me.
Yeah.
It's hard because the fame is a double-edged sword because the fame makes life kind of
difficult to navigate on the one hand, but then if you have a certain level of fame, that it enables you to do the projects that you want to do.
Like all movies get made basically, you know, somebody has to raise the money.
And the only way that they can raise the money is if they go after this list and they'll say, okay, for this part, if you get, you know, Nicole Kidman, Gwyneth Paltrow, whatever the list is.
Yeah.
And for a while, I was on that list.
And then I kind of like got booted off that list.
And there's only so many parts to go around.
Yeah.
And then the older that you get, the less parts there are.
So for a big chunk of that time, I kind of like took myself out of the running for a lot of interesting things or it just wasn't considered.
I don't know.
Did you regret that?
Because it also sounds like it was what you needed.
I
no, I think it was what I needed.
I mean, to come back to your point about how
I am
sane, which my kids would debate you on that.
But I think, as
actors go, I think I am pretty sane.
And I think I am pretty centered.
And I think the only way really that I was able to do that and to have that kind of longevity was to go away and do what I did and to sort of opt out of that like hamster wheel that I was in.
After the break, we asked Molly the question that got us here.
The mechanics of her sanity.
How do you survive fame?
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Wait, what's the actual question again?
How do you survive fame?
How do you survive?
How do you survive being a public person if you prefer that?
I really believe that it is something that is genetic
in you.
Like, I think it's in your DNA.
And I think you're the kind of person who can withstand
that sort of public scrutiny and be okay with it and even maybe want it.
But you have to ask yourself if that's something that you really want and know that that's what you want.
Because once you get it, it's always there.
Like you might not be able to sort of keep a certain level of fame.
Like hotness comes and goes, but once you become famous, you're always famous.
From that perspective, it's like, that makes you almost like someone who got like a face tattoo when they were 12.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Like I remember being in California after I came back from France and I was with my husband and it was Matilda, my now 20 year old daughter, learning to ride a bike for the first time, which feels like a private moment.
And obviously it's something that you can't do inside.
So we were outside and and then paparazzi pictures came out and it felt so gross because I well, for one thing, I was also like, I had no idea.
So that was like a creepy feeling.
It was kind of like how it must feel if there's like a private investigator.
I mean, we were just teaching our kid how to ride a bike, but it was just this really creepy feeling that there's somebody there and you didn't see them, didn't know that they were there.
And yeah, that's just kind of the stuff that you deal with.
And this is like at a level of fame that's not even like it was, I think, when I made those movies.
Right.
When I've had friends who have had film or television success, what I've noticed is this feeling of
you're in public, like you're at dinner or something like that.
And
there's the feeling that I will arrive too late, which is that the attention of the room has begun to bend towards them and maybe in a way that needs to be navigated.
Like someone's about to come up and say something or whatever.
And my radar to that is so dull.
And I've felt very badly for them that their radar for that always has to be on.
Like if someone takes their cell phone out, are they taking a picture of them or are they texting somebody?
If somebody's like wandering over the table, you know what I mean?
Oh, yeah.
No, I have a very finely tuned radar to that.
Like I can tell by the way that somebody like pulls out their cell phone,
like
the way that it's like angled.
Right.
There are certain words that I can pick out.
Obviously my name, Ringwall, Molly, I can hear that.
I can hear the word breakfast.
Like I can hear like 16.
I can hear pink.
Yeah.
I definitely feel like I'm somebody who is okay with a certain level of fame.
I just want to have some autonomy over my life and over the choices that I make, which is one of the reasons why I didn't let my kids act professionally when they were kids.
They wanted to.
Oh, yeah.
I mean, this was like the argument, the non-stop argument that I've had with my daughter, Matilda, since she was eight.
She wanted to start acting when she was eight.
And we wouldn't let her, we made the choice to not have her be a professional actress.
And she said, why?
And I said, because I grew up in this business and I think like, if you're talented, that talent's not going to go away.
Yeah.
I just think that you should learn how to do it and be really prepared.
So when you start acting, you'll know what you're doing.
And hopefully you will have grown up a bit.
And it was a real bone of contention between us.
I mean, she was furious.
She's still mad at me.
And she's done her first movie now, like a big movie.
Like she has a supporting role in this movie with Anne Hathaway that's coming out on Amazon.
So I feel like I gave good advice.
I feel like I made the right choice, but she's still mad at me.
And I don't know, like I was super driven like she was.
You know, I wanted to do what I did, but like the difference is that I did it.
And my dad was like a jazz musician in a small town.
My mom didn't.
They didn't know anything about the business.
They were artistic people, but they didn't know about the business.
But I do.
And I have been through that.
And I also feel like, you know, it's hard to make a transition from being a younger actor to being an adult actor.
So, anyway, when I would say all this to Matilda, she would say, Well, you did it.
Well, you did it.
And you're fine.
You're smart.
You're all of this stuff.
Like, so why are you different?
And why can't I do it if you did it?
That's such a hard question.
Yeah.
What do you say?
I say that I think that I'm an outlier.
I would say, like, the majority of kids that act are not okay.
Do you remember even being like in your teenage years and seeing people
with different relationships to their fame or their success where you thought, like, I can see them making a mistake that I'm consciously trying not to make?
Yeah, I mean, I've been doing this long enough to where I could see people just completely burning out and becoming really self-destructive, whether it's like drugs or alcohol or yeah, making bad choices, just putting themselves out there too much.
I've also been doing this long enough and worked with enough young people that have
had to sort of navigate fame that comes to them like all of a sudden.
Yeah.
And it's interesting, like kind of observing them from a little bit of a distance and sort of seeing, oh, okay, I can see the people who are going to be okay and the people that aren't going to be okay.
You can see it.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
Totally.
And you can see the people that are just like all of a sudden get so big-headed and they feel like it's going to last forever.
And yeah, you just see it and you know the way the business works.
Yeah.
But you really think that the thing that made you okay
might not have been something you learned or did, but it might have just been a way that you were.
Yeah.
I think that
it is a little bit my DNA,
but it's also my personality is somebody who is able to kind of step outside and like observe myself a little bit.
I feel like I have a certain amount of self-reflection that not everybody has.
I agree.
I mean, one of the things I remember noticing you doing that I was like, oh, you can learn from this is you mentioned offhandedly once, you just said, like, I don't read reviews.
I don't read my reviews.
And when you first said it, I thought, oh, Molly doesn't find her reviews interesting.
And then later, I was like, no, probably Molly's figured out that reading reviews does things to her that she doesn't enjoy.
Yeah.
Exactly.
That's what it is.
I make a deal with myself where, I mean, it's not something that I really have to do now with the internet, but I stopped reading reviews so long ago that I made this deal where I would save them.
Like all the reviews would be saved.
And so one day, if I wanted to read them, I could read them.
Do you have them in a shoebox?
I knew that my parents, I think, collected everything, but like my mom, she's not organized enough to actually ever do a scrapbook or anything.
So they're like in boxes that are probably like falling apart and probably part of like a rat's nest and like a garage somewhere.
I don't know.
It was just this idea.
It was kind of like tricking the brain in a way to keep myself from having to read them.
There was this idea that I could read them someday.
It kind of made it okay.
Because reading a review, it's like the dopamine of the good review.
It's just exactly like getting that
thumbs up.
Oh, yeah.
But then the
bad review is exactly like being trolled.
I mean, it's just,
there's just, for me, there's just really no upside to it.
Yeah.
And also like the good reviews are very addictive, and the bad reviews are very sticky.
And like, the compliment never lasts as long as the insult.
And the compliment kind of just makes you want another compliment.
Yeah.
Yes, exactly.
It's like, it never feels good as that first high.
After that, then you're just chasing it.
And then you're just a person who's just chasing that approval.
And yeah, I just don't want to be that person.
Yeah.
That doesn't mean that I don't care what people think,
but I'm, I care much more about the opinions of people that I really respect.
Like my friend Meredith always says, protect the head, protect the head.
Like there's certain things that I know are just self-protective and not reading my reviews is one of them.
Not spending too much time doom scrolling is another.
Like I just have these rules like, okay, I fell into this pothole numerous times.
And then eventually
you walk around the pothole that's in the street.
And then eventually you learn to take another street.
And I feel like I've been doing this for long enough to where I've learned to take the other street.
But some people don't learn that.
Some people never learn that.
Yeah.
One of the ways people react to pressure like that is to just like
really act out.
But it sounds like the way you reacted to it was to just try to complete the assignment.
Yes.
Exactly.
Why do you think that was?
Um,
I feel like I had a a lot of practice like from the time that I was
little.
Like,
wow, this is great.
This feels like therapy.
Thank you, PJ.
I haven't done therapy in a while.
This feels really good.
Thank you for talking about this stuff.
I feel like I started out by wanting to please my parents.
Like, I feel like everybody.
Yeah.
But, like, you know, the fact that I was performing with my dad and like his.
What's so funny?
You said, what was the name of the album, the first jazz album i want to be loved by you
right
i know i didn't name it i didn't name it it was one of the songs that i sang but i i think i had a lot of practice on you know sort of performing and getting
what's the word approval yeah getting approval from my dad or my mom and then from an audience and then from like the world and i had to complete the assignment but so it's like
by your description,
there's this assumption most people would make about a person becoming for a time, like the most famous teenager in America, which is probably, since fame is like a hard thing to find, that person must have really wanted it.
And what you're saying is like, no, what you wanted was to act, to not disappoint people, to fulfill the assignment, like to do a good job, what you were asked to do.
And by virtue of your skill at doing that and time and circumstance, you just end up in this position where the pressure is extraordinarily high and where you're experiencing a life that a lot of people want, but wasn't the thing that you particularly wanted.
Yes.
This is very confusing.
You just synthesized it so well and so succinctly.
Yeah, it's hard because...
I mean, now I feel like we're dealing with levels of fame that feel
like so
beyond what I had.
It's sort of crazy to hear Molly Ringwald, a woman whose face was on the cover of Time magazine, say that actually the fame she experienced, much weaker than the plutonium-grade stuff being manufactured today.
But I think she's right.
And generally speaking, I wish famous people talked about what it means to experience attention this openly.
I get why they don't.
It's risky.
You don't want to be seen as bragging or worse, complaining.
But it's a shame.
because one thing that has changed since the 1980s is that the problem of how to navigate public attention has become a skill that even regular people need to learn.
Civilians have been offered the problems of fame, if not its benefits.
The government doesn't issue American teenagers a publicist when they get their first Instagram account.
So what have we learned about surviving public attention from Molly Ringwald?
She believes the ability to withstand pressure is more about who you you inherently are than anything else, and that you won't know who you are under pressure until you find yourself there.
But that said, Molly's instincts have led her to make choices that are really smart.
Anybody could copy them.
A teenager could.
I think I will.
So here they are.
Doing what you love might mean you don't get to be normal or invisible.
Sometimes people are going to dislike you.
You shouldn't assume it's because of something you've done.
It might be because of what you represent.
You can't actually be vigilant all the time.
If attention is hurting you, you can walk away from it.
Keep your views in a box and keep the box closed.
Protect the head.
Did I answer?
Did I answer?
Oh my god, you're it's so did I did.
I do well.
Was I perfect?
He's completed the assignment.
Thank you, Molly.
Thank you, PJ.
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She's an actor, writer, mom, a sane person.
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Will my kid sleep tonight?
Will I wake up at 3 a.m.
again?
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Welcome back to the show.
Our editor at Search Engine is Shruthi Pinamanini.
She's the person whose mind and editorial taste you're constantly hearing on the show, but whose voice you never hear on mic.
She had a question that made her break her search engine vow of silence.
Hello.
Hello.
Can you just tell me your name, introduce yourself?
Who are you?
What do you do?
I am Elimpivitalis.
I'm a singer.
I'm 24 years old from London.
And yeah, I'm on the podcast.
And how would you like
for me to?
I wanted to talk to you.
Man, now it seems like ages ago, just a couple weeks ago, when I first, the first time I heard your song, Curls.
And
it's funny because so I don't use Spotify that much.
Like I work in radio, I listen to a lot of music and podcasts, but generally not on Spotify.
And there was this one evening after work, I was doing like a deep clean in my apartment, and I was like, I'll just try a Spotify playlist today.
Love that.
And I heard your song.
And it so took my breath away that I just sat there and played it on repeat for a very long time.
And I did the thing that I would normally do, which is look you up.
And just, I was like, whatever else she's made, I will buy it right now.
And I realized like there wasn't much out there.
There was like a couple songs and on Spotify and on SoundCloud.
The listens were at that point in the hundreds.
And I was like, oh my gosh, I might be hearing a person who's like stepping out into the music world like right now.
Yeah, it's quite funny, like when people talk about curls like that, because I'm sick of it.
Do you know what I mean?
Like,
I am so bored of that song.
But people come to me and they're like, I just couldn't believe it.
And you're sick of it because you've been playing it for so long or singing it for so long?
Well, yeah, I mean, you know, like in all kinds of creative processes, it's such a long turnaround time, like from writing the first few lyrics in the notebook to having it mastered and then released.
Like, Curls was probably a year in the making in total.
But it's really cool that it connects with so many people.
I'm supporting Kiefer on tour at the moment.
And like, people are coming up to me and saying like, that song is mad.
And I'm just like, what are you hearing?
Because I'm just hearing my song.
Is this the first song you've put out?
Or what am I, like, what stage of Olympia am I hearing?
So it's the third song, technically, but I'm 24 and COVID kind of took away two and a half years.
So I kind of say I'm like 21.
But I've been in a gospel choir.
Well, I was in a gospel choir for seven years.
So the idea of getting up and just belting, belting-like, I love it.
It's come second nature to me at this point.
But I think the exposing part of it is the lyrics.
I don't tend to write about love, I have no interest in writing about love, it's boring.
Um, I just think D'Angelo can do it better than me.
Do you know what I mean?
Uh-huh.
And so, you record this song, it sounds like about a year ago, and then how does it get on that playlist that I happen to listen to?
Beats me.
Um, the thing is, with editorial playlisting, is like 10 hundred thousand ten million or million oh no i'm not going to say this right but a shed load of songs get submitted onto these editorial playlists every single day so the chances of getting on a fresh find which is a global top 100 tracks of the week or whatever is it's not gonna happen do you know what i mean um yeah but yeah it's just wild because before i was like whatever editorial playlists doesn't matter and now i'm just like i need them i need them all i must feel like once once you get it, you want to do it again.
But it seems so mysterious how it happened in the first place.
Yeah.
What's funny?
I don't know if you feel like this as well, but in the creative industry, you kind of hit one target and you don't even really pat yourself on the back.
You just go, right, what's next?
You know, like, I've got a song coming out on Friday, and I'm praying with every part of my body that it does well because then it kind of just gives you momentum to get more looks in.
But I'm trying not to put too much pressure on myself, but that's like asking England not to rain.
It's just not going to happen.
Olympia Vitalis.
That song that she was feeling so much pressure about, it's called Marty.
And you're listening to it right now.
It just came out.
Stop that.
You did a lask to see.
Like a kid, you can look with none
Grab my ass in the crowd and you like it all
Like a kid you can look with nuts
Grab my ass in the crowd and you like it all
Search Search Engine is a presentation of Odyssey and Jigsaw Productions.
It was created by me, Shruthi Pinamanini, and PJ Vogue, and is produced by Garrett Graham and Noah John.
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Our executive producers are Jenna Weiss-Berman and Leah Rhys-Dennis.
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That's it for this week.
Thank you for listening.
We'll see you next week.