Peter Cuneo Reveals Secret Strategies That Turned Marvel Studios Into a Billion-Dollar Empire | #Success - Ep. 86

34m
I got an email from someone saying, “Hey, you should interview this guy… He used to be the CEO of Marvel.” And I thought... wait, like Marvel-Marvel? As in Iron Man and Spider-Man??

Yeah… That guy.

His name’s Peter Cuneo, and what he shared about leadership, storytelling, and turnarounds is pure gold. We talked about how he rebuilt Marvel from the ground up, and got to learn multiple lessons that will be in his upcoming book!  He’s one of the most fascinating leaders I’ve ever talked to. What he did at Marvel wasn’t just a financial turnaround, it was a transformation in leadership, storytelling, and how to connect people emotionally to a brand.

Key Highlights:

◼️How Marvel used character development to rebuild emotional connection with fans

◼️Why great leaders embrace flaws and authenticity to build trust

◼️How consistent communication (like Peter’s pizza lunches) transforms culture

◼️Why strong leaders take ownership, admit mistakes, and lead through change

◼️The leadership framework behind his upcoming book Super Hero Leadership

This conversation completely reframed how I think about leadership. Peter reminded me that people don’t follow products or plans… They follow characters. The same way fans connect to Iron Man or Captain America, your customers and employees connect to you when you let them see who you really are…. And communicate effectively with your team!

◼️If you’ve got a product, offer, service… or idea… I’ll show you how to sell it (the RIGHT way) Register for my next event →⁠⁠ https://sellingonline.com/podcast⁠⁠

◼️Still don’t have a funnel? ClickFunnels gives you the exact tools (and templates) to launch TODAY → ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://clickfunnels.com/podcast
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Press play and read along

Runtime: 34m

Transcript

Speaker 1 If we knew more about our sleep, what would we do differently? Would we go to bed at a consistent time or take steps to reduce interruptions to our sleep?

Speaker 1 With the all-new sleep score, Apple Watch measures your bedtime consistency, interruptions, and sleep duration.

Speaker 1 Then, every morning it combines these factors into an easy-to-understand score from 1 to 100. So you'll know how to take the quality of your sleep from good to

Speaker 1 excellent. Introducing the new sleep score on Apple Watch, iPhone 11 or later required.

Speaker 2 Do you have a funnel but it's not converting? The problem 99.9% of the time is that your funnel is good, but you suck at selling.

Speaker 2 If you want to learn how to sell so your funnels will actually convert, then get a ticket to my next selling online event by going to sellingonline.com slash podcast.

Speaker 2 That's sellingonline.com slash podcast.

Speaker 2 This is the Russell Brunson show.

Speaker 2 Hey, what's up everybody? This is Russell and I have a really cool episode for you guys today that's a little unique.

Speaker 2 So obviously, typically we talk about marketing and sales and funnels and growth and everything here. But I got an email about a month ago from someone who,

Speaker 2 I get these all the time from people like, hey, you should have so-and-so on your show. And some service just kind of spamming me with people's names all the time.

Speaker 2 I don't know how they get my email address, but they show up all the time. I ignore almost all of them.
But this one popped through and said the guy was the CEO of Marvel,

Speaker 2 like the Marvel, like, you know, Marvel, like my favorite franchise of all time, all my favorite movies. And I was like, I would love to talk to that guy.

Speaker 2 And so I actually just finished the interview with him and it was really, really fascinating.

Speaker 2 I wanted to kind of, instead of just pushing play from the very beginning and running it through, there's some really interesting parts I wanted to pull out and talk about a little bit before we go ahead of time.

Speaker 2 Because I think it'll make this interview even more fun and more exciting. So I'm actually going to start with where the podcast ended.
At the end, we started asking him just,

Speaker 2 we'll ask him what his favorite Marvel movie was. And from there, he started talking about it.
And And then we dived into character development, story, and some other really, really cool things.

Speaker 2 So I actually wanted to lead with that part of the interview first. I thought it was the most fascinating.
And we'll come back and then

Speaker 2 I'll set up kind of the other parts that I think will be valuable for you. So that said,

Speaker 2 check out this part of the interview where I asked Peter what his favorite Marvel movie was.

Speaker 2 I'm curious, from you spending time with Marvel, do you have a favorite Marvel movie?

Speaker 1 I do. And it's actually not a movie that I made.
I wouldn't make when I was at Marvel or any R-rated movies because licensing is a wonderful business and highly profitable.

Speaker 1 So if you have an R-rated movie, Walmart, any big retailer is not going to put your toys on the shelf. You may not even have toys because they're R-rated.
So

Speaker 1 I never did more than, you know,

Speaker 1 a PG-13.

Speaker 1 I can't even remember doing that. It's PG, you know,

Speaker 1 at most.

Speaker 1 But Disney made a movie called Logan.

Speaker 1 And it has to do with Wolverine.

Speaker 1 It's R-rated. It's a great story.
It's about Wolverine getting old and his life. And

Speaker 1 he forms a particularly great bond with a young

Speaker 1 girl.

Speaker 1 And you have to see it. I can't do it justice.

Speaker 1 See, I'm very big on character development. When we started at Marvel making movies, movies,

Speaker 1 we had basically a simple formula. Big action scene to start, modest scene in the middle, big scene to finish.

Speaker 1 And everything else was character development. The way you get fans, the way you grow fans is to get people interested in your characters.
Part of that is knowing what they're good at.

Speaker 1 Part of that is knowing their failures, because all the Marvel characters have failures. They're not perfect.
They're like us. They make some of the same mistakes.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 it's the origin story. How do they grow up? How do they get there? Their powers, etc.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 I just think that that's very important. And today,

Speaker 1 a lot of the movies, not just Marvel, I basically shoot them up, blow them up for most of the movie.

Speaker 2 No storyline.

Speaker 1 And it's really, and characters show up that no one knows,

Speaker 1 has ever even heard of.

Speaker 1 You know, that, and, and the fans hate that, hate that. So the main characters, but, but if you, in entertainment in general, I have to tell you, Russell, whether it's film, audio, music,

Speaker 1 um,

Speaker 1 a book, any form of entertainment, a play,

Speaker 1 the way you make a good a good piece of content is to form it so that the the audience will be emotionally connected to some of the characters even the bad character even the bad people you know which in marvel there are a few and

Speaker 1 they there's still people that find them interesting

Speaker 1 and you you want them to root for them

Speaker 1 um peter parker can't get a date with the girl he really likes in high school but he's spider-man and he gets he gets full of himself and he gets his uncle killed because of it

Speaker 1 it's pretty heavy but it's a good good example.

Speaker 1 Tony Stark, I can tell you, like Tony Stark,

Speaker 1 Tony has got a lot of problems.

Speaker 1 He's obnoxious at times. You know,

Speaker 1 he's full of himself also in many ways. And yet you love him.

Speaker 1 You know, I do.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 so on.

Speaker 2 Okay, I hope you enjoyed that part of it and got the wheels of your head spinning just about character development and story and the things that are so vital.

Speaker 2 We've been talking for years with you guys in Expert Secrets and other places about becoming the attractive character and sharing parts of yourself.

Speaker 2 But you notice what he talked about is like the best heroes that Stan Lee developed, they weren't the flawless ones.

Speaker 2 In fact, it was the reason why DC versus Marvel, why Marvel has traditionally beat DC, right? DC, it's like the characters are Superman who have no flaws, no issues. No one can mess with them, right?

Speaker 2 Other than this random kryptonite thing that they added to try to make him feel more like them, you know, give him some weakness. But all of Stan Lee's characters were very much,

Speaker 2 you know, they were flawed. They had, they had their positive, like X-Men, they had these superpowers, but at the same time, they're flawed.

Speaker 2 And like, and the flaws is what makes you fall in love with people. It's the same thing why we always talk about with your audience.

Speaker 2 Like when you're talking to him, you should, like, you can't just share the highlight reel of all the cool things you've done. You also have to share the

Speaker 2 flaws. Like, that's what actually

Speaker 2 gets people to bond with you and to have rapport with you is sharing those parts of it, which is really, really fascinating.

Speaker 2 So I'm going to jump back now earlier in the podcast interview where I asked him specifically about

Speaker 2 the turnaround he did with Marvel.

Speaker 2 What Peter's known for is he comes in and he takes companies that are struggling and he turns them around through leadership and through communication, a whole bunch of stuff.

Speaker 2 So during this part of the interview, he's going to talk about the actual Marvel turnaround. He's going to go deep into some communication things that are really, really valuable.

Speaker 2 And then he's got a new book coming out. And I asked him, I said, it's called Superhero Leadership.
I'm like, of all the different leadership things that

Speaker 2 you learned through your years. Like, I know the book's got like 20 or 30 different ones.
I'm like, what are your two favorite, the two most powerful?

Speaker 2 And the two he shared, I thought were really interesting and fascinating.

Speaker 2 So we're going to jump into the Marvel startup turnaround, communication, and then the two most important leadership things you can learn from the guy who literally took Marvel from a company that was going bankrupt, it was in bankruptcy, to selling to Disney for like four and a half billion dollars.

Speaker 2 So with that, so let's jump in this part of the interview.

Speaker 2 I'm curious with all the different turnarounds you've done, is the core thing you're bringing to those turnarounds turnarounds when a company's struggling, is it leadership like the leading driver of what you're doing when you when you take a company and you're and you're turning it around?

Speaker 1 Well, obviously, many, most of my turnarounds, certainly the companies, the organizations got in trouble because of past leadership,

Speaker 1 not doing the job. It's not always the case.
Sometimes it's fundamental changes in an industry, but for the most part, that's the case. And

Speaker 1 so I always have a challenge walking through the door as the new CEO or the new president, whatever the title is. And

Speaker 1 everyone is afraid because there's

Speaker 1 a great air of uncertainty. You know, are we going to, is the company?

Speaker 2 A new leader coming in? Yeah, it's going to be scary for a company.

Speaker 1 Yeah, new leader, but what's he like?

Speaker 1 Is the company going to survive?

Speaker 1 Are the employees going to keep their jobs?

Speaker 1 It's a very different challenge um i what i do is is

Speaker 1 i have to say is is um

Speaker 1 is uh i don't know i i guess i'd say uh

Speaker 1 uh i'm doing um severe

Speaker 1 severe changes is what i have to do um

Speaker 1 all leaders uh are are challenged in every organization, not only business, but wherever you could be a leader, a lot of other places, as you know.

Speaker 1 And you're going to be faced at some point with having to make change. Some people don't have to make very much change.
Maybe

Speaker 1 they lead through a couple of speed bumps.

Speaker 1 And that's fine. That's great.
But in my case, there were no speed bumps. It was all,

Speaker 1 you know,

Speaker 1 a deep tissue operation, if you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 Yeah. And I became,

Speaker 1 this is not for for everybody. In fact, you have to be weird to like doing this.
And I,

Speaker 1 so I'm weird.

Speaker 1 You know, I don't know how that will happen, but I do, I'm addicted to taking on tough situations because I get a tremendous high when we are successful. Yeah.

Speaker 2 Well, let's talk about the Marvel. I think it'd be fascinating for people to hear that story.

Speaker 2 So when in the Marvel timeline was it that it was it was struggling a spot where you you came in, took over CEO and turned it around

Speaker 2 either year-wise or like what was like between Iron Man one and two or you know where in the in the saga of

Speaker 1 way way before Iron Man. Okay.
All right, so a little history Marvel went into bankruptcy in 1996 and was in bankruptcy for two years 1998.

Speaker 1 And as it came out of bankruptcy, I came in 1999 as the new CEO.

Speaker 1 One of the reasons I got to Marvel was I had done the previous turnaround, I had done one of the owners of Marvel was also one of the owners of that business, a company called Remington Products.

Speaker 1 Talking about men's hair care as you guys,

Speaker 1 not, not, not, not, not

Speaker 1 guns, but Remington. And one of the

Speaker 1 owners there saw what I had done and frankly, I made him a lot of money. And so when

Speaker 1 he was the leading

Speaker 1 shareholder of Marvel coming out of of bankruptcy. Marvel was a public New York Stock Exchange company.
And so he called me, hey, I need a CEO. That's kind of how it happened.

Speaker 1 I had no background in motion pictures or comic books. And that, and most of my turnarounds, I was going into situations in an industry I had no experience with.
So that was not unique.

Speaker 1 But I also think it was an advantage because frankly, you could see some of what's out of whack, what's crazy pretty quickly. You know, you, you know, you don't have to be an instant expert.

Speaker 1 And so

Speaker 1 Marvel had had several different challenges. One, the financial setup,

Speaker 1 coming out of bankruptcy, everyone usually thinks if they haven't been through a bankruptcy that you're now cured financially. You come out of bankruptcy and you got...

Speaker 1 plenty of money and so on and so forth. The reality is the only thing you really have is what the

Speaker 1 secured lenders and and other people would agree to the creditors would agree to and in marvel's case like most cases it was not the best situation for marvel so we had to go to work on that to fix that the second thing is there had been a lot of flight for talent A lot of good people, particularly in the comic book area, had left during the two-year

Speaker 1 bankruptcy and

Speaker 1 they didn't see light at the end of the tunnel. They could get a good or better job because they were good.

Speaker 2 Was Marvel this time more like complete comic books or were they also doing movies at this time when you when you stepped in?

Speaker 1 I'm going to get I'll get into that in a second. I'll give you the timing.
So we had to get that, you know, we had to get that back. And then the culture of the company, the value system was,

Speaker 1 you know, needed to change.

Speaker 1 And what we came up with, and I had a great board to support me with some other turnaround people on the board, was that we, our culture became, we're going to change the rules of the game.

Speaker 1 We're not going to make movies like other people. We're not going to make comic books.
And I think the rest is history because that's exactly what we did.

Speaker 1 It's always risky, change the rules for a whole industry. But

Speaker 1 we were all risk takers, as I said, adventurers. So, yeah, those are the big challenges.

Speaker 2 Plastic, quick follow-up. You said that you didn't do comic comic books and you didn't do movies?

Speaker 1 I had no background before I came to the company in movies or comic books. So I was learning on the job.

Speaker 1 But one of the things that I will take a lot of credit for is I didn't pretend that I was an instant expert.

Speaker 1 For example, I would read scripts, but I never made a single change because I didn't feel qualified. I didn't know the characters.
You know, comic books.

Speaker 1 I never read a comic book before before it was published. I read most of them after they came out.

Speaker 1 I was learning about, but I'll take, I like to say I take credit for staying out of the way of some really great content producers.

Speaker 1 And we, as I said, had a had a talent reign, but we got a lot of those people back. Oh, it took a while, but they all came back, most of them.

Speaker 1 So, but so when I came to the to the 1999, my first month, I went to Toronto, Canada, to this, to the set where they were filming X-Men One.

Speaker 1 That was the first film for the new Marvel, if you will.

Speaker 1 I can't take credit for getting us

Speaker 1 in the movie world. It was done already before I came, and they were actually filming the first big film

Speaker 1 and so on. And X-Men One came out a year later.
It was a gigantic hit, as you may know, and we were off to the races.

Speaker 1 So that's way before Tony Stark, you know, and Iron Man. Iron Man came out.

Speaker 1 We were partnered with big studios for the first five or six years that I was there. So we did,

Speaker 1 we didn't, we didn't know how to make movies. So we were partnered on Spider-Man with Sony, on the X-Men with Fox.

Speaker 1 on Hulk with Universal and others, okay?

Speaker 1 And so on. And it wasn't until 2006.
I was no longer CEO. I was vice chairman of the board in 2006.
So I had been the CEO for almost four years

Speaker 1 from 99 to the

Speaker 1 to the

Speaker 1 end of 2003.

Speaker 1 And then I'd been on the board. So it's now 2006.
And we decided to rejuvenate Marvel Studios. There had been

Speaker 1 a brief attempt in the early 90s to start a Marvel studio, but we decided to do that. And that was 2006.
We raised over $500 million for the studio.

Speaker 1 And Iron Man 1 came out in 2008 and was also a gigantic hit.

Speaker 1 So give you a little bit of a timeline. And then, you know, we eventually sold to Disney on the last day.

Speaker 1 December 31st of 2009. So I had been with Marvel 10 years at that point.

Speaker 1 That's so cool.

Speaker 2 And then at that point, did you exit after the sale and kind of go to the next the next big project? Or were you still involved?

Speaker 1 Yeah, no, no,

Speaker 1 none of the board members were kept by Disney. They didn't need us.
I mean, you know.

Speaker 1 So it was,

Speaker 1 it was time to move on to the next challenge.

Speaker 1 But,

Speaker 1 yeah, I think that Marvel

Speaker 1 is a great example, though, of

Speaker 1 taking risks, which is what you have to do to do, you know,

Speaker 1 to do

Speaker 1 a really surgical approach to a turnaround.

Speaker 1 And it takes time. Nobody understands everything the minute they walk through the door.
And I always do a lot of homework when I'm asked to do a turnaround.

Speaker 1 But you can do tons of homework and still be surprised. In fact, I honestly say on my seven turnarounds, it was worse than I thought it was in every one.
When you got through the door. Yeah.

Speaker 2 I'm curious, when you go into a turnaround, do you have,

Speaker 2 like, is, is there a playbook you go off of like, here's the, here's the step-by-step process we take somebody through, or is it more kind of search and discovery and then trying to fix problems as you find them?

Speaker 2 Or

Speaker 2 what does that look like for you?

Speaker 1 Very good question, actually. And I have to say that I don't have a playbook.
I don't, you know, I'm going in

Speaker 1 and I

Speaker 1 just want to, first thing I want to do is establish what the changes are that are needed.

Speaker 1 And, you know, I like to talk sometimes about

Speaker 1 rocks, pebbles, and boulders in a pond.

Speaker 1 And for anybody in an organization, if, you know, let's call the pond is your organization. And it's not just business.
I mean, you could be in the military. You could be.

Speaker 1 You could be in government. You could be any number of different places

Speaker 1 where you're a leader.

Speaker 1 And when you've decided, you know, figured out what the, some changes become are very readily apparent after a month or two. Some take longer to really,

Speaker 1 to really understand.

Speaker 1 And I used to say, I mentioned to you that I have on my podcast, Peter Cuneo.

Speaker 1 excuse me on my website petercunio.com there are 28 essentials for superhero leadership And one of them used to be, there used to be more,

Speaker 1 was

Speaker 1 make as many changes as you can

Speaker 1 all at once so the healing in the organization can begin, because you can tell people we're done making changes. But the truth is, as I thought more about that, that's very hard to do.

Speaker 1 And it could be a mistake to make all the changes at once early on.

Speaker 1 Going back to the pond. Okay.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 some changes, think of them as pebbles. Toss them in the pond.
There's a tiny little ripple. Lasts a couple of seconds and it's gone.

Speaker 1 So the effect on the pond, the effect on your organization is quite small. There's going to be no real issues, what have you.

Speaker 1 Some changes are a rock.

Speaker 1 They

Speaker 1 make a bigger splash. Some of them skip.
and make multiple splashes.

Speaker 1 So there, and again,

Speaker 1 they make a bigger ripple, but the ripple never really hits the shore.

Speaker 1 Then there's boulders.

Speaker 1 And so there's a cliff next to your pond and a boulder falls off and goes in the pond and a big wave comes off the boulder and hits all of the, all of the, if you will,

Speaker 1 the coastline of

Speaker 1 your pond.

Speaker 1 And what you want to do is, once you realize what pebbles you want to drop, what rocks, what boulders,

Speaker 1 you make sure that you do it so that they don't intersect each other, because then you're getting an extra problem. Okay.

Speaker 1 If the wakes, the ripples of these rocks, if you drop them all at once, have you ever seen what happens when they hit each other? It's really disruptive.

Speaker 1 And sometimes change that you want to make, it's not, you'll think of it as, oh, I need to change this

Speaker 1 consumer. I'll make this up.

Speaker 1 Consumer service departments not doing well. I got to make a couple of changes.

Speaker 1 I'm going to do this. I'm going to do that.
I'm going to bring in some other people

Speaker 1 to do things.

Speaker 1 And that's fine. But you have to think through, okay, what will the changes in consumer or customer service?

Speaker 1 What other areas will they affect?

Speaker 1 So it's not just the effect in that particular area. What do the salespeople need to know? How will it affect how they behave?

Speaker 1 Okay.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 it's very important to think through when and how you make the changes so that you minimize those ripples and waves and everything else bumping into each other in your pond.

Speaker 2 Yeah,

Speaker 2 very interesting. So besides Marvel and Remington, what were some of the other turnarounds that you participated in?

Speaker 1 Well,

Speaker 1 I was with Black and Decker and I did three.

Speaker 1 I had six divisions. Three turned out to need turnaround attention.

Speaker 1 And before that, I was with a company called Clairall, Women's Hair Care.

Speaker 1 And I did two inside of

Speaker 1 Claire All was owned at that time by Bristol Myers, very big company. So my first two turnarounds were there, and they were really divisions of a very large company

Speaker 1 rather than a standalone organization. Okay.

Speaker 2 Cool. I'm curious, like,

Speaker 2 obviously with a turnaround, I'm assuming you're going in when things are kind of in a crisis mode and they're struggling.

Speaker 2 But if someone's listening to this and they have a business that's successful, and it's not so much they're in a crisis mode, but obviously they want to learn like the most important principles, whether it be leadership or other stuff, to be able to just rapidly start growing their business.

Speaker 2 What would be like your, because I'm not sure the companies you're working with now, if they're turnarounds or if they're more just companies that you're coming into and taking your expertise to grow them and scale them.

Speaker 2 Like, does it look different if it's a growth type thing versus a turnaround when you start working with a company?

Speaker 1 Well, I often get asked about startups.

Speaker 1 And there are parallels between startups and turnarounds. There's a degree of uncertainty.
It's certainly taking risks and whatever. So some of the elements are really

Speaker 1 very similar.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 I would say a couple of things. First of all, particularly in startups.
And I've been connected to a couple of successful startups, but all of them

Speaker 1 really, the original idea that the founder or founders thought would work didn't work. And they pivoted.
I've had this in, I mentioned I've been in tech the last six or seven years.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 I've seen some fail I wasn't involved in, where the founders just couldn't admit to themselves that their original idea didn't work or needed modification.

Speaker 1 And so ego is an important part in the early stages of a startup.

Speaker 1 In the case of my AI company, based in San Francisco, I've been a chairman for seven years. We've pivoted the tech twice before we really hit on what, on something special, twice.

Speaker 1 So that's why, you know, seven years

Speaker 1 and

Speaker 1 so on. So very important to keep an open mind.
make changes where they're obviously needed.

Speaker 1 If you're a leader, listen to what other people, encourage people to talk to you, even if, you know, and over time, get them to trust that if they have bad news or things they would think you're not doing right, that they'll come to you and not be afraid to talk to you candidly about some of those things.

Speaker 1 I always tried to have a situation where, you know,

Speaker 1 people knew that if they spoke to me candidly,

Speaker 1 there was trust. I was never going to quote them to anyone else.

Speaker 1 You know, and

Speaker 1 once they see that, you're not kidding, you don't do that, then it gets much easier. People don't, so

Speaker 1 I think the candidate, the other thing is communications. Communications is a lost art

Speaker 1 in many places.

Speaker 1 I'm very surprised at the poor communications I see, particularly, of course, in businesses that are in trouble or in organizations that are dysfunctional.

Speaker 1 The leaders don't communicate well. You must communicate regularly, consistently.
You should be telling everyone the same thing.

Speaker 1 You know,

Speaker 1 weak leaders basically are just parodying whatever the last person was they talked to.

Speaker 1 And so they're constantly giving different messages to the organization. And the organization's...

Speaker 1 is very uncomfortable. They have no idea what people are trying to do to make the company a success.

Speaker 1 I said that tells a story about pizza lunches.

Speaker 1 So what I like to do when I was first coming in to an organization was I would have pizza lunches. So I'd have maybe 10

Speaker 1 employees from all different levels and different functions.

Speaker 1 We'd have an hour and bring in pizzas.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 I was always amazed because early on in these turnarounds, shockingly, even in small organizations, the people had never met each other in many cases, including having cubicles practically right next to each other on the same floor.

Speaker 1 And, you know, that to me right away. Okay, Bill, you know, you know, alarms are going off when I see that right away.

Speaker 1 But I would

Speaker 1 use that to talk a little while about what I'm seeing.

Speaker 1 you know,

Speaker 1 and then I would say at

Speaker 1 the last maybe 20 minutes of an hour, are there any questions? And when I first started these, of course, in an organization, there were no questions.

Speaker 1 Now, I know they were dying to ask me questions, but what I would do is simply say, you know, if I were you, I'd have this question and I'd ask,

Speaker 1 bring up the elephant in the room, so to speak, and I would answer where I was on that.

Speaker 1 And then after three or four of these, all of a sudden, people were starting to ask questions because the word got around. i'm not afraid of tough questions i bring them up myself

Speaker 1 and

Speaker 1 people started they saw i wasn't mad you know or whatever i wanted to hear from them

Speaker 1 another element of communications is even if you really want to hear everybody's ideas even the craziest ideas because people

Speaker 1 you know people have strong feelings and you may make a decision as a leader to go in one direction when a particular individual recommended something different.

Speaker 1 But if they feel that you took them seriously, took their views seriously, wanted to hear from them, listen closely. Okay, you didn't go in the direction they were espousing, but actually

Speaker 1 you won't,

Speaker 1 they'll be fine.

Speaker 1 They'll be fine because you proved to them that you took them seriously and there'll be another time. You'll be back around on else

Speaker 1 um

Speaker 1 and so i tried to even when i sort of knew the answers if you will i just wanted people to i wanted to listen you know

Speaker 1 and uh encourage risk-taking crazy ideas what have you

Speaker 2 that's really cool so your new book that you're that's coming out in february you said it's called superhero leadership skills that did i get it right uh it's it's called uh

Speaker 1 It's called

Speaker 1 Superhero Leadership, the 28 Essentials for Superhero Leadership with Peter Cuneo.

Speaker 2 Obviously, we don't have time to go through all 28, but if there's like one or two of those leadership principles you think are like the most essential and most important, what would those be, do you think?

Speaker 1 Tough question.

Speaker 1 Very tough question.

Speaker 2 I love them all. They're on my book.

Speaker 1 I'll give you,

Speaker 1 we just covered, you know, communications is, I think, number three or something on the list. But what I often get asked is

Speaker 1 what's the toughest one to achieve because these are a list of philosophies behaviors um

Speaker 1 you know of principles and so on for out for good leadership and um

Speaker 1 the one that i always answer that question with is happens to be number 18

Speaker 1 which basically says that you have to be comfortable as a leader being unpopular

Speaker 1 because change always upsets some people, even good change, because it's change. And there are people who will be upset, people who will not like it.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 1 most human beings don't aspire to leadership because they know fundamentally that if they're in a leadership position, they're going to have to make change and they're going to make some people unhappy.

Speaker 1 And most human beings, we, you know, we all want to be liked by everybody we really we don't we don't want to upset anybody else not usually

Speaker 1 and so people don't aspire to leadership positions for that reason so you have to be mentally comfortable it doesn't mean you like it don't get me wrong and and you know you don't want to hurt people on purpose of course not you know um you don't want to be abusive at all okay

Speaker 1 but in the end you have to be comfortable that you're going to be

Speaker 1 unpopular and you may stay unpopular forever with some people. It's happened to me.
I get called from

Speaker 1 recently from someone I've known a long time. They said, Peter, do you know Mr.
XYZ?

Speaker 1 I said, yeah, we worked together about 10 years ago. Peter, you know, I have to tell you, he doesn't like you very much.

Speaker 1 And I said, yeah, well, here's the reasons.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 so on. And

Speaker 1 so, you know, there are people who will

Speaker 1 never give up saying this guy, Cuneo, is a bum. And that's okay.
I can live with it. It's not fun,

Speaker 1 but to be an effective leader, to make the change that's required, you know, you have to be comfortable being unpopular.

Speaker 2 Yeah, that's a tough one for sure.

Speaker 1 It's yeah, and you know, most people, I'll just leave you with this on this subject.

Speaker 1 Most human beings want to say, oh,

Speaker 1 you know, it's,

Speaker 1 I had to make these changes. It's someone else's fault or someone else suggested it or whatever.
And, you know, you have to own it. You have to own certain things.

Speaker 1 And it's actually how you build trust.

Speaker 1 When I've made mistakes, I tell the organization, I made a mistake. It wasn't someone else, wasn't bad luck.
I made a mistake. And, you know, we're going to fix it right away.
Let's talk about it.

Speaker 1 It's obviously, I blew it. And weak leaders never want to admit they made a mistake.

Speaker 1 So people will appreciate that. And I say to the organization, bring me your problems.

Speaker 1 Everyone has problems. We're all human.
I know you have problems. What keeps me up at night is not knowing about the problems that I should know about.

Speaker 1 Okay. And I feel we as a group, 99%, 99% can solve the problem together.

Speaker 1 You will, you will not get in trouble with me for asking for help bringing a problem. You will get in trouble with me if you don't.

Speaker 1 All right.

Speaker 2 So I hope you guys enjoyed the interview with Peter and hopefully got some ideas about your character development, about startups, about turning around, about communication, about leadership, and all the amazing things.

Speaker 2 Like I said, he's got a great podcast. You should go check it out called Superhero Leadership.

Speaker 2 He's got a book coming out in February, I believe, about superhero hero leadership as well, Because I think for all of us, no matter what area in life you're at, if you're an employee of a company, you've got to learn leadership skills.

Speaker 2 If you are the CEO or the entrepreneur in a company, you got to learn leadership skills.

Speaker 2 If you're trying to be someone who's speaking externally to people, we've got to all master leadership skills in our home, in our family, at work, and any place that we've got any kind of stewardship.

Speaker 2 So, I hope you have a chance to plug into his training and his leadership books. I'm excited to read them and go deep with him.
And with that said, I appreciate you all.

Speaker 2 And I will see you guys all on the next episode.

Speaker 1 Next up is a little song from CarMax about selling a car your way. You wanna sell those wheels? You wanna get a CarMax instant offer.
So fast. Wanna take a sec to think about it.
Or like a month.

Speaker 1 Wanna keep tabs on that instant offer. With OfferWatch.
Wanna have CarMax pick it up from your driveway.

Speaker 1 So, wanna drive? CarMex. Pickup not available everywhere.
Restrictions and fee may apply.