Master Hypnotist Reveals The Manifestation Formula That’s MORE Powerful Than The Law of Attraction | Jim Curtis

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Welcome back, everyone, to the School of Greatness. Very excited about our guest.
We have the inspiring Jim Curtis in the house, who is a master hypnotherapist, NLP trainer, and coach to many. Thanks so much for being here.
I'm so happy to be here. Very excited about this.
I'm already feeling the energy of our superpowers combining to really how we can be of service to the maximum amount of people watching and listening right now. And there's something we were talking about beforehand that I really liked that I wanted to ask you about first, and it's mind traps.
The world is, a lot of people in the world are suffering. A lot of people are suffering financially, physically, emotionally, and in relationships.
And you mentioned something really interesting that I thought might help people to get started with. And it's one, the mind traps that people are stuck in.
So I wanna ask you about traps and how to get how people can get out of them to create more abundance and peace and freedom in their lives. Part two of this question is how can we use directives versus questions to serve us in our life better? So what are the mind traps that hold us back from peace and abundance yeah and how can we use directives over questions to set us free that's really that those are good questions i mean so first of all we believe that we're in this reality right we believe that everything that we're doing up until now is real right and it's based's based on all of our programming.
So we've created and built up this reality, all the programming to it, to create our beliefs that then allow us to see the world in the way that we see it, when we've learned that. So if we built up programming to see the world in the way that we see it, it is possible that we could have had different programming from different people that would allow us to see the world in a different way and that it would be a different reality.
And therefore, it is possible that we have multiple realities. Everybody's in a separate reality for the way that they see things, feel things, or are affected by things.
Right? So, and everybody that feels as though they're trapped in this one predicament, this one space, this one reality, just has to realize that they can break out. Maybe I created it.
They can change it. But there are some mind traps that stop people from doing this.
And one particular mind trap is called the negativity bias. And you've seen this negativity bias.
We all have. So on social media, you get a thousand really positive comments, and then you have one really negative comment.
And which ones do you obsess about? Most people focus on the negative. Yes.
So you start obsessing about the negative comment, and it's our negativity bias that keeps us trapped in saying, oh, this is an issue in this world that I can't overcome. And when we start to become aware of that one, we start to focus on the positive.
Everything changes. Another one is our confirmation bias.
So if we can become aware that we have a reticular activating system that is out there confirming all of our beliefs based on these programming. So you just have to say, what results am I creating in my life? What's a big confirmation bias that most people in the world today are stuck in and that's holding them back around money or relationships? Yeah.
Really great confirmation bias around relationships is I'm not good enough. I'm not lovable.
All right. And what happens? You find people that continue to confirm that you're not lovable.
Exactly right. You get the breadcrumbs.
You go on a date and the guy goes to you again. You go on a date and the guy doesn't want to commit to a relationship.
Or the woman is texting all sorts of different men. or they are inconsistent, hot and cold.
And you're like, why can't I just find a great person that really loves me and pays attention to me? But when you do find that, they become boring. Isn't that interesting? Yeah.
You have to reprogram yourself that boring is not boring. It's not boring if it's healthy.
Just because it because it's up and down hot and cold doesn't mean it's good for you yeah or if you're like me it came from a really crazy childhood right where everybody's yelling and yeah making up right and so like if i was just even kill peaceful peaceful there was no there was no sexual passion yeah i needed i need peaks in the valleys need

chaos yeah uncertainty yeah you needed your nervous system to be completely out of whack

unhealthy for you to feel like this is love yeah totally that's my passion yeah that's my passion

i want makeup sex that's like that's what it was but that makes people sick it is it is that's why

people are miserable in the long run because they don't realize that oh it's your programming

Thank you. It is, it is, that's why people are miserable in the long run because they don't realize that, oh, it's your programming that something that's consistent and safe and like follows up and calls and all those things isn't boring.

It's beautiful.

And that's when you can be vulnerable.

And that's when you're allowed to be vulnerable that you can have a real true connection.

Well, the thing with that also is like you can actually expand. You can create true abundance from that place.
When you're in constant hot, cold, like you said, or your nervous system is on edge constantly because you don't know what the person's going to do or if they're going to give you the silent treatment or if they're going to be love bombing you all day or if you're somewhere in between, you can't expand from that place. for two decades i was in different relationships where it's just like just seemed chaotic right and a lot of them and i'm not blaming the other people it's like i was part of the problem too but it it wasn't until i was able to start healing my nervous system to create more stability in a relationship where i felt like i was able to expand everything around me because internally I was expanding and healing.
I think a lot of people get stuck in not healing their body, their mind, their nervous system around their programming, like you said, and your programming equals your reality. You're just going to stay stuck in that loop that's going to keep you feeling trapped, suffering why isn't this working in that in that type of relationship? So I like that you said that other mind trap Oh, that's another one the mind traps.
So that's that we got negativity bias. We got confirmation bias I love the sunk cost fallacy.
Okay. I'm familiar with that.
You may have heard it from your business Go ahead the some cost fallacy says I've invested so much in this. i can't possibly let it go now people you know but we've been together for two years business but i've put a million dollars into it and you can't let it go let me just keep suffering it's like in pain in this process trying to make it work throwing more good time after bad more money more good money after bad.
Then before you know it, another two, three years goes by and you're like, boy, I wish I got out earlier. Really got out earlier.
So it takes a lot of like, it takes a lot to be able to break free from that. Yes.
And to just change, right? So that's another one. Is there any more mind track? Yeah, there's so many of them.
There's this self-awareness is what really allows you to recognize it. When you start to look at the results of your life, then you can understand what your traps are.
Right. Because sometimes you look at results and say, oh, I'm really good at that.
I must have programming that's really good. Yes.
And so I'm confirming every day that I can make money or that I'm worthy or that I'm lovable. And that's why I have this beautiful relationship.
And then other results in your life that are like poor, you're like, okay, what are my traps here that I have? One really great one. Oh, one that I really love.
One really great one is the backfire effect. effect what's that and the backfire effect is part of your identity so if you believe something is true even if it's not even if there's maybe a another reality to it another truth to it and i challenge you with either a correct version or a different version and you double down and you're like all of a sudden you're believing in yours even more because you have to fight for it because if you let it go then some part of your identity or your reality crumbles and you you double down it's the backfire effect that's a really good one wow yeah and you just stay stuck in that now what's i mean as a master hypnotist hypnotherapist yeah what have you learned over the last few years that you realize you were in the backfire effect for yourself for a long time you were believing something to be true you were programming yourself that this was a true way of being,

that in the last few years, you had to wake up and question and start seeing it differently.

Two giant things for myself. One, I was always in business.
I've started some really successful

businesses and run some businesses, always under the thumb of some private equity or venture capital

firm. And I realized that I was saying that this is the only way that I could make a lot of money.
This is the only way that I could be successful. This is the only way that I could feel as though I was worthy in life.
And I was like, oh, but I'm really unhappy. And I'm working 80 hours a week and I'm sick, like out of shape shape and I'm all these things.
And so I realized that I was doubling down and saying, you know, this, this had to be true. And when someone else was doing it differently, I would see them succeeding.
I would say, but that's not me. Really? They have something that I don't.
Or they're really good at this. I'd make an excuse until I just had to snap out of it what I call is these hypno realizations really yeah I could tell you a little bit more about that the second thing though is my own health like I you know when everybody else was healing when everybody else like had these miraculous breakthroughs at Joe Dispenza or wherever else and I was like no they don't have what I have then on the pain that have.
They don't have the pain that I have. They don't have the condition.
They don't have what I went through. They don't have all those things.
They're different. Right? And then I had that snap.
I was like, oh, actually, that's not true. And what was the pain or the condition that you had that was holding you down physically? So when I had a lesion on my spinal cord, and it created damage to the nerves on my spinal cord.
So for a while I was in a wheelchair. I was in tons of pain physically.
I was stiff. I had muscle spasms.
I still walk with a limp. But I was, you know, it caused me not to exercise, not to date, not to do any of those things.
I was just in a place of like, this is my life. Really? Yeah, I went from an athlete to that, and then I went downhill.
Did you have a physical injury or an accident that caused this, or was it just over time this manifested? I wish that I did. So I was undiagnosed for a really long period of time.
So you just had like pain in your back and you were just kind of like sore pulled out? It happened quickly, quicker than that. And anybody that's undiagnosed will understand this because people, you know, when you, it's almost like you want, when you're undiagnosed with an illness, you want, you're looking so hard for the cancer.
You want the, you want to put your finger on it. Tell me what it is.
Tell me, give it a name. Cause heal it when it's undiagnosed you're like okay every day is anxiety I'm searching I'm searching I'm searching so just I woke up one day and I went into the shower and I couldn't feel my left foot and it began to you know move up my leg and I went to get an MRI.
And when I got that MRI, it showed that I had a tumor or lesion on my spinal cord. And I didn't know where it was from.
And then slowly it got worse. It started moving up to my waist.
And then... The numbness.
The numbness. Oh, wow.
And then my legs started to get weaker and then the pain set in.

The person was like tingling numbness. Then it became pain.
Yes. Within like weeks, months, years.

It within a year. Uh huh.
And then it and then it kept going downward after that.

And then the pain is just like you start slouching. You start like you don't want to walk.
You're stiff. Kind of all those symptoms that come with it.
Yeah, it was nerve pain because, you know, we have this intricate wiring in our body. And so the nerves were obstructed.
So it's nerve pain. And then all of a sudden you're walking differently.
And so like now you're thrown off. Yeah.
And so it's like back pain now you're out of alignment your joint yeah yeah yeah so and then there's the you know what I realized and this is what really got me into hypnosis is that some things would make the pain go away altogether like what happiness like what a concept huh yeah gratitude laughter laughter so like all of a sudden these oxytocins would be flooding your body and I wouldn't feel the pain I wouldn't have to take a drug I'd be like oh okay or I'd go to like a retreat and for a week I would focus on like connection to a higher power, connection to spirit, connection to my true self, which hopefully we get into. And I'd be like, boy at the end of this I can walk almost perfectly and I have no pain.
That's really interesting. So how do I speak to that part of myself that's controlling that? And so the closest thing that I could find besides, you know, prayer was like hypnosis.
So you get in there in a theta state, which is a state, which is a trance state, which is a state that you can connect to the quantum itself, if you believe in that. So how do I start to make changes to my subconscious, to those parts of me that's clearly controlling things that I don't even know? And so that's what really got me excited about it.
Is the mind controlling or influencing the nervous system? 100%. So is the pain that you had in your body or the condition you had in your body, the nerve pain, the tumor, do you think that was caused from the way you were thinking your entire life? Or was that just some freak thing that happened over time based on environment or conditions or chance? I don't know.
there is a real part of me that believes that illness builds up through emotional stagnation, through a difficult childhood. Even some people say through lifetimes, if we can believe that our spirit, our energy never ceases to exist and that we come back, and that in previous lifetimes, which Dolores Cannon and others, like Brian Weiss, Many Lives, Many Masters, focuses on past life hypnosis regression.
Wow. So if you believe that, whatever you're carrying with you karmically is manifesting as illness today.
And then one environmental trigger, and it's like, okay, what is this? So you see miraculous recovery with people just by changing and releasing stuff through their energetic and mental body. And so when I could release all my pain through releasing my sorrow, releasing my sadness and forgiveness, then things really started to heat up.
So how old were you when this started to happen 20 20 and so for you know 20 plus years you're in pain but you're also building businesses you're making money you're grinding 60 80 hours hyper successful yeah you're like accomplish accomplish win ignore ignore yeah yeah yeah just stuff the the pain, keep thriving so I can feel some type of validation or. Yeah, I'm not good enough.
I'm bad in some way, therefore, that's why my body's broken. My word broken would come up a lot.
So what am I good at? Okay, let's focus over here and it can happen. All my attention.
All my attention. Put all my worth into this success.
So much so where I wouldn't go to physical therapy right right and so that was my mind trap because I needed an identity that was worthy so I figured out the easiest way to be worthy yeah I think a lot of people can relate to that if you can feel free to leave a comment below and let me know how that shows up in your life or where you've been trapped emotionally or physically by putting all your attention in one area where good things happen and trying to stuff or hide the other areas that you've been afraid of or ashamed of or whatever you don't feel good enough. So when you started learning hypnotherapy and really diving into it deeper, what was the thing that was a big aha moment for you that gave you more healing and freedom in your body and in your mind? Yeah.
With the hypnotherapy, the hypnosis, the big aha moment was that we can get into a state that we allow our critical mind to be quieted, this critical mind that's always analyzing, analyzing, analyzing, and we can start to reframe different experiences in our lives. We can either even relive events in our lives in a completely different way because our subconscious mind and our energy body doesn't know the doesn't know time and space space and time doesn't know reality and fantasy doesn't know those differences we can actually reframe quantum leap all the way back and change experiences that we've had by experiencing that emotion under hypnosis and have profound effects for the future and current version of yourself.
That's kind of mind-blowing to you to say that. But that's one of the huge things.
So I started to do that with myself, with my own therapists, with my own hip, people that would go to hypnosis. And I learned self-hypnosis.
And I would start to do that with myself. So I don't meditate anymore.
I go into self-hypnosis if someone has never

experienced hypnosis or a therapeutic hypnosis to support their minds and their body get into an energetic state of peace and calm and quieting the critical mind into the more i guess positive mind or into a more way of being that serves the mind and body for expansion and abundance and if someone wanted to tap into a method or a mantra or a process that would allow them to do this for a minute a day you have self hypnosis yeah and they wanted to simplify it yeah what would that 30 second one minute self hypnosis technique look like for them yeah all right well good we'll do a minute we'll do a minute and so all we have to do right I just take a really deep breath mm-hmm and look directly up into your forehead and hold your breath and then release it, and close your eyes gently,

and take another one,

and look all the way up into your forehead,

looking up, and close it,

and release your eyes all the way down.

Take another really deep breath,

and look all the way up into your forehead,

already, and release it. And now all you have to do is focus on my voice and also if you're doing this yourself just notice all the things that you can hear at once and then start to notice your right hand and with your eyes closed you can just notice your right hand and if your fingertips start

to tingle on your right hand. And as your fingertips start to tingle on your right hand, start to notice whether you can make the fingertips tingle on the left hand.
Good. Now as your fingertips tingle on both hands, noticing the energy that's so prevalent in your body, you can just begin to count down from five, knowing that you'll go a little bit deeper every number that you take.
Five, four, three, two, one. And here is your state of relaxation, deepness, complete trance, where you can rejuvenate and just tell yourself something.

The most empowering thing that you can possibly tell yourself,

the most empowering thing that you can tell yourself starts with the I am.

I am is the spell of creation.

It is divinity itself.

It is creation.

And so whatever you want now here, down here,

you can just mention I am whatever it is. Good.
You're completely rejuvenated, completely empowered, feeling the energy of the universe almost flowing through you, the creation itself. And you can just start to come back up.
One, two, three, four, and five, eyes wide open and awake. Right back with us.
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Exclusions apply. It's like taking a little bit of a volume, right? It's really relaxing.
Yeah, but it also starts to tell yourself, like, oh, I can emotionally regulate, and then I can start to code into my system exactly who I really truly am. Yeah, I am.
Yeah. Yeah, the first three I am's that I thought of are I am loved, I am whole, I am peace.
Yeah. Yeah.
And so if you do that technique from looking up into your head which is a natural hypnotic

trance state and then releasing the breath counting backwards counting down and getting to a place where you can actually speak to yourself it's incredibly powerful because the critical mind keeps us in what type of state if we're always in criticizing not evaluating more information let me see let me see where the issue is um let me project the future let me make sure i'm safe let me um test this and see if i need it right it's ego it's critical it's it's safety the truth is, when we release all that, is I am what? What is the feeling when you release fear and planning and purpose and you release all that? The one thing that's left is I am. I am what is it for you when you release fear when you release planning when you release anxiety when you release sadness if none of that was there what would be there and the first thing that came to mind is I'm enough yeah but I am love I am joy I'm abundance i'm expansion all these things here yeah it's i am love i am expansion i am joy it's all these uplifting powerful things that are you know like we've been programmed we've been given and that all these other parts of us kind of cloud but if we're in the critical mind consistently throughout the day or for many hours it's going to put us into a more um state of stress it sounds like or a more state of concern or i don't know if lack is the right word but less of an abundant joyful playful state 100 100 now we need the critical mind right we have so much information coming that we need to process we need to create you know it's part of the human experience but when it becomes too hyperactive when we're not getting into you know kind of our subconscious when we're letting our subconscious rule us instead of you know people ask me is hypnosis mind control right and most people said no hypnosis not mind control it's absolutely it's mind control yes it's can mind control it's your own ability to control your mind now someone like me will help guide you so that you can control your mind change your subconscious mind so that you can control it so it doesn't control you and that's the most powerful part of it you start to have instead of manifestations you start to have real realizations like realizing that i am not separate from all this that i am not just the wave i am the ocean right and that i can actually have what it is this person this thing this activity i don't need to feel anxious and i don't need to feel separateness i can feel as though i'm one with it and that's the true feeling of wholeness and abundance what would you say then is the most powerful law of the universe to support individuals in creating the reality of their dreams yes that's such a good question and it is the it is i am so just the words i am so neville goddard way back when he found in the bible this this um saying i am that i am right and if you've ever listened to deepak shropra he talks about i am a lot of buddhist vedic all sorts of different philosophies about i am but it is the spell that is cast that will manifest if it's i am bad you guaranteed you will what you will get if you can start to say i am and listening to you with the words that you use and starting to feel i am is the creation it is the thought that the universe is experiencing us itself through us and therefore when we say i am we create because what we, our identity believes that we are, we have.
So what I believe I am, I have in life, not what I want. What I want, I'm constantly searching for out here, out here, out here.
What I believe that I am, I get every time. It's interesting because when I think back in my childhood, I used to think internally or say to myself internally and say externally a lot of I am negative sentences.
I am a horrible student. I'm bad.
I'm this. I'm dumb.
I'm stupid. Whatever it might be.
I'm not good enough. All those different things.
Or I'm slow. I'm a slow learner.
i can't do that or whatever this is these i guess you'd say spells or you know yeah mantras that i would say

either cautiously or unconsciously i was then creating so what you're saying what you're thinking you're starting to create yeah it doesn't mean it's your it's who you are but it's what you're manifesting. It really is.

It really is. And our identity is based in I am this.
And our identity is based in beliefs of what you are. And your beliefs and identity is what you create and what you manifest.
It's that easy what you see around you. What was the I am mantras that you would say growing up um you know growing up I was always I am not good at this you know I'm not good at math you know when I you know there was um I I think I was diagnosed by a teacher in school or I was held back in the first grade because I was diagnosed that I had like slight dyslexia or something like that.
And so I would say stuff like that. Like I have slight dyslexia.
And that wasn't true at all. You know, like that has had no impact on my life.
So there's a lot of I ams. Yeah.
And it goes both ways. You can see what you're good at.
Yeah. And you can say, oh, I have a great program.
I have a great I am for that. Mm-hmm.
What would you say then is the difference between the law of attraction versus the law of assumption? Yes. So the law of assumptions are what you assume to be true about yourself.
And so I believe that the law of attraction will never really work for you. Until you start to recognize what you're assuming to be true about yourself, then you'll just be consciously trying to attract something by wanting it and feeling it.
But really, your operating system, what you assume to be true, right, those things that you assume you're capable of, that you assume that you can have are the blocks in the way of that that's the truth the truth that you believe and then you're like okay i have this operating system that i'm not looking at but it has all these assumptions and now i'm going to go out and try to attract something and one reason it coming it's because your operating system has assumptions you haven't booked at yet. Let us say, you know, I really struggled in school, right? And all of my confirmations proved that I struggled in school based on the test results, based on how long it took for me to study every single night and still not understand the concepts all through, you know, kindergarten until college.
And so let's say that all I saw was evidence that I was a slow learner and I struggled in school. Yeah.
It was an assumption, right? It was an assumption, but I was like, but it might be true. You know, there's some truth to it because of the results I'm getting as well.
Yeah do I not lie to myself and say actually I'm a great learner and I'm this is easy for me how do I start to reprogram myself without lying based on evidence that's shown actually you haven't been good at this or you have been in bad relationship after relationship or all these guys did leave you or these girls did hit screw you over or whatever it is. Yeah How do you not lie to yourself with a false assumption? But start to be of greater service to yourself with an empowering assumption So that you can remove the blocks to manifest more.
That's interesting because Are there really any truths or any lies? meaning like Perhaps there was a truth that in that way of learning that you didn't resonate with them. We were learning.
But would there have been a different way of learning that would say that you picked it up really quickly? Or did you learn other things really quickly? Meaning like was there plays on the football field? Yeah, of course. That you were like, oh, I'm a better learner at this.
And therefore the truth could be that you're an excellent learner and so we start to think that like oh i'm not doing something in a way that is an expectation and therefore believe it creates a belief about this an assumption but and and that if i go against that go against that empirical evidence then then it's a lie. And how do I be practical and real? Mm-hmm and breaking free and what I do with people is like, oh, the truth is there is no reality.
Yeah, there is no lie and there's no truth. It's the matrix.
There's no spoon. Right.
The truth is that you can see even money take money to a desert island. It has worthlessness.
worthless so the truth is you're probably a fantastic learner and so anybody that's or the truth is like you're probably incredibly dateable or incredibly lovable and that you just need to see it from a different reality which is when you find the person that resonates with you or when you find the modality of learning or when you find X instead of the empirical evidence says because there's no real evidence yeah no what would you say that is the biggest thing that blocks people from manifesting more so the blocks of manifesting more is their belief that they need to go down a particular avenue to get it right so if i believe that i need to do it this way to have more money but listen perhaps you don't have to be in finance i worked in finance i was i was worked on the floor of the america stock exchange and is it true that i would never have made much money on the floor of the america stock said yes and so I recognized that but it didn't

mean that I wasn't capable of making money I was able to I just had to find the right avenue to do and so you can have more love you can have more money realizing that there's no one reality it's all subjective yeah you can have whatever reality you want what do you think is the biggest thing that blocks you from from attracting more, manifesting more, and raising your frequency every single day in this moment? That's a great question. What is it that is blocking me? I think that what I'm still working on myself and the parts of me that I'm still working on that's blocking me is my clarity, right? Or my real...
Like on where you're headed or what you want or... No, about I'll take on too many things.
I'll take on too many things and then I'm like, okay, I'm going to be able to do all these things. And now I'm going to have to find people to help me.

And so I think what blocks me is that, okay, I'm going to commit to this one thing and go all for it. And even if I think I can help someone over here or here, I'm just going to commit to this thing, this one thing and do it.
And so by not doing that, I think that I spread myself too thin. you you put yourself into focusing on one thing and you feel like you can't help more people or more progress at once or you feel like by taking on so much it all suffers i think by taking on so much that i'm splintering my focus yeah it all suffers yeah your energy is spread thin yeah yeah it's interesting because I I was at a mastermind years ago in Fiji with Tony Robbins yeah a week-long thing with Tony Robbins business mastery now it's like a 20 person like private mastermind with him I'm not a business mastery thing yeah it's in 2018 or 2019 and I think it was 2019 and we all went around and we're like in his private resort right with like the ocean behind us and we're like sitting out and barefoot you know with like Hawaiian shirt type of vibe like just a little hanging out like full day with Tony and my and my buddy Dean Graciosi they were putting on this mastermind and you know, there's 20 of us and everyone's got a hundred million dollar exit somewhere or something else or a big influencer or whatever.
And everyone went around and like asked a question. And I think I was the last person to ask or one of the last couple of people.
So I got to see everyone's kind of questions and there were a lot of breakthroughs and realizations. So it's kind of like they all you know they all kind of ask something maybe i would have asked so something came to me for whatever reason because i kind of prided myself as a i used to be a decathlete in track and field i was an all-american decathlete which is 10 events as a one event thing in track and field yeah right it's like i wasn't great at one event but I was good at 10 which allowed me to be great at the event of the decathlon I mean that's kind of amazing it was cool right because I wouldn't have been able to accomplish my dream of being an all-american athlete in one event but I was good enough at everything that I can excel in that event of decathlon and so I kind of like took that into life and business where I was like, okay, I'm gonna be great at everything.
I'm gonna be good at everything, right? I'm gonna try all these different products and revenue streams and all these different things at once and try to accumulate them all to get to where I wanna be. But I found myself energetically drained trying to whack-a-mole every product and project and thing that I was doing at once to try to get them all to excel and being great yeah and so I was talking my question was something around like you know how do I manage all these things how do I make all these things better you know I'm doing like 10 or 12 different things and I feel like I'm like a 7 out of a 10 on everything it's pretty good you know what I mean I was? I was like, it's pretty good, but it's like, I feel like I'm going to like a seven out of 10 for the last decade.
Yeah. And he goes, do you want to be a seven out of a 10 type of guy? Or do you want to be a 10 of a 10? I was like, yeah, I think I want to be more of a 10 out of 10.
He's like, you got to learn to focus your energy on like a couple of things, you know, and really until you get the process and the people in place to accelerate those things, then you could take on something else. Unless you like being a seven out of a 10.
I was like, nah, I just don't like that. Yeah.
So it was a few years of eliminating certain big revenue streams that brought in a lot of cash, but kind of drained me energetically or just pulled away. and I started going all in on more of just the show being the main thing and everything started to grow and the impact started to grow as well in that few year transition so it's not like it all happened overnight and it was like this effortless thing there was pain there was loss there was grief there was like a letting go of an old identity, but an emerging new identity stepping forward, which has its challenges.
So it's interesting to think about, but that's the way you're at now. You're getting this audience growth and awareness.
And so you have more opportunities coming your way. I have more opportunities and I can't help everyone, although I want to, of course.
And what will help the most amount of people? But there's two things that came up with it. You said, like, I've had a chance to work with Tony and Sage, and, like, there's no one in my better.
Oh, yeah, he's great. So that question he asked you was NLP, because it made you think of, you know, really the decision and the avenue that you wanted to go down

and so that's that's a really powerful use of allowing your mind to kind of like direct itself

with just one simple question and what's the difference between questions and directives

you know directives if he was to say to you specifically um a question that was if you weren't to splinter your energy over there, what would you accomplish? Something like that, right? Instead, he could have just said, don't splinter your energy. Do this.
And you say, okay, well, it's Tony Robbins. Yeah, I'm going to do what he tells me to do.
But all of a sudden, you empowered yourself by thinking like, oh, my God, what could possibly be possible if I didn't do that? Right? That's why with compliments, it's the same thing. Sometimes people can't take a compliment.
Like, you look so beautiful. Your hair is so wonderful.
Why is it so hard for people to receive compliments? Because they have that inner voice that says, ah, they're lying. That's not true.
I'm not good enough. I looked at myself in the mirror today, and I actually hate my hair, whatever it is.
But if you say something like, I wonder if you know how good your hair looks today. You say, oh, I wonder if that is true.
Okay. All right, I'm thinking about that.
And yeah, you know what? I think it does. You know, it has much more of an impact.
So as opposed to saying, I love the way your hair looks. Oh, you have great hair today.
As opposed to like directing, you have great hair today or you have great energy today. If someone's not feeling that, they're not going to believe it right away.
If they have a critical mind. Yeah.
If they have a clear mind and they're open to receiving it, they might say, oh, much I appreciate it or they have a belief that their energy is good yeah they're going to say thank you so much I appreciate you acknowledging that and you look great too or whatever it is but if they're critical which is probably a majority of people yeah they are going to deflect or say uh no I'm just kind of having a bad day but thanks or whatever they're going to be dismissive it first. Yeah, or they're going to say thank you and feel awkward that they got the compliment or they won't really believe it.
Because they don't believe it. Yeah.
But if we compliment someone by saying, I wonder if you realize how good this looks or how your energy is or that you've got a great smile today or whatever. Yeah.
Then it allows someone to reflect on the wonder and then yeah I and then you added the positive aspect of it. So it's like, oh, I wonder, I wonder why that is.
Oh, it must be true. And so that's, it's an NLP tactic, neuro-linguistic programming, but it's super effective to get below the critical mind into the subconscious to actually have someone receive something and start to change.

That's what Tony did with you that's so powerful. What's another way that someone could complement besides I wonder? What's another like entryway to complementing with a question? Did you know? Start with a preposition like perhaps.
you know for you know so start with something that has the mind sinking before you ask their compliment you know and be specific be specific about what they're wearing so if you're going on a date and instead of you know with a beautiful person man or woman that probably gets a lot of compliments you know that are or perhaps will the alarms will go up if you if they feel like they're being love bombed with compliments or something like that so um you know find something specific and compliment it um like you know um did you know how amazing it is that you came on time wow did you know how amazing did you know how amazing it is that you came on time? Wow. Did you know how amazing it is that you wore that dress? I love that color.
You know, like, oh, my God. Yeah, that's an interesting, like, loophole to get into someone to allow them to really extend, you know, a compliment.
That's cool. Yeah.
Because most people are stuck in stress and anxiety mode pretty consistently with what's going on in their lives or what they're consuming, the content or they're judging and assessing whether they're in their criticism mode or they're in envy mode or they're in self-loathing mode. So if someone is feeling stressed and anxious consistently, what's a way that they can raise their frequency to start to feel better on a daily basis yeah yeah we're constantly in this high delta beta scroll scroll compare compare so we're constantly you can start to raise your energy just by emotional regulation and so when you emotionally regulate you realize that i'm here now in the present moment.
And by the way, this really helps with this realization or this manifestation. That when we start to emotionally regulate that I'm here now in this present moment, that we relax and there's so much more that's capable of.
And so we start to ask ourselves two things. What's true? Meaning, is that really true? Or is it a thought? Is it, could there be another truth to it? Right? Is there any other way that's a truth? Meaning there's, if I was to cut your body open and look within your brain and your organs, is that truth in there? And if not, then it's in our thoughts and beliefs.
And that's true then there's 50 truths depending on 50 different people who look at it the same way and the second part is um a lot of people just kind of feel like they're doing it wrong and i say this a lot and i say it after every meditation after every hypnosis after every coaching you know like you're doing it exactly right this is the school of life no pun intended and the curriculum is difficult and to think that you're doing it wrong it's not true it's not true you're doing it exactly right all these troubles all these circumstances all these things you you're meant to experience in some way yeah because the consciousness says that it's not happening to us it's happening through us for us as us as your consciousness rises and it's possible to raise your consciousness grow your consciousness from victims happening to me why this boy this man this woman this job this person this life this illness to it's happening for through and as it's like okay that kind of changes that even opens up my a little bit. Why is something challenging or bad happening for us? Perhaps it's a lesson.
Perhaps, you know, if you believe in something greater than yourself, maybe it's a karmic lesson. Maybe it's a lesson that will help us get to a higher elevation of mind and spirit.
Maybe it was meant to happen so you could help someone else. Maybe it was your, for me, this illness was incredibly difficult.
The stress at work was incredibly difficult. All the things that I've dealt with in my life have been really difficult.
But I would not be in this moment here across the table from you if everything didn't happen and so i'm insanely grateful for it how old are you jim 49 49 so almost three decades of pain or or a challenge that you've been working to overcome and get back into wholeness and healing it sounds like right yeah um and it lot of pain. Like every day, I'm assuming you woke up with pain and you struggled to walk and you had doubts or challenges, at least in the first couple of decades, it sounds like.
In the last 10 years, it sounds like you've really transformed your thinking and your energy and you started to really heal and create wholeness from the inside out, right? But that's hard when you have chronic pain like that specifically in your back yeah it feels like debilitating right it just feels like you can only you're limited to what you can do physically emotionally you can move at a certain speed it feels limiting right would you take it back no really i i know what people feel like when they wake up in the morning and they're like excuse my language like they wake up in the morning and they're just like getting out of bed is hard because their their body hurts and then it's like immediately your mind hurts yeah right because inflammation of the mind inflames the body even more so and vice versa, it against each other and then you're like okay now I'm now I have this pain and it's like zapping my energy and and I have this physical condition that's making me different from people and I don't know what it is and so now I'm obsessing about it now I'm unworthy and all those things so I and that's an, now try to date. Yeah.
That's an incredibly painful place. That's why I know people so well, because I've been there.
But there is relief on the other side because of the mind-body connection. When you can start to realize, okay, this isn't happening because I'm a bad person, and there are things I can do to get out of this pain That the mind is miraculous and the body is too and if we are actually a projection of something bigger Meaning like there is more.
We are not our bodies. We are not our jobs We are not our clothes.
We are not our bank accounts There's's something actually bigger. The awareness of all of that above it all.

We can all kind of like say,

what is that voice in my head that's asking these questions?

That doesn't feel pained. And definitely not subconscious about the way it walks.

Right?

That is love.

And when you can start to tap into that,

I've had a couple of these epiphanies

that I would just break down in tears of relief because I tapped into this, oh, oh, that's relief. And that relief is love.

And when you can tap into that through some of these techniques that we've been talking about

today, everything gets easier. The pain goes away.
And there've been so many actual clinical studies

that using hypnosis, meditation, other things, the people with chronic pain, it eliminates it. It eliminates the need for opioids.
Self-hypnosis. Self-hypnosis, different forms of TM, transcendental meditation, and other forms that gets into the subconscious mind in such a way that the mind-body connection, you start to alleviate the inflammation that causes a lot of this pain.
Because in a sense, I mean, it's your mind interpreting the pain of the body. Isn't that correct? Like the pain is really just the mind or the brain sending a signal of like, oh, there is pain in this joint or this muscle or this bone area, whatever it might be, this part of your body.
It's the mind that's perceiving that, correct? Yeah. And so if you can calm the minds and almost get out of your body or above your body or through that pain with calm mind, you almost don't feel the pain anymore.
Yeah. I mean, there's the physical and the energetic.
So one, we have the biggest pharmacy in the world in our bodies. All the best drugs that pharmaceutical companies make.

Can't replace it.

Right, right. And they just enhance what's in our body.

So like the opioid receptors and the opioid receptors and all those drugs are just being blocked so that we don't feel pain.

So if an outside drug can do that and is releasing drugs within our body or creating changes, then our body can do it. Yes.
In fact, there have been, I love the story of this mountain climber. He was climbing, climbing, climbing, and he got into a predicament where he was going to fall.
And he reached up and he held on to a part of the mountain or a stick or just something that was sticking out. And he felt no pain and an overwhelming calmness.
And then he was able to pull himself up and he climbed over and leaned

himself against the rock and he had like a out-of-body euphoria experience right and all that was was his mind releasing dmt all the opioids all the oxytocin so that he could have a painless dap really yeah that's where he died no he didn't okay but he's in case he would it would be uh yeah

and so but he had a complete euphoria so if we can get if we are capable of that through deep trance states we can recreate it and we can eliminate this this fear and this pain and then there's this energetic state that when you grow the energy and joda spends it talks a lot about this i know he's been on here and i love him you can start to grow the energy within your body and your meridians it's some miraculous things happen i've seen some totally miraculous things happen yeah so for those people who are like suffering physically because they've had a breakup or suffering physically because of of they're unhappy or they have pain in their body and there's hope but again a lot of people live in pain and then they stress and have anxiety around having the pain and trying to find solutions to get out of it, which causes more stress or more sense of control or, uh, consuming energy around what do I do to get out of this? Or I'm not good enough. I'm not lovable enough.
So how do we tell the difference between our intuition and our anxiety speaking to us? Um, that's a great point, especially that vicious cycle of i need to do like all how do i get out of this right and and you can step back and say this listen i'm not wrong for having this i'm not doing anything wrong i'm not wrong and i can also find a path forward right so like stepping out of the weeds for a second just to say I'm gonna this

is happening it's okay and now let's find a pass through and so then the next question what was the next question the difference between understanding your intuition or anxiety speaking to us yes so often and we can talk about muscle testing and kind of how you feel it in your body, too, because intuition is expansive and you usually feel it in your body and it doesn't create a lot of thought. It's a knowing.
Yeah, like it's kind of a maybe you get a little voice or you just kind of feel this expansiveness in your body

And you're like that's the right one if you walk into an apartment you're with a person you feel that energy in resonance with anxiety or it starts to feel it in your stomach or in your chest and then you start to think obsessive like you start to find all the avenues the algorithm runs and you're trying to figure out figure out figure it out but the intuition really tells you and you can start to so the other day i'm swimming and i'm in the pool and i'm doing my typical workout um and i start to think about all the things i have to do and i started to think about oh god i don't have the right resources to get these done and then i was like oh and i didn't respond to these five people who are waiting and i literally was getting slower and slower until i just stood up in the middle of the pool and i like i just found myself standing up in the middle of the pool and i was like oh i have to really practice what i preach well and so what i started to think about i have a 17 year old son who's amazing i got this dog that i love i got all these awesome things happening with work and community. I got my family, all these amazing things.
I started to think about the sunset that I really love. And I started to swim again more powerfully, stronger than I ever did before.
And I started to say, okay, when you focus on the positive and the outcomes that you want, your body responds. And you can actually do muscle testing.
Have you ever done it? Yeah, of course. It's so interesting you say that because I remember my senior year playing college football.
The second game of the season, my dad left to go on a vacation with his girlfriend at the time. My parents were many years before then and he got into a car accident that left him in a coma for almost three months oh my god in new zealand so i'm in ohio in columbus ohio i'm 22 i'm a senior um and he gets into this car accident and i get a call at like 10 or 11 o'clock a night before a game on Saturday morning.
So Friday night before the game. And we don't know if my dad is alive or dead.
We just know like he was in an accident, he's in a coma and it's all the way on the other side of the world. This is in 2005.
And so it was a lot of uncertainty and anxiety. the next day i'm like do I play in this game do I like get on a plane and go to New Zealand right now which is gonna take 24 hours to get there like what do I do right is my dad alive is he dead it was just this uncertainty and it was a lot of stress getting going to that game the second to last play of the game, I break three ribs.
Oh my God. We lose the game in the last minute.
I break three ribs and I feel like, oh, my season's over. I don't know if my dad's alive or dead right now.
And this is really sad. All of this is sad because it was my dream to play professionally and I broke three ribs and i'd broken the same three ribs the year before in a football game oh my god so i was out for the whole season the year before recovering from this bro these broken ribs it took me like months to recover and the same three broke again someone hit me from the side as i caught a ball and speared me and i could hear the cracks and I'm just all this pain and stress and anxiety and overwhelm is in my mind right now if like Mike my season is over again.
I don't know if my dad is alive or dead. What am I gonna do and My sisters ended up going to New Zealand.
I stayed back because this pain was like throbbing and to to get on a flight for 24 hours with like broken ribs, I was like, I need to wait anyway so I'm going to do this. So I stayed back and they got there and he's in a coma for this first week while I'm in pain.
And I just made a decision. I go, I'm going to heal my body.
I'm going to come back and I'm going to play the rest of this season whatever it takes and i'm going to do it in service of my father and energetically i'm going to send him love and inspiration while he's in a coma i get chills thinking about it because within two weeks i heal my ribs it's kind of like this miraculous thing yeah now i put a pad over it so i'm not just like i keep hitting it over and over i like put a pad over it but i'm able to run jump catch everything move how i need to and i get back on the field i miss two games and i come back and every day in practice and every game i would put tape around my wrists and on my my cleats and just put for dad and put his name. So I was playing for something bigger than myself.
I was playing to send energy so that he would heal or recover or get out of this coma. And by playing for something bigger than me, I felt like it made me heal faster.
It made me stronger. And the crazy thing, Thanksgiving week, he woke up.
So a couple months later, he woke up. Now, he had a very long, he never fully recovered.
And he was, he struggled for 17 years after that until he passed. But it was a powerful way to think beyond the pain and beyond the brokenness physically or spiritually that I was experiencing with my father, where he was, I wasn't sure if he was going to live or not.
And it gave me a sense of energy to get out of myself, something greater than the sadness I was facing, the anxiety, the worry that I was facing, the loss that I might be facing. And it allowed me to put my energy and attention

towards healing and sending love through the journey of how I'm going to show up every single day, how I'm going to practice with love and joy, how I'm going to come back and do my best to help the team win. And I had the best season of my life, missing two games with three broken roofs.
Wow. That gave me chills.
Yeah, it was powerful.

But it was, you know, I two games with three broken roofs. Wow.
And that gave me chills. Yeah.
It was, it was powerful, but it was, and I could have easily gone into, why did this happen to me? My, my, my dream is over. All these things are over.
And it did do that for a few days until I made a decision. And a lot of it was just directing myself, like you said, and creating new mantras, new beliefs and reprogramming.
No, I am going to create a healing for myself. I am going to show up every single day in appreciation and gratitude, even though I may have lost my dad and I'm going to do the best that I can do.
And it was a, it was a powerful two to three month journey while there was so much uncertainty with if he was going to live or die and if I could play, but was a powerful for me to for that season of life when I was 22 just trying to figure out what to do with my life at that time yeah and some people may be listening to that and be like yes but you know my my sadness is too overwhelming I can't do that and that's a mind trap of the backfire if I get it and and it's completely possible. But it's also because you had a mission and a vision.
Right? So if we don't figure out what our mission and vision is in life, something greater than us, like make money, have a fancy car, then we will stay stuck in ruts longer because we don't have like that greater something propelling you. And to have a real mission and vision, you've got to figure out a little bit of what you want and say, what is that driving force that is going to drive me and my vision so when things get tough, I can be resilient.
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One of the things I like around, you know, having a mission and a vision, like you said there, is creating a season of life within that mission and vision. You know, I had a three-month window.
It was a season. It wasn't like, okay, the next 10 years I have to do this thing.
It was, this season is over in three months. What can I do within this season? What is my mission right now? To heal, to recover, to be the best I can and practice every day, to play my best in the games, and finish this season the best I can within the next three months.
And I think sometimes people, I'm not saying you always need a timeline of things, but I think having a season of life knowing this is what I'm up to right now. It may not be forever, but this is what I'm creating for this year, this six months, this month, to get me out of this rut and into this process.
Achievable yeah something in a season timeline Yeah, I got a couple final questions for you, Jay one of them is What's the difference between creating results by focusing on the outcome you want versus the outcomes you don't want? All right. Well, you you're gonna create whatever you focus on So constantly we start to focus on what's missing or what we don't want meaning um so i had uh i had these terrible pains in my stomach terrible pains in my stomach and i was like oh geez this something's wrong this is this is not i didn't need something bad this is this is an issue and so i tried to um ignore it and finally i went to the emergency room in manhattan near my house which is you know very crowded and it's it is near a methadone clinic it's a very difficult place people are detoxing people are very ill it's very crowded so they they admit.
They put me on a gurney. I'm in a hallway.
There's no room. You're just in a hallway on a gurney.
And I had maybe two years earlier been to the emergency room and spent like 13 hours in there. And so I went in at like 7 p.m.
And so all I'm thinking about is this is a major issue. This I'm going to be here all night.
Who's going to take care of my

dog? I have things to do. Maybe I have to like stay overnight.
And it's like, they're never

going to get to me. And so I'm laying on the gurney.
I start to really freak out and stress

about the things that I don't want. And, and the pain is getting worse, worse and worse and worse.

The more I think about it, the more I stress that the pain is getting worse. And so the nurse comes over and is like, how long is this going to take? And she's like, expect to be here for hours.
And so it's getting so bad that I'm laying on this gurney in the middle of people that do your toxin. I'm in the middle of the wing.
It's a mess. And I start to think to myself, I to again practice what i preach what is the outcome i want what is the real outcome i want i want this pain to go away okay what does that feel like that feels like joy that feels relief that feels like excitement what else do i want i want the doctor to come and say there's no problem you can leave okay what else do i want i want to be out of here by 9 30.
yeah i want to be out by 9 30. literally i'm just as a two and a half hour experience to me i want in and out and so the nurse comes over again i said listen what's the next steps here and she's like well you're going to get um this imaging well it was we're pretty backed up it's you know, okay, so like, let's, something's going to happen here where the

woman comes out and says, you're ready.

We're ready for you.

Literally in 15 minutes, the woman came out and said, we're ready for you.

And as soon as she said, we're ready to take your imaging, my pain went like from a 10

to a seven.

I was like, okay, this is good.

We're getting somewhere.

That's, I like that.

And so I get the imaging.

It's very quick. I come back.
I say, how long do results usually take? Oh, about an hour or two because we're backed up. I started to think, okay, what's the best result here? Okay, they come back quickly with quick imaging.
And within 20 minutes, they came back. And they said, we got bad news.
You have appendicitis. I was like, this is not the outcome i want man how did i do all this work and still get a really difficult outcome because they have to do surgery on that right and so is it like appendix they take your appendix out or something else that's surgery that's emergency surgery right then right then so i started to say okay that's not the outcome that's not good but i'm still not going there.
Really? I'm still not going to go there. I'm going to continue to focus on the outcome that I want.
And I said I'd be out of here by 9.30, and the surgeon's going to come down and say that there was a mistake or something. But what's the outcome that I want, the feeling that I want? And I started to focus on this expansion, this feeling that I want.
And it's like, this is not happening to me. This is not my reality.
I'm focusing only on the outcome that I want. And that's ease and joy and me walking out of here with relief at 9.30 p.m.
And so the surgeon does come down and he's like, listen, we don't really do surgery that much anymore for appendicitis unless it's about to burst. And in fact, we could probably give you some antibiotics now.
And if it flares up again, you go see a surgeon on your own time and you get it taken out quickly. Really? And here's a surgeon's name that is associated with the hospital.
I'm like, so I can leave? And they're like, yeah, you just get this like a bag of IV of antibiotics. And she puts it in.
She's really quick about it. And it goes in about 10 minutes.
And I'm like, holy, I can't believe this is happening. And i'm just like i get up i said that's it i can go and assign these papers i go i walk out

the door and i'm like let me just check i go reach in my phone i check 9 32. wow 9 32.
wow so when you focus on the outcomes that you want instead of the outcomes that i don't want oh my god this is painful is painful, this is terrible. Life gets easier.
You manifest what you want, and also your pain goes down. I was walking out of there, and the antibiotics didn't take effect that quickly, but my pain had gone from a 10 to a 3.
Yeah, you struggle walking some days, but you were skipping out of there. You're like, I'm jumping out of it.
I was it literally walking so easily out of there so like when you focus on the outcomes that you want you get the outcomes when you want when you focus on the outcomes that you don't want you get the outcomes you don't want what are your favorite affirmations for abundance then that people can say to themselves every single day yeah so um I really really love studying the I am frequency. That's of creation wholeness, that you are not the separate wave.
You are the ocean. And so I use I am.
And so like I am money. Like I am the energy of money.
I am the frequency of money. I am abundance itself.
I, you know, money flows to me easily uh the i am um oftentimes when you just repeat the mantra i am it's like the message to the universe that you are whole one and complete and so i don't say anything i feel my energy expand and i i did it to prepare for this interview today i did it to prepare for everything it's that's such miraculous things because when you're not separate you're one with everything that you want and so the i am mantra just sitting in a quiet place feeling your energy expand with i am positive thoughts about what you want i am i am i am that i. And just repeating that at any moment throughout the day.
Yeah. And then with your affirmations, um, you can put what you want at the end of I am and, and, and then using the question format, right.
Even start to say, how is it that I am? How is it that I am so worthy of money? So I mean, show me, universe, is what you're saying. Yeah, so like the questions before that we were asking the subconscious mind, the NLP, you can start to use questions within your affirmations.
Like, how is it that I am so good at making money, right? And the subconscious mind isn't going to say, no, you're not good at making money. That's not its job.
The subconscious mind is to say, answer that question. How is it that I'm so good at making money? Remember, well, you're industrious.
When you were 10, you had a paper route. You had to do it.
Yeah, you're resourceful. You're this, you're that.
You got this job. You did this thing when you showed up this way.
So keep doing more of that. Exactly right.
You've got great content on social media. Jim Curtis won, I believe it is, right? On Instagram.
Jim Curtis 1. Jim Curtis 1 everywhere.
And there was a video you talked about, which are the top four signs someone is living in a high vibrational state. Can you share what those four signs are? I love this.
Yeah. If you notice, like, animals are, like, coming over to you.
All right. Calmly and just, like, loving.
Yeah, yeah. I was at a friend's house the other day she's like boy my dog hey you know it's always growling and biting people and this dog is like in my face like wanting me to pet it um so you know cats are always at your legs but the dog that no one likes is kind of like trying to get your attention animals like you um friends and family members are asking your advice they want your counsel they're they're they're interested in kind of your point of view and you're do you ever have that kind of baby that is just always staring at you you walk by babies and they're like kind of caught up in your aura they're like staring at you yeah if it was an adult it'd be a creep but since it's a cute baby you're like i keep staring for like five minutes into my soul yeah and you're staring back yeah those are some really easy ways to tell that if it was an adult you'd be in jail you know but for the baby it's different yeah yeah yeah yeah those are some ways just to show that like you have a higher frequency uh-huh that you're off you're resonating at a higher frequency so if animals like you friends family ask for your counsel babies staring staring at you and the you know things just seem to go your way it's like you have luck all the time not all the the time, but it seems like, yeah, like things go your way.
Yeah. That's good.
And why do you think animals and babies or people can intuitively sense when someone is in a high energy state? Like, what is that? What is that energy, that aura, that essence? Is it a belief that someone is living within? Is it a calm? Is it a relaxed state? Is it, you know, can you trick them? Can you trick animals or babies to like, Hey, I'm this charismatic, like human, but really be negative inside? Yeah. Especially horses.
They know. They feel it.
Yeah. They feel it.
so that is our true essence that's our truth right we have this ability to sense things um and that's why i always say when we're about to do a session that has trance or hypnosis work like lock up your babies lock up your lock up your dogs and cats i say it jokingly because as soon as you get

into that theta state they're like oh you're here too what are you doing here and they jump on you but we all have this innate wisdom to be able to sense the vibration and energy and it's just our mind so loud we don't we we second guess it but we're all feeling it we're feeling the energy of each other in the first second.

Peeling it from when we walk in the room if the person's in another room you can just feel it yeah and when you quiet down your mind you know we all have it's so interesting because i feel like i've always you know i struggled with not feeling like i had the smarts or the skills from school to be useful for people in life because I was in the bottom of my class all through school. So I had this belief like, ah, I'm not good in school.
Can I be useful in life? But as I started to play sports and I started to learn human dynamics of teamwork of being coachable of coaching others of just like in a dynamic of we're setting up for a goal we're practicing we're going through challenges and overcoming them together and we're accomplishing goals or we're failing at them but we're learning lessons together and kind of enduring this season of sports I started to understand people better and I said okay maybe I don't have skills or smarts here from school subjects and like memorizing stuff for tests but when it comes to sports and mobilizing a goal and trying to accomplish that within a groups of people I can excel. And I'm actually really good.
And I'm very talented in this side of life. But I remember going into, you know, after my sports career was over, and I was like, how do I make money? Like, and everyone's asking about your resume and about the college degree.
And like, what was your GPA? This was this is back in like 2007 8 like i can't show them any of those things because i didn't have any skills from that world right but i don't know if this sports stuff would translate into a career or business so i was really concerned about it i was like will i ever make money i have no idea early on i started attending these kind of like social media meetups and I just went in there with like curiosity and joy. And so I was just going in for fun.
I was meeting people. I was asking questions.
I was like, man, what you're doing is so cool over here. And I was just curious the whole time.
And by doing that and asking questions and kind of bringing that energy people just wanted to help me and so I always started to so I started to go to a lot

of events and I started to build relationships and I just brought energy and joy and positivity

to these events knowing that I couldn't bring like some skill from a work career because I didn't

have a work career but I had energy I had passion I had curiosity I had like a sense of like

Thank you. like some skill from a work career because I didn't have a work career but I had energy I had passion I had curiosity I had like a sense of like wonder and love for what people were doing and what they overcame and I always found that people just wanted me to like they wanted to invite me to the next thing and they wanted to introduce me to this person and that led to something because you made them feel in a different way they don't know it's how you feel It's it.'s it and so i just really leaned into that and anytime i felt self-cautious like man i don't i have nothing to offer these individuals like everyone here is smarter than me way more talented i was like but when i enter this room i can i can stand up a little taller i smile, and I can ask questions and be curious.

And I can bring joy to what people are talking about. And I felt like that was one of the greatest skills that I brought for many years.
And probably still bring, because I still don't feel like I'm the smartest person ever in any room, but I can bring positive energy and joy and curiosity. And I think people are craving that.
So you got to look at what are the resources you can bring to a situation that raises your frequency and raises the energy in any room to be of service to those individuals. Yeah, I think that's an amazing point.
How do you think you learned that? How do you know? Survival. Survival.
Because I was like, you know, the, you know, the housing market crashed and the economy was down at this time. And I was like, uh, how do I get the job? I don't know.
I was living on my sister's couch for a year and a half. Someone else might've gone a different route.
How did you know that you were going to go with curiosity? I think because I didn't have the skill from school. I didn't have like a, uh, uh, you know, a high GPA or like skills from school.
So it was survival. It was like, how do I get into a room? How do I get a seat at the table? How do I meet these people? Let me show up at the event and let me ask questions.
Because I can't say something like I know what I'm talking about. So I just didn't speak about anything I knew.
I just asked questions and said, what do you know? And guess what? People like to be asked questions. They love it.
They love it. And they were like I would ask questions I wouldn't say anything about myself and at the end of the night people like this is the most interesting guy in the room And no one knew anything about me, right? Yeah, but I was just like fascinated with people's like man How'd you do this man? Tell me more? This is incredible and people are like I like this guy.
Yeah, I'll meet this person Oh, you know and curious that's it I mean anybody listening to this in their business or dating life like find find some authentic curious questions to ask absolutely yeah people people like to be listened to that's it man Jim I appreciate this I got three final questions for you two final questions for you before I do I I want people to follow you Jim Curtis on social media can Jim Curtis one on social media. Do you have a website, too, where people can go to? Jim Curtis 1.
Jim Curtis 1.com. They can check it out there.
Cool. But you've got a lot of great content.
If people are looking for affirmations and mantras and just great inspiration to serve you if you're getting out of anxiety or stress, check you out on social media. A lot of great content there.
And I want to acknowledge you, Jim, for all that you've endured and overcome for three decades of pain. Because I know how challenging life can be when you feel constant pain, fatigue, stress in your body.
It can feel daunting. It can feel like it's so hard to overcome.
Like, is there ever going to be a relief? Am I going to be stuck like this for the rest of my life? It can feel like the biggest weight in the world holding you down. So I want to acknowledge you for not letting that weight define you, but redefining who you are and continually evolving your identity to be of service to humanity by learning new skills, by learning new resources, by finding new skills to serve your mind and your body to be whole and free again, and being a messenger of hope for other people who might be experiencing something in their life physically or mentally that's holding them back.

So I want to acknowledge you for the journey you're on

and the process of you continually showing up and being of service.

I appreciate you doing that.

Thanks. I appreciate that.

This is a question I ask everyone towards the end.

It's called the three truths.

So imagine hypothetically you get to live as long as you want,

but it's your last day on earth and many years in the future and on this last day you have accomplished everything you want in your life and you've experienced life to the fullest and you've seen all your dreams come to reality physically spiritually materially everything but it's the last day and on the last day in this hypothetical world you've got to take all of your work with you your content your message your book this video anything you've ever shared with the world it's got to go with you to the next place when you pass so we don't have access to your content anymore but you do get to leave behind three things that you know to be true three lessons from all of your experience and we do get to keep that what would be those three

lessons or three truths for you that you would leave behind ah that's amazing we are not defined

by our pain or our body we are greater than our pain in our body we are not defined by it

all people all of us every one of us are at our core our very very core need that drives everything else that we possibly do in life is love that's our core need our core desire our core everything we want to be loved and to love something someone and the third is we are in our reality. Our current outer reality is always shaped by our inner reality.
And both of those are mutable, meaning we can change them. We can craft them.
We can affect them. I love those.
And final question, what's your definition of greatness? A definition of greatness is your contribution to the world. Not what you have, but who you can actually impact.
Yeah. Jim Curtis, thanks for being here, man.
Appreciate it. I hope you enjoyed today's episode and it inspired you on your journey towards greatness.
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