Details emerge in a grisly Kentucky murder. Young Thug is free. And how to detect deception.

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Listen to this week's episode of the Dateline: True Crime Weekly podcast with Andrea Canning. A prosecutor reveals new details in the disturbing murder of Kentucky restaurant hostess Amber Spradlin. A dramatic conclusion in the longest-running criminal trial in Georgia history as defendant Young Thug makes a surprising decision. The latest from the Delphi murders trial. And, a former secret service agent has tips on how to tell if someone is lying.

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Speaker 3 Hi, everyone. It's Andrea Canning back with the latest episode of Dateline True Crime Weekly.

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Speaker 3 Welcome to Dateline True Crime Weekly. I'm Andrea Canning.
It's November 7th and here's what's on our docket.

Speaker 3 In the spring of 2022, the state of Georgia accused one of the biggest names in rap music, Jeffrey Williams or Young Thug, of running a criminal enterprise. But last week, he left jail in a Mercedes.

Speaker 1 If you had told me that this was scripted in a TV show, this was like too unbelievable.

Speaker 3 In Dateline Roundup, Karen Reed is back in court. New videos are played for the jury in the Delphi murders trial.

Speaker 3 And we've got police body cam from the case of the Brazilian au pair accused of murder.

Speaker 7 He's our stabbier.

Speaker 7 I think we're going to show him.

Speaker 3 Plus, have you ever wondered how detectives know when someone is lying to them? We've got tips from a former Secret Service agent about how to spot deceit.

Speaker 8 We kind of know when things are off. Trust it.

Speaker 3 But first, we're heading to a small town in Kentucky for an update on a case we talked about on the podcast over the summer.

Speaker 3 The son of a local dentist has been behind bars, charged with a grisly murder he denies committing. Now, we're finally getting a look at some of the prosecution's evidence.

Speaker 3 In June 2023, Amber Spradlin, a 38-year-old restaurant hostess in Prestonsburg, Kentucky, was found murdered in a prominent dentist's home. For over a year, there were no arrests.

Speaker 3 Then this July, the dentist, Michael McKinney II, his son, and a family friend were arrested and charged with multiple counts of tampering with evidence.

Speaker 3 And the son, Michael McKinney III, was also charged with Amber's murder. Here's our NBC affiliate station, WLEX.

Speaker 3 The allegation, he intentionally killed Spradlin by repeatedly stabbing her inside his father's home on June 18th, 2023.

Speaker 3 All three men pleaded not guilty. Two of the men were released from jail, but the dentist's son, known as MK, has been behind bars ever since.

Speaker 3 Then, two weeks ago, there was a hearing about his unusually high bond. MK McKinney wants out of jail, and his lawyer argued why his $5 million bond should be lowered.

Speaker 3 The prosecution also spoke at the hearing and revealed for the first time some of the evidence they believe proves MK is Amber's killer.

Speaker 3 Dateline producer Rachel White was inside the courtroom and is here to tell us what she learned and what the judge decided. Rachel, welcome back to the show.

Speaker 1 Thank you, Andrea.

Speaker 3 Okay, so this is a complicated case. Let's start with a quick recap of what happened.
What do police believe happened in that house? How did Amber end up? at the dentist's house.

Speaker 5 So Amber had just finished her shift at the Brick House restaurant.

Speaker 5 She met up with a friend to grab a drink at another bar, met up with the dentist, his son, and this third man, Josh Mullins, and decided to go back to the dentist's house to continue the night and have a few more drinks.

Speaker 3 Okay, where does everything go wrong? I think this is where you're going to say we don't really know.

Speaker 1 Yeah. Right?

Speaker 5 So there's a lot of unknowns, a lot of details that still have not come out. For example, prosecutors haven't laid out a motive for this crime even.

Speaker 3 You were at this hearing where the defense representing MK McKinney tried to get his $5 million bond lowered. That's a lot of money.
What did the defense say?

Speaker 5 I think one of the main points of the defense's argument was that MK could be waiting for a very long time for his trial.

Speaker 5 They haven't tested a lot of evidence in this case, and some of it could be exculpatory evidence. The prosecution has said that that was because of a backlog in the Kentucky labs.

Speaker 5 So the defense is saying that MK is innocent until proven guilty and that the evidence in this case could take at least a year, if not longer, to get them to the point where they could have a trial.

Speaker 5 And that's a very long time for him to wait.

Speaker 1 If he's sitting in jail that entire time, that's a miscarriage of justice because it's not his responsibility to do this testing.

Speaker 5 His attorney also said that he has no prior criminal record.

Speaker 1 The allegation of he's a danger to the community. He's 25 years old and has a speeding ticket for five miles per hour over.

Speaker 1 That's it.

Speaker 3 Then what is the prosecution saying?

Speaker 5 The prosecution laid out a lot of evidence in the case because the defense's motion basically said that there was a lack of physical evidence.

Speaker 5 And so they, they went and laid out a lot of it to prove that that wasn't true. So we learned that Amber was stabbed at least 12 times in the head and neck and torso.

Speaker 5 And this was a very, very violent attack. The blade from the knife actually broke off in her neck and was found during the autopsy.

Speaker 3 Wow. And they, even though, as we mentioned, that they're not saying exactly what they have, they are indicating that their evidence strongly implicates MK.

Speaker 5 They are. So when MK McKinney was brought in for questioning shortly after the murder, scratches were seen and photographed on his forums.

Speaker 5 They're saying that under her fingernails, they found DNA, and the DNA was a paternal match to the McKinney DNA.

Speaker 5 But because of those marks on MK, that's why prosecutors are looking at him for the murder. Dr.
McKinney and Josh Mullins had no defensive wounds, according to the prosecution.

Speaker 3 Yeah, it's interesting because you have father and son. Correct.
So you need that extra bit of evidence to kind of put the pieces together, if what the prosecution is saying is correct.

Speaker 3 So there was also some video evidence that prosecutors mentioned.

Speaker 5 Yeah, so the prosecution says that the dentist told several people that MK left the house overnight. But security video taken from neighbors' homes shows that MK's truck was leaving at 8.30 a.m.

Speaker 5 Amber was last seen in the living room around 7 a.m. So the timeline that the prosecution is laying out here is that the murder happened sometime after 7 a.m.

Speaker 3 The prosecution also pointed to M.K. McKinney's mental condition.

Speaker 5 That's right. So this filing by the prosecution says that he had, quote, a history of violent outbursts and mental instability.

Speaker 5 It also says that he had, quote, heard voices telling him to kill himself and that he talked about some dark voices taking control and telling him to do bad things.

Speaker 5 And they also pointed to a time in which MK allegedly pulled a knife on someone while drinking at a party.

Speaker 1 One of the things that stood out to us

Speaker 1 was his own statements about his inability to control his anger. That he had instances where he was triggered and couldn't control himself, which is consistent with what we believe occurred here.

Speaker 3 We should note that the defense says these allegations come from one source.

Speaker 1 This whole pulling a knife, there's not a single other person who supports that story.

Speaker 3 So it sounds like a lot happened at this hearing. Was MK there?

Speaker 5 He was. He was there.
I did have a view of MK, and he was pretty stoic. You know, he was interested in what was happening.
The courtroom was full. There was a camera in there, lots of media attention.

Speaker 3 Amber's family, I'm assuming, was there?

Speaker 5 They were there, all of them. There were friends and family who knew Amber and knew her well there supporting.
And there were also people there that never were able to meet her.

Speaker 5 They were just there because her case resonated so much with them that they wanted to show their support.

Speaker 3 Okay, so what did the judge decide as far as lowering MK's bond?

Speaker 5 He said that the McKinneys had the ability to post his bond and, you know, that they didn't. And he said the bond will stay at 5 million.

Speaker 3 So many unanswered questions in this one. Rachel, we'll be keeping an eye on it and we look forward to your updates going forward.

Speaker 1 Thank you.

Speaker 3 Up next, the Atlanta trial of a well-known rapper produced viral moments and controversy. And then, all of a sudden, it unraveled.
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Speaker 3 For our next story, we're heading to an Atlanta courtroom where last week we saw the dramatic conclusion to the longest-running trial in Georgia history.

Speaker 3 At least for one of the defendants, rap superstar Young Thug. In 2022, Fulton County prosecutor Foni Willis accused the rapper, whose real name is Jeffrey Williams, of being a gang kingpin.

Speaker 3 She charged him with racketeering, said the gang had been involved in murder, and the key to her case? The musician's own songs.

Speaker 1 Carry it like I'm moving the body.

Speaker 3 If you decide to admit your crimes over a beat, I'm going to use it. For two and a half years, Young Thug sat behind bars as his trial, which involved more than two dozen co-defendants, dragged on.

Speaker 3 Then suddenly last week, in a move that surprised everyone, he took a plea deal. His fans on TikTok were delighted.

Speaker 1 Oh my God, I never thought I'd see the day.

Speaker 1 Young Thug is free.

Speaker 3 Young Thug is free. Here to talk about what that freedom might look like and how Young Thug ended up here is journalist David Dennis Jr., who covers pop culture for ESPN and also lives in Atlanta.

Speaker 3 David, thanks for being here.

Speaker 1 Thanks for having me.

Speaker 3 Let's talk about what Young Thug was on trial for.

Speaker 1 If you, you know, believe the Rico case, Young Thug is sort of the head of this snake that extends throughout, you know, a large swath of criminality in Atlanta, which the DA is tied to a rise in crime in the city and has sort of put that at the feet of Young Thug and YSL.

Speaker 3 That's his record label.

Speaker 1 Yeah, it's the idea that he is the head of this crime syndicate, this record label, YSL, that has done, you know, a lot of crime and violence in the city.

Speaker 3 So the criminal acts the prosecution said Young Thug committed included he received stolen property, a gun, made a gang sign with his hand and photos posted on social media, rented a car that was allegedly used to commit a murder.

Speaker 1 And we're talking about 27 co-defendants in this case which is just unbelievable yeah yeah i mean this is a huge case this is a huge sprawling case and there are still a few um people who are still on trial the lyrics in his songs fonnie willis was pointing to guilt based on those lyrics yeah i mean rap on trial is a huge issue um that has gone back uh many years that is a dangerous slippery slope in hip-hop there's a lot of people who make lyrics you could if you based you know crimes on lyrics almost every rapper not even just rapper a lot of musicians themselves would go to jail to base uh like criminality on like fictional characters is extremely dangerous this trial really has been dogged with controversy yeah i mean it's been a mess like there's no other way to put it there's been multiple judges there's been lawyers who've been tossed there have been viral testimonies from you know the guy who said he was high on the stand person said he didn't know when he was born and things like that.

Speaker 1 I mean, this has been as messy a court case as you can imagine. If it wasn't such a serious case, this would be something like out of an episode of the TV show Atlanta.
This was

Speaker 1 really around the city of Atlanta, the big water cooler talk, the barber shop. I mean, my barber shop had the trial on 24-7 when I was in there.

Speaker 3 Do we know what exactly happened that resulted finally, as we said, longest

Speaker 3 trial in state history? And now we have this plea deal.

Speaker 1 Part of this comes out of this sort of calamitous thing that happened a couple of weeks ago, which they had a witness sort of read out an Instagram caption.

Speaker 1 And it had the hashtag.

Speaker 3 So two of Williams's co-defendants go by the name Kway, and the jury wasn't supposed to know that they or any of the defendants have been locked up in the months before and during the trial.

Speaker 3 That mistake possibly tainted the jury?

Speaker 1 Yeah, so the defense was trying to make an argument that this was a prejudicial

Speaker 1 factor in this, that the jury found out that somebody was in jail when they're trying to keep the jury sort of out of that information.

Speaker 1 And that really led to a moment where both sides sort of saw that a plea deal may be the quickest way and maybe the best way to get out of this.

Speaker 3 What exactly did Jeffrey Williams plead guilty to?

Speaker 1 So what he has pled guilty to was participation in a gang. He pled guilty to three drug charges, two gun charges.

Speaker 1 He also pleaded no contests to the charges of being the leader in the gang and conspiring to violate the RICO.

Speaker 3 And so, to break it down, he's not admitting that the state is correct about his record label being a gang with him at the top, but he's also not going to fight them in court any longer.

Speaker 1 Yeah, basically, it's kind of an impasse.

Speaker 3 So, Young Thug put his fate in the judge's hands. Did he make a statement at all?

Speaker 1 Yeah, so he made about a 10-minute speech. He did apologize.
He thanked the judge being fair. Said he learned a lot in these last two and a half years that he's been locked up.

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Speaker 1 I learned that late.

Speaker 11 Maybe it was because I was,

Speaker 11 you know, probably on drugs. I don't know, but I have came to my senses.

Speaker 1 He cracked a couple of jokes. He talked about the bailiffs and everybody getting overtime.

Speaker 1 And he said he would hope he never see the judge again.

Speaker 11 I hope that you allow me to go home today and just trust in me to just do the right thing and never see you again

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Speaker 11 bar in the future or something. I promise you, I won't ever be in this type of situation again.

Speaker 3 So the judge decided his sentence.

Speaker 1 What did she do? She gave him time served, which has been two and a half years, and then 15 years of probation on top top of that.

Speaker 1 And if he violates that probation, there's a 20-year sentence that's sort of hanging over his head. So he gets to walk free, but it's going to be a really challenging next 15 years for him.

Speaker 3 He has a lot of restrictions on him about what he can and cannot do.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I mean, like, he can't be in Atlanta where he's from, unless there's funerals, things like that. He cannot quote unquote promote gang activity in his music or hang around

Speaker 1 any quote unquote gang members, except for like his brother and Ghana who's a collaborator and he's subjected to search and seizure at any point over the next 15 years and which to me

Speaker 1 that feels like a hell in itself like that's it's not jail but it does feel

Speaker 1 it feels dangerous I mean like what are things that you say that promotes gang activity in your music right and it's sort of up to somebody's discretion Is there any public outcry that he got off too easy?

Speaker 1 A lot of the public outcry is about the trial itself. The fact that this trial has taken so long

Speaker 1 and it's taken a lot of resources. There's really nothing to show for it.
You know, there's no belief that the streets of Atlanta are any safer.

Speaker 3 David Dennis Jr., thank you for your insight into this case. We appreciate it.

Speaker 1 Thank you.

Speaker 3 Next, we've got Dateline Roundup.

Speaker 3 The Massachusetts Supreme Court takes up the Karen Reed case, and in a DC suburb, a last-minute guilty plea raises the question, has the Brazilian au pair turned on her lover?

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Speaker 3 Welcome back. Joining me for this week's Dateline Roundup is Dateline producer Sue Simpson.
Hey, Sue.

Speaker 1 Hey.

Speaker 3 So we are off to Massachusetts with some news in the Karen Reed case, who listeners will, of course, remember as the woman accused of killing her Boston police officer boyfriend, John O'Keefe, in 2022 by drunkenly backing her car into him.

Speaker 3 Reed went on trial this spring, but the jury was hung and a mistrial was declared on July 1st. Both teams are gearing up for a second trial.
So tell us what is new, Sue?

Speaker 14 Well, this week, actually, on Wednesday, Karen Reed's attorney and the prosecutors appeared before Massachusetts highest court for a hearing. Hear you, hear you.

Speaker 3 SJC 13663, Commonwealth versus Karen Reed.

Speaker 14 And this is because after the mistrial was declared, the defense team said they heard from multiple jurors who told them that the jury unanimously agreed that Karen Reed was not guilty on two of the counts against her.

Speaker 14 The defense team argued that she shouldn't be acquitted on these two charges. They should be dismissed.

Speaker 10 Today's appeal goes to the core issues regarding double jeopardy protections that safeguard defendants, in this case, Ms. Reed.

Speaker 14 Prosecutors got up and said, no, no, wait a minute. You should have spoken up in open court when the mistrial was declared.
And those were the arguments made on Wednesday.

Speaker 14 The Supreme Judicial Court in Massachusetts has 120 days to make a decision after hearing these oral arguments.

Speaker 3 So the prosecution is trying to keep things as they are when we go to trial a second time in January.

Speaker 1 That's exactly right.

Speaker 14 What I would say, though, is it's not necessarily clear they're going to go have that retrial in January because both sides actually filed a joint motion on Monday saying to the judge, could we please have an extension?

Speaker 14 They're asking both the defense and the prosecution for the trial not to start until April 1st. Okay.

Speaker 3 Thank you for that update, Sue.

Speaker 3 For our next story, we are off to Northern Virginia. We have been following closely the case of the Brazilian O-Pair, who was charged with murder.

Speaker 1 Right.

Speaker 14 The victims in the case were the mom the Brazilian O-Pair was working for and another man, a total stranger. Both of them were found dead in the family home.

Speaker 14 And the dad of the family, Brendan Banfield, has been charged with killing the moms, his wife, Christine, and that other man named Joseph Ryan.

Speaker 14 Prosecutors say that Banfield plotted to kill his wife, and the O-Pair was in on it.

Speaker 3 Last week, the big news was that the O-Pair, Juliana Perez-Magales, pleaded guilty to manslaughter. And now we have some new information.

Speaker 14 Our Dagron team got their hands on body cam footage from the officers who first responded to the scene. The O-Pair, you may remember, was the one to calm 911.
On the body cam, You can see her gasping.

Speaker 14 She seems distraught. She's talking to officers.

Speaker 3 Take a minute, okay?

Speaker 1 Okay.

Speaker 1 Do you just want to tell me quickly what happened?

Speaker 14 I don't know what happened. Everything happened so fast.
She tells them that she saw Joseph Bryan stabbing Christine and that Brendan shot him to defend his wife.

Speaker 7 He started stabbing her. Brendan, I think Brendan shot him.
And he has now shot him too.

Speaker 3 Prosecutors say that story is not true. They say that the O-Pair was covering for Brendan, who they say lured Joseph Ryan, that stranger, to the home through a fetish website.

Speaker 3 And they say tried to frame this stranger for his wife's murder.

Speaker 1 That's right.

Speaker 14 And we haven't heard, of course, Brendan's side of things yet, but the O-Pair says she's going to testify against him as part of a plea agreement that she made last week.

Speaker 3 Okay, finally, we're headed to Delphi, Indiana for the trial of Richard Allen. He is the man accused of fatally stabbing two middle school girls in 2017.

Speaker 14 Yeah, it's been another intense week at that trial.

Speaker 14 The jury got to see over a dozen videos of Allen in prison from the time when he gave more than 60 confessions and when the defense says that he was in great mental distress.

Speaker 14 We know they included footage of Allen being tased, eating feces,

Speaker 14 and being transported for medical treatment. The defense was pushing their point that the confessions were a product of some kind of psychotic break.
They weren't real.

Speaker 3 Any other big witnesses?

Speaker 14 There was also a tool mark expert who took a stand and raised concerns about the analysis of the states examiner, who had said that the bullet found at the crime scene had cycled through Alan's gun.

Speaker 14 And that's a big one because the bullet is really the only physical evidence that the prosecution has to tie Alan to the scene.

Speaker 3 Yeah, really big point in this case. The defense rested Wednesday morning, so we'll keep you updated as this trial comes to a close.
Sue, thank you for coming back on Roundup.

Speaker 14 Thanks, Andrea. It's always great to do it.

Speaker 3 There's something that nearly all date line episodes have in common. Someone is lying.
It could be a murderer lying to police about an alibi or a husband lying to his wife about an affair.

Speaker 3 Sometimes it could be a detective lying to a suspect to get information.

Speaker 3 So for our final story this week, we wanted to find out how can you tell if someone is lying to you, if someone is deceiving you?

Speaker 3 We asked former Secret Service agent Evie Pomporos, who conducted her fair share of polygraph exams, for some tips. Hey, Evie, thanks for coming back.

Speaker 8 Thanks for having me.

Speaker 3 People lie. Sometimes they're harmless.
Sometimes they're white lies. Sometimes they're big lies that can really impact your life in a negative way.

Speaker 3 How can you read people in a way to know if they're lying to you or not?

Speaker 8 Well, first, There are three primary ways people lie. One way is they'll tell you a full-on lie.

Speaker 8 The second way they tell you a lie is they will tell you a lie, sprinkle in a little truth, then a little lie, then a little truth.

Speaker 8 The third way people lie, the most common way people lie, is they lie by omission. I'll tell you this part here, but I'm going to leave this part out.
So how can you catch this behavior with people?

Speaker 8 The first thing I'm going to say is we have to know people's baselines. Who are they normally when they're not threatened, when they're in a relaxed mode?

Speaker 8 Now, when you start asking people uncomfortable questions or questions where you start thinking, I want to know, you know, what did my significant other do last night?

Speaker 8 Am I looking at my significant other's baseline? Sure, because I'm going to see deviations. We all kind of, the people that are close to our orbit, we kind of know when things are off.
Trust it.

Speaker 8 Just pay attention and then start asking follow-up questions.

Speaker 3 What type of follow-up questions would you ask?

Speaker 8 Tell me more about that. Be curious.
And so if you see them struggling to answer your question or they consistently don't want to answer it, now you know there's a problem with this question.

Speaker 8 When you interview people and teenagers are king and queen, when they do this, they make you feel stupid. That's a dumb question.
I already told you, I can't believe you're asking me this.

Speaker 8 Those are red flags. Now, look, does it mean that person's lying? No, but you should ask yourself why.
Why is your response so strong to something simple that I ask?

Speaker 8 Often people do this to get you to back down. Another super common thing is answering a question with the question.
Who me? Stalling tactic.

Speaker 3 So that's verbal. What about body language?

Speaker 8 The problem with body language is the narrative is, oh, they looked up and to the right. They're making up the lie.
It is absolutely not true. Think of it this way.
We are so uniquely different.

Speaker 8 How can you actually put somebody in the box as what they're going to physically do in a lying scenario? Now, can some people give you cues? Yes.

Speaker 8 So if you ask me a question, and the whole time we're talking, my hands are down, I'm not putting them up to my face. And then all of a sudden, my hand goes up to my mouth before I answer.

Speaker 8 You should in that moment say, hmm, that is super weird. Does that mean I'm lying? No.
It could mean, though, that's an uncomfortable question for me. I contact two for some people, not all.

Speaker 8 I've interviewed so many people. And I've had many people look me in the eye all day long and lie, lie, lie.

Speaker 3 That's the big one that you hear about is that someone will look down or they won't won't look you in the eye if they're if they're lying.

Speaker 1 Some can.

Speaker 8 Again, just because somebody does it, it doesn't mean everybody's a liar. Pay attention.
And, you know, I also think people should just trust their instincts. If it feels off to you, it probably is.

Speaker 8 Just listen to it.

Speaker 3 Yes. All right.
What I love about these tips are that you can use it in your everyday life. So thank you, Ebby.
Absolutely.

Speaker 3 That's it for this episode of Dateline True Crime Weekly. Next week, the conclusion of a trial that's riveted Minnesota.

Speaker 3 Did the man who admitted to law enforcement that he was infatuated with the Gabby Petito case murder the mother of his children?

Speaker 3 To find out more about the cases covered on the show, head to our website, datelinetruecrimeweekly.com.

Speaker 3 And coming up this Friday on Dateline, almost 30 years after Eric and Lyle Menendez were sentenced to life in prison for murdering their parents, amidst a surge of public attention and a DA's recommendation, could they be released?

Speaker 3 We're viewing everything that happened back then through a different lens.

Speaker 1 A different lens, yes.

Speaker 1 But is it making our vision any clearer?

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Speaker 3 I'll be talking with Lysa Yellowbird, who tracked down one of the men involved in the disappearance of her niece and now crosses the country with her search dogs looking for other missing people.

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