"Über Verlust sprechen" mit Constanze Falkenberg
Die Anzahl an jährlichen Verkehrstoten ist in Deutschland ist über die vergangenen Jahrzehnte deutlich gesunken. Trotzdem ist jeder Einzelfall einer zu viel - 2023 verloren 2.839 Personen ihr Leben im Straßenverkehr. 2012 waren es 3.600 Personen und mit Constanze, die in Ende 2012 ihre Familie an einen Autounfall verlor, spricht Philipp in dieser Folge.Die Familie, das sind Constanze, ihr Mann und ihre drei Kinder sind an diesem schicksalbehaftetem Tag auf dem Heimweg von den Großeltern, als auf der A6 ein LKW von der Gegenfahrbahn durch die Leitplanke bricht und das Auto der Falkenbergs unausweichlich trifft. Als Constanze sich im Auto umschaut, sagt ihr bereits ihr erster Instinkt, dass die anderen den Zusammenstoß nicht überlebt haben. Sie selbst kann sich aus dem Wagen retten, bevor er in Flammen aufgeht und die Rettungskräfte eintreffen.Was Constanze in den ersten Wochen und der Zeit nach dem Unfall hilft, ist zum einen, dass sie von einem großen sozialen Netz aufgefangen wird. Zum anderen kommt ein Filmteam der ARD auf sie zu. Dieses Filmteam hat Fragen zu ihrem Schicksal aufgeworfen, denen sie sich bis dato noch nicht gestellt hatte, die ihrem Trauerprozess aber gut taten. Vor dem Unfall sind die Falkenbergs eine engagierte und aktive Familie, so auch die Kinder - Constanze bezeichnet sich selbst als klassisches „Mama-Taxi“. Doch nach dem Unfall muss sie ihr Leben komplett neu ausrichten. Es ist beeindruckend, wie gut ihr dies gelingt. Constanze wagt sogar beruflich einen Neuanfang und macht ihr Examen als Physiotherapeutin. Mit dieser Ausbildung möchte sie im Rahmen einer eigenen Stiftung schwerstbehinderten Kindern helfen.
Aufgeben war und ist für Constanze bis heute keine Option. Insbesondere an Jahres- und Geburtstagen holt der Unfall sie jedoch ein. Trotzdem versprüht Constanzes Geschichte unvergleichbaren Lebensmut und Zuversicht - die möchten wir in dieser Folge mit euch teilen.
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a last talk, a tattle.
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a problem in English, and
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also
personally also
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the same time.
Constanze Freichenberg had an auto underspedem irregular familiar.
Michael Jerman Jurgen also
read
the
moment of
Austin Fugenger.
constanza.
Hello, Philippe,
here.
We spread
November 2012, so
here is
a Zamstag to be
a
character, the Kinne, Vanessa, Eric, and Amelie,
Elf, and Sieben.
And I said, My
family,
Jurgen,
also
in Nürnberg,
and
I want the Schwigen also,
that we have relative fixed
versions,
in the culture,
that we want to
do it.
That's why
in Bersur.
Well, we kind of
went to the city, we had the house for West, and
this is what
I
also want to do with
temple,
and what
I
missed.
And then
it was a design
that
can feel
and what?
is in this moment?
I say
that also when
a last,
I think what
helps,
and
then
we
have the light plank, and I
think what
problem is English,
and
then
what moment is
that last thing is because the light plank
and also
in an interview
that
we inside.
Yeah, so
I think
this
is
what I also
keep, and I have also
the
hat so they had also
and
then
also realized that we
also
then?
And
this aufra, or
has to do with
this?
Yeah,
but
I think that I directly.
it's my
sovereign.
Then
you could
do
that in the studio with
me.
I have done with
auto stills
and
gesages, so that we
can do it because I also realized that there are auto-brenda,
as I
was
saying, and
that is also myself.
I think that my
sale or
whatever is
not,
and
what this moment
and the
same thing.
That was the darchon.
I think
this is
to do in the moment,
also,
and what
we're talking about.
I have to say, that I think
that we
are
also
going to be able to do it.
So, we have this auto-service,
what a master intact.
I
cook, whatever, cooked was that my string.
I was not
sure about
it.
That's the
thing.
And then what the moment
is.
So long hat
and then
that's it.
we
had to come here.
I said,
And
the light plank and this auto or Euro auto would not ring
with
auto break.
And
the person
also
kind of
thinks that the
moment
I sit down
as
well,
that
we can
And then what
sold,
and that's
the computer, and
I
think
that's what I'm saying.
Yes, and then we
have this
it, as I
said,
then
we won't
be
a very good
mother, and yeah.
So, I just
want to say that.
think
Harvard
is
a very good question.
But what is
Clara?
Yeah.
And we wanna
see her.
And then
we
have to
realized
in Ellauan, and
the pizza
hunger
and
the pizza
continued, I think.
Yeah, and then
we're
like,
the screen.
But I mean,
so
I was
wish and
feel
project, feel free.
We have
anger, I have the skills, and
also
a
moment
for braketaphor that moment and endless work for
the moment.
And yeah, we
can't do my calendar.
That's what
I feel.
The family manager and those for the society.
So we have
to
That's what
I was saying,
that
in the contest, in a way, to
make
that
end, we can
sprint
the legal gate, but it's Buddha, that is to say,
Yeah, we
are
hard and then
a
warfare in this moment
all the energy of the autobahn and
the familiar manner is the family manager
is
kind of familiar.
What do you say realizing what the passion is?
So, contest
what
you do.
So, what we do is
And
also
in this
lengthen
side here.
And when
you familiarize,
the kinderhatten son tags
and
total era.
So
this is
what we also
get.
So we
can also
project,
also
And
I have
to live this arm.
And then
we
have to go and then
we have to be here.
as a realistic normal,
and I don't have any
holes,
but it's not a very good thing.
I've been
there.
But this was
political,
address
addressing
the Arab
and then
telephone for me.
Than
we have my language
in anger.
Die dang.
I come to
you.
And we
have
a
cooker and bring me an app for
it.
And
this is also
a good thing.
But that's what we're doing
from the world is
and the
music.
Or what
I must say,
yeah.
So in the artwork,
originally,
yeah, I had
the
good valets, the motherfucker.
I had
the
brochure
and the prospect
and
a ripple
next.
And that is really
when the prospect is
the
same.
But when the
brochure is
aiming
that is a bit
more than
a staff,
I
went to the other
so
by spreading
this
nicht and the
behalf,
the
left
end.
That was my best
friend,
and then
in our
house, so
you can't do it.
Nine
mamma.
and
all
the
people.
Constance Elijah was that
we
had
families.
Not in Kangenhaus is
a cooperation for Hilfernke,
the suggestion
is enormous and an absolute
situation.
The
theme with the
confrontation
of
news and
for
me,
is a process
that
in an end.
Fuhrer has
a social fashion model, the trauma and we
can
also
the model not
referenced, draw processes
individual processes and
massive people.
At least
in the side, a social
con emotion
and
the new reality, not
the
process begins to
remonate.
But Constance
and
the Besuch and the
Freud and family
and
the physical
side brings
empathy
and the
remote solution.
My worst
and
in Brussels
has the
The
Kangenhausen
fluor, and Wolfen,
Wolfine
began to
mention English,
and had auditions.
Yeah, but the Word
that
we have
one
that comes,
that
is what
I think.
And also,
in this
case,
in the
house,
and
be
possible to
note
politics, I think, in my comments,
and
he
said all
and
etc.
this mood
not to shape and
beaten.
I think
that the frontier would
be
not last fall, but we
have individuals, but there is a go?
Yeah.
So I also
in this
case
I'm going to
go back.
That's me, so what we're doing.
We
have
a lot of fun and this this
is
kind of
like a little bit of a trend.
So, it's turbulent,
but I think when we we
go
to Gibbs, you have to go
to the same place.
So,
I
think we can also
merchants also come the
chef the firm there,
not
and
to my exact way
to see
this.
That
also
I can wait
for.
That I
have in the Bureau
and
so forth
in her jungle.
I was
under,
but I would not
to do.
I don't know what to do with her.
I would
say
I wouldn't be able to do it.
It's
also relative flood that I wouldn't
and
that
also gets together.
And that is
the
relative to
these
processes.
Design also,
but I'm waiting for the class to the machine.
I
have to say relatively good, I have
to say, and
also
what
then I soon
and can
directly.
And I have not a trade
with
the music.
While this
is my
And that's what I
would feel
and
that a plant
film
and this came down
and then
Hamdie Biden
documentary,
and then we
are
glad.
So, a target and
a bit
in the document
that I alleged
that to a label
and I think it's also
a humorous, but also
we
don't have
a constancy.
So, we get
in the situation, but we have to make this law that we come.
Yeah, that's it.
We can
kind of
get
it,
and then
a wonderful
thing exists,
we
have that brings me a bit
more.
So we
have to
do this,
but this would be a machine.
When I was
and that
is a total
are
not going to be able to do it.
But
this build
is
a very
important thing.
But
I think
that's the only thing that you can do.
I
mean,
this iPad
and Photoshop
and Habdabai Biderlich Bitterlich.
So I think
I have this
what
I can
do and
this
is
what
I
want.
I have this
and this
is
a
water.
But I have to say,
the Brussels
it and
also
estimate
in this
way
we
can
learn that
I
November,
young mid-October, combined with
the
combat, and
I
think
when the field
and then
it's
not
that
And
yeah, so
I
think we're therapy about
my function and
that's what I'm saying.
I have the
politics,
but
it is a very important thing to do that
is good.
That really
is
also my job,
that
I have
to offer.
So, thanks for
watching.
I guess
I can
also
physiotherapy,
and
this
is
mention,
they have ausser good,
I have no
learning to do
functionality,
as
well as guns can be.
And what
physiotherapy is she,
or
English machine?
I have to check and
bring
the lights that
we mentioned.
And
this can be
a little bit more difficult.
Nine must.
come, they would
not
try to
refrain
from
these
so that the campaign and then
we have
to kind of.
be a little bit more difficult.
I speak
when
I
say that.
This is
the main
thing also.
But
I think
combination was
very important.
Oh, my God, and I'm not sure.
And we're also here for
the
end.
Has to make sweet and
gift or option.
So
this
is not
a great warden.
Not
that
I have
and then a
lot of the kind of
good aunts with
good
supermittal
and
the
parties and
I can
also do
a dimension
that
we have.
this comment?
But
I can also
podcast what I'm talking about in this
gun
in Lime,
which feels like
my passion is what
comes, whatever.
Absolutely.
We present
in the
morning
and the photos are cooked or
cooked
that mark.
But I
would say
I
think we have
an area, and I
tour
the presents
intensive spirit and that is
what I
was
height to
interviews and so
on.
I
was flashing or
what
I
present and when I mentioned
him.
So
the sentence
was
talking about here, whatever.
But
then in the cops, the people from the kind of
wax, then so we can
see it, or the image in the
that there was
nothing
and
what we would
do, but
the designer kind of
bring
and
spiel.
And the youngster?
The eigenfunction
and what?
Um
nine.
Also,
I can
mention
the
same thing.
Naban
would
and
also
ambition
with
the merchant
or flexible.
Well,
the train and the
operations
that we
the Proline.
What constancy is that
the trawl
and
podcast for the Anglo-Borg
and they
are not going to be able to do that?
So, we can
see the
glass and
a seamless feeling with that side of the process that
glass and the ball
and guns.
That tower will not
be destroyed
by
cruise.
That is not
built so
that it is
a glee
gun
and
else.
What
constancy
is
that a solution and compromise?
So, when a room comes
and
Iman character
from
the side.
I watched
the
son about
the same thing.
But
also, the anonymity
of the world is
the space.
Has to
make the warmth.
This
relative,
I
think,
and I don't
know if I
can
do it
when I
was
a spring.
I
cricketed
and the
fragments.
I think
I was aware that
a book in my
life that truth of existence
and what
is
also
universal,
and when
we
go
to
Yeah, I
was not.
But I
think
that
interviews
and what
is
it, but
this moment of the autobahn, we feel
that
immanent
aus
and this
end
that I
feel
problematic, we have to familiarize
And we
have
this moment and all the
things.
And
that means
also
good guitar and good tune, but
immediately
atmosphere
and yard for me.
I can't
end
complementary.
I can also
say
a lot and that's why
we
I
think
Constance Kunte D for this podcast will come in.
I will not
say
that
Susam and Nurse Wimpenschlagen and the Reich
and Musmitter.
warm humour and cruelty.
So, we
can do that.
That we totally
often
positively.
So, when you
constanze.
Naturally,
that
means
we can
do do it, but this
is also
good.
What do you mean, that von Heuter,
and Manny, even
if we
have
to do it?
I bring Constanza a part of the normal
and exactly
what
we
in the world,
and
that
also
in the nest,
this moment traffic, Jennifer.
She wants a gun,
Jennifer is
remote, and she will
crystall math.
That
we are emotional, is that
we have
to be
self-funded.
I want to
say often
in Iran to read.
And I must say,
Midnemkund
often is moment.
Walter also,
this loan
order is
auntie in the Sutrift than
the Melbourne and this
moment at Wiemind.
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in Zweiwochen.
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