The Truth About Women’s Health + Mind Body Healing | EP 69

Speaker 1 Truly, what would it be to live in your body where it's never a problem? Your insomnia is literally not a problem. Your diarrhea is not a problem.

Speaker 1 There are no problems, right, that your body is expressing. To reprogram on that level means that you have come into an orientation towards yourself that is

Speaker 1 like a radical yes. Having a random illness that has an ICD-10 code allows you to what? Take literally zero responsibility for the experience.
And so the victim posture is built in to that diagnosis.

Speaker 1 The defiance of that victim posture, I think, comes through the appreciation of how being in the victim actually works. Like it meets our needs.

Speaker 2 80% of all autoimmune diseases are with women. And so I think there's connections with all of this psychosomatic.

Speaker 2 And I would just love to hear a little bit more about how you healed your thyroid and how you really took your power back from this sort of quote-unquote broken system.

Speaker 1 Well, it's interesting because.

Speaker 2 Welcome back to the Healing and Human Potential podcast, where today we're exploring the root cause of illness and how understanding the mind-body connection could be the missing link that actually supports you in feeling more vital and healthy today.

Speaker 2 We are joined by Dr. Kelly Brogan today, who is a pioneer in the healthcare field.

Speaker 2 And she's really exploring with us the subconscious purposes that illness can serve, as well as how to really integrate your shadows so that you do the work from the inside out.

Speaker 2 So if you're ready to challenge modern day healthcare paradigms and really take the problem out of thinking that something's wrong with your body, take your power back from this misunderstanding and really heal at the root, this episode is for you.

Speaker 2 I'm so happy that you're here. Welcome, welcome to the podcast.
Thank you.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I wanted to start us off just talking about the good girl archetype and talking about how this is really rooted in shame.

Speaker 2 And I know that, you know, part of the work is to bust out of societal conditioning and move through those fears. And you do some work around nervous system work.

Speaker 2 Talk to us about how you would recommend women start waking up out of this good girl archetype.

Speaker 1 This feels like the million dollar question. And I love just diving right in to the deep end.

Speaker 1 Yeah, to talk about, you know, the shadow of fawning and just the hollowness that ultimately characterizes a life built on the good girl archetype.

Speaker 1 And my primary qualification, I mean, you mentioned that I'm a psychiatrist. I was a neuroscience major in college.

Speaker 1 Like, I have been very invested for a long time in cracking the code of human behavior and attempting to validate so many aspects of our lived experience through

Speaker 1 the microscope. And my primary credential is that I am many decades into good girl programming and have, in so many ways, achieved the promise of what is on offer through

Speaker 1 the sort of

Speaker 1 external validation that is available for women today, thanks to the feminist agenda. There's so many ways that we can come into a sense of security.

Speaker 1 And I've achieved so much of that that I don't have any

Speaker 1 sort of like any farther to go up the summit of the mountain. Like, I can't quite tell myself, like, oh, it's still over there.

Speaker 1 And the gaslight just sort of spontaneously resolved for me in an instant where I saw, you know,

Speaker 1 it's not here, right? Like, whatever that strategy is that says,

Speaker 1 if you secure approval, and approval, by the way, is not only like,

Speaker 1 you're nice, we we like you, right? So approval is also collective approval, right?

Speaker 1 So you could argue my credentials, for example, are one of the ways that I have secured approval, even as I've stirred the pot, you know, in terms of controversy and other ways that I've been challenging, pushing the envelope, so to speak.

Speaker 1 But that approval will take you to a place where you're watching.

Speaker 1 right, in this dissociated way, you're watching what you are achieving. You're watching what you're securing.
you're watching what

Speaker 1 the many products of your efforts. You're not actually there.
Like you're not actually the one experiencing this.

Speaker 1 And so, probably the place where this often comes home to roost is in our relationships and specifically romantic relationships and partnerships and marriages, right? Where you can

Speaker 1 find yourself really at that glass wall of intimacy and recognize that there's like a yearning in your heart for something different, and just have no idea like how it is.

Speaker 1 How do you penetrate the glass? Like, how do you get to the other side? How do you touch someone's, you know, skin through that kind of a barrier?

Speaker 1 And I guess the moment that you recognize it's an inside job, it's up to you. Nobody else can deliver you there.
And your partner doesn't have to change.

Speaker 1 Your employees and your job doesn't have to change.

Speaker 1 There's no amount of money you can manifest that's ever going to make this feel better that you finally get to that place where you're like, all right, I'm ready to roll up my sleeves and take responsibility for my experience as an embodied woman.

Speaker 1 And what the hell does that actually look like? And so, you know, that's how there's like

Speaker 1 thousands of us millions, you know, in our 30s and 40s trying to figure out what it means to be a woman. Like, what are we even doing here, right?

Speaker 1 Like, how do we approach this seeming dilemma of having it all and yet feeling so little of that havingness.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I really hear that kind of hollow goals.

Speaker 2 And at some point, we realize it's not in the next partner or the, you know, five more pounds or the financial goal that it's really in a deeper presence in our being.

Speaker 2 But we have to be really honest with ourselves. Is this what I really desire? And I know that you say that women's desire is one of the most powerful forces we have.

Speaker 2 And I also know that women feel very guilty for having desires. How do you suggest women really find their truth and claim their desires without all the guilt?

Speaker 1 So you mentioned earlier, you know, that this is a nervous system matter. And I think that that took me a long time to recognize.

Speaker 1 And I feel like now, again, it's in the zeitgeist, like we're starting to see that this isn't a will-based operation, right? There's no way that you can learn how to be a softer, more abundant woman.

Speaker 1 This isn't something you put on your to-do list. And it's not something that you just sort of like pray for or put on your Pinterest, like manifestation board or whatever.

Speaker 1 You have to have a literal system, right?

Speaker 1 The neurophysiology must be aligned with having

Speaker 1 more,

Speaker 1 right? Because there's all sorts of ways that having more has been tagged as dangerous. Right.
And the having can be literal, right?

Speaker 1 So like, you know, monetary assets and evidence that you are in a certain kind of class, right? But it can also be intangible, right? It could be more love, more erotic energy in your life.

Speaker 1 It could be more of a sense of belonging. And our systems will

Speaker 1 contract around that expansion when presented with the opportunity. If we are still in the programming that says,

Speaker 1 you know, I would refer to it as a mother wound, but that says stay small for me.

Speaker 1 And when we take that programming into our adulthood, we end up living in, especially as women, living in comparative dynamics, right, where we assess other women and we

Speaker 1 sort of hierarchically organize ourselves in ways that are not native to a woman's sensibilities, right? Women are not natively hierarchical. We are collaborative.

Speaker 1 And yet, our wounding, and you could, you know, get more conspiratorial around it, the societal agenda that serves the fragmentation of women

Speaker 1 and women, of women and men, and even of women and children, has delivered us to this place where we now reflexively assess, right? Like, how do I measure up against her?

Speaker 1 And that's why one of the deepest portals that I've accessed in my own reclamation process as a woman is the judgment of other women.

Speaker 1 So there was a time, you know, several years ago where

Speaker 1 I could have drawn up like, you know, a scroll of all of the ways that

Speaker 1 I judged women, right? Whether they were too overtly sexual or flirtatious, whether they dressed inappropriately, whether they were, you know, shallow or lazy, incompetent.

Speaker 1 Those were like huge ones for me. Ditzy, like, you know, all of these ways that I, a kept woman, right? Like a woman who's not doing meaningful work in the world, who's not contributing.

Speaker 1 All of the ways that I judged these women. And again, sometimes I would admit to that, but often it would be like an internal little experience I would have while like scrolling on social media.

Speaker 1 Ultimately, those were little portals for me to make contact with dimensions of myself that were not allowed to belong.

Speaker 1 Right. And it's like at a certain point, like who cares what the origin of that is? That's just the reality, right? Like I was not allowed to be like perceived as attention seeking for example

Speaker 1 right because i was very very aligned with attention seeking behavior being um wrong and bad so what happens to especially that that little girl um inside of me who just wants to put on the fucking tutu and run around the room and have all the eyes on her right she doesn't get to exist and so what happens is she ends up pulling the the strings behind the curtain you know, like Oz.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 I feel this conflict. And you referenced it earlier, it's often felt as shame, right? I feel this split inside of myself of the rejected parts of me wanting my attention, right? And that is so

Speaker 1 expensive, energetically.

Speaker 1 It ends up being such a drain. And I would say the fullest expression of that drain is what we call illness.

Speaker 1 But it ends up being so costly that

Speaker 1 it is

Speaker 1 responsible for the stuckness that is a kind of like Sisyphysian hell that we find ourselves in as women, where that stuckness, that silent scream of this can't be it, right? Like,

Speaker 1 what is my life, right? Like, what, did I really come here just for this? Really, I think that that's like the

Speaker 1 origin of that.

Speaker 2 I love that you took judgment, though, as the doorway in to see what I am judging outside of myself, and how is that mirroring to me parts of myself that I've disowned or not welcomed?

Speaker 2 Is that what you were saying?

Speaker 1 Well, yeah, and I should offer a bit more context, which is that my initiation, I guess, to this work, which of course, this is like young Ian.

Speaker 1 I mean, this is like many, many people have been speaking about this concept before me, but of course, until it's like embodied, it's not yours to really own and experience.

Speaker 1 But my greater context for this was that I began to represent myself publicly, right?

Speaker 1 So I already had a public platform, but I had a public platform as like a credentialed white coat-wearing activist and, you know, intellectual academic.

Speaker 1 And I began to represent, you know, this other side of me, I guess, publicly and specifically on social media. And

Speaker 1 this other side of me, you know,

Speaker 1 will dance on a pole in a a bikini

Speaker 1 and will create like a little video mashup with like a costume and the soundtrack and like my own little editing and will find no more delight in anything in the world.

Speaker 1 Like that would be the most pleasurable thing I could possibly do to create that little piece of my own artwork. And of course,

Speaker 1 the feeling that I had was that inner girl, right? That little girl who said like, hey, do you like what I made? Right.

Speaker 1 It's like my fingers were wet from the paint still.

Speaker 1 And I went through a whole phase and that's not to diminish it to suggest that like oh it was just a phase it was a literal maturational process that I moved through where I exposed this aspect of myself and I was

Speaker 1 understandably I received a good amount of pushback and judgment and cancellation and I think many of the people who were following me were like what are you doing you know you're embarrassing yourself you're confusing us, and maybe even worse, you're undermining the mission and you're recklessly endangering those you purport to be here to support and

Speaker 1 help.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 so in that sort of like witch-burning experience that I had, it went on for, I don't know, six, nine months, I was able to, you know, it was a fork in the road, right? So I have... I have a big mouth.

Speaker 1 I know how to use it, especially when I feel affronted, right? And that's how I survived a lot of my upbringing. And so I could have,

Speaker 1 you know, gone to bat, right? And I could have

Speaker 1 really showcased my skills and made sure I got my audience to see how wrong these people were for judging me, blah, blah, blah, whatever. So the defending posture, I could have adopted that.

Speaker 1 And for whatever reason, instead, I decided to make a spiritual practice of this. And every single time I came across a comment in real life or in on social media, so the anonymous

Speaker 1 condemning voice, I would try it on.

Speaker 1 And ultimately, I called this simple practice wearing the villain crown, where I would just make a very short practice, like literally would take minutes. This isn't like some elaborate thing.

Speaker 1 And I would try on the possibility that

Speaker 1 I am what it is that I'm being accused of being.

Speaker 1 And so it was just kind of a way to take the piss out of it, right?

Speaker 1 So to experience the worst-case scenario in the privacy of my own body in my own home with nobody watching and to start to titrate into

Speaker 1 the

Speaker 1 possibility that I am

Speaker 1 more than my behavior, right? And that that requires a kind of fluidity and plasticity in what I am defining as the codified rules for my behavior.

Speaker 1 And only through that portal, at least for me, could I make contact with the meanness that is not the doctor, that is not the mom, that is not the this, that is not the that,

Speaker 1 and start to develop some literal neurophysiologic resiliency. So that portal trained me, but it was also something that came into my field after I had a very strong foundation

Speaker 1 of my,

Speaker 1 you know, health and body and my orientation towards self-care, right? So that's why I do think that there is, there's an order of operations.

Speaker 1 And when you start to do this kind of work, right, shadow work, reparenting, and your literal nervous system does not have the capacity to hold these energies.

Speaker 1 I mean, shame is, feels like an immolation. It feels like there's like a like a fiery cavern that's opened up that you're literally going to get like sucked into.
And you kind of like hope to, right?

Speaker 1 Like, please, can I just disappear? And, like, I'll feel anything but this. And our elaborate sets of defenses, also known as our personalities, are designed to mitigate even the slightest of those

Speaker 1 sensations. And when you just let it rip, right? Like, you just let it happen,

Speaker 1 you'll discover the arc.

Speaker 1 That most of the time we never even visit with. We just feel the very, very tip of most of our emotions and associated sensations.
But when you allow it to exist and move,

Speaker 1 and again, I used to be really, I did Kundalini yoga, a teacher training, I used to be really into more cathartic expressions, right?

Speaker 1 Like punching the pillow, screaming, and there's an absolute place for that. But the kind of maturational development I'm now interested in, there's almost nothing to see from the outside in.

Speaker 1 And that kind of alchemy can only happen when there's a really strong container, like a kind of a crucible, right? And in that container,

Speaker 1 this

Speaker 1 movement happens and this motion occurs. And you are, I call it self-husbanding, but you are, you're there in devoted presence.

Speaker 1 And it was interesting because last thing I'll say is that I have a colleague, Yolanda Norris-Clark, and she

Speaker 1 is

Speaker 1 a, I would call her, like a birth advocate. And she

Speaker 1 wrote a book actually called Portal. And we were talking on my podcast about it.
And she was talking about how her more profoundly blissful births out of her 10 babies,

Speaker 1 yeah, were there was like nothing to see, right? There was no moaning, no screaming, no like, you know, movie level, like catharsis, right? And that kind of being with,

Speaker 1 right? So you're not getting it out.

Speaker 1 You're not even really moving anything. It's just becoming you-ness, right? And that reclamation of your vital force, it's yours.
You came here to embody it. That's literally why you incarnate it.

Speaker 1 It's yours. So, that embrace of it, that approval of it, that integration with it opens up exactly the experience of creative inspiration, and fun, and play, and pleasure.
And

Speaker 1 the most important thing I would put on the list these days is a relaxed system that isn't otherwise available through the,

Speaker 1 you know, the habits that we have of relating to ourselves with and through rejection. Yeah.

Speaker 2 And just to kind of summarize how I'm hearing, because it's very aligned with how I see things, what I really understand is like we're told to be a certain way. And

Speaker 2 if we don't conform to that, then we are afraid that we're going to be rejected or abandoned. And so we disown parts of ourselves.
And the only way to see it is to project it onto somebody else.

Speaker 2 And as we project it onto somebody else, we can use them as a mirror to say, what am I not accepting within myself?

Speaker 2 And instead of, and I do a very similar practice, instead of defending, which actually creates the hurt, it's opening to the possibility of like, how could this be true?

Speaker 2 So that there's a softening around it. And then just to fully allow the emotion to be there.
Because my experience is feelings don't hurt. It's the resistance to feeling them that hurts.

Speaker 2 And so just fully allowing it to move through the nervous system for 90 seconds is this more subtle path instead of the, and I think there's a place for like rage rituals and like really getting it out, especially for that good girl archetype.

Speaker 2 But that was really empowering for me. That pushed down my anger because I saw anger being expressed overpower or underpower.

Speaker 2 And so both from my mom and dad, and I needed to learn, and I'm still integrating that to deeper levels. So the rage and that, that physical, more expressive part was helpful.

Speaker 2 But I think in the 70s and 80s, they really hung out in overexpressing. But what you're speaking of, and most of us are here with the somatic work, is it's just fully allowing it.

Speaker 2 You don't even, and it's then not separate from who who you are. It is part of the totality of your being.
We are all of it. And so I love

Speaker 2 your story about this. And I honor the courage and the work that it takes.
And I do, and I also hear you saying that it depends on having either a healthy ego structure or having some self-care.

Speaker 2 And really, like, safety is the key ingredient. And safety is really only found in the present moment.

Speaker 2 And so when we wake up out of the fear-based thinking, we can access a deeper safety that's underneath the fear that's always present. And as we access that, everything else starts to integrate.

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Speaker 2 I also know that you, you know, talked about integrating the victim mentality, really starting to integrate your shadow, waking up out of that.

Speaker 2 Can you talk to us more about what you found to be helpful with that? Because I think most of society is still living there.

Speaker 1 Yes, and this has been the through line, I guess, in my

Speaker 1 work from the health reclamation side of things.

Speaker 1 I was diagnosed with an autoimmune, so-called autoimmune condition called Hashimoto's thyroiditis, what feels like a million lifetimes ago now, after my first pregnancy. And

Speaker 1 I was a completely, like total normie, like a completely in the matrix, like card-carrying cult member of the allopathic medical system.

Speaker 1 And somehow I had this dissonant inner

Speaker 1 opportunity arise that, you know,

Speaker 1 where I said, I just said, I don't want to take a prescription for the rest of my life. Like, I am not interested.

Speaker 1 And I also had a lot of patients at the time who were on synthroid and were taking thyroid support medication, and they just didn't ever really feel well. So, I also had that disincentive.

Speaker 1 And so, that set me off. My investment in not taking a prescription for the rest of my life set me off on

Speaker 1 this path to exploring what my other other option was, which was to stay with myself, to be on the team of my own body and

Speaker 1 to see what the message was. Like, why the hell is this happening? Like, what does it mean in my narrative that I have developed

Speaker 1 these symptoms postpartum and that I could

Speaker 1 view this as

Speaker 1 my body is broken, something is wrong with me, I need to fix it.

Speaker 1 So, colluding against the body, typically with the conventional medical system, is so programmed into our awareness that I actually have quite a small group of colleagues who have broken out of that, right?

Speaker 1 So,

Speaker 1 it's so rare, right? That even if you understand a lot of victim dynamics in relationship, right?

Speaker 1 So, you understand the zero-sum game of a romantic partnership, wherever you are finger-pointing and blaming your partner, you're fundamentally undermining the capacity that this union has to offer you the experience that you want, right?

Speaker 1 Like a lot of people can start to get that, right? Like, how can I stay on my partner's team? How can we repair in this more coherent way?

Speaker 1 Well, often that invites you to learn self-containment and emotional mastery and taking responsibility and the kind of shadow integration you and I were just discussing.

Speaker 1 But for whatever reason, applying that same rubric to the body is very, very, very challenging.

Speaker 1 And, You know, I could come up with all sorts of metaphysical reasons why that is the way it is But most people when they experience some symptom I mean whether it's like a migraine or something more, you know, they find a lump in their breast or you know their hair is falling out

Speaker 1 They need it to stop. They need it to go away and they

Speaker 1 come into their child energy that says somebody outside help me fix me like make this experience of being in this body this way stop.

Speaker 1 And so what happens is you end up in that victim triangle, like you end up colluding with a rescuer of some variety. And this could be literally a supplement, right?

Speaker 1 So it could be anything that you have decided has the power to fix you and to make what your body is doing stop.

Speaker 1 You collude with that against yourself.

Speaker 1 And so that self-betrayal, that triangulation against the self ends up being

Speaker 1 the foundational premise from which you are then trying to inhabit this body when challenging emotional things are happening relationally, right? So, I like to rewind, I guess, back to the basics.

Speaker 1 And I do think that coming into an understanding of the body's wisdom, and I don't say that like Hallmark party, right? Like, I like, truly, what would it be?

Speaker 1 to live in your body where it's never a problem.

Speaker 1 Your insomnia is literally not a problem, right?

Speaker 1 diarrhea is not a problem there are no problems right that your body is expressing to reprogram on that level means that you have come into an orientation towards yourself that is a like a radical yes

Speaker 2 you're here for it i love everything you're sharing and and i live this way with a more micro and i have not applied it to the medical system so i really appreciate you combing through And I wanted to ask you about healing your thyroid condition because I have Hashimoto's hypothyroid.

Speaker 2 I was put on pills when I was 12 and I'm still on them.

Speaker 2 And I know that there's wisdom in it. Like I can feel that it gets activated when I push.
It's not a problem, but I also don't want to create that dependency. And I've tried to get off of it.

Speaker 2 I would love, and I also am just fascinated that 80% of all autoimmune diseases are with women. And so I think there's connections with all of this psychosomatic.

Speaker 2 And I would just love to hear a little bit more about how you healed your thyroid and how you really took your power back from this sort of quote-unquote broken system.

Speaker 1 Well, it's interesting because I was one of the first like 300 in the world psychiatrists to specialize in medicating pregnant and breastfeeding women.

Speaker 1 Like when I was, you know, in my conventional avatar,

Speaker 1 I

Speaker 1 believed so much in the pharma model that I actually prescribed to pregnant and breastfeeding women. That was my specialty, right? All kinds of meds.

Speaker 1 And I had many, many, many, many women who were multiply diagnosed, which means that they had comorbidities like autoimmune conditions, lupus, and you know, rheumatoid things and bowel things.

Speaker 1 And of course, Hashimoto is extremely common in the population that I was working with. So when I was diagnosed, like I said,

Speaker 1 my

Speaker 1 no thank you was informed by what I already saw to be on offer from the system that I was aligned with. Okay.
So I was not in a rejection moment yet.

Speaker 1 And my, I don't know, call it sacred laziness, whatever it was, whatever led me to not want to deal with taking a prescription

Speaker 1 led me to a naturopath. So I went and I saw,

Speaker 1 I was in New York at the time. I saw a naturopath and, you know, I was very identified with my like academic self at that point.
And she was not like like burning sage, no crystals. Okay.

Speaker 1 It was like not that kind of vibe. And that was perfect for me.
So this was like a totally divinely ordained experience. And she was extremely academic, brilliant woman.
And

Speaker 1 she started me on a new diet. Okay.
So I'm Italian American. I grew up, you know, eating literally cheese and bread and McDonald's.

Speaker 1 I've always been naturally like thin, which sounds awesome, except the shadow of it is that you end up treating your body like a rental car.

Speaker 1 I mean, I never exercised a McDonald's, like I drank six cups of coffee a day, and this was the relationship that I had to my body because I was never invited to have any other kind of relationship, right?

Speaker 1 So, like, literally, decades into my incarnation, I'm like, still figuring out

Speaker 1 what my body wants, right?

Speaker 1 So, I changed my diet

Speaker 1 and

Speaker 1 I did it because

Speaker 1 I had a

Speaker 1 why that felt more compelling than eating the you know, bagels and pizza or whatever. And, and the why was the liberation from the burden of like taking this prescription, right?

Speaker 1 So I committed and I committed like hardcore. And I watched in the space of, I don't know, so I went on,

Speaker 1 you know, like armor thyroid, nature thyroid kind of a thing. And if you know, you know.
So there's like all these different, right? I'm sure a lot of the women listening know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 1 All these different kinds of glandular versions of the prescription or whatever. And within about a year or so, I came off everything and it's been decades now.

Speaker 1 And I, well, not decades, a decade, almost two.

Speaker 1 And I

Speaker 1 have never looked back.

Speaker 2 By cleaning up your diet.

Speaker 1 Well, that was the primary thing that I did. Okay.

Speaker 1 What I started to, when I started to apply this to my practice, I recognized that there was like

Speaker 1 something bigger at play. Okay.
Because I cleaned up my diet. I put this into remission on paper, and then I was given a book called Anatomy of an Epidemic, okay? I

Speaker 1 by a colleague, and I read this book because I had already had this experience of dissonance, right? Like in medical school, we don't learn about nutrition. It's like, who cares? That's not important.

Speaker 1 Like, we're here to talk about like actual legitimate things.

Speaker 1 And because of my experience, I was like opened up to consider some of what I hadn't been taught, which is that you could put a condition like this into remission, which is that, you know, nutrition matters.

Speaker 1 And I read this book, and this book was about essentially the ways in which medications and specifically psychiatric medications are driving a disability, like mental health disability.

Speaker 1 So it's basically an indictment of psychotropic medications, the same ones that I prescribe.

Speaker 1 So I say all of this to illustrate that I was at this moment of like a fork in the road of my story as a woman.

Speaker 1 And I ended up like starting my activist career on the back of that book where I was so ignited by this and the simultaneous experience that I was having of healing myself without the system in spite of the system that I like took my sword aloft and I dedicated the next, well, I don't know, decade of my life to

Speaker 1 helping women come off of medications and exposing the

Speaker 1 dark side of all these medications. So

Speaker 1 what was actually going on there, right? Like, what actually was being invited

Speaker 1 through this diagnosis

Speaker 1 in my life story? Why might I have had to have experienced that, right? And in your case, I would say, like, I'm sure there is some relevance to the timing of your initial diagnosis.

Speaker 1 And the moment, if there is one, that you decide I want to, you know, enter through the portal and come out the other side med free, which again,

Speaker 1 there's no, there's no better or worse. It's just an adventure, right? Like you might try that adventure at some point.

Speaker 1 There will be significance to that moment, right? And so for me, this moment was like

Speaker 1 the individuation journey for me, fighting the bad daddy, right? And bad mommy, I call it, you know, mommy medicine, daddy government, right?

Speaker 1 Like becoming a notorious, internationally notorious, like anti-pharma activist.

Speaker 1 Like that was my adolescent phase of individuation that was ignited by this very experience that, of course, manifested in my throat chakra, if you will. Right.
So it all had to be this way.

Speaker 1 Like it literally needed to be exactly, I wrote it this way. That's what I believe, anyway.

Speaker 1 And so when I saw, when I could see and appreciate the significant significance of it, it helped me to neutralize

Speaker 1 any poor me, no-fair energy that might have been living underneath

Speaker 1 the impulse to heal this, right? Because the victim threads that come through our identification with our diagnoses are very real. They're there for a reason.

Speaker 1 And alchemizing those into it had to be this way, and I couldn't have designed it better, is a part of the narrative evolution of and reclamation of the diagnosis. So anyway, all that is to say that

Speaker 1 because I now had this purpose that had somehow effervesced out of this diagnosis,

Speaker 1 I developed a protocol to help women move through this experience. And I started to recognize pretty quickly that, yeah, I can prescribe the diet I recommend.

Speaker 1 I can prescribe the detox I recommend. I can prescribe the like, you know, here's how you send your nervous system a signal of safety, contemplative practice I recommend.

Speaker 1 But what really needs to happen here is you need to be

Speaker 1 defragged in your programming. Like you need to like have the opportunity to expand the permission field of what you can believe.
Okay. And that's where my mentor, Dr.

Speaker 1 Nicholas Gonzalez, who came in in divine timing to offer me, and I would even say, like, anoint me with his belief field.

Speaker 1 And his, if you don't, if anybody listening doesn't know who he was, you know, he was arguably one of, in my opinion, the most important clinicians to exist in our lifetime,

Speaker 1 where he had 27 years of

Speaker 1 validated clinical practice putting into remission terminal cancers and neurodegenerative and other degenerative illnesses with long-term long-term remission.

Speaker 1 Okay, so like state, I'm talking stage four pancreatic cancer with 34 years of survival. It's an unmatched in the conventional world.
And he did this for decades.

Speaker 1 And I had the opportunity to be mentored by him in the last year of his life. And he translated to me this like unshakable alignment with the body.
And that.

Speaker 1 The restoration of that is the framework within which all of this healing happens, right? That's how you get to the place where whatever is going on is not a problem you're eradicating. So

Speaker 1 when women come off of these medications, be it thyroid or otherwise, if they do so from the get this thing off me kind of energy, it's like if you leave a toxic relationship with a big fuck you, you know, all the, all, all y'all know what happens, you're taking that guy with you sometimes for years of your life, okay, hating him and wanting him to be punished and hoping he's miserable, like lying in a ditch, right?

Speaker 1 So, when you can, you know,

Speaker 1 come in peace and go in love from these experiences, you can integrate the memo, right? You can integrate the message. And so, the impulse has to be, in my opinion, from that place.

Speaker 1 So, my specialty became taking women off of medications. And I did that for many years.
And it only worked worked because it was not,

Speaker 1 these meds are bad, let's get rid of them.

Speaker 1 Right? It was like, I'm actually ready to look at myself now. I'm actually interested in what this is all about.
And I'm here for me. I'm here for it.

Speaker 1 And so, usually, there's some kind of a ritual. And again, I have my bias, obviously, because I have my own protocol, but there's some kind of a ritual initiation of the I'm here for me

Speaker 1 energy, right? Which I would call a masculine energy. You show up, you commit, you choose, you follow through.

Speaker 1 You exercise that kind of integrity of attention and discipline. Discipline's got a bad rap, but I, you know, I'm of the, you know, the school of thought.

Speaker 1 There's an etymological interpretation of discipline that is

Speaker 1 to say it means, you know, the gaze of the teacher who loves you, right? So, so, how do you show up

Speaker 1 like the good father? How do you show up like the devoted husband? Right.

Speaker 1 So I like to invoke these archetypes so that you can almost have this lived like theater inside yourself and you can feel like what that's like to show up for yourself that way.

Speaker 1 And it's not self-flagellating. It's not like I better stick to the diet or else I'm a shitty person.
Right. It's a different kind of energy.

Speaker 2 Devotional, more from love.

Speaker 1 Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. And

Speaker 1 a presence. It's like a sacred presence that, of course, is anathema to most of us in today's society because of our collective wounds, right?

Speaker 1 Like we are entrained to look outward to assess our own inner safety, right? And

Speaker 1 there's a reality to that.

Speaker 1 It's called neuroception, right? Like, yeah, assess the outside. But until you've initiated yourself in this way, again, this is my bias, you're going to see.

Speaker 1 a perpetrator where there's a pile of laundry, right? You're going to see like a unicorn where there's a leaf. You're going to misperceive on both ends of the spectrum.

Speaker 1 You're going to develop relationships predicated on that. You're going to fight your body in all sorts of wild ways that end up destroying any capacity you had for wellness and vitality, right?

Speaker 1 Like you're going to develop all sorts of complexities. And it's not to say those are bad and wrong.

Speaker 1 It's just it's a path and it's a kind of adventure that you're going to take and you're going to have until it's not compelling. And you're interested in

Speaker 1 like the real um

Speaker 1 courageous adventure which is to just be with yourself show up for you and to pattern disrupt all of that programming that um it really narrows the bandwidth of what you're allowed to believe and be and even hope and dream for like it puts such a low ceiling on all of that you know so there's a big metaphysical component to this that um

Speaker 1 you know you can't prescribe you have to just arrive in the right container when it's your time. And you will.
Everybody will, you know, if that is the journey you're meant to go on.

Speaker 1 And obviously, I offer one of those, but there's many different ways to initiate.

Speaker 2 And I love that you're focusing on the inside out. It's got to be that order.
It can be outside, but it's also got to come from within, because otherwise those filters get projected onto other things.

Speaker 2 And, you know, you asking like what was going on when I got diagnosed, I think is such an important thing.

Speaker 2 I wish more doctors would have been curious about the psychosomatic connection because yes, that was the probably the hardest time of my life. And knowing that there was a sacred initiation in that.

Speaker 2 So I can hear and I really hear the maturity of you understanding some of the pharmaceutical industry and, you know, we can talk about that just from a higher perspective of like why things are set up that way.

Speaker 2 And once you understand, it's like, now what do I do with it? This is not something wrong. The answer is not outside of me.
How do I be with myself?

Speaker 2 Can I take some some of these other principles into my health and well-being and insource and have my own authority in this conversation so that I'm not thinking something's wrong, projecting it outward?

Speaker 2 For me, even as you're talking, I just realized I did try to heal it, but I was 20 and I didn't do the psychosomatic work. So I was just doing it with diet and Ayurvedic lifestyle.

Speaker 2 But now, you know, having been a somatic psychotherapist, I know the value of doing the inner work and having the tools to actually navigate and integrate it into my nervous system.

Speaker 2 So I love that you're pulling it all together. And I also know that you talk about the subconscious purposes of illness, which I love this conversation,

Speaker 2 and I know this conversation, but for people that don't get what that means, can you share that with us and also the role of the mother wound and how that shapes our experience?

Speaker 2 Because I think that's going to be fascinating for people.

Speaker 1 Yeah, so I had a couple of experiences with patients.

Speaker 1 Again, once I started to focus my practice on helping women come off of medications I had a couple of experiences of women who were completely you know discontinued off of all their meds we obviously there's an end date then to our time together right and

Speaker 1 they were ready to fly the nest and go off into the you know wild blue yonder and live their lives without doctors and without appointments and without prescriptions and you know walking it over to CVS kind of a thing And

Speaker 1 in these instances, there was like a very dramatic regression, like out of seemingly nowhere, where I could start to appreciate, again, because in these instances, it was so dramatic.

Speaker 1 I could start to appreciate, like,

Speaker 1 oh, they're not ready. They're not ready to shed the sick identity.
Right. There's, there's something that they're collapsing back into, even though,

Speaker 1 you know, I'm trying to kind of like push them out the nest. And

Speaker 1 I guess that's when I first started to explore like what kinds of needs are being met by an illness that we've otherwise been told is a random, unfortunate,

Speaker 1 you know, emergent phenomenon of just having a body, just having a flawed human body. You know, it gets sick sometimes, shit happens, kind of a thing.
And

Speaker 1 this perspective obviously is very confronting for a lot of people because the, well for the very reasons we're talking about because having a random illness that has an ICD-10 code allows you to to what take literally zero responsibility for the experience and so the victim posture is built in to that diagnosis that that says this thing happened to you

Speaker 1 and

Speaker 1 too bad so sad So most you can do is just be a good patient, take your meds, show up to your appointments, and,

Speaker 1 you know, this is just, this is just life.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 the defiance of that victim

Speaker 1 identity, that victim posture, I think comes through the appreciation of how being in the victim actually works. Like it meets our needs.
The same way, you know, drinking alcohol,

Speaker 1 even if you understand yourself to have a problem with drinking alcohol, it's meeting meeting needs. It's working.
And as long as you are in rejection of that thing,

Speaker 1 or obviously embrace of it, like you're not going to be able to see the relational aspects, right? So, so what is your relationship to your symptoms and your illness affording you?

Speaker 1 Well, usually to really reduce it down, there's yeses that we get and there's no's that we get.

Speaker 1 So the yeses that we get through a diagnosis are usually in the realm of connection, compassion, attention,

Speaker 1 and the no's that we get are in the realm of boundaries, right?

Speaker 1 So where if you have this thing, you often don't need to learn how to say no, you know, like the other day I was thinking about this because my daughter asked me, I have teenage daughters and my daughter asked me to drive her somewhere.

Speaker 1 I didn't feel like driving her somewhere. I live in Miami.
The traffic is like actually unhinged recently. Like I don't even know what's happening.
Everyone from LA and New York is moving here.

Speaker 1 And for me to take her somewhere 15 minutes away would have been like an hour of something and driving. And I really didn't have any good reason, like, not to drive her.
Right.

Speaker 1 And I had this immediate thought

Speaker 1 that if I like had a migraine

Speaker 1 or a cold or really bad, really super bad menstrual cramps or something that I could just be like, oh, I can't. I'm sick or whatever, right?

Speaker 1 And then what would I get? I would get, first of all, off the hook, I wouldn't have to do this thing I inexplicably didn't feel like doing or explicably didn't feel like doing.

Speaker 1 And then I would get, you know, her understanding.

Speaker 1 And I might even get like a kind of softness and gentleness. And maybe she would be like extra nice to me or whatever.

Speaker 1 I'd get all that stuff. So I'd get the not doing the thing that I didn't want to do.
And then I get extra bonuses, right?

Speaker 1 So when you think about like anybody who has a chronic diagnosis, or it's not even just chronic, because I could tell you lots of stories about like, you know, things I, I man, weird things I manifested right before I would like start traveling with my daughters as a single woman, or so I had like a lot of blocks and resistance to doing.

Speaker 1 And so I would like develop a weird like dental pain or something like right before we're about to like take off to Paris or whatever.

Speaker 1 And so it was almost a way for me to construct subconsciously, of course, a way for them to be like to lower their expectations a bit.

Speaker 1 And if I mess something up in a reservation here or there, like, it's okay, don't bother mama, she's got this thing, right?

Speaker 1 So when I look at it through that lens, I'm asking these questions, right? I'm asking,

Speaker 1 what do I get to say, do, and be because of this,

Speaker 1 right? What do I receive because of this?

Speaker 1 And then what do I not have to

Speaker 1 do

Speaker 1 or say or be

Speaker 1 because of this, right? So, what is the utility in this seemingly

Speaker 1 futile experience? Like, what actually is it conferring? What needs are being met that I just don't have the maturational

Speaker 1 awareness or practice to otherwise ask for, right?

Speaker 1 These needs and these boundaries. So, I find it to be part and parcel of having, you know, these symptoms, especially if they're persistent.

Speaker 1 And so, you know, when you identify that there's a part of you that feels it needs to be this way, that feels you need to have the panic attacks.

Speaker 1 You absolutely have to have, you know, the digestive issues. You have to have the allergy.
Yeah. You see it differently.
And again, that's confronting for a lot of people who

Speaker 1 aren't interested in looking at that way. And that's not a problem.
This is more, it's more compelling. But a good roadmap for people that are.

Speaker 2 So it's like, you know, and I do this in the opposite, which is fun. And I'll do it around money or relationship where it's like, what do I fear would happen if I got the goal?

Speaker 2 And most of the time, people are like, wait, I don't fear anything. And it's like, no, listen deeper.

Speaker 2 It's like, oh, if I made the money, I wouldn't have time with my family or I wouldn't, I'd have more responsibility. Or, you know, there's, and you can listen.
So we have that wisdom.

Speaker 2 And these types of questions can help open us to the answer of like, what's the benefit? What's the payoff that I'm getting that I don't want to admit? 100%.

Speaker 1 And it just applies as equally, maybe even more so, because there isn't really a collective awareness around this co-creative experience that we have with our own bodies

Speaker 1 that is, you know, that

Speaker 1 mainstream, I guess.

Speaker 1 Yeah, it's the downside of vitality and wellness is very real for most of us.

Speaker 1 There's just like that wide open space of I can do anything because I have a healthy body is paralyzing, you know, in most cases.

Speaker 2 But these perspectives are less againstness and resistance and more just tapping into the wisdom and coming into harmony and alignment with what is so that we can actually shift it in inside and then out.

Speaker 2 And I'm wondering how you play and address that with unlocking our erotic sexual desires and our hormones. What do you see as the connection and how vital is hormonal health for our desires?

Speaker 1 So when I think of hormonal health, and obviously this is like my training, I think of it on a spectrum from stress physiology to sexual physiology, if you want to call it that, reproductive physiology.

Speaker 1 And they're intimately related. So, anybody who knows about, you know, cortisol and progesterone knows that there's, you know, a toggle between like,

Speaker 1 this is a time of crisis and not a time of procreation, and this is a time of procreation and harmony, right?

Speaker 1 So, that toggle, that biological system attunement and alignment is operative beneath our very complex patterns of relating to our lived experience. And

Speaker 1 that is

Speaker 1 also why I have come to appreciate this experience of safety in the system as being the

Speaker 1 the ultimate goal, right?

Speaker 1 Whether it's the resolution of a condition that has a name and a diagnostic code, or whether it's, you know, coming into a more expanded experience of your day-to-day or sexual pleasure,

Speaker 1 the imperative is the same. Your system has to slow down,

Speaker 1 has to soften,

Speaker 1 and there is a kind of quieting that happens.

Speaker 1 There's a relaxation that happens in the the whole system before you are ready to hold more pleasure and to work with challenges as alchemical possibilities. And so

Speaker 1 when you're pushing your system

Speaker 1 to

Speaker 1 experience,

Speaker 1 you know, peak erotic adventures or to have more pleasurable sex,

Speaker 1 Before your system has the capacity for that, you're going to go into dissociation and freeze and a kind of shutdown that I actually think is like in many ways more eerie than fight or flight.

Speaker 1 Right. So that functional freeze that a lot of us live in is, you know, I call it behind, you know, living behind a glass wall.
Like it, it's,

Speaker 1 it's this sense of what could be happening in a moment. And it's just totally unavailable to you.
It's just completely inaccessible. And you don't really know what that is.

Speaker 1 It's like you become a ghost in your own life scape. And so, when you're insisting on a certain kind of erotic access before your system is ready for it, it's pretty rapey energy, right?

Speaker 1 It's like putting pleasure on the body rather than allowing pleasure to be an emergent phenomenon.

Speaker 1 You know, I'm a big fan and I've attempted to translate Betty Martin's work where she teaches about the wheel of consent and waking up your hands and your skin to the pleasure that's already there.

Speaker 1 And a lot of that work involves

Speaker 1 understanding boundaries and consent, including even with yourself,

Speaker 1 right? So it's like a simple thing, like, right, like I can, I can touch my own wrist or my own hand and I can feel

Speaker 1 the touch of my hand. I can focus on the feeling,

Speaker 1 right? So I'm using my hand like a tool,

Speaker 1 right?

Speaker 1 Or I can flip my attention and I can focus on the sensation of the hand that is doing the touching.

Speaker 1 That is, for most of us, totally dead. Right.
So the taking, I'll speak for women, if I can, the taking of touch is something that has been registered in the realm of taboo. Right.

Speaker 1 And so this alignment with our desires, this ownership over what it is that we want, this

Speaker 1 experience experience of self-mastery to the extent where we can translate our pathways for pleasure to another.

Speaker 1 I mean, it's like most of us are literally in our 40s, maybe beyond, just beginning to think about this for the first time in our lives.

Speaker 1 You know, I used to do this hand exercise with my daughters when they were like tweens, because I was like, you need to start to understand. Are you giving touch or are you taking touch? Right?

Speaker 1 Like, what's actually happening? Because otherwise, there isn't any responsibility taken

Speaker 1 for what it is that you want and where it is that your pleasure derives from.

Speaker 1 And you take that into the bedroom where you start to have a kind of sex that is mostly performative and you're mostly externally focused as a woman on his pleasure and the evidence that you're doing a good job as a lover.

Speaker 1 And meanwhile, many would argue that your responsibility is to be inward.

Speaker 1 Your responsibility is to attune so completely completely to your own felt experience that you can express that even more fully and more fully and more fully, right?

Speaker 1 So how the hell can nobody's even home, right? If you're so externally focused and you're watching yourself be this sexy woman, do the sexy things, you're in your trauma, right? Like you're in your,

Speaker 1 I'm a little girl and I've learned how to, you know, do it the right way. Am I doing it the right way? And you're not actually home in your body to feel what's happening.

Speaker 1 So, it can start with like some very, very basic practices.

Speaker 1 You know, like I can pick up for a couple minutes a day an object and I can touch this object and I can focus on the sensation that the object gives my hand

Speaker 1 rather than what the object feels like. Okay.
So, it's using what I would say is the masculine gift of your attention

Speaker 1 to access your feminine pleasure. And that kind of maturation,

Speaker 1 there's no way to shortcut the basics and to come back into this, like very rudimentary, like almost like baby bird level of

Speaker 1 exploration.

Speaker 1 And that is the kind of thing that grows your system's capacity so that when you are dedicated to bringing more pleasure into your life, more erotic energy, meaning, more life force, you're not applying that same

Speaker 1 task and goal oriented kind of psychology to the experience of unlocking your body's like innate pleasure, right?

Speaker 1 And when you start to, you know, titrate into it in this way, like you'll eat a mango and it'll be like a quasi-orgasmic experience, right?

Speaker 1 Like, and you'll decide to take a minute to actually focus on that, put your phone down and be with the inbuilt pleasure. Like the last thing I'll say is, there's a

Speaker 1 really simple practice that I like to recommend that has to do with like peeing, right? So, like, the good girl programming would say, like, I'll be right back. I'm going to pee quick.

Speaker 1 Just give me a minute. So, my biology is secondary to your needs.
Okay.

Speaker 1 And the pattern disrupt of that is just epic. It's massive.

Speaker 1 It's everything to say, like, my biology, my needs that are basic physiologic needs at this point are actually my primary responsibility and I'm going to regard them with honor okay respect and and I am going to go to the bathroom the end of the sentence okay not with any sort of adverbs and I get there and I have this opportunity to experience the inbuilt pleasure of literally peeing, going from the discomfort, if there is, of having to pee to the relief of having peed.

Speaker 1 And it's an arc that is built in there, right? So I can focus all of my attention for that minute or whatever on that physiologic experience.

Speaker 1 And I can start to see that when I align with my needs, I listen, I offer my body proper, you know, guardianship. I have inbuilt pleasure that gets unlocked here and there and everywhere, right?

Speaker 1 And it doesn't have to do necessarily with G-spots and clitoral stem. And it's just literally being in this body can be pleasurable.
I can experience a breeze this way and a taste this way.

Speaker 1 And my senses become not only

Speaker 1 a portal through which I can start to reclaim myself from that good girl programming, but also a portal through which I can begin to expand into probably what I know on some level is my birthright as a woman, which is just the pleasure of being in this body.

Speaker 1 Yeah. You know, in these simple ways.

Speaker 2 I love that that because it's something innate that you will do multiple times a day.

Speaker 2 So it becomes this pattern interrupt to not only, I can, so many times I'm like, I'll be right back or I'll be real quick.

Speaker 2 It's like, get to change it on the psychological, but also on the physiological. I love this conversation.

Speaker 2 And I really want to acknowledge your courage for really speaking out about what you find helpful and true and really connecting the mind-body and being a stand for people to look inside and to take their own life and health back into their own hands.

Speaker 2 I think it's really courageous and beautiful. And I want to thank you for doing that work and sharing with us some of the gifts.
I felt like there's so many places we could go to.

Speaker 2 And I know my audience is going to want to stay connected. What is the work that you're currently up to right now? And where do they stay connected?

Speaker 1 Oh, thank you. It's really wonderful to have such an aligned conversation.
And it also is very delightful to me, like how many women are coming to these similar conclusions that

Speaker 1 the the hustle, the achievement, the success,

Speaker 1 the man, the money, you know, the beauty, it's bereft if you're not home to experience it, right? And if you can't hold it, you're just one of those lottery winners, right, who loses it in six months.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 that there's there's a maturation being asked of us that involves some confronting decisions and an exploration of our priorities, you know, and that's a whole other conversation.

Speaker 1 But a lot of what I've recognized is that my priorities are fundamentally and have always been in the safety realm, right? They've always been that I want to feel safe in my body.

Speaker 1 I want to feel safe in my relationships. And I want to really, especially as a reformed activist, like I want to feel safe in the world.
And so, you know, if I am the nexus and locus of control

Speaker 1 for that safety, it's a very different life experience than if the safety has to come from, you know, the medical system, from my partner, from the government or whatever it is, the systems that I'm feeling oppressed by.

Speaker 1 So it's that ultimately is the nature of the reclamation. And yeah, so

Speaker 1 let's see. I have a system that, of course,

Speaker 1 based on everything in my own life experience,

Speaker 1 that is designed to bring you from the physiologic to the relational levels of safety and is two six-week programs.

Speaker 1 And my intention is really to create this initiatory experience for women to begin their next chapter, you know, to record scratch their story of complaint and struggle and bitterness and resentment and frustration and to ease into a complaint-free life.

Speaker 1 It ain't easy. It's truly a practice and involves readying the system for that level of unbothered experience and fulfillment.
And so that's

Speaker 1 what I have, after a decade in the game, packaged up and tested and

Speaker 1 have on offer. And the entry part of that is a program called Vital.

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