Sergeant James Booker on Integrity, Prison Politics, and Leading with Character

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We're talking to a former police sergeant who stood alongside my former guest, Mr. Raymond Hicks, as a decorated Broward County Sheriff who faced wrongful accusations after exposing internal corruption.
Together, they navigated the challenges of integrity with law enforcement, shedding light on systemic issues. Their journey underscores the complexities of upholding justice within the justice system.
Please join me in welcoming the courageous, the steadfast, and the principled, Mr. James Brooker.
Sergeant Brooker, how are you doing today, sir? I'm fine, sir. How are you? I am great.
I am honored. Now, I was selling you offline.
You're someone that I look up to and respect. I have family.
Shout out to my cousin, Detective Torrance Jackson, and the Pickens County law enforcement. I have family that's law enforcement, man.
So law enforcement is something that I've always held dear to my heart. My grandfather was the first black sheriff in our hometown.
And so we've always had a tradition within our family of upholding the blue to the highest standard, the highest regard. That also doesn't mean that there aren't issues, right? And those issues, we're not pointing them out per se, but just like anything in the school system, there's issues.
In the government, there's issues, right? Like in people's households, there's issues. We're not pointing them out per se, but just like anything in the school system, there's issues in the government, there's issues, right? Like in people's households, there's issues.
So this isn't definitely not an attack on anything law enforcement, but I just wanted to tell you face to face, man, just honored to know you, honored to be a part of the legacy that you've created and just would love to hear a little bit about your background. And then we're going to go into the things that you've done, go into some specific situations and just let you shed light where you want to shed light, brother.
Okay. Sounds good.
Awesome. Awesome.
So let's talk about Sergeant James Booker, man. Like, where'd you grow up? Like, where did this yearning to go into law enforcement start? Well, I grew up in Pensacola, Florida.
I, as well, come from a law enforcement background. My mother, she was in law enforcement.
She retired as a major with the Eskemi County Sheriff's Department. My sister, she retired as a lieutenant with the Eskemi County Sheriff's Department.
And my older brother,, he worked for ATF and he also worked as an investigator for the state's attorney's office in Pensacola as well. So that kind of got my path going because once I left the Marine Corps, you know, I wanted to stay in service.
I wanted to do a part in service. I always liked to serve.
That was my whole thing. And then coming from that background, seeing it as I was a young child, I said that was something that I felt I could transition into and that was something I felt I would be good at.
So when I got out of the service, I looked for an opportunity to get into law enforcement. So I actually kind of a short story., didn't know where I was going.
I was on my way to Miami because I heard a lot of things was progressive of African-Americans in Miami. So I said, well, you know what? I loaded up my car after three months of being out of service, didn't know where I was going, didn't have any family.
I jumped in my car and I headed south. So I actually stopped in Gainesville, Florida.
And I was at this restaurant called Wax Swags, and it was a breakfast place. So I'm sitting there and I'm going to age myself for a second.
I'm reading the newspaper. Yeah.
So in the newspaper, they said they was hiring for correction officers. So I'm like, okay, you know what? Let me look into this.
Not knowing that the place I applied for was Florida State Prison. And when I went and I did the application, they hired me the same day.
Not knowing that they was quite desperate for staff, quite desperate for someone with a background coming from the military that they were looking for. So that started my journey into the correctional process.
And that was back in 1983. So that's when I started.
So I stayed there, transitioned from Florida State Privilege to Gainesville Road Prison. And then from Gainesville Road Prison, I then transferred into the Broad County Sheriff's Department.
and I got to the Broad County Sheriff's Department in 1986, I believe, 1986. Well, I retired recently.
I've been retired now 12 years now, this September. All right.
Well, one, appreciate everything you've done. Two, congratulations on the retirement.
12 years, right? That's powerful in and of itself. I love, man, like I'm fortunate.
I've never been to prison. Hopefully never go to prison, right? But I've heard stories.
What's like a prison story that you've witnessed that the average person wouldn't even believe or could even comprehend? Well, I love to tell this thing. Most people think in Florida that there's like, you know, multitude of prisons.
It's only one prison in the state of Florida. It's only one.
And that's Florida State Prison. That is the only building that bears the name prison, which is Florida State Prison.
Everything else is a correctional facility or it's a work camp or something of that nature. So I actually worked at the only prison in the state of Florida.
Wow. At that prison, it was like the very, very hardcore.
And like, again, I'm going to age myself. These are guys that, as we say, stood on business.
These guys were not snitches. These guys would kill you at the drop of a hat.
They meant something. They truly lived by code.
And their code was serious. And being a young man coming out of the military and going into such a place and coming from a disciplined place, believe it or not, that place has real discipline within the prison community.
And I don't think a lot of people understand that. You can't do a lot of things because you're an inmate.
You can't do certain things like you want to do unless you get permission. If a guy want to stab a guy, he got to get permission.
He just can't go stab this guy. It doesn't work like that.
I think people, when they see TV, they think, oh, this guy, you know, you see a movie and a guy stabbed a guy. No, it's not like that.
It's politics. It's big politics.
And if you're from a certain part of Florida, then you're basically in that bus with those guys from Miami. You're in part of central Florida or wherever you are.
And if you're a guy coming in from another state, you've got to pick a bus. And it's totally different.
And I think people don't really know the dynamics that goes on there. Because if you think about it, you've got some of the most ruthless guys that you would ever know.

Every guy you see on Channel 6, 7, and 5 on the 6 o'clock news that did a heinous crime, most of them ended up there.

And they're all in one place.

Just think about that for a minute.

You got a lot of predators, a lot of psychopaths.

You got a lot of mental health.

You got all this in one place.

So you got to have order. And the order, they basically set the tone for what the order would be.
And I know that may not sound right, but honestly, they basically ran the prisons. We just managed it.
They ran it. Just 80s Miami alone.
Yes. Probably populated three-fourths of the prison.
Absolutely. Because the cocaine thing blew up during the early 80s.
You know what I mean? It was like a wildfire. The prisons actually couldn't handle it.
And I tell you another thing, too. Same thing when AIDS came about.
The prison system wasn't ready for it. And it blew up.
And, I mean, it blew up. And that's a dynamic that you don't even think about, that guys coming in and they're sick and they get AIDS.
And it's like, OK, how do you deal with this? Because it was like crack cocaine. It took off like a wildfire, you know.
And I tell you a quick little story. When I first got there and in Florida State Prison, I was a scammer age myself.
I'm young. Most of the guys who worked there, these guys were bricklayers.
They were mechanics. These guys had jobs.
They were older men. So I'm basically a kid when I walked in there.
And so it was one of those situations where when you're coming in, being a young guy, it was very few of us.

You know, we were looked down upon because it's like, OK, you're here to take our job.

No, I'm here to work.

You know, a lot of the older guys, they were very threatened by younger guys coming in because we could relate to the inmate population because we weren't much older if we were not the same age than most of the guys who was incarcerated.

So, it will be a little bit easier. younger guys coming in because we could relate to the inmate population because we weren't much older if we were not the same age than most of the guys who was incarcerated so it wasn't that adversarial thing where we were in conflict with them because we listened to the same music we knew the same people meaning when i mean knowing the same people like people who were like in the music industry that type of thing we knew We knew that.
So in a lot of the older guys, they were disconnected. And all they knew was pounding ground, you know, guys like, like dogs, treat them like, you know, mess, you know, if they had the opportunity.
So, you know, a lot of that went on, you know, because they couldn't relate to these guys. It was a different environment.
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So you said something, man, and I want to elaborate on. So you said something, again, of movies, right? But like like, you said the inmates pretty much ran the prison.

Like, can you give us an example?

Obviously not naming names or anything like that,

but can you give an example of what you mean by the inmates were running the show?

Well, like I said, we won't name any names,

but, like, this particular fellow

happened to be out of Miami.

And this guy was in there, if I recall,

he was in there for, like, a triple murder.

And this guy had huge there, if I recall, he was in there for like a trip of murder. And this guy had huge hands, big hands.
And what they did when I was working there is guys, if you had a beef with a guy, we would actually have boxing where guys could actually box. Well, this guy was like the champ, you know, he was the champ of the prison.

Yeah.

So when this guy went to, when he went to take a shower, he went with a entourage of

people to take a shower.

I mean, this guy was like a, like a kingpin basically in prison when he called, he called

the shots.

He was a shot caller.

Yeah.

And if it was food, if it was drugs, if it was hooch, whatever moved through that bus, it had to go through him in order to move. And us working there, we knew who was who.
But let's ask you this question. If he can't be there, where would we send him? That was the worst of the worst.
It's not like we can say, okay, we're going to send you to another camp. No, this is it.
There's no other place like this place. I mean, that place is an amazing place.
And I think you never see any documentaries on it. You never see people telling stories about it.
You never see cameras there because the thing is, society really doesn't want to know. There's more rapes, more assault assaults more murders that happened at that prison than all the Bradford County which where the prison is located it was assaults there every single day every day and but it was never reported nothing ever got to the newspaper nobody never knew about the assaults you know because basically nobody really wanted to know.
Right.

Nobody really wanted to know.

I mean, what else are you going to do?

They're already there.

They're already there. They're already there.

There was no, at that time, there was no reporting system to say, okay, well, we had, you know, 80 assaults this month.

Nobody reported it.

It was just assaults.

Yeah.

You know, and we clean it up and we go on to the next day, you know, but it was, it was a serious environment, you know, very serious. Yeah.
But they ran, they, like I said, they ran everything. I mean, you know, and the thing was like certain, um, officers, like if they say, Hey, I don't want this guy working here.
We couldn't put him down there. And it's not because they're telling us what to do.

We need to protect this person because we don't want him getting killed. Because I'll tell you this, I'll never forget this story, man.
When I was working there, we had this officer. He was coming on shift.
Prior to him coming on shift, it was visitation day, where back then, an inmate only got one visit per month.

So they had to shave. Well, you know, black men, they suffer from shaving problems.
They get their face get swollen. So this guy said, hey, I can't shave.
So if you don't shave, you can't have your visit. Okay.
So he said, the next officer come down here,'m gonna kill it we changed shifts the officer came down not disinformation wasn't passed on yeah he got killed he got killed that day wow he had a wife and two kids i'll never forget it wow i'll never forget it you know i mean stories, man. And I'll never forget this story.
When I first started working there, it was Christmas Eve night. These teammates had an argument from back in 1978.
They got a vent system. Now, remind you, I told you I didn't start working there until 83.
Right. Okay.
It was a five-year buildup. Yes.
And what they would do is they got this thing where they talk through the vents, where you can be on a whole separate area, but the vents, they travel. So I can have a conversation with you and not even know you.
And we can get a beef going because there's nothing else to do but have a beef, right? So these two guys ended up getting housed together. Staff didn't know they had a beef.
And this guy took a homemade knife that looked like a sword, and he ran it through this guy on Christmas Eve night. That is the first time I ever seen someone get killed in prison.
Blood flew out of him like it was water. I'd never seen anything like that.
Now you're talking about something that looked like a movie and you want to see how fast blood goes out the human body. Get the right organ and see how much blood come out of it.
He killed right there on Christmas Eve night. I'll never forget it.
That was my awakening to the prison system. And it was something to see because it was like, man, he just killed this guy like it was nothing, you know? And he was never getting out anyway.
Right. Where else is he going? Where else is he going? Where is he going? You know? Wow.
So it's a lot of stories, man. I mean, I could load you up with stories that I saw i saw man that things happened in that place man and it was just like just like business normal business you know like it was nothing yeah i'm gonna wait till the documentary comes out i don't want to know anymore till your documentary comes out you told the world so you leave there uh-huh and you go then to Broward County, I'm assuming.
Right. So.
So what was the decision to leave prison to go to Broward County? You know, the main factor was I wanted a better environment because at the time I'm young and up in South Florida, like I said, from what I've gotten was, hey, man, that place is really progressive. So coming out of, and I don't know if you're familiar with the location of where Florida State Prison is, but it's in Bradford County, which is right outside of Gainesville.
Yeah. Well, it's country.
And so it's not a lot to do there for a young person. So the Sheriff's Department, Broad Sheriff's Department was hiring.
So I made the decision. I said, you know what, let me put an application in.
And obviously the pay was a whole lot better. And so I put in and I got selected and I went down and I took a job.
So that's how I ended up down in Broward County. Awesome.
Awesome. So when you said outside of Gainesville, there's a small little college and university there we're not allowed to talk about here.
Go hills and go dogs. But for all my Bulldog fans, you know, the college I'm talking about in Gainesville, we're not allowed to talk.
But so you're at Broward, man. So so what is it like there? Obviously, it's a different environment, right? So walk us through a little bit of the first few years of Broward and what that's like.

Getting there, the Broward Sheriff's Office was in a transition where they just built a brand new facility.

So they were in need of a lot of people because, like I said,

because of cocaine and all those different things,

everything was exploding, and the facilities were, you know,

bigger facilities were needed for, you know, to accommodate, you know, the arrestees. So coming in there, I came in with a lot of young people my age.
And I also was there with some people that was a little bit older, but most of us were pretty much around the same age in diameter. But the good part was I had already had experience.
So coming in from a prison system, coming into a jail facility was night and day. It was totally night and day where, you know, it was no discipline.
It was no because these people were coming off the street. So they weren't like, you know, acclimated to being incarcerated, I should say.
It's not like they were like, okay, you know what, I know what to do when I get here. Some of these people are new to the system.
Some of these people have been previously obviously rearrested, but it wasn't the kind of structure that you would have in prison. Everybody knows we eat at this time in prison.
Everybody knows we go do this at this time. Things in jail is fluid because people don't stay.
You know, they come and go. It's transit.
They bond out. They go to prison or whatever the case may be.
You know, so it was always overchanging and that's something I had to get used to because when I was at prison, at the prison system, I knew I had guys that weren't never going home. You know, their people was coming and going.
It was always going to change. But being in the jail system, it was quite different because you had a lot of laws that you had to learn.
A lot of different rules you had to learn versus prison was basically set in 33 that shape. That was the code that governed the prison at that particular time.
Amazing. So then you're there.
How did you meet Brother Hicks? When was that? I met Raymond. I was his supervisor.
Okay. And, oh man, I can't do not.
I'm trying to think because that's been so long ago. Because like I say, we all young because I made supervisor like the first two years I was down to the sergeant.
And so Raymond worked under me and I would say probably 87, 88, I'm thinking maybe the time frame that he was working for me. And Raymond, like a lot of the young guys who worked up under me, and at this particular time, now I'm becoming one of the older guys because I'm five, six years older than them.
I'm much older now. So these guys, they will go out.
They will party. Then they called in sick for work.
Give them the them the talking to. Okay.
They're not getting the talking to. Now I got to give them some paperwork.
So now my thing was say, hey, press down hard. Third copy yours.
Take that one for yourself. And believe it or not, I wrote Raymond up.
I disciplined him for calling in sick. And that, believe it or not, brought us closer together.
Because he came to me and said, you know what? I'm so glad you wrote me up because you made me realize I have a family and I need this job. And that's how he and I became close beyond the job.
Because I looked at him and I saw, you know what? This guy want to be here. He understands what this means to have this job.
His family was the most important thing. And unfortunately, some of the young fellas that came along, they ended up getting terminated because of the sick time.
And and he straightened part of himself out, you know.

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And you see the size of Raymond, right? Yeah. See the size.
He's a massive guy. And back then, you know, guys in jail were big guys because we had weights in the jails at the time.
And these guys work out. And now that they've been working out, they want to test their strength or they want to test themselves, you know, because they feel like, OK, I've been working.
I got to see I got to put this to use. Let me see what I can do with staff.
So a lot of times Raymond was called in because of his strength and his size. And especially when he worked for me, I won't call any names, but I had this particular inmate.

He was disrespecting one of the females and he was saying all kind of derogatory things to her, saying whatever he was saying to her, vulgar,

you know, it was really nasty stuff.

So when I came back to work, she said, Hey, Sarge, listen, this guy,

he's been disrespecting me, you know, and why have you been off?

I said, okay, no problem. Let me talk to him.
So I called Raymond down.

I say, I need you to come down, come down here to the unit. And then, um,

because we always use strength and numbers whenever you're working at

the environment, it's never one-on-one and it's normal situation where you

really don't want to use force. That's the last thing you want to do,

but you always want to show a use of force. And most guys will back down when they say that use of force.
That's the last thing you want to do. But you always want to show a use of force.

And most guys will back down

when they say that use of force.

Or when they say that use of force.

So this particular guy, he decided

he wanted to go ahead and he wanted to

put some work in. Okay, well, you know what?

Let's get at it.

And subsequently,

it didn't go well.

It did not go well for him.

And Raymond was

always that guy that, listen, man, loyal, first to come in, always treating these guys fair with respect because he could have hurt a lot of guys. He'd be the big guy.
Yeah. But that wasn't his demeanor his demeanor was not to to come there and be a bully that wasn't who he was yeah and and the thing about it Raymond was the type of guy he would help these guys he would talk to these guys because a lot of these guys he knew because he was from the community I wasn't from the community so I didn't know any of these guys he knew these guys he a lot of these guys.
So he had their respect, you know, and then a lot of times I can call Raymond down. He could talk to a guy and kill the situation for him.
I ain't got to deal with it. He could talk to the guy because he had that relationship.
And that's the thing about working in that environment that most people don't understand.

At that particular time, there was no taser.

There was no shield.

There was no mace.

There was no shield. There was no mace.
There was no stun gun. It was none of that.
It was your verbal, and it was hands-on. And no one really wants to go hands-on because, you know, even if you win the fight, you still can get hurt.
And no one wants to get hurt, you know? So he was very, very, very good at his job his job man the man was good you know in fact i don't know if he ever shared with you this particular lieutenant they was finna throw this guy off a top tier raymond only if i ever told you the story now but raymond broke his index finger saving his lieutenant from getting thrown over the rail. Wow.
Yeah. That's the type of guy he was.
You know what I mean? He was that type of guy. And I mean, and any time that they had an issue with a person that they thought was going to be physical or be a problem, he was one of the guys that they called him.
Wow. You know, they called him.
Yeah. And the guy was always there, man, you know, and his uniform was always impeccable.
He made sure his dress was where it needed to be because me being his supervisor. Listen, that's something I enforced.
If your uniform wasn't right, that is a problem for me. And at the time we had a scoring system.
If your uniform was not what it's supposed to be, I'm going to give you the score you deserve. So whatever that score is, if you get a one, you got a one because you didn't maintain your uniform.
That's why you got a one. And I set the example because I wanted you to see what it's supposed to look like.
You know, look that way every day when you go to work because people are respect. You don't have to know anything.
But if you look the part, they'll respect you right off the bat.

Because you look professional.

Sergeant Booker, I appreciate that so much.

Because there's a leadership lesson in that.

I tell people all the time, there's a standard.

And your standard has to be your standard. Because if not, you allow other people's opinions to say who you are.

You allow outside influences to dictate the decisions that you make. And what I've heard from you and everything from being able to write people up, from setting a standard and not being afraid to tell someone, hey, you got a one because you don't look appropriate to me, right? Like for everybody that's listening, if you're a leader or if you're accepting a leadership role, or you're thinking about going into a leadership position, the first thing I'm going to tell you, and you've heard Sergeant Booker talk about it a lot, is you've got to have a standard and you've got to set the tone as a leader.
So again, I applaud you for that because it's the little things. And I have the saying, how you do small things is how you do all things.

And I think for you, that's what you're saying, right? Like if you're willing to come in not appropriate, then are you really going to do the job the right way? Can I trust you if you're not going to wear a belt, right? And if your shoes aren't going to be polished the right way, am I going to trust you to make a decision out in the field? That's what I hear you saying. Absolutely.
And it's the other thing, just like doing the legal documents that we had to do when something occurred and we had to write what was called a death report or a medical report or something like that. I literally would take a red pen and I would write on the report because I needed you to understand that this report can't go in.
You cannot spell words, misspell words, because these documents are going to court. These documents are going, people are going to read these.
And I always should say, when you put your name on something, you want that document to reflect who you are. So when people see me, they say, man, Sergeant Booker, man, that guy's squared away.
You know why? Because his reports reflect that. He took the time to write it right.
He took the time to make sure the words he used were spelled right. You know, that's important, especially from a legal standpoint.
But you want people to identify with you saying, hey, he takes pride in his job. He goes beyond what needs to be done.
When most people cut it short, you go beyond that. Read your policies.
Know your policies. Know how to leave men and women because it's important.
Most people, they don't know how to leave men and women. The first thing they want to say is, hey, is my way or no way? No, that ain't how it go.
I'm going to show you what's wrong. I'm going to tell you how to fix it.
And together, we both learned from it and we're going to be better for it. But if I just, if I don't give you the right direction, guess what? We all lose.
And then when you leave me and go to someone else, know what they're going to say? Hey man, Sergeant Booker had this guy for a whole year, man. This guy can't write.
He don't know how to do reports. He don't know who to call.
That's important. That's a reflection of who I am.
I can't let that be a reflection on me that's negative. I can't do that.
Absolutely. So you just gave me a bunch of accolades for Raymond.
Obviously at this time you hold him in, I'm going to say, the highest regard. Absolutely.
Yes. And then all of a sudden, sudden you as his supervisor the person he reports to now you start getting and i don't know how this works so i'm gonna totally give you the floor but i can assume that before he knows something is going down his supervisor probably knows something is going down or there's some accusations or maybe there's some things going on.
What is it for you when you hear or you see, hey, the Raymond that you think you know, isn't the Raymond that we are seeing out here or that we know? Well, the thing is, I don't really know what all led to Raymond's um, accusations. Yep.
Yep. Um, but I tell you this,

cause all that's in a whole separate, um, a whole separate department, department, what they do to internal affairs investigations and then they bring charges or they, or whatever they do. So you really don't know what's going on until it happens.
So it's not that you hear anything because it's all in a separate building. It's all internal with inside of that organization.
Yeah. So when the situation happened with Raymond, you know, like myself and many of us, totally shocked.
Because I know his character. I know the man.
I know the person, you know, and Raymond became, you know, he became a friend just as well as a co-worker and someone I supervised. Because like I told you earlier, I saw a lot in Raymond.
Because woman is the type of person, and anybody who knows Raymond and will speak the truth on Raymond, if they know him personally, they know Raymond will get you the shirt off his back. That's the type of person Raymond is.
Raymond has a big heart. Raymond is a God-fearing man.
A lot of people don't even know that. That the man is very spiritually bound.
He is. And when he went through that situation, it was, like I say, alarm bells went off.
Because I'm like, no, that ain't my guy. And it was like, no, that's not him.
That's not him.

And so it was quite shocking when it came down.

But no, no one, like I said, I didn't hear any whispers.

Like I said, 99% of investigations like that,

they're going, no one knows anything.

You don't know anything.

Yeah.

Gotcha.

Did you face any backlash post-arrest? No. None? No.
Good stuff. Good stuff.
So you said, you know, you saw it. That's not the Raymond you know.
Talk about, you know, as Raymond and the family are going through it, right? Like, what's on Sergeant Booker's heart at that time? in the box the mette mc9 is the perfect choice for both new shooters and seasoned pros now available in california visit your local dealer or check online to experience the canic mette mc9 today canic superior firearms i'll tell you my wife and i we um when raymond had when raymond had came home um and got an opportunity to sit down with his wife and his kids and everything. And actually the man was destitute.
I mean, he, you know, there's two years that he was away and I guess whatever legal expenses that he had, it's chewed up whatever finances that they may have had. And obviously with that being said, you know, that puts you in a financial bind with credit cards and everything else.
And a man pretty much is destitute. So my wife and I, you know, we said, listen, let's do what we can do to help them.
So we were able financially to bless them and try to help them somewhat from where we could do to help them as a family. Because, you know, I could only imagine I know if I was going through something like that, someone who knows me as an employee first, someone who will supervise me cycling, and someone that I call a friend would be there for me.
Because as we know, most times when it's time for someone to help you row that boat, they ain't there. You're riding the boat as long as the motor running.
If you got to get out and roll, I don't know if I can help you. Uh-huh.
I'm afraid to deal with you because I don't want something blowing back on me like you asked me earlier. Well, I know I'm an upstanding guy and I know I've always did everything to the best of my ability with the sheriff's department.
And I don't see where it's a conflict for me having a friend. This is a friend.
This is not an enemy. This is not someone that I don't know.
And let's be clear. He went to court.
He was exonerated. So why wouldn't I help a friend? Correct.
Why wouldn't I help his family if I can? Why wouldn't all of his friends help him right all because he helped so many see that's the thing you know if people would would like totally be honest and this is why like i always tell raymond i don't i don't associate myself with only a few people and And I learned this in life.

I learned this in life.

And I always say, if I took my jacket off and you could see my back,

you'd see knives, lies, spoons, forks,

bricks, shovels, trucks, you name it.

It's all been in my back.

So I've learned, and like I share with Raymond,

learn to separate yourself and only feel yourself with people who can feel you. You can't give yourself to the world because the world don't appreciate you.
If you're a person that's always giving, a person or a giver, they'll use you up. Don't take advantage of that.
So you got to protect yourself by saying, you know what? I'm only going to be around people. I know if I pick up the phone and I call you and if I need $1,000, there's no question why I need it.
I know the money coming. I know it's coming.
And there's no question. And there's no question, hey, when you're going to pay me back? No.
You get it back to me when you need to. So, I mean, that's the world that I try to let Raymond

share in the fact that look at

my life, you see why I don't deal with

a lot of people. And that was

I did that on purpose

to get you in a

place with your story that you're dealing with

and what you're going through. Everybody

don't need to be a part of your journey because everybody

don't know what you're going through.

And like I tell him all the time, I said, Raymond, a lot of people try to attach themselves to you. Your story is only unique to you.
And I said, people cannot help you because they don't know what you're going through. A lot of people, they criticize me.
Oh, you've been going through this for so long. And I always told him, I said, Raymond, it's your life and you have to fight for your life.
And when you feel you was wrong, then you feel like you need to get yourself vindicated in your family. Then you fight for your life.
It doesn't matter what the next person say. And I said, think about this, Raymond.
Think about the journey that God has put you on. You became an author of a book.
You ran for public office. You got your degree.
You became a part of eternity. You've been on all different types of podcasts.
You do a backpack drive every year in the community. I said, look at all the things because of what happened to you.
Look at all the great things that God continuously blessing you with. Amen.
And I said, and as long as you understand that it's all a blessing, and because your story is so unique, you're able to share that story with so many. And I told him this just the other day when I spoke to him, I said, Raymond, I said, think about this.
You got a guy out there, a young lady out there, that has probably gone through something similar like you have

and because they heard your story,

it gives them hope. It gives them

direction because a lot of people don't know

which way to go, which way to turn

in order to put themselves

in a position to even start the fight.

That's right. So, think

about the reason

you went through what you went through

and maybe God said that reason, it really wasn't for you. It was for you to help someone else, a lot of someone else's, because I'm going to take care of you.
I'm going to make sure you're fine, but I need you to go through this so you can help a lot of people, because a lot of people go through a lot of things in law enforcement. Law enforcement is a job that you can go to work today on top of the world, and by 3 o'clock this afternoon, the world can be on top of you.
And it probably has nothing to do with anything you did. You just could have been present.
You could have just been in the area. And now you're fighting for your job.
You know what I mean? And that's what happens. That can happen.
And just like with Raymond, this man basically was fighting for his life. And so as a friend, you know, as somebody who tried to be a person that he could, you know, come to for, I don't even want to use the word comfort, but come to somebody for guidance and some correction and understanding.
Because let me tell you something. I tell Raymond a lot of things he don't want to hear because i consider myself a big brother to him that's it i consider myself a friend i'm not i'm not a yes man i've never been there so and i've always lived my life man i'm gonna tell you what's on my mind and sometimes i shouldn't but for me if you should if i'm your brother man this is all gas no break i'm gonna tell you just what i'm thinking yes you don't get it you and even if it hurts and even if you don't speak to me for a week you know what I'm still okay because you're gonna come back to me that's it I told you what was right that's all Sergeant Booker man you you're giving us all the leadership lessons right here man like we've been talking for 30 plus minutes and it feels like 10 because I'm learning from you.

Like you're speaking to me in a lot of this, you know, like leadership is my thing and business growth is my thing. And so, you know, I want to I want to ask you this on the way out, like for the listeners and viewers, what's one tip? What's one piece of advice that you want people to know where to follow from the words of the master himself sergeant james book i would tell anybody never change who you are never compromise your values and if something is wrong just know it's wrong nobody can tell you it's right when you know's wrong.
And don't fall into what is wrong when you know what is right. You know, I would tell any person that.
Because it all starts with your character. Because at the end of the day, that's all people can judge you on is your character.
Nothing else. It's your character.
I love that. I totally love that.
I love that.

Brother, I love you. I know that you have, even though you're retired, you've got this busy schedule.
So the fact that you were able to take some time out of your day and spend time with us on Makeup Club podcast, I truly appreciate it, man. And anytime you want to be back on and just drop wisdom from you, I would love to have you on, man.
Like, like I learned a lot from, from this conversation, from a leadership perspective, um, the, the insights that you have, the, the standards that you created and the, the straightforwardness that's about you. I totally appreciate that.
Respect that and love you brother. Yes.
Same here. And thank you for the opportunity.
And, uh, you know, I, like I told you earlier off mic, I really appreciate the work that you do. Um, these, the podcast is something that, um, I think will reach many and I really appreciate you giving me the opportunity to speak all the time, all the time.
Anytime you want to be back on, I promise I got you. I promise I got you.
All right. For all the viewers and listeners, remember your because is your superpower.
Go Unleash It. Thank you.
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