Tiny House

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Our story tonight is called Tiny House, and it’s a story about a snug, small space to relax in. It’s also about impatiens for the flower bed, sunny days on the edge of the woods, hammocks and reading nooks, and the relief of having fewer decisions to make and more time to enjoy.

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Our story tonight is called Tiny House.

And it's a story about a snug, small space to relax in.

It's also about impatience for the flower bed, sunny days on the edge of the woods, hammocks and reading nooks, and the relief of having fewer decisions to make and more time to enjoy.

So lights out, campers.

Set everything down,

even your thoughts and worries.

Set them down for now.

If they are useful, you can pick them up tomorrow.

But most likely,

you'll forget them as you dream.

Notice how good it feels to be in bed,

to be at the end of this day.

Feel your jaw softening, your shoulders relaxing.

All is well.

Take a deep breath in through the nose

and sigh.

Once more, breathe in

and release it.

Good.

Tiny House

Ever since I was a child, I've loved snug spaces,

the cupboard under the stairs,

the space between the sofa and the wall,

pillow forts and reading nooks.

And even as I grew up, I loved the corner booth at the diner,

a window seat with a curtain that you can pull closed.

The interior of my small car parked on the edge of the park on a rainy, chill day,

with a heat running and some music playing from the radio.

I think it's the simplicity of small spaces that make them feel so soothing to me.

Caring for them,

cleaning and organizing,

and being in them comes with a pared-down list of options.

So the overworked, decision-making part of my brain gets a break when I'm in them.

Instead of wearing myself out

with a dozen what-ifs or should-is,

There is just a simple, clear path.

Do this,

the small space says.

Yes, that feels like a relief to an overworked mind.

So, a few months ago,

I decided to make simplified spaces a way of life

rather than an occasional escape.

Just before the holidays, I bought a tiny house,

sold or gave away most of my things,

took what was left, and moved in.

And

I loved it.

It felt like the safest little space I'd ever known.

Small, uncomplicated, and all mine.

It sat near a patch of thick woods, a mile or two outside of town,

just before you get to the orchards.

I liked the privacy and the quiet out here.

From my bed in the sleeping loft, I could see a pond in the distance

where deer and fox came to drink.

All around my tiny house were shrubs and garden beds that I was planning to fill with pretty annuals and small trees.

Since I'd moved in at the end of autumn, all I'd had time for outside

had been hanging a few strands of Christmas lights on the porch

and a wreath on my door.

But this year I would spend a lot of time outside, making the most of my garden.

Already

I used the porch every day.

That was something I'd noticed about living in a smaller space.

In my last house,

there were whole rooms I barely ever used,

only entered to dust or store things.

In this house, I used every space nearly every day,

and it gave me a sense of

not wasting.

Not wasting space,

and not wasting time.

The porch gave off of my front door,

which was painted a cheery yellow

among the antique blue of the house exterior,

and it held just my comfortable chair

and the small table for my coffee and a book.

I sat outside as soon as it was warm enough in the mornings

and watched the world wake up around me.

It had become a kind of meditation to sit there,

listen to rain dripping from the eaves and tree branches,

or the birds singing on sunny days,

to taste the deep strong flavor

of my coffee, and smell the woods and the grass as spring arrived

I'd often carry my cup with me

as I stepped down from the porch and circle my house slowly

stopping to pull weeds from the beds

or pluck a few stems of lily of the valley from around the oak tree tree roots.

Inside my little house,

I'd shed my shoes at the door

and find a small vase for the flowers

and clean the whole kitchen

in less than a minute flat.

In fact, my whole home could be cleaned in less than an hour.

So keeping it just the the way I liked it,

in order and welcoming, was something I did every day.

I found, living here,

that I had more time to do things I loved,

felt less overwhelmed by the list of chores and to-dos

that used to dominate my days.

I read more books,

went for more walks,

listened to more music,

and slept better than I had in years.

When I'd first told friends about my plans for this tiny house life,

many had asked,

What about dinner parties?

What about guests?

Wouldn't I just need more space at certain times?

And I know I haven't lived here long

just six months.

But so far their concerns hadn't proved worth worrying over.

For the brick patio at the back of the house,

I'd ordered a nice sized outdoor table.

If I wanted to have a dinner party,

I could do it any day the weather allowed.

As for guests,

well,

they were welcome to come,

to have a cup of tea with me.

I'd even take an extra chair out onto the porch for them.

But when the visit was over,

I'd send them on to the next stop in their journey.

I'd spent many years

making myself less comfortable to make others more so.

And now I was in a different season of my life.

And real friends appreciated that

and never resented it.

I guess there could be times when I would want some extra space.

But the world was full of space.

And I'd realized it didn't all have to live in my home.

I could be in town in five minutes,

wandering through the open streets, meeting a big group of friends for a movie or dinner,

watching a soccer game with hundreds of others at the high school stadium,

listening to a band play

at the clamshell concert stage in the park.

In fact, today seemed a good day

to step out into the world

and find a few things I'd been thinking of for my home.

I'd go to the plant nursery

and look for a few flats of impatience for the bed beside the porch.

I'd stop by the gift shop

to buy a candle scented for spring

and I just might go to the hardware store where I'd seen a display of hammocks in the window.

This smaller,

simpler approach to living

was making more space in my life for little pleasures.

More time to just rest and notice and enjoy.

And when I came back home today

and set the flowers on the patio for tomorrow's planting,

Lit the candle on my single table

and locked the door behind me.

I'd feel

a rush of gratitude for taking this step

to move my life more deliberately in the direction of my dreams.

Tiny house.

Ever since I was a child

I'd loved snug spaces,

the cupboard under the stairs,

the space between the sofa and the wall,

pillow forts

and reading nooks

And even as I grew up

I loved the corner booth

at the diner,

a window seat

with a curtain that you can pull closed

The interior of my small car

Parked on the edge of the park

on a rainy, chill day

with the heat running

and some music playing from the radio.

I think it's the simplicity

of small spaces

that make them feel

so soothing to me,

Caring for them.

Cleaning and organizing

and being in them

comes with a pared-down list of options.

So the overworked decision-making part of my brain

gets a break when I'm in them.

Instead of wearing myself out

with a dozen

what ifs

or

should I's

there is just a simple, clear path.

Do this,

the small space says.

Yes,

that feels like a relief

to an overworked mind.

So, a few months ago,

I decided to make

simplified spaces

a way of life

rather than an occasional escape.

Just before the holidays,

I bought a tiny house,

sold or gave away most of my things,

took what was left

and moved in.

And I loved it.

It felt like the safest little space I'd ever known.

small,

uncomplicated,

and all mine.

It sat near a patch of thick woods

a mile or two outside of town

just before you get to the orchards.

I liked the privacy

and the quiet out here.

From my bed in the sleeping loft,

I could see a pond in the distance

where deer and fox came to drink.

All around my tiny house were shrubs

and garden beds

that I was planning to fill with pretty annuals

and small trees.

Since I'd moved in

at the end of autumn,

all I'd had time for

outside

had been hanging a few strands of Christmas lights on the porch

and a wreath on my door.

But this year I would spend a lot of time outside,

making the most of my garden.

Already

I used the porch every day.

That was something I'd noticed

about living in a smaller space.

In my last house,

there were whole rooms I barely ever used,

only entered to dust

or store things.

In this house,

I used every space

nearly

every day,

and it gave me a sense

of not wasting,

not wasting space,

and not wasting time.

The porch gave off of my front door,

which was painted a cheery yellow

among the antique blue

of the house exterior,

and it held just my comfortable chair

and a small table

for my coffee

and a book.

I sat outside

as soon as it was warm enough enough in the mornings

and watched the world wake up around me.

It had become

a kind of meditation to sit there,

to listen to rain dripping from the eaves

and tree branches,

to taste the deep, strong flavor of my coffee

and smell the woods and grass

as spring arrived.

I'd often carry my cup with me

as I stepped down from the porch

and circle my house slowly,

stopping to pull weeds from the beds,

or pluck a few stems of lily of the valley

from around the oak tree roots.

Inside my little house,

I'd shed my shoes at the door

and find a small vase for the flowers,

and clean the whole kitchen

in less than a minute flat.

In fact, my whole home could be cleaned in less than an hour.

So keeping it just the way I liked it,

in order,

and welcoming,

was something I did every day.

I found,

living here,

that I had more time to do things I loved.

Felt less overwhelmed by the list of chores

and to-dos

that used to dominate my days.

I read more books,

went for more walks,

listened to more music,

and slept better

than I had in years.

When I'd first told friends

about my plans

for this

tiny house life.

Many had asked,

what about dinner parties?

What about guests?

Wouldn't I just

need more space at certain times?

I know I haven't lived here long,

just six months

but so far

their concerns hadn't proved worth worrying over

for the brick patio

at the back of the house

I'd ordered a nice sized outdoor table

If I wanted to have a dinner party

I could do it any day the weather allowed.

As for guests,

well,

they were welcome to come

to have a cup of tea with me.

I'd even take an extra chair out onto the porch for them.

But when the visit was over,

I'd send them on

to the next stop in their journey.

I'd spent many years

making myself

less comfortable

to make others more so.

And now

I was in a different season of my life,

and real friends appreciated that

and never resented it.

I guessed there could be times when I would

want some extra space.

But the world

was full of space,

and I'd realized it didn't all have to live

in my home.

I could be in town in five minutes,

wandering through the open streets,

meeting a big group of friends for a movie

or dinner,

watching a soccer game

with hundreds of others

at the high school stadium,

listening to a band play

at the clamshell concert stage in the park.

In fact, today seemed a good day

to step out into the world

and find a few things I'd been thinking of for my home.

I'd go to the plant nursery

and look for a few flats of impatience

for the bed beside the porch.

I'd stop by the gift shop to buy a candle scented for spring.

And I just might go to the hardware store

where I'd seen a display of hammocks in the window.

This smaller, simpler approach to living

was making more space in my life

for little pleasures,

for time to just rest,

and notice,

and enjoy.

And when I came back home today

and set the flowers on the patio

for tomorrow's planting,

lit the candle on my single table,

and locked the door behind me,

I'd feel a rush of gratitude

for taking this step

to move my life

more deliberately

in the direction of my dreams.

Sweet dreams.