Day 9: Thy Will Be Done

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I'd like to frame and form our approach to this part of the Our Father with a reading from the Holy Gospel according to Matthew. This is chapter 18 verses 1 through 4.
At that time, the disciples came to Jesus saying, who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, truly I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child, he is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
I'd like to begin this reflection by just looking at, you know, the children of heaven, like in the lens of, you know, rooted in just natural children. Like kids are really poor.
Like literally, you know, they don't have money. You know, they can't feed themselves, provide for themselves, et cetera.
They're also just poor in self-knowledge often. They're poor in understanding.
They're poor in ability to solve problems. If children have a healthy sort of context, a healthy family, they're going to be rooted in these realities.
They're just objective realities, but they're not going to experience them with great discouragement or shame or self-hatred. There's not going to be a temptation towards self-reliance.
What they do is they just come to their mom and dad. They come to their parents and say, help me, like take care of me, provide for me.
Can you help tie my shoe? Can you help make dinner? Yeah, children, they're needy, they're poor, they're vulnerable, they're dependent, but also they're joyful. There's a levity to them.
There's this freedom. And this is authentic humility, particularly Christian

humility. And this is where we as children of God can experience the kingdom of heaven on this earth.
It's when in humility, we recognize and we accept that we are dependent, that we ourselves are poor and vulnerable and limited and needy before God. And so instead of this leading towards, again, self-reliance or self-hatred, self-accusation, what we are called to do is just to bring it to our Heavenly Father.
Here I am, Lord. Here I am again.
Here I am in all of my reality, my limitations, my poverty. And this, my friends, is the experience of the kingdom of heaven here.
Now it's when our dependence meets his perfect providence. And the fruit of this is peace.
And so when the Lord is saying or teaching us to pray, thy kingdom come, thy will be done. When he's teaching us to turn and become like children, it's to face, to accept our actual reality, but not with fear, not with frustration, but with faith and confidence to bring this to our heavenly father.
A little example of this is I just, for whatever reason, I have this super, super distinct memory of being a kid and going to restaurants. The waiter, the waitress would ask me like, okay, what do you want to drink? You know, and I look at my mom and dad and they'd be like, oh, he'll take, you know, a Sprite or he'll take a Diet Coke or he'll take a water.
And I'm looking at them not for permission. I'm looking at them because I don't actually know what I want.
Or, you know, I remember just very distinctly being at like a Mexican restaurant and like, okay, do you want flour or corn tortillas? And I look at my parents, you know, it's like, I don't know. What's the answer to this? Like, which do I like best? And they say, okay, he'll, yeah, he'll take some flour tortillas.
I'm like, awesome. Great.
And I think this is kind of what we're going for. This is what it looks like.
It's like, yeah, I don't actually know what I want for myself. I can't pay for it, but I also, I can't choose.
You know, I don't, I don't know, but again, I'm not frustrated. I'm not ashamed of it.
I just look at my mom and dad and say like, what do I want? You know, but under this is just this confidence, like that they know what I want. And also they like love me.
And so they're going to give the answer that that's best for me, even though I can't, you know, give the best answer for myself. The difficulty, right, is while we are always children of God, as we become adults, we start to try and, you know, have shame or frustration around these experiences of our poverty.
And so we like try to figure it out all by ourselves. And when we're not able to do it all, like it bears fruit and like instead of peace and joy of just kind of frustration and angst and shame.
And what the Lord's invitation to us is to become like children, to not fight the poverty, not fight the need, not fight the dependence, but again, just to bring it to him, to bring it to the father. And what this looks like for Jesus is kind of the high point of this is going to be in the garden, right? Like father, let this cut past, but not my will, but your will be done.
And that is the prayer of the Son. And as we enter into, and as we pray the Our Father, like we are praying in the same relationship that Jesus has with his Father.
Thy will be done, Father. And so today the invitation is to continue just to reflect upon this, like, are there ways in which we are no longer children before God? Ways in which we feel the burden of providing and taking care of ourselves? And is the Lord inviting you to just the freedom, the confidence, the joy, the peace of a child by saying, hey, give it to me.
Let me take care of you. With these loose grips say like, Father, you know, thy will be done.
Thy will be done in all things in my life. Because, Father, I trust that you know what is good for me.
And the more we live this, my brothers and sisters, the more here and now we experience the kingdom of heaven. So let us pray in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen. Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death.
Amen. Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end.
Amen. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen. All amen all right thanks friends thanks for joining me and

praying with me today i look forward to continuing the journey with you tomorrow poco poco all right

god bless y'all