Dave Ramsey: How To Create Financial Freedom & Become Your Own Boss

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Speaker 1 And did you know that your value appreciates every time you use your skill set to help someone else? I talk about this in my new book. That's a quote from my book, Make Money Easy.

Speaker 1 Your value appreciates every time you use your skill set to help someone else.

Speaker 1 So if you feel stuck or trapped or stagnant in life, think about how you can use something inside of you, a resource, a hidden skill, a hidden talent, a tangible skill that you have, and help someone today.

Speaker 1 When you do that, you appreciate in value because you're adding value and generosity to someone else. Again, you've heard me say this before.

Speaker 1 Gratitude and generosity are the gateway to abundance and your value appreciates every time you use your skill set to help someone else.

Speaker 1 So if you feel stuck, stagnant, trapped, overwhelmed, burdened, you might need a break. That's one thing.

Speaker 1 You might need to rest and take like five to 10 minutes to just breathe and actually not do anything.

Speaker 1 But if you feel kind of like, just like something's not breaking through in life, stop thinking about me and start thinking about how can I add value with my skill set.

Speaker 1 And I want you to do that to some person today in your life. Reach out to someone.
Be a giver. Be a resource.
be generous with your time, your energy, your talents, and add value to someone today.

Speaker 1 And someone who added value to me today was Dave Ramsey. I had a chance to sit down with him and have him on my show.

Speaker 1 I've been inspired by Dave as a human being for many years, and it's amazing to watch what he's built within his business.

Speaker 1 1,200 employees in Nashville, an amazing facility that I was at for the entire day doing some press with my book launch, but also interviewing Dave for the School of Greatness.

Speaker 1 And the man just has a presence about him. He just has a character about him.

Speaker 1 I'm not saying he's some perfect human being, but he has built something inspiring that has lasted and will continue to last for many years to come.

Speaker 1 And it's powerful to watch how he's built a business based on values and character. And it doesn't mean everyone likes it and everyone agrees with it, but he has built something based on his values.

Speaker 1 And those values attract the right people. And those people, he invests in them and they appreciate in value.

Speaker 1 And if you're looking to build anything, if you're looking to build a business, a side hustle, a side project, your art, your music, and put it out into the world, there are three rules of business that no entrepreneur is exempt from that Dave is going to be talking about and sharing from this in this interview.

Speaker 1 He also shares some tactical things to do with growing your business and setting up the business, the processes, the people, the product, all these different things.

Speaker 1 But there's one element of this interview that we kept coming back to, and it's his secret weapon, which is his wife.

Speaker 1 And he talks about how his wife uses one skill to make some of the biggest decisions in his business. And it's something that she's developed over time, that is appreciated over time.

Speaker 1 And he's tried to go against it and just go with his own gut at times, and it's burned him. But every time he has to make a big decision, he leans on his wife and a superpower that she has.

Speaker 1 And it's the critical difference between the success and really making things easier versus harder. So I'm excited for you to dive into this today.

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Speaker 1 Welcome back, everyone. I am excited to be here today.
I'm in Nashville at the Ramsey headquarters, Dave Ramsey in the house. So good to see you, sir.

Speaker 2 You too. Welcome back.
Thank you. It's exciting.
It's very regular around here, man. It's exciting in that seat right there.

Speaker 2 I got to come back more often.

Speaker 1 You know, maybe you'll find me back more often. Every couple of years, I get back.
It's nice.

Speaker 1 And the reason I'm back is because you got a new book and I'm excited about this. I was able to dive into this, build a business you love.

Speaker 1 And I think a lot of people want to build a business they love, but they stress about it.

Speaker 2 They have a lot of overwhelm.

Speaker 1 They have a lot of stress. They have a lot of anxiety.
They go into it thinking, I have this big dream or I want to serve people in a bigger way.

Speaker 1 But then they try to do it all themselves and it becomes this daunting thing that they, it's a nightmare.

Speaker 1 And I think small business owners have had a tough time in the last few years, obviously with COVID, inflation, political changes, just uncertainty, egg prices, all these things are kind of all over the place.

Speaker 1 And it's really hard for some of them to navigate how to manage a team and also manage their mindset while they're trying to build and launch a business. And for those that

Speaker 1 are struggling or scrambling or just trying to figure this out, what should they be thinking? Should they even be thinking that they can build a business they love in this season of life?

Speaker 1 Or what should they be thinking in the world right now in small business?

Speaker 2 You know, it's so funny. Those of us that are entrepreneurial, we're like, I want to work for myself.

Speaker 2 And then you find out your boss is a jerk.

Speaker 2 You find out he's a slave driver.

Speaker 2 16-hour days and cracking the whip, and you're exhausted, and you don't even know what you're doing, and you're scared, and you're lonely, and

Speaker 2 you're stepping and fetching, and you're leaving the cave trying to find something to kill and drag back. And, oh, my gosh, it's hard.
It's really hard.

Speaker 2 And then add a bunch of outside societal variables to it that are all yelling at you that you're going to fail.

Speaker 2 It gets scary. It gets hard.

Speaker 2 And I've never met anyone that was the exception to that.

Speaker 2 The ones that think they're the exception to that scare me because that means they're getting ready to hit the wall because they're in pride and they're good. They don't have any idea.

Speaker 2 If you're not a little scared, you're weird and you should be a little scared.

Speaker 2 If you're not a little bit lonely and a little bit overworked and a little bit stressed, welcome to self-employment. Welcome to running a small business.
That's how it works.

Speaker 2 That's the bad news. The good news is that it can get better.

Speaker 2 That

Speaker 2 I distinctly remember those days. They're emotionally scarred into my brain from the old days, so to speak.
And

Speaker 2 been doing this 35 years, you know, this Ramsey thing, 35 years. And so,

Speaker 2 but I remember those early days when you had to do everything yourself. And I would get home and I would lay down across the couch, exhausted after 16-hour days.

Speaker 2 And my wife would say, what'd you do today? I have no freaking idea. But I did a lot of it.
And I remember that.

Speaker 2 And that sense of feeling like you're on a treadmill which is the first stage of the five stages in business uh it's a natural place to be the good news is you don't have to stay there that you can move on up and you'll face different problems as you go through the different stages but you'll also start to get some relief because i think the hardest year ever work is when you first kick it off it's so hard it's so hard and people they get excited about it but then it's you're not making money you got all these expenses you got customers who are upset with you and you're not sleeping and then your relationships are going to crap.

Speaker 2 Oh, yeah.

Speaker 1 You're like, why am I doing this? Your health is going to crap. Your relationships are going to crap.

Speaker 1 If you don't have boundaries for your life, if you don't have any type of stability, it can feel exhausting and overwhelming. But the treadmill phase is the first phase.

Speaker 1 Is that just kind of like everyone, you're doing everything all at once?

Speaker 2 Yeah. And you don't even really own a business.
You just own your job. Right.
And you're not getting paid well.

Speaker 2 Because if you don't come to work, the stuff doesn't get produced and the revenue doesn't get produced. It's all the production of the good or service that you're in and

Speaker 2 all the revenue. I mean, so if you get hurt or sick or take a vacation week, you know, you just expect the revenue to go whoop and

Speaker 2 there's no widgets being made. And so if you're a veterinarian and you're the only person there, no dogs are getting help.

Speaker 2 You know, if you're a dentist, you're the only person there, nobody's teeth getting help, you know, and so on. And it's just, it's all dependent on you.
And you know that.

Speaker 2 And that's what you signed up for. So it's okay, but you don't want to stay there because it feels like you're on a treadmill.

Speaker 2 And so the way to level up out of that is to start to talk about, okay, how do we get some team on board that can create some revenue and that can make some of the widgets and can do provide some of the services.

Speaker 2 And I've got to learn to manage my freaking time because you, you know, when you're in the treadmill stage, when I was in the treadmill stage,

Speaker 2 you're running from crisis to crisis to crisis. You just wear a fireman's hat all the time.
And you're not doing any thought past the moment. All you're doing is living in the moment.

Speaker 2 And that just is chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos, chaos. The customers feel it.
Your spouse feels it. You feel it.
And you don't feel like you're getting traction because you're not.

Speaker 2 You're on the treadmill.

Speaker 2 And so you've got to start managing your time and going, okay, I'm going to set out blocks of time to think about something other than the flavor of the moment, the crisis of the moment.

Speaker 2 And I'm going to start talking about how can can I add team members,

Speaker 2 just a few key ones, just to get this off of my shoulders. They're tired.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 that sounds very obvious, very primitive, very simple, but that is exactly how you level up

Speaker 2 out of that and move on. Yeah.

Speaker 1 35 years in doing this business.

Speaker 1 If someone was asking you, you know, Dave, I want to get, I'm excited to launch my own business. I want to do this thing.
I want to try this out. I've got an idea.
I want to launch it.

Speaker 1 And you could give them three keys of really what to look out for before launching it to try to set them up for some type of success and eliminate as much pain as possible.

Speaker 1 Although they're going to have challenge and pain and stress.

Speaker 1 But if you said, if you could do these three things when you launch your business or right before you're launching to make sure you do every day or you set it up in the beginning, what will support them in getting to the best success possible?

Speaker 2 Number one, know that the first

Speaker 2 thing that you try,

Speaker 2 you think it is a beautiful baby and it is an ugly gargoyle.

Speaker 2 That thing's not going to survive.

Speaker 2 Prototype is not going to make it.

Speaker 2 And I know you love it, and I know you think it's your thing, and I know you think it's your first child. It's not.
It's just a bad idea that hasn't told you yet. Oh, man.
And so it's just

Speaker 2 nothing, no one launches a per,

Speaker 2 gets their first idea. Very few people does that ever even get to market.

Speaker 2 It never gets past test market or beta or whatever you want to call it. And because your customers look at you and go, you're an idiot.
This thing sucks.

Speaker 2 And you go, okay, I got to change that because I still want to do this idea. I still want this service to be provided.
But the way I'm doing it, the model or the shape of the widget is not right.

Speaker 2 And so just get your little feelings hurt. Go ahead and get ready because your little baby is ugly.
And so, you know, you just, it's hard. That's hard.

Speaker 2 The second thing is, for God's sakes, don't borrow money.

Speaker 2 Of course, you knew Dave Ramsey's going to say that. But what happens is you're going to make mistakes.
We just talked about that. There's no one that's the exception to that.

Speaker 2 And when you borrow money into your mistakes, you magnify the size of them.

Speaker 2 And so if you buy 42,000 of that widget and go put it on a credit card, and then you figure out they all have to go in the dumpster, now you've got credit card debt.

Speaker 2 And because, you know, but, you know, the optimist in us, the abundance mentality in us says, oh, it's going to work. And it's not.

Speaker 2 It's going to work eventually, but it's going to be its pretty cousin to the thing you thought was really pretty. And it's not really pretty.
So don't borrow into it because you're really going to

Speaker 2 hasten the end of this endeavor. It's going to come down on you.
Hard.

Speaker 2 And then the other thing, I guess, is the old three rules of business. You know, it's going to take twice as long as you think.
It's going to cost twice as long as you think.

Speaker 2 And you're not the exception. Those are the three rules of business.
And that's true here today inside of Ramsey. We get ready to launch something.
We got this little thing, and we go.

Speaker 2 It's not two months, yeah. Yeah, come on.
And I sit down, I talk to the tech guys, and I'm going, okay, we'll be able to put this out in about what, a week and a half.

Speaker 2 And they're like, no, try six months. Oh, my God.
And I'm going, no, I don't do. I don't write code, but we're not waiting six months.
Let's figure something out.

Speaker 2 But they're going, no chance you're six-day dream. You can just end that right now.
So we end up settling reality somewhere in between.

Speaker 2 But it costs twice as long, or it takes twice as long, costs twice as much, therefore,

Speaker 2 even if you're building a digital product, because you got the man hours and the stinking thing and the, you know, the team on it.

Speaker 2 And so, yeah, those are the things that pop into my head first when you ask that, but

Speaker 2 it's still a great adventure.

Speaker 1 It is a great adventure if you can manage it. And speaking of managing it, how did you learn to manage your mind or your emotions?

Speaker 1 during the first kind of three to five years of launching the business, when things changed so much, when you made a lot more mistakes probably back then than you do now, when people came and go, when you had to learn about culture, like how did you manage your emotions and your mindset around all of the crazy adventures of entrepreneurship?

Speaker 2 The things I thought were going to kill me didn't.

Speaker 2 And so the little drama queen that lives inside my head

Speaker 2 got smaller and smaller and quieter and quieter. The first person that left Ramsey, that was on our team, I was emotionally devastated.
Why would anyone want to leave? We're perfect. It's me.

Speaker 2 Why would they want to leave?

Speaker 2 And now, you know, we've got 1,100 people. People leave every week.
And I don't even know some of them. It's like, it's

Speaker 2 not an issue.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 I'm not being, I don't flip and I don't want them to leave still. But the thing I thought was going to kill me didn't kill me.
And, you know,

Speaker 2 the death of the prototype. and the rebirth of it as a prettier version of it didn't kill me.
It hurt my feelings, though. And now I I expect it more.

Speaker 2 Now I expect, you know, I'm probably about the only one here at Ramsey that's not going to leave

Speaker 2 someday, you know? And so I kind of expect it. I hope nobody leaves today.
I hope nobody leaves 10 years from now. I hope they stay with me until I'm gone.

Speaker 2 But the reality is that that's probably not so. And so I've just got to go.

Speaker 2 And we survived that. And we're sad, but we're sad.
Yeah. Especially when somebody's key and that we love deeply and we've been with for a lot of years, but you're sad.

Speaker 2 But again, that's just drama. It's like, because you're like, oh, the whole thing's going to.
No, it's not. Yeah.
No, it's not.

Speaker 2 And so the more I had things I thought were going to kill me didn't, or that I thought were the end that weren't, then I went, okay, the drama queen really has to shut up. It's inside my head.

Speaker 2 Really got to sit down and take a back seat.

Speaker 2 So I just practiced it. And

Speaker 2 it's, you know, when I look back on the things, you know, 10 years ago or 20 years ago that we thought were the end, this is it, you know, and this, I don't know if anybody else has these thoughts, but that's the way it rings in my brain, you know?

Speaker 2 And I look back and it's like, that's almost funny that I thought that because that's so stinking small. Yeah.
There's no chance that was taking us out.

Speaker 2 We were so much bigger and stronger than that by then. And it's like, nope, not going to take us out.

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Speaker 1 I'm investing resources, time, energy. And if they did something where they left, I was like devastated for a while, you know, and it felt like it would emotionally set me back.

Speaker 1 And I guess my feelings were hurt or I was sad. And you're just like, so how have you learned, I guess, to be emotionally invested in people and really lifting them up, but not.

Speaker 1 emotionally devastated when they leave for whatever reason.

Speaker 2 Well, you know, there's two things that happen when someone leaves, whether they leave on their own or whether we ask them to leave.

Speaker 2 Two things that happen. One is they go on and have a much better life.

Speaker 2 And two is some of them don't.

Speaker 2 You know?

Speaker 2 But,

Speaker 2 you know, most of them go on and have a better life. Yes.

Speaker 2 And here's the other thing. The slot that they leave open,

Speaker 2 98% of the the time God sends us an upgrade

Speaker 2 and so if they're gonna leave and the stuff I've taught them is gonna help them be a better version of them and they're gonna go out there and win somewhere else because of that and that's most of the time the trick the case and I'm gonna get an upgrade in their slot there's really nothing to be sad about yeah other than just the personal loss of not being in fellowship with that person on a daily basis.

Speaker 2 You know, that relationship,

Speaker 2 that relationship. And that's real.
Yeah. And that's sad.
But,

Speaker 2 you know, if you thought that when you let someone go, that their life was going to be destroyed because you let them go, you would be really sad.

Speaker 2 But the reality is after doing it for 35 years, most of them get an upgrade. And most of the time in the slot they left, we get an upgrade because it was done.

Speaker 2 It either wasn't a fit to start with or the season was over and God says, okay. Next for both of you.

Speaker 2 Everybody take a step up.

Speaker 1 Yeah, and I think that's, you know, something I've heard you talk about and read in your books before about really taking a long time to hire someone.

Speaker 1 Spending a lot, I think it's like 13 or 15 interviews.

Speaker 2 Used to be. We got it down to seven.

Speaker 2 Still harder to get on here than the FBI. Yeah.

Speaker 1 And just like a, I don't know how long it usually takes, a month-long process for people to come. And I think as an entrepreneur, when you're starting or when you have a smaller business,

Speaker 1 you need to, you feel like you need to fill that position now because you're running on the treadmill.

Speaker 1 And until you find that person, and so sometimes we as entrepreneurs might cut corners or just say, oh, they seem like a great fit after one interview and 30 minutes and no reference checks.

Speaker 1 So let's put them in the place. And then it's six months, a year of trying to make something work that isn't in alignment.

Speaker 2 And you get to do it over because you did it wrong. Yeah.

Speaker 2 And it's kind of akin to, I've got a bunch of rental property and I grew up in the real estate business. And so if you get desperate for a tenant,

Speaker 2 you'll put a cocaine addict in.

Speaker 2 I mean, you know, and and then you'll go oh god they're changing the harley oil in the living room i mean it's you know and you just go because i because i got because i got desperate i got stupid

Speaker 2 and when i get desperate on hires i get stupid slow your butt down slow down take your time because you are going to expend a lot of energy a lot of calories a lot of money to get this person in and you're going to invest in them And eventually, someday they're going to move along probably.

Speaker 2 But we want to have gotten an ROI on them, and they want to get an ROI on the process, too. And, you know, really, when you hire somebody, it's about six months where you make money on it.

Speaker 1 Right. Because you've got to onboard them and train them and get them to get them.

Speaker 2 And they don't even know where the bathroom is, you know, for two weeks. And so it's much less be productive at their job.
And so it just takes a little while.

Speaker 2 Some people are able to get into the seat faster than others.

Speaker 2 But this idea that

Speaker 2 by Friday, I'm going to be making money on this payroll. No, you're not.

Speaker 2 Takes a minute. Yeah.

Speaker 1 What would you say after 35 years in this business is the biggest mistake you've made in the last few years?

Speaker 1 And maybe it's, I know these principles, I teach these principles, but still sometimes I'm a knucklehead or I

Speaker 1 just kind of was rushed this thing.

Speaker 2 And what was I thinking? I knew better.

Speaker 1 Was there anything like that in the last few years?

Speaker 2 There's always something.

Speaker 2 I think

Speaker 2 the thing that aggravates me the most, and it's more of a we than it is a me around here because we do so much with collaboration, the leadership team these days.

Speaker 2 It's not, Dave is not the Lone Ranger doing hardly anything, nor are any of our other leaders. They're all, they're not in silos.
We're very much in pockets of people.

Speaker 2 We all sit down and go, what are we doing here?

Speaker 2 But, you know, I think we all, I think we have revisited and reset some of the

Speaker 2 things we say when we're hiring someone.

Speaker 2 And because we were

Speaker 2 getting really high-quality people in that were excited to be here, but they

Speaker 2 they were not.

Speaker 2 We had a drop-off in Crusader, and our people need to be Crusaders for what we do.

Speaker 1 What does that look like? What does that mean being a Crusader?

Speaker 2 It means around here that you're a hypocrite if you're working in this place and making $150,000 a year and you go rent a car or you go lease a car or go buy a car on payments.

Speaker 2 You really have to live the message.

Speaker 2 We don't check your wallet,

Speaker 2 but you know, and we don't come around and say, have you got a credit card? We don't do that. But we're not big brother.
But, you know,

Speaker 2 if you're here trying to get people to get out of debt and to not borrow money on cars and do live debt-free the way we teach or be on a budget the way we teach and you're working on the Every Dollar team and you're not doing a budget,

Speaker 2 hello. I mean, that's just kind of,

Speaker 2 you know, and it affects your work. Because now you're doing a J-O-B.
You're here to click to check and execute a task.

Speaker 2 That's not, you don't fit in here.

Speaker 1 You're not living the mission.

Speaker 2 You don't, we're missional, man. We're just, we're charging the gates of hell with a water pistol.
You know,

Speaker 2 you got to load up the water. Here we go.
That's what we're doing every day for 35 years. And we let our foot off the gas and started bringing in some high-quality humans that were nice people.

Speaker 2 They were good people, good values, all those kinds of things, but they weren't crusaders.

Speaker 1 Interesting.

Speaker 2 And they, you know, they didn't like if Dave interviewed Trump, or they didn't like if

Speaker 2 Dave said Jesus or something like that. And so

Speaker 2 that you probably aren't going to like it because I'm going to do all that stuff.

Speaker 2 And I'm not mad about it, but

Speaker 2 what did you think you were signing up for? But yeah, we did a bad job. We let our guard in on that.

Speaker 2 And so we changed some of our discussion in the hiring process with the person to make sure that they know this is what you're, this is what it's going to be when you get here. Wow.

Speaker 2 And then they can self-opt out in the interview process, which is much easier and less painful for them and us.

Speaker 1 We're talking about your book today,

Speaker 1 Build a Business You Love, Mastering the Five Stages of Business.

Speaker 1 One of the questions I have for you around this topic, because I think it's really interesting, because when a lot of people see your content and think of you, I think that

Speaker 1 they think you don't make any mistakes, essentially, because

Speaker 1 of just how, you know, whatever Dave does, even if it's a mistake, he just keeps getting bigger and more successful and the business grows and more people come and he can hire anyone.

Speaker 1 So I appreciate you sharing, like, you know, we dropped our guard a little bit. We just hired great people, but not the great fit.

Speaker 1 And maybe there were some challenges there that you had to face.

Speaker 2 Yeah. I mean, you let crazy in the building.
You know, that's what happens.

Speaker 1 I'm always fascinated by your

Speaker 2 spiritual.

Speaker 1 practice within yourself before you come into this place every single day? Because I know this is a part of your life in a big way and this is a part of your values.

Speaker 1 Is there something you think about within your spiritual practice of an intention before you come here every day, before you do a show, before you have a meeting, before anything

Speaker 1 that really grounds you for what you're about to take on for the day?

Speaker 2 I don't know that it is a...

Speaker 2 like a little prayer list or something on my phone. That's not what it is, but it's more when we went broke all those years ago before we started this,

Speaker 2 I had met God on the way up. I got to know him on the way down.

Speaker 2 And not only did I go broke, I was broken.

Speaker 2 I mean, I lost my confidence and I needed to be knocked down a notch. Believe me, I was an arrogant little twerp.
And so,

Speaker 2 but, but, I mean, I was not just humbled, I was humiliated.

Speaker 2 And, um,

Speaker 2 And so

Speaker 2 I'm laying flat on my back looking up and going, okay, I am not, if we're going to open a business, I'm not going to do everything by myself. God, you're going to have to show us what you want done.

Speaker 2 This is yours. We'll manage it for you.
This is yours. We'll manage it for you.
But this is yours. We'll manage it for you.
But you're going to have to speak. You're going to have to show.

Speaker 2 You're going to have to give us some answers to some of these equations through circumstance,

Speaker 2 through just a random scripture popping up and go, oh, that's the answer to that, or through whatever, through someone teaching us or whatever it is.

Speaker 2 I I don't care where it comes from, but we need to know how you want your business run. And that was at the

Speaker 2 foundational thing, that idea of stewardship, that I'm not the owner, I'm the manager, which was foundational.

Speaker 2 And so that is the undercurrent that runs through, you know, every morning I walk my little dog this morning three miles. We go around the golf course and teaching her to, you know, do the commands.

Speaker 2 I'm working on all that. And the undercurrent while I'm doing that and praying, and I'm just going, okay, what are you going to do today, God? Really? And what is it you got?

Speaker 2 And if I'm going to be in there with my friend Lewis, and what is it that

Speaker 2 he needs? And how can we be helpful to him? And how can this book be helpful to people? And what do you want to do, God? And

Speaker 2 then, you know, I just come down here and it ends up working out okay. But it's kind of an undercurrent, and it's not a special like pump yourself up or something

Speaker 2 because some days you come down and the day is a tragedy and it sucks. And you're like, okay, God, what are you doing?

Speaker 2 what's the lesson

Speaker 2 yeah exactly yeah i mean you get in the middle of some of this

Speaker 2 stuff we get into when we're running stuff and it's all the stupid butt stuff you deal with but yeah but but that's the under thing and you go okay and but that also even in a tragedy day in a day that makes you angry or your feelings are hurt or whatever and you're frustrated and you come home and you go

Speaker 2 well if it's god's and we're running it for him

Speaker 2 That's probably not the last day we're here. Probably, we'll go back tomorrow and rejoice in your your tribulations because tribulations produce perseverance.

Speaker 2 And perseverance, character, and character, hope. And so it just, you know, this is called the method of success.
People that are successful are perseverers.

Speaker 2 They don't quit just because there's problems. And you got to have a mindset to get above that because it hurts.

Speaker 2 And you question yourself and you question your own judgment. And

Speaker 2 I don't do that as dramatically, as we said earlier, as I used to, but it's still, I'm not, I don't have everything figured out.

Speaker 2 I mean, okay, what are we going to do for the next 10 years around here?

Speaker 2 I mean, I don't think podcast, I mean, are we all going to be a hologram? I mean, what's coming next? You know what I mean? Are we going to teach this stuff?

Speaker 1 What, I mean, you talk about perseverance. And I think God, for me, I feel like God has, I guess, tested me or put me in challenging situations where I've had to have courage.

Speaker 1 I've had to develop the courage to be able to persevere

Speaker 1 so that I can take on more and steward different challenges. I mean, what is the thing you've had to persevere the most in the last few years, either personally or professionally?

Speaker 2 Really, really, really finally coming to grips with the whole idea that I'm not necessary for this place to win. And that's succession handoff.
We started that 16 years ago.

Speaker 2 We started working on succession and handoff and so forth. And so I planned to be less important.
And Dad Gump, it didn't work.

Speaker 2 It didn't work. It did work.
It did work. It did work.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And that's distressing.
Interesting. So, I mean, you know, the noble, the intellectual, the wisdom says that's a good thing.

Speaker 2 But the little boy likes to be important. Okay.

Speaker 2 I'm like anybody else.

Speaker 2 I want to be a big deal.

Speaker 2 And so everybody does. And I'm kidding a little bit, but not much.

Speaker 2 As soon as some of those succession plans started working, I looked up and emotionally the ground started moving around under my feet.

Speaker 2 And so, you know, I took six weeks off last year in a row for the first time in my life. And we have the Ramsey personalities on the Ramsey Show.

Speaker 2 And we've had had the Ramsey personalities on the Ramsey Show for four years. And so, and everything's fine.

Speaker 2 We know they can handle it.

Speaker 2 They're there.

Speaker 2 Even if I'm not there, we know they can handle it. And we know the audience likes them.
And,

Speaker 2 you know, we've worked through all the little kinks and stuff to get all that ready. And so I'm like, okay, I can take off and they can just do the show.
And I did. And

Speaker 2 the ratings went up. Come on.
No way. While I was gone.
No way. Really hurt my feelings.

Speaker 1 You're like, we're making all this money, but no one cares about me, right?

Speaker 2 Wow. Yeah.
You realize you're not the Messiah. Wow.

Speaker 1 So this job's taken six weeks, huh?

Speaker 2 Yeah, I was gone.

Speaker 1 What would it look like to take three months off and have the personality? Do you think it would grow?

Speaker 2 Yeah, I think it will.

Speaker 2 I think it's at that point now, and that's what we've worked really, really hard on for 15 freaking years, you know,

Speaker 2 and had a lot of false starts and a lot of problems, but we kind of got that part of it working. We got the leadership team working, and I'm the CEO.
My son Daniel is the president.

Speaker 2 We did that three years ago. And he and I were carrying about 50-50% of the load of running the place.
And then we went to 60-40, and we're at about 80%-20 now. Wow.
And because, you know,

Speaker 2 the last thing you need is the old man showing up and throwing grenades. You know, the, what is it, what do they call it? The

Speaker 2 seagull management. You fly in and poop over everything, you know.
So, you know.

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You talk about in the book that there's six drivers of business.

Speaker 1 You know, the personal one, which is kind of the first one, which is you're both the problem and the solution.

Speaker 1 And I'm hearing you say that in this part, you know, by limiting your drivingness in the business down to 20%,

Speaker 1 you know, there's...

Speaker 1 That's a solution for you, but it's also hurting you maybe that you're not as in control as you once were with your baby.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 2 And but the irony is that you kill things that you love if you don't turn this loose.

Speaker 2 I, you know, because we've coached 10,000 small businesses, and we've coached the 85-year-old dad with a 65-year-old son who still isn't in charge.

Speaker 2 You know, he's been neutered. Right.
I mean, that's just ridiculous. But the old man just won't let go because he's a freaking control freak.
And

Speaker 2 Gen 1 to Gen 2 is a hard head.

Speaker 2 That's emotionally the hardest of the succession plans because

Speaker 2 they

Speaker 2 dish with their hands in the dirt, you know, which is true, but this thing of prying their hands off of it is just an emotional experience.

Speaker 2 And that actually, oddly enough, is the last stage of the five stages, is the legacy stage, where you plan an exit of some kind.

Speaker 2 Succession is one version of that. Obviously, you could sell.

Speaker 2 You could sell to team members. You could let family come in, which is our case.

Speaker 2 The next generation of Ramseys will be running this 100%, and we'll be the owners of it. If I died today, my wife does not get Ramsey.

Speaker 2 She doesn't. No.

Speaker 2 She doesn't want it, and she's not capable of doing it. And it would bring her pain and everybody else involved.
So, no, I mean, and that's been that way for a long time. Believe me, she's okay.

Speaker 2 She'll get paid out. Yeah, she'll get out.
No, no, she didn't get paid out of this. Really? No,

Speaker 2 we've got enough wealth. She's

Speaker 2 Sharon's going to be okay. But

Speaker 2 And she just is, that makes her into the cheerleader for her children who

Speaker 2 aren't children, but her adult children. Adult children, yeah, yeah.
That will be the next generation of that. And

Speaker 2 so

Speaker 2 we just had to work on that, and you have to do it intentionally because too many people on that last stage of the five stages,

Speaker 2 you know, they grab their chest and as they're falling back in the grave, they toss the keys out, you know. And the probability of that working is almost zero.
Wow.

Speaker 2 Because there's so much that's left unsaid, undone. Nobody knows what's going on.
Everybody's surprised.

Speaker 2 And it's very, very difficult to turn that. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Processes aren't in place or whatever it might be for the transition.

Speaker 2 Well, trust is not there in the next, the person that catches the keys. The customers don't know them and trust them.
The vendors don't know them and trust them.

Speaker 2 The team doesn't know them and trust them. They just happen to be standing there because they were family and the keys came out of that grave.
And they're like, oh, no.

Speaker 2 And everybody else goes, oh, no. It's a problem.
So the more gradual the handoff, the higher the probability of success.

Speaker 1 I love that you always talk about your wife and the kind of the journey and how she's been a cheerleader and supported you throughout this and probably given you some tough love at different times as well.

Speaker 2 Maybe when you make some mistakes every day.

Speaker 1 I'm wondering if you can share some wisdom for me. I just got married.

Speaker 1 And for those who are also business owners or entrepreneurs who are in a marriage, whether they've been married for a while and they're launching into business or they've had a business and they're launching into marriage, what advice do you have for either me or those in that situation on how to make sure you can have a thriving marriage while handling a business?

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 2 Well, I mean, there's two possible scenarios. One is the spouse works in the business and two is they don't.
The second one is what we've done. Sharon never, one time, has worked here.

Speaker 2 She's never been a part. She never had a responsibility at Ramsey from the time it was a card table in our living room all the way to where it is now.

Speaker 2 But I did discover, and you and I have talked about this before,

Speaker 2 I'm looking for principles of success, financial and otherwise, in Scripture because...

Speaker 2 You know, I'm flat on my back and I'm like, okay, God, you're going to run this. And one of the things I found was Proverbs 31, who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies.

Speaker 2 The art of her husband safely trusts her, which indicates that virtuous part, she's trustworthy. Yeah.
This is not a flake. This is not a high-maintenance princess.

Speaker 2 This is a person that's solid.

Speaker 2 He safely trusts her. And he will have no lack of gain.

Speaker 2 And so the way that what we translated tactically out of that was

Speaker 2 that we don't make major decisions anywhere in our life anymore. And we did before I went broke.
I've owned real estate sharing and even know where it is

Speaker 2 and didn't even know what happened. And not because I was hiding it from her.
She just didn't care. And I didn't care to tell her.
And I was getting it done. That was my job.

Speaker 2 And her job is to take care of babies. And we're just getting it done.
And dumb, really dumb. So we don't make major decisions for 40 years

Speaker 2 without both of us being in agreement.

Speaker 1 And that's for the business as well?

Speaker 2 Everything. Wow.
But major

Speaker 2 is defined by ratios, right? Yeah. What is a major decision? In the early days, buying a $12,000 phone system was a major decision.
There were 10 employees.

Speaker 2 And so Sharon comes down and doesn't want to. She's out running around buying groceries.
I'm like, come by here. You got to meet this phone guy.
You got to look at this. You got to.

Speaker 2 She said, I don't know nothing about phones. I don't care.
I want you to look at this. It's a $12,000 decision.
$12,000 is a lot of freaking money. And yeah, it is.
Okay. Well, make sure help me.

Speaker 2 Just, I want you to just walk in the room. And then I don't, I learned pretty quickly.
I mean, she's got a degree in home act, and she's a full-time mom.

Speaker 2 And she's, so she's not a

Speaker 2 sophisticated business person.

Speaker 1 But she has powerful intuition.

Speaker 2 And what she always says, she's real country fried. She says, I got common sense.
Yeah. And she does have common sense.
And so I'll ask her when we're driving away from having a meeting.

Speaker 2 I don't ask her what she thinks. I ask her how she feels.

Speaker 1 Oh, my gosh. gosh.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 again, we always laugh because it's a seven-syllable word. And she goes, oh, I got a really good feeling about him.
Okay, we're hiring that dude. Wow.

Speaker 2 Or, nah, it's something wrong. It's a bad feeling.

Speaker 2 And I don't even know what that is, but every time I go against it, it costs me 10 grand. So I quit doing it.

Speaker 1 I don't know what that is.

Speaker 2 I don't know how God, the Holy Spirit is using that little hillbilly woman, but it worked out good. I'm just saying.
So, yeah, we don't do that.

Speaker 2 We're given a big gift, in the old days, $500 was a big gift of generosity. Now it's got more zeros on it.
And so we say, okay.

Speaker 2 And and my daughter runs our family foundation. So often, if there's a large gift involved, Sharon and my daughter will go visit the people and walk around and feel the air in the organization.

Speaker 2 And then we can come back and Sharon can say, okay, I got a good feeling or I don't have a good feeling.

Speaker 2 And and my daughter's done all the due diligence and looking into the operational operational part of it to see if it's a deal see if it's a good investment for of god's money in this ministry but um all that stuff but you know same exact thing so you know copy her paper she's no longer involved in purchasing yeah yeah yeah but um and she has no idea what we spend on coffee here which would blow her mind with 1100 people i mean can you imagine my coffee bill so that kind of stuff so it's like stuff like that but if we get ready to build one of these buildings oh she's She's checking it out.

Speaker 1 She's feeling it out.

Speaker 2 She sits in with the architect and with the builder, and then we pull the trigger and we go execute it. But yeah, and she's like, I think that architect will be fine.
I like her. She's sweet.

Speaker 2 And I think she's smart. And we walk away and we're ready to go.
So, yeah, that's huge. That's how it works.

Speaker 1 So a lot of your business then, I'm hearing you say, is based on a feeling of your wife.

Speaker 2 The big, the big stuff. The single stuff.
So, no, not a lot of it. That would be 2% of it.
Okay.

Speaker 1 The big, the big single stuff.

Speaker 2 If something's big. In the early days, it was a hire.
Right, right, right. Hire is a big deal.
You know, when you hire your first 10 people, every one of them is a big freaking deal.

Speaker 2 And so we would go to dinner with them and their spouse before we would hire them

Speaker 2 and ask their spouse to pray about it. And

Speaker 2 is this woman or this man going to be,

Speaker 2 do you think they work with these people across the table from you? And y'all talk about it.

Speaker 2 Because if y'all don't believe this is going to work and you're just collecting a check, it's not going to work. And we've done that from, we still do spousal interviews as the final interview.

Speaker 2 But it's not me and Sharon. It's the leader and their spouse go with the person we're hiring and their spouse.

Speaker 2 And we're pretty much already hired at that point, unless somebody really gets a red flag and they shoot up a flare.

Speaker 2 And occasionally a spouse on the hire or a spouse of the leader will save us from making a mistake.

Speaker 1 I mean, at the end of the day, what I'm hearing you say, correct me if I'm wrong, it sounds like if something feels off in that final interview, it doesn't matter how good they look on paper, where they went to school, where they worked before, they're not coming here.

Speaker 1 Nope. So at the end of the day, it's a...
Because

Speaker 2 I've talked her into it a few times. I'm like, you sure? Because this one's really good.
Well, I'm not real sure. It's okay.
Whatever y'all want to do. And I'm like, she'll back off, you know.

Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah. And then I get, then I got drama for the next six months because I hired somebody I shouldn't have hired.
You know,

Speaker 2 so I don't, I don't go against it. And sometimes I'll tell you one that really happened in the early days.
We had a young guy. He was like a model.
He looked beautiful. He was as sharp as attack.

Speaker 2 It's like everything you'd want. We go to dinner with him and his wife.
It's like Ken and Barbie. You know, it's ridiculous.
And

Speaker 2 Sharon, the guy's like everything you, you know. And we come home and she goes, woke up the next morning.
She goes,

Speaker 2 I really feel dumb saying this, but I've got a bad feeling about this. And he goes, and she almost never plays this card, by the way, which is part of being virtuous.
I mean, 5% of the time.

Speaker 1 She's not crying wolf every day.

Speaker 2 95% of the time. Because if she was playing the card all the time, that would be the

Speaker 2 definition of not virtuous. I mean, we've done a lot of good work to get to this point.

Speaker 2 We've already culled a bunch of bad flavors, you know. So

Speaker 2 anyway, anyway,

Speaker 2 she woke up and I called the guy and I go, hey,

Speaker 2 we don't know what's happening, but I'll tell you what we're going to do. We're just going to push pause.

Speaker 2 We may, we're going to revisit this in a couple weeks. I didn't just run him off because I couldn't.
He was too big.

Speaker 2 And he called me back six days later and he goes, he was like

Speaker 2 in tears. He's like,

Speaker 2 I've never met any people like you people. Y'all are weird.
And I'm like, yeah, that's true. We are.
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 And he's like, no, I mean, I don't know how this happened, but I got a job offer this morning for twice what you were offering me. And I'm like, see, you weren't supposed to come.
Wow.

Speaker 2 Go take that, dude. Yeah.

Speaker 2 And he goes, yeah, but how did you? I said, I didn't.

Speaker 2 I didn't. I called Sharon and she's like, told you.

Speaker 2 But it wasn't that he was a bad guy. It was God had something better for him than us.

Speaker 2 And he told us to, you know, he gave through her sense or her Holy Spirit common sense or whatever you want to call it, this intuition. You know, and that's happened.

Speaker 2 That kind of stuff has happened over 35 years enough that you go, yeah, this is a good idea. Just trust it.
Yeah, just trust it. Yeah.
It was good for him.

Speaker 1 It's so interesting that, you know, that energy and that spirit is something that continues to guide you today like it, like it did in the early days as well. And it helps.

Speaker 1 build what you have right now.

Speaker 2 Yeah, you change processes, but you don't change principles.

Speaker 2 People that never change principles or that never change processes and change all their principles are called bureaucrats. That's what they do in the government.

Speaker 2 But entrepreneurs,

Speaker 2 we iterate, we change, we make up a new thing every day.

Speaker 2 But you don't change the principles that guide you, the values, the system, the,

Speaker 2 okay, I trust my wife. That's a principle.
You know, I don't borrow money. It's a principle.
And I don't change that. But, you know,

Speaker 2 when we started there wasn't even an internet so you got to change processes uh-huh

Speaker 1 uh you talk about these six drivers in business in the book uh building a business you love we talked about personal there's purpose people plan product and profit which you you say profit is making money with integrity

Speaker 1 has there ever been a time where you were trying to make easy money that it wasn't integrity it wasn't

Speaker 1 making money with the value the principles that you have but you're like oh that's a quick quick quick thing I could do right there. Easy money as opposed to

Speaker 2 yeah, I made the mistake in the early days on radio of taking some ad endorsements

Speaker 2 that I wasn't proud of.

Speaker 1 Interesting.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 every time I did the ad, I felt like a jerk.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 obviously they didn't work. Hello.
And so they're not there anymore and they didn't last very long. But it was, that was, I was, I was trying to make an ad sale because I'm a salesman.

Speaker 2 I was trying to make a sale and so I made the sale and I didn't sell myself. I just sold them.

Speaker 1 You didn't sell yourself in the product or the sales. Exactly.

Speaker 2 Exactly. And so we, in those days, we came up with the metaphor and we still talk to our sales team about it to this day is

Speaker 2 if I wouldn't be really, really excited to tell my best friend's mother

Speaker 1 to do this. No, I'm not doing it.

Speaker 2 I'm not doing it. Yeah.
Because my best friend's mother knock a knot on your head. You You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 2 You know what I'm talking about? You know what I'm talking?

Speaker 2 Just put it in that rather than, oh, because you can justify your butt away and your integrity too if you're not careful. And we didn't ever do anything like perpendicular.

Speaker 2 Like we didn't sell credit cards or something like that.

Speaker 2 But we did, you know, I did bring on products that are like, yeah, it feels a little slimy. I'm not sure about that.

Speaker 2 But the money's good.

Speaker 2 And so, but now we don't put anything on, even if it's not in our voice, even if it's not in a personality's voice,

Speaker 2 and we don't ask any of our personalities to say, you know, if you won't use this product, then don't, you know, don't put on

Speaker 1 it. That's great that you guys do that because I think a lot of companies would just say, make as much money as you can, take whatever you can get.

Speaker 1 And, you know, at School of Greatness, there's a lot of stuff that I won't do. I don't, I've never been, not this is bad or wrong, but it's just against what I do.
I've never been drunk or high.

Speaker 1 So I don't do any type of drugs or pharmaceuticals or things like that for me, just because it's not what I believe in for me.

Speaker 2 Right.

Speaker 1 I don't do gambling stuff. I don't do any of those type of ads.

Speaker 2 We don't either.

Speaker 1 And it's just

Speaker 2 a lot of money there, though. A lot of people throw in a lot of money.
I mean, you know, the freaking sports betting, they'll write you big chicks, big checks. For anything that's on the air.

Speaker 2 They don't even care who you are. Yeah.
They've got an unlimited budget, I think. Yeah.
Yeah. We don't, we don't do, I mean, sports betting is a huge problem with our audience.

Speaker 2 That's why they go into debt. Yeah.

Speaker 2 It's breaking up people like crazy. It's a huge addictive issue.
Yeah. And so, no, we're not going to have so-and-so sports betting either.
It was the same thing.

Speaker 2 I mean, that's one we would not have had in the old days either. But this is more like, okay,

Speaker 2 you know, this company,

Speaker 2 food's not really good at that restaurant, but we're going to send them over there anyway. You know, it's a restaurant.
They got food, you know, but yeah, you know, but no,

Speaker 2 we don't do that.

Speaker 2 And that hasn't happened in 25 years.

Speaker 2 But in the early days, I was, you know, trying to get some cash in the place and pay payroll. Of course, of course.
You know, and it's it, that I think that's when you're most likely to cut a corner.

Speaker 2 Yeah, when you're trying to survive or just stay afloat.

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Speaker 1 How do you,

Speaker 1 I don't know, maybe this is a weird question for you, but when you're making money with integrity, which you talk about in the book,

Speaker 1 and you say no to money, essentially, like someone's trying to give you a sponsorship, endorsement deal, whatever it might be, an advertisement, and you're like, no, that just doesn't

Speaker 2 feel right.

Speaker 1 How do you think about that spiritually for you about how either God is going to set you up for something greater or you're not missing out on the opportunity?

Speaker 1 What is the spiritual mindset you have in that moment?

Speaker 2 Yeah, usually those things have real good short-term feeling and a horrible long-term.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 2 We had a major retailer that everyone knows

Speaker 2 talk to us about 15 years ago. They wanted to take some of our, in those days, CDs and books and stuff and build a Ramsey package custom for them

Speaker 2 which was really exciting and the order was going to be ten million dollars and it was really exciting it's a lot of money there's good mark not great margin in it but it was decent margin and it was the other thing was it was really good

Speaker 2 branding because we're going to be on major shelf position all over America in this major retailer and people walk in and go oh look at that so-and-so says Ramsey yeah Ramsey says so-and-so okay yeah and that so that had a the shelf positioning had a value,

Speaker 2 unquantifiable, but, but it had a value, like buying a billboard, you know. And so

Speaker 2 we're looking at that and looking at that. We're getting really excited about it.
We got way down into it, got into the contract negotiations on the final thing.

Speaker 2 And they said, we were printing packaging and re-recording stuff that was only for them.

Speaker 1 had their name on it. So you're already doing that work.

Speaker 2 No, I was going to do that in this deal. That was how the deal was set up.
And then they come in and go, okay, yeah, and we have full returns.

Speaker 2 And I'm like, you want me to put your name on $10 million worth of crap and send it over there and you can send it all back if your $8 an hour stockboy don't get it on the shelf and it doesn't sell.

Speaker 2 Uh-uh.

Speaker 2 Uh-uh. We're not doing it.
Because what happens is I got $10 million worth of stuff in the dumpster and I'm out of business.

Speaker 2 And so we walked. You know, we talked about it.
They said, well,

Speaker 2 that's our policy. Everybody does that.
And I said, well, now you can't say that because you found somebody that doesn't do it.

Speaker 2 So I, you know, if you want to take some of our existing stuff that when we take it back, we can repurpose it, we didn't print your freaking name on it.

Speaker 2 Yeah, we'll do $10 million worth of that with full returns all day long. I can figure that part out.
I can absorb that blow.

Speaker 2 But throwing it all in the dumpster because it's useless because it's got somebody's name on it that didn't want it anymore.

Speaker 2 We're out of business with $10 million. So we had to walk.
And, you know, that kind of stuff falls right in that category. That's the bucket for me: you got to go, ha, ha, ha.

Speaker 2 You're like,

Speaker 2 pull pull it back

Speaker 1 dead guy right one of the drivers of business you talk about in the book is people and for whatever reason when i think about you and the ramsey brand i think about the culture that's just the thing that i hear a lot every time i come here i feel it like we're going back to feelings you walk in you feel like you're home you've just got an energy here and a presence of the people and i'm sure every now and then people are off or whatever but in general the culture here

Speaker 1 is a beautiful feeling going back to your wife's warfare's word. And you see it, you know, just the inspiration, the quotes, the scripture, the

Speaker 1 attitude, the energy, the effort that people bring here. You know, people show up,

Speaker 1 they're on time, they're organized, and they're positive, right?

Speaker 1 And it doesn't seem like people are overworked or exhausted or just like, ah, here 12 hours a day. They have structure and they have organization.

Speaker 2 We go home if I have, yeah.

Speaker 1 But you got to be in every day and you got to do your job and you got to get results and you got to be a good person.

Speaker 1 And I feel like that's where a lot of people struggle is building the culture and the team. What would you say is the main things that have allowed you to continue to thrive culturally?

Speaker 1 If someone is never going to be able to come here, what does this place have that most places don't have that allow you guys to continue to thrive?

Speaker 2 It's very weird, but it does come down to we don't tolerate,

Speaker 2 and I don't want that to sound like a bully, but we don't tolerate it to be otherwise.

Speaker 2 And so if someone does come in late, we're going to talk about it. What's wrong with them? If someone's

Speaker 2 negative and grouchy to each other here or customer, what's wrong? What's going on? Because that's not who we don't do that. And if you want to be a we, we got to fix this.

Speaker 2 Otherwise, you don't get to be a we.

Speaker 2 And so, because the people that work here,

Speaker 2 they're on it. They're game on.
And they're on time and they're excited. And sometimes they have bad days, or sometimes they go through personal stuff.

Speaker 2 You know, their spouse has cancer, they've got a sick kid. You get a pass.
That's great. Okay.
But we're going to ask you, what's your problem?

Speaker 2 Why? What's going on? And why are you late? And, you know,

Speaker 2 well, the kid's sick. Okay, I'm sorry.
What's wrong with the kid? How can we help? Okay, now we can, you know, but that's a temporary and a fixable thing.

Speaker 2 I chose not to come to work on time. You know, you get about one of those.
And

Speaker 2 we're not mean about it, but it's like, come on, man. I mean, really, act like you own the place.
You know, the people that work here care and can't be a J-O-B.

Speaker 2 You stand out like a sore thumb in this place. It's like,

Speaker 2 if something's off, it stands out.

Speaker 2 And someone that, you know, we had a guy a few weeks ago blew up and a few months ago rather, blew up in a meeting and started cussing it at two or three people in there. And we're like, hey,

Speaker 2 I don't know where you think you are, but you're not in that place.

Speaker 2 Wow. So, you know, we sat down and he's like, well, I've just had it.
You people don't know what you're doing. And the leaders did,

Speaker 2 and I said, yeah, I guess you have. See you later.
Yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. And sorry, man.
And, you know, he just, um,

Speaker 2 he didn't, his spirit had left the building. He forgot to take his body with it, you know, and so.

Speaker 1 And you made sure his body left as well.

Speaker 2 Yeah, and we helped him. Yeah, well, you, you know, but yeah, we're not, we're not mean about it.
It's just like, come on, man. I mean, this is

Speaker 2 the people love working here because we don't do that. Yeah, yeah.
And we were not, you know, we don't mind arguing with each other.

Speaker 2 We argue all the time about which play to call to win the Super Bowl, but not about you're calling me a jerk or you start calling my mother names or something. We're not doing that.
That's just nuts.

Speaker 2 But that's normal in other places.

Speaker 1 What about if someone's really talented and they're actually driving the business growth, but they got a nasty attitude because undertone they kind of stay. They got a, they can't stay.

Speaker 1 They're just frustrated. They're kind of disgruntled.
They're just...

Speaker 2 We've got to, We got to fix it, or they can't stay. Really? Yeah.

Speaker 1 So how important is attitude and energy?

Speaker 2 It's more important than talent. Really.
And over resilience. Because what you're doing is you're shutting down all the other talent.
You're shutting down everybody else.

Speaker 2 Everybody else is like, I don't want to. I'll do anything to keep from being in a squad with that guy.
Wow. I don't want to be with him.

Speaker 2 He's just, he's really good at what he does, but he's a complete flippin' twerp. I just don't want to deal with him.
And that stuff happens. You know, that happens at Ramsey.

Speaker 2 And sometimes it happens because someone has just, again, their spirit left.

Speaker 2 And we we joke about that but they really their season is over and they didn't activate they they became disillusioned for whatever reason and that can happen yeah um does happen and um

Speaker 2 you know they they they get tired of my personality or whatever i mean that's okay i understand that yeah yeah um

Speaker 2 i mean won't be here then yeah it's just because that kind of goes with the packing you know it's like so you know it's just that that it but people what happens is is you get what you tolerate. And,

Speaker 2 you know, and you get what you allow. And Maxwell says don't sanction incompetence.
And behavior incompetence is just like being incompetent at the actual task.

Speaker 2 And so,

Speaker 2 and that can destroy culture. And let me tell you, culture creates trust and stuff moves at the speed of trust.

Speaker 2 So this 1,100 people in Ramsey, we get the work done of about 4,000 people because of the speed at which...

Speaker 2 Because you don't have to look over your shoulder all the time because there's not a dagger coming at your throat.

Speaker 2 You know, and

Speaker 2 we bust it.

Speaker 2 But it's like a team that's in a flow, a team that's in a zone where the quarterback knows he's okay to throw the ball because he's not going to get his knees taken out on the blind side.

Speaker 2 You know, that guy, that left guard's got him or that right guard's got him, depending on which way he's throwing. Right.
And so

Speaker 2 once he knows that, it makes his efficiency go up and it gives the guard that's making him be protecting him great pride and dignity.

Speaker 2 Because we say that guy's more important actually than the quarterback, because without him, there is no quarterback.

Speaker 2 And, you know, and we just, you know, the guy that ships books here, you know, when you ship a book at Ramsey, you probably could have saved somebody's marriage.

Speaker 2 You could have led somebody to God with that book. You definitely could have gotten them out of debt.

Speaker 2 They might be millionaires because you put that book in an envelope and shipped it out of here today. And you did it on time.
And

Speaker 2 the spirit on that envelope was fun and smiling.

Speaker 2 Not, I hate my job and I don't want to come to work today. Wow.

Speaker 1 That positive energy.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it's there. I mean, that's God's spirit.

Speaker 1 Final, I have one final question

Speaker 1 because I'm running out of time here. Before I ask the question, I want people to get the book, ramseysolutions.com slash build.

Speaker 1 You can go there and check this out, or you can go to ramseysolutions.com. You can see the book.
The book is called Build a Business You Love, Mastering the Five Stages of Business.

Speaker 1 And there are really kind of six drivers of business that you talk about on how to to master as well.

Speaker 2 The six drivers push you through the five stages. Yes.
And that this becomes the baby steps for small business. That's beautiful.

Speaker 1 That's beautiful. It's really inspiring.
I love the golf stories and the golf analogies in the beginning as well.

Speaker 1 But if you guys are looking to launch a business, you're in a business that's not getting to the next level, make sure you pick up a few copies today and support the man here, Dave Ramsey, with this book, because it's really going to help you.

Speaker 1 This is the final question because I know we're hitting our time here.

Speaker 1 If you could have,

Speaker 1 we're talking about the emotional incompetence, I think you said Maxwell was talking about.

Speaker 1 Would you rather have someone, I mean, this is a, you probably wouldn't want either, but if you were, would you rather have someone who's emotionally competent, but lower level talent, versus someone who's the highest level talent and just a little bit emotionally incompetent or a little bit of a bad energy?

Speaker 2 Well, like you said, the answer is obviously to get both

Speaker 2 and to just solve for that in the interview and the recruiting process. But

Speaker 2 I'll choose

Speaker 2 the emotionally competent C-plus player because they'll get to A-plus when they're running with a bunch of other thoroughbreds.

Speaker 2 You put them in the stable with a bunch of thoroughbreds and they all like each other. The other horses will get them up.
They'll get them moving.

Speaker 2 But if you put a donkey in there,

Speaker 2 them thoroughbreds don't like donkeys.

Speaker 1 Is there anything else? Is there any final words you want to say, Dave, for this conversation?

Speaker 2 You know, I think that I am a huge small business guy. 54% of the gross domestic product in America today is created by companies that have 500 or fewer employees.

Speaker 2 Small business, mathematically,

Speaker 2 with arithmetic, is the backbone of the American economy. The free enterprise system, the ability to get up, leave the cave, kill something, and drag it home and believe you can do it.

Speaker 2 The people that fight through the pain and the insecurity and the ADD and the dyslexia and the stuff that we all fight through to get to be who we is,

Speaker 2 those are the heroes in the American economy. So anything we can do to help those guys, that's what I want to do because I'm one of them.

Speaker 1 We appreciate you, Dave. Thanks for always coming on and sharing your wisdom and being so honest and vulnerable.
Appreciate it.

Speaker 2 Appreciate your friendship.

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