How To ATTRACT Your Ideal Relationship & Create Healthy, Lasting Love | Danny Morel

April 16, 2025 1h 9m S1E1759

This transformative episode with Danny Morel reveals how ego death unlocked the secret to finding love: healing your relationship with yourself first—learn powerful techniques to break destructive patterns, take 100% responsibility, and attract a soulmate who triggers genuine spiritual growth instead of temporary infatuation.

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And if you're not, I want you to reflect on how you can add value to others. And also ask myself, where am I out of alignment in my life right now? Where am I in dis-ease right now? Where am I struggling or stressed or overwhelmed right now? And am I playing a character? Am I stepping into a role that is not my authentic self? Am I holding back my voice? Am I not courageously speaking up? Am I not creating boundaries? Am I afraid of what people think about me? And so I'm shifting and people-pleasing in order to keep the peace in life.
The more we people-please to try to keep the peace, the more resentful we live inside, the more out of alignment we are with our true authentic self. And it causes resentment, overwhelm, burnout, and exhaustion.
I have been there. And let me tell you, it is exhausting.
It's exhausting to play a character that does not support and serve your most authentic self. And when we are not living in our true authentic self, we are out of alignment with our higher self.
And when we are out of alignment, it is exhausting. And we feel like we're getting taken advantage of and people don't understand us and no one's listening to us and we're underappreciated and all these different things.
But really, we are the ones to set ourselves free. We are the ones that are holding ourselves back because we lack courage or confidence or the skill set or whatever it might be.
We're afraid to face the pain, the wounds, and heal.

And I lived in that space for so many years, my friend. I lived there, and I was still a functioning, you know, high achiever.
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And I struggled so much in intimate relationships for decades, decades of suffering because I would shrink my authentic self to please another. And this is not to blame or point fingers at anyone except for myself and to take full responsibility because I lacked the courage out of wounds and out of a lack of healing and out of a lack of wholeness within me.
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What is the thing that blocked you the most then from having the love you wanted? Yeah. And what is the thing that blocks most people from having the love they want in intimacy? I will tell you, and this has been a deep part of my journey.
When I was in my teens, I can remember only thinking about one thing, and that was getting married. Really? Yeah, man.
You wanted to get married? You didn't want to just have a girlfriend or, like, hook up with girls? I wanted to find the one. Why? I'll tell you why.
I was that guy that was, like, I just, I wasn't the sleep-around kind of guy. Like I did my thing but I but more than anything I was looking for that wasn't your desire it wasn't my desire was was this what you're what you're talking about right and so after I got married and through my divorce and through the affair and through that entire process I went on a three and a half journey of healing myself how are you 38 39 okay maybe 40 I don't know and I'll tell you exactly what happened Louis.
Yeah, I'm gonna tell you the what happened, Louis.

Yeah, I'm going to tell you the exact story.

So I always thought that my wife was going to be from Colombia.

Obviously, Colombian women are beautiful.

Yeah.

Right?

And so in that story, I had met someone. I had met someone and I wanted so bad for them to be the one.
So bad. I'm sure you've been there as well.
Sure. Right? And I was trying to force it and I was trying to make it happen.
And one day I was speaking to a friend of mine that was a psychic. He had psychic powers.
And it was like I was tired of it not working.

And I wanted him to tell me that she's the one.

Right?

Like, just tell me.

Just tell me.

Right?

Maybe we're supposed to struggle.

Maybe it's supposed to be hard.

Yeah, maybe.

Maybe.

You know, your mind, sometimes it's like the truth is right there, but you're not afraid.

You're afraid to look at it.

Right?

And so then he looks at me. He goes, I don't think I need to tell you.
I think you know. True story.
I'm sitting there. It was during COVID.
He's looking at me through Zoom. And everything inside of me says, say it, say it, say it.
And I said, she's not the one.

And Louis, by that time, we can get into this if you want,

I had done enough work with plant medicine to where I understood energy.

And the way my body works when it's starting to release energy

is it starts to shake.

So I immediately start to shake,

and I'm having a massive ego death.

I did not realize how big it was.

So I go, I gotta go.

I shut the computer down

and I'm literally on the floor

because all of this trapped energy

that I now realize was there

since I was a little boy

and didn't receive my mom's love,

which turned into the teenager that wanted to be married because I was looking for love outside of me. Louis, imagine all of that had been stuck in my body for so long and it's just starting to shake and I'm like, I need to go lay down.
So I go lay down, man. And I'm finally admittedly like at my wits end because it's like I've tried to make this relationship thing work and it's just not working.

And what is it?

What's wrong with me?

Right?

And I literally just ask the question.

And my body is shaking and I'm doing all of this.

And I'm like, God, just show me who's the one.

Who's the one?

Like at that point I was I was like like helpless basically right and my arm literally goes up like this and it points to God and then I'm not doing this is my my body is spirits whatever and you know and then my hand this. Wow.
And I look down and I'm like, I'm the one I've been looking for my whole life. And brother, I started to just cry and cry and just release this story that again, I unconsciously created since I was a boy and I didn't feel my mom's love.
You know? Mm-hmm. And this was not that long ago.
This was not that long ago. And you've been already on a healing journey and you've been coaching people, you've been helping people, you've been transforming, you've been healed already.
You've felt, you know, I've been doing the work. All of it, man.
All of it, yeah. No, this was three years ago.
Yeah. Something like that.
But you'd already been teaching this work and working with people. That's what I'm saying.
You'd already been transforming. Right.
Yes, yes. And maybe in your mind you thought, like, I've got it figured out in some ways.
Yeah. 100%.
Yeah, that's what I mean. 100%.
100%. And so then I'm there and I'm crying, I'm crying, I'm crying.
And then all of a sudden, Louis, my body, again, not me, my body goes,

and I lean over to the side and my hand is right there like this.

And it's almost as if God was like, okay, now that you got rid of this,

just let me show you what's coming.

And all I see is the top of a head

and it was like a light brown hair. It wasn't brunette, which was what I was used to, light brown.
And I just got the message, she will finally feel safe with you. Wow.
Yeah. A couple months later later i'm in a mushroom journey and at the end of that journey it is it clear the message comes to me and it says you are about to meet the woman of your dreams and together you will have a daughter.
Wow.

And that daughter will have a daughter.

Wow.

And that daughter will be the healing culmination

of your heart,

your mother's heart,

and your grandmother's heart.

So I get up and I'm like,

I'm going to have a daughter.

Right?

Brother, I don't know how to explain to you.

It was the truest thing I had ever.

Wow. Right? And you already have three kids.
I already have three kids. They're telling me, right? Two years later on that very day, is with Jen and I, I woke up.
It was on my birthday. I was holding a mushroom ceremony on my birthday, which is what I love to do on my birthday, is to give back in that way.
Two years later on my birthday, I wake up and Jen is laying there by my side. Wow.
How long did it take until you met her? Right. So what I want to share is if you're out there and you are really looking for your life's partner, I'm going to tell you everything that I did.
Okay? Yes. Number one, you have to be willing to let go of the parts of yourself that need a partner.
That's big. Because if you need a partner, you're not in your heart.
You're in your mind. And I like to call it the difference between a mind mate and a soul mate.
And trust me, if you are up here, you will find a mind mate. You will find a partner that energetically matches that frequency.
And then you'll be stuck in it.

And then you'll be 10 years, 13 years down the road like I was,

like talking about, oh, my God, what do I do now?

Right?

We'll get to that in a second.

That's number one.

Number two, if you want to track this, what I'm sharing with you, you also have to be willing to let go of everything that has been causing you to avoid your healing journey. For me, that was two things, alcohol and sex.
Wow, really? Yeah, because it's what I use to stay disconnected from myself. Yeah, every weekend I used to drink.
It's what used to numb my pain. Wow.
And so I just, I let it go. I'm not telling you drinking is bad.
That's a whole different story. I'm telling you is that for something to be born, something has to die.
Don't ever forget that. For something to be born, something has to die.
For something new to come, you have to be willing to release the old. This is spiritual energetic here.

This is the real deal.

And if you're holding on to the old things that have been blocking you in previous relationships

and you enter a new relationship from that space, what will happen?

You're just going to keep attracting the same thing.

Yeah.

It might feel good for a few months of like, oh, this is different.

Well, it will always feel good.

They're different.

They're not like this.

Yes, absolutely.

It will always feel like that because that's the way human beings and relationships work, right? You get together and it's infatuation is what it is. It is.
Right? I used to think that infatuation was love. It's not.
It's not, no. As a matter of fact, infatuation doesn't, love doesn't happen until you let go of infatuation and you start to realize, and this is the key, Louis, is that we are calling into our lives the partner that not only reflects where we're at energetically, but is the perfect partner that we need in that moment to help us to heal a part of ourselves.
Most people that say that they want a relationship, you don't actually actually want a relationship you just don't want to be lonely you want a relationship a real soul connected relationship get ready to deal with your deepest darkest of your life because a relationship is the greatest medicine that you can have in your life because i'll'll give you an example. You're either going to keep doing this or what.
Someone is going to have to allow, release, surrender, let go. And then hopefully the other person does the same thing.
And that's the thing, Louis, is that I don't think people really know what they're asking for when they ask for a relationship. Yeah, because your life changes forever when you're in a relationship.
It transforms. How did yours? Because I know you're in one now.
Well, I mean, it changed in all the previous relationships. My life, I thought I was getting the relationship to create love, but I think it was more of like chemical reactions, it was just like oh this chemical bonding and I didn't have the courage to use my voices to create boundaries or to say really what I wanted or what I didn't like but I just like gave in to create peace because I didn't have peace in my life so I would do whatever so that they would stop screaming that.
That was me. That was it.
It was like, okay, if you're going to scream, you don't like something about me, I want peace. By the way, you like Latinas, right? So then screaming is part of this.
Well, I had to break the model too because I found one that doesn't scream. There you go.
Good. So I had to tell myself a different story.
By the way, don't hate me. It's a joke.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's a joke.
Relax. That's the stereotype because it's it's a you know you see it a lot but can i tell you why yeah it's from a lot of women of course a lot of yeah and a lot of the you know a lot of parents a lot of men uh fathers aren't there for the women they're for the dirt the girls and then they grow very wounded and then they're masculine that's right and and very beautiful very yes yes seduct, but also kind of very.
Well, why seductive?

Because they want to attract.

Because that's the wounded feminine.

The wounded feminine uses seduction to get you.

Yeah, to lure you in.

Right.

The divine feminine.

Yeah, they don't need that.

She's in.

She's in her power.

Yeah, she doesn't need that.

She doesn't need to use that.

No.

She knows who she is.

Exactly.

Yeah.

And then, and then talking about our culture, right? Why do the men drink so much because the men are wounded because the men were taught as little boys to never tap into their emotions yeah because it's a it's a it's a hispanic macho masculine thing it's is what it is and then by the way guess why else are women because the women are taught the mothers are taught to, Latinas can't want to. You just have to deal with it because that's how men are.
So then the women get taught to not deal with and live in their authentic truth. And then you're their little, I know grandmothers.
My grandfather, Louis, my grandfather had 13 kids from seven different. Oh, my gosh.
Why is that? Because he was wounded he was a mess god god bless him he's gone yeah yeah yeah yeah and then and then my family like honored and revered that really oh yeah because that's that's he's he's he's the he's like seven different women or kids i remember my my high school graduation. I remember it was my grandfather.
And like I had like my cousin's grandmother, my cousin's grandmother, my cousin's grandmother, and my now, it was just all just there. And everybody just got along.
They all got along? It's just how you do life. It's how we get along.
Or was it just kind of like. Yeah, they really all got along.
But they all loved him or hated him? Why? I don't know, bro. I don't know.
Who knows? Maybe it looked like they got along. Well, all I know is that for me, that just didn't feel right.
Right, right, right. It just didn't feel right.
And I saw my poor grandmother, I love her. Like, she was just so self-sacrificing.
Yeah. For the sake of the family.
Mm. She didn't use her voice.

No.

She did.

Maybe there was a screaming or like, whatever.

Do this.

Hispanic women show love through food.

Yeah, they do.

Some do.

Yeah, some do.

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Anyways. Yeah, yeah.
So I got into, you know, I was into relationships based on chemical attraction, not spiritual connection. Yeah.
And out of a wound of like wanting to be loved by this person or like whatever and that seemed to work out for three to six or nine months but then it was like things would start unraveling and then I would get out of the relationship eventually and then kind of just repeat the pattern yeah and it was sad it sucked man it was horrible it was not good and I would always look for love in a different person or like, okay, maybe they're actually going to respect, you know, or not scream at me or they're going to accept who I am as a person in my career or my, you know, they're going to accept me finally. But no one ever did.
Yeah. And I think I didn't accept who I was.
And so it wasn't until I learned to accept me and choose me. That's right.
that then I was able to see you know martha my fiance now in a way where she always says to me that she's always like i wish we'd have met each other 10 years ago 15 years ago so we both moved to la around the same time but we never met each other i'm like i wouldn't have been attracted to you like you weren't wounded enough for me you know i was like i wouldn't have been Like you were too, not too good for me, but you were, it's not the energy I was attracted to from a wound. That's right.
And so I would have like seen you and I'm sure I've been sexually attracted in some ways, but I wouldn't have been like, I desire you. Right.
I want you. Right.
Because you'd have been too loving. I don't know.
You'd have been too loving. You know what I mean? It's like, it's like and too accepting yeah man and i wouldn't have been ready for that i get that you know if you can i tell you what's interesting let me tell you what my story was because when i saw jen i didn't think i was worthy of her wow so jen is five foot ten let's start let's start there yeah you're a short king huh i'm a short guy yeah i'm five eight short king right that's right but but so so listen and i'll let you buy 10.
she's 5'10 with heels she's towering yeah right and she's gorgeous she's just this long blonde right british i never in my life thought but let me and this is spanish no that's bad no no spanish at all no but but i have to share this is so wonderful because a lot of times what you're looking for is not what your soul needs so you see number one um she was taller than me so like go back to the hispanic machismo that's all that's keeping you from your heart of course so it's like god goes okay you're ready here let's deal with that yeah let's have you feel what it feels like to be with a woman that's taller than you and can you still step in your masculine yeah yeah yeah this is why not how and not cower yes this is what i'm telling you guys relationships are the greatest medicine of your life here we go you ready number two she's white she's's white. She's not Latina.
She's not Latina. So as a minority, which there is no such thing as minority, that's a programming from the 3D world, you are taught as a little boy and little girl that white people are different or better or whatever it is.
So I had to deal with that. Or racist or whatever it is.
Or whatever it is. Whatever the story is, I had to deal with that.
Right? I had to deal with that. Or racist, or whatever it is.

Or whatever it is.

Whatever the story is, I had to deal with that.

I had to deal with being accepted by a different culture.

Number three, she's younger than me.

She's younger than me.

So I had to deal with the fact that the world wasn't going to like this.

The world was going to get mad. Why? But most men are usually with younger women, right? Well, I don't know.
All I know is that whenever I post a picture of Jen and I... Because you're divorced, is what you're saying.
Well, that's another thing. Can I be honest with you? Don't hate me.
I'm just telling the truth. But the backlash.
He left his wife for a younger, beautiful.

Which there was a three year.

I didn't even know her when I got it.

It was none of that.

Of course he's going to go.

But the story.

And can I tell you?

The number one people who I got the most backlash from were Hispanic women.

What did they say?

Well, think about what 5'10". You left us.
Blonde does for that program. That wounding.
You see, because when you love yourself for exactly who you are, you don't give a shit what somebody else does. You don't care.
Right? So all it is, right, it's just mirrors that are being reflected back to you that are causing you to feel a certain way. And then you go on Instagram and your ego.
And that's what instead of, whoa, wait a minute. Why is this making me feel this way? And then number three, I had three boys.
So I had to somehow get a taller, drop-dead gorgeous, beautiful blonde, younger, who lives halfway across the world to somehow fall in love with me. Talk about like going into the essence of himself.
It was the greatest medicine of my life. Wow, that's interesting.
It's interesting because when I think about Martha, there's a lot of, not a lot of things, but there's a few things that I never thought I would be in a relationship with a woman who has some experiences like her. One is, I never thought I'd be with an actress who does like kissing scenes with guys, right? Whoa, how was that? It's okay now.
Okay. How was it? That would be hard.
Well, here's the thing. There's some things I'll tell you more off camera that are more...
There's some stuff I can't share right now, but... Sure, sure, sure.
I remember watching some of her older movies after we started dating for a while. I was like, oh, shoot.
I should probably watch some of these. I didn't know if I wanted to watch them of where she's like kissing guys yeah yeah and I remember noticing me just clearing my throat as I'm speaking right it's like okay you got to speak your truth this is good and I remember seeing it I'm gonna be like okay I know she's gonna kiss someone in this movie let me watch this and see how I feel my energy and I was watching it and it wasn't bad I wasn't like it was also like before me and I was like, okay.
And it wasn't like a sex scene. It was just a kissing scene or whatever.
So I was like, that's interesting. But I also have to, if I'm going to choose to be with someone, I have to accept the life they've lived in the past.
I can't make them wrong for that. That's the wounded self.
I can't believe you dated this person. I can't believe you kissed.
You can't make someone wrong from their past because she can make me wrong for a lot of my past. That's right.
And I didn't want that. That's right.
So I'm like, if I want to be with someone, I have to accept all their past. I mean, we don't have to like it.
I want to say, yay, that's awesome. But I don't, I have to accept it.
That's right. So I chose to accept it.
And then I watched a few more and I was like, okay I still need to watch this you know it's like okay now that we're like getting deeper in a relationship I had to make a I had to make a choice before we got committed right so we were just dating and then we got committing a committed exclusive relationship yeah and it was that literally that day I listen, if this is the path that you really want to do, if you want to continue acting and kissing, right, in the future, in movies, and those are movies that you want to choose because you feel aligned to them energetically, and there's a kissing scene, cool. I'm going to accept it because this is who you've been, and I can't ask you to change who you are.
And so I told her, I'm going to choose to accept you for what your mission is in your life. And you're an actor.
You've been acting and producing for 20 plus years. You've done 40 movies.
She's like the queen of Mexico, like all these different things. I would just ask that if this happens in the future, we talk about it and we just make sure we're in alignment.

That's it.

Yeah.

That I'm in the conversation.

Yeah. And I get to share with you if I have any concerns.
Yeah. And she was like, 100%.
So I feel really good about it from that space. Watch this.
I want you guys to pay attention. You see, there's medicine in everything if you allow it.
Yeah. Because pay attention to how the only reason that you were ready to accept this part of her was when you first learned to accept yourself.
100%. You can never...
I didn't stop judging the past. That's right.
You can never offer someone else what you don't have with yourself first. And that's one of the greatest lessons that I could...
Like, whenever you are judging your partner, whenever you are in a place where you're telling, I can't wait for my partner to change. And they're like, what if they, you know, again, they go, you know, all men are dogs, right? Always go back to self, which takes a lot of courage, I know, but always ask yourself, wait a minute, hang on a second.
What is it that I am afraid of changing or healing within myself that has me in a relationship where I'm constantly waiting for something else to change? Yes, yes. Yeah.
And so there was, that was one thing. It was like, okay, I never thought I would date an actress.
Being in LA, you grew up in kind of in this area, you lived in this area for a while. like the thought of like oh a celebrity actress would be kind of fun I'm cool right but I never heard good stories and I'm sure there's great actresses out there but I just like the stereotypical like they're all about themselves they're egotistical it's like they're dramatic whatever it might be and I was like I don't want that yeah but I ultimately attracted that in other ways anyways so I was like I never thought I would date an actress and She's an actress and so I okay.
Let's try this out. Let's do this.
I dove into it I never thought I would be with someone who'd been married before she's been married and divorced It was like a very quick like nine month or it happened quickly that she you know Kind of woke up right afterwards and it wasn't the right thing I never thought I would be with someone like that so i had to face that within me like okay she's already experienced this i haven't how do i feel about that i had to navigate that and what am i what what does that mean to me or what am i making it yeah and i didn't like it i had some like issues with it early on kind of initially but then i was like okay what is what is I truly want? What is my vision for a beautiful, healthy, conscious relationship? And maybe this is perfect for me. You know, it's like, maybe it's perfect for me.
And also I don't think I've ever been with a woman who has fully appreciated and loved me the way I've been wanting to be loved and appreciated. And I think because of all of her past relationship experiences, she sees me and she's so grateful for what I contribute to the relationship.
And so had she not experienced those things that I don't like, maybe, I want to have what I want. And so I learned to be like, okay, I've had to learn how to accept that, right? And choose to be grateful for it, right? And really appreciate it because it's creating something that I want in my life.
The third thing, which I never thought I would do, it kind of broke my paradigm, is being with someone older than me. She's not that much older, but it's like I've always dated like three, five, seven years younger than you, right? And, you know, I've had to break that paradigm.
Okay, she's only, I don't know, it's like six months or maybe it's a year or something like that, six or nine months. but i've had to break that paradigm okay she's only i don't know it's like six months or maybe it's a year or something like that six or nine months but i've had to break that paradigm and be like god she's got so much more wisdom patience love than any younger woman i've ever been with and if i want peace she's got it she is peace this is it this is it i'm not saying you can't find that younger woman, but I wasn't able to find that.
I think what we're both saying for the listener, I want you guys to really pay attention to how both of us, the partner that we found made us deal with and look at parts of ourselves that maybe we haven't looked at or been wanting to deal with. Like for me, it was scary, bro.
It brought me to the core of, and this is why I think I speak so much about masculine and feminine, because honestly, I was masculine in some ways, but in many ways I wasn't, Luz. 100%.
I wasn't. Me too.
Straight up. Me too.
Straight up, right? And this is why I get so passionate about it, because it's like if we can help the world awaken to this, right, that all of you, whether you're a woman or a man, you all have masculine and feminine parts of you energetically. I called in the perfect partner, like it seems you did, right, to heal those parts of you, like maybe where you judged yourself in the past, right? She accepts my past.
It's crazy. I'm like, I never could accept them before.
I was always in shame. Yes.
And trip out on this. And I would just be like, I would tell her and be waiting for a reaction.
It's just like, okay. It's okay.
I was like, what? Every other person like freaked out on me. Louis, for me, it was my body.
So like for me, like if I have too many carbs,, like you know, like little chubby Danny comes back. And I would wait and I would look at, Jen loves me exactly who I am, how I am.
You know how? So you don't have to feel ashamed. I don't have to feel anything.
I'm free. Yeah.
Yeah, it's just beautiful, man. That's amazing, yeah.
And what I realized is like these few things that maybe I never thought I would be in a relationship if someone had these things or whatever. What I was really doing the work and healing on before meeting her was what I really want alignment with for my soulmate or my partner to be is someone who's in alignment on values, vision, and lifestyle.
Because those three things were always off in the previous, and it created so much friction. And I said, if I can be with someone where I accept myself fully, they accept themselves fully, and we accept each other's missions and life separate of us fully, and we can find alignment, not perfection, but alignment on our values for where we are and where we want to be.

Our vision for where we are and where we want to be.

And our lifestyle.

We have a similar lifestyle needs and desires.

Right.

And if we can learn to communicate and create agreements on what works and what doesn't work.

So we minimize dis-ease and discomfort.

That's right.

Because life is going to bring us challenges. That's right.
But we don't need to be out of agreement and alignment. Adding on to it.
Right. We need the energy to be able to take on challenge.
That's right. That's right.
And if I can create a relationship with someone where we can build that together, we can create all the love and abundance that we want and we desire together.

Amen. And I've just never felt this much peace and abundance internally.
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
Not necessarily externally, although that's there, but just the feeling of gratitude and love and abundance for having all that. Well, hang on, Louis.
Do you remember how how we started we said life when you heal is a reflection of the inside yes so when you feel peace love and abundance inside guess what you attract yeah a partner that mirrors that frequency yes so then it's all about guys, please listen to me. What is in your life that is robbing you of peace, love, and abundance? You know, sometimes I've had to work with some of my clients that it's their mother.
Oh, yeah. Like the mom shows up drunk, as abusive, as judgmental.
It's the father. I made a quote the other day, and it said, don't allow the family you came from to ruin the family you're creating.
And this is a message to the men out there. Like a lot of men out there, you have like some of these, you know, manipulative parents who, by the way, are doing it because it's their form of loving you.
It's just a wounded form of love, right? If you allow that to take priority over your wife, you're never going to have freedom. You're going to have to find, remember, the courage to speak up to your family.
Great boundaries, yeah, yeah. Right? And realize that my family is from me down.
That means me, my partner, my parents. Man, and that's when you come from a Hispanic culture.
So brother, everything is the family. Everyone above is the family.
And they get intertwined. That's right.
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That's why you rack. And a lot of it, I mean, maybe this is true in different cultures as well, but a lot of Hispanic people live with their parents or their grandparents until they're much older which you know which research shows there's like there's like beauty in that course because you know but but but it but it's like just understand that there's a there's a there's a cost the price you pay for everything yes there's a reward and there's a price that's right that's right yeah there is beauty to it also yeah absolutely yeah i mean more in the western tradition it's like okay you're out at 18 and then go you're separate from your parents so your grandparents and you never see them until they're in like the hospital when they're about to die yeah there's an extreme the other way as well yeah hyper independence right you know and i think there's a beauty to having a you know and in the middle somewhere.
Yeah. You have this seven signs on how you found your soulmate or not.
I don't know if you remember these seven signs. I'll read them out.
Okay. You're from a social media post.
These are the seven signs you have found your soulmate. Okay.
One is deep connection and understanding. Two is effortless communication, which I want to dive in deeper on that.
Three is emotional safety and trust. Four is alignment and values.
Five is feeling at home together. Six is mutual growth and support.
And seven is magnetic attraction. These are the seven signs that you've found your soulmate.
I mean, heck yeah. up for that yeah right yeah yeah most people i feel like don't have any of those and they stay in a relationship they get in a relationship because they find some type of chemical attraction right sexual attraction or the sex is great or we have this energy it just feels electric yeah but they lack deep connection understanding yeah communication is actually chaotic it's not effortless yeah they don't feel safe they feel anxious actually which kind of creates that chemical explosion they don't feel trust because they're checking their phone or the other person or they're asking them where'd you go yeah they don't have that trust they actually haven't talked about alignment on values like what do you actually actually value? They might think they know, but they don't know.
They don't feel at home. Maybe they do right after they have sex, but other than that, they don't feel safe emotionally at home.
They're actually not encouraging each other to grow and they haven't found out if this person's on a growth trajectory or not. Maybe they do have magnetic attraction, but it's not magnetic spiritual attraction.
And I think that might be the caveat, magnetic spiritual attraction, to know that you've got your soulmate. Why do you think so many people struggle from creating that and asking about all these things within the partner everything you just described is the outcome of fear it's the and and when I say fear you ever heard of Maya Angelo's poem which is the greatest fear we have is not that we are inadequate but it's that we are like i i'm gonna butcher i think it's mandela actually originally is that what it is mandela originally essentially what it says is the greatest fear is that we are like we're the one where as powerful as can be right and so this all remember it all i feel like a broken record, but it all comes back to whatever you're experiencing on the outside is just a match for how you're living on the inside.
So all of that is correct. Absolutely.
I lived it. You lived it.
And we can all go back and look at the fact that all of us in some way, shape or form had the frequency of fear inside of us. Fear of speaking my truth, fear of being seen, fear of being accepted for who I am, fear, right? When you decide, because this is what I decided, Louis.
After 13 years of being married, right, which I'm grateful for, to this day I love her, I support her, I provide for her. My dream actually has finally come true.
We're all like everyone is cool. Like everything is great right now.
Right. But I had to come to a realization and I said, OK, I know what it feels like to not have peace.
Yeah. Right.
Not fun. Not fun at all, man.
Not fun at all. Because when you don't have peace in your life, that lack of peace shows up, listen to me, in your money.
Literally, the lack of peace that you have within attracts clients, partners, careers that will give you more lack of peace because you're the one creating it.

Right. And so it shows up in every facet of life.
So, Lewis, I said to myself,

if I'm going to be with anyone, my number one priority is peace.

I know. So key, man.
That was that was my thing, too.

Yeah. My three things is funny because four is a four, four and a half years ago,

I one priority is peace i know it's so key man that was that was my thing too that yeah my three things is funny because four is a four four and a half years ago i started healing within a previous relationship because i wanted to get out but the therapist that i just started working with she was like you can get out and run away but you're probably gonna attract and recreate this again unless you heal within it which is is our previous conversation. Start the journey of healing and diving all into the relationship.
And creating the boundaries and speaking up and doing all the things you've been afraid to do because you get a reaction from the other person. And if you could sit in the fire and actually own your power and own your voice.
And if she runs away, if she screams and she says like,

okay, it is what it is,

but I'm going to stand up for me.

Yeah.

I'm going to be there for the little boy in me

that never got to speak up.

That's right.

When I started to do that,

it was probably like

a six month journey of doing this.

And it was a freaking nightmare.

We were living together.

I would, you know,

create a boundary

loving and consciously, calmly,

and then screaming and go together in the silent treatment for days and the whole thing right and i had to learn how to sit with it person that you're pouring into is giving you the silent treatment for days blaming you making you wrong for not giving into what they want right i had to learn and say okay you do you i'm gonna be okay i'm safe i'm creating my own home, right? Which is very healthy, masculine energy, by the way. Yeah.
Very healthy, masculine energy. And by the way, that is wounded feminine energy.
Of course. And I could see it.
Yeah. That's right.
Yeah. That's right.
And I was like, okay, she's in her process. I'm going to let her be her thing.
And it's not what I want. This isn't what I want.
It's not my vision, right? But I'm going to keep processing this and keep stepping up for me in this process from a conscious, loving way. And everything I said to the therapist that I was working with was, she asked me, what do you want? And I said, I want three things.
I knew right away, my body just spoke it. I want peace, clarity, and freedom.
Because I didn't feel like I had any of it in the relationship. Peace, clarity, and freedom.
That was the whole thing I wanted. Right.
Can you pause right there? Yes. Do you guys remember what I told you? I said at the very beginning, or maybe in the previous episode, that if you could finally look at everything that has been in your life and accept it and thank it, because it will be the greatest teacher and give you the greatest gift of your life when you finally allow yourself to do it.
Literally, you going through that relationship showed you what you no longer wanted, showed you what you wanted, and attracted your new fiance. Exactly.
Yeah. Yeah.
It was beautiful. But if I had a, if I would have run away and kind of gone into my old pattern, I'd be like, okay, I'm just going to be single for a while and then go have fun and then get in the next relationship where I feel something.
It would just kept repeating it. And so I really was just like, okay, I need to sit with this and really do this work and heal this part of me that's been attracting from a wound.

That's right, yeah.

Because I felt like I was doing better.

I was healing over the last 10 years in other areas of my life, but I still in intimacy struggled. Sounds like something you did too.
Yeah, yeah. And so when I, in the dating phase with Martha, I was just like, I need to do everything different than what I did before and how I attracted and how I got into a relationship.
And that was be a 100% authentically myself, say 100% the truth, not like hide a little bit of things where I think maybe they're going to explode. I was just like, this is what I've done in my past.
This is who I am. This is what I my future just like all of it yeah if she can't accept it then i can't be with her that's right and i had to accept all of her stuff too everything from her past and if i can't accept it i shouldn't be with her that's it's simple i shouldn't be with you that's right i can't blame you for something you already did and that's why whenever i deal with couples who like the one has cheated yes it.
Yes. It's either.
You're going to accept it, go into it, and heal it. And by the way, understand that if they cheated, you co-created that.
Yeah, which no one wants to hear. No one wants to hear that.
They're the victim. They're the victim.
And so a lot of people are going to say, well, I didn't do that. You cheated.
Listen to me. They cheated for a reason so that you could heal part of you that attracted someone that was going to cheat.
Period. End of story.
I know, but people don't like hearing the truth i understand is the truth but people don't like hearing it yeah people are going to be really frustrated because a lot of people have been watching or listening or who've been cheated and they said i did nothing wrong i gave to this man i gave to this woman everything i gave all my money i gave her all my love my support i raised the kids i did everything and they cheated right screw's their fault. I'm not to blame.
What are you talking about, daddy? I can guarantee you there was a part of you that wasn't in your power, that wasn't in your authenticity. But that's not my fault.
They cheated. 100% anything that you are in or not in is 100% your creation.
100%. They're not going to like hearing that.
It's the truth. But they gave everything and they still cheated.
They tried everything and they still cheated. Maybe they gave too much, so much so that they didn't honor themselves.
There's always a reason. There's always a reason.
So I gave so much love, should I stop giving all my love? I'm going to block my love. Hang on, because let's talk about this.
Because what is cheating? Cheating is you being with someone else without telling the person. Without consent.
That's it. Because I know throuples for right out loud.
I know open relationships. I know as long as you have consent, it's not cheating.
Yes. Right? So hang on a second.
So then your partner had some sort of hidden desire that they didn't feel comfortable sharing with you. Why didn't they feel comfortable sharing with you? Maybe, just maybe, could you have not provided a comfortable and open space where they could share everything? Maybe, maybe, maybe.
I'm going to be devil's advocate here. What if, okay, sure, I provided a safe space for them to talk, but they still cheated.
They still went with their temptations, their pleasures, their desires, and they didn't commit to the relationship. They let all the temptation and our relationship go out the window for outside pleasure.
Well, then just stay there and watch it happen again. I know.
Yeah, yeah. Or.
I hear what you're saying. I know, I know, I know.
By the way, this is, I only speak of the things that I, I cheated. I had an affair.
Louis, I was that guy that when like all of the husbands were going on a guy's trip, the wives would only allow their husbands to go if Danny was going. Oh, wow.
Because I was Mr. Goody Two Shoes.
Wow. Because I wanted to create this facade that I had it all together.
And deep inside, it was all a lie. Wow.
It was all a lie, man. So I created it, yeah? And by the way, so did my ex.
I know she may not want to hear that, but we couldn't speak about this stuff. We couldn't.
I couldn't. I couldn't.
I couldn't even share the truth as to why I forgot the milk at the grocery store, let alone that. Right.
If I forgot the milk at the grocery store, I would get my balls chopped off. Are you kidding me? I would never hear the end of it.
And then if I said the, did you just say the? It was like a, there was nothing I could do. You're wrong no matter what.
I'm wrong no matter what. So tell me something.
If that's how you react, what do you think is happening? What do you think? And people used to tell me all the time, people used to say, you know, everyone makes mistakes because trust me, man, I dealt with the the guilt of that. That was a very deep, dark journey.
You got to live with that. I lived with it, you know, and I don't wish that on anybody.
I really don't because I am aware of the pain that it caused but you know ultimately what both of us

discovered like we were trying to hold on to each other for all the wrong reasons we we there wasn't

with love there was just the facade and so like when I look back it's like it wasn't a mistake it

was it was like it was the the key that unlocked both of us from the cage. Yes.
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That's why you rack. Where do you think most people, the biggest problem is for most people today in getting into a relationship or being in an unhealthy relationship? It's the lack of being able to speak your authentic truth, period, truth period in the story and as a lack of speaking your authentic truth coming from a wounded self it's it's coming from there's an energy within you from a from a spiritual energetic perspective your throat chakra is blocked you had an experience as a little boy or as a little girl where you weren't seen or accepted for your truth and your mother or your father told you that your voice in some way, shape or form, because this is how this all happens, and then you attract someone from that wounding and then both of you never share your truth.
Or when you finally do it, it comes out in anger because's the other side of the wounding, basically. And then when it comes out like that, there's no reflection.
Like, don't get me wrong. Me and Jen, we get into our situations.
But we always like, here, I'm going to leave you like this. If you get this, you'll heal your relationship.
But this takes immense amount of amount of courage from this day forward everything that happens in your relationship every argument every disagreement everything that goes wrong if you are ready to heal your relationship here's what i want you to do make it your fault everything everything um what's that book the jocko wrote wrote? Something. Discipline.
Responsibility. Something Responsibility.
There's something about like, yeah, discipline equals freedom. I think it's more.
Yeah, but there was one he wrote about something like. Responsibility.
Accept 100% responsibility. And you know what I started realizing? I started realizing that everything that i would blame jen for like secretly there was something i did maybe it was the energy in which i came to the conversation yeah yeah yeah but maybe it was the fact that i wanted to get into her argument with her maybe it was the fact that i didn my truth.
Whatever it was. And when you can learn to accept ownership and responsibility for everything, here's what you do.
Then you communicate it. And you say, you say, baby, I realized that the way I showed up was wrong.
I wasn't being authentic or, you know, the energy in which I was speaking from, it was manipulative. And I'm sorry.
And I'm not aware of why I did that. But I can see it's a pattern that has been showing up in my life for so long, because that's what started happening, man.
Here's my dream woman. And she would start saying the exact same thing that my ex would say about me.
So it's either they're crazy or I'm crazy. Right? And once I realized I was the crazy one, well, then I got to go into it.
Wow. What was your current wife saying that your previous wife used to say? They would both say, but Danny, you don't understand.
It's the energy in which you say it. And I'd be like, no, I'm being nice.
So then I was. Yeah, it's the energy in which you say it and i'd be like no i'm being nice and i'm so then i was yeah that's the energy yeah i was like i was coming into this with a charge sure right i was coming into it at expecting to not be heard so of course they're not going to hear me so who created it yeah me yeah what are women getting wrong in the western world today with choosing a certain type of men well i don't want to say that they're getting it wrong what is creating more pain than peace the greatest pain that is being created inside the life of women today

is that they have been taught several things that are keeping them disconnected from love.

Number one, they're in a competition with other women.

They need to realize that other women are their sisters.

And whenever they're in competition with other women,

they're actually in competition with themselves.

Whenever they judge other women, they're actually judging themselves. The second thing that is keeping women from their heart is women have been taught that their value is on the outside.
And so women, and I say this lovingly, but women are so preoccupied with changing, adding, removing their outside. And the message that I think love has for them is that they are perfect exactly the way they are.
And there's a reason why they were born the way that they were born. And the moment that they start to cherish and honor and accept themselves for who they are and not change to conform to what society wants of them or for what a man wants of them.
They'll be in their power. And from that power, they will attract, guess what? A man that is also in love with himself for who he is, right? And the third thing that I think is keeping women from the love they truly desire is that they will not allow a man to fully love them, protect them, and provide for them because they have been the man in their life.
They have been the masculine in their life. And the only way, the only way for a man, a masculine man, a safe man, a loving man to come into your life is if you stop being the man in their life.
Oh my gosh. I don't think women like hearing that though.
Women don't like hearing that, but women love hearing. Why is it so hard for women to allow a man to love them, protect them and provide for them? Because the man that was supposed to protect them, love them and provide for them didn't.
He broke their hearts. He wasn't there for them.
And he taught them that trusting and leaning on and counting on a man was the last thing they should ever do in their life. It's a father wound.
Or it could be a mother wound in where they saw their mother be defenseless with their father. And they told themselves, I will never be that ever again.
What is the mind to all women to be more in their protector-provider mode? And maybe telling men to be less in their protector-provider mode. What seems to look like in society more than ever before right now.
Why is that happening? Because the energy of society is, it's a fear consciousness. I'm going to be very gentle with this, but let's just look at the recent election.
Okay. Let's talk about fear and victim energy.
By the way, I didn't vote, so I'm not, I have no fight in this game. Yes.

Because I decided a couple years ago that the game of politics

is actually the game of separation.

It's a losing game.

It's a game of pitting one against the other.

So watch this.

Someone loses.

Half the country loses, half the world loses, whatever it is. And by the way, someone's right and someone's wrong.
Yeah. And when someone's right and someone's wrong, we're all wrong.
That's right. That is separation.
We used to walk around planet Earth butt naked, loving each other. That's who we are at our core.
We're love, right? And so when you're in victim energy all of your energy and fear energy is put into something outside of you so you are on pins and needles for your person to win because if and when they win my life will be different different. There is no more deeper bullshit that you are falling into than that.
You are the president of your life, period, end of story. You are the creator of your life.
But then watch this. Victim fear energy, which is literally all of Hollywood, all of the news, all of the machine which wants to keep you in it, they're constantly just programming you with fear, right? So then when your person win or doesn't win, guess what happens? You go into fear.
Oh my God, how could I live in this world, this world, this world with so much bad things happening in this world. What if you shut off the damn program?

Yeah, you don't see it.

What if you shut off the TV?

True story.

I don't know what the hell is going on in the world.

Because it was shown to me very clearly that the TV is the very thing that is being used to program us and keep us in fear.

I don't know who's at war.

I don't know who won the game.

I don't know.

I'm oblivious.

Because I want to stay here.

Thank you. program us, and keep us in fear.
I don't know who's at war. I don't know who won the game.
I don't know. I'm oblivious because I want to stay here.
I don't need that to entertain me or to fill me. I'm filled in here.
You want life? Close your eyes. Sit in silence.
You want to meet God, by the way? Go sit in nature for 30 minutes. Take a deep breath in, hold that breath, release it.
Do that six, seven, eight, nine times, and then just sit in stillness. Watch all of your ailments.
Watch your body heal, your life heal. Because you're going to meet God.
You're going to meet God. You're going to meet the creator.
You want to manifest it here. You you the center of the universe is literally all right here but you're being told that it is out there why do we seem to have more men not stepping into their power by the way so let me keep going.
Thank you. So what does fear want? Fear wants chaos.
Fear wants darkness. So fear and the consciousness of fear and separation devises this plan.
I know what we're gonna do. We're gonna make the women men and the men women.
Because when those energies come together, guess what happens? We will create children that are in the energies of chaos, guilt, and shame. They can't be in their power.
Because when they're in their power, they're being shown by a man, a father, what true masculinity is, and by a woman, what true femininity is. And the more and more that these babies are being created in chaos guilt and shame the more that darkness can live the last thing it wants is for men to be in their masculine and women to be in their feminine because if that happens guess what will happen here on earth Lewis heaven on earth love love yeah love the heaven that religion tells you that you need to wait for someday out there, you will literally experience it here on earth.
And if you want that, remove all separation that is within you. Remove all racism that is within you.
Start there. Start there.
Anything in you that sees yourself as less than or greater than someone else. I used to be in real estate and I used to be a part of a club that was only for like Hispanic real estate agents.
That's me creating and filling the energy of racism. Wow.
I'm the one creating it. If I'm walking.
Can't you be, you know, inspired by your culture and your country and... You are not your culture.
You are not your country. You are you.
I'm not Hispanic. I'm not American.
I'm a human being. And my country is the world.
And my religion is love. Period on the story.
Watch what happens when you start going on that journey. Watch how beautiful life gets.
Money, dream partner, because you have finally gotten it. That you are love.
Yeah. And the biggest thing separating people from love is what? well the world that we live in the the the the the game is this that was you come down

into this world and the world is made to take you from your power all of your power believes in and

listens to everybody else you listen to your mom and dad you listen to your teacher then you listen

to the government then you listen to the in and listens to everybody else. You listen to your mom and dad.
You listen to your teacher. Then you listen to the government.
Then you listen to the preacher. You listen to everybody but you.
And that shows you to be separate from God. So you're praying and hoping, God, please change my life.
Please change my life. Please change my life.
Until one day you realize this ain't working. This ain't working.
Because they keep attracting the same thing, same thing right and then you go on the journey you go on the journey of no longer believing what the world society religion when nothing has told you you go on the journey of finding the truth for yourself and discovering who you are and when you do that and you have the courage to unravel everything within you that has

anything to do with fear, anything to do with not honoring your truth, guess what you discover, man? You discover exactly what Jesus said when they asked them, who are you? Who are you? And what What did he say?

I am that I am.

They say you're God.

Are you God?

I am. are you and what did he say i am that i am they say you're god are you god i and the father are one

and that very thing is available for all of humanity that's beautiful now thank you yeah

there's a lot more we could talk about here about relationships i thought we just scratched the surface but you've got a lot of great content in your own podcast about relationships as well yeah and also on your instagram danny morale danny morale.com you've got an amazing three-day event that you do that helps people step into their power own their voice heal and start the journey of healing um but they can get at danny morale dot com is where they can find that information or backslash awaken backslash awaken or raken you.co is that the site for the yeah or Danny Morell dot com backslash awaken you okay cool how many times do you do that event a year if I could every day of my life yeah but how many is it happening like we will do 10 of them in 2020 10 of them wow man almost every month you're doing it today i i just i that's great louis there's there's there's there's nothing on planet earth like you've seen a human being uncover their eyes and look at you with tears going i get it yeah it's powerful there's nothing yeah i get it i get it no I understand so if people want to check out more from you you've got a podcast is it the Higher Self podcast or is it a different one yeah we've got two it's the Higher Self and then with my wife we do Finding the One oh that's good okay so if you want more of the relationship stuff go to check out Finding the One podcast with you and your wife also just dannymorale.com we'll have all stuff linked up, and we'll link it up all as well. I've got two final questions for you, Danny.
Let's do it. Before I ask them, I want to acknowledge you, Danny, for your transformation.
Thank you, man. For your constant journey of transforming and healing and growing, which it's going to be a journey for both of us until we die.
Sure. And for your courage to let go of an old self that no longer served you or humanity in the highest level uh for the courage to let go of the you know the big businesses and do more of the work you're doing and things like that and to find ways to create healing with your previous wife to bring that family and merge it in a certain way that has boundaries and healthy love as well with your current life and new child that you have.
So congratulations on being a model and example and breaking the mold of Hispanic culture, even though you're not Hispanic culture. But you come from that culture that has a stereotype and a mold that a man needs to be a certain way.
Yeah. And I appreciate you being a voice and being an example for men from that culture to say, oh, if I want peace and freedom, maybe it doesn't have to look this way that my great grandfather and grandfather and father all did.
Yeah. Maybe I can be the one in my family to change the legacy moving forward.
That's right. So I acknowledge you for that as well.
Yeah. This is a question I ask everyone towards the end called the three truths, hypothetical question.
Imagine you get to live as long as you want to live. But it's the last day for you.
Okay. You accomplish all of your dreams.
You see your kids grow up and they accomplish their dreams. But it's your last day on earth.
And for whatever reason in this hypothetical scenario, all of your work has to go with you or we don't get to keep it on this earth It's gone this conversation gone all the videos you created books workshops. It's all gone but You get to leave behind three truths and this we would get to keep this this is all Earth would have of your kind of teachings or memories or lessons what would those three lessons or three truths be for you everything you've ever wanted and every question you've ever answered is already within you there is no separation between you the plants the animals, your brothers and sisters, as you are all one, and you and God are one.
Very good. Awesome.
It's almost all in one. All three of them are one yeah you are one with everything yeah um final question what's your definition of greatness discovering yourself and living from your authentic self danny thanks for being here man thank you appreciate you thank you man i hope you enjoyed today's episode and it inspired you on your journey towards greatness Make sure to check out the show notes in the description for a full rundown.
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And now it's time to go out there and do something great. Okay, we've got Katie's Projects, Dan's Bake Sale, Emma has a test tomorrow? Sweetie, I'm out of my blood pressure meds.
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