The Science Of Manifestation: How To Transform Your Energy To Change Your Reality

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Speaker 13 Let's learn the formula of how to create, right?

Speaker 13 So then you'd have to feel those emotions before the experience occurred.

Speaker 13 And if you understood that you could dissociate all of your attention from this three-dimensional reality and have no attention on anything known, and understand that it's the field that creates matter, not matter that emits the field, and if you could get to that place and change your energy with a clear intention and elevated emotion, your heart starts beating in this beautiful rhythm like a drum.

Speaker 13 We've measured it so many times and when that occurs, the next thing that happens, the heart informs the brain. It's safe to create now.

Speaker 13 So the person relaxes into the present moment and then we see this like if you took a big sheet, you know, in a blanket and you went like that.

Speaker 13 The energy of the heart actually informs the brain to move into these beautiful, elegant states of alpha brainwave patterns, coherent alpha. And that's saying, what's the next dream?

Speaker 13 What is it the next, what's the next opportunity you want to experience? That's a state of creation. So now you have a Wi-Fi signal.
You got a coherent brain. That's a directive.
That's a signal out.

Speaker 13 And you got this coherent heart.

Speaker 13 That's what draws it to us, right?

Speaker 13 You combine those two.

Speaker 13 And if there's a vibrational match between your energy, and that potential in the quantum field and you're feeling abundant and whatever your brain associates with being abundant, that's your call.

Speaker 13 That's what the creative process is. This is the creative center.
The brain frontal lobe actually says, what would it be like to be creative or abundant?

Speaker 13 I don't know what it would be like to be abundant. Well, then go read a few books on people who actually became abundant and realized it wasn't a glorious process.
They failed miserably.

Speaker 13 They got betrayed. They learned a lot of lessons, but they persevered.
And what are the qualities?

Speaker 13 of that person that you could embody.

Speaker 13 That's the key, right? Because it's not about wealth. It's who you become, right? Because people think it's about their wealth, but it's the becoming process.
It's the overcoming.

Speaker 13 You've attracted that, right?

Speaker 10 Of course.

Speaker 13 So then,

Speaker 13 so then you got to turn the battleship around because most people say, I can't feel grateful for my wealth because it hasn't happened yet. That's the hypnosis.

Speaker 13 Waiting for the experience to happen to feel grateful. Well, that's Newtonian, that's three-dimensional reality, that's cause and effect.

Speaker 13 The quantum, you got to feel it in order for you to experience it. Okay?

Speaker 13 So this heart becomes like an amplifier and it sends that signal out. And that frequency can carry the thought of your abundance.

Speaker 13 Suffering cannot carry the thought of your abundance. Lack cannot carry the thought of your abundance.
It's a different frequency, right? We feel different feelings like suffering.

Speaker 13 We think different thoughts.

Speaker 13 So people can say, I'm abundant, I'm abundant, I'm abundant, I'm abundant, all they want, but that thought is never making it to the body because it's stopping at the brainstem because the body's saying, I'm miserable, I'm unhappy, I'm in lack.

Speaker 13 right? So the affirmation doesn't work, right? Okay, so let's go one step further. Yes.
So if you practice this and you actually understood, you know, well, we teach this pretty well, but

Speaker 13 if you learned it just like learning how to play handball or learning how to hit a golf ball, learning how to dance the salsa, you just practice the form and you got really good at it.

Speaker 13 If you were doing it properly then, what would be the outcome? The experiment of being abundant would be that you would have to feel that feeling. Get so good at doing it with your eyes closed.

Speaker 13 You got to do it with your eyes open. Now why?

Speaker 13 Because if you're feeling the feelings of your emotions of your future,

Speaker 13 you're no longer looking for them.

Speaker 7 Because you're in the future now.

Speaker 13 Your body is so objective that it's believing it's living in that reality where you are abundant. And as long as you feel that emotion, you're not separate from it any longer.

Speaker 13 You're no longer in lack. You're no longer looking for it to occur.
Say, why hasn't it happened yet? If you're feeling abundant, why would you look? Right?

Speaker 13 So then our job then is to be able to maintain that modified state of mind and body.

Speaker 13 So, okay, so does that mean like you should check your bank account tomorrow and see if there's a half a million dollars in it? No.

Speaker 13 You keep tuning into that potential. And then here come the synchronicities.

Speaker 13 What's that? That's feedback in your environment. That's the universe saying, hey, Lewis, whatever you're doing, all of a sudden we are starting to create, right?

Speaker 13 And I think it's so important for people to remember that they're the creators of their lives instead of the victim of their lives, right?

Speaker 13 So the victim is saying, I'm feeling this way because that person or that circumstance or I don't have any money is causing me to feel this way. That's my relationship with money.

Speaker 13 What that really means is I'm using... my lack to reaffirm my dependency, my addiction, my conditioning.
That's my relationship with money, is that I put my attention on money because I don't have it.

Speaker 13 So their relationship with money is, of course, built on lack. And so when they don't have it, they feel bad.

Speaker 13 And what they're really saying is my outer environment, my reality is actually controlling the way I feel and the way I think. So Lewis, why are you in a good mood today? Things are going good.

Speaker 13 Why are you in a bad mood? Things are going bad today.

Speaker 13 This unconscious program of victimization is saying that

Speaker 13 we're allowing our environment to influence the way we feel and the way we think.

Speaker 13 Isn't that what victimization is?

Speaker 13 And the stronger the emotion we have to our lack, the more we put our attention on the fact that we don't have it, right?

Speaker 13 So then the person has forgotten that they're creating reality because what they're creating is lack. And they're creating more of it.
And then they try harder and they force harder and they control.

Speaker 14 And they're all exhausted and their body's tired.

Speaker 13 And they're breaking down. Right.
So the experiment then is, let's try it another way. Let's create from the field instead of from matter.

Speaker 13 Get a coherent heart, get a coherent brain, relax in the heart, and energy removes right into the the brain. We've measured this a thousand times.

Speaker 13 And all of a sudden, the person moves into these beautiful, elegant brainwave states where they're super creative, right?

Speaker 13 So the longer you're conscious of that energy, the more you draw that future to you. So then, what does the synchronicity mean?

Speaker 13 It means whatever you're doing inside of you is producing that effect outside of you. Pay attention to what you did.

Speaker 13 And do it again. So generate a little bit more abundance.
Just do it for an experiment.

Speaker 13 Now, when the synchronicity happens, do you think you feel suffering or do you think you feel a little excitement? You feel inspired, right?

Speaker 13 So then that synchronicity is saying, use this energy, use this feeling. It should be easier for you to feel this now and go back and do it again.

Speaker 13 Keep the experiment going. And here comes the promotion.

Speaker 13 Here comes the email. Here comes the person you meet at the right time, right? Whoa, we have something happening here.
And then that becomes the momentum, right?

Speaker 13 So then...

Speaker 13 We generate abundance.

Speaker 13 That's how we do it. And the relationship...

Speaker 5 This doesn't just happen by accident.

Speaker 13 We generate it. We generate abundance, right?

Speaker 13 So then if you have an hour meditation where you're tuning into your abundant future, but then you're spending the other 15 hours a day in lack, don't expect anything to change. You defaulted.

Speaker 13 You're back to the old energy. And if you say it's that person or that circumstance or that bank account, I'm going to say you're back to the unconscious program of being a victim, right?

Speaker 13 So then, so then,

Speaker 13 so then let's go a step further.

Speaker 13 If your personality creates your personal reality, and it does, and your personality is made up of how you think, how you act, and how you feel, then the present personality who's listening to this podcast has created the present personal reality called their life.

Speaker 13 Nothing big there, which means if you want to change your personal reality, you're going to have to change your personality.

Speaker 13 Nothing changes in your life until you change, right? So then... 95% of who we are is on autopilot, right?

Speaker 13 It's a programmed thoughts, hardwired thoughts, beliefs, perceptions, unconscious habits and behaviors, and really, really emotional responses that tend to be really knee-jerk and automatic, right? So

Speaker 13 if 95% of who we are is a set of unconscious programs, then the first step to change.

Speaker 13 is becoming conscious of those unconscious thoughts. Now, people think when they sit down to do the work and make their change that they're doing something wrong.
No, those thoughts have to come up.

Speaker 13 I can't, I'm not worthy, It's never going to work. But a person who's truly persevering towards their abundance realizes just because they have that thought doesn't mean it's true.

Speaker 13 They're curious on what's on the other side of that thought. Ah, well, that's just the thought, right? And nerve cells that no longer fire together no longer wire together.

Speaker 13 So you keep moving past that thought. It has less and less power over you, right?

Speaker 13 Now you have power over it, or better yet, you're using your brain in the proper way instead of being a victim to your brain, right?

Speaker 13 If you complain about money, if you judge people who have it, if you rush when you're in lack, if you cheat when you don't have what you need, an abundant person doesn't do that.

Speaker 4 You got to look at that and say, I got to break these habits.

Speaker 13 Oh my God, if I truly want to be abundant, I can't act this way. Now, here's the big one:

Speaker 13 if I truly want to be a new personality that's in a new personal reality, I can't take lack with me. I can't take unworthiness.

Speaker 13 I can't take the story that goes along with it with my parents or my grandparents or my ex or whatever.

Speaker 13 That story has to end, right? I mean, if not now, when, right?

Speaker 14 How do people end those stories?

Speaker 13 Well, of course. Well, how many times do we have to forget? until we stop forgetting and start remembering.
That's the game, right? That's the game called change.

Speaker 13 How many times do we have to go unconscious and default to that old personality when we catch ourselves and stop doing that and get conscious? That's the moment of change.

Speaker 13 So the problem is, is that most people wake up in the morning and they think,

Speaker 13 let me think of my problems, right?

Speaker 13 The brain is a record of the past, right? So they think about their problems. They don't have enough money.

Speaker 13 And those problems are usually connected to certain people at certain places with certain objects and certain things. What didn't work out or who screwed me over? So the moment they wake up,

Speaker 13 The moment they remember those problems, they're thinking in the past.

Speaker 13 So now they're firing and wiring wiring the memory. They're keeping the memory of past alive in their mind.

Speaker 13 The problem is, every one of those memories has an emotion associated with it because we've experienced it.

Speaker 13 So when they feel the lack, when they feel the unhappiness, when they feel the anxiety, now the body's in the past.

Speaker 13 Thoughts being the language of the brain, feelings being the language of the body, how we think and how we feel creates our state of being.

Speaker 13 But the conditioning process starts because conditioning only needs a thought and a feeling, a memory or an image and an emotion and a stimulus and a response and you're conditioning your body to become the mind of that emotion and now the the memory is not in the brain now the memory is buried subconsciously in the body and the body becomes the mind of that emotion so the body is living in lack and it's believing

Speaker 14 it's

Speaker 14 that through the nervous system or is that through neurochemical cells everything

Speaker 13 so the so so the body's so objective that it does not know the difference between the real-life experience that's creating the lack and the emotion that you're creating by thought alone called lack.

Speaker 13 The body's believing it's living the same past experience every day.

Speaker 13 Why? Because the end product of an experience is an emotion.

Speaker 13 Well, if your life is changing, but you're still feeling lack, don't expect anything to change. You won't even see it.
You'll walk right past it. You're viewing your life through the lens of the past.

Speaker 13 Okay? So, okay, so then a person realizes that all their friends are making money and and they're doing stuff and they're like, wow, I'm really feeling lacked now. So then

Speaker 13 when it no longer becomes about your abundance

Speaker 13 and it becomes about your change,

Speaker 13 that's a valuable moment. When it's no longer about your healing,

Speaker 13 but it's about your change. I paid attention to a lot of people in the last couple years tell their story.

Speaker 13 The people who heal in this work from cancers and all kinds of chronic health conditions and Parkinson's and strokes and paralysis and all kinds of things. It's rare genetic disorders.

Speaker 13 It never was about when they've really got in the game, it was never about their healing. It was about what do I need to change in order to heal.

Speaker 13 When the game goes like that, so then the person who's feeling lack

Speaker 13 on some level or another, it's not just in the mind, it's in the body, right?

Speaker 5 Let me hear what you say that again. When someone's looking for abundance, it's never about the abundance, it's about the change they need to make for healing.

Speaker 13 No,

Speaker 13 I'm using healing as an example, but let's use abundance as an example.

Speaker 13 When you understand that you cannot get abundant, when it's no longer about the game called abundance, it's about the game called change.

Speaker 13 What do I need to change? The more I change, the more I'll be abundant. Yes.
So then it's no longer,

Speaker 13 how come it hasn't happened? That's the old personality, separate from the experience, still in lack, asking that question.

Speaker 14 Which is creating your current reality.

Speaker 13 Which is reaffirming it because that's the lens you're perceiving it through. Okay.

Speaker 14 So we should be focusing more on what we need to change every moment as opposed to the abundance or the healing.

Speaker 13 Well, the word meditation means to become familiar with.

Speaker 13 Sit with yourself long enough and not turn on your cell phone, not scroll through your social media, do no TikTok, no emails, none of that stuff.

Speaker 13 Just sit and close your eyes and watch the thoughts that come up. That's the exact reason why you're not abundant.

Speaker 13 Watch what you want to do when you're feeling lack to take away the lack and there's always something you would do to take it away.

Speaker 13 But sit with the lack and be curious on what's on the other side of it, right?

Speaker 13 Because the body's programmed into lack now subconsciously, right?

Speaker 13 So the emotion of lack drives our thoughts. and drives our behaviors.
So it makes sense then that if an emotion is a record of the past, then we're doing things habitually from the past.

Speaker 13 We're thinking in the past, right? So

Speaker 13 lower the volume to the emotion every time you notice lack comes up. And just like breaking any addiction, there's going to be cravings, right?

Speaker 13 So the body's going, hey, Lewis, it's been about two hours since you're doing this. You're so used to doing this.

Speaker 13 Yeah, you've been thinking lacking thoughts about 150,000 times a day, and you're just going to stop.

Speaker 13 The body's going to start influencing the mind and say, it's not going to work. You're a loser.
It didn't work before. It's too hard.

Speaker 8 Everybody else.

Speaker 14 That's why it's so hard for people to lose weight or get in shape.

Speaker 13 you might try it for a few days and then the cravings or I'm tired and I want to go default back into the old right because why because the body which has been conditioned the mind the body is the unconscious mind so the body's got used to the familiar feeling even they don't even know it's lack it's just how they feel it's not guilt so okay so let me finish

Speaker 13 okay so the hardest part about all of this is making a different choice And the moment you decide to make a different choice, get ready, it's going to feel uncomfortable. Right.

Speaker 13 It's going to feel unfamiliar.

Speaker 13 Your body's all of of a sudden saying, Hey, Louis, why don't you start thinking those same exact thoughts, do the same things, make the same choices, demonstrate the same behaviors, have the same experiences.

Speaker 13 So you could feel that feeling of lack, complain again to somebody, call somebody up and say how miserable your life is, right?

Speaker 13 And that's that's the known, right? So the body is always influencing the mind to return back to the familiar territory. The default, yeah.
The default, okay.

Speaker 13 All right, so now the person says,

Speaker 13 Okay, what thoughts do I not want?

Speaker 13 Would an abundant person think this way? The people in our work that have created, I had a guy come to our event. I love this guy.
He healed himself, he tried to take his life three times.

Speaker 13 He told me that when he came to our work, he didn't have two dollars to rub together. He's worth hundreds of millions of dollars now.
And he just keeps giving it away.

Speaker 8 Wow.

Speaker 13 His lesson, his lesson was, it wasn't the wealth, it was who he became. So it's the overcoming process that is the becoming process.

Speaker 5 Who did he become in that journey?

Speaker 13 Exactly. He had to get beyond all of those thoughts of his past, all the mistakes he made, all the things he did wrong, all the money he owed there, all of that.

Speaker 13 That was like, he just had to no longer be that person any longer. But he did say,

Speaker 13 how would a wealthy person live?

Speaker 13 And when he created his wealth, what do you think the first thing he did? Started giving. Giving it away.
Why? Because an abundant person doesn't have any lack. And he knows how to create more of it.

Speaker 13 And he's in the experiment. Well, what would happen if I keep giving it away? He keeps getting more.
That's a good experiment to have. Because he is actually living in that abundant state.

Speaker 13 He also had tremendous healings taking place because when you heal your heart, you heal your mind. I mean, it's just the way it is.
We saw it so many times, right? So he healed his heart.

Speaker 13 He got an upgrade. He got an upgrade, right?

Speaker 13 So then the next fundamental question is how would an abundant person think write it down dude and fire and wire those thoughts in your brain and install the hardware keep doing it with attention and intention

Speaker 13 it becomes the new voice in your head it becomes the software program then say okay

Speaker 13 how am i going to be in my life today what would an abundant person how would they behave And before you reach for your cell phone and start scrolling through your social media, close your eyes and rehearse in your mind how that person would walk, how they would breathe, how they would smile, how they would greet people, how they would be on Zoom calls, how would they be in traffic, how would they be at dinner.

Speaker 13 And the act of closing your eyes and mentally rehearsing the act. If you're truly present, the brain does not know the difference between the real-life experience and what you're imagining.

Speaker 13 In fact, just a little bit of time, you start to install the neurological hardware to look like you already did it.

Speaker 8 Now the brain is no longer a record of the past.

Speaker 13 It's primed for the future. Keep doing it, keep rehearsing.
No different than playing an instrument, no different than learning how to dance, no different than learning how to act or play a sport.

Speaker 13 Everybody's always rehearsing, right? The rehearsal process changes the brain to look like you've already done it. You've already experienced it.
Now what's the essential part of that?

Speaker 13 The hardware is in place. Now all you got to do is step into the footprint.
Keep doing it. It becomes a software program.
You start acting like an abundant person. Everything changes.

Speaker 13 Your energy changes. Your mood changes.
The way you walk, the way you breathe, your posture changes. You're out of the known, right? You've got to condition the body now emotionally into the future.

Speaker 13 Can't open your eyes in the morning until you are feeling worthy to receive. And if you can't feel worthy to receive,

Speaker 13 then if not now when? If it takes you two hours to get there, ask me if it's worth 30 years of running, trying to get what you need matter to matter.

Speaker 13 Okay, so then the person who wrestles with their lack, they're out of the bleachers

Speaker 13 and they're on the playing field. Here's what we learn.

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Speaker 13 Here's what we learned. Let's go back to beliefs now.
So, remember, a belief is just a thought you keep thinking over and over again.

Speaker 13 A belief is something that you keep thinking enough times that you hardwired in your brain and it becomes an automatic program.

Speaker 13 And we have beliefs about all kinds of things: money, relationships, God, whatever it is. It's all based on what we've been told or our past experiences, right?

Speaker 13 The boundaries of those beliefs are our emotions, right?

Speaker 13 So let's just say you got betrayed or somebody abused you or your father told you that money was bad and there's never enough of it or whatever. That's a story, okay?

Speaker 13 But somehow it left an impression on you. Remember that event very clearly and that's kind of rooted in who you are, right?

Speaker 13 Okay, so that emotion then is the boundary of our belief, okay? So

Speaker 13 How you think and how you feel creates your state of being. If you take a thought and a feeling, a thought and a feeling, a thought and a feeling, a thought and a feeling, that's called an attitude.

Speaker 13 You have a series of good thoughts with a series of good feelings, you say, I have a good attitude today.

Speaker 13 You have a series of negative thoughts that are connected to a series of negative feelings, you say, I have a bad attitude today. So attitudes are just shortened states of being.

Speaker 13 Good attitude in the morning, bad attitude in the afternoon.

Speaker 13 If you take an attitude, an attitude, an attitude, and you keep those up, and you string attitudes together, you create what's called a belief. And a belief is just an extended state of being.

Speaker 13 So if you keep thinking the same thought, you keep hardwiring it in the brain, you keep feeling the same feeling, you keep conditioning in your body, the redundancy of that cycle over and over again conditions the body to subconsciously become the mind of that belief.

Speaker 13 And all beliefs are subconscious states of being.

Speaker 8 Okay.

Speaker 13 Take a belief, a belief, a belief, and you string them together. You form what's called a perception.
And perceptions are just such extended states of being that we're unconscious.

Speaker 13 And so then we edit out reality. In fact, most people don't see things the way they are, they see things the way they are, right?

Speaker 13 And people are always filling in reality unconsciously based on their memory. They could be married to a person for 40 years and they don't see the person, they see the memory of the person, right?

Speaker 13 And there's research to prove this, okay? So, how do we change a belief or perception about ourselves for our lives? Okay, we've studied this.

Speaker 13 Okay, let's just say that lack is ingrained in there.

Speaker 13 You got the story, you lived on the streets, you lost everything, you got betrayed, your business partner took everything, took your wife, took, you got the story in the half, okay?

Speaker 13 Okay, you got to start telling a new story of the future, right? You got to believe in that future more than you have to believe in the past. So how do you do that?

Speaker 13 You only believe in the past when you feel the emotions of the past. The only time you're going to believe in the future is when you feel the emotions of the future, right? Okay.

Speaker 13 So in order for us to change a belief or perception about ourselves and our lives,

Speaker 13 we have to make a decision with such firm intention that the amplitude of that decision carries a level of energy that's greater than the hardwired programs in your brain and the emotional conditioning in your body.

Speaker 13 And your body literally has to respond to your mind. That the choice that you're making to change in that moment becomes a moment in time that you never forget.
And here's the key. Physically.

Speaker 13 Physically. The stronger the emotion you feel when you make that choice, the more you remember the decision.
Okay, so then how do we down-regulate that old belief?

Speaker 13 If the trauma created an emotional quotient of six

Speaker 13 or seven, then your decision to change your beliefs got to be a nine. Right.
You got to come out of your resting state and that moment has to define you.

Speaker 13 You could say, I know exactly where I was, the time and day it was, who I was with, when I made my mind up to change, right? Because you created a long-term memory.

Speaker 13 Long-term memories are created from strong emotion. But if the amplitude of that emotion is greater than the betrayal, boom, the body starts responding to the mind.
Then

Speaker 13 you're actually giving your body a taste of the future emotionally. So you brand your body.

Speaker 11 What's impossible?

Speaker 13 No, your body's actually getting the taste. of that future event.

Speaker 3 It's experiencing the future now.

Speaker 9 Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 13 Big explosion in the quantum field. Big explosion.

Speaker 13 So the side effect of that is if you combine that clear intention with that elevated emotion, you're basically remembering your future and it looks no different than remembering your past.

Speaker 13 Think neurologically within the circuits of that memory and feel within the emotions of that new belief and watch your life begin to change because nothing changes in our life that we change and when we change our energy we change our life.

Speaker 13 So now the experiment all of a sudden is no longer based on it being hard or trying or wishing or wanting or hoping. That's what we do when we're in lack of separation.
It's about change.

Speaker 13 So then when we finally realize in order for us

Speaker 13 to become abundant, we have to overcome the old personality. And that's 95% of who we are, right? Yes.

Speaker 3 So then

Speaker 13 the side effect of the beginning of this process

Speaker 13 is a lot of discomfort. It is a lot of discomfort because you're stepping outside the known into the unknown and now you can't predict.
Scary. No, no, you'd rather hold on to your lack.

Speaker 5 The pain and suffering.

Speaker 13 You'd rather tell the story of that. At least it makes you feel something that's familiar.

Speaker 13 When you step outside and you're saying, I'm not going to complain about money any longer, I'm not going to complain about I don't have any, I'm not going to judge other people who do, I'm not going to say I can't, I'm not worthy, it's never going to work.

Speaker 13 All those things got to go. I'm not going to feel lack, I'm not going to feel unworthy, I'm not going to feel separation, I'm not going to feel resentment.

Speaker 13 These are the things that are keeping my reality the same. Now it's no longer about abundance, about who you become.

Speaker 13 So the overcoming process becomes the becoming process. And so many people

Speaker 13 come to this work. They want abundance.
They want healing. They want a new relationship.
They want a new career. They want the mystical, but really, they want wholeness.

Speaker 5 What does neuroscience tell us about signs, signals, and synchronicities?

Speaker 4 Are they

Speaker 16 something we should be paying attention to based on neuroscience and brain chemistry?

Speaker 5 Or is it more spiritual woo-woo?

Speaker 2 Well,

Speaker 20 neuroscience doesn't tell us anything about that or much, let's say, about that at the moment. But that's why I'm probably going to write another book, which I said I would never do.

Speaker 20 But I'm just so fascinated by this.

Speaker 20 So when I get back

Speaker 20 to London, I'm going to start like properly doing the research on this.

Speaker 20 So far it's been kind of something I'm interested in. And I have to say, I wasn't sure if my book publisher would be okay with it.

Speaker 5 About these things, science, signals, synchronicities?

Speaker 19 Yeah. Well, that's fascinating.

Speaker 2 I love that stuff.

Speaker 20 And I think that it coming from a neuroscientist is a new angle.

Speaker 2 It's not that there aren't books out there on this kind of thing.

Speaker 20 But I really want to open up that conversation as well, because there's a lot of people suffering.

Speaker 20 And

Speaker 20 like I said, you can sound like you're crazy if you start talking about stuff like this. So I want to open up the conversation,

Speaker 20 being open, but trying to keep it as rigorous as possible to give people permission to come forward and share these stories. Because I think that's only going to be good for everyone.

Speaker 2 Wow.

Speaker 4 That's cool.

Speaker 5 So when someone sees the signs, signals, and synchronicities happening in their life, what do you think that's telling them?

Speaker 5 That they're on the right path, that they should be paying attention more, that they they should be trusting their intuition more when they're seeing these three things.

Speaker 4 Google.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 20 I feel like what it says, and somebody said this to me actually the last time I was in LA, but it had to land really emotionally for me to

Speaker 20 believe it. And that's what I want for everyone, is it tells you that you are being guided and it tells you that you're safe and protected.

Speaker 2 All right.

Speaker 20 And one of the things I picked up from you a couple of years ago was that you said

Speaker 20 sometimes, you know, if I'm feeling like in an emotional crisis, I just say to myself, I'm safe, I'm safe, I'm safe. And I can't tell you how many times I've used that in the last two years.

Speaker 2 Wow, that's beautiful.

Speaker 20 But that's kind of like self-soothing the inner child, right?

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 20 With this kind of interest and more esoteric things that I've had like since I met you that time,

Speaker 20 I'd like to think that it's not, I'm not just safe because I tell myself I'm safe, but I'm safe because I believe in something greater. Yes.

Speaker 20 And I'm tapping into it and I'm allowing it to make me feel safe.

Speaker 20 Because

Speaker 20 however good you become psychologically at soothing yourself, you can still feel very alone.

Speaker 20 So feeling like.

Speaker 5 Unless you have a deeper spiritual connection to something.

Speaker 20 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, that's what I meant to say.

Speaker 2 Wow.

Speaker 19 That's fascinating.

Speaker 4 Do you believe that we can

Speaker 19 be in

Speaker 5 beautiful, healthy, loving relationships? And we can manifest everything we have on our vision or action boards if we have yet to heal the wounds of our childhood

Speaker 2 as a neuroscientist? No. Really?

Speaker 21 Wow.

Speaker 5 So if we have these visions and dreams and goals that we want to go after, if we want to have a beautiful relationship, but we are wounded still, the inner child is wounded inside of us as adults, What will happen to us?

Speaker 20 So this is really about inner child and shadow, right? So I think people understand that you've got an inner child that maybe didn't get over things that you experienced in your childhood.

Speaker 20 Shadow is about the parts of yourself that you've rejected because as a young child, you rely on your primary caregivers for survival. Yes.

Speaker 20 And if there is something that they don't love about you, you want to hide that for all the world so that they will still love you and like like not let you die you don't want anyone to know this about you no that's shame

Speaker 20 so you hide it away in childhood and often find yourself in adulthood no longer even aware of what those things are because you've rejected them so deeply wow yeah and but that's driving a lot of your unconscious behavior right so if you put together the inner child and the shadow then what happens is you meet people on the same level of psychological wound as you.

Speaker 2 Oh, man.

Speaker 20 You also leave people

Speaker 20 where if you evolve out of that and they haven't been able to.

Speaker 2 Wow.

Speaker 5 Which I think goes back to one of the things, one of the pieces of content I heard you talk about, which is like the sense of smell connecting to someone's stress levels or anxiety levels.

Speaker 5 Like you'll kind of attract a similar nervous system or I guess a certain similar like, I don't know, stress level.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it's not

Speaker 2 smell.

Speaker 20 It's sensing, sensing, not through smell, the level of the stress hormone. Yeah.
Interesting. But that's short term, right? But the inner chard and shadow stuff is longer term.

Speaker 2 Gosh, that's fascinating. Yeah.

Speaker 5 So you think we attract people based on our psychological wounds?

Speaker 20 100%.

Speaker 2 Wow.

Speaker 5 And as we start to heal and grow, if the other person's not healing and growing, we kind of pull away.

Speaker 2 Wow.

Speaker 18 That's interesting.

Speaker 20 Oh, I can see the cogs moving in the your body.

Speaker 2 Oh, I just think it's fascinating.

Speaker 5 Speaking, I guess, about relationships and men and women,

Speaker 5 with all of your expertise on the brain, is the process of manifesting love and falling in love different from men versus women?

Speaker 20 I think if it's love you're really looking for, then it's not different.

Speaker 16 Not lust.

Speaker 2 Yeah, the issue is to what you're actually looking for.

Speaker 5 So you think men and women manifest love the same way, similar ways?

Speaker 20 Yeah, I think if you know if you want that sense of partnership and friendship and intimacy and

Speaker 20 you want to be loyal and you want it to be for the long term, then it doesn't matter what gender you are.

Speaker 20 But if the the disconnect is often and you know, this is a bit of a stereotype, but usually it's more that men are sorry, that women want a loving, stable relationship and men perhaps, you know, don't want that as well.

Speaker 16 Want sex or whatever you want.

Speaker 19 Yeah.

Speaker 20 Or don't, you know, just don't want it right now. But

Speaker 20 go through periods where that's what they want and go through periods where that's not what they want, which I guess could be true of any gender as well.

Speaker 20 But overall, more likely women will want to like be in a monogamous relationship.

Speaker 5 Why is that based on kind of the brain science?

Speaker 20 So it comes from evolution. So when we lived in the cave, women did need men to protect them from predators and to hunt for food.

Speaker 4 So women...

Speaker 2 Especially if they were pregnant too and they weren't able to go out and hunt or gather or whatever it might be.

Speaker 20 I mean, they generally didn't hunt as much, so they gathered more. But then it's hard to get protein from what you gather rather than what you hunt.
So

Speaker 20 for survival, and, you know, they use the fat and the skins and everything. So it wasn't just food, it was shelter and

Speaker 20 fire and, you know, all of that kind of stuff. So although we don't necessarily need

Speaker 20 a man for those physical things now,

Speaker 20 it's a very strong survival wiring in the brain. And so what we have, you know, in in the cave, we lived nomadically.
So often the men would go and hunt and be away for a very long time.

Speaker 20 Or if they went far enough and they found a cave of the s but of the same tribe, they would just stay there and not go back. Why risk your life to travel back for s you know six weeks? Right.

Speaker 20 But over time,

Speaker 20 a lot of societies in the modern world have asked people to live in unit families. And so we have seen um men's brains be rewired.
Really?

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 20 Quite recently, relatively recently, like maybe in the last 10 years, research has showed that when you become a dad for the first time, oxytocin rewires your brain so that you're more into bonding and less into the testosterone competitive stuff.

Speaker 20 Because if you think about it, lions and tigers, they'll eat their own children.

Speaker 5 You have to tame that in some ways, right? Yeah.

Speaker 4 But how do you tame it?

Speaker 5 but also harness it in other ways.

Speaker 17 You know what I mean?

Speaker 4 It's like the dance of like having drive and testosterone.

Speaker 5 Yeah.

Speaker 4 Like, I never want to lose that drive, right?

Speaker 2 I get this question all the time.

Speaker 12 But I also want to be like a great, loving parent and partner and all these things

Speaker 4 and not let testosterone drive me in doing damaging things.

Speaker 2 Yeah. So, well,

Speaker 20 so from about the age of 35, your testosterone will have started dropping significantly already.

Speaker 2 Not mine.

Speaker 2 That's gone.

Speaker 20 One's testosterone tends to drop on that age.

Speaker 20 So when you do become a dad,

Speaker 5 it drops after you become a dad?

Speaker 20 For the first time.

Speaker 20 Oxytocin goes up, testosterone drops. You become much more about cuddling and bonding and wanting to stay in the home and look after the

Speaker 1 mum and the baby.

Speaker 12 Less about lifting and like hunting, right?

Speaker 4 Yeah.

Speaker 20 Interesting. If you keep lifting, then you would actually keep your testosterone levels higher.
Also, if the baby sleeps in the same room as you, then your testosterone levels drop even more.

Speaker 2 Come on.

Speaker 20 So you might want to move out for three months to a different bedroom.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 5 I've already told her, I'm getting my sleep, you know, the first few months. So your testosterone drops?

Speaker 20 If you sleep in the same room as the baby.

Speaker 2 Why is that?

Speaker 20 Because you're because the oxytocin's becoming like, you know, higher and higher because you've got this cute little warm thing that smells so nice and is so like vulnerable and dependent on you and it's like in the room with you the whole eight hours, you know, just oxytocin boost.

Speaker 20 But are women attracted to men with less testosterone um they are when they're not fertile but they are not when they are at peak fertility

Speaker 20 really so mid-cycle when you're ovulating you're going to want a bad boy and the rest of the time you're going to want a nice man that will stay at home and help you look after the baby so if you're not a bad boy when you're at peak fertility as a woman is that going to hurt the relationship if you don't give women what they want

Speaker 2 hang on say that again

Speaker 4 so if a man is not a bad boy, not a bad boy, when a woman is at peak fertility

Speaker 5 and the man just wants to cuddle and chill and not be driven by testosterone and give the woman that that testosterone feel,

Speaker 5 will that ultimately hurt the relationship long term if the woman doesn't get what she wants sexually?

Speaker 20 I mean, I think if she's chosen him by then. So this is more about when you're like in the choosing phase.

Speaker 20 Once you've settled down with someone, then you have like a logical conversation about are we trying for a baby or not, right?

Speaker 5 Um, but logic and emotion are two different things

Speaker 5 in relationships, you know, you might logically say, Okay, I'm safe, but emotionally you want something else.

Speaker 20 This is a reason that people cheat, right?

Speaker 5 Right, because they're not getting what they want sexually, yeah.

Speaker 5 And so it's like, how do you suppress the thing you want sexually to be like, oh, but he's such a good guy, or he's this.

Speaker 5 And but if he's not giving me what I want, then I'm going to go find it from this other younger testosterone German man, right?

Speaker 20 You're getting really jealous there.

Speaker 12 I'm not getting jealous.

Speaker 20 This fantasy, younger, high testosterone man.

Speaker 17 Well, I'm just thinking, is this what women deal with?

Speaker 4 I know. Is this what women deal with?

Speaker 20 Yeah, to some extent, you know, more consciously or less consciously, depending on the woman.

Speaker 2 Yeah. It's interesting, right?

Speaker 20 So let me kind of explain the physiology behind it from the research that we know the best. Yes.
Which is in prairie voles.

Speaker 20 So there are two types of voles in America.

Speaker 20 Marsh or mountain voles.

Speaker 2 Voles? What's a vole? Vole.

Speaker 20 It's a little rat-like creature.

Speaker 5 Prairie dogs?

Speaker 2 No. Not prairie dogs.
It's a vole. It's more like a mouse or a rat.
Okay, cool.

Speaker 20 Yeah. The ones that live in the marsh or the mountain, they have plenty of food and plenty of shelter.
And they're super promiscuous.

Speaker 20 The ones that moved to the prairie, where there's like scarce food and shelter, they snuggle in and settle down and become monogamous for life.

Speaker 18 The same rat, the same mouse, but just living in different areas.

Speaker 16 Yeah. Come on.

Speaker 16 So wait, you're telling me rats are monogamous?

Speaker 20 These voles.

Speaker 2 These voles are

Speaker 20 the voles in the monogamous.

Speaker 1 If they live in the prairie.

Speaker 20 If they live in the prairie, but not if they live in a mark.

Speaker 2 But if they have a...

Speaker 12 But if they have all the food and abundance, they're just...

Speaker 2 And lots of female voles that they can go and visit. They're just little polyamorous voles.

Speaker 20 Because they know that if

Speaker 20 they get

Speaker 20 one vole pregnant and she's left on her own to look after her young, they're going to survive because they're well sheltered. There's plenty of food for her to nip out and bring it back to the babies.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 20 But in the prairie, if he was promiscuous, then the chances of his offspring dying are quite high because she can't defend the nest herself.

Speaker 20 She can't find enough food for herself and them without help.

Speaker 20 And so let's extrapolate this. How does this help help humans, right?

Speaker 17 Okay.

Speaker 5 Well, which first off, which mice are happier?

Speaker 4 The ones that are more promiscuous or the ones that are coupled?

Speaker 20 I think it depends on the bowl.

Speaker 3 So you think the female mice are happy if they just, you know,

Speaker 5 are pregnant, but then their partner just leaves?

Speaker 2 No.

Speaker 19 They're not happy. No.
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Speaker 12 Okay, so how do we apply this?

Speaker 2 Yeah, no, no, no, no, there is an answer to that. Okay.

Speaker 20 We test it through levels of oxytocin and vasopressin.

Speaker 4 Come on, have we done this?

Speaker 12 Have people done this?

Speaker 1 No way.

Speaker 5 From these mice?

Speaker 2 Yeah. Wow, that's crazy.

Speaker 20 And actually, just to be serious, the research has done more to help with loneliness, grief, and heartbreak. But obviously, it's got implications for dating.
Wow.

Speaker 20 So, because one of the things that we saw with the receptors in the brain is that,

Speaker 2 like,

Speaker 2 if

Speaker 20 I'm in, no, it's got to be the other way around. If you're in love with me, you've got more vasopressin receptors in your nucleus accumbens, which is on the reward circuitry.

Speaker 20 And then every time you see me, you get a reward. And the longer that we've been dating and stay together and become closer, that reward becomes more intense every time you see me.

Speaker 20 However, if we then had a prolonged separation, time can down-regulate the effect of those receptors.

Speaker 20 So obviously there are implications for that in a breakup or grief, right?

Speaker 21 Right.

Speaker 20 But one of the things I think is like so, so important for dating

Speaker 20 is that if

Speaker 20 a woman, if a couple are getting to know each other, and this is all on like heterosexual couples and research,

Speaker 20 then as a woman is sexually interested and liking the guy and enjoying the dating, her oxytocin levels is like slowly slowly starting to go up when they start actually having sex she's going to be releasing higher levels of oxytocin every time she orgasms and that's going to make her bond to the guy much more

Speaker 20 if you have sex on the first date

Speaker 20 the guy's vasopressin levels will plummet straight away and all he'll be interested in is testosterone if you make him wait his vasopressin and oxytocin levels go up and then when you do actually have sex he's already bonded so it's more likely to become part of a loving relationship.

Speaker 4 Wow.

Speaker 5 So if a woman sleeps with a man on the first date or two,

Speaker 5 is a man

Speaker 5 driven to want to bond long-term with that person?

Speaker 2 No.

Speaker 2 Why not?

Speaker 20 Because the vasopressin levels drop as soon as he has sex.

Speaker 19 What does that mean?

Speaker 20 So vasopressin is the one that makes the prairie bowls monogamous. The higher the levels of that, and that the receptors appear in the reward circuitry of your brain.

Speaker 20 And so basically, if you see your partner in distress, it

Speaker 20 affects your brain, those neurons, and you want to comfort her through physical touch.

Speaker 20 So that's oxytocin.

Speaker 20 But

Speaker 20 if you haven't had time for those receptors to appear in the correct place to make you bond, then it's just, it's just, you know, it goes back to lust. So

Speaker 20 what I say about love and relationships is that

Speaker 20 the genetics and the receptors will load the gun

Speaker 20 but sexual activity will pull the trigger

Speaker 5 so based on neuroscience if you sleep with someone quickly

Speaker 5 you're less likely to bond long term together You're more likely to be promiscuous or just not be as interested in that person long term.

Speaker 2 Is that right?

Speaker 2 That's fascinating. No.

Speaker 5 But you hear a lot of people just be like, you know, just sleep with them on the first day. It's fun.

Speaker 7 Just have fun. You know, it's all good.

Speaker 5 But I just feel like you're setting yourself up for

Speaker 19 letdown.

Speaker 20 But if that's what you want, that's fine.

Speaker 12 But I think. Don't expect the guy to keep liking you after that.

Speaker 2 No.

Speaker 20 And don't say it's fine and it's fun if you actually want a long-term relationship and then be disappointed that they didn't want that too.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 5 So the brain chemistry within a man changes after if they have sex earlier with a woman.

Speaker 20 And it changes in a different way if they wait and they actually like

Speaker 20 create a bond and then

Speaker 2 have sex. Yeah.

Speaker 5 What changes within a woman when they have sex with a man?

Speaker 5 Do they become more bonded to the person?

Speaker 20 Yeah, so for the woman, it's not so much to do with whether they are already in love with the person or not.

Speaker 20 If they're having sex and they're releasing oxytocin, because they don't we don't have as much testosterone as you, you've got at least seven to eight times as much testosterone as me.

Speaker 20 And that buffers the effect of oxytocin, whereas I would get the full effect of oxytocin.

Speaker 5 That's fascinating. So a woman, when they have sex with a man, they're bonding quicker.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 5 But when a man has sex with a woman, he's not necessarily bonding right away.

Speaker 19 He has to have more time connecting with her until he bonds.

Speaker 4 Yeah.

Speaker 18 That is interesting.

Speaker 20 And then sex will,

Speaker 20 then the oxytocin isn't as buffered by the testosterone. So when you've got the vasopressin and the oxytocin high,

Speaker 20 then the testosterone has less negating effect on it.

Speaker 18 This is fascinating.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 5 What else about neuroscience and relationships should we address since we're on this topic that you think is really interesting?

Speaker 20 So I think, you know, the whole like visual and smell thing at the start is quite interesting. And then the receptors and hormones to do with bonding and sex is really interesting.

Speaker 20 I would say that because we live so much longer now, you know, we're using these cave analogies, but to be honest, in cave times, you and I would both be dead.

Speaker 2 Die at 30, yeah.

Speaker 20 So relationships potentially have to last for longer. And I think there's two things to say here.

Speaker 20 One is that you can use neuroplasticity to keep growing and changing in a way that keeps a relationship fresh.

Speaker 20 If you are holding on to this fantasy that a relationship has to last forever, even if we're now living till we're 100, right?

Speaker 20 So I think another way to look at it is about being in the present not necessarily putting this intense pressure on yourself your partner and the relationship that it has to last forever yeah um

Speaker 20 understanding that

Speaker 20 even if a relationship breaks down and that's obviously difficult to handle at the time that there are potential possibilities for something that's more right for you at a different age than maybe a choice you made in your twenties.

Speaker 20 So,

Speaker 20 you know, nothing, you don't have to be a neuroscientist to say those two things. It's kind of like just using your brain to understand that there's a certain amount of time, there are,

Speaker 20 you know, benefits to being in long-lasting relationships, but there are possible alternatives as well.

Speaker 19 Yeah, that's interesting.

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Speaker 8 How does somebody believe something is possible when they haven't created it for themselves?

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Speaker 8 And then you will do actions that will be closer to that vibration and they will reinforce each other.

Speaker 8 So what I do literally every day is I just ask myself, what is the highest vibration I need to get to? I see the delta of where I'm at now and where I need to get to.

Speaker 8 And I just keep hitting that point over and over and over again, incessantly until all of me complies with it. And it happens every time.

Speaker 8 How do you hit that point when you're feeling depressed or depleted or down? That brings me to the second thing.

Speaker 8 Every single week, I try to find people who have already achieved what I'm trying to achieve and spend time with them, add value to them and serve them.

Speaker 8 Because Kabbalah explains there's a universal law. If you add value to someone or serve them in a way that makes their life better, you draw from them their positive qualities, traits, and vibration.

Speaker 8 So if there's something that I I want from Lewis, meaning what do I want? All I want from you is the consciousness you've already created. I want the vibration you've already achieved in your life.

Speaker 8 I want your wisdom because wisdom and consciousness is the one thing I can take from you that doesn't take away from you, but adds to you. It doesn't ask of me.
It adds to me. It does.

Speaker 8 Because if I become one more person that learns from you, the universe then replenishes you with even more wisdom and energy.

Speaker 8 So as you grow your audience, your wisdom increases because your audience craves more through you. And so the creator bestows upon you much more wisdom and energy.

Speaker 8 And that's the value of growing your audience. And I'll tell people on social media, people are growing their audience because they think, well, that's how I monetize or that's how I become famous.

Speaker 8 And the ego gets in. The only intention you should have for growing your audience is you now have all these mini vessels which are craving your wisdom.

Speaker 8 So what happens is it forces the creator to give you more wisdom and you become a greater channel. And that should be our intention for growing growing our audience.

Speaker 8 Yeah, how do I serve my community in a deeper way? Correct. It's all about service.
It's all about the customer, all about service. And when you have that mindset, everything opens up and grows.

Speaker 8 Yeah, of course.

Speaker 8 What has been the thing that has blocked you in the last year the most?

Speaker 8 This is something you've been practicing for 20 plus years, 25 years roughly, these

Speaker 8 spiritual laws. But what's the thing that's still hard for you to break through or sometimes you forget, and you have to be reminded with a painful lesson?

Speaker 8 That's a great question.

Speaker 8 One of the things I've learned is it doesn't matter how long you've been spiritual or you've been working on something or what your past experience has been.

Speaker 8 Every test you go through is sent to you by the universe that is exactly on your level, the challenge. Your opponent is exactly equal to where you're at in order to get you to your next level.

Speaker 8 And the only reason the next level isn't comfortable is because

Speaker 8 it's not your current level. It's a level that you're not familiar with.
So of course you don't see it. Of course it's illogical.
Of course it's dark.

Speaker 8 And so what I realized in this year, this has been probably one of my most transformational years,

Speaker 8 is that

Speaker 8 I am

Speaker 8 such a perfectionist.

Speaker 8 Sure, maybe you could really. You look perfect, man.
You got perfect hair. You got perfect outfit.

Speaker 12 Everything's like, put together, man. You look good.

Speaker 8 Thank you. I am such a perfectionist that everything I do, I've always felt has to be the best.

Speaker 8 And this was the year I realized that part of why I'm trying to always be the best is

Speaker 8 I don't want to let other people down. I have to kind of give off this persona because I'm representing spirituality and I don't want to make spirituality look bad.

Speaker 8 So I have to have everything put together.

Speaker 8 Plus, you've got a big business. You want to make sure your employees, your team, your investors, whatever it might be, customers feel like you're credible as well.
Correct. Correct.

Speaker 8 You're some sloppy human being walking around. Correct.
I can't be sloppy externally or internally. But what I realized was that

Speaker 8 what that was causing was a lot of guilt and shame every time I fell short of the mark I needed to be at or the expectations I put on myself.

Speaker 8 And then what was happening was the guilt and the shame was creating much more negativity than all the things I was trying to perfect.

Speaker 8 So guilt and shame lowers your vibration more than any other mistake you make.

Speaker 8 People make mistakes like, I don't know, let's say you're in a relationship and you say something to your spouse or to your girlfriend or boyfriend that hurts them or upsets them and you feel bad about it.

Speaker 8 That was one moment in time where you created a little negative energy. But the guilt and shame that we carry after making a mistake is

Speaker 8 a million times the negative energy because it's constant. Every second you hold on to guilt and shame is another moment you're injecting negative energy.
So the test isn't the mistake you make.

Speaker 8 It's the guilt and shame you have afterwards. So how do you remedy that? And this was my biggest lesson.

Speaker 8 It was taking the pressure off of myself of trying to appear as someone that's perfect and spiritual and allowing myself just to be myself everywhere I went.

Speaker 8 And I can't tell you, you know, how freeing that was, but at the same time, it created so much instability in other people because everyone's like, wait a minute, this was the David we knew.

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Speaker 8 There are people whose approval I want it so badly. And I would,

Speaker 8 I know, I mean, look,

Speaker 8 I connected with your energy and I feel like we share so many similar qualities. I know exactly what somebody needs to hear to feel comfortable.
Sure. I know

Speaker 8 what buttons to stay away from. I know how to talk to them in a way that can just make them feel really good and comfortable.

Speaker 8 And I learned that many times I'm killing myself or sacrificing myself or I'm being inauthentic to just make them feel comfortable.

Speaker 8 So now I'm just learning to be me and still be a giver, but to be in the way that maybe makes them uncomfortable in the moment. But I'm being true to myself.

Speaker 8 And these examples have been happening more and more. It happens with my parents, happens with my friends, it happens with business partners and colleagues.

Speaker 8 I'm just learning to just show up as me versus who I think they want me to be. It's beautiful.
What do you think people are getting wrong about manifestation today?

Speaker 8 What are people getting wrong about manifestation today?

Speaker 8 I think there's a prevailing belief system

Speaker 8 that we need to suffer to be successful. And that's incorrect.
I think there's so much grind culture that's being thrown out there.

Speaker 8 And by the way, you do have to work hard and you do have to work consistently. But 99% of it is your belief system about what it takes to manifest.

Speaker 8 If you believe you must suffer to be successful, then that is the destiny you are creating. You will be successful, but you will only do it after you suffer.

Speaker 8 Elon Musk has the same hours in the day as we do. He thinks it's easy to colonize Mars.

Speaker 8 He thinks it's as easy to colonize Mars as we we do, you know, maybe preparing a cup of coffee. Sure.

Speaker 8 Because he thinks it's easy to colonize Mars.

Speaker 8 That consciousness creates a vessel that draws in the right engineers, that draws in the right ideas, that draws in the right lawmakers to change the laws to satisfy him.

Speaker 8 Of course, there are challenges, but he's loving even the challenges to an extent where it all seems easy.

Speaker 8 If I think something is hard or impossible, then I literally call in the entire universe to create a movie for me that makes it hard and impossible.

Speaker 8 There are people who, every relationship they're in is a drama. It's difficult.
It's hard. Every city I go to, I ask them, is dating hard in this city? They all say yes.

Speaker 8 They say, I say, which city is the hardest? They say, oh my God, I'm in New York. It's so hard to date here.
I'm sure it's easier in Los Angeles.

Speaker 8 People in Los Angeles say it's impossible to date here. I'm sure it's easier in New York.
Everyone always says it's harder wherever they're at. Why is that?

Speaker 8 Because Because they haven't been successful yet in their own city. They haven't been successful in their own city.
And

Speaker 8 if I say it's hard to date, then

Speaker 8 I don't have, it doesn't reflect poorly upon me the fact that I'm single.

Speaker 8 So I will tell everybody this narrative it's hard to date so that they don't judge me. And I don't judge myself that I can't find a man or a woman.
It's not me. It's everyone else.
It's everyone else.

Speaker 8 It's the city. It's the energy here.
It's the, you know, everyone in LA is so superficial.

Speaker 8 But the truth is, even if everyone in LA was superficial, if you're, if you earned your soulmate, that one person would appear right at your door.

Speaker 8 Think about it. There are serial killers in prison who aren't married.
Crazy. They found their soulmate.

Speaker 8 If someone in a maximum security prison who has a reputation of a serial killer can find their soulmate, I'm sure you can too in Los Angeles.

Speaker 8 Yeah, with millions of men or women here. Exactly.
It's funny. You just got to know where to go.
You just got to try new things and you got to change. You got to transform on the inside out.

Speaker 8 Exactly what you just said. When your consciousness and belief systems and energy is in the right place, then you will be guided.
Your legs will start moving in the right direction. Your

Speaker 8 profile on a dating app algorithmically will change. People will feel your energy.
People will find your profile at the right time and feel called to match with you.

Speaker 8 All of that comes from your vibration. I talk about products on a shelf, right? So

Speaker 8 one of the things that we talk about in our company is that the energy of the founders, so Mary Ruth and I, our consciousness, down to the executives, down to the directors, to the managers, and to the associates, all of us, our energy needs to be of such a high vibration, of an unlimited mindset, in order for energy to flow from the creator through us to the product.

Speaker 8 And then people feel that product on the shelf and they don't know why they like it. They just say it's good branding, right? But they feel something in the bottle.

Speaker 8 And then that's what they should feel when they consume it, when they take it. And then the energy shifts.
And here's the thing.

Speaker 8 In your company, if you have one person who's toxic or you have one person who has a limited mindset, they are clogging the pipes of energy flowing down to the product level.

Speaker 8 So one of the things that I do, I have very little business experience, but from the spiritual side, I'm always checking in with the employees. Where's their mindset at?

Speaker 8 I once went to my head of sales and I said, hey, in my walk this morning, so every morning I walk and I talk out loud to the universe in the form of prayer.

Speaker 8 Prayer is just a technology to expand your vessel. People think prayer is something you do to bribe God to make you more comfortable, but there's no bribing God.
God is a perfect force.

Speaker 8 Prayer is a technology to transform our vessel. to increase the frequency, to allow more energy in.
So every morning I'll talk out loud to the universe.

Speaker 8 And what's the best way to pray for miracles or abundance in our life? Any way that makes you comfortable. The way I do it is I walk and I talk out loud in the morning before everyone's awake.

Speaker 8 Some people like to be still. Some people like to do it in their head.
I like to talk out loud. Something very powerful about it.

Speaker 8 In the first five minutes of prayer, all these negative forces will attack you to try to distract you not to do it. And you'll think it's not working.

Speaker 8 You'll want to get to your phone and you'll want to quit. I always say you got to go past the first five minutes and then you break through kind of a miracle zone.

Speaker 8 And then when you talk out loud to the universe, your words become a vessel for energy to come in. And so ideas, my best ideas, best product ideas have come on these walks.

Speaker 8 And I will talk out loud and these ideas will come. And I had an idea and a vision for a

Speaker 8 revenue number for my head of sales. I went to him.
This guy's got 40 years experience. I said, hey, I think we can get whatever it was, 100 products into Whole Foods.

Speaker 8 This is right when we first got into Whole Foods. 100 SKUs, 100 SKUs.
Holy cow. How many do you have? We had 100.
Oh, wow. I said, I think we can get all 100.

Speaker 8 Today we have about 300, but I said we can get all 100 into Whole Foods. And he looked at me and he started laughing.
He's like, you know, 40 years experience.

Speaker 8 I said, we need to aim for two this year to get into Whole Foods. And that's how it works.
And we can get to four next year, whatever. And I said, that's a limiting belief, though.

Speaker 8 Based on statistics and history, which is what most people use to form their belief systems. Most people aren't going to Mars also based on history.
Exactly.

Speaker 8 The people who are changing this world are people who are not looking at history as a way to forge their belief systems. They're looking at something bigger, more divine, which is endless.

Speaker 8 And they're drawing these belief systems from a higher place. So I said, look, you have the experience.
I don't. But as a founder,

Speaker 8 in the last eight years, we've been doing this together. As a founder, I do get ideas.
And thankfully, we do control this company. So I want you to really be open to this idea.

Speaker 8 And we had this back and forth. I said, no, it's impossible.
I said to him, I said, listen, I want you just to be open to it. And he's like, okay, we'll be open to it.

Speaker 8 Something happened on a call at Hofus and they said like one of their brands wasn't doing well. Manufacturing started to like malfunction, and like a whole shelf became open.

Speaker 8 Lo and behold, that year, I think we got 75 products. Wow.
Never happened before in the history of Whole Foods. We shot up to be like one of their number one brands.

Speaker 8 And I think today we're at almost like 120 or 130, like somewhere up there. And this all happened in one year.

Speaker 8 And every year I go back to the team and I say, guys, and this happens at every department. Remember what we thought could happen.
Remember what we saw visually.

Speaker 8 And if we saw it and we feel it, it means it exists. And we have to be open to it.
At the very minimum, I need you to be open to it.

Speaker 8 Yeah, I love the question I like when I present this to someone is, in a world of possibilities, if this was possible, what would need to happen? Beautiful.

Speaker 8 In a world of possibilities, if it was possible for us to get 100 SKUs in Whole Foods, what would need to happen? You just opened up their mind to bypass their old limited belief systems.

Speaker 8 That's a great way of framing it. Yeah, yeah.
I love that. I love that.
Wow. So you got 75 SKUs in in one year.
Yeah. When you had like a couple before then or something, right? Yep.
Yep.

Speaker 8 And you also said that something you said earlier, you said you were made a million dollars at 15. Is that right? Yeah.
But then you were kind of broke for 15 years.

Speaker 8 So I made all this money in the stock market early on because I was just, I had a lot of desire, a lot of energy. I just didn't know where to put it.

Speaker 8 And so I started to trade and it started to do really well. But that's when my life started to get out of control as a teenager.
And I became a gambler. I started to really.
Oh, yeah.

Speaker 8 I started playing poker poker eight hours a day. Oh man, I did that back in 10 years too.
College, just like poker until 4 a.m.

Speaker 3 Till 4 a.m.

Speaker 8 Sometimes I'd go in, I'd go into a casino on like a Sunday and come out on a Tuesday. Oh man.
You wouldn't even see daylight.

Speaker 8 I was like playing like $15 hands with my college buddies, not casino life, but yeah. But I mean, it's never enough.
So casino life was the next thing.

Speaker 8 And so I was doing that and I realized, why am I like, I just kept feeling more and more drink, right? You got the highs and then you feel low.

Speaker 8 And once I started to learn Kabbalah, I started to realize that the highs and the lows were, I was drawing energy, but I didn't create the vessel to hold this energy.

Speaker 8 Gambling, drugs, alcohol, sex, all of these things draw energy. You're drawing God.
You're drawing the universal force of creation.

Speaker 8 The reason why it ends up causing chaos is there's no vessel to hold this energy. So you short circuit.
And what does a short circuit look like? There's a flash of light and then there's darkness.

Speaker 8 But the flash is very bright. That flash is very addictive.
So most people, they draw energy, but there's no vessel to hold it, which we can explain what that means to create a vessel.

Speaker 8 There's no vessel to hold it. They feel this flash and then there's darkness.
There's emptiness. There's addiction.

Speaker 8 Because they may not know. spiritual laws, they'll go right back to more flashes to feed the addiction.
So it sounds like there's

Speaker 8 almost a three-step process is what I'm seeing. Number one, learn to draw the energy you want to you.
Number two, create the vessel within you so that you can hold it.

Speaker 8 And I'm assuming number three is where to bring that energy, how to be of service with that energy, and then just continue to draw.

Speaker 8 have a container big enough to hold it and then pour it out into others. Is that a...

Speaker 8 That's a beautiful way of putting it. So how would we first draw energy to us of the things we want to manifest more? The way we draw energy to us is first

Speaker 8 to be clear about your belief system of what you deserve to receive and what you're meant to receive. How do you get clear on what you deserve and are meant to receive? Whatever your desires are,

Speaker 8 It means you are meant to receive them at some point. Don't question that.

Speaker 8 So if you actually have to write down all your desires these desires the creator gave you these desires so you go out and manifest them so what's the difference between a desire and a temptation because you can be like ah what are

Speaker 8 i'm just like crazy crazy drugs and i don't know just like stuff that's not a spiritual energy but i what if it's the desire i feel like it's a desire i'm supposed to go drink all night and gamble all night and just whatever correct so this is what i tell people i say all of these things that are given to us drinking gambling drugs, sex, these are all, for example,

Speaker 8 let's say if you go to Costco, Costco has samples, and you eat a sample, and you like the sample, but if you like the sample, you need to go buy the full product.

Speaker 8 Nobody goes to Costco all day long and they just eat samples. You don't just sit by the sample station all day long to fill your belly.
with the samples that they give you.

Speaker 8 Well, if you're poor, you don't know what our drugs are.

Speaker 8 There are people who will just eat samples all day long.

Speaker 8 So when a person does a drug, what do they feel like? They feel like, God, feel this euphoria.

Speaker 8 This is a sample

Speaker 8 to eventually inspire you to buy the full product. The full product is to realize you can feel that if you unlock the power of your soul.
Without the drug. Without the drug.

Speaker 8 Most people think the drug is the power to unlock more. And so they need to keep

Speaker 8 doing the plant medicine or the drugs that create the awakening, the awareness to then feel, heal, see, do things differently, as opposed to creating from within, right?

Speaker 8 Because no one's told them that they have the power inside of them that is nuclear. You have this power inside of you that is millions of times greater than any drug you're taking.

Speaker 8 But we've been told that we need to keep taking the drug to feel that way. But anyone that I've talked to who's done the plan medicines, they're like, no, nothing is greater than this.

Speaker 8 This unlocks more than anything I could ever do on my own. And it's true.
It has unlocked more than they've ever experienced. So I don't ever tell people, don't do this plant, don't do this drug.

Speaker 8 When people tell me, I love sex, I'm having sex with everybody. Is there a problem with that? I said, that's fine.
You can have sex with everybody you want. You can have all the drugs you want.

Speaker 8 I have, but I do want you to know that you have something greater inside of you that will give you even more pleasure and more euphoria. If you're open to it, we can talk.

Speaker 8 And also, if you're doing the drugs or the alcohol or the sex or the addiction things that create this energy feeling, what does that do to your vessel? See, that's the thing.

Speaker 8 You actually begin to shrink the vessel. How do we know? Because every time you take the drug, it's never as potent the next time.
You need more. You need more frequently.
You need it more frequently.

Speaker 8 So you actually begin to shrink your capacity until you experience death.

Speaker 8 And then there's some kind of death or painful scenario that breaks your vessel open again. And then you start that process over.

Speaker 8 The only way to really expand your vessel spiritually

Speaker 8 is a concept, there's a spiritual law that is certainty beyond logic.

Speaker 8 You have to be put in a dark situation, a difficult situation, where you do not see any logical way of getting out of it, and then choose to have certainty that you can,

Speaker 8 even if you have to fake that certainty. But you have certainty beyond your logical mind.
This breaks open the vessel and allows the next level of your soul to come in to hold this energy.

Speaker 14 Yeah.

Speaker 8 And what you said about, you've said this about certainty. Certainty is the way to guarantee a positive outcome.

Speaker 8 As long as you have complete certainty beyond logic that everything is good and will be good, you are guaranteed to have the outcome be good. Absolutely.

Speaker 1 What is the

Speaker 16 number one thought and number one emotion that blocks us from the ability to manifest greater?

Speaker 2 Fear.

Speaker 5 What type of fear?

Speaker 22 Well, it's insecurity, it's shame,

Speaker 22 and

Speaker 22 this results in you limiting your beliefs.

Speaker 22 And so in some ways, what we're talking about here, actually,

Speaker 22 is a decision between fear and love.

Speaker 2 Right?

Speaker 22 And when you're fearful, this stimulates your sympathetic nervous system with all the negative aspects of it.

Speaker 22 When you love, you're open, you're generous, you're thoughtful, you're kind because you've engaged the parasympathetic nervous system. And you have a choice.

Speaker 22 This is like if you look at Stoic philosophers like somebody like Epictetus, who was a slave. He says, I cannot control my external environment.

Speaker 22 What I can control is how I react to my environment, right?

Speaker 22 So you meet people, I'm sure, who say, my life's miserable, my life's horrible. While you're meet other people who go, well, it's tough right now, but I'm optimistic it's going to get better.

Speaker 22 Or I know if I do this, it's going to get better. These are completely oppositional attitudes that have a profound, profound effect, depending on what you're believing in.

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 5 But how does someone shift their attitude into positive when they're in a suffering state and they feel like they're a victim to so many different things happening to them?

Speaker 4 Sure.

Speaker 2 Well,

Speaker 22 I can't sit here and say, you do this and your life's going to be perfect. There's some situations either because of,

Speaker 22 as an example, structural racism that's built into the system

Speaker 22 or chronic poverty because

Speaker 22 throughout the world and even in America the ability to overcome poverty

Speaker 22 for most it's highly unlikely that's going to happen.

Speaker 22 So yes you do have power but it's not necessarily I'm going to change it and everything's going to be perfect for me. And I'm sure things are not perfect for you, right?

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 22 And no matter how much you try or want, well, externally, things may look fantastic.

Speaker 22 It's not perfect. And it's not the way you necessarily want.
And I have to say the same thing.

Speaker 2 But there are people who, yeah,

Speaker 22 no matter how hard they're going to work, it's going to be very challenging. That being said, what we do know is there's certain practices and rules.

Speaker 22 And if you are going to get out of something, or if you are going to change things, then the best way to do that, which has the highest likelihood of success, is to go through some of the things that we're talking about here.

Speaker 22 And one of those is that, as an example, there is a tendency for

Speaker 22 us to want to achieve, right? And if you're an athlete, you have a goal you set there.

Speaker 2 Well,

Speaker 2 goals

Speaker 22 are fine,

Speaker 22 but if

Speaker 2 you

Speaker 22 focus only on the goal and have no concern about any of the other things that are going on, the process,

Speaker 22 then you reach the goal and there's nothing there.

Speaker 22 Yet what we do know, the greatest cause of suffering is what? It's attachment and craving.

Speaker 5 Desires.

Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 22 And the thing is, when that is your absolute focus, and we can't all get these things, you're going to be highly disappointed, and you've ignored ignored all the people in your life as you focus solely on that.

Speaker 22 And

Speaker 22 unfortunately, many people learn that lesson far along after they've destroyed their families, they've been through multiple marriages, their kids don't like them, right?

Speaker 5 Because they've been chasing a result or a goal or a dream by neglecting everything else.

Speaker 22 Yeah, because again,

Speaker 22 as I was saying, even about myself, I thought, well, if I just do this, you know, my shame and insecurity will go away.

Speaker 22 I'll be loved by everybody and my life will be perfect. Yet at every one of those peaks, all I had was disappointment.

Speaker 22 And while everyone told me life was great, I did not feel that inside because I had not understood that I was the only one who had the key to the self-created prison.

Speaker 22 And until you realize that, you're on a very difficult path.

Speaker 14 So if we're coming from a place of insecurity, fear, or lack, and we're saying, you know what, I want to manifest. I want to create more for myself.

Speaker 16 I want to have more money.

Speaker 14 I want to have more opportunities, accomplishments, success.

Speaker 5 And that's what I want.

Speaker 14 I desire these things. And I start to apply some of the practices of manifesting and creating more abundance in my life.

Speaker 5 But if I create those external results and I haven't shifted the insecurities or the shame, what happens next?

Speaker 22 Well, you end up the way I did, which is you have everything and you're incredibly unhappy. Yeah.

Speaker 14 So you can still manifest and attract what you want and create what you want and accomplish goals, but it's not going to make you feel different about yourself.

Speaker 3 It might actually make you feel worse.

Speaker 22 Exactly.

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