Why Anger is Destroying Your Life (and How to Overcome It) | Jesse Lee Peterson DSH #1336

You gotta forgive her because if not, you're gonna end up marrying a woman just like your mother because you won't be able to get away from it.

You're attracted to what you hate.

And this woman got to deceive you, pretending like she's differently your mother.

But as soon as you marry her, all hell is going to break loose.

And you're going to end up like your father, and she's going to screw your kids too.

All right, guys, Jesse Lee Pearson here.

We are in LA for Black History Month.

How's it going, man?

Nice.

Thanks for having me on.

Absolutely.

I appreciate it.

Yeah, fold up in the G-Wagon, my man.

You that?

Yeah.

Don't sell any.

Killing it.

I love it, man.

What's the deal with you?

I know you've been making your rounds.

Busy.

You know, busy.

What do you say about my shirt?

What does it say?

When she's crying, she's lying.

So explain that.

Is that true?

When she's crying, she's lying.

Yeah.

How would it be true?

You ever noticed that whenever women are crying, they're lying?

They're like, oh, my husband beat me.

He abused me, right?

And they start crying.

Yeah.

And as soon as they start crying, we people feel sorry for them, the courts, and they give them what they want.

But they're lying.

They don't really feel what they're saying.

They're using tears to control you.

Wow.

And when they want to take the man's children away from him, they cry.

You make up lies and then they cry.

and the courts fall apart.

And then when they want you to feel sorry for them, they cry.

So when they're crying, they're lying.

Yeah.

They never tell you, oh, my husband beat me because I'm a bitch.

Oh, I couldn't, he couldn't deal with me.

They never tell you that part.

Yeah.

And so people fall up for tears, and the tears are not real.

What never are the tears real?

Well, every woman on earth.

So when they're crying, they're lying.

Oh, what did you figure out?

Oh, how I would have since you were there.

The first time I got it, I had no idea the women, they were going to get mad.

I just,

when I walked in, I had this shirt on.

Conservative women were like, what the?

That's racist.

That's

something stupid.

But I'm like, just a t-shirt.

Why are you reacting to it?

Right.

But did you know that when they were crying, they're lying?

Now I know.

But you didn't know before?

No.

Did you believe them?

When they cry that

they're not lying?

Sometimes I'm not going to lie.

Really?

Why?

Because they occur on your emotional argo.

That's why you have to overcome emotions.

Yeah.

It's abnormal for human beings to be emotional.

Yeah, that's interesting advice.

So when your wife is crying, I know she's lying.

So I didn't live, sit in the corner and cry.

So, what about when a guy's crying?

He's lying.

You think a guy?

Well, because a guy that cries, cries,

by the way, I'm not married, but but a guy that cry he has his mama's spirit so he's acting like a woman any man that cries and any man that get angry become emotional he's only doing it because he has his mother's identity it's abnormal for men to get angry it's abnormal for men to cry it's a mama's boy when they're crying way back Real people don't cry.

Interesting.

You're not amazing.

That's what you're saying.

I grew up in a single-parent household.

And you cry.

No.

Oh, good.

I used to.

We shot.

I saw.

What means you did over there?

Well, I was, my dad left the house, so I just had to take this position.

I had to be the man of the house, so I had to be tough.

Oh.

Yeah, so I broke my career.

Nice.

Yeah, real men don't cry.

There's moments.

If they cry, they'll beat her.

There's moments, right, though?

No.

I mean, let's say that your father or your mother died, it's part of right, right?

And maybe you're at the funeral, all you hear about it, you shed a cheer, but you we said the cheer and you let it pass, right?

Don't get all into it, don't want other to catch you on the show,

babe.

Don't fall off all that, yeah.

That that's that's uh bam.

Do you hold your emotions back?

I have not let me do though.

I have, I mean, have those naturally where I laugh at things, I uh, but I never

cry or I break up with my woman or something.

I'm like, okay, bye.

I don't think around, oh my God, I want to buy.

I used to when I was a bear,

but I'm not into all that.

We have to overcome that.

It's a lot of time, too.

It's a waste of time.

And it's

evil.

It's not good.

And it is not a sign of love at all.

Right.

None of them.

I see a lot of men with uncontrolled emotions like anger,

especially on basketball courts.

Oh, my God.

Oh, you're still trying to fight every time I play.

That's why I tell guys in order to overcome that you have to overcome the spirit of your mother and the way that you overcome the spirit of your mother you have to see for yourself that you're angry at her anger is hatred right and and anger separate you from your true self and so uh the mothers because the women are evil They turn the children against the father.

They're jealous of the father and the children.

So they always turn the children away by playing victim

but the moment they turn them away from their father the kids become just like the mother they become angry they identify with the mother they turn against all fathers

but the way to overcome that is you gotta admit you're angry and go and apologize to her for hating her for what she done to you right and don't ask for forgiveness but you just say you know what mother I resented you.

You turned me against my father.

You opposed your will on me or you babied me or whatever.

I realize now you couldn't help yourself.

I'm sorry before rejecting you.

And God will forgive you, and he'll take the spirit of the mother away from you, which isn't evil.

And he will give me your father's spirit.

Wow.

Is this what happened to you?

Yes.

For what age reason?

Every human being on earth, that's their problem.

They got to

overcome their mothers and return to their father.

If they don't, they're going to always feel that something is missing.

They're going to feel emptiness inside.

And no no person, place, or thing can fulfill that emptiness.

There's only when you drop the anger by forgiving your mother and forgiving your father too for not protecting you from the mother, he can help it.

Because every man hates their mothers, they end up marrying the woman that just liked the mama by their attracted to you.

Yeah, you're attracted to what you hate.

And the cycle repeats itself.

The guy becoming the baby again, the boy.

and the wife becoming the mother and the mother swoop up the kids.

But if the father were to overcome it and then get married, they will protect their children from the mother and they show love and the kids wouldn't have to go through the same thing.

What a mess, huh?

Yeah, that's how big.

Isn't that like amazing?

Well, you figure it out at least.

You could tell your son about it.

You said women are evil.

Yes.

All women are just certain types.

Every woman on earth.

It doesn't matter how, what color, how much money you have, or how rich or poor or well.

And every woman is evil.

Their nature is evil.

It's not them, but their nature is evil.

Your mama's nature is evil, your mama's mama, your sister, your cousin, your friend, female friends, and their nature is evil.

It's not them per se, but that spirit of evil comes the hell come through the woman.

And the reason for that is because of what happened

with Adam and Eve.

You're in this story?

I know about it, yeah.

You know about it.

So

should I tell you?

I'll summarize this.

Some people watching winner.

Oh, okay.

So what happened was God created Adam, and they were just the father and the son.

And the father and son were one.

They were closed, they loved one another.

They communicated without words.

And then one day, God said, you know, I'm tired of creating human beings with my hand, you know, my hands, right?

And plus, when you create human beings,

by creating a human being with his hands, human beings were forced to love him they had no other choice so he said what i'm gonna do is i'm gonna create a woman and through that woman i'm gonna create human beings right and then that way the the uh the human beings to have a choice if they love me or not because forced love is not love anytime someone's trying to make you look at the blacks they're trying to make the white people love them And the blacks don't love them.

The whites don't love them because they hate the black whites, right?

But if you leave it alone, it will come together naturally.

But batch of the third.

And so he created E.

And in the beginning, Eve loved Adam, who loved his father, and they were perfect peace.

And so one day,

Eve was at the market, and you're Chinese.

Yeah.

And I'll use Chinese.

And she was buying Chinese food.

Yeah.

You know,

rice.

noodles

and all that, right?

And while at the market, she saw Satan there.

And Satan was like, Hey, you still married to that man?

Yeah, I love my husband.

You can be your own woman.

The serpent there tried to deceive the woman because it didn't work with the man.

So he went to the woman and he said, You could be your own woman.

Don't be like Adam.

She's like, No, no.

I love my husband.

I obey my husband.

I love him.

I'm one with my husband.

who is one with his father.

So he's like, okay.

And then she went to the market again.

This time she wanted soul food.

So she bought sweet potatoes to make sweet potato pies, collard green, cornbread, and ham hops.

And she saw Satan again at the store, right?

And say that, are you still with that man?

He's like, yeah.

He was like, Eve, you could be your old woman.

You could be independent.

You could take your bra off.

You could be like a man.

And then he was like, look at Adam.

Adam is not his old man.

He listened to his father.

In that moment, Eve believed him, and in that very moment, she lost connection with her husband, who had connected with his father.

And God became, I mean, Satan became the woman, God.

And then, at some point, one story short, because beforehand, men did not listen to women because they knew that every time they mentioned to the woman, they're going to suffer.

Right.

So, Adam did not listen to his wife.

And so, at some point,

Adam, after she became the daughter of evil, Satan, she convinced Adam to not listen to his father.

Be your own man, do your own thing.

And Adam believed the woman.

And in that very moment, the woman became the man's God.

And so that's why

today

women, men are subject to women.

They're afraid of women.

Yeah.

Because they're afraid of

that spirit in women.

And the woman is to man guy.

And so, I mean,

the woman is to man God as Satan.

It's the woman, God.

So evil coming to the woman.

That's why we must be born again.

We must return to the Father so we can bring back the order of God in Christ, Christ in man, man over woman, and woman over children.

Nothing else is going to work with that.

Damn it.

Isn't that an amazing story?

The what story?

Amazing.

Oh, amazing, yeah.

What do you think about that?

That's interesting.

My dad has a similar view for sure.

Does it make sense to you or no?

yeah i'm not christian but makes sense you don't have to be a christian the christians don't even understand it

damn that's nuts yeah you don't believe women should vote

look how messed up things have become as a result of women voting we now pay for daycare centers we now pray for them to take all work to have a baby And then we now pay for them.

They're like, oh, I want my husband to be home too.

While I'm having a baby, it's not fair, right?

Now the men get paid to be all board.

And then after the woman

had the baby, she wanted to pay for insurance by the baby.

We would now vote in things that men would never vote in in a real right.

It's because there are more women than men voters.

So the country has screwed up as a result of women voting.

In the good old days, and

when men were men, boys or boys,

you can only vote if you own land.

If you didn't own the land, you could vote, father.

And so when I become president, I'm going back to that.

Because the reason for that, because people who own land will vote for logical things.

But if you don't own any land, you're suffraged.

So you want all this stuff and the landowners that have to pay all the tax, whether they have

their property

notes.

rent goes up and blah, blah, blah.

And the cost of their home goes up.

Well, now you're you're taking care of these people who don't own property.

Right.

You said you're going to run for president?

After the great white hook is done?

Yeah.

Nope, man.

But I would like to see that room change and put it back to only if you own property can you vote.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You were pretty outspoken this past election, right?

Oh, he.

That's how you supported Trump.

The great white hole.

He is making America white again.

Yeah, it's got a lot of white people around it.

Amazing now.

Yeah.

How do you you feel about that?

Amazing.

What do you say about Tinth?

As a matter of fact, we

and I'm telling you too, but I know it's not funny, but it's the truth.

We celebrate White History Month.

July is White History a lot.

You know about that?

No.

You guys know about that?

Never heard.

This is our, I believe, about eight years celebrating July White History Month.

I started it seven years ago.

And the reason I started White History in July, number one, is that July just feels white.

Am I right?

Yeah, July 4th.

July 4th, vacation time, summertime,

relaxing time right there.

But I started White History Month because These people tried to destroy everything that's white, statues and monuments and everything that's white.

And they have created a false

history about America.

And so I want to encourage people to remember history, true history, so generations to come will appreciate America and not destroy it.

So that's why we started White History Month.

Well, we got Black History Month, so might as well throw in white and Asian.

They have everything but White History Month.

Oh, well.

They celebrate White History Month.

I mean, not white.

Black History Month, Gay Month, Woman Month,

Mexican Month,

Filipino Month, Indian Month.

Months I've never heard of, right?

Everything about White History Month.

And I'm like, why not White History Month?

It was white people who founded this country.

and created with the help of God.

They created the greatest country in the whole wide world.

Everybody and their mama want to come here and they come and they want to change it.

That doesn't make sense there.

What do you think about that?

That's interesting, man.

You like white people, huh?

I love,

I love white people.

I love the

and I love the blacks.

I love all people, but yes, I love white people.

You love white people?

Huh?

Yeah.

You love white people?

I like white people.

You hear?

What?

Well, he's a

I'm half white, so.

Oh, good.

You love your own people.

Yeah.

Nice.

I like all people, though.

Oh, you do?

Yeah.

You love the bats?

Yeah, I got black friends.

You do?

Yeah.

I shouldn't even say this.

I got a fiancé now, but yeah, I've slept through the black troll.

Oh, God.

College, yeah.

Oh, Lord.

Yeah, yeah.

I did.

When he goes flat, you can't go back, though.

I didn't like it.

Up to you.

I rest my case.

Are you able to be honored with the blacks as to what's wrong with them?

To a certain degree.

And why not all the way?

Because some of them get you mad and they want to get violent.

Yeah.

So I won't.

I won't cross certain minds.

I won't say that N-word.

You won't?

No.

Will you?

Will you say

Nigerara?

There's a country called Nigero, right?

Palar Meko, Rogua, yeah.

Right?

Am I saying it wrong?

Yeah.

How did I say it?

Instead of you now.

Nigerora?

Yeah.

Best FA Rob.

Is that the right way to say it?

Get away with it.

Nigger Rora.

Would you say that?

No.

Why not?

It's got it in the word, you know?

It's half a word.

Like the first half.

So is it at a country?

Or somewhere, right?

Yeah.

I haven't been there.

I've been Africa, yeah, but.

But you heard it at least, right?

Yeah.

And what is it called?

Nicker Robbie.

It's like a tongue twister, man.

God damn.

See?

Every million.

As I go on, as I go,

Yeah.

But

tell me one thing

that the blacks have done to make America great again.

One thing that they have done to enhance the country for all people.

Entertainment.

They've been doing that forever, man.

Yeah, something real.

Something real.

The blast and dance is saying.

I'm talking about real stuff.

Real stop.

Yeah, I guess.

Some having, I mean,

shit.

You tell me.

Do you get digging?

anything no i can't i raised my taste

i mean we had obama for a little bit and look what a mess he made yeah he didn't make the marriage half the battery he made it work we are more divided today as a result of barack above the father messiah and big mama michelle we're more divided today than any other time in the history of america

And I grew up in Alabama.

I grew up on a plantation.

I grew up.

My parents worked at plantations, their fairs.

My grandfather grew up there.

And so did I, right.

And blacks were way better off of them than they are today.

Oh, yeah.

Wow.

I remember for blacks-only bathrooms, like whites-only bathrooms, all that kind of stuff.

But blacks were more independent.

They did not have black levers.

So they thought for themselves.

They bought land.

They did their own things.

Right?

Where you're forced to

take care of yourself.

you're more apt to take care of yourself right and so the blacks took care of themselves then but they don't now because they have black leaders damn the worst thing

that ever happened to the black the worst thing was the uh civil rights movement

and the second thing abortion but the civil rights movement was the worst thing that ever happened to the black.

They have not returned since then.

Wow.

So you think they went downhill society.

Totally down with you.

Holy crap.

100% 100% downview.

Wow.

They didn't have the same mentality prior to the civil rights movement that they have now.

Back then, they were independent thinkers.

They treated each other the way that they would like to be treated.

They knew that it was a spiritual battle.

There was no such word as racism.

It was made-up word.

No such words.

Really?

Yeah.

Why did you start seeing that racism?

When I moved out here to L.A., because

growing up in Alabama, there was no such word as racism.

Really?

No.

Because you're sure the South you think of racism?

No, you don't?

No, that's another lie.

They have pretended that the South is a really bad fake.

The people in the South got along better than the people in the North

because when they went to the North, they were more dependent on the government than they were in the South, right?

And there was no such worry as racism.

And again, we all separated as far as the races.

But when we would see one another, they would treat, it didn't matter.

We treat treat each other as human beings, right?

And there was no such word as racist.

That word was made up by this so-called Bartlett the King and that's it, that's another, you know, Martin Luther King, or yeah, I'm starting to burn power Eboys, really.

A socialist, yeah, the mess.

They taught him in school, he was a legend.

Go on,

yeah,

but they made him seem like a hero when he really was a zero.

He brought in socialism and told the blacks that,

okay,

I want, because he started out as a Republican.

It's all real, yeah.

But then I've been told, I don't know the whole story yet, but he met up with the Kennedy guy that ran with John Irr.

The first one, the president.

Yeah, Chairfa.

And then somehow or another, I don't know if it's true or not, but they made some type of deal.

And he switched over and started working with the Democratic Party.

Wow.

I do remember him signing a bill for welfare.

He was standing with Legley B.

Johnson, who was a black Democrat prisoner.

And

they told black people, okay, we're going to give you welfare and all this, and we're going to be your leader.

So vote for us, give us your money to do that.

And it's just been down on you, every single day.

Yeah, black people vote Democrat almost every election, right?

Because they lost their way.

They're not independent thinkers.

They're not free.

And that's why they're so angry, too.

They're angry because...

their mothers have turned them away from their fathers.

So inwardly, they're yearning for their father, but they don't know it.

And so the Democrats and the liberal whites want them that way so they can hear some putables.

Hopefully that changes, right?

It started to change a little bit now with the Great White Hope.

Sawed up.

So it started to change

because a lot of blacks are starting to think for themselves.

There's nothing worse than a human being

who will not think for himself.

Yeah.

You have to think for yourself.

Well, that's why public education system is dangerous.

Any parent that sends their children to a public school, they hate their children.

They have no love for the kids.

They send them off because they can't make the wife say, I'm going to raise the kids, right?

Watch over.

Because she wants to be out acting like the man.

She wants to be equal to the male.

Who would never happen?

But to send your kids to a public school is a sign that you hate your children.

There's no way I would do that.

I have two grandkids and adult and three great-grandkids, Yeah.

I would never send new to a curse.

Yeah, I'm with you on that, man.

You know, miss.

I saw what happened with me.

It taught me to be not a free thinker.

Yes, sweet.

Anytime I questioned it, I got punished.

Absolutely.

Got detention or suspended.

They hate for people to think toward themselves because you cannot control a human being who thinks for him or herself.

You can't control them.

And they don't write that.

That's why they hate Donald Trump so much.

They hate it.

They hate the Great Gray Hope because they cannot control us.

No matter what they try to do to him, it does not bother him at all because he understands that human beings are evil.

Did you know that human beings are evil?

She means mad animals are evil.

Me and anyone.

Because

the spirit of the woman is passed on to the children, to the boys and the girls, brother.

But you can overcome it when you realize you're wrong for me and evil.

But human beings are evil.

And God said that

an angry person

is a murderer.

And that we should never, ever, ever, ever, but never trust an angry person.

They cannot be trusted.

And if you think back and reflect on your life,

everyone that you've ever trusted have turned on you, bitcher.

Oh, sure.

up deep because they're evil you're right though almost everyone it's uh yeah everyone Even my closest friends at the time.

Absolutely.

Because they're evil.

And

it's not going to change until your heart changed from anger to love.

And you can change.

And you have perfect love.

And you would live a life without words.

And it would be amazing.

And you will hang out with people, you know, but you can take it or be.

Yeah.

Do you trust anyone?

No.

No one.

And it's not that I hang out with people, you know, I hurt people or have my family.

So I don't trust them or not trust them.

I just live.

Whatever happened, fine.

If you want to do the right thing, fine.

If you don't, you have a right to be wrong.

I don't have a right to be mad at you for being wrong.

I just move on with my life.

Interesting.

Live a simple life.

Yeah, I think people are too easy to trust one another and then their agricultural, they let down, right?

And that's what happened when you're evil, when you're angry.

Anger is evil.

It's hatred.

When you are angry, you can't see.

And so, in your blindness, because you've been turned away from what is right, in your blindness,

you call good evil and evil good.

So, you trust people, thinking that in your mind, you don't see that they're evil and you trust them.

But if you were not angry, you will see who you're dealing with.

They don't even know that you can see them, but you see who you're dealing with, and you're protected from it.

Yeah, that awareness.

Do you think there's different levels of evil?

Yeah,

evil, evil, evil, evil.

I met some evil people.

Yeah.

Some demonic people.

Yeah.

But it's a demonic, evil person, it's the same as a nice mother.

You know, you had a mother that, oh, she's just so nice.

Yeah.

And she's so sweet.

And you think that she's as evil as a demonic, really?

Yeah.

Why?

Because evil is an is evil, and evil is cunning in the way it works.

it could pretend to be nice or it could be outright mean or whatever it put on an act to deceive me right well those are probably uh harder to deal with when they're putting on an act because at least if someone's evil to your face you can deal with it quick

not if you if you all have overcome the evil inside of you you know

you can see them you'll see it and they don't know you see them and you'll be able to deal with them perfectly

well your baby i need to get to that level you can but you got to to forgive your mother i forgot with my mother me and my mother used to fight every day yeah yeah every single day right you got to forgive her because if not you're going to end up marrying a woman just like your mother because you won't be able to get away from it you're attracted to what you hate and this woman gonna deceive you pretend like she's different than your mother but as soon as you marry her all hell gonna break day and you're gonna end up like your father and and she's gonna screw your kids too

my father had two failed marriages man he he paid a nerve because he hated his mother and every woman you get involved with is his mother see hated his mother actually yeah of course every man on earth hate their mothers every woman hate her mother that's why they become like the mothers so the mothers have a lot of power they have none it's just that you think they do because you're angry and you're afraid of them anyone that has anger has fear

And they're afraid to deal with mama, right?

Yeah.

When I tell people, oh, go and face your mother and just apologize for resenting her, he's like, no, I can't do that.

I'm afraid I can't do that.

I'm like, but you got to face the fear to overcome it.

Fear is an illusion, right?

And so don't let fear control you.

You do what you got to do anyway.

And so a lot of them around the world, they go and face their mother and they call me back.

They're like, wow, it wasn't what I thought it would be.

I was shaking in my boot, but I faced it and now the fear is gone.

But I'll do that this week then.

I'll pull her out.

Are you serious?

Yeah.

i tried new things and i'm i'm willing to learn you know i'll try it out just hey mother i realize now

that you can help yourself yeah she watches every episode too so no she yeah so are you joking are you saying no i'm serious i i try to take one thing from every guest and then lands in my life well i'm telling if you do if you're serious and you truly apolog apologize to her for resenting her not for what you did right about because you couldn't help yourself you became like her word apologize to her for resenting her for being Hebrew.

She could not help herself.

Her mother did it to her.

And God, and if she said, Oh, son, you're right, I'm wrong.

I'm sorry.

That's nice.

But she's like, Oh, no, it ain't your father.

It wasn't me.

Or if she said, Oh, I need to be forgiving you.

All kind of crapper.

Let her say whatever she wants.

You know, say, Hey, I'm just sorry for resenting you.

Yeah, I realize now you can't help yourself.

God will forgive you.

That's why God said, Go and forgive, and I will forgive you.

Me to admit you're a robber hater.

And he will change your nature just like that.

And you will have an amazing life.

Dang.

Really?

It becomes easy.

Things that used to be important wouldn't be important anymore.

You'll be able to take it or leave it.

You have a perfect, free, purple guy.

I'm excited, man.

When was this shift for you?

How old were you?

I was 38 at the time.

When you forgave your mother?

Yes.

38, huh?

And I didn't know I resented my mother, right?

Because my mother seemed like a nice little Christian woman to, you know, black women are always in church, right?

Yeah.

And so she seemed like a nice woman.

She had

eight other children.

Damn.

That was normal back then.

Oh, yeah.

I had one and she and her husband have

either 15 or 16.

Holy crap.

That's like one a year until 40.

And

they born in Alabama, had their own land and everything.

And all of their children went, finished high school, went to college and everything.

But you don't hear about that from the black people.

Nah.

They're going to tell you, oh, it's so bad in South Park, Doctor.

But anyway,

when I had the anger for my mother, I was very emotional.

I had doubt.

I had fear.

I didn't know what I wanted to do in life.

And I had gone to church and I would ask the preachers, what's wrong with me?

I'm not overcoming this thing.

They're like, oh, you need to pray somebody.

You need to, whatever.

It's not working.

So finally, I ask God to let me see myself.

Why am I so?

I was afraid of the woman.

I used to date a lot, but I couldn't correct the woman

and I couldn't live without her.

So I weep with her.

And whatever I broke up with a woman, I would have to have another woman waiting in the West ring.

ring for me to break up with this or her because they were my gods and I didn't know it at the time.

And so, finally, I asked God to let me see why I was so emotional and what's wrong with me.

And he allowed me to see that I resented my mother.

I'm like, oh, because I didn't know, I thought I loved her because emotion, I thought we love her, and I forgave her, and everything changed.

Nice, that's horrible.

It's just not, I have no anger, I have perfect peace, and life is amazing.

That's very because anger can destroy your health,

it destroyed every fiber of the body,

everything about you, anger destroys it, and it brings on loneliness, suicidal thoughts, worry, insecurity, fear, doubt, everything.

There's nothing good in anger.

No matter what

so-called level it is, anger is aiming if there's no love.

Yeah, it's dangerous.

I saw you say

when your child hits 18 years old, you should leave them alone.

100%.

And

if you raise them in the right way brought up, meaning you teach them to work, how to be independent kids, you know, let them speak up and be themselves.

When they turned 18, they would be ready to leave home, you know, because down in Alabama, I was raised,

everybody was raised that way for the most part.

And my parents, all my grandparents especially, they say, well, when you turn 18, you're out of here.

In Alabama, I'm a parent tank.

I'm like, where am I going?

And my grandmother would say, I don't know.

I don't care.

You're out of here.

And so when I turned 18,

I left Alabama, went to Indiana, got a job for Toritz to make some money to come to California.

I moved to California of 18, made a lot of mistakes along the way, but I have not looked back.

I started my own business before I started Barnes.

And I didn't, I had never been taught how to start a business.

I just wanted to start my own business.

Start my own business and then I sold that business.

And then I started barn my non-profit.

And it's been around now for 35 years.

And it's just been amazing.

It's walk.

But that's what's going to happen when you drop the anger.

You got to drop the anger.

Otherwise, you're going to be afraid to live life.

Yeah, it's awesome.

Why'd you choose California?

Well, I came out that summer.

Well, I have an uncle and aunt out here.

They had invited me out the summer before I finished high school.

And when I walked off the airplane, I fell in love with California.

It was like paradise.

Like, what the?

Originally, I I would live in Atlanta, Georgia, but when I came here, I fell in love with California.

That's why I came back.

What study weather up here?

Weather.

At that time, it had a lot of opportunities.

There were no homeless people around.

Really?

Down?

A few downtown, but that's about, yeah, I can't picture without it.

Yeah, how do we beautiful?

Streets clean, opportunities everywhere.

Opportunities everywhere.

And the crime was almost zero.

Wow.

A lot has changed.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Holy crap.

Almost zero.

And that has all changed because

California are voting in the wrong people.

The NIFFAT don't care about California.

It was about money and power there.

And then women are voting in the wrong programs and things like that.

Can you imagine they voting in a bill that would take

bail bonds away?

and let the criminals out of prison.

So

they agreed to defund the police.

What kind of sense does that make?

To look what's happening as we do, but California was beautiful at that time,

still beautiful.

Yeah, it's a lot of crime, a lot of crime and homeless people.

I will feel safe when I'm walking around here, yeah.

No, you really have to wipe your back, and also they voted in a female mayor, right?

You think about that, huh?

Yeah,

mess.

I mean, some guys handle the fire is really bad, and I think, yeah, like terribly, and all she does is smile as she uh

all she does is smile and then she build places for homeless people

and homeless people so evil and nasty have we seen how evil and nasty homeless people are they feel entitled they will go into your

parking lot and they'll go through the trash scans and they'll dump everything out of the trash and leave it there to walk away.

Yeah.

Because they've been spoiled.

They don't have to worry about anything.

The government took care of it now.

Out here, they're squatting.

Well, yeah, the houses are staying in there.

Can you imagine that?

You have our government to think for that.

I literally know people who they would like re-go into apartments and things and buying a new pay.

The whole people move in and now these people have to go to court to fight the homeless people to get out.

That's crazy.

Can't believe out.

Lord, man.

In Texas, you could just pull up with your gun.

Nice.

Take care of it.

No one will arrest you.

I know.

we need that back and that's why we need to vote in the right people in uh california yeah they you subdolly last term right this is it thank god yeah hopefully you guys got someone good yeah that's gonna be important you're living in vegas then it's pretty cool up there yeah vegas is nice man no crime we're like top 10 safest neighborhoods

in the country i have uh family members up there sir some coming not bad right yeah we're all the nights up there good food i just don't like and is it cold up there right it's cold though i can't have that you can't beat the leather here, right?

That's unbeatable.

Yeah, that people love

hot leather.

Yeah, we don't love the winter.

We don't love swimming.

We don't love skin.

Let's say hot skin.

We don't love all that mess.

It's too cold.

Yeah.

I'll bet you all that.

I'm not a fan of a boat.

Oh, you're not?

Nice.

It's all crap.

I like snow once in a while, but not every day.

Would you ever, uh,

were women created to mean or to follow?

Follow.

Would you ever follow a woman?

In what?

Period.

Period?

Like overall?

Period.

Follow a brain.

Nah.

You know that there are men who follow women?

Yes, they're called six.

And they're suffering as we die.

Yeah.

I never thought in growing up.

And I'm old now, right?

And I'm older than dirt.

Back up.

God made me first, and then he made dirt from, so that I may waffle.

That's all at.

But I never imagined growing up, and men will follow women.

The woman is supposed to obey the man, but the man is obeying the woman.

I never thought that I would see that.

It didn't seem popular.

Yeah.

Well, OnlyFans is a big reason for that.

Was that?

You haven't heard of OnlyFans?

But kind of heard of these girls can sell their body.

Oh, yeah.

I know she's wearing.

Yeah, they make millions of dollars and then they deaf these guys sending them money because guys can't get laid anymore Yeah 40% of my generation are virgins Amazing.

Isn't that crazy?

I heard I heard a report the other day that

or sorry report that

men from the age of

20 I believe I may be wrong to 28 have never dated a woman whoa Some of the lack I may have the percentage rate off, but they have never dated a woman.

That's crazy.

yeah that's not good man no

but they're afraid of these women because these women are nothing but bitches have you noticed that i i hadn't dated in so long man i got lucky but you do see them rare

yeah i see them around have you know they're bitches some of them are mean yeah but they

yeah i mean some of you for sure i'm like anyone what a bitch

Yeah, what now?

Well, LA just got voted the worst dating city in the country yesterday.

I'm not surprised.

I didn't know that, but I'm not.

I'm not surprised.

And why are you not surprised, Ryan?

Well, first of all, super liberal.

So that's terrible.

Second of all, people care about money and followers here.

Yeah.

So most guys don't have that.

So they're going after the top 1% men out here.

So if you're a regular dude, you're screwed.

So what I was suggesting to men is that they got to start working on themselves.

They got to overcome the anger.

They got to overcome all that emotional stuff, overcome their mothers so they can overcome their emotional stuff.

And I promise them they will get back their natural nature of no fear and they will want for nothing and their life would be amazing.

And so what would happen is

they would,

the right kind of woman will be put into their life.

And if they should get married, they will have a marriage that will laugh them to death through the part because they would not.

They would not be obeying the woman.

She would have to obey them.

And they would know in advance if they should marry a woman or not during the dating period.

I tell men when they date,

the first question, you go out to the cafe, you order the food, and while the food and drinks are coming,

your first question should be other than the food thing.

If we should get married, will you obey me?

And if she says no, get up and leave.

Meet the table, say bye, because you're never going to have a good marriage if she's one obey you tell all your guys to get preenups

i haven't said that um

no one asked me about that for real no well but i i hear it all the time

you know but

but i think people are not gonna be doing that now maybe some are not but most of the sending tend to be doing that already yeah i'm getting one are you yeah

and so how old have you been dating eight years really yeah that's a nice time there i met her at 21.

nice you're supposed to date at least seven years before you can see because the women are tricking you.

They're pretending they'll fear you.

I've seen that.

Yeah, they'll pretend they'll greed and this and that.

And in seven years, you will know if this is the right one.

You'll know, yeah.

Yeah, what you will with that, man.

Yeah, thank you.

Get married this year, so let's see what happens, man.

Is she going to stay home and raise your children?

Yeah.

Nice.

And she will obey you?

I think so.

I take advice from her too, I'm not going to lie, but.

What kind of advice?

Good greeting people, bro.

These women, they're intuitive.

Yeah, what it is, because they're earthy, women are earthy, right?

Because they're low to the ground because of nature.

And they can pick up evil in a

facts.

You should read solar age.

Yeah, at least

men tend not to pick up evil.

That is because they are from above, right?

The women are from below, too tall.

I'll pick up on it.

So women can pick up evil like that.

But once men overcome their mother, they can pick it up too.

You may be able to sense the spirit of evil.

And again, they won't know you see it, but you will, and it'll be your protection.

That's cool.

But do what you want, of course.

But I will find out if she's going to obey me or not.

Yeah.

I'll ask you.

She's going to be cussed.

You're a traditional type of marriage guy.

But that's the only thing that worked.

I mean, look at these, the way things are.

Marriages are not working.

They are not working.

Oh, man.

I counsel with men and women around the world, married individual families and they are miserable

they don't know why they got married yeah and they get they get married and they start fighting the day after the honeymoon the night after it was over and all they do is fight yeah and they're like oh i thought you love me and i thought i love you i thought you and it's not true at all there's a lot of sexless marriages and what sexless marriages mean what so they're married but they don't have sex really yeah and so what the per began to marry them no idea Yeah.

It's like 40% of something crazy high.

The only reason, the only reason to get married if you want to have children, if you want a family, right?

But if you don't want kids, there's no other reason for marriage.

There's no reason to get married.

No.

Wow.

Yeah, I want kids.

Yeah.

I definitely do.

That's the only reason to get married.

Some people say, oh, I get married because I don't really lonely.

Or I don't want to grow old by myself.

Why not?

And if you're lonely, why not overcome loneliness?

Why do you think some person got to help you to overcome loneliness, right?

That's not the way to overcome loneliness.

Overcome loneliness.

It'll be fine.

Yeah.

But people think coming together again in America, they're going to get rid of their loneliness, their sadness, and all that.

That's not right.

It just creates more problems.

I agree.

You should overcome it without.

something on the outside.

I definitely agree.

Jesse, it's been fun, man.

Where could people find you?

They could go to jesseleepeterson.com or rebuildandaman.com.

And I think, is it also?

Should I be marcas?

Yeah, but at Walter and Cursive, you got to drop the anger.

You're never going to have perfect peace until you drop the anger.

And you are responsible for your own life.

As an adult, we're responsible for our kids, but every individual is responsible for their own life to overcome the hell within.

And you, anyone that has anger, fear, doubt, loneliness, suicidal thoughts, worry, or all that kind of mess, compare yourself to other jealousy, image dark, you're living in hell.

In hell, you can overcome all that.

You've had perfect peace, but you got to drop the anger.

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