Why Anger is Destroying Your Life (and How to Overcome It) | Jesse Lee Peterson DSH #1336

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Speaker 1 You gotta forgive her because if not, you're going to end up marrying a woman just like your mother because you won't be able to get away from it. You're attracted to what you hate.

Speaker 1 And this woman got to deceive you, pretending like she's different than your mother. But as soon as you marry her, all hell is going to break loose.

Speaker 1 And you're going to end up like your father, and she's going to screw your kids, too.

Speaker 1 All right, guys, Jesse Lee Pearson here. We are in L.A.
for Black History Month. How's it going, man? Nice.
Thanks Thanks for having me on. Absolutely.
I appreciate it.

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What's the new with you? I know you've been making your rounds. Busy.
You know, busy. What do you say about my shirt? What does it say? When she's crying, she's lying.

Speaker 1 So explain that. Is that true? When she's crying, she's lying.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 How would it be true? You ever notice that whenever women are crying, they're lying?

Speaker 1 They're like, oh, my husband beat me. He abused me, right? And they start crying.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 And as soon as they start crying, we people feel sorry for them, the courts and other, and they give them what they want. But they're lying.
They don't really feel what they're saying.

Speaker 1 They're using tears to control you. Wow.

Speaker 1 And when they want to take the man's children away from him, they cry.

Speaker 1 You make up lies and then they cry and the courts fall apart.

Speaker 1 And then when they want you to feel sorry for them, they cry.

Speaker 1 So when they're crying, they're lying.

Speaker 1 They never tell you, oh, my husband beat me because I'm a bitch.

Speaker 1 Oh, I couldn't, he couldn't deal with me. They never tell you that part.
Yeah. And so people fall up for tears and the tears are not real.
What never are the tears real? Well, every woman on earth.

Speaker 1 So when they're crying, they're lying. Oh, what did you figure out? Oh, how I owe this in January.

Speaker 1 The first time I got it, I had no idea the women, they were going to get mad. I just,

Speaker 1 when I walked in, I had this shirt on, concerned the women, like, what the?

Speaker 1 That's racist. That's the

Speaker 1 something stupid. But I was like, just a t-shirt.
Why are you reacting to it? Right?

Speaker 1 But did you know that when they were crying, they're lying? Now I know. But you didn't know before?

Speaker 1 No.

Speaker 1 Did you believe them when they cried at your tenants? They're not lying. Sometimes somebody will lie.
Really? Why?

Speaker 1 Because they're current on your emotional arguer. That's why you have to to overcome emotions, yeah.
It's abnormal for human beings to be emotional.

Speaker 1 Yeah, that's interesting advice. So when your wife is crying.
I know she's lying.

Speaker 1 So I didn't ever sit in the corner and cry. So what about when a guy's crying? He's lying.
You make a guy.

Speaker 1 A guy that

Speaker 1 cries.

Speaker 1 By the way, I'm not married, but a guy that cry, he has his mama's spirit, so he's acting like a woman.

Speaker 1 Any man that cries, any man that gets angry, become emotional, he's only doing it because he has his mother's identity. It's abnormal for men to get angry.
It's abnormal for men to cry.

Speaker 1 It's a mama's boy when they're crying way back. Real people don't cry.
Interesting. You're not amazing.

Speaker 1 That's interesting. I grew up in a single-parent household.
And you cry. Nah.
Oh, good. I used to.
We shot. I saw.
What means you did over there?

Speaker 1 Well, I was, my dad left the house, so I just had to take this position. I had to be the man of the house, so I had to be tough.
Oh. Yeah, so I broke my career.
Nice. Yeah, real men don't cry.

Speaker 1 There's moments. If they cry, they're bad.

Speaker 1 There's moments, right, though? No. I mean, let's say that your father or your mother died, it's buried, right?

Speaker 1 And maybe you're at the funeral, or you hear about it, you shed a cheer, but you, we said the cheer and you let it pass, right? Don't get all into it. Don't want other to catch you on the show.

Speaker 1 Babe, well, don't fall for all that. Yeah, that's that's a bam.

Speaker 1 Do you hold your emotions back? I have not let me do though. I have, I may have those naturally where I laugh at things.

Speaker 1 I uh, but I never

Speaker 1 cry

Speaker 1 or I break up with my woman or something. I'm like, okay, bye.
I don't think around, around, oh my God, I want to buy. I used to when I was a bear,

Speaker 1 but I'm not into all that. You have to overcome that.
It's a lot of time, too. It's a waste of time.
And it's

Speaker 1 evil. It's not good.
And it is not a sign of love at all. Right.
None of them. I see a lot of men with uncontrolled emotions, like anger,

Speaker 1 especially on basketball courts. Oh, my God.
Oh, you're trying to fight every time I play.

Speaker 1 That's why I tell guys, in order to overcome that, you have to overcome the spirit of your mother.

Speaker 1 And the way that you overcome the spirit of your mother, you have to see for yourself that you're angry at her. Anger is hatred, right?

Speaker 1 And anger separate you from your true self.

Speaker 1 And so

Speaker 1 the mothers, because

Speaker 1 women are evil, they turn the children against the father. They're jealous of the father and the children.
So they always turn the children away by playing bitches.

Speaker 1 But the moment they turn them away from their father, the kids become just like the mother. They become angry.
They identify with the mother. They turn against their own fathers.

Speaker 1 But the way to overcome that is you got to admit you were angry and go and apologize to her, hating her for what she done to you, right?

Speaker 1 And don't ask for forgiveness, but you just say, you know what, mother? I resented you. You turned me against my father.
You opposed your will on me or you babied me or whatever.

Speaker 1 I realize now you couldn't help yourself.

Speaker 1 I'm sorry for resenting you and god will forgive you and he'll take the spirit of the mother away from you which is you will and he will give me your father's spirit wow is this what happened to you yes for what age reason every human being on earth that's their problem they got to uh

Speaker 1 overcome their mothers and return to their father If they don't, they're going to always feel that something is missing. They're going to feel emptiness inside.

Speaker 1 And no person, place, or thing to fulfill that emptiness.

Speaker 1 there's only when you drop the anger by forgiving your mother and forgiving your father too for not protecting you from the mother you can help it because every man hates their mothers they end up marrying the woman that just like the mama right they're attracted to yeah you're attracted to what you hate yeah and the cycle repeats is that the guy becoming the baby again the boy and the wife become the mother and the mother swoop the kids But if the father were to overcome it and then get married, they will protect their children from the mother and they show love, and the kids wouldn't have to go through the same thing.

Speaker 1 What a mess, huh? Yeah, that's how big. Isn't that like amazing? Well, you figure it out at least.
You could tell your son about it.

Speaker 1 Um, you said women are evil, yes, all women are just certain types, every woman on earth, it doesn't matter how what color, how much money you have, or how rich or poor, or whale.

Speaker 1 And every woman is evil, their nature is evil, it's not them, but their nature is evil. Your mama's nature is evil.
Your mama's mama, your sister, your cousin, your friend, female friends.

Speaker 1 And their nature is evil. It's not them per se, but that spirit of evil comes, the hell come through the woman.

Speaker 1 And the reason for that is because of what happened with Adam and Eve. You're in this story? I know about it, yeah.
You know about it.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 should I tell you?

Speaker 1 Let's summarize this. Some people watching way on.
Oh, okay. So what happened was God created Adam, and they were just the father and the son.
And the father and son were one. They were closed.

Speaker 1 They loved one another. They communicated without words.
And then one day, God said, you know, I'm tired of creating human beings with my hand, you know, my hands, right?

Speaker 1 And plus, when you create human beings,

Speaker 1 by creating a human being with his hands, human beings were forced to love him. They had no other choice.
So he said, what I'm going to do is I'm going to create a woman.

Speaker 1 And through that woman, I'm going to create human beings, right? And then that way,

Speaker 1 the human beings to have a choice if they love me or not. Because forced love is not love.
You tell someone to try to make you look at the blacks. They try to make the white people love them.

Speaker 1 And the blacks don't love the whites don't love them because they hate the black whites, right? But if you leave it alone, it will come together naturally. But that's an absurd.
And so he created Eve.

Speaker 1 And in the beginning, Eve loved Adam, who loved his father, and they were perfect peace. And so one day, Eve was at the market, and you're Chinese.
Yeah. And I'll use Chinese.

Speaker 1 And she was buying Chinese food. Yeah.
You know,

Speaker 1 rice,

Speaker 1 noodles,

Speaker 1 and all that, right?

Speaker 1 And while at the market, she saw Satan there. And Satan was like, E, you still married to that man? Yeah, I love my husband.
You can be your own woman.

Speaker 1 The serpent there tried to deceive the woman because it didn't work with the man. So he went to the woman and he said, You could be your own woman.
Don't be like Adam.

Speaker 1 She's like, No, no, I love my husband. I obey my husband.
I love him. I'm one with my husband, who was one with his father.
So he's like, Okay.

Speaker 1 And then she went to the market again. This time she wanted soul food.
So she bought sweet potatoes to make sweet potato pies, collard green, cornbread, and ham hops.

Speaker 1 And she saw Satan again at the store, right?

Speaker 1 And say to that, are you still with that man? He's like, yeah. She like, he was like, E, you could be your old woman.
You could be independent. You could take your bra off.
You could be like a man.

Speaker 1 And then he was like, look at Adam. Adam is not his old man.
He missed it to his father. In that moment, Eve believed him.

Speaker 1 And in that very moment, she lost connection with her husband, who had connected with his father. And God became, I mean, Satan became the woman's God.

Speaker 1 And then, at some point, long story short,

Speaker 1 because beforehand, men did not listen to women because they knew that every time they mentioned to the woman, they ought to suffer. So Adam did not listen to his wife.

Speaker 1 And so at some point, Adam, after she became the daughter of evil, evil, Satan,

Speaker 1 she convinced Adam to not listen to his father. Be your own man, do your own thing.
And Adam believed the woman. And in that very moment, the woman became the man's God.

Speaker 1 And so that's why

Speaker 1 today, women, men are subject to women. They're afraid of women.
Yeah. Because they're afraid of

Speaker 1 that spirit in women. And the woman is to man God.
And so, I mean,

Speaker 1 the woman is the man guy as Satan is the woman god so evil coming to the woman that's why we must be born again we must return to the father so we could bring back the order of god in christ christ and man man over woman and woman over children nothing else is going to work but that damn it isn't there amazing story the what story amazing oh amazing yeah what do you think about that so that's interesting my dad has a similar view for sure Now, did it make sense to you or no?

Speaker 1 Yeah. I'm not Christian, but it makes sense.
You don't have have to be a Christian. The Christians don't even understand it.

Speaker 1 Damn, that's nuts. Yeah, you don't believe women should vote.

Speaker 1 Look how messed up things have become as a result of women voting.

Speaker 1 We now pay for daycare centers. We now pray for them to take all work to have a baby.
And then we now pay for them. They're like, oh, I want my husband to be home too.

Speaker 1 While I'm having a baby, it's not fair, right? Now the men get paid to be all work.

Speaker 1 And then, after the woman

Speaker 1 had the baby, she wanted to pay for insurance by the baby.

Speaker 1 We're now voting in things that men would never vote in in a real right bill. It's because there are more women than men voters.
So the country has screwed up as a result of women voting.

Speaker 1 In the good old days, and

Speaker 1 when men were men, voice or voice,

Speaker 1 you can only vote if you own land.

Speaker 1 If you didn't own the land you could vote for another and so when i become president i'm going back to that yeah because the reason for that because people who own land will vote for logical things but if you don't own it on land you're suffraged so you want all this stuff

Speaker 1 and the landowners that have to pay all the tax whether they have their their property uh

Speaker 1 notes if marin goes up and blah blah blah yeah and the the cost of their home goes up well now you're taking care of these people who don't own property right you said you're going to run for president?

Speaker 1 After the great white hope is done? Yeah. Nope, man.

Speaker 1 But I would like to see that room change and put it back to only if you own property can you vote. Yeah.
Yeah. You were pretty outspoken this past election, right? Oh, he.

Speaker 1 That's how you supported Trump. The Great White Hope.

Speaker 1 He is making America white again.

Speaker 1 Yeah, it's got a lot of white people around it. Amazing now.
Yeah. How do you feel about that?

Speaker 1 Amazing. What do you say about tanks?

Speaker 1 As a matter of fact, we

Speaker 1 and I'm telling the truth. I know it's not funny, but it's the truth.

Speaker 1 We celebrate White History Month. July is White History a lot.
You know about that? No. You guys know about that? Never heard.
This is our, I believe, about eight years celebrating.

Speaker 1 July White History Month. I started it seven years ago.

Speaker 1 And the reason I started White History in July, number one, is that July just feels white. Am I right? Yeah, July 4th.
July 4th, vacation time, summertime,

Speaker 1 relaxing time right there. But I started White History Month because these people tried to destroy everything that's white.
statues and monuments and everything that's white.

Speaker 1 And they are creating a false

Speaker 1 history about America. And so, I want to encourage people to remember history, true history, so generations to come would appreciate America and not destroy it.

Speaker 1 So, that's why we started White History Month. Yeah, well, we got Black History Month, so might as well throw in white and Asian.

Speaker 1 They have everything but White History Month. Oh, well, they celebrate White History Month.
I mean, not why

Speaker 1 Black History Month, Gay Month, Woman Month,

Speaker 1 Mexican month,

Speaker 1 Filipino Mont, Indian Monts,

Speaker 1 Monts I've never heard of, right? Everything but white history month. And I'll be like, why not white history month? It was white people who founded this country and created with the help of God.

Speaker 1 They created the greatest country in the whole wide world. Everybody and their mama want to come here and they come and they want to change it.
That doesn't make sense there.

Speaker 1 What do you think about that? That's interesting, man. You like white people, huh?

Speaker 1 I love,

Speaker 1 I love white people. I love the

Speaker 1 and I love the blacks. I love all people, but yes, I love white people.
You love white people, huh? Yeah, you love white people? I like white people.

Speaker 1 You hear

Speaker 1 what?

Speaker 1 What he's saying?

Speaker 1 I'm half white, so. Oh, good.
You love your own people. Yeah.
Nice. I like all people, though.
Oh, you do? Yeah. You love the bats? Yeah, I got black friends.
You do? Yeah.

Speaker 1 I shouldn't even say this. I got a fiancé now, but yeah, I've slept with a black troll.
Oh, God. College, yeah.
Oh, Lord.

Speaker 1 Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 Once you go flat, you can't go back, though. I didn't like it.

Speaker 1 Up to you, Eric. I rest my case.

Speaker 1 Are you able to be honored with the blacks as to what's wrong with them? To a certain degree.

Speaker 1 and why not all the way because some of them get you mad and they want to get violent yeah i won't i won't cross certain minds really that won't say that word

Speaker 1 um

Speaker 1 you won't no will you when you say

Speaker 1 niggerora

Speaker 1 there's a country called nigero right color micro ragua yeah right am i saying it wrong yeah how did i say it instead of you know niggerora yeah best is that wrong is that the way we said get away with it.

Speaker 1 Nigga Roba.

Speaker 1 Would you say that? No.

Speaker 1 Why not? It's got it in the word, you know? It's half a word.

Speaker 1 Like the first half. So is it at a country or somewhere? Yeah.
I haven't been there. I've been after, yeah, but.
But you heard it at least, right? Yeah. And what is it called? Nicker Robbie.

Speaker 1 It's like a tongue twister, man. God damn.
See?

Speaker 1 That's a good one. That's a good one.

Speaker 1 But

Speaker 1 tell me one thing that the blacks have done to make America great again.

Speaker 1 One thing that they have done to enhance the country for all people. Entertainment.

Speaker 1 They've been doing that forever, man. Yeah, something real.
Something real. The blacks and dance is the same.
I'm talking about real star. Real star.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I guess somehow, I mean,

Speaker 1 shit.

Speaker 1 You tell me?

Speaker 1 Do you get digging there? Nah, I can't. I raised my taste.

Speaker 1 I mean, we had Obama for a little bit. And look what a mess he made.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 He didn't make the marriage at the battery. He made it work.

Speaker 1 We are more divided today as a result of Barack About Father Messiah and Big Mama Michelle. We are more divided today than any other time in the history of America.

Speaker 1 And I grew up in Alabama. I grew up on a plantation.

Speaker 1 I grew up.

Speaker 1 My parents worked at plantations, their fairs. My grandfather grew up up there, and so did I, right.

Speaker 1 And blacks were way better off then than they are today. Oh, yeah.
Wow. I remember for blacks-only bathrooms, like whites-only bathrooms, all that kind of stuff.
But blacks were more independent.

Speaker 1 They did not have black levers, so they thought for themselves. They bought land.
They did their own things like,

Speaker 1 right? Where you're forced to

Speaker 1 take care of yourself. You're more apt to take care of yourself.

Speaker 1 And so the blacks took care of themselves then, but they don't now because they have black leaders.

Speaker 1 Damn, the worst thing

Speaker 1 that ever happened to the black, the worst thing was the civil rights movement

Speaker 1 and the second thing, abortion. But the civil rights movement was the worst thing that ever happened to the black.
They have not returned since then. Wow.
So, you think they went downhill.

Speaker 1 Totally down with you. Holy crap.
100% down with you. Wow.

Speaker 1 They didn't have the same mentality prior to the civil rights movement then they have now back then they were independent thinkers they treated each other the way that they would like to be treated they knew that was a spiritual battle there was no such word as racism it was made-up word no such really yeah why did you start seeing that racism when i moved out here to la because

Speaker 1 um Growing up in Alabama, there was no such word as racism. Really? No.
Because you're sure of the South, you think of racism? No. You don't? No, that's another lie.

Speaker 1 They have pretended that the South is a really bad pay. The people in the South got along better than the people in the North.

Speaker 1 Because when they went to the North, they were more dependent on the government than they were in the South, right?

Speaker 1 And there was no such word as racism.

Speaker 1 And again, we all separated as far as the races. But when we would see one another, they would treat, it didn't matter.
We treat each other as human beings, right?

Speaker 1 And there was no such word as racism. That word was made up by this so-called Bartholomew and Jessica Jessica.
You know, Martin Luther King were. Yeah, I'm starting to burn Howard Ebo is really.

Speaker 1 A socialist. Yeah.
A mess. They taught him in school.
He was a legend. Global.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 1 But they made him seem like a hero when he really was a zero.

Speaker 1 He brought in socialism and told the blacks that,

Speaker 1 Okay,

Speaker 1 I want, because he started out as a Republican. It's all real.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 But then I've been told, I don't know the whole story yet, but he met up with the Kennedy guy. Yeah.
That ran with John Err. The first one, the president.
Yeah, too.

Speaker 1 And then somehow or another, I don't know if it's true or not, but it made certain type of deal.

Speaker 1 And he switched over and started working with the Democratic Party. Wow.
I do remember him signing a bill for welfare. He was standing with Legley B.
Johnson,

Speaker 1 a black Democrat prisoner.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 they told black people, okay, we're going to give you welfare and all this, and we're going to be your leader. So vote for us, give us your money to do that.
And just been down on you ever since.

Speaker 1 Yeah, black people vote Democrat almost every election. Because they lost their way.
They're not independent thinkers. They're not free.
And that's why they're so angry, too.

Speaker 1 Well, they're angry because their mothers have turned them away from their fathers. So inwardly, they're yearning for their father, but they don't know it.

Speaker 1 And so the Democrats and the liberal whites want them that way so they can use some butterboats.

Speaker 1 Hopefully that changes, right? It started to change a little bit now with the Greyquite Hope, Salta. So it started to change

Speaker 1 because a lot of blacks are starting to think for themselves. There's nothing worse than a human being

Speaker 1 who will not think for himself.

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Well, that's why public education system is dangerous.

Speaker 1 Any parent that sends their children to a public school, they hate their children. They have no love for the kids.

Speaker 1 They send them all because they can't make the wife say I'm going to raise the kids, right? Watch out. Because she wants to be out acting like the man.

Speaker 1 She wants to be equal to the male, which would never happen. But to send your kids to a public school is a sign that you hate your children.

Speaker 1 There's no way I would do that. I have two grandkids and adult

Speaker 1 and three great-grandkids, right? Yeah. I would never send you to a curse.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I'm with you on that, man. You know, miss.
I saw what happened with me. It taught me to be not a free thinker.
Yes, please.

Speaker 1 Anytime I questioned it i got punished absolutely got detention or suspended they hate for people to think toward themselves because you cannot control a human being who thinks for him or herself you can't control them and they don't write that that's why they hate donald trump so much they hate they hate the great great white hope because they cannot control this

Speaker 1 no matter what they try to do to him it does not bother him at all because he understand that human beings are evil did you know that human bees are evil She's mad and wolves are evil. Me and anyone.

Speaker 1 Because

Speaker 1 the spirit of the woman is passed on to the children, to the boys and the girls, broken.

Speaker 1 But you can overcome them when you realize you're wrong for being evil. But human beings are evil.
And God said that

Speaker 1 an angry person

Speaker 1 is a murderer.

Speaker 1 And that we should never, ever, ever, ever, but never trust an angry person. They cannot be trusted.
And if you think back and reflect on your life,

Speaker 1 everyone that you've ever trusted have turned on you, bitcher.

Speaker 1 Oh, sure. A deep.
Because they're evil.

Speaker 1 You're right, though. Almost everyone.

Speaker 1 Yeah, everyone. Even my closest friends at the time.

Speaker 1 Because they're evil. And

Speaker 1 it's not going to change until your heart changed from anger to love. And you can change.
And you have perfect love.

Speaker 1 And you would live a life without words and it would be amazing and you will hang out with people you know but you can take it or leave it yeah don't trust anyone

Speaker 1 no

Speaker 1 no one and it's not that i hang out with people you know i hurt people or have my family

Speaker 1 so i don't trust them or not trust them i just live whatever happened fine If you want to do the right thing, fine. If you don't, you have a right to be wrong.

Speaker 1 I don't have a right to be mad at you for being being wrong i just move on with my life interesting live a simple life

Speaker 1 yeah i think people are too easy to trust one another and then their agriculture is they let down right and that's what happened when you're evil when you're angry anger is evil it's hatred when you are angry you can't see

Speaker 1 and so in your blindness because you've been turned away from what is right in your blindness

Speaker 1 you call good evil with evil good. So you trust people thinking that in your mind, you don't see that they're evil and you trust them.
But if you were not angry, you would see who you're dealing with.

Speaker 1 They don't even know that you can see them, but you see who you're dealing with and you're protected from it.

Speaker 1 Yeah, that awareness. Do you think there's different levels of evil?

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 1 Evil, evil, evil, evil.

Speaker 1 I met some evil people. Yeah.
Some demonic people.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 1 But it's a demonic evil person. It's the same as a nice nice mother.
You know, you had a mother that, oh, she's just so nice. Yeah.
And she's so sweet.

Speaker 1 And you think that she's as evil as a demonic. Really? Yeah.
Why? Because evil

Speaker 1 is evil. And evil is cunning in the way it works.
It can pretend to be nice, or it can be outright mean or whatever. It put on an act to deceive me.
Right.

Speaker 1 Well, those are probably harder to deal with when they're putting on an act. Because at least if someone's evil to your face, you can deal with it quick.

Speaker 1 Not if

Speaker 1 you have overcome the evil inside of you.

Speaker 1 You can see them. You'll see it, and they don't know you see them.
And you'll be able to deal with them perfectly.

Speaker 1 You're baby dealing. I need to get to that level.
You can, but you got to forgive your mother. I forgot my mother.
Me and my mother used to fight every day. Yeah.
Yeah, every single day. Right.

Speaker 1 You got to forgive her because if not, you're going to end up marrying a woman just like your mother because because you won't be able to get away from it. You're attracted to it, but you hate.

Speaker 1 And this woman is going to deceive you, pretending like she's definitely your mother. But as soon as you marry her, all hell is going to break.

Speaker 1 And you're going to end up like your father, and she's going to screw your kids too.

Speaker 1 My father had two failed marriages, man. He paid a nerd because he hated his mother.
And every woman you get involved with is his mother. See, he hated his mother, actually.
Yeah, of course.

Speaker 1 Every man on earth hate their mothers. Every woman hate her mother.
That's why they become like the mothers. So the mothers have a lot of power.

Speaker 1 They have none. It's just that you think they do because you're angry and you're afraid of them.
Anyone that has anger has fear.

Speaker 1 And they're afraid to deal with mama, right? Yeah. When I tell people, oh, go and face your mother and just apologize for resenting her.
He's like, no, I can't do that.

Speaker 1 I'm afraid. I can't do that.
I'm like, but you got to face the fear to overcome it. Fear is an illusion, right? And so don't let fear control you.
You do what you got to do anyway.

Speaker 1 And so a lot of them around the world, they go and face their mother and they call me back. They're like, wow, it wasn't what I thought it would be.
I was shaking in my boot, but I faced it.

Speaker 1 And now the fear is gone. But I'll do that this week then.
I'll pull her out. Are you serious? Yeah.

Speaker 1 I tried new things and I'm willing to learn, you know? I'll try it out. Just, hey, mother, I realize now.

Speaker 1 That you can help yourself. Yeah, she watches every episode too.
So nursing? Yeah. So are you joking? No, you see, no, I'm serious.
I try to take one thing from every guest. And then I was in my life.

Speaker 1 Well, I'm telling you, if you do, if you're serious and you truly

Speaker 1 apologize to her for resenting her, not for what you did, right?

Speaker 1 Because you couldn't help yourself. You became like her.

Speaker 1 Apologize to her for resenting her for being Hebrew. She could not help herself.
Her mother did it to her. And God, and if she say, oh, son, you're right.
I'm wrong. I'm sorry.
That's nice.

Speaker 1 But she's like, oh, no, it ain't your father. It wasn't me.
Or she said, oh, I need to be forgiving you. All kind of crapper.

Speaker 1 Let her say whatever she wants. You know, say, hey, I'm just sorry for resenting you.
Yeah. I realize now you can't help yourself.
God will forgive you.

Speaker 1 That's why God said, go and forgive, and I will forgive me to admit you're a robber hater.

Speaker 1 And he will change your nature just like that. And you will have an amazing life.
Dang. Really? It becomes easy.
Things that used to be important wouldn't be important anymore.

Speaker 1 You'll be able to take it or leave it. You have a perfect, free purple guy.
I'm excited, man. When was this shift for you? How old were you? I was 38 at the time.
When you forget your mother? Yes.

Speaker 1 38, uncle. And I didn't know I resented my mother, right? Because my mother seemed a nice little Christian woman to, you know, black women are always cherry tank, right? Yeah.

Speaker 1 And so she seemed like a nice woman.

Speaker 1 She had

Speaker 1 eight other children. Damn.
That was normal back then, man. Oh, yeah.

Speaker 1 I had one and she or her husband have

Speaker 1 either 15 or 16.

Speaker 1 Oh, crap. That's like one a year until 40.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 they were born in Alabama, had their own land and everything. And all of their children went, finished high school, went to college and everything.
But you don't hear about that from the black people.

Speaker 1 Nah. They're going to tell you, oh, it's so bad in the software, doctor.
But anyway,

Speaker 1 I didn't, i when i when i had the anger for my mother i was very emotional i had doubt i had fear i would didn't know what i wanted to do in life and i had gone to church and i would ask the preachers what's wrong with me i'm not overcoming this thing yeah oh you need to pray somebody you need to whatever isn't i'm like it's not working so finally i asked God so let me see myself.

Speaker 1 Why am I so I was afraid of the wonder I used to date a lot, but I couldn't correct the woman

Speaker 1 and i couldn't live without her so i weep with her and whatever i broke up with a woman i would have to have another woman waiting in the west ring ring for me to break up with this or her because they were my gods and i didn't know it at the time and so finally i asked god to let me see why i was so emotional and what's wrong with me and he allowed me to see that i resented my mother I'm like, oh, because I didn't know, I thought I loved her because emotion, I thought we love her.

Speaker 1 And I forgave her and everything changed. Nice.
That's horrible.

Speaker 1 I have no anger. I have perfect peace.
And life is amazing. That's very, because anger can destroy your health.
It destroys every fiber of the body.

Speaker 1 Everything about you, anger destroys it. And it brings on loneliness, suicidal thoughts, worry, insecurity, fear, doubt.
Everything.

Speaker 1 There's nothing good in anger.

Speaker 1 No matter what the so-called level it is, anger is aiming if if there's no love yeah it's dangerous i saw you say you uh when your child hits 18 years old you should leave them alone 100

Speaker 1 and if you raise them in the right way growing up meaning you teach them to work how to be independent kids you know let them speak up to be themselves when they turned 18 they will be ready to leave home you know because down in alabama i was raised up everybody raised that way for the bush part.

Speaker 1 And my parents, all my grandparents, especially, they say, well, when you turn 18, you're out of here. In Alabama, I'm a parenting.
I'm like, where am I going?

Speaker 1 And my grandmother said, I don't know. I don't care.
You're out of here.

Speaker 1 And so when I turned 18,

Speaker 1 I left Alabama, went to Indiana, got a job at Toritz. to make some money to come to California.
I moved to California of 18, made a lot of mistakes along the way, but I have not looked back.

Speaker 1 I started my own business before I started Barnes. And I didn't, I had never been taught how to start a business.
I just wanted to start my own business.

Speaker 1 So I started my own business and then I sold that business.

Speaker 1 And then I started Barn, my non-profit. And it's been around now for 35 years.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 it's just been amazing. It's wow.
But that's what's going to happen when you drop the anger. You better drop the anger.
Otherwise, you're going to be afraid to live life. Yeah, it's awesome.

Speaker 1 why'd you choose california well i came out that summer well i have an uncle and aunt out here they had invited me out the summer before i finished high school and when i walked off the airplane i fell in love with california it was like paradise like what the

Speaker 1 originally i was going to live in atlanta and georgia but when i came here i fell in love with california that's why i came back what study weather up here weather At that time, it had a lot of opportunities.

Speaker 1 There were no homeless people around. Really? Down? a few downtown but that's about you know i can't picture without it you had a beautiful streets clean opportunities everywhere um

Speaker 1 uh opportunities everywhere and the crime was almost zero wow a lot has changed yeah yeah holy crap almost zero and that has all changed because

Speaker 1 uh

Speaker 1 then in California voting in the wrong people. The NIFOFAT don't care about California.
It was about might and power there.

Speaker 1 then women are voting in the wrong programs and things like that. Can you imagine they voting in a bill that would take

Speaker 1 bail bonds away and let the criminals out of prison? So

Speaker 1 they agreed to defund the police.

Speaker 1 What kind of sense does that make? And look what's happening as we're there. But California was beautiful at Lechron.

Speaker 1 Still beautiful. Yeah, that's a lot of crime.
A lot of crime and homeless people. I will feel safe when I'm walking around here.
Yeah. No, you really have to wipe your back.

Speaker 1 And also, they voted in a female mayor. Right.
You're thinking about that, huh?

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 1 Mess. I mean, some guys handle the fire is really bad and everything.
Yeah. Like, terribly.
And all she does is smile as she

Speaker 1 does is smile and then she builds places for homeless people.

Speaker 1 And homeless people are so evil and nasty. Have you seen how evil and nasty homeless people are? They feel entitled.
They will go into your

Speaker 1 parking lot and they'll go through the trash cans and they'll dump everything out of the trash and leave it there to walk away. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Because they've been spoiled. They don't have to worry about anything.
The government took care of them now. Out here, they're squatting.
But yeah, how the houses are saying there.

Speaker 1 Can you imagine that? And you have in government to think for that.

Speaker 1 I literally know people who they would like re-go into apartments and things and buying a new pay the whole the people move in and now these people have to go to court to fight the homeless people to get out that's crazy can't for leave out or man in texas you can just pull up with your gun nice take care of it yeah no one will arrest you i know we need that back and that's why we need to vote in the right people in uh california yeah they you subdolly last term right this is it thank god yeah both of you guys got someone good yeah that's gonna be important You're living in Vegas, man.

Speaker 1 It's pretty cool up there. Yeah, Vegas is nice, man.
No crime. We're like top 10 safest neighborhoods.
Are you in the country? I have family members up there, sir. Some coming.
Not bad, right? Yeah.

Speaker 1 We all did night up there. Good food.
I just don't like it. Anything cold up there, right? It's cold, though.
I can't have that. You can't beat the weather here.
Right. That's unbeatable.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 A lot of people love hot weather. Yeah.
We don't love the winter. We don't love swimming.

Speaker 1 We don't love skiing. That's a hot skin.

Speaker 1 We don't love all that mess. It's too cold.
Yeah. I'll bet you I'm not a fan of a boat.
Oh, you're not? Nice. It's all crap.
I like snow once in a while, but not every day. Would you ever,

Speaker 1 were women created to mean or to follow? Follow. Would you ever follow a woman?

Speaker 1 In what?

Speaker 1 Period. Period? Like overall? Period.
Follow a break. Nah.

Speaker 1 you know that there are men who follow women yes they're called six and they're suffering as we die yeah

Speaker 1 i never thought in growing up and i'm old now right

Speaker 1 and i'm older than dirt which you're not at

Speaker 1 god made me first and then he made dirt from so that i may waffle that's how old

Speaker 1 But I never imagined growing up and men will follow women. The woman is supposed to obey the man, but the man is obeying the woman.
I never thought that I would see that. It didn't seem possible.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 1 Well, OnlyFans is a big reason for that. What's that? You haven't heard OnlyFans? But kind of heard that these girls can sell their body.
Oh, yeah. I know, she's wet.

Speaker 1 Yeah, they make millions of dollars and then they def these guys sending them money because guys can't get laid anymore.

Speaker 1 Yeah. 40% of my generation are virgins.
Amazing. Isn't that crazy?

Speaker 1 I heard a report the other day that,

Speaker 1 or sorry, report, that

Speaker 1 men from the age of

Speaker 1 20, I believe, I may be wrong, to 28 have never dated one. Whoa.
Some of the, I mean, having the percentage rate off, but they have never dated a woman. That's crazy.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 That's not good, man.

Speaker 1 No.

Speaker 1 But they're afraid of these women because these women are nothing but bitches. Have you noticed that?

Speaker 1 I hadn't dated in so long, man. I got lucky.
But But you do see them rare.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I see them around. Have you noticed they're bitches? Some of them are mean.
Yeah. But they're bitches.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I mean, some of you for sure. I'm like, A1.
What a bitch.

Speaker 1 Yeah. What now?

Speaker 1 Well, LA just got voted the worst dating city in the country yesterday. I'm not surprised.
I didn't know that, but I'm not. I'm not surprised.
And why are you not surprised, Rare?

Speaker 1 Well, first of all, super liberal. So that's terrible.
Second of all, people care about money and followers here. Yeah.
So most guys don't have that. So they're going after the top 1% men out here.

Speaker 1 So if you're a regular dude, you're screwed. So what I would suggest to men is that they got to start working on themselves.
They got to overcome the anger.

Speaker 1 They got to overcome all that emotional stuff, overcome their mothers so they can overcome their emotional stuff. And I promise them they will get back their natural nature of no fear.

Speaker 1 And they will want for nothing and their life would be amazing. And so what will happen is

Speaker 1 they would,

Speaker 1 the right kind of woman will be put into their life. And if they should get married, they will have a marriage that would laugh them to death through the part because

Speaker 1 they would not be obeying the woman. She would have to obey them.
And they would know in advance if they should marry a woman or not during the dating period.

Speaker 1 I tell men when they date,

Speaker 1 the first question, you go out to the cafe, you order the food, and while the food and drinks are coming,

Speaker 1 your first question should be other than the food thing.

Speaker 1 If we should get married, will you obey me?

Speaker 1 And if she says no, get up and leave. Meet the table, say bye, because you're never going to have a good marriage.
If she's one obeyed, you tell all your guys to get free nups.

Speaker 1 I haven't said that.

Speaker 1 No one asked me about that. For real? No.

Speaker 1 But I hear it all the time,

Speaker 1 you know, but

Speaker 1 i think people are not to be doing that now maybe some are not but most of the send tend to be doing that already yeah i'm getting one are you yeah

Speaker 1 and so how long you been dating eight years really yeah that's a nice time yeah better at 21.

Speaker 1 nice you're supposed to date at least seven years before you you can see because the women are tricking you they're pretend they'll you I've seen that yeah they'll pretend they agree and this and that and in seven years you will know if it's the the right one.

Speaker 1 You'll know, yeah. Yeah, what you will with that, man.
Yeah, thank you. Get married this year, so let's see what happens, man.
Is she gonna stay home and raise your children? Yeah.

Speaker 1 Nice. And she will obey you? I think so.
I take advice from her, too. I'm not gonna lie, but what kind of advice?

Speaker 1 Greeting people, bro. These women, they're intuitive.
Yeah, what it is, because they're earthy, women are earthy, right? Because they're low to the ground because of nature.

Speaker 1 And they can pick up evil in a good way.

Speaker 1 Facts. She can read solar solar nature.

Speaker 1 Men tend not to pick up evil that is because they're from above, right? The women are from below, too tall.

Speaker 1 I'll pick up on it. So, women can pick up evil like that.
But once men overcome their mother, they can pick it up too.

Speaker 1 You may resist the spirit of evil, and again, they won't know you see it, but you will, and it'll be your protection.

Speaker 1 That's cool. But do what you want, of course.

Speaker 1 But I will find out if she's going to obey me or not. Yeah, a lot.

Speaker 1 She's going to be cussed.

Speaker 1 You're a traditional type of marriage guy. But that's the only thing that worked.

Speaker 1 I mean, look at the way things are. Marriages are not working.

Speaker 1 They are not working at all, man. I counsel with men and women around the world, married individual families, and they are reasonable.

Speaker 1 They don't know why they got married. And they get married and they start fighting the day after the honeymoon, the night after it's is over.
And all they do is fight. Yeah.

Speaker 1 And they're like, oh, I saw that you love me. And I thought I love you.

Speaker 1 And it's not true at all. There's a lot of sexless marriages.
What? Sexless marriages. Meaning what? So they're married, but they don't have sex.
Really? Yeah.

Speaker 1 And so what the person began to marry them? No idea. Yeah.
It's like 40% of something crazy high.

Speaker 1 The only reason to get married if you want to have children, if you want a family, right? But if you don't want kids, there's no other reason for marriage. There's no reason to get mentor.
No. Wow.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I want kids. Yeah.
I definitely. That's the only reason to get married.
Some people say, oh, I get married because I don't really lonely. Or I don't want to grow old by myself.
Why not?

Speaker 1 And if you're lonely, why not overcome loneliness?

Speaker 1 Why do you think some person got to help you to overcome loneliness, right? That's not the way to overcome loneliness. Overcome loneliness.
It'll be fine. Yeah.

Speaker 1 But people think coming together again and married, they're going to get rid of their loneliness, their sadness, and all that. That's not right.
It just creates more problems. I agree.

Speaker 1 You should overcome it without something on the outside.

Speaker 1 I definitely agree. Jesse, it's been fun, man.
Where could people find you? They could go to jesseleapeterson.com or rebuildandamaya.com.

Speaker 1 Uh,

Speaker 1 and I think is it also?

Speaker 1 Yeah, but at Water Incursive, you gotta drop the anger you're never gonna have perfect peace until you drop the anger and you are responsible for your own life as an adult we're responsible our kids but every individual is responsible for their own life to overcome the hell within and you anyone that has anger fear doubt loneliness suicidal thoughts worry or all that kind of mess comparing yourself to others jealousy envy attract you're living in hell in In hell, you can overcome all that.

Speaker 1 You've had perfect beasts, but you got to drop the anger. Well, look, check out the stuff, guys, and check out the