The Hidden World of Online Scams Exposed | Nikki Benz DSH #883

Let's talk about these scams.

This isn't anything new.

It happens with adult,

adult actors, it happens with mainstream actors, but and people fall for it.

I really do feel bad because you don't want people to get scammed.

And I get mad.

Pricks use my photos and other girls' photos to scam fans.

I had a guy who came in when I was doing an appearance.

He came in, he had an online relationship for two years.

He thought it was me.

Like, he was literally in love, like ready to marry the fake me.

It was wild.

Yeah.

All right.

Nikki Ben's here and she's going to bust this myth on how to measure your dick right off the bat.

Right off the bat.

So a lot of guys measure it from the balls up, right?

Like underneath the cock.

You can't do that because that adds fake length.

You have to do it on top.

Take your ruler and put it on top of your dick.

That's the proper way to measure it.

Well, I just lost half an inch.

You probably did, yeah.

Damn.

I would ask you how big you are, but I feel like it's inappropriate.

Yeah, I don't know if my girl wants the world world knowing.

No.

I'll just ask her directly.

Yeah, you could ask her.

Yeah.

But I don't know.

But I think when you go home tonight, you should remeasure it and see where we're at.

That might hurt my ego.

That's okay.

Damn.

What's the most someone's lied to you about their size?

Oh, guys lie all the time.

Guys lie about how many girls they slept with.

I had a few guys lie on me, saying that they slept with me and they never have, which is so crazy.

But yeah, guys lie about everything, don't they?

Girls lie about their body counts too, though.

Like they usually lower it, right?

Lower it, yeah.

Yeah, and guys overinflate.

They do.

They do.

It's an ego thing.

It is.

Yeah.

Yeah, but you're open with yours.

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah.

Do you even know yours?

So before I do know, before I got into, actually, I do.

In my personal life, I do.

I never counted in my adult career, but a lot of people think it's like in the thousands, multiple hundreds.

It really isn't.

I tend to work a lot with the same actors

and that keeps my numbers down um

you know what i should count it and let you know but i really don't know on top of my head okay yeah i would assume hundreds at least but

i need to i don't know that it's even a hundred whoa yeah that's the lowest i've heard for

well i've always been under contract and when you're under contract you don't shoot as much And then you literally rotate the same four to five guys

with a certain company.

And then when you switch companies, it's just another four to five guys.

And it's the same people.

I try to kind of, my fans get annoyed with that.

And they'll be like, can you use somebody new?

And I try to do that.

Throw out some new guys.

Yeah, because they get bored of the guy as well.

But I don't know that it's in the multiple hundreds.

I really don't think so.

And in my personal life, it's pretty low too.

Got it.

Are you having more sex in your personal life or business?

When I'm date, so I'm not a serial dater.

If I don't have a long-term relationship, I kind of just,

I'm very low-key.

Okay.

Yeah.

So more in business then?

More in business.

Wow.

Yeah.

So you're really not craving it outside of business like that?

No, I'm very spicy vanilla like i'm spicy but i'm vanilla you know what i mean yeah a little chai latte or whatever chai latte

yes um it's you know what i'm a little bit of a contradiction because i am pretty conservative but i do adult movies and a lot of people don't really understand that And that's okay.

But there's the work me, and that's a whole fantasy.

And then there's the real me that a lot of people don't know.

And I'm pretty chill, pretty laid-back.

Okay.

So you're way different off screen.

A hundred percent.

On screen, it's a persona that I've built.

It's also part of me, but off screen, I'm just in my sweatpants, hair up, just chill.

I love being home.

I'm very, I'm not crazy.

I used to be in my 20s.

I'm just chill.

I'm low-key.

I think a lot of people, when they see the on-screen persona, they just assume I'm that person 24-7 and that's incorrect.

No, no one is.

I mean, real act mainstream actors are not like that either, right?

Just because you see so-and-so in a Batman suit doesn't mean they go home and keep it on, right?

Yeah.

So you'll have weird fans approaching you, thinking you're that person and then 100%.

Fans just automatically think because they've done or do adult movies, they can get it in there and they can't.

You've never slept with a fan?

I think one of my exes was definitely a closet fan.

I just didn't know

at the time.

You know what I mean?

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Because I used to ask him, I used to be like, who's your favorite performer?

What kind of porn do you watch?

And he would never tell me.

And then I found, like,

he used to watch my shit.

You went on his phone when he was there.

Yeah, yeah, absolutely.

Who does that?

He does that shit, man.

Yeah, I love doing that.

Why?

You find out a lot of stuff that they don't want to tell you.

Don't you feel like it's a personal boundary, though?

Oh, well.

Like, how do you feel if he did it to you?

Well, it it is.

Okay, so, but when I ask him, hey, who's what kind of porn are you into?

And he's secretive about it, I think it's weird.

Yeah.

You know, especially, like, I've been with that guy for like over a year and he would never tell me.

But I think the porn that he watches was me.

Okay.

Did you find any gay porn?

No, not with him.

Another guy, yeah.

Yeah.

Oh, we can go into that as well.

What happened there?

This guy that I dated, I actually used his laptop.

I wasn't spying.

I just needed to use it.

And I just happened to

look

at the search.

engine and he was watching gay porn and I confronted him about it.

He was in denial.

He said that it wasn't his laptop.

It was somebody else's.

Could have been, whatever, right?

Don't care.

Years later, like I'm talking about 12 years later, actually last year, we just all found out that he came out out of the closet and he's literally gay, which is also okay, but he was just obviously was in denial.

And what's interesting about him, he dated the hottest freaking girls.

Like he always had like the hotties on his roster.

Damn.

Yeah.

He could pull girls.

Yeah, he was funny.

Girls like that.

Girls like funny.

You know what I mean?

Like he was average looking.

He wasn't like hot, but he was just so funny and quirky.

And I think his personality won over a lot of people.

Unfortunately, I was one of them.

But yes, I can officially say that I've dated a gay, a gay man.

Damn.

Yeah.

Have you dated a trans man?

No.

Oh, God.

No.

No.

Not my thing.

Sorry.

That's where you draw the line.

Well, yeah.

I don't want to get canceled.

I don't want to get canceled.

I love everyone, but not everyone's for me.

Okay.

Let's talk about these scams.

Let's talk about it.

Oh, my God.

What's going on?

So

this isn't anything new.

It happens with

adult actors.

It happens with mainstream actors.

But

fans get scammed by people who steal our photos.

I'm going to use myself as an example.

They'll steal my photos.

They'll create a fake Nikki Benz account.

It'll be like Nikki Benz.

It'll be misspelt.

And it'll be like one, two, three, four, five.

Like you should already know that's a fake account.

And then those fans, or those fans, sorry, those people, those scammers will talk to my fans.

I don't know how they find them online, whatever.

And they'll convince them that that's really me they'll convince them that i need money that i need an iphone that i need tickets to this that the other gift certificates new car whatever and people fall for it They fall for it.

They get scammed.

They feel bad.

And then somehow, by some miracle, they find the real me and then they complain about it.

They get mad at me for getting scammed by a fake.

So I'm on here saying, guys, please stop getting scammed.

Look for the check mark.

If you obviously see my account and it has like five plus million people versus somebody that has 300, you know that's not me.

I can't believe that.

Stop getting scammed.

They really do.

And I feel bad.

I really do feel bad because you don't want people to get scammed.

And I get mad that these pricks use my photos and other girls' photos to scam fans.

Like they obviously target lonely men and they talk to them.

They develop a relationship.

I had a guy who came in.

When I was doing an appearance, he came in.

He started talking to me as if I know him.

He's like, hi, it's me, you know?

Like, did you get an iPhone I sent you?

I'm like, I I don't even know you, but nice to meet you.

And then he had an online relationship for two years.

He thought it was me.

Whoa.

Yeah.

Like, he was literally in love, like, ready to marry the fake me.

It was wild.

Yeah.

And you said he, uh, I think you mentioned $10,000 he sent over the time.

That was somebody else.

Oh, that was someone else.

And I don't know if that's true.

Like, they could have lied to me, but some, somebody told me they got scammed for $10,000 thinking it was me.

And like, I'm never going to ask people for money like that.

Like, join my OnlyFans.

Great.

Thank you.

Support my work, but I'm not going to ever say, hey, send me 10,000.

Like, that's crazy.

What if someone offered 10K for a dinner with you?

I'm okay.

I can afford my own dinner.

Oh, you wouldn't take that?

I wouldn't.

Wow.

It's no.

It's a lot.

It's a lot, but

no.

Damn.

I mean, but like, you have to understand there's like a safety aspect to it, too.

Why would I do that?

It's not even worth it.

You know what I mean?

Unless if I did a contest and like,

people could enter, I don't know, like a contest and like YouTube it, you know?

Maybe.

Yeah.

Damn.

You can organize it for me.

I mean, we'll see what happens, you know.

You don't like anal.

I don't.

Well, oh my God.

Wow.

This is like, that was, hello.

All over the place here.

I'm going home.

You know what?

I don't just, it's okay.

So I prefer not to do anal.

There's just so much work that goes into it.

I know I look skinny, but I like to eat.

And like, you literally can't eat the night before.

You have to starve.

I can't do all that.

It's too much prep.

It's just, I don't, I like vaginal sex.

I've had anal sex at home with like a boyfriend back in the day.

Like, I get a little tipsy and I'll be like really into it and I'll be like, yeah, stick it in.

But honestly, that probably happened like twice my whole life.

Yeah.

I've done anal scenes on screen.

It's just not what I'm known for.

Like, I'm not

an anal queen.

I feel that.

And some girls, some girls are.

Girls are.

What gets the most views these days?

I think MILFs, interracial, and like the whole teeny bopper thing, which creeps me out.

Teeny bopper?

Yeah, like, you know, like really young-looking girls.

And they will like tag them as teens, even though they're over 18.

Oh, okay.

Yeah.

I haven't watched porn in like four years.

Really?

Yeah, so I don't know what's going on.

Is it because your girl doesn't like you to watch it?

She definitely doesn't, but it's more spiritual, let's say for me.

Okay.

Okay.

Yeah.

I respect it.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I don't really watch porn either.

Really?

Yeah, I don't watch porn.

Oh, I assume someone like you would be studying it.

No, I've just got to do it.

Like what's trending and stuff.

No, no.

It's weird because I don't want to watch a porno because I know most of the people.

it's just weird and I'm not really into that and I also know that it's just fake work.

Right.

And then I yeah.

Do you date other porn stars?

I don't.

What's a firm role you have?

I've never been into

yeah, I've never been into that.

I've only dated civilians.

A lot of people in the industry.

I call them civilians.

They're civilians, right, to me.

You know, people in the music industry, I tend to gravitate to that.

I just like people in the entertainment industry because they understand what I do and they understand that it's just business, it's entertainment.

Um, civilians, they don't understand it, they get butt hurt, they can't handle it.

I don't want to go there.

I've gone out on a date with a civilian, but it didn't go anywhere.

Civilian, you're hilarious.

Um, did you go on plug talk?

Yes, how was that?

It was great, yeah, what you talking about with the like,

yeah, oh, yeah, I did, yes, so you get interviewed first and then and then, yeah, yeah, yeah, wow, yeah, and you liked it, I thought it was cool.

Okay, I, I mean, put it this way, I gave her a lot of props, Lena,

because I don't think I could do it.

Like, I couldn't do that with my man.

I'm greedy, but I think what they have going on is it works for them.

It's great.

Well, now he's starting to do it.

He's starting to share her.

Right.

Yeah.

But if they're into it, right?

Like, who are we to say anything?

Like, that people have different things.

Yeah.

Some people can do an open relationship.

They can.

And it, but I honestly, I couldn't do it.

Even though what I do for a living, I couldn't share my guy like that

how much longer do you want to keep doing this do you have like a plan

um so it's yes I do I thought I was gonna stop the adult industry a while ago and then OnlyFans came about

and that changed the whole

you know uh playing field for everyone really because the amount of money we make off of being on OnlyFans differs way greater than it was before.

You know, like it changed the I mean, OnlyFans helped me buy more properties, secure my future, you know, give back.

I'm like able to give back as well, which is nice.

And then it's a good question though, because I look at girls who are older than me and they're freaking killing it because the whole like MILF genre is just explosive.

Like it does really, really well.

And, you know, I thought about it.

I'm like, well, why would I walk away from making money?

More money than I make.

I make more money a month now than I made in a whole year when I was just being under contract with the company prior to only fans that's crazy yeah so I don't want to walk away from that I want to like invest I want to do more I want to buy more properties I want to make sure that I'm set when I'm retiring smart you're planning ahead yes dang I didn't know milks were like the hottest category that's interesting sad and I think interracial interracial because I know you know company um company blacked I've heard of them it's a Vixen group company but they're killing it that's their highest I think

earner out of of all their sites that they have.

It's just a black

and a white girl.

Yeah, it does really, really well.

I'm not into that.

Yeah.

What?

That's crazy to me.

I would have thought lesbian or I don't think lesbians up.

See, for me, so I used to do girl girl scenes.

Yeah, yeah.

And

they, when I produce all my own content now because of OnlyFans, it doesn't sell for me.

What?

Yeah.

Girl, girl doesn't sell?

Not the way my solo scenes actually do better for me than boy girl or girl girl.

Whoa.

Yes.

I know a lot of people don't believe it, and I'll tell you why.

When I do a solo video, the fan that's watching it at home is imagining him with me.

It's like that more intimate experience versus seeing a guy in me, then he knows he's not part of that equation.

And some guys are just literally not into girl girl.

I think it's like, for me, it's the least selling sort of content that I put out.

So are you fully just on OF now and you're not even doing the other scenes?

I do fully OF, but here and there I'll do a mainstream scene got it if it's like a big name absolutely yeah have you done dread yet yes I worked with him yeah he's he's a big boy yeah it was it's not honestly it's not an easy scene to do but he's like just the nicest guy honestly one of the coolest people you'll ever meet and he just makes you so comfortable and don't worry guys your vagina shrinks after okay so it doesn't

there's that classic it goes back in don't worry but yeah he's he's a hard one to work with is he all natty because some guys get that surgery to make it longer.

No, he's natural.

Wow.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You should have him on because he's an awesome person.

I'd love to get to know who he is outside of you'll get a lot of views by having him on.

He's yeah.

Yeah, he doesn't really go on shows I noticed.

I can ask him if he'll come on.

Okay.

Yeah.

Shout out to Dred, man.

Let's get to hear the personal side of you, man.

No, Dred's awesome.

You'll love him.

Yeah.

He's just cool people.

Yeah, because imagine being known just for that.

Like,

he probably wants other opinions out there of stuff of his life, right?

Yeah,

he'll, if you have him on, he'll share his interesting life story.

But yeah, I've been, I've interviewed him before as well for a podcast.

Oh, Brian.

Hell yeah.

Yeah.

Did you enter the space

18, right?

Right in college?

Or did I what?

The adult industry space?

Did you start when you were studying?

I started right before my 21st birthday.

And I'm glad I did that.

I'm glad I waited because I feel like at 21, you're definitely a lot smarter and wiser than 18.

And when I entered entered the industry, I, you know, I didn't want to do it just to do it, make a quick buck.

I knew that I wanted to do it, make money, but do more with, it's like a, you know, stepping stone to greater things.

I'm honestly so grateful for the adult industry.

And a lot of, I know a lot of people are bag on it.

They watch porn and they talk shit about porn stars, but it's like, it's a whole ecosystem that's going on.

There's the adult stars, the makeup artists that are involved, the cameraman, production, PAs, and like we all do well because of the adult industry.

And I'm very grateful for that and grateful to the fans as well.

But when you get into adult industry, you know, a lot of girls, and it's unfortunate, they'll get in because they need a quick book and you can make that as a girl.

And then they get out, but your face is online forever.

You know, and then that kind of can dampen your life a little bit because it's hard.

You make a sacrifice by being in the adult industry because a lot...

A lot of doors do get closed down to you, unfortunately.

It's just how it is, you know?

But if you're smart about it and turn it into a business, you can do a lot and you can make a lot of money.

And if you invest properly and if you buy properties and whatnot, you want to do, you can do really well for yourself.

Yeah, you've crushed it with that.

Who taught you the investing side of things?

Honestly, kind of myself.

Wow.

Yeah.

I just, I read a lot.

I obviously get, I, you know,

read a lot.

I knew that real estate is the way to go, but I also have stocks.

I've been investing since 2012.

Dang.

You know, I was very fortunate to pay off my first starter home and that I got before OnlyFans.

And then now that's my investment property.

You know, I rented out.

And

my goal is to have more properties that I can buy up and rent out.

It's sort of like I want to pivot that way.

Yeah, you just got one in Vegas, right?

Well, in Vegas, yeah.

So I live here part-time.

I got a home here, which I love.

I also have a home in California that I live in as well.

And then rental property that I rent out.

And I'm looking to expand into Texas.

Okay.

Austin.

How did you know?

I'm good.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I study the markets.

Yeah.

I looked in Dallas, but I think is just not for me just yet.

Austin is sort of like, it's weird, it's conservative, sort of the way to go.

That's your vibe?

That's my vibe.

I love it.

Yeah, Austin's fun.

Yeah.

Went it for the first time last month.

It is fun.

It's a good town.

Yeah, I like it out there.

Where do you film majority your scenes?

When I do solo work, I honestly film at home.

Oh, wow.

Yeah.

I don't, for that, I don't really need a studio.

When I produce a scene, like a big scene, then I will get a location, videographer, talent.

I pay everybody.

You know, I put money back in people's pockets.

That's cool.

Yeah, OF has made it a lot easier to get content out there.

Absolutely.

Yeah.

Honestly, just, I'm very grateful to that platform.

Yeah.

Yeah, they changed the game.

Absolutely.

A lot of the biggest stars left.

And they do OF.

Yeah.

Well, honestly, it makes sense.

We haven't always been treated the greatest on sets, on big, you know, adult production sets.

And I think when you create your own content, you're the boss, you're in charge of everything.

Everything just goes great and smooth and easygoing.

You know, there's no issues.

Yeah, when you say you aren't treated greatly, what did that look like?

I mean, I don't even want to get into it.

I think if it happened now, like some of the things I could tell you, it wouldn't happen because the industry has gotten more sort of corporate.

There's been more like lists you go through and you go, are you okay with this?

Are you okay with that?

But like I've had situations happen where they kept us on set for 22 hours.

It's not even legal.

22 hours.

Yeah, it's not, that's not like that would never happen today.

I'm talking about this was like 10, 15 years ago.

It was just more rough.

The industry has definitely gotten more polished and more professional, in my opinion.

But I've had

overall, I love the industry.

It's great.

I did have one unfortunate thing happen to me, which I don't really want to talk about, but you know what?

I got over it.

I'm here and I'm on OnlyFans and whatever happened to me is unfortunate but that company and those people can go fuck off damn yeah shots fired yeah i'll have to look into that one when we're done filming

um so real estate stocks you get any good stocks early um i jumped on apple pretty early okay yeah um

google tesla a little bit later um

I also buy stocks that I actually consume, like Starbucks.

Smart.

This week's been rough, though.

Yeah, I lost a little bit of money, but that's okay.

It'll

correct me.

I'm digging crypto.

I got wrecked this week.

I'm sorry.

Yeah, you don't have any crypto?

I got rid of it.

Smart.

I got rid of it.

Yeah.

You knew the crouch was coming?

I didn't know.

I just got rid of it.

I just, I honestly, it's too risky for me.

It's high risk.

Yeah, because you're at the point now where you don't need to be chasing insane returns, right?

I'd rather keep it moderate.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Stocks in real estate are slow and steady.

Correct.

Yeah.

5, 10% a year or whatever.

I mean, I lost money on stocks, but it's not to the point where I'm going to cry about it.

I'm going to like, it's going to correct itself.

So it'll work out.

Are you doing comedy now?

I love comedy.

First of all, I'm a part-time comic.

Did you not know that?

Ooh.

Yeah.

I'm going to have to come out to one of your shows, huh?

No, I'm not doing comedy, but not as a career yet, maybe down the line.

But I've been asked to do a few things here and there.

I actually did a stand-up act years ago at, I don't remember, it was either the comedy store or I don't remember, but people laughed.

I was shocked.

Okay.

Not I was shocked because I wrote the jokes and people laughed.

I'm like, you know what?

Maybe I have a.

That's a good sign.

It's a good sign.

Your first show?

Yeah.

A lot of people bomb their first one.

I only did three jokes, though.

So, like, you know what I mean?

With three jokes, you can succeed.

Yeah, you might need a bigger sample size.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Because some people go for an hour.

I'm like, no, I couldn't do that.

It's a craft.

People think it's easy.

It really isn't.

You have to like learn joke writing.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

A lot of people think they're funny, but.

And they're not.

Do you know what I mean?

Like, yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Um, did you run for the mayor of Toronto at one point?

Uh, in 2014, yes.

However,

it was a publicity stunt by the company that I was contracted to.

Oh, so it wasn't real?

It wasn't real, but it got to the point where, like, I was so into it, I'm like, I think I really can go through with this.

Like, I got really passionate about it, you know.

However, I had a little bump in the road because I didn't have Canadian ID at the time.

I was already, like, American, ID is American, and so you can't run with an American ID.

Got it.

So if you were able to run, do you think you would have did well?

Who knows?

Who knows?

Could have been the mayor in another way.

It could have been the mayor, baby.

Holy crap.

I do know that there's an Italian porn star turned politician, and she ran and she actually won.

Damn.

Yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

I mean, it makes sense because you probably have over a billion views.

So you are known.

Yeah, not everybody admits it, though, but they know.

I mean, my boy over here has got almost a billion.

So I know you've got close to that, or if not more.

It tells you on the sites, right?

Something like that.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I mean, we're definitely very recognizable.

And I feel like adult stars are sometimes even more recognizable than some mainstream actors.

Everyone watches porn, except for you.

I don't, yeah.

But I'm rare.

That's like

a guy.

But you know what I mean?

Like my face is seen more online than like some actress, mainstream actress.

I'm not talking about like Jennifer Aniston or like Angelina Jalie, but we're definitely very recognizable.

And it's good or bad.

You know, I've had my share of stalkers.

I've had weird people.

Damn.

And it happens.

And the unfortunate part is we can't afford the same security like Angelina Jalie can afford, right?

So it's like, you know.

Mark Zuckerberg's out here spending a million a month on security or whatever, something crazy.

Yeah.

I mean, I can't do that.

Damn.

Yeah.

How often do you get recognized in public?

A lot.

Some people are polite and they'll like ask for a photo and just say hi some people stare which makes me feel really weird because i don't know why

they either know so they're like oh my god or yeah exactly they're like where have i seen her she looks familiar i get that too and then some people they just don't care they'll be like oh cool i feel like in la people don't really care people are like you know what i mean like hollywood la people see a porn star mainstream actor whatever they they're more like used to it right you go out you know east coast midwest they definitely make it a bigger deal

all right So I know you got dogs.

So yes, I have two dogs.

But you took it a step further.

You have trusts.

I do.

I have a trust for, first of all, I put all my properties in my living trust.

That's something that you should do if you own property.

A will is not enough because there's a lot of complications with that.

But in my trust, because God forbid something happens to me, and my dogs are my children.

I don't want to have kids.

Never did.

Wasn't my thing.

Never wanted to go that route.

But my dogs are like my kids.

So if something happens to me, I want to make sure they're well taken care of.

Like they're not going to be taken to, you know, a shelter or whatever.

They wouldn't survive.

They're too little Pomeranians.

So I have a trust for them as well.

So whoever gets to take care of them and I pick those people out, there's a list of three people that I chose.

Whoever wants to take care of them is going to get finances to take care of the dogs for the rest of their lives.

Dang, looking out for your dogs.

100%.

You should do that.

People should do that for their kids and their pets if you love them.

I'll definitely.

I just set up a trust this week.

I'll add my dogs to it.

You should.

Wow.

Honestly, that's smart.

Cool.

Yeah.

You got to protect yourself you got to protect yourself your finances no matter what kind of industry you're in and i always tell girls that in the adult industry i'm like save your money invest protect yourself yeah yeah so you said you never wanted kids never wanted kids it's not my thing and i and it's like it sucks because a lot of people get so uptight about that like people get offended strangers complete strangers online get offended by the fact that if i ever mention i don't want kids and i'd rather know that i don't want kids than somebody who put put it this way, there's too many people out there that have kids and they really shouldn't.

They're bad parents.

They don't take care of the kids.

They don't feed them.

They don't like give them proper health care.

Not that I'm not saying I would be like that because I'm very good with my dogs, but I'd rather just know what I want and leave it at that.

Yeah.

Fair point.

It must be tough in your industry having kids too because all the ridicule the kids will go.

A lot of, I mean, I'm also, I feel like.

the rarity as well, a lot of girls have kids.

And I can't even begin to imagine and fathom what their kids would go through or even like the parents.

The thing is, these girls, these performers are really good moms.

I'm friends with some of them, and they're excellent parents.

But yes, this is what they do.

And I don't really know how they're going to explain that to their kids.

And just the thought of that makes me be thankful for never having, like never ever having that.

Yeah, it must be tough because you guys get the most ridicule I've ever seen.

100%.

People, it's like, it's so, honestly, it's kind of vile.

There's a lot of vile people out there, but I feel like if you're unhappy, if you're, I would never go online and just attack someone for no reason.

Like, I just don't do that.

I feel like secure people, happy people don't do that.

A lot of people that attack adult stars, anyone, anyone really in the entertainment industry, because we're putting ourselves out there.

And people that come on and attack them.

And it happens a lot.

Like you said, I feel like those people are just in a dark hole.

Like they're unhappy.

They're probably like chronic fucking masturbators.

Like never saw the sun, the moon, the stars.

Like they're just unhappy people.

And I'm sure people are going to see this and they're going to say some shit and that's fine.

But you got to to ask yourself, what kind of people are leaving horrible comments?

Yeah, it's fine.

You know, I know it's part of the game.

I get tons of it too.

100%.

I look at my comments and the most viral videos are the most hated ones, too.

There you go.

Thank you, haters, right?

Yeah, they help in a way.

100%.

Have they ever gotten to you, though, like at first when you're younger?

I absolutely.

Because, you know, when you're younger, everything kind of gets to you.

And then the older you get, the less fucks you give.

It's just how it is.

Like, I, like, I've heard it all, and like, I don't really, I have thick skin.

And you have to have thick skin if you're in this industry in particular, but it's like, whatever.

Like, people that say that, people that say anything mean are fucking losers.

Can't deny that.

Did joining the industry affect your family relationships at all?

I've, I mean, yes and no.

I think they're just happy that I've done well for myself in regardless what industry it's in.

Like, imagine yourself being a parent and having a kid and that kid, does it matter what industry he goes into?

Music, mainstream, whatever.

If they don't do well, if they like end up being an alcoholic, a drug addict, no parent's going to be happy about that.

I'm in the adult industry.

It's not, I'm sure it's not the number one choice for parents for their kids to be in, but I have something to show for it.

Right.

So I feel like that, they're okay with that.

Yeah, that you're successful.

Yeah.

Could have easily turned out the other person.

100%.

And that happens, unfortunately.

And your longevity has been impressive because I'm sure a lot of people that entered the space when you did, they're not around anymore.

Some are.

some aren't.

You're correct.

I think I'm not sure what the rate is of the girls, but I feel like at one point, the average rate of new girls coming in and lasting is like eight months.

That's it?

Yeah.

Whoa.

Yeah.

And then it takes a lot to really succeed.

And you can't just be successful right off the bat.

You got to put your work in, right?

But I've been in it for, I think, 20 years.

Crazy.

20 years.

Yeah.

And I've gotten lucky because I didn't, again, I've been under contract a lot.

And when you're under contract with a company you don't really shoot a lot so you don't shoot yourself out like there's still a demand for you and that's really what you want to do you don't want to go off the bat and do orgies triple an all double anal whatever whatever you're gonna shoot yourself out if that's what you want to do great right but if you want longevity I don't think that's the way to go right so work your way up to that 100% and and I still haven't done any of that by the way you know okay yeah when I tell you I'm spicy vanilla I really am spicy vanilla like I'm spicy I got attitude but yeah so you're just like one guy More.

I've shot some crazy scenes, but nothing like

double, like at the same time.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah.

I try to, the movies that I make, I want they're the type of movies I would enjoy.

Like with my man, if I were watching, like just kind of, I guess, couple geared porn, you know?

Yeah.

Do you think when your significant other watches porn, it's a form of cheating?

No, absolutely not.

No way.

Like, I don't think that at all.

Okay, because some people do.

I know, and that's really weird to me.

That concept is weird.

It's like your man is just watching entertainment.

Like, are you offended if you're watching a mainstream movie and there's like a sex scene going on?

Right.

Yeah, they get jealous that they're, I guess, masturbating to another girl.

Guys will masturbate over a cartoon, over a magazine.

Are you going to get jealous over that too?

Come on.

Yeah.

You know what I mean?

I had a friend that just told me he used to masturbate to like some video game.

He thought one of the characters was hot.

Really?

Yeah.

Oh, well, hentai is a big thing.

Was it hentai?

hentai i have no idea but you know what i mean like would would a girl get jealous over that too like

no i you know what if you're secure with yourself whether you're a guy or a girl you're not gonna get jealous over your partner masturbating to pornography or a magazine or anything else

as long as it's legal you know what i mean yeah yeah fair enough yeah no but hentai though you gotta look in it up okay i will look is it like japanese porn yeah you should try to get some voice acting gigs there should i yeah oh yeah like that yeah what would i say uh So they just fake the sex noises.

Oh, that's it like that's it.

But is it like over-exaggerated?

Like Japanese anime girls, yeah.

Oh, so I would have to sound like more like Japanese anime.

I'm surprised you haven't been offered that.

No.

Wow.

Oh my god.

I'm gonna look.

Yeah, hit me up.

I'm gonna look into that.

It's got to be top three on.

Oh my gosh.

Okay.

Yeah, cuz those Asians be there's a lot of Asians, you know?

Yeah, I don't know what your fan demographic is, but

I think I have a little bit of everything, which is great.

Okay.

I'm well-rounded.

And I can say that confidently because when I do appearances or feature dancing, my fans come in all shapes, colors, and sizes.

It's great.

And women too.

Yeah, because you're at those award shows, baby ends.

Yeah.

You probably won a ton of those.

I just won my first award the other day.

I know you did.

I was shaking on stage.

Were you?

Were you nervous?

Yeah, were you nervous with your first one?

Yeah, to go up there, all the lights are beaming on you.

Yeah, you want to make sure you don't mess anything up.

What did you win it for?

Podcast of the year.

Congrats.

That's amazing.

I didn't have shit prepared.

Did you know you were going to win?

No.

No.

I thought I was going to to lose, actually.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And

where did that take place?

Miami.

Oh, shoot.

Okay.

I know the porn ones are out here, right?

Yeah.

Yeah.

That's a big deal.

You should be very, very proud of yourself.

You should go home and actually jerk off to some porn.

I'm good on that.

You know, I think I'm forced.

And do a shout out to Keila.

Nah, I'll save off of the cruise.

All right.

Jerk off on the cruise, whatever.

If it's not on land, mainland, it doesn't count.

So you are pro-masturbation.

I sure am.

Yeah.

Do you still do it?

Once in a while, yeah.

But I can't just use fingers.

I need like a little vibrating toy.

What are those things called?

Hitachi.

Hitachi.

Is that like, right?

The dildo or what is that?

Sure.

It's like a

there's one that's like a massager, but like a lot of people use it to actually masturbate with.

It's freaking great.

Massager.

So it's just, it vibrates, right?

That's what it is.

It vibrates.

You got to have the vibration, baby.

It's tough for guys to compete with that, man.

You got to chill.

You know what?

Step up.

Step up your game.

I know, right?

Some girls prefer toys i heard over you know what i love well the best thing to the best thing really is to have the dick in you and use a toy in your clit i mean that's just the best i gotta step it up you should introduce that into your relationship hatachi or like just a little vibrating thing for your girl's clip there's nothing wrong with that that's not cheating i promise got it and you're not you don't have to compete with that okay yeah it's a little supplemental add-on right yeah why not yeah i'll add it in there cool thanks for the advice um nikki where can people find you um

should i just everything Yeah.

Well, the most important one

that pays my bills, onlyfans.com/slash Nikki Benz.

Of course, Twitter and Instagram at Nikki Benz.

N-I-K-K-I-B-E-N-Z.

You see anything else like Nikki Benz 3969?

That's not me.

Fair enough.

Don't get scammed.

Don't get scammed, guys.

Thanks for coming on, Nikki.

Thanks for having me.

Yep, thanks for watching.

See you guys next time.