Inside an Exclusive $200K Membership Experience | Father Damon DSH #852

Well, I was not literally raised by wolves.

I was raised in, you know, in the 70s.

It was a different time.

You know, my parents were hippies.

Everyone around was doing drugs.

There was a lot of musicians.

It was a different world.

People just were free.

They just did what they wanted to do.

Because if you think about the art and the music that came out of the 60s and the 70s, I mean, it was just like, it was some of the best music that will ever be made.

All right, guys, Father Damian here, all the way from LA.

Thanks for driving in today, man.

Absolutely.

Yeah, it means a lot.

And I know you're moving to Miami soon.

I am in September.

What prompted that move?

That's a good question.

I had to stop and think about it for a second because

I started a club called Elysian, which is my new

club.

And I had this real

clear thing in mind about

love and connection and sexuality kind of being combined into into an event.

And I really felt like I achieved what I was trying to achieve.

But what happened was very interesting, which was that

it attracted the porn community.

I mean, our events would have 60, 70 girls, you know, 80% were porn stars.

And they were coming to the parties to have the kind of sex they like to have in real life.

Like there's no cameras there.

There's nothing being filmed.

There's no exchange of money.

So it was a place where they started to come to like enjoy their own sexuality.

And as word got out, that really grew.

And so what ended up happening is like, I think that some of the people that were coming to the parties, you know, when you have couples coming and let's say it's a couple in their 40s and it's a woman, you know, a wife or whatever it might be, being in a room full of 20-year-old porn stars maybe was make, it wasn't the most comfortable thing for them, you know?

And I was so like

open arms arms to the community because I hadn't really had a lot of experience with the porn community at all you know I hadn't met a lot of porn stars I hadn't talked about

it's not really something that I was interested in or pursuing but

but it became this thing of like these parties where they were coming to enjoy themselves and enjoy their sexuality and I think that actually some of my members felt intimidated by the environment you know and I saw that

I saw that because you know sex parties for me in the past,

the guests were not from porn.

You know, it was just real people hanging out, wanting to meet, you know, other people.

And it became a little confusing.

You know, the clientele that I'm used to,

like I said, they felt a little intimidated and the tickets are really expensive and the memberships are really expensive.

I thought it was kind of heaven.

I thought it was paradise.

Like if you have 60 girls that are all, you know, cool and beautiful and enjoying themselves, very sexual,

that environment

I thought would, like a man would love that environment.

But we also had some porn stars there, you know, and

like the males.

And

I think it was an intimidating environment for people, you know?

And so,

you know, as I started to kind of

build this membership in LA,

I just started to feel like my vision of what I was trying to achieve was not going to be achieved here.

And I also feel like for better or worse, LA is in a bit of a decline.

I think that restaurants are kind of, a lot of them are closing.

The scene that used to be there isn't really happening.

You know, people aren't spending money like they used to.

My tickets are 5K.

Wow, for one night?

Yeah, my memberships go from 50 to over 200,000.

Holy crap.

And,

you know, I feel like that community that can afford

what I do, because I like to do really

big productions, a lot of theatrics, costuming, hair and makeup,

a lot of performers.

You know, I bring in set decorators.

I transform the space and it's expensive.

So I need to charge those prices.

I'm not sure that the market is there for me anymore in LA.

I think, you know, what I, just what I was experiencing was guys constantly trying to like get in, you know, under the price.

Can I give you some cat?

You know, can I, can I, and it was, it was, it was not something I was used to.

And, and most of my friends and most of the people that were,

you know, like the guys that really have money have moved to Miami

or New York.

And I think there's been kind of an exodus from Los Angeles.

The nightclubs aren't.

really doing what they used to do.

Bottle service isn't doing what it used to do.

So in a way for me, I feel like

I need to be where

my clients are.

And

they're there now.

And also I've lived in LA for a long time

and I want to, you know, I've never lived in Miami.

I've been there.

I really like it.

I'm curious what it's going to be like.

So I'm going to get a place for a year.

We have a dock.

We're going to have a yacht.

I have a Rolls-Royce in the driveway.

I like the whole thing.

It's going to be wild.

And yeah, and experience that.

And then I love New York City.

I love the energy there.

And so I'll be able to do, you know, I'm going to be doing events in Miami and New York.

So yeah, you know, the LA, the LA experiment went really well as far as I'm concerned.

Like I delivered what I wanted to, and I really did make a party, even though it's a sex party, really about connecting with people, about having, you know, about having the kind of sex that I think is good, which is more connective, not just like performative or, you know, just the motion of sex and just what, like, like sex can be either something that that I feel is

a spiritual experience literally or it can just be a physical experience and and and I'm going I'm trying to tap into the more spiritual aspects of it

for whatever reason I don't think the LA the LA audience was really there for it other than

all of the girls in the porn community it was like it was like you know and I got to know them really well and I got to understand their sexuality the kind of sex they were having on set how disconnected it was.

And a lot of them don't even have sex for their own pleasure.

They don't even have relationships.

They just fuck on camera.

Am I allowed to say that?

Yeah.

Okay.

And

it's pretty, you know, it's pretty empty.

And so

because of my ethos and what I was trying to accomplish,

that energy did kind of happen there and

they really loved it.

So, you know,

it helped me to sort of start something I didn't think I was gonna start which is a content house and starting to to to to film explicit content that is very connective you know that that that where I'm asking the girls like what do you actually like I interview them talk to them about their sexuality what what they're genuinely into generally they'll show up on set and it's like okay you know this is your this is a stepfather stepdaughter scene and you know these are the positions and then you know you're gonna get you know, cum all over your face.

And it's like, you know, whatever people watching porn may think, you know, most of these girls aren't, aren't really into that.

They're not even actually orgasming.

You know, it's not,

but sometimes, and that's not everyone.

There are girls that absolutely love what they do.

And, and, but it, a lot of times it's the girls that have really established careers and they can dictate things more so.

They can, they can talk about what they want.

They can say no to things.

The younger girls coming in, I mean, they just get like train rolled through.

I mean, there's no one there to look after them or really care about them.

At least that's what I'm experiencing and hearing.

And, you know, I could be wrong.

I don't know everything, but that's been my experience with these girls.

And I got to know them as friends, you know, and they told me their truth.

So

yeah,

I definitely think that I can.

I definitely think that I can make content

that is more along the lines of what they want, their real sexuality and what they're really into.

And so I'm starting to get into that.

And yeah, I mean,

the events and the relationships I formed there kind of led me into this thing now where I'm doing content and I'm creating things, you know, that I didn't think I was going to because I do parties, I do events, and I love doing that.

But now, you know, so

there was like a loss because I know that

I wanted to achieve something in LA that I...

that I wasn't able to, you know, but I feel like I did it the way I wanted to and I'm proud of that.

And I'm hoping that the East Coast will, um,

will be, will, will be more into this, you know, will be into this idea, the idea of this and, and what this is about.

Um, so yeah, so we'll see.

I think you'll do well in mind.

A lot of crypto money there, and crypto is doing well.

So, yeah, and, and really, I,

although, although it's hard for people to talk about it or admit it or whatever sometimes, you know, we all want love.

We all want to be connected to somebody.

I think the ultimate experience with anybody is a feeling that like you're desired, you're wanted, you're loved, you're feeling a connection.

A lot of men pay for sex and that's not the kind of sex that I like because it just doesn't, it's just not very satisfying.

It's not, it's pretty empty.

I like really deeply connective sex, you know, and so

Because I'm back in this business again and I've been doing this for a long time, I'm hoping that I can guide people to that place because it's just better.

It's better sex.

It's like, and it's and it's a better feeling after.

And you can form friendships that are real.

You know, I say like, if you're going to be with someone for a night or for 10 years, it doesn't matter.

You know, you can have love and connection at a sex party.

It's very possible.

But I need the clientele that desires that.

And, you know, truly

a lot of men, mainly, I mean, some women too, but a lot of men, they just want to fuck.

You know,

that's what they're coming there for is just, they just want to fuck.

But I've taken out any kind of exchange of money.

I've taken out

the kind of aspects that would allow that to just happen in that way.

So you actually have to connect with someone.

So when you're meeting a girl at one of my parties,

you have to sit down and talk to them and relate to them and

look in their eyes and have some chemistry and some connection.

And I think that some of these really wealthy dudes are so used to

paying for it

or

in so many ways, whether it's like a sugar daddy baby thing a relationship it's it's based on commerce um

and yeah and i i think that um it's like you know it's like eating at mcdonald's or something like it tastes good but then you got a stomachache after and it's not even good for your body yeah i feel like empty sex and and non-connective sex is very similar to that so 100 a lot of people have sex and they feel like shit off there yeah spiritually right yeah i think so and um

you know i i know this message will resonate and will catch on i think that it's a strange business business that I'm in.

You know,

I don't think of what I do as sex parties.

I think of what I do as a place for people to connect and see art and experience theater and all of this great stuff that we do.

And out of that, when you make connections, you know, like if you go out to dinner with someone, right, and you take them out to dinner and you're connecting with someone

and you're turned on to them and she's turned on, then, you know, you might want to go back to your house and make love and have sex.

Like that's totally acceptable and normal.

When you're doing it

in a sex party type of an environment, it's the same exact thing, but like you're having sex on the there.

And there's something about that that makes what I do

seem like people have to hide from it.

They can't talk about it.

It's a secret for them.

In a perfect world, I would make it where like people could come to my party and feel proud about it and say, I went to Elysian.

It's an amazing place.

know, this, I, I love the experience.

All of these great people whose names I can't mention who tell me that personally can't say it out loud.

I may, there may never be a time, at least not in my lifetime, when sexuality is something that people can just talk about.

Right.

You know, when different kinds of sexuality and all this, when, when people can be accepting of that.

But I'm trying to make that happen.

You know, that's, that's part of my like little mission here.

Yeah.

I can definitely definitely see that.

There's a lot of shame and guilt with talking about sex openly, right?

Publicly.

If that wasn't the case, your club would be popping because everyone would just be word of mouth marketing for you.

Yeah,

it's interesting because I've always had to operate as a bit of like a secretive society type vibe, right?

Because I can't, because it's got to be secretive.

I've got to protect my members.

I can't talk about it publicly.

Yeah, and you got some of the biggest clientele.

So I do.

I have amazing people, you know, and I've forged friendships with them and

they genuinely love what this is, you know, and it's amazing that they come.

I love having them.

You know, it makes for great parties when you're looking around and you see these people that you recognize or that you look up to and things like that.

Shit, I'd pay 5K to be in the

hole.

I mean, you could come.

Are you ever in Miami?

Yeah, but I got a fiancé.

Oh, well, you know, couples come all the time.

Oh, yeah.

And there's another thing, too,

is that

most people are not, it's not like you're stepping into an orgy.

I think the public perception and the reason people are sort of afraid of what it is is they think, oh, I'm going to walk in.

It's just going to be a bunch of people

fucking in a room.

And it's not like that at all.

At my club, you're not even allowed to have sex until after midnight.

They're shifting lights and the lights start like an amber color and then they get a little deeper orange and then they turn red.

When the lights turn red, that's when you're allowed to have sex.

Everyone's just, yeah.

But before that,

you're talking to people.

It's like a cocktail party.

You know, you're meeting amazing people.

You're meeting the kinds of people you'd want to meet, having real conversations.

You know, everything's curated.

The ladies, guesses, everyone's really beautiful.

It's a great environment.

And then you're watching shows and,

you know, we do all kinds of things that are really, really fun and experience.

And we have art everywhere, like, you know, amazing erotic art that's multi-million dollar art.

So it's a really, it's like, it's like a cocktail party, you know, for the kinds of people you'd want to be at a party with and then when the lights turn red that that lets people know that that if they want to start to engage and and make love and whatever that they can and and you know and at that point you and your fiancé could could you know watch or walk around or or hang out or leave you know like like like there's a there's an opening to this thing where you get to experience what it is and then when the sexuality starts you might find that you're so comfortable in that environment and your fiancé is too that you guys are like, Wow, this isn't what I thought it was gonna be.

This is super cool.

That's what everyone says.

That makes sense.

It's like the same thing.

Like, this is not what I thought it was gonna be.

But if, but if you're if you guys are like maybe uncomfortable around sexuality, or the idea of seeing other people have sex would make you uncomfortable, or being in an environment where that was so kind of open, then I can understand someone being uncomfortable with it.

It's become so second nature to me.

You know, it's like

you're used to it.

I don't even i don't even notice it and and when it's when it's a really cool party it can be some of the most amazing things you've ever seen in your life i mean to see yeah to see people in groups making love and and having sex you know all of it i it's funny i don't know what to say whether to say making love or having sex because they are different right you know set like to me having sex is like the act the physical act of sex making love is like actually being connected to your partner so that when you're together there's love you know and you're sharing in that probably what you have with your fiancé yeah When you bring that to a party,

yeah, I don't know.

You guys might want to just check it out.

And if you do, I mean, if you want to, you let me know.

And

I'm not going to charge you $5,000.

I appreciate it.

Yeah, absolutely.

I love showing people what I do.

I really do.

Because generally the reaction is...

is just like, wow, I had no idea that that is what it was going to be like.

And I think the more people that experience it that can talk about it, like you could talk about it.

Yeah.

Right.

Because I'm inviting you on the show.

You would be going for research.

You're not there.

You know, you don't have to be embarrassed about it.

Like a lot of my clientele, if they go to a sex party, it might affect their careers, their job.

Maybe they're running a company.

You know, like, but for someone like you, you could actually go talk about it.

And so you could help me get the word out.

And I know, you know, I know that

whatever preconceptions you have about it, that I would change those.

Yeah, I'd be open.

There's growth in uncomfortable situations.

So for me, putting myself in a situation like that, I'm willing to try it.

Yeah.

You know?

And what, and, you know, and you can, and I'm not going to say what you do there.

So whatever happens, whatever happens.

Whatever happens, happens.

It would be on you to speak about it or not.

Yeah.

Yeah.

No, that's cool, man.

On your website, very interesting site, by the way.

It said you were raised by wolves, spiritual teachers, and drug experimenters.

Yes.

That's a lot.

Oh, that's the Father Damon website.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I haven't even looked at that in a little while.

Yeah.

So what's going on with that?

Well, I was not literally raised by wolves, but I was raised by,

I was raised in, you know, in the 70s.

You know, I was born born in 1970 I'm 53 years old it was a different time you know my parents were hippies that everyone around was doing drugs there was a lot of musicians

you know it was it was a it was a time when

when anything anything went you know like when I would fly to New York and I as a as a six-year-old kid because I have a lot of family over there

they would put me and my sister you know him me and my sister over to the stewardess

and and and and one time they were like you know there was no seats left in non-smoking.

Wow.

Okay, so imagine two little kids sitting on a plane and people are smoking next to us.

I mean, it was a different world.

You know, it was, it was, people just were free.

They just did what they wanted to do.

And and and so some of that was absolutely beautiful.

Because if you think about the art and the music that came out of the 60s and the 70s, I mean, it was just like, it was some of the best music that will ever be made.

Agreed.

I listen to 70s music.

Okay, cool.

And so that culture, you know, born me and I learned so much in it.

But it was also, as a child,

a scary place.

You know, it wasn't a place of safety.

It wasn't a place of like, you know, I mean, I don't know how you were raised, but I have kids now.

I have two kids.

And like, I would never expose them to any of that.

I would never do drugs or even drink in front of them.

My parents did, it was second nature to them and everyone around them.

So,

so yeah, I mean, it was raised by wolves.

What else did I say?

Oh, I brought that on.

Raised by wolves, spiritual teachers, and drug experimenters.

Yeah, right.

So that pretty much covers it all.

You know, the spirituality, spirituality was very strong, you know, in my family, but not religion, but spirituality.

And I think a lot of people were searching at that time.

You know, also spirituality was a lot of, you know, LSD and mushrooms and finding your way there through those channels.

So, you know, it was an intense childhood, but I think that, you know i

i would i wouldn't want it any other way i learned so much and and and it brought me to this place now where i am a very free-thinking very creative person i would never be doing this if i listened to what society told me was okay

um and i love what i do and i love what i what i what i give to the to my guests and to the people that come so Yeah, it all worked out pretty beautiful.

And also mentioned on your site, you were finding the meaning of life.

It sounds like you've really found your purpose, though.

Yeah, I mean, I wrote that a long time ago.

And, you know, know, my life has been a really like a constant evolution and I, and I'm constantly learning more.

And I may say something on a podcast or, you know, to

someone two months ago or three months ago and feel differently now.

And I may say something now and I might change my mind.

And I allow myself to do that.

You know, right now, I just spent six months, seven months up at this house, this estate in the Hollywood Hills, and I dove into

a community that I'd never been a part of.

And I, you know, and how I was having a lot of sex and a lot, like

threesomes and foursomes, and just a lot, a lot of stuff that was new for me on that level, where these girls

in the community are so free and open with their sexuality, and they love sex.

Was that the porn community?

Yes.

And in particular,

they were really into the kind of sex that I'm into, which is that, like I was saying, on set and all of that, they're just bodies getting fucked.

They're not,

you know, and then in their personal lives, a lot of times men just assume that that's what they want or that's what they are.

But when you show them love and you connect in deeply with them and make love with them and fuck their brains out, of course.

You do both.

But that energy, I found that

they were very, not only open open and receptive to, but it was like they would invite their friends over too.

Like I would be in a bed with three of them, you know, and we would just, yeah, I mean, for real.

And it was beautiful.

And I thought, you know, and I, and I really had a lot of that experience.

And, but sitting here now at this moment, you know, I just.

Like I'm glad, I'm glad I went, I'm glad I had the last five or six months of my life, but that is not actually what I'm seeking, you know, and

it reminded me that, you know, I like to have like my person and I like to have a deep connection.

And I was in a 20-year monogamous relationship before I started Sanctum.

Dang.

Yeah.

And I have two kids with my ex-wife and she's just an absolute, I mean, she's an incredible, incredible person.

And then I started my club.

And then when I, about two years before I sold my club, I got into another relationship that was six years.

Whoa.

And I've only been single like maybe.

you know, nine months or so.

So I'm back in this stage of like wild experimentation and learning new things.

i mean these girls have taught me a lot quite honestly i thought i knew everything and i was already there but i was learning things from these girls because they are like

their sexuality is advanced you know how so like what does that look like

i mean part of it is just like you know this is not about spirituality at all but part of it is just like technique i mean like like these girls know how to suck dick in a way that civilians don't you know and and they know how to like

yeah, it's just like, I mean, my bed would be soaked with so much squirting.

I mean,

the last time I had sex, I was like, I was like, you know, I'm telling you, like, like,

because I just changed the sheets, you know, I mean, we just fucking ruined the sheets the night before.

And so, and, and this has been happening with me where I'm like, you know, like, don't fucking squirt.

Like, just don't do it.

I, I don't, you know, I, you know, and I'll, and I, it's kind of fun, but, but then it happened, so, so they're different.

They're like, I've, in all of of the years that i've had sex before this last seven eight months

i'd maybe experienced that like one time squirting yeah yeah same and and and i mean these girls are just like they're like exploding it's crazy you know and i don't know if if it's like

if they're doing that because that's part of their act now you know or or but but in my in talking to them and and in you know

I'm not getting the feeling that it is.

I'm getting the feeling that like they're learning these things.

They're learning how to squirt.

And once they find that, that intensifies their orgasm or it can.

And so they want to really let go and release into that feeling.

And it just

all over the place.

Whereas most women probably don't, haven't learned that experience, you know?

Yeah.

So yeah, like, and also.

It's not, you know, I mean, I've had threesomes and stuff, but to have three girls all kind of me connected in with them and them all connecting with me and them connecting with each other,

You know, a lot of these girls are obviously bisexual

for real, you know, not like a civilian bisexual, but like really, like they really love to have sex with each other.

And so I get to be with them in this mix.

So the sex was incredible.

You know, it was a really, it was really fun to be doing that.

And I was,

I told myself when I went into this, I was like,

I want to be able to love these girls.

I want to be able to say I love you.

And I want them to be free to say that to me.

And I would go into it like that and I would say, listen, like if I'm really feeling something for you, if I, and I say I love you in a moment, because you know, when, when, when, when someone is, is sucking your dick for 30 minutes straight and, and, and taking you to another planet, like, you can't help but to love that person.

They are giving you so much pleasure and they're getting pleasure out of giving that to you.

I mean, I literally, when I, after I have sex, I, I think, I generally say thank you.

Wow.

Thank you for that experience.

And when I hear that back, then I know that like that

that was good sex, you know?

Yeah.

But

I just changed, I changed the language a bit for them and the experience of it for them and myself because I'm a very, that's the kind of sex I like.

And the combination was just, it was amazing.

That's incredible.

Yeah, it was pretty stressful.

Oh, you've lasted that long?

Like from a blowjob?

Yeah.

I can't really come from blowjobs.

What?

It's really hard.

Yeah, I know people say that, but

I'm a little weird.

Like I don't,

it's not that I don't ever want to come in someone's mouth or come on, someone, whatever, but, but, like, I,

like, I like pussy so much.

Like, I want to be inside somebody and, and I get off when they get off.

Like, I get off on seeing them get off.

You know,

when you really take someone on a good ride and their eyes start to roll back into their head, and you can see that

they're going into this space where you're just and you're the one taking them there that fucking gets me off the a blow job is pleasure and i love pleasure but what makes me you know want to get to a place of orgasm is is is going on that journey with someone you know i i like i i like to

this is gonna whatever i don't care i'm just gonna always speak my truth but but i like you know i like i like having sex until I feel like someone can't really come anymore.

Like they're at that point where if you keep going It's not it's like you can feel when when it doesn't you know, they're done They're exhausted and then and then I will then I will try to come with them for that last time

Damn, you know, I also not that I want to to say that drug use or of any kind is good and it might not be but for me like I I like to get really high when I have sex.

I love I love sex and weed.

I have a brand called sex weed.

I love sex and weed.

I it takes it takes the ego out of it for me it takes any performance anxiety out of it for me and i really have like

you know

i just total dick control you know tdc that's what i call it i just like like so so weed helps me with that same there's no doubt weed helps with

and also being really comfortable with someone i generally don't just like even though i throw sex parties i don't generally meet someone at a sex party and just like pull them somewhere and fuck them like i want to get to know you i want to understand you i want to i want to know a bit about you i want to tell you a bit about me so that we form a bit of a connection because,

you know, it makes sex better.

And then,

yeah, I mean, there's ways to have, if you're jumping into sex and it's just like this really perfect body and this beautiful girl and you're just like trying to perform and you want to make her come and all you're thinking about is your own self and your own ego.

Because really, most of the time when you're thinking like, I want to make her come, you're thinking, I want to make her come because I want to be the man.

You're not thinking like,

I just think, I just want to be with this person.

I just want to look at, I want to, I want to feel them.

I want to put, I have a hand on their heart so I can feel their heartbeat.

I want to listen to their breath.

I want to take, I want to, I want to have sex with them and I want to bring them somewhere and I want to, and I want to go to this place with them.

So, so I'm really more focused on her than I am on myself.

And it takes all of the pressure off me.

You know, I'm just,

yeah, I don't know.

I kind of figured it out.

I kind of figured it out.

And

it's not like I can't come from a blowjo, but I just don't want to because I want to make love.

You got good control.

Yeah, yeah.

Do you let people explore their fetishes at your parties?

Yeah, everyone can explore whatever they want.

It's a really, it's a really, it's a place where there's no judgment, which is nice for people.

Where

anyone can, you know, as long as it's consensual,

people can do whatever they want.

You know, people can enjoy sexuality in any way that they like to.

I don't attract like

much of a fetish community to my clubs because I'm not necessarily that into fetish.

You know, I I I've explored BDSM.

I know Shibari.

I, you know, I've learned the art of it.

And I can

it's like, you know, doing the rope when you tie

put a dress on someone, you can suspend them from something.

Yeah.

I've seen that.

See the Japanese

part.

Yeah, kind of, kind of that vibe.

I've, you know, I wanted to learn everything I could.

And so if there is someone that genuinely, you know,

wants to be restrained or wants to feel out of control or wants to feel a little bit scared or wants to to be choked or wants some of these types of things,

you know.

I know how to do it.

And if I know they genuinely want it, then I want to give that to them.

I want them to have the best experience they can with me.

You know, because I want them to come back and invite their friends too.

You know, I mean, that's the reality

of sexuality for me and my world is that, you know,

if I'm not, if I'm not a good lover,

then

everyone knows.

We all talk.

Everyone talks.

So, like,

there's that part too where, you know, I'm always trying to get out of ego and just trying to get into love, but I'm still a human being and I still have an ego.

And so,

yeah, I mean,

I do want to

really take care of whoever I'm with sexually.

It's important to me.

Yeah.

You mentioned Sexweed earlier.

What's that about?

Is that a weed company?

Yeah.

It's a weed brand that I launched recently.

It's called Sex Weed.

And

sexweed.com.

And it's just, you know, sex and weed have been a thing for me for many years.

The girl that I was with for six years introduced me to weed and sex.

Before then, I wasn't really into weed.

I didn't really understand why people wanted to get stoned.

I actually didn't get.

Do you get stoned?

Rarely these days.

I usually get stoned before these interviews.

Really?

Yeah, I like to stop.

Does it help?

Yeah, it puts me in a bit of

a philosophical state of mind.

I love weed.

I love weed now.

But before when I'd smoke weed, before I kind of built up a tolerance to it, I think I would just feel tired and kind of

lethargic.

But now,

especially the weed that I grow, you know, the weed that I put in my stuff, it's just very expansive and it really, I love it.

I love having conversations on it.

I love having sex on it.

When we do a part two, I'll smoke with you before.

We'll see how it goes.

I have some in the car.

Oh, you still?

Are you allowed to smoke here?

Yeah.

Probably not inside, but outside.

Okay, cool.

I don't think anyone will care.

That's funny, though.

We'll link it below.

That's cool.

Cool.

Anything else you're up to before we close off?

Well, a lot, but I guess we're coming to a close.

Yeah.

So,

yeah,

I guess if I'm going to say anything, it's that,

you know,

I want people to learn that sex can be something really beautiful and

it can be a spiritual experience and and that society telling you that it's bad or that it's dirty or that it's wrong like they don't know what they're talking about or maybe they're having that kind of sex and that's on them but we can have incredible sex and sex is beautiful and it can even be beautiful in a group situation it can even be beautiful what you know whatever it is for people if you if if you do if you find a way to do it with some love and you connect in with these people your partners or people you just met then you can have great sex and that and that's the message i want to spread it and i guess the last thing before we go is that, you know, if you're out there and you're a 20-year-old guy and you're watching porn and you're seeing these girls and these scenes and you're thinking, that's what girls want, it's fucking not.

Like, I promise you, it's not.

I know.

If anyone knows, I do.

It's not what they want.

They want connection and they want love or they're just fucking for money.

So connect in with them.

Make love with them.

It doesn't mean you need to be like totally, it's a roller coaster ride.

You know, fuck their brains out, whatever,

if they like that stuff, and then slow it back down.

Bring it into intimacy.

Give them kisses.

Love them.

Look in their eyes.

Let them know that they're more than a fucking body or whatever.

And that will bring a new kind of sexuality.

And when you go out into the world and you meet some new girl, like connect, connect in.

You know, don't fuck her unless she's someone that you want to talk to the next day.

It's stupid.

It's stupid for everybody.

Just find ways to connect with each other.

And sex can be so, so so good and i and i i you know your listeners i'm sure a lot of them are in their 20s and and and and they're getting the wrong idea from porn you know and and and i've i've been i've been with a lot of them now and i'm speaking the truth you know these girls love connection they love to feel loved and they and and they love sex especially when it comes with with you actually giving a fuck about them you know and and and that goes across the board for any woman and and anyone anyone could meet so if i if i only have this much time time

oh that helps we'll definitely do a part two we'll link your uh club below if anyone's in miami they can check it out right cool yeah that uh elyssianvip.com awesome if you're in miami guys check it out for sure thanks for coming on man that was thank you yeah cool thanks for watching guys see you tomorrow