Richelle Ryan Will Take Your Virginity! | Digital Social Hour #124

Out of the 17 years of dorm,

who would you say like out of all the races have like the biggest?

Um

predominantly black men do have

the biggest life.

Sorry, Sean.

Yeah, because after MILF, there's I don't even know what's after MILF.

Yeah, I mean there's guilt.

I don't know if I want to go that route.

What's guilt?

Grandma.

Grandma, I'd like to f ⁇ .

But

I will die.

Oh, it's out there.

It's out.

Ask the Google machine.

It's out there.

Wow, guilt.

And then what's after that?

Oh, I don't know.

I hope there's nothing after that.

Welcome back to the Digital Social Hour.

I'm your host, Sean Kelly.

Here are my co-host, Wayne Lewis.

What up, what up?

And our guest today, Rochelle Ryan.

Hi.

Rochelle.

How are you doing?

I'm doing amazing.

Thanks for having me on.

Curly white.

So I see you.

Oh, yes.

I overly bleach my teeth.

For real?

Yeah.

What do you use?

Everything.

Really?

Everything.

You got to give me some advice.

Oh, I get that.

Well, I get the zoom whitening from my dentist, and then I sleep with the crest 3D whitening strips on.

You sleep with them on?

And I think that's why they're so white.

And trust me, like, I have.

Yo, those hurt.

I know.

I have major sensitivity issues.

Hot, cold, everything.

Yeah.

Wow, they're like really white.

But I have white teeth, and you guys noticed it.

And they're not veneers either.

No.

Literally, you just had braces as a kid.

Aren't you supposed to use the strips for like 10 minutes?

30.

Yeah, like 30.

And I sleep with them for eight hours.

Is that like supposed to.

You're not supposed to do that.

That bleach is working, working, working.

It is.

Oh, I'm seeing right now on the screen.

Yeah, they are nice and white.

What you've been working on other than whitening your teeth?

Oh my gosh, I am a workaholic.

I'm always working.

Um, I still currently shoot adult films and then I feature dance, and I also do

so.

I have my hands in all the baskets making money.

So, out of those three, what's bringing in the most dough right now?

Um, probably OnlyFans,

yeah, for real, killing a doe fan.

Oh, yeah, definitely, definitely, yeah, yeah.

I've so I started in the adult film industry.

I did

lower your right.

Oh, yeah.

Lower it.

Okay.

Boom.

And back to our regular scheduled program.

Yes.

I started doing adult films July 11th, 2006.

So I'm coming up on 17 years.

Wow.

So, which is a huge deal because being relevant almost two decades and seeing the shift from, you know, when I first got in the industry, we were literally just, that's all we did was just shoot for the companies and we were making them so much money billions billions a billion dollar industry and it's insane and um so i i'm enjoying seeing the shift i love that the control is in the performers hands that we can now own and create our own content and that fans are seeing that and they love that and

is very personal they can chat with us they can see our private videos and you know whatever we want to share with them and you know i think it's great so you so you still do do today?

Yes.

So you actually like doing

I do.

You know, I shoot anywhere from two to four times a month.

And that's just to kind of keep my name relevant.

And I want to get the traffic from the big companies.

You know, when I first got into the industry, my agent, he had me working all the time.

I was shooting for anyone, basically.

And now I'm just kind of like, eh, I only want to shoot for the top companies because I want to get their traffic.

But I spend so much time between my

takes up so much time.

Yeah.

Have you ever done a shoot where you're like kind of uncomfortable?

Like they're making you do some weird stuff?

Um,

no, I was always pretty good.

I'm pretty vocal.

I'm an Italian from New York, so if I don't like something, I'm like, I'm out.

I don't like this.

And I'm really good at communicating, like, hey, this is what I like, this is what I don't like.

And, you know, so I would, I would leave.

So, so what do you like?

What do I like?

You know, it's weird.

The older I get, the more vanilla I feel like I get.

Um, you know, when I first got into the industry, I was 21 and I was like, oh, I love women and I love everything.

And now I'm kind of like, yeah, I just like guys.

I just want to like, I love men.

I love like that testosterone.

That's all I want to be around.

But I mean, I don't hate women, but it's just me, it's, you know, when I first started in the industry, I was 21, which I could do like teen stuff.

And then I kind of morphed into that weird age from like 28 to 32, where it's like, oh, okay, well, we don't know what category to put her in.

So you're just kind of like the hot.

There's teen, there's MILF, and then there's like the hot girls like in between.

And then there's like tatted up girls.

It's like everybody wants to put everyone in a category.

Yeah.

And so I was just kind of in that weird, stuck in that weird category for a very, very long time.

And then morphed over into the MILF side, which I absolutely so how do you separate actual like

the interaction of outside of then

are they the same I've always been do they feel the same in general no definitely not

I've always been really good at separating work life and my personal life um it's you know when you're performing on camera even for

two it's it's not about us getting off as the performer it's we're actresses and we're giving a performance and you know, you want the viewer that's paying for it.

You want them to get off.

So it's like a lot of times, you know, I'm shooting and I've been on set.

I've been up since six.

I haven't eaten breakfast.

I've been in makeup for two and a half hours.

Before you eat breakfast?

I don't really eat much anyhow before I shoot.

You know, because then you're all like fat and you're like, oh, you know, but yeah, so it's like when I do get to have s in my personal life, it's great.

it's I call it smother s

like which we don't get on camera because we have to like open up and show everything like I like like good smother I just want to be smothered by a man and yeah I love that

yeah so I'm really good at kind of separating like work and home life so how do you separate like how does

What's the mental that a guy has to have?

It's very tough for guys.

I honestly couldn't imagine being a male performer in the industry because for guys, it's more mental.

And now, what I'm seeing.

I'm saying a guy that you're involved with, like he's at home waiting for you.

Oh, that's that's a whole nother podcast.

We could get into that one.

That's a whole nother thing.

Like, what kind of mentality is that?

That's tough.

You know, that's, you know, and you know, touching on that a little bit, that's setting good, clear, healthy boundaries with your partner.

Like, hey, this is what I'm okay with you doing and not doing.

But it's, it's very, honestly, tough.

I mean, if I wasn't in my line of work, there'd be no way I was ever dating a male performer.

Absolutely.

Why not?

I don't know.

I'm greedy.

Like, you know, I mark my territory.

Like, nope, that's my d.

Nobody else's.

Gotcha.

Yeah, it's nobody else's.

So you can't date a male performer.

Oh, my God.

No.

I wouldn't date.

I love normal men, like normal men.

But you want a normal man to date you, though, right?

Yes.

Okay, gotcha.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Yeah.

Why?

I just, I don't, I think, like, my, I wouldn't want like an athlete or anything like that.

I just want a normal guy.

I just want a normal guy.

Like, because I live a very normal life outside of what I do.

I mean, to me, I'm like, you know, I'm home, I'm doing old.

I go to shoot.

And then when I come home, it's me.

I'm home.

I'm with my dogs.

I'm doing yoga.

The weekends, I go out to the desert.

I shoot guns.

You know, I like to go have drinks, go out to dinner.

I'm very, very, very normal.

It's just my profession has just made it

abnormal.

Yeah.

yes gotcha now do you think you'll switch fully to

from adult stuff or do you think you're gonna keep doing both no you know i love i love being able to kind of have my hands in all the baskets and stuff um and i think that's really good as far as growing your brand and making money i wouldn't want to throw everything into

i still want to be on set and shoot and you know meet new talent and you know just i enjoy the camaraderie and just you know chatting with everyone and just you know hearing what's new, like hearing the tea, what's going on in the industry a little bit.

Like, I just, because other than that, I'm just like in my house shooting.

I'll just stay in my little bubble.

But so, how do you, how do you deal with

people that see you outside of work and they're like, yo, you're so-and-so, like, the craze fans, like the guy.

It's, it's honestly gotten very.

Is it scary?

Um, I have had scary moments, um, but I like to, I always say, I'm like, oh, f around and find out with me.

If you get up on me, f around and find out.

I'm crazy.

I got a big mouth.

And yeah.

But

no, it's, yeah, I don't know.

It's, I get recognized a lot, I've noticed within the past three years.

And I think it's just all the null stuff.

And it's even like when I'm dressed like normal, like no makeup, no hair extensions, no nothing.

And yeah, and I'm like, how are you?

But it's the booty.

That's what it is.

I'm like, how are you finding me?

I'm in the gym with no face on, like hat on, like like sweater, and you're still recognizing me.

It's crazy.

But, no, most of the guys are really cool.

I mean, I have had some weird ones where people recognize me out and they'll try following me home.

And I'm like, I just drive right to the police station.

Just drive right to the police station.

Yeah, I mean, I'm not going to go home.

I don't want them to have a clue where I live.

So I'm like, if you want to follow me, follow me to the police station.

Like,

around and find out.

We'll be met by Las Vegas's finest.

Right, right.

Why do you think a lot of girls get hate on social media?

Um,

I honestly like hate from just hate from guys, hate from like people jealous, I guess.

Yeah,

I don't know why that is.

I think it's because now, and I can, I can kind of understand it, is that, you know, women, men want a woman that is kind of dependent on that.

Men want to be the captain save the alphas and the providers.

And now here's this era of women where, you know, the whole movement of I am woman, hear me roar, like it's happening now.

Women are, you know, they're working hard, they're building brands, whether it's acceptable or not.

And they're making great money that it's and yes, some of them are like, oh, well, I don't need a man.

Well, you know, you can't, if you want a man, you can't like have that attitude.

And money, money doesn't make everything.

You can make a hundred thousand a month and have a sh attitude and stuff.

But I think that's why some of the ones girls do catch a lot of hate is just because of that.

And

I see a lot of it and I'm, I don't know, I just, I don't necessarily agree with all of it.

You just stay silent.

Yeah, you know, because I mean, because then I just start arguing with people online.

It's not worth it.

Yeah, you can't win argument online.

It's never worth it.

What's the wildest thing that you've done?

Oh my gosh.

I don't know.

I'm kind of vanilla.

You don't know?

Really?

I think I'm like fairly vanilla.

I did like like a

like five guys.

And I mean, I guess that's pretty crazy.

So like five guys.

So it's called a

because you're just

everyone.

It's like you're just

literally just like running into

oh, bro.

She said you're running into

literally running into the it's here, it's there, it's in your ears, it's everywhere.

So how did you, so so how did you organize it?

I didn't.

That was when I first got into the industry and my agent booked me for it with

was it unexpected or did you know oh no i know oh yeah yeah yeah we know everything we know everything oh so you knew going in like yo oh yeah yeah

oh yeah you have to know going into everything and it's a company that's no longer around yeah um you know it's it's crazy some days when i think back i'm like i've been in 17 years

I've literally been around before the tube sites.

I've been around when Visa and MasterCard, when they weren't paying out performers.

I've seen the top company.

Yeah.

I've seen the top companies and the webcam companies, everyone go under.

And I feel like that's where not speaking necessarily on the girls, but mainly just the adult film stars, why we do have our eggs in many baskets.

Because you want to diversify.

You can't just throw it all into.

You can't just shoot solely for the companies.

You have to feature dance.

You have to do public appearances.

You have to work the cameo app.

You have to work the chat apps.

and you know it's a lot i'm a one-woman show doing it all

i am a workaholic so i do enjoy it body count matters

ah that's a very good question

and and what's yours if you want to say oh gosh

do you have a body count does it i i wish i would have kept i wish i would have kept a book

i have to be around a hundred

is my guess that's kind of low over 17 years but you work with the same partner a lot.

Oh, you do.

And now that I've gotten older and I've morphed into like the MILF category, when I shoot, I'm like, these are the five guys that I want to work with.

And because now what I see, and I think it's adorable, it's cute.

But a lot of the guys that are coming into

now, they're showing up on set and they're like, oh, you're working with Rochelle Ryan.

And they're like, oh, God.

And they're like, you know, you are my favorites.

I used to watch you all the time growing up.

And it's like these young guys.

And I think it's cute.

But then it's with men being being on set it's all mental and the second they start getting in their head it's just it's downhill from there all the Viagra in the world and me talking to them it does not help it's a little too much you've had someone get soft on set oh yeah and it's it's happened a lot and it's just because they're just they're in their head they're so excited it's like this is the woman they've been wanting to you know they've been watching you for however long and then they finally get the opportunity to shoot with you and stuff they're nervous yeah 100 so out of.

I usually just stay away from the mail tail, and I'm like, okay, you have your room to like do your thing.

I have mine.

And then we meet when we need to meet, and then it's on.

So out of the 17 years of doing,

who would you say, like, out of all the races have like the biggest?

Um,

predominantly black men do have

the biggest blind.

Sorry, Shaw.

I'm just like, Yeah, but I mean, I don't know.

Like, I don't discriminate.

I love it all.

Actually, to be honest, I prefer average normal men.

I love it.

Like, when guys send me, like, picks on,

and every guy wants to know how they size up compared to a star.

And I'm just like, I honestly could give two f ⁇ ks.

I don't care about picks.

I don't like them.

I don't care about size.

Like, my last ex, I saw one of the questions that you had for me, and I was going to touch on it a little bit.

I was with a guy.

I think it was like, does money matter?

And I met a guy.

He actually found me from a barstool post.

Wow.

And it was so funny because I was like, what is barstool?

Like, I did not know at the time.

And I feel bad because I'm consider myself like a stoolie.

I love them.

But

anyhow, we met.

He was an Uber driver, probably made like three grand a month.

And yeah, just normal, like

yes, for he was 10 years younger than me, too.

Wow.

I was 33.

He was 23, but he had together because I wouldn't be with a 23-year-old punk or anyone that was very immature.

Like, I just couldn't handle that.

And I have to be able to have a conversation and talk with you.

And he was,

he was living in vain.

Was you comfortable with you doing

what you're doing?

In the beginning, yes, but then it was kind of like the more we started to fall in love and then it just became really, really difficult.

And it was really hard to kind of keep the relationship going.

But, you know, I don't hate him.

Has any relationship that you've been in that you love them so much that you wanted to stop?

I was kind of toying with it with the last one, but then it was just there was so many restrictions that were going to be put in place that I felt like my wings were being clipped.

And, you know, when I first got into the industry at 21, it was, I wanted to be a rock star without a guitar.

I was just kind of like, this is my people.

This is my crew.

I was working as an entertainer as a dancer at a club in Richmond, Virginia.

So I came from stripping and then into

actually a Hooter's girl stripping and then into.

And I was just kind of like, these are my people.

And I feel like the industry kind of forced me to grow up.

And then it wasn't until I started shooting MILF where it was like, oh, wow, like this is going to be my end-all, be-all.

I need to start making a three, five, seven-year goal list.

And I mean, I had a financial advisor when I was 22, and I was always extremely smart and doing very smart things with my money.

But it wasn't until the whole MILF thing blew up that I was like, oh.

Yeah, because after MILF, there's, I don't even know what's after MILF.

Yeah, I mean, there's Gilf, but I don't know if I want to go that route.

What's Gilf?

Grandma, grandma, I'd like to, but I don't want to get that.

All my groceries.

I will fine.

Oh, it's out there.

It's out there.

Ask the Google machine.

It's out there.

Wow, Gilf.

And then what's after that?

Oh, I don't know.

I hope there's nothing after that.

Great grab mom?

He's crap.

yikes.

She's doing G, double G Gill.

Oh, gosh.

No, I don't want none of that.

You're good at MILF.

Yeah, I love it.

After MILF, you're done.

Yeah, I mean, I don't have a time frame because at first, you know, when I first got in at 21, I was like, okay, I'll do this till I'm 40.

But I turned 38 in a couple weeks and I'm still at the peak, almost to the peak of that wave.

And it's like, why would I get off the 50?

So is 50 the stopping age for you?

Oh, I don't know.

I don't want to give a number because, you know, maybe at 45,

you know, maybe at 45, I'll be like, all right, I'm done.

And then what, though?

You just.

Then I'm going to live off my, hopefully I'll be on a beach in Mexico selling coconuts with my dogs.

I'm going to take my cell phone.

I'm going to throw it in the ocean.

And I'm going to be in Puerto Vallarta selling coconuts.

Have you lost any of your drive that you had when you were in your 20s?

Or do you still have that same level?

No, I think it's, it's, it's grown a lot more.

Yeah, definitely.

Especially off camera.

Okay.

Yeah, especially off camera.

Like when I first got into my 20s, I was like very eager beaver, very excited, like, you know, to get on.

And I, I didn't know what I was doing, like performing wise and stuff.

And I was just very eager.

Now when I'm on set, it's more like, okay, make sure you open up and stretch out your, you know, suck in your tummy and do, like my head's thinking of a million things.

But the s that I have off camera now as a woman who's almost 38 is amazing.

And I think it's just because I grew up in,

you know, getting in at, you know, 21 until now it's, you know, almost 38.

I grew up in the industry.

I learned a lot about my body.

Just everything that I probably wouldn't have learned outside of the industry.

And yeah.

So what originally got you into like the day that you woke up and was like, you want to know what?

I'm about to start camera

the club that I was a house dancer at where I was working as a stripper they had a lot of stars that would come in and feature dance kind of like what I do now.

And so I got to meet a lot of the adult film stars and

you know, it was just seeing them all clammed up on stage and just all the money they were making and just it just seemed like a rock star life.

Yeah.

You know, just getting to travel.

I mean, I've traveled, you know, the world, paid.

I didn't have to pay for any of it.

Like dance bookings, appearances, you know, just everything.

And it's great.

And I wanted to do it.

And so I kind of started doing my own research.

I was looking at like the top licensed and bonded agents that were in the adult film industry.

I had never been to California.

I was just, I'm originally from upstate New York, but grew up in Richmond, Virginia.

So I grew up in the South.

I've never been to the West Coast, never been to Cali.

I found a couple of agents.

I went out to LA.

I met with them.

I checked out California and I was like all right I think I like it here and they were like we can put you to work as soon as you're out here and then I planned to move across country like two months later wow yeah so so you were you were green still you didn't even know anything about it like I didn't know anything as far as like how much you were getting paid until I got there and met with agents and but you have to like have right yeah or

yes yeah there's some people there's some stars just like you know I mean I'm sure there's some that really don't like it they do it as a job.

Oh, gosh, that sounds like force.

I enjoyed it.

Oh, yeah.

It's definitely still enjoyable.

So when did your enjoyment for s start?

Like, when were you like, oh, I...

Probably like 18.

Oh, okay.

Okay.

Yeah, 18, I'd say.

You were like, I love this shit.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

But I wasn't with that many men before I got into the industry.

I was with like six guys.

In high school?

Like, from I lost my virginity at 16 till literally 21.

Like, that's not many.

I mean, I don't think from 16 to 21, one a year.

Yeah.

I mean,

you was a little bit.

Yeah, a little bit.

One a year.

One a year, dude.

These days, that's nothing.

Oh, yeah.

That's like nothing.

I mean, you're hearing, like, some of these kids are just losing their virginity so young, and it's just

a little too young.

I think some things are just being a little over

nowadays.

And I don't know if I necessarily agree with that.

For sure.

I definitely definitely think that all should be behind paywalls and I think parents need to monitor their children so that way they're not getting access to you know hub and you know social media sites and everything else.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Have you ever had like a crazy celebrity slide in your DM?

You know,

I have, but I have to say, when you DM'd me, I was like, oh, who's this kid with 10 million followers?

And like stuff like that excites me more.

Like when I was in my 20s and athletes were citing my DMs, I was like, ooh, like, you know, and he, he plays on the Giants because I'm a huge New York Giants fan.

Like it's my tech.

Oh, yeah.

But it was just kind of like, it was such an ego boost.

And now I'm like, ugh, like I could care less.

I'm like, you slid into my DMs.

Like, I don't care.

Unless it's Gronk or like Nick Bosa, Jimmy G, then maybe I might get a little excited.

But everyone else, I'm like, I really honestly don't care.

I don't like athletes.

They're bigger than me.

Right.

And they're playing.

She said they're bigger than me.

Than me.

And they're literally playing all the same girls.

Like they do the IMOG or like the hand or something stupid.

Then I'm just kind of like, I don't know.

You do it to all the girls.

If it's college athletes, I get excited.

You like younger men.

Yeah.

Why?

I feel like older men have never taken me serious.

It's just I go on a date with a guy my age or older and it's kind of like, well, when are you going to get out of this little phase?

And I'm just like, little phase?

Like,

I mean, how many people can you say have been in the same career field 17 years?

Like, I think that's a very long time.

And, you know, I don't do drugs.

I'm a social drinker.

I've always done very smart things with my money.

I'm not reckless, wild, and crazy.

So I'm just kind of like, I don't understand that.

Versus younger men are very like, rock on, that's awesome.

Do your thing.

You know, they're very like open-minded.

Yeah.

Older men aren't.

And I think a lot of that kind of goes back to like what we were talking about.

It's, I men want to be alphas and providers.

And it's a little intimidating where, you know, they're meeting me.

I drive a nice car.

I own two homes.

Like,

I don't care.

I need you for loyalty.

And that's it.

Well, you're already getting, right?

But the thing about it is, I don't know if it's about them being alphas or wanting to like be the, you know, the highest earner or the provider.

It's just that, I mean, their girl, their wife is getting like smashed.

For sure, 100%.

She has to come home after getting smashed, and then she lays with you, and you know that she's just been getting, you know, she's

someone else.

Yeah.

Yeah.

But you, again, you have to be open to that if you want to date you, right?

100%.

I'm very honest.

Even with the last one, I was like, hey, this is what I do.

Either you're with it or you're not because I'm not stopping it.

And I did kind of slow down a little bit.

Did you ever get tired of finging though?

I mean, I'm not, I do have, you know, between

and shooting and stuff like that, but I do keep a very good pace.

I'm not having s every single day.

I know, I'm saying definitely not.

Let's say you have a shoot and then you go home and then your guy wants, you know,

I don't think so because if it's my partner, I'm really into them.

Like, I want to make you happy.

I love you.

Or, you know what I'm saying?

It's like, you want to make your partner happy.

Girls can do it more than guys.

Yeah.

But I'm just saying it's her job.

So it's like, when is it like, damn, I'm tired of it?

I mean, if there was like a day where I came home where I got like some nut or something in the eye or whatever, I'd be like, sorry, babe, it's not happening.

You know, but I feel like that's when you're in like a partnership where it's like,

what is a nut in the eye?

I don't know, like, if a guy like accidentally.

I know, but what does that feel like?

Oh, it's just burns, like, you wouldn't believe.

And I wear contacts, and it's just the worst pain.

It's horrible.

I got hot sauce in my eye once.

So I know that hot sauce.

Oh, yeah, so you know.

Are two different things.

It's almost like nut.

No, I got hot sauce in my contact, dude.

Oh, yeah.

It's brutal.

It's brutal.

Yeah.

That was fun.

What's next for you?

You know, I'm really enjoying this wave that I'm on right now.

It's a MILF wave.

The MILF wave, honestly.

Yeah.

It lasts like 10 years.

I mean, I don't know.

I don't like putting numbers and limits to things.

You know, you never know.

I mean, you know, I could want to retire maybe tomorrow.

Do you want kids?

No.

You know, I've never had that itch.

I've never wanted children.

I have, I have two French bulldogs.

I am happy raising French bulldogs, but I think

it takes a very unselfish human to want to raise children, men and women.

And I've always can admit that I'm very selfish.

I don't want to sacrifice my time, my sleep, my body, my

nothing.

And I also think it's a very scary world right now raising children in.

And it's, it's tough.

I mean, my hat goes off to all the parents out there.

It's definitely a full-time job.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I'm good with my dogs, they're locked up right now in the house.

I love dogs, man.

I know, I want like 10 dogs when I'm older.

10 dogs?

Yeah, like a farm with like 10 dogs.

That'd be awesome.

I want to have a little Frenchie farm.

That'd be sick.

Yeah, I'll tell you my idea, what I have for it.

I don't want to say an on-air because proprietary.

Yeah, somebody will like check my idea.

We'll have to hear it off camera.

Wayne?

Yeah.

there's a lot.

That was a lot.

That was a good one here.

Thanks for watching the digital social hour.

See you guys next time.

Peace.