Jennelle Gordon: Why Most Women Haven’t Reached Their Sexual Potential | DSH #1612

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Speaker 1 Every woman has the potential to orgasm, but most women only are experiencing one type of orgasm, 70%, right?

Speaker 1 At the closest is the underdeveloped tip of the head of the lingam for men.

Speaker 1 The type of orgasm that 70% of women are having is a masculine orgasm, which is why I think that there's more masculine women today on the planet because they're orgasming the same way a man does.

Speaker 1 Okay, Okay, guys, Janelle Gordon is here. Fan favorite.
I think this is what, your fourth or fifth appearance now. Yeah, I think so.
Yeah, you're highly,

Speaker 1 I'm just, yeah. Been killing it.
Every time you come on, you stir up some interesting comments, right? Yeah. Yeah.
I think you're breaking the norm. I like that.
I like it, but you know what?

Speaker 1 I think it's interesting is people say I do it for the, like, the, they say, oh, people will say anything. You see that a lot, or she's doing that for the clicks.
And I'm like, no, like.

Speaker 1 I really live this. Yeah.
You know, I do drink my moonblood. I do drink my urine.
I do drink my man's OJS sema.

Speaker 1 Like, you know, so it's not, I think that's what's interesting is that this is like real. You actually live it.
I mean, you just got back from Bali. You did a whole retreat over there, right?

Speaker 1 Made the news a little bit. I made the news a little bit.
I was

Speaker 1 ostracized for teaching healthy, conscious, spiritual intimacy, which is a Muslim country. And I actually wasn't fully aware of that.

Speaker 1 So I definitely, we need to do a little more due diligence next time. But they have a rule now in Bali where you cannot have sex unless you're married.

Speaker 1 And they have cameras in all the Airbnbs, not the owners of the Airbnb, but the government. Wow.
So it's a little bit more. That's abasive.
Yeah. I don't think I'd go there.

Speaker 1 I would never go back there. Yeah.
I can't really. I'm spending thousands on an Airbnb.
Why would I? Why would you want to? Yeah. Why would you want to have your stuff

Speaker 1 like, you know, videotapes? Surveillance, that's the word. Did you know there was cameras when you got inside?

Speaker 1 So they hide them. They did hide them.
And they don't, now I know because I went through immigration. They stopped us.

Speaker 1 They detained us and you know i had to like this is the thing that's so frustrating i think is i'm all always trying to prove that i'm legitimate

Speaker 1 it's like people look at me and i'm like a meme you know because of how i look and i understand and then what i do isn't really considered work it's considered sex work right but i'm not a sex worker um you know and so i think that's the hard part like what i do is actual healing i help people in their intimate relationships, which a part of that is your sex life.

Speaker 1 And it's, I guess it's still hard for me to understand why there's so much pushback still from even personal developed people, even from the faith-based community.

Speaker 1 They love to hate me as well. And it's like, we know that marriages end in divorce for two reasons, infidelity and money, correct? Yeah.
And often intertwined.

Speaker 1 People are not happy in marriages having sex today.

Speaker 1 The population that has the least amount of sex is like married people.

Speaker 1 The worst case is they're saying they're having sex once a month. Holy cow.
12 times a year. So it's not like a foreign concept that we need to fix.

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Speaker 1 It's this, right? And why can we not do it with a sense of sacredness and spirituality? I guess that's my like, I don't get it.

Speaker 1 I think it's because sex has been such a taboo topic for people growing up. Right.
So they're like ashamed to even talk about it. Yes.
And you're so open with it. And that's because I asked that too.

Speaker 1 I'm like, I don't understand why like I get so many guys that are interested in me. I really don't.
I'm not being like, you know me, I'm a straight shooter. I'm like, I don't get it.

Speaker 1 Like I'm not super hot. I'm mildly attractive.
I'm in my 40s, whatever. Like, I don't get it.
Why are so many men interested in me? And my friends were like, why?

Speaker 1 You don't really, they're like, Janelle, you speak about sex and you speak about it unashamed with knowledge, with like, that is interesting because most women don't do that.

Speaker 1 So I didn't really, I guess when you're like in what you do, it's hard for you to like see outside and understand how people look at you. Does that make sense? Yeah, yeah, that's interesting.

Speaker 1 I didn't know you were getting a lot of guys hitting on you. Oh, yeah.
Like all the time. And your DMs or the person or both? Everywhere.
Wow. All the time.
Could be your energy, too.

Speaker 1 I think it is that, too. I think it's because I'm highly feminine, and I think that that's a trait that we've lost today.
Yeah. That women want to be men.
They want to compete with men.

Speaker 1 They want to provide.

Speaker 1 They want to do everything that a man does and be treated like a man does. But then in certain times, they want the privileges of a woman.
Right. Does that make sense? No, it does.

Speaker 1 Well, we're in a society now where the woman almost has to work, right? Has to. It's hard to make a living.
It's hard. It's hard.

Speaker 1 And I was just listening to one of my teachers on the way flying over here. And it's like, there's there's nothing wrong with women working.
Let's be clear about that.

Speaker 1 We have to do it. I do it.
Like, I'm both man and woman, unfortunately, until I decide to like, who's the lucky guy, who gets me, which whoever gets me is lucky, you know?

Speaker 1 But like,

Speaker 1 it is tough. to do all those things and stay feminine.
And there's nothing wrong with working. There's nothing wrong with even being a CEO.

Speaker 1 But the chances of you being a high powered exact CEO or working in the same field as a man does and then coming home and being highly feminine are just slim to none. It just doesn't happen.

Speaker 1 How do you change those hats when you're in a male dominant, there's more male CEOs than there are female, but the numbers are not even like close.

Speaker 1 So then you put women in these roles where they're forced to work, they're forced to act like a man, to think like a man, to make rash decisions. That's why I don't think women should be present.

Speaker 1 They can't be.

Speaker 1 Like, are you kidding? Like, do you think on my menstrual cycle, I can make decisions?

Speaker 1 Like, I can't even sometimes literally, Sean, knowing everything I know about hormones, I still sometimes am like,

Speaker 1 what is going on? You know, and I know that I'm going through it. It's not severe, huh? Yeah.
So it's like, women don't belong in those roles. We just, we're not cut out for it.

Speaker 1 So if you are in one of those roles in life.

Speaker 1 And then you want to go home and be feminine, it's, it's a lot of work. I think it's very impossible to do it.

Speaker 1 I've had a lot of, you know, financially successful women on the show and I'm always fast. Yeah, I'm always fascinated with their dating life because it must be really damn hard to date.

Speaker 1 It's so hard because you know what? Those women, they think that their importance lies in like what they do and how much money they make and their accolades.

Speaker 1 But for a, for a man, that's almost an inch. And it's like a, it's like their, their lingam goes inside their body when a woman starts saying, flexing about what she's done.

Speaker 1 Because a man's role is to like protect, provide, and to be the Shiva, to be the one who, who does all this shit. It's not saying that he can't be proud of you for your accomplishments.

Speaker 1 But if you're coming to him, say, hey, I'm a CEO. I make, you know, seven figures, like, what does that do for him?

Speaker 1 How does that, like, that's not getting his dickheart, I promise you. Right.
What is, is if you say, hey, honey, you know, like, here's what I've done in the world alone.

Speaker 1 And, you know, I've had to do it, but I'm so happy to like. come and like Erica Kirk's a perfect example, support you and not be a slave or not be a servant, but

Speaker 1 serving is different than being a servant, I think. How can I I serve you? Just like he asked her, Charlie said, how can I make your life better every day? You should ask that to your partner.

Speaker 1 I just asked my guy this the other night. I said, like, he was so stressed and he just works all the time.
And we don't see each other often, but when we do, it's like magnetic.

Speaker 1 And I think that's one of the things we're going to talk about later. Yeah.
It's, I said, like, what can I do? to help you like how can i make your life less stressful

Speaker 1 and he just said you know what i don't know but i'm going to think about it and i don't think women ask ask men that. Like, I've never been.
Actually, I would lie. Okay.

Speaker 1 I've been asked, but it's not like a daily thing. Yeah.
It's like, what can I do to, I don't mind saying it. How can I serve you?

Speaker 1 Like, what can I do to add, you know, to make your life easier so that you can do what you do as the protector, the provider, being present, all those things.

Speaker 1 Yeah. When I saw Charlie do that, it made me want to be a better husband, actually.

Speaker 1 It's like, to me, I think like their, their love story is like, I get teary-eyed thinking about it because I read energy like people read whatever, you know, numbers or the stocks, like my guy's a stock guy.

Speaker 1 Like their energy was just so profound and so just in love and in God. And it's like, if you, if, if, if, you don't know until you have that.

Speaker 1 Once you have that experience of a man who's like present for you, wants to protect, wants to provide, wants to just

Speaker 1 presence is the big one. Like it's, it's so intoxicating.
I know with my guy, when I, when he's there with me, like, I don't even think like we're in this, we're in an alternate universe.

Speaker 1 And that is what women are not getting today.

Speaker 1 And then on the same token, men aren't getting the femininity that allows them to feel like they can go out into the world and take on what they have to take on, right?

Speaker 1 They come home and it's a fight. They're not getting sex.

Speaker 1 You know, they're getting nagged or they're getting complaining, as you said, all these things or conditional love. That's the big one.
Like Erica Kirk forgave, you know, this man.

Speaker 1 She said, I forgive you.

Speaker 1 And it's, but yet your wife or your long-term partner doesn't forgive you for leaving the toilet seat up or not taking the trash out or forgetting something with the kids. And,

Speaker 1 you know, or

Speaker 1 the worst, infidelity. Like, we don't forgive that.
Why do we not forgive infidelity? Why, like, why are we like that? That's saying our love is limitless.

Speaker 1 That's saying our love is conditional because we're saying I will only love you and forgive you if you do all these things perfect. You're human.
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Speaker 1 That's a problem we have in relationships and marriage. And that's why the divorce rate's so high.
And who is it filing? Women. Yep.
80%, right? 80%. That's a lot.

Speaker 1 Just because you have sex with someone else doesn't mean you don't love me doesn't mean that it's right either but it doesn't mean i'm going to leave you for that it means that we obviously have some challenges that we need to work through together right there's some unmet needs there's something now if it's perpetual and it becomes like all the time then i could understand but people will blow up a family because a guy had sex with another woman it's like really

Speaker 1 that's love Yeah, because a lot of men view sex physically, right? Yeah, it's, it's just the way it's how they can, it's like how they connect. For women, we connect differently.

Speaker 1 We connect, right, with like presence and talking and stuff that's not important to you guys. What's important to men is sex.

Speaker 1 And so sometimes men don't know how to use their big boy words

Speaker 1 and they go out and have sex and then they do feel bad about it. Men feel bad about it.
I think sometimes, unless they have some other challenges.

Speaker 1 But it doesn't mean that they didn't love you or that, you know, that there was something.

Speaker 1 Sorry about that, that there was something that, you know, that they're giving up on the family.

Speaker 1 It just meant that there was an un I think a lot of times it's unfulfilled unmet needs and desires sexually I think we're talking about that too yeah and then also it could just be a way for them to express themselves and communicate and sometimes they can't communicate with you why because women don't listen

Speaker 1 do you think that's a pretty common issue with women it's I think it's a huge issue we don't and my business partner Keith Mitchell tells me this all the time he said Janelle

Speaker 1 if you really want to know what's going on with your guy, ask him specific questions and don't say anything.

Speaker 1 And he said, men don't really say a lot. And I agree with him.
Men don't really say a lot, but when they do say something,

Speaker 1 it means something. And a lot of times when you get a man talking, he'll just keep revealing more, even maybe more than he meant to, but it will be really

Speaker 1 indicative of what's going on within him. I think women, we obviously say way more words than men.
We know that we talk a a lot. Men don't necessarily need to,

Speaker 1 but when they do speak, it is, it's important. It means something.
And I think women, as women, we don't listen to men. I watch it all the time in shows and things like that.

Speaker 1 The man will try to say something. The woman cuts him off all the time.
And he'll just listen and listen. And then she'll say, she'll say one more word.
He'll try to get something in. No.

Speaker 1 And it goes on and on like that. And I see this with couples too.
And in the end, the man says nothing,

Speaker 1 but the woman gets everything out.

Speaker 1 And then what happens? That goes somewhere. That energy doesn't get just solved, right? So I think women need to listen more because when we do, there's a lot of depth there.

Speaker 1 There's a lot of insight and they will really tell you what they're thinking and feeling if you let them. I love that.
Do you also feel like women are complaining and nagging a lot?

Speaker 1 I think women complain and nag all the time.

Speaker 1 I think it's something that's sort of like in their DNA to just like always be unhappy, unsatisfied, no matter like what the man is doing for them, right? I think that,

Speaker 1 I think it's a part of us just thinking that we're communicating.

Speaker 1 We just don't know how to communicate correctly with men.

Speaker 1 The power of influence, I think you understand this, is very important if you know how to influence someone.

Speaker 1 The problem is women will talk to men and their husbands the way they talk to their girlfriends. Right.
This, this happened, honey. And oh my God, he said this.
A man doesn't get that.

Speaker 1 A man is wired to what? Solve problems, right? Solve for X, provide a solution. So when you're saying a bunch of complaining, it's just, it just stresses him out because he's like, is this real?

Speaker 1 Do I really need to solve this? Or is this like, and then it's just a lot of words and it doesn't make sense. Yeah.
So there's definitely like things you can do about it.

Speaker 1 But do you think it's a blocked throat chakra thing sometimes too for these women? Well, it is. I think it's a lot of, it's a few things.

Speaker 1 And I wanted to make sure I get these really clear. It's suppressed expression, unspoken desire, and emotional disconnection from women.
And why? Why does that play out in a block through a chakra?

Speaker 1 They feel unseen. They feel unsafe.
Maybe they don't feel like desired and

Speaker 1 they don't feel like they're being ravished emotionally. Cause you know, women connect emotionally, right? Versus sexually, where men connect sexually.

Speaker 1 And so the tantrics had this philosophy that like if a woman is suppressing, you know, her, her, her voice, her, her needs, her desires, that there's a spot right here

Speaker 1 in the throat chakra. This is where the throat chakra sits, that it, when you deep throat, that gets activated.

Speaker 1 So, you know, we have nadis and energies centers all over the body, and one of them's here.

Speaker 1 So, when a woman actually can do deep throating with her partner's lingam, that that actually can heal trauma. Wow.
It can

Speaker 1 release untrapped emotions. It can also

Speaker 1 the unsuppressed desires and emotional release that can happen in deep throating is immense. The other thing that I think is really important for you to understand is that

Speaker 1 when you had sex with your partner, when you have sex with her, what, like, think about if you tune everything out and you just go into the sound.

Speaker 1 Sound is powerful, right? It's a frequency, right? What kind of sounds are you you hearing from your spouse when you're having sex? Have you ever like thought about that?

Speaker 1 Like, no,

Speaker 1 not really.

Speaker 1 Okay, so you're hearing like the same typically types of sounds. A lot of times, like I said, it's unsuppressed and it's stuck and they're not, they're not fully expressing what they're feeling.

Speaker 1 in in sex in lovemaking if you will through their voice sometimes you'll hear generic sounds like ah ah like these types of things or what you see in

Speaker 1 why? Because in my book, I talk about it. Monkeys see, monkey do.
We learn from.

Speaker 1 So that's what a woman thinks is

Speaker 1 exciting and arousing to a man is to hear what they've seen on.

Speaker 1 So if you really take a moment, now this is your homework, listen to the sounds that are coming from your partner during lovemaking, and you'll find that they're all basically the same. Wow.

Speaker 1 Because again, this is what we're talking. So yes, it's about deep throating, but there is unsuppressed emotions, desire, emotional disconnection that is strapped here.
Because if you penetrate

Speaker 1 the deep throating with the lingam, it opens that up. And what happens, you'll find in real lovemaking, like I sound crazy.
Like, my guy gets so mad.

Speaker 1 He's, because he has roommates who's like, I can't have you over because you wake them up. And he's like, cause I'm so loud.
I'm like, I'm crying half the time. During sex?

Speaker 1 Yes, because we're going to talk about that. I'm crying.
I'm i'm like screaming it's not like

Speaker 1 i'm like yelling and it's so intense and he loves it because he's like you just like you just get on and go and he's all about it but he's like i don't want my roommates hearing this this is embarrassing and and and remember we're having sex for a couple hours

Speaker 1 yeah nightly like When we do see each other, again, this is, we're getting into all this, it's a couple hour lovemaking session, so two to three hours.

Speaker 1 And so imagine if I'm having, you know, 22 orgasms in that time. Wow.
You know, there's a lot of screaming and crying. And that's because I'm not repressed.
Obviously, I've healed the shame.

Speaker 1 My throat chakra is open. I can deep throat all those things.
And so it's healing. But I'm going to say this.
I think women don't go there because you're not like sexy. Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 Like crying and screaming and yelling and all these things. It's not what you see on.

Speaker 1 You, when you hear the noises that are on, they all sort of

Speaker 1 sound the same, right? Yeah, yeah. And they say the same verbiage.
Interesting, right? I'd get a little worried if my girl started crying, though.

Speaker 1 Well,

Speaker 1 well, some of those deeper internal implosive orgasms, they do can lead to that depending on the energy centers that they're penetrating and what's being released. It's a good thing.

Speaker 1 Sometimes, also, it's not even like for me, it's not about like releasing shame or anything like that anymore. I've done so much work around it.

Speaker 1 It's just the pleasure is so intense, you cry because you're, you're just like, you just your body is just like with childbirth your body is made for a certain threshold of pain and once you which is why oxytocin and inducing is the worst thing on the planet i know gary disagrees with me because he's like put your kid on the numerology but it's not good for the mom um it's just trying trying to have natural which is recommended natural birth yeah is the only way unless it's medical then of course you do what you do yeah but because what happens is the body has a pain and pleasure sort of threshold, right?

Speaker 1 So when you're having birth, your body knows how many quotes, I don't call them contractions because I did hypno birthing, but contractions you have, correct?

Speaker 1 So the body knows, okay, we need this amount of, we have this high of a pain threshold. And so we're going to only let the contractions last this long and then we're going to bring our dad back down.

Speaker 1 But when you induce with pitocin, That throws that completely off. That's why you see women losing their minds during birth and then their labor lasting for days.

Speaker 1 My water broke and I had him 20 minutes later. Wow.
You know, so like, that's how the body's designed to work.

Speaker 1 And then the body knows, like, I will tell you, some of those pressure waves, as we called them, were intense, but they always came right back down. So it's the same thing with pleasure.

Speaker 1 Your body sort of has like a pleasure pathway. And then like, once it reaches that center, it's like, you don't know what to do anymore.
So you just cry.

Speaker 1 If that makes sense. No, it doesn't.
It's kind of weird. I know.
No, you're describing.

Speaker 1 I love weird people. But you're basically describing a full body orgasm, right? Yeah.
So a lot of people can't even relate to that because I don't think most people have achieved that.

Speaker 1 No, most women, first of all, we know cannot orgasm, right? We know that approximately 70% of women only experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

Speaker 1 So with a finger, with a toy, unfortunately, or with oral. And then we know about

Speaker 1 20%, 20, 20%,

Speaker 1 can't orgasm at all,

Speaker 1 like close to 30. And then that very small sliver under 10 can have what I have, which is internal, implosive, full body, 11 forms of orgasm.
Wow. They can have.
So that's genetic. That's not genetic.

Speaker 1 It's trained. Oh, so you could train into it.
You can train into it.

Speaker 1 Anyone can be trained for this type of pleasure, for 11 forms of orgasm, for full body, for mental, for

Speaker 1 what I'm doing. But I, you know, this is my life path.
So I've trained a lot.

Speaker 1 So it's not normal to probably have like 22 orgasms or, you know, the long duration ones that I've had that I think we're going to talk about later.

Speaker 1 But it's every woman has the potential to orgasm, but most women only are experiencing, oh, this is a plot twist.

Speaker 1 One type of orgasm, 70%, right? Which is what? Clitoral. Yeah.
What I said.

Speaker 1 By the way, clitoral is on the second chakra, which is, it's, it's where pleasure sits and everything, but it's superficial pleasure.

Speaker 1 The other thing that I think is interesting to understand is that the clitoris is the underdeveloped tip of the head of the lingam for men.

Speaker 1 When you're decided, is yes, there is gender, when you're decided at birth, or not at birth, at conception, whether it's XY chromosome or XX chromosome,

Speaker 1 the gonads and then the ovaries, correct? This happens.

Speaker 1 That is what develops into the hood of the clitoris or the head of the lingam. Does that make sense?

Speaker 1 So the type of orgasm that 70% of women are having is

Speaker 1 a masculine orgasm. Wow.
Which is why I think that there's more masculine

Speaker 1 women today on the planet because they're orgasming the same way, orgasming as you guys know it, but we know the orgasm and ejaculation are different.

Speaker 1 Well, we don't know, but I'll explain.

Speaker 1 That's another thing. So

Speaker 1 they are experiencing a climax the same way a a man does, which is what? Really fast up and then really hard down.

Speaker 1 So if 70% of women can only have a climax through the clitoral, which is basically a male ejaculation, then they're becoming more masculine just by how they're orgasming. Holy clot twists.

Speaker 1 That is crazy. Have you ever thought about that? No.
And that's, again, why.

Speaker 1 Like I get so much energy because I'm not having those. I actually stopped having clitoral orgasms back in 2012 when I started my tantra training.
Wow.

Speaker 1 I just completely stopped and retrained my body to have implosive ones. That's crazy.
Now I have, you know, glowy skin. Look at that.

Speaker 1 That's from the hormones, the oxytocin, the dopamine release that happens from regular climax. You see women today, even young women, they look like older.
And it's not just the plastic surgery.

Speaker 1 I think that's a lot of it because girls now are botanical.

Speaker 1 In their 20s, they're doing it. But imagine, like, you just look at their skin quality.
Like, is it like plump? Is it like moisturized? You know what I mean? Yeah.

Speaker 1 You can see hormonally, like, on their skin,

Speaker 1 if they're having implosive internal orgasms that are bringing them more femininity or if they're orgasming the way a man is.

Speaker 1 I can tell on any, you could put me in a lineup of any woman, I'll tell you. Really? Absolutely.
So you could tell. We can do it.
Let's have them on a show. That'd be a viral video.

Speaker 1 That would be a viral video. We need to do that.
Yeah. We could have them write down how often they're having sex before and then you read them.
And if what type of orgasm they're having. Right.

Speaker 1 If are they, do they have orgasms and then what type? And then I'll tell you. Wow.

Speaker 1 You can seriously tell that. Absolutely.
And I can also tell if a man's practicing semen retention. Let's do it.
How?

Speaker 1 Let's, let's do it. Let's do a test next time.
Really? I'm an hour away. I can't tell if men are practicing.
Oh, I can't. Really? Absolutely.
It's like an energy thing?

Speaker 1 Because I think this was one of the questions. Are men something about are men sexually lacking discipline? Yeah.
That was one of them, right? Yeah.

Speaker 1 absolutely are with the whole industry with every yes. Men, like, okay, for instance, but he's gonna hate this because I do, he does not like to be in the limelight.

Speaker 1 He's like normal, and I would never say what he does or anything I told you, but that's different.

Speaker 1 He's a normal guy. He's an athlete, but he's a normal guy.

Speaker 1 He is naturally trained tantric. He doesn't pract, he doesn't ejaculate all the time.
He does sometimes, but he just trained himself. I had nothing to do with that.
I have to say, I can't take credit.

Speaker 1 I was always so attracted to him and I didn't understand why at first. He's so fucking disciplined.

Speaker 1 That's the biggest thing that I feel that men tell me when they practice semen retention. They're just so like locked in, right? Like they're locked in.
He's so focused.

Speaker 1 You could put two girls in front of him making out. He wouldn't flinch.
He just is like locked in and he doesn't sway.

Speaker 1 Not even me. And I'm pretty, make things pretty swayable.
Like he's just on his mission and path. And that's the biggest thing with men who practice tantric.

Speaker 1 I don't like semen tantric retention because they've diluted it and perverted it for no fapping. They don't even know what they're talking about.
I'll just say that.

Speaker 1 They're so like. on their purpose, Sean.
Nothing can shake them. They're so focused.
They're locked in, tuned in. Food tastes better.
Things are clearer. They hear better.
They see better.

Speaker 1 It's just like they become a freak of nature because they're like mastering that

Speaker 1 sexual energy. That makes sense.
Yeah. So I can see it in how a man sort of carries himself, his discipline, how he talks, how he looks at me, like how he, everything.

Speaker 1 I can just kind of, I can tell. Interesting.
Yeah. Have you ever seen a man have a full body orgasm?

Speaker 1 Is that possible?

Speaker 1 Okay. So, good question.

Speaker 1 Let me caveat this men can have full body orgasms but it takes training it takes the first step of training is understanding that your orgasm is separate from your ejaculation it's just a bad habit because if you look in nature animals they have sex for what procreation correct that that's it they're they're doing that to to keep the their population alive.

Speaker 1 That's it. So

Speaker 1 that is how men were meant to have sex or what I like to call lovemaking because sex is so cheap.

Speaker 1 They're supposed to do it for pro.

Speaker 1 They're supposed to ejaculate for procreation reasons only, right?

Speaker 1 They are supposed to love make to create union, divine union.

Speaker 1 Now, we know that's not happening because men are lasting three to five minutes now. If that.
If that.

Speaker 1 And that's with everything. So it's like, how can you create connection, intimacy in three to five minutes of love meeting? Like, no, right.
So

Speaker 1 men can have full body orgasms. What happens is they have to learn to separate that orgasm from ejaculation.
It's a training method. It's something I teach.
It's possible.

Speaker 1 The greats like Montak are who we gather our information from.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 his kind of concept is that men should sort of have sex. They should ejaculate.
or have on only certain times. My lineage of Tantra says never ejaculate.
Wow. Right.

Speaker 1 The David Data's of the world, he ejaculates on special occasions, right? I don't know, Christmas, holidays, birthday, who knows? To each his own, right? And my guy's not even spiritual at all.

Speaker 1 He just self-trained himself. So I would call that semen retention.
Tantric retention is when you're purposely pulling the energy up and moving it in the body. He doesn't know how to do that.

Speaker 1 I just do it for him.

Speaker 1 Because this is what I do. Right.
But so,

Speaker 1 so, how you really achieve that full body orgasm or multiple, if you will, is learning to separate. What happens is

Speaker 1 your old level of like orgasm, which was like, you know, you go up to 100% and then you come back down and then you what, take a nap or cigarette or something, the resolution phase, that's modern sexology.

Speaker 1 Well, the tantrics, they don't do that. They're never going past the PNR, which is the point of no return, which is in that 50 to 70% pleasure range, right? Zero being nothing, not erect, 100 being

Speaker 1 ejaculation. Does that make sense? Yeah.
So

Speaker 1 tantric men will have sex in that 50 to 70% range or the self-pleasure, and they just stay there.

Speaker 1 But what happens is when you're connecting with a woman and you can match that energy with her and you can breathe together and you can move the energy, the microcosmic orbit back and forth, then it takes you to like a heightened state of not just energetic physical, but energetic pleasure too.

Speaker 1 Then you'll start to have an orgasm that will seem like different from the orgasm as you know it. And so what will happen is you can just have more of those.
Wow.

Speaker 1 You can just, so you'll get up to maybe that 70%. You'll rise, you'll ride that wave.
You might start going up, but you'll just stay right there and you'll ride that.

Speaker 1 Then you'll come back down and you'll do that again and again and again. And it's, it's a, it's a new kind of orgasm.

Speaker 1 It's hard to explain it if you never experienced it, but basically it's just imagine, imagine your orgasm. It lasts a few seconds, right? Yeah.

Speaker 1 And the other part is just, it feels good, but you're just like building up to it, right? We know that men only experience pleasure where the tip of the head of the lingam. That's it.

Speaker 1 And the orgasm, typically they feel the quote, orgasm ejaculation, they feel right there too. They're not feeling it in their body.

Speaker 1 Ask any man, he'll tell you. I'm feeling it here.

Speaker 1 That's why when you're done, they, you don't want to, it doesn't, they don't want you to touch it. Right.
Does that make sense?

Speaker 1 So sound familiar? Women, when they have a clitoral orgasm, they're like, don't touch it. It's the same masculine.

Speaker 1 So, but if you learn to reprogram your body to have those orgasms as a man, you're just constantly having like a pleasure, high pleasure sensation over and over.

Speaker 1 It might come back down again, but it'll go back up. You're never having that.
direct up and then that energy loss. So it's a new kind of orgasm.

Speaker 1 I don't really know how to explain it any more than that, but you can train it. The full body ones comes when you know how to move the energy all through the body.

Speaker 1 And if your partner happens to be someone like me, you're in luck because she'll help you do it. Wow.
Then you're feeling an orgasm in your fingers. Imagine an orgasm in your heart.

Speaker 1 Imagine you both have an orgasm in your heart. That's when the crying comes in.
That's deep. That's deep, right? Wow.
Yeah. That's incredible that people can get to that level.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 And so Muntuck has like a system for like how you train. Right.
So for men, if you're in your 20s, I always get this a little confused. So I'm going to just check my notes.

Speaker 1 Anything with numbers, I just kind of like blank out on. But 20 is this two to three times a week.
If you're in your 30s, then you can do once a week. So like my guy's in his 30s.

Speaker 1 So he can ejaculate once a week, no problem. And I asked him, I'm like, I'm always curious.
Like, I want to know these things.

Speaker 1 Like, when he's not with me, I'm like, how many times are you ejaculating? You know, because I'm like, how much life force is he losing?

Speaker 1 He doesn't believe my stuff, but he, he's like cool to like humor me with it, you know? And he's like, maybe two, a couple of times. So he's, he's, he's really going over.

Speaker 1 That's more what you should be doing in your 20s. He's an athlete, so his body's a little different, but still.
Then when you hit your

Speaker 1 40s, it should be every other week. When you're in your 50s, you should be ejaculating once.
Your 60s, they say every other month. Wow.
Does that make sense? That's what...

Speaker 1 not my tantric lineage says, but Montax and most modern, quote, men who are trying semen or tantric retention, that's the schedule they'll do, or they'll just come up with their own.

Speaker 1 I'd be very curious how long long these guys live compared to like average people i mean this is the study right this is the this is where we need that because people are like oh i need evidence i'm like you mean the evidence that they're giving you the viagra and la vitra companies are giving you that's just used to sell their product because people are like oh if i don't ejaculate i'm gonna get prostate cancer i'm like yeah because they want you on their medication if you don't move the energy then yes it can get stuck but tantrics that's why tantric retention is different than semen retention We're constantly moving the energy.

Speaker 1 We're not keeping it in the testicles. That's why we do testicle massage.
That's why we do lingam massage. That's why we take the energy of the climax and pull it up the spine and bring it back down.

Speaker 1 So we're cleansing that energy. We're not just letting it build.
That's why, if you're practicing semen retention, good luck. If you want to know the real practice, it's tantric retention.

Speaker 1 And we teach you how to move the energy.

Speaker 1 So.

Speaker 1 You also consume the energy. I consume it.
I love it. So, so if I, you know, I've been with tantric tantric men and they don't ejaculate.
It's very rare.

Speaker 1 Like my business partner, Keith, he's, you know, this is interesting. He's like, I'm choosy with what women I let have my life for.
Really? Yeah.

Speaker 1 Which I thought was fascinating because we, we're super close. So we talk about all these things.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 You know, because we're both tantric and, you know, he's been with the best tantric masters on the planet, including myself. And so we talk about these things.

Speaker 1 I'm like, so you are choosy with who you let drink your sperm? And he's like, your semen? He's like, absolutely. I'm not just giving giving it to any woman.

Speaker 1 And he doesn't ejaculate all that often either. I don't really know his full schedule, but he's very choosy.

Speaker 1 I consume it whenever he ejaculates when he's with me because I know it's life force and I love it. I'm like, I'm getting, and also their studies, like, I feel like so happy and like calm and like.

Speaker 1 blissed out when I consume his semen. Wow.
Have you seen those studies? No, I need to look at it.

Speaker 1 The study, I'm bad at the numbers, but look it up. The studies show that women who consume semen regularly are less depressed.
They're more happy. They're more elated.

Speaker 1 I didn't even know these studies existed. I just knew after every time I drank a semen, I felt great.
I felt balanced. I always tell him,

Speaker 1 I'm like, when I'm like without you, I'm like doing my thing. But I was like, when I like, I always say, like, when you're inside me, I feel more balanced.

Speaker 1 And after I consume your semen, I feel like normal. That's what I always say.
And he's just laugh. He knows I'm crazy.
I'm like, I actually feel normal. Like it's like, it just like balances

Speaker 1 out. And there's studies about it.
So that saying that it lowers depression, makes women happier when they consume it, which makes sense. It's life force.
Of course it does.

Speaker 1 Does he consume your liquids too?

Speaker 1 Yeah. I mean, he does.

Speaker 1 Yeah, he's cool with it. He's like into like that sort of thing.
He's not like, now I screwed it the other night and it freaked him out.

Speaker 1 He was like. He's never seen that before or what? He said it only a couple of times, but like it was a while ago.

Speaker 1 And he's just, because we normally have like our positions and things that work for us for long lovemaking because we're having sex for a few hours.

Speaker 1 But I just was like, literally, and this just shows how complex a woman's body is. I just like leaned back a little bit.

Speaker 1 And I knew it was going to come. And Sean, I freaked out because I know he's normal.
He puts up with my crazy, but I also know I have to like ease him into things and like explain.

Speaker 1 So I was like, oh, shit.

Speaker 1 I knew it the thing is every woman can learn how to squirt too i think that's one of our questions right they can learn they have the capability to do it so what happens is i knew i had squirted but it hadn't come out yet i don't know how to explain that like you felt the pressure it was there yeah and it i was like oh it's over and i was like okay how do i do this without freaking like i'm having this dialogue imagine women do not think about this stuff when they're having sex but me doing what i do i am So I'm like, oh God, he's going to freak out.

Speaker 1 I already know it. So I was like, okay, I just got to like hold it together.
And then I was like, okay, I'm just going to slowly get up. And so

Speaker 1 you try your best, right? I did. It went everywhere.
And he's like, oh, my God, what happened? And I was like, it's okay. It's not P.
I know that's what you're thinking.

Speaker 1 And so I had to like tell him what was going on. I was like, I promise you, it is not urine.
And he's like, yeah, I haven't had that happen in a long time. And I was like, ever.

Speaker 1 He's like, maybe once or twice, but it was ages ago.

Speaker 1 But but yeah and it's just a different position so all women can really train to do it it's just learning how there's also a myth that if a woman because you watch

Speaker 1 and you see her squirt she didn't orgasm a lot of guys think if i made her squirt she orgasm you can squirt without having an orgasm and you can orgasm without squirting really yes so in they want you to think that if you made her squirt that she orgasmed right that's the whole thing those women are not orgasming on sets i'm sorry maybe some of them are but it's i've been on those sets it's very mechanical um and not in it but i've been i did a director back in the day and they're not having them they are they train themselves to squirt because it looks good on camera and so any woman can learn how and that's something i actually teach women because it's empowering and it actually that release opens them up opens their body up to learn how to release into an orgasm and some of the deeper ones.

Speaker 1 Does that make sense? Just the

Speaker 1 idea of just like

Speaker 1 pushing down. I don't know how to describe it, like pushing down and releasing.
That's what you have to do in climax too. You have to like relax and release.
So it's good training.

Speaker 1 And sometimes they are together, but oftentimes like that night, I just squirted. There wasn't an orgasm attached to it.
Interesting. Yeah.
I wonder if there's, is the sexual energy in that though?

Speaker 1 Like, should men be, you know, consuming consuming that like the other way around? Absolutely.

Speaker 1 In fact, there's a company, I don't know if they're still around, they used to make these, in the tantrics, we call it kalas, k-a-l-a-s. And we consider that like a supernatural

Speaker 1 liquid. Like there's power in it.
There's magic. So they would create these bowls that when a woman would squirt, you would just put the bowl there, like have it by the bench, put it there.

Speaker 1 Cause like I knew I was going to squirt, right?

Speaker 1 So a trained tantric woman will know she'll be like and you know star will know like hey it's happening and so then you just put the bowl there and then you drink it or a guy can just put his head down there or whatever because they believe and I believe this too that there's there's a supernatural power that's in that fluid it isn't urine they've done a lot of studies medically saying oh it they say it it does come from the urethra I always have problems saying that word, but it is not urine.

Speaker 1 And I've tasted it myself. And I drink my urine every morning.
So I think I know the difference. It tastes like sweet.
It's clear too, where urine is not clear.

Speaker 1 I mean, mine is basically I drink so much damn water. But, you know, most urine has a yellow tint to it, even if you're super healthy.

Speaker 1 And in your, like, most, most people's urine is scary when I'm in the doctor's office. I'm like, what? I hold my breath in public bathrooms.
It's bad. It's disgusting.
It's so terrible.

Speaker 1 But, you know, we're so clean and pure. Like our urine is like basically water, but there's still, you see a yellow tint.
Little, little yellow urine.

Speaker 1 No. It's just clear.
But men just have this, like some men love love it i think a lot of it has to do with astrological signs too if they're more a water sign or they're more like an earth sign

Speaker 1 like it i'm gonna like

Speaker 1 yeah so you're you're uh you're heir yeah right so i don't know how you feel about it he's a fire sign he's aries so he hates it is not his thing so i'm like okay when that's okay i don't like i don't have to do it um if it's hitting a certain spot i know it's gonna happen so we just don't we won't have sex in that position you're g spot or um

Speaker 1 not always yeah yes it is G-spot, but it's like a certain position. Like if it's like for me, the best way that I found, well, I found out that way was like on top leaning back.
On top leaning back.

Speaker 1 But again, that's with his anatomy with a different guy.

Speaker 1 He's 6'11. Yeah, he's 6'11.
He's like, we've been using the pump. I man can use the pump.
I'm he's like, my

Speaker 1 did it work?

Speaker 1 It works. I think he's already huge, but he's like, I think he was, he's like eight by eight when he started, but he's getting bigger.
Eight by eight? Yeah. It's a fucking cannon.

Speaker 1 Like I'm the eight's like impressive, but eight by eight? By the way, do you want to hear the stats on, do you want to hear the stats on the lingam stuff? Yeah.

Speaker 1 I think we're talking about size, right? Yeah. What's the average lingam? Okay.
So I'm going to tell you right now. I have it in here.
Hold on. My numbers.
Don't be mad. Okay.

Speaker 1 So I think that this is interesting to understand. 64% of women.
that are pulled, and this is a reputable pull side. I can get you the stats if you want later.

Speaker 1 um they say that both length and girth are important now

Speaker 1 i talk about this in my book and if you come to my retreats it's not bigger is better for everyone it's not my yoni just and this comes from the kama sutra my yoni happens to be between the medium and large size so i need a medium or large lingam yeah just makes sense some women they have a smaller like you know, cavity from entrance to cervix.

Speaker 1 So they are happy with the smaller to medium lingam. So it's not bigger is always better, but that poll did say that 64% of women feel that both length and girth are important.

Speaker 1 Notice it doesn't say size, correct? But that it's important, again, to their body, right? So I think that's really crucial. 45% of men feel their lingam is too small.
Wow. Yeah.

Speaker 1 So almost half of men. Correct.
There you go. And then 44% of women, I don't know.
I need to look at this. It says orgasm best from eight inches.
I need to look at that one again.

Speaker 1 That's what what it saw that's what it said not sure not sure on that one because that one doesn't really make full sense because it says that the average size of of a man's lingam is around five and a half inches in length

Speaker 1 and about four and a half inches in girth so that's that's average so if you're around five inches you're super normal a lot of i feel like a lot of um men feel like um this hair is really bothering sorry guys a lot of men feel like half feel like they're not big enough but if you're you're around five and five and a half inches, five inches or so, you're completely normal.

Speaker 1 I think it's important for men to understand that. Well, because guys are watching.

Speaker 1 They're watching. So they think eight inches is normal.
But let me tell you what these numbers are. So a nine-inch lingham,

Speaker 1 which

Speaker 1 is, I think, after using the pump is what he's going to have at this rate. And the pump really works.
It works. By the way, it does work.
You know, I used it for a bit.

Speaker 1 It does work. I had to stop because it was working too well.
Yeah. And then it gets too much.
I know.

Speaker 1 Your girl's like, calm down. Paul's like, what the fuck? I know.
I love it because it does work. I don't care what people say.
They can laugh all they want.

Speaker 1 But he's laughing to the bang. So a nine-inch lingam

Speaker 1 is less than 1% of the population. Wow.
So when you guys are watching,

Speaker 1 you're comparing yourselves to a 1%. of the population.
And then if you're 10 inches or more, it's like less than a quarter percent. Holy shit.
Have you ever seen someone with that? I mean,

Speaker 1 I have. Wow.
I've been. Wow.
I've been blessed. I I don't know why.
I think I just, I'm like

Speaker 1 the lingambuster. Like, I just knew a size for my body.

Speaker 1 You can kind of tell sometimes, right? I can't tell. I used to make it up lads, though.
Yeah. So, you know,

Speaker 1 it's not always the case, but taller, bigger guys and African-American men, you know, it is what it is. But I just know what works for my body.

Speaker 1 I think that was one of our questions about is sexual compatibility important, right? Was that one of them? Yeah, it was.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I guess how do you measure that

Speaker 1 without getting in bed first, I guess? Right. So, yeah.
But I think it's important that we talk about the, is it important, right? Don't you think? Sexual compatibility. Yeah.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 It's super important. Yeah.
So why would you say? I'm just curious. Well, if you're too small and her, she has like a deep whatever you call it.
Yeah. It's not going to work.
It's not going to work.

Speaker 1 And so just from the anatomy portion, and we do this in the retreat, it's so fun.

Speaker 1 We make it so fun for everyone to like understand this because I think a lot of people, a lot of men, we see they feel bad and they feel like they're not big enough.

Speaker 1 And for men, confidence is everything. That's the one thing I've instilled in my son.
He's so confident.

Speaker 1 Like, I think I went overboard because he doesn't give a, you know, I thought he was going to sit in on this interview. I was like, damn, he's confident.
Did he went outside?

Speaker 1 He went outside, but I thought he was going to be. It's like Chinese to him, I promise you.
And this is why I tell parents all the time, they might say, oh, you can't talk.

Speaker 1 My son doesn't think that is bad or doesn't even think about these words. Really? No.

Speaker 1 That's some really good parenting. Because if I was, how old is he? He's 10.

Speaker 1 I wouldn't have been allowed in this room at 10 with my parents. That's right.
But what is, but why?

Speaker 1 I think they would have felt too shameful about these topics. My son doesn't even try to listen because I've explained to him about the body, about my body.
He understands. He understands what sex is.

Speaker 1 He understands all of that. And he's heard me speak of it.

Speaker 1 It's like so not. It's normal to him.
Wow. Normal meaning there's no shame.
He's not interested. My son is 10, but I'd say he's more more like eight on purpose.
Really? Yeah.

Speaker 1 Eight when it comes to like, like, you know, like some 10-year-olds have girlfriends. They're doing weird shit.
My son's not doing that. He has brought Charmander with him on purpose, right?

Speaker 1 I'm keeping him young on purpose. But back to sexual compatibility and why it's so important.
Guys,

Speaker 1 you marry someone or have a long term if you choose not to do the marriage thing. I don't know.
Some men aren't doing marriage today because, right? A lot of men. A lot of men,

Speaker 1 but they'll still have a LTR, right? They'll still claim one woman, but they don't want to do marriage, right? And I actually understand.

Speaker 1 I am for marriage because I think there's something, there's like a covenant, like what, you know, Charlie Kirk talks about, talked about, if you will. There's something very sacred about it.

Speaker 1 And so I think faith-based, they're still doing marriage. But even some conservatives, if they're not faith-based, they're opting out

Speaker 1 for obvious reasons. And I don't know how you feel about it.
Usually financial, Angular. is financial.

Speaker 1 But if you're choosing a person to either be in a long-term relationship or marry, what changes your relationship from any other relationship?

Speaker 1 It's the sex and the intimacy, correct? Yeah. You don't have sex with your friends, your colleagues, your kids, your parents, no one else.
Who do you have sex with? Your wife. Right.
Your partner.

Speaker 1 Pardon me. So if you know that going into a marriage or a relationship, and you know that sex is what? The first thing to go in marriage.
In fact, that's why some men won't get married too. Really?

Speaker 1 Yeah, because they know that once you get married, they don't have sex anymore. Wow.
Men tell me that all the time. Like, I don't want to get married.

Speaker 1 I know that you don't have sex when you get married after you have kids, right? Because then she comes fixated on the children. Right.

Speaker 1 So if you know that sex is the one part of your relationship dynamic that's different from any other relationship dynamic on the planet, don't you think it's important to know if you're compatible?

Speaker 1 100%.

Speaker 1 Because we know it's the first thing to go. We know it's why people get divorced.
We know it's oftentimes why men cheat.

Speaker 1 We know it's, you know, women, women's a little different because they're more for the emotional stuff.

Speaker 1 However, it's very important to understand the compatibility of that. So

Speaker 1 it's good to

Speaker 1 have an idea of this going into it. Now, there's tools that you can use that are called, I should have brought one, they're called

Speaker 1 yoni wands, and they're crystal. They're made of rose quartz, amethyst, and they're like a vibrator, but they're not because they're just the stone, just like this crystal, just like made of that.

Speaker 1 And so you can use that to sort of put it in the, in the yoni, and she can measure and say like, hey, I'm three, you know, three to four inches.

Speaker 1 So she's good to be with a man who's four inches, five inches. That's okay.
That's okay.

Speaker 1 Maybe six, right?

Speaker 1 But then she doesn't want to be with anyone higher than that. Why? Because he's going to what? Bottom out.
Yeah, it would hurt too much, right?

Speaker 1 And also for the man, say if the man is bigger, if he's six, seven, eight, he can't even get in all the way. Yeah, because some guys talk about the wall.
It's just like. You've heard that, right?

Speaker 1 Of course. I call it wall bottoming out is another, I think it's a bad term, but they can't go any further, right? And they want to.

Speaker 1 Why shouldn't they be allowed to?

Speaker 1 Right?

Speaker 1 Sex is, it's an important part of life. It's a spirit.
God gave it to us to enjoy, right? To have.

Speaker 1 So why not have it the right way so there are things that you can do to make up for the imbalances but i do think it's important this is would be a first question i would ask yeah like i know this is weird but you probably want to have sex with me for a whole time right so don't you think we should see if we're a good match and if we're not what we could do to make us a better match does that seem far-fetched To most people, they'll never ask that question.

Speaker 1 Yeah, they won't. They'll never ask that question.
They'll never ask like, do you believe in like having, you know, like, what's your sleeping arrangements? What do you think about that?

Speaker 1 Or do you believe, or like a lot of questions I feel like people don't ask. They'll ask, what's your favorite song? What's your favorite movie? Or do you want a vacation?

Speaker 1 But like, they won't really ask the real questions that keep the sexual polarity alive. Yeah, they ask like service level stuff

Speaker 1 or like preferences. Like, I don't know half that stuff about my guy.
I don't really care because it doesn't really matter.

Speaker 1 Like, I, I mean, if you also, if you're observant, you can figure out everything. I know he likes his Evian water, which I cringe.
Oh, that one's good, though, in the bottle.

Speaker 1 I don't drink plastic. I need to start getting him those.
I know he likes Evian. I know he's very simple and he, he wears like, you know,

Speaker 1 like basketball stuff all the time, you know, you can find that stuff out. But the important thing is to know is like sexual compatibility.
Do you believe in birth control? How?

Speaker 1 Do you want to have children? Yeah, I don't. I've never been on it.
That's another reason.

Speaker 1 That's rare, right? Yeah, I think that's why I'm going to be fertile into my 50s, you know, 50s. I turned 44.
And you're still fertile. I still, I just got off my moon cycle.
Holy crap.

Speaker 1 So you can still have kids or not. I don't have kids.
Well, he's on the fence. He said when he hits 40.
He's 35 now. 40 is pretty late.
He wants to stack that money.

Speaker 1 For a, for a female, I'd feel like it's late.

Speaker 1 For most women. For most women.
Let's talk about this because these, you guys annoy me with saying I'm a grandma and I stop menstruating. Are you crazy? You wish.

Speaker 1 I'm more fertile than people in their 20s, I believe. I can see that.
Because of my lifestyle. I've never been on birth control.
I don't eat meat. I've been vegan since sixth grade.
Wow.

Speaker 1 I'm not taking in hormones, right? All the hormones and the synthetic hormones that they're getting from meat, from dairy, from

Speaker 1 estrogen, from the pill. I'm never getting that.

Speaker 1 So of course I'm going to be fertile. Plus, my whole mission in life is to preserve my sexual energy.
I'm a tantrum master, so I'm constantly building and recycling energy.

Speaker 1 I drink my moon blood, which is less about the nutritional stuff. I said that for more like,

Speaker 1 like to get people to understand what's in it, but it's an energetic principle of saving my life force. That's my ojas.
I'm also drinking my partner's ojaz. I'm going to be fertile for decades.

Speaker 1 So the modern person thinks that it's late to have, they call it a geriatric pregnancy after 35. Yeah, there's a lot of

Speaker 1 hilarious to me. Health issues, right? Woman after 35.
For the regular woman.

Speaker 1 Yeah, if you ate and did this to your life and to your body, yeah, you are geriatric. I'm not.
Did you see what Trump said about the Tylenol? What did he say? Oh, this came out yesterday.

Speaker 1 Pregnant woman on Tylenol. There's like some link with autism, allegedly.

Speaker 1 Just came out yesterday. I need to see that.
Yeah, him and RFK made a huge

Speaker 1 stuff all the time. I was on the vaccine bandwagon before that was on it to not vaccinate your children.
I got told I was irresponsible. I was a bad mom.
I was, my son was going to get sick and die.

Speaker 1 And I'm like, no, you guys are idiots.

Speaker 1 What child, what, what woman in their right mind, which are not in their right mind because they just got their labor induced and then got a spine tap, numbing themselves, which is fucking crazy.

Speaker 1 Instead of just saying, I'm a woman, my hips, my body was made to push, I can handle an hour or two of pain. That's how they used to do it.
That's how they used to do it. And they used to squat.

Speaker 1 That's how I did it. Oh, you did a squat in the bathtub? I squat.
I squatted. My doula got nervous.
So she hadn't delivered a baby in a while. So we did go to the hospital, unfortunately.

Speaker 1 But I turned on my side. They wanted me on my back and I refused.
Why do they want you on your back? Do you know it hurts so bad? And it goes against gravity.

Speaker 1 So, so yeah, so

Speaker 1 the vaccines, like

Speaker 1 they're out of their mind after they give birth because they're not in their mind. I was fully awake.
I knew everything that happened during my birth a thousand percent because I was lucid.

Speaker 1 I wasn't drunk. I had a rush of hormones that literally I was took over my body.
I thought I was like an avatar. I was like, God.
Did you have an orgasm?

Speaker 1 I didn't have an orgasm, but I believe that you can have an orgasm during birth if you train properly. I think that my second one, I could.
Okay.

Speaker 1 The first one, it's like you don't know what's going to happen. Does that make sense?

Speaker 1 So the pressure waves, when they come, they are intense. You kind of feel like you might possibly be dying.
Right. But you're not.
Your body was built for it. Like I pushed my son out.

Speaker 1 He was seven, seven i didn't tear i mean that's not huge but i'm not huge and his dad was like you know six eight tall skinny guy too basketball player seven seven seven seven so there's bigger but i mean look at my body my picture we're lean so seven seven i didn't tear um so i did not have a orgasmic birth but you can have orgasmic birth and there's women who do i think second time around it's possible because it's like like i told you i felt euphoric afterwards it was like such a release of energy i literally thought i was God.

Speaker 1 I thought I could do anything. And

Speaker 1 once you know, like how to, so now I think I could channel that energy differently.

Speaker 1 The first time it just hit me and I was using a lot of tantric yoga practices to move the energy, but you don't know until you know. Now that I've done it, I understand what's going to happen.

Speaker 1 These waves are going to come, they're going to hit me, but that's just energy and I can move it. So I do believe that I could have a second child orgasmic birth.

Speaker 1 There are women who have these orgasmic birthing stories. I don't believe in the fear-mongering about birth is a death sentence and, oh, watch out for this woman.

Speaker 1 No, I did everything that other, I, I did yoga sculpt then when I was in labor. I was literally had started having contractions.
I was in a hot yoga class with weights staying on my head.

Speaker 1 Like, it's like nothing because like my

Speaker 1 women are just lied to. We're so dumb.
We believe what. anyone in a white coat who's white tells us to believe.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 It's like, I think I know my body better than you boo like i've been in it for 40 some years i know what i'm capable of did you breastfeed i breastfed for seven years seven years actually

Speaker 1 my son still tries to nurse he asked me mom can you take herbs to make more milk wow and he's 10 and you see my son he hoops he games he's milk i didn't know you could produce milk for that many years after yes this is something else that's women god we've just been so lied to the modern woman who's like eats the standard american the sad diet and all that they just don't know i could have gone longer in most african and this is going to be in my book my second book is about conscious motherhood and parenting

Speaker 1 um conscious womanhood motherhood and parenting most cultures like in africa and indigenous tribes they nurse their children until they're like 12

Speaker 1 and they'll be out on the field you know with one baby with one kid who's helping them and they're both nursing one's like maybe two or three, one's like nine or 10 and it's normal. Wow.
Why?

Speaker 1 Do you know they have still not been ever able to replicate breast milk? They're trying. They're trying.

Speaker 1 Formula, right? Formula is garbage.

Speaker 1 I think that you should be sentenced to prison if you, if you give your child the formula.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 let me caveat that. you have the ability to breast milk.
Right. So if you can't, I understand like if you can't, there's medical things and it happens.

Speaker 1 And that's all imbalances in in the body, by the way. You should be able to.
But anyway, no judgment. Say you just can't.
And they say there's, okay, fine. You have to feed your child something.

Speaker 1 And I think goat's milk in that case is the best, the better option, but some kind of formula, you know, is needed. I would never do the commercial stuff.
That is so good. They put sugar in it.

Speaker 1 Everything. And they drop, you know what they do? It's sick.
They drop it off at African countries. And the women are like, ooh, we're getting American

Speaker 1 nutrition. And then they wed the baby.
The baby is addicted to the formula and the women stop producing milk. Oh my gosh.
That's a true thing. Look it up.
It's crazy. Awful.
But so they can't

Speaker 1 replicate breast milk. They cannot do it.

Speaker 1 My photographer and friend did his thesis on extended breastfeeding.

Speaker 1 The benefits mentally, you've seen my son

Speaker 1 for years now. Come in here.
He sits in like a, he's not like most kids.

Speaker 1 Most kids annoy me. Yeah.
My son comes in. He's always like, oh, we get to see Sean.
I love him because you're tall and you're a hooper. You know, he's a hooper.
But he's just chill.

Speaker 1 He's been to almost 30 countries. He's, you know, he's like,

Speaker 1 his EQ is better than most men, I believe. Yeah.
30 countries is impressive. I thought it was.
Yeah. He's like 25 now, but whatever close, getting up there.

Speaker 1 I believe that his emotional intelligence is higher than the average man's. I really do.

Speaker 1 And you know why? Part of that is because I breastfed so long. Michael Jordan was breastfed till he was four.
There's some other major players in society.

Speaker 1 You can look them up who did extended breastfeeding. Oh, I know Jason Tatum did,

Speaker 1 because I do attachment parenting. He slept with his mom till he was 16.
My son still co-sleeps, and he'll probably do the same until he's probably around the same age.

Speaker 1 I would be shocked if they were doing extended breastfeeding because most attachment parenting is that it's extended breastfeeding, always wearing the baby, sleeping with them, like sleeping in bed with them,

Speaker 1 non-vax, all these things. Interesting.
So breastfeeding is very powerful. I think it's also kind of

Speaker 1 a fetish. My son is completely just for the support.
He asked today, mom, I really wish you still made milk. He said, can you take the herbs to make it? I said, the factory is closed.
I'm done.

Speaker 1 It was a lot. Imagine most women won't do it for six months or a year and I did it seven.
Yeah, that's a long time. Yeah.
But I think it is a fetish now today. Yeah.
For men. What about

Speaker 1 like your dating partner drinking it? Is that a thing? I think that's a, that is a thing. And there's some men who are kind of drawn to it.
It's weird. They're like, when I was, when I was nursing and

Speaker 1 I was producing milk and I had a partner, he would drink it. And he was like, oh, like he liked it.
It was kind of, I don't know what it does, if it's like a, like,

Speaker 1 it's a nurturing thing or it takes them like.

Speaker 1 It's something that I think it's a very bonding,

Speaker 1 connected, intimate experience, right? To say, oh, I just had made love with my partner and I drank her breast milk. Like, you know, that's, that's the same thing with like the colas.

Speaker 1 It's an intimate experience.

Speaker 1 So I think that just like it detaches mother and baby together, the bond that it forms, not to mention nutritional EQ, I think it can do that with your sexual partner as well.

Speaker 1 Don't knock it till you try. And bodybuilders pay for it a lot of money.
Really? Actually, that's the way I made, you know, my story is a little crazy. Yeah.

Speaker 1 When I came, when I was like starting from zero, I'm not going to, I have no shame. That's the thing about me.

Speaker 1 I will say what I've done because I was trained by Tony Robbins' PR team for a day in San Diego. You know what they told me? Get ahead of the story.
Tell people everything now.

Speaker 1 And then what are they going to say? Because people are going to say, oh, yeah, you're an ex-tripper. Yeah, I said that.
I have a TED Talk. I had a pimp for a decade.
I was trafficked. I got out.

Speaker 1 I faked my own death. And now I help people heal.
And

Speaker 1 what are you going to say?

Speaker 1 So I sold my breast milk when I was needing money. I sold breast milk and I would.

Speaker 1 I was a hustler. I'd dilute it with rice milk because the rice milk consistency is very close to breast milk.
I don't know why. The color, the texture.

Speaker 1 So, because, you know, you got to make stretch that. So I'd like cut it, you know, like drug dealers cut.

Speaker 1 I was cutting it and bodybuilders would come and pick it up for me and I'd sell it for like 100 bucks, 200 bucks. Holy fork.
For a bottle of breast milk.

Speaker 1 Also, some guys, it was just a fetish thing too. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Yeah. That's something I did to make to make the living in the early days.
That's some like OnlyFans shit before it became OnlyFans. I never did it there.
Is that a thing on OnlyFans?

Speaker 1 People sell all sorts of stuff on OnlyFans. Used underwear.
Really? I'm sure they sell purity blood if I had to browse on that. I haven't been on it.
Oh my gosh, that's wild.

Speaker 1 Yeah, I've had a lot of them on the show, so I hear all sorts of stuff. So they do that? No, I was just trying to survive at that point.

Speaker 1 I was just like, well, how can I keep the rent over my head in Irvine? Let me sell this breast milk to this bodybuilder. Wow.
I didn't feel weird about it because it was like, I was making so much.

Speaker 1 I still have some in my freezer.

Speaker 1 During COVID, my son started. He just was acting a little weird.
And I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, not today, Satan.

Speaker 1 So I just took the breast milk out, warmed it up, put some cacao powder in it, drank it. We neither one of us ever got COVID.
Wow. It lasts that long in the freezer.

Speaker 1 I mean, I'm sure it's not as potent, but yeah, it's still in there. Interesting.
That is cool. How did Tony Robbins find out about you? Oh, that was wild.

Speaker 1 One night during those early

Speaker 1 breast pumping days, really struggling.

Speaker 1 The thing that's interesting that they don't share, and this is what I'm writing in my parenting book, is like a lot of these parenting methods, it's not for single moms.

Speaker 1 Like they don't tell you attachment parenting is really fucking hard. It's about putting like doing the best for the child, which most women are so selfish today.

Speaker 1 They schedule their C-sections because they don't want to ruin their body.

Speaker 1 They don't realize is that when you don't have a vaginal birth, you're really fucking your child because your child gets a plethora of good bacteria when they come down the vaginal birth canal that protects them for life, which is why my son's never sick.

Speaker 1 Wow. But so I was going through those early days.
I was postpartum.

Speaker 1 One of the side effects of having a natural birth, if you're in my demographic, my demographic meaning I was a product of the foster system, had abuse, was trafficked, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Speaker 1 I was alone, no family. You have higher chances for getting postpartum.

Speaker 1 Doesn't mean that Karen, you know, living in the multi-million dollar mansion can't get it either.

Speaker 1 It just means my chances are higher. So I was having postpartum and PTSD.
It was a pretty rough time. Wow, I'm surprised.
You seem very like mentally strong.

Speaker 1 Yes, but having a newborn, breastfeeding around the clock, which I did, going to school full time to keep the roof over my head because I was in like all these programs. Like

Speaker 1 the government was like, the county was paying for me to go to school so my son could be in charge. Like I was just trying to figure out how to survive at that time.

Speaker 1 And I had the skill set, Tantra, but I didn't really know how to, like, how do I make money off of it? Like, what do I do? So I was just at that time just surviving.

Speaker 1 And you see when you, I don't know if you're playing to have kids, but it's a lot. I I am when you're doing it alone and you have no support, no family, it's a lot.

Speaker 1 So also the natural birth, the hormones were just, so it was rough. So I was having postpartum and it brought back a lot of the trauma from being trafficked and all this stuff.
It was rough.

Speaker 1 I was like, I can't, like, I had the thought. So when, when men say postpartum is not real, it kind of annoys me.

Speaker 1 I'm not saying that it can't be alleviated naturally, but to say it's not real is so not fair because you know know me, I'm really natural, but that shit is real. I've never taken an aspirin.

Speaker 1 I don't take any of that sort of thing, but I had fucking postpartum. Like I had thoughts that were really crazy and very scary.

Speaker 1 And in that moment, like I was doing homeopathy, I was doing all this stuff.

Speaker 1 Shit wasn't working. So at that point, I did go see a doctor and I was like, I need to be on a mild SSRI because I'm my son and I need to live.
Like that was what I did.

Speaker 1 I went on for three months, weaned myself off, which you're not supposed to do, but I've never been on anything since. And I guess I needed it or I just needed support, but I didn't have it.

Speaker 1 So I had to go for the next best thing.

Speaker 1 But it was during that time. I was a low, low, low, low, low spot.
And I just remember thinking like, I can't go on anymore like this. Like I'm failing.
Like I'm trying to do all this homework.

Speaker 1 I had like brain, I had like mild TBI from multiple concussions when I was trafficked, which was make, it makes it more challenging when you're doing like studies, like math.

Speaker 1 So I had to take five remedial math courses before I can get a credit. Wow.
I didn't grow up with an education, all this stuff. It was intense.

Speaker 1 Imagine you're, but you have a baby and you're nursing the baby and still going through all this. I was just like, this is not life.
Like this can't be life. I don't want to do this.

Speaker 1 I remember having that thought and his thing came up on my feed. It was like, I'll never forget it.

Speaker 1 I was like, stop worrying about what could go wrong and stop imagining all the things that could go right. And I just hearted it.
And it was like 2 a.m. as I had just nursed him.

Speaker 1 He went back to sleep. I was awake.
And I just commented with like 2,000 other people. I was like, yeah,

Speaker 1 I just don't think I have the skill set right now to like make it in this world where I was just bought and sold. Like, this is just, I'm, nobody cares about me.

Speaker 1 Like, I don't, I don't fucking know how to do this. And I knew my hormones are imbalanced.
And he responded to me. He like DM'd me and he started messaging me.

Speaker 1 He's like, wow, I just commend your bravery. This is right at the time.
I know they're not even a thing anymore, but he started working with Operation Underground.

Speaker 1 And he was like, I want to help you help more women. Because at that time, I had started this club on my campus for human trafficking awareness.

Speaker 1 So he's like, I want to help you help more women, but I want to help you. So he sent me to his event, Unleashed the Power Thin in Palm Beach, West Palm in 2018.

Speaker 1 That's where I met him for the first time. So over the next few years, we would talk back and forth on Instagram.
He would send me to every event he had, including Business Mastery, Date with Destiny.

Speaker 1 We had plans to work together in this fight, you know, of human trafficking, advocacy, and awareness for survivors. Unfortunately,

Speaker 1 in Australia, actually, I was supposed to have a sit-down with him.

Speaker 1 And that is when he got mercury poison and he came out in a wheelchair. He moved and finished that date with Destiny.
And then after that, that was in 2019, rather, COVID hit.

Speaker 1 So after that, then they took my Instagram account. And then I lost my direct line of communication.

Speaker 1 But I still have like his PA, his

Speaker 1 all his team. And I told you the media team trained me.
So that's, that's what happened. What a story.
Shout out to him for reaching out. That's beautiful.
I know. Helped me so much.

Speaker 1 And I think what Tony's work really did for me was like, it just gave me like the confidence to understand that I could take this tantric. work and healing and do something with it.

Speaker 1 And that all the stuff in the past, I could let that go and I and I could do it so it just gave me that confidence and I think that's really what his work does and it's like networking on steroids that when you go I'm going in October and taking prints for the first time in LA like you just meet the most amazing I've heard great things I've had so many guests that have gone or even speakers yeah like dragons one of his trainers there's a few other people who come in here yeah yeah so man you've been banned everywhere you got banned on whatsapp a couple months ago yeah they took um both of my um WhatsApps, scammers.

Speaker 1 I don't know. It's a little fishy.

Speaker 1 Like,

Speaker 1 I don't know, but they sort of reached out to me on Telegram saying, hey, give us money and we'll get your accounts back. And ever since then, I just haven't been able to get them back.
Wow.

Speaker 1 That's a whole industry. That's a whole industry.
People ban you and then the same person that bans you hits you up.

Speaker 1 But I don't trust it because what if I give him the money, then he's going to do it again? A lot of them do that. And I'm not going to do that.
So I'm still trying to get in with WhatsApp.

Speaker 1 I have my team message them every day crazy because whatsapp's so important too So I lost I'm not even in the group anymore I know especially with what you do if you have international clients So you got to text them and yeah and all like the connections So it's been so messed up.

Speaker 1 Well, if you get a new one, let me know I'd be buck. Yeah, I do I have one.
Okay.

Speaker 1 So I gotta give it there was someone that called me literally today and he's like dude I made over a million dollars from your WhatsApp I was like hoping

Speaker 1 are you serious? Yeah, he like posted about some business deal and he said like five people hit him up and like one of them ended up going through.

Speaker 1 it was that he was in real estate or something or he does like he sells some sort of manufacturing some like he helps people save money okay it's hard to explain

Speaker 1 yeah but there's all sorts of people in there yeah we got to get back in that group because i had so many connections and i feel like so sad not having like anyone i was just and then you don't always save all the numbers in your phone off whatsapp you know so it's like how do i fight that person we got to get back in there we got to get back in there Should we end off with some rapid fire?

Speaker 1 Yeah, let's do it. Did we cover everything? We got most of it.
Okay.

Speaker 1 All right. Let's do it.
What are your thoughts on period sex?

Speaker 1 I think that period sex is extremely healing for a few reasons. One,

Speaker 1 it's a very powerful magnetic time for a woman and her body. She's literally in tune with her life force.
Blood is life. Life is in the blood.

Speaker 1 So if you're inside of her, when she's in tune with her highest ecstatic, feminine receptive powerful energy of life it's going to be powerful sex just even if you're not tantric second of all it actually helps to stop a woman's cycle it ends it sooner

Speaker 1 and can alleviate cramps because if she is able to orgasm it can stop the contractions and help to release the oxytocin the serotonin dopamine so that she has a

Speaker 1 first of all a climax but it also helps her to relax the cramps and things she might be experiencing. It's so powerful.

Speaker 1 Also,

Speaker 1 every time I have period sex or sex right on my period, right, maybe I'm on the end or close to it, close to being done or maybe in the middle, it'll stop. Whoa.
It stops. I'm not fully sure on that.

Speaker 1 I'm going to actually reach out to my teachers to kind of understand more, but I think it's something to do with, like I said, the hormones, also the contractions of just relaxing that that area.

Speaker 1 And it helps to just alleviate PMS symptoms, like I said, reduces the cramps and can potentially stop the cycle altogether, which happens to me all the time. The problem is most guys are afraid of it.

Speaker 1 Yeah, because of the blood, but I guess if you have towels or yeah, or do it in the shower.

Speaker 1 For me, I don't have, I don't bleed a lot on purpose because I pull my blood back into the body.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 I shouldn't say this only,

Speaker 1 but there are sometimes sometimes I'll do it. He doesn't know.

Speaker 1 What?

Speaker 1 You're a savage. He doesn't know though.
Wow.

Speaker 1 He doesn't feel it? Because I don't. Like, it's just like being lubricated because I don't believe much.

Speaker 1 So he doesn't know. That's crazy.
I only, but only do that because sometimes we don't get to see each other that much.

Speaker 1 So if I'm on my cycle, I'm like, damn, but you can also manipulate that a little bit too. Yeah.
Women see me for them. See me for more details.
That's impressive that you could pull that off. Yeah.

Speaker 1 But you can also pull off climaxes without even being physically touched, right? Correct. I can do that.
That's something that I worked on.

Speaker 1 Actually, when my son was young and I was in school full-time around the clock for like almost five years,

Speaker 1 I would be just sitting in lectures and I've trained my vaginal, myoni muscles with the eggs.

Speaker 1 And so I can just learn how to just manipulate. Like I'm doing it right now.
I'm like squeezing, manipulate. And actually, people don't understand that orgasm happens in the brain.

Speaker 1 The body is just the other component of it. So you can physically, you can mentally stimulate yourself into that feeling.

Speaker 1 Like I could do it now, but I don't really want to go because I'm not trying to be like Jaya. Jaya's really famous for that, like just orgasming on camera.
What? Yeah. I need to interview her.
Yeah,

Speaker 1 she's an OG in the game. Jaya.
J-A-Y-A. Yeah.

Speaker 1 She will just, she could just orgasm on command. Yeah.
Holy crap. I mean, it's

Speaker 1 a thing. That's impressive.
Yeah. And that's, she works with Tony's, like Tony's followers and his private groups, you know? And then,

Speaker 1 yeah, so I, I, absolutely, I could do it as well. I'm not prepared right now in this moment.
Yeah, that must be a female thing, right? I don't think guys can do that. Yeah, it is.

Speaker 1 Like, it's just about like, it's like feeling energy, like I'm feeling it now. And then you just move it up and I could do it, but I don't know.
I already get so much shit.

Speaker 1 I don't know if she makes millions of dollars and she's doing her thing. So she does that.
Nobody cares. I'm not to that level yet.

Speaker 1 But, but yeah, but it's about like, I mean, I'm having 10 minute climaxes. That's crazy.
So right now with my partner. That is crazy.
I told him the other day I said, I'm never leaving you.

Speaker 1 10 minutes.

Speaker 1 We counted nine. So nine's close to 10.
Nine is still nuts. I think my longest is 10 seconds.
You said as long as it's 10 seconds. Well, is that practicing tantric retention? I do.

Speaker 1 I used to do like semen tantric, yeah, but not like disciplined enough. Not discipline.
Yeah. It's a lot of work and you're so busy.

Speaker 1 So it's like, if you really want to go with that, you will get to those longer ones. For women, it's a little bit different.

Speaker 1 And that's the thing. Like, that's why the crying comes in.
Imagine I'm going one minute, two minutes, and I'm still going. It's kind of a funny thing now with him.
I'm like, I'm still going.

Speaker 1 He's like, I know. I can see why you're crying now.
He just sits there and he's so like, to me, oh my God. I'm like, how does he not?

Speaker 1 Like orgasm in that moment?

Speaker 1 Yeah, because you're super tight at that point.

Speaker 1 And I'm like crying, losing it. And that's what really gets men going, right? A woman is feeling full pleasure and she's in her highest state of receptivity and femininity.

Speaker 1 She's climaxing for two, three, four, five minutes. Like, that's why I'm so like, I can't ever leave him.
He doesn't want to get married. He already told me I won't get married.

Speaker 1 He said he'll do a ceremony with me. Okay.
But he won't do the marriage. It's okay.
That's not a deal breaker for you. No, I understand.
I mean, I'm not traditional, right? He's really good. Like,

Speaker 1 you know, it's like. If I was like a regular woman, I would probably say I wanted the ring.
But I can't do all this stuff and be like, yeah, and I want to be traditional too.

Speaker 1 Yeah, with your lifestyle. Yeah.
And like what I teach, it's just not normal. So to me, I'll take the nine minute climaxes if that means I don't get like a legal thing.
I don't need that.

Speaker 1 Like to me, that's the legal is oftentimes I feel what ruins it for most. So yeah, I'm very happy, needless to say.
Like that is,

Speaker 1 it's so attractive that a man will not be moved even in that moment of pleasure. And to me, that's like the ultimate Shiba move right there.

Speaker 1 Like you're, you're so, you're so in control of your ejaculation that I'm literally like dying in pleasure and you're still like unmoved yeah hats off to him i know um is it gay for men to enjoy anal play no it's not anal is it's it's very interesting how our bodies work um the male g-spa is located obviously in the prostate i don't know you're familiar with that right and i don't know if you've ever had any

Speaker 1 and i think i think there's two types of men men are like strictly they're like gay don't come near me but then there's men who maybe

Speaker 1 I don't think it's right when women do this, do this without telling them. I don't think that's okay.
I have never done that.

Speaker 1 I've been, it's been that invitation only because I respect Shiva, you know.

Speaker 1 But so I've heard from my clients and men that women have just put a finger or just jammed a tongue or just gone there or a toy without asking.

Speaker 1 And that is not cool because if they did that to us, it wouldn't be cool. So we shouldn't be doing that to them.
Right.

Speaker 1 But for a man, it's a very, very sensitive area around the anal area.

Speaker 1 Just even if it's not like a toy or a finger just licking it can be very highly arousal and it can take him to an intense climax and I think once they have those kind of climaxes it's sort of it's um it's like a release you know it's a it's a different kind of release and I think that can be exciting and something that they want to experience I don't think there's anything gay about it it's not like it's another lingam inside of their butt or something.

Speaker 1 That's different, right?

Speaker 1 That's gay sex. A tongue,

Speaker 1 that's just, it's the body, it's the anatomy. And your G spot just happens to be located in a very unique area, right? Do women have any spots in there or not? Yeah, a woman's,

Speaker 1 if guys, if your woman isn't doing anal, you're missing out. You need to listen to this next part.

Speaker 1 Anal sex for a woman is, I think we talked about it. It's a stress reliever.
I think this is one or higher you're performing.

Speaker 1 But let me tell you, because it's the upon a value, the downward spiraling moving energy but a woman's climax in in anal climax i was like trying to word my words right

Speaker 1 it is like

Speaker 1 earth shattering it is such a different kind of orgasm it's like it's like having like cheesecake versus creme brulee like they're so both so good but it's like how do you really say like oh one over the other it's like they're both decadent desserts yeah and that's like the anal orgasm for me i don't have it all the time.

Speaker 1 I would be lying. I've had it a few times in my life with someone who's very large and very large, very that 1% category, if you will.
And I say all that to say that anal is possible for women.

Speaker 1 I think that there's a misconception that if you're a little bigger, that women, you can't do it correct. Yeah.
That's not the case. If it's done correctly.

Speaker 1 with, you know, an organic lube like coconut or ghee or something of that nature. And there's a stimulation that's done, I recommend the nipples.

Speaker 1 the nipples is the best because it's the uh it's the negative pull of energy and it opens um it opens the positive pulls um it's relaxing and when you have a dual stimulation like nipple play or you're playing in this case i don't mind playing with the clitoris a little bit to help relax her then um you can do anal quite easily as long as she's pushing not resisting pushing out does that

Speaker 1 help but an anal orgasm will change your life and women you should definitely give it a try.

Speaker 1 I think that a lot of women are missing out on that. You heard it here, woman.
Get it going. Get the anal going.

Speaker 1 Get the anal going.

Speaker 1 I think we got through most of it, honestly. Anything else you want to cover?

Speaker 1 I think you, there was a few, there was one thing I think I think it's interesting to talk about is the top, the top three hacks for lasting entirely. Oh, yeah, yeah.
Let's have a look at that.

Speaker 1 I think that's really important.

Speaker 1 Someone said to me, a teacher told me, like, if you want results like everyone else does, then do what everyone else does.

Speaker 1 The top three hacks for intimacy are not, they're probably maybe not what you'd think of as conventional, but they do work.

Speaker 1 So the number one would be to sleep in separate beds or homes. This is a non-negotiable for me.
And you have to talk about this with your partner.

Speaker 1 Now in real estate, actually, they're making his and her bedrooms and bathrooms. Really? It's a thing now.
now, yes. Wow.

Speaker 1 I think more it's for closet space, but they are doing it.

Speaker 1 A closet and bathroom space, not so much for the sleeping, but for us in the tantrics, it's about the sleeping. You know, there's five energy bodies.

Speaker 1 So there's the physical, the energetic, the mental, the emotional, and the causal, which is the spiritual.

Speaker 1 When you sleep at night, your auras combine, your energy bodies combine, and you turn into one. Whoa.

Speaker 1 Which is why you see grandparents and people who've been married a long time, they start looking like each other. Have you noticed that? You're like, why does everyone look the same? Well, that's why.

Speaker 1 Same with people and their dogs. Correct.
Correct. So for lasting sexual polarity, you want to keep that magnet.
like attracted. And the best way to do that is to not sleep together.

Speaker 1 That's why it's so passionate with my guy and I, because we don't see each other that often a couple times a week. But when we do, we're just so magnetized.

Speaker 1 And I already said, like, I was like, I think we need separate homes. And he's like, no, no, no, but at least separate rooms.
So you have to find that.

Speaker 1 Tantrics stay together for a long time because the polarity is strong. They don't ever, you know, leave because they still want to have sex with each other and be around them.

Speaker 1 The second thing that you need to do is you need to schedule blowjobs and sex. Why do you need to schedule blowjobs?

Speaker 1 I think it's important that a man gets that release of just being able to relax and recede.

Speaker 1 Women don't really, they don't like doing it. They're like, oh, I'll do it on the anniversaries and things like that.

Speaker 1 But for a man, it's the one time where he doesn't have to do anything. He can just take that.
And

Speaker 1 it's a good thing for him to have that. For a woman, we're not moved so much by sex.
So that's not as important. But the intimacy, the lovemaking is.
And if you don't schedule it, it won't happen.

Speaker 1 I'm sure you do a lot in your life, including podcasts and whatnot with your lady, all these things, but I'm sure you schedule it, right? If it doesn't go on your calendar, does it happen?

Speaker 1 People are like, I don't want to schedule sex. It should be natural.
Well, that's why you're not having it. And that's why marriage is an end divorce.

Speaker 1 And the number one reason, or it goes, vacillates between one and two, is infidelity. Men aren't getting sex.
So they're going out and finding it.

Speaker 1 So if you have to schedule it until you make it a habit where it just happens automatically, like you brush your teeth every morning, then you have to do it. Right.

Speaker 1 The last thing I would say is don't be idle together, meaning what most people do in relationships.

Speaker 1 You get off work, you go home, you might be watching Sports Center, she might be scrolling through the feed, and that you call that hanging out.

Speaker 1 And that is what most people do in relationships today.

Speaker 1 That's the number one thing that weakens polarity is just spending idle time where you're not both present, connected, vulnerable with each other, and actively doing something.

Speaker 1 And that is why I think we see a huge lapse um just um the sexual polarity weaken and people leaving in and out of relationships fast if you've been together like a year that's like a big thing today

Speaker 1 you've been a year whoa you know it's it's crazy so those are the three hacks um i love those yeah the last one i love a lot The last one was good.

Speaker 1 I want to touch on one other thing. If we have two minutes, the last one, the

Speaker 1 monogamy and cux. I thought the cucks was a big one.
I know. You've debated a couple of them.
I have. Destiny, when are you setting that back up, by the way?

Speaker 1 So if you're going to Amfest in December, I'll set it up there. Where's that? Charlie Kirk's early event.
Oh, when is that? It's in Phoenix, December 18th. I can do that.
I mean, Phoenix is easy.

Speaker 1 Yeah,

Speaker 1 Nick is going to be around. Fuentes? Yeah, we got to do that.
You want to debate him? Yeah, we were going to Danny. Oh, yeah.

Speaker 1 He said no, but he said yes. I was the one that canceled.
Oh, you were? Because of my situation.

Speaker 1 Yeah, yeah. He said, yeah.
You got to set that up. You got to set that up.
I'm here to remember. We'll do Destiny first because Nick's on a crazy trajectory right now.
He might be hard to get.

Speaker 1 He just went on PBD yesterday. Yeah, but Destiny will do it.
Okay, well, yeah, he's getting canceled again right now.

Speaker 1 Yeah, and I gotta do some stuff that shows him the receipts of things he accused me of. So that'll be cool.

Speaker 1 He said I didn't write my book. Oh, really? And now I gotta show him.
And then he said that my story was fake. So I gotta show him my TED talk.
You gotta bring out the receipts. I got receipts.

Speaker 1 But the cucks, should we talk about that? Yeah, let's send off a cucks.

Speaker 1 That should be a show. Send up with a cuck.
So, cucks. All right.
So

Speaker 1 it's simple.

Speaker 1 Tell me what you think of this theory. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Because

Speaker 1 a lot of men now, it's kind of a trend now, right? Like, oh, my wife, you know, I just sent her off with a man. Diddy was one of the most famous ones.
I just had on Diddy's

Speaker 1 prostitute. Oh, you were? Yeah.
He came to my house first and then he came to you. What? I love him.
Wow. Such a stand-up guy.
Yeah. He's a very amazing dude.
Very in-depth. Not what you'd think.

Speaker 1 Not at all. People think about me.
They're probably like, oh, and then when they meet me, they're like, damn, she's real. He was amazing.
Loved him.

Speaker 1 Punisher, I can't name his true name, but Punisher. So yeah, Cucks is super simple.
One, it's, I think it's three things. One, it's an inadequacy.
I think it's either a short dick,

Speaker 1 no money,

Speaker 1 or too much power.

Speaker 1 Those three things.

Speaker 1 All right, the last one, I forgot, overweight.

Speaker 1 And it's all about performance. So the short dick, overweight is kind of performance.

Speaker 1 A lot of the cucks that I've either worked with or I've seen, something was, there was something there and inadequacy, meaning they didn't have a big dick, they were overweight, they couldn't even see their dick.

Speaker 1 How are they going to have sex? They're like, you know, so they know this because I knew a very famous producer in Hollywood who was one.

Speaker 1 His dream was to marry me and to have me sleep with black eyes all day. And I was like, I actually considered it.
I was like, it's literally what I do. It's not the worst offer.
It's not the worst.

Speaker 1 I'd be taking care of my son being in private school. I mean, he was coming on thick.
He's like, son's in private school. I don't want you to work, but you can do something fun on the side.

Speaker 1 And I was like, dude, why did I not take him up on this offer? This is literally my life. I sleep with black men.
But I was like, no, like, I just, I couldn't energetically.

Speaker 1 I was like, no, but I'm considering him. Decent offer.
Decent offer. And yeah, it's because he had a small dick and he was overweight.
He could perform. I knew it.
He didn't tell me those words. Yeah.

Speaker 1 But I knew it. I saw it, you know, like I, he sent me the footage.
I was like, okay, this is what's happening.

Speaker 1 And then a money thing. He had money in that case, but it was the other.
And then I think as when they have

Speaker 1 when they have too much power, it's it's something where if they're not connected, like what I call Shiva energies, like directed, connected, focused energy towards God, and they are in tune with that, they don't know what to do with that.

Speaker 1 So it's like, it's like an imbalance. And so for them in that narrative, I'm paying you to fuck my wife.
You know, I'm in control. It's like, really? Okay.

Speaker 1 Yeah. You know, like, Punisher is like, I'll take the 20 grand, whatever it is.
And he's off to the next thing.

Speaker 1 So I think that what that is, it's a way for men to justify being mediocre on some level of their life. I could see that.
It's an issue these days. We need to

Speaker 1 fix it. Yeah, because it's kind of.
Guys are simping out here. Simping in the street.

Speaker 1 Well, Janelle, it's been cool. When's the next retreat? Where can people find you where you're not banned up?

Speaker 1 I love that question.

Speaker 1 Oh my gosh. Instagram, Shock Dealiving JG for Janelle Gordon.
Get my book, Amazon, and Next Retreats into Limb. Awesome.
That'd be right. Better time stay.
Nice. That's my birthday.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 We'll link it in the video. All right.
Cool. Thanks for coming on again.
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