Episode 472: Zarina Del Mar: Why Your Body Weight is Better Than Heavy Weights (Movement Over Muscle)

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Now we're always hearing on social media, lift heavy, lift heavy, lift heavy.

If someone's body is not prepared and prepped for lifting heavy, all you're going to get is injury, right?

So you have to be somebody who you do have to be progressive, but don't think just because you're not doing 100 pounds of deadlifts that you're not getting any benefit by at least even doing 10 pounds or your body weight.

Your body weight can be actually harder sometimes than doing like actual...

free weight even even hip hinge um yeah even

yeah for a lot of people it is like let's say, glute dominance.

Yeah, glute dominance.

You're not just putting your torso forward without feeling anything in your glutes.

I like every work with single leg, single leg.

Yeah, single leg is very that's like my favorite.

Yeah, and we

we are making now my team is making the research because we have subscribers and let's say students from more than 55 countries.

Oh, wow.

Like we are presented in all over the world.

And one research team approached me and told me that it's a huge thing because usually researches are made within the USA or within Europe.

And we have subscribers from all over the world, women from all over the world.

And we are now making a research, conduct a research, we're talking to them, we are asking them about their menopausal status, about their age, physical activity, etc., etc.

And we are looking how my method, because they are my subscribers, they have purchased my programs, programs, helps them with their physical activity, with their mental health, with all the problems they may have because they're 40 plus with their perimenopause status or even menopause.

But what are you giving them?

Like, what is your key?

So, because you were saying that, are you someone who believes in in cardio?

Because you're saying all the soft and fluid motions of feeling your body and all these things, movement, mobility.

What is your, like, so what is your thing?

You don't, do you believe in cardio?

Do you believe in running?

Do you believe in,

What's your take on cardio?

On cardio.

So

now many scientists and longevity experts telling us that we need to do this interval sprint training.

Well, by the way, intervals have been around for forever.

Hit training, by the way, has been around forever.

Yeah, yeah, but now

they are telling that.

You need to make

heavy lifting two times per week and sprints like two, three times per week, and you'll be fine maybe you don't need this long run

if you're in a perimenopause you don't you don't you don't need these long run sessions for 30 minutes or even longer just just sprint what they say is like what they say for perimenopause or menopause is sprint and do heavyweight yeah right and then do your walking yeah do you know how many people if if that I know who are let's say 45 or 50 can I can't even imagine them doing a sprint the same for me I was making view max test.

Yeah.

And I was like a little above average.

And I was wondering how.

So I'm training everything.

And that's me.

And then

I look at my community.

I think about my mom who is 65.

Like how she can.

My mom's not.

My mom's not.

My mom's 80.

She's not sprinting.

Okay.

There's not a chance.

Like, to me, a lot of this stuff is like, there's always something that people say and then people are like, protein.

Unless you're eating 5,000 grams of protein protein a day, you know, you might as well be eating zero grams of protein.

Like, there's just always these like crazy, like, you know, floods of information, like, eat so much protein, and you got to wear a weighted vest, and you got to do this.

Like, a lot of the stuff is like, do it.

If you don't like it, number one, you're never going to do it.

Never.

And also, whatever happened to common sense, right?

Like, whatever happened to eating like a moderate meal, like having a piece of chicken and some salad and feel fullness and feel comfortable.

So, so about uh cardio now i'm walking or running every morning but it's it's my soul food i'm for your mental health for my mental health i want to be alone and i i live by the the ocean finally i'm 39 years old i live by the ocean i i i i like this morning 5 30 or 6 a.m uh time for for myself how long are you running for or walking just 30 40 minutes maximum because i need to come back to prepare breakfast and all that stuff yeah yeah we have obligations we have kids i and i don't think about burning calories and making a certain amount of steps yeah i'm just walking or running then i'm coming back i'm doing my movement stuff i really have a lot of videos i'm recording myself five minutes literally five minutes and i'm done because i'm doing it very precisely without any breaks between my move so i i'm making a movement like a movement flow movement sequences for five minutes in a row and it is really hard what kind of movements i'm so i'm sorry don't yeah

you didn't try

i didn't try it because i don't i don't so you're is it more like a yoga flow like what are you doing it may look it may look like a yoga or pilates or martial arts let's say i'm blending because i have martial arts experience dance experience i i have never tried professionally yoga but of course i have tried it during my uh the course of my life So I am just blending and it becomes a movement stuff.

Like you're working with the weight of your body.

You're, you're, for example, you start from plank position, you have three points of support.

Then you shift to the next position, you're making push-ups, then you're, I don't know, coming into deep squat, then you're stretching your spine, you make rotations with your thoracic spine, you're using your arm line to just extend your chest.

So that's, that's, it may look even like a dance.

And that's what I'm doing during five minutes or a little bit more.

And the same stuff I'm doing before I'm going to bed.

It really helps with your mobility, with every joint in my body.

So I don't feel any pain, any stiffness.

And what I've noticed when I wake up, Again, I need to prepare my joints for my like everyday routine because I don't know about you, but in the morning, I'm not as flexible as I'm flexible during the day.

That's why I need my body.

I need my movement routine.

I need this fluidity in my spine.

Like five years ago, I was not able to make spinal waves.

So I was not able to move my thoracic spine than to feel how my thoracic spine engages my lumbar spine and the pelvis and all this stuff like...

fluidity in your spine and and waves.

I was not able to do because I was teached to keep this anatomical neutral position in which you're making deadlifts and squats, and that's it.

But you need to move, you need to move your shoulder blades, you need to move every part of your body in three dimensions, not only linear movements.

Not just linear movements, yes, yeah.

And you've asked about yoga epilatis.

As I have taken courses at Laban, Rudolf Laban Institute of Movement Studies in New York, I realized finally that, for example, Laban, he had his own system of description of movement.

And yoga epilates is just the way you can describe and structure the movement.

But yoga impiles, these types of physical activity, doesn't have full rights on particular movements because all the movements are coming from our body.

So I in many cases, I'm doing something.

I don't know the name of these poses or physical forms.

And someone may tell, oh, it's a yoga asana.

Maybe, but you're doing so, wait, so you're doing a lot of movements, like it could be looking like yoga, it's like more flow of some kind.

Are you not training then?

Like Monday, Wednesday, I'm just making this up, Monday, Wednesday, Friday, you're not doing upper body lifts or Tuesday, Thursday, legs.

And

you don't train like that anymore.

It's all either you walk in the run in the morning, and then you do these movement flows.

Yes, but my movement flows may include pistol squats, right?

Shrimp squats,

It includes all these body weights.

But

you're not using weights.

I may use weights because I'm like on the level where I need to put more pressure on my job.

Join us each session.

So it may take 15-20 minutes, like the session precisely to develop certain skill because I'm still developing and I'm still finding out what I can grab from my body and how I can present movement for my people.

Because I am like I'm i'm telling my best book on anatomy and biomechanics is my body and now the bodies of all of my subscribers because we're making research and i'm just looking at them

giving different tests uh to them and we're analyzing what's happening like within a week or a month and my main like my main lab is my own body how it moves what's happening with my shoulder joints the basis of many of my movements is gate biomechanics and motor development of a human during the first, let's say, two years of our life.

Like crawling position, all the position when you're lying on your back and you're taking your limbs to the center, how you feel your center of gravity, how a human starts, crawl, sit, and then walk.

Right.

So you're doing a lot of movements.

Yeah.

Not so much strength training as the literal form of it.

Yeah, as the classic.

As the classic form of it.

But as we get older, right,

don't you think it's important for us to do resistant training in its real form?

Yeah, of course.

For our lean muscle mass.

What you're saying sounds great.

Like, like I've told you, I can do pistol squads with dumbbells in my hands.

Right.

But it's the next level.

Most people can't even do a pistol squad.

Yeah, yeah.

With additional weights.

So I add some weights, but the basis I'm providing is just deal with your own weights, understand how you're.

Right.

And as you get stronger, you can add more of course i i i do squats i do like rdls like every girl we love rdls yes uh i'm telling you i think women are over training their butt lower body

and they're not overtraining their upper body it is cool when you feel your strength and you're training on on like your legs or glutes because you feel you feel them and upper body is so hot like like again push-ups pull-ups they say i have very weak arms and i'm telling them pull-ups it's not about arms it's about your core.

It's about your spine and your shoulder blades, how you control the position of your scapula when you're making these pull-ups.

I think you're making it even too complicated.

I think women want to look good.

I think that's the bottom line.

That's why they're doing it.

I agree.

I agree.

And they're doing what's like the easy thing, right?

Yeah, they want easy, but they want easy.

It's too hard to pull your body up.

So they're like, ah, forget it.

I'll just do another hip thrust.

I could do that.

Or I'll just do another squat.

I can do that.

But what's happening is their bodies now are, I believe, out of proportion.

Number one, you're strong on one side, but you're not proportioned.

So it doesn't even look good.

So like if they want to look good, ladies, if you want to look good, start training your upper body because you will look better, like proportionally, like visually, right?

Like you will get the body type that will like accentuate your bum and will make your waist.

waist look thinner and da da da da da and like i don't think there's anything hotter than a girl who has like a strong upper body.

You can see a girl and you can be like, or a guy, whatever.

Well, now I'm talking about a girl.

I'm like, I'll be like, you know what?

Like, you can tell that they're fit because they have strong arms, strong back, a strong, you know, the biggest compliment people can give me is like, wow, you look really fit.

Look at your arms.

Look at your back.

You know, I'm just, I'm just saying, but like, wow, look at those glutes.

I'll be like, all right, whatever.

Like, that's like an easy way to be fit, you know?

That's what I'm telling my husband.

Like, when someone tells me, I'm doing yoga, Pilates, like seven days per week, and then I'm doing like long distance running.

Let's say it's a lady and I don't see any muscles in her upper body.

I'm just wondering, what are you doing?

Because even in yoga,

you can build up upper body.

I was going to say, yoga people who like really do yoga seriously, like truly, you have the best upper body.

Yeah, like there are

shoulders, shoulders, super sculpture, back, and back because they're doing so many push-ups.

Yeah.

They're doing so much of those cobras.

Like, it's so fun.

And handstands.

And handstands.

Yeah.

Handstands.

I'm in love with handstands.

And only like two years ago, I realized it's not about strength.

It's about balance.

Yeah.

It's about alignment and lack of fear because I was very

handy.

Yeah.

But now I'm doing it

perfectly, but I'm doing it and I'm not scared because I feel, again

the strength in my upper body helps me.

But in general, it's all about balance.

Yeah,

I think so too.

The other thing is, you know, Pilates is like the number one exercise, the number one fitness craze of 2025.

I think it's slightly overrated, to be honest.

You have to do a lot of Pilates to get a result, in my opinion.

You could be spending a fortune and really not really get much result.

That's my opinion.

I believe that you also need to come like do something with it.

But

I think that a lot of Pilates women gravitate to because they don't want to,

they want to get a strong core, which it could be good for, right?

In your opinion, what is the best way to get a strong core?

Do you think it's Pilates?

Do you think it's something else?

I have programmed

3D core.

So

the best way to feel feel, to get a strong core is, first of all, to work on your breath, to understand how you breathe, to get connected with your rib cage and your pelvis.

It really helps.

I am for nasal breathing.

Now I am running nasal breathing.

I am running, I am walking, and I am doing all my movements stop.

And I breathe only through my nose.

My mouth is closed.

And it really helps to feel the capacity in your lungs to to feel your rib cage and to feel the whole abdominal area it really helps with your core muscles pelvis mobility breathing like breathing techniques that will help you to engage your rib cage together with your pelvis your lower belly and I like now technically physically I like dynamic planks I like push-ups pull-ups it's really great for your core I never do crunches.

I never do like Russian twists.

It's all about

Russian twists.

Yeah.

It's all about.

You don't like those?

I don't feel it is necessary because I'm working on my butt.

I'm working on my glute muscles.

So as I've mentioned, I take as the basis the gate biomechanics.

So when you're standing on one leg, you're turning your pelvis, you're turning your torso, you are lengthening your posterior chain with so you're

you help with your arm.

So you feel all the glutes, you feel your, your, your core, your abdominal muscles, that's it.

And you can grab extra weight.

I never do crunches.

I never have like separate sessions for my abdominal muscles.

It's only dynamic planks and all this 3D stuff when you work on your glutes, on your spine and your core simultaneously.

I know.

I don't, crunches to me are the biggest waste of time.

People are like, oh, to get a six-pack, you just, and you see these programs with these people, they're doing like 150 crunches.

And that's the most

biggest waste of time.

To me, you get way better,

way better core workout by doing a pull-up, by doing push-ups, exercises that are actually

like exercises that actually engage your core, not that are specifically.

basically focused on your core.

But the engagement of your core depends on the position of your pelvis and your thoracic spine.

So you need to understand how to put your pelvis and your thoracic spine, how to control the position of your lumbar spine, then that's it.

And do everything you want.

But if you're doing a pull-up, even within, if you're doing a pull-up with a resistant band and you're pulling yourself up, you're squeezing and engaging your entire abdominal muscle.

You're squeezing.

You are,

you're breathing, but you're squeezing.

You're kind of like having to like brace yourself to lift up.

You're working more of your core than if you're just sitting on a floor, basically working your neck for 20 minutes, right?

Because people are not even, when they're doing a crunch, they're actually just like working this part, you know, they're not

neck and neck, and they don't feel they're not, they're not even able to like bring their shoulder blades off of the mat.

But once you feel your core, once you breathe in an appropriate way, then crunches, you will need just 10-15 breaths maximum.