W. Kamau Bell & Glenn Singleton: Confronting Race: Courageous Conversations That Matter

We have to do the first work of looking inward, right?

And we have to ask that simple question

of, you know, what impact does race have on my life?

And what impact does my race have on my life?

And as I look around my community, how is race playing out there?

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Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to another exciting episode of Mick Unplugged.

And today,

I've got a special moment.

I've got two guests, and we're going to talk about it all.

One is an Emmy and Peabody winning storyteller who uses comedy to confront culture.

And the other is an education equity architect redefining how we talk about race in America.

Together, they're pushing past comfort to spark the real change that we need today.

Please join me in welcoming the brave, the brilliant, the uncompromising.

Two guys that I look up to the most, W.

Kamal Bell.

and Glenn Singleton.

Gentlemen, how are you both doing today?

I mean, I know Glenn's used to those kind of intros, but I'm still getting used to them.

So I know Glenn is like,

that's exactly as it is.

Glenn actually sent me everything to say about him ahead of time.

He was like, it has to be these, do not sway from the text.

Exactly.

Just like,

this is not a suggestion.

Right.

If it doesn't go down this way, it's not going down at all.

Yeah.

Uh-oh.

So.

Glenn, I'm actually going to start with you.

I like talking about your because,

that thing thing that's deeper than your why, right?

Like Simon Sinek wrote a book, Start With Why, and I think everybody got stuck there, right?

You start with why, but it's your because that really keeps you going.

So, again, Glenn, I'll start with you, man.

If I were to say, what's your because today?

What's that purpose, that passion behind what you do?

What is that?

You know,

what is so clear to me is that everybody who's looked like me has had this journey before me.

And when I think about, you know, coming all the way across, you know, the grounds of West Africa through

the transatlantic slave trade, up through slavery, Jim Crow, you know, all of these moments of oppression for people like us.

When we get to

my generation, and we have more than we've ever had.

And so I just feel like it can't fall apart with me.

Wow.

Wow.

I love that.

I love it.

I'm taking some notes because I have a follow-up question on something you said.

But come out, man.

I'm going to give you the floor now.

What is your because?

Why do you continue to do what you do?

I mean, the

flippant and probably truest answer is because

me and my wife have three kids and I can't just be like, good luck.

I feel a responsibility to

make sure that

the world is as easy a place to navigate for my three daughters as my three mixed-race black daughters as possible.

And, you know, and I sort of think of it as the black baton.

Like when my grandparents handed the black baton to my parents, it was lighter than when they got it because they had gotten it from people who hadn't been that disconnected from enslavement.

And then

when my mom passed it to me and my dad passed it to me, it was much lighter because they had gone through the civil rights movement and everything that that entailed there and pushed the black people forward, black folks forward.

And I got it, and I'm like, it might be heavier than when I handed to my daughters.

And so my goal right now is to sort of make sure that I do everything I can to make sure that when I hand them the black baton, that it's not heavier than it was when I got it, which is going to be a lot.

But look like I got Glenn and you and other people working on that too.

So, and then I think the other thing is like, I grew up in a household where you sort of knew as a, you had two jobs, the job to put food on the table and the job to make it easier on all the people who look like you who couldn't get what you got.

And there wasn't really a choice there.

It was, no, it was just, it was just, it's what we do.

So this is just, I think if I was a car mechanic, I'd be an anti-racist car mechanic.

I just think this is just a part of the deal.

I love that, man.

I love that.

And I'm going to tie that into the.

the conversation I wanted to have with you, Glenn, and both you, Kamal, is this.

Like, Glenn, you said we have more now than we've ever had, right?

And I truly believe that.

I also feel to that point, enough of us don't realize that, right?

Because those are the things that aren't talked about, right?

Like, and I'm not saying everyone and everything, but you know, we'll talk about Lil Wayne's album that just dropped and how good or great that wasn't, right?

But we won't talk about that.

Nobody said it was good.

Slow down, slow down, slow down.

Nobody said it was good.

Don't, let's not, let's not put misinformation out there let's okay continue

he said it was good okay whoever was in the production booth said it was good but

but glenn man so how do we spark those conversations internally so that we can have them externally because you do a brilliant job of that right like i mean you you're a consultant to to fortune 100 to fortune 50 companies forget 100 right right on how do you lead those conversations internally first so that we can have them outside well you know when when i talk about uh having so much um

oftentimes uh we we get hung up with the the new shiny stuff right so um absolutely it takes less time for me to create um the the guidelines for a conversation in these corporations now because i've got friendly ai okay we've never had that right i didn't even have a cell phone when i was building this work at the beginning right so this is you know this is three decades deep and and so you know with those two there's a whole group of people who have now flourished from these modern technologies and um from you know the the the hard work that the entertainers the athletes the corporate people have done before and they've got bank to prove it right so so when i think about what's in the community in terms of resources right now and and i think about the challenges facing our community,

third grade reading level in every major city across the country for black children.

I'm pushing right now on the multi-millionaires and the billionaires to figure out, you know, what it is that you're doing with all that extra, right?

Because you only can live in one house, you only can drive one car, and it can be a nice one and it can be a big one, okay?

But after that,

that space that's sitting around, those extra material things, the ploy of capitalism have really hurt us there.

And then the second thing, I'm going to go to the other side of the prism.

And the other side of the prism is what requires our consciousness, Mick, because, you know, when I sit and talk with my 80-year-old mother, I get the pearls, right?

She tells me, no, don't go that way.

Don't go that way because they're not going to like it.

Right.

And so if I'm trying to get from A to Z

and I know I'm already running into a roadblock, okay, then

why wouldn't I avoid that

if my purpose, as we've talked about, is to not fail us right now?

And so when I think of the trajectory from, you know, that, that, that elder and ancestral wisdom, okay, all the way up to the modern technology and the material, we've got a.

buttload of stuff that we can use right now to get this to get this thing moving in a way that those elders and ancestors would be proud of us.

Amen.

I love that, and I'm right there with you.

So, Kamal, for you, you talked about that baton, right?

And how heavy it is, right?

And just like you, I have three

mixed-race black kids, right?

Black children, they don't like to be called kids anymore.

So, black children.

There you go.

How do you have that conversation about the baton internally with your children?

Let's see.

My seven-year-old hates the president and will say it out loud.

So, and I'm in, and you know, and while we may, we can have a grown-up discussion about hate, I think it's a, it's very savvy of her to understand that this person is not on my side, you know, and so therefore I put that person into the hate camp along with like, you know, lima beans, whatever you want to say.

So for me, the idea that my seven-year-old is aware of the state of the world and aware, and even in a sort of a seven-year-old way, is really important to me because it means that, like, if you, because some people grow up not being aware of the state of the world and then when they're full-grown adults you've had conversations with them and they're like they say something like well you know how many senators are there and you're like oh no

which and it's fine and i will tell you and we can have that conversation but i think the more that in my house i grew up as as an only child i heard my mom having every conversation And so with my kids, they see, they're hearing me have a lot of conversation.

They're also seeing my work.

They're also seeing how people talk to me in the streets.

So they're aware that, like, Dada does things where he has to talk to people about the state of this country regularly.

And they've heard me speak enough to know which sides we're on, and that we and they want to be on the side of the people.

And the people is not just people who look like us.

And we live in Oakland, so they can see those people.

And so then you have like my

14-year-old who just graduated from eighth grade, who, as part of her graduation celebration, her advisor said, and Sammy Bell, who thanks to her and

the administrator who talked to her, now every kid in this school knows the words to lift every voice and sing because my daughter sang it at every like school, you know, function.

She was like at every,

and

there was a black woman who works in school who asked her to, and Sammy did it.

And I said, Sammy, you got to learn the words.

You got to like, we, you know, like, you can't fumfer through any of it.

We're probably not going to do the second verse, but learned it anyway.

And so that's a kid who is like, just through the power of her voice because she has a good voice is engaging a little bit of activism by teaching some white kids in her school and some non-black kids about the words that lift every voice in sing and so for me there's more than one way to do this but i think it's important that my kids are aware of what's going on in the world.

And my 10-year-old, who's pretty shy, like I was when I was her age, I go, look, you're never going to get in trouble with me if you're defending yourself or somebody else who needs to be defended, you think needs to be defended.

And that's a very basic thing, but I think it's cool.

You might hear the teacher said, I can do this and that.

And I go, whatever the teacher says, you come home to me and we'll take care of it.

And so for me, creating a sense of like, justice is not always in the hands of authority.

Justice is sometimes a thing you see that authority will tell you not to see.

And so we are engaged in those conversations regularly, you know, in our household.

And we also celebrate Kwanzaa, which is the final piece of raising

a black family.

Man, that is deep.

That is deep.

But you're right, man.

Everything, again, I've been a big believer.

I was raised that you can't have outside conversations if you don't have them inside first, right?

And so my grandparents instill that in me.

My parents instill that in me.

And that's what I do with my children as well, too, is, hey, we got to talk about it.

Yeah.

Because one, if you don't know your truth, if you don't, if you can't have your own voice in here, you'll never have it out there.

And so, you know, and I know, Glenn, that's something that you're passionate about as well, too.

That's, that's a pillar that you have, man.

And I want to applaud you and talk a little bit about Beyond Diversity and all the good things that's going on there.

Talk to the viewers and listeners a little bit about that, because to me, Beyond Diversity isn't just a conversation, man.

It's, you know, in the 60s or 70s, we would call it a movement, right?

Like, like, talk to us a little bit about that.

Right.

Well, you hit on the first pillar, right?

Of Beyond Diversity is a training framework that I wrote over 30 years ago.

So we're celebrating the marker of 30 years at LBJ Library next week, right?

And I think it's fitting that that's where we're going because

before we even think about the great society and the civil rights movement and

gaining insights from that past, we have to do the first work of looking inward.

And we have to ask that simple question of, you know what impact does race have on my life

and and what impact does my race have on my life and and as i look around my community how is race playing out there so that so that when i come talk to you and come about

i'm i'm already at that place of racial introspection

And my consciousness is moving me beyond the first trappings of defensiveness and

fear and all of those things that we've been given about this topic to, whoa, there's some power here, right?

And so 30 years ago, you know, I was looking at all of these disparities in education.

I have worked in corporate and advertising.

And so I'm seeing that

we are just not reflected in the goodies of society at the same proportion that we live in this society.

And so for me, the equitable future,

the mark of racial equity is when we start to see ourselves proportionately represented in all the good stuff.

Right?

All the good stuff.

And so if you can walk around society and say, hey, that's good, right?

To be on a board, hey, that's good.

To be CEO, hey, that's good.

To be at the top of the class when I graduate or to go off to the college of my choice, hey, that's good to get that record deal, you know, then

you know that we've reached racial equity.

And Beyond Diversity was designed so that we could have the conversation to move a society, the movement of society to that place of the elusive yet tangible sometimes equality.

Man, so I'm going to tell you this.

You don't know this, Glenn, man.

I'm going to try not to get emotional.

I don't get emotional, but I'm going to hold it in, man.

So, you know, been a huge fan of yours for a long time before the internet and all that.

Like, I knew who you were.

And I was one of those kids, I can call myself a kid then that you were talking to, man.

Like,

I had to be the best at everything I did, right?

Like my graduating high school, if I didn't have a scholarship,

might could have gone to college, but I couldn't have gone to the college I wanted to go to.

Right.

And so I genuinely had to be the best so that I could get either an academic or athletic scholarship.

But then when I got to college, University of North Carolina, by the way, Go Hills.

When i got to college that same mentality was there because i knew that i had a purpose to show

everybody that looked like me that we can be excellent that's right right that that we don't have a ceiling and the ceilings that we have are the ones we put on ourselves now

not saying the world is fair Never going to say that.

There are things we're going to have to fight for that other people don't have to fight for.

But damn it, I'm going to fight.

Right.

And so, Glenn, I wanted to tell you, thank you for

being that for me when you never knew that you were, man.

Oh, my brother.

Thank you.

Thank you for that.

And those skills that all three of us have developed, you know, and Kamala and I carry this special pressure of being the only one

of the next generation and families, right?

This only child syndrome.

But we learn to be excellent.

And the world would be a great place if people had that skill of a desire to be excellent, excellent, right?

So it's nothing wrong with that.

It's just that when you have to be excellent and you might not be noticed as that.

As you look around and we think about the conditions which we're living in right now, the irony

of the challenge to DEI where

we have just installed an entire government of people who are not excellent.

That's the nicest way to say it.

There are an entire government of people who are not excellent.

That is

right.

Not excellent, Mick, in the way that you needed to be at Chapel Hill, right?

And I'm working over in the high school district right beside you, where this is a community of excellence and a resource community, but we couldn't get the black children and the brown children to the top of the class so that they could continue to walk right on over to that university, right?

And so that's why we came together to make sure that your excellence was marked as excellent and to make sure that those who were not feeling excellent were given the resources so at least they could be that if they put in the effort.

Yes, sir.

Yes, sir.

Now, come on, I'll get to give you some praise that you don't know about, man.

So in my household, you know, we watch a lot of the things that you've written, that you've produced.

We've seen specials.

I want to talk about who's with me, man.

Like,

seeing the title of this tour, and I know you're going towards the back leg of the tour.

I'm a little upset you're not going to be in Greenville, South Carolina.

Oh, no, no, no.

First of all,

we're still adding dates.

And I will be in Durham.

I don't know.

And Charleston.

So I don't know if you close.

Literally, that's what I was going to say.

I know you go back to back in Charleston and Durham.

So I'm going to have to come see you in one of those too, man.

But told us about that Freeman War Community center was killer, by the way.

That was a special night.

I cannot imagine where you are right now, Kamal.

Yeah, yeah.

So, so, talk to us about the framework of this tour, man.

Like, everything from the name, because the name of the tour is so compelling, right?

And me and my children talked about it, but the message that you're trying to send throughout the tour, like, talk us a little bit about that development.

Well, I mean, so, you know, a lot of us who work in the

sort of the show biz, I was going to try to figure out a nicer way to say it, but just in Hollywood, had the one-two punch of,

so

post-George Floyd's murder by Minneapolis, Hollywood was like, we need to talk to more black creators and we need to give them a voice and let them.

And so a lot of projects were greenlit in that moment.

The project that I got was a thousand percent me growing up mixed that was about my mixed kids and also other mixed kids in the Oakland Bay Area, which was great.

But a lot of projects got green lit, but never got made because by the time it was time to make them, we'd already had the backlash to the, to all the DEI.

And suddenly all the DEI people got fired.

I had a lot of meetings with a lot of black women who were in charge of DEI of these, some of these corporations who then weren't there.

Months later, you'd send an email that said, does not work here anymore.

And then I had a deal go through.

So, and then the, then the strike happened, the writers and the actor strike.

And although we won, I'm in both those unions, we won a lot of what we wanted.

What they did was, we're just going to stop employing you like we're just going to stop so we're going to stop making content famously warner brothers who owned cnn where i used to work stopped for stopped the post-production on a on the batwoman movie in post-production so they were already 90 million dollars in and then said and it was going to be it was like a black batwoman uh which i don't know if that's why they stopped it but didn't help it i'm sure But they were just like, we'd rather use this as a tax write-off than release this as a film.

Even though the directors were in the edit bay, two Egyptian directors, I believe, again, who knows if this is all connected, were in the edit bay editing the finishing the movie.

And they're like, stop, stop your work.

It's never coming out.

And so not only, so there came a point where like, there's people I know in Hollywood who haven't worked since the strikes.

And, but that's when I had this moment.

And I, a lot of projects I thought I was going to do just sort of disappeared.

And I'd stopped doing stand-up comedy.

And I had this moment of like, wait a minute, I was raised by Janet Cheatham Bell.

I was raised by Walter Alfred Bell.

And sometimes people would ask me,

what did your parents do for a live when you were growing up?

And I wanted to go, they're hustlers, but not in the way you think.

And my mom's father, Smith Cheatham, was one of those guys who would walk onto a job site and just start working.

And they're like, you don't work here, but wait, you did better than everybody else.

You work here now.

He was just like, I'm going to get a job.

And so.

I chose this an opportunity to start to really like, okay, what can I do?

Well, I know I can write.

Where can I take my writing?

So I I went to snap to Substack, went to Substack, and was able to go, okay, now that I can do whatever I want to do, what is the goal here?

And the goal is to find out who's with me.

Like, you know what I mean?

Like, you know, literally, it's that simple.

Who believes

80% of the things I do?

And we can talk about the other 20%.

Or who believes very little of what I believe, but seems like I'm making some good points.

And I want to like, I want to at least work through this.

And so for me, that's where the, you know, it's sort of, I always feel like it's like a flip on Kendrick Lamar's way of saying it is they're not like us.

My way of saying it is who's with me.

It's a Kyler Gentleman way of saying, they not like us.

And so, and I know that from my CNN train, like the work that work I did on CNN, I got a lot of people who are with me who don't look like me, a lot of older, white, conservative folks who just liked the way I said stuff and came to realize some things they never thought about before.

And then because I've done podcasting and things, I got a lot of younger folks with me, a lot of black and brown activists who have been inspired by my work.

And I'm just trying to, I feel like this is just me trying to build the coalition

as Martin Luther King Jr.

did towards the end of his life that he did, that he, I guess, I was gonna say, he didn't know, he knew, where it's like, it's gotta, it's more than about black and white.

It's about, it's about race, it's about class, it's about, it's about the entire, the United States affecting the entire world.

And so for me, then it became time to like, I got back into stand-up.

And I very quickly was like, oh, I'm still asking who's with me.

This is all connected.

This is, especially, because I started the sub-stack before Trump, but once Trump was in office, it was like, oh, it's still, it's definitely definitely who's with me now.

Because I think before we can figure out what we do, we got to figure out who's on our side.

And right now in L.A., people are in the streets standing up to fascism, literally looking around and going, oh, these are all the people who are with me.

And it's not just Latinos.

It's not just poor folks.

It's all sorts of types of people who are in your coalition.

So that's where that comes from.

I love that.

And I want to go deeper with both of you on that, too, because, you know, when you have

people like yourselves and us the work that we do can never be alone right and so there are always

people that don't look like less that maybe don't even have the same political views that we have

but also know good versus evil right and so talk to us about that of how

you know, it's a coalition of people, it's a coalition of entities that actually help make the things that we do happen.

Well, so many, I mean,

if people don't want to stroll the history so far back,

if we just look at

this first design of the Great Society, neither Kennedy nor LBJ were really interested in the cause.

Their purpose was something completely different.

And oftentimes, that same purpose that you see pervading

halls of Congress right now, they want to get re-elected.

They want to keep the gig going.

And also America has this interesting

part of its culture that we want to show the world that we're great, even though we're not acting great inside.

And so these two forces were happening, right?

And the Kennedys and then LBJ, they came to understand that there is some goodness in this moral obligation for all folks to be real, feel real citizenship and dignity.

But they also recognize that it was in their best interest to calm the storms.

And that's what I worry about today, Mick, because this particular government is not interested in harmony and peace and community in this country.

They're interested in their own individual personal gains.

And so I don't know how you talk to people who are only interested in themselves.

Right.

Right.

Because there's nothing that we have here.

So I think our coalition now is really important to come together as people who have a bigger interest than just ourselves.

We're looking for, you know, what's going to happen for our children.

We're thinking about the elderly, you know, and all of those things.

And as we serve them, as we serve them, we actually serve ourselves better too yes and so that's the the the message when folks come in you know and they're sort of directed one way on immigration and and i'm directed over here on racial justice okay i've got to help them to see that when we all win we all win right that's that that's the key in here totally agree totally agree Kamal, your side on that one.

I mean, mostly, as you saw, I was dancing while he was talking.

Like, I was like, yes, yes, yes.

So, the part that I really started excited about was when you talk about LBJ and Kennedy weren't just born into wanting to be on the right side of history.

I mean, let's be clear, especially the Kennedys.

They were a couple generations away from being bootleggers.

You know what I mean?

Like, they were, they were,

you know, a lot of this is like these politicians putting their fingers in the air and seeing which way the wind is blowing.

And right now, I'm in the middle of a lot of online back and forth with people because a lot of there's a lot of excitement in some some parts of california about gavin newsom basically standing up to trump and putting out some videos saying hey if you want to treat california this way we're going to stop paying our we're going to stop paying into the this american system since we're the fourth largest economy in the world if we just stop paying into the system the country falls the country collapses and a lot of people got excited and i think that's great but you know i'm also don't talk about it be about it you know and And I just, and I was sort of seeing some Californians who I know be like, we got to be careful with Newsom because he's not always on our side.

He's not always clearly on our side.

He's not always, he just, he just started a podcast where he's interviewing right-wing people.

He also made gay marriage legal.

He also wanted universal health care, but he didn't want $35 insulin.

There's just a lot.

There's just a lot.

There's just a lot.

He has many pictures of him like dismantling homeless encampments, but looking good looking.

So it gets confusing.

So I've just been here to say, hey, guys, like, let's not get, yes, he's saying the right thing, but let's also not forget who he is.

And the number of people who are like this is why the left can't ever win this is why democrats can't ever dah da da this is why we're just basically let him cook basically is what they're saying like let him and i and i brought up the example of like do you think lbj signed or pushed the civil rights act of 1964 because he was excited about it No, he pushed it because Martin Luther King Jr.

wouldn't stop showing up in his office.

And he was like, I got a lot of people outside who are marching this way.

Like he was pushed into doing that and at some point realized I want to be on the right side of history.

Whether or not he had a moral thing or not, that's for him.

That's for his biographers to talk about.

But from the outside, it was clear without MLK, it doesn't happen.

It doesn't happen.

And so it's because, so my feeling is like, we,

you know, we have politicians only exist to be pushed into the right forms and functions.

Even if you support them 99% of the time, there's going to be 1% of the time you're going to be like, hey, and look, my mayor is Barbara Lee.

I don't know when she's been on the wrong side of history, but when she is eventually, like, I will be there to say, hey, Barbara, I need you to.

So, but I think that, like, we really, we, so many of us,

we're so scared that we're looking for a hero instead of looking at ourselves and going, what can I do?

So, you want Newsom to handle it and hope that he just handles it and takes care of it so you can get back to Pilates.

And I'm saying, like, hey, maybe you can have an anti-racism Pilates session and figure out what that is.

I'm not telling you not to do your Pilates instead of just hoping that Newsom is the hero that we've always wanted when no politician is.

Agree.

I talk to people all the time about when you understand the politics of politics, nothing actually surprises you because it's one of those things like, I'm going to do this.

Everybody's going to be excited about it, but there's these other four bills that I'm going to push through with this one big one that the world sees, but I'm going to push these others that they're not going to realize for a couple of months, a couple of years, and then they're going gonna be like, oh, wait, what was this?

Well, you wanted this big, shiny thing over here.

Well, to get this big, shiny thing, I had to pass these other three or four things that go along with it.

As my mom used to say, or says, the only thing you can trust less than a politician who doesn't want your vote is a politician who wants your vote.

There you go.

Like, it's easier to deal with the politician who doesn't want your vote.

Because you kind of know what that guy's going to do, but the politician who wants your vote might say anything.

Absolutely.

absolutely.

All right, you guys have been gracious with your time.

I'm going to ask each of you like one closing question.

And Glenn, I want to go with you because,

you know, you pioneered the courageous conversations framework.

And I think, you know,

today more than ever, and I'm not even talking about politics here.

I think today more than ever, courageous conversations need to happen, man.

So, like,

how does someone start that dialogue today with your framework?

Right.

So, the first thing that I'm going to suggest, even before you go through the internet, buy a book, take a seminar on courageous conversation, is you just get a sense of the paramount importance of racial justice in this society, right?

This cannot be what everybody understands America to be.

without racial justice.

You just have to cross through that.

And so establishing establishing that personal relationship to race in your life and to this trajectory of showing up on the side of anti-racism, right?

And that is the on-ramp.

Once you get into that on-ramp and you get into these conversations, across the board, you're going to find people who don't agree with you.

And rather than a retreat from that, that's when you know that you're entering the next level, right?

Because we can all sit around and and talk about people who pretty much share those, you know, those experiences and understandings of race.

But it's when you get to people who don't live the same experience, and their politics could be on the same side, their shade of blue, okay?

But

they're just having a different experience.

And so we've got to be open to really having the questions in that nuance.

And then finally, finally, we got to get to the place of understanding that race is a symbol of power, right?

It's metaphorical, right?

And so you got to not see that, you know, we're all the same and, you know, all of those things, red, black, yellow, green, and white, you know, all the stories that you're told.

No, no, no.

There is a hierarchy of power, right?

And you've got to understand this principle of whiteness.

You've got to see white supremacy and you've got to see anti-black racism, these two parts of that continuum, right?

And as you can step into those those three levels, it's about me, definitely.

There are multiple understandings and experiences existing, and there is this system of power, race, that is about a hierarchy that holds power at white.

When you get that, we're ready to go.

Everything can change.

Yes, sir.

It's not that hard.

Not that hard, man.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

So come out for you, man.

One, congratulations on Celebrity Jeopardy.

Absolutely.

I was jumped up when you won.

For all the smart Negroes who were bullied, I'm here for you.

I know Donors Choose was happy about that too.

I'm a big supporter of school systems, so I know that was amazing.

So my question for you, that I want you to be able to give insight to the viewers and listeners.

So for that person that's listening or watching right now, that's afraid to say something wrong, right?

What's some advice?

What's some courage, some power you can give that person or those people today?

I would say if you're afraid to say something wrong, I would first say you need to do an audit of your friend group and see who you're surrounding yourself with, that you can't be honest with who you are, with who you are sitting near and who you are regularly in conversation with.

So it doesn't mean that I don't think I'm going to say something wrong, but I feel like if I do, I am surrounded by people who one of whom go, hey, come out, come here for a second.

And they're going to do it with love unless I keep doing it.

Unless I keep saying it.

You know what I mean?

They're going to, you know, it's

Adrian Marie Brown taught me the difference between calling in and calling out.

They're going to call me in.

And if you haven't figured out a way to have a friend group that is, that is also.

Smart enough in different areas and have enough different experiences and backgrounds that you don't feel like you can be lovingly called in and you don't have people who can do that, then you need to, then you need to to look at yourself and go, who did I surround myself with?

You know, this goes back to the Lil Wayne album.

Like, like,

clearly, Lil Wayne is not surrounded by people who can be, hey, man, maybe not 19 tracks.

Maybe Lin Man Woman Brand is not the right producer for you.

You know, whatever.

He's not, he doesn't have those people around him.

So just, so understand, be your, don't, don't end up in that situation is what I'm saying.

Like you have to, and then

you have to know that you're going to say something wrong sometime.

If you're trying.

And I know this is a stand-up comedian.

If we don't try to say the wrong thing, we're never going to say the funny thing.

Right.

Now, sometimes the wrong thing is so wrong, people write you up in an article about it.

But I feel like that's just the nature of the business.

And you just got to, as a stand-up comedian, you know, I'm never going to go through what Lenny Bruce went through

or where he got arrested for saying the wrong thing.

Although maybe I am now that we're going to a different era of America, maybe that's coming back again.

But I just feel like, you know, I'm never going to go through what Dick Gregory went through performing at the Playboy Club in front of a group of white people for the in a white for the first time a black comic had done that in this country that we know of.

I'm not going to go through that situation.

So, you know, as I talked about, I think I talked about that night at the Kennedy Center.

Whenever I start to get caught up in my own, like, what if I say the wrong thing, or why is this so hard?

Suddenly, the ghost of Harry Tubman shows up and goes, What, what's hard?

Can you explain to me what's hard that you're doing?

You're afraid to talk.

Oh, okay.

So, let me just be clear: You're afraid to talk.

You're afraid to share an idea.

You're afraid to do, you're afraid to try a new thing.

Is that you're afraid to direct a documentary about Bill Cosby?

Oh, is he what's first of all?

What's a documentary?

You know what I mean?

So I understand that like at some point, you got to get out of your own way and stop thinking that every word you say is so precious that you have to be so careful and scared of it and understand that like the the

that true change happens in the uncomfortable spaces In the spaces of like, I don't know how this is going to go down.

I don't know how this is going to work.

Can you imagine being a young MLK

during the bus during when they're talking about the bus boycott?

And they said, I think he should do it.

And he's like, I just moved here.

He was like, nobody even knows me.

They're like, exactly.

And so.

The idea being that like, that's where true change occurs is in those uncomfortable spaces where you might say the wrong thing or you do say the wrong thing and you build to a better day.

Amen to that.

Amen to that.

So much wisdom today, Glenn Singleton, W.

Kamal Bell, man.

Like, appreciate both of you.

Final one, Glenn.

Where can people find you, follow you?

What do you have going on you want to talk about the last 30 seconds?

Well,

I'm headed over to Austin for

this big convening where we talk about

the great society as opposed to make America great again.

And so that's going to be down at Austin's the 17th and 18th.

I would say go to our website, www.courageousconversation.com and check the events.

You can follow me on Instagram, I'm courageousdove444, LinkedIn, all of those sources.

Facebook, I think, is the same at this point.

And yeah, I haven't played around with

twitter too much but i i i still

cross over the threads or something i don't know yeah but that's where i am that's where there you go there you go appreciate it and i'll make sure i have all the links in the show notes in description for everyone and we'll send people we'll send people out to austin come out what about you So yeah, as you were saying, like I'm doing most of my work is gathered now at Who's With Me on Substack.

So if you go to Substack and look up W Camal Bell or Who's With Me, you'll find me.

It's been been very good for me and I try to write every week.

I'm actually going to hopefully write today.

I don't know if I can think of something to write about that's going on in the country.

It's always about current events and the state of America.

Hopefully I can come up with something.

And then connected to that is my comedy tour, Who's With Me, where June 17 through the 22nd, we'll be at the Berkeley Rep, and the proceeds are actually going to go to local Bay Area organizations that lost NEA funding when Trump cut NEA funding.

So that's coming up June 17 through 22nd.

And then June, July 11th to 12th, I'll be in Charleston and Durham Durham hanging out with Mick here.

So we'll be there doing my Who's With Me tour.

And yeah, so I have other tour days.

And also I have tour dates coming up in the 26th and 27th of June in Seattle and Portland.

So just wkamalbell.com.

You can get everything or go to Substack Who's With Me or WCamal Bell to find out everything.

Gentlemen, both of you made my day.

Both of you inspire me.

and have been a huge inspiration to the

person that is before you today.

So I just wanted to to tell both of you i appreciate you um more than you will both ever know if you ever need me don't ask consider me there consider it done supporting everything you do and from the bottom of my soul thank you for who you both are thank you thanks for having me thanks for having me you got it for all the viewers and listeners remember you're because is your superpower go unleash

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