"Past Life Detective" from Snap Judgment
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Liz Mac spoke to Bob Snow.
Let me tell you something.
When I was commander of homicide, one of my biggest admonishments to all my detectives was do not get emotionally involved in your cases.
If you get emotionally involved, you can't see things you need to see.
But believe me, I was really emotionally involved in this case.
Tell me about how this all started.
We're at that party.
I don't remember what holiday it was.
I was talking to a psychologist, Kathy Graben.
I'd read a book about past-life aggression therapy, and I was talking to her about it.
Past-life aggression therapy is when a psychologist or psychiatrist hypnotizes you and supposedly takes you back to a life you live before your present one.
I basically told her I thought it was just foolishness.
I didn't realize that Kathy used past-life aggression, so I think I was being kind of obnoxious, putting it it down so bad.
And she gave me the name of a friend of hers, Dr.
Mary Ellen Griffith, who did past life regression, and told me, try it yourself and see if you really still think this is silly.
I said, I'd do it.
Well, actually, the next day I woke up and I was a little more clear-headed and sober.
And I thought, this is stupid.
I'm not doing this.
But it seemed like from that day on, I ran to Kathy constantly.
And when I'd see her, she'd always ask me, have you made the appointment yet?
I got tired of making making excuses every time i saw kathy so finally i just decided well i'll do it but i also decided i was going to take my own tape recorder along record the session so i could bring it back to kathy and show her how silly it was
being a police officer you want evidence you want proof before you make any claims
and so i basically made the appointment to go see dr griffith to have a past-life regression
Dr.
Griffith's office is kind of a dark, dingy building.
I sat down on the couch, which was the most uncomfortable couch I think I'd ever sit on.
Dr.
Griffith, very nice lady, had a kind of a funny, kind of a musical, sing-song-y type voice.
So let's now close your eyes again.
And she told me, close your eyes, and we started talking.
She said, okay, we're ready to go.
She said, can you imagine a balloon?
Now, I was sitting here, and there's a window to my right, and I could see a...
big purple circle.
Of course, I knew it was just a light through the window at the right to where I see a purple balloon.
She said, Okay, imagine yourself getting in the balloon and taking it up and going,
I'm trying to imagine this for.
She said, Land the balloon, tell me what you see.
Well, I didn't see nothing.
I'm thinking to myself, this is her daydream, not mine.
And nothing happened.
And she kept saying, Okay, land the balloon, tell me where you're at, what you see.
We went through this at least a dozen times,
and she finally said, There's 12 steps.
We're going down into the valley, and there's 12 steps.
And she goes, 12, 12, 12,
11, 11, 11.
And each number is getting longer and slower and drawn out.
But when she reached one, something really bizarre happened.
Something really stunning.
All of a sudden, I was in a valley.
I don't think I, I mean, I just imagined I was in a valley or I daydreamed I was in a valley.
I was in a valley.
It was vividly clear.
I could see the leaves on the trees.
I could see the veins in the leaves.
I could feel a breeze in my face.
So, Dr.
Griffith asked me, says, Look down and describe yourself to me.
I looked down.
I could see a pair of dirty, hairy legs, and I could see I was wearing dirty matted fur.
In my left hand, I was carrying a piece of tree limb.
I thought, well, obviously, I'm a caveman.
Between each episode, there used to be a light up high above you.
She said, go into the light.
It looked like the late 1800s coach.
There were horse-drawn carriages and gas lights.
And I could see it's an artist's studio.
And the room is just filled with dozens of paintings.
At that moment, I was painting a portrait.
It was the portrait of a hunchback woman.
The hunch on her back was very, very prominent in the painting.
And I was just putting the very last touches on it.
And I told Dr.
Griffith that I wanted to take one last look at one of my paintings.
She says, tell me what you regret about this life.
I told her I regretted it.
We didn't have children because my wife couldn't have children.
But then, right after I said it,
The taper cord I'd brought along clicked off.
And I opened my eyes and that was it.
The obsession was over.
Is there anything particular that's going through your mind right then?
Do you really have to think what does this all mean?
Because I liked my life the way it was.
My life was very grounded, very solid.
I didn't want this other stuff.
If I proved it, then it means everything I believed my whole life, my whole belief in how the universe works, is wrong.
I'd have to completely stop, take back everything I've ever believed in, throw it in the trash can, and bring in new beliefs.
So, okay, what happens after this?
Do you see Kathy?
I called Kathy on the phone and told her, and I said, well, that I had seen some very interesting things.
She was very gracious.
I think she realized we didn't push her anything.
She said, thank you very much.
But I think she could read between the lines.
I was becoming obsessed about this.
And let me tell you, as a police officer, I know when people have really deep obsessions, it seldom turns out well.
It was probably a month or so afterwards before I finally decided, look, Bob, you got to do something about this.
So my idea was I would go to Nampas Public Library.
I would start thumbing through their art books.
By the way, this was in 1992.
When you did research, you had to go down to the library and pull books off the shelf.
And I figured it wouldn't take me long.
Case closed, go back to your life the way it was.
Come on, how many portraits of hunchback women could there be?
It took me several months to go have not only a lunch hour, but weekends.
And how many books did you go through?
Hundreds, hundreds.
Probably, oh, four or five hundred books at least.
I went through every book that the public library had.
I went through all the books each bookstore had.
I went through probably a half dozen bookstores right in Indianapolis.
I went to number art galleries and talked to the art dealers to see if I could find the paintings.
And so I wasn't ready to give up yet.
So finally, as a last end resort, I finally went back to Dr.
Griffith for a second session.
I thought, maybe if I could go back and have her access the artist's life, I could find more information.
And she took me back to several past lives who were very vivid, but they were all so far back in history, you know, you couldn't decide whether anything was real or not real.
But interestingly enough, every time she tried to take me to the artist's life, nothing had happened.
And when it was over, I asked her why.
And she says, You already know everything you need to know.
All the evidence I had, I had followed it to its end, and it hadn't led anywhere.
Basically, it was a cold case.
So I hadn't told anyone.
I thought it'll be an unsolved mystery.
I simply take to the grave with me.
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It was getting towards my wife and I's anniversary, so we decided to go to New Orleans.
Our last day in New Orleans, I suggested we go window shopping in the French Quarter.
I noticed as we're walking down Royal Street, the galleries are getting smaller and the paintings much more obscure.
So finally, we get onto a gallery at the very end of Royal Street,
and there's a
portrait on an easel in the corner.
And I walk by and give it a glance, and then I stopped like I'd went into a glass wall.
And I spun around, and it was a portrait of the hunchback woman.
I could still see every brushstroke, and it was identical.
My heart was beating.
I could feel electricity running out in my arms and my stomach.
Probably for four or five minutes, I just stood there staring at the portrait.
One of the workers in the art gallery obviously saw me staring at painting and thought, hot dog, here's a sale.
So he came over to me and said, I bet you're thinking how I said look over your fireplace, aren't you?
So I asked him, I says, I don't recognize the artist.
I says, who is the artist?
So he said, hang on a second.
So he walked over to his desk and come back and he had a little bio, probably, oh, maybe five or six sentences.
And it said, J.
Carol Beckwith, born 1852, died in 1917.
So I started reading the biography, and I found five different things that I had seen in the regression.
So I asked the dealer, I said, I told him, I said, I've seen this painting somewhere before.
I said, has it been an exhibition somewhere?
he said no he said this has been a private collection for years but let me be honest with you he said beckwith wasn't that good or that famous he says i actually let this go pretty cheap so so do you buy the painting no no they wanted like five thousand dollars for it my wife would have killed me
at that moment building came downstairs and we left but i felt good Now I had a name, date of birth, date of death.
I could go back and I could reopen this.
This case was no longer on the shelf.
The next day we were back back in Annapolis, so I went down to the public library and I started researching on J.
Carol Beckwith.
He simply was not that famous or that good.
That kind of bugged me.
I thought, wait a minute, how could I know these things about him if he's that well unknown?
I happened onto a book, and at the very bottom of the page goes a footnote that said this information came from the diaries of James Carroll Beckwith that are kept on file at the National Academy of Design in New York City.
Wrote a letter to them, basically asking him if they were available to look at.
While I was waiting for the diary to come, I went through and listened to the tape of my regression.
And I made a list of various things I had said.
Dates, places, causes of death, what have you that could be proved, disproved.
And I found I had 28 things.
Now, what I was looking for at this point wasn't more proof about Beckwith.
What I was looking for, I wanted to find one or two disproving things.
For example, I had said we couldn't have children because my wife couldn't have children.
Now, if he had kids, then what?
This is not true memories.
This is not real.
Why is it so important that you disproved that what happened in your regression is real?
Why don't you just want to prove it?
If I prove reincarnation is real,
again, you have to throw away all your thoughts about how the universe works.
And I'm certainly not going to do that unless I got some solid, solid evidence.
So I thought maybe I'll have my wife.
I'll talk to her and see what she thinks about the whole idea.
Maybe she can see something I didn't see.
My wife thought I was nuts.
She said, okay, hang on a second.
She says, I'll tell you what, I'll look into this case.
I'll find information about Beckwith you didn't know was there.
My wife was the child abuse detective and a very excellent detective at that.
She started looking at the case and she started looking intently into it.
And she didn't find a single thing.
Not a single thing I hadn't found.
Nothing.
She told me very plainly, look, Bob, okay, forget about it.
Don't tell nobody but me.
Captains don't go talking about this.
I thought that was probably
solid advice.
It really was.
If I was to prove this or not, this would cause all kind of turmoil in my life as a police officer.
Tremendous turmoil.
But I couldn't let it go.
I spent a year.
I read every single page of Beckwa's diary.
every single page.
There were over 17,000 pages of diary.
And I found out that sure enough, his wife had had a very, very serious miscarriage, and after that, she couldn't have children.
He talks about his mother being in church and having a stroke caused by a blood cot and dying.
That he died in 1970, he didn't drink wine.
I saw myself die in a large city.
He died in New York City.
That is finding this proving fact.
I kept finding one fact after another that agreed with what I had seen.
Before I was done, I ended up proving all 28 28 facts.
Every single one.
Every single thing I had said during aggression was right on Beckwith's life.
There is no doubt this case is solved.
Do you believe in reincarnation now?
Absolutely.
I mean, how else do you explain it?
How would I have Carol Bequist's memories in my mind?
Police officers, you always look for the simplest explanation because 99% of the time it's the right one.
The simplest explanation is that I carry Beckwith's memories in my mind.
So, you know, how important is reputation when
you are the police commander?
You're the backbone of the police department.
And so, your reputation as a police commander is very, very important.
You want to have an image in the community of strength and stability and all.
It could basically end your upward mobility in the police department if you started talking about things that weren't really accepted as what a police captain should believe in.
It seemed like too important a story to keep quiet.
So many things happened.
So much information came from so many unexpected sources.
Believe me, my wife was really dead set against me doing this.
She was positive it would damage my career.
And she was right, it turned out.
What happens when you come out to the public about what happened to you?
I kept various publicity about it.
And each time I do it, it would really upset the command staff more.
Eventually, what happened is, even though the last year I was in homicide, we had an 83% clearance rate and our murder rate was the lowest I've been in 20 years, they moved me out of there and put me on the citizen service desk for people come to get photographed or get fingerprinted.
So they put me in a dead-end job hoping I would retire.
My career basically flatlined after that.
Do you wish that you had never stepped into that hypnotist's office?
Yeah, I don't know.
You know, I've often thought that, which way I'd have been happier, but apparently that wasn't the point of my life.
So the case is solved, right?
So what did you do to mark the occasion?
Well, I was in New York.
I found out that Beckwith scrapbooks were at the New York Historical Society, and I found out he was buried in Kinsey Cove Cemetery, which is up in Val Hall, New York.
And I thought how cool it'd be to visit my own grave.
It was in August, but it was a very nice, pleasant day.
It wasn't real hot.
It's a huge, huge cemetery, and I walked all the way through it.
It didn't even break out of sweat.
But I didn't realize, I don't know why, but I don't think you're supposed to do this.
As I got closer to the grave, my heart was just beating terrible fast.
I was just running out of sweat, and I could feel, you know, you have electricity trendling at my arms and not my fingertips.
I started having a tremendous panic attack.
I found some workers who were trimming some hedges close by, so I had them take a picture of me standing to grave just to show her by I wasn't scared.
I was terrified.
After that, I left.
I can't worry about James Carroll Beckwith.
You really can't live as the other people.
I mean, you've already done that.
You have to deal with the person you are in the present.
I realized I had to simply go on with my life as Bob Snow.
I went, got on a train, flew back to Annapolis, and went on with my life.
Big thanks to Bob Snow for sharing this story.
Now check out our website, snapjudgment.org, for a link to Bob Snow's work.
He's written about this experience and a whole bunch of true crime stuff that you do not want to miss.
The original score for that story was by Renzo Gorio.
It was produced by Liz Mack.
Now then, how about you?
Have you ever stepped from one reality into another?
Have you ever gotten a heads up about what's going to happen next?
Have you ever seen someone walking around?
who under no circumstance was supposed to be on this side of the grave?
If so,
send me your story.
Spook at snapjudgment.org, and check out our sister podcast, Snapjudgment, for more tales about things that change everything.
And wherever you go, whatever you do, always remember, never,
ever turn out the lights.
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