The Power of Sales Psychology to Drive More Revenue And Profits

1h 21m

Jeremy Miner is the Founder of the Neuro-Persuasion Sales Method and an internationally recognized sales coach who has taught thousands of people how to increase their sales skills. He is ranked as the 45th highest-earning producer worldwide, with earnings as a commission-only rep reaching seven figures annually. Over the years, he has helped 140,000 salespeople from Fortune 500 and SMB companies triple their sales results, while his work has been featured in USA Today, Yahoo Finance, and others.

In this episode, we talked about sales psychology, communication tones, selling strategies…

 

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Speaker 1 You have to learn how to do pattern interrupts throughout the entire sales process, whether you're speaking from stage.

Speaker 1 And I'll give you a few examples of pad interrupts that I do. The magician never reveals all of his tricks.
I'll reveal a few.

Speaker 1 And then pattern interrupts when you're talking to another person, you know, selling one-to-one. So, a pattern, a very simple one that you might not even notice.

Speaker 1 A lot of salespeople, like, hey, let me ask you a question, and then they ask the question. They just steamroll, let me ask you something, and then they ask it.

Speaker 1 What's going on in that prospect's mind is like basically you just gave them no choice. But if I lean in, I'm like, can I ask you something?

Speaker 1 You always like, yeah, what's going on? And what I just did there is I triggered your brain to be like, wow, it must be something really important.

Speaker 1 So when I start to ask you, you're hanging on to every word. Can I can I ask you something?

Speaker 1 And I lower my tone rather than let me ask you and then ask it where I'm bulldozing you, where they don't listen to you. I'm slowing down the cadence.

Speaker 1 That's just a little example of what we call verbal pausing, which breaks the pattern. So it forces the brain to actually pay attention.

Speaker 2 Welcome to the Home Service Expert, where each week, Tommy chats with world-class entrepreneurs and experts in various fields like marketing, sales, hiring, and leadership to find out what's really behind their success in business.

Speaker 2 Now, your host, the Home Service Millionaire, Tommy Mellow.

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Speaker 3 All right, guys, welcome back to the Home Service Expert. Today is one of the most exciting days for me in the podcast world because

Speaker 3 There's not a lot of people I look up to. It's sales, marketing.

Speaker 3 Really, you know, I kind of feel like I'm at the top of my game, but one of the guys I've been following for a long time is Jeremy Minor.

Speaker 3 I've had the privilege to get to know him, spend time at his office, go to dinner. I'm all about learning and bettering your best and improvement and just getting 1% better each week or each day.

Speaker 3 And Jeremy's taking the time to figure things out.

Speaker 3 He's not this crazy guy going to be all up in your grill and persistent. He slows things down.
He asks a lot of questions. He literally believes that he's making lives better by sales.

Speaker 3 Jeremy, you've been in the game a long time.

Speaker 1 You made

Speaker 1 1.5, when you were in sales

Speaker 3 for a company,

Speaker 3 tell us how, and we're going to talk a lot about your history, catch everybody up. Sure.
But one of the first questions is

Speaker 3 you wanted to negotiate.

Speaker 3 No salary, no draw, no hourly, no bonus structure. It's all commission.
And you negotiated, you were doing 1.2, 1.4. You were making more than the owners, the founders, everybody in the company.

Speaker 1 A few companies, yeah. I got started in,

Speaker 1 you know, college. My first job was in door-to-door sales.

Speaker 1 And in door-to-door sales, it's not like you're like, you want a base salary of 150 grand plus, you know, you just don't like it's straight commission.

Speaker 1 Like pretty much everything that's sold door-to-door is straight commission, right?

Speaker 1 And so I just got used to that, like just straight commission, like, you know, getting paid what I sold, you know, and as your skill level grows, as you get really talented in sales, it's hard for you to go into like a different type of sales position.

Speaker 1 Cause a lot of times they'll be like, okay, well, we're going to give you this base, but then they lower your commissions. And I'm like, well, I'm going to be capped.

Speaker 1 Like, why would I want a base when I would just have like no base and just pay me a higher percentage per sale? Because I'm confident in my sales ability.

Speaker 1 Like typically, if salespeople would come to me, you know, be like, hey, I want a high base and low commission.

Speaker 1 That's like a red flag because I'm like, well, they must not be confident in their sales ability because they want to be capped. It doesn't make any sense.

Speaker 1 So even when I got into like enterprise, like B2B enterprise sales, you know, they would be like, hey, you know, some companies would be like, hey, we'll pay you, you know, four or five hundred thousand a year base, lower commissions.

Speaker 1 And I'm like, actually, do not pay me any of the base. But instead of paying me like 8% commissions, I want.
12 or 14. And they're like, sure.

Speaker 1 I think after a while, they're like, okay, that was an expensive mistake for us. Right.

Speaker 1 But yeah,

Speaker 1 if you're really confident in your sales ability, why would you you want a base and I even have I even had you know when I got into debt relief services there's usually like a nine to 12 month sales cycle and I go and I literally negotiated a no base and people thought I was crazy but I'm like why does it take you guys 12 months to close the deal and they're like well that's just the way it is and blah blah blah I'm like oh well you just haven't learned how to build enough of a gap where they feel like where it causes them to feel way more urgency to act now and not push it down the road and my sales cycle instead of like 12 months was like two to three months even through legal and stuff and people are like what?

Speaker 1 So it's just, it's just your sales ability.

Speaker 3 And every time I've structured a pay commission, if a guy makes an ungodly amount of money, I'm still rejoicing because it's a win-win.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 3 It's like, I would never be made. If you made $10 million,

Speaker 3 I'd be jumping for joy. I'd be like, listen, dude, you can move into my house.
Like, that's how cool that is.

Speaker 1 It's true because I, you know, in the, in the second career I had, I actually had a bigger office than the CEO of the company.

Speaker 1 Like they literally put me like in the corner suite, like, you know, they'd give you like huge car allowance, like $1,500 a month, house allowance, you know, but I sold like $30-some million dollars a year in revenue for that company.

Speaker 1 So, you know, they lose me, they lose, you know, like a third of their revenue. And that's kind of scary.
One salesperson.

Speaker 3 I will say,

Speaker 3 it's scary when a salesperson has that much control because you're like, they could kind of call their shots and that's okay to a certain extent.

Speaker 1 It's good for the salesperson.

Speaker 3 It's almost like the guy you, the owner, the founder bent over, like, dude, do what I tell you to do.

Speaker 1 They're almost. like that.
I was never like that. I was very gracious.

Speaker 3 And very humble. This is what I want to hear about.
I want to hear, so you started out. First of all, tell us about the way you were raised, why you got into door-to-door sales in Utah.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 And then a little bit about what you did and where you're at now and where you're going. Just give us the whole story.

Speaker 1 Oh, goodness gracious. I grew up in mid-Missouri on a cattle ranch outside of a town, less than 800 people.
Osceola, Missouri, baby. Go Indians.
That was a long time ago.

Speaker 1 But I went to school out in Utah to a bunch of friends.

Speaker 1 I served a mission for the LDS church and I went to school out there with a bunch of friends, just randomly, never had been there, literally, and just drove out there and got out there.

Speaker 1 I'm like, I need to make money. And

Speaker 1 there was this, there was like this recruiter that was like, yeah, come to the college tonight on campus.

Speaker 1 There's going to be this meeting and you can make all this money in the summer, knocking on doors, giving away alarm systems. There's a giving away alarm systems for free.

Speaker 1 And I'm like, I don't know how you give away something for free and make money, but I'm going to go because there was food and went there. There's like a couple hundred guys there.

Speaker 1 They hire everybody because it's straight commission. Anybody wants a job, you're hired.

Speaker 1 And then, you know, 90% drop out during the summer, but that's where I got started in door-to-door summer sales. And you'd make enough money in the summer.

Speaker 1 That was the whole pitch that you didn't have to work while you're going to college. And it's a huge industry in Utah.
Pest control, alarm system,

Speaker 1 solar, windows, cable, satellite. I mean, everything.
It seems like the door-to-door mecca comes from the colleges out in Utah. And that's where I got started.

Speaker 3 And the whole theory behind that is when you're LDS, Latter-day Saints, you're Mormon, you go on a mission, you're selling people religion.

Speaker 3 So the theory is if you could sell religion, you could pretty much, you're not afraid to knock on a door. That's the point.

Speaker 1 Like you'll knock on anybody's door. I think that's part of it.
You know, that's part of learning how to sell is being able to feel confident with whatever you're talking about on the doors.

Speaker 1 But obviously, when you get down to,

Speaker 1 you have to learn the skill because people always ask me like, hey, what's a really good sales job to get when you're like just getting out of school and out of college?

Speaker 1 And I always say door-to-door or cold calling. And here's why.

Speaker 1 When you cold call companies, okay, or you knock on doors, you have to be able to react very quickly because a lot's going on in the person's mind. They don't know who you are, right?

Speaker 1 It's not like a outbound lead that responded, that asked somebody to call them. or somebody that's inbound that you go to their house, right, for an appointment or on Zoom.

Speaker 1 You can be a little bit slower. You don't have to react as quick.

Speaker 1 When you knock on somebody's door or on the phone, like you got to know like how to like frame, like reframe real quick, or if they throw, I'm not interested.

Speaker 1 You got to be able to react and loop back around to like get them curious.

Speaker 1 And if you can learn how to do that, react very quickly, when you get into like sales like you're talking about, everything like slows.

Speaker 1 It's almost like you're, you've seen the movie like Flash, you know, where Flash is running around all the people.

Speaker 1 And the people are like, all like really slow because he's fast.

Speaker 1 That's what sales becomes to you when you get into like sales like you're talking about, where you're meeting people that expect you to be there from a door-to-door position, everything slows down and it seems so easy because you have way more time to react and do things.

Speaker 1 I always say start door-to-door cold calling because you learn how to react quickly and it sets you up for, you know, being able to sell larger ticket items like your industry or home improvements, another good one, solar, any of those type of things.

Speaker 3 I'm wondering, I'm just curious from being a home service guy, if I should be recruiting the top door-to-door talent for more of a career. It's all year round.
They get insurance.

Speaker 1 If you get the right ones, it's good. Yeah.

Speaker 3 Well, you'd want to see their track record. You want to see stubs or something.
Sure, yeah.

Speaker 1 You'd want to see like pay stubs because a lot of people exaggerate what they make. So if you're like asking, like, you know, can I see some pay stubs, some references, Google them.

Speaker 1 You know, a lot of times if you're really at the top, you're, you know, people are going to talk about you. There's going to be press articles and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 So door-to-door people, as long as they're really good, I think could make a really good transition into like home services, home improvement for sure.

Speaker 3 So your start in in the sales world,

Speaker 3 milking cows, and then got into Utah knocking doors. And you bring us up to date.
N-E-P-Q.

Speaker 3 And by the way, my buddy is just like, dude, I saw some Instagram videos, this guy, Jeremy Miner, and I was already following you, but I didn't reach out.

Speaker 3 And then I reached out, some guy from Australia is like, Jeremy's busy. And then I was like, just tell him I want to go.
get him on the podcast. It's a pretty good podcast.
I'm local.

Speaker 3 And then we finally come. Sure.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 And you live 10 minutes away from me, dude. We're like, we're like next door neighbors.

Speaker 3 It's exactly right.

Speaker 1 I've seen the, I've seen back, I've seen your back to the future.

Speaker 1 I feel like family now.

Speaker 3 You are like family. So you got NABQ.
You just wrote a new book. You've got this method of sales that really

Speaker 3 is not really sales. It's asking questions and being a good human.
And then seventh level.

Speaker 1 Talk to me about what. It's humanizing the sales process.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 So I went to school, you know, when I was knocking, my major was behavioral science and human psychology, and I specialized in social dynamics.

Speaker 1 So social dynamics dynamics is really how society shifts and changes and how, how do you like, it's called rank frame. You ever heard like status framing or rank framing?

Speaker 1 It comes from like social dynamics. So throughout times, different civilizations, you're ranked, society ranks you by different things, right? Like today, how

Speaker 3 do you?

Speaker 1 Exactly. Like how do people view your status? So they typically view your status based on your wealth.
and social media followers, right?

Speaker 1 If you've got 3 million social media followers, they might view you at a higher status than a guy that just sold his company for 600 million that has 1,000 social media followers, right? It's crazy.

Speaker 1 But I know, right? See, that's how society views and different things.

Speaker 1 But let's say if I'm, you know, growing up in the Polynesian islands a thousand years ago, they might have viewed my status based on what tribal tattoos I had on my arm.

Speaker 1 And they're like, because he had those tattoos, he's at a higher status than that guy who has different tattoos.

Speaker 1 So, you know, it's just like medieval Europe. How did they view your status based on your wealth, based on your privilege, you know? And so it's, yeah.

Speaker 1 So I started learning how the brain makes decisions. So I had a really unfair advantage when I got into sales.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 You know, I get it. It's, it's the psychology.
I just had dinner two weeks ago with Robert Chardini. He wrote the book Influence.

Speaker 1 And persuasion.

Speaker 3 And persuasion and getting the yes. And yeah, he's retired now for about 15 years, but he's head of behavioral science at ASU.
Yeah. Yeah.
Sharp as a tag.

Speaker 3 So one of the coolest things that I've really been kind of digesting that you do is instead of just saying, hey there, how are you today? Right. Saying, hi, Jeremy.
How are you today?

Speaker 1 Oh, you slow your cadence down, sure.

Speaker 3 The pattern interrupt of just you talk about this like it's the best thing of 2023. I mean, look, we follow you, read your book, the NEPQ stuff.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 This pattern interrupt, you think, is one of the best secret weapons. Talk to me about how that works.

Speaker 1 Yeah, you should, you have to learn how to do do pattern interrupts throughout the entire sales process, whether you're speaking from stage.

Speaker 1 And I'll give you a few examples of pattern interrupts that I do. The magician never reveals all of his tricks.
I'll reveal a few.

Speaker 1 And then pattern interrupts when you're talking to another person, you know, selling one-to-one. So a pattern, a very simple one that you might not even notice.

Speaker 1 A lot of salespeople are like, hey, let me ask you a question. And then they ask the question.
They just steamroll. Let me ask you something.
And then they ask it.

Speaker 1 What's going on in that prospect's mind is like basically just gave them no choice. But if I lean in, I'm like, can I ask you something?

Speaker 1 You always like, yeah, what's going on? And what I just did there is I triggered your brain to be like, wow, it must be something really important.

Speaker 1 So when I start to ask you, you're hanging on to every word. Can I, can I ask you something?

Speaker 1 And I lower my tone. Let me ask you.
And then ask it, where I'm bulldozing you. where they don't listen to you, I'm slowing down the cadence.

Speaker 1 That's just a little example of what we call verbal pausing, which breaks the pattern. So it forces the brain to actually pay attention.
Now, I'll give you another example.

Speaker 1 We train all this like really advanced in our training portals, but sometimes I'll even do a reel here and there on it. I'll be like, well, you want to have a confused old man tone.

Speaker 1 And people are like, you can't be confused. You have to show them that you're the expert.
I'm like, I agree.

Speaker 1 I'm not saying you get into the presentation and you're like, oh, I don't know how the garage door works. Like, that's not what I mean.
But let's say if a prospect.

Speaker 1 Let's just say you're industry. And they're like, oh, gosh, like, give me like an emotional word that they might just randomly say.

Speaker 1 Like, some problem that, and they're just like, oh, this has just caused a lot of stress.

Speaker 3 So, yeah, just whatever. So this is typically how it goes is,

Speaker 3 man, this garage door, it made the loudest bang noise and

Speaker 3 I missed a day of work.

Speaker 1 Hold on. Loudest bang noise?

Speaker 1 Yes. Seem like

Speaker 1 a confused tone. So what happens in your subconscious, you don't even know this happens.
The subconscious mind basically just tells that person, oh, he didn't understand what I meant by that.

Speaker 1 I need to clarify that. Now, what's the two biggest emotional drivers in a human being that causes them to want to change? Pain or the fear of future pain?

Speaker 1 So if I want to help my prospect relive the pain of the loud bang that he missed his, you know, for his work, How do I do that? I can't do that if I don't act confused. Hold on.

Speaker 1 How do you mean by loud bang?

Speaker 1 Then you're going to be like, well, what I mean by that is, and you start explaining. It was so noisy.

Speaker 3 You scared the kids. The dog went crazy.

Speaker 3 It did, but what happened then?

Speaker 1 See, like, I'm like, it's like a curious slash confused tone that causes you to be like, he didn't understand what I meant by that. I need to clarify.

Speaker 1 Especially if they say like, oh, this problem has caused stress, or I'm so frustrated by this, or. oh my gosh, the problem.

Speaker 3 This is the last thing I needed. This is like the work's enough.
The kids need to go out. I miss my daughter's play today.

Speaker 1 Yeah. Just stuff like emotional works, especially if you heard stress, annoyed, worried,

Speaker 1 that's when you how do you mean by concern or concerned? I can just repeat back the word worried and I'm act confused, worried, and they'll be like, oh my gosh. And they'll just,

Speaker 1 you know, the emotions come out, the dump, right? But if I don't use a confused tone in that context, if I'm like, what do you mean by worried?

Speaker 1 Like I'm a robot, they're like, well, you know, it's just, you know, and they stay surface level.

Speaker 1 So if I want to get them to go below the surface, because that's where the sale is made in certain contexts, I'm going to ask the question in a confused tone, which causes them to relive the pain.

Speaker 1 So, that's an example of a pattern interrupt.

Speaker 3 I love that. This is like fascinating.
I mean, this is what I live for. Like, you don't even understand.

Speaker 3 Like, I love marketing more than sales because, like, you, you got to grow your marketing to even have an opportunity to sell.

Speaker 1 Yeah, if nobody knows who you are, you can have the greatest product or service in the world. You ain't going anywhere.
Nothing's going to happen. I think I told you this.

Speaker 1 We started doing, I had zero followers on Instagram December of 2021 So we're talking about 25 months I didn't have an IG account I'd never done IG and in January I'm like my daughter was like you should start doing these reels on Instagram I'm like I don't even have Instagram So she like signs me up I started doing reels on IG in January So we're literally like yeah two years ago and went from zero followers to like we have 650,000 now from reels, you know, and that's where we got just way bigger because people saw us.

Speaker 1 I think through all of our social media, we get about 4.8 million views every week from just social media.

Speaker 3 And majority is IG, you're getting on YouTube.

Speaker 1 IG, yeah, YouTube, we're starting to do a lot. We do a ton on Facebook.
Facebook's huge with us. IG, TikTok, Decent, and then now we're starting to really grow our YouTube channel.

Speaker 3 Is Twitter or LinkedIn a place where you'd want to be or anything?

Speaker 1 We've never really done, we just started doing Twitter. We do get a lot of companies on LinkedIn.

Speaker 1 We only have like 21,000 followers on LinkedIn, but I think I do two to three reels a day on LinkedIn or whatever they do, reels or post.

Speaker 1 But like ExxonMobil, we train like four of their divisions. We got them from LinkedIn.
They just started following me on there and they reached out. We got ExxonMobil from some reels.

Speaker 3 And what about, what about MySpace? No, I'm kidding. MySpace.

Speaker 1 Maybe one day.

Speaker 3 So you've always heard this your whole life. Anybody that's in sales says people buy with emotion and then they back it up with logic.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 They buy and the cancellation rate a big product like we sell doors that can't get installed for three weeks because it's custom. Yeah.

Speaker 3 So So what are your theory on that of buying with emotion and then backing it up with logical things to make sure that they don't have buyers from the brain?

Speaker 1 Brain study proves that for sure. So like, let me give you an example.

Speaker 1 Let's say if you're, let's say you're in the military, you're in a war and a grenade goes off and your emotional side of your brain gets damaged.

Speaker 1 If that happens, you can't even decide that you want to go pee. You can't decide to get up.
You can't do anything.

Speaker 1 You're a vegetable because every decision you make starts with you feel like making the decision like i feel like like picking up this book right it's a feeling first everything you do starts with your emotional side of the brain so a lot of times people we train a lot of like companies and sales people that sell b2b as well and they'll be like well my prospects won't let me ask those questions they don't have any feelings it's all logical and facts and i'm like well maybe the question you should ask me is jeremy I haven't quite learned yet how to get my prospects to trust me, to open up to me emotionally and tell me what's really going on.

Speaker 1 Can you help me learn how to do that? Because they're humans, right? They can't make any decisions without first feeling or starting that process with their feeling side of their brain. Yeah.

Speaker 1 So yeah, it's 100% true. Now, why do people cancel?

Speaker 1 Here's the difference.

Speaker 1 Compared to like salespeople that might sell exactly what you do, you might have one that has a cancel rate that's like hard, that's really, really low. They're selling a ton.

Speaker 1 Their cancel rate is really low. Then you got others that like sell decent, their cancel rate is high.
Why is that?

Speaker 1 It's because there's a difference between external sales pressure compared to internal tension.

Speaker 1 So if I apply external sales pressure on a prospect and push and pressure them, it's my idea why they should do it. And when I leave, that starts to what?

Speaker 1 It starts to wear off. It's like going to a motivational seminar, right? They get you hyped up.
You're, yes, I'm going to save the world. Like, I'm going to change everything.

Speaker 1 And four days later, you come back and you're what?

Speaker 1 You're you're back in your old exactly because you're externally persuaded but internal tension means if i'm doing things like we've talked about like you know pattern interrupts getting to open up relive relive their pain and i start to build a gap from where they are like i get them to start to understand what their real situation is because most prospects don't even know when you first start talking to them and i build a gap to where they want to be and they can see what the future looks like once the newfound problems are solved that they didn't even realize they had, they have so much internal tension that they feel like they have a much bigger problem than they originally thought they had.

Speaker 1 That drives urgency, right?

Speaker 1 If I can get them to relive the pain of the problems and help them find not just one problem, but maybe two, three, four, or five other problems they didn't realize they had, that gap gets so big and I help them relive the pain that they feel the need to change, right?

Speaker 1 Two biggest emotional drivers, pain and the fear of pain. If I can't get them to feel that pain or have a fear of future pain, they don't feel any need to change.

Speaker 1 If they don't feel need to change, even if they buy, a lot of times they cancel.

Speaker 1 But if I can get them to feel so much internal tension about their situation and they persuade themselves, it's their idea. So how can they cancel their idea? Right.
It's hard. They can't.
Very, very.

Speaker 1 I love that.

Speaker 3 Let me ask you. So

Speaker 3 when we talk, I've always learned this,

Speaker 3 and I've never said this on the podcast. And I always felt kind of like a slime ball.

Speaker 1 What's going on, dude?

Speaker 3 my dad okay told me about fud and he said you got to remember this is the only way to sell fear uncertainty and doubt okay

Speaker 3 and you get this idea of like is that

Speaker 3 is it morally or ethically right by bringing people down this pain and by bringing down this fear and uncertainty and doubt. But literally, that's how we make decisions to avoid pain.

Speaker 1 You can't make a decision if you don't feel pain.

Speaker 1 As a human being, you will never feel the need to change unless you feel pain. So if you can't get a prospect to relive pain or have a fear of future pain, they feel no need to change.

Speaker 1 And if they feel no need to change, they don't buy. They throw out objections.
So literally, you're doing them a disservice if you can't help them relive pain because they'll never change.

Speaker 1 The problems always stay the same, right? Right.

Speaker 1 Like if I'm selling a life insurance policy, And if I can't help them feel like a fear of future pain, and then they pass away and they left sending the kids with nothing that's like my fault the salesperson yeah like seriously same thing with garages like if i can't help them have a you know start to relive pain of the issues with the door or have a fear of future pain of what could go wrong if they don't fix this problem now

Speaker 1 let's say in six months they just keep pushing down the road it gets worse and they have to spend three times more on the garage door What kind of disservice? Did I really help them?

Speaker 1 No, I hurt them by keeping them in the same situation. That's, I mean, that's the way you have to look at.

Speaker 3 You got got to look at it. I agree with you.
Here's one of the biggest things. B2B is quite a bit different than B2C.
I mean, it's a lot. It's a lot of the same.
Yeah. But you coach both.

Speaker 3 What would you say the biggest differences are?

Speaker 1 The biggest difference is, and it depends on if you're selling SMB compared to enterprise level.

Speaker 1 So enterprise level, you really have to know how to navigate through the organization to find other decision makers and people who influence the decision makers.

Speaker 1 That's a big problem that a lot of people don't understand. They're like, well, I got all six decision makers on board.
I'm like, well, what about the people influencing them?

Speaker 1 Because let's say if I'm selling some type of, I don't know, like SaaS product,

Speaker 1 software, whatever. Well, the chief technology officer might not have any decision-making authority.
It could be the COO, CFO, CEO.

Speaker 1 Let's say I get all three of them on the board, but that CTO, maybe they feel a little bit threatened by my new software.

Speaker 1 Maybe they feel like the boss is going to notice something they did wrong and maybe get rid of them because an outside vendor now is having to come in and fix this mess.

Speaker 1 And they might feel threatened by your solution and go to the CEO and say, you know what, this is really bad, but I can fix it because of this, this, and this.

Speaker 1 And now you're gone from somebody who influences the decision maker, not the decision maker themselves. A lot of times the assistants influence the decision makers.

Speaker 3 The executive assistant.

Speaker 1 Exactly.

Speaker 3 And taking care of the gatekeeper is important.

Speaker 1 So when I got an enterprise, like I got really good at navigating who could influence the decision.

Speaker 3 So you'd like somehow get an orange chart and you'd be able to do that.

Speaker 1 How do you ask the C-level executive? So walk me through, like, like walk me through the decision-making process in your organization when it comes to solving X, Y, Z problems.

Speaker 1 Just questions like that. And then you clarify and pro based off their answers.
Okay, but I'm concerned, though, because if we put this in, what about your CTO?

Speaker 1 Like, what are his thoughts going to be if we have to put this in? You're used to it. Yeah.
And he's like, well, that's true. We should probably talk to him.
Well, if it helps you, I can talk to him.

Speaker 1 And so it's just, it's knowing how to, in B2B, you have to learn how to navigate.

Speaker 1 Because if you, if you cannot get the other decision makers and influencers on board, you're just like hoping and praying that the first couple of people you talk to can.

Speaker 1 And that's a dangerous position to be in, that you will lose 95% of the time. I would even go so far as I'd get the decision makers on board and then I'd be like, you know what?

Speaker 1 I'm concerned for you guys because what happens if you take this to legal? Because it always has to go through legal. You take this through legal and what's legal's job to do? Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 They're getting paid to say what? No. No, because do they really care if your revenue goes up by 12% this year? How does that really affect them? They're on retainer, right?

Speaker 1 So what are you going to do if you go to them and they just want to shoot this down because they don't really care? Like, how are you going to be able to solve X, Y, Z without this?

Speaker 1 And they'll be like, no, no, no, we will not do this. Like, and they would just push it through legal, no matter what.
They'd be like, ram it down their throats.

Speaker 1 But if you don't prepare them to go to legal, like I would be so prepared with any loophole, I'd even go to far as like, yeah, but what's going to cause this deal to get stuck in legal, though?

Speaker 1 Like, I'm just concerned for you guys. It's just going to get stuck there.
And I literally would like the good, the bad, the ugly.

Speaker 1 And then once I knew the good, the bad, the ugly, then I knew what to do to control that situation. If you don't, you're guessing and you will never win.
I love that.

Speaker 3 And I know when you go to the decision makers, it's like we work with some firehouses, right? Do the doors.

Speaker 3 And they're like, well, I got to go to, they got to go to get the funding from some type of municipality. And it's like,

Speaker 1 how are you going to go to the municipality?

Speaker 1 You know, what are you going to say to them? Because I'd always, I'd do like, well, what are you going to say to him if he doesn't want you? Like, I'd always ask consequence questions.

Speaker 1 Like, no, no, no, no, no. You'd probably, and I'd coach him through what to say and everything.
You had to be prepared, man. I love that.

Speaker 3 But B2B is, would you say B2B is if you had to say relatively the harder skill, B2B, B2C, enterprise level, B2B?

Speaker 1 It's there's nuances. There's just nuances for both.
Like if I'm selling B2C and let's say I'm selling door-to-door, I got to be really quick-witted. I have to learn how to be quick.

Speaker 1 If I'm selling B2B, I don't have to be as quick-witted because it's a slower ball game. You see what I mean? Yeah.
But I have to learn how to navigate and talk to.

Speaker 1 I have to learn how to persuade multiple, multiple people.

Speaker 1 Whereas if I'm selling, let's say, to a husband and wife a garage door, I'm just, you know, overcoming the husband and wife's objections if they have any.

Speaker 1 I don't have to like, you know, they don't necessarily, well, they might sometimes say, well, I got to go talk to my financial advisor advisor about this or i've got to talk to grandma george you know and sometimes you can help them overcome that that concern but besides that there's good and bad from both there's things you have to learn both for sure so i was sitting down with the pe company our investors and literally my full management team and they said what's going on in these couple markets yeah and i said it's all a people problem like that People need to see that it's possible in their own market to hit the numbers, the conversion rates, the service to sales.

Speaker 3 We call that gross close rate. Like all of our best markets have one or two amazing people doing it in that market.
They say it's possible. There's proof.
Success leaves clues. Sure.

Speaker 3 One of the biggest problems I've identified for 2024 for myself is recruiting A plus 10 out of 10 talent. Like I like to take a beautiful canvas and train on garage stores.

Speaker 3 Most people say, how do I find a guy that's a good technician?

Speaker 3 I say, how do I find a good human being that looks me in the eye, tells a great story, smiles a lot, that's just genuinely interested in people.

Speaker 1 Yeah, you know the difference?

Speaker 1 The problem, and I love technicians, but they know so much about the product that they just talk about the features and benefits because they think that's going to make the sale.

Speaker 1 When you're not selling the garage door, you're selling the results of what the garage door does for them.

Speaker 3 What is it? A blue ocean? Yeah.

Speaker 1 You're not selling the door. You're selling the results of what the door does for them, right? And technicians have, they're really, they're product experts, right?

Speaker 1 So they know everything about the manufacturer and how it works and all that stuff, but that's not why people buy. Right.
They buy the results of what your thing does, not the thing itself.

Speaker 3 So if I told you the results, this insulated door is way stronger, right? It's not going to fatigue like this one.

Speaker 3 It's going to be a lot warmer in the winter, a lot cooler in the summer in your garage.

Speaker 1 But what are the results of that?

Speaker 3 This is what I'm just going to go through and I'm going to have you give me the results. It's going to be safe.
Every time little Tommy. hits the button, it's going to open and it's going to be safe.

Speaker 3 If the garage door happened to come down on a bumper, it's not going to fold the garage door. It's going to keep all the nasty bugs out.

Speaker 3 You know, the scorpion, spiders, you're probably getting some issues. Yeah.
The kitchen's on the other side. This is an entryway of bugs.
And if you're not going to be able to do that.

Speaker 1 You can see the problems you're starting to create in their mind that builds the gap because it's not just one problem of keeping little Johnny safe.

Speaker 1 Now there's like four or five problems and now that gap's much bigger in their mind. So it's hard for them not to buy.

Speaker 3 But talk to me about if you had to give me the solutions of future problems with what I said, how would you because I wouldn't want to say those problems to them because if I say it to them, I'm biased.

Speaker 1 They know that. I'm the salesperson, right? So it goes in one ear out the other.
So I have to wrap my questions around those problems where basically they tell themselves what those problems are.

Speaker 1 So let's say, I don't know, let's say, give me the first one. You said it's really strong because of what?

Speaker 3 It's a sandwich door. They're still on steel.
It's basically...

Speaker 3 Like, it's bulletproof. I mean, literally, like, this thing could come down on a bowling ball or a bicycle and not fold.

Speaker 1 What are the consequences if they don't have that strong of a garage door?

Speaker 3 What happens is it buckles very easy. It gets damaged.
I mean, literally, if it comes down on anything, you ruin the door.

Speaker 1 Yeah, does that typically happen quite a bit?

Speaker 3 It does. Okay.
I mean, there's a lot of doors with kinks and cracks already. We show them the product, and it's just uninsulated.

Speaker 1 So here, I got a question for you. This would help me, because I know we trained some people in your space, but I didn't look at the scripts before I came here.

Speaker 1 What type of questions do you ask them to find out what their situation is about that door? Like, what is their real situation? What type of questions would you guys have?

Speaker 3 So typically what I try to ask

Speaker 3 is we do a little bit of work on Zillow. Like, this is a beautiful home.
How long have you lived here? I want to know how often they're using the door. How many kids do you have? Is there a Mrs.

Speaker 3 Jones? Yeah. So we're probably assuming you're using the door four or five times per person.

Speaker 1 Okay.

Speaker 3 The garage door is rated on a cycle every time the door goes up and down. Yeah.
So if I know something broke, the chances of the other parts being worn out are high probability, right?

Speaker 3 And then one of the things I look at is scratches. Is it oxidized?

Speaker 1 Would you want to find out how long they've had the garage door? Was it already in when they moved in?

Speaker 3 Yeah, those are great questions.

Speaker 3 But typically, by just looking at it, you know this is original.

Speaker 1 Well, I know you know. But here's the reason why I'm asking you.
Because if I can seed doubt in their mind, you know, let's say that just give me an example.

Speaker 1 I don't know how long do garage doors last?

Speaker 3 Garage doors typically last 10 to 15 years. Just a regular garage door.

Speaker 3 10, 15 years, same as an air conditioning unit.

Speaker 1 So if I said, oh, so how long have you guys lived in the house for? Oh, 15 years. And did you put in a new garage or was that the original one here? Well, that's the original.

Speaker 1 So that's been in over 15 years?

Speaker 1 See, I can start to seed. See how I'm like, I'm asking, I haven't got to anything yet, but the way I'm using my tone, I'm seeding what?

Speaker 3 You're seeding the problems.

Speaker 1 But there could be that little bit of doubt. Wow.
Yeah. Oh, so that's the original garage, and that's been in 15 plus years.

Speaker 1 See, my my tone is starting to communicate that I might know something about that door that might not be good because of the age. I haven't got there yet, but I can start to do that.

Speaker 3 I want to run through office with you.

Speaker 1 What can I do for you?

Speaker 3 Like, I go into Jeremy's office and he's like, what do you need help with? And I'm like, everything. I'm like, I'm just going to tell you the truth.

Speaker 3 I think we're pretty great, but we've got a lot of work to go. We're in the fetal stage.

Speaker 1 All of us do. Yeah.

Speaker 3 So I really want to get back to

Speaker 3 Everybody knows you're only as good as your talent. You're only as strong as your weakest link.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 And like a lot of people spend a lot of money to get new clients.

Speaker 3 I think you should spend a lot of money to have people coming in with skills. Because if I stack the deck with all A-plus players,

Speaker 3 a medium guy for me does $600,000. A top guy does $2 million.

Speaker 3 That variance is massive. That's a big difference.
If we get all $2 million producers, what would that mean for the company?

Speaker 1 Way higher gross profit.

Speaker 3 Way happier customers with better reviews.

Speaker 1 Because their closing percentage are so much higher, they have to see less people, less leads. You don't have to produce as as many leads.
Your lead cost goes down because they close higher.

Speaker 3 And I got a percentage of revenue I'm spending. So I've got way more revenue.
I could spend more on marketing and branding.

Speaker 1 And they're probably upselling those prospects a lot higher too, right? So instead of just selling them the one thing, they might be selling some add-ons and stuff.

Speaker 3 Oh, they're deaf, higher conversion rate, higher job opportunity for sure. Yeah.

Speaker 3 Sales is not just about.

Speaker 3 closing B2B and B2C. It's about getting talent and convincing them this is a better career.
Yeah. But where is the best melting pot? And I'm tailoring this, it is a home service expert podcast.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 So, you know, everybody asks the questions, how do you find great people? And I'm like, if you look at your Indeed and Glass Door, people go to Yelp and Google to check the clients do, right? Yeah.

Speaker 3 What do you think your internal clients do? Yeah. They look at what are other people saying about you.
Why would I come work for you?

Speaker 1 Yeah. I think the best salespeople, like when we teach companies, we even how to interview salespeople.
is we typically will find out like how committed they are to the profession because

Speaker 1 a couple of things like I just said if a salesperson comes in and really wants a high high base

Speaker 1 but a lower commission that's a automatic red flag with us because we're just like that means they're just not so that phrase that question for me so just if a salesperson comes in oh yeah so so so you're gonna ask me right now yeah you're like Tommy It's great to meet you.

Speaker 3 We can go through a few questions. You learn about my life, whatever.

Speaker 1 So I want to find out about their career they had that they're coming from. Okay.
So, I mean, that, you know, the company you work with, I mean, they're a fairly decent company.

Speaker 1 Like, what's caused you to feel like you might want to look at something else? So then that kind of starts to tell me why they're looking, right?

Speaker 1 And sometimes you can read between the lines like, well, my employer sucks because of this and that. And sometimes the truth is in the middle a lot.
Sometimes it's not.

Speaker 1 But then also, oh, so, and how did they pay you? Like, were you on a base, like commission? How, okay, and how much was your base? And if they're like, the base was really, really high.

Speaker 1 And what was your commission?

Speaker 3 Oh, so what caused you to want to to be on such a high base and like a lower commission yeah so that next answer tells me but let me like we've taken the right attitudes from bus boys and they end up top players right and we've taken the best guys from like amazon fulfillment teams oh really like yeah like it's not always you need sales previous history right you still got to tighten springs you still got to know how to use a hand yeah yeah technician stuff yeah but the technicians are if you hired me i'd be like uh i need an assistant to do all this stuff i don't know you would know how to do it within two months i promise you you're a pretty clever clever guy.

Speaker 1 I probably just hire an assistant that would actually do a technician.

Speaker 3 It's not a bad idea. A sales guy out there.
I would.

Speaker 1 I literally would, for sure. So

Speaker 1 handy, man.

Speaker 3 Because I understand the interview. So you're going base versus commission.
One of the things I always look for is really, have they ever really, have you played sports? Did you grow up on a farm?

Speaker 3 Did you ever have to do something every day to practice to be better at it? Right, to work hard. In football, we play two days to play one game.
We practice 10 times to play one game. I remember.

Speaker 3 So that's like for me, if they got good at playing the trumpet, that's good enough. They practice that every day.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 And so you're looking for somebody who's dedicated to their craft, no matter what the craft was. Yes.
They could be like brilliant piano playing in high school and they practiced every day.

Speaker 1 That's going to tell you their commitment level when they get something. They're committed to doing it.
Commitment. There you go.
That's probably, yeah, that's a huge.

Speaker 3 And committed to practice and self-improvement.

Speaker 1 Yeah. Hey, do you want to get better at sales? Are they just like getting looking to get into sales so they can get into management real quickly?

Speaker 1 Sometimes that's a red flag with us because if they're just like, they don't see it as a career.

Speaker 1 And if they don't see sales as a career, then they don't put in the time to learn more skills to increase their skills.

Speaker 1 So if they look at sales as like, this could be my career, I'm not saying that it's bad to want to move up in management, but if that's all they're mainly focused on, that tells me that they're not really serious about sales as a profession.

Speaker 1 So they don't put in the time to learn sales.

Speaker 1 I always ask anytime I do a keynote, anytime I do a virtual event, I always ask the audience, how many years have you gone to school for sales and persuasion?

Speaker 1 And the crowd's like, I never thought about that. I'm like, salespeople is the only profession that comes in and says, I'm in sales when they were never educated as a salesperson.

Speaker 1 Can you, engineers don't say, I'm an engineer, and they never went to school to learn how to build bridges. You know, doctors are, I'm a doctor.
They didn't go to 12 years of medical school.

Speaker 1 Like sales is literally the only profession where you go and be like, I'm in sales, but you never really were educated on how to sell.

Speaker 1 You just read a couple books and have a script and think you got it all figured out, but you're not really going to be at the top if you view sales that way.

Speaker 3 When I think about sales, I think really eye contact tonality, obviously body language, like literally 55% is body language. Tonality is the other, like 37%.

Speaker 3 The words we use is such a small percentage.

Speaker 3 The way that we communicate is outbound, like outward.

Speaker 3 But when there's a script, i find that so many people if i said jeremy just so you know i'm not planning on spending a lot of money today or i start you start your process and i say just so you know i'm always going to get three bids all of a sudden the salesperson goes

Speaker 3 it gets rid of everything they were trained on that completely shits the bed they don't know what to do yeah so like hey just so you know i'm not spending a lot of money today I know you guys are all about sales.

Speaker 3 Don't even try that shit on me.

Speaker 1 Because I'm not even that cool, man. I'm not cool like the salespeople and they're, what caused you to bring us out

Speaker 1 i'm not that cool you just downplay oh i'm not i'm not that cool like the salespeople i wish i made as much money as they did yeah that's completely fine what caused you to have us come out though and i'm right back in like i'm doing three bits oh yeah for sure what are you hoping the bids come back at no so i mean just the little questions like that you just got to downplay you just agree like oh yeah you just agree agree especially in the beginning you just be like oh yeah that's not a problem i'm not as cool as those sales guys i'd always say like i'm not as cool as the sales guys for sure What caused you to have us come out, though?

Speaker 1 And right back into it, if I can get them to, I got to get them to let their guard down, right? Because in the beginning, I have zero trust and credibility of this prospect.

Speaker 1 Even if they invited me to come over to their house, I still have zero trust and credibility.

Speaker 1 But by the time I get into the middle of that conversation, I can build such a gap from where they are to where they now realize they can be.

Speaker 1 that they feel so much internal tension because they now see problems they didn't realize they had that they don't really think about getting other bids because they feel like I understand their unique situation the most.

Speaker 1 And people, I always say, they buy from salespeople or companies who they feel understands their unique situation the most.

Speaker 1 Because if they feel you understand the unique situation the most, they feel like you can get them the what? The best result.

Speaker 1 And price and cost goes out the window because I can get them into results-based thinking. very quickly over price or cost-based thinking.

Speaker 1 I can, I literally can count on two hands how many times in B2B sales or when I was in B2C that people that told me in the beginning, like, oh, I'm going to look around at the end kept think, well, let me think it over.

Speaker 1 I still want to look around because within 15, 20 minutes, I could reframe their way of thinking from price or cost to end result and built such a gap that they didn't even think they needed to keep looking around.

Speaker 3 I love this. I can make this podcast happen all day.

Speaker 1 Results-based thinking always wins over price or cost.

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Speaker 3 Now let's get back to today's episode. So I'm going to go over five things really quickly.
I don't want to hear what your thoughts are and then we'll start wrapping up.

Speaker 3 We try to focus on five things before we'll hand it over to a product specialist. It's the way we set up to transfer it to make sure.
So imagine if you had the perfect call and you're a closer.

Speaker 3 These are the five things we've established.

Speaker 3 So both parties are aware. Typically, it's a husband and wife.

Speaker 3 We live in a different timeout. It could be just two decision makers, right? Two partners.

Speaker 3 How is an easy way, if my husband's at work, my wife's at work, my husband's out of town, my wife's out of town,

Speaker 3 they're at soccer practice with the kids

Speaker 3 to get it? And a lot of times

Speaker 1 they're busy. They're at work.
What's the best? I would just sell to the person, the one-legger. We always called them one-legger.
One-legger, yeah. They're one leggers.

Speaker 1 I don't need both of them there. You don't need one legger.

Speaker 1 I just have to, I have to frame it up in a way where the one spouse is like, oh yeah, my spouse would definitely not want me to have XYZ problems.

Speaker 1 How does your spouse feel about all these bugs getting through these cracks every morning? Oh, she hates it, right?

Speaker 1 So I start pre-framing that from the very beginning where he's told me his wife hates seven different things that I solve.

Speaker 1 And by the very end, it's really hard for him to come and say, well, I need to ask my wife if she wants me to solve all these seven things that she says that I just said, told you that she hates.

Speaker 1 it's really hard to do that but if you don't do that and you just wait to the end like well I need to talk with my wife about it you just you have to learn how to you have to like what is your wife's thoughts about XYZ you know problem that you know that she's gonna hate give me an example of what a wife might hate about the garage door or something well typically a wife hates that it's loud

Speaker 3 right

Speaker 1 How does your spouse feel at night when the garage comes in when you're late at night and it makes all that noise? Yeah. That's how I use my fate, even my facial expressions.
Yeah, no.

Speaker 1 See, your facial expressions, you're remote control how your tone comes across Yeah, how does she feel when you come home late at night? It's like

Speaker 1 that noise. What does she say to you? Does she still want you to do that with loud noise? It's all how I'm framing it the whole time.
So it's very hard for him to say at the end.

Speaker 1 I need to talk with my spouse.

Speaker 3 I need to get out of this features and benefits because one of the reasons I'm like, have you ever have you ever left the house without closing your garage door?

Speaker 3 And like worried about it and turned back around and you got to close it. You're not going to leave it open.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 Well, let me show you this app on my phone because I do this all the time.

Speaker 1 yeah like i'm notorious for leaving the garage door open but now does your wife yell at you when you leave and you leave the garage door open i don't want you sleeping on the couch tonight so here's what our clients do to solve that just little thing that you can be playful with them too yes i love that

Speaker 3 this is something that i've been working on with a buddy of mine he actually you've heard of um parker and sons pretty big company in town yeah He kind of said, every technician can remember this.

Speaker 3 You know, Jeremy, here's, here's what we need to do today, just to make it safe. Here's what you should do.
Okay.

Speaker 1 And if you were my mom, my mom and dad got a divorce when i was seven my mom worked three jobs yeah i love my mom more than anything yeah here's what i'd be doing for mom yeah i like that i would reword it differently where it's coming from third-party clients so like because a lot of times they're like well what would you suggest and then you tell them and then they're like well and then they don't agree with it right because it's coming from you i so if i'm like If they're like, what would you suggest to do?

Speaker 1 Well, I mean, I'm biased, but what our clients who have like similar situations like your garage do, what they ask us to do is this, this, and this because of this, this, and this.

Speaker 1 Do you want us to do something like that, like they're always having us do? Yeah. See, that's called the herd theory in social dynamics.

Speaker 1 Where the herd goes, everybody thinks that's the right thing because everybody else is doing it.

Speaker 1 So I always say, well, our clients would say, because people always ask me like, why do you feel like you're number one or whatever? I'm like, well, I mean, who cares about me?

Speaker 1 I mean, my grandma might think of that, but our clients tell us we're the best because of, and see, now it's not me, it's what the clients are saying. And that's the herd theory.

Speaker 1 The clients are all saying and it must be valid.

Speaker 3 And that's like keeping up with the Joneses. It's like, hey,

Speaker 3 a lot of times what I used to do was walk around the block with the client, get to know them a little bit, say, is there any doors you really like around here?

Speaker 1 What doors do you like the best? And this is top secret. I won't tell anybody.
This is off the record. I always do that.

Speaker 1 I always, I would have been like, hey, off the record, which doors do you really like from the neighbors? And I promise I won't tell, I won't tell anybody. Just a little playful tone like that.

Speaker 1 Just little things.

Speaker 3 And it's funny. And it's charisma.
It's something that I think a lot of people don't have. And it's so hard to build that skill.

Speaker 3 It's easier to train a technician to fix a garage door than it is to train on the sales side of it, the body language.

Speaker 1 We teach, like, you talk about tonality. So there's a lot of tones that you can master that are going to, like you said, make or break the sale, right?

Speaker 1 Get the prospect to let their guard down or they stay service level, right? Because they're guarded. So there's five type of tones we really focus on.
There's a curious tone.

Speaker 1 Walk me through. How long have you had the home here? That's a curious tone, right? So tone is how the prospect interprets the intention behind your question.

Speaker 1 That's why they, that's how they interpret it. So I'll give you an example of this.
Let's say you're you're mad at your girlfriend. You're like, I'm so disappointed in you.

Speaker 1 And your arms are out like this is going to cause her to typically do what?

Speaker 3 Not be happy. You're defensive.

Speaker 1 Yeah. You're going to get defensive, right? Because the way I asked it with my tone and my hands, but if I'm like this, I'm so disappointed in you.

Speaker 1 Now she interprets that you're disappointed, but you have concern and love and care. So her guard comes down.

Speaker 1 By simply shifting my voice into a concern tone and putting my hand over my chest, I'm communicating that I care. I'm disappointed, but I care for you.
And her guard comes down.

Speaker 3 Every time I'm angry at Bri, I'm going to just put my hand over my heart. Change the tone a little bit.

Speaker 1 I love you, but

Speaker 1 I was thinking.

Speaker 1 What were you thinking, babe? Why would you drive like that? See, I'm telling you, you start doing it. You'll be like, Jeremy, Jeremy, you're the most brilliant man I ever did.
What? Yes.

Speaker 1 So, and then, you know, there's other tones where, you know, I need to have a challenge tone. Challenging tone.
What if you don't do anything about this and these bugs keep coming in?

Speaker 1 And God forbid, like, you know what happened to Jerry over here? You remember the red door? His son got bit by the brown recluse.

Speaker 1 Like, seriously, like, seriously, like, it's just all how you do it. Like,

Speaker 1 everything, like, right? That's a challenging tone. Challenging.
But I might, if I want a concern tone, what's really holding you back from moving forward? What's really holding you back?

Speaker 1 Concern tone. See, they interpret that I'm concerned for their situation, the consequence, right? And then I have a playful tone.

Speaker 1 So let's say if a prospect says like, hey, Tommy, hey, welcome to the house. How's your day going? Oh, you know, just hanging out, being the boring guy.
What about you? You being boring?

Speaker 1 Oh, I'm sure you're not boring. Most sales people are like, oh, I'm doing really good, just working hard.
It doesn't hurt you, but it doesn't really help you.

Speaker 1 I want to have a playful tone so I get them to like open up and like realize I'm a human. What are you doing or how you doing today, Jeremy? Oh, you know, just trying to stay out of trouble.

Speaker 1 You get in trouble over there. Oh, I'm sure you're not in trouble.
See, I'm getting them to let their guard down immediately to a stranger.

Speaker 1 They don't even know me, but it's because I use a playful tone. If I didn't use a playful tone, what if I said it like this? Oh, just hanging out, being the boring guy.
What about you?

Speaker 1 Oh, you are really boring. That's awful.

Speaker 3 You suck. You suck.
Just fix it and leave.

Speaker 1 Yeah, exactly. So you see, like my tone.
can make or break. I can say the same things, but if I use the right tone, I get a completely different reaction.
It's crazy the way the brain works.

Speaker 3 So you said constraint, challenging, playful. What are the other two?

Speaker 1 Curious and confused. Curious and confused.

Speaker 1 Hold on. How do you mean by stress?

Speaker 1 Confused tone.

Speaker 1 Like when I did door-to-door, okay, I started learning how to interrupts very quickly. I had to learn this like on my own because when I, when, when I started knocking on doors back with my first job,

Speaker 1 everybody would be the same thing. Like, hi, I'm with XYZ company.
The reason why we're out in your neighborhood is, oh, not interested.

Speaker 1 Like literally bam bam bam bam numbers game sales is a numbers games i'm like i don't want sales to be numbers game because that really sucks and it's really hot out here and i don't want to spend 12 hours i'd rather spend four and make a lot of money so i got to figure out how to break the pattern right so i would start knocking on the door and i'm like the first thing i need to do is not look like a salesperson because when you look like a salesperson all dressed up chains nice clothes They don't come to the door because they think you're trying to sell them something.

Speaker 1 So I'm like, how do I not look like that?

Speaker 1 So what I did is I just wear like, you know, just boring khaki shorts i bought those like old man grandpa you know the white new balance shoes oh yeah you know we're getting close see yeah see we're getting close i'm already starting to wear them now but i was wearing them when i was like 22 and then i i went and bought construction vests so i bought like an orange construction vest yes or a lime green one and then i had like a clipboard like a big thick one because it had all the contracts in there and i'd have a document on like a survey with a pin everybody was asked me why do you always carry a pin in your rins or in my reels because i started door to door so i'd like you know i'm selling home security systems if i sold solar i'd probably be looking at the roof i sold pesticontrol i'd be looking at the cobwebs or the ant mounds in the yard or whatever right so when they come to the door they come to the round be standing to the side like six feet back and they come to the door and be like yeah are you guys the property owners here and they'll be like yeah we're the property owners what's going on pattern interrupt

Speaker 1 automatically boom right there now they're engaged. It's just an example of pattern interrupt.
I like that.

Speaker 3 I want to hear, I got to hear more about this.

Speaker 1 Oh, you should see the ones I do on stage. Okay.

Speaker 3 Well, I'll have to see you on stage soon.

Speaker 1 It's interesting.

Speaker 3 So you do door-to-door sales? Huh? Do you do door-to-door training every day?

Speaker 1 We train. Yeah, we train every we train 160.
According to Forbes, there's 163 industries and there's subsets of each one, like home services. You'd have garages.
Right, right.

Speaker 1 50 different things, right?

Speaker 1 Home services one?

Speaker 1 It's actually in home services actually categorized in home improvement.

Speaker 1 So that could be like doors, windows, garage doors, siding, carpet, tile, bathroom repair, senior, you know, bathroom safety guards for, you know, cabinets, countertops.

Speaker 1 Home improvement is like the six or seven biggest industry we train.

Speaker 3 It's hard to believe there's 153 and home service is just one of those. Yeah, crazy.
So number two, so both parties are aware you could get one-legged.

Speaker 3 So the other thing we try to do is price desensitize what we call it. So ask me how much something like this costs.

Speaker 1 Oh, is that what you say? So go ahead.

Speaker 1 How much something like this costs, though?

Speaker 3 i'm glad you asked depending on what you like we have a customer last week that just wanted the top of the line

Speaker 3 they spent fifty thousand dollars but i've got some pretty good things that we could do with this store for around five so anchoring whatever you want to call it you're anchoring your price anchoring it's literally so when i give them a 7 500 they're like

Speaker 1 that's amazing yeah it's price

Speaker 1 if you wanted a pulurethane steel back with all the deco harbor with the wood foe up front with like and you got a weird opening here we get spend 30 40 well it depends on so I would always say like well it depends on you know what type of I don't want to say result but I would say like it depends on kind of really what you're wanting the garage to do and how long you're really wanting it to last and then they would sit there and like in your mind which you know and I'd have to come up with questions for you with this but I would always compare there because like well it depends on this this and this where they then ask well well what if I wanted this I'm like well typically for that and then I would price anchor with like a really really high price point with like everything in the yards.

Speaker 1 And then usually even in a proposal, I'd go over three different options. I'd go over five.
Highest, highest option. It's like so crazy high, but then that you start, you start high and then go down.

Speaker 3 You need really high.

Speaker 1 And then I started the one. Then I have a middle option.
And it depends on the industry. There's some industries where you're only doing it's like one price.
It just depends. We give options.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 So with your industry, I'd probably give options. Let's say three options.
So I'm going to go the high, like bells and whistles so high, like crazy high. But then I go down in the middle.

Speaker 1 And the middle is the sweet spot where I want

Speaker 3 the most profit.

Speaker 1 And then you have like the low, cheap option that doesn't really solve all the problems.

Speaker 3 We call that the builder grade. We call that, we call that, this is the, um, so instead of saying the cheapest, we say this is builder grade or the most economic.

Speaker 1 This is typically what people have to do if they don't have the funding for this option and this option. That's typically how I'd word that.
Oh, I like it.

Speaker 1 This is what people do if they don't have the funding for this option or this option, or we can't get them funding. And they're like, oh, I don't want that then.

Speaker 1 But then at least I'm prepared if they can get funding, I can still get them in. Because notice I said, this is what people do if they can't get funding for this and this.

Speaker 1 And if I can't get them funding, then they still want that option. So that's the third one.
So the middle one. So here's I'll go back.
Yeah. So the third one.
So freaking high that it's like, wow.

Speaker 1 Then the mid-range one's your sweet spot. And then the really, really one that doesn't solve all the problems.

Speaker 1 The reason why you want to have that really high option, the high-end restaurants do the same thing. They come out like, here's the $17,000 bottle of wine.
The middle option is $1,000.

Speaker 1 Here's the wagu. Here's the thing.
raised in Japan.

Speaker 1 Here's the middle option that's $1,500, and here's the cheap option that's $150,000.

Speaker 1 You're always picking the $1,500 one or the high one because the high one's so high that it seems like the $1,500 is like the bargain, but the other one's too cheap, right?

Speaker 1 It's exactly why they do that. So you do the same thing.

Speaker 3 So you're you would start high and come down. Yeah.
You started, so we got the A1 signature, five, one through five star. Yeah.
You started the signature and come down.

Speaker 1 The highest one, because I'm price anchored where they're like sticker shocked.

Speaker 3 And then I come down in the middle, middle which that's the one that actually is going to solve all their problems and that's like your company sweet point and then you go to the one that people have to get it in if they don't have the funding for the other two and that brings me to the third one which we call our promotions have you heard about do you want to use your money or did you want to use ours today you could you could yeah and that's when we say so all i got to do is inspection just even to get this over to a product specialist If you just want to fill out our application, it gives us some options.

Speaker 1 Yeah, typically most of our clients, we use third-party uh lending companies that actually uh loan funding to people to actually uh put in so they don't have to put as much money down would that help you if if we did that for you like we do for them just the way you word it you know we use with third-party lenders that loan uh capital see like loan funding i always say loan funding because it's more like an investment rather than like they finance you because finance

Speaker 1 interest

Speaker 1 but funding means investment this is something good right Funding or funds means something good. I love funding.
Especially for what you saw, I'd say funding for sure.

Speaker 3 And then the fourth one is, well, how do we build urgency? And you kind of went over that a little bit.

Speaker 1 It's seeding doubt by the questions you asked because your prospects, when you first start talking to them, going to go out on a limb.

Speaker 1 Every industry don't really understand what their real problems are. Or they might know they have a problem like, oh, it's not working.
but they don't understand the root cause, right?

Speaker 1 And they don't understand the consequences of what happens if the problems don't get solved.

Speaker 1 So if I can start asking questions that see doubt and get them to think of problems and issues that they never really thought about, and I can help them find not just one problem, it doesn't work, but two or three or four or five other problems, the spiders coming in, all those other things you said, the loud noises, then there's five problems they're dealing with.

Speaker 1 So if they come back and they're like, you know what? I think I can just hire a pest control company to get rid of the spiders.

Speaker 1 Well, that just wiped out one one problem, but I still got four there in their mind, and they can't solve those themselves.

Speaker 1 But if I only found one problem, the spiders coming in, and they come up with a solution, there's no sale.

Speaker 1 But if I can find four or five problems they didn't know they had, they're not finding four or five solutions to solve that. They're still buying.

Speaker 1 That's how you build a gap. I love this.
You can't. Questions don't just build a gap.
It's like you said, it's how you ask the questions that get the prospect to emotionally open up.

Speaker 1 Because if you just ask like consultative logical based questions your prospects are going to stay surface level with you and they never go below the surface where the emotion is that's where the sales made right so if you just ask like regular surface level questions what are you looking for in a solution what some problems you're having with the garage and then you go into your pitch about how you solve it most are still going to be surface level there's no emotion And so there's still logical based thinking and they're going to, they're just going to give you logical based answers with a lot of objections.

Speaker 1 But if I can use my tone to trigger them to let their guard down, that's where the emotion comes out and that's where they sell themselves.

Speaker 3 This is gold. The last one's mellow the customer.

Speaker 1 Maybe platinum, but I don't know. I was going to go with gold, I guess, Tommy, putting me down.
So singing platinum or diamonds.

Speaker 3 I got this new model that we A-framed. We put a picture of the guy's family.
So you would say this is my like massive family.

Speaker 1 Yeah. But

Speaker 3 what you do is you say, you know, Mr. Miner, I just want to take a minute while I'm cleaning up here.
I want to show you my wife. These are my two kids.
This is my dog, Max.

Speaker 3 And this is the reason why I have this career. This is the reason why I spend time away from them.

Speaker 3 And my goal is to give them a great Thanksgiving, a great Christmas, provide them with everything I didn't have.

Speaker 3 And I hope I gave you a five out of five service today throughout the whole process.

Speaker 3 And it would mean the world to me because if you take a picture of me doing the work and I gave you great service and let us know about it online on Google, people see that and they ask for me by name.

Speaker 3 This creates job security for me.

Speaker 3 Would you take a few minutes while I'm cleaning up?

Speaker 3 I'll just quick picture if you got time.

Speaker 1 You know what I would say? Tell me.

Speaker 1 Hey, would it be a crazy idea or would it be, would it be completely unrealistic if I had you give me a review that would maybe help my boss like not yell at me anymore?

Speaker 3 So you wouldn't even bring the family.

Speaker 1 None of that stuff. Would it be a crazy idea if I asked you to give me like a really good review so my boss doesn't yell at me? I'm going to A-B-test them.
I'm still yelling my my idea.

Speaker 1 I'm telling you, they'll be like, oh, it's not a crazy idea.

Speaker 1 Would it be a crazy idea? No, don't say it like that. But say it like, no, no, no.
I know. Would it be completely, you got to be a playful tone.

Speaker 1 Would it be completely unrealistic if I had you give me like a really good review on Google so my boss stops yelling me when I come to you?

Speaker 3 But you want it done now.

Speaker 1 Yeah. And then I'll say, what's your time frame on giving me that review so I can actually go in there and him not yell at me anymore? And they'll just laugh and they'll just do it there.
Okay.

Speaker 1 It's just a faster way. I like your way.
I love it. But I'm just all about speed.
I like speed. So

Speaker 1 I want them to say, no, it's not a crazy idea. No, I wouldn't be opposed to that.
Would you be opposed to giving me like a really good review on Google? So my boss stops yelling me every day.

Speaker 1 Oh, yeah. What's your time frame on doing that? So he doesn't like start throwing stuff at me when I go to that office.
I'm going in 10 minutes. Oh, I'll just do it now.
Boom, boom.

Speaker 1 I'm telling you every time. You want to get them to say no.
No, it's not. I wouldn't be opposed to that.
No, it's not a crazy idea. No, it wouldn't be completely unrealistic.
So don't say unrealistic.

Speaker 1 Would it be completely unrealistic? No, it's not completely unrealistic. I always like salespeople are like, oh, I have to get them to say yes seven times to get the sale.

Speaker 1 I'm like, there's no evidence that that's even the case. That's a book from the 1940s where they did an internal survey from a sales training company that said that.

Speaker 1 And every book since then is just copy and pasted. There's no evidence.
I actually, in most contexts, want to get them to say no because it actually leads to the yes.

Speaker 1 Are you opposed to actually having a conversation around that? No, I wouldn't be opposed. What do you have? Instead of open.
It's getting to say no that leads to the yes.

Speaker 1 But you got to learn the tone. I know, I like your stuff, Tommy.
Don't get me wrong, but I just like, I like,

Speaker 1 I just like messing around with people. I'm a playful tone, you know?

Speaker 3 It's smart and it's humor. And I think humor is the best thing that can happen in any type of setting.

Speaker 1 What's your time frame? I'm giving you the rebuse so he doesn't like throw his shoes at me. I think he might even get fired.
I might even get fired today. And I'm joking.
Oh, I'll just do it now.

Speaker 1 Seriously. Ask him their timeframe because the timeframe is now in their brain.
And when they say, oh, I'm going to to do it here, the timeframe's in their brain.

Speaker 1 If you just leave them do it, then they get busy.

Speaker 3 It never gets done.

Speaker 1 And they never get done. If I ask them what they're, what's your timeframe on authorizing the agreement so we have permission to actually install the new door?

Speaker 1 Now I put a timeframe in their brain when they tell me.

Speaker 3 So when you're training on this, what I've noticed is different people are able to pick this stuff a lot faster.

Speaker 3 Like they could pick up these things and there's other people that you could have do it over and over and over. And I know you've got a lot of training.
We're going to jump into that.

Speaker 3 But when you're training these things, it's always ongoing. Before you were going to, if you owned a garage door roofing, HVAC plumbing electrical company,

Speaker 3 at what point do you know they got it? At what point, how much training before you let them actually try on a customer?

Speaker 1 Yeah. I, you know, like my good friend, you know, Bradley, you've been on this podcast.
Is training something you did or something you do? You do forever. It's due.

Speaker 1 Like I always look at everybody that's at the top of their game in any profession. Athletes train every day.
Coaches, watch film every day. CEOs, read books every day, go through training programs.

Speaker 1 Neurosurgeon, practice every day, go through more

Speaker 1 schooling. Simulations.
Everybody's at the top of their game is training every day.

Speaker 1 Average people in every profession, they don't train every day. That's why they stay average.
That's literally the difference between... top actors and actresses.
They're rehearsing every day, right?

Speaker 1 So it depends on the person how much time they put in. You know, I say, you know, people always ask me, like, how did you become so good at sales?

Speaker 1 How did you make all that money in all those industries? I'm like, well, I just simply, I learned everybody. That's it.
I wasn't born with advanced tonality. Right.

Speaker 1 I had to practice advanced tonality from somebody who was.

Speaker 3 Did you practice in a mirror ever?

Speaker 1 I didn't. I went with my tonality skills.
I actually hired like acting instructors that were, you know, not Karen down the street.

Speaker 1 Sorry, Karen, I love you for $20 an hour, but people that actually have experience. And because you learn tonality, you know, Nick here, he knows, he knows about that.

Speaker 1 So you learn to, you learn tonality. So like when you're watching a movie, who's your favorite actor or actress? Tom Cruise.
Oh, I love Tom Cruise. Yeah.
He's good. Yeah, yeah.
So

Speaker 1 everything he says in those movies is pretty much, for the most part, 100% scripted. Does it sound scripted to you? No.

Speaker 1 No, it sounds natural because his tonality, his facial expressions, and his body language make it natural. You don't even view him as Tom Cruise in that movie.
You view him as what? Maverick.

Speaker 1 The character he's portraying. That's how good his tonality, body language, and facial expressions are.

Speaker 1 His facial expressions and his tone trigger different emotional drivers in your brain that keep you curious and engaged the entire movie.

Speaker 1 When you watch like those bad movies, like on, you know, Netflix or some other things, and like from those actors and actors that you've never heard of, it almost feels like it's kind of canned and inauthentic and scripted because they haven't learned tonality, body language, facial expressions.

Speaker 1 Right.

Speaker 1 So what I did everywhere I drove, listened to sales persuasion influence.

Speaker 1 So I drive around cars, appointments when I was first in sales, go to the gym, back and forth, iron my clothes, got my headphones in five minutes here, 10 minutes here, 15 minutes here, seven minutes here.

Speaker 1 I don't have time to learn how to sell, Jeremy. What do you listen to your car? Oh, Taylor Swift.
Oh, ACDC. Oh, CNN News? Fox political show?

Speaker 1 How much money is that making you every month? Oh, bagels, right?

Speaker 1 So start listening to like what if you're a salesperson, literally, if you started listening, like everywhere you drive and you can have a cheat day, you know, like the food, like every Sunday, you get to listen to Taylor and, you know, your favorite rock band or your rap guy and get to jam out.

Speaker 1 But the other six days of the week, all you're listening to is sales, persuasion, influence. You do that for 30 days, 60 days, 90 days, six months, a year, five years, 10 years.

Speaker 1 You're going to be really successful in sales. You can't help it.
It's in your subconscious mind.

Speaker 3 Plus,

Speaker 3 if you're in the role, you're actually applying it. It's applied.

Speaker 1 I want to be thinking about what I'm doing. If I'm driving to appointments and if I'm listening to some political talk show,

Speaker 1 your mind is not focused on what you're about to do with your prospect.

Speaker 1 But if I'm listening to like sales and tonality and body language training and all this stuff, I'm in the right mindset when I'm talking to that prospect.

Speaker 1 Now, you want to start listening to all your music and all that stuff. Do it on the weekends when you're like zoned out, right? Right.

Speaker 1 But during the Monday through Friday, if you're not listening to sales percentage of influence on the way to your appointments and back and forth, you're losing sales you should be making.

Speaker 1 I mean, point, I mean, 100%. When you're just not in the mode, you're not in the the mood.

Speaker 3 When Simon Sinek talks about start with why,

Speaker 3 you got some people that are happy making 60 grand. They're just like, hey, I'm good.
Everything's paid. I got a roof over my head.

Speaker 1 They're just. Are you sure, though? Or is that what they just say as a defensive mechanism?

Speaker 3 Well, their actions speak louder than words. When you say they don't want to run that extra call, they don't want to work weekends.
They want no more training.

Speaker 3 It's like, I just want to run my calls and get home. Yeah.
Like, I can see the difference of a top.

Speaker 3 Come on, what do you got for me? Give me anything.

Speaker 1 I'm ready to become number one in this country.

Speaker 3 They got a drive to win.

Speaker 1 Yeah. And that's who you want to hire.

Speaker 1 If they are driven, like if you can find somebody that's just driven, like they want to be good at what they do, and then you can teach them the right skills, they're going to win.

Speaker 1 They're going to succeed. If you find somebody that's not really driven, they're just kind of like, uh,

Speaker 1 that's a red flag for sure because they're not going to put in the work to learn how to sell. Like selling is not something you're born with.

Speaker 1 Like, were you born out of your mother's womb with advanced questioning skills? He's a born born salesperson. He can sell eyes to an Eskimo.

Speaker 1 No, if your prospect says you can sell eyes to an Eskimo, they are not buying from you. That is a kiss of death.
You're a great salesperson.

Speaker 1 I had the few times in my whole career where they said that and I'm like,

Speaker 1 like kryptonite. Like, what did I do wrong? Like, they're not buying now because they feel like they're being sold.
See, the best salespeople in the world, you don't even feel like you were sold.

Speaker 1 You feel like they did you a favor for them allowing you to pay them to solve your problems and get where they want. That's when you start to master sales when the prospect is literally thanking you.

Speaker 1 Like they feel you did a favor for them being allowed to pay you. That's great.
That's when you start learning that, oh, I'm starting to get this down. And it's an ever-learning thing.

Speaker 1 Like I'm still learning, you know, and some people would say, a pretty successful sales career. And every day I'm listening to sales, persuasion.
Some of it's crap.

Speaker 1 I listen to it, but I'm like, you know what? It's actually a really good idea that he had. But if we relanguage the question there and we use more of a confused tone, it's going to convert better.

Speaker 1 I NEPQ it.

Speaker 3 I love it.

Speaker 3 So if someone wants to reach out to you, I know you, obviously, you've really spotted it.

Speaker 1 Well, they DM me on like you did. It took like a month to get back to me for my DM.

Speaker 1 Yeah. My number is, no, I'm just joking.
We'll give them some, you know, a little bit of, I always like to give people a little bit of nibbles, little.

Speaker 1 little stuff where they can kind of get their hands wet and like oh i could see how that works like i need everything i need to learn how to sell so they go to one of of our free facebook groups uh send them to salesrevolution.pro salesrevolution.pro that has 110 115 000 uh people in it all sales people a lot of them that's not that's a facebook group it's a facebook group salesrevolution.pro we go live in there i go live in there two or three times a week different q a's different trainings people i said why do you go live in the free group i just like it man i like it you know people see like oh wow that would work how do i get the training how do i you know we don't have like one training program with one price we like 36 different training programs and it's all based on like your skill level you have now some you know depending on your industry we're gonna put you in different training programs that we have whether you're B2B or B2C or door-to-door we have it all tailored now we're always adding content but have them join the the Facebook group first they can get a taste because they'll you know we'll even send them some free stuff if they ask in the DMs like hey Jeremy I'm having a hard time with you know my prospects are always saying like enough with the questions tell me how much it's gonna cost i'll tell you if i'm interested what do i do oh well jeremy has a training on that here you go and a lot of times we'll just give that little thing to him for free right and then if they want to get uh our wall street journal bestseller barnes noble bestseller they can go to barnesandnoble.com and get the book now if you go to amazon i'm going to be angry at you because we have a really big deal with barnes and noble so the more you get it from barnes and noble it will cost you about an extra dollar so if you need a go fund me page reach out to me and tommy we'll give you a gofund me page for the dollar uh but new model of selling selling to an unsellable generation uh me and jerry a cuff owns a big uh consulting firm on the east coast

Speaker 1 and uh we give a lot of tactical stuff in that book uh my biggest beef when i read sales books in the early days is that it was just all theory and they were just like you got to set goals you got to have the right mindset you got to be motivated i'm like well shit i'm motivated that's why i bought your book but i need to know what to say Yeah, I need to know if there's a lot of Q ⁇ A.

Speaker 3 There's like the customer that goes through what not to say, the bad company, the good company.

Speaker 1 Man, this is nothing compared to our training programs. This is just like an introduction.
Like, I love salespeople. I love the, the book warriors.
They're like, oh, let me buy the book.

Speaker 1 I'm going to triple my sales. How are you going to triple your sales when 93% of the sales buy your body language and tonality? How are you going to learn tonality from a book?

Speaker 1 What did you call?

Speaker 3 What did you call the people that just watch Instagram reels something?

Speaker 1 The freebie seekers.

Speaker 3 Freebie seekers.

Speaker 1 I learned that from a guy named Myron Goldman. I met at ClickFunnels.

Speaker 1 He's a great guy. He teaches you how to sell from stage.
He's like, you got the freebie seekers, you know, the freebies. Myron Goldman, I can make an introduction.
He's a cool dude.

Speaker 1 He's down in Tampa Bay. He teaches you how to like speak and sell from stage.
But yeah, I was back and he's like, yeah, you got the freebie seekers, right? They just like, everything's free.

Speaker 1 And then they wonder why they're not like at the top of the ballgame because. Look, you know, our free content's great.
We have thousands of testimonials just from free content.

Speaker 1 We even have people that say, oh, your free content's better than any course I've paid for. But you want like our advanced training for our clients, more industry

Speaker 1 you get into our training programs. Cause, like, a book is a book.
You know, it's kind of like this. Is there what's your favorite song?

Speaker 3 My favorite song.

Speaker 1 It's your favorite song. Just open up everybody.
What's your favorite song?

Speaker 3 Okay, let me think. You know, I kind of like don't stop believing, but okay, don't stop believing.

Speaker 1 That's a journey, right? Yeah, a journey. Like, if I said sing that song, could you sing that song pretty much word for word? Like, you know, most of the language.

Speaker 3 I know most of it.

Speaker 1 Okay.

Speaker 1 What's your favorite book?

Speaker 3 My favorite book.

Speaker 3 How to win friends and influence people by by Dale Cohen.

Speaker 1 Can you recite one full page word for word? No. You can't.
Do you know why? Why? You know why? You can memorize a song.

Speaker 1 A song has about the same amount of words as one page of this book, but you'll never be able to memorize this whole page.

Speaker 3 But I listened to the damn song a million times.

Speaker 1 Because of the melody.

Speaker 1 The melody, the tonality, allows you to memorize what you're hearing. But if you read the words, you can't memorize.
It's way harder.

Speaker 1 books will never do that much for you because within two days of reading any book your brain only retains 19 within a week less than 10 within a month less than three percent you know it's like companies like we want you to come in and do a full day workshop so we can triple sales how are you going to triple sales within 30 days after leave you're only going to remember 2.9

Speaker 1 what

Speaker 1 you have to do is it's ongoing it's every day like if you're listening to me every single day for 30 45 minutes in your car in our training programs, it just bleeds into your subconscious.

Speaker 3 And it's all audible type stuff where they could live.

Speaker 1 Ours is all virtual training. It's on the Light Speech platform.

Speaker 3 Yeah, so Bradley.

Speaker 1 It's me going through everything either.

Speaker 3 But I'm just saying, do I need a computer or can I listen to it on my phone?

Speaker 1 Phone, computer, everything. Yeah, you'd have like your phone.

Speaker 1 Yeah, Bluetooth. Your phone, Apple Play, whatever.
Your Bluetooth. Yeah, all that stuff.

Speaker 3 So this is absolutely fascinating. I had a good time.
I'm obsessed with this stuff. Just you.
I mean, back in in the day, it was Brian Tracy and Tom Hopkins. Brian's a good guy.

Speaker 1 Yeah. Just a good guy.

Speaker 3 So here's how I finish up. Yeah.
We talked about a lot of cool stuff. Sales is amazing.
Yeah. Maybe there's something I didn't talk about.

Speaker 3 Maybe there's something that you want to just leave the audience with. I'll give you the

Speaker 3 final

Speaker 1 last thoughts. You know, it's something I've always lived by my whole life.
The former CEO of Vivint, that was the first company that I, that was kind of like where I left.

Speaker 1 My last year or two, I was with that company in the DoorDoor space. Todd Peterson, he's the founder, but they just exited for like another 7.9 billion, the rest of the company to Blackstone.

Speaker 1 I was coming, I was telling you about. And I remember sitting in a conference room one day that we were all around him.

Speaker 1 And he's like, you know, somebody's like, you know, one day we're going to do this. Or they said something like, someday we're going to do this or one day.

Speaker 1 And he's like, look, guys, you know, the time is now. He's like, when people say, one day I'm going to do this or someday I'm going to do that, that is the path that leads to nowhere.

Speaker 1 And so I've always kept that in the back of mind. Like, today's the day.

Speaker 3 Day one or one day.

Speaker 1 Like, today is the day that I start. There's never going to be a perfect time.
It's not someday I want to do this. One day I'm going to learn how to sell better.
I'm young.

Speaker 1 One day I'll learn how to do this. No, today's the day.
Why are you waiting? Like, make the decision. Do it today.

Speaker 1 And I always say that successful people. don't learn from their mistakes.
And people are like, what? Yes, they do. No, no, no.

Speaker 1 Successful people learn from other people's mistakes, so they don't make the same mistakes. So you, if you want to learn how to sell, learn from someone who is really, really successful in that.

Speaker 1 So you don't learn it like hard way. Like, oh, I have to go through trial and error for 12 years and figure out on my own.
Successful people don't learn from their mistakes.

Speaker 1 They learn from other people's mistakes. So they don't make the same mistakes.
Because who wants to fail? I always say that. Like everybody's like, oh, failing's good.
No, failing sucks.

Speaker 1 Why do you want to fail? I want to minimize my chances of failure. And if I learn the right skills, I have more control of whether I succeed or not.

Speaker 1 If I don't learn the right skills, I have a much higher probability of failing. I don't want to fail.
I want to succeed.

Speaker 1 So I want to learn from others who are much better at that subject so I don't fail. I want to learn how to do reels and marketing.

Speaker 1 I'm going to watch huge influencers what they're doing and learn from them so I can succeed. I don't want to trial and error for 10 years and hope and pray I get lucky.
That's always been my motto.

Speaker 1 I don't want to fail. I want to succeed.
I don't know. I always say stuff that's counterintuitive.
This gets me.

Speaker 3 Everybody hates me.

Speaker 1 No, Jeremy, it's good to fail. Well, you can fail if you want.
I'm, I'm trying to succeed over here.

Speaker 3 So you're well, I just got one thing to finish up with on that note. Yeah.
Is when I started a business, if you gave me a million dollars, I would have lost it all. True.

Speaker 3 I needed to fail with a much smaller amount.

Speaker 1 You know why? Because you didn't know what you know now.

Speaker 3 And that's what.

Speaker 1 Now, if you had somebody like Tommy, that you could have hired in the very beginning, your chances of failing would have been much smaller. I talked to a guy the other day.

Speaker 3 He goes, you completely changed my business plan. It was a 16-year plan.

Speaker 1 You saved that guy. I said, it's a 16-year plan.

Speaker 3 You mean when we have like AI robots running around doing everything for us?

Speaker 1 He's getting to learn from you. He probably would have failed.
Yeah, no. You minimized his chances of failing.

Speaker 3 That's the plan. It's like, literally, I put it all out there.
And I'm not like the king of anything, but what I do know is- Oh, you're being humble now.

Speaker 1 I love that. I failed a lot.

Speaker 3 Yeah. And I have failed a lot.
And it's stupid as it is. Like, I got a deal on Upwork for my art on my vehicle.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 And everybody talked about it i see your trucks everywhere yeah i love it and then i realized when i met the person who dominates the kick charge brand yeah like how much of an idiot i was and i used to get by old dakotas 2003s and i'm like why would anybody pay 50 000 when i got a truck for three grand yeah i didn't know what accelerated depreciation was i didn't understand the morale of the guy showing up i didn't understand when a guy pulled up in an old truck that we look like How are we going to ask these prices?

Speaker 1 Yeah. When we look like...
Well, you look like a lower status, right? Yeah. And that's...

Speaker 1 You want to look like high status because if you're high status you must get results for a lot of people if you're low status nobody wants you we talked about the status

Speaker 1 it's so true because like exactly what you said the guy's like you saved my business see

Speaker 1 he learned from your mistakes so he didn't make the same mistakes that's the difference so find somebody like tommy if you're in this profession learn from him so you don't make the same mistakes So it minimizes your failure rate.

Speaker 1 Like, I don't know why people just like, they talk about failure like it's a lovely thing, but if you would have went back in the day, you're like, man, if I could have learned from somebody like me and be where I'm at now eight years earlier, you know,

Speaker 3 last thing, I just personal question, we'll close it out. Do you find yourself doing this with like your kids? And I know you've been married, you got a girlfriend, Kayla.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 Do you find yourself, can you turn it off or is this like just a way of life because you've mastered it?

Speaker 1 It's just a way of life for me. Like if you want to be like a really, really good person in that field, it's just something how you communicate communicate with everybody.

Speaker 1 Like I always tell everybody, it's like, hey, you sound really scripted on your calls. Yeah, because you don't know how to bridge from question to question using verbal cues.

Speaker 1 It's like, ah, but what happens if you don't do that? Really? Oh, okay. But then how many years did they, see, that's, it's more conversational because I'm bridging from question.

Speaker 3 Did you ask why if I ever like turn this shit off? I know your games.

Speaker 1 No, that's a whole nother story.

Speaker 1 We're not going there. But to me, it's a way of life.
You know, another sometimes I'll be real with you. Like, I'll sit down on the couch.

Speaker 1 You know, we just had like a five-day event and like Saturday night, it got over. I like literally sat down after five days, and I'm like, shoot me.
I don't want to talk about sales.

Speaker 1 I don't want to talk about anything. I want to watch ancient aliens.
And I just want to sit here and like do nothing. Be enough.
I need to be veg out. Who could be

Speaker 1 3,000 years ago?

Speaker 1 The ancient astronaut theorists believe that, you know, like, this is wonderful. I love this.
It's getting my mind off of it. So, yeah.

Speaker 3 Jeremy, I appreciate you coming in.

Speaker 1 What's up, man? Thanks for having me in, bro. Thank you.

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