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Speaker 1 Shannon's going to kick us off in Phoenix. What's going on, Shannon?

Speaker 2 Yes. Hello.
Hey.

Speaker 3 What's up?

Speaker 4 Oh,

Speaker 4 okay. So I'm calling because

Speaker 5 My ex-husband and I bought a

Speaker 5 townhouse for our children to live in during college and then four months later I filed for divorce.

Speaker 5 Our divorce was final but in the divorce they didn't split up the property because my oldest daughter was on the title and the mortgage.

Speaker 5 So then after that I had to get a real estate attorney and we're now at the point where we have a legal agreement for my ex to refinance the property and get my name off the property or if he doesn't do that by March 1st then we sell it.

Speaker 5 But this is being contentious, and my issue is for my daughter.

Speaker 5 He's telling my daughter that she has to be on the refinance of the property, and I just want to give her the right information for her financial security for her life, if it's a good thing for her to be on the mortgage of this $600,000 property.

Speaker 3 Is she in school?

Speaker 5 She is a junior, and she also is a real estate agent and she is making about $50,000 a year.

Speaker 3 Yeah, that's not even in the same planet as a $600,000 mortgage.

Speaker 3 I know.

Speaker 1 She was artificially propped up with you and your ex paying the mortgage.

Speaker 3 Yeah, she shouldn't be on it.

Speaker 3 Yeah, no. I don't know why she would be on this.
It's just like y'all are paying for her dorm room. It just happens to be not a dorm room.

Speaker 3 It happens to be a condo that you as the parents decided to buy for yourselves.

Speaker 3 And that's that's that's yeah.

Speaker 3 Because what's going to happen is he's going to get mad or something's going to happen. He's going to quit paying and

Speaker 3 a 21-year-old college grad is going to have a gets foreclosed. A half million dollar mortgage.
Yeah, she's going to get foreclosed on. She can't afford that.

Speaker 5 Yes, and that's what I thought, but he's

Speaker 5 citing to her and saying to her that we signed a legal agreement and that she has to be on the settlement.

Speaker 3 She didn't sign anything, did she?

Speaker 5 She didn't. My attorney said that

Speaker 5 here it is. He said she is not a part of the settlement agreement, that her signature acknowledges that she's aware that it took place, but it doesn't bind her to any terms.

Speaker 1 So whose name is on the deed and whose name is on the mortgage?

Speaker 4 All three of ours.

Speaker 3 Yikes. So the greatest gift you could give this young woman is to sit down with your daughter and say you need to go find yourself an apartment to live in.

Speaker 5 And get her to go to the house. And I think she can afford her own apartment.

Speaker 5 I think she's at the stage in her life where that's what she can can do and wants to do, but her younger brother and sister also want to live in this townhouse.

Speaker 3 That's between them and their dad.

Speaker 5 I know.

Speaker 1 I would get out of this. It has not been a blessing so far.
It's not going to be a blessing a year from now.

Speaker 3 And by the way, why did you file for divorce?

Speaker 5 Financial reasons.

Speaker 3 Because he's not a person of character?

Speaker 5 Yes, because he does things like this to me constantly, and I've spent a whole, wasted a whole bunch of my personal money, so that's the way I got out for financial things we kept getting into that me and my family had to pay to get us out of.

Speaker 3 So we call that financial infidelity here.

Speaker 3 And there's no reason to think he's going to suddenly start acting with character and integrity on these exact same matters with other people. He's just looking for the next victim.
You left.

Speaker 5 I agree. And we have this legal agreement that he has to refinance by March 1st.

Speaker 5 And December 15th, I got an email from a title company, and he's now wants to assume the mortgage because I definitely know that he'll save a lot of money on the interest rate.

Speaker 3 Yeah, but you had to

Speaker 3 in this young childhood.

Speaker 1 Did you afford this? If he assumes the mortgage and it's just on him, he's just going to rent it out to a stranger off the street at market rent or what? What's his plan?

Speaker 2 Right.

Speaker 5 I don't know if he can actually qualify. I think that's why he needs our daughter to have a lot of money.

Speaker 3 Well, he can't force her into this. Yeah, that's predatory.
Tell your daughter, please don't do this.

Speaker 4 I know, I tried, but it's,

Speaker 5 yeah, he's just very convincing.

Speaker 4 And

Speaker 5 he's had renters in and out, but can't keep renters in there. And there was even one time when there was a renter who was an ex-con, and he didn't do a background check living with my two children.

Speaker 3 I know, but listen, listen, you're looping on something you've already made a decision on.

Speaker 3 Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 3 Like you just telling yourself the story again about one other time you screwed up and one other time you screwed up and one other time he screwed up is a choice for you to be miserable right here in the present.

Speaker 3 Don't do that anymore. What you can do is affect what happens tomorrow.
And you can sit down with your daughter and say, this is a bad deal financially.

Speaker 3 You're going to be attached to a $600,000 mortgage. Your father, who you love and is your dad, I'm not going to talk bad about him, but facts are he is not skilled in financial matters.

Speaker 3 And so I'm going to tell you as your mother, please do not attach yourself to a $600,000 mortgage to somebody who, especially with somebody who is pressuring you to do something that you can't afford.

Speaker 3 Here's the, this is not a mom and dad, this is a math problem.

Speaker 1 And he's using her as a pawn in this scheme. And if she chooses, knowing all of that, to still go through with this, that's on her to deal with.

Speaker 3 That's right.

Speaker 1 And he's going to have to deal with it when he realizes a 21-year-old cannot help pay this mortgage.

Speaker 3 And you can tell her, you're a grown-up. You can do what you want to do.
I will be with you. You can call me when this thing goes sideways and you can smile at her

Speaker 3 yes or you could say you make you make 50 grand a year go get a go get an apartment i know you're the mom and you love her and she's what 20 now

Speaker 3 21 now 21 now so you're in that weird awful bum slash really awesome transition where you get to stop telling her what to do and you get to just sit down across from her at a diner and say i'm going to try to use the power of influence i love you and here's what i would do or here's the disease the things i've done and it was wrong and so here we are yes and that's exactly why I called you guys, because I didn't know what else to do.

Speaker 5 I've kind of tried those things, and

Speaker 5 her daddy is, her dad's just very convincing, and she wants to help. I got it.
She's a really good kid, but

Speaker 3 she's a being a people pleaser, because she had to. Yes.

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 3 And the only thing I could, the only other thing I could tell you to do is to give her a

Speaker 3 ask her to just run the numbers with you.

Speaker 1 Yes. And this is not going to be the last time she bails dad out if she goes down this path.
And she's going to learn the hard way. And it'll probably destroy their relationship long term.

Speaker 1 I don't see a world where this just ends up perfectly and they're all happy with what happened financially. That's right.

Speaker 5 I agree. Yeah.

Speaker 3 And let me just say this, George, to all the, not to you, but to all the parents out there. Yeah.
If you ever,

Speaker 3 ever

Speaker 3 have to go tap the credit,

Speaker 3 pull a credit card out in your kid's name,

Speaker 3 Sit them down and try to convince them to use

Speaker 3 their success, their wealth, as a pawn in some scheme you're running. You're a scumbag and you need to stop.
It's your child. It's your kid.

Speaker 3 If you want to do stupid stuff with your money, if you want to do stupid stuff with your character, nobody can stop you. This is America and you're an adult unless you don't break the law.

Speaker 3 Don't drag your kids into this stuff just because you have an ego. And you destroy them with you.

Speaker 1 Please don't watch some Instagram reel or TikTok where like, just buy a piece of property for your kid while they're in college. It's a wealth hack.
Here's what happens on the other side of that.

Speaker 1 Relationships are broken.

Speaker 3 There's no wealth hack here.

Speaker 1 Don't do it. Let your kid just live with seven roommates.
That's how it should be in college.

Speaker 3 God bless.

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Speaker 1 Amanda is out in Kansas City up next. What's going on, Amanda?

Speaker 2 Hey, how are you guys?

Speaker 1 Doing great. How are you?

Speaker 2 Doing good.

Speaker 6 I just had a question about investing.

Speaker 4 I want to know the best way to disperse the 15% each month.

Speaker 6 I recently just quit my job to be at home with my son.

Speaker 3 Congrats.

Speaker 6 And yes, yes, thank you so much.

Speaker 2 We are debt-free as of last fall, finished off a student loan.

Speaker 4 Cut up credit cards.

Speaker 6 We have every dollar premium, so we're very much on a very strict budget.

Speaker 4 But my husband invests 7%

Speaker 6 with his employer, and then both of us have

Speaker 1 both of you, you have what?

Speaker 4 Oh, we both have Roths

Speaker 3 that we contribute to.

Speaker 6 We're just not really sure where to go.

Speaker 6 We've been contributing to that for about five years, and then we opened up a custodian account and a 529 for my son.

Speaker 6 So just trying to figure out the best way to do all of that kind of at the same time.

Speaker 1 Okay, so you're in this 456 land. We need 15% of our income going to retirement.
That's the priority. We're going to put our own mask on first.

Speaker 1 Anything beyond that can start going to kids' college fund. Beyond that, toward extra on the mortgage.
And so, are you guys investing 15% of your household income right now?

Speaker 6 We haven't totally looked at it because what we have been doing is putting a little bit into our son's account, a little bit into the raw, because we just kind of started on this journey of obviously doing a one-income.

Speaker 1 So, what is your household income?

Speaker 6 It is, we bring home about $3,600 a month, and I also have a $1099

Speaker 6 work-from-home job, but it's very inconsistent. I can make $300 one month, month.

Speaker 3 I can make $1,000 one month.

Speaker 1 So the take-home pay is about $43,000 a year. What is his gross income?

Speaker 4 About $66,000.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 1 So $66,000. So if we take that number, now we're going to go, okay, 15% of that's $9,900, which means every single month, you guys should be investing $825.

Speaker 1 And here's the way to filter that. Use this strategy.
Match beats Roth beats traditional. Does he have a match through his employer? Yes.
Great.

Speaker 1 And then beyond that, does he have a Roth option through his employer?

Speaker 6 I don't know, but we each have Roth through our own financial advisor.

Speaker 1 Okay, so you have a Roth IRA. You have a spousal IRA now as a non-working spouse.

Speaker 1 So you can contribute to that.

Speaker 6 Does that need to be changed to a spousal one?

Speaker 1 I would check with your advisor on if the actual account needs to be changed, but just legally, I want all the stay-at-home spouses to know that they still have an option to invest through an IRA as long as the other spouse has earned income.

Speaker 1 So it's kind of a cool hack there. But with your income, you're not going to get super far.
I mean, you know, 9,900 bucks, that'll max out the IRA, one of them, and you'll get the match.

Speaker 1 You'll probably end there.

Speaker 6 Okay, perfect. So we shouldn't worry about putting it into both accounts, the Roth IRAs.

Speaker 1 It doesn't really matter. You know, $5,000 to one Roth,

Speaker 1 let's say you put $5,000 to one, $5,000 to the other. If you put $10,000 into one, you're going to have the same rate of return, same exact dollar amount if you're invested the same way.

Speaker 1 Got it. So it doesn't really matter strategically, you know, if we're going to fill this one up versus this one.

Speaker 1 So beyond that, beyond the 15%, I like the idea of putting money away in the 529 account. And then you guys have a mortgage?

Speaker 3 Yes. Okay.
About $1,000 a month. Okay.

Speaker 1 My guess is you probably don't have a ton of extra wiggle room beyond investing and paying all your bills to then throw at the mortgage.

Speaker 2 Correct. Yes.

Speaker 1 Okay. So my goal for you guys would be how do we get our income up so that we have margin to throw more at college and more toward the mortgage payment.

Speaker 1 That's your next goal. Once you get that 15 dialed in, and if you guys can't get to 15 and the bills are too tight, we need to cut some spending and increase income in order to get there.

Speaker 2 Okay, okay, got it.

Speaker 3 And then, hey, I want to ask George a question on your behalf. Is that okay? Yeah.
So, George,

Speaker 3 we often say on the show,

Speaker 3 you need to do this, you need to do this.

Speaker 3 But sometimes I think people hear that as you need to do it all right this second.

Speaker 3 So tell me if I'm crazy, but it sounds like in this particular family situation, they've got this goal of paying off the house, they've got this goal of fully funding these 529s, and they want to invest 15%.

Speaker 3 And another family value that they've put on the table is we want to go to a single income, right?

Speaker 3 So might it be that over the course of this first year, we're going to just knuckle down and suck it up and we're not going to have a ton of extra money, but the goal is mama and baby full-time at home, seeing how this thing plays out.

Speaker 3 And then we begin to maybe husband can work a shift or two extra, but then you start to get a sense of this is our reality. And then you begin to say, okay, I'm going to pick up some other shifts.

Speaker 3 Or maybe when the baby turns two, then we can do some part-time stuff.

Speaker 3 It feels like you don't have to do it all at the same time, especially when you're trying to navigate. We just brought a baby home to the house.

Speaker 1 Oh, yeah. No, there's definitely a seasonality to this.
And a lot of people might go, hey, we're paying for daycare right now. We can't put extra on the mortgage.

Speaker 1 And that might be a reality for the next three or four years.

Speaker 3 But I think it's important to sit down and go, okay, if we don't, it's four years of no movement. Is that worth it to us? And if it is, four years of we can only go on one date a month.

Speaker 1 We can't go on vacation, but we're going to fund retirement.

Speaker 3 Right. So this, and Lane Norton always just says, everything is a trade, right? Everything's a trade.
So it's really important that one person stay home.

Speaker 3 It's really important that we homeschool the kids. Cool.
Is it more important than a vacation?

Speaker 3 Because if y'all make that intentional trade, you don't wake up in five years and go, we never go on vacations.

Speaker 3 You wake up in five years and say, we made some sacrifices because this stuff mattered to us. And I think it's that lack of intentionality and that lack of understanding.

Speaker 3 There's just seasons to this thing.

Speaker 1 Absolutely. Right? Yeah.
No, Amanda, how does that hit you?

Speaker 6 That's exactly kind of what we've been thinking. This obviously isn't forever, and I'm going to keep my license up so I can, not license, but my certification up.
So

Speaker 6 when the kids are in school age, then I go back to work. And so yeah, it's definitely just a season of life.

Speaker 6 I was just making sure that we weren't not saving as much as we could in a, you know, in a healthy way.

Speaker 3 I love that. I love it.

Speaker 1 But 15% is like, is that benchmark? And it's not a wet finger in the air. We found Dave's been doing this for 30 plus years.

Speaker 1 If you're investing less than that, there's a risk that you might not have enough in retirement.

Speaker 1 If you're investing way more than that and the house isn't paid off and the kids' college isn't funded, your kid's going to go into crippling student loan debt and you're going to have a mortgage for the next 30 years.

Speaker 1 So there's a balance to it.

Speaker 1 And we found that if you invest 15% of your income for most people until the house is paid off, you're going to have at least a million, probably multi-millions in that one nest egg.

Speaker 1 And so it's a beautiful picture, especially for a young family like that. That's a great way to go.
But you're right, John. This is a tough part of the baby steps.

Speaker 1 Once you get out of one through three, because we found baby step one, 30 days. Boom.
Baby step two, get out of debt, 18 to 24 months. Baby step three, get the emergency fund, six to 12 months.

Speaker 1 That's great. You can knock all this out in two and a half years.
Then baby steps four, five, six.

Speaker 3 Forever.

Speaker 1 This is a 17-year journey, man.

Speaker 3 It's like the, there's a great theologian who once said the worst part of being a Christian is that it's every single day, right?

Speaker 3 It's like you can't ever like memorize all the, whatever, the book of Genesis and be like, I'm good. It's like, cool.
Did you take care of the homeless on Monday? Right.

Speaker 3 And did you take care of the least of these and serve the widows in your community on Tuesday, right? It never stops.

Speaker 3 Or a guy cuts you off in traffic and you exhale and you pray and you say, like, I hope this guy gets to the hospital before his wife passes. And I didn't flip him off.

Speaker 3 And you're like, I'm becoming a better.

Speaker 3 Then the next guy that flips you out, you got to do the whole thing over again, right?

Speaker 3 And so same thing with exercise, same thing with diet, same thing with being a good spouse, same thing with your money.

Speaker 3 There comes a moment when it's like, oh, this is every day for the rest of our life. And if you, if that's frustrating, welcome.
It is for all of us, for me, for George, welcome to humanity.

Speaker 3 I think you get through baby step three, and there's this sense that, okay, now we don't have to think about it anymore. And it's like, no, you got to think about it for the rest of your life.

Speaker 3 And it just sucks.

Speaker 1 But at least you're thinking about the future instead of paying for the past. That's right.
So it's a different problem to have, a better problem to have.

Speaker 3 Yes, but you always have to be intentional.

Speaker 1 Absolutely. And that's where the budget comes into play.
You've got to get control.

Speaker 1 Once you get good at that budget, after about 90 days, you get it dialed in, you start to breathe a little easier because there's less unknowns floating around your head. This is the Ramsey Show.

Speaker 1 Welcome back to the Ramsey Show. I'm George Camille, joined by Dr.
John Deloney. The phone number to call is 888-825-5225.
Haley is down the street in Nashville. What's going on, Haley?

Speaker 2 I am doing pretty good today.

Speaker 7 Are you able to hear me pretty well?

Speaker 3 Yes. We got you.

Speaker 2 Perfect.

Speaker 7 All right, then. Perfect.

Speaker 1 What's your question?

Speaker 7 So I am wanting a great startup advice on how to start paying off my student loans.

Speaker 7 I am 25 years old, and I am on the end of my road to become a licensed therapist.

Speaker 7 And during between the ages of 21 to 23, there was a lot of struggles, unfortunately, to where to the point I was possibly stealing food, a risk of homelessness.

Speaker 7 And when I have found out about refund checks, I was accepting multiple loans just to live off of those refund checks from ranging of $4,000 to about $7,000.

Speaker 7 And now being 25, I have about $135,000 in student debt.

Speaker 7 I'm not out of college or graduate school yet, but I'm wanting to go ahead and start tackling this.

Speaker 3 Yeah, that was a real common thing. I used to see

Speaker 3 they've kind of curbed it over the last few years, but there used to be lines of students that come out and register for classes, get the loan check, and then cancel their classes.

Speaker 3 And it would just float them to the next semester and then float to the next semester.

Speaker 3 So here's the crummy part. You're not going to like our answer.

Speaker 3 You're going to have to work really hard and make a whole bunch of money to pay that stuff off.

Speaker 3 Okay. There's not, I mean, I know that sounds so annoying.
I remember one time in grad school, I asked a guy who came in, and you've probably done this too, in a counseling class, and

Speaker 3 I just, he was a professional, had a big successful practice. And I said, hey, how do you make six figures as a counselor?

Speaker 3 And the room kind of gasped because you're not supposed to ask that question because it's supposed to be all altruistic and kind.

Speaker 3 I do it for free. Yeah.
And he looked at me and he said, you're not going to like my answer, just like I said to you. And I said, okay, go for it.

Speaker 3 And he said, you got to work really, really hard and you got to be really, really good at being a counselor. And you got to take clients on Sundays.

Speaker 3 You got to take clients at six o'clock in the morning because that's the only time they can get in there before work. And you got to work really, really hard.

Speaker 3 And if you become very, very good at what you do, people will pay you to come help them.

Speaker 7 I absolutely agree.

Speaker 7 That is one thought I was having because unfortunately in the state of Tennessee, a typical counselor's salary is only about $50,000 to $60,000 a year.

Speaker 3 So I'm in Tennessee.

Speaker 3 Here's what you have to choose. You have to choose to not be typical.

Speaker 3 and so the typical

Speaker 3 the typical counselor follows a particular track and those are my friends that's my community that's my world and so i don't i don't hate on that one bit

Speaker 3 but if you want to get your head out above the clouds you got to do some things that are going to put your head out above the clouds which means you got to do things differently you got to do groups you got to you got to do early mornings on sundays and late nights on saturday nights and you got to do things that other people don't want to do or can't do probably other jobs in between your sessions While you're building your client base, you got to do other jobs.

Speaker 3 And not have enough arrogance to say, well, I'm a licensed counselor. I don't do Uber.
You have to have

Speaker 3 the ego to say, I'm about helping people, and I can't help my clients if I'm worried about how I'm going to get my bills paid.

Speaker 3 And so I'm going to work like B-A-N-A-N-A-S all across the board, and there's no job too small for me, and I'm going to get it done.

Speaker 3 And then what you'll find is you become an amazing therapist because you begin meeting clients where they are at 6 o'clock in the morning at 5. I used to see clients at 6 o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 3 That's the only time she could meet. And so I was like, cool, I'll be there.

Speaker 7 I absolutely do love that.

Speaker 1 How much further do you have to finish this program?

Speaker 7 I will be done with my classes by May, and then I'm starting my internship May 26th to November 2nd.

Speaker 3 And then you got several years of.

Speaker 1 Is that a paid internship?

Speaker 7 No, this is unpaid internship, but I already have a full-time job at another treatment center.

Speaker 1 When does that start?

Speaker 2 How much does it pay?

Speaker 1 Is that starting in November?

Speaker 7 No, so I'm currently working a full-time job right now, but my unpaid internship starts May 26th.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 3 So you're going to have a season where you're just going to to have to, you're going to have to

Speaker 3 scratch and claw and make it work because you're working full time, you're doing a great thing, and you got to get your internship hours just to graduate.

Speaker 3 And then you're going to have to do your 3,000 hours after that, right? After you pass your exams.

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 1 So what are you making right now?

Speaker 7 I make roughly about $42,000 a year.

Speaker 1 Good. And what will you be making at this new job? Do you know?

Speaker 7 Roughly about just

Speaker 7 the same.

Speaker 7 Because right now for mental health technicians, that's just what I work as. You make it's about going to be about $22 an hour.

Speaker 1 So after all of this school, you're going to make the same? Is that what you're telling me? Or am I hearing it wrong?

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 7 So for a therapist, it would really depend ultimately on the agency to where hopefully I can try to make about $55,000 to $60,000.

Speaker 3 But that's my dream to start off with? Yeah, but that's only at the agency. You're going to have to also see clients on Saturdays and Sundays and Monday mornings and Tuesday nights.

Speaker 3 Yes.

Speaker 3 You owe $100,000.

Speaker 1 $135,000 making $50,000 is going to take you a decade to pay off if you're lucky.

Speaker 3 Can't do that.

Speaker 1 And that's not a plan. I want to see you debt-free in a few years, not 10 or 12.
And so that means, like John said, getting that income way up and also not going further into debt.

Speaker 1 So here's the advice that you may be shocked to hear. I would not begin paying off your debt.
Your goal should be to stop the bleeding and to not go into any more debt.

Speaker 1 So have you already paid all the way through this program or do you still owe more?

Speaker 7 I have not paid all the way through yet.

Speaker 1 How much is remaining?

Speaker 7 I believe,

Speaker 7 oh, gosh, it's still, you're talking about my student loans itself?

Speaker 1 Well, you owe $135. Are you going to go take out more student loans to finish this program?

Speaker 2 No.

Speaker 1 So you're done. We're done taking out debt.
Yes. Are you using debt in any other area of your life?

Speaker 3 Do you have a credit card?

Speaker 7 No, I do not have. Well, the only credit card I do have is care credit just for my dog to take him to his yearly debt appointments.

Speaker 1 Okay. And you don't have any other debt outside of the student loans?

Speaker 3 No car payments? No, I have a car loan.

Speaker 1 How much is that?

Speaker 7 That is about,

Speaker 7 I have the exact number right here. I have about $10,000 left on that.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 1 And what's the monthly payment? Man,

Speaker 7 that is about $350 a month.

Speaker 3 All right.

Speaker 1 So when you're ready to pay off the debt, when you're through this program and you haven't taken on any more debt and you've got this down, then we can begin paying it off.

Speaker 1 And you're going to do this in order of smallest to largest balance, ignoring the interest rate.

Speaker 1 And I'm guessing all these student loans, loans, you probably have like 11 or 12 student loans if you broke them all out.

Speaker 1 Yes, correct. Okay, so don't do any consolidation here.
Focus on attacking the smallest debt, whatever's next.

Speaker 1 If the next debt is a thousand bucks, let's attack that with all the extra margin we can get with our newfound income from working extra.

Speaker 1 That's how you're going to pay this thing off. But again, it's going to take a whole lot more income.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 2 And the good thing is, is that I also got, I don't really know how to quite use it.

Speaker 7 I did get a life coach and spiritual coach certification to maybe open up another side business as well.

Speaker 3 That's what I'm talking about. You're going to have to be a, I love that you're getting the experience in the field at a treatment center.
That's some of the best experience you could possibly get.

Speaker 3 I love it because you're going to be, you're going to get to interact with wealthy clients and clients that don't have any money. You're going to get to see everybody, right?

Speaker 3 And you get to see how systems work and you're going to get to work with top-notch physicians and psychologists and crummy counselor. You're going to see everybody.
That's fantastic.

Speaker 3 But yes, you're going to have to use every hustle move you've got to see any kind of client all day, every day. You're going to be exhausted, but you've dug yourself a $130,000 hole.

Speaker 3 And so we're going to use all of your certificates, all of your extra things, and you're going to meet clients where they are all across the board.

Speaker 3 And you're going to work and you're going to work and you're going to work. And you're going to become very, very good.
And you're going to get this stuff paid off quick.

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Speaker 1 John, we'd be remiss not to talk about these fires in California and how they actually impact everyone.

Speaker 1 So we wanted to hit some practical things, some financial pieces to think about, and even people who don't live there, it could affect you too.

Speaker 3 Yeah, and man, there's two big things here.

Speaker 3 And this is just me getting personal. One, I've got friends and

Speaker 3 colleagues out there in the affected areas, and not even directly in the areas. I do have some friends there, but also in the peripheral, right?

Speaker 3 And so I'm somebody, I grew up in Houston where there was natural disasters. And so anytime there's a natural disaster, I get, I just, it lights me up on the inside, right?

Speaker 3 I become a seven-year-old little boy who remembers

Speaker 3 10 days with Hurricane Alicia. We had to eat on a, on a camp stove.
And I remember that.

Speaker 1 Just the helplessness and fear.

Speaker 3 And the thought of being a dad and standing with my wife and my two kids and our house is burned. Like, it's just horroring for me.
That's number one. Number two, given the job that I have,

Speaker 3 the larger picture, man, is

Speaker 3 we have these challenges with

Speaker 3 regulators. We have these challenges with local ordinances that, you know, you can't do all sorts of things that would make areas safer to live in.
And we're driving out insurance.

Speaker 3 And at the end of the day, and this is a hard pill for all of us to swallow, a bank's not going to loan you money for a mortgage if it's not

Speaker 3 insured. They're not going to loan you.
We don't want people taking auto loans, but

Speaker 3 they've got to protect it, right? So if you take out a mortgage, the first thing they ask for is you got to have the house insured, right? And so

Speaker 3 this affects not only the people who have lost their homes and it's just tragic. This affects all of us.

Speaker 3 And so I, just a couple of days ago, I sent an email out to you guys and to Dave and like, hey, I'm worried about the state of the insurance market, right?

Speaker 3 And so, man, I'm glad that you put this thing together, George. This is awesome.
Just to walk people through, how do we, what's happening? And then what do we, what can we do?

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 1 So like you mentioned, these increased claims from natural disasters that depletes funds, which leads to higher rates, even in low-risk states like Maine and Vermont, and that broadens the financial burden beyond California.

Speaker 1 So there's a lot of factors that have compounded this. Like you mentioned, regulatory constraints that prevent insurers from raising rates to cover their increasing costs.

Speaker 1 There's already rising costs from inflation, reinsurance, natural disasters, and then the insurer's inability to remain profitable under current conditions. Remember, they're a business.

Speaker 1 They need to make money. You know, this is not in defense of the insurance companies, but if they get bankrupted by having to cover all these claims, they can no longer do business.

Speaker 3 And imagine if you you had a cheeseburger stand and the cost of beef quadrupled on you and your local government said, you have to charge this for a burger. Well, then you can't sell burger, right?

Speaker 3 So like,

Speaker 3 I never thought I would say this, but

Speaker 3 I understand the business of insurance.

Speaker 3 Like if the government's saying you can't do this and the government's not doing the things for the infrastructure to support if there is a fire break that breaks out or whatever challenges, then you can't do business there, right?

Speaker 3 It's a mess.

Speaker 1 And it's got a lot of people looking at their own insurance and wondering, what does this cover?

Speaker 3 As everybody should be doing, by the way.

Speaker 1 This is a good time to check into that. So there's standard coverage limitations.

Speaker 1 So typical homeowners' insurance covers events like fires and theft, but often excludes major natural disasters, these acts of God. And then there's supplemental policy.

Speaker 1 So depending on your location and risk factors, you might need additional insurance like flood or earthquake coverage to ensure comprehensive protection.

Speaker 1 That's a big deal in California, earthquake coverage.

Speaker 3 Of course. Or if you're on the coast, right?

Speaker 3 If you're in Florida, you're in Texas, you're on the coast, and there's an increase in frequency or an increase in intensity in storms, yeah, you're going to have to get additional riders if they'll even provide them right.

Speaker 1 Exactly. And without the adequate catastrophe insurance, you could face substantial out-of-pocket expenses for repairs or rebuilding after a disaster, as many Californians are dealing with now.

Speaker 1 They didn't have the right coverage, they didn't have the right policies, and they're left to foot the bills.

Speaker 3 Or they had them and they got canceled on January 1 or whatever rumors are floating. I mean, just is a wild mess.

Speaker 1 So here's the tactical recommendations. Number one, like we said, review your current policy.
Understand what is and isn't covered under your existing homeowner's insurance.

Speaker 1 And call the, you know, the hotline and check in with the customer service and go, can you explain to me what this actually means? And then number two, assess your risk.

Speaker 1 Consider the likelihood of various natural disasters in your area and determine the necessity of additional coverage.

Speaker 3 Can I say this? We have a kind of an internal rule that we don't say, I told you so. This is one of those moments when we beat the drum over and over again.

Speaker 3 Don't have a house payment that's more than 25% of your take-home because you never know when you're going to have to go get a new rider. You're like, dude, we are super exposed.

Speaker 3 We need to go to fire rider. We need to get an additional policy to cover a flood.

Speaker 3 And because these 500-year floods are happening every year now, if you are, if 50% of your take-home is taken up in your house, you can't float that extra $600 a month or the extra $400 a month, whatever it might be.

Speaker 3 And so that's why we always say make it 25%. You might have to get a smaller house, but man, when these things pop up, you have some margin.

Speaker 1 But I think about this, the mortgage doesn't go away just because your house did.

Speaker 3 No.

Speaker 1 You still owe the bank that money. Right.
And you got to find a new place to live. Exactly.
So very, very scary.

Speaker 1 The third thing you can do, if you're in a good financial spot, you're out of baby step two and three, you got no debt, you have the emergency fund, you can raise your deductible.

Speaker 1 And that will help lower your premiums.

Speaker 1 You're willing to take on a little more risk from the insurance company, and they reward you with a lower premium because you're going to have to pay a little bit more before their part kicks in.

Speaker 1 Another one, take advantage of discounts. So some insurance providers have discounts on policies with teenagers if they have good grades or a safe driving record.

Speaker 1 You can qualify for discounts by installing certain safety features like burglar alarms or if you combine your policies.

Speaker 1 And that's the next one is bundling these policies can save you up to 25%, which is huge. And then of course, this is the big one.
Compare quotes. Shop around with an independent insurance broker.

Speaker 1 I know you love your buddy from college who works at the name brand place, but he's a captive independent, he's a captive agent. So he can only sell state farms insurance.

Speaker 1 And so I like to shop around from the top companies. I use an independent broker to do that.

Speaker 1 And if you guys want to learn more about this, you want a Ramsey trusted insurance pro that can tailor the coverage to your specific needs, we've got a site for you to go to, ramseysolutions.com slash insurance, and they'll help you figure out if you have the right coverage for your situation and only giving you what you need and making sure that you get the best price.

Speaker 3 And man, we were just in a meeting, George, you and I and several other of our colleagues. And it actually made me,

Speaker 3 it gave me a little bit of light at the end of the tunnel. They said that

Speaker 3 this particular service through Ramsey Solutions has been getting lit up. People are going back and checking their policies, and then they're calling Xander.

Speaker 3 They're calling some of these brokers and saying, can we get some help? And they're getting the help that they need. So that's that.

Speaker 1 I guess there's some silver lining here that maybe this situation is causing people to get the right coverage so that they're protected. That's the point of insurance is to protect.

Speaker 1 As you build wealth and you're playing offense, you've got to also think about the defense. What are you doing to protect the wealth that you're building?

Speaker 1 Because all it takes is one emergency like this. Or if you don't have health insurance and you have a health crisis, it can bankrupt you.
That's right.

Speaker 1 So you've got to make sure you have the right insurance in place across several areas. And there's a lot of trash products in the insurance world that you also don't need.

Speaker 1 And our Ramsey Trusted Insurance Pros won't steer you to those products. They're only going to give you the stuff that Dave would talk about on air that everyone needs.
So this is one of those things.

Speaker 3 I get pretty passionate. It's simply, and I've said it at nauseum, so I won't continue to beat the drum too much, but I've just sat with people who have lost a spouse

Speaker 3 and they're older, and they look at me, and there's a very particular hollow look in their eyes, and they'll say, I got to go to work on Monday. Or I don't know where anything is.

Speaker 3 And so I beat the drum about, you got to have a will, you got to have a will.

Speaker 3 Please hear me beating this new drum, all of us beating this new drum. Go check your insurance coverages today.
Yeah, and term life insurance.

Speaker 1 If you have anyone in your life that relies on your income, that means kids, a spouse, you need term life insurance. 10 to 12 times your income.

Speaker 3 And if you're a voting member of your community, find out about infrastructure in resources. Do we have water? We do control burns.
Do we take care of some of these things

Speaker 3 when times are good so that not if, but when things go sideways, we're going to be okay. Because, man, you don't want to find out standing at the end of your block when the whole block.
I mean,

Speaker 1 another reminder, and this is something you've railed on, John, is know your neighbor.

Speaker 3 Know your neighbor.

Speaker 1 Be friends with your neighbor. If something goes down, can you go over there and knock on on the door? And they're like, oh, absolutely.

Speaker 1 And we're so disconnected in today's world that you're lucky to see your neighbor. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Let alone know them, talk to them, have their number. And that's been a beautiful thing that's come out of this is just the level of community and people coming out of in droves.

Speaker 1 People have lost their homes are helping other people who have lost their homes. And so that is, you know, in the darkest times, we also see.
the most beautiful parts of humanity. That's right.

Speaker 3 And if you find yourself in a position where you're in Vermont, you're in Texas, you're in some place, and your family's safe and you're not doing well, see if you can get online, if you can find some places where you can give and be in support of our brothers and sisters out there in California.

Speaker 3 You just lost everything, man.

Speaker 1 Generosity is a great way to feel connected to these things that feel out of our control.

Speaker 3 Put some skin back in the game.

Speaker 1 That's right. I love it.
Good stuff, John. Thank you to the booth folks, keeping the show afloat.
And to you, America. Folks, what I call them.
That's as good as I can say. There you go.

Speaker 1 Nicest thing I can say about those guys. And we'll be back before you know it.
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Speaker 1 April's going to kick us off in Gettysburg. What's going on, April?

Speaker 9 Well, hello. First of all, I'd like to say thank you so much for having me on your show.
I feel truly humbled by it.

Speaker 3 That means a word.

Speaker 9 Yeah, thank you. Back before Thanksgiving, I discovered your show, and I started listening actively.
And I thought, you know, my whole setup of how I did money and business was very much off.

Speaker 9 And I thought, I've got to start rearranging things and get on the baby step. My husband and I are on the baby steps.
We secured the first step and we were also getting

Speaker 9 listening to some of your advice about having all of our accounts merged.

Speaker 9 So we had put our savings and our check-in account together in both names and my husband had had a separate account that he had had for probably about 25 years.

Speaker 9 And I told him, I said, you should really put me on that account. This way we can, you know, put some money in that too.

Speaker 9 And it was a good thing I started listening to your show because it really helped me discover really what was going on.

Speaker 9 I'd always been pretty active, proactive with my own money as much as I could be, as much as I knew how to be. But

Speaker 9 on the 2nd of December, my husband had called about his other account, which for the longest time, it had been pretty dormant.

Speaker 9 I think he had, well, exactly, he had $100.26 in there for the longest time.

Speaker 9 And the bank had told him that he was overdrawing $3,000.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 9 he, of course, called me immediately and told me, How can this be? I said, you need to call the bank back and ask what's going on here.

Speaker 9 So he called the bank, and they had told him that

Speaker 9 the teller or whatever had given out $3,000 and it got written off his account because his account was one number off from a customer that had it withdrawn from his account, which really made no sense to us.

Speaker 9 We couldn't understand how.

Speaker 1 You're telling me they like fat-fingered the wrong account number and withdrew his account by negative $3,000.

Speaker 9 $3,000. But it gets even crazier what we've been going through with it because they said that this had happened back in May of 2024,

Speaker 9 and here we are in December, and they had said, well, we closed your account in July, July 8th, and we were like, we never got notice of this.

Speaker 9 And my husband wasn't as proactive with this other account because he figured,

Speaker 3 oh, it's there.

Speaker 9 I don't have to worry about it. And I just thought, oh, no.

Speaker 9 So we gotten a letter

Speaker 9 from them, you know, saying even a copy, saying we're sorry there was a mistake and even showing us the teller's number and the individual's name of who got the money, but it didn't solve our problem.

Speaker 9 They said the bank then told us they would send us a check for $100.26, which is what my husband had in the account. And he told them, I'm not doing business with you folks because this is nuts.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 9 Well, they had put my husband into check systems and also gave him a negative credit report across the board.

Speaker 9 And we were just like,

Speaker 9 I can't believe this is happening.

Speaker 1 And I feel like you guys have been burning too many brain calories on this.

Speaker 1 You take the check, you dispute it on the credit report, and we move on with our life, and we never do business with this bank again.

Speaker 9 But you know, that's not all, though, because we got the check for $100.26. We thought, okay, it's over.
We're done. They're going to fix it.
That's not what happened.

Speaker 9 Then December 19th, they sent us a check for $2,899.74.

Speaker 9 And we're like, what's going on here?

Speaker 9 And a paper saying that, you know, you're still in check systems. You can deal with this with them.
And we're like, what?

Speaker 9 So I contacted an attorney.

Speaker 4 No.

Speaker 9 Because if you add the $2,899.74 with $100.26, you come to $3,000. So they were still making us look like we had a black guy, my husband.

Speaker 3 Okay. And we were like, what's going on here?

Speaker 1 Talk to the bank about that.

Speaker 9 They told us, oh, no, we can come and we'll even come to your house and pick the checkup. I said, I've never heard of stuff like this before.

Speaker 3 What?

Speaker 1 Is it a big, big, big bank? Is it a mom and pop?

Speaker 9 No, it's a big bank.

Speaker 3 Yes. We were just shocked by it.
So here's exactly what's happening. I'd be willing to bet.

Speaker 3 truck's not very nice but I'd be willing to bet my truck this is what's happening they're a humongous bank one teller either is screwing with the system but more than likely he made a mistake he or she made a mistake and they doled out three thousand bucks to the wrong account fine

Speaker 3 not there's no person at a humongous bank it's all automated and i can almost guarantee you that whatever email address your husband signed up on that account 15 years ago or whatever he's got emails from that bank that were automated and just cranked out.

Speaker 3 Or he got letters that he just didn't open because he knew he had $100 in that account. Everything on those big banks is automated, automated, automated, automated.

Speaker 3 Even the refund check that accidentally got automated to you guys.

Speaker 3 And so, A,

Speaker 3 stop doing business with a big bank. That's why I like a bank.
I was texting my banker today, right? I like that. I like having their cell number.

Speaker 3 And I'm an old Luddite when it comes to that kind of stuff, but I like knowing the person to call. And like George said, you guys are wasting way too many brain calories on this.

Speaker 3 You don't need to get an attorney. You need to dispute it with the credit reports.

Speaker 9 They did, and they did send them a letter, and they said they're still going to clear it with check systems. So we're waiting for that to happen.

Speaker 3 Yeah, they will. It's all,

Speaker 3 you're just dealing with a bunch of zeros and ones. You're not dealing with people.

Speaker 3 But here's the thing: I'm going to go back.

Speaker 3 Companies make mistakes.

Speaker 3 Big systems make mistakes. That's why we tell everybody, check your stuff every month.

Speaker 9 Well, we had moved and we had given our new address, but nothing had ever come here.

Speaker 6 And the old address.

Speaker 3 Or your husband says he did.

Speaker 1 He actually changed his address with the bank.

Speaker 3 I don't think he did. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Not with USPS, but did he change it with the bank?

Speaker 3 He says he did. Yeah, but probably not, right?

Speaker 3 No, he said he did. I know.

Speaker 1 I don't think this is worth fighting with him at all.

Speaker 3 I don't think this is worth it.

Speaker 9 No, I mean, we're not fighting about it, but you know what I mean? It certainly makes you feel a certain type of way. It's very jarring and shocking.

Speaker 3 That's right. That this could happen.

Speaker 9 $3,000. It's like, wow, how did this happen? And it sat there for so long.

Speaker 3 It's just, it's just computer on computer and a humongous bank that's worth $2 trillion. They're just going to write it off and go.
It's not worth, it's not worth,

Speaker 3 they've done the actuarial table. It's not worth their time to mess with $3,000.
They just peg your credit and they write it off and they move on.

Speaker 1 None of this is malicious or personal. It was just someone who is inept.

Speaker 3 Yeah.

Speaker 3 It's a system.

Speaker 9 Well, I can say I'm just glad that I did tap into your show and got more proactive with checking.

Speaker 3 Good. And also, I don't let money just sit around.

Speaker 1 I want my money to have a goal and a purpose. And so if it's not your checking for bills, put it in a high-yield savings account.

Speaker 3 Okay. Have you done that yet?

Speaker 9 No, I haven't done that yet.

Speaker 9 I'm just getting started, like I said before Thanksgiving. just discovered your program and just getting started.

Speaker 3 So here's the deal. Can I flip this whole thing around for you?

Speaker 2 Sure.

Speaker 3 You're awesome.

Speaker 3 Thank you for saying that. You're awesome.
You started digging into some challenges and you drank the Ramsey Kool-Aid. Welcome to our cult.
We're going to hook you up with Financial Peace University.

Speaker 3 You and your husband can watch that. We're going to pay for it.
And we'll hook you up with every dollar app that y'all can share together and y'all can start keeping track with all of your money.

Speaker 3 So hang on the line here. We'll get you hooked up.
But let's flip this whole thing around. Wow.
Y'all caught a $3,000 error and the bank's trying to fix it for you. That's amazing.
That's awesome.

Speaker 3 You're getting back on the right track. So I'm glad y'all started digging into this stuff because now we're on the right path.

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Don't be shy. Give us a call and we'll talk about your life and your money.

Speaker 3 The call is toll-free.

Speaker 1 Who needs tolls these days? When's the last time you made a non-toll-free call?

Speaker 3 We were at a meeting earlier and someone's like, who still says toll-free? I don't think most of the people on this.

Speaker 1 I think if you're under 30, you don't even know what that means.

Speaker 3 Here's what it means, that I paid per text when it came out. Like you got this many texts a month.

Speaker 3 And if you sent one extra text, so you could get a text from somebody you're dating like, but do you love me? And then that next text costs you like $30 because you'd gone outside of your text.

Speaker 3 Honestly? To call somebody not in your zip code, you had to pay for long distance.

Speaker 3 I had a long distance card.

Speaker 1 I think we should go back to paying for texts and calls, especially calls. Make those more expensive.

Speaker 3 Oh, especially text.

Speaker 1 You call me, let's get off the phone as soon as calls are free.

Speaker 3 Human to human connection, free. Text message, you have to pay $8 per text.
Then we'd start. Stop getting this.
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Speaker 3 All right, today's question comes from Kimberly in Washington. When I was a child, my parents stuck out a whole life insurance.
insurance and a Gerber grow-up insurance policy on me.

Speaker 3 Together, they're worth about about $50,000. I'm 28 now, married with no kids, and my father is handing off the insurance payments to me to assume now.
Aw, what a great gift.

Speaker 3 Hey, I bought this thing for you. Now you get to keep paying on it now that you're older.
You don't have any kids, so you could pay.

Speaker 1 But now it's sentimental. You know, it's like, oh, but you had that when you were just a baby.

Speaker 3 It was Gerber.

Speaker 1 You'd hold your life insurance policy and play with it.

Speaker 3 The squished up pears in a jar with your face on it. That's what I'm saying.
These monthly payments added together are around 40 bucks every month. I don't know what to to do with these.

Speaker 3 My husband and I are currently on baby step two and easily able to afford these payments. I just don't know if they're worth it.
GK, what do you say?

Speaker 1 No, I'd get out of this.

Speaker 3 I know, but it's so the warmth and the memory.

Speaker 1 My dad took it out for me and I want to honor his. No, stop.
You're a grown adult. You're not a Gerber baby anymore.
They're worth about 50K.

Speaker 3 If that's the cash value.

Speaker 3 Opt out.

Speaker 1 Hit the, you know, surrender the policy, take whatever cash value has built up, and then use that money for literally anything else.

Speaker 1 Invest it, pay off your debt, filter it through the baby steps, but I would not continue to pay this monthly premium for a sub-par product.

Speaker 1 You can do way better on your own, and instead take that money, and if you don't have a term life insurance policy, start that. So get term life in place and then cancel the whole life policy.

Speaker 1 And that term life policy will be way cheaper with better coverage than your whole life policy.

Speaker 3 I don't know how these work. Is there a diminishing, like, so if it's a $50,000 payout, if she cancels it and takes whatever cash is in there?

Speaker 1 Well, you lose the death benefit. You know, the face value of the policy.

Speaker 1 So let's say the face value of the policy was $100,000, but the policy is worth $50,000 right now cash value that was built up over those 28 years.

Speaker 1 So the face value doesn't change, but the cash value will build up over time. And it can deteriorate because sometimes, you know, all the commissions and fees you have to pay can then eat into it.

Speaker 1 So they're going to take your cash value to pay the premiums if you can't pay. Yes.
So there's no way out of this thing. Just surrender it and realize that

Speaker 1 it was a very kind mistake. It was a well-intended mistake for your parents to take this policy out.
And reminder: life insurance is not for babies.

Speaker 1 It's meant to replace your income to protect the people you love. So a baby doesn't need life insurance unless your baby is a prodigy actor that is the breadwinner for the family.

Speaker 1 Sure, you can get life insurance for your baby. But anyone else, not for you.

Speaker 3 Also, I'm feeling more and more now, George, on my show, we got some data that this particular Christmas, jillions of people are canceling their families.

Speaker 3 Like so-and-so voted the wrong way or so-and-so made me. Listen, that's a whole other show.

Speaker 3 But Kimberly, on behalf of your dad, I guarantee you that when your mom found out she was pregnant and told your dad, Your dad got excited and he wanted to think about your future and he went and talked to his insurance person.

Speaker 3 He went and talked to

Speaker 3 um

Speaker 3 his

Speaker 1 his retirement person and that guy or that woman gave him this advice and he did the best thing that he was told to do so he's a good man trying to take care of you when you were born that's awesome and now that you've got more information and you've you've got different advisors in a couple of knuckleheads on a podcast um now you know something different so good for your dad for looking out for you when you were young i wish he'd gotten some different advice but he didn't and here we are let's go make the next right move and high five your dad for loving you this far absolutely and if if you if anyone out there is interested in term life insurance the people that I trust the people that John trusts they provide it for our families go to xander.com and get term life in place 10 to 12 times your annual income you can do a 15 20 25 year policy depending on your stage of life but the goal is to be self-insured after that policy lapses right so 20 years from now we're set we've been following this ramsey plan investing getting the house paid off so we have our own nest egg that replaces this insurance policy but get it in place today it's very affordable and uh a great product.

Speaker 1 And Xander will shop the top companies for you.

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More importantly than that, Xander's who take care of my family, my wife and kids, George's wife and kids.

Speaker 3 Like, this is who we use in our house. I trust these folks.
And

Speaker 3 I know them on a personal basis. And so

Speaker 3 I like standing behind them.

Speaker 1 Absolutely. Good word.
All right. Let's go up to Sam in Charleston.
What's going on, Sam?

Speaker 10 Hey, good afternoon, gentlemen. How are y'all today?

Speaker 1 Doing great. How How are you?

Speaker 10 Good, good, good. I do have a, I've got a question.
It's in regards to my 401k. So I have a 401k from a previous employer with about just a little bit shy of 500K in it.

Speaker 10 Haven't worked for them for about five years. But my question is, I'm thinking about possibly rolling it into a Roth IRA to avoid the taxes when I retire.

Speaker 10 And I'm just kind of wondering what kind of tax penalties am I looking at, and is it even worth doing at this point?

Speaker 1 Well, it's not going to be a penalty. It would be a conversion.
And so you're going to have to pay taxes on that $500,000 in order to convert it to Roth.

Speaker 1 And so that would be the only time you would do that is once you're in baby step seven with a paid-for house. Are you at that spot yet? Gotcha.

Speaker 10 No, sir. No, not yet.

Speaker 1 Okay. So what I would do, though, is roll it over, do a direct rollover to like, is it all the money traditional 401k?

Speaker 10 Well, it's kind of half and half. So I've got traditional 401k, and then the other half is straight company stock.
So, I mean, the return on that stock has actually been really good.

Speaker 10 Last year alone, I reaped a 25%

Speaker 10 increase in it just because of the stock split that we've actually had.

Speaker 3 Okay, well, I'm telling you right now.

Speaker 1 It's a risky plan. And I'll tell you, the market overall did 24%.

Speaker 1 So you could do that across, if you just invested in the top 500 companies in America through an S ⁇ P 500 fund, you would have seen a 24% return. So I would move out of those single stocks.

Speaker 1 I don't know, are those inside of our retirement account or is that just non-retirement stocks that you could cash out?

Speaker 10 No, it's it's um I could I could definitely cash it out.

Speaker 1 Okay.

Speaker 1 So the traditional 401k, do a direct rollover to a traditional IRA. That way you don't pay taxes on that.

Speaker 1 Okay. But that way it's in your control.

Speaker 10 And I'll just have to pay taxes after or when I get ready to retire as I withdraw, correct?

Speaker 1 Exactly. Or you can convert it before then and pay the taxes.
You might do that strategically, you know, a little bit per year versus doing all $500,000.

Speaker 1 But that's up to you and your tax pro and financial advisor.

Speaker 1 You can dig into the numbers and see when that would be worth it once you're in baby step seven, completely debt-free, house and everything.

Speaker 1 But the single stocks, I would cash out and know that you will pay taxes on that.

Speaker 3 Hey, Sam sells. I'm going to ask George a question on your behalf.
Is that cool? Sure. So George, if you have $500,000 in a traditional and you're going to do a backdoor Roth and roll it,

Speaker 3 do they take

Speaker 3 the taxes out of that 500, or do I need to have a check that I can write the cash amount? Do you get what I'm saying? Oh, I see.

Speaker 1 Well, you're actually rolling it into another retirement account, so you need to have the cash.

Speaker 3 So that 500,000 is going to go 500 to 500, but I'm going to have to write a check for the taxes out. So they're not going to just pull it.

Speaker 3 So the conversion, when you get to 500,000, you're going to have to have a chunk of money.

Speaker 1 You can do that with non-retirement because you're actually cashing it out, turning it into dollars, turning stocks into dollars. And so then you could take a portion of that to pay the taxes.

Speaker 1 So this is where, that's that's why it's a baby step seven thing where you need to have saved up all the cash to cover the tax bill.

Speaker 3 But they're not going to pull it from what's being held.

Speaker 1 Exactly. But it's a great question, Sam.
You've done really well, man. Way to go.
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What's going on, Amanda?

Speaker 2 Hi, Dr. John.
Hey, George. I'm excited to pick your brains today.
Pick it.

Speaker 2 All right. So I wanted to know what you guys would think of me going back part-time after my maternity leave is over.
I just had a baby last month.

Speaker 1 Wow. Congratulations.

Speaker 3 How's it been? Thank you.

Speaker 1 His first, first kid. Oh, it's the best.

Speaker 2 Yes. First kid.
IVX baby took us four years, and we are so happy to have him.

Speaker 3 That's wonderful. So why do you need a couple of dudes' advice on this?

Speaker 2 I just want to make sure that

Speaker 2 you guys think we're financially okay. I watch you guys every single day, and I was like, I'm going to call in a Ramsey and see what they think before I make this decision.

Speaker 1 So let me ask this. If money was no object, would you just stay home? with baby and not work outside of the home?

Speaker 4 Yes.

Speaker 1 Okay. Yes.
But you're saying, hey, I might have to work part-time in order order to make the budget numbers work.

Speaker 2 Correct. And we are in baby step two.
So I just wanted to run things by you guys, see what you thought, and I'm going to take what you say and run with it.

Speaker 3 Okay, before we give you the numbers, can I ask you one personal question?

Speaker 2 Of course.

Speaker 3 I'm going to ask you a question that you're not allowed to answer. And so I'm going to ask you to be brave on account of the millions of new moms who are listening to this too.
Okay.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 3 Often there's an identity crisis when it comes to, I used to be a professional. I had this.
I really, I had a great career. I found a lot of purpose in that career, but I really want to have a family.

Speaker 3 I want to have a baby. And then I have this baby and you tell yourself a story.
I've got to do this because I'm going to really want to do this.

Speaker 3 And then you have this baby and you're at home for a few weeks and then the creeping or a few months or a few years and that creeping,

Speaker 3 I really found some purpose at work too. And then you get in this.
There's this, there's an entire ecosystem designed for one thing to make moms feel guilty. So you have to buy stuff.

Speaker 3 But then you say or think the words, I kind of want to go back to work. And then it's like, oh, well, if you were a good mom, you would stay at home all the time.

Speaker 3 And, or, I can't believe you left your job.

Speaker 3 So tell me what you want to do. Forget the numbers for a second.

Speaker 3 If you could, would you just want to stay at home forever? I'm going to go home with my baby. Okay.
So this is this.

Speaker 2 We also have a farm.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 2 So I would like to, you know, dedicate time to that. Right now, I can't really help out with that.

Speaker 3 Dude, E-I-E-I-O. Like, get the farm.
That's awesome. But so this is a math problem.

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 3 Okay. That super helps me.
All right, great.

Speaker 1 So let's play this out as if you're at home not working. What is the income coming in every month?

Speaker 2 If I wasn't working, my husband makes around $65,000 to $70,000.

Speaker 1 All right. And what are your monthly expenses?

Speaker 2 $2,500.

Speaker 3 That's it?

Speaker 1 That includes food, utilities, shelter, transportation, insurance,

Speaker 3 clothes.

Speaker 1 That's amazing. Yep.
So why can't you guys do this today?

Speaker 2 We could. I guess I feel a little bit guilty.
We're doing the gazelle intensity. Since October of 2023, we've been able to pay $89,000 of debt off.

Speaker 3 Amazing. What's left?

Speaker 2 Everyone told me that Dave Rampi was outdated, but I mean, it works.

Speaker 3 It works.

Speaker 3 He is old. Yeah.
He's not outdated. Yeah.
It works. Okay, so how much debt do you have left?

Speaker 2 We have $27,000 left. We are throwing another $10K.
We're pulling it out of our stork mode that we did. So we're paying another $10K off next week.
So then we will have $17,000 left. Okay.

Speaker 2 Yeah, we stork mode for three months and was able to save up $20,000.

Speaker 3 Amazing.

Speaker 2 You've been going hard.

Speaker 1 So $17K, how quickly will you guys pay this off with you being home?

Speaker 2 With me being home.

Speaker 1 Well, we're talking six months from now, you're debt-free?

Speaker 2 It's actually, we're thinking by June we could do it.

Speaker 1 Amazing. That sounds a lot like six months.
I nailed it. Okay.

Speaker 1 So six months from now, you're debt-free. Now we're working on the emergency fund.
Can we save that up in another six months?

Speaker 2 Probably three and a half.

Speaker 3 Wow.

Speaker 1 Okay. So we're talking before the end of the year, you guys are debt-free with a fully funded emergency fund.
You freed up the debt payments, which was how much?

Speaker 1 What were you guys paying per month or currently?

Speaker 2 We were paying over $6,000 a month in debt.

Speaker 3 What? Using,

Speaker 2 yeah, I was working a lot. My husband worked with a lot of people.

Speaker 1 Okay, this is when you had two incomes. That makes more sense.
I was like, that's more than your take-home pay.

Speaker 3 Okay, great. So here's what I would do with your husband tonight.

Speaker 1 Go to Every Dollar and craft a new budget just using his income, going, how is this going to work? Do we have margin left over to save and invest and give on top of that once we're debt-free?

Speaker 3 Great.

Speaker 1 And guess what? If it comes down to it and he goes, I need to work a little more in this season, that's fine.

Speaker 1 Or if you need to work five hours a week because you want to and it's going to help, that's fine. You get to choose.

Speaker 1 But what I wouldn't do is give up the dream because of guilt or because you feel like do this out of your values.

Speaker 1 And if your values say, I want to stay home with this baby, then figure out what must be true financially to do that and then make the sacrifices necessary.

Speaker 3 And can I tell you, Amanda, unfortunately, you are in a... in a moment in your life where there's not a move you can make or you're not not going to feel guilty.

Speaker 1 Or that someone else won't judge you for it.

Speaker 3 That's the world you're in right now. And so if you can exhale, like George just said, and do what's best for y'all, and I want to high-five you, you worked three years

Speaker 3 like maniacs to get to this exact moment when you know what you can do? Whatever y'all want.

Speaker 3 Whatever you want.

Speaker 3 And just knowing, oh, if I go back to work part-time, I'm going to feel guilty for leaving my baby.

Speaker 3 And if I stay at home, I'm going to feel guilty that, quote unquote, I'm suddenly not a breadwinner, which is a good thing.

Speaker 1 I don't have marketplace value.

Speaker 3 Yeah, yeah, yeah. You have existential, like

Speaker 3 your value is astounding.

Speaker 3 But you're going to have a feeling about it. And so you're going to have to practice doing the next right thing for a season.
Also, pick up my buddy Nia Ruck, R-U-C-H.

Speaker 3 She has a new book out called The Power Pause, which is about this exact moment for when you're staying at home and you're crafting a career after that. I haven't read it yet.

Speaker 3 It's been sitting on my desk, but the reviews are astounding. It's called The Power Pause.
Pick up that book, and you might not feel so alone after reading through that. But

Speaker 3 George.

Speaker 1 I'm going to suggest one more, John. Yep.
Because my wife stayed home and struggled with this, Amanda. Read in praise of stay-at-home moms from Dr.
Laura. That one was very, very comforting.

Speaker 1 Very good shouting at Dr.

Speaker 3 Laura. The OG.
The OG. The OG.

Speaker 1 So I hope that helps you.

Speaker 1 It's the right choice if it's the right choice for you. So just move forward.
Don't look back. Don't think about what if and crunch the numbers to make sure you can do it.

Speaker 1 But I'm telling you, based on Napkin math, it's possible. This is The Ramsey Show.

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Speaker 3 H-Town! What's up, Christy?

Speaker 1 You have to say it like that, apparently, Christy. How are you doing?

Speaker 2 Hi, guys. How are you? I'm doing great.

Speaker 1 What's going on?

Speaker 2 Yeah, so

Speaker 2 I was hoping I could get your advice. My husband and I bought a home about two years ago, and we did not realize the extent of repairs that it needs.

Speaker 2 And the area is a lot more unsafe than we anticipated. So, we're planning on selling the home and moving to an apartment.

Speaker 2 And so, we just wanted to know if you guys think this is the best option for us right now.

Speaker 1 I hear no red flags.

Speaker 3 You want to move? You want to move?

Speaker 1 You made a bad decision, it didn't end up working out. There's no harm in selling it and renting for now until you figure out what's next for you.

Speaker 1 What would it sell for in its current condition?

Speaker 2 Our realtor says it could be hit or miss. He said a quick sale would be about about $2.30.

Speaker 2 If we left it on, it could be $2.50 and upwards. We just won't know until we list it.

Speaker 1 Okay, what's the urgency? Is it very livable now? Are you guys safe? Can you, you know, stage it, market it, do all the right things to try to get the most bang for your buck?

Speaker 2 It is livable now, but maybe a couple months ago we had to do some floor work ourselves in order to make it livable because of the rod in the foundation.

Speaker 2 So it's not completely fixed. There's areas of the house that I would probably avoid, but it's not unlivable.
It's not unsafe. I mean, we could list it and get a decent amount.

Speaker 3 Would you pay?

Speaker 2 We got $223, but it's a home from my father. So he gave us a gift of equity.
So we owe $181 on it right now.

Speaker 1 Okay, so you'd probably walk out of this thing with $20 to $40,000 if you're lucky after fees.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 1 And you would just, do you guys have any debt right now?

Speaker 2 We are, We have $1,000 left to pay, hopefully, by the end of this month.

Speaker 3 Amazing.

Speaker 1 Do you have any savings?

Speaker 2 We don't. So we would be starting

Speaker 2 other than $1,000, right? We would be starting our emergency.

Speaker 1 So you'd leapfrog to baby steps four, five, and six, where you're debt-free with a fully funded emergency fund. You'd rent.
And then beyond that, I'd begin saving up a down payment.

Speaker 1 And your next purchase is going to be very different. You're going to do it out of a place of strength.
You're going to know what you're getting into before you get into it.

Speaker 1 You're going to choose a better neighborhood. You're going to choose a home with less problems.
And so, I feel good about you guys selling this thing. And do you, you have a good realtor?

Speaker 1 Do you trust them?

Speaker 2 Yes, he's actually a family friend. So, I've known him since he was about since I was about 12 years old, and I'm 30 now.
So, okay.

Speaker 1 Well, you can trust them, and they can be a terrible realtor. Are they really good at their job? Are they going to get you top dollar for this?

Speaker 2 I believe that he would do every effort

Speaker 4 to make sure that we did.

Speaker 3 Awesome.

Speaker 1 And we have a whole real estate home base. If you want to check it out for more resources on this, you can jump on ramseysolutions.com slash real estate.

Speaker 1 And there we have articles, how-tos, calculators, courses, you name it, to help you guys through this home selling process.

Speaker 1 But it's a hard lesson to learn, Christy, but you guys are getting out of this thing mostly unscathed. I mean, you're safe.
You're going to make a little bit of profit.

Speaker 1 I'm going to call that a win and a lesson learned.

Speaker 3 Yeah, and I guess to free you from any existential dread you have,

Speaker 3 if you had bought this house and it was the greatest move you ever made, it's still okay to sell it.

Speaker 3 If y'all ready to move and you want to downsize, move to an apartment for a season, knock your lights out. Right.

Speaker 3 So, either way, I think there's a lot of emotion in it, George. And it's like, I feel like I'm quitting.

Speaker 1 We gave up on the dream.

Speaker 3 No, man.

Speaker 3 You learned. You learned.

Speaker 3 No one to quit. We thought we were going to be house flippers and we hate this.
And so we want to back that thing up and get out of this. Awesome.
Knock it out. Go do it.

Speaker 1 Love it.

Speaker 3 All right.

Speaker 1 Let's go out to Laura in New York up next. How's it going, Laura?

Speaker 2 Hi. Thank you for taking my call.

Speaker 1 Sure. How can John and I help?

Speaker 2 So, my husband and I are in credit card debt of about $60,000, and I wanted to know the best way to pay it off.

Speaker 3 Do we have to do that?

Speaker 1 What would you spend the $60,000 on?

Speaker 2 It's just over years, over years of just living on more than you make.

Speaker 2 Exactly.

Speaker 3 So, how old are you two? Thinking

Speaker 2 54 and 59.

Speaker 3 All right.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 1 And you want to know how to get rid of the 60K?

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 1 What were you thinking about doing? I have a feeling you had some ideas.

Speaker 2 Well, we were thinking, do we take out a consolidation loan? Do we transfer them to credit cards with 0% interest?

Speaker 3 No.

Speaker 3 Keep going. This is fun.

Speaker 1 I'm having a good time.

Speaker 8 No, so I don't know. I don't really know.
That's why I need to.

Speaker 3 Don't do any of those things.

Speaker 1 So here's the deal. There's a few things you can't do.
And I'll tell tell you what you can do. What you can't do is move the debt around.
That's a consolidation loan.

Speaker 1 The other thing you can't do is take out more debt to pay off your current debt. That sounds as insane as it is.
So looking to a HELOC or borrowing from retirement, these are not options.

Speaker 1 So if you said these are off the table, what are my husband and I going to do to get rid of this debt with our current savings, things we can sell, and our future income?

Speaker 1 That is the only way out of this thing instead of just feeling like you did something and creating more problems down the road.

Speaker 1 Okay. So what's your household income?

Speaker 2 Monthly, it's

Speaker 2 about $18,000 a month.

Speaker 1 It's amazing.

Speaker 3 Laura, $18,000 a month?

Speaker 1 So here's, you know what this tells me?

Speaker 3 You guys are living high on the hog right now.

Speaker 1 You're spending $25,000 a month. even though you make 18.

Speaker 1 That's how we get into 60 grand in credit card debt. So here's what you're going to have to do.
You need to chop your lifestyle down to nothing.

Speaker 1 As in, we put food on the table, we cover the utilities, you cover the mortgage. Do you guys have a gigantic mortgage?

Speaker 3 What's eating up 18 grand?

Speaker 2 Well,

Speaker 2 our credit card bills, and no, our mortgage this week is about 3,000. My husband has that information.

Speaker 3 So you have $15,000 non-mortgage income every month? Right.

Speaker 1 And it's disappearing into what? Because the credit card bills are how much? What's the minimum payments on 60 grand in credit card debt?

Speaker 2 So they're all different credit cards.

Speaker 1 I know, but if you added up the payments, how much are you sending to the lender every month? Is it 800 bucks a month, 4,000 a month?

Speaker 4 I'm not sure.

Speaker 2 My husband pays the bills.

Speaker 3 Okay, you need to be able to have all this information. So Laura, I can hear it in your voice.
You need to be a part of this

Speaker 3 because your household is running without you, but you're responsible for

Speaker 3 the fear and the stress in that house. You get what I'm saying?

Speaker 3 So before you do anything about HELOCs and that kind of stuff, you got to sit down with your husband and say, as your wife, I am scared every night I go to bed because I don't know the state of things.

Speaker 3 And if he's a good New York husband, he'll say, I got it. It's under control.
It's fine.

Speaker 3 And you have to have the courage. And hopefully he's got the courage.
And you have to say, I need to walk alongside this thing. I need to be with you.
This is us. We're in this together.

Speaker 1 Do you guys have anything in savings or anything you could sell? Any other property? Non-retirement accounts? Nothing. Do you have anything saved for retirement?

Speaker 4 Yes. Well, in our 401ks.

Speaker 1 Are you guys currently investing?

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 1 So your husband's going to need to get on board with this, but if you guys paused all of your investing and you lived off of a very small portion of your 18 grand, what if you could throw 10 or 12 grand of this debt every month?

Speaker 1 guess what it would be gone in four months five months done

Speaker 3 okay that's the solution you don't owe anybody anything y'all are rich you don't need a consolidation loan a heloc you don't need to borrow from retirement you need to just start using your income to your advantage and using it to knock out the debt so sometimes oh sorry george sometimes people make this kind of money and they think they don't have to pay attention and then you look up and you can out earn your stupidity for how do we own 60 000 you got to pay attention right you got to pay attention and this is literally a six-month problem and it's all gone It's all gone.

Speaker 1 But I think this is a relationship issue. I don't know that he has the same urgency as she does.
He's not feeling the same way. Correct.

Speaker 1 That's going to be the tough part, not actually getting out of debt. Once you get him on board, this thing's gone.
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