Don’t Believe the Lie That You Need Credit To Survive!

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We appreciate all of you listening and calling in. Matthew kicks us off in Vancouver.
What's going on, Matthew? Hey, guys. Basically, just trying to get some motivation or figure out if or how I can start over at 40.
Oh, what does starting over mean? Creating a life. Again, getting a house, getting some savings.
I mean, starting over sounds like there was a rock bottom. Like, life happened to you? Was there a divorce? Did you lose everything? What happened? Yeah, basically.
All of the above. Lost my business due to COVID.
Oh, no. Which left me with significant debts.
Also a divorce around the same time. So the ex-wife sold the house and took the proceeds.
Still trying to recover all that. So basically, 40 years old now.
So you lost your business, you lost your marriage,

you lost the house, and now you're going, where do I go from here at 40 years old?

Exactly. Yeah.
The last three years, I think, I've just been surviving or trying to survive.

Every check sort of goes out the window. What have you been doing for work?

I'm an electrician by trade. Okay.
And is that

the type of business you had during COVID? That's right. Yeah.
Okay. And so it sounds like you're

starting to rebuild that or are you working for someone else now? No, I've been working for

somebody else for the last few years. Okay.
Is that the way you want it or do you want to rebuild

the business? I'd like to have my business again. I don't know how anything is possible at this point with no credit.
I'm currently, whatever debt that I had. You don't need credit to start a business.
True. That's true.
And we're not taking out any loans to do this business, so you don't have to worry about any of that. So let's walk through some of the numbers here.
Cause I think when we are deep in the throes of grief and loss and feelings and emotions, sometimes the facts just help us go, okay, it's not as bad as we think. And you're 40, you're not 70.
And so you've got a lot of time to build a whole new life and create a new chapter for Matthew. And I'm excited about that.
So tell us some of the numbers. Well, I make about 80 to 90 a year.
Not bad. That's pretty great.
Okay. How much debt? Debt.
I had $116,000 from the business and some personal debt that was wrapped up now in a consumer proposal. So I have to pay back,

I think, $27,000 now. On top of the $116,000? No, it's like a debt.
Consolidation? Yeah. So the creditors agree on lower amounts.
So it was all agreed to about $27,000 in total that I actually have to pay back.

Okay. So the $116,000, the $27,000, anything else? Not that I'm aware of, no.
And where are you living? In Canada. I mean, are you renting a house right now or an apartment? Oh, yeah, renting.
Okay. Now, when you said business debt, is that on credit cards or is it on a personal loan? they were

suppliers

for my company and they called on all the stuff that was owed and the company didn't have it. I had personal guarantees on those things, so it turned into personal debt.
Okay. So you're making $90,000.
That's not bad for a single guy. Are you using a budget or are you just kind of working out the numbers in your head every month? Yeah, just in my head.
The bank has this automatic thing where it sort of puts money into a small little savings account automatically, but I always find that I have to dip into that to survive. How much money do you have to your name right now in savings or in your checking account? Savings, none.
Checking, probably like a hundred bucks for groceries the next two weeks. Are you doing any investing right now? No.
Okay, good. So what I think my guess is, and I don't know, we can ask you the payments.
I mean, for the $116,000 and for the $27,000, what is that in payments every month? The $460,000. $460,000 total? Yeah.
Okay, and what's your rent? Or I'm assuming you're renting. $600,000, yeah.
Okay, so what that tells me is there's a lot of money somewhere that's, I don't know where it's going, only you know where it's going, but I have a feeling if you were to... Yeah, I have wage garnishment for child support.
How much? They take $1,800 every month. Okay, we're still not quite there.
So now you've outlined about $2,800 a month that you're spending. Is there anything other major that I should know about? Not really, just the standard vehicle.
I don't pay anything for my vehicle. I have my insurance for the vehicle is $460 a month as well.
Okay. And then I have fuel on top of that.
Okay. I have a feeling if you were to plug all of these numbers into an every dollar budget, you'd find that there is margin there.
It's just a matter of being intentional with what we do with it. Because in this case, I mean, the only way out of this is to start paying off the debt.
And you can start side hustling. You can start picking up other clients.
The good thing about your trade is I don't think anything's stopping you from going out and getting other clients to say, okay, I can help you with your... Yeah, what's the agreement with your employer for you doing electrician work? They're fine with it.
I don't have a proper vehicle. I can't even call any tools around or material right now.
They've been talking about getting a truck. And then if I get a truck, I can obviously go and do some service calls and side work, and they're fine with that.
Okay. That's what I'm wondering.
If you pick that up, even in your own neighborhood and outside of that, and start kind of marketing it, you know, Facebook groups, word of mouth, you name it, and say, hey, I'm available. Here's my rate.
It's $75 an hour for me to do electric work.

Here's the kind of stuff I do.

I think you'd pick up some business right there and start making six figures.

Because the key here, Matthew, is margin.

Only way to get it is to spend less and or make more. And I suggest you do both with the mountain of debt ahead of you.

But think about this.

If you can throw $3,000 a month, that's $36,000.

This thing's done in three or four years.

Okay, now what if we could do $4,000 a month toward the debt? Well, we're going to shave off some time. So my goal for you would be to figure out what you need to do to get this debt paid off in less than three years.
Yeah. Hey, what were you making in your heyday when you were doing your own business before COVID? I was paying myself with the family.
I was taking home, I think, 120,000 okay here's the thing you're not too far away from that and that's the same guy right like the same Matthew that did that then is the same Matthew that can do that today you're just a little older and truly just a little bit wiser so there's no reason that you can't get you know back into the game COVID was such a random random, probably never, ever going to happen in our lifetime again thing. And I kind of feel like it just knocked you out, but you're down, but you're not out.
You just need to go, you know what? I've done this before. I can do it again.
Well, I'll hope, I guess. I just see my bank like zero in it every month for the last few years.
We're going to change that. Get $1,000 saved.
Get more savings. And I had a bankruptcy years ago when I was younger for medical reasons.
And now when that happened, they garnished stuff. They went into my bank account.
They seized assets. Matthew, you have been through it, man.
But I want to tell you, this is a comma, not a coma. So you can't let it hold you back.
You got to get back up and just do this thing. And that means getting to work.
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Nolan is in Orlando. What's going on, Nolan?

Hello?

Hey.

How can we help?

Hey.

So, I'm 21 years old. Um, I made some bad decisions when I was 18.
I financed the vehicle, a new truck, and I feel like I'm just swallowed in the truck payment. I can't breathe.
Um, I want to be able to rent an apartment and then, you know, get to the buying a house stage. And I feel like I'm running out of time and I have so much debt and not enough money.
I'm living paycheck to paycheck and I just want to live by myself, you know? Yeah, for sure. I listen, I admire that.
I think it's a good thing. Tell us more about this truck that it's got you on a chokehold.
What's the payment? So I have the whole thing pulled up here on my phone. It's $679.83

a month. I financed it September 24th, 2021 for 75 months.
Okay. And I still have 46 payments

remaining. I still owe 30 grand on it and it's worth about 20.
Oh no. Okay.
Shoot. Okay.
So you're paying $679 on it. I imagine the insurance is pretty expensive too.
What's your income right now? My income right now is about six to $700 per week. Okay.
And what is that? What are you doing doing i do like carpentry work and and kind of like odd jobs i do car audio kind of a little bit of everything do you work for someone or is this a solopreneur yeah it's just a solo thing i do just random jobs and i have one guy that kind of i work with um and he kind organizes the outside stuff. But you don't have any rent right? You're living with parents still? I am living with my sister right now and I give her $400 per month for rent.
Okay okay okay. So after everything is said and done do you have any margin? Because I'm thinking okay a thousand dollars going this car, $400 to your sister.
That leaves $1,000 left. You got to eat.
That leaves $700. Am I leaving anything out that's major? The insurance, the phone payment.
I'm completely independent. Okay.
So we kind of talked about this on the other call with George. The equation is simple to understand but not necessarily easy to do, right? The only way to get out of this is you're either going to lower your expenses, or you're going to get your income up, or you're going to do both, right? And your expenses are pretty low.
I mean, other than you getting out of this truck, there's not much better than $400 a month for rent. And for a guy making 30 should not be driving a truck that's worth 30.
You know that now. And so we need to get out of this truck.
The goal is not to try to pay this thing off. The goal is to just get rid of it.
And you need obviously the amount you're upside down on. So we need 10K.
You have a few options there. Either save up the 10K plus enough to get a beater car, or you go down to your local credit union and get a loan for 15K.
You pay off the, you know, you have the difference in the 10. That means you can get rid of the truck and sell it.
Then you have five extra thousand dollars to buy yourself a little beater car to get you around. And for new listeners, we never recommend debt, but this is the only time that we would say, hey, it's better to be in $15,000 of debt than $30,000 of debt.
So this is the only time we'd say, hey, go to the credit union, take out a small personal loan, because ultimately, although it seems like we're getting a loan, we're still lowering the debt substantially. So that's the purpose of that.
The only problem is, is my sister wants to get a house and she's renting this house. And it feels like she's doing it just for me.
So I have a place to live and I feel like I'm holding her back. So, and every time we have the conversation, her and I, she's just like, you're going to have to figure something out because I'm going to be leaving here soon in the next few months.
Listen, that, that sounds like a very real issue and you might be holding her back, which is all the more reason that you've got to get going on there so there's nothing stopping you from getting off this call and going straight down to the credit union there's nothing stopping you from researching your options as soon as you get off this call and then after that you're freeing up a thousand dollars of income what does it cost in your area to rent with a with a roommate it's four hundred dollars per month Okay. Well, there you go.
So it's just you shifting from one roommate to another. Yeah.
And no, and the key here, the glaring thing is your income. I have really bad credit.
Have you been behind on payments? Why is your credit bad? Yes. So I had two credit cards.
When I first turned 18, I got them midnight the night I turned 18. And I put $1,000 on each of them.
And then when tax season came around, I paid one of them off completely. So I just have like $1,000 in other debt and then about $2,000 or $3,000 in hospital bills.
Okay. Do you still have the credit cards or did you cut them up i cut them up but i did recently get two new ones why i'm trying to improve my stuff but i don't know stop clearly we're not good at this game bud okay we gotta cut up the cards and say no and use our own money that's how we're gonna get out of this and this is how we're gonna build wealth will you promise me you will cut those up and never sign up for a credit card again? I promise I'll cut them off.
Because here's what's going to happen. As you pay off the debt, as you get rid of the car loan, your credit score will naturally improve.
And then eventually, it'll disappear. And you'll find out that it was a terrible scoreboard for winning financially, as we now know, at 21, after a series of poor decisions.
But guess what? You're not running out of time. I don't know what it is, but young people out there, Jade, feel like, well, I'm 21 and I screwed it up and now there's not enough time and I need to buy a house and I want to be an adult now, but I made best decisions.
Nolan, you've got so much time on your hands that you wouldn't know what to do with it. The key is you got to start making the most of it.
I think you kind of hit an avalanche. You know, it's like you were going along and all of a sudden all the mistakes kind of compiled on

each other and now you're feeling it. Plus you're feeling the heat from your sister saying you got

to get out, you got to get out. And so I think you are feeling a sense of urgency, but listen,

take it as a blessing because you needed a little fire under your butt to get this thing done. So.

And most people your age are broke. So at least you're not alone in that.
But the key,

the glaring issue, Nolan, is your income. You've got to be making more than $600 a month.
I mean, if you went and made $15 an hour, you'd give yourself a raise right now, just working a retail job. So either we have to figure out how to scale this business and double or triple our income within the next six months, or we've got to go work for someone else.
Yeah, how many hours a week are you working doing these odd jobs? Or about 40, maybe 50 hours per week. And that earns me about, I think it's about 3,600 per month.
It's 600 per week. So what that tells me that's 2,400 bucks a month.
Yeah. And what that tells me is something's got to move because if you're maxed out on time, if you're telling me you're working between 40 and 60 hours and I mean, you're only one human being, you can only do so much.
So that tells me that what you're doing is not bringing in the right amount of money. So you might need to change what you're doing, or you don't have the right price set, and you're not charging enough.
So start playing with those numbers, because you're one person, you got you got the same amount of hours as everybody else. So let's make it happen.
Absolutely. Thank you, guys.
You got I'm going to send you a copy of my book Breaking Free from Broke, Nolan. It walks through all the things we talked about.
There's a whole loans on a whole chapter on car loans, a whole chapter on credit cards. Please read it.
And I hope it gives you a terrible taste in your mouth to where you go. I'm not doing this.
And then I'll show you a better way in the book. I'll show you how to get margin.
That's the margin is breathing room chapter. So I hope that gives you some hope that you're not running out of time, but time is of the essence.

And at 21, you can rebuild. Dave Ramsey filed for bankruptcy when he was way older than you

and he rebuilt. And so the key is we don't want to make the same dumb mistakes over again.

Making it one time, you'll get a pass on that. You make it two.

Uh-oh.

Then they call you a fool.

Yes, that's right. Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me. Shame on me.
There it is. Ooh! And parents, hey, stop telling your kids to get a credit card as soon as they turn 18.
Stop. Stop it.
It's not helping them. Nolan's future is stunted because of this move.
My 18th birthday, I'm going to get my first credit card. Midnight on the 18th birthday.
Got to get that cash back. Let me get some airline miles.
Let me get my credit score up. And here we are at 21 trying to rebuild.
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Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell, joined by Jade Warshaw.
Jade, we were talking during the break about something that we've been seeing, a scary trend that's been happening for 30 years now, but it's only getting worse with time. And that is the idea that the credit score is the scoreboard that you need to win financially, and it's ingrained in us at a young age.
I mean, to the point that that last caller on his 18th birthday at midnight, it's like, I got to get my first credit card. And I don't blame him for that.
That's culture telling us. They're saying it's a necessary rite of passage to becoming an adult.
Yes, to the point. To get your first credit card out of 17.
Yeah, George, we had a caller call in last week. I think I was on with you.
Maybe it was Ken, but she was so sweet, you know, and she just was like, hey, I'm just calling. I want to know what's the best credit card I should sign my son up for.
He's going to be 18 years old. And so, of course, you know, I told her the information around credit scores and how really it's just your interaction with debt, how much debt you have, how long you've had it, the different types of debt you've had, what percentage of your debt that you're actually using to what's available.
And that's how they measure your credit score. And so as we do, we pulled that clip and posted it on social media.
And the responses were wild to me because it just shows society has done a really good job of just masking the idea that you can be free and just completely taking up all the space saying, you must have a credit card. Because in the comments, if I can just read.
Can I guess what they were? I'm guessing it's like these people who you would think are paid by the credit bureaus and credit card companies to defend them. Yeah.
I love this one. It says, hey, this is an idyllic response.
This is not a real world response. And in my head, I'm thinking, I have nothing to gain.
I'm not taking your interest. I'm just some girl on a radio, on a podcast trying to help you out.
We're not getting paid by the debit card companies to take down big credit. Right.
Okay. Then this one, it says, Jade, it is necessary.

You're coming from a place of privilege.

Oh, that one, that one must have stung in a weird way.

It did because I'm like, what's the privilege?

I started with $30,000 and $460,000 of debt.

Such privilege.

I don't know.

So then this one says, Jade, it is required. The word that i kept seeing over and over is it's required and i was like man the brainwashing it has worked it's taken well that's why i devoted a whole chapter of my book breaking free from broke just to credit scores because i had to help people understand the very first thing before we talk about any other debt is credit scores and it's the only three-digit number that amer Americans obsess over as much as their weight.
It's crazy. And when you look into it, I walk through like, here's what the credit score is actually made up of.
Payment history, amounts owed, length of credit history, new credit, and the mix of credit, your potpourri of debt, if you will. So you have to be in repayment your entire life.
You have to play their game perfectly and keep your debt, keep it a long time, keep going into debt, have a nice mix of debt, make your payments perfectly, and we'll give you this blessing of a score, which does what? Helps you get more debt. But do you see what George is saying? In order to satisfy those requirements, we have to be in a repayment mode our entire life.
That's seriously jacked. And it's crazy because that has nothing to do with how well you're doing financially.
You can have an 800 credit score and you might not have 800 bucks in the bank. Right.
And as we've seen from, I mean, callers call in, I have a great credit score, but I'm in crippling debt, living paycheck to paycheck. The bank doesn't give a rip about you.
They don't. And people think, wow, what a blessing it is to have Capital One offer me more credit on this line of credit or offer me a higher credit score if I do XYZ.
Yeah, they could give a rip about your freedom. I get the intent behind it.
Parents are going, well, I want my kid to be able to buy a car. Jade, what do I do? Maybe avoid buying a car that is way too much for an 18-year-old to have and just pay cash.
And the truth is, if you are already in a car, which most in a car payment, which most of us were or most of the listeners probably are, I started in two car payments and we said, OK, now that we know that credit's not really helping us, it's not a crutch. Let's sell off one of these vehicles, which we did.
And then we paid off the other one over time. It took like two or three years to pay the car off.
Then we had no car payments and we had one car. And then we said, okay, the next time what we're going to do is we're going to save up a little bit extra.
We're going to put it with the trade in and we're going to buy our next car in cash. That's how you get out of it.
And then from then on, you just buy your cars in cash. Every time you trade in, you add a little bit to it and that's how you trade up.
So there's that. What about renting, George? Because that seems to be the other.
Oh, this is a big one I dug into. I did a whole video where I called, I contacted the rental car companies.
I looked at all the fine print. Every single major rental car company has a debit card policy.
Yeah. Meaning there is a way to rent with a debit card.
Here's the stipulations. And usually it's a higher deposit.
Sure. And so you just plan for it.
You pay for the rental in full and plus the deposit. And so it's really not that big a deal.
And there's so many alternatives around it. But people always in their head say, but what if? And no, my friend said one time, that's the worst.
Right. So it's just this idea that we're depending on what somebody else said.
But for some reason, they don't care about what we said. And then renting an apartment is a big one.
Okay, renting an apartment. an apartment well little jimmy he needs a credit score to rent an apartment i've rented multiple apartments even houses with landlords without a credit score again i called these people i called apartments across the country i called landlords they said well are you employed i said yeah uh do you have a criminal background no i'll pass the background check i said but i don't have a credit score they said okay fine.
We'll just need an extra, extra money for the deposit. And a lot of times they just want to see other trade lines.
If you can show, I pay my utility, here's the record. I pay my phone bill, here's the record.
I just don't borrow money. I think that makes you look more responsible.
Very similar process for how I got a house without a credit score. Yeah.
Talk about that. I didn't pay cash.
I got a mortgage without a credit score. So did I, by the way.
And people go, well, no, no lender will do that. And we're like, have you not heard of Churchill Mortgage? They've been partnering with Dave for 30 years now and they specialize in these loans.
And all it is, it's a real person looking at a real financial situation instead of being lazy, letting the computer automate it based on your credit score. Yeah.
And they go, okay, well, have you paid bills on time? Yes. Do you have consistent income? Yes.
Yeah. Okay.
Here's a mortgage. And let the record show because a lot of people think, oh, well, it's easy for you guys.
You work for Ramsey. Of course you can get it done.
I had a zero score before I was even a thought to come work here. And I bought a house with a zero credit score before it was even a thought to come work here.
So don't try to let that be the, we just want, what we want is for you guys to open your mind and accept that there is a way that doesn't require you being in bondage it doesn't require you being manipulated by debt and i get it sometimes isn't it weird how and i know i'm crossing a little bit of a line here but sometimes when you've been abused for a while you start to protect the abuser and i feel like in, we've been abused by debt and credit. And like in America, like debt is this drug and we've just abused it.
And now we're starting to defend it. No, not my credit score.
I need that. Don't take that away.
I'm like, guys, let's take a breather here. And they think there's like a thousand loopholes.
Like my life is 10 times harder every day because I don't have a credit score. It's really does not affect my day-to-day life.
And people say, well, Jade, I need a credit score for my job. The application requires it.
They're checking your credit score to see if you've been delinquent, you've had bankruptcies. That's right.
If you have no score, it's not going to affect your job. People try to use that one on me all the time.
And that's a good point. That's a very clear delineation we want to make.
A zero credit score is not a bad credit score. A zero credit score simply means I have no dealings with debt.
And if I did in the past, I paid it all off. And once you pay it off, it takes about six months to a year for it to roll to zero.
Indeterminable. That's a great point.
People contact me and say, hey, I heard you talk about the no score loan on the mortgage. I want to do that.
And I say, well, do you have a score? They say, yeah, it's bad. That's why I want to do this.
I go, no, this has to be a no score loan, not a low score. So big difference there.
And again, we don't care about the score, but we don't want you to have a bad score. That means you're missing payments.
You've been delinquent. That can hurt you financially.
That can hurt your ability to rent or buy a house. And so we want you to have no score, which means you got to get rid of the debt.
And it's amazing what happened, Jade, when I dropped this scoreboard of having the credit score back in 2013, I paid off my debt. And like Dave said, it'll disappear eventually.
It does. It did.
And then I realized, oh, I can just like use my own money. People think, well, George, you just need to be a credit card person.
You just need to be disciplined. And I go, well, why don't you just be disciplined enough to use your own money and only buy things when you have the cash? And they go, well, you're missing out on the rewards.
I go, I've done the math, bro. I got to spend a hundred grand to get two grand back.
You got to spend a lot to get that. Yes.
That is insane. And so I guarantee you, I can show you how to save two grand with your everyday spending, using your own money, create your own reward system, and stop helping Capital One sponsor the next Taylor Swift tour.
Love that. And build big buildings downtown while you can't afford your groceries.
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tammy's up next in nashville tennessee just down the road what's going on tammy okay hey

hello hey can we help what's going on yeah so i have a question um my husband and i have been

following the dave ramsey plan for many years and we're now getting within 10 to 12 years of retirement. We currently have $2 million in our retirement funds.
Awesome. And that's if we were to add no more to it, which is not our plan, we estimate that we would have about $8,000 when we retired.

But my husband and I are in a debate.

He is five years older than I am, so he's going to retire at 65, and he feels that I need to keep working until I also reach 65 so that I would have health insurance. And I agree that I need health insurance, but when I'm looking at the amount of money that we would have in retirement, I'm saying, why couldn't we just pay that so that we could both retire and go live like no one lives, right? Like that's the goal.
Yeah, you can get health insurance outside of an employer. I mean, you can just go marketplace.
And with the ACA plans, it's not as astronomical as I feel like it used to be. Very few people are, especially if you guys aren't, you're not going to have kids on the plan.
It'll likely just be you.

Is he going to be on Medicare?

Correct.

That's what, or he would be on my plan

until then I resigned

and then we would both go on Medicare together.

It just depends on what the math

and the insurance looks like at that time.

Sure.

Well, that's some easy homework to do.

I mean, you can go figure out

what health insurance would cost

outside of an employer and go, okay, we need to budget an extra $600 a month for health insurance. Okay.
That's exactly what I said. Oh, so Tammy wants to play this call to go, see, you're wrong.
I called a random. Well, actually, no, because I mean, I'm happy that I'm right, but I don't want to make a bad financial choice given how hard we've worked to get where we're at today.
Absolutely. And that's where the wisdom comes in.
We're going to do our homework and make sure we know exactly what it's going to cost to make this move when we make it. And did I hear you say right now you have $2 million and you're going to retire in 10 years where that's the plan? Yes, ma'am.
Yeah, I mean, the thing, and you said that that would be $8,000 a month. Is that what I heard you say? When you said that'll give us $8,000 or $8 million.
No, $8 million. $8 million, okay.
We estimate that our retirement fund between now and when we retire, like if he were, he's 54, so if he were to retire in six years, we're estimating that it should be around eight million i got it okay i just misheard you i was trying to clarify that yeah okay yeah and that's we believe that's if we didn't add anything to it but we can we're going to continue to max it out um good and then we should have our house paid in often two years and then we will just be banking all of that money. Just max out all of your retirement options.
Right, exactly. And I just feel like we're going to have cash on hand in the bank.
We won't even have to touch our retirement when we both retire. We can live off of the cash.
So I just wanted to make sure that I was thinking properly that we could go to the market. And if the market's saying X dollars, then let's just put that back now and plan for that.
Just plan for it in your monthly budget. If you know it's going to be an extra thousand, well, then we need 9,000 a month instead of eight.
And you're going to be fine. Yeah, with 4 million.
$8 million. I mean, this is going to be chump change in your world.

Well, that's what I thought, but I just wanted to get somebody else's opinion.

And do you all have any resources?

I kind of feel like we followed the plan, but I kind of feel like once you get to like step seven, it kind of falls off.

And maybe I just haven't followed up enough, but like for retirement or you're getting close to the retirement years what should you do now if I were you if I were you I'd get with a smart vester pro because they're going to be able to look at your situation as it is and they're going to help you work with your goals to create the situation as you want it to be for when you retire and so you can hop on ramsey solutions.com slash smartvester. Yeah, it'll take you right there.
Yeah, it'll take you right there. And then we do have an investing hub as well.
If you go to ramsaysolutions.com slash investing, we've got a lot of resources and calculators and tools to help you figure that out. The problem is, Tammy, telling someone this is how it has to be in retirement would be a crazy thing to do because everyone's situation is so different.
The plan stays the same for here's how to get out of debt. We've had 10 million people do it.
When it comes to retirement, well, do you have money? Do you have debt? That largely will dictate what your life's going to look like and what your goals are for retirement. If you want to spend 10 grand a month on travel, your retirement plan needs to look different than someone who's going to be mega frugal.
Or if you want to retire before 59 and a half, and you want to make sure that there's money available to you without penalty. But the fact that you guys already have $2 million, and you still have another decade of work ahead of you and investing and maxing out, you're not the ones we're worried about.
Let's put it that way. That's right.
Right. But we followed your plan, so that's how we got to where we're at.
It works. It's a very simple formula, Tammy.
You get a paid-for house and you have a big nest egg, your life's going to be okay. You've got plenty of margin.
You're going to outlast your retirement. You're going to be able to leave an inheritance to your children's children.
You guys are a great example of that. So way to go, and I'm happy that you're right.
There it is. I'd rather be right with Tammy.
I know. I don't want to be on the business end of Tammy.
Nick is in Fairbanks, Alaska up next. What's going on, Nick? Hey, so I just moved to Fairbanks.
I'm looking at buying a cabin right next to work with no running water for around 65K. Who hurt you, Nick? I can do...
What happened in your life that you went you went full hatchet you were like all right this is it no running water um i got my plant fitness membership i'm taking my showers i got showers at work too so i mean i'm still maintaining that hygiene but we believe you we believe you but why is this the option? Are there no options with running water? I mean, like, there are, but this cabin is 13 minutes from work, and otherwise I could get a more traditional home with a mortgage, but I'm looking at 30 to 45-minute drives to work. We're approaching winter.
The roads are terrible, and I just can't wrap my head around a 13-minute drive to work. Are you like a handy guy? Like, is this right up your alley to take this cabin and turn it into what it needs to be? It's going to be a learning curve for me.
It's going to be 10K and renovations. You're telling me there's nowhere to live within a 40-minute radius of your employment? Correct, yeah.
Where do you work? I'm a geologist, so I kind of work a little bit in remote areas, and mining is a big thing around here. What needs to happen to the cabin straightaway for you to be able to live in it and, like, go through the winter? Honestly, the cabin is livable right now if you throw in a wood stove.
But you don't have any water. No, but, I mean, like, you get one of those five-gallon Gatorade jugs and, you know, you're good.
You have electric, so I'm still cooking. Dude, even Bear Grylls is like, I'm getting running water, dude.
I'm not living this land of life. I mean, I just feel like in today's world, I don't know why you would choose that level of suffering when you don't have to.
What will it cost? What will it cost to add plumbing and running water? Because is there no plumbing or is it just that the plumbing's not working? Tell us more. No plumbing.
So not designed for it. If anything, no, I'm not going to drill a well.
If anything, you would give us this term. Can I just ask like a logistics question? Like bathroom facilities? Yeah.
Outhouse. All right.
If this was like your, your weekend getawayaway i would be like hey dude all for it do

this in cash this is awesome what a cool little thing but for your normal everyday life how old are you i'm 26 okay what are your like further life goals beyond the cabin what do you want to do in five years, 10 years? Honestly, I want to stay in Alaska, do all of the Alaskan outdoor adventures that we all see on the Discovery Channel. And honestly, I think this cabin can turn into an Airbnb at some point when I'm ready to buy a more traditional home.
With no running water, you think I'm paying money to stay there? Alaskan tourism is a really, really big market. Okay, here's the deal.
I don't want you to mix your general life every day with a cool investing opportunity. That's when we start to make poor decisions and justify them.
I would look into any opportunity to live somewhere with running water, even if that means a 30-minute commute. That's me personally.
I cannot in good faith tell you to go through with this purchase. I think the Airbnb market wants bathrooms, even if you are going to Alaska.
It's like, I want to go out in the wilderness by day, but at night I want to take a hot shower and use the facilities. But if I'm paying money for a place, I'd prefer a toilet.
You're not going to have a girlfriend without a toilet, I can tell you that. Well, that's a weird way to end, but that's it.
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Doug is going to kick us off this hour in Kansas City. What's going on, Doug? How can we help you today? Well, thanks for taking my call, number one.
I really appreciate the time. Sure.
I need to know if it would be in my best interest for the IRS to attach a lien onto my 401k. I feel like best interest is a very generous term there.
Why would you even suggest this as a matter? Okay. A lot of stuff to unpack.
I'll try to be concise. Okay.
My partner developed brain cancer several years ago, got on social security disability, cashed his checks, gave it to me. I deposited to my bank.
Okay. He passed away after six years of this.
Oh, sorry. And the IRS went back and said, since he was not on my account, that that was

considered income. So.
Because you took the social security checks? Yes. Got it.
Okay.

They said it was considered as rental income. And now it threw me into a different tax bracket,

into the 28% tax bracket at the time. Okay.
With penalties and interest, it came to $71,854. Have you verified that that's correct? Or is that just what the IRS is saying? No, I had an attorney work on it for, this has been in the works for four years now.

OK, keep going.

I got hit with this in 2020, two months after my partner passed away.

I'm so sorry.

And thank you.

It's been kind of.

But anyway, I am so very blessed in many other ways that this is just kind of a little murphy moved in several

years ago and now we're getting ready to kick him out okay um so the irs wanted to i'm paying them eleven hundred dollars a month to get this get paid that leaves me with two hundred and fourteen dollars a month breathing room. What's your full income? I make $72,500 a year.
Okay. And what of that do you bring home just so we don't have to figure the taxes? $3,937.
Okay. Thank you.
Keep going. So they're taking over 25% of your income.
Yes. Essentially garnishing your wages.

Correct. Okay.
So I called the IRS the other day and said, this just is not working. The company that I work for is absolutely one of the best companies in the world.
When I started there, I just put all my money into the company stocks, which I know you're not supposed to do. And the average I paid per stock was $71.22.
The stocks are now $900.

Wow. So you've got a lot over there.
How much?

Is this tied up in a retirement account or is this just in a... Yes, it is.
It's in a 401k. Just in the company stock portion, I have 1.4 million wow wow just single stocks just single stock and then i have in in the other diversified amounts i have a little over 610 000 so it basically it's 2000 or 2 million 86 000 into my 401k but it's all locked into the 401k which means if you were to access the single stock, you would be penalized.
Okay. If I'm, okay, I'm 57 and at 59 and a half, would I be able to sell some of those stocks to pay my house off? And now I wouldn't be charged capital gains though it would just be my regular that's

a traditional 401k you have yes that would be as ordinary income not capital gains okay and I would be okay because at that point and I'm actually almost 58 20 a year and a half if everything goes, right, my 401k, I'm averaging over the lifetime of my 401k 12.8%. So 12% of the $2 million would be a little over $200,000.
So I'm not really losing anything from this point on if I cash out $100,000 to pay my house off and to finish paying off the IRS. I would definitely I would definitely do the IRS thing 100 percent.
If you didn't pull for your house without the IRS garnishing your wages how quickly could you pay off your home? Well with this $1,100 breathing room I've got $62,000 left to pay on it. Awesome.
And it's worth about $340 right now. Nice.
What if you do what Jade said? You waited until $59.50. You made your payments to the IRS.
Then at $59.50, we cash out the stocks as much as we need to to pay off the rest of the IRS debt. Let's continue working and use future income and margin to pay the house off.
Then we

can look at what retirement looks like. Okay.
You're probably in your early 60s at that point, and you didn't touch the nest egg to pay off the house. Well, I don't live an extravagant lifestyle, so even the money that's in there, I will never go through, much less the compounded interest.
so I'm setting up

I've set up a charity

and then I'm going to

move money from my 401k to the charity so I can send, you know, underprivileged students to school and give them all the grants and stuff like that. So, um, so I just, I just didn't know if it was a smart move.
If I, I'm just freaking out because I don't want to owe anybody money, and I'm going to have this $40,000 looming over. And if your attorney said, hey, this is legit, you have to pay this, then there's no way around it.
Let's just attack it with all the intensity we can. But I wouldn't have them put a lien on your 401k.
I wouldn't do a 401k withdrawal. I wouldn't do a 401k loan.
No, I would not. I would simply just make the payments on time.
And then when you can get more money from that 401k without penalty, I would just knock it out. And if you can find a way to bring in a little extra income for the next year and a half, just so you have some breathing room, I think it'd be worth it to do that.
And to George's point, not touch this until retirement. Okay.
Thanks so much for the call, Doug. That's a tough one.
Can you imagine getting hit with the IRS bill that much? Like out of the blue, you don't even see it coming. And just so everyone knows that's listening and watching out there, when you have IRS debt, back taxes, whatever it is, that goes to the very tippity top of your debt snowball.
And the reason is they can destroy your life. Well, clearly, because even his payment, the payment that they negotiated together was still over, like you said, over 25% of his take-home pay.
And that, on top of all your other bills, that makes things very tight. So it's not a place you want to be.
Yeah, and there's no way around it. There's no like, you're not going to negotiate.
Like what you owe is what you owe. You got to pay it.
And it stinks. And it's one reason you got to work with a tax pro.
A lot of people wait until it's too late or they run a small business and go, oh, I didn't know I had to pay tax. You just thought a small business just gets to avoid paying taxes.
But there is part of that, though, that just because you get a bill from the IRS, you do need to do your due diligence because they don't always get the math right.

Yeah, and a lot of scams out there

we're finding. Yeah, that's true.
People claim to be

the IRS and they scare you with fear to

go, hey, you owe us this money. And the IRS

goes, no, that was a scam.

You just gave money to a scammer and you'll never

get it back. Yeah, they almost, I don't think they

ever will call you. Almost every contact

I believe is through the mail.

And I always go, alright, let me call the IRS myself with the number on their website. Call them because you can even spoof numbers now.
It looks like it's coming from a legit number or a legit email. But if you send an email out or you call that number, it's the legitimate institution.
I Google them. If I get something like I got something from Ally Bank and I thought it was a scam, I just Google it and it'll tell you if it's a scam or not.
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All right, Jade, we've got a Ramsey Network app question here. And if you didn't know, when you download the Ramsey Network app, yes, you can consume all the Ramsey content for free, get exclusive stuff.
But there's also a spot to submit questions. I love that.
And occasionally we'll take those on air. This one comes in from Chris.
All right. He says, my wife and I are planning to sell our condo in Wyoming and purchase a house in Indiana.
My wife is a stay-at-home mom and I earn $110,000 per year. We have $90,000 saved and expect to profit a minimum of $175,000 on the sale of our condo.
Our only debt is a car payment of $600 and a balance of $30,000. Should we use all of the equity in our house and savings for the down payment on our new home? Just about, let's see, you've got $90,000 saved.
Yeah, I mean, once you pay off the house, you've got the $90,000, that would make up three to six months of expenses and then some. So now we've knocked out baby step two and baby step three.
And then after that, you start investing. And so, yeah, if you wanted to put all of this really on the new home, you could, as long as you keep out three to six months of expenses.
Yeah. If you walk it through those baby steps, I mean, they're going to have $265,000 in savings once they sell.
So if you take that and you go, all right, we need a thousand dollars saved. Got that.
Next up, let's knock out the $30,000 of car debt. Knock that out.
Now we're down to 235. Now we need three to six months of expenses.
Let's call that 35. We're going to put the rest of the 200 onto the new house as a down payment.
Love that. That's exactly what I would do.
Simple. Sometimes the simplest answer is the right one, but we want to overcomplicate it.
We go, well, I don't know if I want to put it all in the home and I want to just knock out the mortgage. There's something about having money in your hand.
You're like, maybe I should just keep it here in my hands. Yes.
Or I could invest it and make more or you could not owe anyone anything. I love that.
How's that? That's a good good plan, too. All right, let's get to the phone lines.
Nathan is in Kansas City. What's going on, Nathan? Hi, how are you guys? Doing well.
How can we help today? So I just had a question. It's more of a relationship question.
About a week ago, my girlfriend gave me an ultimatum on which candidate I should vote for in the upcoming presidential election. When you say ultimatum, it's like, vote for this person or I'm breaking up with you.
That's indirectly what she said. Can we know who she wants you to vote for?

Yeah, I mean, I don't... Just for the team?

Yeah, sure, that's fine.

So she wants me to vote for Kamala Harris.

Okay.

Somehow I knew that.

I don't know why.

I don't know.

Somehow I just knew that.

Okay.

And you're like, no, I don't want to.

Was it like a friendly discussion about politics

when it started? Or has this been a recurring thing? Did she get fired up about political issues? As I found out the other night, yes, very much so. So you discovered a new value of hers that is not a value of yours.
Are you politically charged as well on the other side? Or are you just like, no, it's not my thing? No, it really my thing like i don't i don't care who you vote for like i'll go have a sandwich with you afterwards you know okay yeah but she kind of cornered you and said hey wait who are you voting for well so here's the situation we've been i'll try to um keep it as brief as i can we've been together almost three years years. We actually leave for Mexico in less than two weeks.
Maybe. Yeah, where I plan to propose.
Oh, man. And then so how it came up was, is we're gonna be turning in absentee ballots.
And she just asked me, hey, who'd you put on your ballot for the political party and you know i was vague with my reasonings why because you had a sense you had a feeling that she was going to be pretty strong um i otherwise why would you hide it well i don't i don't i don't feel like i was i don't think that i was But I mean, I'm just saying, like, if if you didn't think it was going to be anything, you probably would have been more forthcoming. But something you know her well enough to know that you could probably guess maybe who.
Because I'm just thinking when we vote, it's generally a reflection of something we value and whatever that value is. We've probably displayed it to people in our lives i would i mean the people closest to us so prior to this i could have guessed that um well actually i she had expressed that she was um interested in the i think it was the independent candidate uh what was his name robert f kennedy uh-huh um yes um and that's who she was interested in okay i mean i don't i don't know if i if i failed by not having a discussion about uh politics early in the relationship i just i didn't think that was i thought that always was something you could agree to disagree on a lot of people do that's the thing it's not a like you have to agree on politics or else, but if she is this intense about it, then this is a red flag that

they're- could agree to disagree on. A lot of people do.
That's the thing. It's not a like you have to agree on politics or else.
But if she is this intense about it, then this is a red flag that this could be a rift later on in the relationship. And I definitely drill it down because it might be a single like I drill down and say, OK, what is it that what is the single issue? Is it a single issue? Is it a more than one issue? What's the single issue that you really feel that we're divided on? Because it might not be, do you know what I'm saying? Because I think right now you're thinking of it as like this candidate versus that candidate, but it might be something that she's like, I just, you know, I grew up poor.
And the fact that these, you know, it could be something that's linked to who she is. And that if you guys speak about it in a direct sense as opposed to um like the the candidates right like try to talk about it and keep the candidates out of it and say okay what is it that you're hoping for and i'll tell you what i'm hoping and you might find that you have more in common than you have not in common okay and you might be able to find that common ground i'm not saying that you're gonna 100% agree but you might at least be able to find some common ground because the truth is like a lot of the issues are very very polarizing and they do require a deep conversation in order to find common ground that is the truth so i would get to the bottom of this and i would avoid the headlines and what's happening in the media because what's really happened jade is they've weaponized it all and it's if you vote for them you want democracy to die and if you vote for that person then it's all going down and i just that none of that is going to happen and so i think i don't know her level of emotion around it but i think getting to the bottom of it and then figuring out okay are you going to be able to respect my autonomy in this relationship to vote as I see fit? And if not, if you don't respect that boundary, then this relationship may not work in the long term because there's going to be another election.
Well, and to be fair, like to be fair, she's allowed to have very strong convictions and so are you. And if you guys find, hey, we're not aligned, that's OK.
Like it can just be like, you know what? I hate that it got to this point and we realize we're 100% not aligned on some things that

are really, really important. Because the truth, me just being Jade right now, Sam, my husband, Sam and I, we're aligned and I can't imagine not being aligned.
Yeah. I mean, we say that politics, religion, family, those are some of the key things that you tend to have to be aligned on.
Now, people can make it work when they're not aligned. We have people who have mixed religions and mixed politics.
They can, but I don't know. I can't speak to how easy or difficult it is.
Yeah, there's going to be more difficulty, and you guys have to be both healthy people. And if one person is unhealthy, there's not going to be a future ahead.
So you're going to have to have some tough conversations, but I would not move forward with this relationship and propose until we get to the bottom of this. If it's true, the ultimatum, you vote for anyone else, it's over.
Then I think we need to figure out what's next. Religion, politics, money, how you raise the kids.
Do you want kids? Yeah. Have you had these conversations, Nathan? So we've had the conversation of the four things I think you talk about before getting ready for an engagement or marriage, right? It's the how many kids you want to raise.
It's the in-laws. Well, this is the next one, man.
It's not going to be fun, and I hope it works out. I hope this is not the line in the sand she draws, but that's a weird one.
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I'm George Campbell joined by Jade Warshaw. Phone number to call is 888-825-5225.
But in the meantime, on the debt-free stage, we've got some special guests.

Eugene and Jennifer are with us.

Hey, guys.

Hey.

How's it go?

I'm guessing by your debt-as-normal-be-weird shirt and your debt-free sweatshirt, you guys are debt-free.

Absolutely.

Yeah.

Where are you from?

We're from Warminster, Pennsylvania.

It's about 20 miles north of Philadelphia.

Okay.

Thanks for joining us to celebrate your debt-free scream.

Tell us how much you paid off.

We paid off $173,000.

Let's go.

How long did that take?

48 months, four years.

Wow.

And what was your range of income during that time?

$125,000 to $185,000.

Nice.

Wonderful.

What do you guys do for work?

I'm a project manager at the local utility company in Philadelphia,

and I also did

some side hustles, grocery delivery for Walmart and Amazon Flex. Wow.
Not scared of work. I love it.
So what happened? What happened four years ago that you guys just said, that's it, we're going after it? Yeah, well, I guess it started when our fourth was born, Carolyn. I was kind of in a midlife crisis trying to look for ways to get more money.
I was looking into investing people. I even went and bought, I spent $200 on something to try to invest in sectors, but that didn't really go so well.

You're looking for a quick, a get-rich-quick scheme.

Oh my.

A get-rich-quick scheme.

Jennifer is shaking your head.

Yes, he was very desperate.

And Jennifer, what were you thinking during this time?

Was money stressful for you four years ago, or was he taking this on sort of solo?

Yeah, he was solo.

Oh my goodness.

You're like, I'll let you do this on your own.

Yes.

Wow.

Okay, so you decided to make a change. What kind debt was this 173 it was her house what okay plot twist so kid number four rolls along you get desperate to get some get rich quick scheme and then you find dave somehow what happened yeah so um you could probably tell the story better than me, but she usually watches God People Stories.

It's a podcast.

Billy Graham podcast.

Yeah, and she showed me Dave Ramsey was on there.

I'm like, who is this guy?

I did run into some of his YouTube videos,

but I'm like thinking, oh, he's too normal.

He's telling you to invest in retirement.

I'm already doing that.

He's like, get rich slow.

I need someone faster, Dave.

Come on.

Exactly.

And it's like, that's not sophisticated enough.

So I started looking into these.

that bots are going to be I mean, I'm already doing that. He's like, get rich slow.
I need someone faster, Dave. Come on.
Exactly. And it's like, that's not sophisticated enough.
So I started looking into these. I bought some investing books.
And as I mentioned, I spent $200 on trying to invest in sectors. And I actually opened a brokerage account and put $40,000 in it.
But in three months, I ended up losing $2,600. and it wasn't fun.
Yeah. Wow.
So was all 173 the house? Yeah it was it was the house. So I guess yeah when when we started I like there were there were a couple things that led us to actually doing this.
We ran into some people at church that were doing Financial Peace University. They were starting up a class.
So I guess right before COVID, that's when we went over to their house. We watched probably three lessons.
And then after that, of course, the pandemic hit. But then me and my wife were fired up.
And we got to do this. We got to buy the Ramsey Plus membership.
So we went in, binge watched probably like, you know, the remaining like nine lessons to get kicked up, kickstarted. And that's kind of when we were started being on the same page.
And I'm like, you know, our only debt left was the house. We had, luckily we had no consumer debt.
You know, ever since I started my job, I was consistently investing 10% into retirement. So I'm like, I'm glad we got that going for us.
But we weren't organized. We weren't doing a budget.
It was just, you know, we made a lump sum payment for the credit card at the end of the month. And, you know, paid for the previous months, this month, it was just a mess.
And you're like, we should be doing better. Like, if we got on a budget, we could find more money and get this house paid off.
Yeah. So what was the tactical piece of this? Did you guys just go, all right, we're doing the budget.
How much can we throw with the mortgage every month? Yeah. For the most part, I'm like, I just got me thinking, I, you know, I could, I'm going to set a goal for myself.
I'm going to pay this off before I turn 40. I think I was, you know, 36 at the time when we refinanced our mortgage and then, And yeah, just kind of ran it through an amortization schedule.

Yeah. I think I was 36 at the time when we refinanced our mortgage.
And then, yeah, just kind of ran it through an amortization schedule. And then figured out if we put $400 extra a month for a side hustle, then we can pay this off.
When you see it like that, it really changes things. And for you guys, you did this in four years, which is fairly quickly.
Explain what that felt like. Because we always say, the first few baby steps, you're going through with intensity you're going fast fast fast and then baby step six it's more intentional and so you guys were kind of right in the middle of that so what was the hardest sacrifice or was there a sacrifice he pretended it was a baby one two or three really he just stayed intense he stayed intense yeah and you were fine with that you were like all right i'll go along i wasn't initially how did this affect the the family the kids they even know what was going on no we we stopped eating out all the time we really got on a budget and they didn't like form a mutiny against you guys like what happened okay they're too little to know or care.
They just go, okay, chicken nuggets for dinner,

whether it's from Chick-fil-A or the oven, who cares?

Yes, exactly.

That's it.

That's simple.

Wow.

He wouldn't have paid off before his 40th birthday,

and today is his birthday.

No way!

Congratulations and happy birthday.

Thank you.

So what's it feel like?

You have no payments.

Have you had that first cycle of where the month comes and there's no payment?

This is the first month really that it's kind of hit us. Oh, wow.
It's that fresh. And it just stays in your bank? What do you do with this money now? Hopefully you're not going to do sector trading anymore.
This trip was our first- This was it. You traded a mortgage payment for a little vacation to Nashville.
Yeah. Wow.
Can I ask, what was the mortgage payment? It was, I'm trying to think, it was $1,600. And then, you know, with all the taxes, it was like two grand.
Wow. $1,600.
Wow. Back into your pocket.
And then you're like, hey, can we throw an extra thousand, 2000? Like, what was the biggest payment you made at once? I get my bonus every year. So probably about like 10,000.
Awesome. seeing that that principle go down and seeing less interest go to the lender making them more rich like it is an incredible feeling that will carry you to the end yeah so proud of you guys absolutely what's next what's the next big goal what's the next big celebration I think we we want to get a bigger house just because we've been living in the same house for 15 years, our starter house.
So now, you know, with four kids and everything and a teenager, it's time to move up. And now we can do this, you know, within the Ramsey guidelines, get a 15-year fixed rate that's no more than a quarter of your take-home pay.
And my guess, with your nerdery, this thing's getting paid off fast. Instantly.
You'll be back for a second debt-free screen four years from now. That's what I'm i'm thinking way to go what do you tell people the key to getting out of debt is i think uh yeah consistency and you know just for me and jen it was just our why like why are we doing this it wasn't until we watched financial peace together where we were like united into you know getting this done you know even though she's a she's a homeschool she had four, you know, with the four kids, but just being on the front, having her as the support while I'm doing this was just instrumental.
And, you know, being able to give to, you know, ministries, not being, you know, restricted by payments from the bank, obviously, being able to free to do, you know then following God's will. Yeah.
You just have more options now. You get to do what you want.
No one's telling you where that payment's got to go. Absolutely.
Oh, that's incredible. How much is the house worth? It's about 500,000.
I just looked. Whoa.
And what's in your retirement accounts, everything? I just looked before this. About $700,000 in retirement.

You know what that means.

Baby steps millionaires right in front of our eyes being weird.

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Thanks for joining us. Thank you.
You ready? Are we bringing the kids up or what? Yes. All right.
Bring them up quick. Names and ages.
Melanie's 13, Eugene's 12, Carolyn's 5, and Rosie's 9. I love it.
All the way from the Philadelphia area to do a debt-free scream. You guys ready to scream? Yes.
Okay, here we go. It's Eugene and Jennifer, Melanie, Rosie, another Eugene, and Carolyn.

$173,000 paid off, housing everything in four years, making $125,000 to $185,000 with the

side hustles on his 40th birthday.

Count it down.

Let's hear a debt-free scream.

Three, two, one.

We're debt-free!

Woo!

Woo!

Woo!

Woo!

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Woo!

Woo! We got a little Eugene as the champion shirt on, and I think that's what they are today. They're champions.
They happened to their life. They didn't just wait.
They didn't hope. They got on a plan.
They followed through. They were consistent.
They were on a budget, and it's possible for you, America, 40 years old on his birthday, completely debt free. That's something to celebrate.
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Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. I'm George Campbell, joined by Jade Warshaw.
888-825-5225 is the number to call if you want to jump in. Arnold is in Baton Rouge up next.
What's going on, Arnold? Hi, George. Hi, Jade.
My wife and I love you all very much. Oh, thank you.
That's very kind. Excited to talk to you.
So we are in a FHA mortgage, which we got before we discovered Dave Ramsey. We have no consumer debt.
We're both engineers and we're paying off our house quicker. Good.
And we're sitting at a 6.5% interest and we have a savings built up where we're ready to pounce whenever interest rates actually go down in the next year or so, as they say they are. Our current mortgage payment is $1,761, plus escrow brings it up to $2,584 per month.
but we got called from our current mortgage provider, which is like the third one by now.

Cause you, Escrow brings it up to $25.84 per month. But we got called from our current mortgage provider, which is like the third one by now, because, you know, it's a game of hot potatoes.
They just sell off the loan and forget about you. Yeah.
Yeah, it is what it is. And they're offering something called a FHA streamline.
And when you Google it, it says the law says it has to be a net positive for the person getting the streamline. Um, and they said that they will cover the, uh, the closing costs of that quote unquote refinance.
And all I got to pay is origination, origination fees, which is about $200.

And my PMI even goes down some.

Now, the numbers they're giving don't seem to match.

These are the people that have my numbers, and yet they're telling me this monthly savings,

which would be about two months to gain back the origination fees, depending on how I, if I go 15 or 30, which we do 15, obviously. But they're giving numbers that just don't add up.
So like, what do y'all know about this? Is it too good to be true? That's a legitimate product. It really depends on the numbers and if it makes sense.
And what you're laying out right now, if it is is true that it's only going to cost you 200 bucks, you're going to break even on that very quickly. And that's what you want to look into with this.
So is it going to number one, lower your interest rate? Do you know what that new interest rate would be? Yep. 6%.
So half a percent, not enough to refinance, refinance, but 200 bucks. Yeah.
And you're keeping the same loan term. Does term? Does it make it a new 15? I'd have to go into a new 15 or a new 30.
The loan's about a year old, and we've already knocked off about four years off of it. And you don't have much equity, it sounds like.
About 15% currently, because the value has gone up a bit. So by next year it should be we should be at about 20 which would be great for refinancing for real is the streamlined part just this idea is that just the idea that there's not a closing or is there something else that's being streamlined i don't know that's why i was asking y'all yeah i mean I mean, the streamlined, that's just, you know, there's less paperwork.
So you get a lower interest rate without all the paperwork and the credit checks that usually come with the standard refinance. So the main benefit because of that are reduced fees.
And you don't have to provide as much documentation. Listen, that's exactly, truly, I mean, continue to do your research.
But during this time, I would be looking for incentives to refi because a rates will go down, but then you don't know, are they going to go down even more after that?

And so you kind of don't want to be caught in this feeling of, oh, I just paid closing costs.

I paid all of this and now rates have gone down again.

So I would be looking for some sort of incentive that lets me refinance down until I get to the best rate without having to pay a bunch of closing fees. So it doesn't sound scam worthy.
It sounds like it's a legitimate product and they'll make a little scratch and you'll save. It could be a win-win for everyone.
And if you want a second opinion, I would reach out to Churchill Mortgage just to say, hey, here's what they're offering. Can you look at these numbers? Make sure I'm not missing anything.
And we've got great folks over there that we've partnered with for over 30 years now. And they're my go-to.
I've got a mortgage question. I'll reach out to my buddies over there and say, hey, will you look at this? Tell me if I'm off here.
Or hey, a caller had this question. What's your experience with this? And they're very helpful, very knowledgeable.
So thank you for the question. And luck on paying off that mortgage.
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Today's question comes from Rachel in Wisconsin. She says, I want to be financially prepared to ask my husband for a divorce.
He purchased our home the year before we got married and we've been married for five years. We used the $75,000 of profit from the sale of my house

to update our home.

We have combined finances,

so we both contribute to the mortgage every single month.

However, we never added my name to the deed or mortgage.

I'm worried because I don't know if I will be entitled

to any of the equity in the house.

We have children together and I'm scared to leave until I know that I will be financially secure to start over with them. Okay, yeah, if you had said that, you know, we're boyfriend-girlfriend or whatever.
Or married six months. Yeah, but you've been married five years.
You have protections. Just being married, there are financial protections in place, and no judge is going to say,'re on your own you didn't you your name wasn't on the deed what can you do they're going to go all right what is equitable here what makes sense based on the situation and in most states it's kind of i can't say all states but in most states it's automatic that if something once you're married yeah yeah so that it becomes joint assets so i I don't know your situation.
I would be working with a divorce attorney to figure out what makes sense here, depending on, you know, you said you have children together. I don't know what the deal is going to be with custody and alimony and child support and all of that.
But it's not going to be, well, you're on your own and you're not getting any money from the sale of the house. You might have to force the sale.
Maybe you keep the home and the kids are there half the time. I don't know.
But I'm sorry you're going through this. This is not a fun situation.
We say that divorce turns a marriage into a business transaction. And I'm glad that you're at least looking into what it takes to be prepared and if you're going to be financially secure.
But the truth is being debt free and selling this house is probably going to maybe the best thing depending on the financial situation. But I hope it's not too late.
The way she's phrasing it, it sounds like there's no hope for this marriage. Yeah, I, yeah, I'm not.
We don't know what's going on. I don't, but something about her saying I want to be financially secure to start over with the kids makes me think that she's kind of like

trying to get out of a situation here but

I would talk to a lawyer

I would just try to do a consult

for as cheap as possible just to find

out what's the law in my state and what

does it mean and what are the

likelihoods here just based off of

general information. Yeah because

income is another part. Was she

at home with the kids and he was making a bajillion dollars or were they making about the same? That's going to come into play. So, oh, I'm so sorry, Rachel.
Not fun at all. All right.
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