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George Campbell, my dear friend.

And then I'm Ken Coleman.

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That's the combo.

And so we're going to get right to it.

Kate's joining us in California.

Kate, how can we help today?

Hello.

Thank you so much for taking my call.

My husband and I have been been married for almost two years now.

And when we came into a marriage together, we both owned a house.

And

the house that he has, we live in right now and it's paid off.

The house that I have is in a different city.

It's where I was living before.

And I still have a mortgage on it.

It's worth about $500 and my mortgage has $325 left.

We pay every month, but then we have renters, and it covers most of it, but we're losing about $200 per month with the property management fees.

And we're trying to decide.

We chip away at it.

We do every dollar, and we're on babysit six.

We're doing great, but we chip away at the mortgage every month.

Whatever we have left over, we send towards the mortgage, and we're trying to chip away at it, but we're trying to decide if we should keep doing that or if it's and it's worth keeping the house

or if it's just going to be too much.

And

we're going to let it go.

Let me ask you a question.

I want you to speak on behalf of your husband.

I think you're qualified.

Do you enjoy losing a couple hundred bucks a month on that house?

It's weird.

We both see the pros and cons.

No, no, no.

You're sounding like a politician.

That's a yes or no answer.

Do you enjoy losing a couple hundred bucks?

Do you enjoy it?

I'm okay with it because I really love this house.

And I don't want to give it up.

And we go to the city that it's in a lot and visit.

And so eventually one day I would love to have it paid off and then have it be like ours.

And we go and we can stay there.

I'm not sure why you called us.

I'm not sure why you called us now.

Well, because we're really torn and there is some like who's torn.

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

Wait, wait, wait.

Who's torn?

I'm holding George off because I know what George is going to say.

So I'm trying to, this is actually fun that we got behind what's really going on.

We are torn.

There's over 100 people in the lobby.

Show of hands if you think she's torn.

Oh.

All right.

About half.

About half.

I don't think you're actually torn.

I think you want to keep it and your husband wants to get rid of it.

Is that true or false?

It's partially true.

I just, I feel like the issue is, I want, I want to do upkeep on it, but it's a lot of money.

And it's like, is it worth it?

And the other thing is, like, the house we're in right now is great, and we're thankful, but it's not our forever home.

And so it's like, we don't want to get another home.

Okay, your forever home is with Jesus Christ.

There is no forever home.

Oh.

You're not 90.

You're going to move seven times

before you pass from this earth.

So here's here's what I'm hearing.

George, from the top ropes of the church, just off the balcony.

I like a Jesus juke.

You came in with a robe on and off the top of the balcony there.

It's just fun.

I love it.

Here's what I'm getting at, Kay.

I think this is a sentimental house for you.

This was your first house that you had on your own?

Yes.

So there is a real emotion tied to this, and there's a sunk cost fallacy.

And it feels like letting go of this house is letting go of something you worked really hard for.

And so I think what you need to do as best you can is to untie your emotion and instead tie on to some logic, which is what your husband's probably using.

He's just doing math and going, this doesn't make any fiscal sense.

We're losing money.

And then the other part of this is, where is the house located?

You're in California.

Where's the other house?

So we're down south in the

house is up north.

How far away?

About five hours.

Oh, this is insane.

So would you now today go, hey, let's buy this house five hours from us to rent out and lose money on?

Would you make that decision today?

No.

So that the key here is you became a landlord by default.

And even if it was working out, I'd probably tell you to sell it.

Because it's still long distance.

It's still a nuisance.

It's still a headache.

I got a theory, George.

And I don't mind being wrong.

Kate, I think George may be right on the emotion piece, but you didn't react.

Here's what I hear.

I think that you think this is such a smart investment if you can just somehow figure out a way to not lose money on it or somehow just keep it.

I think you feel like it would be financially irresponsible to let go of this house.

Is that true or false?

Well, I grew up with parents that were all about good credit scores and all this stuff.

So, like, they pushed me and encouraged me to get this house when I was single.

And

they're all about like, oh, you got to keep it now.

It's, it's getting higher in value each year.

This is amazing.

True or false.

So I have.

True or false?

Did I not?

i'm just saying i'm helping you it's not about me being right i want you to get i'm trying to identify for you what's really going on here i think you think it's irresponsible to let go of this house now let down mom and dad uh-huh that's an added layer

is that what's going on yes or no

and i don't know i'm just i i feel like it's worth it in my opinion it's worth it keeping it it's worth it i knew it we could use it in the future but so we don't say it's worth it out of financial you're saying it's worth it emotionally it's not worth it financially No.

How much money are you losing a year on this house?

Be honest.

That's a good question.

It's about $200 a month that we're losing.

Okay, well, that's easy math.

$2,400, but it's more than that because now you've got to fix it up and do other things, right?

You got to fix it, yeah.

It's not worth it on paper.

It's not worth it.

If you sold it, you'd walk away with about $150,000.

That's worth it.

Now, what would you do if you had 150 grand in your pocket today?

Great question.

Well, like I said,

the house that we're in, we just had a baby and there's stairs and we just, we want to get a one-story house.

And so like we're, that would probably, you probably put it towards in the house.

And like the house that we're in is also very valuable.

So we would be able to.

Oh, you want to play this game again?

Okay, you didn't learn the lesson the first time.

No, I feel it's crazy.

I feel like you're talking in circles.

You should run for office.

I really think you can't do that.

Does the baby have trouble with stairs right now?

Is that the issue?

I was just worried about it, yeah.

Okay, I'll tell you what I did because I have, many people have stairs.

It's very common in houses to have stairs.

What'd you do with your stairs?

You put a gate.

I got a baby gate installed.

Problem solved.

You know what I mean?

And I carry the baby.

Right.

Well, that's smart.

That's where these arms came from.

You know, I'm getting to the age now, if you put a gate on my stairs, I probably wouldn't go up.

No, Ken's going to have a little motorized

goes up the stairs.

I'd have to stretch.

I play a lot of pickleball.

I got to stretch.

I got to stretch before getting over that gate.

You know, we're having fun with you, Kate, but

you won't even answer the question, but I think George's question is your homework assignment.

What would you guys do with the windfall, the $150,000 from the sale of the house that's five hours away?

George and I have spoken.

It makes no sense.

We're going to say this until the cows come home to be a long distance landlord.

We've said that a million times.

We're going to say it a million more times.

George and I have told you why.

I think we've identified the emotion around this, which was our goal, to help you see how your emotion is outweighing your logic.

And then now it's like, hey, you got to start thinking about what would we do with 150 plus the equity on the current house that you don't like.

That's the move.

How old are you, Kate?

How old are you guys?

30.

30.

Okay, you let this thing ride till 62.

If you just invest 150 grand, you'll have 3.6 million.

Oh, boy.

So I'm not buying the fact that this house is the greatest investment.

You could make truly passive income just investing it into an index fund.

And so this is really about emotion than it is about logic.

I would sit down and grieve this house and then put it on the market, take some cute pics, say goodbye.

I wouldn't grieve it, I'd celebrate it.

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Anna is up in Little Rock, Arkansas.

Anna, how can we help today?

Hey, such a treat to talk to you all.

And I'll make my question brief and um essentially i um just learned that i'm expecting my first baby hey hey watch out that's exciting congrats super super excited and i'm i'm as nervous as i am excited um but my question is is um i have a um a piece of fine jewelry that was gifted to me from a family member and the appraisal value of several years ago was $11,000, although I think it may be worth a little bit more.

But my question is: two parts.

One,

what can I expect to like the appraisal value versus sell value?

I just don't know what to kind of expect for that.

And then my second question is: how do I go about finding a buyer for fine jewelry?

I hear about like finding a private seller for like a vehicle, but I've listened to the show for a while and I've never heard about somebody trying to sell jewelry.

So I would love any questions.

Great question.

George is doing a little research.

Quick question.

He's the only person I could think of that would have a quick answer on this one.

Why are we selling it?

So, one, I am a simple person.

I am not a jewelry fan whatsoever.

So, I have no attachment to it.

And my husband picked up an extra bus route, and I am trying to get my side business started just to pile up cash.

And so, really, I just, I would really want like, I feel like this is just a quick way to get kind of a nest egg.

Okay.

And so we're trying to build up, would we have any debt?

Yes, we do.

Okay.

So it's not about the nest egg.

It's about the debt.

I'll let George walk you through that.

And who's the family member that gave you this?

Sure.

It's my mother.

And mom's not going to be, and again, I'm not in any way.

I'm just curious.

I'm getting all the facts here.

Would mom be upset to find out that you sold this?

No, it was originally given to me to sell for, to like help pay for my wedding.

Oh great.

Then absolutely.

Okay, that's all I needed to do.

No sentiment, no relationship destroyed.

I would sell it.

And there is a spectrum depending on how fast you want this cash and need the cash.

You could get it fast at a pawn shop.

You could go to a local jeweler.

From my research, you're probably looking at 30 to 60% of appraisal value.

So top end, you might be looking at, you know, five, a little over five grand.

On the lower end, maybe three or four grand.

Okay.

And so I would at least try your local, a a local jeweler to see what they think, what they would like to do.

What about George?

Uh, is it like a car?

Can you sell it?

Yes.

Can you go put it online?

There's auction houses.

Now, the thing is, you're more going to take more time to find a private buyer.

An auction house will cost you a little bit, and it might take a little while to sell if it's a unique high-end piece.

And there's online marketplaces as well.

So it just depends.

If you're in no rush to sell this, you just want to get top dollar.

I would go that route if you guys aren't desperate.

Have you done some research on your own as to pieces like like this?

So I went to the retailer that it came from, and so, like I said, it was valued at $11,000 at the time, and they offered me $900.

Okay.

I'm talking about online.

I'm talking like for people that, because you go retail,

you're not going to get the pricing that you want.

You have the appraisal, so you have a lot of info about this piece of jewelry, correct?

Okay, good.

I'm saying, are there people that are selling these things online?

That you can check the, like go to eBay and find that item, and then go to completed and sold in the filters.

That'll show you what it's actually selling for.

Awesome.

So that's one.

Thank you so much.

I really appreciate it.

Yeah, start doing your research.

Yeah, I mean, that's very rare.

You have a piece of jewelry that nice that isn't sentimental and won't destroy a relationship from the person who gave it to you.

Yeah.

Speaking of which, you got a nice piece on your wrist right there.

My wife's grandfather passed, and grandmother said, hey, if you'll take this and you want to fix it up, keep it, but just don't sell it.

So I am under strict conditions to not sell it.

And I don't think I ever will.

I'd love to pass it down to, you know, my.

By the way, I remember when you first showed it to me, it looks good on you.

Thank you.

Yeah.

I'm usually an Apple Watch guy, and so this is a big change.

No, I think this makes you look like an adult.

Well, I'm a dad now, Kevin.

You're a dad.

You got a beard.

It's time to wear a real makeup.

I don't need to get texts on my wrist.

No, no, no, wait, because it's an older Rolex, can I say that?

Yeah.

I just said it.

So it occurs to me I didn't really filter that very well.

Oh, it's totally fine.

But the size of that matches your wrist size.

You're saying I have a dainty wrist.

I understood.

You're a small guy, small wrist, small watch.

I think it works.

I keep saying Tammy's up in New York.

Tammy, how can we help?

Hi, Ken and George.

I love you guys so much.

Thank you for taking my call.

Thank you.

We love you too.

Thank you.

So just to get to it really quickly, I have, in baby step two, I just finished paying off about $30,000 in credit card debt.

Nice.

And I have basically two more, with the exception of my mortgage.

Two more is my pension loan and my car.

Now, my car is a lease that's up in September of next year, which they say will be valued at $20,000 by that time.

Just got like a payoff estimate last month.

Right now it's about at $28,000.

And my pension loan that I just took out for a kitchen renovation is about $36,000 left on it.

So I'm wondering if I should pay, and that's at 5%.

I'm wondering if I should pay,

I guess, work on paying the car off before my lease ends, pay extra payments toward it, or should I attack the pension loan?

Well, if you're just going to put this in the dead snowball, you would just do the smallest balance first, which would put the car there, if that's your goal.

You want to keep the car?

I do, yes.

Okay.

And what's your income?

I'm at about 208.

Fantastic.

Yeah.

So you're going to be able to knock this out pretty quick.

Yeah.

Once I started this, because I've been Dave Ramsey-ish and I'm getting serious now.

I basically kind of stopped my retirement.

I had my money all over the place, disorganized, saving in so many different pockets.

So I kind of organized that and realized I have so much more to put towards it.

So that's why I was able to kind of, you know, pay it down much more quickly.

But now you know

you have the ability and discipline to save up for the next kitchen renovation.

Yes.

So are you done with debt completely?

You're never going to borrow a a dime again?

Are you at that place?

That's the plan.

That is the plan.

I'm working very hard to not do it at all.

But I still have a mortgage, and that's the bigger one.

But yes, I guess I'm just worried about the lease car if I should just allow it to just.

I would work on getting that amount and just knock that thing out because you can throw payments at it, knock that 28K out in how many months do you think?

So you think if I pay extra towards the lease every month, it will pay, it would, it would, I guess, make it less old by the end of September?

Yeah, I would look at the agreement that you signed and talk to them and say, hey, look, I'm looking to buy this thing out.

Here's the buy-off amount.

Can I make, you know, payments every month

to work toward that.

And that way you're not just sitting there sitting on a giant pile of savings.

Okay.

Okay, so that's what I will do.

Reach out to them, see if I can pay extra.

And that will kind of lessen the amount or get me to

owning it faster.

Yeah, either way, you're going to be okay.

If you went and tacked this pension loan and knocked out 36K, you'd have the money by the time the lease is over to buy the car anyways.

Right.

Either way, you're prepaying the depreciation.

It's still outstanding.

I'm still working on it.

It was the credit cards that I paid off.

The pension loan and the car is still the

outstanding ones.

Yeah, I'm just saying either way you hit it, you're going to have the money to have owned this car outright by the time the lease is over.

That's the important part.

You're not going to be in a lurch there.

But I'm proud of you for making a big change.

I mean, you've been turning to debt every which way, even making an amazing salary.

So way to go going, I don't need to do that.

I make 200 grand.

What am I doing taking out loans?

Yeah, and I'm living paycheck to paycheck, and I'm just, I'm not investing as much as I could.

I've been investing, but not organizing diligently.

Yeah, you could be doing way better

for how hard you've been working.

I know.

I'm proud of you.

Hey, never too late to start.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Here's what you got.

We want you to hear this, Tammy.

Like, just decide, like you've already decided, but decide every day.

Maybe take seven to 10 days and write something down every morning.

Something that is your words,

but something that's very declarative, very simple.

I'm not going to.

do debt ever again or I'm getting out of this and I'm never looking back.

Something like that to change your mindset so that you begin to not see debt as an option ever again.

It's like cutting something out of your appetite and then you lose the taste for it.

That's the challenge.

This is a mental game, and you can win it.

You've already won so much.

So we're really excited for you.

We're believing in you.

Thank you so much for the call.

Good luck with that buyout.

You're probably going to need to just do it as a lump sum.

I don't know.

They'll allow extra payments.

It might go toward the lease.

So again, look into that.

But either way, just start stacking that cash and make those payments and get that thing owned fully.

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Lisa joins us now in Ohio.

Lisa, how can we help?

Hi.

We recently sold our home after experiencing some financial difficulties and medical setbacks.

And we're just looking for the best way to kind of move forward.

We have three teenagers.

They're very involved in extracurricular activities.

types of medical issues.

We just kind of want to move forward.

We want them to have a normal childhood.

So yeah, just kind of looking for the best way for us to move forward.

Okay, so we need to paint a clearer picture for us here.

So, when we're tackling debt, we've got two things that we have to do just at the top, right?

We have to decrease expenses wherever, however,

and then we also need to increase income.

So, give us a picture of the debt.

But before you do that, give us a quick

household income.

What is our take-home pay?

We're about, I would say about $11,000 a month.

$11,000 a month.

That's good income.

Very good.

And is this double income?

Yes.

Okay.

Double income.

Okay, now walk us through the debt, smallest to largest.

Sure.

So

we're looking at about,

I would say we have

60,000 in cars.

We've got three cars, my 17-year-old

and then the two of us.

So we're fine.

that's the total debt, it's just the cars.

No, no.

Okay, so I want you to walk me through.

I want you to walk me through smallest to largest because that's what we teach in the debt snowball: to attack the smallest debt.

So walk us through that.

Sure.

So 20,000 in credit cards.

And then, you know, we have, I would say, our medical debt, we're looking at, I don't know, about 9,000.

And then

we just keep having these medical costs pop up periodically.

We'll kind of be making some good headway.

And then, like, my son has an anaphylactic food allergy, so he'll wind up in the hospital where I'll have like scans.

Are you using $100 out of pocket?

Sure.

Are you using the credit cards to help supplement the medical costs?

Well,

so my kids were still in daycare when I had cancer.

So we had, I had to keep them in daycare.

I wasn't able to care for them during the day.

So a lot of that is still left over from.

And by the way, we're not judging you.

We're just trying to figure out how we're

so let's keep going.

Is $9,000 in medical debt?

Is that the smallest debt you have?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Okay, what's next?

Just I was chipping away at

13,000 in student loans.

13K, so 9K medical, 13K student loans, 20,000 in credit cards.

That's multiple cards.

So what's the the smallest credit card amount?

500.

Okay.

All right.

You see where I'm trying to drive you to this?

I'm going to get George here, but any other debt outside the 60,000 in cars?

We had three cars.

What are the cars?

Give me the three-card amounts.

About 25,000, 25, and 10.

Okay.

Are you underwater in all three of these, or any of these have any equity?

Just in the one.

We're underwater.

Which one?

Mine.

25?

One of the 25s, yeah.

Okay.

Any other debt?

No.

I mean,

our kids are in activities, which those are costing about, oh, let's say $8,000 a year.

Okay, that's on the chopping board.

Significant.

All right.

I'm bringing in Dr.

Camille here.

He's got his lab coat on, stethoscope.

He's got his scalpel.

Mostly scalpel.

Just a scalpel.

He's mostly what we needed.

His scalpel is ready to go.

All right, George, walk her through this.

Well, now, while the medical issues, that is something that is out of your control.

I'm so sorry that I hope you're doing better than you were.

Are you currently in remission or what's the status of the cancer?

I am.

Yeah.

It's just those darn scans we have to have.

Have you done the math?

You know the ins and outs of your insurance?

Because I would know that like the back of my hand.

How much am I going to pay?

What's the deductible?

What's the out-of-pocket max?

They didn't cover my chemo.

So that kind of kicked our butts.

Do you have a high-deductible plan or is it

no?

We're about $900

a month in insurance, and then our out-of-pocket max is $7,500 a year.

Okay.

So now we kind of know here's how much this is going to cost us out-of-pocket max.

And do you guys have nothing in savings right now?

So from the sale of our house, we have $18,000.

So

we had to pay out, like, we paid a chunk of that medical debt off what's the rest of the 18 000 doing right now what's the goal with that um i have it in a high-yield savings account i just fill we had like fifty thousand dollars equity in our house and so i i my goal i just wanted to like pay ourselves back for that and get back into a house eventually but i just i don't know is that like the best thing to do i don't know we're paying twenty six hundred dollars in rent that feels like i'm just flushing it down the toilet well what's being flushed on the toilet is a hundred and two thousand dollars in consumer debt with varying interest rates that's what's crushing you

Not right.

So the other part of this is we've been living high in the hog, taking out car payments for every single car we want.

And that's the part where I go, all right, these cars could be offloaded to clear over half the debt.

Oh, yeah.

Not to mention a massive raise.

Just give us real quick.

What do you think the car payments are for all three of those cars?

You know, off the top of your head?

I do know.

It would be, I would say it's probably about $1,200.

My heart said $1,200.

There, ding, ding, ding.

Imagine a $1,200 a month raise.

Now you can make progress on that credit card debt and you can get ahead of the medical stuff.

So that's my goal for you guys.

$1,200.

You're bringing home $132K a year, which is awesome.

My guess is your expenses are right up there, too.

Because whatever the kids want to do, I want to give them a great childhood.

Yeah, what are the $8,000 in kids' activities a year?

Yeah, so

sports.

I mean, my son's a golfer.

My other son plays football, baseball, basketball.

My daughter is in dance and tumbling and cheer.

Okay.

Are they going to do any of these professionally?

My son is a senior this year.

He's the golfer.

Like, is he like scholarship level?

I mean,

I don't know.

I don't know that colleges, he's kind of thinking more about trades.

Well, the answer is no.

Perfect.

So

he tells you what's going on.

Here would be my take.

Are they 16, 17, 18?

17, 13, and 11.

Okay.

I would have the 17-year-old start working, and they're going to start funding their own extracurriculars.

Okay.

But it's still costing you $8,000 a year to cover some of his stuff?

Well, he has been, up to this point, I would say about $2,000 of it with golf.

So, yeah, I mean, he's right on the tail end of us covering, you know, that.

Listen, part of this thing, and you said something that was very interesting at this top of the call.

You said, we want our kids to live a normal life.

And I get it.

I completely get it.

There's no judgment coming from me.

However, your daughter's in three major things, and one's enough.

And there might be a season where she can't do any of it, where she learns this is why.

And it maybe keeps her from getting into debt.

Like, you guys are going to have to make some changes and you have to throw the kids' activities on the block.

You have to.

And then you're putting skin in the game too.

You're saying, hey, mommy's got to sell her car and we're going to have to cut you down to one activity because we need to clean up a mess that your dad and I made over the past several years.

And we know that health issues are going to continue in our family.

We need need to get ahead of this.

And that takes priority over these other activities.

So you'll get back to it, but the next two to three years, you're going to be just chunking 30 plus grand a year at this debt to clean it up.

That's what it's going to take.

That's the math behind it.

And I believe you can do it if you offload the cars, get the expenses down.

Now we can breathe.

We've got that margin to attack it.

And just me, I would never pay a nickel for tumbling.

Tumbling?

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Brett is up in Maine.

Brett, how can we help today?

Yes, I'm a 100% disabled vet.

I have several benefits.

The housing market is crazy.

I am trying to figure out

should I stick to the 27%

of my income for the payment and

zero down on a 15-year?

Or can I move to a 30-year since I have a fixed income?

Well, first we want to say thank you for your service.

You're a great American.

Yeah, that's some serious sacrifice, man.

How are you doing?

Getting better every day.

Better grace of God.

Good.

Good.

Good.

Well, because of your disability rating, the funding fee on that VA loan would be waived, which is great news because VA loans can seem like a great deal, but then you realize they're also riddled with their own issues.

And the property requirements are also strict.

Interest can be higher.

And so I would tread with caution.

And the biggest thing I would caution you against is going in with zero down.

So that makes me ask another question.

What's the state of your financial world right now?

I am three to six months from completing step two.

I have a fully funded, well, I have the, I have the step one completed and put away.

Good.

I expect another one to two months to fully fund a three to six month

emergency fund.

And then after that, go into 3B if I should still accumulate a 10 to 20% down payment.

Okay, so you were speaking out of order for the baby steps.

You have six months to go to get out of consumer debt.

Correct.

Then it's going to take you another three months or so to stack up six months of expenses?

Correct.

Okay, then that puts you at a year from now.

We'll be in baby step 3B saving up for a down payment.

Correct?

Okay.

How much money, once you're out of debt and you have the emergency fund, how much money could you save up in that, let's say in a year if you had no debt?

2,000 times 12, that's 24 grand.

Okay.

So you could save up 24 grand, and what kind of house would you be looking at?

Have you started looking at the price range in your area?

$150,000 to $215,000.

Okay.

So my goal for you is to be: can we put down 10, 15, 20% on this house?

And if that VA loan is the best choice financially based on the rates and the fees and all that, I'm totally fine with you doing that because that funding fee is waived.

But I still would stick with a 15-year and work to pay it off as aggressively as possible.

Because here's what we found.

People who take out a 30-year loan tend to pay it closer to 30 years than they do 15 or closer to 10.

People who take out 15-year loans tend to pay it off in 10, or if you're the average baby stepper, seven years.

And so there's a forced savings plan you have there when you get that 15-year.

And worst case, it's done in 15 years.

How old are you?

I'm 27.

Amazing.

Young guy, a lot of life ahead of you.

And that means this house searching is on pause because we have a year till we're even saving up the down payment, another year, maybe a year and a half of stacking up the down payment.

Then we can begin the hunt.

So here's what that means.

Before you're 30, you're going to have equity in that home and be in a place that it's really peaceful.

Instead of going, hey, this is now way too much of my take-home pay is being eaten up by this mortgage.

And then you're going to pay it off before you're probably 40.

Now, that's a game plan for some wealth building right there.

Love that.

Again, thanks for the call, Brett.

And glad to see that you're on your way up and hang in there, cheering for you, hold the line, do exactly what George said.

and this is going to turn out to be a great, great situation for you.

Annie is joining us now in Iowa.

Annie, how can we help?

Hi.

So I have kind of an investing saving question.

So me and my husband are both investing 15% of our income.

We're set to pay off our house next year.

And I'm wondering, yeah, very exciting.

I'm wondering with the excess, we're kind of wanting to start saving for a future house and upgrade and pay that one in in cash.

Love it.

We had a meeting with our financial advisor and he suggested putting in a Roth IRA

so that we get tax-free growth versus I had kind of planned on putting that in a brokerage account.

And I don't know if we're in line with.

They're wanting you to pull out the contributions tax-free.

Is that what they're saying with the Roth IRA?

Correct.

Go ahead and max out the Roth IRA.

And then five years down the road when we want to step up in-house, just pull out the

contributions.

I would personally just use a non-retirement account if you're going to use it for non-retirement purposes.

I like to keep things real clean.

So a Roth IRA is my retirement account.

A brokerage account is used for things before I retire.

And so you will have capital gains on that.

And depending on your income and how long you hold those investments, it'll likely be 15% is what you'll pay only on the growth.

So if you throw in 100,000, it grows to 150,000.

You'll pay 15% of 50,000 in taxes.

And the other thing is, how long is this going to happen?

Is this like a five-year goal to upgrade in house in cash or is it two years?

I would say it's five years, yeah.

Okay.

If it's five plus years out, investing that money is fine.

If it's anything less than that, I start to get a little cautious and go, probably better to park it in a high-yield savings account to keep things more liquid.

Because you don't want want to get there and go, oh, the market took a negative 24% dip this year.

There goes our house fund.

So the longer it stays in there, the better chance you have of that money growing.

And this is going to be a long-term plan, right?

Yes.

How many years are you thinking?

I would say five years at the soonest, maybe 10 years.

Love it.

It just depends.

Kind of on our situation in that time.

We're not in a rush to move out, but we want to know that we want to pay cash for our next house.

I love that.

How old are you guys?

26.

Oh my gosh.

Any kids?

No, not yet.

Oh, sorry.

So I have the house create off from five and a half years, so we beat the average a little bit.

Annie, that is incredible.

That's what I was wanting to know.

Can I just say you are going to be in like a rare error for a young couple?

I love this story.

They're already thinking, but she's caused all of this.

Because most people go, why would you pay down your house?

You're 26.

You should, you got a low rate.

Just just ride it out that's the difference yeah where's this patience come from for this young couple what's going on Annie I've been a big fan of the show my parents obviously

have raised me on Dave Ramsey so that's been a big partner but what's your household income

about 180.

Good heavenly days you guys are gonna be rich.

What's your mortgage payment?

The principal and interest portion.

Yeah, about $1,300.

So you're gonna free up that amount plus plus all the margin you have being debt-free, which means you're going to stack up.

We'll have about

$4,000 extra a month that we'll start probably stacking up.

$50,000 a year saved up for five years, invested.

Yes.

You're going to have a couple hundred, $300,000, $400,000.

That's a nice house in Iowa, huh?

Yep, that's fine.

On top of the equity you have in your current home, which once it's paid off will be how much?

About probably $220,000.

Depending in five years, what the market is like.

But yeah.

I mean, my goodness.

Your real estate agent, the title company, they're all going to be like, what, you're pink?

Yeah, they're going to think you guys are punking them.

30 years old, buying a house in cash?

Yeah, they're not prepared for it.

So, so happy for you.

What great piece you guys are setting yourself up for, Annie.

We're just applauding you.

Thanks for sharing the details because I think you've modeled the way for a lot of young people that are listening right now.

So fantastic job.

Thank you so much.

These are luxurious questions you can ask when you follow the Ramsey plan to a T.

I'm telling you.

So proud of her.

Yeah, really good stuff.

Folks,

this young generation, they're fine.

They're going to be okay.

The good ones are going to be fine.

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I'm Ken Coleman.

So excited that you're with us.

David is up in Florida.

David, how can we help?

Yes, I was calling to see.

I lost my job about a month ago, and we have a few months left to go until money runs out.

And I'm just wondering, when should I start considering selling my house?

Now, when you say the money runs out, runs out of where?

Well, we have a couple of months of savings, and

also a severance package from my employer.

Are you using the savings now, or are you able to live off the severance?

So far, just the severance so far.

How much do you have in savings?

About $20,000.

Okay.

What were you making?

What was your income, your take-home before being let go?

Base salary was $105,000 plus

bonuses.

Okay.

Are you doing, what kind of work were you in?

I was head of marketing for an e-commerce company.

Okay.

I'm assuming that you're aggressively, you've got recruiters helping you, kind of that background, what you've done seems like you're probably

no?

I haven't connected with any recruiters i've been applying for jobs diligently uh i think today i applied for about 20 and uh and i also have been reaching out to local businesses to see if they need any help with their marketing okay maybe maybe see if i can get freelancing or something great i would keep doing that but i would absolutely at this stage because you were at a director level high level i would get a recruiter involved um because again they don't win unless they get you something so i i would add that to the strategy here um okay but the other thing that i would tell you and again i'm giving you advice on what I would do if I were in your shoes.

And what I would do is while I'm prospecting and hustling and connecting,

I do not want to touch that emergency fund.

That's just me.

And so while I've got the

severance that's paying the bills, and you may be doing this, are you working even just side jobs right now to bring in some money to supplement the severance so that we're stacking some cash?

I haven't applied for any entry-level positions or anything yet.

I'm just telling you.

I'm open to working.

Yeah, definitely.

I haven't applied to anything.

Well, I would.

And my point is:

whether this is I'm working at a Walmart or I found a manufacturing job where it doesn't, you know, I'm DoorDash and 20 card.

I'm going, where can I make a minimum of 20 to 25 bucks an hour?

Because

this is just

a bridge.

But you want to slow down the burn rate.

That's the goal here while getting that job.

Is this the only income in the family?

Are you single, married?

No, my wife, she works as well.

Okay, what is she making?

She makes a little over 80 a year.

Okay, so can you guys live off the 80 and not touch this?

No, not really, no.

And what's that due to?

Do you guys have a big mortgage?

Well,

we do have quite a bit of bills.

Our bills,

yeah, our mortgage is about $2,500.

Well, if you include property taxes and insurance, about $2,500.

Okay.

And then do you guys have any debt outside of the mortgage?

Our cars will be paid off March of next year.

Dude, I'm offloading these cars before I burn through my savings.

What are the cars worth?

They're worth roughly

probably about $15 a piece, $15 a piece.

What do you owe on them?

Three and five.

What are the payments?

About $800 a month.

Yeah.

Why not take $8,000 from your savings, pay off the cars?

That frees up actual money in your budget every month.

Yes.

I'd actually sell

it.

Would I do that earlier or would I do?

Okay, sell versus.

I'd sell one at least.

Because you're going to have to turn around and go buy something is the issue.

Oh, I know.

But still,

instead of using that, I mean, yeah, I'm with you, George.

You'll still have 12K in savings.

You still have severance.

You'll free up 800 bucks a month.

My goal would be, have you guys ever made a budget together?

Just sat down and said, hey, here's.

Okay.

So I would go through that very judiciously tonight and say, what can we cut from this to live on a very bare-bones emergency style budget?

Which means no eating out whatsoever.

We are only

covering the four walls, housing, utilities, insurance, food, keeping food on the table.

That's the major things.

Outside of that, there's really nothing else you need right now, correct?

Correct.

Okay.

And until you get a stable income, until you get back up to making, you know, 200 as a household, we got to live like we make 80 grand a year.

That's right.

And you can see we didn't immediately go to you selling the house.

That's what you proposed.

But let's walk through the numbers.

That's the scariest part to me because I don't know where, at what point do I decide on it?

Because I know right now it's

kind of taking time for people's house.

Well, I mean, you guys bring home still four to five grand a month.

What is she taking home?

She brings about say that again?

Is she bringing home four grand a month?

About five about five to six.

And then I also ha I bring in I have a a retirement from the military.

And that's what I'm saying.

You guys can't figure out how to live on seven grand a month right now?

That's the scary part.

We were living we were we were we had about twenty thousand or more that we didn't well, actually there was more that we didn't need, but we got budgeted in like Christmas and vacations and stuff, so we can cut everything out.

We could probably cut back about 30,000.

That's what I'm saying.

See, you don't need to sell the house.

See, the house stays there.

Don't touch it.

You don't want to mess with that.

That can't be your fallback.

And quite frankly, I think what George has figured out is it doesn't need to be your fallback.

This isn't, we don't use the house and then throw the family into disarray unless it's the only option.

And I don't think this is, I mean, while you're finding something between your military, let's run these numbers again for you, just real quick.

You're bringing in how much a month on the military benefit?

$1,200.

$1,200.

And then your wife's bringing $6,000.

Yes, sir.

So that's $7,200.

$7,200.

A mortgage is $2,500 of that.

So why do you need an extra $5,000 a month?

Where is this money going?

Well, there is...

I did set up like the envelope plan where a lot of money gets set aside for birthdays and Christmas and stuff like that.

So there's all of this money that moves over for like saving for okay, but I'm talking 60 grand a year that we need to account for here.

That's five grand a month.

So that's the part where I go, I think we've been a little lackadaisical.

We've got a little comfortable and I need to, I need to feel some fire under your butt to go, dude, we need to do something now.

We got this debt we need to clean up.

I don't have a job right now.

Our lifestyle just got cut over 60% because of this income hit.

So everything we were doing before is off the table right now.

We'll get back to there.

Once you're making $120,000 a year again, we can reinstate the sinking funds and the vacation funds and all that.

But right now, we're not doing any investing.

We're not doing any spending.

All we're doing is trying to keep food on the table, keep the mortgage paid, keep the lights on.

And George is right, by the way.

I'm fully in board with George.

I would pay off the two cars today.

Like as soon as you hang up.

And the reason is because you just gave yourself another 800 to the equation we just ran, which means we're now at 8,000 a month.

Okay.

I pulled up my budget.

Our bills are about $6,000 a month, not including food and stuff like that.

Why doesn't that include food?

Well,

there's the way I set the budget up there, it's more like these are non-negotiable kind of like bills that are the same every single month.

I don't believe you have $3,500 of non-negotiable bills outside the mortgage.

I would do an audit with your wife tonight and you both go, can we live without this for a season, for three months?

Can we scale down Christmas to a

white elephant secret Santa swap?

The answer is yes.

This will be a very popular segment, I think, on your YouTube channel.

I'm going to suggest it.

Just slash the budget.

No, a house call from Dr.

Camill.

It's all Zoom now.

And you just sit there and you go through because I think you could literally.

All right, I'm in.

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All right, Noelle is joining us in Oregon.

Noelle, how can we help today?

Hi, guys.

I'm such a huge fan of the show.

So basically,

yeah, of course.

I've been watching you guys for years now.

So basically, I'm 25 years old and I almost make $90,000 a year.

Wow.

I'm currently

doing digital marketing.

Good for you, Noel.

Way to go.

Thank you so much.

And I'm currently working on my MBA program and I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years now.

And when we first met, he was making a similar salary to me.

But since a couple of months ago, he was let go from his job, and now he's been unemployed for going on three months now.

We currently live together, and my concern is with all of our combined student loan debt, car debt, and consumer debt.

I'm a little bit worried if he doesn't find a job.

Should we continue living together?

Do we start splitting everything 50-50?

Do I dip into my savings to help sort of

make ourselves aware of that?

All right, hold on, hold on.

Okay.

I got to stop you here.

Should we start splitting things 50-50?

What does that mean?

What have you been doing?

That's what I want to know.

So basically, when we decided to start living together, he said that he will cover the rent, which is about $1,300 a month, and I would pay for groceries and our utilities.

And then everything else we pretty much take care of.

independently.

Okay.

And now he can't afford it because

he's the broke roommate.

And so you're going, I guess we need to split.

Should I cover?

Who's been, well, wait a second.

He's been out of work for three months.

Did he have a severance?

He got his PTO pay, but

who's been paying the rent for the last three months?

So he paid the rent last month, and then I pay the rent this month.

And

yeah.

All right.

So now here's what's interesting to me.

So you call us, and we're so thrilled you did.

I mean,

couldn't be any happier

because this is serious stuff.

But the fact that you called us and the way you've set this question up, you're like, it leads me to believe that there's been some conversations maybe, or he has made some statements, or there's a pattern of the way he's handling this that's got you going, uh-oh, they're a red flag swirling.

So what is it that makes you call and ask this question of, should this mean that

I put the brakes on sharing you know all this kind of stuff and not think about this dude's marriage potential what's happened

well I think what's happening right now is that

he

has been interviewing for places but nobody seems to be hiring and he doesn't really want to take a lower paying job or like two part-time jobs in the meantime and I'm just concerned about how what jobs he's willing to take versus not and being potentially too picky in this environment where it also seems like nobody's hiring.

Well, that's true.

So just a quick for the rest of our audience and for you, the job market is very soft right now.

Unemployment is eking up.

This is a real thing.

So the job market's very, very soft.

So what that means is that it does take longer to get hired because companies aren't hiring as quickly because, quite frankly, the economic uncertainty with tariffs and everything else, a lot of companies are holding and in a holding pattern.

So that's real.

But what is also real is this young man for his own mental and emotional health needs to be doing something.

And

I get the temptation to go, well, I don't want to go backwards.

But yeah, this should concern you.

And yes, I would not be thinking about anything in this relationship.

I'll just play your dad for a second because I'm probably old enough to be your dad.

Yeah,

I would not be thinking about long-term with this young man until we see how he handles this storm.

This is a real storm.

Let me say this on his behalf so I don't sound like the angry, you know, boomer dad.

I'm an X-er, by the way.

We know from research that losing a job has the same emotional impact as losing a loved one.

So I do have a lot of empathy for him, and I want you to have that empathy and understanding that he's three months into having his world rocked.

And so I do have some sympathy there as well as empathy.

But to your question,

and I want George to jump in here, I absolutely think today is the day we should have been separate.

I mean, I would have never told you to live with the guy,

but you are.

No judgment.

I'm just telling you, I wouldn't have told you to do it,

but I would be separating everything.

What is yours is yours.

What's his is his.

And you guys split everything down the middle.

And unfortunately, you're romantic roommates.

But that's where it ought to to be, George.

Yeah, I think this is not a punishment to him of you, I'm moving out because you don't have a job.

I think you go, hey, this was a mistake, and it's just, this is making it more and more clear.

And it just makes it a weird relationship now.

Because now you're like, do well, does he get kicked out and he has to go find his own place?

Because that might be, here's the thing.

I would have more onus if I needed to cover rent that month.

I'm going to be doing Instacart that night.

But because he has you to float him, I think that's creating a sense of kind of comfort and complacency in us.

And yes, it should scare you, by the way, as he's a future mate potentially.

I'm going to tell you something right now.

And Stacey knows this.

If I lost my job, there is no sitting around for three months.

Nothing.

I'm working.

I'm busting it.

And so, yeah, you ought to be concerned by that.

Because

while I acknowledge that it is an emotional blow,

I'm also saying that life sucks sometimes.

It hurts.

And we don't just sit at home.

So imagine you with two littles.

And if this happens to this guy.

So yeah, this ought to scare the crap out of you.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And I feel like, too, like when I talked to him about it, like my mindset is like, if I want a job by this date, I'm having it.

I don't care what it is or how much it pays.

Like, I'm just going to go get it.

Love it.

And I just feel like he's waiting for like the perfect job.

And I don't know.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So, hey, Noel, I'm not telling telling you what to do in this relationship, but I'm telling you to press pause on the relationship.

Meaning, you're not thinking about what this looks like in the future until we see how this dude steps up.

And by the way, George, do you have any problem with her telling him that?

I don't, but I tend to be a little bit more black and white, you know, like just lay it out there.

Well, I can tell she's very professional with her language and her words.

And so, this is,

it's going to feel like an awkward conversation because it is.

It's going to be uncomfortable.

And how he reacts is not up to you.

So that's the tough part.

And it sounds like he's going to be probably deflecting, making excuses, probably going to get upset and defensive.

And again, that's very telling.

Yeah.

When's the lease up?

April.

Yeah.

That's a long ways away.

It's a long ways away.

Because I was like, if this thing were around the corner, I would just tell you, hey, you know what?

Let's redefine the relationship.

I'm willing to stay in the relationship, but I'm not going to live with you.

I'm concerned about you.

I think you need to say, I need to go find a roommate who's able to pay their share of the bills.

Well, that's 100% the case.

And I would choose just female friend at that point, and I would not move in with anyone else until Sitcom, Three's Company.

You don't even remember Noel.

Oh, I do.

Three's company, too.

There we go.

But Noel, seriously, you've got to take care of your finances right because your name's on the lease.

Yeah.

And my fear is you go, well, I guess I'll cover it this month.

Don't cover it.

And then month, I'm going to go to the next one.

I'm going to go get a roommate.

That's kind of a real, by the way, that's not passive-aggressive.

That's a legitimate move that's protecting your finances.

And if Sparky doesn't like it, tough.

Yeah, I just don't know if, you know, I should just wait and see or if I need to start.

No, you shouldn't wait and see.

No, you've already got an instinct that this dude is showing a lack of character.

I'll say it so you don't have to.

That's why you called us.

Yeah.

And I'm telling you, sweetheart, you're,

I'm begging you, as your fake podcast dad,

your instincts are right.

Your instincts are completely right.

I can tell by your tone, you are not being cruel and out of control and overreacting.

You are not dramatic, Noel.

You are sharp.

You've got your act together.

And by the way, you deserve a guy, whether you're living with him or not, who's like, man, Noel's worth this.

100%.

I'm not going to sit around and play video games and let her pay the rent while I'm eating ramen noodles.

And the research bears this out.

Professor Scott Galloway says, what women are looking for is a man's ability to provide future resources.

And so this is a signal, and you should be paying attention to it.

Don't wait, Noel.

Put the pressure on this young guy.

Listen to your fake podcast dad.

I've never said that before.

So much wisdom.

Take it from your fake podcast dad.

You're worth more, Noel.

You're worth way more, and you got to take care of you.

I get to be fake podcast uncle, calling it.

I was going to say brother.

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Today's question comes from Hudson in New Mexico.

My parents are in their early 70s and they think their money will run out in the next several years.

They want me to sell my condo and buy a bigger home with an in-law suite that they can live in.

They will contribute $225,000 toward the purchase of the new place.

Additionally, there is a life insurance policy that will leave me and my mom $450,000 when my dad passes away.

The problem is that my wife does not want to live under the same roof as my parents

as they do not get along.

If my wife drives my parents away, I will end up with nothing from the insurance policy as they will cash it in instead to use it for their living expenses.

What do I do?

Oh my gosh.

First of all, this is framed terribly.

He's created

impossible to do.

Do I choose my wife or my parents?

That's the real question here.

Boy.

It's a non-issue.

You got to go with the wife.

But it doesn't have to be all or nothing on this, George.

Am I right?

Well, now there's a price tag on the parents' relationship.

He's going, hey, I'm losing out on half a million if I go with my wife's side.

He can tell the parents, hey, you're not living with us.

Yeah, I don't think your quality of life is going to be great if you do this.

Number one, for your marriage, but number number two, just for your own independence.

My confusion is they're in their early 70s.

They can use that $225,000 to go get their own place.

Yeah.

And if they can't afford that, they can use that towards rent for the next several years.

Such a false choice.

I would not combine my financial life.

I've only seen it go poorly.

And it gets very messy financially when you go, well, this house is partially ours because we put in this portion and we want to do this renovation and we want it this way.

I think it's going to create even more rift in your marriage.

So, for those reasons, I'm out, and I would leave the half a million on the table from the life insurance policy and go, I chose to be married to this person.

They all leave and cleave.

And this is, we are going the opposite direction with mom and dad moving in, creating some awkward situation and tension.

You know, because I think it's actually maybe valuable.

We'll see.

Let's put you in this scenario, George.

Let's put you in this guy's actual shoes.

Okay.

Your parents come to you and they say, what, what do you, what?

Hey, George, sell your condo, get a bigger house within Lost Suite.

We'll give you 200 grand toward it.

And there'll be a life insurance policy to help cover expenses once dad passes.

I go, mom, dad, that's very sweet of you

to bring this idea to me.

I talked it over with my wife, Whitney, and it just doesn't make sense for our family right now.

Selling the condo is a big move.

It's very expensive.

You know, we want to help in any way we can, but we don't want to combine our lives in this way living under the same roof.

And we love you guys.

And if you need any assistance or advice on what to do with this money to help create a life for yourselves, I'm happy to help.

Okay, good.

That's it.

That's what I would say.

I love it.

Leave it there.

I love that.

So good.

Phil is on the line right here in Nashville.

Phil, how can we help?

Yeah, thanks for taking my call.

I'm 72 years old and I'm halfway through a 30-year mortgage, so I got 15 years left.

I owe $234,500 on the mortgage, which is at 3.5%.

I also have a brokerage account of $291,000 that's been earning me 7.1%.

I have two IRAs with $750,000 in them, and I also get $55,000 annually through Social Security.

My question is, should I take the brokerage account money and pay off the mortgage or keep the mortgage for the mortgage interest on my taxes.

Mathematically, keeping the mortgage for tax purposes doesn't make sense.

It's stepping over a dollar to pick up a quarter.

And so what I personally, if I was in your shoes at your age going, man, okay, I'll pay it off by 87 at this rate.

I think life's too precious.

And I want you to have retirement with dignity.

And for those reasons, I would free up that mortgage payment today.

You could cash that money out.

You'll have the capital gains taxes on the brokerage account, but you'll still likely have enough to cover the mortgage, right?

Oh, yeah.

I would do it.

And how much is your mortgage every month?

What number are you freeing up?

It's $2,380 a month.

I just gave you a $2,300 a month raise, my friend.

And you can do without what you want.

You can go invest that.

I would continue to invest it if you don't need the money and just keep piling onto that nest egg.

And then you got $55,000.

from Social Security, plus you'll have a, you know, within the next several years, you'll have multi-million dollars in there

in that nesting.

So you're going to be okay either way.

I just don't want to live for the next 15 years with a mortgage if I don't have to.

Right.

All right.

Especially because your mortgage is a guaranteed fixed rate you're making, right?

That 3.5% is what you're making by paying it off.

The market, Lord only knows.

I hope it continues to do well.

But in the short term, it could be negative 22% next year.

And so it's hard to compare them apples to apples.

But what I will say is freeing up that mortgage, especially at 72, is just going to give you some peace.

It's one less thing living in your head rent-free.

Yes, and that way I would also be debt-free.

I don't have any other debt.

Oh, yeah.

You reduce your risk.

You reduce the need to touch the nest egg.

Are you married?

No, I'm single.

Oh, wow.

Phil.

Single guy, 72?

You just freed up some money?

Are you in good health?

Yes.

Okay, so you'll likely live into your 90s with this freed-up mortgage payment, which is incredible.

All right.

So I would go crunch the numbers in your budget and go, what kind of life can I live now?

Can I spend a little more?

Can I give a little more?

Can I invest a little more with this freed-up mortgage payment?

And I don't think you're going to miss the brokerage account sitting there.

You could stack it back up if you want.

Right.

All righty.

Congrats, man.

I feel like we're celebrating Phil's debt freedom today.

I think we are.

I mean, and who knows?

I mean, the future is bright, Phil.

I mean, you're an eligible bachelor.

George just found $23,000 extra income.

So come on, man.

All right.

Time to travel, I guess.

There we go.

Hey, Phil, are you a good-looking guy?

I think he's a good-looking guy.

I do.

He sounds like it.

Reasonably.

All right.

We're going to apply to get him on the Golden Bachelor.

You know, it's interesting.

True story.

This is crazy that you said that.

My wife and daughter, I've got a 16-year-old daughter, and they love this Golden Bachelor.

It's so much more entertaining.

I've not seen it.

Phil needs to check it out.

But I feel like, Phil, you could be the real life Golden Bachelor.

I I mean, do you know how many ladies out there your age need a stable man like you who's got plenty of dough?

I mean, come on, buddy.

Get on those cruises.

Oh, okay.

Thank you so much.

Congrats.

Phil, hey, Phil had enough.

Phil said, don't get involved.

He's like, guys, I got this.

I got this.

I asked for financial advice, not relationship advice.

Yeah, we went to the Golden Bachelor, which, by the way, he may not even know what that is.

It's a television show.

There's this thing called television for the young kids out there.

I got to explain it to them.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Do you watch this Golden Bash?

I saw an episode or two, and it was a little cringy for my take.

And that's why I want Phil on there.

I think he'd be much better, much better candidate for the show.

You know, it's just awkward.

They did like boo.

The older ladies, they're doing like photo shoots and kind of this boudoir thing.

And I went, this is too much for me.

Okay.

You just said that.

You just, you took me to a place that, quite frankly, I didn't want to go to.

I'm not going to unsubscribe.

See that.

You're welcome.

Again.

You know, in Phil's case, though, this is a great thing here.

You hear that story, and,

you know, I love that decision, George.

I love that you walked him through that, and that's such a good, because to your point,

I've seen some data recently.

What is the average age now that people are reaching?

Isn't it, it's gotten higher?

Oh, like as far as longevity?

Yeah, longevity.

Yeah.

Because if you take in the, you know, the average.

Age, well, that's factoring in infant mortality and other things.

Right.

So when you look at it, if you've made it to 72 and you're in good good health, there's a strong likelihood you'll make it into your 80s and 90s.

Right, right.

So it's not in that situation, it's not too late.

And to your point, I love how you laid that out.

You know, like this money can be working for you.

And if he doesn't need the nest egg right now, it just sits there.

About every seven years, it's going to double.

So you have 750 today.

Seven years from now, he's 79.

1.5 is sitting there.

At 86, it's at 3 million.

That's fantastic.

So quite the likely.

What is 86-year-old George Campbell doing with his time?

With all the money you're going to be.

Hopefully just not being bothered.

I would just like to remain unbothered.

That means you're just sitting in your lazy boy, unbothered?

I never said it was lazy.

I could sit outside.

I ask you, what are you doing?

And you say, I just want to be unbothered.

Playing a 99-year-old Ken Coleman in pickleball.

That's my goal.

Now, that's an answer, and I think a lot of people would like to see that.

I really do.

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Jeff is up in Michigan.

Jeff, how can we help today?

Yeah,

so I'm 49 years old.

My wife recently passed away from cancer.

Oh, I'm so sorry.

Sorry, Jeff.

Yeah, so

we're in good shape financially.

No debt other than our mortgage.

She was a teacher.

And one thing we talked about, a lot about during treatments and cancer treatment and all that was, you know, we saved all this money.

We financially responsible.

You know, wish we'd have done more trips, more vacations, instead of just, we did a lot of home projects ourselves.

We

didn't hire out a lot of contractors.

We both have kind of a background and kind of a fearless trait to take stuff on.

And

where's that fine line of living life and

still putting money away to do the right things,

working still to find what my new budget is, and dealing with all that.

And there's just a lot of stuff, unanswered questions.

And,

you know,

how recent did you pass?

Six weeks ago.

Oh, end of July.

Goodness gracious.

Wow.

Well, I would just give yourself some grace and time to grieve right now.

Yeah.

I wouldn't even be thinking about a budget.

I would just do enough to make sure your bills are covered and taken care of and you get food on the table.

But man, I mean, I can't imagine the fog of grief that you're in right now.

And so are you in a good spot financially to just kind of float and grieve and cover the bills and get some help and heal?

Yeah.

Yeah.

When we bought this house eight years ago, we did everything that was based on one budget and one income.

If something would happen

looking back, you know, we're grateful for it.

But, you know, it was all based on one income.

We both made roughly the same amount of money.

I had a little bit higher income, but, you know, it was,

yeah.

And the biggest thing I'm fighting right now is insurance because she's a teacher.

So health insurance was there, and so I'm paying Cobra, which is outrageous.

But for the next four months,

you know,

all our out-of-pocket was matched

in February.

So

versus starting over.

What's your work situation?

I'm a sales rep.

Okay, so you have no insurance through your company?

No, we do not.

Okay.

Jeff, one piece of homework I would give you, check out our friends at Health Trust Financial and see if they can get you a lower priced plan.

You can go to health trustfinancial.com and just kind of get the quote and see what they're offering, what the rate is to help you shoulder some of this burden right now.

Did she have any life insurance or anything?

That's part of my fight.

She had one that was through school, and I found out yesterday I'm going to get taxed on that one because it was one that she did not contribute to.

It was just one that they provided.

And I imagine it wasn't a lot.

No, it was $75.

Enough, you know, covered funeral expenses and everything else.

I didn't have to take anything out of savings and all that.

Yeah.

But, you know, she started her 22nd year this year.

And

every other year she elected the supplemental life insurance through school or through the insurance frame, which was 150 to 200K, depending on which one she selected or was available each year.

And they're telling me that she did not elect it last year.

And I have a hard time believing that after doing that every other year.

And it's just fighting with

a few people to try and get the information because I can't access her documents unless they open things up for me.

And so

she was very detail-oriented, and I can't imagine she would have not elected that last year.

She was diagnosed

while they found a tumor right around Halloween.

So all her insurance paper paper would have been submitted before then.

And so it's, you know, it's just those fights.

Those are the ones that are driving me nuts right now.

But even without her,

even without her income and even with the Cobra,

I'm wondering how much margin you have every month just off your income.

I'm still clearing.

I'm still clearing between $800 and the grand.

Okay.

That's extra

bill.

I'm going to get a lot of money right now.

Okay.

After all bills are paid, yeah.

Okay.

Well, your question question was: how do you balance

Cobra?

Okay, good.

So, you're wanting to know how you balance, quote, living for today versus saving for the future, especially after

your life just changed dramatically.

I mean, the picture that you had for the future is just gone, and you have to grieve that and create a new one for yourself.

And you're still a young guy, you're 49, are you in good health?

Yeah.

Okay.

Well, once you've grieved and you've begun to heal, I think then you can start dreaming a little bit again and go, okay, what does the the next five-year, 10-year, 15 plan look like for me?

And part of that is an intentionality.

Just, you know, let's get the mortgage knocked out in the next decade.

But also, what are the things that were on the back burner that you don't want to have regrets about later on?

Yeah, I'm curious to know what your investment portfolio is.

What's your retirement accounts look like?

We're sitting pretty good between IRAs and everything else we had combined.

I just

got time the other day with our investment guy kind of signing the paperwork over into my name, all her stuff.

And we're sitting at about $400 there.

Plus, she has a pension, and I'm waiting for the paperwork from the state because the other part of that will be taking a lump sum on the pension or riding it out and taking whatever that's going to be.

Yeah.

Monthly income.

Yeah, generally, what we find is that taking the lump sum and investing it is a better option.

If you're not going to need the money, because you have control over it, the pension has a terrible rate of return.

There's risk there.

And

I don't know what the survivor benefits are if it all gets passed down to you or if it's 50%, what the rate is, but you'll have much more control on your own taking that lump sum and investing it.

And

you said you're 49?

Yes.

Okay.

So even with your 400 grand, at 62, you'll likely have 1.5 million if you added nothing to it.

And so I would just continue on with the baby steps.

Do you have kids?

We have an adult daughter with a four-year-old grandson.

Oh, wonderful.

Well, I would lean on family right now, lean on that support, get your 15% investing still into retirement accounts, work on anything extra, put some toward the house.

But also, I would sit down with the budget and go, what are some fun things that

you need to be doing now?

Maybe that you didn't get to do.

You know, you were a caretaker, I imagine, for a while and going through a real tough season.

So what are those things that do light you up and bring you some joy?

Yeah, I love that.

I love that.

And Jeff, I was going to ask on the heels of what George just said, I think he's right.

Was there a place that you and your wife talked about that you always wanted to go to that sticks out to you?

Maybe you thought, well, that's probably the one she would have most wanted to go to.

Well, the only place we went out of the country for our honeymoon, and we cut that short because we both got sick.

And so she wanted to never go out of the country again because that was her first and only trip out of the country.

Okay.

But what about a place that you guys talked about?

that you'd like to go to.

We were supposed to go to Yellowstone this past summer.

We started planning for that last fall

before she got diagnosed.

I'm going to throw it out there.

I'm going to throw it out.

I think that's a trip that you take and you honor her and you make it a part of your healing process.

I would definitely think about that, you know.

And

Yellowstone's beautiful.

Yeah, you know, and it'll be very amazing.

I was so very fortunate for the last nine months that my employer, you know, I collected my pay and just said, hey, take care of family, meeting sales.

That's good.

I was able to do a lot of that remotely.

And,

you know, kind of reverted back to COVID times.

And,

you know, so I'm so grateful for that.

That, you know,

otherwise I couldn't get back the nine months I had.

Yeah.

What was her name, Jeff?

Kim.

Kim.

Kim.

Well, we want to honor her legacy, and I know you are going to do that and have done that.

By the way, you have just lived your life.

By the way, you take care of your family, take care of your finances.

And it's a great reminder to hug your loved ones and know that tomorrow isn't promised.

And that's why we prepare for the future because we just don't know what it will hold.

And so we can't go full YOLO, but you can prepare.

And you guys have done a great job of that, being debt-free, having money in the bank.

And we wish you the best on the healing journey, my friend.

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Welcome back to the Ramsey Show in the Fairwinds Credit Union Studio.

I'm Ken Coleman.

George Camill is alongside.

And Mike is going to start us off in Florida.

Mike, how can we help?

So I really

have had a few major life events go on.

I've recently had to

relinquish my

rental apartment and move my wife and son into a

one bedroom and

really had to just stay there and try and save up income.

Did you get evicted?

What do you mean relinquish?

So

I was the sole income for my family and

we didn't have the every dollar or the Ramsey Solutions way of doing things.

So I didn't have a budget.

And

so it just got piling up and piling up.

And rather than get evicted,

my wife and I decided to talk to our landlord and say, hey, we don't want to leave on bad terms.

And so we relinquished it without having an eviction on our record.

Okay.

So essentially, you kind of broke the lease, had a mutual agreement to say, hey, we can't afford to live here anymore.

Can we leave on good terms?

Yes.

So you guys downgraded to a one-bedroom that you can afford?

What income do you guys have right now?

So so right now I am

delivering pizzas and doing DoorDash and Uber Eats

to supplement my income.

I would probably say my income is probably around

25 to 30

with that being

fluctuational based on tips.

So you're making about two grand a month right now.

Correct.

Okay.

My wife is currently working part-time for the county,

and she's probably bringing in 20K

herself.

Okay.

With that, and I do want to explain the one-bedroom situation is actually staying with a blended family.

I'm staying with my in-laws right now in a 10 by 12 bedroom

as a family of three.

So all three of you are staying in there?

Correct.

Okay.

And how old is your kid?

so my son is a year and a half.

Okay.

You're in the same bedroom with your in-laws.

You're all sleeping in the same room?

Oh, no.

No.

No.

My wife and my wife, myself, and my son are in the same room.

Oh, okay.

Got it.

All right.

Sorry.

And you're not paying any kind of rent or you don't have any expenses there for housing right now.

They're just letting you crash?

Correct.

Okay.

So, what's your question today?

So, my question today is: I have a huge passion to start my own business, start my own side hustle.

I don't know if it's going to be more harm than good if I was to invest that in a

startup and try and bring in some income for myself.

I'm very much a

work or performance-based worker.

So I'm going to I would invest all my time in doing that.

What's the business?

So I'm a finance guru, I feel.

A guru?

I like to deal with numbers.

That doesn't make you, but that doesn't make you a guru.

A guru means like you're widely respected because of the...

I just want to help you out there because I'm a little nervous about where we're going with this.

What is the business?

It's just

bookkeeping,

accounting.

It's what I want to go to school for, and I feel like bookkeeping would be the first level in doing that.

Have you done any bookkeeping before?

I have.

I have about a year and a half to two years experience entry level.

Great.

And so, right now, let's play this out.

What would you charge?

What's the going rate for somebody like you with your experience?

I don't know if it's an hourly thing.

Give us the numbers here.

So I was thinking

it would be a monthly recurrent fee.

I would be charging anywhere from $300 to $500, depending on the size of the companies.

If they're a smaller business, it will probably be about $350.

I'll track all their

financial transactions.

How many hours do you anticipate

working for $350?

So I'm thinking anywhere from

about 10 to 15 hours per client.

And you're only going to charge $350 a month?

Just starting now,

yes.

And you have no credentials right now?

No credentials.

I do plan on going to school, but at this moment, I figured increasing my income is top priority.

Okay, the reason I'm walking you through this is to be a sounding board because that's what you wanted from us.

I don't know in this particular, in your financial situation, unless you've got previous clients

that can open up doors for you.

And that's certainly worth trying if you've got that to where you could pick up some people on the side and you could start doing this for extra income, then great.

The other thing about this business is that it doesn't require a whole lot of investment to get up and going.

You're not buying machinery.

So that's a positive.

But

you're expecting no more than $500

just for the startup cost and the LLC created and

computer and stuff like that.

I wouldn't put a lot of effort into that right now.

I would see if I could get some people, if we could throw

the fishing rod out there, throw the cast the rod, and let's go, let's see if we can find something.

And if we can pick up something, let's just go do that.

Let's just do basic 1099 if some small business.

Let's see what we can get.

I wouldn't invest a nickel right now, George, in trying to launch this business.

Yeah, you guys are underwater right now.

So it's not the time to kind of like invest into a passion project.

I love the idea of you making income.

So if you can get a few clients, let's do that and use the proceeds from that to then fund this thing later on to get the education.

But right now, you guys can't afford to breathe.

You'd be better served working at Walmart stocking shelves.

I've tried applying everywhere.

I go into Walmart multiple times during the week and I've asked to speak to a manager trying to get that on-site job.

And they tell you go online.

And I appreciate that, Gumption.

But we don't just, and my point is, you keep going.

You keep going.

You right now have got to do anything.

If you show up on a construction site and go, do you need a laborer?

And I'll give me a shovel.

I'll carry bricks around the site.

Like, that's the level of urgency that you need right now.

We don't just, you know, and I appreciate you went to Walmart, but your response to me should be, you're right.

You're right, Ken.

I'm continuing to do that.

And I've done Walmart.

It's not working out, but

I'm going to go to Target next, or I'm going to big lots, or I'm going, you know, and I'm going to show up again on a construction site.

I'm I'm going to tell you something right now, George.

I've said this before, but in today's current environment, if I was looking for fast money that was decent money, I would literally get in my car and drive around construction sites.

And I'm not saying that you're going to get something every time you go, but, you know, they need, a lot of times you're going to find that they need somebody to just do something.

hard work.

And manual labor is not the place where everybody's lining up.

There's not a line out there.

If you live in a neighborhood, you've got clients there because, you know, as Dave says, rich people are scared of leaves.

So you just go around and say, hey, I saw your grass a little overgrown.

I've been cutting loans in the neighborhood.

Be happy to do it.

Here's my rate.

You're going to have to get creative until you can get this side hustle off the ground.

But right now, we need to get some consistent income, see if your wife can work more.

I don't know what the child care situation is.

But if we have that under control, both of you need to be working 40, 50 hours a week to clean up the mess, get to a stable place so that you can rent your own place again soon.

But this is,

it's a lot going on.

It's not the time to pursue this thing over on the side.

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Dawn is up in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

Dawn, how can we help today?

Hello.

So I'm looking for a little bit of advice on how I should approach some debt that I have outstanding.

So just for background, I'm recently divorced

July of last year.

And I had to refinance my house as a result of the divorce.

So not talking about the house right now.

The only debt that I have is 18K for a car.

So I'm trying to determine, do I get a second job?

Am I being too conservative fiscally that I could probably pay more of it off now?

That leads me to believe that you are.

It's the very question that you asked there leads me to believe you are.

So what evidence do you think that you have that says, hey, I could put a little bit more towards this?

Well, just in my checking account, I maintain about $7,000 to $9,000 month over month after, after, you know, I pay my bills and everything.

So I have that, and then I have in my emergency fund about 31K.

Whoa.

So I have some cushion.

I mean, you could pass the car today.

Yeah.

If you were doing the baby steps, we'd say start with $1,000 in the starter emergency fund, pay off all debt.

You have enough to do that.

Then begin three to six months of expenses.

So you're doing the baby steps out of order, but the good news is you could be debt-free today, and you could burn less brain calories on this whole thing.

So

I guess I'm just, it's just me now.

So I guess if something happened with my job, I don't anticipate that, but if something happened with my job, then I'd be unemployed, and then that cushion would go away.

Well, if something happened with your job, you couldn't afford the car, it's getting repoed.

And so you've got risk on either side.

You've got more risk owing other people money and not owning this asset right now.

And you're still going to have $13,000, even if you pay off the car today.

And then you'll begin rebuilding that.

What's your car payment?

$4.15,000 a month.

So you add that.

Now you have that extra margin to add to your emergency savings goal.

That's an extra $5,000 a year right there.

And how much can you throw at your savings right now if you freed up that $4.15?

How much could I, if I freed it up?

So I come away after I pay all my bills every month, I do have about $1,500 left over.

Right.

So what we're saying is, is if there's no car payment,

now it's $1,900.

Well,

okay.

So that's another $23,000.

If you did that for 12 months, you just put that $1,900 away, you'd have about $23,000 on top of the $13,000.

So you're going to be fine.

Okay.

And then you can start investing.

So then that's what I was going to ask you.

That was the second piece.

So hold off on the investment.

I have a little bit of investment now, but hold off.

I'm thinking about some EFTs that my friend told me about, and I do need to research.

So.

You mean ETs?

EFTs.

I'm sorry.

Electronically funded trade.

Yes.

EFTs.

Sorry about that.

ETF.

I keep saying it wrong.

Yeah, yeah.

That's all right.

We need to.

But similar thing.

Do you have a retirement account through your employer right now?

I do have one through my current employer, and I do have

some additional ones from a prior employer.

Okay.

I would get

part of your homework is rolling over the prior employer money.

I would just do a direct rollover to an IRA.

That'll give you the most control and flexibility.

It is an IRA.

I should have said that, yes.

It's already in the IRA.

Okay.

It rolled over.

It's separate from my current employer, but it is an IRA.

Okay.

So you have that.

So I would just not contribute any more until you're out of debt with that three to six months of expenses.

So if your expenses are five grand a month to cover all your basic bills, then I would suggest having 25K, 30K in there.

Okay.

And a high yield.

Okay.

And then one other question.

So for my 401k, I'm currently doing 6%.

My employer matches 4%

up to

100K.

And then after that,

I can't remember what it is.

It's 50% after that.

Should I not increase my 6% while I'm trying to pay off?

Do all these other things.

Well, you just told me you would be willing to pause all investing until you get into a better spot financially.

And it won't be long, but I would pause that 6% because how much do you make a year?

About $157.

Not including my bonus.

So $157, 6% is $9,400 extra.

You could be throwing your emergency fund, which means it's going to get done faster.

So here's the honest truth.

You could be done with this whole thing five, six months from now.

You could be debt-free completely if you pay off the car today, then restock the emergency fund over the next five months, and you'll be back to investing, not 6%, but 15%.

You're almost going to triple your investing rate.

Do you see that?

I see some of what you're saying.

So you're saying what I'll lose from my employer not matching, because if I stop doing my piece, they don't match anything.

So you said what I'll lose on that is not significant enough to make me go the other route.

Exactly.

And the other thing it does, it lights a fire under you because you love that match.

You want to get back to that match, which means you're working even harder to get that emergency fund back stocked up.

That's what I found.

That's human nature.

Well, here's what's cool about this.

You're working really hard to restock your emergency fund on, not working really crazy to pay off a car.

That is a depreciating asset.

Right.

That makes total sense how you just said it.

I work hard to build savings, not pay for something that goes down in value.

That's right.

You're building for the future instead of paying for the past.

And do it this way.

And yes.

And by the way, we love that you called, Don, because it is a very real psychological hurdle to cut a big check from an emergency fund.

Totally get it.

However, the reason I told you about how you're working hard to replenish your savings so that you can invest and start on your path to becoming a millionaire, which I want George to paint a picture for that in just a moment.

But understand that the minute that you pay the car off, which is a depreciating asset, you also are now freeing up $400 plus a month right back into your pocket.

So

I just want you to see that full picture so you can overcome that psychology of,

oh, I don't like writing a big check out of an emergency fund.

That's why I asked you, do you see it?

I do.

I just got to get over because it's just me now.

Totally get it.

I'm divorced, so I do get what you're saying, though.

Yeah, because if you see it, you believe it.

The other thing I've been thinking about is getting the part-time job.

Sure.

My full-time job and get a part-time job to help with this.

You think that makes sense as well?

Yes, and I'll tell you why.

I don't know what George thinks, but I say yes because it's going to further help you with the psychology that I just outlined.

Like,

think about how much more secure you're going to feel because you're bringing in that extra money.

Got it.

And here's the truth.

You don't need it financially.

You don't need it.

You're going to get through this pretty fast, but I do think it's going to light a fire under you after you just went through one of the hardest things a human could experience.

Yeah.

And I think action always helps with healing versus just sitting around gringing Netflix.

Now, real quick, George, paint a picture for her when she gets to baby step four.

Oh,

let's do the investment calculator.

What's your total retirement investments right now?

About 380K.

I love it.

You're going to like it.

Okay,

how old are you?

I am 56.

56.

Now we're going to ride this out.

You can make 157.

That's before the bonus.

But if you do 15%, you're going to be maxing out a 401k.

That's 23.5 right there.

Do you understand that?

Okay.

So that's, let's say, two grand a month.

You're going to have quite the nest egg.

Let's say you do this till 67.

Oh, boy.

Let me see it.

Let me see it before you tell her.

Okay.

Oh, there it is.

Oh, boy.

Don, are you ready for this?

George, tee it up.

I am.

1.6 million

at 66.

I don't know how you did the math.

Tell her quickly.

You can jump on ramseysolutions.com.

Use our free investing calculator.

You're 56, current age.

I did 67 retirement age.

Currently, you have 380 grand.

If you contribute $2,000 a month and we assume a 10% rate of return, that's what we've seen overall in the U.S.

stock market, you're going to have $1.6 million.

Only $264,000 of that is the money you put in.

Almost a million is just compound growth doing the heavy lifting for you.

Go do it yourself, Don, so you can see he's not making magic over here.

This is real numbers.

I like it.

Pump for you, Don.

You got a great income.

Let's use it to build some wealth.

Go, Don, go.

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Your teenage daughter would not like it.

Oh, she would hate it.

She would call it cringe.

She would say, Dad, that's so cringe.

There we go.

Yeah, there's certain words that I don't think I should say.

There's too young for me.

You know?

I was just saying, just because you don't like something, it's not your preference, doesn't make it cringe.

Can we just drop that?

Yeah.

It's very bothersome.

Thank you very much.

What is cringe to you, someone else likes.

You know, kind of like my cardigan sweaters.

That is cringe.

Now you're aging into it very nicely.

It's perfect.

Aging very well.

All right.

We digress.

Scott is up in North Carolina.

Scott, how can we help today?

Hey, good afternoon, guys.

So I overall had a question based on my current financial situation and thinking ahead now that I'm getting a little older as to whether or not to pull some money out and renovate a separate building on my residential property to rent out as like a one-bedroom, one-bath studio kind of apartment.

Nice.

How much money would it cost to renovate this?

Currently, I'm thinking it's probably going to be around $40K to renovate it.

And what will it turn into?

What will that give you?

$40,000 for how many square feet?

And then also, what do you think you would be able to make on rental?

So it would be around

$650,000, $700 square feet.

And the realtors that I've spoken with, based on the location, et cetera, estimated around $1,000 a month.

But I was kind of thinking thinking $800 as a conservative number.

Okay.

And what would it add to the overall property value, you know, for resale?

Now, that aspect, honestly, I haven't really discussed with them that much.

So I'm honestly not sure.

You planning to be there forever?

Currently, yes.

I mean, I know something that led me to the question because they just did a re-evaluation of property taxes here, and it like shot up.

But see, that's why, even though you're planning to stay there forever, if I'm going to sink 40 grand into something, George, on my property, I'm automatically going to go, How much value did this add to the entire thing if I were to sell?

So, right now, you got your home, X amount of bedrooms, bath, acreage, whatever.

And now I've created a second living

area on there.

So that would be one thing.

But if you're staying there forever, that's fine.

But I still think it's worth looking into.

And then the other thing is,

how, what do you think?

What gives you a lot of confidence or how much confidence do you have that you would be able to rent this out on a regular basis?

I'm pretty confident.

I mean, the area I live in, it's very close to a lot of universities, hospitals, things of that sort.

So I wouldn't think that I would have any kind of problem finding a long-term renter for it.

So it's a one-bedroom, you're putting it out there.

So like people coming in for football games or tourism or something like that,

that's what you think this is.

But potentially, I mean, I was thinking more of like, you know, like just to establish a long-term renter, specifically.

Oh, a long-term renter.

All right.

All right.

I asked all the questions.

George is very particular on these things.

Well, I'm just trying to backtrack and go, why are we doing all of this?

Yeah, is it just to cover an increase in property taxes?

I mean, property taxes, I mean, that.

And the thing is, currently, I've been with my employees the majority of my dual life, but there's a lot of change going on.

And currently, I don't necessarily feel, I guess, secure in my position.

And in the area, I'm not sure that I'd be able to find a job equivalent making to what I make now.

So just think

once again.

What do you make now?

With not taking into account annual bonuses, around $110.

I just don't think $1,000 a month solves the problem you're trying to solve.

Well, and then where is this $40K coming from, you said?

So aside from my retirement account,

I did start,

you know, obviously I've tried to save some.

I've not been the best at it, but I've tried to save it.

And I did start investing in the stock market during COVID, and the returns on that have been

pretty positive.

So I think between my brokerage account and personal savings, I have around 80 grand saved.

Okay.

That's actually liquid.

You're not going into retirement for any of this money.

Correct.

Man, I mean,

it's a gamble.

It's going to take you probably five years to just break even on this.

And that's why I'm out.

And you also said if you didn't have this job, you'd likely have to move to make something similar, which tells me you might need to sell this house before

you even break even on it.

So, I mean, 80K, you're fine to cover the property taxes.

I just think you're trying to do multiple things at once and go, well, property taxes are going up.

Might as well get a rental versus just going, hey, what can I do in my budget to just add a sinking fund and cover this added expense?

My payment just went up every month.

I can handle it.

Because being a landlord on your own property has its own problems.

There's risks.

There's vacancy.

there's maintenance, there's repairs, there's the actual renovation, which is probably going to cost you more than you think it will because that's usually how it goes.

I actually think you're afraid.

I think what's driving this is the job situation.

That's what I heard.

I heard that you're a guy who's not so sure that you're going to have your job for very long.

That's what I heard.

Honestly, I mean, I think that's the main part of it.

Because, I mean, ideally, I wouldn't necessarily want to handle a long-term rental and have that as stress.

Right.

I think you just answered the question.

Well, the reason I okay, so I'm glad you answered that because here's the thing.

That's why I drove in on that point.

So fear is driving this possibility.

And so if we play this out, the very thing you're afraid of happening, this actually would be one of the worst things you could do if the fear came true.

In other words, 40 grand of cash.

And to George's point, there's no guarantee that's going to be 40.

So you need that 40K.

I'd want that 40K in liquid.

I'd want it there so that I had a cushion if I needed a cushion if I lose my job.

So the very thing you're trying to solve with this idea,

I don't think this is anywhere near the best idea.

I think the best idea is to hold the cash and stack the cash.

Okay.

Yeah, leaving it invested and then you getting a part-time job will have better ROI in the meantime.

So if you're really angling to make a little more money right now and you want to make $7.50 a month, you can go do that using the skills that you have today.

That's a great point.

Go make a thousand bucks doing something else.

Makes sense.

I mean, I did have like, I guess, one follow-up question around that scenario.

And I think I already know the answer.

I mean, just thinking logically through this, but wanted to kind of pose it to you as well.

I mean, because I was thinking, like, worst-case scenario, if I were to lose my job, because I don't necessarily want to leave this area, this area I grew up in or whatnot.

If I were unable to find an equivalent job making what I make, I mean, I considered potentially cashing out my 401k because my 401k

horrible idea.

You're going to be calling us a 60 going, hey man, I'm broke.

I don't have anything in retirement and my body gave out.

I can't work anymore.

I don't have anything in retirement.

Do not cash it out.

You're essentially taking out a loan for 35 or 40% by cashing out your retirement, which you would never do that, right?

And that was my initial thought, but that was like a no-go.

It's a horrible thought in the back of my mind, but I appreciate y'all cash out.

Unless you're facing bankruptcy or foreclosure, you never touch your retirement accounts if you're not 59 and a half yet.

Yeah, Scott, I want to, if I can, can I encourage your heart on something?

And I'm not saying this critically, but here's what I'm hearing.

I'm hearing a guy who is looking at a real possibility of something bad happening, and you've gotten protective instead of proactive.

I think everything I'm hearing is a protective solution instead of a proactive solution.

That's what I hear.

And I think that you need to happen to this possibility, not try to go, how do I protect myself from this bad thing happening?

And I consider a 401k thing, which is a horrible decision.

I'm considering spending money on this rent thing, as opposed to going, if this happens,

I'm going to do this, this, and this, and I'm going to spend my time connecting with people.

And I'm going to give you a copy of my book, The Proximity Principle, just as some form of,

hey, I'm going to build my network starting today so that if this happens,

I can be proactive and not protective.

I just sense that over you.

And that, by the way, we all fall into that with fear.

But I think the best way to handle something that could be a negative, that could be coming, is to think proactively on how to solve it, not protectively.

George?

It's a good word.

Nothing to add.

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Our scripture today comes from Psalm 86, verse 11: Teach me your way, Lord, that I may rely on your faithfulness.

Give me an undivided heart that I may fear your name.

And our quote of the day from Mark Twain, don't let schooling interfere with your education.

I know Ken loves that one.

I do love a good Mark Twain.

By the way, I'm reading the biography on Mark Twain right now by Ron Chernow.

How's that?

It's a tough read.

Really?

Yeah.

I thought he'd be a fascinating guy.

He is.

Chernow's a little heavy.

Oh.

I just, I don't want to endorse the book because, and I got Dave reading it.

And Dave and I were talking the other day on the show.

He's like, man, that's pretty heavy.

I go, it's just, it's not an easy read.

In light of who Twain was, you would think it'd be more brevity,

a little bit lighter fair.

It's a very good point.

Very good point.

Carol is joining us in Charlottesville, Virginia.

Carol, how can we help today?

Hi there.

So I have an anecdote for you.

I was at the credit union the other week and I was at the teller window.

And this gentleman walks up to the next teller window and the teller says, how are you today?

And he goes, better than I deserve.

And I was like,

Bay Ramsey and Charlotteville?

The secret signal.

That's how you know they're a real one.

Yeah.

Did you like give the guy a knowing look and say, I know you?

Yeah, I did.

I said, I know where that comes from.

And he chuckled as he was depositing his money.

Love it.

By the way,

can I just say, Carol, I love that you use the word chuckle.

It's one of my favorite words.

I don't think we use it enough.

So thank you.

You're welcome.

Okay, so I have three properties: my primary home, my, and two rentals of duplex.

And primary home is paid off.

But how much, based on, how much would you put aside for, you know, like the roof may be replaced one day or the HVAC is going to go out?

Is there a percentage of the value of the property I should have in a thinking fund?

Or

is there a formula?

Good question.

George, what do you think?

I don't think there's like an industry standard formula, but I think, you know, kind of going, hey, 10% of rent, if I can afford to put that aside, so if you're renting it for $1,200, can you put away $120 a month?

And if you feel like, based on the, it also depends on what's going on with the house.

Is it a 20-year-old roof?

Well, you're probably going to need a roof fairly soon.

And so I would, you know, you could do an inspection on it and kind of see where the problem areas might be because they'll tell you, hey, the HVAC is okay, but you're probably looking at five years.

You're going to need to replace this thing.

If it's a brand new property, it might mean a lot less issues.

So it really depends on the current state of the properties.

But more is always going to give you more peace.

Exactly.

Did you have a number in mind?

I've read, I have Googled this, and it says anywhere from 5% to 10% of the property value of the that feels real high.

That seems like a lot.

What would that be for you?

So

each of these duplexes, one, well, one of them just got renovated completely.

Um, and that that set me back about 42, but that was everything.

New flooring, siding, windows, had to replace some floor.

Yeah, see, none of that's going to just spring up on you.

And that's the stuff you want to get ahead of the stuff you know is coming, and then also have some for the emergency stuff that you can't foresee coming.

Yeah,

right.

Yeah.

So the one I've heard is 1% of the property value.

So 10%.

No, 1% a year.

Yeah, 1% per year.

Yeah.

So eventually you might have 10% of the value.

One of them is like 300K.

The other one is probably 250 because it does need work.

But this one's been totally redone, 300.

So 1% is what?

Well, it would be 2,500.

$100,000.

$2,500.

Okay.

Yeah, I would have an ultimate goal of saying, hey, can we have 30K each in an account

eventually?

Yeah.

But if you can't do that tomorrow, that's okay.

But if you know one of them needs more work sooner, I would stack that one up faster.

And you can always move the piles of money around.

It doesn't have to be, you know, 30K here, 30K there.

You can move it around eventually if something comes up.

Yeah, I had one account that services both houses.

Are they paid off?

You have a mortgage on both the rentals right now?

Well, yeah, well,

the one that I'm in was paid off, and my primary residence had a house fire.

Oh, my goodness.

So that was completely gutted.

That house is paid off, but I had to gut that house.

And I've had to cash flow some of the stuff that insurance wouldn't pay for.

So to do that, I took a mortgage out on the one rental property to help until I can get settled.

Oh, it was paid off, but you had to, you went backwards to fund it.

Taking the insurance.

Yeah, so my primary is turn.

So I had this grand plan.

I just turned 59 last week.

Everything was going to be paid off by the time I turned 60, all of my mortgages, and that didn't happen.

But still trying to make that happen.

What are they worth?

And what could you, what's left on the mortgages?

Yeah,

so $150 is owed on this one that's worth $300.

And I owe $27 on the one next door that's worth $250.

And then my primary home, the value, because it's been totally redone, everything's been redone.

That's probably going to be a half million at least.

And that's paid off.

I'd work on knocking out that $27K rental mortgage and then move on to the $150 one.

And worst case, if you don't like one of them, just sell it and pay off the other one and be double.

Yeah,

I've been thinking about that too.

You might find the juice isn't worth the squeeze on how much you're actually making per year and what your hassle factor is and what your time is costing to put the effort in.

Exactly.

And it's been a, well, I've been living in the one rental while my primary home has been being renovated.

Yeah.

So that was good.

I didn't have to pay rent somewhere else.

I'm just living here for free.

What are you clearing on both of the condos?

On this one, I'm clearing, well, it was paid off.

So

probably $1,100 between the two.

So like $500 each.

See, that's the point that George is making.

It's just

without even the risk and vacancy, repairs, maintenance.

I'm going, if you sold one of them and put the excess in an investment account, you could probably make $13,000.

Yeah.

Truly passively with no headache.

Yeah, well, I've got 1.5 in my investment account.

Good for you.

I would get rid of one of these.

I would sell

the one with more debt on it and then pay off the other one.

And you can hold on to that for a while if you want to.

And that's a whole lot.

Yeah, the thing with real estate is you need a lot of it in order to actually replace your income.

So to make $500 a month, maybe, I don't know if it's worth it for you.

If you're kind of done with it, you're dealing with a lot of issues.

The house needs a lot of repairs.

There's nothing wrong with throwing in the towel and going, you know what?

I tried it.

It was fun for a season.

I'm turning 60.

I just want less hassle factor.

Yeah.

Yeah, no, that has crossed my mind too.

And then, you know, the other thing is I went back through my,

I'm not a baby step Ramsey person, but I've always lived below my means because both of my parents were depression era kids, right?

So we always would below our means.

You know, we had had everything we needed.

My father always said, if we don't have the cash and we're not getting it, I mean, that was the role.

So that's how I've been raised.

And that'll get you far in life.

I went back and looked at my Social Security statement, you know, for all the years I've been working since like 1984 or whatever.

The average, the average of my salary was $48,900.

Wow.

And I'm sitting on $2.5 million at the moment.

So I'm pretty good.

Way to go.

No, you're not pretty good.

You're pretty freaking awesome.

That's what you are.

That's just phenomenal.

That's another reason at 59, I would unload one of these things and not have the debt on it.

You've got so much money in your retirement.

That's, George, what is she doing?

It's not going to change your net worth because that $1.5 million, you know, by the time you're 66, will be three if you don't do anything.

If you don't do anything.

Right.

I would enjoy my life a little bit more.

That's just too much of a headache for someone who's worth what you're worth.

That's my opinion.

Like, none of this is, you're not in trouble.

But this is just, if I look at how much money you're actually making on this,

if it was paid off and it was a cash cow and it was very little effort and a little hassle factorized out, just keep it.

You're enjoying it.

But it feels like the joy is gone.

And you don't need it.

It really, I mean, I have great tenant.

The tenant that I've had, she's been over here for 15 years.

She, she is not a hassle.

And the tenant that was in this house wasn't a hassle either until she, her circumstances changed.

But anyway, you know, and I think yeah well the people may not be a hassle just the maintenance and upkeep yeah we're just saying don't buy them need any of this so you're doing great uh fantastic fantastic scenario thanks for calling us you're doing glad to end on a high note oh i love that and hey to the rest of you remember there's ultimately only one way to financial peace and that's to walk daily with the prince of peace christ jesus

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beauty

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