Call Her Daddy

Saweetie: Blocked Numbers & Birkin Bags

November 20, 2024 51m Episode 421
Join Alex in the studio for a fun interview with Saweetie! Saweetie opens up about her current approach to relationships, the craziest way she caught a partner cheating on her, when you should keep gifts (especially Birkins) from an ex, and why she might be done dating rappers. She also discusses her love of hot cheetos, the time she was renting rooms from Craigslist, coding on Myspace, and her new music. Enjoy!

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Saweetie, welcome to Call Her Daddy.

Hey, girl.

Finally.

Finally.

It's like inappropriate that it took this long for us.

You know what I mean?

You came to my tour and you went so fucking hard.

The daddy gang was taking their tops off for you, screaming for you.

Oh, you didn't see that?

I didn't see that. Upper balcony titties.
Really? I know that's my pretty titty committee. And I had the best time with you.
And I was saying to you earlier, like, everyone was like, so we don't get a fucking episode. And I'm like, it's coming.
It's coming. It's coming.
How are you today? I'm good. You look amazing.
You look amazing. Can we talk about your nails? I feel like you're like very known for going hard with your nails.
What inspired these nails today? And when I say these, I'm also talking about your toenails. Well, I always get bling on my feet.
I've been wearing white toenail polish since I don't know my twenties. I need like a white polish nail deal.
Any other color, my feet look weird. I do feel like no one can go wrong with white toenails but you have more than like white on your feet so weedy that's like glitter crystals i wouldn't be surprised if that's a motherfucking diamond down there it's chrome it's some diamond how long does it take to do these nails it can rain sometimes it's two hours sometimes it could be eight to ten hours.
If it's like freestyling, like custom art paint and then jewels, it takes time. It's like drawing a mirror on your fingers.
What the fuck are you doing for ten hours? Girl, I try to have meetings. I try to like multitask during my nail appointments just so I can like get things done.
I am like the opposite where I'm like,

if I'm putting on like a fake nail, if it takes more than an hour, I'm like, I gotta go. They're

like, but we haven't finished your last nail. I'm like, I don't care.
I have, I am like so impatient when it comes to my nails and looking at you today, I'm like, and those are not press ons. But what inspired these is I shot two Christmas music videos and, um, I needed to to get into the the holiday season so these actually have snowflakes on them and a reindeer we are you a big Christmas person yes I'm Filipino like Christmas is such a big deal in our culture okay because I always whenever someone's coming out with Christmas music I'm always like hold on are you as obsessed with Christmas as me because I go so fucking hard like what do you do oh I turn to my husband every single year and I'm like it's September and he's like we are not getting a tree Alex okay real trees are fake trees I have a real one in my living room and I go so fucking hard because like the minute fall happens I'm I'm ready for fucking christ.
And I want to like edge towards Christmas. I don't want just December to be Christmas.
Like I want the whole fall experience to be leading up to the main event, if that makes sense. So my entire house I'm decorating.
But last year I didn't do the outside of my house. Like do you do your house? I just do inside my living room.
Okay, yes. You're like making it cozy.
Yeah, is your favorite Christmas tradition Christmas Eve with my family what do you do like we open up presents that night not on Christmas day oh but like my favorite childhood memories would be like my mom's mom cooking um Filipino food hella food doing karaoke and then at 12 o'clock we'd all open up our presents I always used to be like please let us open our presents on Christmas Eve and my mom would be like one and then I was always like the freak that was like trying to like open them and then rewrap them at night no I was like I was like so my mom was like well then you're not getting any of your presents but I was like I'm obsessed and it's just like the best time wait speaking of food I'm swerving but I have heard that you like a lot of like different concoctions of food that maybe some people would be like wait that's gross can you talk to me about some of the things that you're pairing together that are like random but good in your opinion okay so do you like sushi of course okay so like for a tuna roll okay I'll get hot cheetos and i'll smush them up and then i'll drizzle them over the tuna roll that's fucking brilliant it's actually really good but are you bringing the cheetos in no no girl only if i like do some postmates oh yeah you're not like smuggling in some hot cheetos you got your big purse and you wait for the waiter to walk away and you're literally like sprinkling not no though like i'm not mad about it okay so cheetos on top of sushi i've read is this true spaghetti with ranch finally a rumor that's true stop when is the first time you tried that honestly I grew up doing that like that was so second natured to me so when I had posted it the first time online I thought nothing of it and then I was trending like an hour later and I'm like why is this causing such a frenzy you're like I've been doing this since I was born yeah since I was born I think also when, like you do some stuff that like people, I don't know. It's like, I guess like however you grow up, right? But like, this is kind of fucking disgusting and I wouldn't do it now.
But like, I'm pretty sure when I was younger, I put, this is gross. I'm pretty sure I put ketchup on my mashed potatoes.
Wait, but it's like a french fry. That's where it comes from.
Period. Wait, would she want to hear something nasty? Yeah.
So when I was a little girl in the middle of the night, I used to sneak into the fridge and eat butter by itself. And one day I got caught by my mom, like red handed, like with a whole bunch of butter.
Girl, she scared the crap out of me. She was like, if you continue to eat that butter by itself, you're going to turn into Chucky.
I promise you, I never touch butter again. Shut the fuck up.
No. Yes.
You're just raw dogging it and biting into it? Sweetie. I know what this wrong with me.
You're literally going in with your teeth? Yes. Would you ever smooth it out so no one saw it in or were you just leaving it a little like a little chick no i was i was going in in the middle of the night as a little kid i mean listen butter is look at us just fully talking about food we're gonna talk about food the whole fucking episode no um okay your legal name is diamante yes girl does everyone in your life call you that or do they call you saweetie um some people call me Diamante.
What do your best friends call you? It depends. Tell me.
It depends from what era they met me at. Okay.
So my childhood best friends, they'll call me Dee Dee. Dee Dee.
My middle school friends will call me Saweetie because that was my MySpace name. And that's where I had got Saweetie from.
My my MySpace was so popping. I'd be at like high school parties or I'd be at, you know, walking to school and they'd be like, are you Saweetie from MySpace? Yes.
What the fuck were you doing on MySpace? Girl, I was coding the fuck out of my page. I was, you know, in the middle of the night, sweaty, finding all the codes.
Girl, I was a nerd. So my MySpace was like very aesthetically freezing.
Stop. You were a coder from day one.
I was a coder from day one, not even knowing girl I was a nerd so my myspace was like very aesthetically freezing stop you were a coder from day one I was a coder from day one not even knowing that I was coding girl I should that paid for that no Gen Z has no fucking idea like if you missed the myspace era changing the backgrounds getting your new song hiding your song or hiding your song that nobody knew about you know oh my god and so people literally just knew you because you were fucking cool. I mean, I guess.
Okay, wait. But before, now take me back, before you start your MySpace, where do you get the name Saweetie? My grandma.
Yeah. How did she give you that name? She would just call me her Saweetie.
Wait, that's so fucking cute. Yeah.
And then I was signing up for MySpace. And at the time, I didn't really like my name, how I love my name now, only because people wouldn't pronounce it right.
So I was like, I don't want to put it up and then people just don't know how to pronounce my name. So I was like, I need some fly shit.
But then I don't want it to be basic. So I put the A between the S and the W and the rest was history.
Who knew then one day that would be like your global name that the entire world knows you as and not just like a MySpace community? What you want to know what was even crazier is I had started like a business, a hat and a t-shirt business. And my grandma was like, I know you're going to be a big business woman one day.
I know that you're going to need your name. So she bought Saweetie.
She bought me the website Saweetie.

When I was like, I think I was like 18 years old, 17 or 18 years old.

She was like, I know you're going to do something.

So let me just get this for you because as a businesswoman, you're going to need to trademark it.

That gives me chills just because it seems like you obviously had a pretty great relationship with your grandmother.

Yeah, she's everything to me. Is she still with us? Yes.
Girl she's she's 70 going on 21. What does she think of your whole career now? She has mixed emotions.
Okay. She loves it but when she hears like the negative press it stresses her out.
Yeah. But she's a preacher so she goes to like war for me in prayer.
She's like my prayer warrior so she's constantly praying for me. What do you think stresses her out the most and like what could be negative about you I think that the fact that she knows that some of the um the rumors aren't true and she's just like why don't you say anything like this isn't who you are and I'm just like it's just only gonna make the story bigger so I choose not to address certain things because I don't want to add fuel to the fire and the best way to get rid of something is to ignore it so um she's just like yeah but you know I know my baby that's not my baby right there so yeah she just be going through it sometimes but how did you decide like at what point in your career where you're like do not give a fuck what people say about me because it's easier said than done I have two answers for this okay so the first half i would say in the earlier on in my career

i would say i would just disassociate myself from saweetie because there's diamante and there's i'm like okay if y'all knew diamante to know me and to love me y'all wouldn't be doing all this stuff to me um so at first it was disassociation but now i'm just so at peace with just who i am I'm like, God knows my heart.

And as long as God knows my heart, there's no problem. Sweetie, why are you getting emotional? Because it took so long to get here.
Tell me about that. What do you mean? Like, you're talking about, like, your journey to get here.
Oh, man, you're making me cry. Girl! Should we take a water break? We went from fucking Cheetos toetos and the motherfucking i don't know why that just made me feel that way because i think that when you are someone that is you know yourself like and what it took and everything and then you read like the bullshit and it's such bullshit you're like wait this is what i'm getting reduced to right now like i mean i could be speaking out of turn like i don't know if that's your experience but exactly it's hard to be like guys oh my gosh no i told myself i wasn't gonna do this today here we are one on a clock on a monday without getting too detailed i'm thinking obviously of like if someone is listening that's like becoming a new fan today or like knows you, but it's a little like, what the fuck are you guys talking about?

Can you lightly just explain a little bit of what we're talking about?

Like, are we talking romantic?

Are we talking friendship?

Are we talking work beef?

I think it's everything because as a public figure, all parts of my life in those categories are exposed. Yeah.
But I think what I get the most sensitive about is my art. So I'm like, y'all motherfuckers don't know how much I put into this shit.
You know, I think it is important, though, to recognize, like, especially with artists, so much goes into it because it's a huge part of you. Absolutely.
Like, you're clearly someone that's not just handed a script and being like wear this dress like this sing like this like this is you. Yeah I'm very peculiar so I have to be very involved with everything otherwise I'll get the final product and be like we gotta change this this and that and then it takes away more time so I'd I'd rather just be hands-on from the jump.
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Quince.com slash daddy. When would you ever pop off on someone? Like, when are you going to actually like, what does it take? Never.
I never want to go off on somebody because the thoughts that I think are outrageous. Sweetie.
Yes. No, my thoughts.
And I just did my, like my Ved my vedic um astrology chart okay and in that um in that system my moon is a scorpio so it just lets you know like where my mind can go so i'm like don't fuck with me for real so you're always this calm i try to be because i just know I know myself I can like Staring at you right now

You're so like even keel like calm like it's nice it's like relaxing actually to like be around you but i'm trying to envision you like like what it takes for someone to like push you over the edge but you rarely let it get to that point no because then they also win yeah also yeah let's talk about that too it's an energy exchange and it's just like i'd rather alchemize the energy like take it and then use this energy for something else like i don't want to give that back to you i feel like that sometimes in romantic relationships it can be hard not to go tip for tat and be like you did this and i did this but it feel like you've kind of gotten to a place where clearly you're like um interestingly it's weird because um sometimes it's like they want a response out of you they don't even appreciate the um the growth no and it like annoys them when you're like okay no when you're like okay and they're like wait what the fuck I literally just called called you an XYZ and your response is, no, you doing it right there. I can only imagine.
That must drive people insane. I mean, it's kind of a superpower.
I'm not as strong as you. I feel the same way sometimes with my words where I'm like, could kill you with my words and I I think I when I was younger in high school and in college if someone came for me or my friend I almost felt like worse when I would see my friend like someone coming for them and I knew they wouldn't speak up for themselves so then I was the friend that was like hold on let me get the fuck in here and I'm going to say something.
But then I also realized, like, who is that helping in that moment? Like, I don't know. I feel like sometimes I felt like being like loud and taking charge and putting the person down would like make me feel better.
But like you're just getting riled up and they're just happy that you're engaging at the same level as them. Where really when you're like, what are you doing? They're literally like and they're screaming and they're being insane and you're like what are you good oh man they want to die they want to crawl into a hole they're like oh my god wait wait so i think it's i agree the energy level can be interesting in the way that you interact with someone can like heavily dictate also the way that you leave someone feeling about you absolutely and um it's taken me a while to get

here yeah yeah it I wasn't always this like poised when it came to my reaction so trust me like if as long as you work on it like you'll see yourself evolve yeah yeah your career took off after you released the song icy girl yeah and it's all about wealth and luxury but obviously that's not how your life looked your whole life. I remember reading, you were saying you would go on Craigslist and stay.
How did that come to be? So, you know, when you get an apartment, you have to do first and last, first months and last month's rent. Yes.
And I was like, oh my God, what do you bloody perfect so i was like okay how do i how do i um find a loophole and the loophole was craigslist because when you're running or subletting a room from somebody you're only just paying for your portion of the rent and it's their name on the lease so um thankfully i've had some cool roommates um my two favorite oh my gosh gosh, bless this old lady's heart. There was an older lady in Studio City, and she had a guest house.
And I stayed in her guest house. And then there was another woman who I stayed with in Sherman Oaks.
I think her roommate had to go back and renew his visa. So I had subletted his room and I was just like being blessed with all these good roommates that were clean, nice, respectful.
I was about to say, you can have some like horror stories, I feel like for roommates. Well, honestly, you have to trust your gut.
Like I'd go see some places and I'd be, I wouldn't like mess with the energy. And I'd be like, I gotta go.
You like knew immediately. I knew immediately.
And also a red flag for any people who do do it. Anybody who is super eager and pressing you to rent a room, I wouldn't trust that.
Oh, man. Yeah.
That is good advice. Yeah, I don't know why.
But when you're thirsty and eager to have a stranger come rent a room, I don't trust that personality trait. Yeah, you're like you desperate yeah why are you desperate like I I want I want to work for a little bit yeah I don't know that something just be off a little bit that is like beautiful to know though that you had like a positive experience with that because it's weird in life when you like get matched up with people that you would probably would have never met yeah and then that like has a lasting impact on you and at such like a pivotal time for you where you were like looking for a home and trying to get to the next step of your career and to have someone be so beautiful and like lovely towards you yeah that completely changes the dynamic as opposed to if you went with one of the fucking freaks that was like come on yeah come on exactly tonight exactly that's the vibe like where would i be if i took that offer um let's talk about your love life uh-huh what's happening are we seeing anybody are we in a relationship are we single i am seeing somebody yeah talk to me um their name starts with a c i thought you were gonna say their name you want to know their name kind of my career girl sweetie no not me being like oh my god fuck she's really down today you're like um christian damn okay you career.
Yeah, intentionally. When did you get off the sauce? What does that mean? When did you be like, I'm getting off of men for a second.
I'm not dating. I just feel like I'm at a really special time in my career.
And I just have all these ideas. and I to channel my my energy in a way where I feel like I can make the steps to where I see myself going and you know I'm just really happy right now I'm happy where where my life is heading so I'm dating my career I love that answer I think that like needs to I I wish that was more of my answer when I was younger because I I think sometimes we've naturally feel like wait do I need to get back out there like is it weird that I'm not dating and it's like no I think you need to go through like long periods of time where you can decide what your focus is and I think that's like amazing that you're focusing on your career and then also let me say this i feel like some people who i've dated in the past we would have been better off as creative partners um there was this tiktok you know sometimes tiktok be having the information girl there's this woman and i wish i knew her handle because i'm so grateful for um this wisdom she had provided but she was basically saying that sexual energy and creative energy

comes from the same place. And when you confuse the energy, you can sometimes, you know, make,

I wouldn't say the wrong decision, but you can lean in more into the sexual energy. But then that ruins the creative energy because you've already depleted the energy.
That's such a good point. Like anyone that ends up have, even if you're not in your specific industry, like people listening like I get it there's so many people that write into me about like work relationships and I get what you're saying and that's a great fucking TikTok because it's like the way that you can feel when you complete a project or you get to the next level of your career or you guys go to a fucking presentation and you crush it it's like that feeling of like oh we we have to rip our clothes off and it's like no it's a different way of finishing i fucking love you um what if we were dating uh-huh what is it like to date you well i don't know if all of your exes were in this room right, what? Nightmare? I wonder what that conversation would be like.
What do you think they would all say? Is there a theme? A theme? Oh, my gosh. Girl, you'd have to ask them.
Would that be happy vibes or, like, bad vibes if exes were in this room? I think happy vibes. Really? i don't really like no matter what happens i like girl i just be happy i'm a happy i'm naturally just a happy person so i'm like damn you did some shady shit but i'm like my energy is so disconnected from you that i can i cannot associate myself with what happened between us and just look at you as a regular human being oh that's so nice I think a lot of people wish they could feel that way like they could not get so wrapped up in you hurt me and you did this to me and like how dare you like but also something we have to unpack too is a lot of men have unaddressed trauma that they don't face and they project it on their partners so sometimes I'd be thinking about stuff and I'd be like what happened to you in your childhood no actually no right so then it makes me look at what they did to me because I know that they really love me yeah like I know that so I'm just like you got some things to unpack you should probably handle that yeah because if you were to handle that, then we probably would have worked out.
It's such a mature way to look at things. Essentially also what you're saying is it has nothing to do with you.
And that's, I think, hard for people sometimes to accept. If someone is listening to this and just got cheated on, and you can't help but sometimes think, what did I do wrong or what did I not give

them or what and it's like most of the time it literally has nothing to do with you which is a weird thing because you almost like want to be able to pinpoint in yourself what you could change so it never happens again but half of the time it's literally on the other individual like you were doing fucking great yeah you were thriving sweetie right and I knew that I was a good girlfriend so it's like I'm like

something wrong with you

I like that answer okay in one of your songs you describe your type as someone who makes eight figures and is eight inches what other qualities do you look for in a partner somebody who has high emotional intelligence. Moment of silence for that.
We're like, come to us. We're summoning you.
You back. Get the weed, you more bitch.
Grow. But legit.
If they don't have that, I agree agree with you but how do you even get to the point where you can figure out like are they a sweet talker or are they actually like with it emotionally that they can hang with me honestly just experience we have to experience a unique situation and that tells anybody how somebody is.

Yeah, that's true.

Like the honeymoon stage can be so easy, daddy gang.

Like you can be like, oh, love the sex, the conversations.

And then you hit like one bump in the road.

Someone has a problem with family or finances or insecurity, jealousy.

And all of a sudden, how do you guys handle that right it's a

good point okay it seems like you have a type do you um do you know what do you know what i'm gonna say what do you think your type is girl what's my type you said you brought it up you brought it up it's your show

rappers

okay let's talk about it. OK.
OK, so for example, if you're at a high school, right, you tend to date. I mean, high school or whatever.
Let's just call it whatever the proximity is. Yes.
You're going to date what you're around. Yes.
And I think that's why I found myself in those situations because these are the only people that I'm around. However, you know, I'd like to go to a new environment.
Ain't no wrong with that. Do you think you would venture out? Well, me and my career is doing just fine right now.
So, you know. I like that answer, though, because I think there's nothing wrong with a type.
And I also think it's. But I wouldn't even call it like a type.
I think it's just because of the proximity of where I'm always at. These are the people who I'm only engaging and seeing, you know.
Yes. I remember like back in the day, I would talk about how i had a pattern pattern is better

than a tiny wouldn't be like no it was just like a little pattern i had a pattern of dating athletes how is that by the way so oh dating athletes yeah you know it's uh it's a it'll fuck you up but it'll make you it's just it depends actually what sport too okay what's the difference so let's break it down for icy gang and daddy yeah yeah okay so baseball players okay i find that they are sometimes the sketchiest really because they're on the road they have 160 something games a year okay so they're on the road at all times okay and they're playing so many fucking games where as opposed to football it's like 16 fucking games and like they're not allowed to have girls in the hotel room it's super strict for football it's like we got 16 fucking games motherfucker bear down and focus right baseball it's like another day another game and so it's kind of more of like a relaxed environment so there's road beef in every fucking city we got minnesota road beef we've got miami road beef and they literally like call it road beef what's road beef women oh oh oh hell no so we're the like and i remember at least be some wagyu but just to confirm i am the wagyu ground beef taco meat no so in college i remember i was dating this guy and i would be around his single like baseball athletes and the way that they would talk about it was so concerning because it was just like every fucking city there was a different rotation because I think it's like they're just on the move and they're looking like it's almost like when you're in a bubble whether you're like it doesn't even feel like real life when I was like living that life with them like they're just every fucking day is this groundhog day they wake up they go to the field they come home they have a drink at the bar the girl, they go to sleep, they do it the next day in the same fucking city. So I would say baseball players are like lethal.
They seem so clean cut. No.
I never date soccer players because that didn't really do it for me. And hockey players, great butts.
No teeth, great butts. And they're kind of, I thought they were better than baseball players.
Really? Still players, but like a little nicer. I've never been attracted to athletes.
That's probably for the best. But then again.
Because like I come from a family full of athletes. So it just always feels like, like you my cousin.
Like, you know. I don't want to fuck my cousin.
so I've never Talked to an athlete

I think you also wouldn't have time for them

It's so on their schedule

And I think you have such a busy schedule

You've got to be very available

For an athlete

You've got to be up and ready to pick up and go to their life

And you don't have time for that shit

I mean you know this

I shot into like 4 in the morning last night

And now you're here. And now I'm here.
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the first move are they um i have made the first move before and is that like you going up to them and approaching them or are you what's what are you walking up ten toes down and what are you saying let's reenact it i mean it's just a mess okay okay it's like the vibe in the setting but you're totally down to go up someone yeah i love that yeah like if you see something go for it absolutely what is the boldest way that you've ever put yourself out there for a guy no okay this is high school okay high school okay actually in high school i talked to um an athlete yeah there we go this is high school. Okay.
High school. Okay.
Actually, in high school, I talked to an athlete. Yeah.
There we go. But after high school, no.
Done. I remember it was my senior year, and I had a crush on this boy.
And I was like, dang. I only got one more year to see him on campus.
The clock is running out. The clock is running out.
You know, he was like, I was big in volleyball. I was doing my thing and he was playing football.

And we had like an athlete room where like the football players would come review their tapes.

And then we played during the same season.

So, you know, the volleyball girls would come in there and it felt like one big family.

But I was like, how do I like get him?

Because he was shy.

Yep.

Girl. So it's rush week.
So I go and I was like how do I like get him because he was shy yep girl so it's rush week so I go and I was like I have a plan so me and my plan get together and it's lunch and we're all sitting in the room and finally I'm like um I tap him I'm like um oh somebody wants to go speak to you outside he he was like who I was like you know like you know, like probably one of the organizations. It is Rush Week.
And he was like, okay, because you know, sometimes a recruit and if you weren't an athlete, you couldn't come into the room. It was like taboo, like heavily frowned upon.
So we walk outside and we start walking and he was like, who was it? And I was like, me. What did he did he say he started laughing it's kind of like really really forward and I love it he started laughing and he goes like why and I'm just like because I wanted to talk to you did you end up going on a date um hooking up we like falling in love we started to go to each other's games I mean everybody was already going to the football games because um they were winning that year and then they were already coming to the volleyball games because you know how the football players gotta practice yeah yeah um but we like intentionally started going to each other's games to like support each other and then we would go to like in and out afterwards because

like that was like the high school club yeah open until 1 a.m in the morning um on the weekends um but yeah I would go over to his house and like his family would cook for me I would do my homework over there so it worked out um oh well not worked out but I mean like oh what happened did he cheat on you no i got bored so i had to break up with him you got bored yeah and i was like i think we'd be better off as friends shout out wherever you are today we love you but i was honest you were yeah i'm very straightforward if i feel like something's not working out like i'll tell you i feel like we're not working out okay what is the craziest thing an ex has ever done to you give us a fucking story come on sweetie come on this is caller daddy craziest thing go this actually has happened to me twice i don't know where men get their information but i've had like i've broken up with people and they found me what what does that does that mean? We. Like, they'll show up to my hotel and be like, room service.

Shut the fuck up.

Yeah.

Mm-hmm.

It's happened to me twice.

Room service.

Yes.

And what the fuck is cherry on top is they try to make their voices high-pitched.

They go, room service.

I mean.

If only there was a fucking camera outside that room of them like girl but i know but but then it's like they cover the picot do you let them in i did i did i'm like and you found me do you find me you're like somehow you're spinning it you're like kind of romantic you put in the work found me. How have you been someone to historically get

back with exes or once you're done? Are you done? I feel like once I'm done, I'm done.

Except for when they show up to the hotel. Um, I feel like those were like mini breakups.
Okay.

Like it was like we were going through something. I might've blocked them.
It probably was like a

couple of days or a couple of weeks. Yeah.
And I'm just like, it's like a soft breakup, you know? Not a hard breakup. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Are you a big blocker? I'm a big blocker. Send you a paragraph and block your ass.
And I want to see them bubbles popping up so I know that you try to get sick. I'm obsessed.
How long? Because then you unblock i've unblocked before but there's people who are still on my block list there's been years oh and you don't even wonder no i don't because i think that i remember i had a friend that like we would always talk about this back in the day when i was in my blocking phase and she would always say like i don't know how you block people like I need to see what they're gonna say like it's so interesting to me and I'm like really like I kind of want it to just fade into the abyss I love that go to the abyss I kind of don't know what you're gonna say and like and then you can kind of like create what you think they would say in your head but I kind of don't want to know right okay wow you're hitting paragraph

then blah kind of genius what is your stance on keeping gifts from an ex um it really just depends okay you know like if it's a custom one-on-one i'm keeping it custom one-on-one yeah like what is a custom one-on-one that you have you know it's a couple things jewelry jewelry purse purses

what's the nicest bag of guys ever bought you i would say a customized birkin and he sent it to me before i met him what i don't have what i'm i'm i'm a very talkative person i don't have words yeah it was like some player shit it was my birthday wow i was single and um you know we were like casually talking and he was like um where's your address isn't your birthday coming up and i was like was like, yeah, like, oh, that's nice. He's going to send me flowers.
What's funny is, so my birthday passes. It's a week.
My maids have cleaned, you know, my condo. And he hits me up and he's like, so did you like your birthday present? And I'm like, I never got it.
And he goes, it should have came in this kind of box. So then I text my maids.
And they're like, oh yeah we put the box in the um the guest room because we didn't know what it was so i opened up the box bitch i hit that group chat you're like i was like how i am it was nice how long after then did you meet him in person oh for a while what yeah i was working a lot you got a whole ass burkin before meeting a man you have the voodoo clam he didn't even meet you and he knew but how long did that relationship go too long or short um i wouldn't even say it was a relationship interesting no it was just like my player partner like did he gift you a lot of things yeah red flag no because like you own it no i think i think that might have been his love language you know interesting like i didn't see it as like oh he's a trick or he's like i really appreciated his gifts they were very like thought out the amount of women watching this that are like note to self find a man whose love language is customized Birkins um okay worst way that you found out that you've gotten cheated on before no she was up and left the room she just got up oh my heart boss I can still wait. Oh! What's that? Oh!

Oh!

Oh! She's got up. Oh, my heart.
I can't see.

Oh.

Oh.

Oh.

Oh.

If you're listening to this, not watching,

Saweetie basically just levitated into the air and flipped off the chair.

I think we're taking a little sippy sip.

Oh, my God.

Mm.

Mm.

Mm. No bad.
No No. Oh my goodness gracious.
I just spilled my water on you y'all. I need a napkin.
Aaron, can you please get me a napkin? That reaction? Holy shit. Jesus.
Jesus Christ. Okay.
Okay. So, I remember I was talking to this guy, right? Okay.
And it was New Year's. And I was like, oh, my gosh.
Like, I'm just so happy to see this person. And we go out for New Year's.
It's a great night. And we go back to the hotel.
I'm like, oh, my gosh. This is the most perfect New Year's ever.
Like, we're out of town. It's just like the vibes were vibing.
You could feel the energy in the streets. Like, love was in the air.
It's the new year, new me's ever like we're out of town it's just like the vibes were vibing you could feel the energy in the streets yeah like love was in the air it's the new year new me it's like all these great things happening and i'm just like if i felt like i was in a movie so we get back to the hotel and um i remember i had got a call from a like a childhood friend and when i had picked up the phone, I put it on speaker because I had nothing to hide.

And I'm like, oh, happy New Year's.

He was like, happy New Year's.

I love you.

Like, you've been killing this shit.

Like, keep going.

So I'm like, you too.

Like, love you too.

Happy New Year's.

I hang up.

He's so, like, drunk that he misinterprets the call and was like, wow, like, okay I know that y'all be doing this this and that you know projecting like he couldn't believe that I had a plutonic relationship with this person and this person's my childhood friend like nothing is going on okay um so he starts cussing me out he was like I would I would never do this to you. He was like, man, you can go through my phone.
My code is da-da-da-da-da-da. And I go, oh, it's da-da-da-da-da-da.
Da-da-da-da-da-da. No.
I put the code in my phone. But I'm thinking he's probably just like drunk, you know? Right.
Nothing like, it's not the real code. So finally, he goes to sleep.
So it's time to investigate. Investigate.
Investigate. Investigate.
So I'm like, okay. So I saved the code.
I said, and it you know it's the huh you're like i'm like wow that easy girl this man has been playing me the whole time no but i knew it was like a sickness because it was like all types of women really yeah did you go for the i messages first or the pictures the pictures? I went to the assistant group chat.

I went to the assistant messages because, you know, the assistant set up everything for, like, the man. Oh, my.
Oh, and then I was typing in keywords. Genius, genius.
So I was pulling up all the receipts. Yeah, girl.
And I remember I had got so sick, but then so numb that I didn't care because it wasn't like it wasn't like one person you know you know like it's not you're not obsessing over one person it's like okay no you have a sickness right like this is you can't stop yourself you can't stop yourself what word did you type into the search bar? Girl, anything that's used to flirt.

You're like P-U-S-S-Y.

Thousand fucking Jesus Christ.

You're like, no, that's crazy.

And so when he wakes up in the morning, what are we doing?

Girl.

Girl. girl girl girl girl girl you know a time was had I'm like oh really you a tough guy stop so okay back to the beginning of this episode when I was like what can get get you on a different tilt? Did you enter that different tilt? Girl, I went to a different dimension.
Girl, craziest night of my life. My best friend was staying in the same hotel as us.
I'm just like, I was like the audacity. And then then what made me like I always had add humor to like my pain so I'm just kind of like how did this boy get mad over a simple conversation yet here you are doing a b c d e f g x y z you know no that's when it's so crazy because I've had an ex like that where he was cheating and I like he would always get so anxious and say things about me if it was like the most innocent like we I don't even know that person like wait what like here's my phone like I don't know and when they're so hard on you for that shit eventually you have to be like well what the fuck are you doing that your brain is even on that tilt because i'm not even thinking but it made me realize that when someone does that to you it's because that's what they would do so they're like projecting they're projecting from their experience yes yeah dude how long did you stay in that situation then did you leave did you leave that day um it's okay if you didn't um no but um um let's just say um yeah girl we were out of town and um yeah girl I have never had someone answer Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

I have never had someone answer a question like that.

And yet it says so many words.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Okay, wow.

So it ended eventually, though. Yeah, it ended eventually though.

Yeah, it ended.

Clearly.

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Again, that's zip recruiter.com slash daddy zip intro post jobs today talk to qualified candidates tomorrow where do you draw the line of forgiving someone when you find out they cheated honestly I was younger so like I um for me it was like oh this is definitely a deal breaker but you know when like you're in love with somebody it's just kind of like okay well I can't just delete you out of my life like this yeah um but right now like in my adult years like it's definitely a deal breaker for me and in that moment I think I would

like tell that person like you probably have to figure out why you're doing this yeah you know

that makes sense when it comes to your music what is fair game of like writing songs about

I don't know. yeah you know that makes sense when it comes to your music what is fair game of like writing songs about people that have screwed you over or you've been in love with like where do you draw the line i think i i keep it ambiguous okay yeah and i feel like from my album i am going into deeper subjects and i'm really excited about that i feel like i'm in my diamond era like i've what i came in as an icy girl but through all this pressure that i placed on myself and all the pressure that i've experienced with the industry i feel like it's pressurized me into this this diamond that's ready to shine i fucking love that for you obviously i know you have been teasing an album for a while yeah when can people expect it to come out definitely next year okay yeah why was it so important for you to wait to release it i feel like i finally know myself okay like when i felt like i was constantly in this weird transition phase especially with recording like what am, what am I even talking about? But with who I am now, I know what my public messaging is.
OK, Christmas songs. We need to talk about this.
I'm in my car. I'm like, oh, oh, oh.
And like we said at the beginning of this episode, I fucking love Christmas. You love Christmas.
Talk to me about deciding to do these two Christmas songs. Like, how did you decide to do this? Well, you know, I love Icy Season because I'm an icy girl and it's just like I gotta give something to the icy gang this winter so I wanted to create like two songs or at least spoke to the two different sides of Christmas I got Big Santa where I'm like Big Daddy what you getting me and then my other Christmas song is a little bit more you know softer it's like catered to you vibes like not only only like, what can you give me, but what can I give you? Oh my God.
So we did. It's good.
Like everything that you do and put out, all of your music is such a vibe. And I think like, again, I'm happy I got to talk to you today for a longer period of time than just like meeting you on tour, but like watching you on stage at my tour was such a spiritual experience truly all of us were like holding hands and gripping each other being like she's fucking insane even to the point where my team had texted me when you were in sound check being like oh this is gonna be the best yet like you guys don't even know you're so talented and you have such a presence on stage and just like as a person that I think is so exciting to see what you're going to obviously continue to do.
But like, I'm obviously so excited for the album and you know, we, we want it. So we, we, we want it.
Um, I want to ask just because I know obviously your fans are going to be watching this. Like, what is one goal that you have for yourself coming up in this new year and like your career that you want to like share with your fans?

I want to be in an action film.

Like a Tomb Raider or like a Colombiana.

Something with just action because I really love like doing stunts

and I'm a sporty girl.

But I love a good heroine. That is the last thing I expected and yet like I can see it wait are you like gonna make that happen I would like for it to happen God do you hear me yeah yeah like here we go anybody watching this in Hollywood hello wow and I auditioned too I'm not one of those people where feel like well I feel like I can just show up and get the role like i'll be sending in audition tapes yeah i guess like last question is like what do you think what do you think is the biggest misunderstanding about you i'm not sure what the collective thinks because everybody has their own opinion but one thing that i do get a lot is that when people meet me they say that they didn't

expect this i guess they like that's it's a it's a common response that i get but it's for the better because they'd be like wow like the compliments are different but for some reason there's been a disconnect with who i am and what my perception to like the world is yeah that's interesting because I I I guess like I agree and disagree like when I listen to your music it's so confident like you put this shit on you're like I'm gonna fucking feel good when I'm listening to your music and I think everyone feels that way and it's it's like a experience that you literally feel in your body where you're like, oh, fuck, yes. Like, I'm about to pop my pussy tonight.
Let's fucking go. And then meeting you.
You are a multidimensional person, like you're not just the person that's hyping everyone up like you have this like sweet, sensitive side that I'm like meeting today and I met in Oakland. and I think that's something that we don't get to see as often with artists because understandably

like we're listening to music but when we are so fortunate to get to also get to know the personality behind the music right I have found through my job and it's my favorite part of my job when I meet someone and they are a little bit different than maybe the main public persona that's being pushed because I think it's again just shows people like we don't know everything right like you can listen to a song and think that people know you you can go listen to one of my episodes and be like oh she's this one way but understandably like I'm gonna be different when I'm having a fun episode versus when I'm talking about like trauma and shit. You know what I mean? Like we show up in different ways for different moments of our life.
And I feel like you're such a beautiful person that I'm so happy that I got to sit with you because I didn't know as much about you as now I am happy to know. And like, I love you.
I think you're like such a great fucking vibe. And I'm so happy that we've gotten to connect on this level because i don't i i like sitting with people and getting to know them more and you're amazing no thank you and today like i realized why you're number one stop yes this was such uh a comfortable safe and fun experience girl you almost had me crying in You almost had almost had me crying i was heaving i was like hold on bitch don't drop a tear no i really appreciate you going there with me though because again like everything we see online it can come off as fake and i think when you get to do long-form shit like this you actually get a chance to like start to finish

like people now are going to understand you more not that you need to give that to them but like

you're a great fucking person so why not so thank you oh my god sweetie we did it thanks

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