Trisha Paytas: Internet Trolls, Kidnapping & Nudes (FBF)

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Speaker 1 Trisha Paytas, welcome to Call Her Daddy. I'm so excited.
Um, Daddy Gang, we're gonna be really honest with you right now.

Speaker 1 We were just recording for a solid 10 minutes, we were cruising down the freeway, we were thriving, and then we realized it wasn't recording.

Speaker 2 And it was gold. That's 10 minutes were gold, and we can't recreate it.
You're like, pretend we didn't do any of that. I'm like, I can't recreate that gold.

Speaker 1 Everything was going amazing. So, if you guys feel like like we're a little on edge here and ready to end it all, it's because we are.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 1 I was saying to you, Tricia, congratulations. You just announced your second child.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 Tell me how you're feeling again.

Speaker 2 I feel very excited. From the beginning, I'm like, did we go through everything we just said? Yeah.
Where do the names come from? I always love Dalvis and Malibu before the movies came out.

Speaker 2 From 10. I'm a middle child, older sister, brother, younger sister.
You're the baby. Who are you closer with? Brother or sister? You're like, I'm going to get in trouble, and that's going to cut.

Speaker 1 You guys, we literally went through. Okay, no, we are doing it again.

Speaker 2 How are you feeling?

Speaker 1 Talk to me about all the food that you can eat because you're pregnant.

Speaker 2 Oh, I just feel, oh, yeah, that's what we were saying. It's like, see, now I forgot already.
Yeah, I just feel like usually I do eat what I want, but I feel guilty about it.

Speaker 2 Now I just eat what I want and don't feel guilty because, you know, you're like growing a baby.

Speaker 1 So. You're growing a baby.
You're allowed to just like shove food into your mouth and no one can get mad at you or judge you. It's like, fuck off.
I'm pregnant. Leave me alone.

Speaker 2 And most of the time, I don't care what other people think. It's usually what I think.
So it's usually like, oh, no, I don't feel bad. Now I'm like, oh, I'm not judging myself.

Speaker 2 And I can sleep all that I want. Usually I like, I got to be busy.
I got to do it. But now I just take naps and I don't feel any guilt.
Oh, I love that.

Speaker 1 You're napping and you're eating.

Speaker 2 Yeah. I'm the best.

Speaker 1 I'm so happy for you.

Speaker 2 That's why I love being pregnant.

Speaker 1 You said you want more than two.

Speaker 2 Well, we thought to.

Speaker 2 I don't know. I don't know.
We don't have two yet. One is very difficult.
Right. In my head, I'm thinking like four, you know, because we were talking about how three is like hard.

Speaker 2 So I was like, it's two or four.

Speaker 1 Okay. I know I already asked you this, but just to set the scene for people.
Where did you grow up?

Speaker 2 I would split my time between Illinois and California. My dad was in California and my mom was in Illinois.
So I went back and forth a lot. I quit school a a lot to like be homeschooled and stuff.

Speaker 2 And then I'd go back into school. Like I was constantly doing that because I loved it.
I loved like the lifestyle here in California with my dad. But you know, my mom is what I used to.

Speaker 2 And like we lived in a town of like a thousand people back in Illinois. So it was like two extremes.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 Were you closer with your mom or your dad?

Speaker 2 Um, I mean, definitely my mom. Yeah.
Like my dad I saw like the summers, you know what I mean? Yeah.

Speaker 2 Um, but my dad, I think in that though, I thought my dad was so cool because he was like in California. And I was like, even though like, obviously he was the worster of the parents.

Speaker 2 My mom literally raised us.

Speaker 1 So I always felt bad saying like my dad was the best I feel like that happens so much when you come from divorced parents the one that's like the cooler one is actually just the one that never had to like instill any boundaries or like tell you like you're grounded because you did this.

Speaker 1 Yeah. Or like just was not the one parenting as much.
Oh, yeah. And then you grow up and you're like, oh

Speaker 1 dad, maybe not as fabulous as mom putting in all the work.

Speaker 2 All the work. My mom worked four jobs, bus driver, bartender, all this stuff like that.
And I'm like, I love my dad more. It was like so weird.
But yeah, especially at the wedding.

Speaker 2 We had the wedding and like my dad walks us down the aisle and gives the speech. And my moms don't get anything at the wedding and they do all the work.
I kind of felt bad. Good point.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 And my mom still helps us out. She's like watching our daughter right now.

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Speaker 1 Can you kind of paint the picture though, like before high school, just like of your childhood? I feel like obviously so much of like who we are is from our childhood.

Speaker 1 And I know you just mentioned like your mom was working for jobs. Like, can you kind of just paint the picture growing up in Illinois with your mom?

Speaker 2 Um, yeah, we lived in like these farm towns and they were, yeah, there were less than a thousand people. We kind of moved around a little bit because I don't know, I just never liked school.
And

Speaker 2 yeah, it was just small. It was just a small town.
It was a farm town. So everyone, my mom like was from there.
So it was just like farm town. My grandparents were on a farm.

Speaker 2 And there's just that much to it, to be honest. It's really just, it was so boring.
And I just, I hated it. I haven't been back since.
I think I left at 17 and I have not been back since.

Speaker 1 Oh my God. Do you think if you landed in Illinois, like would you get triggered?

Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah, for sure. Even just going to Chicago, which is like two hours from where I live, I'm like, not Illinois.

Speaker 1 No, I kind of relate to that though.

Speaker 1 And I think a lot of people, especially during the holidays, like I've seen people always say like, it's triggering to go back to your hometown because one, I think we like repress so many memories.

Speaker 1 And two, it's just like, it just reminds us of a version of ourselves that like, if you were cool in middle school and high school, like kudos to you. But like I wasn't.

Speaker 2 I was like not really either. I wasn't like bullied really.
I mean, a little tiny bit like everybody, but I wasn't cool either. So I just, I just neutral, just everywhere.
Just kind of neutral.

Speaker 1 What did you want to be when you were growing up?

Speaker 2 Famous. Famous.
I just wanted to be famous. And this was before like reality TV.
So I was like, I need to be a singer or an actress. Stop.
But I can't do either of them.

Speaker 2 But I came out to do it because that's all you got famous back then.

Speaker 1 So when you're sitting in Illinois, are you like, were there any like TV shows or magazines or anything that you were watching? Or like people, you were like, I want to be like that person.

Speaker 2 I'd be like Britney Spears, of course.

Speaker 1 Did you tell people in your town you wanted to be famous?

Speaker 2 Yeah, I was mostly, I was voted most likely to be famous in one, I think two of my yearbooks, I was most likely to be famous. Yeah, just because I like was, I just liked attention.

Speaker 2 And like I said, I don't know. I just, I feel like I always stood up.

Speaker 2 You know, I feel like you just kind of know if if you have like a little impact or you know so I knew I had something but I was like it wasn't talent

Speaker 2 so I was like how do I parlay this going back to high school like did you have a lot of girlfriends no no I was I was I wouldn't say it picked me but I definitely was like girls are a drama I used to be that I used to be the girl that like did not like girls because of that reason because I was just intimidated I just thought oh no guy's gonna look at me if I'm in a room of girls I just was not a girls girl like it took me a while um now I'm only a girl's girl and like can't stand like men but it took me a while I definitely was insecure, never wanted to be around girls.

Speaker 2 You know what I mean? I just, I think I was always a girl hater, especially just like I just never felt good enough. I never felt skinny enough, pretty enough.

Speaker 2 I never had boyfriends until I was like 30. So yeah.

Speaker 1 No, I think that's relatable though, of like when, especially when we're younger, like we're constantly comparing ourselves in rooms because at that age, it's also like what guy likes what girl.

Speaker 1 And if you're not getting picked, then you feel like a loser and you feel like, fuck, like, I wish I looked like them. And then it's just this comparing game that you can never win.
Definitely.

Speaker 1 So it's hard to, like, I had that a lot where I like, my best friend was like the gorgeous one. And I was always like, I love you so much, but like, fuck me.

Speaker 2 Yeah, don't be around me. Right.
Like, can you move a little to the fucking right?

Speaker 1 Because you look too good in parties. And I'd be like, I'm literally never going to get chosen if you are sitting next to me.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 And it's hard with girls.

Speaker 1 But it's like now I look back and I'm like, oh my God, it wasn't actually about us competing with each other. It was about the men that we were trying to like

Speaker 1 appease their standards. And it had nothing to do with the girls like liking each other.
It was all based off of if guys like, of course, with everything, with acting, with anything.

Speaker 2 It's just like, you know, it's just what they, what they approved of, what they liked. It had nothing to do with you.
So

Speaker 2 I know.

Speaker 2 I wish I would have found my own lane earlier because I do love pretty girls. I'm like, I actually am obsessed with pretty girls.
I just like was just too scared to be around them.

Speaker 1 No, it is intimidating. Like, I agree.
Like, you, and also it's hard to not be envious of like, yeah, I wish I had what you have. And like, I wish I was you.

Speaker 1 But at the end of the day, once you get to know those people, a lot of times they've got their own shit. Oh, for sure.

Speaker 2 They're not perfect either. Oh, no, for sure.
I was always envious of you. I was very envious of you.
I remember like when I, I think it was like 2019, 2018, you girls were on Impulsive.

Speaker 2 And I remember being like, and I didn't know anything about podcasts. I didn't know how people got podcasts.
And I remember just being so jealous.

Speaker 2 I was like, wow, they have a job where they're just like talking and talking about sex. I was like, I could do that.
That could be me. And I was like, how do they get this?

Speaker 2 And you girls are so much younger. I was like, so jealous.
And then obviously when you got your Spotify deal, I was just like, oh my God. You know, I was, I was that person who was so jealous.

Speaker 1 Dude, it's so funny, Trisha, because I remember just like watching you on YouTube so often.

Speaker 1 And I would be so jealous of you because before I started my career, I'm like, I wish I had Trisha's platform. I wish I could like sit on YouTube and like do what she does.

Speaker 2 That's crazy because I was like alone and crying all the time. Like, I wish I could be that person.

Speaker 1 Dude, that is so crazy that we're both like, oh, I was jealous of you.

Speaker 2 Oh, for sure. I definitely was.
I definitely was just like, I don't get Color Daddy. I definitely was.
So when I did this, I was like, all I know is that clip is going to be resurfacing.

Speaker 2 So let me just go ahead and say it.

Speaker 1 It's so funny because I had one of my really good friends now. She went on a podcast at one point and was like, I don't get the Caller Daddy Girls dick.
It's so fucking dumb.

Speaker 1 Why are they acting like that? They're like acting like little whores. Like I, I'm the first person.

Speaker 1 And I think that we can talk about that too with your career of like by having a career on the internet, you just say so much stuff.

Speaker 1 And half of the time in the beginning days, I felt like I also said stuff that I regret.

Speaker 1 And I remember in those OG days back in the day with my old co-host, like we, when we started to get desperate for views, we would like say stuff about celebrities.

Speaker 1 and i'm so deeply embarrassed that we said those things but i know it wasn't coming from a place of like actually being like mean girls it was i know from my POV it was genuinely just like how do we stir shit up yeah and if you can teeter this line that's so unhealthy and you just become like how do we get more how do we get more oh yeah and i'm like why did i say that so if that clip resurfaces i wouldn't give a fuck i literally wouldn't trisha because i first of all you didn't know me yeah you had never met me i was just jealous 100

Speaker 2 because honestly as soon as they called for this like literally like my management from canada flew in they're like this is i'm like yes this is the biggest thing you know what i mean so i think but i really try in the past especially since being 30 i really try now to really just not hate on girls even if like everyone's mean on them i really try to find like even with data pink i'm like i try to find like the good side of this i'm like you know she down through a lot now she can so i try to i try to keep it positive with every girl you know i agree you're right i think what we can both understand is like being in the media a lot of times when we do the stupidest shit is when we're hurting the most.

Speaker 1 And so trying to find like any type of empathy for anyone when you see someone like acting out, it's like, well, what the hell are they going through?

Speaker 2 There's still people that like I can like, oh, I just can't find the silver lining. If I just go, I scroll past them.
Now I don't like to say anything.

Speaker 2 I'm like, let me just, if you have nothing nice to say, don't say it all. So I, I feel like I've matured a lot and like I don't really like hate on girls.

Speaker 2 But if there is a girl that annoys you and there is, like I just annoy some people, just, you know, I just keep it going. It just makes you look bad.
Like I just look so bad.

Speaker 2 Like you said, I just look so bad talking like so much crap about people. But I really can tell you like it came always from a place of like jealousy always.

Speaker 2 Like i used to talk about like the d'amilios when they were like 18 and 16 and i was just like i was so jealous that i wasn't me but i was like 30 years old being like oh my god you're speaking out of snail how ungrateful like you know they're 18.

Speaker 1 no but i also think that comes from a place too of like people on the internet then probably like writing to you being like saying mean things about like i get it now like relevancy or like age as a woman and it's like as a woman if you're past the age of 21 you're like old as fuck oh yeah and you're outdated and so naturally that's gonna cause resentment of us feeling like when you see younger girls, but really we shouldn't be mad at younger girls.

Speaker 1 We should be mad at society

Speaker 1 and mainly men being the ones that tell us like after a certain age, you're not valued anymore.

Speaker 2 That's a thousand percent true. Right.
Fuck off. Right, exactly.

Speaker 2 I love it.

Speaker 1 No, it's true. It is true.
I want to talk about you going to LA. So you graduate high school and I remember reading like the day after you moved to LA.

Speaker 2 Yeah, like literally the day of, yeah.

Speaker 1 What was your plan and what was your job when you got to LA?

Speaker 2 Well, I initially moved with my dad. So that was the first thing.
I like lasted about, he wanted me to go to college. So I went to like two weeks of like community college.
It did not work out.

Speaker 2 Because I never had a math class in my life in high school. So I took like a pre-elgebra and I like had no idea what was going on.
So I was like, I drop out.

Speaker 2 And so yeah, I got on a TV show right away that I got on a show called the Greg Barrent show. It was like filmed at Culver Studios.
It was like a syndication show. It was like a talk show.

Speaker 2 And so I did like 10 episodes of that. I was in Sega after.
So I was getting like, you know, $1,700. an episode, which is like so much.
It was great.

Speaker 2 And then I got another show with Stan Lee called Who Wants to be a Superhero. It was on sci-fi.
So I was like crushing it. I was like 18.
And then like 19 hit.

Speaker 2 And then I kind of like, woof, I had no money, nothing. And then that's when I did the whole stripping, escorting.
Well, I wouldn't even say escort.

Speaker 2 I was like a hooker on the street, but I like to say escorting. It sounds like fancier.
Trisha, slow down.

Speaker 1 Yeah. Hold on.
Trisha's like, I can go. I love how fast you can talk.
You're like, I can go through my entire life story.

Speaker 2 Literally. And I'm like, Trisha, we need to get an adventure.
I'm at 18. And I'm like, we got to get to 35.

Speaker 1 Okay, first of all, I'm dying at your math comment because I was so fucking bad at math. Shout out to Oscar.

Speaker 1 He was this kid in my math class that he would, I would sit next to Oscar and I would pretend I'm writing my whole math class,

Speaker 1 doing nothing. Then, when Oscar was done, his, he would hand me his test and I would hand him my test and he would take my test for me.

Speaker 1 And he would like, even like change like his writing to be more girly.

Speaker 1 And then Oscar would hand me back my test and I would go hand it in. And I'm like, Oscar, I knew he was like going to Harvard or something.
And I was just like not meant for math.

Speaker 1 And I just knew like there's, there's going to be a phone for a reason that has a calculator. I don't need to know like the square root of things.

Speaker 2 You manifested or you knew? There was already cell phones back then.

Speaker 2 We didn't have cell phones in high school, so I don't know. We did have cell phones.

Speaker 1 But you know,

Speaker 2 like manifested, this is going to happen one day. I was like, oh, you made the iPhone happen.

Speaker 2 Honestly, I absolutely will take credit for that.

Speaker 1 I'm dead. Yes, I absolutely made the iPhone happen for sure.
100%.

Speaker 1 And then I, no, I was like, I just knew I didn't need math in my fucking life because I knew I wanted to be in entertainment. Did you ever cheat in school?

Speaker 2 No, I've never had friends. So like my friends were literally, like I said, I was just like hitting up like celebrities, just trying to be like, hey, but I've never had friends in school.

Speaker 2 I've never had friends now. I'm just not a friend person.
I don't know. But I'm really trying out with my daughter.
I really am like being, trying to be as social as possible.

Speaker 2 Like we're going to birthday parties for her because I just don't want her to grow up like that with like no friends. I don't really mind.
It doesn't make me sad because I don't know any different.

Speaker 2 Yeah. And also I'm just like not a great friend because I'm not someone to like hang out with all the time.
I've just never been that person. So, but I'm trying out for my daughter.

Speaker 2 Like we got to make her friends make sure she's social and yeah okay let's talk about you saying so casually when you're talking this faster you're like okay then i'm gonna just everything in the middle too i love it we can talk to you said you have an hour so i was like let's get it in an hour our podcast goes like three and a half hours so i'm like i gotta get it all in no i was more saying tricia we need to at least get to an hour you're gonna talk about your whole life story in 30 seconds you're like okay so then i want to say something

Speaker 2 i know i know okay so you got finally after like you were in la for a second you were having some success and then you just casually were like and then i became a stripper and an escort but not really what happened yeah yeah so I just had like no money I was just like running out of money my mom like was helping me as much she could and then she kind of ran out of money I like maxed out her cards and stuff so we all ran out of money um she had a husband at the time so she was like living with him and she was like fine but my dad was not in the picture at all like he hated that I moved out like cut me off completely so I had like no help no money and so I didn't know what to do I didn't like I wasn't educated like you know I didn't have college degrees I had no idea I could I try to do like the regular jobs you know, like making smoothies and stuff, but that was just like not for me either.

Speaker 2 And I just, you know, loved the stripper life as like in movies like i loved it i thought it was like so glamorous so i'm like this is gonna be for me but like my stripper life was not glamorous i was like literally at like conoga park like vni is like godfathers it was like super sketchy i wanted to be at spearmint rhino but that was like the bougie pretty girls with the fake boobs already i was in like i don't know this was if you know godfathers it's just like sketchy um so yeah i had a stripper life and then yeah then i just you know I think casually then you just start because like Hansa Palverta there is like a bunch of hookers like so I just casually started like going on the street because you just get more money that way don't put up with the the club and stuff like that but um i was like i was kind of like out of my mind there i would never i don't consider myself like an addict but i definitely was like using a lot back then okay can i ask what you were using back then it was just like i did a lot of coke i did a lot of like

Speaker 2 i didn't do meth until like 2019 but i did do stuff that i didn't know maybe it was like you know the ones where you snort with like rocks i don't know if that's meth i don't know what it was but i was like snorting rocks yeah i literally didn't know what any of the drugs were i just know i did a lot of this everything was snorting okay and one was like really rocks like it was just like hurting my nose all the time like that.

Speaker 2 And so I was just, yeah, I was just doing a lot of that stuff. I was just like out of my mind, honestly, whatever people gave me.
And at 18 and 19, you're just kind of like, don't care.

Speaker 2 You know, I didn't care. I was like, I don't really care where my life goes.

Speaker 1 When you said your dad cut you off, like, what happened?

Speaker 2 Oh, just because like I didn't want to do school. And he's just like, I don't, I'm not going to support you.
And yeah, I mean, you were on your own.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 So I was like, okay.

Speaker 1 Were you scared at all whenever you were stripping? Like, were there any moments where you like got into situations where you're like, I am like a little scared?

Speaker 2 Oh, yeah. I feel like all of it, like going home with guys all the time.
Like, yeah, it's crazy that, like, I'm alive. It all scared me.
Um,

Speaker 2 I guess at the time, you just didn't get scared because you don't think about it, right?

Speaker 1 No, I get that.

Speaker 1 I think it's like when you almost like can get into something that you just kind of fall into, and then you can almost just like keep going down that rabbit hole and you almost don't know when like to stop or when to like check yourself.

Speaker 1 Cause again, you're right at that age.

Speaker 1 Like, if you don't have someone like that's a parent being like, stop it, you kind kind of can just start to go wild and like not know like what is bad, what is good.

Speaker 1 And I'm finding myself and I'm figuring myself out. And if you didn't have friends, like you kind of had no one probably to compare yourself to.
Like my friends aren't doing this.

Speaker 1 Had you ever done drugs before you went to LA?

Speaker 2 No, no. I was super good.
I never drank. Like I just didn't, I wasn't having like sex in high school or something like that because I just never, I never was that person.
I don't know.

Speaker 2 So maybe I just thought like LA, be wild. You know what I mean? I thought, and again, I think being insecure, I just was like, you thought like having sex meant like, you're so attractive.

Speaker 2 Like everybody wants wants you, you know? Right. And you get paid for it.
Like, that's actually insane. Like, to me, I was like, oh my gosh, like people are going to pay me to have sex with them.

Speaker 2 That's wild.

Speaker 1 You're right, though. I can see what you're saying of like going from like being in a position where you're like, oh, like I wanted to be.

Speaker 1 liked by these men and then to get this profession where like they all love you and they're all paying attention to you but then i can imagine like the drugs probably made you get into situations like could you share any stories of just like situations you got into that you woke up and you're like why did this happen oh my gosh i I mean, honestly, a lot of them that I like blacked out.

Speaker 2 I mean, really, just, I mean, I've been kidnapped a bunch of times where it's just like you wake up in like a truck and the truck's moving and stuff like that. Yeah.
Trisha? Yeah. Pause.
Sorry. What?

Speaker 2 Yeah. I got kidnapped.
Well, I guess I don't know if it's kidnapping if you're over 18, but I was 19. I think it's.
Trisha. Trisha.
I've been abducted, I guess.

Speaker 1 It's kidnapping.

Speaker 2 No matter if you're 45. Wait, really? Yes.
I could be kidnapped at 35. Yes.
Okay. Wait, wait.
Yeah, I was, yeah.

Speaker 2 Can you walk me but it's like it's in the sense where it's like i don't know where i'm at like i go with somebody and all of a sudden you wake up you're like oh in someone's truck and stuff like that at one point in your life you woke up in the back of a truck i mean multiple times yeah for sure yeah it's crazy there's like and you back then again you don't think in that but you're like well i went with this person willingly so yeah you just don't think about stuff like that when you would wake up in the back of those trucks like what did you do You kind of just don't do anything.

Speaker 2 Well, you know, you're like coming off a drug. So you kind of just like let things happen.

Speaker 2 You're just like, oh, and then they like let you off or something like that so you kind of just and you don't again i just i didn't think of it like anything i hear people talk about their stories and for me it just like

Speaker 2 i say it casually because it's to me it almost seems casual like it almost seems like oh well that's what i was doing i guess even if i didn't want it or like someone like you know brought me with them like it's kind of a I don't know.

Speaker 2 I'm like, well, this is the life I chose, you know, which is like such a weird way to think. And of course, anybody else in the situation would be like, oh my God, that's so awful.

Speaker 2 But for me, I just thought, well, this is what I chose.

Speaker 1 But I think also there's a level of like, at some point, you kind of have to just like disconnect from it because a lot of that, like for any woman listening, like that is, I'm sitting here being like, sorry, you woke up in the back of the truck.

Speaker 1 Like, that's so scary. Yeah.
I do think obviously when you're on drugs, though, everything can become way less intimidating because you, your senses are like not heightened whatsoever.

Speaker 1 You're just like kind of in a sedated state. Yeah.
So like you can't really, you don't have the ability to like make maybe the decisions you would make when you're sober. Oh, for sure.

Speaker 1 But when you look back at yourself in those situations, like, how do you feel?

Speaker 2 It's almost like I just don't even know that life. You know, it's kind of like my high school life.
I don't know. That life I don't know.

Speaker 2 Like there's so many stages I look back on and I'm like, oh, I don't even like recognize. Like I remember it.

Speaker 2 But some of it I don't even like recognize. You know what I mean? Cause I was just such a different person.
And it almost, it almost seems like I'm telling a story. You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 Like, it almost doesn't seem like my life. It's almost like, this is a story about this girl, but like it, like, you know, and I, it took me a while.

Speaker 2 I didn't go to therapy for like a really long time. And even in therapy now, I like don't talk about it.
Cause it's it's just like it's not trauma to me.

Speaker 2 You know, stuff that happened to me as a kid, too. I'm just like, oh, it's not trauma.
Even though like it is. Yeah.
It's just like, I don't know.

Speaker 2 I don't like it's like, it's not something I'm like uncomfortable talking about. But with like therapy, I don't get deep into it because I'm like, it's fine.
And they're like, no, it's not.

Speaker 2 But I'm like, to me, it's fine. Like, you know, it doesn't, I don't think it affected me, but they're saying it does.
And it probably did because I mean, I am kind of, I was messed up for a long time.

Speaker 1 So, well, yeah, I think a lot of the time it's like the body keeps things in.

Speaker 1 But like, if you've done such a good job of essentially like dissociating from it, like, I get what you're saying, like, you're telling the story, but you don't personally feel that affected by it right now because you have survived through it and you're like, I don't really like connect to that person anymore, which I think is how a lot of people survive.

Speaker 1 And I think there's also like a stigma where people, which I completely understand when people would look at you being like, well, you have to figure it out and you have to solve it.

Speaker 1 I think that there's a lot of people that... don't want to go and relive some things.
And I think that's okay.

Speaker 1 Obviously, if it's like significantly affecting your life to this day, where like you're having, like whether you're feeling like if you're having sex, you're getting triggered or you're having PTSD or flashbacks, like that's usually when to like open it back up.

Speaker 1 But like, definitely, I think everyone has to figure it out on their own time.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I've definitely had that.

Speaker 2 I've definitely had that where I had to like talk to someone because it was like if someone like touched me, like I was, you know, it's like just dealing with all that stuff.

Speaker 2 So I've definitely dealt with that for sure.

Speaker 1 But yeah, yeah, I'm curious, like going through that with men and like being in positions where obviously I'm sure like you've kind of alluded like there's taking like taking advantage moments.

Speaker 1 Like, how did you kind of like rebuild your relationship to men?

Speaker 2 I think I've just like always hated men, and I feel like I'm still kind of there, especially like giving birth. I've just had like such bad experiences with men, like not understanding post-partner.

Speaker 2 Like, just so I just, and I've just, all my life is just like any type of men. I've just like, I don't know, I feel like I wanted their like validation and they were all awful.

Speaker 2 So I feel like I have still such a strong hatred. I think if there's anything to fix, it's like maybe my hatred towards men.

Speaker 2 And like, it's like, it's not even just like me being this feminist. men suck, you know, it's just like, I really dislike them.

Speaker 2 And when I like have to talk to a straight, like this year, I really made a conscious effort to do only female podcasts. Like, I'm like, don't want to talk to like men.
Like, I don't know what it is.

Speaker 2 And it's like, that's obviously not right either. You want to like be equal and like, you know, not hate men.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 No, but I get what you're saying. I think like when you've been like fucked over or wronged by men, or even just as simple as like, they don't understand women.

Speaker 1 And there are some men that when you're actually looking at them in the eyes, you're like, oh, you don't get what I'm talking about.

Speaker 2 You don't get what I'm like even trying trying to say to you and that can be so infuriating and it's not worth our time sometimes like it's not our job to educate men on why we should be treated equally to them or why we should like have respect like if you're talking so there are some men that are great like your husband is great but like overall i get what you're saying of like the trauma of having men fail you so many times in your life why would you like them yeah and that's how i feel and you're right there are there are like my husband's like amazing and i have like a friend that has like an amazing husband too and it's like there are some good ones but but then you hear on tick tock so many horror stories of men that don't want to change diapers or they don't want to like be planned the wedding or they like just constantly like like that to me is like so and i hear it all the time i'm like that's so like triggering i'm just like you know what i mean just the way they treat women it just makes me so upset i don't know so fucked up and then to see like how many women men then want to have like a say on what women do with their bodies oh well that's a whole other thing that pisses yeah girl that's what i'm saying with like postpartum or hormones when you're pregnant all the stuff you know all the abortion stuff and stuff it's just like it's infuriating that like men have a say period and i just feel like men should not have a say ever about anything.

Speaker 2 Like, just don't say anything.

Speaker 2 Like, giving birth, giving after, like, after I gave birth, I had so many guys online like criticize me for taking fentanyl, for having a C-section because I was, you know, I had an addiction to like drugs at one point.

Speaker 2 And like, oh, well, she said she never took drugs, but she took fentanyl for a C-section. I'm like, they, they make you because they're cutting you open.
Like, I don't get the choice not to, really.

Speaker 2 So, yeah. And so, I think all of that really made me hate men even more and straight and gay.
Cause you know what I mean? Like, they both kind of don't get sometimes. So, I was like, ugh.

Speaker 2 So, even I had like a hairdresser. I just like, I had all all this.
Now it's like, okay, now I'm letting gay men back into my life more. But like the straight man, it's still hard for me.

Speaker 2 You know what I mean? And it's, it's one thing. And I think because I'm married now, I don't even really need them as I used to think I needed them in the past was like dating and stuff.

Speaker 1 When you're in the dating world, like, I'm sorry, but like,

Speaker 1 I get it. Women are always going to try to like look cute for the date and look this way and talk this way.
Like there are little things we always do because we still live in a man's world.

Speaker 1 So it's like we have to be delicate with how we unravel it. But once you're in a healthy, safe relationship, it's kind of nice.
You're right to be like, I now don't need anything.

Speaker 1 And if I'm going to interact with men, it's going to be on my turn.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it's the best. It's the best feeling.
It's just so great. And I'm like, I don't care if I'm skinny enough.

Speaker 2 I don't care if I'm, if there's a prettier girl in the room to me, like none of it matters, you know? So it's just like, it's so freeing. It's so wonderful.

Speaker 2 Like you said, if you're in a good relationship, the wrong relationship will make you feel the opposite.

Speaker 1 That's almost worse than being in the dating. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 That's awful. You like, yeah.

Speaker 2 I'm sure.

Speaker 1 I'm sure so many women, including ourselves sitting here, have been in those type of relationships where you're like, I am a shell of a human.

Speaker 1 I was, I was better off when I was dating a bunch of assholes, but going on dates rather than being with one guy that has your claws in you that's so like manipulative and like emotionally or physically abusive, whatever it is.

Speaker 2 Like, the worst, calling you crazy, judging what you eat, connecting how many nuggets you eat. It's like that to me.
And I thought I was like so in love.

Speaker 2 And then you look back and you're just like, oh my God, this person like hated me. But I was trying so hard everything I could.
And I'm like, and it's happened. Yeah, it's happened.

Speaker 2 I've only been in like two relationships. So it's like both of my relationships were worse.

Speaker 1 You had a man that would count how many chicken nuggets you would eat.

Speaker 2 What?

Speaker 2 On camera no yeah it's like still out there it's like compilations of all the time yeah it's like that to me is the most traumatic thing of my life i've been kidnapped probably over 40 times but that was the most traumatizing trick thinking about it i like disassociate right now i'm like oh no i like get scared i don't know it's like such a weird thing you're like leave me the fuck alone let me eat my nuggets in peace you piece of shit it was

Speaker 2 It's like so, it's actually like traumatizing. When I think back, I'm like, oh my God.
And to this day, I literally had a cry the other night. Like we were eating pasta.

Speaker 2 Like something triggered me from like that relationship. And I was just like, and it's so weird.

Speaker 2 Like I'm so, like, I never think about it or whatever, but there's like this, like, I was eating this pasta and I was like, oh my God, I just started like crying.

Speaker 2 And I was just like, I feel like a disgusting person for eating this. And my husband is like so great.
He's just like, pasta is like the most like popular food. It's in every country.
Like what?

Speaker 2 Like, it's totally normal for you to eat this.

Speaker 1 Right. It's like, it's like, wipe your tears and eat your pasta.

Speaker 2 Yeah,

Speaker 2 yeah. Okay.

Speaker 1 I read a study that like pasta makes you happier.

Speaker 2 I repost that on my Instagram all the time. I always see it.
Do you see it? Yeah. I was like, repost.

Speaker 1 I'm like, absolutely happier.

Speaker 2 Let's go.

Speaker 1 Pasta every night.

Speaker 2 I eat pasta every night. Usually I don't care.
And then like, I don't know. Third days.
Started a spiral for something. I totally get it.
Yeah.

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Speaker 1 When you were talking about your time in LA and like struggling with drugs, did you ever have like a rock bottom moment where you're like, I've got to

Speaker 2 so many. So many.
That was, that was a rock bottom moment in like when I was 19 that happened. Like I literally, I lived next to, his name was Christopher Dennis.
He was the Hollywood Superman.

Speaker 2 There's a documentary made about him and he recently passed. It was so sad.
But he

Speaker 2 found me just completely like in piss and shit, all this stuff. Because my apartment didn't even have a doorknob.
It was on Yucca and Highland. There was like no doorknob.
I think it's still there.

Speaker 2 It's like behind a liquor store now. And he like found me and like my dad and I hadn't talked for like two and a half years at this point.

Speaker 2 And I don't know how, I don't know if he called him, whatever, but my dad like showed up, took me to like Riverside Hospital. I was in there for like three weeks in like 2007, 2008.

Speaker 2 And yeah, and then I kind of got a little better. Then my dad was trying to get me back to go to college, did that for like six months and then I moved back out again.
My mom came out.

Speaker 2 So, but that was a rock bottom. And then 2019 was my rock, rock bottom.
2019 was my, the meth, I was in three mental hospitals. I, that's when I was like really hardcore into meth.

Speaker 2 There was two guys that I dated who both have since passed from overdoses. And

Speaker 2 yeah, I was just, I was just wild. I think I slept with probably like 200 guys that one year, three mental hospitals, like just really beside myself, the internet.

Speaker 2 Oh my God, everybody was making like hate videos about me. Like PewDiePie made a hate video.
And I was just like, oh my God, like, what did I even do? So it was like my rock, rock bottom.

Speaker 2 And which ironically, I was the skinniest. So

Speaker 2 sometimes it's like, I want to be skinny. And then I was like, oh, maybe not.
That 2019 was rough.

Speaker 2 Traditional.

Speaker 2 Oh, my God. Wow.
But that was, and that was documented. That 2019, that was a rough year for me.

Speaker 1 Because you were on YouTube at that point.

Speaker 2 Yeah. I was making like a lot of videos.
There's a lot of deleted videos with the people I was with.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it just was really like crazy.

Speaker 1 Let's talk about your OG YouTube days because yes, there were some videos put out that like people considered controversial and people like tried to bring your old YouTube videos back to this day.

Speaker 1 Like you got involved in like, I feel like a good bit of drama back then. Like when you look back at the OG YouTube days, how do you feel about them? And how would you even describe them?

Speaker 2 It's like so many eras of YouTube too. Like the OG ones were just like so great.
It was like well, before you could make money on YouTube, it was just like fun. And then you start making money.

Speaker 2 And then it's like, where do you find your niche? Like I said, I never felt like I had like talent. So I was like, what can I do? Oh, I can like piss people off.
I can do this.

Speaker 2 So I definitely went like the trolling route because it was like the most money I ever made without having to like strip or hook. And I was just like, this is it, you know?

Speaker 2 So yeah, I definitely had a lot of like problematic videos and just stuff that like I didn't necessarily even think.

Speaker 2 I think if I was like me, I could like hold stronger to like, oh, I was just like young or whatever, but it was just like stuff I'd hear other people say that were like, and I would just like repeat repeat it.

Speaker 2 I just wanted to be shocking and, um, you know, and I like, I totally own up to it.

Speaker 2 And I look back at my videos and I'm like, well, you know, some of them are pretty bad, but I try to give myself grace and forgiveness with that. Cause I used to be really hard on myself.

Speaker 2 I'm like, I know, I suck, I'm popmatic. And to this day, like, I don't get sponsored on my podcast.
Like, shout out to our Patreon. Like, our Patreons do it and stuff.
So it's, you know, it's great.

Speaker 2 But yeah, I definitely forever have like this like mark on me on the internet of like kind of like, she's a little controversial or, you know, you just, people don't want you like around.

Speaker 2 But, you know, it's, it's fine.

Speaker 2 Like, again, i my word of wise to people when i see people trolling now on the internet is like just maybe don't because it'll like follow you forever people will think of you as that forever and rightfully so like you know like those clips will always be out there and people either see the change and the growth or they don't and i think either one you just have to like work with you know but i do think it's helpful that you're like explaining your backstory and that's why i wanted to talk to you about it today because it's like for sure i bet i'll get comments being like why the fuck are you having trisha pay this on like what the fuck yeah i totally understand that i also though think it's important like the fact that you just said like i could make more money doing this than stripping and hooking it's like okay like it's good to know someone's backstory and i think when again when you're saying those type of things usually the people that are saying those things you're not in a great place never oh my gosh oh back then i just couldn't i didn't care about me my i didn't think anything of the future i was just like i need to make money now i'm just gonna piss people off i don't care i don't have friends for a reason never thinking like it would be a full career or anything.

Speaker 1 That's what I also think sometimes like people feel like they're lucky because they can make their fake accounts, but like, God forbid one day, all of your fake account comments and trolling and you like telling people to go kill themselves or whatever.

Speaker 1 Like there are people on the internet that are so ruthless, but they don't have the balls to do it publicly and have their own name on it.

Speaker 1 If that, God forbid, you walked into work one day and all of your comments were placed on your own desk, like

Speaker 1 would you be fired or not? And I think it like, if you look inward, all of those people are not in a good place.

Speaker 2 And clearly you weren't either yeah and you've kind of had this like redemption arc but like when you look back do you think you were addicted to the drama once you started to see the money oh yeah I mean for so long like a good like 10 12 years I was so addicted I was just so miserable so like any attention was good attention money was just money you know what I mean so it just yeah it's It is crazy, but I did reap the karmatic, you know, effects of it all.

Speaker 2 So it does, like you said, even the trolls. I think it, I think it's so real.
I think karma is so real. And like, I've reaped all of that 10 times over, I'm sure, and still do to this day.

Speaker 2 We get a sponsor and like everyone harasses them. Like, don't, so we lose.
At this point, I'm like, don't even give us sponsorships because I just know like, so it's fine.

Speaker 2 Luckily, I have my ways to make money. But yeah, you just, you, you reap it for a long time.

Speaker 1 So like, why do you think though second chances are so important?

Speaker 2 Because I think people do like change. I think.
majority of humans evolve as human beings, especially when you get older, when you find happiness, when you find love.

Speaker 2 Like, you mean, people do do change. And I think like, that's the whole point of humanity, right? Is like the evolution of it all.

Speaker 2 Like, I think our society shows that, like, you know, from like us in like the 60s, you know, with like segregation.

Speaker 2 So, you know, I think it's like just shown, like, obviously people are changing, like, change. So I think that's important.
Otherwise, you never, like, never can grow and never can like, you know.

Speaker 2 But yeah, I've had second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, changes. So I'm appreciative of all of them.
Some people don't deserve them. Some people don't want to give them to you.

Speaker 2 But I do think it's important to like try to see people changing.

Speaker 2 I think, I really think people do and can i agree i think also it's really difficult on the internet when you have a persona that i even feel it sometimes like i feel like sometimes i've met people and they're like oh my gosh like i thought you were going to be such a bitch you're going to be this and i'm like oh like i mean i don't know you can be honest like what you thought of before you met me yeah because you just hear all the stuff right you hear all the drama and so you're just like wow she's a ruthless she's this and you know not to say i don't judge because obviously i know like i know how people take things but you hear those things or just how i don't know you think someone's just gonna be arrogant or whatever because you have all this like money and you're skitty and you're pretty.

Speaker 2 So, you're like, well, you just know, you know, I think you have the assumptions. Again, at this age, I don't.

Speaker 2 I'm just like, and I was, I was surprised the energy you have is just so different than like people would think. You know what I mean?

Speaker 1 No, I appreciate you saying that because I think that's the point. Is like, we see people online, and most of the time, we never get to meet these people in person.

Speaker 1 So, like, there's an image online that people will like assume of you, and it's really fucking hard to break away from that.

Speaker 1 And so, obviously, like, I know my, my, the way that I got through it was like, I know the truth and I know what happened.

Speaker 1 And I know I feel like I can go to sleep and I'm a good person and I have good people around me.

Speaker 1 And like, and if I'm good with my life off the internet, I think then I did become a better version of myself on the internet because it's like when all you are looking for is validation from the internet, which it seems like at one point that was, you didn't have friends, you were really in a dark place.

Speaker 1 Like, you're going to just say some crazy fucking shit and you don't give a fuck. Yeah.

Speaker 1 But I do think second chances, you're right, are important because, like, I'm so proud of the growth that I've had. And I know you feel the same way about yourself.
Of like, of course, we've changed.

Speaker 1 And of course, now, like, when you have things you care about, everything is put in person.

Speaker 2 Oh, my God. So different.
Now it's like, oh, I don't want to embarrass my husband. I want to embarrass my daughter.
You know, you're like, so it changes everything about you.

Speaker 2 That's when I knew like I had to change all of it. And it just, and I, I really do feel it.
And I'm like, people can see it or they don't see it. I don't care because I feel better.

Speaker 2 But it does feel, especially right now, that people have like seen it. And it's not me saying I've changed this.

Speaker 2 You know, it just took time, you know, I think with anything like just public feuds, anything, you know, people always, you know, there's always sides that people pick without knowing the full truth.

Speaker 2 And it's just like getting through that. And it doesn't really matter at the end of the day what people think, you know, about it.

Speaker 2 It's like some people are going to think I'm this person, something, whatever. It's okay.
Yeah. Right.
As long as you know who you are.

Speaker 1 Let's. Yeah.

Speaker 2 Okay. We're going to play a game.
I love it. Giant cards.
Oh man. Huge.
I love that. Huge.
And there's like tiny little writing. I'm like, okay, let's play a game.
Yes.

Speaker 1 I'm going to give you a topic and I want to hear your opinion on it.

Speaker 1 Reusing nudes.

Speaker 2 Oh, yeah, I do it all the time. My office is still that.
It's just old nudes from 2020, and people still, new people come in. I sell them.
Oh, slay. Or just like sending you, I mean, sending them to.

Speaker 2 But don't you can tell now? I feel like you can tell by the dates now. People say, I don't know.
Did you send nudes? Were you someone who sent nudes? Oh, yeah. Really? Oh, lovely.

Speaker 2 And you've never posted nudes online.

Speaker 1 I've never posted nudes online. I just was such a nude girl.
Like, I remember I dated this guy that was obsessed with nudes to the point where it was like very unhealthy.

Speaker 1 And he was like, every day you're sending him them.

Speaker 1 I would be at work, Trisha meetings, and this man would be like, Come on, like, can I get a pic?

Speaker 1 And like, I was in such a bad relationship with him that, like, I knew that, like, if I didn't, like, is another girl gonna send him a nude? So, I would feel so insecure.

Speaker 1 So, there I was at work with like my like pencil skirt on, and I'd like mosey my way over to the bathroom.

Speaker 2 Oh, you took them fresh. I thought you'd have like a library.
No, no, no, no, no. Trust me.

Speaker 1 I, oh my God, like, I would absolutely edit them. I would like go back.
I know, literally,

Speaker 1 I would slide, I would be at work on the clock getting paid. I would go take it in like the handicapped bathroom.
Sorry.

Speaker 2 Like, it was my bigger. But bigger.
And like, I needed my privacy.

Speaker 1 Yeah, yeah. God forbid someone walks in in the stalls and I'm like getting that ass shot like that.

Speaker 2 I'm sure if there's a handicap for someone, you'd give them the stalls. Yeah.
For sure. For sure.

Speaker 1 Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so I would get out and I would go back to my desk and I would like look around.
And I would always had a girl behind me.

Speaker 1 And whenever she would go to lunch, I would pull up my nude. I would go on Pic Monkey.
And I would start like rearranging, like, make the ass fatter,

Speaker 2 everything.

Speaker 1 And then I would like send it off to him and be like, like here you go and he'd be like so hot so fire and then I would save those though and then obviously like if I was talking to another guy that day be like here you go oh my gosh I loved a good nude I thought that I it almost became like an art form at one point right you know like you really get those angles you learn how to like make it look good like I loved a good nude yeah it was fun and then oh my god like I've definitely sent like some videos and like all that stuff but I never went I never made money off of it no never would it ever get out no one ever posted on anything no because I think like I know the the amount of people that I've sent it to, like, I know those specific guys.

Speaker 1 Okay. And if they ever did, like, I think they know I would try to sue them.
So I think they're like too scared.

Speaker 2 Especially now. I feel like they would put you out there because you're you.

Speaker 1 Right. But I'm like, yeah, but like, try me.
Let's go to court, motherfucker. But God forbid, like, I ever feel like I got to pull out.
I'm going to bring out my.

Speaker 1 I have literally an old nude like catalog, like album.

Speaker 2 Like, yeah, me too.

Speaker 1 You know, you've got that MacBook that you've got it on. And you're like, ooh, which one should I use today?

Speaker 2 Retirement plan.

Speaker 1 Yeah. I should change the album name name from old nudes to retirement plan.

Speaker 2 I mean, it's kind of like everyone's doing it now, but I get you. I totally get you.

Speaker 1 Meeting your celebrity idols. Have you ever, who are your idols?

Speaker 2 Oh, oh, I love meeting celebrity idols. Yeah.
I think, I think like the bigger the idol, the nicer they are.

Speaker 2 I feel, I feel like when you want like a Z-list person, they have like, you know, maybe like Tom Sandimal or something. I don't know.
I don't really know him, but I just know he's all over TikTok.

Speaker 2 Like, he probably won't be nice. But I've met like Quentin Tarantino, Eminem.
The weekend just sent me a DM. And I feel like the bigger they are, the nicer they are.

Speaker 1 We I saw you talking about this on your podcast. What was the DM from him?

Speaker 2 Literally, I was on a podcast like two weeks of the Zach Sang show and I was like, oh, I pay for music and I'm like, I've just bought like six of the weekend songs.

Speaker 2 And he's like, thanks for the support. Me and my team appreciate you.
He's like sent me a DM. And I was like, wow.

Speaker 2 He cares that I spent $6 on his music.

Speaker 2 Everything.

Speaker 1 They do.

Speaker 1 I think I saw, who did I see? I think I saw Snoop Dogg recently saying like there were a billion streams. Yeah.
And he made 40K from it.

Speaker 2 No, that's wild to me. That's why I buy the music off iTunes and I still do.
And they appreciate it. I mean, I was shook.
I was like, oh my god, Abel's in my DMs was crazy.

Speaker 1 Like, literally, maybe they need to start an OnlyFans.

Speaker 2 Like, fuck. I know.

Speaker 1 She's like, babe, thanks for the $6. You're like, babe, literally get on OnlyFans.

Speaker 2 I was like, let's go. He would make bank if he was on OnlyFans.
Well, I mean, the Idol is basically like OnlyFans. It's just him like fucking Lily Rosed up.
And I loved it.

Speaker 2 That's why I became a fan this year. I saw the idol and I was like,

Speaker 2 that was crazy. I never get horny about anything.
And like, literally, that show made me like crazy.

Speaker 1 Okay, Taco Bell.

Speaker 2 Pass. Is this a, what are we playing? Are we doing pass or smash?

Speaker 2 Am I rating this?

Speaker 2 Taco Bell. No.

Speaker 1 I just, I love how also, like, you're right. We've kind of changed the game for every single day.

Speaker 2 What was the game originally?

Speaker 1 Oh, I want to hear your take opinion on.

Speaker 2 Oh, okay. Okay, okay, Taco Bell.
Um, I'm not a Taco Bell. I love fast food, but I'm just not a Taco Bell fan.

Speaker 1 What's your favorite fast food place?

Speaker 2 Um, McDonald's. McDonald's.
Yeah, just because there's one close to us, I always get the nuggets. Right now, they have adult happy meal.
Oh, wait, I think we're boycotting McDonald's, maybe.

Speaker 2 I think everyone told me we're boycotting them. We why?

Speaker 2 I don't know. I don't get get political, but I think something is happening with them.
So I'll be on a strike until the strike is over. Where are you going to get your nugget?

Speaker 2 Oh man, baby Chick-fil-A. Oh, the Chick-fil-A is controversial too.

Speaker 1 We can't fuck them. I know.
They don't support the gays.

Speaker 2 Oh, no. A lot of my gay friends love Chick-fil-A, so I go with them.

Speaker 2 Fuck, everything's controversial.

Speaker 1 That's interesting. If you go to Chick-fil-A with one of your gay friends, I think it's fine.

Speaker 2 Then it cancels it out. I think so.
They love it. So,

Speaker 2 Chick-fil-A.

Speaker 2 Good job. I love fast food, but they're all problematic.
They are.

Speaker 1 Okay, so McDonald's first, then Chick-fil-A. Do you like Wendy's?

Speaker 2 I love Wendy's spicy nuggets. I'm just a nugget person.
No, no. I only get nuggets at all these places.
What do you dip it into? Yeah. Oh, nothing.
No sauce. Yeah.

Speaker 2 What? I have no sauce, yeah. I recently heard Jenna Orateka said she has no sauce too.
I'm like, no sauce, girlies. Get it.

Speaker 1 Wait. Never.

Speaker 2 This is crazy. There's no live.
Try to find a clip of me eating sauce. You actually does clips of me trying sauce, but I don't like sauce.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 Wait, do you, so you don't like ranch dressing no i don't like any sauce like no barbecue no ketchup no mustard your whole life yeah i'm just like i like a plain i'm very my tastes are plain i love like butter noodles i love chicken tenders like pizza like that's what i like yeah i have food for you to try downstairs now i'm like rethinking everything did you make it um i'm having someone make it right now oh my booze oh my god you have a content house with a chef I do.

Speaker 2 Then you're like, no, just to shoot here. I was like, wow.

Speaker 1 I just begged someone downstairs. I'm like, listen, there's this one pasta that I want Tricia to try.
Do you think? Wait, what? Yeah, I want you to try. What kind of pasta is it?

Speaker 1 You know how like girls are like, oh my God, like I have my like, like my girl dinner.

Speaker 1 And it's like when the men are away, the girls will play and like you make like just dumb shit that like men would be like, I'm not eating that shit.

Speaker 1 So like I grew up on this like spaghetti sauce that my mom would make me, but it's like this like progresso, like, I don't even want to.

Speaker 2 Like progresso? Yeah.

Speaker 2 Is that like, wait, what?

Speaker 2 Oh, progress. Is it like prego sauce?

Speaker 2 Because I do like, I like pasta sauce. I'm trying to figure out progresso sauce.

Speaker 2 I love a jar sauce if that's what you're talking about. Okay.

Speaker 2 I have prego.

Speaker 2 I can't breathe.

Speaker 1 It's in a jar. And I swear to God, Tricia, I want you to try it.
Like, I know you like plain stuff. Like, I'm interested to see your take.

Speaker 2 I love pasta sauce. Okay.
I love it.

Speaker 1 We're going to film it downstairs. Okay.
But, like, it's good to know.

Speaker 2 Where's that going? I guess bonus content.

Speaker 2 Where does that go? You gotta get that coin, girl. I love it.
I know. Same, same, same.

Speaker 1 Like, you're gonna stay for 10 hours, right?

Speaker 2 I love it. We're good to go.

Speaker 2 I will.

Speaker 2 Okay, so no to Taco Bell. No Taco Bell.
Okay, I'm crying.

Speaker 1 Okay, internet trolls. What is your opinion on that?

Speaker 2 Oh, gosh. Oh, wow.
I have a soft spot for them because I was an internet troll for a minute. Now I can't stand them.
I see people like yelling at the camera, being ridiculous.

Speaker 2 I'm like, oh, no, this is going to haunt you forever.

Speaker 1 You should literally, every time you see somebody doing trolling videos, be like, trust me,

Speaker 2 stop. Yeah.
There's that girl, that pearl girl out there now. And I'm like, girl, let's pump the brakes.
This is going to follow you forever.

Speaker 1 Dude, wait, I feel like I know who you're talking about.

Speaker 2 She's like mean.

Speaker 2 Yeah, she's like kind of anti-woman, I think. I don't know.
She's like a woman, but like hates women.

Speaker 2 She's like, oh, if you're, if you're divorced, you're less than, or if you have sex before marriage, like they don't want you. I don't know.

Speaker 1 Does she have like strawberry red hair?

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 1 She's made videos about me being Alex Cooper and I always just stop it immediately.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 1 I never watch the video because I'm too scared. Yeah.

Speaker 2 I don't want to know. I'm in scare of everyone.
And I get it. It's like a shtick or something, hopefully.
But I'm like, girl, this is like going to not do well for you.

Speaker 2 Because you'll like run out of money. Like, just spend the money.
I know. Trust me.
I've made like $10 million trolling and I've wasted all of it. I didn't buy a house until OnlyFans.
So

Speaker 2 I'm just like, no, girl. Girl, stop.
Stop. I know.

Speaker 1 She'll maybe clip this and be like, you fucking whore. Shut up.

Speaker 2 Like, oh.

Speaker 2 Literally.

Speaker 2 Fuck. No, I know.
I used to be scared of people talking about me, but I'm like, oh, no. I just, I literally, like, I have, again, it comes from a place of I know what it's like.
Like, I get it.

Speaker 2 And I'm just like, oh, no.

Speaker 1 Do you ever scroll on TikTok? And if you hear someone talking about you, do you watch the

Speaker 2 smell. I smell instantly.
The last, I don't even want to hang up, but the last person I saw talk about me, I like literally cried for days. What?

Speaker 2 Yeah, she told me I looked like I had electrocuted hair and I like cried for literally like a week. And I'm like, why is this affecting me so much?

Speaker 2 It was literally like a month ago and I couldn't stop crying.

Speaker 1 Wait, I'm so sorry. That's so mean.

Speaker 2 I had a lot of postpartum hair loss, but then when I was young, people made fun of me for having like frizzy hair. It was a whole thing.

Speaker 2 So I kind of, so it hasn't happened in so long that someone made fun of my hair. I'm used to weight.
I'm used to acne. And I was like, oh my God, this one like hit.
This one hit hard.

Speaker 1 That's when it's the most fucked up is if it's something from like when you were younger that was like something you got the shit bullied out of you for and that or that you were just insecure about for yourself.

Speaker 1 Yeah. When you're an adult and someone picks on it, you're like, I'm regressing to being 12 right now.

Speaker 2 And I'm sobbing. That's how I felt.

Speaker 2 It's like that and like eating like chicken parm, like both of those things are like weird things that you wouldn't think like people call me fat, people call me other things.

Speaker 2 I'm just like, oh, I don't care. But those, I don't know.

Speaker 1 That's so sorry.

Speaker 2 Yeah. So I, but it's because I like stayed on it for a minute.
I saw and I was just like, let me hear what this person has to say because I like the person. Cause I was like, oh, I love this person.

Speaker 2 I talk nice about them all the time. And I was like, oh, shit.
And then I was like,

Speaker 2 and I like, I don't like to be in like the drama of it all, but I was just like, damn, that one hurt. That one hurt like hard.

Speaker 1 It's just like, again, stop being mean to people on the internet. Like, why are also, I just feel like it's so, we're so.

Speaker 1 above or we at least some we should be commenting on women's appearance. Yeah.

Speaker 2 Are we done with that? Just like in general, like hair, weight, I'm just like, that's it. Like it's like, there should be, and again, I guess it's like a compliment like that's what you're going for.

Speaker 2 Like if that's the the only thing, but,

Speaker 2 but it's the worst thing to hear as a woman is like your appearance.

Speaker 1 You're right. And I feel like it's expected from a man because it's like you're dumb, but from a woman, you're like,

Speaker 2 No, it sucks. It sucks because I'm so like pro-women now.
So, I'm very, and I know I haven't always been, that's what I'm saying. The karma kind of comes back to me.

Speaker 2 I'm like, all right, I guess I deserve it. I guess I've talked enough about other people's appearances.
So, you know, it does come back around. So, I'm like, okay, I'll take it.

Speaker 2 That's how I have to look at it. It's just another karmatic.

Speaker 1 You got thick skin, girl.

Speaker 2 Yeah, sometimes, but sometimes I really do. Like, I haven't cried in a long time.

Speaker 2 And I was like, oh my God, why am I i crying and like last night when i cried over the pasta i'm like this is very odd usually i'm not like that well at least you allow yourself to cry i feel like sometimes people hold it in too much if you're gonna cry cry and then keep eating that pasta yeah let's go let's go

Speaker 2 cry how do you feel about reincarnation do you believe in it um oh oh i don't know what do you think didn't i see something on the internet that people were convinced what is the theory the mama baby yes oh yeah i did i did have the i did birth the reincarnation of queen elizabeth last year i guess which you know what honestly makes me believe it.

Speaker 1 Wait, why do people think that?

Speaker 2 It was so weird. It was the weirdest.
It was the, okay, literally, someone looked it up. It was the most time I was searched.

Speaker 2 It was the most searched I've ever been was in September 22 and a week before my daughter was born. Like more searched than anything that's ever happened in my life.
Any controversial thing

Speaker 2 that was the Google high point. And it was so weird.
It was like a week before I gave birth.

Speaker 2 I said I was like one centimeter dilated, which is like, you know, normal and you're going to give birth in like a week or two. Right.

Speaker 2 But then the queen died the next day and everyone's like, Tricia just gave birth. And the queen's in, and I was still very much pregnant.
I just didn't have my phone with me.

Speaker 1 It was very, it was so bizarre.

Speaker 2 Like, TMZ was calling my dad, my mom, like, everything. It was the weirdest.

Speaker 1 Oh my God. You know why you were probably so searched? It's like you kind of like tapped into, like, you infiltrated the royal family.
Like, but everyone in England was like, wait, who is this bitch?

Speaker 1 I need to see like that. Is the queenie coming out of that V? Like, what the fuck is going on?

Speaker 2 The day she died, I'm like trending. I have a screenshot, like, right underneath her.
Like, it's so bizarre. I know.

Speaker 2 When I announced my pregnancy, everyone's like, uh-oh, King Charles, nine months left. I'm like, no.

Speaker 2 Don't even start it.

Speaker 2 Wait, that was fun. I was, yeah.
And then it's funny now. At the time, I was actually a little traumatized.
I was like, oh my God, what did I do? Like that, because I didn't even start it.

Speaker 2 Like, I get if I start my own shit. And I was like, no.
And I was out of drama. I was so out of drama.
I didn't have my podcast. I was like, not talking about anyone.
I was like, oh, shit. We're back.

Speaker 2 Yeah. Not like that.

Speaker 1 That bad of drama to be a part of because you're like, oh my God, like I just gave birth to like the new queen. Yeah.
But that's also going to be such an interesting thing.

Speaker 1 Like if your daughter Googles herself one day, like, oh, not a bad Google surface.

Speaker 2 Yeah, for sure. You're queen.
And she kind of is. She's very like royal regal.

Speaker 2 regal she waves to everybody she's very that actually so if i do believe in reincarnation i do believe that could be yeah i don't know how queen elizabeth was i heard maybe she's not a nice person and maybe she'll be reincarnated as a good person

Speaker 2 i don't know

Speaker 2 i know nothing about the royal family but okay how do you feel about retail therapy oh my god that's all i do all day every day

Speaker 2 i spend way too much money what do you spend your most money on purses i have so many purses yeah i have too many i probably have it's i don't know maybe 500 purses and i sell a lot too so i probably bought 500 purses wait but you said you never leave your house Yeah, I just buy it online.

Speaker 2 Like 2020, I bought like six Birkins that were like a million dollars altogether. And now I can't sell them.

Speaker 2 I wish I could. I've had so many Birkins that are ugly.
And I'm like, oh, I have like a dead ostrich in my closet. And I'm like, I don't want this anymore.

Speaker 1 Wait, and you like, you barely leave your house also.

Speaker 2 So like, where do you wear them?

Speaker 1 Dear, you're like, I love your product bag.

Speaker 2 I'm like, thank you. This is my only shot to wear it.

Speaker 1 Oh, my God. So like, whenever you're going to go do an appearance, you'll wear it.
But other than that, it just sits in the closet.

Speaker 2 But my closet's beautiful. It's like sparkles and shine.
It makes me really happy. Like, they actually just make me happy to look at them.

Speaker 2 I used to never wear my purses out, I just love to look at them. Look at them.

Speaker 1 What's your favorite one?

Speaker 2 Uh, oh, I have the Paris Hilton Birkin, like the pink one with the Sawaskis on it. It's the same uh retailer that got out of the Privy Porter.
Shot at Privy Porter.

Speaker 2 She made Paris's bag and then she made mine, and I love it. But when you get the aftermarket crystals, they go down in value so much.
So, I wouldn't suggest that.

Speaker 2 I bought a $50,000 rainbow Birkin, and no one even wants it. I can't even give it away for like $8,000.
So, yeah, so don't do aftermarket. But I love my pink one.
I don't like the rainbow one.

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Speaker 1 I think that you obviously exude confidence. And I know you have kind of like lately in this interview talked about just like your relationship to men has evolved.

Speaker 1 But to women that are like, Tricia, how the fuck do we get confident in the bedroom? Like what personally would you say makes you feel the most confident in your sex life? Oof.

Speaker 2 You know what it is? I always say this to everyone is like guys really don't care. If they're like with you at that point where they're like undressing you, like they don't care.

Speaker 2 Do you know what I mean? I've, I don't know, guys just, they kind of get what they get. You know what I mean? They just are excited to be with you.

Speaker 2 And I've never, I've never been insecure in that way because maybe because I've like hooked and I've been with like a hot, like 500 guys, like, I mean, maybe that made me more confident weirdly.

Speaker 2 But I've just never had any like complaints. And I used to have like uneven boobs.

Speaker 2 Uh, I mean, like back when I was like a hooker, I mean, I didn't shower for like five days and they would be fine with it. So I think guys are just kind of nasty and they'll just take what they get.

Speaker 2 So don't feel bad. If you're hygienic, I think that's a plus.

Speaker 1 If you put on deodorant that day, girls, they're fine.

Speaker 2 Yeah. You're good.
Just do it.

Speaker 2 it's such a good point men are like kind of disgusting and so i feel like sometimes like we're in our own heads about like oh my god do i need to do this this no you don't need to do shit no show up i yeah i've been with and i've been with all types and i i think like in like i've been saying like oh i've been like on the streets or whatever but i've also been with like you know some wwe wrestlers that like prefer a big girl you know what i mean and they like love it and they can't get enough of it you know what i mean so i think there's just like types and some people love a skinny girl but they're not gonna go to bed with you if they want a skinny girl whoever's like in bed with you like wants you so i don't know i've never had any complaints Like I said, I've had like my boobs have been uneven.

Speaker 2 I've like I've looked crazy so many times. Guys just don't care.
And I think as long as you're not, I don't know. I've never been self-conscious about that.
I don't know why.

Speaker 1 No, I think that's great. I think that's why I know people will want to hear from you on it because I think you're right of like we are in our own heads so much more than men are.

Speaker 1 Like if you're right, if he's in the room with you and wanting to have sex with you, there you go.

Speaker 2 Done. Yeah.
He's that's it. They're not going to be like, no, thank you.
I've never had anybody like, oh no. You know what I mean? Ever.

Speaker 2 Exactly.

Speaker 1 Like you got a vagina, they're gonna.

Speaker 2 Oh, yeah, yeah. Guys are very easy that way.
So I always feel bad when girls get like self-conscious or something like that. I'm like, they guys want you.

Speaker 1 Like, I've had girls write in being like, oh my god, like, I'm insecure about my labia or with the way it looks. I'm like, don't be.

Speaker 2 Oh, right.

Speaker 1 Don't be. Yeah.
Men don't give a fuck.

Speaker 2 And people love all types. They love the outies, the innies, the in-betweenies.
They love all of it. Exactly.

Speaker 1 Like, who cares?

Speaker 1 How old were you when you had your first orgasm?

Speaker 2 Oh, oh, my God, like 32.

Speaker 1 I love that you say that, though, because I I think so many women, even if they would lie about it, like I bet a lot of women feel that same way.

Speaker 1 Like they, we, of course we didn't have orgasms at such a young age.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I don't know how people do.

Speaker 1 Men don't know how to fucking please.

Speaker 2 No, guys don't care about it.

Speaker 1 Did you give it yourself or did you get it from a guy?

Speaker 2 Oh, the first time, the first time was with a three, it was like in a threesome. They had one of those, I call them hibachis.
They're not hibachi. Are they? Hitachi? What's that? Hitachi.
Yes.

Speaker 1 These are hitachis. Yes.

Speaker 2 Yes. That like changed my life for real.
That was like I was in like this like thruple and they used it on me and I was like, oh my God.

Speaker 2 That was when I was like, I didn't know if I was peeing or what I was like everything was going everywhere. It was insane.
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 So that was like the first time where I knew what it was supposed to feel like and that's why I was like holy shit like that was like explosive So wait, that's so funny because Bridget and Holly when they came on Bridget was the one that talked about it She was like with hef like obviously we weren't getting off So we would have these mr.

Speaker 1 Hitachis and she taught me about it and now okay. So they're mr.

Speaker 2 Hitachi. They're so good.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 And so that was like the thing where I was like, oh, that's what even when I did OnlyFans, like all my squirting ones are with that because it's just like, it's just so intense.

Speaker 2 Like if you don't know how to do it or whatever, because I'm like, how does that even happen?

Speaker 2 or you're scared to it like forces you to i mean with your consent wait right yeah forces you but you're the one pressing the button like yeah yeah but it's like you don't even have a choice because it's so much pressure and you're just like well this is gonna here we go yeah that's so interesting so if you have like trouble orgasming or you don't know how it's supposed to feel like highly recommend going on like the big setting of those and just get it going yeah yeah yeah we when you say you were in a thrupple was it for just sexual or were you actually in a relationship with a couple it kind of was just sexual but they did come to my birthday party i think she sent like videos about me i think she did an interview it was about someone It was like my first like thrupple relationship.

Speaker 2 They were gorgeous. Oh my God.
She was like hot, you know, fake implants. He was like gorgeous six-pack anesthesiologist.
Like they were really gorgeous.

Speaker 2 And yeah, I think it was just like my Tinder year. I think that was 2019, but it was, they were, it was great.
I don't know. I think I was just like so curious about everything.

Speaker 1 How do you even get involved in that? Like, do you like, did you meet her or him on Twitter?

Speaker 2 Oh, oh, I met him on Tinder. Yeah.
And then he's like, this is my girl. They show right away.
Like, this is my girlfriend. I was like, oh, well, this could be exciting.
You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 And it was, it was actually really, really fun. Yeah.

Speaker 1 And how did, how do those things end?

Speaker 2 It was fine. Honestly, I think, um, what was that one? What was that one? I know.
I'm trying to think. I was dating a lot of people at the time.
I was like dating so many people.

Speaker 2 So I think I was just like not like looking to date. I think they wanted to date date.
And I was kind of like not looking for that. Yeah.

Speaker 1 Like three people in a relationship is tough.

Speaker 2 Oh, I don't know how they do that. Yeah, but they did that all the time with people.
And I think they wanted to bring someone in like to date. Wow.

Speaker 2 And I don't know if, I think for me, I was like, oh, I'm going to introduce like my parents, like my mom. You know, I'm really close with it.

Speaker 2 And not that she's like not judgmental, but I don't think she would get it. Like, this is my boyfriend and girlfriend.

Speaker 1 I don't know. Okay, no, I get that.
You're like, hi, this is my couple.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 1 And I'm the third.

Speaker 2 It's still bizarre. Yeah.
I see it on TikTok and I think more Power Tea People, but I'm always like, this is, it's still bizarre to me.

Speaker 1 I get that.

Speaker 2 Maybe it'll get more normalized.

Speaker 1 So the Mr. Hitachi, what are, I was going to say, what are your top three like sex toys in the bedroom that you would recommend? So one is Mr.
Hitachi. What are another two?

Speaker 2 That's the first. Um,

Speaker 2 hmm. I think that's pretty much it.
I've been liking plugs lately, which I normally don't love, like, an anal thing, but I just think they look really pretty.

Speaker 2 And it feels like it just feels more pressurized. And I've been really into like that lately.
I agree.

Speaker 2 It's great. I think like try out plugs and I think it kind of just like, I don't know, it just feels good.
If it's not anything else, it just gives you like a little more added pressure.

Speaker 1 I completely agree.

Speaker 2 I've never had like a gang bang, but I'm assuming that's what it feels like, right? You're like all your holes filled.

Speaker 2 I don't know. Maybe not.
Maybe I don't know what a gangbang is.

Speaker 2 I love you.

Speaker 2 Trisha. That's what I would imagine.
Not to say I want all my holes filled, by the way. I usually prefer just sex.
Like, we do vanilla sex, but I love it. Like, it's like my fave.

Speaker 2 I don't need two things filled me up. You know what I mean?

Speaker 1 So the plug can just be, like, there.

Speaker 2 It's fun. It's fun for like an added, like, bonus, you know what I mean? But yeah, I'm kind of just vanilla, actually.
When it comes to like sex, I kind of just like love to have sex with just as is.

Speaker 1 I liked, yeah, I like that.

Speaker 2 Yeah, but yeah.

Speaker 1 Do you, if you have advice for someone, like, how do you approach your partner if you want to try a new thing in the bedroom? I don't know.

Speaker 2 I guess just be honest. Although, you know, I've had people ask me to do some weird stuff and I'm like, that's weird.
So, I don't know. I'm like the last person to ask about this kind of thing.

Speaker 1 Right, like try to read the room.

Speaker 2 Maybe, yeah. Like, know your partner.
Like, if he asked me to do something freaky, I might like look at him kind of weird. I don't know.

Speaker 1 Right? Like, I'm done at breaking up with you.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I've had people, like, ask me to like hang upside down. I'm like, weird stuff.
I'm just like, I don't know. I mean, I guess that's like a thing with like swings.
I'm just not. Hang upside down.

Speaker 1 Right. Like, how would they fuck you if you're hanging upside down?

Speaker 2 They're yeah, it's like the swing and you're like upside down and I guess they I don't know. I n I didn't do it because I'm like that looks so dangerous.

Speaker 1 It was high up and you just like get a headache.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I don't like it. I don't like anything that involves like hurting blood, any of that stuff.
Like, people always want to slice you open and stuff. I'm like, no, thank you.
Have you

Speaker 1 had someone else? Yes.

Speaker 2 Drinking multiple times.

Speaker 1 They want to slice you open. Yeah.
Are you fucking army hammer?

Speaker 2 Yes. And not him.
Oh, someone close. Actually, when that came out, I was like, wait.
And then I was like, oh no, it's someone who kind of looks like him. No way.

Speaker 2 I think celebrities can be like the freakiest, especially like those kind of celebrities I would like D-list. You know, they're kind of like freaky.

Speaker 1 You know, Tom Sandibles cutting them up.

Speaker 2 What?

Speaker 1 So, you had people literally be like, they want to. What do they do? They just want to cut you or drink your blood, yeah.

Speaker 2 The, yeah, just drink the blood and also just like slice you like on your stomach a little bit because they say it's like has fat there, so you can't die, like, you can't bleed out. I don't know.

Speaker 2 I've had a couple people say it, yeah. And what do you say? No,

Speaker 2 absolutely not. I can't do that.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 Do you proceed to have sex with them or do you just leave immediately?

Speaker 2 Um, leave immediately.

Speaker 2 No, leave immediately. The one that wanted me to hang upside down, I guess I stayed with.
He was kind of, he kind of looked at Marilyn Manson a little bit. He kind of had like those vibes.

Speaker 2 So I was into that for a second. I'm like, oh, yeah, this is my, this is my person.
But yeah, I just said I like couldn't do it, like, physically couldn't do it. You're funny.

Speaker 1 This is hilarious.

Speaker 2 And somebody can talk about this because I feel like no podcasts talk about sex. Oh, my God.
Oh, yeah, you're on Spotify. So it doesn't matter.
You're not demonetized on YouTube.

Speaker 2 I'm like, YouTube, they can't say anything. Oh, no.
I'm like, let's talk about everything. Yeah, no, that's great.

Speaker 1 It's so funny. What do you think for advice for someone who wants to lose their anal V card? Like, give us the advice, Tricia.

Speaker 2 I'll guess take some poppers, you know, loosen it up a little bit because that's the only thing I could think of. Right.

Speaker 1 But do you even enjoy it?

Speaker 2 No. I mean, like I said, I love the plug recently, but I don't love, I don't love like anal penetration because you know what it is.

Speaker 2 I just eat so much food, and I know you're not supposed to eat a lot before. Like, you know, girls like to OnlyFans, you're supposed to like clean it out.

Speaker 2 Guys, too, all my gay friends, like, yeah, you can't eat before. And you're like, I was like, yeah, that's the only time we have sex is like after we eat.

Speaker 2 So I was like, well, I don't want, no, I don't want to happen in my butt after we eat. Right.
Like, I want my nuggets and I want my pasta. Exactly.
Oh, my God.

Speaker 2 Can you imagine having anal after lasagna? No.

Speaker 2 I don't know if I could imagine that. Just involuntary everything.

Speaker 2 I'm a bad like anal. I'm not an anal queen, that's for sure.
But,

Speaker 2 you know, try it. Maybe start with some, a finger or something, you know.
A little pinky. A little pinky.
See if you like it. Some people really love it.

Speaker 1 I don't know. I get it.

Speaker 1 I think the pinky is a good way to start. You're right.

Speaker 2 Right.

Speaker 1 I'm loving your advice. Okay.
So the daddy gang wrote in some scenarios that they're going through right now. There's drama in their life.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 1 And you're not a part of drama right now, Tricia. You're clean.
You're free. You're like, ooh, I, but now we need to read their drama and help them with their drama.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 1 So someone wrote in and said, my brother's messages linked to my laptop. And I just found out that he and my best friend have been seeing each other behind my back.

Speaker 1 I'm so traumatized from seeing these texts and pictures. There are so many messages of them talking about how I'll, how I'll react if I find out, but it's so hot that they're sneaking around.

Speaker 1 Lately, when she comes over, it seems like she's there for my brother, and the two of them actively leave me out. How do I confront them about the situation?

Speaker 1 And do I bring up the fact that I saw their nudes?

Speaker 2 No. Here, the sister, like, what? Why do you care? Stop.

Speaker 2 That's weird. What is she going to say? I saw your nudes, brother.
You're hooking up with a girl that's not me. How dare you? Like, what?

Speaker 2 That's the weirdest question I've ever heard.

Speaker 2 dad was right if it was your brother i'm gonna be like oh my god what like it's so weird lannister status over there just like my brother's someone else

Speaker 2 i don't like it it's weird

Speaker 1 i get what you're saying like first of all no girl you're not telling your brother like i saw that dick pic like that

Speaker 2 big like oh yeah that's a bore on you i would immediately stop looking at messages and keep looking at them like a weirdo i understand the side of like your friends lying to you.

Speaker 1 Like you would like to know, like, is she going behind your back? Maybe just address it with your friend of like, hey, I get you're hooking up with my brother.

Speaker 1 Can you just be honest so it's not awkward?

Speaker 2 Or maybe they're not like serious yet. Maybe they're not like dating.
You know, maybe they're just hooking up. Maybe they want to keep it.
Like, why do you have to tell everyone in your business?

Speaker 2 Be like, oh, yeah, we're actually having sex. If that's okay with you, not quite dating.
We'll let you know when it happens. Like, it's weird.
I don't know.

Speaker 1 Tricia, this is where friendship gets a little.

Speaker 2 I don't have friends, so I don't know.

Speaker 1 on that one no no no i definitely i think you're right about the brother thing like don't fucking tell him like i saw your news like leave the brother out right right i think you could go up to your friend and be like listen i don't care what you and my brother are doing but like i don't want to constantly be sitting in the room and feeling like you guys are like keeping things from me

Speaker 2 let's be open with it you guys are fucking fabulous let's move on okay like want to know okay i don't think i'd want to know i'd be like just it's fine don't tell me like if you're having sex with my brother i don't think i need to know i think i'm good but if it was your best friend i guess i don't know that situation so yeah

Speaker 2 i guess i guess maybe no you're right i still don't think i want to know i don't even want to know my brother has sex with his wife like i don't want to know any of it i'm like i'm good i actually kind of agree whatever i think about my brother having sex i'm like no he doesn't oh no i don't want to know any of those details don't tell me yeah so girl just let it go go have sex go yeah yeah yeah just let them do what they're doing like i don't know yeah and you go date yeah make yourself busy might be yeah find something else to do Maybe she needs to get laid.

Speaker 2 I think that's it. Where it's just like, if you're that concerned about your brother's sex life and if they're telling telling you or not, like, I don't know.
Move on.

Speaker 2 I get what you're saying, though. I get what you're saying, too.
So, okay, next one.

Speaker 1 I have a group of six girlfriends, and we've all been close since high school. Recently, a new girl has been introduced to the group.

Speaker 1 She hasn't done anything actively wrong, and nobody seems to have an issue with her, but something about this girl just fucking annoys me. Oh my gosh.
One day,

Speaker 2 later. She's here.
Get you out of the group.

Speaker 1 One day, I had five glasses of wine, too many, and decided I was going to say something. So I messaged her from a fake Instagram account.
Oh my God.

Speaker 1 I said, stop leeching onto other people's friend groups.

Speaker 2 It's sad. Oh, my God.

Speaker 2 Ruthless. Yeah.

Speaker 2 That's why I don't have friends. That's so scary.

Speaker 2 Oh, my God.

Speaker 1 She said, it's sad and pathetic. They obviously don't want you around and they all feel too bad to tell you the truth.

Speaker 2 So I will. Oh, my God.

Speaker 2 That girl sounds crazy. And I know I don't use that word lightly.

Speaker 1 No, that's insane.

Speaker 1 She found out it was me by the email linked to the account and told all of our friends. Now I'm basically booted from the group.
What should I do?

Speaker 2 Oh my God.

Speaker 2 Well, good. At least she was booted.
At least she got some repercussions.

Speaker 1 That's insane. That's crazy.

Speaker 2 This is why I don't want girlfriends. Like, that's so nuts.

Speaker 1 I just think, first of all, if you're going to use a fake account, I've learned. Make a new fucking email, bitch.

Speaker 2 Go to a different, go to the library, get a a different IP address.

Speaker 2 Don't let it be trained. Literally, dude, never, never.

Speaker 1 If you are stalking people on your fake, don't ever let them know it's you.

Speaker 2 No.

Speaker 1 Second of all, what is so, what is this girl doing that's so triggering that you felt the need to message her from a fake account?

Speaker 2 Like, no one likes you.

Speaker 1 Do you ever go on your fake account?

Speaker 2 Do you have a fake account? I don't have a fake account. Oh, have you ever had a lot? Yeah.
Yeah. Like, make a whole new account.
It's a lot.

Speaker 2 No, I don't, I don't, I don't, I've never had a fake account. I've always just looked from my account, but I really just don't look, period, anymore.

Speaker 2 I used to look and like, like, find out what everyone's doing. And it's, honestly, life is so much better when I don't look for real.

Speaker 1 Tricia, I used to have one. I would say, like, I would say a year

Speaker 1 and a half ago, I deactivated mine and I've felt lighter. I've felt happier.
I've just felt like, why am I stalking an X? Why am I, like, what am I doing? Yeah.

Speaker 1 Or even if I saw something online, I'm like, why am I on a fake account? If I don't want people to know I'm looking at it, then just maybe I shouldn't be looking at it. That's how I feel too.

Speaker 2 That's how I feel. Like, that feels weirder when you go on like incognito and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 And it feels like you're doing something wrong. I I think that the moral of the story is everybody delete your fake accounts.
You don't need to have a fake account.

Speaker 2 It feels better. I know how addicting it is because I was so addicted to like Reddit, looking up everybody.
I have like, oh, how many views is this person getting? I'm like, I get it.

Speaker 2 But it's like so time consuming, so energetic. And like the minute I did, like, I stopped in August of this year, actually.

Speaker 2 And like, I honestly, like, good things have come, like, just like fortune has come, income has come, like, everything has come, like, for real. I'm like, wow.

Speaker 2 So I just didn't go back to it because like good energy was coming in. I was like, maybe there's something to this.
So I was like, let me just stop putting like any sort of bad energy out there.

Speaker 1 There has to be something to it because I also think like, you're right. I, oh my God, I don't, I think I read, the last time I read Reddit, I think now was like around two years ago that I stopped.

Speaker 1 And like, I remember I was so consumed by it because you're constantly trying to be like, okay, these people think this about me.

Speaker 1 So then all of a sudden you're like in a video or an episode trying to like appease them. Yes.
And when you stop giving, also, when I look at it, I'm like, there's like 200 people.

Speaker 2 I'm like, whoa, we're really like shaking it up here.

Speaker 1 Like, why am I listening to 200 people? If you have like hundreds of thousands to millions of views on something.

Speaker 1 Yeah, obviously, there's people that like what you're doing, so keep doing what you're doing. Exactly, don't give them like energy.

Speaker 2 It feels so much better, and honestly, like, I really feel like there's no, I mean, maybe because I just don't see it, but I'm like, oh, I feel like they hate my Reddits did get taken down.

Speaker 2 Like, no one can start a new Reddits on me. It's like really weird.

Speaker 1 Really? Yeah.

Speaker 2 We did this like documentary on it. We like called Reddit, all the stuff like that.
And like, there's no more Reddits. Mine are like 40,000 people.
And now there's like no more. And it's wonderful.

Speaker 2 So shout out Reddit. I don't know what they did, but anyone who tries to make a new one on me, they take down right away.

Speaker 1 So that's amazing.

Speaker 2 Yeah, there's no, there's no Trisha Pay of Snark Reddit. So they were like crazy.

Speaker 2 Like, I was during my pregnancy, they were like harassing like my doctors, and they were like my baby's like hospital, and like, they were just like, they were being nuts, they were putting my baby's like image out there, like photoshopping weird things with her.

Speaker 2 So, I think they had to take it down because it was like, actually, that's disgusting. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 So, I think that, like, we did this whole thing about it this year because I was like, okay, what's going to? And then now that it's down, it's just like, it's great.

Speaker 2 And I don't, so I don't, like, I don't see hate anymore. So, I don't know.

Speaker 1 Dude, I swear to God, the only place that is, there's like main hate is on Reddit. And if you get that rid of your life, you're like,

Speaker 2 I I know, I have no hate anymore. It's wonderful.
I was like, no one hates me. No one hates me.
No, no, I feel in my head. And I still feel that way.
Live that way, girl. Yeah.
Let it live that way.

Speaker 2 I feel like it's like perpetuated itself. Like, I feel like it's manifested itself.
Like, I feel like so many people like me now. And I'm like, oh, okay, maybe because I stopped looking at hate.

Speaker 2 Do now more people like me. So, yeah.

Speaker 1 Let's do one not friendship.

Speaker 2 Okay, good. Because all these friendship ones, I'm like, I don't know.

Speaker 1 How about this? My boyfriend and I have been having ongoing conversations about getting engaged and planning to do that next year. But lately, something has been really weighing on my conscience.

Speaker 1 My question is, do I tell him that I gave his best friend the GluckLuck 9000 blowjob?

Speaker 1 The Gluck Luck 9000 blowjob on the trip that the two of us met before, obviously, we had feelings for each other.

Speaker 1 We see this friend quite often, and I'm worried that my boyfriend will feel uncomfortable if he knows that I sucked his friend's dick. Oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 Should I come clean or is this something that you take to the grave?

Speaker 2 Oh my. Wait, did you trademark Gluck Luck? I did.
I love that. So like when people say it, you like get money.
I love that. That's so smart.
I remember that was such a big thing. Like I really do.

Speaker 2 I just remember like, wow, it was crazy. It's great.

Speaker 1 It's a great thing.

Speaker 2 Oh, my God. So smart you trademarked it.
Double hand twist.

Speaker 1 Yes. Gluck luck 19.

Speaker 2 Talking about the sex twice. That's that.

Speaker 2 Because it sounds like a machine anyways. Because it does.
Okay. Yeah.
Good to know. Where it feels like you're like, anyways.

Speaker 2 I don't know. That's

Speaker 2 tough. I feel like you need to tell them.
Otherwise, it's like fraud or something.

Speaker 1 I agree. And God forbid, like, one night, like, something happens.
Like, if you're married and he finds out you never told him that, it could like literally end a marriage. Yeah.

Speaker 2 just tell him just tell him yeah

Speaker 2 it was also you guys didn't have feelings for each other at the time right yeah like it's a lot about how he reacts too like if he's upset about it then like maybe that's not the one for you right and he's like okay it was before we met whatever right like you want an understanding guy yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah are you a jealous person i was i used to be so jealous oh my god i would feel jealous like at the beginning of our relationship i was so jealous all of a sudden i had i had his passwords go through his dms every day like i was super jealous but now not at all like i don't now you're fine now you're fine i think so but like he's so good like he gives me no reason to be jealous like even if like girls like you know girls like me want a picture with him like in public.

Speaker 2 He just says like no because he just like doesn't want that other. I'm fine with it.
I'm like literally whatever, but he's very that so he never gives me a reason to be jealous.

Speaker 1 But that's the type of man you need in your life.

Speaker 2 For sure because I am a jealous. I was I was always very jealous and everyone, yeah.

Speaker 1 I mean

Speaker 1 I think I used to be jealous, but because it was coming from a place of insecurity of like

Speaker 1 I had gotten cheated on before. So then I'm like, oh my God, like you must be doing it too.

Speaker 1 And so like when you're just not in like healthy relationships, the toxicity, you can't help but be kind of paranoid, which turns into jealousy where you're like, oh my God, like I don't want you out, and I don't want you doing this.

Speaker 1 And then you're just like the worst version of yourself.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it's, I think that's like the worst, like, jealousy. And we're together 24-7.
So I think that helps too. I'm just like, we're never apart.
So,

Speaker 2 yeah, we're like codependent or I'm codependent that way. So I don't know.
But I never, of course, now I'm like never jealous. And he's like, definitely not jealous.

Speaker 2 Like, I'll say, oh my God, the weekend's so hot or whatever. And he's like, never gets jealous.
He's like, yeah, okay. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah.
Literally.

Speaker 2 I was like, he's the first one I texted when I got a DM from him. I'm like, the weekend just DM'd me.

Speaker 1 He's like, yes, babe.

Speaker 2 Oh, yeah. He's like, what are you going to text back? Like, he was so excited.

Speaker 1 If the weekend wanted to have a threesome with you guys, would you do it?

Speaker 2 Oh, I would. I don't think my husband would.
That would be like the dream come true.

Speaker 1 I think he's got to do it. And just like suck it up, okay?

Speaker 2 Do it on dreams. He's like, no, no.

Speaker 2 I probably wouldn't because

Speaker 2 I love my husband so much. Because threesomes do get sicky.
Like, anyone who wants a threesome, anytime I've had a threesome, I feel like it just like ends in disaster. It does, right?

Speaker 2 Unless, I don't know. I feel like with my husband, of all people, like, I know I couldn't with another girl.

Speaker 2 i'd be so fucking jealous but i think with a guy i don't think he would i don't know i don't know even with a guy i'd feel like kind of weird i don't think i would with matt either i'm like it's just too with another girl yeah yeah i don't think it's too much she especially if they if they have sex with a girl like sometimes they don't have sex with the other person but i i would i'd be livid i i would be literally in the bed like this yeah how people pissed oh the thrumble i was in she like loved watching it they got off i was just like this is and i think that's amazing like i like being the third but like i don't know being the main that's bringing in the third yeah you gotta be a strong bitch no i don't know how people do it i'm a different person yeah

Speaker 2 it's a different definitely a different breed which i'm like more power to you but i'm just like i completely agree it's crazy okay i have two more questions for you I like these.

Speaker 1 What is the biggest misconception people have about you? We're done with the questions. Oh, okay.

Speaker 2 Yeah. I like talking about

Speaker 2 drama.

Speaker 1 I was like, you're like, don't put me in. Right.

Speaker 1 Yeah, what is the biggest misconception you think people have about you?

Speaker 2 I think, you know what it is. I think it's just that I've had like bad intentions.

Speaker 2 I think people think I was like a, I'm a bad person, which I think is like the worst part because through it all of it, like I've never really had bad intentions to like hurt anyone ever.

Speaker 2 And I think that's like the worst part of it. Cause I'm like truly at like my core.
I've never like hated anybody, like anything.

Speaker 2 It's really comes from a place of either like wanting attention, being miserable, or being just like completely ignorant.

Speaker 2 So I like hate that people have like this, oh, she's a horrible person. I see that all the time and I get why people say it, but it's just like, oh, that sucks.

Speaker 2 like I've never I've truly never been but I know I like made that bed so like you know it is what it is so I think that's the worst is like, I never like had bad intentions.

Speaker 2 No, there was never malice behind it. I never wanted to like ruin someone's life.
Totally.

Speaker 1 I also think just even from this interview, I hope it gives people more clarity too, because I feel like I have seen so much of you online, but I think this interview, like, we really kind of went from start to finish and it shows your growth of like where you came from, like the decisions you made, like the headspace you were in.

Speaker 1 And like, of course, I'm not saying it was like right, but it's like it, you, people grow and people change. And the fact that you're even able to to also like take accountability.

Speaker 1 And I also love how you're like, but I also get it. And like, I'm not asking, like, I think that's also a really mature way to look at it.

Speaker 1 Like, there are just some people that will never look at you or me and like change their opinion if they hate us.

Speaker 2 Of course. That's okay.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 But you clearly know like you're a good person and you did all of that in a place of whether it was, like you said, like jealousy or insecurity or just being in a bad place. Like, that happens.

Speaker 1 And I think it's obviously we have a social footprint that some people don't have that, but everyone said dumb shit in their life that can be hurtful or taken the wrong way.

Speaker 1 It doesn't always mean it's coming, yes, from like a bad intentioned place where you're trying to like actually hurt someone.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it was never that, and I wasn't even diagnosed with borderline until I was 30, 31 or something. So I was like, I've had undiagnosed with mental illness for like a really long time, too.

Speaker 2 And again, like, that doesn't like excuse it, but there like explains more because I was like, wow, I really can't control myself. And then I was like, oh, this is like why.

Speaker 2 And now I can like work on it. Like, now I know how to like control myself and breathe.

Speaker 1 Do you feel better now when you're going into like doing your podcast?

Speaker 2 Do you feel like you now have a better better handle on like what you're gonna say and what you're not gonna say as if maybe in the other days you'd be like i'm just gonna spew all this shit and whatever yeah i definitely just like take into consideration people feelings and that like people will see it and people do like get hurt by it you know what i mean i know like charlie demelia just did jay shades podcast like yeah people were like really mean to me and like really affected me and i was like spiraling and i was like but you know hopefully they changed i have a baby now i'm like oh my god was she talking about me because i was like and it was like i was so like i was so aggressive for no reason and so like just you don't think like people will see it and stuff so now i just really come at a place where i'm just like i really try to again find the silver lining try to find like the optimisticness and everything you know it's of course fun to like gossip and stuff but i always feel like again if it's something like not nice or someone could hear that would make them feel bad i'm like it's better just to like you know gossip with your husband or something i was about to say literally just do it not online yeah yeah yeah

Speaker 2 every human being gossips everyone wants is drama is interesting to us as humans oh yeah just don't put it on the internet yeah especially if it's like not nice if you're like being mean and that's like i never even privately i never even like make fun of someone's looks that to me is always like weird i mean there's so many other things to say about people out there.

Speaker 2 And I'm like, it's just weird when people like attack their looks.

Speaker 1 Well, that's just like the lowest form of like someone coming at someone who's like, you're such, like, that's just such a weak low blow.

Speaker 2 Yeah. Like, and then you obviously have to be like, well, what's wrong with that person that they're going at someone's looks? No, for sure.

Speaker 2 If, like, my husband started like making fun of like a girl, I'll be like, you're fucking weird. And like, I feel that way too.
I'm like, it's just a weird thing.

Speaker 2 So it's like, there's so many other things to like gossip and make fun of, and just, you know, make light of or whatever. But

Speaker 2 totally.

Speaker 1 For those of who may not know, Trisha attempted to win a Guinness World Record for her speed reading skills. Oh, my God.
I love how the two of us, like,

Speaker 1 I have to actively try to talk slower.

Speaker 2 Like, I can talk so fast. I'm like, oh my God, Trisha, I'm so happy.
You're here. Like, I'm sorry.
I'm so excited to go try that.

Speaker 1 Like, it's crazy. Yeah.

Speaker 2 So fast.

Speaker 1 And I'm like, slow down.

Speaker 2 I didn't think that about you. Like, I did not think of you as like this, like, really fast talker.
Cause you're like, when I'm having fun.

Speaker 2 Like put together. Okay.
When I'm having fun with someone, which I am right now, like, I feel like we're actually having girl talk.

Speaker 1 We're like some interviews, I'm like more doing the. interviewing.
I'm like, I don't want to be a part of the conversation. I want it to be about them.

Speaker 2 And I really, our vibe is just like, oh, I love having people. Yeah.
I hate when it's like all about me. Like, I love to be like, what about you? Because I need to know where you're coming from.

Speaker 2 You know what I mean?

Speaker 1 What's going on over there? Are you judging me, bitch?

Speaker 2 Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1 No, I feel that. And so, but then because you talk fast, like my best friend Lauren talks so fast that I feel the same way with you where I'm like, then I'm just going to match your energy.
Oh, yeah.

Speaker 1 And then when I do talk fast, people are like.

Speaker 2 What like what the fuck? So I feel like people will like it. Like I know I get comments on my podcast like, oh, my ADHD, like, thanks you, because they just like want to keep up, like, keep going.

Speaker 1 That's actually such a good point. Like, people can just be like, shut the fuck up, get to the point.

Speaker 2 Yeah. We're getting there.
We're getting there. We're moving fast.

Speaker 1 Okay. Before you go.
Okay. Can you just speed read this little message to the daddy gang? Okay.
You can read through it. It's literally a bunch of like nonsense.
It's just like happy new year.

Speaker 2 Oh, okay. I love it.
I just thought it would be funny for you to just speed fast.

Speaker 2 I love it. Oh my gosh.
Okay. Luckily, there's no like too big words.
Sometimes I get like the Guinness World Records was Hamlet's soliloquy.

Speaker 2 So it was like to be or not to be, that is the question was noble in the mind to fight. It was like this whole like really long thing.
And it was like, I don't even know the words. They were so hard.

Speaker 2 All right, here we go. Daddy Gang, thank you so much for having me.
This has been so much fun. It's 2024.
Let's make it the best year ever.

Speaker 2 It's the year to stop giving a fuck about what other people think. And to own our own confidence, it's the year to try new things in the bedroom and finally have that well-deserved organ.

Speaker 2 The year of the year of the giving the club clock 9,000 only trademark. If you are also receiving some bum ass head in return, take risks, which is a lot there.
Don't get too involved with the drama.

Speaker 2 It's never that deep. Give people a second chances.
Apologize when you're wrong. Pump that pussy, shake that ass, follow me where no accounts, YouTube, TikTok, Instagram.
Don't be stingy.

Speaker 2 Spread my OnlyFans. You're feeling a child, my podcast.
Just I love you guys. Thank you for taking time to get to know me.
I hope this isn't the last time we chat XOXO to Shapedas.

Speaker 2 XOXO gossip.

Speaker 2 Trisha. I didn't know it was like my outro.
I love that. I'm gonna going to put more umph into it.
This is so cool.

Speaker 1 Trisha, that was iconic. Thanks.
Thank you so much for coming on colour, daddy. This was truly so fun.
Yeah.

Speaker 2 Thank you, Tim. Thank you.
Thank you. Dude.

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