Cheating On Your Partner, Threesomes Outside The Country, & Open-Relationships | Truth After Dark

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Speaker 3 When people make Instagrams for their children and post as if they're the child, it's mentally ill to me.

Speaker 3 And then they post and they comment and they say, Thank you, mommy, and post to the comment to yourself. It's sick.
She should be out of of there.

Speaker 3 As soon as he nuts, and it should not be from you, it has to still be from me.

Speaker 3 Then you have to go. It's no better than night.
It's no, I'm sleep. And you, I'm not going to sleep until you're out of there, ho.
Is there really like good vagina and like not good vagina?

Speaker 3 And what is that difference? You really want to know if a girl loves you, you need to go out and cheat on her.

Speaker 3 Like, I'm losing my mind.

Speaker 3 This is the taking over the game.

Speaker 3 All right, everybody,

Speaker 3 welcome to Truth After Dark.

Speaker 3 Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

Speaker 3 Hello, beautiful people. Welcome to another episode of The Truth After Dark.
I am your host, Cesar Faraday.

Speaker 3 What up? The truth is in the building. The truth is in the building.
Another week back at it.

Speaker 3 Another week back at it. Yep, back at it again.
It's some stuff going on, man. Yeah, it's some stuff.
So we're going to hop right into the stuff that's going.

Speaker 3 So Michael Michael Blackskin, he has a whole situation with his wife.

Speaker 3 So I guess basically he ended up having a child outside of their relationship. Wait, but they was an open relationship, right? From what I heard, they were open.

Speaker 3 But he did have a

Speaker 3 baby with one of his female friends. And that's not cool?

Speaker 3 No, I'm saying like if it's open, that should be cool. Well, I think when people are open, I don't know all the details, but clearly it's not cool.

Speaker 3 So, clearly, it was something against whatever agreement they had.

Speaker 3 Maybe they had an agreement where sometimes when people are open, the agreement is like we mess with women together, or I, I, you know, it's a thing we do, me and you,

Speaker 3 or I approve, but whatever the case is, it's obviously not okay because he's apologizing on, you know, line to her.

Speaker 3 And she went ahead, and I will uh summarize, but she did write something to her son online.

Speaker 3 I see if he's going to read it.

Speaker 3 And then just said,

Speaker 3 I want to share something from my heart. Basically, to her son, I'm sorry for bringing you into a world and a situation that wasn't what you deserved.

Speaker 3 Even though I can't change the past, I promise you now that you are here, I'll do everything in my power to give you the life and love you deserve.

Speaker 3 You will never have to question whether you're loved. You are my heart.
And then he came out and posted his new baby and said, Good day to my family, friends, and fans.

Speaker 3 The last few months, God God has blessed me,

Speaker 3 but in blessings came a lot of pain. Two months after his wife gave birth to little Mikey, a female friend I've known for over five years also gave birth to my son, King.

Speaker 3 Black's.

Speaker 3 Anyways, he apologized to her. I hope she forgives me for the pain I've brought to her.
I'm going to do my best to be a loving father to avoid turning into Nick Cannon or Elon Musk.

Speaker 3 I'm only dating women that run out of period or had a hysterectomy. Run out of them.

Speaker 3 Damn. So they're not together no more.
Well, she then responded and said, I don't normally respond, but let's just agree that was the most pathetic post or apology ever. Oh my goodness.

Speaker 3 And she said, basically,

Speaker 3 she said at this point, she's done joining the circus because he was a clown. Oh, my God.
And she stayed in the circus for too long. And his type was never me because I'm a real woman.

Speaker 3 This is what happens when you hold a demand down 100%.

Speaker 3 See, this is my opinion on that.

Speaker 3 You come to the circus, we go on tour, we perform, and then all of a sudden, this is what you signed up for, but just now you ain't feeling it no more.

Speaker 3 Like, come on, this supposed to just, we're supposed to keep this going. Like, this is what you, I don't understand women who get into open relationships and men.
Like, this is what comes with it.

Speaker 3 Now, if you're okay and like, like, to me, open relationship means it's open.

Speaker 3 We're together. So don't say what I can or can't do, because that's not what open is.
So now I have another kid, and now you ain't feeling the circus. And I'm like, damn, like, what happened?

Speaker 3 See, women get into relationships, and it's cool at first. And then y'all be together for a long time, and this is what it was, but then you stopped being cool.
This is how we got cool.

Speaker 3 And now you, this, now it ain't cool.

Speaker 3 See, that's, man, that's, that's, that's, I don't like that. I could never be cool with an open relationship, but you know, this goes back into what I was saying.
Men and women can't be friends.

Speaker 3 Men and women, I see every single day. Oh, he was my friend for five years.
Now we're married. Oh, he was,

Speaker 3 now we obeyed my female friend and had a baby. Like, I do not give a fuck what nobody says.
Men and women cannot be friends, period. Like, it's some tricky shit.
Always. And that's just the truth.

Speaker 3 I don't agree. I agree 100%.
And I'm constantly proven right. And the only way they can be friends is if a man is really genuinely not attracted to that woman or the woman friend zoned him.

Speaker 3 But the moment she does anything that remotely makes it seem like he could get it, she, it will change, period. So when you was like that, like your other person, did you have friends?

Speaker 3 Like, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 3 Like, I'm not saying you wasn't attractive, but you was like another person.

Speaker 3 When I was 280. Yeah, did you have friends? Like other friends outside your boyfriend?

Speaker 3 No, I didn't.

Speaker 3 No, because it was disrespectful. All right.
So

Speaker 3 I'm just saying, like, if it's open a relationship, it opens the door for other things.

Speaker 3 So now you gave me that. I agree.
I'm not denying that. What's the issue with it?

Speaker 3 And now that a kid becomes involved and especially, see, this hurts my heart when you have a young one that's like four months and now it's like, it's over with, or, you know, and it's just like, damn.

Speaker 3 But he has two young ones. Now you have a baby with a whole other situation.
And as a woman, being honest, a man with a newborn baby in a relationship is a very difficult thing to deal with.

Speaker 3 And you got to really love that man because bringing a baby outside of your relationship into this world

Speaker 3 while in a relationship and having another baby on the way or getting that baby, that's some fucked up foul shit.

Speaker 3 And it feels even if whatever the situation is it's hard it's difficult and it takes no but it doesn't matter they're not open in that sense they probably whatever they did they had an agreement because he's clearly apologizing and saying he up so whatever they were open you don't know what their record deal was closed with yeah you don't know what people's record deal is no one knows what's in beyonce's record deal no one knows what's in their record deal with him and her they had their own situation moving so we can have as many opinions as you want but he's clearly apologetic for what he has done so clearly he broke some type of rule within what they decided upon within their own relationship.

Speaker 3 No one knows what y'all have going on, but y'all. Now, to me, I'm sick of women going on penning a whole note to their son that's two months old.

Speaker 3 Like it takes a level of mental illness for people to make Instagrams for their children. No, when people make Instagrams for their children and post as if they're the child, it's mentally ill to me.

Speaker 3 Like, I will not deal with that. Is the weirdest shit to me.
And then they post and they comment and they say, thank thank you mommy and post to the comment to yourself it's sick

Speaker 3 i just saw something no but i just saw an influencer the other day and someone posted about it and she posted herself pregnant and made an instagram for her unborn child and then said mommy is that me and replied this is what people are doing i see it all the time i've seen people in my own family do some stuff like that and i told them i said that's sick like why do you have an instagram for your child and you're writing captions as if you're the child mommy took me on a date.

Speaker 3 Like, that's mentally. That's crazy.
That's mentally.

Speaker 3 What about the people who have Instagrams for their dogs? No,

Speaker 3 I mean, I think if you're not right, I just, I can't, I can't do any of the things. Yeah, I just, I'm just saying it's crazy.
And me personally, my kid does not need to have an Instagram, period.

Speaker 3 Like when they're not able to use it themselves as a fucking adult. My thing is if me, and someone has an open relationship, then that's what open means.
But we discuss open,

Speaker 3 everything goes.

Speaker 3 Okay, so we're going to move on to that. No, damn, that's crazy.
Well, I get what you're saying. And I think once you open that door, you open the door to a whole bunch of other things.

Speaker 3 You open the door to this type of stuff happening. You open that door, unfortunately.

Speaker 3 And that's why, as a woman, even if you know a man might slip up and do something, you never make it seem like that's ever going to be okay.

Speaker 3 Like, I'm never going to be, even if I know in my heart, like, damn, if this man cheated on me, I probably wouldn't break up my family because I love this person and I don't want to leave him.

Speaker 3 And I probably would stay. You know what I'm saying? But I'm never letting him know.
Like, you won't, and I'm still going to be crying and you still going to have to make it up and build the trust.

Speaker 3 But I mean, you don't make a man feel like he could just get away with anything. Like, but this is my thing.

Speaker 3 So, like, if I say, me and you in a relationship and you say we open, and I say, all right, let's have an open relationship. That means I like having sex, not only with you, but other girls.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 So it's like every man likes having sex with other women, all types of women. But now you agree to it.
Yeah. But now I have a girl that agreed to it.
Oh, I'm in heaven now. Okay.

Speaker 3 So now, you know, maybe it's under your terms, but like, what if it's a girl that me and you was with together under your terms, but I had something with her. Yeah, that's the problem that happens.

Speaker 3 That's what you opened up.

Speaker 3 Without you, but like you're not around right now or you nine months pregnant or you're like, yeah, that's blowing me. I'm not doing that.

Speaker 3 And what else is blowing me is like, if I would know, I'm not open. Like to me, a threesome, I'm not really feeling that.

Speaker 3 But I always said, like, maybe if I went out the country, it was a random woman, we would never see her again. And we did it.
Maybe I would do it. I would do it.
But like, it blows me.

Speaker 3 Like, if I'm asleep and I wake up.

Speaker 3 Someone just asked me this, and I wake up and my man is having sex with that. I love her with that girl.
Everyone. I don't know.

Speaker 3 I'm not even drunk past hours. No, she should be gone.
As soon as, as soon, there's two things. She should be out of there.

Speaker 3 As soon as he nuts, and it should not be from you, it has to still be from me. Then you have to go.
It's no bed in the night. It's no, I'm sleep.

Speaker 3 And you, I'm not going to sleep until you're out of there, ho. And if I wake up and you're writing something next to me, I'm it's every it's blowing me.
I'm losing it. Like, I'm losing my mind.

Speaker 3 What you mean you doubling back on this? You fell asleep. Hold on.
We was, you know, we was watching a movie. You fell asleep.
You shouldn't be watching a, See, this is where Mette.

Speaker 3 Why are you watching a movie with a whole movie? She fell asleep. Because that's what we were all doing.
No, she's, we're not watching. That's where I draw the line.
It wouldn't never. Wake up.

Speaker 3 Well, wake up. We're not watching movies.
Anyways, so let's move on to the next.

Speaker 3 That would blow me. I'm not having, that's my biggest thing.
Like, I'll do it, but the bitch has to go. I made some wings.
You asleep. We ate the wings.
You're not making food. No.

Speaker 3 No.

Speaker 3 No.

Speaker 3 There's no making food. Like, what are you talking about? There's no eating apps.

Speaker 3 I don't even want to know her name.

Speaker 3 I don't even want us to know the name of the girl. Can you set it up, though? You know, it was a pickup.
We're out the country. It was a pickup.
She's there. She's at the club or something.

Speaker 3 Okay, cool. We did that.
You got to go. We never see you again.
We're not exchanging numbers. We don't know your name.
And I'm never going to see you.

Speaker 3 And this man is never going to see you ever again. You're out.
You're out of there. That's the only way I will do that.
Threesome, that's the only way. And I'm done after that.

Speaker 3 And then I don't even want to. I'm just licking my toes.
You woke up to the toes getting licked.

Speaker 3 I'm out. I'm not even doing this no more because this is crazy.
This is mommy. Anyways, let's move on.

Speaker 3 So, Mace, he has a viral clip right now. Wait, Mace.

Speaker 3 Camon Mace. Camon Mace.
Okay. Okay.
Murder Mace. Murder Mace.
Murder Mace. Okay, okay.
Mace has a viral clip right now where he said

Speaker 3 that he was with a woman and she wanted to get married. So he asked her to buy the ring if she was really serious about the proposal.

Speaker 3 What's wrong with that?

Speaker 3 So you think that, okay, like you're in a relationship and I'm like, hey, I'm serious.

Speaker 3 Did she propose to him? No, he's saying that. Oh, she said, I wanted to get her married.
She's saying, like, imagine you're in a relationship, babe, I want to get married. I really want to marry you.

Speaker 3 I want to do that commitment. Go get me a ring.
So, not you, a ring. Buy your own ring.
Buy your own ring. Yeah.
Go buy your own ring and I'll use.

Speaker 3 And then we can, if you that serious about me, go buy your own ring. Ooh, that's a bar.
Ooh, I'm a, I'm a, damn. I'm a, hold on, hold on, hold on.
Let me put this in my notes.

Speaker 3 Oh, yeah.

Speaker 3 So you think that a woman should buy her own ring if she wants a man to marry her?

Speaker 3 Ooh.

Speaker 3 I mean,

Speaker 3 if you want it earlier than me, yeah.

Speaker 3 Like you want to get married and I wasn't on that thought process, but he said go get the ring now and I will.

Speaker 3 Is that not worth it?

Speaker 3 I'm never, I'm never, ever forcing a man to marry me. So it's not worth it to me.
It is. If you want me to go out and buy a ring, because first of all, I'm never even telling a man.

Speaker 3 Where these rules even come from? No, no, no, no, no. It's not a rules.
It's, it's, it's, for me personally, there's a reason. It's an order.
And when things are out of order, it's not cracking.

Speaker 3 And that's a fact. Because for me, if my man is saying, first of all, I'm not bringing up marriage.

Speaker 3 I've never brought up marriage in any of my relationships because that's just third like i'm not pressed you want to marry we'll figure it out secondly also i'm not going to be like oh i'm not ready to get married so let me go get the ring because that's a level of like i'm

Speaker 3 forcing and cool as cage jewelry and get a cheap ring and that's ain't that a ring It's not about the price. It's about the thought of,

Speaker 3 it's about the thought of if a man don't want to marry you and you going out to buy a ring, that's just burnt out on so many different levels.

Speaker 3 As a woman, like, I don't even care what the man is saying. As a woman, I would advise no woman to ever do that because it's not about the price, it's not about the ring.

Speaker 3 It's like, if, as a woman, you have to do all of that to get a man to want to marry you. It ain't that.
Let me tell you something. Okay, what is it? I think sometimes men

Speaker 3 be with women and say, like, you with everything's all good, and y'all lovey-dovey, and y'all ain't never really tested. Love ain't really been tested.
Like, y'all ain't really been through nothing.

Speaker 3 Yeah. That'll tell me a lot.
That'll tell me a lot. If a woman goes buys a ring.
Yeah, because think about it.

Speaker 3 Like, you really, like I told you, you, you, the love gets tested when you go through something. Yeah, for sure.
The love gets tested.

Speaker 3 Like, we can just be lovey-dovey and say we love each other and it's all.

Speaker 3 Rainbows and roses, but then you ain't really been through something because sometimes you go through one thing and y'all break up. Oh,

Speaker 3 that was built on like. That wasn't real.
I don't care what no one says.

Speaker 3 that's a play play relationship by the ring i'm like oh it's kind of real okay she down to do that that's gonna tell me something then she come back with it i'm like damn you really did that so you know what go get your money back i got you maybe that was a test maybe that's what the test was to figure it out like that ain't that's a real one that is that is a test i don't believe that's a test i'm gonna put you y'all through to some tests you're gonna go through tests it has nothing to do with me going to buy a ring life is going to test you and yes i agree if someone breaks up with you or leaves you off of the first test, that relationship wasn't built to last.

Speaker 3 That was a play-play relationship at the end of the day. We wasn't serious and we didn't have shit moving because you are going to be tested on so many different levels.

Speaker 3 You don't have to create tests for your partner.

Speaker 3 You are going to be tested all the time by God because anything powerful and two people coming together that are equally yoked, that are creating a powerful movement in the world is going to be tested.

Speaker 3 And if you're a man of God, you know that the devil don't come for his own people because they already over there with him.

Speaker 3 The devil comes for the light, the powerfulness the angels they come for those type of people so if you get two of those people together you don't have to create no test y'all are going to be tested all the time with a lot of different things maybe that was the final test no that ain't the fight it's not your if you a man of god it's not your job to test nobody that's not your responsibility that's god's job So don't preach that and then say you creating tests or vengeance or this on people because that ain't for you to do.

Speaker 3 Moving on.

Speaker 3 Moving on.

Speaker 3 So, anyways. These cats out here, like, really, if you really want to know if a girl love you, you need to go out and cheat on her.

Speaker 3 Let's see.

Speaker 3 If you really want to know if a girl love you for real,

Speaker 3 go cheat on her and see how she reacts.

Speaker 3 Now we're going to see what's real.

Speaker 3 I'm just saying, like,

Speaker 3 I don't know. Tell me.

Speaker 3 Tell me. I'm going to tell you.
I'm going to tell you something.

Speaker 3 Let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 If you really want to know if a girl. If a girl really loves you, go out and cheat on her.
Okay. And if that girl loves herself more than you,

Speaker 3 then you ain't got no chance in the world. She should.
Exactly. So you want to be with a woman with low self-esteem? That's the type of advice you're giving young people.
That's love.

Speaker 3 That's just love. Yeah, it is to a certain degree.
But that's not something that, listen, just because I might decide I'll stay with someone, you don't. God will.

Speaker 3 God will. Trust me.
There's going to be tests that you can't even think of. You've been through so many tests in your life that you couldn't create it if you wanted to.
Trust me.

Speaker 3 So stop trying to tell young men to go cheat on their women to test them. Like that's the worst advice you can give.

Speaker 3 If you want to know if a woman loves you. That's the worst advice you can give.

Speaker 3 Don't you give me some advice of how do I find out if a girl I just told you, you're going to be tested in different ways. How do I find out? What's the test? Give me an example.

Speaker 3 Women don't deserve to struggle just to have love. Well, it go both ways.
No, I'm not saying that, but it go both ways for the man, for the woman.

Speaker 3 Let me, if you want to see if a man is like, go cheat on her. Go cheat on her.

Speaker 3 I'm going to do that and I'm going to see what's going on.

Speaker 3 I feel like at the end of the day, it's really, really important to be very aware of the messages that you put out into the universe. But I will say this.

Speaker 3 There are going to be tests in relationships that you do not even know are coming to you. And I don't believe that cheating and infidelity is the only test that you can have in a relationship.

Speaker 3 There's a lot, a lot. And I feel like at the end of the day, there are some women or men that feel like, I can't deal with cheating.
Everybody can deal with something.

Speaker 3 There's some women that could be like, I don't care if he has no money, but I can't deal with a man where that's cheating. There's some women, I could deal with a rich man, but

Speaker 3 I can't deal with a broke man, but I could deal with some cheating. There's a lot of different things.
You find someone who's worth it and you find what works for you.

Speaker 3 Cheating might not work for Mary up the street who ain't never seen nothing like that. That might break her down and shatter her in a way that she can't even explain to herself or anyone around her.

Speaker 3 But she may be able to deal with a lot of other stuff. Love is enduring what you and your partner can give, but you have to understand your partner enough to know what that is.

Speaker 3 You get to know each other. You understand each other and you understand who somebody is and you know you can't change nobody.
Period. So, no, you don't cheat on your partner to figure that out.

Speaker 3 If that happens, and that's a crossroads you guys have to deal with,

Speaker 3 I know I would probably be willing to stay if everything else was in alignment for me. But not everyone is doing that.
You got to set it up. Like, I'm going to set it up today.

Speaker 3 I'm going to call her up. I'm going to be tell the homie, like, tell my girl I'm going to be in this club,

Speaker 3 but I'm going to be with some work.

Speaker 3 Let's see how she reacts

Speaker 3 when she walks in and the girl is on my lap lap or something. Yeah,

Speaker 3 a motherfucker don't want to do that to me. I'm going to keep it real.

Speaker 3 If she whoop her ass, she love you.

Speaker 3 And y'all cool. And she walks out of there and hold your head.
She love you.

Speaker 3 That's so toxic.

Speaker 3 That's toxic as hell. I do believe that there's a level of thing you have to put your, you and your partner will go through.

Speaker 3 But it's inevitable. You don't have to create no extra tests.
It's inevitable. One thing I will say, it don't have to be sex.
Sex ain't always

Speaker 3 for me. Well, my arm, like if I got my arm around another girl, is that cheating? It's just disrespectful.
Is it cheating? No, I wouldn't say it's cheating.

Speaker 3 And I'm not going to think that's not going to end our relationship. Okay.
Like, that is the first thing. If you walk in and I'm.

Speaker 3 Yeah, that's not the end of it.

Speaker 3 You're kissing. Kissing.

Speaker 3 Yeah, kissing is cheating.

Speaker 3 Like the f ⁇ . Kissing another girl is cheating.
Yes. If you're harming around or like touchy, whatever, that's not necessarily cheating.
And that's not anything you're going to break up.

Speaker 3 But it's like, if you're kissing, that's blowing me. And honestly, like I said, to whom much is given, much is tested.
You do not have to create no tests for your partner.

Speaker 3 If you guys have a powerful relationship to whom much is given, much is tested. You will be tested.
Listen, even Jesus

Speaker 3 tested.

Speaker 3 Are you comparing yourself to Jesus? You know what I'm saying? Like, this is blowing me. Are you, Jesus?

Speaker 3 But he tested the love of abraham right okay did he not you're if you're talking about you went to god right you went to the god and you went to all of that now god will let you know yeah

Speaker 3 jesus tested abraham right

Speaker 3 or was it wait wait who was it uh was it abraham that the jesus tested he took his family he took and he tested his faith he tested his love job

Speaker 3 It was Job, right? He tested Job. Like, he wanted to see his love.
Okay, so I'm just saying. So I wanted to see the love.
Okay. Well, you might see a lot more than love.

Speaker 3 That's what I'm saying. So, anyways, this is the perfect segue.
Noriega was on Angie Martinez's podcast, and he said, if you can disrespect your girl and cheat,

Speaker 3 I do not trust you. What are you going to do to me?

Speaker 3 If you are disrespecting, if you are cheating on the woman who you live with, create a life with, who is your girl, who is your partner, if you can cheat on her, what can you do to me?

Speaker 3 You ain't going to treat me right.

Speaker 3 Yeah, his homie. He said he judges men that do that.
He don't want to do business with you and he don't want to fuck with you.

Speaker 3 Looking for some female fans with that one. He didn't been around.
No, I've heard a lot of men say, like, and usually I hear white men say this, but they're like, I don't trust, well, others.

Speaker 3 I don't see just a white. I don't, I always see.

Speaker 3 I always see others say this.

Speaker 3 They say, like, i don't like to do business with men who cheat on their wives because if you can cheat on your wives you'll cheat in business you'll cheat in other things like i don't trust that i always see like certain high caliber men say that that are not black he's the first black man i actually heard say that same concept of like i don't trust you if you can cheat on your woman because if your woman is the person who's doing all of this for you and is here for you every day and you could cheat on her what can you do to me i'm not even giving you half of that's not that's not no that ain't it because i'm just doing business with you that's it i'm just doing business this ain't got nothing to do with love i don't even have to know the person i'm doing business with all that well i just know that he do good business yeah but not just business he's saying like just friendships too like his homies like how can i he's gonna what you gonna do to me if you do if i'm sitting with my homie and i know he married and he out

Speaker 3 cheating on his wife and i'm seeing it right there That's up for her to find out, not me. I'm not trying to get in the middle of all that.
I don't like, I'm still going to be cool with him.

Speaker 3 That's on him. Like, that's his, you know, his doing.
I ain't going to discredit him. That's my homie still.

Speaker 3 I got to love him over different reasons. If you're out with your, let's say you're out and you see some, you see your homeboy, like your cool, close homeboy girl.

Speaker 3 And she's out with a man.

Speaker 3 And she's booed. She's kissing.
And this is your close homeboy's girl. Are you saying something?

Speaker 3 Ooh, let me see if he booed up. Is this my dude? Yeah.
I'm going to be like, yeah, I saw her. I don't know if it's.

Speaker 3 Look, see, I'm not going to jump to conclusions because, like, from the outside looking in, I don't know what the situation is. I don't know if they have an open relationship.

Speaker 3 So I'm going to ask them, like, you know,

Speaker 3 do y'all have an open relationship? I'm going to ask other questions before I just go straight. Hey, I saw her.
People would like to jump to a conclusion. I don't like to do that.

Speaker 3 So I'm going to be, I'm going to like, if she see me, I'm going to let her see me. And I'm going to see how she reacts to me.

Speaker 3 And then I'm going to figure out what the mold is. I ain't going to look from afar and then go back and,

Speaker 3 because that's what people be doing. And that's how people ruin relationships because they don't know really what the hell is going on.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 And I fuck with that because I need to be more in-depth and really see. I ain't going to just make a judgment off of what I see from afar.
I'm going to be like, hold on, let me go over there.

Speaker 3 That's the homie girl. I might say something.
What's up, sis? How you doing? Everything good?

Speaker 3 You know, see what the vibe is. And if she comfy, then I don't got nothing to say.
I ain't got nothing to say.

Speaker 3 If she's comfortable yeah but you could because she's gonna get uncomfortable if i come over there no because you can play it off you're like hey bro this is darnell

Speaker 3 oh my god yeah and then when i talked to the homie i was like yeah i saw i saw wifey yesterday with darnell yeah see what he say oh yeah that's her brother

Speaker 3 no they was kissing in the tongue and down

Speaker 3 Nah, you got to be a little more low than that. But they wasn't.
They was lit. They did not.
They thought they was low. They was in an exclusive setting.

Speaker 3 You just happened to be in that exclusive setting, too.

Speaker 3 Nah.

Speaker 3 All right.

Speaker 3 A little more low than that. If you are married and you outkill, nah, you can't do that.
Do you believe? So there's a woman going viral on the internet and she's showing off her ring, right?

Speaker 3 And she's like, listen, they told me not to cook for him. They told me not to clean.
They told me not to listen to him. They told me, told me, told me, told me.
They all told me not to do this.

Speaker 3 All my friends. And now I'm about to get married.
that's why I didn't listen to y'all so that's going viral

Speaker 3 and basically they're asking the question is are women really the downfall of other women's relationships 100

Speaker 3 100 crabs in a barrel because when they down they gonna pull each other they want you to be like this come on now

Speaker 3 like man

Speaker 3 I solely believe that's marriage has been ended when girls be friends and one get divorced and the other one starts still hanging with her and she just giving her all her bad energy because her shit wasn't right.

Speaker 3 And then now it leaks into your shit. You know what I'll say though, too? I really believe this.
I feel like women have a tendency to vent only the negative stuff because they want to get it off.

Speaker 3 So they call their friend, and every negative thing that ever happened, they told him about it.

Speaker 3 And then their friends are like, girl, I don't like him. He ain't shit.

Speaker 3 And then ever since that, they're not feeling him. And now everything he does is like, what?

Speaker 3 Like, and then they're now their friends mean so much to them that it's like they're getting in her head every day. Well, girl, what is he doing?

Speaker 3 Like, I've had girls where I'm out and I don't even know these girls like that. And like, I'll be out with someone.
They're like, oh,

Speaker 3 who's talking to your man? Who's that? Like, girl, what? Get out of my business. Cause I'm not that person.
Like, I'm not going to, I learned at a very young age. And I hope more women learn this.

Speaker 3 Stop. telling your business to your friends.
They're going to be the downfall because they're going to now judge him.

Speaker 3 And what's crazy is a lot of those people, if they were in the same situation as you, they would probably stay because they're not in the situation and they're not emotionally bound and they don't know the rest of your relationship.

Speaker 3 They're going to judge everything about your relationship. That's why I always say married couples should have married friends.

Speaker 3 Because if you do have a situation to where you going through something, like you got somebody you can lean on that probably been through the same thing you've been through and y'all can kind of bounce off each other and heal.

Speaker 3 Where you got these girls who ain't got nothing and you constantly going to them or they going through it. They're going to try to put you through it too.
That's why I be saying like that.

Speaker 3 But your married friends can do that too. Sometimes if they're like, whatever, they have a certain standard or they're unhappy.

Speaker 3 Like there's certain stuff for sure because it's like, for instance, what we talked about. Well, everyone's willing to put up with.
Some women might never put up with no cheating is what they say.

Speaker 3 And some cheating happens. They're like, no, girl, my man would never.
Like, sometimes it could make it worse sometimes because women will be like, no, my man doesn't do that.

Speaker 3 He shows up and then they're sending pictures of what the man's doing on the Instagram. And he bought me all these flowers for Valentine's Day.
What does your man do?

Speaker 3 Oh, but we don't really celebrate. This is what I hate that women do.
Y'all

Speaker 3 compare what y'all men are doing for y'all. Yep.
And then you get that like, I wish my man would be doing what he doing.

Speaker 3 And I just talked about this with Heather because she actually said she feels that.

Speaker 3 She used to feel that with her man man to where she would see on Instagram all this stuff and she would send it to him and be like, Yo, what, what, what, like, see this?

Speaker 3 Like, why am I not getting this? And I had to say, compare that. Yeah, that's exactly what I said.
I said, you can't compare because comparison is a thief of joy.

Speaker 3 You don't even know what kind of situation they're doing. And you don't know that half of these people wouldn't be doing that if Instagram didn't exist.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 It would be a bouquet and a dinner, not all these 20 million bouquets filling every single inch of the home and all this extra doll stuff because it's an Instagram content world now.

Speaker 3 You know what I mean? And I feel like women do the comparison stuff.

Speaker 3 So even sometimes when women are in relationships, it can be difficult because they're going to do a comparison thing and they're going to be like, well, my homegirl, you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 3 Well, my man did this and he would never cheat on me. Like whole time he cheating, you just don't know.
No, I'm just kidding. But you know what I'm saying? Like,

Speaker 3 so I do think it's very important, no matter what, you, you have your one or two people that you know you can trust that you were not going to judge you and that have a level.

Speaker 3 Don't take advice from people you wouldn't want to switch lives with. I don't, if I look at your marriage and it's raggedy as hell, I'm not taking advice from what you're saying.

Speaker 3 Like, you got to go take advice for people who've been together a long time and stable. You know, sometimes it may not be the friend.
It may be like a sister or a mentor. Yeah.

Speaker 3 Or like somebody like something, you know, damn, come on, let me have a talk with, like, how did y'all make it so long? Like, how did y'all, what did, did y'all go through anything?

Speaker 3 And most couples who've been together longevity and has decades of

Speaker 3 marriage together, they've been through something, more than one thing. A thousand things.

Speaker 3 And that's the truth. And that's why.
We probably separated at some point. Yeah, 100%.

Speaker 3 Yeah, you go through a lot of stuff when you are together for a long time.

Speaker 3 And I think people who look at things from a perspective of like, we've been together for 20 years, they're able to look at it and be like, oh, this is something you're going through.

Speaker 3 But they're not like, this is extreme. End it right now, today.
It's over. You know what I mean? Yeah.

Speaker 3 Anyways, we got to put y'all to the test, man. We got to make sure.

Speaker 3 So what is the test?

Speaker 3 The test is not for you to create. The test is going to be given.
You're going to be given a test, multiple. If she can't make me some

Speaker 3 lobster pasta first time through and it be bomb, then we're going to have to have an issue.

Speaker 3 I mean, what kind of test? Like, you don't want the other test? That's stupid. But I can make a bust in Las Vegas.

Speaker 3 So, listen,

Speaker 3 let's get back into what we're talking about.

Speaker 3 So, there's a man

Speaker 3 and he takes a trip for his 40th birthday alone because his girlfriend couldn't afford her half.

Speaker 3 Whoa,

Speaker 3 that's blowing me.

Speaker 3 I'm tired.

Speaker 3 I'm tired.

Speaker 3 Wait, she couldn't afford her half of the trip, and this is his girl? Yeah.

Speaker 3 And this is him.

Speaker 3 And so he just was like, bye, and went on the trip alone. He was going? No, I don't know where he went.
Damn, she couldn't afford her half of the trip for his birthday.

Speaker 3 That's boss.

Speaker 3 That's a boss move. He probably wanted to go to London or something.

Speaker 3 That's craggy. I'm not dealing with that.
Like, you know what, man, this is going to cost. This is going to cost me a grip.
Damn, can she get, she can't get there? It's my birthday.

Speaker 3 This is what I want to do

Speaker 3 i mean it's only get 140.

Speaker 3 damn i ain't mad at that kind of like she can't afford her half because i can't afford her half so if she can't afford her half can't afford it but he doesn't you didn't say that you didn't he didn't say that you said

Speaker 3 he didn't say i can't afford her half but this is what i want to do for my 40 and if she can't afford her half then this is what i want to do So what you, how you mad at him?

Speaker 3 You just got to be like, I'll see you when you get back.

Speaker 3 You can't be mad at that.

Speaker 3 The trip would have cost him like $3,000. He can't spend $6,000.
And she can't afford the $3,000.

Speaker 3 It's just a plane ticket. And you already have to stay somewhere.
You got to understand what a trip is. You got flight, hotel, food.
You're staying in the same hotel.

Speaker 3 So if you booked it, you booked it. You got flight.

Speaker 3 So flight, the only flight. Round trip.
Then, you know, it's like, man, how many days? And they'll say, it might be seven days. It might cost $3,000.
For the room, you're already booking it.

Speaker 3 So what's the difference?

Speaker 3 You're going going anyway, so you have the room. That's the most expensive part.
No, the room ain't the most expensive part. Because I'm going to be wanting to do something for my 40.

Speaker 3 I'm going to be wanting to do this. And you're going to do that regardless if I'm there or not.
Yeah, but I'm saying if she can't share it. I'll share the food.
I just have a few bites.

Speaker 3 You'll share the food. Yeah.
What about that flight? That flight might be the most expensive thing. No.
Yes. How are you going to say that? Because the room.
Because the room. The room might be.

Speaker 3 How are you going to say no? You ride first class for almost forever. You don't know regular fights how much they cost.
Like, you telling me, like, we talk about people who can't afford shit.

Speaker 3 They're good. Like, I'm in that category.
I was in that category. Like, let's keep it real.

Speaker 3 I know what not affording and what these flights are heading for. You want to talk about the flight is more than the trip.
Have you took an affordable vacation? I mean, no, no, no, no, you blow.

Speaker 3 You blow up. A flight over here costs like $10,000 to go overseas, and I got the passport.
There's not, that's not the type of flights people are taking. He might be taking that.

Speaker 3 He can go into a coach seat. It's never going to be $10,000.

Speaker 3 Period point blank. Round two.
I know you don't. Yes.
I know you don't know that lifestyle. Look it up.
Oh, I don't have to. I've traveled.

Speaker 3 So you've been to Africa for how much?

Speaker 3 I never said Africa.

Speaker 3 What if that's where you want to go?

Speaker 3 Whatever. Moving on, moving on, moving on.
Man. Because you blow me.
So today's.

Speaker 3 Question. Okay.

Speaker 3 We're actually going to go into some other stuff really quick. Really quick.
What we got on the agenda. What do you feel like are the unspoken rules of the talking stage?

Speaker 3 So when people are just dating, they're not boyfriend and girlfriend, are you allowed in that stage to date and talk to other people?

Speaker 3 Yeah, the unspoken rules, if we're just talking and I'm out with another girl, don't come up to me. Oh, but what if we're talking to somebody?

Speaker 3 And you see me over here with somebody else and we're just in the talking stage, then the unspoken rule is don't come over here saying, hi, what you been up to? Don't do that.

Speaker 3 You see, I'm out with somebody else right now. We just talking.
Be cool. And I'm going to do the same thing.
If I see her out, oh, okay,

Speaker 3 okay, I'm going to move to another. Yeah, I can respect that.
You know what I'm saying? No, I respect that. Unspoken rule.
Don't do that.

Speaker 3 Don't come over there. I won't go to your table and be like, hey, why you been calling me?

Speaker 3 Come on, that's weak as hell. That's true.
If we just in the talking dating stage, don't do that. Yeah, you're dating.
Now, are you communicating like I'm dating other people?

Speaker 3 Like, or is it just unspoken now?

Speaker 3 Do we gotta, you said the unspoken.

Speaker 3 Okay, but like for instance what if we start to have sex is it okay to because i personally am not okay with having sex with somebody who has sex with other people i would not i'm not a knowingly obviously probably happened see this is the problem with you females

Speaker 3 you

Speaker 3 start no seriously like y'all start dating a dude and the first day you have sex y'all pretend like y'all go with the dude like we didn't establish that we just had we was in we caught the moment So like, don't, if I have sex with you and then the next night you see me over here at the spot with some, with somebody else, that don't mean we go together.

Speaker 3 Like, don't come over here, like, what you doing? No, we didn't establish that. Yeah, that's why I'm not having sex until that's established.
Yeah, no, we didn't establish.

Speaker 3 Now, I'm going to have to embarrass you in front of everybody. Why do you have to embarrass the people? Because you're embarrassing me now.

Speaker 3 Because I'm saying, like, if we have sex and we, you know, and

Speaker 3 you come over and I'm on another date and be like,

Speaker 3 excuse me, all that shit. Like, hey, what's what's wrong with you, Shorty? Hey, you better step back.
Hey, hey, and I'm at a table with another, like, come on, that's you embarrass me now.

Speaker 3 Cause we didn't establish that we was together because girls,

Speaker 3 when you have sex with them one time or the first time, and we ain't established we was together, they think that, yo, man, yo, yo, yo, girl, or something.

Speaker 3 Off top is just, okay, you know, if y'all there, you're like, is this going to be exclusive? Like, come on, you got to say that.

Speaker 3 I personally will say this. Don't be having sex with these men, honey.

Speaker 3 You need to wait till these men are being intentional and serious because women like nothing is casual about sex for women you entering my

Speaker 3 i don't believe in casual sex you don't it's not casual you don't first of all stop pointing at me put the finger down put the finger down no no no no no listen to what i'm saying

Speaker 3 sex for women is not casual because every time a man enters you whether you have a condom on or not you risk getting pregnant being pregnant is not casual nothing about that is every time a man enters your body with a condom or not you sex you you get you can risk a disease period point blank

Speaker 3 yeah but it's more intense for a woman because some when a key enters a hole

Speaker 3 right

Speaker 3 not everybody at the end of the day has no listen to what i'm trying to say a man at the end of the day entering a hole is different from a woman being entered a woman being entered is nothing about that is casual and that's for every woman if they want to play a game and act like it is they can but scientifically a woman releases a hormone while they have sex that makes them fall in love i don't know the name of it but it's a true thing so at the end no men don't release that hormone they don't it's a scientific thing men don't women do so the more you have sex with a man the more likely you are to fall in love you are risking yourself you're putting yourself in a really bad position and nothing about sex is casual period you end up pregnant you end up having to have an abortion you end up taking a plan B.

Speaker 3 All of those things are harmful for your body. Period point of blank.
Those are things that men don't have to deal with.

Speaker 3 You end up with a UTI, you end up with bacterial vaginosis, you end up with pH balance off. These are all things that women deal with that make sex not casual for women.

Speaker 3 And the reason women want to have sex with you and now they feel like they're in love is because you are entering their body.

Speaker 3 I mean, you enter my body.

Speaker 3 So they're going inside of you?

Speaker 3 Yeah.

Speaker 3 When? How?

Speaker 3 And

Speaker 3 sexual intercourse. A penis, you're going on a penis.

Speaker 3 Not inside of your body. Yes, you are.
Paul, the only way that a man gets entered is through the anal. There's no way that a woman is entering your body during sex.
Well, you're smothering my body.

Speaker 3 You're smothering me.

Speaker 3 I'm screaming. Get me off the pod.
This man is crazy. You're smothering me.
Sex is not casual. It's not.

Speaker 3 And women should stop having casual sex because it always ends in some fucked up shit for a woman. It's heartbreak.
It's embarrassment. It's a man being like, girl, we ain't even given all of that.

Speaker 3 I want to know how did they scientifically study that her hormone

Speaker 3 goes off when a man enters a woman. So say they were somebody that was having sex and they was doing a test.
Yeah. Like, how? Yeah.
How? How? They do tests on animals like that.

Speaker 3 And then they test humans too. No, they test the animals and then they test the humans.
They're not going to cry and say that's the same thing. No, but they test the humans too.
Oh, no.

Speaker 3 So I'm going to see who's the first.

Speaker 3 Who's the first? I was laying there with a partner

Speaker 3 and they had the whole MRI. They did it in the MRI or something.
They was in the MRI and they saw the neural, the neural part of the brain. I don't know, but we'll have to look at the study.

Speaker 3 They be making up shit out here. No, it's not a made-up thing.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 3 So do you think that when it becomes exclusive, a man needs to ask directly, like, will you be my girl? Does it have to be a clear, like, we're together? Yeah, he has to tell her, you're my chick.

Speaker 3 He's telling her, he's not asking. And then, no, he's telling her, and then I'll see what she says.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 3 Or, no, I'm not ready for that. Okay, cool.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 3 Okay. Got you.
You better tell her. You don't have to ask.
Tell her. If that's how you feel as a guy.
No,

Speaker 3 we exclusive. Okay.
Is post-nut clarity a real thing for men?

Speaker 3 Explain that again. So, post-nut clarity is when it's like you're feeling a girl, and then as soon as you're nut, you're like, oh, well, let's call it

Speaker 3 have a what post-nut clarity. That's what it's called.
So, it's like you're filling a girl, and then once you nut,

Speaker 3 you're like, Say something else.

Speaker 3 That's what they call it. That's what they call it.

Speaker 3 They say post-nut clarity. Once you, you know, finish, okay, then

Speaker 3 you're like off of her, like, uh, like, because they say, like, you never heard of this, yeah.

Speaker 3 I mean, I understand that language, okay, like, now you just like, I shouldn't have did that, yeah, like, are you like, is that a real thing, like, clarity after you finish, and you're like, uh, like, that is a thing, yeah, it's like, I'm disgusting, I'm disgusted with myself.

Speaker 3 No, I'm like, damn, it's tricky. Oh, you feel bad, it'll ruin your day.
Like, damn, I shouldn't have did that.

Speaker 3 I'm like, oh,

Speaker 3 and is it just like, is it because what? Like you cheated usually? Or is it because she's like someone that's just not giving?

Speaker 3 It could be a number of things. It could be like,

Speaker 3 it could be like you cheated, or it could be like you was lit, or it could just be like

Speaker 3 you're not attractive. You turn, you look, and you see that after that wake up, and you look at that, that, not that nighttime, that wake-up, you just like, damn, what did I do? I'm great.

Speaker 3 It'd be a lot of shit that going. it's different you know i don't know it's just where i was like damn it was you just get caught in the moment and you was like damn

Speaker 3 i was tricky

Speaker 3 yeah that'd be happening yeah that'd be happening to dudes

Speaker 3 like

Speaker 3 you know that's mostly young dudes though

Speaker 3 you know they just be like

Speaker 3 doing too much

Speaker 3 But that, I mean, it could be anybody, truthfully, you know. Yeah, that's a thing.
That's definitely a thing. Do you feel like,

Speaker 3 and I really want to know this because I feel like men will be like, oh my God, like, this is the best sex I ever had. Is there really like good vagina and like not good vagina?

Speaker 3 And what is that difference?

Speaker 3 I think a man

Speaker 3 makes it what it's going to be.

Speaker 3 Okay, explain.

Speaker 3 Like,

Speaker 3 if it's not cool, then it's on the guy.

Speaker 3 Because I feel like a guy is going to make it cool. But do you think that there's good vagina? Like, is there, like, you know, how a man's like, this vagina is so good.
I'm feeling it. Is that true?

Speaker 3 Or is that just saying?

Speaker 3 I mean, the homie told me it was like weak. He was like, she was just like laying there, wasn't moving.

Speaker 3 That's crazy.

Speaker 3 She was just laying there, just didn't move, head back, didn't even have no reaction to nothing. I was like, damn.
But like, does the vagina feel different?

Speaker 3 like that's what I'm trying to ask like you're not answering like the question of like

Speaker 3 is there different feels you know I think it's it's it's it's it's

Speaker 3 it's

Speaker 3 it's more than just the penis and the vagina it's the intimacy that make it better no I agree but I'm like it's more than a feel though like because like

Speaker 3 If you just out, if you just, your whole thought is just like to just go ahead and finish, you're just not really thinking about if it's cracking or not.

Speaker 3 But if you feel a certain way it's always going to be better if you feel a certain way about the person but do you feel like there's such thing because i've heard men be like

Speaker 3 what i've heard a lot from men is like

Speaker 3 oh like really really pretty women have like bad vagina sometimes and it smells and i've heard that a lot like it's blowing me like it's like a smell to it i've heard this so many people and heather said she heard this too like more a lot of people have said they heard this from men and i'm like what is that Like,

Speaker 3 are you pretty?

Speaker 3 No, I'm just

Speaker 3 like, I mean, what do you think? I'm asking you.

Speaker 3 You got pretty friends?

Speaker 3 I personally don't know because when I feel like our men tell the truth, like with me, it's always like, it's hitting, it's bomb. But it's like,

Speaker 3 is every man just saying that? Have you ever got up from sex and was like, what's that smell? Because if you have, it's usually coming from the girl.

Speaker 3 I don't think so. No,

Speaker 3 you ain't never got no, I never got up.

Speaker 3 No, no, no.

Speaker 3 No,

Speaker 3 what is that? Let me go to the bathroom real quick.

Speaker 3 This is blowing me out. That's what I'm saying.
Not never.

Speaker 3 Come on, no,

Speaker 3 not to where it's like crazy. No,

Speaker 3 you was just like,

Speaker 3 the friction was off. No, but also, too, what's crazy is you know that men's pH, men can throw off a woman's pH, though.

Speaker 3 Now it's on us. No, no, no.
That's a real thing. Like a man, like, trust me, like your body as a woman with a certain man will like be thrown off.
I'm telling you, the woman will agree to this.

Speaker 3 Has her pH ever been thrown off? It has, yeah. Oh, so you have got to be aware.

Speaker 3 But it wasn't like to where it was like, no, no, it wasn't that, but it was just like, you can tell it's like different from your like, sometimes if you have sex with a man a lot, you start to smell like him.

Speaker 3 Like, I can smell him on me.

Speaker 3 You know what I mean? She had to answer the question. She ain't answered.
Because that's not, that's crazy. No.

Speaker 3 So anyways, let's get back into this. Oh, man.

Speaker 3 Woo. No,

Speaker 3 they just got up and went to the bathroom. That's wild.
Didn't come back.

Speaker 3 No,

Speaker 3 like, what are you talking about?

Speaker 3 I'll just say, I don't know.

Speaker 3 Okay, so anyways, moving forward, because you can't take anything serious. What's worse for you? We're going to play a little game.
What's worse? Your partner cheats with your friend or your enemy?

Speaker 3 My friend.

Speaker 3 Because now I got two enemies

Speaker 3 instead of one.

Speaker 3 But isn't that worse? To have two enemies? Yeah. So it's worse to go with my friend.
Oh, oh, oh, I see what you're saying.

Speaker 3 Because then when you have an enemy, it's just kind of like, it's already my enemy. So that's already.

Speaker 3 I don't want to expect my enemy to try to do something? Yeah, yeah, whatever. I get that, but now my homie, my friend, oh, that's that's weak,

Speaker 3 yeah, that is super weak. I get what you're saying.
The friend hurts way more to my enemies. Because I don't talk to him, yeah, I don't talk to my enemy, yeah, for sure.

Speaker 3 What's worse, your partner cheats with a woman or a man?

Speaker 3 My partner cheating with a man because I'm the man, so go okay, I get what you're saying. So, if the other man, so it's more forgivable if it was a woman to you, yeah, okay, Okay, gotcha.

Speaker 3 But I mean, why? What if the girl was using the fake?

Speaker 3 You know, they'd be using the.

Speaker 3 The girl was using the fake on her? Yeah.

Speaker 3 It's still not the same to you. It's still not the same.

Speaker 3 Okay. Okay.
So now next thing. You find out, huh? Okay.

Speaker 3 You find out that your partner and their ex still share a Netflix password. Does that bother you? No, I'm be like, you ought to change and get your own account.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 3 She just forgot. I'll pull up, and it's her name.
I was like, oh, she forgot. Your best friend shows you all DMs from your partner, and they said a year before you started dating.

Speaker 3 They were flirting in the DMs a year before you started dating.

Speaker 3 You and your best friend's like, look.

Speaker 3 I mean, you thought she was fine, too. That's cool.
Okay.

Speaker 3 Okay, well, I think this was a great episode besides you just say anything. You say a lot of stuff.

Speaker 3 even when you was that other girl you did never

Speaker 3 i never was

Speaker 3 bye thank you so much like seriously seriously you run me low thank you so much

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