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45 years ago, a Virginia

soul band called The Edge of Daybreak

recorded their debut album,

Behind Bars.

Record collectors consider it a masterpiece.

The band's

surviving members are long out of prison,

but they say they have some unfinished

business. The Edge of Daybreak,

Eyes of Love, was supposed to have been

fouling up by another album.

Listen to Soul Incarcerated on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What's up? What's up? What's up? Hey, ladies.
Hey, queens. We are back.
We are. How does it feel to be doing live in-house? How y'all feeling? How you doing? I feel it's more of a casual vibe.
So I feel like we just kicking it. Like we just talking like FaceTime, girl chat..
I really like that. Yeah.
And that's what it is, Humble Betty's girl chat. We love.
Very intimate space, intimate vibes. That way we can feel that we can touch our supporters.
So I love it. Yeah, so y'all gotta write to us in the chat.
Let us know what's on your mind. We're gonna go over a few topics, but please chime in.
Please. I love that.
I actually do love the interaction. That's pretty dope.
It is. Let's get started.
Let's talk about this rolling loud. Okay.
So let's say California right now or just pass. Yeah.
Just pass over the weekend. And, you know, usually they have it here in Miami too.
I know they do different cities. So the headliner was...
Miami be lit. Yes, it does.
We've been to work together. Or yes, we have.
We've been to work together before. And that was a good time.
You know, I'm really... Miami just lit, but I feel like ASAP showed out.

ASAP has set the standard

with his whole grand entrance

performing on a helicopter,

just showing out.

Like, it hasn't been done.

Okay, he better be showing out.

Travis came down.

He arrives on a helicopter,

but then drove in a truck

and then performed this last one here in Miami. So it's like they're just doing...
They trying to top each other. Yeah, they trying to top each other.
You know, the headliners. Yeah.
These music festivals are really interesting. The kids are the ones that really low-key got me going consistently just because they want to be all up in the mix.
They want to see their favorite artists. They want to go from place, like stage to stage to stage, hit the food trucks up.
But I like to be in the VIP. You know, it's 21 and up up there.
We got... Okay, but quick question.
Was Brianna in the audience? Oh, yeah, I was Brianna. Everyone was there.
You. Jay-Z there.
Everybody was there.

Okay. I heard

Ivy Park

there. I mean, not Ivy Park.
Blue Ivy

there. Yeah.

You know, people don't come

out and show up. That's the one thing about these

music festivals. You look up and you look

to your right. That could be a celebrity.
You look

to your left, somebody else.

Just it's about music. That's the common

denominator is everyone vibing, having a good

time and just flowing. Yeah.

I don't know. To your right, that could be a celebrity.
You look to your left, somebody else. Just it's about music.
That's the common denominator is everyone vibing, having a good time and just flowing. Yeah, I'm not going to lie.
When I go to Rolling Loud, I always end up like falling in love with an artist that I never thought I would like. Because it's really about like their stage presence and like how they go crazy with the audience and like the mosh pits and like jumping in the crowd, crowd surfing.
I feel a little too old for it, but I'm with it. And I feel like I get to learn like what the kids are into now.
Like one year I went and I fell in love with Lil Pump. Who? I don't even know who Lil Pump is.
I don't know. But you were like this.
I was into it. I was very into it yeah what's it what's it what would you say I haven't I haven't experienced the rolling loud oh we gotta go this year then you gotta do it the right way though like we be in VIP like it's a very different situation listen Ariana has been and I and I took best friend with her chef room because I can't get a crowd.
I was going to say, it's a lot. It is a lot.
But if we go in the VIP part, it's not so crazy. Yeah, you just got to go in the VIP.
I had her in VIP, but she wanted to be in the VIP with Jada Waiter and all them. And I'm like, that's a whole different type of VIP, baby.
You need them at home. Yeah, it is.
You know, they have bottle service. They have like your own food truck areas.
It is the best way to go. And I go with my big three.
I call them the big three, the big kids. And they drag me there.
We get VIP passes, but then I usually dip off and I'm in the 21 and up club area. And then they go and do the mosh pit.
They go in there and in the dirt, it's dirty. And another thing you got to realize in these festivals, it's a lot of drugs.
It's a lot of liquor and it's a lot of kids. And so it's like, it's a lot of kids and so it's like it's a lot of energy going on in that in that you know on these music festivals so you definitely it's better to be where the adults are and have that good activity yeah that's smart we're gonna have to check yeah we're gonna have to check it out let's talk about let's talk about Kanye and Miss Kim K what's going on with the team with them? Oh, my God.
Here they go again. So, Kim K has trademarked her case.
She should. Right.
Yes. Without Kanye's permit.
Oh, it's without? Well, she did not let him know that she trademarked. She did not tell him that it was trademarked.
He found out, I think it was trying to put her on a song or something. Like, did he? Something.
Stop. I got a fruit fly in here.
Because you're sweet. You're sweet.
Okay. So, I mean, what did he think she was going to do? Kim is a whole businesswoman.
She comes from woman she comes from a whole family like hello like he shouldn't be surprised and it's protection at the end of the day they have their public their public figures their family's public their children we know every north south east west we know all the names you know it's very much um i feel like it's a protection thing but it should have been communicated and this is not going to be the first or the last time they're going to go at it about something he's obviously creative and has his musical genius and his side of things but kim is the business side of it so they gotta work together and figure this out it looks like i feel like right she is a business But do you feel like as a parent, even though y'all know how we feel about Kanye, but as a parent, do you think she should have at least told him, hey, this is what I'm doing? Acknowledge, gave him at least a notification like, I'm about to trademark our kid's name. This is what I'm about to do.

How he found out, do you think that was messed up how he found out? I think how he handled it is just as bad as how he found out. So like him taking it to the internet, it's like two wrongs don't make a right.
So if you had an issue with it, then he should have called Kim up instead of going on the internet. You know what I mean? Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah.
So I don't necessarily feel like, you know, it was right or like wrong that Kim did that. Like, I don't think it's right or wrong.
Like she did what she had to do. Like she a mom, she a business woman, like you didn't do it.
So I'm gonna do it, whatever. You know what I mean? Like, I don't think it's wrong that she did it without talking to him, but cause it doesn't necessarily have to, like, how she's being cared for or, you know what I mean? It's, like, business.
It's, like, if she wanted to go work at, I don't know, McDonald's. Like, do y'all really need to have a conversation about that? Like, I feel like it's, like, business.
But this one is different because I guess Kanye wanted to put North on one of his tracks. But he can't because it's trademarked.
And that's how he found out. Like, do y'all feel like just, I feel like we, you know, we're judging it because it's Kanye and we already have a strong opinion about Kanye.
But as two parents, when you're making big decisions like that, I feel my opinion, I would acknowledge and let, hey, this is what I'm doing for our kid. I agree with you, Sherelle, especially now that they were a big entity together.
And obviously we know about the divorce and now separate lives. It has to be a conversation.
It should have been a conversation really low key prior to divorce. I feel like because they were public figures and having these children.
And I feel like low key, he might have known because I feel like all the Kardashians trademark everything because that is how they make their living. It is name brands, it's branding, it's influence, it's lifestyle.
So I feel like every child has a, just by default, I mean, I feel like Kris Jenner is pushing for that. And I feel like all the men, low key, the dads know about this.
I mean, their fathers are famous. The are famous by their image you know their name image and likeness alone so i feel like low-key he knew about this but we don't we really don't know um it should be on a creative level that the children with permission from both parents should be able to have that creative you know what with because I mean, dad is who he is, you know, and mom is who she is.
So I feel like this won't be the last time we're going to hear about this on some creative level, just letting the kids express themselves. That's true.
I just feel like if he would have did it and she didn't know about it, maybe, it would have been an ugly situation. My opinion on it, I feel if I was to handle it, I would have acknowledged, hey, this is what I'm about to do and do it.
Just putting it out and want him to find out by trying to do something. But I feel like, you know, he's taking it the way he's taking it because it's greed on his end.
And he knew he probably could make even more profit by adding her on. So it's pissing him off.
I think it's more than just not, you know, I didn't tell you what I did. It's messing up his coins.
That's what I do. Yeah.
Well, that's not about it first. Then Kim.
It's about the kids. It should be about the kids.
but I know it's definitely, I'm sure they're probably not even talking like that. You never, you just never know.
Like it's hard co-parenting, you know? And then when there's other parties involved, especially influence, again, you got the world involved. Keep us out of group chat.
We should know about this stuff. I agree.

Yeah.

Run into the internet.

You just mess yourself up.

Yeah.

And only the kids get hurt at the end of the day again.

But it's like, you know,

yay is yay.

He's going to do this nonstop.

Right?

Don't do it.

That's a tough one.

Just never a dull moment

like with him or her,

you know,

Thank you. that's a tough one just never a dull moment like with him or her you know it's always something it is let's talk about NLE Chopper yeah I have respect for him who don't understand what that was serious I'm sorry I don't understand he don't understand I don't know what? That was serious, Sam.
Sorry, I don't understand. He don't understand.

I don't know.

What's going on with him?

Because it's something that was going on with him, too.

But I feel like it's good.

I feel like, you know, he's been supporting the LGBTQ community.

Did I?

We got it right.

Don't come from us. What is it? LG.
LG. B.
C. Plus.
Plus. Plus.
The A. C.
D. But he's been supporting and a lot of people feel like because he's been supporting hard that, you know, he's a homosexual or he's on the cover.
He has expressed that, you know, I'm very confident in who I am as a man. I just support everyone.
And I like that, you know, he's not being judgmental. He has fans in that community and he's showing the same amount of respect and love to that community as well as the, you know, the straights.
But he's been getting a lot of criticism in regards to being undercover and that's not fair that's not right i'm gonna say is the criticism from which community is it the black community because you know how we are deep in our masculinity especially the men very very masculine and very much like homophobic and um i feel like what he's doing is he's the artist, he's expressing himself and being very much like I am straight. I've heard his songs, my kids sing the songs, and he is definitely talking about the females.
You know what I mean? So I don't see why you can't support others. I mean, you never know if he has family, you know, that that could be.

It just has to be where it's 2025.

We have to be way more open.

We have to be way more tolerant of everyone else because they're just just people at the end of the day.

And their sexual preference shouldn't even it shouldn't matter.

Don't get your cat.

But yeah, I think the younger generation is more open, more fluid, more accepting than like the older generation, like our generation. I hate that I'm the older generation now.
We're the aunties. Yeah, we're the aunties.
But I feel like the younger generation, they're just a little bit more, you know, open to, you know, different people's lifestyles and more accepting, which I think is amazing. And I think that, you know, through art, like music and just creatives in general, I think it's just really great that, you know, we can bridge, you know, all of our communities together.
So kudos to him for, you know, standing up and showing support for the LGBTQ plus community. I feel like if you are, if you are supporting them too, or not supporting them, it's a double-edged sword.
It's one thing or the other. Like you're either jumping on, what'd you say, boo? You can't, is it, you can't win for losing or is it, you can't boo? Which one is can't you don't sound right now that you're trying to say it right i know what you're saying like you know like you know either you say i'm not going because it's a lg it's a you know it's gay pride or whatever and then you're getting bashed or getting canceled.
I mean, we know a few people have been canceled for, you know, it's gay pride or whatever. And then you're getting bashed or getting canceled.

I mean, we know a few people have been canceled for, you know, not supporting.

And or you show up and you really are just like, I'm creative.

I am who I am.

I can be very confident.

Yeah, very confident in my sexuality and shouldn't feel any kind of way.

It's 2025. We got to do better.
Yeah. Yeah, very confident in my sexuality and shouldn't feel any kind of way.
It's 2025. We got to do better.

Yeah.

Yeah.

September 1979.

Virginia's top prison band, Edge of Daybreak, is about to record their debut album behind bars.

In just five hours.

Okay, we're rolling.

One, two, three, four.

I'm Jamie Petras,

music and culture writer. For the past

five years, I've been talking to the band's

three surviving members.

They're out of prison now and in their 70s.

Their past behind them.

But they also have some unfinished

business.

The end of daybreak, Eyes of Love

was supposed to have been followed up by another album.

It's a story about the liberating power of music,

the American justice system,

and ultimately, second chances.

Listen to Soul Incarcerated on the iHeartRadio app,

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I'll be sharing even more personal stories with you guys and I know a lot of people are gonna attack me. Why are you gonna go visit your dad? Your mom wouldn't be okay with it.
I'm gonna tell you guys right now I know my mother and I know my mom had a very forgiving heart. That is my story on plastic surgery.
This is my truth. I think the last time I cried like that was when I lost my mom.
Like that, like yelling. I was like, no.
I was like, oh, and I thought, what did I do wrong? And as always, you'll get my exclusive take on topics like love, personal growth, health, family ties, and more. And don't forget, I'll also be dishing out my best advice to you on episodes of Dear Cheekies.
So my fiance and I have been together for 10 years. In the first two years of being together, I find out he is cheating on me, not only with women, but also with men.
What should I do? Okay, where do I start? That's not love. He doesn't love you enough because if he loved you, he'd be faithful.
It's going to be an exciting year and I hope that you can join me. Listen to Cheekies and Chill season four as part of the My Cultura podcast network available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Welcome to Pod of Rebellion, our new Star Wars Rebels rewatch podcast. I'm Vanessa Marshall.
Hi, I'm Tia Serckar. I'm Taylor Gray.
And I'm John Lee Brody. But you may also know us as Harrison Doola Specter 2.
Sabine Wren Specter 5. And Ezra Bridger Specter 6 from Star Wars Rebels.
Wait, I wasn't on Star Wars Rebels. Am I in the right place? Absolutely.
Each week, we're going to rewatch and discuss an episode from the series. And share some fun behind-the-scenes stories.
Sometimes we'll be visited by special guests like Steve Bloom, voice of Zabarelio Spectre 4, or Dante Bosco, voice of Jai Kel, and many others. Sometimes we'll even have a lively debate.
And we'll have plenty of other fun surprises and trivia, too. Oh, and me? Well, I'm the lucky ghost crew Stowaway, who gets to help moderate and guide the discussion each week.
Kind of like how Kanan guided Ezra in the ways of the Force.

You see what I did there?

Nicely done, John.

Thanks, Tia.

So, hang on, because it's going to be a fun ride.

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Listen to Potter Rebellion on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Let's get into it, y'all.
The question of the day, the topic of the month of what's been going on in the blogs. I know y'all seen it where Bree, I don't know how to pronounce her last name, Nick Cannon's baby mom.
Oh, yes. I know what you're talking about.
The girl keeps on selling Sunset. Yeah.
Oh, she did an interview in regards to, you know, her relationship with Nick Cannon. And I feel like it's starting to be the norm now.
Why are people so interested, though,

is my thing. Why do we keep

interviewing her about her

relationship with Nick Cannon?

But it's not

just her. What I'm speaking

on is a lot of

people are becoming open to

the...

Or open or whatever.

Probably because women feel like they'll take a piece of a man. Like they can't get everything that they're looking for from one person.
So I feel like they're just like, well, if he can give me this and this, he might not can give me everything. But he can give me a baby.
He can give me some money, a house. Okay, I can work with that.
So they go with that. So you feel like it's just our culture? Because when you really take a deep look into it, you look into the Muslim community world, they have multiple wives and they're okay with it.
Isn't that considered a... It's not just...
It is... I know what you're saying.
There are some cultures that are like, if you can afford to take care of X, Y, and Z, so many wives and the children, then you should be multiple... What does it be? Fruitful and multiply.
You know, they'll take it to another level or have multiple wives. They have multiple wives.
So that's considered what? Polygamy. Polygamy.
Right. So it's been going since day one.
Since day one. We're not used to it.
I'm not used to it. I couldn't be in a...
I was just ask y'all I couldn't do it why can't you do it Sherelle I'm curious what your thoughts are I don't I'm not sharing my men like I just can't share my men but what if you had other men on the side I just I can't it's hard for me to to maintain multiple men I can't okay what if what would you do how they're doing it like would you be the one woman with multiple men though could you do that I just said I can't balance multiple men well you need to learn to multitask Kenny I don't know try it my thing is this I don't know you baby put out of here just that you don't have that I seem to don't know what you're doing try it my thing is this I don't know and I just feel like men are so open to doing it but they can't handle it if they are the one of many you know what I mean like if they just had to be with they had to be one of the husbands I agree with you Ashley I feel like they can't handle it i feel like they can't do it and i feel like we need to see the other side of it we need to see a woman who has five husbands and where they're all in agreeance like yeah i'm tuesday and thursday and yeah whatever whatever but would you be in a relationship and if a man came to you and say, you know what, I have to have multiple women. I love you, but I need another woman.
How would you take that? And you really like him. I feel like I'm low-key dealing with that now in dating, just in general, being single.
I mean, in my other relationships, I was in an open relationship and didn't know i was in one so at least there's some dialogue and some communication but i'm saying that because i'm dating i'm not already date date and they're already dating multiple people at the same time and when you're with them you already feel like you know you really like him you're the only one like you're not thinking about you know when he leaves and who he's with when he's gone you don't know who he's dating and you know what i mean that's right who you texting good morning is it a mass text in the morning to everyone that you're talking to you're juggling so many energies you know what I mean? That's it. I called.
I was on. Wait, because it's funny when you said the magic.
I was on this flight coming back, and it was a high-profile individual sitting in front of me. And I can see them texting.
Like, they didn't have a screen on it. They would copy and paste the same thing to, like, 12 different sounds.
Dang, that's the kind of like people watching i like that's exhausting just saying you're like you're like me but he might be he might be um a polygamist or just just living his best life you know what I mean like I look at it like this. I want open dialogue.
I mean, I agree with Sherelle and y'all. Like, I feel like men can't handle it.
You know, if you're saying this is what it is, it starts from the beginning. Hey, I'm dating other people.
If that's the conversation, I'm dating with intention or I'm dating for one partner. I mean, I prefer one partner.
My pH balance prefers one partner. My mental, my heart, my time prefers one partner because it's already a lot juggling this pie of like work and family and friends and children and all these things.
And so I don't need all these other energies because I believe in soul ties. I believe in, you know, mixing energies and other people's energies coming into your relationship and really coming into your spirit.
And I don't have time for that. Like, I don't want to be getting tested over and over again because, you know, you over here doing this and doing that.
I appreciate the honesty because, again, it's the other way around. It becomes cheating if it's not verbalized, you know what I mean? But at the same time, it's not for me.
I just don't think I can spread all this love. And I feel like my value is just enough to where, you know, I feel I love myself so much that you shouldn't want to share.
You shouldn't want me to be out there being shared, you know, lock this shit down. I think right now there's this whole thing with men.
Like they feel like, I mean, they should feel like they are a prize, right? But they feel like things have shifted. You know what I mean? I feel like there's this whole thing about a high value man and they feel like if they're a high value man then you know they have a lot to offer and they have a lot of resources and so therefore they should be allowed to have multiple women because they can afford it and that just, you know, an eligible person to be with multiple women.
So I don't know. I think because women are allowing this mindset of the man being like the prize and we have to be out here trying to get them and chase them.
I feel like it's really just changed like the whole dynamic of dating. And I don't know.
It's like, I agree. The women are the men now.
That's what, um, what's your color set um the soft? What is the soft? What's the football player? Cam Newton? No. Brandon Marshall.
He said. Oh, he did say that.
What did he say? He said. The women are the men.
The women are the men. The new.
Yeah. The women are the new niggas.
That's what he said. Yeah, the new N-word.
Mm-hmm. And because he got flewed outed out yeah because he got flewed out by an a-lister actress you know it's like the tables have turned the men gonna be wind and dying they want to be flewed out it's a different dynamic these days no i want to be courted i want to be let me be the queen I am.
You know, let me know you're interested and show some effort. That's sexy.
And I'm not competing. I feel, again, two people have to be in love with themselves to want to share that love and really negotiate their peace with someone else.
And I don't have time to be splitting it up and dividing it up and all that it's too much

Mio is out here flying around on his own yeah Mio that's right that's another one yeah he every day he's out like posting pictures like I don't remember right he might either too like why are they so like flashy with it like why is it a show you know why do we need to know that they're with 10 different women?

Do they all date each other?

Because they all be together.

That's a great question, Sherelle.

What type of relationship is that?

Is that the...

Like where he's the main

and then they have...

I don't know what you call that.

Do they hang out together?

You said it's called what thin that's a lot of that's a lot of going that's a lot to handle that is a lot maybe it's like a cloud thing too maybe it's like they're just trying to be cool I don't know I don't think

I have been approached

to be like

this is my partner

this is my fiance

this is my person but I'm allowed to

date other people

and date other women I should say

what was this?

maybe about six seven months ago a friend of mine was like just i mean i like i like listening to people no i like listening to people and really you know understanding where their mind is did you think did you have a little thought process and was like maybe i could no they didn't know no i didn't like them enough okay what if you really really like i think that wouldn't be my person i feel like i my values my religion just my spirituality and really just my life experience, I'm not for everybody, and everybody's not for me. And I don't want to deal with another female.
But what if you don't want to deal with them? Like how— Oh, we saw that show. Yes.
The actor, he said he's ethically non-monogamous, you know, so he was saying like every woman in his life serves a purpose and has like a role. And like one woman might not be as available because they have a career or they live somewhere else or something.
So they're not as available. And so then he has this other girl who isn't as busy.
So she serves a purpose. And then like he has a woman who he wants to have kids with, you know.
So it's like each woman serves a purpose. But I don't think any of the women really have to deal with each other.
And that's going back to like Nick Cannon and Bree too. But I don't ever see Nick with his other baby mamas.
I always see him with Brie. I see him with the other ones.
I know one of them. He has to be with the other ones because he's still making babies with them.
And he's with them. Like I see him in the pictures.
I see him like... Because Brie is baby number like eight, six or seven.
I don't know. But he had more after her.
And yeah. I'm saying like, I see every time I'm on social media, I just always see him.
I feel like she's doing that too. Yeah, she's into this.
She's about that life. You know what I mean? She's on reality TV.
She's doing her thing or whatever. I mean, I don't know.
She's definitely the one doing the interviews.

You see Mariah.

Mariah ain't having no...

Mariah is not a part

of that count.

She is like...

She was the first two.

She was the only wife.

But, you know,

to each their own.

Again,

it's just not my passion,

my portion,

or my testimony.

It's not my...

Free statement was, has defended their... They have an arrangement.
My passion, my portion, or my testimony is not my thing.

Free statement was, has defended, they have an arrangement, not a relationship, an arrangement,

stating that she is happy with their dynamic and does not feel the need for exclusivity.

And that's what she's lying to herself for now.

You know what I mean? It's like, I got to make the best of this situation and I'm going to make it look amazing.

Thank you. She's lying to herself for now.
You know what I mean? It's like, I got to make the best of this situation and I'm going to make it look amazing. Because why would you come on these interviews and be like, it's horrible? I hate it.
You know, like she's going to say that. I feel like she's going to say whatever she has to say to get by.
I think I get two in my head. You know, if the minute you walk out the door,

you adding all this extra pressure to me.

I don't want.

And we are emotional creatures.

Like we get lonely.

It's that time, after that time of the month,

we start, you know, ovulating.

When we start ovulating, you know,

we won't want it bad.

And what if we can't get it from him?

I feel like they be having somebody on the start.

I wonder if that, I wonder, has that been asked?

They don't.

Do we know?

No.

Like all is fair.

Like he can do him.

She knows that he's going to go to see these babies and be an active father.

I'm sure that's what's attracted to her too.

But like, I don't know. I don't know, Ash.
Yeah, I don't think they got to be exclusive back. Right? I don't know.
But the man, they don't want you out there. They want you to.
I know Neo said that about his situation. That they have to be exclusive to him.
That's every man. I don't think Nick Cannon, he's never said anything like that.
I think Nick wants his women to be exclusive. You don't see her with anyone else.
Maybe they're not allowed to publicly. Because you can't be that.
I just want to walk around with a clown face, baby, because ain't no way. Yeah.
I don't know. Ain't no amount of money in the world that's going to have me looking like boo-boo the fool.
Why are you out here with every eye? I don't want it. I don't want it.
I feel like feel like you know we got to go back to the times of being courted and being loved on and being you know put on a pedestal and really like men should be you know fighting for our attention and really like it's like the the lions you know what I mean like let me go and impress her and really be like, choose this woman that I want to pour into. Because we are way more, I feel like, complex.
Like, men are very, like, simple. You know what I mean? So we, it's a lot of work.
And if we want to be fulfilled in so many different ways, they need to focus. But I feel like these new age women are making it so easy for these men.
Yeah, the bar is very low. Like, the standard is not there anymore.
So how do we change these men to go back to court and to go back to... Because they...
These women... Oh! Let me see that one more time.

Some of these are just making it so easy. It's hard for others.
It's at home, like with our young people at home, like me teaching my sons, like what kind of lady to be interested in, how to be a gentleman, how to be me. And like, it really just just it's really about having like examples and representation of families and marriages and having them around certain company and they got to see it in their face to believe you know what I'm saying if you don't see it then going to think, oh, well, I've seen all these broken up relationships and families.

And I already know he probably don't cheat on me. So let me just, you know, I feel like if you don't believe it, that you can have a man that is going to give you everything that you want and need.
and you can have a whole relationship

that completes you and fulfills you

in all the ways that you need,

if you don't believe that that could happen for you, then of course you're just going to go out here and be with a man who says, well, I'm going to be with five other girls. Yeah.
You know what I mean? I like that. It does start with self.
It starts at home. It starts with having those examples.
I like that a lot. And teaching your little boys, like I teach denim, open the door.
Say it's, you know, ladies first. Just do these small things because now you just see my grandfather, even my dad, they open the door for their wife, for, you know, for women.
They allow the woman to go first. These men are starting to act like the difference.
Exactly, that's what I'm saying. They start at home.
And a lot of these guys didn't have that at home. And it's showing now.
It's showing now that they're older and they're dating. It's showing.
Yeah, yeah. It's just too many options and so much access.
The access has gotten easier too. You know, you could be at home scrolling and set up a date the next day instead of just walking down the street, you know, and just really bumping into somebody.
It's just too easy. It's like they don't have to put effort.
No effort. Now they can just double tap.
I like you, double tap. Mm-hmm.
And now, you know. And it becomes very transactional.
It's sliding to me and it becomes super transactional to where it's like you know what it becomes quantity over quality that too you know it's just a lot of layers to that but i'm not bringing well i bet the men would say that it's like that because women just want money and stuff. So they like, well, I can give you money.
That's easy. You know what I mean? So.
It becomes a transaction. Yeah.
I think. They ain't giving you no standards here.
This is basically you want the money. I want this.
Mm-hmm.. Now it's just a transactional

fling.

It's just becoming

nasty. Just nasty

out there. Just nasty.

So how do you

go about changing it?

You like someone

and you see potential in them, but

they have those flaws of

they don't know how to be.

They want to be a polygamy? And you got to change him. No, I'm talking about just being able to for a man being a man again, like doing.
That's tough. I don't know about changing a man.
I feel like a man is going to change. Not changing a man.
I'm just saying like changing, not changing that man as a person, but changing his ways to, to be able to put the woman first, like doing little small things, learning my love language. That starts with intention.
That's that to me, that's the first comment, like one of the first conversations. If you, if I'm being approached, one thing, like I think it starts with, like we're all old school.
We prefer a man to approach us, you know what I mean? Especially if we're out. And, you know, it starts with that.
And then when you have to start to have these conversations, where are you in life? Where do you see yourself in tension? That's when you can start to like decipher who you're going to really start to invest in. Because I feel like men start to know early on if this is someone that they really start to like, just like, you know what I mean? And it starts, it's just really about intention and conversation and really like, this is where I'm at in life.
This is what I see really happening for me. And if I like him, then it progresses.
If it doesn't, then, you know, it starts to naturally fall back because, you know, when you get in a space of knowing your worth and knowing your value, you're not dealing with the bullshit. You're not dealing with the little, the red flags and just the nuances that would turn you off.
Like, I feel like once you get in the space of being married being divorced dating multiple people and just understanding who you are you can choose who's not gonna not gonna go further on in the stage you know what I mean because then we we know we're wasting time I don't have time for that. You know, I got to like you.

You got to do some things, but it's intention.

I think it's-

I think sometimes guys can be a little slow.

So I don't think that there's anything wrong with a man

who doesn't like come already knowing like how to please you

because everybody is different.

Every woman is different.

Everybody thinks differently.

So when it comes to like you were saying, Sherelle, like changing a man or showing him, like how do you get him to do the things or whatever? Like, I think it's just starts with like communication, you know what I mean? And like giving him hints, like I would say, cause men gonna do what do you know what I'm saying and I feel like if they really really like you they're gonna really like pay attention so I I don't like to like tell a man aka Phil because I don't like to tell him what to do but I like to like hint you know what I'm saying like I'm it's a big hint you know like I pretty much lay it out without telling him You know what I'm saying? Like it's a big hint, you know, like I pretty much lay it out without telling him, you know what I'm saying? Because I want him to pick it up on his own and like really be intentional about making a decision to do this to please be, you know what I'm saying? And I feel like they don't start picking up on the hips and they don't like you. So I think it's just like putting it out there like this is what I like, but not telling a man what to do.

Because if you have to tell him what to do, I feel like he don't really like you like that.

He's just doing what you're saying.

Yeah, going through the motions or whatever, the checkoff list.

I like that, Ash.

That's a great point.

I have a question. This is one that I have seen happen.
Do you think a person can genuinely love more than one person at the same time? Yes. I do.
Have you ever been in that situation before? Have I been in that situation before? No. In love.
Not love, but be in love. I think people can be in love with multiple people at once.
I'm saying like a couple just because there's different types of love. There's different types of like, you can still not be over someone who.
Like sexually, int, sexually, intimately. Like, what do you mean? Like, being in love.
Like, there's different types of love. Like, I love you, but being in love.
Like, I love you to the point where I want to spend the rest of my life with you type love. Yeah, I do.
I feel like you can be in love with two people at once. I do.'t know what I don't either I just think like you I think you can you know um that is it gets real tricky when that happens but at the same time I like look at us we love all of our children we love our you know like I know that's unconditional in a different kind of way.
But if you have a bond with someone, if you're friends, if you have this, you know, maybe intimate relationship.

that's a different type of love like you're gonna love we're gonna love of course because it's different but being in love intimately physically that's a that's a oh it takes a lot

i agree i don't think I can be in love, I can be in love with two people at the same time. I think sometimes that happens because like you get caught up in the idea of being in love with somebody.
You know what I mean? And if that happens,

like if you fall in love with two people,

I feel like it's not really love,

it's the idea of love.

Because if you really, really in love with somebody,

like in love,

like how could you fall in love with somebody else?

Unless it's like one of those freak accidents,

like you fell in love with somebody and then like they went on a trip

and they disappeared

and then you met somebody else.

We'll be right back. love with somebody else unless it's like one of those freak accidents like you fell in love with somebody and then like they went on a trip and they disappeared and then you met somebody else that's like a movie though you know what I'm saying but I feel like like are just dating two people and then you fall in love with both of them at the same time I feel like and that's what to your point that's what I'm thinking like you could still love with somebody and it just didn't work out or it's long distance or something like that.
And, you know, if life happens and you just. So that's how I feel like that you could still be in love with somebody.
More than one person. Right.
What's your take on emotional cheating? And is it worse than physical cheating? Oh, holy shit. Wow.
I don't know. I feel like, dang, that's pretty, that's a tough one.
Emotional cheating mostly be like, seems like the women in the relationship usually does the emotional cheating. Right? And then it's usually the man that does the physical cheating.
So I would say the emotional is probably worse. Because women, we lead with our emotions.
And once we emotionally go on, then the body is going. I agree.
You know what I'm saying? Yeah. Like if it's a physical thing, I feel like you just got one off and move on.
So for me, I would say the emotional is worse, but both are both equally, I think, wrong. I agree with you, Ashley.
I feel like emotional is way worse just because now the heart, the mind, the soul, everything is attached to that. Whereas physical, it could be a one-off.
It could be I fucked up or I slipped up or it was a mistake. You know what I mean? So I just feel like that might be a little easier to get over than emotional because when you're emotionally tied to somebody, there are feelings.
Your mind is involved. Your heart is involved.
And that can be very tricky and scary. I did a podcast with this couple.
They were amazing out of Atlanta. And the husband spoke on it about, you know, when men cheat.
Men don't cheat with the intent to fall in love. Like they're cheating, they're cheating because it's the ego thing or they want to feel like they still have it.
But when a woman cheat, it's hard for that man to forgive that woman because they know emotions are attached. So he was like, it's not the same.
It's not on the same totem pole. Even though both of them are wrong, but when a woman, even emotionally.
So I feel like emotionally, they don't even have to lay with that person physically cheating, just being attached to a man, their feelings and their attention are starting to drift away. And when they start drifting away, it's pretty much over for that.
Yeah. Yeah.
But I do know some hoes out there who will just bust one off real quick. So I don't want to just put that on the man.
Do the hoes be hoeing? You right, Ashley? I just had to put that out there because we can't, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. It is something that I could cheat with.
And that's what turned off for me. If I find out you got a situation, you know, I'm like, no, I don't want to, I don't want to try to penetrate that.
I don't want no parts of it.

I don't like it. Yeah, that's true.
You know, it's just not my thing. You become instantly unattractive.
What do y'all think about people having like work husbands and work vibes and stuff? I'll be hearing about that. Is that cheating or is that like just.
It depends because I have, you know, I have seen situations when Chad and I was in a relationship and he was close to females. But it was like, I know who they were.
They were comfortable. But then you sometimes have to watch that, too, because, you know, they could play the role.
And then not saying that that happened in our situation, it has happened before who was it um was it i don't even want to put um one of the celebrities the lady was booking the flights and doing everything all in her face smiling and behind her back she was Mia Lawson. You're right.
Say it. What's something? Say it.

What's something?

Not just me.

It's.

Wait, we heard it.

It's public knowledge

or whatever

you're right

that happens all the time

you know what I mean

unfortunately

I'm gonna say

I don't

I don't trust it

it's tricky

I'm gonna be the assistant

I'm gonna be the

everything you need

I'm doing it all what you need I book the to be the... Everything you need.
I'm going to know what you need. I book the flights.
I wash the clothes, take them to the clean. What you need.
Make the reservations. I got you.
Okay. But I feel like, I mean, I have guy friends and I don't want a relationship to be like, someone in a relationship, one might become super serious, to be like, you got to cut them off.
I know my boundaries. I also know I don't want him to be uncomfortable, but I'm gonna be like, that's actually my guy friend.
Like there's nothing sexual. There's nothing, anything going on, but actually that's a friend that has been- What if you started dating somebody and they have that work wife or whatever?

And as far as you know, it is just work related, but it still makes you a little uncomfortable. Are you going to just suck it up and deal with it? Or are you going to speak up and say, hey, I'm a little uncomfortable with y'all's situation? And definitely have to say it make you well, unless it shouldn't make you uncomfortable unless they.

They give you reasons to make you feel so strong. That's so true.
Because I don't have any concrete. It's like they're super close.
They have the chemistry, okay? Because they've known each other for years. They've been working together for years.
But they're like, you know, they're really close. She knows everything about him.
She books she knows everything about him she books everything blah blah blah blah so there's not anything that you know specifically that's wrong but it's just like the intuition type of feeling i just feel like those are insecurity issues or jealousy and unless for me until you give me a wrestling to a certain type of of way, then I'm not going to put it on you. I'm not going to put that in there.
Until you have a reason to feel that way, I'm not going to make you feel uncomfortable because you have a friend. This person could have been friends before I even came in a picture.
I'm not going to make you feel uncomfortable or make you feel like you have to sneak around to talk to your friend or be with your friend because I feel uncomfortable for no reason because you're friends with you know a pretty female or just a female in general because I have male friends and it's just not right like until you give me a reason to feel that way then that's when I'm gonna start acting a fool but and I agree with you Sherelle because it's like it's like until you find out something shady is going on or you find out that they are booking flights for other women or whatever, then there's the issue. But other than that, to me, everyone starts with a clean slate until you prove me wrong that you can't be trusted.
And I would definitely say something. I'm not biting my tongue.
If it's something that's super uncomfortable for me I got to talk about it I want to know what's up and if my intuition kicks in and then I find out some more stuff then you we got a problem yeah you know but I just don't it gets tricky you know because you got you got the ladies are in and out especially especially the guys. They, you know, a lot of men, they just have staff or they have these ladies around and they bring in this energy.

You know, it can it can get a little tricky, but you got to to be? Woo, these were some good conversations. We got to get over to HumbleBaddy's mail, but let us know how y'all feel about these topics, about this situation.
Could you handle your husband or wife having a work husband, having multiple sex friends? Let us know how y'all feel about it. Until then, we're going to get into the Humble Baddie Mail.
What we got? Let me start again. Okay, this is from Tiffany from Maryland.
Hey, Tiffany. Hey, Tiffany.
Hey, Humble Baddies. I absolutely love your show, and I'm always excited when a new episode drops.
I'm hoping you can give me some advice.

I've been dating this amazing guy for about a year now and we've really fallen for each other.

Everything has been going great, but recently he told me that his job is relocating him to Dallas, Texas.

We both live in Maryland right now, so this would be a big change. He asked me how I feel about moving to Dallas with him.
We're not engaged, but our relationship has been strong, and I feel like he's serious about us. The thing is, I have my family and my friends here in Maryland.
While I don't have kids or any major ties holding me back, it still feels like a huge step to move with someone. Do you think I should take the leap and go with him? Or would it be better to let him settle in first, see how things go before I make a move? I'm worried that if I stay behind, he can meet someone new and move on.
And I'd be left wondering what could have been. I really love to hear your thoughts on what you do in my situation.
Thanks so much for reading my letter and please keep making amazing episodes. Can't wait to see you on tour.
Oh, all right then, Tiffany from Maryland. Ladies, what do y'all think about that? Well, I am a hopeless romantic girl, so I say pack your shit.
Okay, pack it up and go. I mean, if nothing is holding you back, like if your work situation, you know, if you're going to be good to go, like there's nothing holding you back, then why not go? Like he sounds like he's ready to make a big step with you and I feel like if you're hesitating then like do you even really like him like that like what are you doing because you know if everything's going well with y'all and he's about to move he's getting a job like things are on the up and up for him and he wants you to be a part of that telling him no to me would be like a major setback and I if I were him I would look at you like not like I wouldn't like you

anymore but it would make me feel like you're not as serious about me as I am with you especially

in this day and age of dating and dating pool ain't that well girl I don't know I would really

think hard about it but I would pack my stuff and see how I feel and if it don't work out you always

Thank you. stayed in school, ain't that well, girl.
I don't know. I would really think hard about it, but I would pack my stuff and see how I feel.
And if it don't work out, you always move back. Phil? That's a big deal.
I would probably slowly transition. I would pack up and leave.
I'll, you know, keep my place. Go there, see how it is, because it's a lot.

You don't know how it is living with this person.

They all good, you know, while y'all going back and forth, y'all like each other, the butterflies. But I need to experience how it is living with you for a couple of days, for a week, then go back home, you know, reset.
Then let me try how it feels with three weeks, then a month. I just can't, I just can't pack it up and just go.
So Tiffany, my recommendation is to take it slow. I, slow and steady.
Slow and steady. I'm with Ash and I'm with you, Sherelle.
I'm a hopeless romantic too. But at the same time, Tiffany doesn't have anything tying her down.

Right now, it's hard dating already locally,

trying to have your life and have children and work and all that kind of stuff.

But if you have nothing tying you down,

I say, I like how Sherelle said, gradually go.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

And so it's like, it gets sexier when it's like, yeah, I'm coming in this weekend. I'll see you after a month or whatever, or, you know, just pack a bag and really have like, really start to slowly transition to it.
So I'm like, you know, show up, give that energy. It's sexy to meet up like, you know, halfway or whatever on the road or however that may be.
So if that's where your heart is, go follow it. But at the same time, be conscious and know that just in case you can fall back or you can go and make a move because you're starting, you know, say you're moving to this new city.
This is where his job is. He's going to have built-in people at work anyway.
You're going to have to start over finding people to be social with and to really find your own identity in a new city. And, you know, that can be tough in itself.
And really your job or whatever else, it would be hard, you know. So it's just, it's a lot of factors, but I say go for it.
But take your time. Take your time, Tiff, girl.
And don't feel like he might find someone else. Don't take too much time, Tiffany.
See? I don't think you should put that pressure on yourself like, oh, he might find someone else. Nah, people are meant to be if they're supposed to be together.
Yeah, exactly. If it's meant to be, yeah.
But I think it's dope for him to ask. To finish.
You know, when he put that ring on a girl and he like, baby, I'm ready to bring you. I'm ready to change that last thing.
Then I will pack up all my shit. Then there's no hesitation.
There's no hesitation, but it's hard because you don't know how people are. You write this.
You don't know what you're dealing with. And it really changes when you're actually in that same household with that person 24-7.
That's a big thing. Yeah, it is.
Because the first year or so, what did they call it? The newlywed stage and you have your representative. It can be a little tricky because you're right.
You don't, there's not, there's not like, not heavy situations that might arise. It's not financial yet.
It's not a lot of real life experiences where you haven't seen this person for who they really are. That could be tough.
That is so true. But, you know, in your heart, I say pray about it and make him put a ring on it, sis, before you fully relocate.
At least some kind of something, right? Some breaking case of emergency. Some kind of security.
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You might be missing something. Somebody probably trying to date you and everything.
Exactly. You don't get on Instagram.
Well, what else do I need to be on y'all? What y'all think? What y'all think? Cause it's not Facebook. Snapchat.
Snapchat. Autodating apps.
I'm on a couple, but I like it. I like in person.
What dating app do you collect? You need an invite? I think somebody looking for, I think I might set you up on a date. Really? What's good? No, you did say do I need an invite.
I'll meet to Raya. If you want.
That's why I had to go back to Raya. What is Raya? It's a dating app.
It's a dating app.

But for like, it's attaches to your Instagram.

You get referred.

And it's pretty much low key.

Like this is, you are who you say you are.

But you can be friends or you can also be there for like, I guess, romance or whatever.

Or hooking up.

That's what I, it's just turning into more like hookup.

Hey y'all, let's take some questions from the viewers real quick. Yes.
That would be lovely. You can get some.
Hi, everybody. Hey, what a question.
What a question. You got a mash? I'm looking.
Maybe. Okay.
Y'all put, Y'all put the questions in the chat. Somebody said Unk needs to hit Lex up.
Hey, hey, hey, we on the same team. We on the same team.
I'm't know now, that might be something. Unc and I.
That is hilarious. Oh, no.
Oh, no. Hey, humble buddies, please bring a Lord to O'Cali.
It's a lot of land to develop. The people want it.
See, somebody wants to know, what's your stance on 50-50? 50-50 in a relationship. Oh, y'all know, Gabrielle, you used something about, did she say that she was tired of us? Yeah, she said she's done with that.
I'm trying to tell her when she first started. I mean, I can't do 50-50 because sometimes nine times out of 10, it's going to be 20-80 and you're going to be carrying the 80 and I'm going to be carrying the 20.
Yeah, I'm going to put in what I want to put in when I feel like it. You know what I'm saying? I like to have the play money.
My money is the play money. Like, I want to be frivolous, you know what I want to put in when I feel like it.
You know what I'm saying? Like, I like to have the play money. Like, my money is the play money.
Like, when I want to be frivolous, you know what I mean? And, you know, just do something extra. That's my money.
You know what I'm saying? I feel like I want Phil to be smart with his money. You know, he's very frugal.
You know, we got our financial advisors. I know, you know, everything is set where he's, so like, with my money, we could just, you know we got our financial advisors i know you know everything is set where these so like my money we could just you know actually let me ask you a question question when you go shopping do you sneak and bring your um your bags in and hide the bag um put the stuff in there like i do it with my box my boxes that I order like to the house like I try to be home when when the FedEx man is home I mean when the FedEx man comes to the house cause I don't want him to be like damn you got another package you got another package you got another package you know what I'm saying but cause I don't even shop at them all that much anymore it's really it really it's a package I don't answer that question because I heard Phil in the chat.
Phil in the chat?

Lex, you answer the question.

50-50.

No.

I don't want to go 50-50.

I don't mind having

just in case,

but I don't want to go 50-50.

I have my household.

Obviously, I have kids,

so that's my situation.

Whoever I end up with, they have a household and their kids or whatever the case may be. I don't know.
They got their bills. But if we come together, like vacations and things like that, I don't expect to go 50-50 on that.
Yeah, I agree. I think 50-50 is just a weird concept in general.
Like, why even I don't know it's just it's very like I don't know like almost same as like transactional

when you're thinking about it it's like I'm gonna do this like you gotta do this

we're roommates yeah I don't like it we're not even and it can be it can get a little tricky

too because I know with the gab situation I know she was saying like you know she she has her own

And then... we're roommate yeah I don't like it we're not even and it can be it can get a little tricky too because I know with the gab situation I know she was saying like you know she she has her own and everything and has her empire but uh-oh like a certain way but you know so I just think I think too Gabrielle Union was saying like because you know it gets tricky when you're like taking care of other households and stuff like that so I just think you know each household is different but when we're just talking about it in general, I think it just feels very.
I don't know, it doesn't feel it doesn't have that conversation with your man and he's like, where's your half? Where's your half of the mortgage? Where's your half? You're 50%. Yeah.

It's very weird because

I mean, traditionally, like a man is

supposed to provide for the household.

He's supposed to, you know what I mean?

Just like traditionally, a woman is

supposed to do certain things. So

I feel like we want the traditional

lifestyle

and relationship.

The 50-50 thing don't fit

in there very well.

I feel it's taking notes that he got

So, let's go. you know, lifestyle and relationship, the 50-50 thing don't fit in there very well.
I feel it's taking notes. He got the ears out of it.
What did he say? He said he gonna put another camera on the opposite side in your closet, in your personal closet. I'm joking.
I'm not going to see why she right. He's our biggest fan.

He don't watch, comment, like,

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Shout out to Phil.

Phil do be, as soon as the

episodes drop, he'll be on.

Shout out. We love that.

That too.

Even though we're not together,

my best friend

be supportive. He'd be supporting us.
He'd be posting on his page. I'd be like, okay.
Look at you. He posted us today going like, I'm going after you.
That's sweet. We love that.
We love our supporters. Oh, I love them.
I don't know. Maybe there's one in the chat over there.
I don't know. Okay, let's see.
Where are my supporters at in the chat? You know what I'm saying? Where y'all at? Where y'all at? Let's say we're her supporters. She need her supporters so she can brag about two.
We y'all at, fellas. Who they said might be your supporters.
Right. Yeah, before we go, it's St.
Patrick's Day and none of us were agreeing, so I'm pinching y'all through the screen. I'm not Irish, so...
Is that how it works? I don't know. I got a little bit, maybe.
Wait, wait, wait. Not it's St.
Patrick's Day. I'm going to pinch y'all through through the screen ain't that what they be doing oh no she didn't it's too late you pinch every St.
Patrick's Day the Irish I mean don't don't drink too much until next time we'll catch y'all again

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