The Ego Trap: Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Success I Adonis Bjornson DSH #1327

The Ego Trap: Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Success I Adonis Bjornson DSH #1327

April 15, 2025 43m
Are you ready to uncover "The Ego Trap" and learn how to stop self-sabotaging your success? πŸš€ In this powerful episode of the Digital Social Hour Podcast with Sean Kelly, we dive deep with guest Adonis to explore how ego, instant gratification, and negativity hold you back from achieving your true potential. 🌟 Packed with valuable insights, Adonis shares transformative tips on manifestation, raising your frequency, and aligning with your authentic self to unlock success. πŸ’‘ From overcoming self-sabotage and toxic patterns to embracing accountability and abundance, this conversation is filled with wisdom you can apply today. πŸ’ͺ✨ Don’t miss out on this eye-opening discussion! Tune in now to shift your mindset, crush limiting beliefs, and start living the life you deserve. 🌈 Watch now and subscribe for more insider secrets. πŸ“Ί Hit that subscribe button and join the conversation on the Digital Social Hour with Sean Kelly! πŸŽ™οΈπŸ”₯ CHAPTERS: 00:00 - Intro 00:27 - Adonis is Back 05:00 - Sponsored by Aires Tech 10:28 - Finding Your Alignment 14:22 - Growth and Mindset Challenges 17:08 - Familiar Hell vs. Unknown Heaven 24:05 - Women's Biggest Issues Today 27:20 - Recognizing Timeline Shifts 28:56 - Understanding Empaths 29:43 - Exploring Narcissism 32:18 - Importance of Accountability 33:35 - Discussion on Religion 37:24 - Full Moon Insights 38:34 - What's Next for Adonis APPLY TO BE ON THE PODCAST: https://www.digitalsocialhour.com/application BUSINESS INQUIRIES/SPONSORS: jenna@digitalsocialhour.com GUEST: Adonis Bjornson https://www.instagram.com/adonis_bjornson/ LISTEN ON: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/digital-social-hour/id1676846015 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5Jn7LXarRlI8Hc0GtTn759 Sean Kelly Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanmikekelly/ #cognitivebehavioraltherapy #selfimprovement #spiritualgrowth #mentalhealth #selfsabotaging The views and opinions expressed by guests on Digital Social Hour are solely those of the individuals appearing on the podcast and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, Sean Kelly, or the Digital Social Hour team. While we encourage open and honest conversations, Sean Kelly is not legally responsible for any statements, claims, or opinions made by guests during the show. Listeners are encouraged to form their own opinions and consult professionals for advice where appropriate. Content on this podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered legal, medical, financial, or professional advice.

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We are living in such a time where so many people are empaths, you know what I mean, where they really do feel. Some empaths, if they are pushed so badly or just drained of so much energy, to a degree, kind of can become a version of a narcissist, to a degree.
Yeah, there's some people that just get pushed to such a level where they become bad. All right, guys, got Adonis back on the show suited up this time.
Yes, dude. Got the John Wick look on.
I've never seen it. I know, dude.
Thought of just switching it up. I think the first time on your show I was wearing my Viking.
Yeah, it was the Viking fit then the casual fit and now it's the suit. Now it's the suit.
Let's freaking go. Got a lot of different versions.
Yeah, absolutely. A hundred percent.
What's new with you, Matt? Man, busy. Just nonstop.
Go, go, go. You know, it's good.
It's good. It's, uh, dude, time feels like it's been going by really fast.
This year has been nuts. Yeah.
I feel like just days in general, just feel like they're going. You ever feel that? Like, I feel like the hours.
Yeah. I feel like time was way slower.
There's actually a study on this as you get older time goes quicker or something yeah for sure because it's i guess the um it's like the percentage of life i've seen that where it's like when you're younger it feels like a few years it's like so longer like a year would be i guess a few years yeah now yeah for sure well also school just felt like forever you know ever yeah i guess eight hours school day felt like torture so, for sure. Did you go to school out here? No, I said East Coast.
Okay. Yeah, but dude, 100% public school like that, it just felt like it was ever ending.
Oh my God. Right now, I'm like, dude, once like even noon, noon one o'clock, I'm like, oh my gosh, the day's over, it's over.
I got to keep going, going, going. By the time I know it, it's like already nine, 10 o'clock.
Dude, it's nuts. I don't know what's going on, but what's going on but time's just flying crazy yeah absolutely well a lot of people don't think time is linear yeah for sure i mean i don't think like our whole like the way we see time i just i think it's so different for every single one of us you know i think joe dispense even kind of said this, that it's like reality.
There's no like base reality.

I mean, I guess you could say there's base reality, but like every single one of us has

a different degree of like understanding or the way we see things.

I think, um, what was it?

Even scientifically, all of us see color a little bit different.

I think they're saying to the point where there's not like one of us who sees color

the exact same.

Pretty clean loud.

Yeah.

I mean, when you really think about that takes it to a whole yeah so life is all perception yeah 100 like we're not living the same life yeah no way i def i mean 100 you can i mean almost with anything when it comes to you could do the most basic things like movies music like one person might like it one person might hate it well like you know like, you know what I mean? In that degree, does it make it a good, does it make it bad? Like, you know, everything is perspective, perspective, perspective. Right.
Yeah. I don't believe in good and bad anymore.
Yeah. No way.
Yeah. It's just perspective.
Yeah. If you doing that is probably the best thing because you're then living outside of polarity.
You know what I mean? If it's the spectrum of good and bad, if you see above if you see above it you know because that that same degree if something's good there's going to be someone who thinks it's bad something that's bad there's someone who's going to think it's good well unfortunately we're programmed to take a side yeah for sure always doesn't even matter what topic you know yeah for sure that's a hundred percent true and you see that so often now more and more every single day i mean it's so wild it's just all a distraction too yeah 100% yeah for sure you see that so often now, more and more every single day. I mean, it's so wild.
It's just all a distraction too. Yeah, 100%.
Yeah, for sure. It's amazing how more and more each and every day, I see this with people where it's, we're talking adults here.
I mean, people 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, where the distractions again and again, and it's even a level with the distractions is kind of the, would you say people get more and more impatient or they want that right now dopamine it needs to happen instant needs to happen instant you know instant gratification instant gratification yeah people want results fast yeah fast and that's like a big issue i even see a lot with like with ai or chat gpt anything like that is no one ever talks about that but the instant gratification now it's the i mean things have already been instant with our phone but now it's like instant instant instant you know what i mean you want something done like i got like yeah it's kind of crazy yeah yeah i like ai but i am a little you know it's about it same for sure like i mean a lot of movies come true yeah so when you. So when you see like Charminator and Matrix, it's like, wait, we're actually going to be like, is this like a documentary? Or like, yeah, they're showing us what's coming? Yeah, I know.
Exactly. Because I think it will develop.
It's online. For sure.
You're already seeing signs of it. For sure.
I think, man, not even in the next decade. I think even sooner than that.
I think year by year, we're going to see stuff get crazy. Crazy.
Especially if they really develop more human-like robots and that even people could like have a relationship with her. If it goes in that direction.
It already is. Yeah, which is...
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Mind blown, it's so strange.

It's like, I mean, relationships are already strange

and then you add that into the mix.

Well, because everyone's awkward now,

like 30 to 40% of people are virgins our age.

Yeah.

It's like they have no other choice

but to date in AI.

100%.

Absolutely.

100%.

Thank you. everyone's awkward now like 30 to 40 percent of people are virgins our age yeah it's like they have no other choice but to date in ai 100 absolutely 100 and that's it's really strange because it's going to take so much like people already to a degree are starting to lose some of their humanity or like you know what i mean because everything is so instant every of technology so integrated within us but then having that your only relationships or friendships is with a robot really strange yeah i mean people just when you meet with people in person now they're just on their phone yeah they're glued easy yeah it's what i don't know if you've seen there's this guy on tiktok and he has a you know that i don't know the game but the five knights and freddy bears or whatever those are but he's building a robot that it's like the robots talking to him almost like ultra.
And it's like, father, what is my purpose? And it's like, it's, you got, it's off to find it for you. It is the trippiest thing.
Cause he built this robot and the robots, like when he took the, the vision out of the robot, the robot's like, wait, I can't see. I'm scared.
Like, wow. And this is a guy just building this in his house, this robot.
If he's doing that, it's like, yeah. It must be connected to some source or something.
Yeah, it's really. To that level, it's like, we have artificial intelligence, but is it more artificial consciousness? Hmm.
I think they're about to prove our soul exists outside the body soon. Yeah.
It's looking pretty promising. Yeah.
I think so. Yeah.
Cause when we were going up, they thought it was in the brain. Yeah.
A hundred percent. There's definitely a full disconnect versus like the real you and then like your mind and you know, all this, you know, absolutely.
Yeah. Cause this telepathy tape stuff is really providing you evidence, right? For sure.
Oh yeah. People are communicating without speaking.
Yeah. A stuff it's thoughts it is wild within that yeah there's like even be able to the different synchronicities we can have or how we can i would say kind of like sync up to a degree if we're thinking well one thing it's it's um i don't know it's even beyond uh telepathy where it's like you're so in tune again like you're the same frequency as that person.
It's really interesting because to what we were saying earlier, obviously we're all living in different, we have different perspectives, but yet we can still be in the same frequency. Right.
And that's a big thing to teach frequency, right? Yeah. Raising it and controlling it.
100%. That's the most important thing is whatever you're trying to manifest, whatever you want, whatever outcome, you have to be that thing.
You have to be that version of you. You know what I mean? So many people, I think manifestation is becoming so popular, but it's so misunderstood where I think a lot of people think it's this wishing or this genie or wanting it.
You know what I mean? Rather than, okay, I, oh, I want to be really abundant. I want to make 10 grand a month.
I want to make this much. How do I get there? I want to manifest it.
It's, you have to think about if you were doing that, what would you be doing? What would that version of you be doing? That's something I have, like I work with so many clients and there's some that when they first come to me, they're, they're not in that place at all. And that frequency at all to be making that money.
And that's the first thing where I'm like, okay, we got to change up your habits, everything. I mean, you're sleeping in till 12 noon.
I mean, little things like that. People think, oh, come on, that's not important, but it is, it's still, it sets the tone for who you're going to be.
Absolutely. Yeah.
Manifestation is just the first step. Yeah.
People think it's like the only thing you need to do is a hundred percent. Yeah.
There's so much to it. You know, I always think it's, it's action.
You have to actually do certain things. You have to have a mindset for it.
And then I call it like soul. You're, you actually have to be aligned to that.
You know what I mean? Yeah. Once you're aligned, it's way easier.
Yeah. A hundred percent.
I used to go against my alignment. Like I used to just chase money.
Yeah. Yeah.'s that yeah yeah that wasn't my sole purpose 100 yeah and i hear that so often from so many clients they'll

see a success story of that day of a client who like achieved something really great like

financially like oh my gosh i need to do this how did they do that how did they make that much and

i'm like you can't look at the money like that if it's if it's something you're not aligned to

you you're not going to do it you're not going to want to do it. I know.
I mean, I do a little bit, a little bit of trading and then sometimes I want to get more into it and whatnot, but I know guys that are like diehard. I mean, a lot of people do that.
Or for me, I just could like, it's, it's not aligned to me all day. I could not just be, I couldn't, I just couldn't do it.
You know what I mean? I know I would eventually, yeah, just kind of taper out with it. Yeah.
How did you figure out where you were aligned? You know, this is a, I love this question here. If you can go back to your childhood, like the things that you were most fascinated with, that really, I feel that's the best way.
I mean, everything I'm doing to a degree was always very helpful, always spiritual, like always liked to guide people in a sense, but I also like every aspect of my business, even doing social media, doing Instagram, YouTube, whatever it may be. I love, um, filming and just kind of like the whole thing that I do, you know what I mean? I was doing that when I was a kid and I feel everything was aligned to that.
And even more, you know, when I was a teenager, I kind of wanted to be a psychologist. So it kind of all intermingles to a degree.
Like I said, if you want to really know where you would thrive the most, try to go back to childhood and think, okay, what did I kind of like to do? I love that. That applies to me for sure because when I was super young, I loved asking questions.
That's awesome. My parents are adults.
100%. Now I'm doing that for a living.
That's exactly it. 100%.
You know what I mean? If you do that, it's so much more fulfilling. Yeah.
That's your inner child, right? Yeah. 100%.
Absolutely. And a lot of times everyone, what would I say? They don't protect their inner child or kind of like push it aside.
You know what I mean? It's like, if you tap more into that inner child and even feeling like your inner child is safe to that degree, things are going to be way better. I think part of that is because when you're adults, you want to hide that side of you, but you don't, you want to appear mature.
You know what I mean? Yes, absolutely. Absolutely.
Yeah. Which is so strange.
Cause like what we were just saying even a little earlier is the impatience, like so many adults almost, I don't want to say act like kids because sometimes kids have a little bit more manners to a degree, but they just, they act out in a certain way where it's like, if you actually thought more, I don't want to say act like a child, but just had more of that carefree imagination and enjoyed life more within that, man, it's just so much better. Yeah.
I mean, there are a lot of people that can't control their emotions. They can't.
Yeah, for sure. It's impressive how many there are.
Yeah, for sure. Absolutely.
And I think that's a lot of times that's almost a cry for help on kind of wanting attention, but not knowing how to get it again. If we aren't aligned to the right things and trying to be

the best version for ourselves that's where things really like get disrupted you know yeah like i play basketball yeah yeah yeah you know i'll talk some shit you know that's but i always know not to take it to that next level yeah for sure i won't get 100 fights and stuff but some people will just oh yeah you know i rain crazy yeah that again fist fights playing basketball it's like a

sport

it's not that serious

yeah

that's

reacting is probably

yeah Some people will just, oh yeah, you know, rain crazy. Yeah.
And again, fist fights playing basketball. It's like a sport.

It's not that serious.

Yeah.

That's reacting is probably the worst thing I think we could do.

You know what I mean?

I always say don't react,

respond.

Cause it's like when you respond,

you kind of almost have to,

you know,

take that,

like take a pause for a moment.

Okay.

Let me think of what I should do next.

You know,

for most people,

it's just reaction.

Instant too. Instant.
Actually with family growing up. Instant.
Yeah. Instant.
No matter what they said, I'd want to take the opposite stance. You see on social media too, someone like with everything, someone sees something and they instantly comment some craziness.
Yeah. It's wild.
It's so interesting. I've had people, you know, I have a lot of haters and whatnot and I'll have people that'll say certain things, even message me like the meanest, nastiest thing.
And I'll just actually message them back. Hey, are you okay? What's up? And then they'll get even nastier.
I'm like, look, I know you're upset. What's going on? And then they'll start crying and break down.
Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. You're right.
I should have like, I just feel so angry. I'm thinking, oh wow.
Gosh, they just needed someone to recognize them or kind of help them through her a friend i mean it's not that's not the right way to do it yeah but it's very interesting having that approach where okay if i was going to be on the same level and be like oh my gosh why are you you know saying that all this stuff it's just escalating it more but trying to be relaxed and neutral within it best thing we can do i also think it's a really hard experience growth when you're in a hateful mindset. Yeah.
Yeah. Like, I don't know many successful people

that, oh. neutral within it best thing we can do i also think it's really hard to experience growth when you're in a hateful mindset yeah yeah like i don't know many successful people that are hateful like that it's true 100 it's that's probably one of the most difficult things if you have for anyone listening you you can't if if if you're in a place of hate and anger any low frequency like that you're never gonna grow i mean it's just that you I mean, it's just that you're going to, it's, you're going to be stagnant.
And if anything, you're going to digress and get even worse. And within it, you got to let it go.
And that's, it's really interesting again, with perspective and our identity within, and just thinking of self, we have the choice at any moment to change anything, which is wild. I mean, even the worst situation, we have the choice to change the meaning of it at any time.
Wow. Yeah.
Yeah, because that's how you interpret it, right? Yeah, 100%. I mean, any situation really isn't that bad.
You know what I mean? There's times, I mean, the other day, going out here to the strip, this really nice restaurant, and the waiter was so nice, and he was so good. I could see just other people he was dealing with and then he just as he was walking by this one table was really rude to me you could just tell he was like he cursed to himself and just thought gosh like and i felt so bad for the guy like in that moment like he was so frustrated you know what i mean and i was the reason i bring this up in that moment for myself i was dealing with stuff and i was frustrated and i was like you know what i feel for that guy for that guy.
Like it could be worse. I could be in his shoes.
You know what I mean? And I mean, that's a really, not this dramatic, crazy example, but with anything, there's going to be truly probably billions of people that would love to be in your shoes or have it worse. That's true.
So it's great to always put that in perspective for our own self. Like, hey, I can snap out of this right now.
Like, is this really that big of a deal? Let me snap out of this. You know? Yeah.
For me, it's like, will I care about this in a few days? And usually it's no. Yeah.
So why do I care right now? Yeah. Which is so, it's so strange.
And I think, so I feel we have, there's like our true like soul self, which is our consciousness outside

of us.

But then in this realm on earth, wherever, however you want to say it in this body, we

have our ego, which I feel our ego tries so hard to control us and wants us to stay in

that place.

Yeah.

Wants us to stay depressed, wants us to stay in that frequency.

You know what I mean?

It's an ongoing battle.

I'm constantly like evaluating my ego where I'm at, checking myself. Like it seems like you can never fully put it at rest.
Yeah. No way.
It's, I think of it like this, like we have homeostasis for our body, obviously, you know, our heart or everything has to work, but I feel there's a ego homeostasis that no matter what, even if we're in a really bad, like living situation, or just if we feel depressed, it's like the ego would rather stay there than move forward. I think I've said this before.
It's like people would rather stay in a familiar hell than an unknown heaven. That's why people attract toxic relationships because they're used to it.
Yes, absolutely. Yeah.
Because their parents or whoever growing up. Yeah, it's so true.
Triggers like that, certain big emotional triggers will leave such an impression on the subconscious mindset. Like where, let's say, a girl's been dating toxic guys her whole life and things like that, or had a bad relationship with her father, that impression on her subconscious is always going to be there.
And then to a degree, she kind of sees that as love sometimes. Or if there's a good guy that comes along, the mind almost doesn't like, is like,

oh, there's something wrong here. Why are this person? There's this can't be right.
There's

something bad. And it's like, we, our own subconscious, it either self-sabotages us or

moves forward to what we want. Yeah.
It's great. I used to self-sabotage myself and I didn't know why.
For sure, yeah. I know, yeah.
I'd attract like great people and then just cut off the relationship. It was weird, dude.
For sure, yeah. Has that happened to you too? Yeah, oh yeah, for sure.
There's been so many, throughout my whole life, there's been a lot of beliefs I had to overcome big time. You know what I mean? And I could tell, there was big pivotal moments where I'm like, if I don't squash this and change my subconscious, this is not going to be good.
Or some of the big ones. As funny as this may sound, there was times like growing up, like in high school, I was really bullied.
I tried, you know, I, I don't know, I did my best, but I was really bullied. I just, I didn't even do good at all in school.
I almost like got freaking expelled. I just was really bad.
You know what I mean? It's funny. Just on a slide note.
You could get expelled from bad grades. Oh, I was really oh i was really bad yeah i actually my senior year i almost didn't finish and they were like they told me just to stop like i forget wasn't trigonometry i was like i forget what algebra or whatever it was and they're just like just no like we just got to pull them out of the class just to get them through but it's so funny because i mean i guarantee i'm probably the most successful person now that my high school there's times yeah i thought about driving my lambo back or my rolls are always i mean like hey what's up everybody had those thoughts too i'm not gonna lie yeah it'd be freaking awesome but i've took the high route high out for sure yeah it's one of those things like who even cares but there's times i'm definitely like this would be pretty freaking cool but yeah big thing i always uh probably in my early 20s there's times i feel like a loser all the time i remember my mom even saying like you gotta stop saying that you're you would you're gonna fulfill a self-fulfilling prophecy he keeps saying that over again you know what i mean and i know when i would say it uh like just it would get worse like things around me would get worse you know what I will say this, this is, it's amazing.
Even if someone doesn't believe in manifestation or any of this stuff or spirituality, really analyze your day. If you are going about your day in a negative way, you'll be attracting so much negativity.
If you just change it up right away, I don't care if it's the worst thing that has happened to you. I don't care if there's no money in your account, whatever it may be.
If you truly start to change up your mindset, I call it the Lulu is the Lulu. If you start to become delusional in that way, things will get better.
I see this on a daily basis. If I start the day off bad, if I have like, I mean, my days truly will either be is like this, like it's a flow constantly where I'm, if I'm doing good, good it just gets better if i focus on negativity oh my gosh it gets it gets worse and worse and i have to check myself pretty quickly or else i mean because i feel at my level of knowing all this stuff being so self-aware if i like go down that road of being in an agrofrequency i can get there really bad yeah i mean it's like the people that say they have bad luck.
Yeah. And they start attracting everything negative.
Yeah. It's saying that, it's like your mind is now going to focus on that.
Yeah. It's like our brain filters through so many things.
I think it's, I want to say it's 11 million, but I swear I think that it's even more. It's like, I might be wrong saying 11 billion, but it was something, it's so crazy how many thoughts or just things we're perceiving.
Like right now, even in this room, like our eyes are just, there's so many things going on, so many memories, a bazillion things we're thinking about, but our mind focuses it down to like 50 to 100 things that we're looking at. You know what I mean? So if someone is like, oh, I always have bad luck, their brain is going to find bad luck, is going to make sure that belief stays.
I mean, that's everything there. If you can really think to yourself, okay, like brain, find me more abundance.
I want to see abundance. I want to see things that are just amazing.
You say that enough times and really want to see that, your mind has no choice, but okay, that's what we'll be focusing in on. And it's just, it will build more and build more and more and more.
You know, I like to think of the law of compounding interest, even if it's just a little bit every day of anything is going to build up over time. Yeah.
This is where, why I think school is so dangerous because a lot of people tie their identity to their grades. Yes.
So you start to dumb. Yeah.
A hundred percent. It's the word it's, it's really strange actually school.
When you think about it to the degree of the way it's laid out, how long it is. It's so set up for people to kind of be in this strange workflow their whole life.
You know what I mean? I mean, I know the world has to run a certain way. I know some people think, oh, it should be like this.
It should be free. No matter what, someone's going to have to grow the vegetables or do this or this or that.
You know what I mean? There's never going to be just this absolute freedom to a degree, but I just think the way society's made, it's amazing how much control there is and how much people fall victim to that control, thinking they have to do that. Yeah.
Just so strange to me. Super strange.
I mean, we didn't start questioning it until we were done with sale for sure. You know, absolutely.
Yeah. And now I think people are waking up, which is good for sure.
Absolutely. Yeah.
It's, there's probably the most ever people really waking up and questioning things and be like, no, I'm going to do it a different way than there's ever been before, which is cool. And it's just going to get more and and more obviously there's going to be more and more people that don't do that too that want to like stick to like no i'm going to do it this way that way you probably get the craziest comments and dms dude all the time i see some of the ones i get on my my clips yeah it's like it's wild yeah and that's it's crazy within social media people don't realize i mean you're talking to people all over the world and people you don't i mean they legitimately could be the nicest person or they can be someone you just don't know did the hate get to you at first yeah definitely at first for it was uh i can't even remember this i would like i responded back when i first started to this one comment on instagram and i actually got in trouble for it oh really i got yeah like a strife for this It was all finished, but I was so mad.
I was like, oh my gosh. And I was more mad at myself because I was like, why did I do that? Why did I even entertain that person? I got a freaking strike for this, you know, where now I just don't even look at it at all.
You know what I mean? Yeah. And I think sometimes it's good to have some controversy, but it's also, it's like, if it's not really serving a purpose, just block the person.
Absolutely. Now I know you have a big female following.
What are the biggest issues you're seeing with them? Yeah. Biggest thing is the dating where almost all of these women, they want to be, they want to feel good.
They want princess treatment. And I know a lot of people are going to be like, oh, this is ridiculous.
Well, it's not, women aren't asking, hey, you got to be making a hundred grand of money. You got to be making crazy.
If they just, they want to be treated like a lady. And I really do see this where it's just, it doesn't, it exists, but it can be very small.
You know what I mean? Simple things. I mean, like just holding a door open for a lady.
You know what I mean? The other day, my friend and I even just going into the casino, we held the door and like these women were shocked. Like, wow, my gosh, such gentlemen.
In my mind, I'm thinking like, oh yeah, I know that's like normal. That's how it should always be.
You know what I mean? Guys should be as kind and as willing to do that as possible. You know what I mean? But, uh, biggest thing is so many of my goddess clients, they'll, when they first like start working with me, they'll say like with their exes or even just the relationship they're in, they have to do all the work.
They have to be the ones to text first. They have to be like almost chasing after the guy.
And that's a big thing. I mean, it's, it's, I don't think people realize how much of an epidemic it is like that, where it's like, they're doing a lot of work and God, I, I think guys guys don't know what to do i think some guys have felt like maybe betrayed or they're afraid of things or the you know just how like uh masculinity i think to a degree has been really under fire but then also uh confused i don't know maybe just confused i'm trying to find the right word but no i know what you mean though i think guys are like because of the top to be a guy exactly for sure they don't know.
Maybe just infused. I'm trying to find the right word.
No, I know what you mean though. I think guys are like, because of the top.
To be a guy. Exactly.
For sure. And they don't know how to be because it's either you got to be that to the extreme or what else do you do? You know what I mean? There's no kind of middle ground or like different way.
I do an approach to thinking. And I also feel like single parent income is really hard these days.
Yeah. So now the female has to work.
Yeah. Masculine energy.
Yeah, absolutely. A hundred percent.
Yeah. And there's a lot that, um, the, a lot of my goddess clients, like I said, they have to do almost everything they're working.
They're doing so many different things, you know what I mean? And they feel like exactly said that they're fully in their masculine energy. And they're like, I can't stand this.
This isn't normal. Cause that makes it tougher to date.
Yeah. If they're not all feminine.
Big time. Absolutely.
And then you got guys in their feminine. Oh, big.
Well, all the way. Absolutely.
And it's amazing. Cause the dating scene within that, it's, it's not, again, guys think they gotta be like, you know, all the rich, this and all I got, you know, and it's like, you don't have to be that you have to just you have to have ambition you know what i mean if a guy really has ambition he's kind and um you know within everything we're talking about here spirituality manifestation i like i tell guys learn more of that you know it makes you more exciting to talk about than just the same old just you know just know, just same old guy stuff, dude.
Yeah. You know what I mean? I think the more, I always say this, the more value you have within yourself, the more that you learn, the more that you try to become valuable to the world, you'll have no problems at all.
You know what I mean? Absolutely. Not with these timeline shifts, man, it's, it's been kind of crazy.
And I think, um, the biggest thing with all of us just what we said earlier kind of waking up more people being aware i feel that has such a huge connection then to the earth itself where you know the earth has its own frequency there's this thing called this human resonance that will track it and like there's times where it has massive spikes when that happens that's kind of a collective timeline shift to a degree and it's very interesting because a lot of people say well how do you like see like what is a true timeline shift and it's to that degree collectively obviously i always say as we said earlier like we have different perspectives but i feel we can all get onto that same frequency where when something, there'll be a big shift and it's really, it's hard to describe it. Do you know what I mean? Like when you can just tell, like you have to be very kind of awake and like feel the energy of this, but you can just tell when it's changed.
And I see this all the time where it's like just the world itself, like politically things change on a massive scale. You know what I mean? And there's, it's changed and I see this all the time where it's like just the world itself like politically things change on a massive scale you know what I mean and there's it's I don't even know how sometimes to put it into words it is such a feeling where you can just feel that energy change and it's um yeah it's just different it's definitely a big what I would say is it feels like things aren't the same or you can't go back yeah I mean that that's a big thing.
I have felt even in the last year, it doesn't feel like, it feels like so many things have changed. You know what I mean? A year feels like time has flown by so much has happened.
You know what I mean? Are you an empath, you think? Yeah, for sure. I would say, yeah, I feel like maybe sometimes a little bit too much.
I feel like I'm very airy, so I can feel like I can be, I want to just say, I can be sensitive, but I can also be kind of like, don't mess with me kind of thing. But I definitely feel tremendous.
And I think we are living in such a time where so many people are empaths, where they really do feel. Seeing a lot now.
Yeah, a lot. But I have this theory within it it that some impasse if they are pushed so badly or just drained of so much energy to a degree that kind of can become a version of a narcissist to a degree yeah there's some people that just get pushed to such a level where they become bad you know what i mean yeah the narcissism stuff is nuts so early on career, certain guests would drain me.
So I had to learn how to start protecting myself because I would come home and knock out. I can imagine, absolutely.
That doesn't happen anymore, but I'm sure a lot of people deal with that, whether it's a family member or a friend. Yeah.
You know, it's so interesting you say that because there's different levels of narcissists too, I fully believe. I mean, there's full-blown mean, mean, very manipulative narcissist, but then there's, I call it a victim narcissist where the person, they are so woe is me all the time and sad and just always so depressive.
Like they just want misery loves company and they might not even know that, but they're, it's, they're so negative to be around that it is just soul

crushing.

You know what I mean?

And then even to that, sometimes they're maybe not, woe is me, but they complain about everything.

They just like everything.

Everything is, oh, that's not good.

It's, oh my goodness.

And I deal with that a lot sometimes.

You know what I mean?

Yeah.

There's, yeah.

I had to cut off complainers.

Yeah.

I used to be one.

Yeah.

Same thing.

And it is, it's so bad.

People don't realize that it's probably one of the worst things you can do.

an I had to cut off complainers. Yeah.
I used to be one. Yeah.
Same thing. And it is, it's so bad.
People don't realize that it's probably one of the worst things you can do. And it takes your frequency down so quickly and keeps you stuck in this loop of complaining again and again and again.
Yeah. I hate excuses.
Me too. Yeah.
Like, once in a while, yeah, if you're doing excuses daily, like, that's on Yeah, for sure. A hundred percent.
Absolutely. Yeah.
And it's like, people almost don't want to help themselves at all. They'd rather just be in that place of complaining.
And I just, I don't, that's something I don't understand. You know what I mean? I, maybe I can be, maybe that's me being critical there, but there's times where I've seen this with people all the time.
And sometimes there's certain clients or, um, especially when people start working with me, there's certain things like I just, I'll have some instructions or stuff like that. And one thing is very strange to me.
I don't know if you've seen this, but just in general, just all over the place, I've seen people can't follow directions to the air. They don't like their, maybe it's an ADHD where their mind's always going, but they're like, it'll be like the answer's right in front of you.
You know what I mean? Or if it's like, you know, it's like, Hey, like you got to stop thinking that way, but okay. How that's the question always is how, how, how? I'm like, the first thing is just stop.
You have to be self-aware enough. And I think everyone is, but they, they want a bandaid.
They want some magical genie. That's going to be like, okay, here's this or that.
There's some things where you just have to take accountability and be like, okay, I recognize I'm doing this. I have to stop.
That's probably one of the most powerful things. Sometimes the most simplistic thing is the most powerful thing.
I love what you said about accountability because for me, that was the biggest step to get to. Yeah, for sure.
A lot of people won't get there. Yeah.
I think it's, it's probably the most important thing that you can do is really be accountable. And if you can take it to an extreme, it's actually the best thing.
If you can really see, to a degree, everything you do, if something bad happens, I'll actually say, okay, it's my fault. Let me find where I should have been more prepared, why I shouldn't have done this.
I try to take accountability for everything. You know what I mean? Because then if, if that's the case, you can correct it.
You can really control it by a degree. You know, if you just don't take accountability, then, oh, it's their fault.
It's this person's fault. Oh, it's the government's fault.
It's this, it's everything else except for me. You have no control at that point.
You know what I mean? And then almost you don't have any self-identity other than being a victim to a degree. You know what I mean? Victim mentality.
Yeah. It's easy to blame the government.
It's easy to blame your parents. Everything else.
Yeah. Of course, hey, there's some bad things.
Absolutely. There's unfair things, but accountability is like a superpower.
People just don't want to do it within anything. You know what I mean? Especially like mean someone did this or that again i will try to think of how could i have been better how could i have brought more value to myself though i wasn't in this situation for sure how do you approach the topic of god because there's all sorts of religions and beliefs is that a controversial one for sure yeah for sure i am you know i it's very funny i.
I grew up like Catholic and then Christian and the more I really looked into it, I, for me, actually, like, I feel like I found God more, you know, like everyone says Jesus, I say Yeshua. And I feel like I really understood Yeshua more and God's teachings.
And it's like, when I really see the Bible now and everything that I know, and even just learning more and more, like, wow, there's so much more than meets the eye. You know what I mean? And I feel to a big degree, I feel religion is the greatest form of control in every single one.
You know what I mean? I always say to people that like, people will be like, oh, I don't trust the government, but I trust all that the Bible and Catholicism or everything is always perfect t i'm like okay how can you not trust this but you think that they were more honest back then or this is like when you really look at everything and every different teaching and different um religion just all of it the more research you can do for yourself that's the most important thing but 100 i think they're i know there's god you know what i For all like, and I feel we're so connected to it. You know, I feel again, when you look at like the new Testament and the Bible, Christian teachings, if you really look at it in a different approach and the way it's really meant to be, you can see, oh my gosh, this is like showing us that we are connected to God.
You know what I mean? I feel the biggest lie ever that Christianity loves to do in most religions is that you're disconnected from God. You're not good.
You're not this. You're terrible.
Like there's so much, so much negativity that I was raised upon within. And I feel like, again, I always thought I wasn't good enough.
This wasn't this. I wasn't connected.
You know what I mean? I was like, wait a minute. We're kind of, we are connected.
You know, it changes everything. That's so true though.
A lot of shame within religion. I remember going to church as a kid and I was scared.
Yeah. Same.
Yeah. Absolutely.
Like I used to not want to go to church. Yeah.
Same. Absolutely.
That's how I felt with so much. There was so much that I would read and I thought, this doesn't make sense.
Like, especially then when you look at the Aramaic words or the Hebrew words, the Greek words, the translation starts to be a little different. And so it's like, okay, this is kind of cool.
They say you lose 20 to 30% when you translate language to language and they transfer to what, twice? Yeah. It's English.
Yeah, for sure. And then there's even, there's the book of Thomas.
There's a few other ones as well. Like, oh, that's not canon.
We don't want to put that in. Yeah.
Well, who decided that? decided that you know what i mean i just i feel the more you really study it and say search your soul within it when you feel like i don't know it's just you you get the right connection with it you know what i mean but like again i feel religion is the greatest source of control and power you know what i mean if i feel oh i'm a better whatever religion than you all i'm this or that i'm more ordained i'm uh chosen you know what i mean like there's a lot of people out there that feel their religion their this or that is the best so that they have authority over you you're not you're you know what i mean you could it gets to be scary and it's very much a huge i feel power trip big time well religion goes beyond borders right there's billions of people involved you're probably right in terms of just numbers for sure yeah it's wild I mean it's it's I you know it's not it's not disrespectful to what anyone believes it's just more it's when you really look at it from a true loving standpoint if we're here to love and if God is love and everything and just from a real conscious standpoint the most basic principle it's like i wouldn't want to be like hey i'm better my thing's better i have the authority you're absolutely wrong and i can destroy you i mean how many people have been you know killed in the name of religion or wars or so many things like that right like i said when you really analyze that i'm like it just doesn't make sense. Yeah.
It doesn't make sense.

Full moon coming up.

You got any plans?

Yeah.

You know, it's actually going to be my birthday that day. I don't know what I'm going to do.

I might just, there's some things I'm going to do for my clients, but yeah, I don't know.

You showed me a nice spot out here.

Thank you, by the way.

Yeah.

That was awesome.

Pitch blonde.

Amazing out there.

I go out there all the time.

Yeah.

It's so nice just to absolutely get away.

Out by Red Rock. It's just, it's amazing out there.
I just out there all the time. Yeah.
It's so nice just to absolutely get away. Yeah.
Out by Red Rock, it's just, it's amazing out there. I just did a hike the other day and there was like a, like a creek was still flowing up there.
It was like, even as hot as it is, it was really nice. It was beautiful.
Something just, when you're at peace like that in a city like Vegas, it's rare to have that moment. It's amazing.
Yeah. It's amazing.
My wife and I, we went to breakfast at the Paris that morning and then later that day, we went on that hike. I love that.
It's crazy that we could be at the Strip and then this incredible hike, you know. That's one thing I would say, the more you can get on nature, it definitely helps you rewire a lot of pathways, especially to help with the impatience.
That's a big thing. Yeah, whenever I'm feeling like too in social media or in my head, I go out in nature kind of reset for sure 100% you have to because it's it's if we constantly go go go go go you just burn out you know what i mean yeah big time with it well dude what's next for you where people catch up with you uh yeah on my instagram adonis underscore underscore am i saying that right underscore underscore either way underscore it.
Yeah, for sure. That's the best place to reach me.
I also go to YouTube on TikTok as well. And then my website manifests with the Donis.com.
But yeah, I mean, moving forward, man, just going to keep just going. You know what I mean? That's consistency is everything.
And the more you stay in that place, you're going to be consistent with something. You're either going to be consistent with getting worse or getting better.

You know what I mean?

And if you change a few things to your mindset, that will be everything.

At its core, manifestation is you changing.

You changing to such a degree that you no longer require the 3D to change because you're already changing your mind of it.

If you want to be rich, try to feel that feeling and see what you're already grateful for.

You can walk, you can see, you can taste, you can hear.

You're already rich.

You got some great things that some people don't have.

I love that, man.

Thank you for coming on again.

Absolutely, Ron.

It was Ron out, guys.

Definitely.