From Engineer to Influencer: Her Viral Journey | AraQueenBae DSH #1308
In this episode, you'll hear about the highs and lows of influencer life, her thoughts on relationships, dating in Miami, and even stories from Diddy parties and celebrity encounters. 🌟✨ Packed with valuable insights, humor, and raw authenticity, this conversation is a must-watch! Don't miss out on the secrets behind her viral success. 💡
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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
01:20 - Daily Routine Insights
01:55 - Creating Your First Viral Video
05:00 - Prolon Diet Overview
05:58 - Qualities You Look For In A Guy
06:40 - Dating a Crypto Enthusiast
08:11 - Managing Your Career: Do You Have a Manager?
09:18 - How You Got Started on OnlyF*ns
10:28 - Unusual Customs People Pay For
12:02 - In-Person Meetups: Would You Consider It?
16:40 - Collaborations in Your Industry
17:30 - Living Celibate for a Year and a Half
22:18 - Traveling to Dubai for Intimacy
24:10 - Lily Ermak’s Experience in the Industry
24:20 - Lana Rhoades' Dating History
26:58 - Golden Showers for Money: Would You?
28:30 - Instagram as the Best Dating App
32:08 - Tory Lanez Shooting Incident
37:08 - Kanye West & Drake: A Discussion
40:12 - Who Should Pay on the First Date?
42:24 - Your Last Date Experience
45:16 - Where to Find AraQueenBae Online
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Speaker 4 We know what's going on. Yeah, we know exactly what's going on, but
Speaker 4 coming back with a new burkin' every time.
Speaker 5 I mean, if you do that once every two months, that's half a mill a year.
Speaker 4 Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 5 It's not bad. You get shitted on it.
Speaker 5 I guess you could just immediately shower.
Speaker 4 Would you would you shit on somebody? For what? 100K?
Speaker 4 Wait, they have to pay you to shit somebody to shit on them?
Speaker 5 Okay, guys, got Aura Queen Bay here today with Sushi. Brought the dog out.
Speaker 4 Yeah, you know, he comes with me everywhere. He's my sidekick.
Speaker 5 Let's go. Got the service animal on it.
Speaker 4 Yeah. Thanks for having us.
Speaker 5 Absolutely.
Speaker 5 Did you just land in Vegas or?
Speaker 4 Yeah, I came yesterday.
Speaker 5 You have a fun night last night?
Speaker 4
No, I actually just stayed in. I went to bed at like 8 p.m.
Cause I'm on Eastern. So that was like 11 for me.
Speaker 5 You didn't want to hit the clubs or anything?
Speaker 4 I'm not really like a partier. Really? Yeah.
Speaker 5 Never been or just got over it?
Speaker 4 I used to be like a big partier, but I feel like I'm just kind of over it. It's like the same thing every night.
Speaker 4 I like smoking weed and just chilling.
Speaker 5 That's like my once the OF money started rolling, I'm sure you didn't go out as much.
Speaker 4 Yeah, you know, it's like, I don't get me wrong, I'll go out every once in a while to celebrate something, but or if there's something good going on, but I don't know.
Speaker 4 I've been to every Vegas club at this point. Yeah.
Speaker 5 What's a typical day like for you?
Speaker 4 I wake up, I walk sushi,
Speaker 4 hit the gym,
Speaker 4 take content, answer messages, emails, all that fun stuff. Um,
Speaker 4
traveling, sometimes I'm traveling, sometimes at home. So it depends.
Every day is kind of different.
Speaker 5 Are you posting daily?
Speaker 4 Yeah, I post on every social media. So I'll have like a couple hours a day where I'm just like sitting there like posting, editing.
Speaker 5 Damn, you do all that yourself?
Speaker 4 Um, for YouTube, I have editors, but for reels and TikToks and stuff, yeah, I just like to do it myself.
Speaker 5 What was the first viral video? What were you doing?
Speaker 4
My first viral video. Oh, my God.
Well, I started doing social media in 2011.
Speaker 4 oh wow so it was instagram and it was mostly pictures at the time um but most viral video on tick tock got like 30 million followers and it's just like or 30 million views it's behind the scenes of one of those like white background dating shows
Speaker 4 you know the blind dating ones where you yeah i've seen that
Speaker 4 so there was like a viral clip of just the feet And then I had the behind the curtain behind the scenes and I dueted it and that video got like 30 million. Oh, that's cool.
Speaker 5 Yeah.
Speaker 4 So you, were you on the video, or you were just, yeah, I was in the video, so I was behind the curtain, but nobody knew who was behind the curtain.
Speaker 4 Like in the original video, then when I dued it, they're like, oh, like, and did the guy end up picking you?
Speaker 4 Um, I was third or second, okay, that's an interesting show because you don't know what they look like.
Speaker 5 It's like that show, Love is Blind or whatever.
Speaker 4 Yeah, you have to go based on like the answers.
Speaker 5 Yeah, like I got to watch that one. Who was the guy in that one?
Speaker 4 Um, it was either Trevor Wallace or
Speaker 4 Hunter Mark.
Speaker 5 Okay, Trevor's funny. And then who's that one guy from dropouts? It's hilarious, Zach.
Speaker 4
Zach. Yeah, Zach.
I think it might have been Zach, actually. Okay.
Yeah.
Speaker 5 Zach's, he's got game, man.
Speaker 4 I can talk. Yeah, I think I, Loki think Trevor's kind of funnier.
Speaker 5 Really? You got Trevor over Zach?
Speaker 4
Yeah. Wow.
Yeah.
Speaker 5
I mean, Trevor is a comedian. Yeah.
That kind of makes sense. Yeah.
Speaker 4 I think Trevor's just like, there's something about him that makes him like.
Speaker 5
Quirky and funny. Yeah.
Have you been on that Pop the Balloon show?
Speaker 4
The Red Balloons? I just did something similar to that in Miami. Yeah.
A Timu version of it. But
Speaker 5 it'll probably drop after this. So spill the beans.
Speaker 4
What happened? It's already, it's already dropped. Oh, it's already out.
Yeah. It was, it was okay.
Speaker 5 You didn't find love?
Speaker 4 No. I'm still looking.
Speaker 5 I feel like you're intimidating to most guys.
Speaker 4 Really?
Speaker 5 Because of your lifestyle.
Speaker 4 Really? Yeah.
Speaker 4
I would say so, probably. I need like a confident man.
Yeah.
Speaker 5
Because think about it. You're pulling in a lot of money.
You're making sexual content. You're posting posting thirst traps.
Speaker 4 Yep.
Speaker 5
A lot of guys are insecure about that shit. Yeah.
You know, it's true. And you're in Miami.
Miami is already a hard dating market, I heard.
Speaker 4 It's impossible to date in Miami. Everyone has like 20 relationships at the same time.
Speaker 5 Do you like monogamous or do you like multiple?
Speaker 4 I'm a monogamous type of girl,
Speaker 4 but I feel like most people aren't. So that's probably why I'm single because I'm just not going to put up with bullshit.
Speaker 5 You might have to get out of there.
Speaker 4
I would for the right person. Okay.
Like if my future husband lived in like Texas, I would move there.
Speaker 5 What's the right person look like for you?
Speaker 4 A confident man,
Speaker 4 someone with ambition and drive,
Speaker 4 family-oriented.
Speaker 4
Just like funny. Like I like to have a good laugh.
So like someone that also likes to travel.
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Speaker 5 Yeah, girls definitely care about height.
Speaker 4
Yeah, a little bit. Because if I married a short king, then our children would be short.
So like I need them to have a little bit of
Speaker 5
room to work with. That makes sense.
What about money salary-wise? What do they have to make?
Speaker 4 It would be nice if they made more money than me.
Speaker 5 That's tough. Yeah.
Speaker 5 They'd have to make basically millions a year.
Speaker 4 Yeah, basically.
Speaker 5 That limits your pool a lot.
Speaker 4
I mean, that's fine. I don't need to date all of the people.
I just need. to date the right person.
Quality over quantity. Right.
So I feel like they're out there.
Speaker 4 There's some like rich e-commerce dudes and like crypto nerds.
Speaker 5 Crypto guys.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 You ever been with a crypto guy?
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 What was that like?
Speaker 4
He was a scammer, stole money from me. He stole from you? Yeah.
How do you do that? I call him the crypto swindler.
Speaker 4 So at the time I had purchased a bunch of crypto that had like matured, I guess, so like and I wanted to like sell it and then get into new positions.
Speaker 4
So had, I had asked him to help me, and he took the wallet and sent it to himself instead of like trading things for me. Yeah.
So, he just sent himself a bunch of money
Speaker 4 from my wallet.
Speaker 5 And you were dating at the time when he did that?
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 4 What?
Speaker 4 We were like seeing each other.
Speaker 5 We weren't like officially dating. Was it a good amount?
Speaker 4 It was like 30,000. Shit.
Speaker 5
Wow. Took the bag and dipped.
Yeah. You scared him away.
Speaker 4 And then later on, I Googled him and he's like known.
Speaker 5 I might know him though.
Speaker 4 To be a crypto swindler.
Speaker 5 Say the name.
Speaker 4 Coltland.
Speaker 4 No, I don't know that one.
Speaker 5 There's a few that are pretty well known, but I haven't heard that one.
Speaker 4 I don't know what happened to him, but hopefully he's in jail.
Speaker 5 Well, there's a lot of scammers in Miami.
Speaker 4 And Vegas, right?
Speaker 5 Vegas is known for that, yeah.
Speaker 5 I haven't ran into any yet, but I hear from the girls out here that there's pimps and scammers and stuff.
Speaker 4
I've heard a lot of crazy stories from the girls here. Yeah.
But Miami definitely is like one of the capitals of the scammers.
Speaker 5 You ever get tried to get pimped pimped out out there?
Speaker 4 No.
Speaker 5 That's good at least.
Speaker 4 Yeah, I don't, I don't do like escorting stuff.
Speaker 5 So yeah, I heard they just get all in your business and start taking everything. And so you don't have like a manager like your OF stuff.
Speaker 4
No, I just do everything myself. Wow.
Good for you.
Speaker 5 That's not easy to like pull off. There's a lot going on in that business.
Speaker 4 There's a lot going on. Yeah.
Speaker 4 Here and there I'll have somebody that helps me with like manage, like upload my content or something or, you know,
Speaker 5 my feed. You get pitch for management all the time, but yeah, a lot of them are scammers.
Speaker 4 Also, a lot of people just try to like recruit the girls that are already making money just so they just get a piece of the pie instead of actually help scale and make it bigger.
Speaker 4 I feel like agencies would actually be more successful if they helped the creators like become bigger creators. Yeah, but if you're just trying to
Speaker 4 take the money that I'm already making and take a percentage of it, then you're not doing it.
Speaker 5 Yeah, yeah, some of them take 50%.
Speaker 4
That's insane. Crazy.
That's insane. I don't know who agrees to that.
I mean, I get it.
Speaker 4 If you're just first starting out and like, you don't really know what you're doing and you don't have much following, you don't have networks to like grow your following, it might be beneficial.
Speaker 4 But again, it's like a lot of times these guys just try to take your money versus help you. Yeah.
Speaker 5 When you started doing it, did you have a set timeline or you kind of just going day by day with it?
Speaker 4 So I started in 2018. It was before anybody really was on OnlyFans at the time.
Speaker 4
It was very like unfamiliar to people, what OnlyFans even really was. It was before COVID.
And I was actually a chemical engineer at the time. Wow.
So I started growing a following on Instagram.
Speaker 4 I had like 20 to 30,000 followers. And I was like, okay, how do I monetize these people? Because brands weren't really trying to pay for the post for $20,000, 20,000 followers.
Speaker 4
At the time, I was like, okay, how can I like get people? to just want to like be added somewhere. So that was like Snapchat.
I'd be like, oh, like if you want me to add you back on Snap
Speaker 4
at $20 or whatever, like I'll add you back. People paid for that.
People paid for that.
Speaker 5 To add you as a friend on Snapchat.
Speaker 4
For me to add them back. Wow.
Yeah.
Speaker 4
I did not know that was a market. So I was just trying to figure out how to like automatically get the payments.
And first I did Patreon.
Speaker 4
And then I heard about OnlyFans and how you can make more money in the messages. And like, I was like, okay, wait, let me switch over.
And then
Speaker 5 the rest is history.
Speaker 4 Yeah, I took over from there.
Speaker 5 And then did the content, was it straight nude at first first or did you work your way up i
Speaker 4 it i kind of was all over the place i had no guidance i had no management like i said i was just kind of trial and erring
Speaker 4 people were doing customs a lot at the time so if somebody wanted something i would charge them a certain amount way more than what i would have thought that somebody would pay and they were down to pay it so i would create the content but what were some weird customs you got um
Speaker 4 under like people wanted my underwear like that they wanted me to take pictures in the underwear and then like work out in it and then send it to them. Yeah.
Speaker 4
Um, socks. A lot of people want to buy your socks and like feet content.
Oh,
Speaker 4
um, a lot of people want to see you farting. Jeez.
Yeah.
Speaker 5 They pay you to fart.
Speaker 4
Yep. That's nuts.
It's crazy. Um, there's so many, there's so many weird things.
And another guy wanted me to like fully clothed, just like lick crackers off the floor. What?
Speaker 4 That's crazy. Yeah.
Speaker 5
Damn. Yeah.
I hear some wild ones.
Speaker 4
I also have a lot of guys that are into FinDom. I don't even know what that is.
You're familiar with that. So that's basically like financial dominatrix
Speaker 4
where the guy just wants you to keep telling them to send more. Like, send me another 100, send me another 100.
Like,
Speaker 4
keep like sending me money. Like, they want you to just basically drain their bank account.
Shit, I'll do that. Send me some money.
Yeah. So that's my favorite.
Yeah. Those sound easy to deal with.
Speaker 4 I love those ones. So.
Speaker 5 Wow. Has someone ever sent you like a stupid amount of money?
Speaker 4
Yeah. I've had somebody that sent me like 30,000.
Damn.
Speaker 5 In one day?
Speaker 4 Not in one day. Like in
Speaker 4 over time.
Speaker 5
And did you end up meeting with him in person? No. You won't do that? No.
What if someone offered 100,000?
Speaker 4 Just like to go to dinner? Yeah.
Speaker 4 Yeah, for dinner. Okay.
Speaker 5 And then back to the hotel room after?
Speaker 4 Absolutely.
Speaker 5 But you're catching Nuber from the dinner table.
Speaker 4 Yeah, like these guys want you to be mean to them. So it's like,
Speaker 4 unless, like, if you want me to like kick you in the nuts for 100K, sure, I'll do that.
Speaker 4 Wow.
Speaker 5 So you're out here being a little dominatrix on the side.
Speaker 4
Yeah, I kind of like it. You like it? Yeah.
Damn.
Speaker 5 I mean, when money's there.
Speaker 4
Yeah. Yeah.
Like, you know, you can just be mean and they like it. Whereas like usually when you're mean, people are like, what the fuck is wrong with this girl?
Speaker 5 I wonder what causes a guy to get to that point.
Speaker 4 A lot of guys that have a lot of money or like status, like CEOs and stuff, are into that.
Speaker 5 Really? Oh, maybe because they're the ones dominating during the day.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5
Yeah. You see that show, uh, Suits? Yes.
Was it Suits or like some other show where, yeah, they would just get dominated.
Speaker 4 Yeah. Damn.
Speaker 5 Yeah, the bald guy in Suits.
Speaker 4 What's his name? Oh,
Speaker 5 what's his name? I forget his name, but everyone knows who I'm talking about.
Speaker 4 I know who you're talking about. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 He would be a lawyer during the day and then at night when he got fucking pegged or something.
Speaker 4 Yeah, he loved it. Yeah.
Speaker 5 Damn, that's crazy.
Speaker 4 So you don't do any in-person in-person meetups though unless it's a big bag yeah that's probably smart i i never like i know a lot of people like start from doing meetups with people and then they went to only fans i never really i was a chemical engineer so i was just trying to like monetize my following um not really like trying to meet out with people you didn't like chemical engineering huh listen it was cool i liked the schooling part of it.
Speaker 4 I had a job in oil and gas and that was not very exciting to me personally because I was in a a cubicle all day. I like being outside and like just
Speaker 4
talking to people and like, I'm very outgoing. So, like, and creative.
It didn't really allow me to be very creative behind a desk. Like,
Speaker 4 yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 5
Seems like it's not the most fun job. No.
I had to guess.
Speaker 5 You've lived in, let's see, four countries.
Speaker 4
Yeah. I've lived in Iran.
That's where I was born. Moved to Canada when I was 10.
During COVID, I lived in Mexico and now I live in Miami.
Speaker 5 What do you like the most?
Speaker 4 Miami. Really?
Speaker 5
Okay. So you are a little Miami girl then.
Yeah. They call them 304s.
Speaker 5 Imagine you on Fresh and Fit.
Speaker 4 I just went on there. I was shooting recently.
Speaker 5 And were they roasting you the whole time?
Speaker 4 Yeah, but honestly, like nothing phases me anymore.
Speaker 4
Yeah. That's good.
I was like, okay, Myron, what else you got? Like, you didn't take it personally? I thought Myron was pretty soft, actually. Are you serious?
Speaker 5 Yeah. I've seen him go at girls.
Speaker 4
Like, make him cry. He called me fat, but I was like, I like it.
Really? Yeah. I i was like honestly i i did gain 20 pounds but it went to all the right places
Speaker 4 my fans seemed to love it my boobs got bigger my ass got bigger so was that a procedure or was that it was naturally just gaining weight yeah yeah 20 pounds in how long
Speaker 4 a year and a half okay
Speaker 4 damn 20 pounds yeah i guess on a girl that's a lot right yeah i always like thought about getting a bbl but then i was like god please like i'm scared of like going under like can you just give me bigger boobs and a bigger ass and i hate going under i won't even get my wisdom teeth out it's it sounds scary right like i've just heard like but like that's not even that scary because bbl like i've seen the videos they're like going in like with this like knife like taking all your fat out like it just sounds traumatizing oh my gosh and afterwards the recovery sounds horrible like yeah it takes a while right yeah i've heard just so many horror stories how many surgeries have you gotten None.
Speaker 4 Really? Yeah. Oh, wow.
Speaker 5 All natural?
Speaker 4
Yeah. Just had like filler and Botox on my face.
Okay.
Speaker 5 That's not a surgery?
Speaker 4 No, it's just like needles. Like
Speaker 4 it takes like five minutes.
Speaker 5 Have you lost the ability to make certain emotions from the Botox?
Speaker 4 No, actually, my Botox wears off pretty quick. So really?
Speaker 5 Because I've heard some people can't smile. And have you seen that?
Speaker 4 Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 5 That's scary to me.
Speaker 4 Yeah, no, I don't do that far. Like, I just wanted a little bit to stay natural and like not like preventative.
Speaker 4 You know, you don't want to be like old and wrinkly because we're in front of the camera all day. Yeah.
Speaker 4 So
Speaker 4 don't want to look plastic, but just want to like cute and young.
Speaker 5 Do you do a lot of collabs with other creators?
Speaker 4 I do. Yeah, I do.
Speaker 4 I used to do a lot of it more when I was first starting out, just because I was trying to grow my following and every collaboration opportunity I would take it.
Speaker 4 But now I'm a little bit more selective with who I collaborate with.
Speaker 5 Makes sense. Have you done dread yet?
Speaker 4 No, I know.
Speaker 4 Oh, you meant those types of collabs. Yeah.
Speaker 4 What did you think? Oh, I thought you meant like just normal collabs.
Speaker 5 Well, I guess what's normal for you, you know, I'm talking like the, the OF stuff.
Speaker 4 Oh, okay. Um,
Speaker 4 no, so collab wise, I did a few during COVID, like for OF, but I don't really shoot that type of content anymore. Um,
Speaker 4
because it's just not really it doesn't really like align with who I am as a person. I don't even have sex in my personal life.
What? Yeah, I've been celibate for like a year and a half.
Speaker 5 Are you serious? Yeah. Why?
Speaker 4
You're in Miami. Yeah, exactly.
That's why. Because everyone just wants to fuck.
And you don't want that?
Speaker 4 No, I don't really enjoy having sex with like random people, just like for one night stand type of vibe. I'd rather
Speaker 4 have sex with somebody that I'm like intimate and like in a relationship with.
Speaker 4
For me personally, the sex is always better like when I have feelings for somebody and I'm, you know, seeing them or dating them. Yeah.
Versus like one night sands.
Speaker 4 I've never came from a one night sand. So like, what do we get out of this?
Speaker 5 Damn, that's impressive. Yeah.
Speaker 4 Like, I don't know.
Speaker 5 Yeah, I guess it's a, for me, it's a spiritual experience too.
Speaker 4 Exactly. Like, I'm, if I'm not like connected with you, like through like
Speaker 4 our brain and like chemistry and like, I don't know, being kind of committed to somebody also turns me on to like, I don't really.
Speaker 4
Like you, you could be like also having sex with all these other people, which everybody is in Miami. So it's like, that gives me the ick.
Like,
Speaker 4 ew like who were you having sex with yesterday because this like you know how easily do you get the ick from a guy pretty quick you see those viral videos of like the list oh my god i literally if you walk weird i'll get the ick you know guys can't even walk i literally just went on a date with this guy last week and everything was great he he sent me to the spa the first like week we started talking okay He took me shopping on our first date.
Speaker 4 Everything's great.
Speaker 5 Shopping on the first date, That is bold.
Speaker 4 It's very like normal in Miami. What?
Speaker 5 Yeah. On the first date, you're going to spend hundreds, thousands on our first date.
Speaker 4
Yeah, he spent like 5,000. Oh my God.
Probably more because like dinner and stuff too. Jeez.
Speaker 5 And he didn't even get laid.
Speaker 4 No. And I got the ick.
Speaker 5 From his walking?
Speaker 4 That wasn't from his walking.
Speaker 5 What was it from?
Speaker 4 The way he made out. Oh, my God.
Speaker 5 Guys can't even make out.
Speaker 4 Yeah, he was just doing something weird. Too much tongue.
Speaker 4 Yeah, the tongue was doing weird motions.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 I mean, I feel like you might have to lower some of your standards.
Speaker 4 But like, what am I supposed to like teach him how to make out?
Speaker 5 Just say, I don't like tongue.
Speaker 4 But he was like very, like.
Speaker 5 Like, some people just don't like tongue at all.
Speaker 4 Yeah. You know, I guess.
Speaker 5 And then some want the whole tongue in their mouth, like French kissing.
Speaker 4 Yeah, like he was doing too much.
Speaker 5 I never understood that.
Speaker 4
Yeah. That is, I'm like, I just met you.
Why is your tongue in there? Yeah. It could have been just like a normal kiss.
Speaker 5 I mean, he's probably, to be fair, used to spending 5k and then getting laid the same day in miami yeah yeah
Speaker 5 most girls probably would be like holy crap he just spent thousands on me yeah i'm like where's the birkin
Speaker 5 damn yeah good luck out there i don't know if you're gonna find the guy in miami i probably will maybe if uh andrew tate moves there you'll you will maybe would you ever have buying birkins he's buying a lot for his girls he buys them a house Oh
Speaker 5 he's got eight kids or wait, no, 10 kids with eight different women.
Speaker 4 Really? Yeah.
Speaker 5 But you like monogamy.
Speaker 4 I like monogamy. But I mean, if he's a provider and he's going to buy me a house.
Speaker 5 So you would do a sugar daddy type of situation.
Speaker 4 Like,
Speaker 4 yeah. If you're going to buy me a house, I make sure I'm good.
Speaker 4
And I get like a 100K a month allowance. Sure.
Okay.
Speaker 5 100k a month. What would you spend that on?
Speaker 4 I would probably like invest half of it.
Speaker 5 You're an investor.
Speaker 4
Yeah. Crypto.
stocks.
Speaker 4 So I would probably invest half of it. And then,
Speaker 4 you know, life necessities, the other half.
Speaker 5 Little birkin bags and cars and stuff.
Speaker 5 Are you kind of materialistic?
Speaker 4 Yeah, I've always been like into just luxurious things.
Speaker 4
I don't know if it's being Persian. Like I always grew up with people that wore nice things, wore nice perfumes.
Like my whole family was always like, you know, I was dressing nice and stuff since.
Speaker 4 I was a kid. So I was always attracted to like dressing nice and being on point and luxurious things so physical gifts is your love language yeah yeah good luck with that guys
Speaker 4 especially someone that makes as much as you man i mean i spoil myself so it's like if you can treat me better than i can treat myself then
Speaker 5 how much do you spend on just yourself a month
Speaker 4
um a lot like 50k not 50 but like anywhere between 15 to 20. wow that's a good amount if i'm traveling it'll obviously be more Like some months I'm traveling, so there's more cost.
Yeah.
Speaker 4 A lot of times I'll bring my mom or like friends along for travels too, and I'm paying for them.
Speaker 5 So do they support you?
Speaker 4
Yeah. That's good.
Yeah. My mom actually like helps me record my content.
Really? Yeah. Wow.
Well, shout out to her. Yeah.
Speaker 5 You traveling to Dubai these days?
Speaker 4 Absolutely not.
Speaker 5 You're not getting shit on out there.
Speaker 4 Nah, I'm good on that.
Speaker 5 What if someone offered you 100K for that?
Speaker 4 100K to get shitted on? Yeah.
Speaker 4 No.
Speaker 4 Really?
Speaker 4 Yeah. A lot of girls are going to Dubai and getting shit on for 100K.
Speaker 5 Some less, some more. Yeah, I've heard 100's been being thrown around.
Speaker 4 There's girls that I consistently see going to Dubai. So I'm like, damn.
Speaker 5 Yeah, we know what's going on.
Speaker 4 Yeah, we know exactly what's going on. But coming back with a new burkin' every time.
Speaker 5 I mean, if you do that once every two months, that's half a mill a year.
Speaker 4 Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 4
To get shitted on is insane. I guess you could just immediately shower.
Would you, would you shit on somebody for what 100k
Speaker 4 wait they have to pay you to tell you to shit on them oh would i just on a girl no yeah but like
Speaker 4 yeah so i don't understand why are you waiting to shit on someone i mean if you get paid for it it's a little different right yeah like i feel like you would do it for the right price i would not no amount of money Shitting?
Speaker 4 Yeah. Absolutely not.
Speaker 5 A million dollars.
Speaker 4 No.
Speaker 5 I mean, it's just five minutes of unpleasantness.
Speaker 4 oh my god no i can't just i just try to picture how it would even go down and
Speaker 4 what about peeing
Speaker 5 maybe that's not as bad it's not as bad yeah a golden shower yeah i've never done a golden shower but i could be open to it for the right price i mean if you're just drinking water and eating clean it's i feel like it's not that bad yeah you know but if your diet's complete
Speaker 5 And then your pee is like dark yellow, then it's kind of weird.
Speaker 5 Because I just had Lily Phillips on and she said one of the guys did that to her and it was clear or it was disgusting uh she did both one guy was clear and one didn't drink water for two days oh god yeah
Speaker 4 she's doing some wild she did it for free yeah she was just doing it for a video oh shout out to her though she's doing doing her thing yeah and bonnie blue bonnie yeah she's coming on soon thousand guys in a day a thousand and fifty seven or something actually yeah Do you think that's legit?
Speaker 4
Honestly, I saw somebody talking about it online. A lot of the guys are wearing strice seats.
So
Speaker 4 you don't know if they went twice or three times or that's the only thing.
Speaker 5 Oh, because you're so ashamed of showing their face. Right.
Speaker 4
Right. So there's a lot of the guys are wearing something that's covering their face.
So how do you know
Speaker 4 it was actually a thousand? It could have been like, it could have been like 25 guys that just kept going back and forth. Like, you know?
Speaker 5 Nah, it was definitely a lot. 25 would be low.
Speaker 4
No, it was definitely a few hundred, but I don't know about a a thousand. Maybe they went.
I'm curious.
Speaker 5 Yeah, two, three times each. But even if it's the same guy cycling back, a thousand is still insane.
Speaker 4 How do you even find a thousand people that are just down?
Speaker 4 I feel like it's easy for a girl.
Speaker 5 It'd be way harder the other way around.
Speaker 4 A guy to find a thousand girls?
Speaker 5
Yeah. It'd be probably impossible unless you were some famous guy.
Yeah. But what guy would want to do that?
Speaker 4 A famous guy? I know a few famous guys that would want to do that. Really?
Speaker 5 They'd be in your DMs?
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 Yeah, you've definitely signed some ndas i could tell by the way you're talking
Speaker 4 you've been to some diddy parties i bet i have actually been to a few diddy parties and you had to sign an nda right no i didn't sign any really there no oh just to go in you didn't have to sign anything no you didn't have to prick your blood or did you have to uh give your phone up nope wow yeah i thought that was kind of the norm no honestly i've been to a few of Diddy's parties, like small gatherings, big parties.
Speaker 4 It was nothing like
Speaker 4
anything crazy. Like it was actually really good parties.
Like everything's always very catered. Like there's drinks being served, good music, good vibes.
I never experienced anything weird.
Speaker 4 But again, there's, I'm assuming there were two different types of parties and I was not invited to them. Yeah.
Speaker 5 I heard it was the after party, right?
Speaker 4 I was there for the after parties too. Oh, you were? Yeah.
Speaker 4 No giant orgies or no.
Speaker 4 Wow. So I'm like, I wasn't invited to those.
Speaker 5 Maybe it was, yeah, separate.
Speaker 4 I'm kind of offended. Why wasn't I invited?
Speaker 5 Well, you probably weren't putting out.
Speaker 5 Or you were back in the day.
Speaker 4 No, I wasn't. No, I didn't.
Speaker 5 They'd probably judge it off like, oh, is she going to take part in this? You know?
Speaker 4 I mean, at the time, I was a little bit more thoughty, but.
Speaker 5 Yeah, I don't know. You had some thoughty days back in my day.
Speaker 4
I had some thoughty days. Oh, my God.
Back in my day.
Speaker 5 You probably get asked about your body count on Fresh and Fit, I'd imagine.
Speaker 4 Yeah, they did ask.
Speaker 5 And did you answer?
Speaker 4
No. You keep it hidden.
Why?
Speaker 4 I don't even honestly know what my body count is.
Speaker 5 Oh my God. Are we talking thousands?
Speaker 4 No, not thousands.
Speaker 5 But hundreds, though?
Speaker 4 I don't even think, no, I don't think hundreds. Oh, okay.
Speaker 5 Yeah. I've heard way worse.
Speaker 4 Yeah, no.
Speaker 5 But it's up there.
Speaker 4 It's just, yeah, it's just like...
Speaker 4 Probably like more than 50, I would say.
Speaker 5 The college days, right?
Speaker 4 It was for sure the college days.
Speaker 5 Where do you go to college?
Speaker 4 Halifax in Canada,
Speaker 4 Nova Scotia. Dalhousie University.
Speaker 5 Big party school.
Speaker 4
Yeah, it's actually the most bars per capita in that city. And there's like four or five universities.
So you were wild. The whole city is like a big party.
Speaker 4 Damn.
Speaker 5 Yeah, I could see why they would come at you for that.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 It'd be impressive if your body count was super low and you said you haven't had sex in a year and a half. Then I think they would have been impressed with you.
Speaker 4 Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4 But
Speaker 4 the funny part is that people always assume because I do OF, I have a high body count, but it's the OF part isn't why I have a high body count. It's before the OF part.
Speaker 5 That's true. They'll label any big OF girl as like a, like a slug.
Speaker 4 But like, you could go talk to a college girl and she probably would have more bodies than me at this point.
Speaker 5 These days, for sure.
Speaker 5 I mean, with social media,
Speaker 5 it's too easy to get laid now. I mean, you probably get 100 messages a day.
Speaker 4 Hundreds.
Speaker 5 from guys on instagram right yeah a lot like i've seen some of these inboxes i've seen like girls tinder accounts or whatever it's just like insane yeah like it's so easy i instagram is my favorite dating app i will say that how come
Speaker 4 because you could just like the messages are coming you can go look at their profile you can kind of like investigate like scroll through find out if
Speaker 4 like what they're about yeah you know it's a good uh it's pretty much like a resume it is your instagram and then you could always google them them like from their Instagram. Yeah.
Speaker 4 Whereas like on Tinder, it's like, I don't really know anything about you. Like you could make a whole fake profile and like tell me you're a dentist.
Speaker 5 There's a lot of fake ones on Tinder I heard these days.
Speaker 4 Yeah, a lot of people are using my picture on their robo pictures.
Speaker 5 Well, I know a lot of girls just have Tinder just to funnel them to their OF.
Speaker 4 Yeah, I got banned from doing that.
Speaker 5 Oh, they started banning people for that?
Speaker 4
Yeah, they've been banning people. Oh, wow.
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 5 That makes sense, though, because they don't want to lose people on their app. I heard Hinge is the best one, I know.
Speaker 4 Yeah, I have it, but I just always forget to check.
Speaker 5 Really?
Speaker 4 I'm not much of a dating app, girly. Like, like for dating,
Speaker 4 I might swipe right and I might think you're cute, but then it's like, I'm never going to like message you.
Speaker 4
You won't make the best. You're just never going to go anywhere.
Yeah.
Speaker 5 And I'll bumble, you got to message first.
Speaker 4 Yeah. So I stopped using that one because there's absolutely no way I'm messaging anyone first.
Speaker 4 Are you on Raya?
Speaker 4 I'm not.
Speaker 5 I heard that's a decent one, too.
Speaker 4 Yeah, there's a new one, too, called Blush. I need to get on that.
Speaker 5 Is that the one that limits how many people get on it in each city?
Speaker 4 I'm not sure, actually. Oh, okay.
Speaker 5
I heard a one that limits to like a thousand per city or something. And if you don't show up to the date, you lose points.
Oh.
Speaker 5 And then you could get banned if you, I guess, no-show to three dates or something.
Speaker 4 Oh.
Speaker 4 I kind of like that. You like that?
Speaker 5 Yeah, because a lot of people no-show, right?
Speaker 4
Has that happened? I've never had a no-show happen to me. Can't relate.
Yeah, every guy has, though. I do sometimes sometimes like cancel last minute, though.
Speaker 5 You're one of those. Oh, my God.
Speaker 4 Sorry.
Speaker 5 They're so excited the whole day and then you freaking get drunk and cancel.
Speaker 4 No, I don't even get drunk. I'm just like, oh, my couch is so comfortable.
Speaker 4 You get high.
Speaker 4 Yeah, it's definitely the weed.
Speaker 5 Yeah. And you smoking every single day.
Speaker 4 Damn, you love that weed. Yeah.
Speaker 4 Damn.
Speaker 5 I used to be like that too. Really? How do you stay productive?
Speaker 4 Honestly, it actually helps me. Like when I'm editing and stuff, it makes me more creative.
Speaker 4 I feel like I whip up a better reel or like if I'm like editing things, it just like the colors like, I don't know. Damn.
Speaker 5 I'm the opposite.
Speaker 4 I use it like a tool.
Speaker 5 So you like microdose it or do you get it?
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 4
I'll smoke. Like I won't smoke a whole joint.
I'll just like hit the joint like a couple times and then like put it out. Yeah.
And then just like get my work done.
Speaker 4
Cause I also have ADHD and I don't like taking Adderall. I took it when I was in university and I feel like when you take Adderall, you're taking a bunch of chemicals.
So
Speaker 4
you're fucking up a bunch of other things at the same time. So you can't sleep.
You're fucking with your appetite. Your mood is weird and different.
Like you're not really yourself anymore.
Speaker 4 So I didn't like taking Adderall for that reason because then I had to take sleeping pills to fall asleep. So I was like, I'm just taking a bunch of chemicals like to fix the other chemicals I took.
Speaker 4 Whereas with weed, you got sativa, indica, hybrid. So you can really like manage like what you like.
Speaker 4 If I want to get be creative, I could take a creative strain and smoke a daytime creative strain that like helps me with my job.
Speaker 4 And then nighttime, if I'm winding down, okay, I could hit it indica and just, you know, relax.
Speaker 5
That makes sense. Yeah.
I hate Adderall too for that same reason. Yeah.
Music artists love cannabis too. You've been in some big music videos, right?
Speaker 4 Yes, I have.
Speaker 4 My first one I did was No Guidance with Chris Brown and Drake.
Speaker 4 And then after that, I did one for Tori Lanes.
Speaker 4
And then a few other artists. I can't remember.
They were a little bit smaller artists. Free Tori Lanes.
Free Tori Lanes. Yeah.
Speaker 5
Following that story was crazy. I kept switching sides.
I was like, he definitely shot her. And wait, now I don't think he did.
Speaker 4
Yeah. What do you think? Do you think he doesn't think he did? I don't think he did either.
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 5 Like, I see conflicting stuff.
Speaker 4 Yeah, he did. I don't think he did.
Speaker 4
Tori is actually one of my close friends. Yeah.
And he's one of the best people
Speaker 4 to have as a friend because he's actually genuine. And
Speaker 4 he makes sure you're good. Like, you know, he's actually a good person.
Speaker 4 So I can't even imagine him actually shooting someone. Yeah.
Speaker 4 And also there was like camera footage of her stepping in glass. I know.
Speaker 5 So as more evidence came out, my opinion changed.
Speaker 4 Right.
Speaker 5 And at first when it broke, I was like, yeah, he 100% did it.
Speaker 4 And I don't know if you listened to his last podcast with the Nelk Boys. I did.
Speaker 4 With the
Speaker 4 fingerprints. Yeah.
Speaker 5 They have so much on them though.
Speaker 4 I don't know. His fingerprints aren't even on the gun.
Speaker 5 Yeah, I don't know why they didn't free him at this point.
Speaker 4 Exactly.
Speaker 5 And he got a pretty big sentence, right? 10 years or something. Yeah.
Speaker 4
But you know what? I feel like it's giving us some good music. I don't know if you listen to his music, but he just released an album from Jail.
He dropped an album.
Speaker 4 Yeah, he recorded it through the phone.
Speaker 4
No way. And it's actually decent.
It's really good.
Speaker 5
He's got some bangers. Yeah.
Like, I still bump his music to this day. Yeah.
Speaker 4 Free Tory.
Speaker 5
Yeah, Free Tory. If you ever see this clip, man.
Drake and Chris Brown video. What was that like?
Speaker 4
That was my first music video. So I was like.
kind of nervous.
Speaker 4
But I was a feature model. So that was pretty dope.
I was in a few different scenes.
Speaker 5 I got to watch that one.
Speaker 4 Yeah. No guidance.
Speaker 4 But it was honestly, it was like great. Tori Lanez was on set for that one.
Speaker 4 Actually, but
Speaker 4 yeah,
Speaker 4 the
Speaker 4 whole thing with like music videos is like you're there for so long and nobody realizes like how many hours and days it took to just get like three minutes.
Speaker 5 Yeah, because you just watch it. You don't assume they're.
Speaker 4
Yeah, you're like sweating balls in heat. Like you're refilming the same scene over and over again.
Like you're there from like 7 a.m. to like 7 a.m.
the next day. Are you serious? Yeah.
Speaker 4
The, that one I was on set for like 12 hours, maybe even longer. I think 14 hours.
And some people had to come in the second day.
Speaker 5
Jeez. Yeah.
And you're just standing outside in the heat?
Speaker 4
Yeah, like redoing the scene over and over again. Wow.
Standing in heels.
Speaker 5 Well, I guess for, yeah, Chris Brown, because he's dancing and stuff. They can't mess it up, right?
Speaker 4
Yeah. And then like, they'll get it like with one camera and then they'll get it with a different angle.
And then, like, somebody won't be as enthusiastic in the background, so you need to refilm it.
Speaker 4 Like,
Speaker 4 damn. So, it was a long, long, long shoot day, but the final product was fire.
Speaker 5 So, did you get to chop it up with them, or you were just so busy just working at the time?
Speaker 4 No, but um,
Speaker 4 I have been to like a few different parties with both Drake and Chris Browns. Nice, that's nuts, the diddy parties, no, not the diddy parties, but different parties.
Speaker 5 Must be nice.
Speaker 4 Drake usually does his own like private party.
Speaker 5 I've seen those, yeah.
Speaker 5 And in Toronto, right?
Speaker 4 Yeah, in Toronto, too. I've been to his house in Toronto.
Speaker 5 Those ones look crazy.
Speaker 4 That's where you get your phone taken and you decide to NDA.
Speaker 5 See, I would do it for that, you know.
Speaker 5 But as a guy, it's harder to get invited to stuff like that.
Speaker 4
I mean, Drake's actually pretty cool. Like, I feel like he fucks with a lot of streamers and podcasters and stuff.
I've seen that, yeah.
Speaker 4 He would be the easier one to be friends with, like, as a dude, I feel.
Speaker 5 I could see that. Yeah.
Speaker 4 No, he's he's very good at tapping in with the culture with the trends like he's tight with aiden ross kai sonat all the streamers exactly yeah he streams himself does he yeah he's all the gambling gambling ones yeah yeah i've seen him bet like a million dollars on a spin yeah or lose a million dollars yeah i'm like did you see the one where the drone caught him in his penthouse yeah that was messed up that was so fun that was on purpose you could tell they oh you think so yeah because then why was just steak there on the table oh
Speaker 4 so you thought it was a viral marketing stuff why is the laptop just open on steak that's true that's a viral marketing.
Speaker 5
That's fucking true. Yeah, him and Kanye are good at those viral marketing things just blowing up randomly.
Yeah, Kanye's been going crazy.
Speaker 4 Yeah, Kanye, I don't know.
Speaker 4 Is he going to come back from this, you think?
Speaker 5
He always does. He always really does.
No matter what it is.
Speaker 4 There's going to be something that comes out with all these people that he's exposing now. We're going to be like, he was right.
Speaker 5 Everyone thinks he's crazy. And then five, 10 years later, they're like, wait, he was right.
Speaker 4
Yeah. It's so because right now people are going back to whenever he was doing his rants before and they're like, wow, he told us about all these things.
Yep.
Speaker 5
Funny how it takes some people time, you know, to get woke. Do you believe in like conspiracies and stuff? Yeah, I do.
I'm big on those. Same.
I watch YouTube compilations. Candace Owens.
Speaker 4 Candace Owens. I go through down the TikTok rabbit hole.
Speaker 5
Yeah, TikTok. Ian Carroll.
I just had him on the show.
Speaker 5 A lot of them end up coming true.
Speaker 4
And you can't deny it. But is the earth flat? No.
Do you think it is?
Speaker 4 I thought during a few months that it was flat and then I was like, oh, it doesn't, it just doesn't really make sense.
Speaker 4
They're super convincing with it. I'm not going to lie.
Yeah, it's very convincing. But then when you really think about it, it's like.
Speaker 5
I just don't think so. Yeah.
I've had on too many alien experts and too many like smart ass like people.
Speaker 4 Yeah, with the sun and the moon and like, it's just like how like.
Speaker 5 Yeah. What's the one you believe in the most, which conspiracy? You're like completely sold on it?
Speaker 4 Um
Speaker 5 the moon landing.
Speaker 4 The moon landing for sure is fake.
Speaker 5 I think so too.
Speaker 4
Like the pictures look like green screen. Yeah.
And why didn't we go back?
Speaker 5 Yeah, it's been 52 years.
Speaker 4 Like if you guys went 52 years ago before we even had iPhones and we didn't go back since then, that's sus. Yeah.
Speaker 5
I'm with you on that one. Yeah, there's some crazy ones.
I mean, I don't want to get the video taken down, but like the JFK stuff is interesting.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 The files just got released. Did you have time to comb through those yet?
Speaker 4 I didn't look at the files yet.
Speaker 5 I mean, there's 10,000 pages.
Speaker 4 So I'm just like waiting for someone to summarize them.
Speaker 5 I'm waiting for Chat GBT to summarize.
Speaker 4 Yeah. Can we just get a summary as a YouTube video? Yeah.
Speaker 5 What about aliens and like stuff like that?
Speaker 4
Aliens are for sure real. I mean, you live in Vegas.
So this is like the closest.
Speaker 5 Yeah, Area 51 is right by here.
Speaker 4 I have never had any encounters or like seen anything, but I definitely feel like they're real.
Speaker 5 What about ghosts?
Speaker 4
For sure. Okay.
That one we already knew.
Speaker 5 You think so?
Speaker 4 Some people still don't believe that. I feel like ghosts.
Speaker 5 Yeah. Have you had an encounter?
Speaker 4 I haven't like personally, but I went to a psychic once and
Speaker 4
they were like the way that they were like explaining things. I was like, okay, yeah.
Like, that's what made me like believe in it more. Yeah.
Speaker 4 Because I feel like every time you go to like the psychic people, like they're tapping into like somebody that died in your family or whatever.
Speaker 4 So I feel like that's a ghost that's coming and communicating with them.
Speaker 5
I believe in psychics too. I actually have a call tomorrow with my psychic.
Yeah.
Speaker 4
I do a monthly call. I need a new one.
So maybe you can.
Speaker 5
Oh, you, you need a good one. I got you.
Oh my gosh. She will say stuff that you've never shared publicly.
That's kind of how I test them because there's a lot of BS ones. Yeah.
Speaker 5 But if, as soon as they say a few things where I'm like, wait, you can't even look that up. I'm like, all right, I'm listening.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 Because I've had some BS ones too.
Speaker 4
Yeah. Some of them are just saying the same generic thing.
They're like, oh, like
Speaker 4
your great aunt had a heart attack. It's like, bro, everyone's great aunt had a heart attack.
Yeah, for real. Yeah.
Speaker 5
When they're in their true general, it's like, what the hell? But she was saying, shout out to Jacenia. She was saying stuff about my dad who's a ghost on social media.
No social media profiles.
Speaker 5 And just spot on.
Speaker 5
Shout out to her. I'm excited for our call tomorrow.
They've changed my life, psychics.
Speaker 4 Okay, I need one.
Speaker 5 I got you. I'll connect you after this.
Speaker 5 All right. What else we got?
Speaker 5 Who pays on the first date? Guy or girl?
Speaker 4
I'm not paying on the first date. I mean, I just told you about my first date.
If you're not coming with a bag,
Speaker 4 if you're not coming with a gift.
Speaker 4 yeah there's no way i'm i've never actually had a first date where someone tried to make me pay but i have heard a lot of girls that have had weird first date experiences but you've never had a guy offer 50 50 split no
Speaker 4 wow well done if a guy offers 50 50 split i'd be like
Speaker 4 you know what i'll just pay for it and i'll never talk to you again
Speaker 4 when do you start paying then what date number I like once we're, if we're like in a relationship, you know, I don't know if date number at that point, like we're dating for a couple months, maybe.
Speaker 4
Yeah. Like you buy the dinner, I'll buy ice cream.
Fair.
Speaker 5 Fair enough. Yeah, I'm not a fan of the woman paying on dates.
Speaker 4 Yeah. I don't know if that's just an old or like, what about the woman that give their cart to the guy to pay?
Speaker 5
That's weird. People do that.
Yeah. Oh, just to make the guy feel like they paid?
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 That's wild. Nah, if you're a guy, you got to be making a bag and taking care of yourself.
Speaker 4
Yeah. That's your job.
Like your job is to be a provider. So if you can't pay on the first day, then what are you going gonna do for the rest of the life like
Speaker 5 i get it's harder now with the economy and everything but still
Speaker 4 yeah but it doesn't have to be like a crazy day like it could you know what's the best first date location in your opinion the best first date location in my opinion would be in miami or just in general just in general like restaurant movies i think restaurant is good because you can actually talk and get to know each other.
Speaker 4 Movies is weird because it's just like you're sitting in a movie theater. Like, how are you going to talk? Or get to know each other.
Speaker 4 I like movie dates like once you're dating someone because it's like we already know everything we need to know about each other. We just want to spend time.
Speaker 4 But yeah, I think I like for sure restaurants, like lunch. I feel like lunch is a good start.
Speaker 5
Lunch is casual. Yeah.
Dinners are kind of like more intimate, I feel like.
Speaker 4 Yeah, I feel like lunch, first date, dinner, second date.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 Any good dates recently for you or no?
Speaker 4 Um, yeah, I just, well, it was, it was pretty good until the main tour that I just went on.
Speaker 4 Um, is that enough to end it?
Speaker 4 No, but I just don't know how to like, like, what do I tell him?
Speaker 5 Well, he's gonna see this.
Speaker 5 This is gonna get millions of views, and he probably follows your Instagram.
Speaker 4 So, if you're watching this, I had a great time, but a little less tongue, please.
Speaker 5
I feel like that's fixable if you just tell him. Communication is important in relationships.
You know, if he, if he doesn't know the ick, how is he going to fix it?
Speaker 5 Because a lot of girls keep the icks hidden.
Speaker 4 That's true.
Speaker 5 So I feel like if you just vocalize the icks,
Speaker 5 guys can, guys are pretty logical, I feel like.
Speaker 4 Yeah.
Speaker 5 I feel like guys don't have icks.
Speaker 4 Like, do you guys get icks at all?
Speaker 5 Some guys have icks about like, I guess, farting and burping.
Speaker 4
Yeah. I mean, I don't.
Girls don't fart.
Speaker 5 I don't have that one.
Speaker 4 Trying to think what else. We're like,
Speaker 5 I guess just controlling.
Speaker 4 You know what a lot of girls do is like, if they're dating a guy, let's say, like, let's say we're dating and we go on to Cancun together and we're staying in the same room.
Speaker 4 They will literally hold their shit in for like days. What? Yeah, because they don't want to like go to the bathroom in the same room.
Speaker 5 What? Yeah. Are you serious?
Speaker 4 Yes.
Speaker 5 Just time it, though.
Speaker 4
Yeah, but it's still weird. Like, what if he comes back, smells like it? Like, I don't know.
It's just girls are really weird. You do that?
Speaker 4
I have done that. And I know my friends do it too.
What?
Speaker 5
Man, that's nuts to me. I gotta go.
I'm going.
Speaker 4 Yeah, I went on a trip with my friends and she literally was like, can I come to your room to use the bathroom? Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5 Did you go to the naked resort in Cancun? No. The nude one? Have you heard of that one?
Speaker 4 I heard of one in Jamaica, but not Cancun.
Speaker 5 Yeah, there's one in Cancun. I found out on accident.
Speaker 4 You weren't there?
Speaker 5
I was walking through. Yeah, because all of them are connected.
Oh. And it's adults only naked, all naked people.
Would you ever do something like that? No. Yeah, that's not my vibe either.
Speaker 4 Yeah, no.
Speaker 5
Yeah. And even on the cruise I was just on, I was on Virgin out in Miami.
Have you heard about the upside-down pineapple thing?
Speaker 4 Oh, wait. Is that like for swingers? Yeah.
Speaker 5 The room next to me.
Speaker 4 Wait, they had an actual upside-down pineapple. It's a magnet.
Speaker 5
Yeah, you put it on your door. Oh, God.
That's a sign that you want to swing. That's a bunch of people.
That's big in the cruising community.
Speaker 4 That's insane. Yeah.
Speaker 5 Swinger lifestyle is not for me.
Speaker 4 Nah. Hell no.
Speaker 5 There's a lot of clubs out here that are big on it, too.
Speaker 4 Yeah, no, I'm monogamy, unless it's Andrew Tate.
Speaker 5 You would change for Andrew Tate?
Speaker 4 Yeah. All right.
Speaker 5 I'll text him if you want. He just came on.
Speaker 4 Okay. Let me know what he says.
Speaker 5 He's probably got a lot of interesting things to say to you.
Speaker 4 Yeah, I would love to talk to him.
Speaker 4 I would love to hear it.
Speaker 4 All right.
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