Why Your Manifestations Aren't Working (Fatal Mistakes) | Tiberius DSH #944

Speaker 1 There are three types of pleasures. The first type of pleasure is the natural pleasures.
Connect with like-minded people and make a community to support each other.

Speaker 1 There's another type of pleasure is called the unnatural pleasures. And it's good to have them, but don't put your happiness there because you might lose them.
And then he talked the three categories.

Speaker 1 He said, Completely avoidance, he called them vain pleasures. Don't chase unlimited wealth or fame or power because this will surely get you into a bad place.

Speaker 2 Alright guys, all the way from Bali, we got Tiberius here today. Thanks for coming on, man.

Speaker 1 It's a pleasure. Thank you for having me and for making the time.

Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah, it was super last minute, but I saw your page, you know, 9 million followers, so I knew you were doing something powerful. Wanted to have you on here today.

Speaker 1 Thank you.

Speaker 2 And you are the master manifestor, right?

Speaker 1 Some people call me the law of attraction guy. That's all I can say.
And yeah, sometimes I think I should step up and own it more because things happen for sure.

Speaker 2 Yeah, you attracted this interview. We were just talking.

Speaker 1 I have, yeah. It's a synchronicity.
Yep.

Speaker 2 And you studied with Greek philosophers in Greece for a year, right?

Speaker 1 Yeah, three years ago.

Speaker 2 What was the big takeaway from that?

Speaker 1 You know, I love the philosophy of Epicurus. He created a system for self-help.
The first self-help system, he made it 2,300 years ago. It's like a personal development program, like

Speaker 1 ancient one. And I think it's very apropos to what's happening today in the world.
And he had this

Speaker 1 way of helping people be happy

Speaker 1 and the main takeaway would be he had

Speaker 1 he proposed three types of pleasures he said humans are pleasure seeking organisms

Speaker 1 he said we can see kids they are looking to be happy

Speaker 1 And some people say that Epicureanism is like the anti-Stoic, but it's not true.

Speaker 1 He was a lot into Stoic principles because he would say, look for pleasures, but don't go partying or, you know, be hedonistic if this will take away the joy of tomorrow so he would be like look for constant pleasures natural pleasures and he said this he said look there are three types of pleasures the first type of pleasure is the natural pleasures and he said go and find your basic needs met you know some modest shelter modest food he said study philosophy because knowing yourself makes us makes you happier connect with like-minded people and make a community to support each other.

Speaker 1 And then he said, put your happiness here. And then he said, there's another type of pleasure.
It's called the unnatural pleasures.

Speaker 1 And he said, this is where, you know, you want to have maybe a bigger house or chase some luxuries in life, like set some bigger goals.

Speaker 1 He said, it's good to have them, but don't put your happiness there because you might lose them. And if you lose them, you might lose your happiness.
And then he talked the three categories.

Speaker 1 He said, completely avoid this. He called them vain pleasures.

Speaker 1 And he said, don't try to control outside events or don't try to control other people or don't chase unlimited wealth or fame or power because this will surely get you into a bad place. Wow.

Speaker 1 So he said put your happiness in the first one, in the natural ones.

Speaker 1 Go into the unnatural ones, but don't put your happiness there and completely avoid the third ones. So he had the system and he was teaching people.
He had a community next to Athens.

Speaker 1 And yeah, so this was the base. And then he said, avoid two types of fears.
He said, avoid the fears of the gods. He said, the gods don't have any business with us here.

Speaker 1 They're not there somewhere in the sky trying to like control our lives. And then he explained, you know, some things about the gods.
And then he said, avoid the fear of death.

Speaker 1 He said, we don't understand death as we are alive. When we die, we're going to figure it out.
But don't live in fear of the gods and of death because it will take away.

Speaker 1 from the happiness that we can enjoy now by removing these fears. I love that.
Yeah. I love that.
Very powerful.

Speaker 2 I can relate with that because I used to fear death growing up, but now I've come to terms with it. But it took me, you know, 25, 26 years.

Speaker 2 But a lot of people fear death.

Speaker 1 A lot of people fear death. And what I'm seeing in the manifestation world is that a lot of people are fearing that the universe,

Speaker 1 right?

Speaker 1 Doctor the universe is rewarding you for, you know, visualizing or being in a certain vibration.

Speaker 1 A lot of people are fearing that the universe is going to punish them for having like say a bad thought or a bad vibration or a bad emotion.

Speaker 1 I get this a lot in our Instagram lives, like how do I master my thoughts? How do I control my thoughts? Because I'm afraid that the universe is going to punish me.

Speaker 1 And I said, look, this is a belief that's very counterproductive. Because what we're basically saying is we're living in fear.
And if I'm living in fear, I'm living in flight or fight.

Speaker 1 And I'm suppressing my emotions. And I'm repressing myself, right?

Speaker 1 And this just doesn't help.

Speaker 1 And the truth is that bad things will happen to good people. and good things will happen to bad people and we cannot avoid this.
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Speaker 1 But like living in fear that the universe is out there to punish me, it's one of the challenges people are dealing with in the manifestation world.

Speaker 2 Yeah, a ton of people live in fear, and that could be by design, you know?

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 They could, there's theories that certain groups want to rule through fear.

Speaker 1 I think so, but I also think there's the narrative in the manifestation self-help

Speaker 1 world.

Speaker 1 I think there's just a lot of programs out there who say, okay,

Speaker 1 you're going to manifest an amazing life if you learn how to master your thoughts

Speaker 1 and then if the person goes through the program and it doesn't work some people might say yeah well you didn't master your thoughts that's why the problem didn't work I think there's a lot of standards in the programs out there that are just like impossible to to to reach no I agree manifestation is a controversial thing needs to be it is yeah and they might say well have you done your affirmations every day for 30 days oh you missed a day oh I'm so sorry that's why it's like no refunds you know what I'm saying yeah yeah yeah that's where i draw the line when you're charging people and then uh blaming it on them you know yeah you should just stand behind your product and refund them if they're asking for one and this is where a lot of my work started happening because i was working for a big personal development company out there and what's interesting i talk a lot about harmful concepts in manifestation and

Speaker 1 it was a lot of like i was selling a program that worked for me And the program had a guided visualization meditation that really worked.

Speaker 1 It created miracles in my life wow but then I would sell the program to other people and then they would say hey that visualization is not working for me like I'm getting anxiety when I'm trying to visualize

Speaker 1 so then I would talk to my superior and they would be like no they have to try harder because this works they have to try harder I'm like these people are having anxiety try harder in what way

Speaker 1 but then what I discovered is that this thing worked for me because I had a similar psychological buildup as the person that created the program.

Speaker 1 That's why the person that created the program accepted to me, he seemed he liked me a lot. He's like, Oh, you remind me of how I was.

Speaker 1 But then I started talking to people and really listening to them, like, okay, you get anxiety because you're trying this method.

Speaker 1 How about we go on a walk together and you visualize with your eyes open? And I'll be there next to you, I'll hold your hat. You know, it was, you know, over the phone.
I'm like, you know what?

Speaker 1 I'm feeling better.

Speaker 1 Now I can visualize. Now I can start opening myself up to new ideas.

Speaker 1 And the thing is that we should teach people how to lead themselves and how to figure out their own way versus putting clear standards and clear rules that might just like wall people in instead of helping them express themselves.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I love that. You've also been able to use manifestation to help you overcome some traumas, right?

Speaker 1 100%, yeah.

Speaker 2 A lot of people have these traumas that they don't even realize, whether it's generational or from childhood.

Speaker 1 It's true. And

Speaker 1 there are a lot of successful people. This is what I noticed in my work.
There are successful people that

Speaker 1 are successful in society's eyes because maybe they created a business or they're making some money. But they're driven by their need to get validation or to

Speaker 1 get love by being special or by trying to prove someone from childhood. You know, I'm going to show you.
And

Speaker 1 on one side, it's good because you have some money and you create some success, but

Speaker 1 inside they might feel insecure, they might feel anxious, and they never express that to the world. And we're living in a society that doesn't look into

Speaker 1 helping people be their authentic self. It's more like, well, you have money, you have a set of whatever, you meet a set of standards and you're good.

Speaker 1 And other people are having the nice life, but in the same time, they're like letting, let's say, traumas or things from the past still made them feel bad and repress themselves.

Speaker 2 I just, I did a brain scan recently, and I found out I had some childhood trauma. So my goal this year is to kind of figure that out and fix it.
Well, I don't even know what it is.

Speaker 2 I think it might be abandonment because I was an only child, didn't have any friends growing up. So I need to figure that out.
I think it's important.

Speaker 1 Yeah, it is.

Speaker 2 Yeah, and then there's the other side of it, generational trauma. That side's, I think, tougher to identify because you don't know what happened in your past lives, right?

Speaker 2 Did you have any generational trauma?

Speaker 1 I don't know if I had generational trauma. My luck was that I had so much obvious trauma that I could pinpoint, you know, growing up.
So that was a good thing.

Speaker 1 But in my work on, let's say, healing and inner child work and, you know, trauma is that I used psychedelic medicine.

Speaker 1 And what I did understand,

Speaker 1 and I found for sure, is is that those, let's say, types of ceremonies, they can take you in places where your conscious mind cannot.

Speaker 1 You know, you can bring some memories to the surface and you can see, oh, this is why I am like I am today.

Speaker 1 Because this is what happened. And it can even go back into,

Speaker 1 let's say, the generational ancestral road.

Speaker 2 So you did some ayahuasca?

Speaker 1 I did ayahuasca, but what helped me the most was psilocybin ceremonies. Really? Yeah.
Mushrooms. Mushrooms, yeah.
Wow. I love mushrooms.

Speaker 2 I might have to look into that. I haven't done a full trip in a while.

Speaker 2 Eight years.

Speaker 1 It helped me. I had mushrooms.
I micro-dose and I did it recreationally. But since I've done it in a ceremonial way with shamans, I stopped doing it recreationally.
Wow.

Speaker 1 I'm like, this is just too powerful just to go and have some fun with it and watch the sunset and whatever. I started respecting this so much.
I still do micro-dose. I find that very powerful.

Speaker 1 But damn,

Speaker 1 it's powerful.

Speaker 2 I love micro-dosing. I think

Speaker 2 it's like the best way of being productive.

Speaker 1 It is. Yeah.

Speaker 2 Yeah, you are so productive on it. It's way better than like Adderall or whatever they're prescribing kids these days.

Speaker 1 Oh, for sure.

Speaker 2 I'm not a fan of that pharmacy industry. You know?

Speaker 1 Meaning it's not that big where I am

Speaker 1 in Europe or in now in Indonesia.

Speaker 2 It's not big in Bali?

Speaker 1 Not at all, no.

Speaker 2 Dang. It's huge over here.

Speaker 1 Everywhere.

Speaker 2 Like, so many people are on it. Kids are on it now.

Speaker 1 If you come to Bali, you're going to see that the average local person there

Speaker 1 maybe has like 300 bucks a month salary damn even per household maybe but they're happier than most people here in the west what yeah

Speaker 2 that's crazy to me so money's not the answer then

Speaker 2 no i mean obviously not people think it is yeah i think people need to travel and experience other cultures can learn a lot. Do you think people were happier in ancient times, thousands of years ago?

Speaker 1 I don't know what to say about that because if you look at the life expectancy, it was a lot lower. There was a lot more danger.
There was a lot more scarcity.

Speaker 1 What I do feel is that maybe we're closer to nature in some sense. We're more in our natural environment.

Speaker 1 So maybe there wasn't so much depression and anxiety like this today, but there was a lot more real risk.

Speaker 2 Yeah, more fear, maybe.

Speaker 1 You could die from a wild animal, you could die from your neighboring tribe, or you can die from an infection. So

Speaker 1 I don't think it was easier back then or better. I think it was a lot more natural and alive in the sense that dangers were there.

Speaker 1 And I'm just talking about known history. I don't know about

Speaker 1 what Billy Carson would say from ancient civilization.

Speaker 1 I don't go that far. I'm just looking at how we were like a few hundred years ago.
But yeah, nowadays we have some problems and some, you know, some mental health problems that...

Speaker 1 weren't there a hundred years ago.

Speaker 2 You've done some collabs with Billy Carson, right?

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 What do you think of Billy?

Speaker 1 He's fascinating to me.

Speaker 1 I've known Billy since 2016, 2017. Wow.

Speaker 1 The guy was sleeping like four hours a night.

Speaker 1 Every time I'm texting him, he replies, I'm like, Billy, isn't it like 3 a.m. over there? Yeah, I just woke up.

Speaker 1 He's on to it. He's in the space of creating and responding so well to life.
I love it. He's so centered.
And now he's exploding

Speaker 1 on Joe Rogan.

Speaker 2 Rogan, Andrew Schultz.

Speaker 1 Your show. Yeah.

Speaker 2 It's really cool to see him blow up because I feel like I caught him right before he had that massive boom. But you were there from 2016.
He wasn't even known back then.

Speaker 1 Yeah, but he was doing some amazing work. Like the way he was working and writing and creating, and like he was very dedicated.

Speaker 2 Dude, that's beautiful. Did you watch the Enunnaki movie yet?

Speaker 1 I haven't. No.

Speaker 2 Yeah, it was really cool. I can't wait to see the rest.
Shout out to Billy Carson, man. I love his wife, too.

Speaker 1 I haven't met her. Wow.
I went on his first podcast two years ago.

Speaker 1 it was his first episode then i flew back to bali the the podcast got corrupted the sound sound or something what and he was just about to go in and to get engaged with elizabeth and and i never met her but i was at his home yeah yeah in florida someone did not want that podcast daring you must have said something man maybe

Speaker 1 and he wanted to fly me back in like tiberius i'm like believe it's 30 hours yeah i'm like we'll do it another time yeah that's happened to me a few times where i lost the audio and in my head I just think it wasn't meant to air.

Speaker 2 You know, I try not to dwell on it too hard.

Speaker 1 Yeah, yeah, I'm the same.

Speaker 2 I think everything happens for a reason.

Speaker 1 100%.

Speaker 2 Yeah, good or bad. I used to have victim mentality.

Speaker 1 Did you have that too?

Speaker 1 A lot, yeah. Especially when I was talking about my past.

Speaker 1 I got something from

Speaker 1 I mean, I still talk about my past, but I feel I talk it in a different way. I was I was trying to get something.

Speaker 1 You know. Now I'm like, hey, this is where I come from.
This is what happened.

Speaker 1 This is the good, this is the bad, and that's it. Energetically, it's from a different,

Speaker 1 I'm communicating from a different point.

Speaker 1 Back then, I was kind of like trying to impress you with my story or trying to get something.

Speaker 1 Now I'm like, this is it.

Speaker 1 And it is what it is. And it's beautiful.

Speaker 2 Nice. Some of the most fulfilled people have really traumatic pasts.
Yeah. I noticed that with interviewing a lot of people.
Almost all of them.

Speaker 2 All the successful people had some sort of traumatic, you know, childhood or something.

Speaker 1 I think something traumatic needs to happen to take one person out of this like story, like this mainstream story we all live in.

Speaker 1 Like it had to happen to me. Like I grew up in post-communist Romania and I grew up in a very like, I would say insecure environment.
You know,

Speaker 1 a lot of

Speaker 1 moving around,

Speaker 1 my parents got divorced. I had some mental conditions.
I had to go through 12 surgeries.

Speaker 1 So this made me like

Speaker 1 a bit like, whoa, I'm here, but like I cannot really trust these people. And like once every while, something like painful happens to me.
So I grew up a lot of skepticism.

Speaker 1 So I'm watching around, I'm like, I don't trust this.

Speaker 1 So that was good because I wasn't trusting the post-communist environment. And I was very attracted actually to American, American, like...
cartoons

Speaker 1 because like when i when i grew up it just started coming in romania so i'm like okay this is not okay the mentality i'm living in is not okay i would look in american tv as kind of like a mentorship thing like oh this is better

Speaker 1 and uh grew up very skeptical and i would always fight and debate like the religious system the hospital system being in hospitals like they were really bad but then what happened was that and i was like super atheist Oh, wow.

Speaker 1 But then what happened in the seventh grade, I had like a near-death experience. I was with, you know when

Speaker 1 you have an appendix burst inside you? Yeah, yeah. You got to like get this

Speaker 1 very fast. I stayed with three days.
What? Yeah, three days. Because I was in a really crappy hospital in a small town.
I didn't have someone to do surgery on me. Wow.
You know what's interesting,

Speaker 1 I had this like near-death experience moment where out of insurmountable pain I was feeling, I went into this place where everything was very blissful.

Speaker 1 And it's almost like I was talking to an entity, but not with my voice. It was more of a telepathic thing.
And I felt that I had a chance to choose, to stay there or to go back.

Speaker 1 But I knew that if I would go back, it would be very painful. You know what's interesting? In the third day, when they did the surgery on me, I had a little cross on a little bracelet.

Speaker 1 And I didn't know what the cross was. But the nurse tried to take it out when they put me on the operating table.
And I said, please don't take the cross away because I will die if you take this away.

Speaker 1 Because I would look at that cross and put all my mental strength into fighting. And later I found out that that's the ISIS cross, the ISIS key of life.
What? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 Later in life, I found out. Years later.

Speaker 2 Oh, my God.

Speaker 2 Isis? Yeah. Like the terrorist organization?

Speaker 1 No, like the Egyptian goddess. Oh, Egyptian.
Oh, God. Okay.
Yeah. Wow.
Billy knows about this. That is crazy.

Speaker 1 So it kind of like shifted me because I'm like, okay, I grew up very skeptical, very pragmatical, very like,

Speaker 1 testing and not trusting straight away. Atheist, and then this whole thing changed my perspective.
I'm like, I left the hospital after a month and a half. Jeez.

Speaker 1 I was two weeks in the ER room, and I'm like, okay, there's definitely something out there.

Speaker 1 And then this whole, I didn't tell people because I didn't want people to think I'm crazy about that. Yeah, in Romania.
In Romania, you know.

Speaker 2 They'll kill you for that, right?

Speaker 1 Not really, but it's just like, it was just one more reason to be like marginalized. Yeah,

Speaker 2 and you already didn't fit in, right? So if you said that, you would have been totally ostracized.

Speaker 1 But this is something that kind of like led me to seek my own path and my own truth. When I was 19, I watched The Secret, right? Yeah.

Speaker 1 And until I watched The Secret, I was like, you know, I know I'm ambitious. I know I can do things.
But like, I didn't know that there's power in our thoughts.

Speaker 1 So then I watched The Secret and this guy from The Secret, Bob Proctor, maybe you met him. Yeah.

Speaker 2 He died a couple of years ago. I never met him, but I saw him.

Speaker 1 He was my mentor. I used to work for him in Arizona.

Speaker 1 I got one of his programs and I spent like a salary on the program back then.

Speaker 1 And if you're Romanian, like you don't buy digital products like it was my like I was like I saw the secret I like this guy I'm gonna I hope what he says is real I bought his program and then I'm like I'm gonna follow what this guy says and he says there's power in our thoughts and he said we should set goals that scare and excite us at the same time because when we set goals like this then we're gonna challenge our potential and it has to be a goal that we don't know how to get because this is what's gonna inspire us

Speaker 1 so like i said i set some goals

Speaker 1 just like made a little bit of a list of things that i want and as i was writing down some things that i want to manifest like move into a better room and i get a car whatever i got this voice in my head saying wouldn't it be great if this guy bob protector comes to romania and wouldn't it be great if i would go to america and i was 19 back then to learn how to teach this information to other people but then another voice said but it's impossible

Speaker 1 And then I caught myself in between. I'm like, this is what this guy's talking about.
We have an inspiration.

Speaker 1 we have a big dream, like for a second, pops into our mind, and the next second, a voice of limitation comes in and says, it's impossible.

Speaker 1 And the truth is that if I would look around, I had no money, I was 19, you can't even get a visa to get to America, right?

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 in a rational way, everything was like, true, it's impossible. But then he says, you got to believe in that dream.
And you got to start doing things straight away. So I just followed his program.

Speaker 1 And like, in less than one year, I was on stage with him in Romania. Then I moved to Arizona and worked from here.
Wow. Yeah.
That is crazy. It was a quantum leap.
I got such a high-level education.

Speaker 1 I bet.

Speaker 1 In this industry.

Speaker 2 Yeah, that's the legend right there. The fact that he came to Romania is pretty crazy because that's not a common country for people to go to and speak.

Speaker 1 True. Yeah.
And we started like the self-help

Speaker 1 industry. You know, right now in Romania,

Speaker 1 there's a yearly event. Grant Cardone goes there.
Oh, really? Jordan Peterson. In Romania? yeah yeah oh yeah i forgot the name of the conference um yeah 5 000 people does andrew take go there

Speaker 2 did you move out of romania right after that you started working for him

Speaker 1 i moved out of romania when i was 21 and that was a big change right coming to us it was a huge change like two years before that i was living in a forty dollar forty euro a month rent wow it's like fifty dollars and And I went from there to living in Scastle, Arizona.

Speaker 1 It's $1,400.

Speaker 1 It was such a shift.

Speaker 1 It was beautiful because I think when you're young, you can make quantum leaps.

Speaker 1 I think when you're young, naivety helps. Because if I would have went to a business consultant and said, hey, I want to bring Bob Proctor to Tromania, he would have said,

Speaker 1 go to school, bro.

Speaker 1 But

Speaker 1 naivety. and a little bit of arrogance helped me a lot.
Because on one side, I'm like, I'm just going to visualize and it's going to happen.

Speaker 1 And I was doing that, and things started showing up for me. Yeah.

Speaker 1 And then on the other side, when people would tell me, dude, you're crazy, I would say, you don't know the secret. So the little bit of arrogance would push people away and the negative influences.

Speaker 1 And then a little bit of naivety would be keeping me open-minded enough so I can just like

Speaker 1 take the action steps.

Speaker 2 That's a good balance.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 And then when did you start the Instagram pages?

Speaker 1 I started in 2015. Okay.
And And it's quite interesting because

Speaker 1 I was working in sales in Arizona for Bob.

Speaker 1 And one day I was doing a meditation. And this popped in my mind to reach 1 million people with information that can just wake them up a little bit.
Because this is how I started in Romania.

Speaker 1 After I saw the secret, I'm like, Romania needs this information because we're a very rich country in human resources, in natural resources, but like communism and the system keeps everyone down, right?

Speaker 1 So I was like, okay, now I'm working in sales. This is like

Speaker 1 my dream. I was in the coaching department as well.
I was the youngest guy there. But I had this meditation.
I'm like, I want to reach 1 million people.

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 just based on working one-on-one with people, I would have needed to live like 500 years to achieve this goal.

Speaker 1 And I'm like,

Speaker 1 I'm going to hold this idea in my mind. And two weeks later, we were having an event in Phoenix with Bob Proctor.
It was called the 3% Club.

Speaker 1 So it was like a half internet marketing event, and half Bob would teach mindset stuff. And I didn't know much about internet marketing.
I was just like more into Bob stuff.

Speaker 1 But then there was a guy on stage there, and he said, if you want to start an online business, you want to run ads. Don't run ads on Facebook.
This is 2011.

Speaker 1 He said, run ads on Google because they're better targeted and blah, blah, blah, blah. You know what I did?

Speaker 1 I went home, I took a digital product from Joe Vitale, he's one of the speakers from The Secret, and I put it on Facebook ads. I did like the opposite of what he said.
And I started getting clicks.

Speaker 1 So I started playing with that, but just like, you know, testing. And I'm like, I think people are going to organize themselves into communities around specific interests in the future.

Speaker 1 So I started creating stuff on Facebook and then I started creating stuff on Instagram and it just it just grew basically. Wow.

Speaker 2 That's crazy.

Speaker 1 And I left the sales team and I just got into web development because I like, I need to learn all of this so I can I can figure out how to how to do this better.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 And you probably have one of the biggest pages on Instagram now.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 Yeah. Especially in your space.
It might be one of the biggest, right?

Speaker 1 It's the biggest, I would say. On law of attraction manifestation, and we have like amazing people follow I've spoken to Hollywood celebrities for the page and I'm just a guy from Romania.

Speaker 2 Crazy.

Speaker 1 It's crazy how even even how synchronicities happen.

Speaker 1 A year ago, after New Year's, Tereji Hansen, she's a Hollywood actress. I love her for like the curious case of Benjamin B button, whatever.
She reposted something from my page to her page.

Speaker 1 And I was like, isn't this beautiful?

Speaker 1 Wow. And I follow her and sent her a text.
But this is the the crazy thing. And and I don't know how this happens, but the universe works in mysterious ways.
Two weeks later, I was in in Bali.

Speaker 1 I was in the lobby getting ready to go to hat yoga session, a big ram yoga session. And I'm there on a bench.
And guess who walks in front of me? It's her. Wow.
And I I'm shocked.

Speaker 1 When I get shocked, I get a bit of asthmatic, so I'm like taking a breath. So I wanna go in and talk to her, to talk to her.

Speaker 1 But in the same time, I'm like, you know, some people come here to heal, they need their privacy. She's a, you know,

Speaker 1 very famous person. But then she stopped like six feet in front of me to a locker.
And I'm like,

Speaker 1 so I took out my phone. Instead of approaching her, hey, I'm your fan or whatever.
I took out my phone. I went to her.
I'm like, you follow my page.

Speaker 1 She's like, what? Like, you follow my page. She's like, oh my god, you're the law of attraction guy.
She gave me a hug. We did a selfie.
We did Hat Yoga together. Wow.
yeah, and

Speaker 1 after

Speaker 1 the session, she came to me and we had like an emotional moment. And she said, Look, your page helped me a lot a year and a half ago.

Speaker 1 I was going through a hard time, and something from your page helped me. Keep doing what you're doing, God's working for you.
And I was shocked.

Speaker 1 I was like, This is like way too much for me because I'm like,

Speaker 1 I just came from nothing and from a like Romanians, like nothing, right? Yeah.

Speaker 1 And I'm like, I'm just talking to this person who's like, I'm a fan, and I did something that impacted her. This is amazing.

Speaker 2 Crazy, yeah, you don't realize who you're reaching with social media. Yeah, I get people messaging me, coming up to me now.
It's it's amazing.

Speaker 1 It's it's so interesting. A few weeks ago, I was with my assistant in Bali, and I started doing Instagram lives, but we're shadow banned somehow.

Speaker 1 So, instead of like getting like a thousand people on the live, we were getting like 200. So, I'm like, what can we do? We're shadow banned.
Anyway, I'll keep doing the live.

Speaker 1 So, I did an Instagram live, and Connor McGregor popped on the live. What? Yeah,

Speaker 1 I took a screenshot. I'm like, so I'm like, universe, on one side, you're like not notifying people that I'm doing the lives.

Speaker 1 And on the other side, Connor McGregor popped. I'm like, is this like...

Speaker 1 This has to be a simulation.

Speaker 2 Well, he's big on manifestation, too.

Speaker 1 Yeah, he is.

Speaker 2 Because he came from nothing and manifested the best UFC career of all time.

Speaker 2 Financially, at least. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 And he openly talks about it and visualizing law of attraction.

Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah, I watched his documentary. It was really inspiring.
He really came from nothing, man.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 That is so cool. Yeah, your journey.
I feel like you're just getting started, though.

Speaker 1 I think so. Yeah.

Speaker 2 I think you're going to do some huge things.

Speaker 1 Thank you. There's always something new to do.
There's always something new to

Speaker 1 discover or to approach.

Speaker 1 And there's always something to help people with.

Speaker 1 One thing I do know is that I really listen to my community and I don't take it lightly. I listen to you.
If you have a problem, I'm not going to say, oh, go try hard or whatever.

Speaker 1 I'm really going to listen to you and to see if I can find a way to help you based on the level you have to get you to maybe believe in yourself a bit more, take a little micro step, because sometimes that's what we need.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 What are some common problems you're seeing from your community?

Speaker 1 Like I said, people are living in fear,

Speaker 1 thinking the universe is going to punish them, the whole overthinking.

Speaker 1 There's a lot of comparison going on. People think that people on Instagram, like the influencers, they have this perfect lives.
And they're like well

Speaker 1 I don't even know how I'm ever gonna get them this like the deep feeling of unworthiness and what I try to teach people and I would say this

Speaker 1 a paradigm shift that I teach people is to go from I'm broken

Speaker 1 or I don't know or I'm not good enough and someone from the outside needs to teach me to all I need is within me now.

Speaker 1 And this is a paradigm we get from the schooling system because we're treated as being like, there's a word in Latin, tabula rasa, like empty, and then people of authority need to fill us up with information.

Speaker 1 But then if you look at the word education, we think that education means going to school and going to college and getting a degree and then now you're educated.

Speaker 1 Education etymologically comes from the Latin word educo, which means to draw, to develop from within.

Speaker 1 So what I teach people is to understand that you are not broken, needing to be fixed. Don't live your life looking from someone from the outside to give you something that will change you.

Speaker 1 Start looking inside, start welcoming who you are.

Speaker 1 And I have some methodologies from, you know, which people to feel safe in their bodies, to like stop running away from anxiety, to stop shaming themselves,

Speaker 1 to know how to talk to themselves. And I'm like, look, all the major people,

Speaker 1 take the religious leaders, the prophets, like the Buddha, right?

Speaker 1 What did they do? They went in the forest, they meditated, they went in the desert. Like there's a lot of isolating yourself and going within.
And

Speaker 1 they became the biggest name. They weren't like, well, I read this book.
They were like, I went within.

Speaker 1 And I think if people switch from like, someone's going to fix me or save me, to like, okay, there's an outer world and there's an inner world.

Speaker 1 And I'm running away from this inner world because I think I'm not good enough or I'm afraid of my fears or like all these things inside.

Speaker 1 Well, if I learn how to relax myself and how to accept myself and how to welcome all these parts, I'm going to find that some really beautiful things inside and there's like real treasures there.

Speaker 1 Joseph Campbell said like the cave you fair to enter contains the greatest treasure.

Speaker 1 And this is where there's a lot of places inside full of treasure, but we're afraid to go there.

Speaker 2 Absolutely. I agree.
My best ideas always come when I'm alone in nature. on vacation or whatever.
It's never when I'm actually working. It's always when I'm alone.

Speaker 1 Right.

Speaker 2 Focused on my thoughts.

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 2 It's powerful. It's super powerful.

Speaker 2 Even Bill Gates, he dedicates, I think, hours a day just to thinking. Yeah.
He blocks it off on his calendar.

Speaker 1 I was watching

Speaker 1 Yuval Noah Harari who wrote Sapiens and Homo Devus.

Speaker 1 He spends 60 or 90 days a year in Vipassana, which is a a silent style of yoga meditation. Wow.

Speaker 2 That is crazy. Do you do yoga every day?

Speaker 1 I do yoga. Not every day, but I I do quite a bit.

Speaker 1 It's a thing there in Bali.

Speaker 2 I need to start doing it more. I haven't done it in a while, but there's a lot of benefits, it seems like.

Speaker 1 Yeah. I used to go here to hot yoga, to Vegas Hut, I remember, like five years or seven years ago.
Oh, yeah.

Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I sprained my neck last time I did hot yoga.

Speaker 1 Oh, really? Yeah.

Speaker 2 I'm too competitive. The girls there are really flexible, man.
They are. Yeah, so I was the only guy there, and I was trying to keep up with them.
Strained my neck.

Speaker 1 Wow, it's quite a competitive way of yoga, the hot yoga.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I'm going to ease into it.

Speaker 2 Probably start with beginner classes first.

Speaker 1 There's a style called yin yoga

Speaker 1 which I really don't like because

Speaker 1 I like the competitive one, but I really need because it like just teaches you how to relax and go very gently and like I feel how I have like trauma stuck in my back.

Speaker 1 I feel it.

Speaker 1 And sometimes like the very slow yoga, I'm like, it's just too much, like brings too much to the

Speaker 1 I'd rather just go do like a crossfield style yoga and like you know

Speaker 2 yeah there's a lot of different styles. You gotta figure out which one works well for you.
Yeah. Do you meditate every day, too?

Speaker 1 I do meditate every day.

Speaker 2 What's your technique for that?

Speaker 1 I have a technique where

Speaker 1 I

Speaker 1 breathe

Speaker 1 and I just start listening to myself and I start welcoming everything.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 imagine taking 10 deep breaths. You inhale through your nose, you exhale through your mouth.

Speaker 1 and then start noticing what's coming up.

Speaker 1 Might be some sadness coming up.

Speaker 1 I'm just scanning my body. There might be some excitement coming up and some sadness at the same time.
There might be some joy coming up. I could feel it in my chest, but then

Speaker 1 a little bit of insecurity

Speaker 1 in my stomach. Usually they're located in the body.
So I just welcome them and welcome them and welcome them and I see them and I'm there with them. And then what happens is like

Speaker 1 they relax and they get me into this like kind of like centered state. It's quite beautiful.

Speaker 2 That is interesting.

Speaker 1 I've never heard that technique. It's a powerful technique.
It's what I use with the people I work with to get into a concept. We call it the aligned self.

Speaker 1 The premise is that, and it's supported by therapy and also it's supported by spirituality.

Speaker 1 The premise is that there's a power within us that's very resourceful, that's very loving, that's very compassionate, that's very forgiving, it's very like playful and curious.

Speaker 1 And they talk about it in religion, like the higher self, or the Buddha nature in Buddhism, or the Atman in Hinduism, or maybe if you're a fan of Eckhart Tolle, he talks about the power of the present moment, or he talks about like the space consciousness, that's how he calls it, right?

Speaker 1 Yeah.

Speaker 1 But the thing is that this part of us is like deep down there, we don't access it because we're run by a stressed mind usually, right?

Speaker 1 So what I do is I get people to just relax by accepting every single part that they have, not

Speaker 1 shaming or putting on aside or trying to escape.

Speaker 1 It's like welcoming everything because there's a message and there's something beautiful that happens when I'm looking at my anxiety and instead of saying, oh, this anxiety is bad, I'm gonna go take a cold shower.

Speaker 1 I'm gonna say, hey, I see you, I welcome you, I'm here with you, what's up?

Speaker 1 Let's talk.

Speaker 2 Interesting.

Speaker 1 Maybe there's a part of me who, you know, I'm coming to a podcast. A part of me is excited, I have something to share with the world.
But maybe there's a part of me who's insecure. Why?

Speaker 1 Because I'm a dude from Romania, my English is not perfect, I'm very very intimidated. You know, I grew up in the system.
So that part, I used to run away from it. I'm like, this is not good.

Speaker 1 I'm going to go and prepare. And it would work.
I could enhance my skills. But in the same time, I'm dragging this part of me throughout my journey.
And sometimes it can get a bit loud.

Speaker 1 Nowadays, I'm like, hello, anxiety.

Speaker 1 I'm here with you. Yeah.

Speaker 1 We want to go talk to that podcast. How do you feel about it?

Speaker 1 Okay. Well, I'm going to meet with Sean.

Speaker 1 I'm not going gonna meet with the fifth grade teacher that shamed you okay yeah can we move here together we're gonna do something beautiful I want you to be there with me so so I'm moving together with all these different parts in me and I'm seeing them and this gets me into this centered state

Speaker 2 so you embrace the anxiety yeah instead of running away from it like everyone I used to do that I still do it you embrace it and you kind of ask it questions yeah And people are just amazed by it, like, oh my God, I feel so good.

Speaker 1 I feel so relaxed. I got comments from like newbies.

Speaker 2 like i feel enlightened wow i'll try it out and do you is there an audio for it or you just do it without any audio usually i just do it live but i we can create an audio i can create one for you for sure i'd love to do that matt yeah yeah my issue with uh most meditations is it's it's so long it's like 30 minutes to an hour and i have trouble just sitting still that long because i have adhd

Speaker 1 yeah there's a lot of rules in meditations usually what we're doing is like getting the rules out embracing accepting

Speaker 1 I think there's beauty in that.

Speaker 1 And when we do that,

Speaker 1 we start following our own beat, you know. Yeah.

Speaker 1 I feel it's another thing I see in manifestation, all these rules that people feel

Speaker 1 they need to

Speaker 1 subscribe to.

Speaker 1 I need to write down things in the present tense because if I write it in the past,

Speaker 1 dude.

Speaker 1 There's super successful people out there who never wrote anything down in their life and who never set any any goal and it's happening it's there's not like a formula you know but the industry likes a formula because that's that's what sells easy to sell yeah manifestation journals yeah right yeah so i'm like just welcome everything you know you want to come to our group uh session

Speaker 1 come as you are you don't have to prime yourself you know you don't have to do push-ups and like breathing

Speaker 1 come as you are come sad come tired come

Speaker 1 let's learn how to be okay with ourselves because when we're kids we're okay with ourselves and and then society conditions us to be like this.

Speaker 1 Shameful, yeah.

Speaker 2 I think religion is a big part of that.

Speaker 1 Yeah, religion, and the way like we're being mentored, and the way we receive love, right?

Speaker 1 So, what I'm about is like, let's just relax a little bit.

Speaker 1 Let's welcome everything because this will get us to feel safe in our body, and this will get us to tune in more to our intuition, and this will help us to make better decisions based on how we feel and how we are, versus, oh, I should be like this, or I should be like that.

Speaker 1 This is like being yourself.

Speaker 2 Absolutely. So you mentioned you were atheists growing up.
You've probably studied a ton of religions and philosophies now. Is there something you gravitate towards?

Speaker 1 Really, I think all religions have some similar points. One thing I do gravitate towards is this nexus, I would say, of this this divine self that's within.

Speaker 1 I'm really curious about what are the easiest ways to get myself and to get people to be in this place of alignment. I call it the aligned self.
You know? Yeah.

Speaker 1 You can micro dose and get into the aligned self. You can do like the type of meditation I was talking about.
You know, the the just different ways to do it.

Speaker 1 And like what what I'm curious about is like what's the simplest way to to get there and how can I teach this to someone else that they feel empowered to do this and to share it with other people, you know?

Speaker 2 Love it, it's nice and simple. Do you believe in a spirit, soul?

Speaker 1 I do believe in a spo soul. I I I feel we are a soul and we are in this beautiful human body.
It's a beautiful mechanism.

Speaker 1 I feel that everything we try to do in life is great to do things in life and to achieve, but I think what we're trying to do in life is nothing compared to what we already have.

Speaker 1 Like, as we're talking

Speaker 1 right now, there's like 50 million cells being like replenished, right? And like this whole computer system that's like our nervous system and so on, it's like amazing. It's a miracle.

Speaker 1 So, one thing which I feel is good is to like really live with this a little bit. Like, I have this amazing, miraculous organism.
Like, what can I do with it, right?

Speaker 1 And

Speaker 1 we have a soul, and we also have different stories that we like to play, different archetypes. So, I'm a soul, the soul is unlimited, and it's like it's here.

Speaker 1 And then, how can I navigate through life building beautiful relationships with different parts of me?

Speaker 1 like I have an achiever inside me let's say this person that wants to achieve and go and conquer the world a warrior but I also have a very empathic side of me I also have a person inside me that likes to dance and they're just different parts of me and usually this

Speaker 1 this part can get into conflict because the warrior says no life is about going and like

Speaker 1 showing who you are and like making a change in the world and

Speaker 1 chilled out dancers like yo life is about dancing and connecting and like they can fight so now i'm like i'm not any of this

Speaker 1 i'm a soul i have this part

Speaker 1 i have the stories that that i play in life i have these archetypes that i play what can i do how should i behave in order to make one big beautiful family inside of me

Speaker 1 that's that's almost like a puzzle yeah yeah that's cool yeah i could see that because certain activities really make you feel good right right? Yeah.

Speaker 2 And that could be your soul, maybe past lives. I don't know how to explain it, but.

Speaker 1 It can be a soul, it can be an archetype, it can be a talent, it can be many things. What's important is to listen to them and to find out what they need.
And I think there's time for everything.

Speaker 1 There's time for entrepreneurialism, there's time for philosophy, there's time for everything.

Speaker 2 I love that. Tiberius, it's been really fun, man.
What do you have coming up next and where can people find your pages?

Speaker 1 At Law of Attraction Live, it's our community page.

Speaker 1 At Tiberius Live is my personal page, and we're launching a method soon, it's called Authentic Manifesting. It's going to be promoted on the page.

Speaker 2 Nice. Looking forward to it.
Yeah, hopefully, it's out when we launch this. We'll link everything below.

Speaker 1 Thank you so much.

Speaker 2 Yeah, thanks for watching, guys. As always, see you tomorrow.