Semen Retention Expert Hasn’t Had Sex in 4 Years | Josh Palerlin Digital Social Hour #86

During a meditation dude, I start feeling actual energy in my hand.

What?

Like, you know, Dragon Ball.

Yeah, like a.

I literally feel that.

I feel a ball in my hand.

My mom's Asian.

She always told me to date an Asian girl when growing up.

I'm like, nah.

That is so Asian.

You be a doctor, be a film turn, you know, lawyer, and marry Asian, you know?

Welcome to the Digital Social Hour Podcast.

I'm your host, Sean Kelly.

I'm here with my guest today, Josh Palerland.

What's up, brother?

How are we doing, man?

Good, man.

Just a little bit somber.

Yeah, it's good to finally meet you.

I know.

We've been talking for years.

Boy, a long time.

Yeah.

I don't even know where you were living when we were started talking.

LA.

LA?

Yeah.

When you first talked to me, I was in LA.

LA, but now you've been traveling.

I was out of country the past two years.

So, where'd you go?

Oh, man, I live in 12 countries the past two years, brother.

You just dipped?

I dipped.

I fixed COVID, you know, and I'm like, all right, screw this.

I'm just going to live my life.

I want to see the world.

I want to see what's up.

I lived in Asia.

I lived in Europe, Middle East, Dubai, everywhere.

Wow.

What was your favorite?

Bali, Thailand, Poland.

But I like many countries.

But one thing I've learned is when you travel a lot, you learn that there's no such thing as good country and bad country.

Everything has good and bad.

And it's like, you just got to pick and choose.

It's kind of like my dad says, just like women.

There's no perfect woman.

There's always a good one, the bad one.

But the most important thing is if you can handle

the bad part of the woman, then you're fine.

Because most people, it's interesting, most people, when they get married, there's a thing saying, people marry because of emotion and divorce because of logic.

You know, because

you're so emotional, what you love, you forgot the things that you cannot handle.

And when you get married, that thing starts exposing.

So my dad told me, if you're going to get married one day, find someone that can be absolutely perfect.

What you hate about her, what you don't like about her.

If you're good with that, that's a girl you can marry.

People see about differently.

They'd be like, oh, I love this girl.

She's smart.

She's, you know, she's hot, da-da-da.

But sometimes they, you know, love is blind.

It's good advice.

Are your parents still together?

Oh, yeah.

That's good.

That's dope.

Yeah, I feel like Asians usually stay together, right?

Yeah, yeah, it's a cultured thing.

Yeah, the U.S., it's 50% divorce rate.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, I think, I think, and, and you know what, as I'm getting older, bro, I realize,

I, I realize, um, I'm more attracted to a traditional woman now.

Interestingly, uh, the value a traditional woman brings versus, I guess, the new wave of woman, the way they think, because, uh, you know, as a man, you're in in in all your day you want legacy what's your legacy is your family right right so i i think many successful men if you talk about what is their biggest achievement like i saw connor mcgregor talk about this his biggest achievement was his family you know his kids yeah forget about you know his his his uh double bail you know ufc same with mike tyson he said the same thing his kids yeah it's funny you said that because my mom's asian she always told me to date an asian girl like growing up and i'm like that is so asian

You be a doctor, be a film channel, you know, lawyer, and marry Asian.

She told me every day, bro.

And I wasn't into Asians growing up.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

For some reason, yeah.

But

as I grew older, I agree.

Like, I like the value and the tradition.

Yeah,

I think traditional Asian, because I do, I was in Europe a lot and I was in Eastern Europe.

And actually, lots of Eastern Europe women, they are very more traditional, meaning like they value family, they value, they want to have kids you know and nowadays if you ask lots of women they actually don't think about that and they don't lots of them don't want kids until they're like 30 40 and they start realizing wow one of my purpose in life is nurturing and taking care of you know the children yeah so facts so i think now it's just it's interesting when you travel you see so many culture in the world and you see for me personally i think the western has been falling recently with the culture and everything it's bad it's bad and then you have to think about it when, what is a family?

Family creates a little,

what it's called, like society, right?

And society creates the country.

So if you start falling of the family value, the society will start failing, the country will start falling.

So, you know, it was interesting to see how U.S., the past couple of years, has heading towards versus other couple countries.

Yeah, what do you think caused the U.S.

to have such a culture shift from traditional values to what it is now with all this

and craziness you know it's interesting i think is i mean i'm sure you know too you know is it's it's a stages of society from strong men's right creates a good good good what's it called a a strong man creates good time right good time creates weak men weak men creates bad time right bad times create strong men and currently i believe we're in you know bad time right now because we got weak men you know i don't think and when i say weak men i'm not talking about physical, I'm talking about mentally, right?

And I think

I don't think 50, 100 years ago,

fan will exist, even though the technology is there.

It's just because mentality is so different.

It's like, why would I pay to see certain things when I can just talk to a girl in the street?

But nowadays, most guys can't even talk to a girl in the street because, you know, social media, everything makes so convenient.

But at the same time, you are become less, know how to communicate as a person right as a human being all you need just swipe right like all you need is like instant gratification right you want you want you want something to entertain tick tock you want you want

tinder it's like it's like you know what i'm saying like everything's just instantaneously gratification but when you have gratification what happens you know in in business in anything your retention rate goes low and you know it's like a kid you give him candy all the time now

you become like weak in a way you know because you you don't work for it if you can get muscle without working out you know like but it doesn't work that way in real life you know for sure no i agree with that it makes it too easy for sure tinder yeah tinder ruined a lot of people oh for sure yeah men and women both yeah for sure because the end of the day is you know

we're we're we're spiritual beings so i feel like

It's not just physical, it's emotional and spiritual.

You know, so it's like, if you just go there for sex, I feel like lots of times you don't realize it's damaging your soul yeah because you know i feel like sometimes if you just have those one night staying in stuck since you're young but after in life you realize like i'm just wasting my time you know i'd rather be with someone that actually can build something long term i can be someone that can build empire right you know that's something that is Long term versus short term, right?

Short term, okay, cool, you can have fun and all that, but at the same time, it's like, what's the difference between you and an animal?

Yeah.

I agree.

There's no purpose doing that short-term stuff.

Yeah.

You said, you said we're spiritual beings.

Have you had an out-of-body experience before?

I don't think I have, but I did have some spiritual awakening in 2019 when I was in Bali.

And for the fact, I was sober, just so you know.

I wasn't like on any psychedelic.

It was just,

I was with some spiritual people and I started realizing certain things.

And I mean we can talk about it too.

Yeah, let's talk about it.

So I realizing, I talk about this actually on my Instagram before.

I realized as a man,

you might find it interesting, as a man, the most powerful thing you have is your sexual energy because that's the closest thing to God.

That's the closest thing to the universe.

So if you have this energy, it means that's the only energy you can create life.

That's the only energy you create consciousness.

No such other energy is more powerful than that.

But what most men do, they waste it.

Right?

They waste it and they can control the energy.

If you don't control the energy, the energy controls you.

So

once I realized that, I start kind of restraining myself from

like, it's called like semen retention.

Yeah.

So like, you know, like lots of people, like the culture is like November, no f ⁇ ing stuff.

Like not, that's not, I tried it before, but if you don't have a real reason and you don't have a real like enlightenment, understand what you're doing, it's just kind of like a, like, you know, like a trend.

Yeah.

But if you really understand what you're doing and you really understand the purpose behind it, it takes you to the next level.

And I can tell you, I, once I start doing that, I see a huge difference in me, like physically, mentally, and spiritually.

Wow.

Like, huge.

How many months did you take off from?

Oh, dude, like, the not

very, I have very, I haven't watched for the past four years.

Whoa.

And it doesn't, like, if I see a,

it doesn't affect me.

I'm just like, this is stupid.

This is dumb.

Yes, because I'm like, dude, like, once you understand certain level it's like

it's something not real

right if you watch that means you're watching someone having and it's not personal it's not emotional right and then that start

with your consciousness that start messing up with your psyche you know what i'm saying so it's like because like i said we talked about earlier when you have sex i mean you're it's actually spiritual connection right you know and i i i i had personal experience in my past where you have with a girl and you don't know her past you don't know her trauma trauma, and all of a sudden, the next day, or sometimes you feel depressed, and you have no idea why, and until you realize her energy is passing on through you.

Whoa,

so this, yeah, this is a lot of crazy.

I can go really deep on stuff because I have personal experience with stuff like that.

So, guys that are hundreds of girls, it's not good, bro.

You're messing out your whole energy, your psychic, and then sometimes you wonder why you're wandering around and one wonder, like, sometimes maybe

you know, you that's how you have the great success and money and everything but all of a sudden you one of this day you're like what am I doing what's my purpose why am I alive you know what I'm saying it's like because you forgotten the most powerful energy you have and you kind of like let it loose wow you know it's the same thing like what got what I said you know it's like controlling time if you don't control the time you don't have a schedule like today you have a bunch of podcasts if you don't schedule the time the time controls you right and the most powerful energy you have as a man is the sexual energy and if you don't control that that thing starts driving you and guess i i'm sure you've seen lots of men in your circle and in the party they can't control the energy and what happens to them they get destroyed they get destroyed by woman they get destroyed by their their their their drive which is a good drive right for me it's like yin yin yin like like a fire a fire you cannot say it's good or bad it's how you use it you can use it to k you can use it to cook same thing with sore you can use it to protect you can use it to same thing with your sexual energy you can use to empower yourself or destroy you wow that's crazy.

So, you don't agree with Andrew Tate's philosophy on women, then?

Uh, what is his philosophy?

He can have multiple girlfriends, he could multiple girls.

I think, you know, what everybody is quite different, so I can't really judge someone.

And I would like to talk if Andrew's here, I would like to talk his perspective and to kind of see, okay, cool, I'm open, you know, I'm open.

I'm like, cool, I respect everybody's perspective.

If that's his perspective, then cool, or maybe he does girls, but he doesn't.

I don't know, Andrew, if you're watching, let me know.

I don't know, you know, I do.

I could, I can tell you, I actually do the same thing.

People get confused.

When I say semen retention, it doesn't mean I completely restrain myself on.

Right.

I could still have,

but I don't release.

Oh,

so you don't finish.

I do not.

I go to 95, 98%, and

I meditate every day.

So there's a certain meditation I do to make my energy that I can control it to a point that, dude, I I can go.

It's going to sound very personal, but funny.

I can go for two hours and I will not release.

Whoa.

So, you just blue ball yourself for two hours?

So, it's funny because people keep asking me about like blue balls.

Like, I don't get blue balls.

Whoa, because there's a thing, if you look into it, it's called sexual transmutation.

If you don't know how to control your sexual energy, just like any other energy, you start like squeezing them.

But if you know how to release them, but not completely out of your body, but within your body,

That's how you release it, and I don't get blue bulb because of that.

Wow.

So, you're telling me you could get the best right now from

Tiana Trump and you wouldn't finish?

Nope.

Because I know it's not worth it.

I tried it two times.

I would start practicing for three months, right?

And I was like, this is crazy.

This is some nonsense.

Let me just see if I do release how I feel.

I can tell you every single time, not worth it.

Really?

Because immediately I lost drive and i immediately get tired and if you understand um the like in in french i forgot the exact word if you translate it it's called little death when you a little part of you die wow that's why when you you feel when you drain you feel tired physically you do yeah you know because you you're literally part of you think about part of yourself leave you and the most powerful energy

and let me ask you this i'm sure maybe not you but people who are watching this it's like if you ever had s with a girl and you have no emotion attached,

when you start,

for some reason, you start feeling attached to her because of that energy.

Your energy starts tiding up with her.

And what happened is, think it's logical.

It's like, as a man, this is your C, right?

A part of you become her.

So subconsciously, you feel like you need to protect her because she is with you.

Even though you

like, logically or emotionally be like, I don't care.

I just want to understand, whatever.

But that started affecting you.

Interesting.

Wow.

Yeah, I never.

Does that make sense, though?

No, it does.

I never thought of sex that way.

That's very fascinating.

Yeah, man.

It's the most powerful thing in this world.

Wow.

So you're very selective who you super.

Who you finish in, but you'll anyone.

Not anyone.

Okay.

I become more and more selective because, like I said earlier, I don't want their trauma.

I don't want their bad energy.

But you only get that if you finish, right?

Yes.

And I think, here's the thing.

I'm not an expert.

I just talking based on my own experience and how I feel.

I don't finish, but I do notice even that sometimes, you know,

you can still, you know,

when you have f ⁇ ,

even you don't decide to, you still have f ⁇ ing.

Right.

So that can still sleep through.

Okay.

You know what I'm saying?

So it's like, you're kind of playing with fire a little bit.

Right, right.

So the best is if you don't have f ⁇ ing at all, that's the best way.

So there's a thing the three things so the white the black the gray the white is completely you know you restrain yourself on which is the monks do and if you study some of the monks they have some supernatural human being power which you don't understand how because they constrain the energy and black magic is more like they use the energy but for certain things and then there's gray which is you can have but you don't you don't you don't but sometimes you can lead to the black part so monks are not allowed to have right nope and they're not allowed to

no, so they never finish, they don't even have

so they control the energy and they manipulate it.

That's not the right word, they transmit, they transmute it to their body.

And dude, if you go to some

like some Shaolin or some monks,

it's very secret.

It's a very scare secret.

Some of this monks can do some supernatural stuff, which I have, I'm not going to say a detail, I have seen or experienced when I was in Bali.

Seriously?

I was training with uh

this is the first time I actually talk about Republic I was training with um a spec specific um master um they used to train only the the the loyals in uh the the royal loyal royals royals in bali so like all the kings and you know the royal family only to strengthen their energy but uh i was lucky enough that uh he took me with him and then he i i was practicing me once a week to to do certain certain type of meditation it's hard to describe.

And I can tell you,

I had a crazy experience

after one to two months.

Certain meditation, dude, I start feeling actual energy in my hand.

What?

Like, you know, Dragon Ball.

Yeah, like,

I literally felt that.

I feel a ball in my hand.

Holy.

And I can

because, like, dude, it's something

that I will never forget.

And also, I just started, you know, after one month.

And I talked to another friend of mine who's a monk who who was a monk before.

He's like, my friend, you just experienced energy.

And it's like, I can tell you just quickly.

So, when I do this, obviously, my eyes close when I do this, I can feel this something in my hand.

It's like a magnet ball.

When I push it, it starts pushing me away.

And when I try to move it, it starts to become sticky.

It's like pulling me back.

And then once I started pushing, and it started getting bigger and bigger and bigger, it was like to this point.

Holy

crazy.

That's insane.

So what do you think that is?

Is that energy?

I guess that's energy.

That's within you.

But you need to know, again, how to manipulate it, how to control it.

So we all have the energy.

We have the power, but most people don't know.

Yeah, so humans used to be very spiritual.

Why do you think that has kind of, you know, basically gone out of existence?

I think it's not gone out of existence.

I think it's still there, but it's kind of like...

We have the power, but maybe, just maybe, I don't know.

I'm just guessing.

Maybe.

Certain people certain group understand how powerful as we have and we are and they want to hide that power and hide that secret to give you certain food so your your power gets lower why because it's easier to control you you know so i think i do believe the matrix you know and i do believe some form of matrix that we are in and i do believe we are powerful beyond our imagination but you have to first be awakened and seek it i'm having this guy named matthias de stefano on my show next month month.

Have you heard of him?

So he is able to remember all of his past lives.

Wow.

Yeah.

Do you believe in past life?

I do.

Cool.

So I actually did past life regression therapy.

Nice.

Okay, tell me about that.

So I wasn't spiritual enough, so it didn't work.

But basically, they put you under hypnosis, and then once you can visualize, you can see all your past lives.

Wow.

What did you see?

I wasn't spiritual enough, so I wasn't getting vivid images.

Interesting.

But I know people that have done it and have had success with it.

Do you believe in past lives?

You know, it's funny.

I was raised as a Christian, but I'm always open to what I experienced because I believe in God.

I believe in the universe.

I believe that, you know, God is not this religion thing.

My parents, the society told me.

I want a personal relationship with the Creator.

You know, so I, for me, I'm open to that concept.

Okay.

You know, and I, I have met certain, a couple people, which is very weird to me when I was in Bali and when I was in Hollywood.

Certain people told me I have a very interesting bloodline and very interesting background where I came from, which I don't know how, but I had multiple people told me, and some of them saw certain things behind me.

And I was like, I don't know.

You got to look into that, man.

Yeah, I don't know.

Wow.

Do you believe in like the afterlife, heaven and hell?

I don't know about heaven and hell, to be honest, but I do believe, I do believe we don't just vanish.

I do believe we go somewhere.

Your soul goes somewhere.

100%.

I do believe energy doesn't doesn't, it's not created.

It doesn't go away.

It just continues to maybe not a dimension or something yeah I don't know that I don't know I'm still a student alive I don't know do you believe in spirits and ghosts 100%

so my parents actually are evangelist they dedicated 40 years of their life to church so they never work one day in their life I used to live in Russia I lived in Moscow because after so many union collapsed my parents volunteered to go there to help people

and I have seen my dad and heard from my dad that he was literally

what's it called that like people get possessed and he was you know try to get people the the demon out

whoa and if you've been to taiwan which i that's where i was from bro i seen um certain people and and religion mostly buddhism i guess they have certain ceremony where people literally get possessed like possessed bro go taiwan you'll see certain people get possessed and they will climb

stairs of knives

and they will just climb like there's nothing.

And then you can tell it's not them anymore.

Their eyes, everything, they just

literally possess.

They will hit themselves with knives to show they're, you know, invisible.

But why?

Yeah, so I, this is the thing, bro.

Like, people say, if you don't believe God and you believe the ghost and the demon, that doesn't make sense, right?

Everything has a balance.

So if you believe in ghosts and demon, there's also the other side.

The angels, not the percent.

100%.

Dude, that was a great episode.

Where can people find out more about you?

Oh, just I mean, Instagram, probably.

I'm pretty active on Instagram at the moment.

I'm getting back on YouTube because I've been taking a wild break, just getting some personal development, spiritual development.

Sounds like you've got a lot of development.

I got a lot.

I got a lot to share, and I feel like

I can definitely help more people, you know.

And I think we're heading to a very dark time.

And I think

as men, we need to strengthen, you know, keep each other together and, you know, keep each other tight and hold each other accountable, but at the same time, like, you know, like push each other and stuff.

Because I think women are very natural to do that.

They talk, they share.

Men, you don't really talk to your bro like, oh, you know, like, yeah,

you know what I'm saying?

It's like, but, but, but that's also the thing.

Men suicide rate is way higher than women.

Right.

You know, and that's very sad.

You know, as men, we have so much burden in society, in family, that on our shoulder that sometimes we can't even talk about because we don't have that culture and i think we should as a man

to have that and to talk about it you know when you're down bring a brother up yeah i agree i started opening up uh past year or two yeah it was tough at first but 100 but when you do it's you know

that's how you be free yeah 100 you don't want you don't want to go to the grave with regrets yeah definitely you know i i i do you have any tattoos i don't do you i have one here is this two shell pass and i have one here is my my burn.

Right here is gift.

So it means give from my heart.

Oh, nice.

So I want to make sure when I die, I can be sure to see, you know, my past is like, I want to give, but from my heart.

And I think the true giving is from your heart.

You know, sometimes when you give, you subconsciously feel like this person owed me something, but that's not the true giving.

The true giving is you forget about it.

If I help you, if I do something, I want to forget about it because that's a true giving.

And the true giving is from, for example, your parents.

And then you love them so much, much, you're willing to die for your parents because they don't care.

They don't need anything from you because that's a true giving from the heart.

Right.

So they're giving without expectation.

100%.

I love that.

All right, guys.

You heard it here.

Josh Palerland, Sean Kelly, Digital Social Hour.

See you guys next week.

Yeah.