Twerking, OnlyFans, and the Music Industry: The Lexy Panterra Interview | Digital Social Hour #20
You're in for a treat with this latest episode, where we sit down with none other than Lexy Panterra, the singer, songwriter, dancer, entrepreneur, and daughter assistant whose twerkout class went viral and made her a household name.
We cover a lot of ground with Lexy, from her thoughts on cheating in relationships to her views on dating as a successful woman. She also opens up about her health struggles with Crohn's disease and how she's managing it, and the ups and downs of her music career, including her ultimate goal of winning a Grammy.
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All right, welcome to the Digital Social Hour.
I'm your host, Sean Kelly.
I'm here with my co-host, Charlie Cavalier, and our guest today, Lexi Pantera.
What's poppin'?
Not much.
I'm in Vegas.
You're in Vegas.
Yes,
Vegas.
I've been traveling so damn much, I don't know where I go anymore
Vegas is cool Vegas
like to live or to party is cool.
Okay.
You were just at Coachella, right?
Yeah.
How was it?
You know Frank Ocean just completely bombed the whole performance.
That's disappointing.
It is disappointing.
It was insane what the set was like and it lasted for like 30 minutes I think and I was just like Like this the whole time like what is going on?
But no, I don't think I'm going back to Coachella unless I'm performing.
I think I've had my share.
Like, I've been there like five, over five times or something.
It took me an hour to park.
I'm like, what is going on?
Like, I don't want all this dumb drama for no.
I agree.
I should be helicoptered in the festival.
Just parachute in, drop right in onto stage, perform, get ready to do it.
That's exactly
what I would like.
Yeah, it was fun.
That was cool.
It was a vibe.
I like to see familiar faces.
Okay.
What do you do for people that don't know you?
I'm a singer, songwriter, entrepreneur, dancer, sister.
Assistant?
Sister.
A daughter.
A sister or a sister.
You have done a lot of different things.
I mean, all the way back to the twerkout stuff, to everything.
What do you think for you was your big break in the beginning that at least started your ascension?
The twerkout class.
The twerkout class.
That was, that's when I started getting popular.
It just caught on really quickly.
So it was just like a viral moment.
Like a couple viral videos at the like one, one right after the other.
It just kept going and going.
And I took the opportunity.
I'm like, oh, let me build a brand and let me make money off of it.
Do you believe every girl should know what it's work?
Yeah.
Oh, sure.
What about the guys?
The guys not the guys are.
I don't think it's that important.
Yeah, guys don't.
I'm covering.
But speaking of guys, you said 85% of guys are cheaters.
The real question is why?
And also, what percentage of girls are cheaters?
If I was to put a random number on it, I would say girls are probably
40.
We're just making numbers like that right now.
40, 45%.
So half of men.
Less than half.
So 85% of men are cheaters.
Okay.
I'm like, as part of the 15%,
right?
How did we decide this?
Like, how did this come about?
Like, where is this coming from?
Because I'm not, I can't say you're wrong.
Okay.
you know what?
You've never held back before.
So what is it you just want to say right now?
I feel like maybe I misspoke when I said that, but I'm only speaking from,
I think I changed my mind.
Okay.
And what I'm saying is in the industry, 85% or more are cheaters.
Your normal average Joe?
Probably not, but also because there's really not that many options if you're in like a small town or like
you know, so that changes everything
so
That's what I would say fair, yeah.
When you say industry, what industry?
Um,
you know, this could go from
Okay, another thing, it could just be also maybe successful men are even more
likely to cheat.
So, it could be business, it could be Wall Street, it could be entertainment like music and movies.
And so, you think the more successful a man becomes the higher percentage likelihood they cheat yes yes interesting
I
would disagree with that I'm seeing from personal experience right so like I think that you're absolutely right the more opportunities that are presented to you right the more often it might happen how how many of your guys could you say that you know that are your friends that have not cheated
Look at the smile automatically
that smile
like you're one out of every guy I talk to that's my friend right they literally say I don't have one guy friend that has not cheated or that yeah, that has not cheated.
And I'm like, this is crazy.
You're right.
You know what?
She's not wrong.
I'm trying to
trouble thinking of that's so sad.
Sad.
And don't introduce me to none of your friends.
Don't worry.
Okay, so how many of your friends that are girls can you say have not all barely any cheat.
Barely any cheat.
Yeah, no.
Okay.
Interesting.
Girls just don't do that.
We're not the girls that do do that,
they've been doomed from the start.
Like, there's just something's wrong with you.
And, like, and like, not that something's wrong with you, but there's just doomed from the start.
And, like, something's really, really going on in that relationship that's like going to make that happen.
And I'm not saying it's right.
But for a guy, nothing can even be going wrong in the relationship.
And they're still cheating.
And it's like,
what's this going?
For what?
You know, and what's funny is, like, a guy will never break up with a girl.
Like, the girl's always usually the one to like break up with the guy, guys will stay in it for a minute, I think, and like just so do you think guys are willing to stick with the law
and like do what they're doing.
Could you be in an open relationship?
You know, I did.
Well, you know, I was stuck in, I was put in a situation where I was trying something new, and it was more open for him.
And he didn't want me to do anything, so I was
just called control, yeah.
And I'm like, well,
how am I supposed to do this?
and it was a really
i'm not gonna say toxic because he was never a liar it was never like shady like that but like i just couldn't handle it and i didn't know how to handle it and i wasn't mentally where i am now maybe more so now just because of certain things in my mind but like it was hard for me to to deal with that yeah
it's not easy especially when it's not on my end i'm like well then i can't be distracted and i'm only worried about what you're doing and who you're with like it's not fair yeah i don't think i could do it it's a hard that's a hard thing First of all, I can barely ever do that.
That's why.
We suck at multitasking, right?
Like, I got enough shit going on.
I don't need to worry about it.
You guys can have multiple girls and talk to multiple girls.
Not saying girlfriends, but like, guys talk to multiple girls.
Multiple girls at the same time.
It isn't too time-consuming.
By the way, I thought of a friend that hasn't cheated and wouldn't cheat.
My friend Sean.
Five and a half years.
Yep.
Are you in a relationship right now?
Five and a half years.
Yeah.
So as a successful woman, as you know, you're doing a bunch of stuff, what is the hardest thing for you when it comes to dating?
Everything.
Just all the same normal stuff.
There's nothing that your success or your fame brings extra to the table that makes it more difficult.
It makes it more difficult that I have money.
Why is that?
Do you think guys get insecure?
Absolutely.
That's the first thing they do is get insecure.
And then they're like, okay, well, she has everything.
Like, what am I going to offer her?
So then they feel even more.
demas what is it demasculate uh yeah they just feel less of a man because they're like oh i can't can't provide for her.
Oh, what am I going to do?
She does everything for herself.
They don't feel needed.
That's when they start to go cheat on you as well.
Because then they go to like people that are lower than you in whatever aspect
because they make them feel like they're gods.
And they're like, oh, like, you know, give me this.
Oh, my God, you have this or whatever.
So
I did read a lot of successful females have trouble dating.
Really?
And I'm very highly independent, like, independent, hyper-independent person.
So I have a hard time asking men for like money or things, or I need your help because I don't really need you.
And so, it's like, well, how do you make a man feel really needed if you don't need them?
And that's why I love love.
Like, I'm a very big lover.
I love affection, and I'll be there for the person, like, all these other things that don't have to do with, like, I don't necessarily need you to do things for me.
But that's what a guy is like
thriving in in his masculinity.
It's like,
I can provide and do for you, you know?
So, I'm trying to find my vulnerable, okay, like, how can I step back and let him do for me?
I don't really know what that's like or how that feels or what that even means.
So I'm trying to learn and see what that is.
Interesting.
You have two songs going very viral on TikTok right now.
You have both a male and female crowd that is absolutely falling in love with your stuff across all platforms.
To you, is social media a good thing or a bad thing for your career?
Do you enjoy doing it or do you find it toxic with all the stuff you have?
I don't think, honestly, I don't think social media is toxic at all.
Really?
So you don't find yourself scrolling.
You're not stuck in the echo chamber.
No.
Okay.
And I've learned how to meditate the past couple months.
So I've been in a very good space mentally, physically, emotionally.
And when I feel like something's like my energy is shifting and like, oh, I'm doing too much, I'll just get off of it.
It's not, yeah, it's not a big deal for me.
Okay.
Hate comments, I don't care about.
I've been in it so long, I don't really give a damn anymore but i like to comfort people for sure
like comebacks online are hilarious i'll go for your life and you go hard on twitter you go very hard on twitter i'm always on twitter
like how hard to like i love twitter i am literally scared to like the tweets sometimes i'll be like i don't think i want my name like
attached to it yeah
it goes up
the more fuck you do on twitter the more popular you get it's hilarious
it's hilarious so you're the most followed only fans creator Actually, I think there's like two girls right now that are like hitting me.
Okay.
But you're top one or whatever it is.
How has getting into OnlyFans affected your personal life with family, with dating?
I don't think it's changed anything with dating.
Okay.
Thankfully.
No one's really cared about
it.
Family, eh.
Me and my dad kind of got into a little thing, but honestly, I think he's just projecting because he knows I've been on the platform for a couple of years now.
We got into a whole thing.
So me and him are on a little turns right now, but it's been totally fine.
It's helped my family, if anything.
I mean, I help pay for my family stuff.
So
it's benefited all of us.
Okay.
Yeah.
What has been the hardest part about your ascension, fame, money, anything, if anything to do with your personal life?
Like maybe the dating right hard to find guys that are secure enough to hang out with or whatever well even being kind of
the center of the attention of the family.
Right.
I feel like I'm like, I try to go home and I'm like trying to be normal and it doesn't necessarily work that way.
I don't know really how to explain it.
Not like they're all like, ah, but it's just a lot of attention on me.
Like
even when I'm home sometimes.
So that kind of gets a little weird, but.
So what does a normal day of relaxing look like for Lexi Pantera?
Like, are you by yourself?
Are you playing video games?
Are you playing with the dog?
Like, if you can escape from everything.
Right now, I'm just, yeah, I like
spending a lot of time
at midnight.
Nightmare?
Nightmare.
My dog nightmare.
Love hanging out with him.
He's my best friend.
The most loyal man in my life.
Yeah, I just, I honestly, like, I've been getting, like I said, the meditating.
So like, I'm learning about chakras right now.
So like, I'd like to just be home, eating some good food, focusing on my health because I like Crohn's disease.
So I'm focusing on eating, like cooking at home.
I've really been liking just really homey shit, homey stuff like
chilling just chilling soaking in the sun going outside because i live in miami it's the best so i like to soak in the sun and relax and listen to music read books okay um
yeah nice stuff like that pretty wholesome stuff very wholesome very wholesome stuff normal stuff
yeah tv shows here and there kind of jump in and out of some sometimes what's your go-to show
i i literally just started or i finished watching bridgerton which is older.
But like, oh my god, it's so good.
I haven't seen that one.
I haven't seen that one, but I've heard good things about it.
This is a very, like,
I would not have guessed that for you.
Me either, but like, the thing is, in the beginning, it got me because it was all about courting women.
And it's like the old days where it's like, the men were like.
The women were created to be married and the men were created to like show off to the, you know, and find the best woman.
It's just very different now.
And I'm like, whoa, like
they were just fully taken care of the women they were
the guys are fighting over the women even in public like it's just it's so different now so that's what really got me going I'm like oh I like this let's go back to that what do you think of this masculinity movement on I'm like I have a band on what's this from you the hospital recently clearly I was out loud
or something I'm like what I don't remember My life goes too fast for me.
It was something last night.
But yeah, what do you think of this movement on social media with guys like Sneeko, Fresh and Fit?
Um, you know, I definitely hate that it's a hating on women-focused podcasts, which I like to go on because the clout, but it's funny just because, like, they're not necessarily like this in person as much as they try to be online.
So, I'm like, okay, like it's like alter egos almost.
Um,
I just don't get, I don't get it.
No, it's like, what's the point of the podcasts?
like just to bash women like I don't know It's really weird.
Do you think because it's weird right because there's definitely a very much of a debate on social media right now, right?
There's like there's all the there's the tate guys, you know, screaming about how horrible, you know, OnlyFan stuff is or certain girls or girls nowadays, right?
Or as the whatever guy says, right, hoeflation with all the nonsense going on with all that stuff.
All the terms that they keep coming up with, too.
Like they like say random things on the podcast.
I'm like, what are you saying?
To me, I genuinely think it's coming from guys insecurity about women making more money than they might be able to.
A lot of the haters I see on some of the content creators things are from guys, you know, sitting in their mom's basement complaining about whatever, whatever, whatever.
Where do you if you want to learn how to get a girl, honey?
You ask us, don't ask Andrew Tate.
So, here's the question: then, what is your advice to guys who want to date successful women?
I would just say be secure in yourself.
Like,
and fun, yeah, I got to be funny.
That's number one.
I just, you got to be secure in yourself.
Like, I don't care how broke you are.
Honestly, I don't give a damn.
If we're connecting, if we have the chemistry, if you're, if you're walking head tall, you know, shoulders back, like you're a fucking man,
you're going to notice that.
We're going to feel that.
Like, it.
And money doesn't have to be protection either.
So it's like, it's not all about the success, the money.
Yeah.
So just, that's my advice.
And I'll vouch for that because you dated someone I know who who didn't have money yeah I've dated multiple guys I've mostly helped my boyfriends and before OnlyFans it's it's been like that so and then I've dated successful people they're both terrible whoa they're both guys with terrible mouth
so is Lexi Pantara gonna get married and settle down one day I want to yeah okay so you want kids yeah I want kids okay I'll have kids you know in a couple years yeah that's my goal my hope my hopes my dreams one day but I'm so focused on the music.
I'm going on tour.
Like, I have a lot going on right now, but I do want kids.
My family definitely wants me to have kids.
Charlie knows.
I've known Charlie for a long time.
Yep.
Family friend here.
And they all want me to have a baby 10 years ago.
And whether honestly it's with someone that I'm married with or love, like
we'll see.
And I don't really, it doesn't really matter to me.
But I do want to have a child with somebody that I can trust.
Whether that's a partner or a friend or or whatever.
You know, marriage.
Yes.
I'm like a yes and no.
I don't know.
But it's a long commitment.
It's a weird, it's a weird thing as I get older.
I'm just kind of like, well, what's the point of it?
But like, oh, I want the wedding dress.
Like, I want to do the do.
Well, now you got assets, so a marriage would be.
Make sure you get a prenup, Lexi, whoever, whoever's out there.
We're going to make sure Lexi has a prenup.
Prenups until
children.
Right.
Because if I have children, we're definitely sharing some things.
Okay.
Because you have to give up a lot.
I'm taking some of his.
I'll tell you that.
There you go.
Because you give up too much when you have children.
So you've had
a very successful career in the music industry.
It has been a bit of a roller coaster, I would say, like for a lot of people from different genres, working with different people.
What has been the highest and lowest point for you in music specifically?
You know, it's just a bunch of highs and lows because like one day you're like, oh my God, I booked a tour.
The next day you're like, damn, that person said no.
Oh, you did this!
Like, damn, so you're just like, up and down,
up and down.
Like, that's the freaking business.
And
you live on those highs, you know.
And then when it's low, you're like, I give up, like, I quit.
No one fucking likes me.
I might as well stop.
I suck.
And there's so many artists around me right now that are independent, that are so talented.
And it's like, it's just not promised.
You got to do it because you love it.
And that's why we're doing it.
So
it's a complicated business to be in emotionally.
It's really hard,
you know?
And so, yeah, it's just really up and down.
Yeah, I feel like not a lot of artists last long either.
No.
And it's like, well, what do you do after too?
You know, it's like, well, what, what's next if I'm not doing music?
Like, this is the only thing I really wanted to do.
Yeah.
And like I say, it's not like being a doctor.
There's no right way.
Like, you can't be like, oh, here's your path on how to be a singer.
Like, no way.
You're learning as you go.
People are telling you right things, wrong things.
Like, you're going this way.
You're supposed to go that way.
It's just like there is no right way or timeline or anything.
So you're just going with the freaking flow of it.
And because you like to do it, that makes sense.
That's the only way.
So if there was something you could change about all of this culture around the hate on OnlyFans creators right now, who would you tell to fuck off and why?
Right?
Who is there's only two haters
in the OnlyFans community?
Which are
a group.
They're groups.
It's not just two people.
A lot of you.
The girls who can't do it,
whatever that means,
don't want to because a family can't because whatever.
They hate on girls that have it.
And then men, because men are mad that they can't do it.
So it's like, there's your group.
Other than that, I feel like everyone doesn't really care.
I agree.
Unless you're super religious, maybe, you know, that's fine.
That makes sense.
Other than that, yeah, I mean, guys, guys are a really big part of that.
They're just mad because, you know, instead, they have to sell drugs to do the equivalent of what an OnlyFans would be.
You know, I always say, like, rappers and shit, like, they get they get away with selling drugs and, and doing that whole thing, but a god forbid a girl has OnlyFans.
Suddenly, it's like a bad thing.
And I've experienced this personally in my, in my industry, the singing industry, like, I've had opportunities taken away from me because I'm an OnlyFans artist.
And I'm like, okay, but you support these people, murderers, people who have shot people, people who are still drug dealing and drug dealers and known known for all these things.
You guys can put them on radio.
You guys can do this, blah, blah, blah.
But God forbid, I have an OnlyFans.
Like that's psycho.
Yeah.
Do you think women should care about their body counts?
I don't, I mean, we do because it's, I think, just so badly shunned on.
It is.
And it's good for men to have high body counts, right?
But for women, it's a different country.
Like, that's wild.
It's not critical.
Yeah.
That's not fair, but that's why women don't like to talk about it.
I would never talk about my body count.
I think a lot of it comes from insecurity.
I think there comes from, like you just said, like a place of judgment where guys just want to feel overly masculine.
Yeah.
The amount of girls you get, that's a woo.
What is the worst experience you've had with telling someone that you do only paint in some capacity, whether it's family, friends?
No, recently it was a really big deal in the business.
I was.
cussing out in the air for three days straight.
I was getting on the phone.
I was going crazy because I had an opportunity to do some radio stuff
and they and they took the guy was interested in my music liked my music blah blah my team was talking to them i never talked to them and then he took his he took me to his team which were a bunch of females and the females were like oh no we don't want to work with the girls that have only fans and i'm like
Like you guys don't even know me.
You don't know what I've done who like they don't know anything about me or music or anything So it's like if you guys knew what I was doing and how I was the first music video or the person to put a music video on OnlyFans, and I just changed the fucking game, period, and brought all these girls on OnlyFans.
And so, and it's for other reasons, like BTS and music videos, and all these things that we created, they don't look at that, they don't care, they just think it's a sexual platform, and you're just done.
And so that I was,
it took away an opportunity for me, and I was just beyond mad.
So Graham doesn't even pay.
Graham don't pay.
So I had to leave.
I'm still on there.
So you don't do any sexual stuff on your OnlyFans?
Not sexual.
I mean, I don't have nudes and I don't do porn and I don't touch myself.
Wow.
Yeah.
I feel like a lot of girls do though, right?
Yeah.
A lot of girls do do that shit and they make a lot of money.
This is a common conversation we've had before.
Like, I've never been on OnlyFans in my entire life.
Yeah.
You loved making fun of me because you were like, you know, showing me analytics one day.
And I'm like, Lexi, I don't, I don't want to go on OnlyFans.
I don't need to go on OnlyFans.
I don't need you to go on my OnlyFans either.
Exactly.
And so I feel like, what is the weirdest awkward thing that you've had to deal with in the music industry because of OnlyFans?
Obviously, the situation you just oh, well, there was a
there's a
big show
that has a really big artist on it that hosts a show, like a talk show.
And my PR comes to me and they're like, oh, like one of the producers is like a big fan of yours.
And he's on OnlyFans or something.
And I was like, oh, God.
Like, it's just awkward at that point.
It's like, oh, good to know.
Like, that, yeah, it comes because you're vulnerable on OnlyFans, but you don't really have to deal with it in person necessarily.
You don't really, it doesn't affect my life until things like that little thing come up.
And I'm like, cool.
So, how many followers do you have on there?
Like, 620,000.
There's that many people on there.
There's millions.
Wow.
Yeah, I've never been there.
There's a lot of people on OnlyFans.
That's crazy.
So, what does the end of your career look like?
Right?
Is there like, is there a life?
Look it all up, up, get married to a rich man.
Is it like a musical award?
Is there a dollar amount?
Like, what is the point at which you do decide, I'm going to stop going a million miles an hour.
I want to settle down
for me.
I think
music-wise,
Grammy, oh,
and in like about four years, it's done.
Okay.
I have a good couple more years left in me.
Unless, you know, something starts exploding and I'll go until I can't go anymore.
But like,
yeah.
And I mean, I don't really give a shit about the Grammys, the award shows.
Like, it doesn't mean anything.
So I really, it'll be very flattering.
I'll be crying on stage, I'm sure.
But like.
Now when I think about it, I don't really care.
It's not a big deal for me.
Like, someone's telling me that, like, yeah, I'm good.
Like, bitch, I know I'm good.
Like,
so, but,
for me personally, it's sold out tours, shows, like, the fans that are in the audience, that's what matters.
And, like, them singing my records and them making videos on TikTok to my song using my song.
Like,
the fact that there's 60,000 people on a bad bitch right now using my song is insane.
And I always think numbers.
I'm like, oh, 60,000 views.
Like, that's whatever for me.
But no, this is, these are people using your song into a video clicking 60,000 people.
And I'm like, that's a lot.
It took me like two days to like process.
Like, what does that really mean?
Like, oh, it's not views.
It's like real.
Yeah.
It's real shit.
It's a lot of videos.
And that's two songs right now at the same time.
I don't understand how they're doing.
You got no label pushing this?
No, I'm independent.
Wow.
That's impressive.
Lex loot their records.
I remember a few years ago.
I mean, it seems like a few years ago.
Now, we were talking about how you were putting out music videos on OnlyFans.
You didn't have a record label backing you.
How broke is the music industry where someone like you had to do all this work to get your name out there but there's record labels that are just suppressing other musical talent like yourself if you didn't have the money to do it yourself there's no way i would do it there's no way it would have happened so so that's the crazy part is just like an independent artist like
you are if you don't have money you're not
It's like more than impossible then at that point because you can't do, you can't pay producers, you can't pay your engineer, you can't pay studio time, you can't do music videos, you can't do wardrobe, wardrobe hair, makeup.
Like it is crazy the amount that you spend on these things.
And, you know, labels, they pay for it all, but you eventually pay for it all.
And there's artists that are on, that I know, that are on labels that had to join OnlyFans.
And I'm like, how are you?
And this is where my shift came in.
I was like, whoa, I'm absolutely doing everything correctly because the fact that you, who I know, you're way bigger than me in the music business, I look up to you almost.
You just joined OnlyFans and you're with a major label and you have a lot of streams on Spotify, a lot of followers on Spotify.
You're going and performing it, rolling loud, like all these things that I want.
Yeah.
And they're over here joining OnlyFans because they're like, yeah, well, my label doesn't pay for everything.
So I got to like put in money for this.
This is, I'm like,
I'm obviously doing everything correct.
Yeah.
At that point, I was like,
I'm on top.
Like, I'm doing it.
You don't have to answer anyone either.
Hell no.
And I make any type of music, any type of videos, anything I want to do.
I feel that.
I've got.
Like I said, it costs a lot of money a lot of money i've got a wild question coming your way okay have you ever been arrested i have been arrested
really like it's weird that i say that because i never thought that this would ever happen um in january i got arrested in front of club 11 in miami you were drunk i was a little tipsy okay and a little bold
you were probably i don't drink a lot you're probably a little tipsy and very bold i was i'm always bold so that was on high high but i was a little tipsy which is because i don't drink.
Yes, I definitely was drinking a little that night because I had hosted at Swan.
So I went to Swan, hosted a night for Bad Bitch, I think.
Went to 11 and like some shit went down with my brother because he wasn't allowed in, obviously, because he was underage.
But the whole thing, his phone died, he couldn't get a taxi.
He was asking people for help.
No one would help him.
This is my little brother.
So I come out of the club because I notice my text messages are going in green.
I'm like, shit, like he's not going to be able to get home.
Blah, blah, blah.
I come out.
He's like almost crying, sad.
He's been out there for 45 minutes.
He's like, no one's helping me.
I was like,
like, no one's helping you.
Like, what do you mean?
So I go cuss everyone out in front of the club.
All the security guards.
I'm like, how fucking dare you not help?
How dare you?
He's like, I asked him.
I asked him.
I literally just cussed everybody out at that point.
Then I walked away.
The police were watching me.
I walked away.
I was trying to catch an Uber.
I was like, going on Uber.
I was in the street.
Not a lot of cars were around.
It's like four in the morning almost.
The cop's like, get out of the the street get out of the street i'm like uh no whatever so basically they end up tackling us whoa my brother ends up on the ground my shoes fly off i'm on live stream
and it goes like it goes
i'm like what and i'm like screaming at my brother because i'm like he's half black I know that people don't play about race.
This shit is serious.
I was like, don't fucking speak.
Don't talk.
Do what he says.
Cause he was trying to like fight, do other, I was like screaming at the top of my lungs to him while I was literally getting arrested.
But what's really funny is, so
when we left, I spent 24 hours in jail.
By the way, the worst thing is how fucking freezing it is in there.
They freeze you out.
Yep.
Freeze you.
That's the worst thing.
I could spend.
I could spend weeks in jail.
I was not carrying the fact that like you're in flip-flops with no socks, you're in paper-thin outfits, like it was freezing.
That's the worst thing.
But other than that, so they were dropping us off eventually.
It was like three in the morning the next night, because it was like a whole 24 hours.
They're like, we're going to drop you off where like basically you like,
oh, it was a police station.
It was a police station.
My car was at 11, or my car was somewhere.
And so I was like, okay, they're going to drop us off like at a police station in the middle of fucking three in the morning in Miami, me and my brother.
I was like, cool, like, this sucks.
On way to get dropped off, they start figuring out who I am, right?
So they're like, oh, you like that, oh, you're you sing, you do this.
I was like, yeah, I just released a song.
They're like, oh, bad bitch.
I was like, yeah, that's why I got arrested at the party.
Like, they're like, oh, so, like, this big, huge police van situation where we're cuffed in the back, like this, me and my brother over there.
And I can hear Bad Bitch playing
in the front of the freaking car.
So they're listening to Bad Bitch.
Wow.
That's wild.
i feel like that added to the screen
no
way
not meet in the back of a cop car while the cops are listening to bad bitch right now waste i'm like i'm a bad bitch period what did you get charged with it's still going so i can't talk about it okay i can talk about those things that's unfortunate it was ridiculous is what it was pretty much jaywalking at this point
so I'm trying to convince Sean to move to Miami.
Can you please help me?
What are your...
Why don't you want to move to why it's humidity?
Why does every man say the same?
Well,
don't love us all together.
Every man I ask or talk to says the same thing.
Crime.
That's the first thing.
Crime.
She's the crime.
We just established that.
Yeah, I know, for real.
Oh, crime?
Yeah, right.
Los Angeles and stuff is doing way worse than Miami.
That's true.
I feel like everyone...
Miami, I've never even came across any weird, like scammers.
You're hanging out with the wrong people.
I've lived there now.
This is going on the second year.
I haven't dealt with any weird anything.
Okay.
It's so, it's like the beach is there.
There's Wynwood.
There's outside areas.
Like events are outside.
Like it's just like, it's so cool.
I feel like everything in Los Angeles is inside, indoors.
And I don't feel like us as humans, we belong indoors that much, right?
So I feel like there's just so much art outside.
The party scene is just.
Awesome.
Like any type of party scene you want to join into, it's there.
I'm not a big partier, but like when I do step out, it's fun and there's options.
You know, there's things to do.
I feel that.
We're too much.
We smoke every five seconds.
You want to go on a yacht in two seconds?
You go on a yacht.
Yeah, let's do it.
Well, we don't party.
Yeah, so you're like, no, yacht is for chilling.
I'll give you a can.
We both gave up alcohol.
Beautiful women.
Good job, guys, together.
The woman would be for you, but.
I cheated.
I had a beer that night in LA.
Other than that, you know.
Other than that, yeah.
My Cross disease won't let me drink.
I can't drink.
I don't even really like drinking.
It's never been my thing.
I feel that.
Can we establish here and now that all the greatest things come from Sacramento, California?
Like what?
Well, like Lexi and I.
People-wise, I'll give you that.
There we go.
So we win, right?
Come, Sacramento Kings.
That's right.
Go kick the Kings.
Oh, my God, we're in the playoffs.
It's been a million years.
We were juniors in high school the last time the Kings were in the playoffs.
That's nuts.
So shout out to the Kentucky players that now play for the Kings, De'Aaron Fox and Malik Monk.
It is a thousand percent.
They're killing it.
Let's
carry the team.
Yeah, Malik's had a good year.
Yep, very good year.
Sean's been giving me shit about the Lakers.
And so
I say fuck L.A.
whenever I get the chance.
Lakers will beat the Kings this year.
Definitely not going to happen.
Nah, Kings are winning playoffs.
I agree.
A thousand percent.
Name three Kings players.
Malik and Fox.
There we go.
And the third.
It's a bonus.
It's a bonus.
Is that his Sabonis or something?
Yeah, I know his name.
Okay.
Exactly.
All right, we'll end it on that, Lexi.
Where can people find you?
Lexi Pantera everywhere, baby.
Give me.
All right, digital social hour.
I'll see you guys next week.