Raise Your Hand If You Threw Up This Weekend

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Speaker 3 Everyone say I if you threw up this weekend. I

Speaker 3 she also went into this dinner being like, Mama needs a drink. Mama needs a stiff one.
We space it out. Boom, boom, boom.
A baby Guinness. This is not going well for me.

Speaker 3 I'm blasting the songs from Dancing with the Stars. I'm doing a jive.
There's a video of it. I'm like, it's in your blood.
I wake up to sounds from the bathroom.

Speaker 3 Just say there's a bowl that we've thrown out.

Speaker 3 Come on in. Welcome back to House of Mar, a wave original presented by the new Samsung Galaxy S25 Ultra.

Speaker 3 This is one of your hosts, Adriana Marr, humanitarian, classic little sister, and hair that sometimes I'm not sure if it's a ginger or like a strawberry blonde or

Speaker 3 dare I say a dirty blonde, but she hates when I say that. See, then she hates.
She hates that.

Speaker 3 It's not up for interpretation. Meanwhile,

Speaker 3 Immediately mad. And this is your host, Ilona Maher, Olympic bronze medalist, and she's in a mood.
It's true. It's true.
And this is your host, Olivia Maher, girl dinner founder.

Speaker 3 And she decided to move out of New York City the day before I moved. Rude.
Good one. Yeah.
I haven't forgotten. But then I got all of her pots and pans.

Speaker 3 Yes, a bunch of stuff was just passed on to her that I didn't want to deal with moving across the country. So enjoy.
Thank you. The same pots and pans mom bought me.
Wow. I'm just passing them down.

Speaker 3 Yeah.

Speaker 3 Just like our old school uniforms. Heirloom.
Right. You got our uniforms after they like had holes in them.
Yeah, through you, through you to me. A real Weasley family situation.
Hand-me-down robes.

Speaker 3 Like that's what she got. Sorry about that.
Red hair. Hand-me-down clothes.
Fits your hair. Perfect.
Thank you. Is it red, though?

Speaker 3 Right.

Speaker 3 I've always said dirty blonde and she kicks off. I love it.
I love getting her angry when you're going to say dirty blonde. Look at her.
Look at that. Look at the fire rising in her face.

Speaker 3 Everyone's going to be like, she's not, she doesn't have red hair. I'm sexually a brunette.
They're actually, yeah, everyone's going to say that. I'm ready for it.
I can fight.

Speaker 3 She's like, guys, if you just up the saturation. Thank you so much.
Olivia's everyone. She'll edit my photos for me.

Speaker 3 She'll edit my photos for me and she's like, want me to bump your hair? And I'm like, yeah. I'll bump the orange in her hair for her a little bit.
I love that. Yeah.
Just like women supporting women.

Speaker 3 Absolutely. You know, Adriana is someone who is very easy to irritate.
She is quick to be irritated. We know how to push the right buttons.
And it's like, I think a classic little stuff.

Speaker 3 Olivia knows best of all.

Speaker 3 You specialize in it, actually. I do.
I actually got a degree. That was my minor.

Speaker 3 And yeah, but it's fun because you just, you can wind her up. Oh, it's the best.
So easily. Just like picking out outfits to sit here and do this.
I was like, she's on the edge.

Speaker 3 I could, I could just like push, but we all need to be pushing. It wouldn't have been good.
It wouldn't have been good. We would not have gotten through an episode.
One of us can be in a mood today.

Speaker 3 Yeah, Adriana. And it's me.
Well, with Adrana, we know the one thing that can really wind her up is if we pretend to be her when she is wound up.

Speaker 3 That'll get that. She's...

Speaker 3 She's like trying on shoes, and I was like, I think.

Speaker 3 Oh, collapse.

Speaker 3 I don't know how to process and I don't want to be mean. So I just, I don't function right.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're like dad in that way, though.

Speaker 3 We were comparing you to dad because dad, he'll be in the kitchen and like drop a, drop something and break a thing. And in the kitchen, we just hear, fuck, fuck,

Speaker 3 and then my mom's like, Michael, are you all right? And he's like, no, I'm fine. I'm right.

Speaker 3 And that's what you're going to got that same exact thing from. She's like short-circuiting.
Like, yes.

Speaker 3 She's like, don't attack me. Don't attack me.
Don't.

Speaker 3 So, how angry are you right now? Like, scale of one.

Speaker 3 How old did that work for you? I know, I'm really, I'm really chilling about it. She's really chill about it, right? Yeah, I know.
Right. You don't have to.
I'm fine with you airing out my business.

Speaker 3 Like, right. She's mature.
Like, it's okay.

Speaker 3 Getting, getting older, getting wiser, growing out of that.

Speaker 3 Like, that's really rare these days. I do that.
Yeah. Well, but on the flip side, I do feel bad, but I said, Alona's in a mood.
Yeah. I've been in a mood all week.

Speaker 3 I've been like tired, but like not tired, like physically.

Speaker 3 And then like overwhelmed, but not overwhelmed because like I'm so grateful for everything that's happening, but so much is happening at times.

Speaker 3 And I have so much to look forward to, which is like so weird to feel like tired about but then I just get so like

Speaker 3 in it I'm classic for these moods but I just get in them where I just don't want to talk to anybody I get very quiet I get very much so like

Speaker 3 with withdrawn is the word and um

Speaker 3 almost like a little not not depressive in a way but just like to myself and there's no way I can get out of it like it's it's actually annoys me because I can't get out of these moods whereas Olivia like and in agenda but i noticed more olivia olivia holds so much on her plate and i think that she at times like isn't doesn't allow herself to feel those moods whereas i'm like they've given me the space to feel the moods maybe because of who i am maybe because of like the fame i've i've built but they like let me like all alone is in moods let her like do her mood but these two don't allow themselves to be in moods as much which i think is interesting i was just calling mom like mom i feel so dumb like why do i why why am i like this why can't i get out of this i I know I'm in this mood yet.

Speaker 3 I can't get myself out of it. But I feel like at times you guys, or especially Olivia, just because she carries so much on her plate, you don't let yourself be that way.

Speaker 3 I definitely like, if I'm feeling that, I then overcompensate and I go the opposite direction and I act like everything's okay and I'm fine and I'm happy.

Speaker 3 And I'm like, I know that that's also not necessarily a healthy approach to it, but it does, I guess it does help me and I get through, but then I do crash eventually and I will hit like a low and I need to just be with myself.

Speaker 3 It catches up. It does catch up to you.
Yeah. But I do do that.
But I think even you reaching out to mom was big. And that's an acknowledgement of it.
And that is taking a step to get out of it. Yeah.

Speaker 3 And I think that's, I think you should be proud of that. That's big.
Thank you. She wasn't answering my FaceTimes on Wednesday and Thursday, mom.
Mom.

Speaker 3 Well, she did an hour later, but I didn't pick up my phone.

Speaker 3 But she heard I came to this, the thing too, also of like, what's important for me is like physical activity and doing something. And I,

Speaker 3 even in 15s, I haven't been at running as much. And now my schedule schedule has been so busy, I haven't even been able to get to the gym and move my body.

Speaker 3 And being a professional athlete, like, to me, I'm a professional athlete first. I'm an athlete first.
And so when I don't get to do that, I feel almost like I'm losing my fitness.

Speaker 3 Like, I need to be, I want to be fit. I want to feel good.
I, but I don't have time to. It's like, I haven't had time to this week.

Speaker 3 And my mom was like, what you need to do is have your manager, aka Olivia, block out a time for you where you can just go run, where you can go work out or something like that.

Speaker 3 And like, she was so right about that to know me in that way.

Speaker 3 And I think there's like, I think it's just, I have to start knowing myself and learning what I need to do, I guess, because like we know that you know that. Oh, just go on the run.

Speaker 3 But you took a run yesterday. We went for a big sister walk and we got back, and she had on like a slightly different workout outfit from what we went on the walk on.
And I was like, what's up?

Speaker 3 She's like, I'm going to run. I was like, okay.

Speaker 3 Like an hour before we're supposed to go to dinner. Yeah.

Speaker 3 I was like, you get that in. You wrong.
You do that. But that's the thing.
It's like, I know what I need to do. I think I need to be braver or be more for myself to do those things.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 And it's, it reflects or makes you guys. It's also not fun for you guys.
And it's not nice to you guys for me to be acting in that way now that we, you know, we spend much more time together.

Speaker 3 And you almost, I dare say you're almost give me too much of the space, like where you're like, let me be this way. And that's so welcoming, but I think it's something I got to figure out.

Speaker 3 I mean, it's a delicate balance. The moods come, but it's like.
were your sisters, we're going to support you.

Speaker 3 And it's not like they're frequent enough where it's like, it's days where we're just like, fuck. No, it's just like a few hours you need.
And that's what you need.

Speaker 3 Every right to feel the way you're feeling. But isn't it so? And I know we're talking about me today, but obviously.

Speaker 3 I love to have my favorite. This is my favorite topic.
Lona. Favorite topic.
These girls. So interesting because we have so much to be grateful for and thankful for.
And we're doing so much.

Speaker 3 We're just doing this podcast. And I have opportunities with this.
And I have all sorts of stuff going on. It's like.
I don't feel overwhelmed at times, but I do think I get ahead of myself.

Speaker 3 I'm like, oh, all this is happening right now. You don't feel overwhelmed, but your body and brain is tired, dude.
Tired in a way. We've gone over it.

Speaker 3 you haven't had a break and it's something that i think about a lot it's like oh okay alona when we get back to when we get back to the states we'll be able to chill for two seconds like no she doesn't she's got to get right back into x y and z and oh my gosh like when is there time for just alona to heal and focus on you and our main joke is that we keep seeing a destination we want to like vacation to

Speaker 3 and the schedule is so busy that there's just no room for it but we're we're like

Speaker 3 Fall 2026 is going to be a movie. Like it's going to be crazy.
And we keep moving that date back. 2027.
Oh,

Speaker 3 it's going to be crazy. It's going to be crazy.
It's going to be crazy. I also want to find time to be able to, you know, find, tuck that in there, but it is a World Cup year.
Yeah. So it is busy.

Speaker 3 Normally, if it's, there's a lot going on and I need to focus in. It's actually like elevates my way of.
working and doing things. I kind of hone in and I see things more clearly.
Oh, good for you.

Speaker 3 Under like more stress and kind of duress a little bit.

Speaker 3 Pressure makes diamonds and all that. Which you get overwhelmed not just for yourself, but for me.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 And for Adriana, for our parents, you take everything on. Classic bake taster and are very much so

Speaker 3 everybody. Yeah.
You're taking on the thing of everybody. Make sure everybody's happy, healthy, feeling good.
I do notice that I write about you guys a lot in my journal.

Speaker 3 It's like day 29 status.

Speaker 3 Alone in a mood again. Alone in a mood.
Adriana talking to herself, angry in the corner. Like, no, but it's like, I do.
I do people ask me like, well, when's time for you?

Speaker 3 I'm like, but I'm doing cool stuff and I like what I do and it's exciting. We go to cool places.
But I do, I kind of, when things get crazier, there's a lot to organize.

Speaker 3 I feel like I almost like level up and I like hone in. Whereas if there's stuff that's kind of not mundane to do, but like the easier stuff, then I'm kind of more relaxed about it.

Speaker 3 But like I say, I do then work myself into these kind of places where I do need to, my body just shuts down and I need to be alone and like horizontal in bed, like bed rotting kind of thing.

Speaker 3 We all got back to your guys's flat the other day and Alona, you were in the kitchen and Olivia was in the room and I was going to go lay in the bed too.

Speaker 3 And I sensed an energy and I was like, I saw the energy thing.

Speaker 3 You need me to go away? She's like, Yeah. And I was like, Alona's in the kitchen, and she also needs her space.

Speaker 3 I'll lay on Alona's floor. It's like a video game, which room to choose.

Speaker 3 Turns in live. Race energy, criminal monster.

Speaker 3 With the death garret, raging bitch in the right.

Speaker 3 Moody.

Speaker 3 Moody weirdo. Yeah.

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Speaker 3 If you want to go into tea time right now, and I want to talk about our night recently. Trigger warning.
Trigger warning. There will be talk of vomiting.

Speaker 3 But let's everyone say I if you threw up this weekend. Aye.

Speaker 3 Okay.

Speaker 3 So that was a crazy time.

Speaker 3 We don't throw up often either. We metabolize alcohol very well.
We're big girls. We metabolize alcohol well.
And we're smart about it. And we're smart.

Speaker 3 We don't drink often in college my friends would get mad at me they're like liv you don't get like messed up like you don't get messed up with us i'm like i don't like getting messed up like i don't like i just i respectfully mad at like tipsy like yeah you know but we had a we had a fun i went to dinner i had a negroni spogliato i know it's embarrassing to order because after the tick tock thing but it's really delicious you started out with what dirty martini dirty martini i did an apparel spritz apparel spritz and then from there i had another negroni because i was i was chugging it you ordered your next drink before everyone was in the middle of the day.

Speaker 3 And my next drink wasn't even done. And I was like,

Speaker 3 she also went into this dinner being like, mama needs a drink.

Speaker 3 Mama needs a drink. She was ready for a cocktail.
You know what I mean? I was. So I took it literally.
And then we had white wine. Then we ordered steak.

Speaker 3 So I was like, but steak, we got to have red wine with steak. I don't even drink red wine often.

Speaker 3 Why was I saying that? I had two glasses of white wine.

Speaker 3 Then you all got red wine, but didn't drink it. So I drank both their glasses and

Speaker 3 three glasses of red wine. I don't know.
You got some red wine too?

Speaker 3 I know you're talking to me because I had the two like with my meal, and then there was one that had been poured, and then no one took later on in the meal. And I was like, I guess I'll take that.

Speaker 3 See, I had my thing of red wine in front of me. I wasn't drinking it.
I looked away, and then all of a sudden it was gone. And so was the one of Volognas that I'd given her.

Speaker 3 She had just taken mine, and I was like, Thank you. I didn't really want to drink that.
I just chugged it.

Speaker 3 And then espresso martini felt right. Espresso martinis.
And then we went on into more Negroni Spagliatos. Yeah.

Speaker 3 Then we went to a pub. Yeah.

Speaker 3 Oh, yeah. And number one thing here, I cannot wait to put people in the U.S.
onto this game. A baby Guinness.
A baby Guinness. A baby Guinness, which is a shot over here that is,

Speaker 3 what's on the bottom? I'm not paying attention.

Speaker 3 And it's Guinness. It looks like a Guinness.
It looks Guinness. It's like a brown brown with a little bit of white.
It's Kahlua with like Bailey, like a Bailey's floater. So it looks like delicious.

Speaker 3 It looks like a baby Guinness. It's a dessert.
Come on, come on. Finger-licking good.
Finger-licking good. Delicious, full of sugar.
And so we got a bunch of those.

Speaker 3 Well, you've gotten into a habit of just ordering a lot of stuff. A bunch of those.
You're like, this is great.

Speaker 3 it's been yeah i'm at that stage in my life now where like i like to buy for other people you know and i'm like well they get that baby guinea sneak yeah and then we discovered not discovered but we were honing our skills splitting splitting the g right that was my first time ever uh having my own pint of guinness and i split the g yeah you did yeah i didn't very press

Speaker 3 really proud of myself it was close question though is it that the foam is splitting the g or is it that the liquid is splitting the g it's the between the foam and the liquid i believe is what cuts the g okay i have to look back on the video feel free to let us know.

Speaker 3 I just looked at a British man over there. What is he doing? Is that any nods? He's nodding his head.
I think his head's correct. British Man? Yeah, he knows.
He knows. That's deep.

Speaker 3 That's where they learn in school. Excellent.

Speaker 3 So I take my. I'm like, so I'm sitting there listening to a story, and you know what you just know? You're like,

Speaker 3 this is not going well for me.

Speaker 3 And then you just get up silently. You start moving in silence, really.

Speaker 3 Nobody knows what you're about. You just went up and I just got up, went to the bathroom.
And yeah,

Speaker 3 I vomited. She pulled Trake.
I pulled trig and I vomited in there. We don't condone

Speaker 3 that at all.

Speaker 3 We don't condone excessive drinking. It would just happen that way.
And the other thing is, we ate a lot of very rich, heavy food, like yummy food, which is my downfall.

Speaker 3 Is when there's food in front of me, I'm going to eat it. I'm going to finish it.
I feel like I need to. And then it's just sitting there and no one else is touching it.
I'm like, like, I just think.

Speaker 3 It's going to waste. But that's something we're learning as adults, too.
We come from a finish-your-plate, clean plate household.

Speaker 3 And now we, we physically have, we're, we're learning and we're doing much better at it. Even our parents are learning.
Like, we have trouble leaving things not eaten. Yeah.

Speaker 3 Because to us, it's like, oh my gosh, what we, you're going to leave the piece of bread there? Like, there's only three bites left. Might as well.

Speaker 3 Might as well, even though you're full to the brim and you do not want those extra three bites, it feels like rude to not or like wasting of food. So we are unlearning that in adulthood.

Speaker 3 It's like, if you're full, listen to your body. Like, it's okay.
Like, I have trouble though. I really can sometimes truly

Speaker 3 not like disregard my full trigger, my full whatever it is, and I will just keep eating if it's like really good or whatnot.

Speaker 3 But, and I've been around teammates who like, well, they have a half a sandwich and they're like, I'm good. They know they're good.

Speaker 3 Like, man, that's so I have to almost be, you have to be so in tune in some ways. Until I'm learning, intuitive eating.
Intuitive eating, I suppose. That was called.
I saw a tweet once.

Speaker 3 I was like, it's so fascinating watching a man eat because he's just taught to intuitively eat his whole life. He's full, he's done.
Right. He's hungry.
He's going to keep going.

Speaker 3 Whereas like women, we, I don't know, something else about it. We're learning.

Speaker 3 And like, even when we go out to dinner with our mom, we went to dinner with our mom recently and like there was like two dumplings left on a plate. And I was like, no, no, no, I'm done.

Speaker 3 She's like, are you done? I was like, no, we're done. She's done.
But like mom, mom came from, and you can probably explain it better. But well, our mom was raised by, my mom, our mom's Dutch.

Speaker 3 She was raised in the Netherlands. Our Oma and Opa were raised during the war when food was scarce.
And so when there was food, you ate it. So then she was raised by two people.

Speaker 3 in that mindset of like if food is before you like you eat that you know no longer in the war but that's like ingrained in them and that makes sense like that is you know and so they passed that down to our mom passed that down to us but it and i will say like kids growing up i'm we're obviously not parents we're not experts on it but i do agree like growing up it is important to that they had us finish our plates to get all the necessary nutrients and our vegetables and a complete meal you know but now as an adult that's translated to i have to finish what's on my plate like you know

Speaker 3 So let's just say we finished some plates that night. Many of us finished.
We didn't need to finish plates.

Speaker 3 So that's the thing. It's a very rich, heavy food as well.

Speaker 3 I start dancing, doing my Dancing with the Stars dance in the parking lots. That's brilliant.
I was seeing how much I can do. I got Olivia around me holding a phone up.
I'm doing a jive.

Speaker 3 I'm blasting the songs from Dancing with the Stars, like on her phone, running around her so that she can hear the music the whole time, having the time of my life.

Speaker 3 She's like, I can't believe you remember this. I'm like, you're amazing.
I'm like, there's video of it. I'm like, it's in your blood.
It's in your blood. You're amazing.

Speaker 3 Meanwhile, we're watching her back. She's messed up several times.
I'm like, that's not even the right way to face doing that.

Speaker 3 I'm not even doing half correct. But she drops my phone at one point.

Speaker 3 I thought you didn't remember that. I remember it clearly.

Speaker 3 And then we get home more.

Speaker 3 All is well when we get home. All is well.
Okay.

Speaker 3 Okay. And then it just sneaks up on both of them.
Sneaks up on.

Speaker 3 How nitty-gritty do we? How deep?

Speaker 3 Not too deep. Let's just say 3 a.m.
I wake up to sounds from the bathroom. And it's happening for so long where then you're going.

Speaker 3 And then, yeah. That's what the trigger bowling was for.
Just say there's a bowl that we've thrown out. Yeah.
There's a kitchen bowl. A kitchen bowl, because I occupy...
Bathroom was occupato.

Speaker 3 My name is Occupado. So when she was left to her own devices.
There is a bowl we no longer use and talk to. We said signara too.
It's gone. We blessed it, threw that away.
Thank you for your service.

Speaker 3 Thank you for your help. Thank you for your journey.
So I think the next day Livy's out for the count. I mean, this, her soul is now down the drain in Bristol, you know, because I do not

Speaker 3 throw up. Like, I'm not a throw-upper, especially not drinking alcohol.
Like, I just, I'm fine. I'm chill.
I'm chill. Yes.
I was not okay.

Speaker 3 But once you've hit your 30s, though, apparently, and this is a threat, guys, because your 30s have hit and she's been going through it. Something's happening to me like rapidly.

Speaker 3 Like, don't, because, you know, everyone's been like, oh, everything changed when you get to turn 30. Your back starts hurting and everything.
I'm like, okay, yeah, right. I'm so young.

Speaker 3 I'm literally 26 years old. That's crazy.

Speaker 3 And then I actually felt like, you know, in Harry Potter,

Speaker 3 when Harry Potter has killed Voldemort and now he's in that train station in the sky with Dumbledore's ghost and the whore crux that was inside of Harry is like curled in feel position under the bench.

Speaker 3 Yeah. That's how I felt on our long tiny couch and the flat in a race thing.
Just take a bonight of the banana.

Speaker 3 Take a bite by the banana. Take a bona totally.

Speaker 3 Take a bite. She's kidding.
She does not feel good all day. We were supposed to have dinner with my teammate, or we're going to have dinner with my teammates.

Speaker 3 And I text her, I'm like, hey, we cannot go. Liv is not okay.
Liv comes out from her third episode. And she's like, I was like, Liv, it's all good.
I told Hannah, you know, we can't go to dinner.

Speaker 3 She's like, why would you say that? I'm so excited for that. I'm so ready for dinner.
I feel fine. Why would you say it? Why would you say that? I was like, oh, I was under the impression you didn't.

Speaker 3 No. And she rallied.
I rallied. Y'all.
She had maybe. a quarter of a piece of toast.
It's a brat diet. Banana.
Everything she brats me is like a brat. Is this brat?

Speaker 3 Is this this brat is this brat diet brat diet i was like what yeah brat is in the like vomiting foods you should eat but also x cx yeah right

Speaker 3 which brat does stand for bananas yeah or is it bread rice bananas bananas rice is it apples i think it's apples apples toast and toast we could have made that up guys nobody knows you all reply what brat diet is let us not see in the comments our take on brat diet

Speaker 3 bananas bananas ham

Speaker 3 that's baharat

Speaker 3 you don't give

Speaker 3 ours was a ham ham cheese bread diet for me it's like i just wanted pho all day

Speaker 3 i told you i got that for you

Speaker 3 i offered you it would have gone to waste you're right you're right so we don't want to say we are this is just a special occasion for us we one thing i've learned we also just like going out and having fun but like our version of fun is a dinner party Yes.

Speaker 3 Usually not to that extreme. Not to that extreme.
That was crazy. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I can't do that until maybe, again, spring 2027. We're going to get crazy.
Maybe another one of those parties.

Speaker 3 It's feeling like a... We love connecting over food.
And so that was just another way we got to connect with these people. And so it just turned into what it did.

Speaker 3 Which I think why we're talking about is that it is so rare for us. It just doesn't happen.
Like, that's why it's like a funny topic. Whereas this is not an every weekend occurrence.
This is crazy.

Speaker 3 Like, Alona's like, I can't wait to talk about this on the pod.

Speaker 3 Like, you, you being like this i'm like yeah i'm sorry guys you know this is 30 i guess he's shaking on her pod yeah we can talk about dinner and mind you the dinner we were going to is like a lovely tasting menu like oh yeah it was seven corners we did it because there was a wine pairing

Speaker 3 this is olivia like getting that wine oh I love it. It's delicious.

Speaker 3 And he's telling us all the notes in it and stuff. Yeah.

Speaker 3 He's like, it has this noble rot about it. I was like, yeah, she said noble rot.
Yeah, like, apparently that's a descriptive term for wine. Yeah, that helps with wine.
Yeah, that helps.

Speaker 3 I was like, noble rot. Let me be like,

Speaker 3 ooh.

Speaker 3 But you did it, girlfriend. I did it.
And it was yummy. It was really good company.
It took four and a half hours. Four and a half hours.
But we love that. We do.
We can sit for hours.

Speaker 3 It didn't feel like it. It didn't feel like it.
But what if spaced like that? Even when we go out to eat now, we space it out ourselves. Like one thing, we don't like to order all at the same time.

Speaker 3 No. Because then they're like, well, the chef, some places now are like, chef makes you.
And I'm like, does he? Does he? The chef knows how to space it out. he'll pay

Speaker 3 because I know it's you on that point of sale system going beep bop boom all at the same time yeah and then I got 12 plates of tapos in front of me yeah yeah yeah

Speaker 3 we went to that tapos place and we were like well we don't want to put it all in because then you're gonna bring it like no no we space it out boom bing boom boom I got a Padron pepper I got manchego I gotta eat this

Speaker 3 cold we love there's a place we go to in Burlington that um we love it's a French restaurant but they're very fast with it yeah so we and I get it you're trying trying to turn over tables, but we like, I think we approach dining in a more European way, the way like our mom and her relatives in the Netherlands do it, where we sit and we have a drink and we like, eh, eh, eh, and like we'll put in one thing at a time, and the staff doesn't really know how to deal with it.

Speaker 3 They're kind of like, okay, and next, what are the mains? What are the mains? And for mains. We haven't looked at it.
Haven't even decided. Maybe we'll have a main.
Maybe we won't have a main.

Speaker 3 Sorry about it. I will take another glass of wine.
I will.

Speaker 3 Oh, French onion soup, please.

Speaker 3 You want to split the muscles? So, yeah, I mean, I think lessons were learned for sure. Lessons were learned.
And we probably learned the same lesson again. Yeah.

Speaker 3 But we did it with each other.

Speaker 3 I wouldn't change it for the worst. I wouldn't change it.
I had a great time. I had a great time.
We got over it. I went on a run later in the day.
Yeah. Yeah, true.
And I felt okay.

Speaker 3 We went for that walk because I was like, I need to feel human again and get my blood pumping because I like to shock the system.

Speaker 3 But also, what this reminded me of is like, you know, after nights out in college where you did your debrief?

Speaker 3 Where you would all sit around and debrief what the other person did? In the dining hall. Like five to yeah, in the dining dining hall.

Speaker 3 Like shaking under blankets in the living room together, but like laughing the hardest you've ever laughed. I did think about that while I was in the fetal position, being like, God,

Speaker 3 he's fun to laugh about this, but I am not in a lot. I just want to laugh at you.
Not now.

Speaker 3 Oh, but yeah, that was fun. I've always loved to go, even now after like rugby turns with my teammates, we like to just debrief what happened.
Like, did you see this person was making out

Speaker 3 this is happening? Because it's like, it's embarrassing, but it's also like ways to connect.

Speaker 3 It's human. Yeah.
I love it when they can laugh about it. Like you dancing.

Speaker 3 Liv is very good at laughing at herself, too. She will self-deprecate like nobody else.
It's quite serious, isn't it? Quite serious. Yeah.
Yeah. I find it hilarious.

Speaker 3 No, I'd be laughing. And when somebody like recalls like the most, that's the smallest detail from the night before that everyone forgot about, but they were like hanging on to.

Speaker 3 Do you know what I mean? And then that the laughter. the times.
You can tell me a story 50 times and I'll listen. Yeah.

Speaker 3 And honestly, she'll do it even if you didn't want it to.

Speaker 3 I'm like dad in that way. Our dad's famous line is: you've heard this one from me before.

Speaker 3 Then he'll tell a story we've heard from him before.

Speaker 3 But we'll listen. And I'll listen.
It's funny. I'm like, no, he's a good storyteller.
I know exactly the way he's going in. Absolutely.
And then your buddy Rich, right? Right.

Speaker 3 Of course. That's crazy, man.
But you felt okay. You were.

Speaker 3 She's still young and youthful, dude. Dude.
She's not in her 30s like some people.

Speaker 3 Wow.

Speaker 3 Guys, I'm not having fun anymore.

Speaker 3 She's in the moon now.

Speaker 3 I feel great.

Speaker 3 She's wait, pretend to be Miko.

Speaker 3 That's it. And that's it.
That's really good.

Speaker 3 That's actually a perfect representation. Do you need anything?

Speaker 3 I'm fine. Yep.

Speaker 3 To a T classic. That's actually me right there.
And scene. Adriana.

Speaker 3 Yeah. Olivia.

Speaker 3 Here's my traveling pony show. Come in.
Come in, Elonie. Come in.
Neil razzled asshole. You gotta give it to him.
You gotta give it to him. That's collect.
And that's just show business.

Speaker 3 And that's show business at the end of the day. I mean, it is, it was the kind of like hangover that was like, I'm never drinking again.
And that's my resolution. Like, I'm not doing like, but I will.

Speaker 3 I love it. Maybe I won't do the full wine play.
I had a sip of wine that night. I had sips of wine that night.
I did. You probably had two whole glasses.
I really didn't. What do you think?

Speaker 3 You finished a lot of Alonas.

Speaker 3 I was watching Van Impress.

Speaker 3 She was in a haze, man. That was dehydrated.
What did Alona ask for her glass? Yeah, you did take off her knee. I was like, okay.
It's like, this stuff's pretty good. You guys ever tried this before?

Speaker 3 Why, man? Think of a certain fun guy. Are you catching the noble rot on this one?

Speaker 3 Absolutely.

Speaker 3 They know what they're doing around here.

Speaker 3 Bulgaria, you say this one?

Speaker 3 That was fun. That guy was like, we did the wine flight.
He's telling us all this information about wines. I'm like, he was good in terms of it.
The wind off the sea in Bulgaria.

Speaker 3 Yeah, everything creates a certain type of crepe. It doesn't usually have that sort of hot and cold.
And we're like, right. Right.
He kept being like, stop me if I'm boring. And you were like, no.

Speaker 3 And then he would start talking to me and I'll be like,

Speaker 3 at one point, I started pouring. I'm like, wait, sorry, man.
Keep going. No, this is, yeah.

Speaker 3 He loves, he loves his job. And I love that he loves his job.
Yeah, absolutely. Getting some more into tea time.

Speaker 3 What are some recent obsessions you've had? I feel like cat's eye is just such a quick one for me. Like my Instagram Explore page is like half Cat's Eye.

Speaker 3 Love them. Love Popstar Academy.
We've talked about Adela. I love Adela.
Like those girls are just doing it. And that whole world is so interesting.

Speaker 3 And just seeing it from like this global girl group that's definitely still targeted towards Americans. It's like you don't see stuff like that.
Right. And you were a big Fifth Harmony fan.

Speaker 3 A harmonizer? Yeah, let's put that out there. If any Fifth Harmony want to come on here.
Actually, I know we'll get them, but we would love to have you. Big fan.
I don't know if I would talk.

Speaker 3 I think I'd be like, you sit next to him. Because it's one of those people that I like, you looked up to like so much, right?

Speaker 3 It was a really, like, I really love Fifth Harmony, especially like Dinah Jane and like Lauren Haregi. Like, actually, Lauren Haregi, I, she was so politically like outspoken.

Speaker 3 And I was such a huge fan that I was like, oh, I was learning a lot from her. And then also, like.
how outspoken she was was really like uh in i think it really influenced me

Speaker 3 um and then dinah jane was also one of the first similar body types of like I saw in mainstream media. And it was, I was watching Fifth Harmony at like a time where I was very

Speaker 3 kind of insecure in my body. And seeing her where I was like, that is a beautiful woman.
And I kind of look like that. Like, that was such a wonderful exposure for me.

Speaker 3 And I'm so glad I had Fifth Harmony. And also, their music is so good.
The Reflection album is one of the best albums in the world.

Speaker 3 Going Nowhere.

Speaker 3 What are you called? A harmonizer? A harmonizer. Of course.

Speaker 3 actually one time alona gave me the biggest gift of all oh yeah i got a text in the group chat saying i think dinah jane is at the center being the rugby center that she trains at yeah thank you and it was because her cousin was scrimmaging there or something yeah so she was watching her cousin and i texted alone in the group chat and i was like Go find her.

Speaker 3 And she was like, I think she's already left. I like left, gave her a voice note.
And I was like, you have to run across and you have to find her because this means so much and you have to. Of course.

Speaker 3 And then like an hour later, I get a video and it's dinah jane talking to me

Speaker 3 she freaked out she was crying that was actually the best gift i think you've ever given her okay gift giving unintentional gift giving oh god so fifth harmony all the girl groups have you ever seen them live i don't want to bring this up is this like a touchy subject i don't remember have you i was too

Speaker 3 they never came to burlington of course um and i remember one time i was gonna ask mom to go to montreal but i like i think i was i've always been weird about money and i didn't want to ask mom and dad to like bring me to Montreal, spend like money on the tickets in a hotel.

Speaker 3 And I so regret that because I think mom would have been overjoyed for me to ask her to like have something that I'm so passionate about.

Speaker 3 I've seen Normani live and it was actually the funniest reaction. It was at the sweet inner tour.
She was one of the opening actors.

Speaker 3 And I was sitting next to my friend's friend. I didn't really know her.
And then Normani came out and I just slapped her. Like it was just such a visceral reaction from me.

Speaker 3 I was like, you didn't know that was happening? No, I knew it was happening.

Speaker 3 I was so overwhelmed. I was like, that's Normani.
And then I've seen Lauren live as well, opening for Banks. Thing about Adjana, too, she loves live music.
You go to concerts alone, too. I do.

Speaker 3 I actually prefer going alone. Interesting.
Because then I don't have to worry about you. Like, and I can figure out when I want to get there, when I want to leave.
I can find a better spot.

Speaker 3 So I don't have to worry about you.

Speaker 3 I love a concert by myself.

Speaker 3 That's a hot take. A lot of people don't like that.
A lot of people don't do it. But you also like a lot of sometimes obscure artists.

Speaker 3 Like, she showed us Billie Eilish before years ago before she was big. I remember her showing me this.
I was like, what's happening here? Like, obscure.

Speaker 3 There's a very moody girl singing in a microphone right now. You're here for it.
You showed us Chapel Rhone beforehand. Way early on.
Way early on. There's some others too.

Speaker 3 So you just love music in general.

Speaker 3 I love music in general. And it's, I think, concerts are just so fun.
And like, it's a different experience to then just listening to the pre-recorded. And it's just, for me, it's like

Speaker 3 the not to get like dramatic but it's like the beauty of being alive and the beauty of being a human is like watching these live performances

Speaker 3 and so of course I'm gonna seek that out and I live in New York City and I was so excited to move to New York City and I was like I'm gonna be able to see so many people because not everyone goes to Burlington

Speaker 3 yeah but they're gonna go to New York and I've just made it my mission to go like and I will go if I only know the opening artist that's even better for me because then I don't have to stick around for the main act and fight everyone oh like you know the opening artist, so you'll go for the opening.

Speaker 3 Yeah, even if you don't care about the main act. I've left for the main acts before, actually.
You're like dad in that way. Dad also just loves live music.
He loves going to concerts.

Speaker 3 He's standing there. You don't like concerts.
I was going to say, alone is the opposite. My hot take? Don't like concerts.
How are we getting there? Where are we being dropped at?

Speaker 3 What time are we getting there at? Oh, where are our seats at? How am I going to pee? Is it going to be long lines to pee? Am I going to miss from the show? How are we getting out of there?

Speaker 3 A thousand girls are leaving this. More than thousands of girls are leaving.
Where do I get the Uber? Oh, the Uber's not coming. I don't need that.
You have to think bigger.

Speaker 3 But it's also the actual content of it for you, too. Sometimes you're like, I can listen to this in my phone.
I'm like, this is exactly what the TV sounds like in my phone.

Speaker 3 That's the same thing that I get. Why am I wasting my time here? She feels that collective effervescence, and she said, that's not for me.
I'm like,

Speaker 3 put it right on Spotify. It's the same sound.
She's like, they're actually better on my phone. All right.
Well, especially when it's like literally, like, I went, who did I see?

Speaker 3 I don't remember, but they sound in a very impressive way sound exactly like they do on their songs. Like, it's, and there's like tech elements to it.

Speaker 3 There's live music, but I was like, this is exactly the same as what, which to most people would be like, that's amazing that they can sound the same, sing the same.

Speaker 3 And I was like, y'all should hear this in the speakers in my car. Yeah.
I got surround sound. My J, my little speaker's doing the same thing, you know?

Speaker 3 And I'm a hater, but you love it. I love it because it's just hearing the emotion in a voice.

Speaker 3 Like one of my favorite, like, Beyonce songs, I think it's Sandcastles, because there's a moment where her vocals are just so raw and beautiful that like, I feel like I'm transcending because I hate an over-processed song where I'm like, you're taking away the artist.

Speaker 3 Well, that's a little dramatic.

Speaker 3 Sorry, I don't want to offend anyone. But I'm just like, I feel like you're taking away from the body and the soul of it sometimes.
Like, let me hear you.

Speaker 3 Let me hear you. You do.
You have like a crazy amount of hours listening on Spotify one year. Ooh.
Yeah.

Speaker 3 I always have

Speaker 3 very high. Well, because I'm always listening.
Like, working eight hours a day. I'll put on Spotify.
I love doing like music.

Speaker 3 If I'm reading a fantasy book, like going on YouTube and finding like your cocoa melon.

Speaker 3 Oh, that's one thing about Olivia.

Speaker 3 So we call it Olivia's Cocomelon. It's not cocoa melon.
But you know, just babies just like they're locked in. Olivia finds these like

Speaker 3 so-fi, lo-fi, lo-fi, but it's like these animated backgrounds. So it'll be like atmosphere, soft beats in a in a garden library in in Germany.
It'll be like cafe tunes in like

Speaker 3 East LA. And there's like a, it'll be like an animated cartoon shop.
And then there's a cat walking past the window and the coffee cup is steaming. And then the cat walks past again.

Speaker 3 God, she's now also getting into like DJ sets on YouTube. Oh yeah, she is.

Speaker 3 One guy just... Like spinning in his living room making the most aesthetic video you've ever seen.
I love it.

Speaker 3 It just keeps, it keeps me company and I love putting them on like the cozy fireplace ones. I don't want to hear the fireplace.
Okay. I don't want to hear the crackling of the fireplace.

Speaker 3 Though sometimes they do those atmospheric ones, but I just want like the cozy jazz at night with the fireplace background. You know what I mean? In a castle reading.

Speaker 3 Or like, yeah, the jazz cafes, the low-fire. I have daytime ones and I have nighttime ones.
Of course. And she'll yell at you if you pick the wrong one.
Yeah. I'm like, you're insane.

Speaker 3 Do you think those are the vibes right now? You're picking up a winter nighttime scene for me right now. It's spring morning.
What is wrong?

Speaker 3 It's really tough when you ask me to put one on at like 4 p.m. And I'm like, what mood is she in? Sometimes it's a test.

Speaker 3 I will say sometimes i'm like do you want to put on a cocomelon we also only call it cocomelon which is my favorite part we video call like all the time uh and so we'll be on it and she'll be like i can hear your cocomelon in the background

Speaker 3 like jazz cafe

Speaker 3 she loves the jazz cafe

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Speaker 3 What was everyone's Spotify top artist this year or last year? I can tell you both in one go. Oh, both here.
Taylor Swift. No, both here.
Big Swifties here, guys. Swifties in the house.

Speaker 3 These two are some Swifties.

Speaker 3 She's been with me like my whole life. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
They went to the LA concert. They went to Eris.
Up there. They were pretty much sex in the guy.
Second to the last row. Second to last row.

Speaker 3 Like the nosiest of bleeds. And they cried still.
Oh. Oh, I cried.

Speaker 3 When she came out for Fearless Era, olivia didn't know whether to sit or stand like i have a video where she was like halfway between the two and i was like

Speaker 3 like shaking she's just like the way she literally has eras right for each of the albums each of those albums fits an era of my life like i've just like grown up the way i am an oldest sister sometimes it's corny but sometimes i'm like the way she writes her music and her lyrics it feels like an older sister describing things happening to me so like describing those emotions as i'm experiencing them for the first time and like love and heartbreak and you know what growing up and the songs about her mom so i always like i've so i've almost saw that you know growing up she's been there's like if you give me an album i know what era of my life like that one was for so who's on yours love everyone always always asked me my favorite artist and it's always like it's nobody cool it's nobody like

Speaker 3 you know, niche. I like what everybody else is listening to.
So I'm a follower. Absolutely.
Everybody's liking Chaperone. I'm loving Chaperone.
If we all love her, there must be something to her.

Speaker 3 So I think my number one was Chaperone.

Speaker 3 Sabrina Carpenter was there. Sabrina was in mine as well.
Jungle. I'm a big jungle fan right now.

Speaker 3 I love a jungle. Love them.
Love him. Love him.
Would you guys go to Coachella if you got the opportunity? Because that's again for me. I don't know if I want to go.

Speaker 3 How do I get there? How do I get out there at the end of the day? I've heard the food's like 25 bucks for a sandwich.

Speaker 3 I got to stay on the whole day. What if it? So I don't know if I actually ever want to go.
I, I mean, I feel like that's a big yes for you. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

Speaker 3 Literally love that. I've been wanting to for so long.
Just music fan,

Speaker 3 just music festivals in general. I've only been to one.
I went to Oceaga, which is Canada's Coachella.

Speaker 3 And actually, I went on a great year. Like, Billie Eilish was there, Caliuchi's, like, so many great people.
And I loved it.

Speaker 3 And I know Coachella is like a whole other beast because it's the desert, but like, I want to go once. I do think I'd love it.
I really do. And it's just...

Speaker 3 So many big names and it just also feels like a cultural moment almost, not like a Woodstock at all. But I just wanted to be be able to say, like, Bragging Writes, I've been to Coachella.

Speaker 3 I've never really been to a music festival in that way. So the concept is very cool to me.
But then when I lean that way, but on the other side, I'm like, the logistics of it sound like a nightmare.

Speaker 3 You see these horror videos about the like getting into Palm Springs, the traffic, the flights in, the one, the people that camp, and then they're lining up to shower. Like it's a lot.

Speaker 3 So it's like, I'm split. I'm like, I would love to experience that at some point.
That'd be so amazing to like go and like be a part of, I guess, history in that way.

Speaker 3 I get that it's it's like it's evolved and changed and it's not coachella 2016 you know but it's um but then the logistics of it you know i would camp scare me you'd camp you'd camp

Speaker 3 i can i couldn't even think about that i couldn't even i i think you have to line up for to take a shower actually that just pissed me off i think i maybe have like two three more years me which i would be like be like i could camp And then I'm probably going to be like, no.

Speaker 3 But like, you're going to rough it. And you know that.
But I don't. yeah,

Speaker 3 you don't want to, and that's a golf cart, and that's 30. But I also felt that at 25, so well, well, well, hopefully, Coachella, 2025, you guys will handle,

Speaker 3 not me,

Speaker 3 I got other things I gotta do, she's got other things she wants to do, sleep in a bed, anything to do with that. We're gonna see you there this year, like some big

Speaker 3 brain,

Speaker 3 like backstage

Speaker 3 artist pass.

Speaker 3 I will go for that. She lives the plot of that movie that came out.
Oh, I see.

Speaker 3 I will go over that. Oh, my God.

Speaker 3 Hopefully.

Speaker 3 As you know, we are professional sisters, right? We can settle some sister squabbles. So, for Wind Down, we're going to go over a submission and tell you what we think about it.

Speaker 3 Need advice or just want to share a sisterly struggle? Well, we are here to help. Send us a DM or voice notice at House of Mar for a chance to be featured on the show.

Speaker 3 We know what we're talking about, people. Yeah, some of us got a lot of experience.
We got a couple degrees between us, right? We could help. Honorary doctorate almost.
I have two degrees. Oh, yeah.

Speaker 3 And that will be brought up more and more. Right.

Speaker 3 I'll say it probably each episode.

Speaker 3 This week's submission from Anonymous. Let's dive into this.
I need a sanity check. Am I overreacting or is my sister being ridiculous? We've always had this low-key rivalry,

Speaker 3 but lately, it feels like every conversation is a competition.

Speaker 3 I mentioned I was thinking of taking a pottery class and not even a week later, she signed up for a ceramics workshop and and sent me a picture of a mug she made. I mean good for her, but come on.

Speaker 3 I want to call her out, but I also don't want to come off as petty. What should I do?

Speaker 3 I would jokingly call her out, but like also in a way where it's like you joke about what you mean. Yeah.

Speaker 3 So I would jokingly to one of you be like, oh, see, see, you're doing pottery class that I was, that I was going to do. Yeah.
Oh, you know, and then

Speaker 3 which maybe isn't the best way to go about it, but I do find humor can be an escape in a way.

Speaker 3 So I'd be like, oh, that's so interesting. Oh, I wanted to do that.
And then there's a conversation to be had. Absolutely.
And I'm almost seeing it like, is she trying to connect with you already?

Speaker 3 Because you said you wanted to do that. So she did it.
So she could talk. You guys could talk about it together, maybe? Point of connection.
I see it as like.

Speaker 3 Sisters, I think, are like the original influencers of like, and especially as a younger sister. Like Alona the other day was like, I think I'm going to straighten my hair.

Speaker 3 And I was like, I should have straightened my hair.

Speaker 3 damn it

Speaker 3 so cool what a damn damn

Speaker 3 follow i've never done that no i can't straighten my hair because she's gonna

Speaker 3 like well i was gonna straighten my hair actually first so yeah yeah yeah of course

Speaker 3 no we've done it many times and so i think that's could be take should be taken into account that you could just be inspiring her and that she might just be like that's actually a good idea i want to do that

Speaker 3 it's just

Speaker 3 A lot of factors though of like how many times has she done this?

Speaker 3 But I think it is worth addressing, but keeping in mind that you could just be inspiring yeah what's the thing it's like the highest form of flattery you know like imitation

Speaker 3 oh yeah it's imitation maybe it's that because it was your idea and she knows that you know you did say it i like that though the being the original influencers that is who you you want to be like at first did you ever be like did you want to be like olivia i was like when you were young i don't think i've ever asked no i don't think i was ever like it was both of you like honestly like i do have an embarrassing history of just like following in olivia's footsteps like

Speaker 3 went to the same college moved to the same city now maybe one day i will follow her to a different city and i'm like god i gotta find something original like that is a road in this submission or no

Speaker 3 i think it was very much of like

Speaker 3 If I'd be like, I don't really know if I want this shirt anymore and I put it in the giveaway pile, one of you grabs it. I'm like,

Speaker 3 great shirt. That was a great shirt.
I was like, I didn't mean to put it in the giveaway pile. I was like, I'm taking it back right now.

Speaker 3 You definitely all are my influencers. Like, Olivia once bought a shirt,

Speaker 3 and then I was like, What is that shirt from? Where's that shirt from? She's like, Oh, it's just me. She sends to me.
I buy two of them in different colors.

Speaker 3 And I was like, I was like, Well, that color's cute. Or what the hell? No, I gotta go get that.
She's bought in pants. I've then bought the same pants.
Adriana has done her hair a certain way.

Speaker 3 I have then done my hair this way. She curls my hair.
So then, then, you know, we look alike. So they are my influencers.
And also, they're my influencers when it comes to humor and what I do online.

Speaker 3 Everybody, I'll say it many times. Everyone thinks I'm like the funniest one, but I've actually influenced more by what they do and the humor that they bring.

Speaker 3 Like, I almost think that Olivia's humor, like

Speaker 3 as she's, I take a lot of what she does and I incorporate it into my own humor. So she, she'll, she's very self-like deprecating.

Speaker 3 We'll tell a story in a certain way where she brings her whole body into it. And she's like, very much this.
And then when I tell a story, I do what Olivia does.

Speaker 3 So that's where I get a lot of my humor and jokes from and from Adriana as well. So I think that's interesting that we are so much influenced by those around us.

Speaker 3 So your sister told you she wanted to do pottery. You're like, well, that's a freaking great idea.

Speaker 3 I'm used to pottery. That's probably what happened to me.
It's happened many times.

Speaker 3 And if I guess if it keeps happening, yeah, you got to talk about it. But I think we do do a lot of things through humor because it softens it and helps like the great mediator.

Speaker 3 So yeah, approach it as a joke, but until you got to have like a real serious

Speaker 3 sit down about it. Yeah, I love a bit of physical comedy with my story.
She's still like, I love getting my whole body.

Speaker 3 But I do it, like, I do a workshop. It, like, Adrana's talked about.
Like, she hears these stories so much because I'm honing my craft every day.

Speaker 3 Each time it's a little different, but it's still the same.

Speaker 3 And it's getting better each time. Yeah.
Yeah. Absolutely.
And it can be annoying. And I'm like, way to reuse the same joke.

Speaker 3 And Alona, like, our dad has said, you know, it's funny that Alona is known for her humor. She's my third funniest daughter.
One time we asked him, he was like, hey, dad, who's your funniest daughter?

Speaker 3 And he goes, well, it's not Alona.

Speaker 3 And that hurt.

Speaker 3 but then because like alona we are we're adjoined i like why i mean i'm not gonna be like i'm so funny but like we are i'd be laughing she's laughing we make you laugh that's not for me you make us laugh you know no i will say it's humbling you say a joke at the table i say a joke at the table not many people laugh at it i'm like that was kind of that would have got that would have gone miles on tick tock yeah you guys don't know what you're talking about i barely get a chuckle out of my dad I don't, I don't get laughs like they do.

Speaker 3 Do you guys, did you remember that, that, uh, that TikTok trend that was just about something? And a girl made a thing that was like, I'm not going to give you a pity laugh.

Speaker 3 Like my family, I was seven years old bombing at the dinner table. You know, like we, we were here to work for this.
To this day, we can bomb at the dinner table.

Speaker 3 Oh, we'll be bombing at the dinner table. But like, it made us who we are.
But even after those, the first couple of episodes that we've shot, Alona was like, I need y'all to be funnier.

Speaker 3 Well, I think that as they'll get comfortable, you guys will see that they're just, they are funnier than I am.

Speaker 3 And the way that they, they use comedy and humor is very, it's not different, but just, I guess, would say an elite level and like but the it's just how it's it's just different like i say my jokes online and i know now what people online like maybe it's like it's at you know intelligence you have to be intelligent to be to be funny i think and these two are very funny and and intelligent at how they can spin a tail and i i mean i laugh the hardest because of these guys sweet i think it's olivia and i have very similar senses of humor and how we tell jokes and yours is a little different and i don't know if I can really

Speaker 3 explain. No, no, no, because, like, your jokes work so well with certain groups of people, but like, we know how to make our dad laugh, yeah.
And like, our humor, I think, maybe fits more with his,

Speaker 3 whereas yours is a more general,

Speaker 3 like,

Speaker 3 I don't want to say palatable. Palatable, I think it could be what you say.
You make mom giggle, you make mom loves. Mom yells at us for our jokes.

Speaker 3 Oh, you know, yeah, whereas dad will actually almost pass out, like, crying with laughter.

Speaker 3 Did you ever make dad vagal? You're not funny. No, yeah, literally.
Thanks, mom. I love you.

Speaker 3 Dad, break your shoulder. She'll try harder.
Yeah, I'll try harder, dad. Sorry.
Sorry. Sorry.
When's the perfect for you? Sorry. Can't make you laugh.
I play your sport. Oh, my gosh.

Speaker 3 Teebie, what a tough guy.

Speaker 3 To be a woman is to perform. To be a woman is to perform.
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