One Intense year of Minhoco leads to Dreamy Aspen

Okay, so after that Valentine's Day story from hell, the next morning, of course, he started messaging me that the woman had sent me old pictures from the year before and she was terrorizing me.

And I was really stupid if I was gonna let her ruin something so nice and fabulous that we had, blah, blah, blah.

You know, guys, I'm not a stupid girl.

I really felt in my gut that he was lying, that he was a bullshitter, that he was pretty much going out with the both of us.

But the fact is I was crazy, crazy, madly in love with him.

I'm not sure if I was madly in love with him or if I know I was madly, madly in love with our sex.

Our sex was like

the best in the world, the best I ever had in my life.

I think everybody has somebody like that.

That it just clicks and the chemistry is just fantastic and it's just off the wall, so good that you just want more and more and more.

And I was like that with him.

I just wanted to have sex with this guy all the time.

So, anyways, the answer is yes.

I kind of forget, not kind of, I forgave him, and we continued dating, and we continued to see each other.

And that turned into one entire year of seeing each other.

I know you guys are probably thinking this girl is crazy or was he treating me great after that?

Not really.

The entire year that I was with him, which was last year, the entire year of 2019, the same lady, this Honduran lady, was pretty much stalking me, sending me messages on my social media, or let's say I would go out with dinner with this guy.

When he would drop me off or sleep over and leave the next morning, she started texting me again.

When I wasn't with him, she would tell me she was with him.

She made my life a living hell.

And I don't even know if it was her fault.

I think it was more his fault because it's pretty obvious that he was still seeing her.

He would tell me that nothing was going on.

She was just a good business contact.

Everything was fine.

But let's face it, we know.

We know when a guy two times us.

We know when a guy wants to be with us or when a guy wants to be with us and somebody else.

I think we, in our gut, as women, we always know.

And I think I always knew, but I didn't want to see it.

I didn't want to believe it.

And every time I would confront him, are you still seeing this woman?

What's going on?

He would tell me that I was being paranoid, that she obviously would make a big scandal or go to his building or threaten him.

And by the way, this guy married an American lady to get the green card.

It was a business deal.

Unfortunately, a lot of people do that here in Miami.

So he kept telling me that until his green card arrived in the mail, that it would be any day, any day, any day.

He didn't want any confusion, any scandal, any problems with anybody.

So every time I would confront him, why are you still seeing this Honduran lady?

Why do you put up with it?

She's stalking me.

She's harassing me.

His answer was, I'm not sleeping with her.

I'm not doing anything with her.

I love you.

I just want to be with you.

We have the most amazing sex ever.

We have such fantastic chemistry.

You just need to be patient until I get my green card.

So, for one year, I would put up with his bullshit and the harassment of this girl and phone calls from this girl when I wasn't with him because I believed, well, the minute this green card comes in the mail, we are going to live happily ever after.

And it doesn't matter how many times I want to forget about this guy, he's the guy I love.

And again, now looking back, I'm not sure if it was love or if it was just the most fantastic sex of my life.

And I would love to hear what you guys think about it.

Is there such a thing?

You think you love somebody because the sex is so great?

But the thing is, even when we weren't having sex, I wanted to be with him all the time.

And his excuse why he wasn't with me all the time was always the same.

Wait until my green car gets here.

Wait until my green car gets here.

Wait until my green car gets here.

Now, I don't want to get like too graphic about sex, but he did one thing that nobody ever did for me or to me ever before.

He was like, had the most energy in bed than anybody I ever met in my life.

Like I said, the first time we had sex.

We had sex, we would go to sleep.

He would wake me up in the middle of the night.

He would wake me up with sex in the morning.

It was, he had so much freaking energy.

Remember, by the

time

we were talking about last year, he was 59 years old, and he had more energy than any 20-year-old, 30-year-old, 40-year-old, any man that I ever met in my life.

And I guess I was just

completely

addicted, honestly, that I was having the best sex of my life ever, ever, ever, ever.

So, I guess the question

about this episode is: was it really love, love, love?

Because this guy didn't give me enough attention,

he didn't treat me very well.

I knew he was going out with another woman the entire year at the same time.

Did I put up with it because I thought, oh, he's really gonna change for me?

Or do you guys think that, oh, the sex is so great, so we just forget about everything else?

That's a great question that I'd love that you guys send me your opinions about.

But, anyways, one whole year went by, and then, like magic, in December, he became this perfect, perfect boyfriend, prince that I wanted from him.

He was so sweet.

He was so loving.

I was pretty much sleeping at his place almost every night.

We decided to plan a New Year's trip to Aspen.

Aspen was his favorite place in the world.

He had four kids, by the way.

I didn't even tell you guys that.

19-year-old triplets and a 21-year-old.

And when his kids were growing up, he would take his kids skiing, skiing, Aspen all the time.

And he always told me how much he loved Aspen.

So towards the end of the year, we said, let's just go and do this magical, magical trip to Aspen.

And he said, yes, fantastic.

We spent Christmas together.

I don't have any family anymore in the United States.

My mom died.

My husband died a few years ago.

And that's a whole other story.

So he took me to spend Christmas at his brother's house.

And I was thinking, oh my God, maybe all he needed really was time.

And now that he knows his green card is coming in the mail any day, everything is gonna be fantastic.

So, we did go to Aspen right after Christmas, and guys, think about perfection.

Think about like a honeymoon.

If you guys look at my Instagram, I posted a few pictures of it.

It was absolutely amazing.

We were gonna stay four or five days, and the minute we got there, we were staying at this fabulous condo, and it was snowing so much.

The day we got there, he said, Call American Airlines and let's stay seven more days so we ended up staying like 12 13 days in aspen this should die for honeymoon sex morning afternoon night middle of the night he was skiing i was waiting for him with a glass of wine at the lounge and we would go out to dinner fondue everything was so freaking unbelievable i remember new year's eve we were standing on top of a mountain well sorry new year's day we were standing on top of this mountain mountain and it was cold but it was so sunny and he bought like two tiny little bottles of champagne and we were toasting and i looked at him i said oh my god is this year gonna be fantastic are our problems really behind us are we really gonna be happy and he said yes of course i told you all you needed to do is

Be patient and you're not very patient, you're too intense and you don't wait for things.

Yes, things are going to be great.

We're going to have the most amazing year together.

and i remember i started crying because i was so freaking happy i sent my dad a message from the top of the mountain in aspen on december 31st and i said oh you know maybe all our problems are behind maybe everything is gonna be great from now on and i'm with a man that i love and that's all that matters and i think i deserve this happiness So we had the most incredible New Year's Day, New Year's Eve in Aspen, just the two of us at this beautiful condo toasting with champagne, having sex, making love.

And I remember at midnight, I said, I love you.

And we went to sleep and we woke up, and we just had this incredible, incredible, incredible honeymoon-ish days in Aspen.

So now you guys are thinking, okay, great, that's a happy ending.

Oh my God,

I was wrong.

I promise you guys, the worst was yet to come.

And yes, if you think nothing can

get worse than my Valentine's Day story with this guy, yes, it was going to get

much, much worse if it's possible.

I know even I don't believe it, but it did.