Honey Brooks -Your Aussie Side Chick
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Okay, Cat Kingdom. So I want to introduce my guest all the way from Australia.
She was here in California a few weeks ago.
Speaker 1 I actually got to meet her, but she was so crazy busy, we were not able to go to the studio to record this interview. So now that she's back home in Australia, we're doing the audio interview.
Speaker 1 Hi, honey.
Speaker 5 Hello, thank you so much for having me finally.
Speaker 1 I know, finally. We've been trying to do this, right? It's not
Speaker 5 the time zones and everything. It's just, it's been all over the place.
Speaker 2 But I'm finally here, so I can't excited to chat.
Speaker 1
Yeah, and I appreciate that very much. So, for people that don't know you, let's explain who you are, what you do, and the fun twists in your story.
You are a gorgeous model.
Speaker 1 This is for you guys that haven't seen the videos yet that I already posted of her on YouTube. But you are a super gorgeous model, and you decided to do OnlyFans, correct?
Speaker 5 Yes, that's that's right um
Speaker 5 i was married and had kids at the time i was traveling australia in a caravan and i met a couple on the road who was doing only fans and at the time i had no idea what only fans was and yeah that was when i first found out and it kind of led from there yeah so the the the main reason why i wanted to talk to you because of course there are there are millions of only fans models all over the world but your story is very unique the first reason because you're happily married.
Speaker 5 Yes, correct.
Speaker 1 How long have you been married?
Speaker 5 It's actually our 10-year wedding anniversary next month.
Speaker 2 Oh, wow.
Speaker 1 10 years. Okay.
Speaker 5 Yes, we've been together for 17 years. So, like high school sweethearts.
Speaker 2 Okay. Oh, my God.
Speaker 1 Okay, so you guys have been together for almost two decades.
Speaker 5 Yes.
Speaker 1 So when you decided, you're like, okay, maybe I'm going to try this out. How did it go like with your husband?
Speaker 1 Because I know a lot of people listening, they're gonna say, Oh my God, you know, and basically, what I wanna try to do is, because you know, I don't like when people judge women for what they do.
Speaker 1 I think, you know, we should do whatever the hell makes us happy, but
Speaker 1 and you're a great proof of that, that you can actually find a very supportive partner. So, how was it? Did you tell him you wanted to do it? Did you guys talk about it together? How did it go down?
Speaker 5 Yeah, so it was definitely at the start.
Speaker 5 It was just an idea that we were both brought brought up um after speaking to that couple we just saw them living this amazing lifestyle working from home um obviously you know we didn't see fully what they were doing we actually subscribed to their page and was like wow like this is so interesting we both saw such a really good business opportunity I think living on the road and traveling Australian living out of a caravan really taught us that there's more to life than the nine to five.
Speaker 5 There's more to life than, you know, just working in a job that you don't like for the rest of your life.
Speaker 5 And we kind of had a passion to to live our life to the fullest and not being tied down and have this freedom to travel with our family whenever we like so we saw that business opportunity and just thought this is so cool we already have really great sex we we love each other we love getting intimate and all the things in the bedroom you know this could be potentially a really great idea for us so it really just kind of grew it wasn't like one person came up with the idea it was it's always been a joint discussion it's been a um um thing that both of us have done and we actually studied the industry for about six months before we even joined obviously having kids yeah so um having kids and coming into the industry was really really important to us that it was definitely going to be the right thing people know once you put what you put on the internet is there forever right yeah so we didn't want to just jump in and just think of the money first we really want to utilize it as a business plan think about our kids how it's going to affect our family in our future um so it wasn't wasn't a really quick decision.
Speaker 5
It was a lot of communication and research. And then, when we decided to dive in, yeah, it just went crazy.
And ever since then, it's been a mutual conversation between both of us.
Speaker 5
So, you know, if we want to take it to the next level, we'll bring it up with each other. Maybe one person's ready and the other one's not.
So, it's not really one person's driving the force.
Speaker 5 It's always been a joint
Speaker 5 business for us.
Speaker 1 I think that's very mature.
Speaker 1 But you did mention that you guys have kids. So that's a really good question because I know a lot of girls that do OnlyFans, people judge them.
Speaker 1 Like you just said, oh, this stuff is on the internet forever. What example do you think you're setting for your kids? How do you deal with that part?
Speaker 5 Yeah, of course. And we do get a lot of scrutiny being a mother in the industry and people like to pin that towards us.
Speaker 5 And that was why I did so much research into doing it right and there there's two sides of this for me personally there's a business side and then there's the family side in how we're handling this in terms of business it was my absolute priority to keep who I am my real name my legal name who I am as a person completely separate to Honey Brooks Honey Brooks is completely separate to who I am my all my details are hidden nobody knows who I am where I live even if you google my real name I don't actually exist myself doesn't exist on the internet and I've done that on purpose, just so there's absolutely no connection to our family.
Speaker 5 I also work really closely with a company monthly and we take down a lot of leaks or things on the internet that aren't in my control, that aren't behind my paywall.
Speaker 5 And they do that every single month and they do all their takedowns. There's also boundaries in my business that I won't do sexually just because I don't want it getting out ever for the kids.
Speaker 5
So business wise, I only sleep with my husband online. I don't sleep with any other males.
So we're just making those decisions to make it more comfortable and make it safer and less widespread.
Speaker 5 We do also have a really healthy exit plan out of the industry, which is really important to us to protect our family.
Speaker 5 And then on the other side, it's really to us about raising our children right, right? Like setting those pillars just to teach them that we don't judge people what we do for work.
Speaker 5 You know, it doesn't matter what they do, as long as they're happy and it's illegal, we don't judge. And it's our biggest, our number one rule in our house is we just don't judge other people.
Speaker 5 If you don't agree with it, that's fine, but then it's none of your business. And we're really open about sex in our household as well, which is really, really healthy because...
Speaker 5 I know growing up as a young woman and even my husband, sex wasn't spoken about.
Speaker 5
It was very shameful and it was a taboo subject. So of course, when you go into your older years and that gets bought up, it's very uncomfortable.
You feel very isolated.
Speaker 5 so we just set the pillars and just making sex really normal really comfortable we're open about sex we talk about you know all of the b's and the knees and everything in between because we don't want any kind of shame around sex um so there is definitely two parts of
Speaker 5 the um the the toggles that are turning to to really help you know do this in the best way possible um and that's the business side and what we've implemented there to keep our family safe and the future aspects and then also you know, just building a best-friend environment without any judgment and a safe sex zone.
Speaker 1 You know, it's interesting that you said that because I completely agree with you.
Speaker 1 I'm not in the, I'm not on OnlyFans, I'm not on adult entertainment, but I do agree because I come with the same type of family as you just said.
Speaker 1 My parents never talked about it, they were not open about it, and it's a big problem, right?
Speaker 1 Because kids and teenagers that grow up without that conversation usually have a lot of issues moving down in life.
Speaker 1 So I completely agree that the more open you are about it the better it will be for their future i actually just interviewed the sex expert super famous in my show like uh last week and she said the same thing the more you make this normal the more they're gonna think growing up that it's not that big of a deal Yeah, 100%.
Speaker 5 And I never want,
Speaker 5 you know, my kids to feel the way that I felt when I was younger. And that was, you know, hiding a lot of the sexual things that I did do and not feeling comfortable to talk about it.
Speaker 5 and that can really lead to dangerous situations for men and women you know talking to young boys now about consent and what consent means and how we can protect you know other other younger men and women in the in the society and women and you know how it's okay to be liberal and out there and not ashamed and that they can come to us if any situation ever arises where they think they're in trouble or they think about doing anything sexual, that they feel comfortable with us to chat.
Speaker 5 And that's all we're really just trying to do is just set the foundation to chat to us when they need someone to talk to.
Speaker 1 I absolutely love that. Now, there is another interesting thing in your story.
Speaker 1 You decided after a while, and you tell me the details, that you were going to open up your marriage and bringing girls into the bedroom, correct?
Speaker 5 Yes.
Speaker 1 And I can only imagine you must be judged by.
Speaker 1 I actually had somebody send me a message because I posted our videos on YouTube and somebody sent me a message like, oh my god that's trouble for the marriage it's such a bad idea and i said not necessarily i think that's a very personal decision if that works for you but how did you decide that that was the right thing for you guys
Speaker 5 yeah for sure i mean there is a lot of scrutiny um around that i think marriage is
Speaker 5 You know, it gets difficult because there's a lot of obviously religion beliefs around marriage as well.
Speaker 5 And there's also, you know, people who have married young and there's sometimes insecurity and people aren't communicating there's people that love each other in different ways and marriage is so different to everyone and what marriage means to people is different and that's okay and i think people get a little bit like unsettled because one marriage is different to another and how we progress from that is like and let me tell you if If someone came up to me 10, 15 years ago and said, you know, in 10 years, you're going to be sharing Hank and you're going to be having threesomes with Hank with another lady, I wouldn't have believed it.
Speaker 5
I would have been like, absolutely not. Like, that is the same thing.
That's trouble. I could not understand it or fathom it.
However, with this business, it just really taught us about
Speaker 5
sex and sex in a way that it is only just sex. And for us, our marriage is so much more than sex.
It is, you know, what people don't see.
Speaker 5 It's the movie nights, the memories, the experience with the kids, the late night cuddles, like it's the laughter, like laughing until we cry, just being best friends. And to us, that's marriage.
Speaker 5 And obviously there's pleasure there as well, but we can go and get pleasure elsewhere if that's what we both want. You know what I mean?
Speaker 5 Like we can both explore our pleasures and we got there in a way of communicating. And I think that's really, really important.
Speaker 5 By no means do I think sharing or opening up a marriage is for everyone.
Speaker 5 You have to be best friends and comfortable and communicate and have that trust and communication there first.
Speaker 5 But that's kind of like what led us there is a communication, just being so open and not judging.
Speaker 5 And, you know, we'll sit down every now and then and be like, hey, like, do you have any kinks or anything you'd like to explore? And we're really open without any judgment.
Speaker 5 And if we receive something that we're not quite there yet or it's not our thing, not to build any tension or get offended by it.
Speaker 5 We just take it on and just give our honest like feedback on where we are with it. And I think that's why it works so well with us because we communicate the whole way through.
Speaker 5 You know, even if we try something new when we did the threesome for the first time, it was communicating the whole way through and just touching base, like, hey, are you okay? Are you good?
Speaker 5 And just being on top of it. But we kind of progressed there because of our business, to be honest.
Speaker 5 When I started, OnlyFans was doing a lot of girl, girl scenes, and I really loved the girl energy in the room.
Speaker 5 And I knew for our next thing to kind of build up on our business would be to add another another
Speaker 5 person in and for me my boundaries is I don't want another male on my page
Speaker 5 so yeah I brought it up to Hank and I was like why don't we dive in and do a threesome
Speaker 5 and jumped in and it kind of led off to being business first and now we do it in our personal life for pleasure oh
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Speaker 1 Okay, so you did mention to me when I met you here in LA that you
Speaker 1 figure out that you actually really enjoy this part of your sexuality that you call yourself bisexual correct you're actually really enjoying because i don't want people out there to think that you're suffering or you're doing this just because hank wants to do it or it's just a part of your job you actually have fun doing it correct yeah absolutely and i wouldn't um
Speaker 5 I would say it's more of like, I love watching Hank enjoy himself and I love being there and I love enjoying each other while enjoying another female because I love the energy.
Speaker 5
So it's definitely not like, Hank's like, let's do this. This is my idea.
It was my idea to start with. We've progressed from there.
And I actually didn't realize how much I purely enjoyed it.
Speaker 5
I love my husband to death. And to see him getting pleasured and me getting pleasured at the same time is just really erotic to me.
And I do really enjoy the scenario.
Speaker 5 But it is funny that you do say that because a lot of people say that, yeah, like, oh, like, honey, you know, you don't have to be forced into this. You don't have to do that.
Speaker 5
And it's just funny how there's a perception of that. And not to say that there isn't cases like that, because, you know, there definitely could be.
But for us, it's definitely a mutual thing.
Speaker 5 And we only do what each other is 110% comfortable with.
Speaker 1
Yeah, I think it's what you just nailed it. It has to be mutual.
It has to be something that you both want to do.
Speaker 1 And I think I want to demystify this conversation that every woman out there doing OnlyFans is because they're desperate for the money and they're like miserable doing what they're doing.
Speaker 1 Actually, there are some women that are, like you said, you have an entire separate life, which is your personal life, your real name, kids, homes, and everything.
Speaker 1 And you're actually enjoying your work. I don't want people to think, because, and I'm sure you must get that a lot, right? They send messages like, oh, this is such a shitty job.
Speaker 1 It's going to be on the internet forever. Why are you taking your clothes? These girls are such miserable whores, you know, and that's not the case.
Speaker 1 And this is one of the things that I really liked about you because you have this amazing energy and you pretty obviously have a very solid marriage behind it.
Speaker 5 Yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 5 I think definitely people are quick to jump to assumptions that sex work is only for those that, you know, are traumatized, have a bad past, or just have to do it because it's the last resort.
Speaker 5 And it's absolutely not like that for everyone.
Speaker 5 You know, there are people in the industry like myself who treat it as a business, who love it, who enjoy it, who make fantastic money off of it and can retire on it and are happy to do it and love doing it.
Speaker 5
And it's also liberating, you know, as a woman to be able to do what you want when you want. I sit in the comfort of my own home.
I pick my boundaries. I say yes.
I say no.
Speaker 5 I decide on how much everything's going to be.
Speaker 5 I don't have to leave my house and I can earn crazy amount of money. I can pick when I work, if the kids have got something on at school.
Speaker 5 you know hank's retired from his job and we we work together on the business now and it's just so liberating to to be able to be you know in in an environment that you've built that everything comes down to whether you say yes or no and it's completely up to you So when you say crazy money, can you give us an idea?
Speaker 1 You don't have to tell us the exact amount, but is it six figures a month?
Speaker 1 Can you give us a ballpark? Because I know a lot of people are curious about that.
Speaker 5 Yeah, of course. So it sits around $100,000 USD a month
Speaker 2 that we bring in.
Speaker 1 That is serious money.
Speaker 5
Yeah, it absolutely is. It's like, it's incredible money.
And yeah, we're really, really proud of where we've built our business to and what we're doing and what that money has allowed us.
Speaker 5 I do like to always say, though, it's not always the case with OnlyFans.
Speaker 5 But especially now, I think that it is quite oversaturated and
Speaker 5
busy. And there is a lot of competition.
There are women out there that are earning a lot, lot, lot, lot more than me. And there are women out there that are earning a lot less.
Speaker 6 And it's...
Speaker 5 I like to always point out that we're at this place because it's been five years of continuous hard work, like in the trenches, absolutely hustling.
Speaker 5 I would never want anyone to think that this is an easy job or an easy way out to earn a lot of money.
Speaker 5 But if you do see it as a business opportunity and you do it right and you work really hard for years and years and years, it can set you in a really nice position.
Speaker 1 So you make all this money on OnlyFans Only, like literally, people go there and buy your videos?
Speaker 5 Yeah, so there's a subscription. So they have to pay to get behind the wall to talk to me, interact me, get to know me.
Speaker 5 And then people can buy videos that I've already made or they can request certain videos, which we call custom videos. And I get a lot of live calls so they can interact with me one-on-one.
Speaker 5 Um, so yeah, it's just really um
Speaker 5 the subscriptions and then what they pay to get to know me and to unlock the videos and all of that.
Speaker 1
Okay, amazing. Now, when we talked here in LA, you mentioned something to me that I thought was super interesting.
So, I want to talk about that because I think a lot of people like me didn't know.
Speaker 1 I asked you how you find the girls that you bring in for your videos and for your marriage. And you actually mentioned to me that these websites, escort websites in Australia, are completely legal.
Speaker 1 Is that correct?
Speaker 5
Yes. So in Australia, being an independent escort is legal.
There is,
Speaker 5 yeah, as long as you are doing it within the certain boundaries, it is legal.
Speaker 5 And there's actually websites that display women in Australia in their state and gives you all the information that you need the photos, how much
Speaker 5 they're willing to do XYZ for. So it's a directory where you can find independent escorts.
Speaker 1 So, oh my, I personally think it's a great idea because obviously here in the United States, everything is illegal and it just makes it so much more dangerous for the girls as well as for
Speaker 1
the clients. And I think it's such hypocrisy.
I honestly don't understand. Like if you just legalize everything, it's just going to make everything safer, so much more organized for everyone.
Speaker 1 So it blows my mind. And Americans are so uptight about it, right? They think like it's the dirtiest thing in the world, but it just sounds so civilized to me the way it is in Australia.
Speaker 5 Yeah, and you're absolutely right. It is extremely dangerous for women to be doing this in an illegal environment.
Speaker 5 Not to say by any means it's the safest thing to do here in Australia. However, you know, we can openly go to hotels, be on camera, be seen with men that walk into the hotel with us.
Speaker 5 You know, there is a lot of
Speaker 5 back-end stuff that we can do to, you know, that the women can do to protect themselves. But if you're doing it illegally, you know, you're going to have to hide it out.
Speaker 5
You're going to have to keep it really sacred and safe and a lot of it may be cash. And there's just no tracking that.
And it can end up in a really dangerous situation.
Speaker 5 At the end of the day, sex is sex, and you know, it's I know people look at it as you know, dirty and this and that, but a lot of times, you know, it's men looking for connection and men, you know, wanting to speak to other women and connect with other people, which is why OnlyFans is so big.
Speaker 5 Um, and the fact that women, you know, can choose what they can and can't do with their body is amazing. So, yeah, it would be really great to see it,
Speaker 5 you know, not be illegal.
Speaker 1 however yeah you just don't know do you well i don't think we will very unfortunately because this i i it pains me to say that i think sex in general is such taboo here in the united states i don't think we're gonna see it in our lifetime but it definitely makes me happy when i find out about a country that is so much more open-minded and organized about it because like you said it is a profession that a lot of people choose they deserve to be safe doing it i'm not condoning it, and I'm not saying anything positive or negative about it, but I think it's a woman's choice to do whatever the hell it is that she wants to do with her body.
Speaker 1 Like you said, I mean, OnlyFans is one of the largest companies in the world right now, right? One of the most profitable companies in the world. And absolutely.
Speaker 1 And one thing that I love about you, and this is why I wanted to talk to you, is because
Speaker 1 you actually found a partner that is supportive of what you do.
Speaker 1 And I think women need to know that if you decide to do that, or even like you decide to do sexy photo shoots or whatever it is that you decide to do, your partner has to be supportive of it.
Speaker 5 Absolutely. I think it definitely needs to be a team effort.
Speaker 5 You know, you need to both
Speaker 5 be communicating and talking about your boundaries, how far you want to go, what you want to do together.
Speaker 5 And yeah, it has to be in a healthy position.
Speaker 5 Your relationship needs to be in a healthy position where you're already talking and communicating and open to moving to that kind of place because, you know, it can get really, really like a slippery slope when you get into this.
Speaker 5
And, you know, a lot of men and women think that they're okay with it until it actually happens and then they're not. And that's okay as well.
But to just give grace and
Speaker 5 patience and communicate and know at the end of the day that you two are a team. And if you do it and you decide not to do it again, that's fine.
Speaker 5 Don't do it, but you're still a team at the end of the day.
Speaker 1
I love it. And you said, you actually mentioned something a few minutes ago that I think is crucial.
It's all about communication, right? You tell your partner what you want to do.
Speaker 1 And if you guys agree and you want to give it a try, go for it. And if one person is not ready for whatever it is, at least you told them what you want to do and you guys communicate about it.
Speaker 1 And I think that's so important.
Speaker 5 Yeah, absolutely. I mean, being in this industry has completely changed our marriage, even in our personal life, because it has taught us to communicate about everything.
Speaker 5 And, you know, especially for, you know, some men from this generation were communicating and emotions. And, you know, that was, it wasn't much of a conversation, you know, when they were younger.
Speaker 5 So now to have this open communication is so healthy and to kind of like unravel it all together and know where each other is sitting because at the end of the day, you're going to get problems when you speculate what other people think or what that person thinks or you know what they think of you.
Speaker 5
And at the end of the day, it's normally not that. It's just your brain that's going over and over a loop in your head.
And just communicating that with them gets it out all the time.
Speaker 1 And I'm so happy that you are so open about it because this is such an important conversation. So thank you so much again.
Speaker 1 I commend you for the work you guys do, for talking about it, for explaining a little bit more about the industry because i do not think it should be you know so so covered in in
Speaker 1 in myths you know so many people talk trash about it and they think like oh you're only fans you're a whore and you're living proof that that's not the case so i really appreciate so much you taking your time yeah i love it i really do enjoy talking about it at the end of the day you know everyone has their own opinion and i'm not here to change opinions or argue with, you know, people on the internet.
Speaker 5 Um, but I love sharing my story and showing to people as well that there is a healthy, safe way.
Speaker 5 Like, if you do ever think about doing this, there is the option to do the healthy, safe way and for it to turn out well.
Speaker 5 Um, and just spread the word that, yeah, you like the people out there that aren't just doing it because they've fallen into it.
Speaker 1 Yes, absolutely. And I hope you come back to the United States soon so we can do another one.
Speaker 2 Yes, me too.
Speaker 5 I think I am coming back soon. So
Speaker 5 let me know.
Speaker 5 I'll definitely let you know.
Speaker 5 And we can do, yeah, round two.
Speaker 1 Yeah, then we can actually go to the studio because after you left, I found out that you did the Inside OnlyFans podcast, right? And it's the same studio where we do Carondell's.
Speaker 1 I know. So I was like, oh my God, if I knew it, we could have tried to book, you know, one after the other or something
Speaker 1 at the studio. But I had no idea you were going to be in the same studio.
Speaker 5 Oh, my gosh. It's such a beautiful studio.
Speaker 1 I know. I love it.
Speaker 1 It's very special. So next time, let me know in advance because I'd love to see you again, okay?
Speaker 5 Yes, of course. Thank you so much for having me.
Speaker 2 Thank you, honey.
Speaker 1 I appreciate you, and I'll talk to you very soon, guys.
Speaker 1 No matter what you try to do, my message is stop judging women so quickly for what they do and just go do your thing and be safe and be happy, right, honey?
Speaker 5 Yeah, amen.
Speaker 1
Thank you so much. I really appreciate your time.
I'll talk to you soon. Many kisses.
Thank you.
Speaker 5 Bye.
Speaker 1 Bye. Be safe out there, guys.
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