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Oprah’s Book Club: Presented by Starbucks features coffee and conversation with Pulitzer Prize-winning author Richard Russo in the Emerald City of Seattle, Starbucks’ hometown. His much-heralded classic, Bridge of Sighs, is Oprah’s 117th book club selection. Published in 2007, The New York Times called the novel "richly evocative and beautifully wrought, delivered with deceptive ease." Surrounded by an audience of readers at a cozy Starbucks Café, Oprah talks to Richard about Bridge of Sighs, a story about small-town life, family, secrets and the complexity of marriage. Mostly taking place in the 1950s and 1960s, Richard also explores the contradictions of a time when America was rapidly changing. Oprah and Russo are joined by an audience of readers as they enjoy a Vanilla Sweet Cream Cold Brew and talk through many thought-provoking questions about the book.
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Hi, everybody! This is Richard Russo, everybody. Esteemed Pulitzer Prize author.
It's great. Once you win that Pulitzer Prize, it follows you everywhere.
Isn't it great? First line of the obituary. All right, are we ready to roll here? Hello, everybody.
A warm welcome to you. Thank you for joining me for Oprah's Book Club, presented by Starbucks.
It is wonderful to be here in stunningly beautiful Seattle. Seattle, we love you.
Starbucks hometown. This is where Starbucks was born, where the very first Starbucks opened in 1971.
Your cozy neighborhood Starbucks cafe is the perfect place to sit down with a good book, good coffee, and good company for this month's book club pick. Starbucks is pairing it with a vanilla sweet cream cold brew.
It's a slow steeped cold brew coffee accident with vanilla topped with a float of
house-made vanilla sweet cream. And my 117th book club selection is Bridge of Sighs, Bridge of Sighs by Pulitzer Prize-winning author Richard Russo.
Let's welcome Richard Russo. This novel is a layered coming of age story about the dreams.
Oh, the dreams both lost and realized of three friends from small town America. The story is full of surprises.
Going to try today not to give away too many here. This audience has read the book, all 642 pages.
Thank you, Mr. Russo.
Tell us why you loved it. I'm Quentin.
Okay, Quentin. I love this book because I love the relationship between Sarah and Kayla.
And I particularly love how Sarah introduces Kayla to a whole new world, bringing her out of the projects and introducing her through art. I'm an artist myself.
I teach underserved students here in the South King County area of Seattle, and so I'm able to relate to that story because that's something that I do in my everyday life. Hear, hear.
I'll also just say that today is the anniversary of the death of Maya Angelou. It is.
Who I took creative writing with in 2001 at Wake Forest. And so I also see the parallel where Maya Angelou has provided and given a new world to so many different people all around the world.
Yeah. Well, thank you for mentioning that.
It is our anniversary. Marcy.
Hi, I'm Marcy. Thank you so much for having us here today.
One of the things that really resonated with me was a scene with Mr. Berg's honors English class.
I just love the way that he was able to get the students to think in a nonconformist way and how he influenced the trajectory of their lives from then until the end of the book. The part that resonated the most for me was when he said that you have the majority of your learning in ages two to three and everything after that is just looking for confirmation of things you already believe.
Very insightful. Very insightful.
Well, I've loved your work since Empire Falls. And even though Bridge of Sighs was published in 2007, I only recently discovered it for the first time.
And I have to tell you, I was brought into the story, of course, by Lucy, but also I grew up working in my father's store, which was the E&W market in Nashville with a barbershop connected to the store. And my father's store reminded me so much of Ike's and so I'm curious as to how you came to this name what does the title symbolize in the context of the story the bridge of size well I think a lot of the characters in this book are Lucy, certainly, but not only Lucy, are at a point in their lives where I wouldn't say they're exactly despairing, but they're stressed, certainly, and they're thinking about where their lives are at the moment.
And I think that just how high the stakes are for almost all of the characters in this book led me in a way to the Bridge of Sighs, because as some of you may know, of course, Venice is a city of bridges. Pontes, as they call them.
But the story of the actual Bridge of Sighs is one in which the courts were held on one side of the river and the kind of the dungeons, the prison, was on the other side. And it's called the Bridge of Sighs because if you were convicted in the court, you would have to cross the Bridge of Sighs.
And the legend has it that, of course, you would sigh crossing that bridge because once you'd crossed it into the prison, you weren't coming out. Yeah, it's pretty much over.
You wouldn't necessarily be executed, but you would spend the rest of your life there. In the dungeon.
In the dungeon. And that and the fact that Venice is one of my wife's and my favorite cities, and we visited there a lot.
And so I was probably just looking for an excuse. To call it, to use it? But do you think, obviously, you would know, but was it meant to reflect the emotional and, you know, psychological journeys of the characters in any way? Probably.
Yes. I said, well, I wouldn't want you to think that authors know what they're doing when they write these books.
Most of my books take me about anywhere from three to four and a half years to write. This was the four and a half year one.
And during that time, we're basically feeling our way along, trying to figure out what's going on with these characters.
Which is always so fascinating to me. Doesn't that fascinate you?
Because when I sit down to write something, I generally know what I'm going to write.
I know why I'm going to write it because I write my own speeches.
It's never like I'm just waiting to find what the speech is going to tell me it wants to do. So what's your writing process? That's the illusion that a writer, if you spend four, four and a half years on a book, the last final illusion is to convince your readers that you knew what you were doing from the beginning.
Yeah. You can buy that if you want, but I don't recommend it because that's just not the way it works.
So you've been called the patron saint of small town fiction. I would agree with that.
Do you think that this small town of Tomlinson is a reflection of American life, or is it a reflection of the life that you grew up with?
In Gloversville, yes.
Yes to both of those.
I love small towns, Oprah,
because they offer something that I think is so important.
If you live in a big city,
chances are that you live in a neighborhood full of people like you. I remember when my daughter Emily moved to New York, and she was working with a literary agency at the time, but she was living in Brooklyn, and she could tell by looking at the other people on her subway car, she could tell where they were going to get off.
Because most of those people looked like her. They probably had, they're probably the same age.
They had the same amount of education. All of those things became identifiable as to where they were going to get off in Brooklyn.
The thing that's wonderful about small towns, especially if you're interested in class, as I am, the interesting thing about small towns is that the richest and most powerful people in the town have to cross paths with the poorest and the most disenfranchised and the most in danger. Yeah.
They simply cannot escape each other. And so you have the Mrs.
Whitings of the world from Empire Falls who are breathing the same breathing the same air as as like that poor boy, John Voss, who ends up shooting people. Yes.
And that's why I think cities. I mean, an awful lot of fiction, an awful lot of American fiction, not just American fiction, gets written about cities because that's where a lot of things happen.
But my God, small towns are just gold mines if you really want to understand America. I choose a lot of books that are based in small towns because you really get to understand the essence of who people are.
And everybody knows everybody's business and everybody's connected. I think one of the reasons why this story is so relatable is because you write about that struggle that so many people have in staying in their hometown or leaving their hometown.
Anybody here grew up in a small town?
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
Here's a great line from page three about Lucy and Sarah's choice to stay. You say, some people, upon learning how we've lived our lives, are unable to conceal their chagrin on our behalf, that our lives should be so limited as if experience so geographically circumscribed could be neither rich nor satisfying.
When I assure them that it's been both, their smiles suggest we've been blessed with self-deception by way of compensation for all we've missed. I think that's so interesting, and it brings us to your question.
James? Yeah. I grew up in a small town of 3,000 people in Canada.
The type of town that assumes your identity even before you know that. I didn't come out until my 30s, yet I think people knew long before I did.
It's the town that raised me. My mother still lives there.
It's a part of me, but there's this theme of self-exposure that we have no control over, intentional concealment, this hiding in plain sight, and also this tension between origin and becoming.
And so the question I have... this hiding in plain sight, and also this tension between origin and becoming.
And so the question I have for you is,
what does it take to leave the town that raised you?
And when we come back,
do we ever get to be the true version of the person we became?
Good question.
Whoa, James.
Good.
James. Good.
James. Well, I would begin by saying that that's what I did.
I mean, I left my small mill town in upstate New York. At my mother's insistence, really, she had a plan for me, and we followed basically the diagram for her plan.
And for a while, it kind of worked. We left upstate New York for Tucson, Arizona, and I found a new life there.
I think that one of the things that surprised my mother, who tried and fought so hard for us to, as she put it, escape this place, one of the things that surprised her the most was that I would find my way back there. I mean, I've never lived in Gloversville since leaving that place.
I go back and I visit. I still have family there.
There are still people that I love there. But I've never lived there.
But I would also say, if this kind of answers your question, is that if you read my novels, I think it would be almost as fair to say that I never left. Yeah.
So I live my imaginative life among people that I didn't know I loved until I was, I mean, all that time I spent in Arizona, I did a BA in English, an MA in English, a PhD in English, always with the idea that I would become a professor and had no idea at all that I would ever want and need as desperately to live my life imaginatively in various versions of Gloversville, New York, never occurred to me. So can you go back? Absolutely.
You can go back. And be fully yourself.
And having discovered what you didn't know before, which was who the hell you are, right? It's really this notion of being a traveler like some of the characters, taking a step off the path and making a life elsewhere. But as a traveler, we can always come home.
And that's what happens to Noonan in this book. He becomes a traveler.
He's the one who lives in Venice and thinks until pretty close to the end of the book that he knows who he is. And he carries his rage, his animosity into his paintings.
But it's only when he changes that he's able to come back home as the person he was destined to be, as opposed to the person he was trying to protect, who was so full of rage, if that makes any sense. For me, this book raises the question, I don't know about you guys, you think about this, what's more important, ambition or contentment? And the question is, was Lucy content being in that community and never leaving? I love Lucy Lynch.
And what I love about him, Oprah, is exactly what you're saying. He's an optimist, for one thing, and I try to be...
He's an optimist with limited ambition. Yes, and...
It's true. That's absolutely true.
And he has found contentment in his life, and it's, I have to say, something that I envy in him. Yeah.
I mean, he's married to this wonderful woman, Sarah. He adored his father.
It seems to me that he's living the life that he was destined to live. Very different from Newman.
Very different from Newman, Bobby McCartney. Is it admirable or naive or just a coping mechanism, his optimism? Yes.
All these. What do you think, James? Was it admirable, naive, or just a coping mechanism? Well, I know people like Lucy who have not left, and there is an optimism, and I don't think it is naive.
I think it is a choice.
Our world doesn't have to extend beyond the borders of the town.
This town I grew up in has a start and a finish.
You know when you're in town, and you know when you're out of town,
and you know everybody that's from there.
And so I think for a lot of people, it is default.
It's maybe naive. But I think for Lucy, it was a choice,
and he was happy and satisfied with that choice. Even though the town of Thomaston is small and he has been content there, he has had a journey too because he goes from Berman court in one section of that town to another section of town that's slightly more affluent.
And he ends up in the borough where what limited wealth there is in this town exists. So it's not like he hasn't taken a journey at all.
He hasn't gone to Venice, but he's gone somewhere. And that world isn't as large as Noonan's world, but it's larger than you would think at first glance because it's so centered in Ike Lubin's.
And it speaks to the fact that you can still have meaning, lead a really powerful, meaningful life, powerful for you, meaningful life, living and remaining in a small town. On page 65, Lucy says, in America, my mother claimed that the very luckiest were insulated against failure, just as it was the unavoidable destiny of the luckless to remain thwarted.
I still remember how much this upset me. There wasn't supposed to be any limit to the benefits of hard work and honesty.
And her saying that there were limits imply that she didn't believe in America or worse, in us. I know your time is so valuable to you, dear listeners, so I thank you for joining my conversation with the much-beloved and celebrated Pulitzer Prize-winning author Richard Russo.
His sixth novel, Bridge of Sighs, is my 117th Oprah's Book Club selection. Coming up, our audience has questions that explore small town life, self-exploration, and finding meaning, themes which run deep throughout this compelling story.
Maybe you left your hometown or maybe you chose to stay. Do you ever think about your life if you had made a different choice? We're going to answer that convenience.
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We're in Seattle, the home of Starbucks. And I'm talking with legendary author Richard Russo about his sixth novel, Bridge of Sighs.
It's a layered coming-of-age story about the dreams, both lost and realized, of three friends from small-town America. Let's get back to our conversation.
Kiera in our audience has a question about what are the recurring metaphors in the novel. Kiera? Bridges are featured prominently throughout the story.
First with the narrow bridge
that Lucy is afraid to cross, and then again with the famous bridge of sighs. And they come up throughout the novel many times.
I'm curious, what do they represent in the novel? I guess most people find themselves crossing bridges.
I think it's more a metaphor than anything else to get from one place to another. It may not be a physical bridge, but we pass through some kind of bridge.
I think the most important bridge in some ways in this novel is the smallest of the bridges, not the bridge of size, but that first bridge that Lucy Lynch has to cross over and he's afraid to do unless his friend... When he's held in the trunk? Yeah, yeah.
That is traumatic. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
That impacted him in ways that he didn't even realize. And is still impacting him at the end of the book.
At the end of the book. He doesn't even realize it.
Because as a result of that, I mean, the trunk that he is locked in, and you learn towards the end that Bobby Marconi himself is not free of blame in terms of what happened. That's right.
Bobby Marcononey was there. And he was there.
And as a result of that, Lucy has lived with these spells his entire life. And he's also learned a piece of wisdom that he wishes in some ways that he hadn't learned is his belief is that some people have to pay to cross the bridge and other people don't.
I'm not sure that the novel bears that out, Oprah,
because I think the actual ending of the novel suggests,
and certainly Robert Noonan seems to believe,
that in the end we all pay to cross that bridge.
But from Lucy's point of view, it sure doesn't seem fair
that some people have to
pay and other people don't have to pay. So who is Lucy? Is he a composite of other people you knew or is he completely made up? Lucy is certainly more made up than Noonan is.
Lucy and his father are based on people from my own childhood.
I had a much-beloved, adored uncle who had a milk truck. He delivered milk throughout Gloversville, New York.
And he would let... When milk was in bottles.
Yeah, when milk was in bottles, right, right. Did you all realize milk used to be in bottles?
You see people in the audience going, what? What? Used to deliver milk and bottles to your door, yes. And he would let me.
Not in my neighborhood. We had our own cow.
It was my job to take the cow out to the pasture every day. But anyway, go ahead.
But he would allow my cousin and me to surf the truck. Wow.
So that's a detail that did come from my own life. But on one side of the family, it did seem to me that there were these wonderful, generous, optimistic, and yes, naive human beings, where on the other side of my family, there was a kind of ingrained cynicism that was more likely to put people in motion.
I think one of the things about Bobby Marconi becoming Robert Noonan is that that begins with motion.
He has to go.
He has to leave this place.
Leave the town, yes.
In order to discover who he is, he's not going to discover it there.
As is the case for a lot of people having to leave small towns.
Yeah.
I mean, which made me think about, you know,
I was born and raised for the earliest years of my life, a small town in Kosciuszko, Mississippi. Who would I have been? Do you all ever think about this? Who would you have been if you had stayed? Do you think about this, James? Who would you have been if you had stayed? I would be in Mississippi with a grocery store that everybody came by the grocery store.
I would be the town place where everybody gathered, and we wouldn't just sell vegetables and food and stuff, but it would be the gathering place, and I would be doing exactly what I'm doing now. I would be, honey, say, honey, come on over here.
Let me talk to you. Yes, it's time for you to leave that man, I got to say.
You know, it would be the gathering place for people. That's what I think.
Can I ask you a question? Sure, ask me. Would that have been a tragic thing? No, it wouldn't have been a tragic thing because I wouldn't have known that there was a whole other way of being.
I would have found a way to manifest my personality and be who I am in an environment that would be conducive to that. But I would have risen in that environment.
I do believe that. That's a great answer, because I don't think it would have been either.
I mean, you are who you are, Oprah, and you have, my God, what you have done is just breathtaking and astonishing. But the other version of you, I suspect, would have been just as astonishing in its own way.
I would have been the deaconess in the church. I would have had the whole thing, you know, all of that thing.
Krista's here, and she said that she could relate to Bobby's complicated feelings about his father. Krista? Hi.
There was a passage that spoke to me and it was when Bobby was reflecting on the different version of his father that he observed with Maxine as compared to at home with his mom. I'd like to read it.
Was there one thing he wanted an explanation for or everything? Without warning, his father had stopped being a simple man.
Did Noonan want an explanation for the kindness he'd shown this Maxine and her idiot kid,
or for the mean-spirited bullying he'd offered his mother and his brothers and himself?
The best guy, Willie had called him.
In what reality was his father even a decent guy?
It was as if the first 17 years of Noonan's life had taken place under a full moon
that suddenly had waned, allowing his wolf of a father to take on the shape of an ordinary man. guy.
It was as if the first 17 years of Noonan's life had taken place under a full moon that
suddenly had waned, allowing his wolf of a father to take on the shape of an ordinary man. How had he managed to miss that transformation? So this made me think of my dad.
So my dad left my mom for another woman after 25 years of marriage. And the person he is today is very different from the person I grew up with.
And so I wonder, you know, if the real crime was the environment he created in my home, his, you know, short temper or lack of affection, or was it that he married the wrong person? And I think that the book asks the question,
can you change or are you always the same person at your core?
But when you do change,
which version of you is your true self and how much of who we are is determined by the people in our lives?
Thank you. Thank you.
Yo, I'm going to deeply sigh over the bridge for all of'all wow deep questions here bridge of size um and i think in order i don't know if i have it if that was exactly a question or but to comment on it i would i would go um to noonan um because i think that noonan when he becomes a painter, that's the first stage of something new for him. He becomes, by going to Venice and learning to paint, he's made an enormous change in his life.
It's probably not as enormous, however, is the last change in his life, which takes place just before he comes back to America for his last, as it turns out, final show. And something very surprising happens to him there because he's painting that what people think of as a self-portrait.
He's painting his father, his rage against his father that he has protected as if he might run out of it at some point. He's protected that rage.
And throughout his paintings, not only that painting of his father, but other paintings, Hugh, his agent, refers to those paintings as being all worm. Because Noonan thinks of himself as somebody who's, if there's an apple there and there's a worm at the center of the apple he's always he's always after the worm and as his paintings have gotten darker and darker hugh says that they're all worm there's this there's nothing else but at the end the astonishing thing happens that he decides to paint Sarah, this woman that he was in love with all those years ago.
And he sets up the easel right next to the easel, the all-worm version of his father. And when he begins to paint Sarah, it's as if the light from that painting of Sarah is now shedding on his father, and it changes his father's portrait.
It's not all worm anymore. I think that's the big change in Noonan is that his love for Sarah, even remembered all those years ago,
proves stronger than his hatred of his father. So when you say, which is the real person?
I'll just throw the question back at you, but I think the real Robert Noonan is the one we see just before he dies. And to add to that, because we all went, ooh, when you said, like, did your father marry the wrong person? You marry the person that is going to most help you evolve into the person that you need to be.
And perhaps being with your mother, even if it was, you know, they were not compatible or he was not happy there, it helped him move on to a better version of himself. Just like many times you're in a relationship with somebody who makes you better because their behavior is so the antithesis of what you really want.
And so you recognize this is not what I want. And so he moved out of that relationship and evolved into somebody that you don't recognize because he was a different person with her.
And also people can get really sick of themselves. You know, if you live the kind of life your father had lived with your mother and was unhappy about that, that's another way of saying that he was really sick of the person that he was.
And when he had a chance to do something he did. Yeah.
And I would only say to add on to that, one of the things that to my mind has always been the thing that I love most about fiction writing is that it has saved me from, I mean, I still get sick of myself, believe me. Yeah.
But fiction writing, losing yourself in stories of people like Lucy Lynch and Bobby Marconi and Sarah, the four and a half years that it took to write that book, losing myself in their lives was wonderful because it was a way to keep myself from being sick of myself. You know, that's the beauty of art.
It allows you to not fall into that place of being trapped in yourself all the time. Just a quick moment to say I'm so grateful you've joined us for this episode of Oprah's Book Club.
When we come back, more of my conversation with Bridge of Sighs author Richard Russo, my 117th Oprah's Book Club selection. Next, we're going to explore the complex relationships between mothers and sons.
And I asked something I've wondered while reading Bridge of Sighs. How did Richard learn to write
so profoundly from a woman's perspective? We've got more thought-provoking questions from the
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I am in the beautiful Emerald City of Seattle for this episode of Oprah's Book Club, presented by Starbucks. In case you didn't already know, Seattle is the hometown of Starbucks.
And I'm with an audience of readers. We're talking to bestselling author Richard Russo about his book Bridge of Sighs, my latest book club selection.
It's a sweeping saga that invites readers to contemplate life's biggest questions. Let's get back to more of those questions from the audience.
Karen in our audience has a question about the relationships between mothers and her children. Karen? One of the themes of the book that really resonated for me personally was the complicated relationships between mothers and sons.
So my question is, how did your relationship with your own mother influence these characters? And did you find that the mothers took the brunt of the blame for the shortcomings of the fathers? And did you consider that with creating Lucy? I don't want to overgeneralize here, but I loved my mother deeply. I owe her more than I could ever express here or anywhere.
But growing up, I could be a little prick sometimes.
And I think that boys, especially my parents separated, so there was only my mother.
And whenever anything went wrong, there was nobody to blame but her. And I think that there
were times, especially when I was younger, and like most boys, if there was only one,
whoever's handy, you know, and my mother was handy. But I would also say that
Thank you. And like most boys, if there's only one, whoever's handy, you know, and my mother was handy.
But I would also say that her dream for me, more than anything else, was responsible for the person who's sitting here in front of you today. She was absolutely determined.
And some of her gifts to me were like that. Here's what we're going to do.
She laid out the blueprint and by God, we followed that blueprint, you know, step by step by step always. But some of the greatest influences that she, the influence that she had on me was lessons she was teaching me that she didn't even know she was teaching.
For one thing, she had a very hard life. She worked in Schenectady an hour away from where we lived in Gloversville.
She worked at General Electric. When she came home, after a hard day, she still had me to deal with, all the things that I would need in school the next day, laundry that had to be done, her own dinner that had to be cooked.
And at the end of that long day, and it's now coming towards like 9 o'clock before her day is done, and it started at 6. And at the end of that long day, what she did, instead of turning on the TV, was she sat down and read.
She never told me to read. She never suggested to me that it would be a good idea.
She simply showed by example, this is what you do to reward yourself at the end of a long day and made me, without ever even suggesting it to me, made me into a voracious reader. And I can tell you, I think it's, I'm not sure if it's true for every writer, but I don't think you can be a writer without being a reader.
And that's, I mean, that was her first gift to me, the first of many, many, many gifts. And both her example and her faith in our ability to change our lives was pivotal at every stage of my childhood, adolescence, and went well into my adulthood.
Thanks, Karen. There was a famous model who was on The Oprah Show many years ago.
I'll never forget that she told me that she noticed the moment that she walked into a room and heads no longer turned when she came into the room. And you write this about aging.
You say, then the change, as if one morning she'd looked at herself in the mirror and saw into the future that before long, even the most desperate and befuddled of the sundry arms divorcees would stop coming to her for solace. Probably she saw, too, where all the martinis had settled in the dark bags under her eyes.
Her sunken cheeks had breasts. Possibly it wasn't even the bathroom mirror so much as the one on men's faces where she did not register anymore.
Or worse, she registered briefly, but then didn't pass the test. Sex had been the currency of her life, and soon she'd be broke.
If her husband had talked a good game, well, at least he was still in business. That was something you could still do.
Whereas for all Sarah knew, her father may have even warned her about the day when she'd flirt and no one would flirt back. When men no longer would gather around her at parties for the privilege of looking down her blouse.
When she'd have to face what little remained and face it alone. I want to know how you knew how to write this from a woman's perspective.
If you'd read only my first two novels, I don't think you probably would have come to that conclusion because those first two books were about male misbehavior. I was a much younger writer then, and I didn't have a lot of major female characters in those books.
But I don't think any male writer wants to publish a book with a lot of female characters and have a reviewer say, God, he doesn't know a damn thing about women, does he? And so I think my first couple of books, I didn't allow as many female characters to come in as my later ones. But there was a point in my life where I looked around, Oprah, and suddenly all the important people in my life were women.
It was my wife. By then I had two daughters.
My mother was still alive so how do you write from a woman's point of view?
One pretty good tactic, although it wasn't a tactic on my part, it just happened.
Be surrounded by women and keep your eyes open. For God's sake, observe.
You're never going to be a woman. You're going to have to indulge in your imagination.
But that's really like almost
Thank you. observe, you're never going to be a woman.
You're going to have to indulge in your imagination. But that's really like almost anything else that writers write about.
We write about people whose lives, whose lived experiences are much different from our own. I mean, one of my favorite characters is my sister Ursula from The Horst Child, who is an octogenarian Belgian nun.
What business did I have at age 40 writing about an octogenarian Belgian nun? I was never going to be a woman, never going to be a nun. I'd never set foot in Belgium and never been sold by my father to a convent.
What possible business did I have writing about this woman? But that's the task, is to imagine lives different from your own. And the only way to do that is use the tools at hand.
And in my case,
being surrounded by women at that stage in my life along the time of Nobody's Fool,
suddenly there were women everywhere
and I wasn't so terrified anymore
of being a writer who would be panned in reviews for not knowing anything about women. Well, you got it.
Thank you. You got it.
I think you have such a beautiful way of phrasing the big questions we all have about life. One of my favorite passages from page 620 is about the road not taken.
You say, don't even the best and most fortunate of lives hint at other possibilities, at a different kind of sweetness, and yes, bitterness too. Isn't this why we can't help feeling cheated even when we know we haven't been? Do you think most people feel cheated? Sure.
You do? Let me ask the audience that. But not in their best moments.
Do you guys think most people feel cheated? Hmm. Hmm.
Yeah. You don't wish you had two go-arounds? Another chance to try something different? No? Okay.
Yeah? Okay, okay. Do most people feel cheated? Raise your hand.
I think women do.
You think women do?
Oh, that's interesting. Okay, that's interesting.
Why? Why do women feel cheated? I think because we are cheated from the time... LAUGHTER From the time we're born, we have all of these societal expectations to squelch who we are and what we can do and i think now that i'm in my 50s that rooster has come home to roost in a sense and i think i realize it now more than i ever have.
And I also don't care anymore. So I talk about it a lot.
So anyway, that's I think we feel cheated because women are cheated. Yeah.
This reminds me of the passage of the book. This is on page 583 in your hymnals.
You write that the men never felt trapped. They never wondered about the mountain road not taken, never felt as though some important part of them was withering as another flourished, never were greedy for what they didn't have and would never experience.
But many of the women in the book did, of course, admit feeling trapped in their marriages, you know, but the men never felt trapped because they weren't. Yeah.
Because they weren't. So does that represent contentment or is that the essence of settling? What do you think? Well, I think Sarah is the character there through whom a lot of that gets investigated.
Towards the end of the book, she leaves Lucy and is not sure she's coming back. And it's because she's trying to locate her mother, who she knows has died.
But she's trying to locate her mother, I think, for her mother. If her mother were alive, she might be able to explain some things about Sarah's own life that she has never been able to understand and is trying to understand now.
And so she goes on this seemingly bizarre quest for an answer to a question that she thinks when she first arrives on Long Island. she thinks she's she may be on a quest that's simply impossible to
to
to on Long Island. She thinks she may be on a quest that's simply impossible to succeed in, only to discover that, no, there was a reason that she was there, a very important reason that she was there.
And her sense that something was missing when she first starts out on that journey, you think,, oh God, this is a lunatic quest. No good could possibly come of this.
And yet the longer she's away, the longer she's away from the life that she wouldn't trade, she wouldn't trade her husband in. She wouldn't.
She knows that in many respects that she's been lucky and lived a fortunate life. But that unanswered question, I think she does feel a little cheated.
And I think that she doesn't know what it is, but there's something missing. What on earth is it that is missing? And if you don't at least suspect that there's something missing, you're not going to find out what it might be.
And this line I love, too. This is on page 563.
The line of gray along the horizon is brighter now. And with the coming light, I feel a certainty.
There is, despite our wild imaginings, only one life. The ghostly others, no matter how real they seem, no matter how badly we need them, are phantoms.
The one life we're left with is sufficient to fill and refill our imperfect hearts with joy and then to shatter them and it never ever lets up. Blame love.
Blame love. Thank you, Richard Russo.
Thank you so much. Thank you.
Thank you. And this fantastic Seattle audience, thank you so much for being here.
Thank you for your questions.
Thank you so much.
This is my favorite thing to do, talk about books. Bridge of Sighs is available wherever books are sold.
And did you have to go back and read it yourself to remind yourself of what you'd written after I called? I absolutely did. You did? And what I would like to tell you now, Oprah, is that as honored as I am and believe I am so honored that you have chosen this book for your book club, you also gave me a wonderful, great gift.
Because after Bridge of Sighs, this book was a struggle. It's my longest, my most complex book.
It has the widest angle lens. It has the most characters in it and the most time elapses.
That's what makes a book big. And I had not thought about this book since it was published because I had other books.
Once a book is published, you can't help these people in this book anymore. They're on their own.
And so I wrote other books. And this was never a book that Hollywood was interested in.
And so I had no particular reason to revisit it. And Oprah, I read this book as if someone else had written it.
I had forgotten almost the whole thing.
Wow.
And I was, and I was, it was just such a gift to fall in love with these characters again.
As if someone else had written the book.
I can't thank you enough, I don't think.
But for this, I would have ever given another moment's thought to this novel.
The Bridge of Sighs. You fell in love again with lucy you fell in love again that is so great i didn't know i did that but i'm happy i'm happy to be able to do that for you okay before we go i want to share that i recently published something tailor-made for you avid readers.
So delighted to tell you about it.
It's my book lover's journal, and here's what's great.
It has over 100 prompts, like the first book that made you feel seen and the book that reminded you of what matters most.
All designed to enhance your reading experience.
It's a great gift for book lovers, and I hear book clubs are using it when they meet, which makes me so happy.
I write about some of my favorite books in first sentences. Don't you love a good first sentence? Do you struggle with that first sentence? Well, usually what happens is that the first sentence of the book appears in the first draft on page 375.
And you go and you think, oh God, that's it. That's the sentence.
I don't. I don't, it's not the first sentence that I write.
It's somewhere in the, it's years later. I say that, oh, my God, that's the first sentence of the book.
Yeah. There's a whole book about first sentences, actually.
Yeah. I love it.
So, thank you so much for being here. Thank you all.
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