172. How Glennon Knew She Needed Help: Recovery Update

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Speaker 2 I hit rock bottom. It felt like a brand new start.

Speaker 2 Welcome to We Can Do Hard Things.

Speaker 1 Welcome back. You came back.

Speaker 2 You came back. You came back.
You came back.

Speaker 3 I can't believe you're back. We are so excited today.

Speaker 2 We're talking to one of our favorite people ever today.

Speaker 3 Glennon.

Speaker 2 Oh my gosh. I know I do say that a lot, but I want to be clear.
I usually am very excited because we always are talking to one of my favorite people because we only be sincere.

Speaker 2 We are always very excited. I am because we only talk to people that we're obsessed with.

Speaker 3 That's right. Can you imagine talking to someone we were like,

Speaker 2 lackluster?

Speaker 1 The beginning of that episode would be like, welcome back to We Can New Hard Things. Our guest is.

Speaker 1 So boring. People will just switch.
Nope, not this one.

Speaker 2 But they're back.

Speaker 1 I can't believe that they keep coming back. We're so grateful.

Speaker 2 We really are. So today,

Speaker 2 our plan is to give you an update when I recorded, when we recorded, you all were there too. Yeah.
And we recorded our episode

Speaker 2 where

Speaker 2 I

Speaker 2 talked for the first time about my diagnosis of anorexia. And then I said I would come back and talk to everybody about how it's going and what recovery looks like so far and

Speaker 2 what I think other people could take from it. So we're gonna do some of that.
Now,

Speaker 2 what I want you to think about is I am speaking to you as someone who is freshly in recovery.

Speaker 2 Okay.

Speaker 2 So I might not have exactly the right language. A year from now, I might have a more or differently evolved perspective on all of this.

Speaker 2 Also, please know that my therapist will be listening to this, as always, to make sure it's safe for people to listen to.

Speaker 1 But if this is a concern for you, pass on this

Speaker 1 pass on this podcast.

Speaker 2 Yes, absolutely. There will be lots of talk about food and recovery and addiction and mental illness and all of the things.

Speaker 2 But when I was talking to my therapist and doctor about my need to talk about this on the podcast or stop doing the podcast, because I could no longer show up

Speaker 2 and tell the full truth each week without sharing this part of my life, it just started to feel, well, yeah, because this is like all I'm thinking about and all I'm doing and my days are consumed with recovery.

Speaker 2 And so when I come on here and I can't refer to it, I feel like I'm

Speaker 2 too cut off from the revolution that's happening inside of me and I can't share any of it, and it starts to feel very inauthentic.

Speaker 2 But it's weird because when we look at the world, we often see people talking about things after they feel done with them.

Speaker 2 And there's lots of reasons for that. It's not just because people are afraid to be vulnerable.

Speaker 2 It's also because it can be safer for the person talking about it and safer for the person listening to it when

Speaker 2 the language and the perspective is safer because it's healthier. So

Speaker 2 one thing that my doctor doctor said to me was, oh, that's interesting. So you're going to talk about it now.
So you're not doing the ta-da.

Speaker 2 And I was like, exactly.

Speaker 1 Damn it, I'm a tada.

Speaker 2 I'm not doing the,

Speaker 2 I'm going to wait until I'm done. And then I'm going to tell you everything that happened now from this ta-da place,

Speaker 2 the before and after. Now, I will say that what I said to my doctor is the reason I'm not waiting for the tada or the after moment is because I don't ever remember being an after

Speaker 2 ever in my life.

Speaker 3 So, well, also, don't you think there's a risk? It's the service to the people that are around you in your life when you're speaking from

Speaker 3 the unfinished place

Speaker 3 that allows everyone else to speak from the unfinished place.

Speaker 3 But there's also this risk to me when I think about that where I'm like, okay, is my desire to speak from the Tada actually driving me to an end point that might not be my natural end point?

Speaker 3 Like I'm like, this is what I want to speak from. So this is where I need to get.
Instead of, I just need to get where my road takes me.

Speaker 3 If you have an end in mind, you're going to figure out a way to get there. But that might not be the end you're supposed to have.

Speaker 3 So when you start with that, it's a predestined end that might be less beautiful and wild and interesting than you can imagine from your middle place.

Speaker 2 The deciding that I have to have a destination might skew the journey in a way that it wouldn't have been had I not had that false end goal.

Speaker 3 It's like with Love Warrior where you're like, did I live it and then write it? Or did I write the ending in my heart? And then I was like, I'll live this.

Speaker 2 Exactly. Exactly.

Speaker 2 Exactly.

Speaker 2 And also, I would say that demanding this idea that we all have to only speak from our tadas or our afters is not fair to people like me.

Speaker 2 It's certainly not fair to anyone with mental differences because there's no after

Speaker 2 ever.

Speaker 2 So it would just silence people completely.

Speaker 1 And so few people talk about the middle, talk about the messy middle where things are not perfect, things are confusing. You don't even know what the end result or where you're going to be is.

Speaker 2 And I think it's a service service to show up as you are in the in the middle no matter what it looks like thank you it's it's interesting because especially i think for women we're all trying to avoid the she's crazy she's too much she's

Speaker 2 like all so it's very

Speaker 2 understandable to not put yourself in that

Speaker 2 to make yourself vulnerable but it's that ship has sailed for me so we're fine um so here we are so here we are and also the other reason is I want to mark throughout this conversation, every time part of my recovery has cost a lot of money because

Speaker 2 the recovery process so far for me this time is something that

Speaker 2 I'm so grateful to be doing right now. And I would never at any other point of my life before now, been able to have afforded the recovery that I'm doing right now.

Speaker 2 which is not the fault of the providers who are providing providing the services right now that I'm needing for my recovery, but it is a mega problem.

Speaker 2 And so I just want to point it out to show that

Speaker 2 so far, what I've noticed is that comprehensive healing or recovery in the eating disorder world is a shit ton of money and time that people don't have.

Speaker 2 And so maybe there's parts of this that I just feel like a call to somehow

Speaker 2 share what I'm learning.

Speaker 3 It's also bullshit that like bullshit that healing

Speaker 3 is

Speaker 3 a privilege for those who are not only emotionally resourced, but financially resourced.

Speaker 2 Yeah. It's insane.
It's like this culture makes it. That's not a good idea.
It's insane.

Speaker 2 It's insane. We're already

Speaker 3 rich people can afford to not be crazy. It's fucking insane.

Speaker 2 It is though, but it's not insane. It's very calculated.
It's like the culture that makes you that sick then charges you a shitload to

Speaker 2 get the toxins out of your body that it put in your body. It's a good system.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 here I want to talk about the moment that I feel like I started recovery because this is so interesting. What my therapist and doctor calls it is sobriety from restriction.

Speaker 2 The first time my doctor said, okay, so you've been sober from restriction for 14 days or whatever. I was like, what did you say?

Speaker 2 And she said, you've not been restricting. Restricting is what you're addicted to.

Speaker 2 And so if you've gone 14 days without listening to that voice inside your head that's saying, don't eat, don't eat, then that's sobriety from restriction, which for somebody who had thought she'd been sober for 28 years, it's very interesting that we're now using that language again.

Speaker 2 But it makes very good sense to me now. Okay.

Speaker 3 Which ironically, the way you got sober from from alcohol is by restricting your alcohol use.

Speaker 3 So in a way, your eating disorder mind made you a superhero in overcoming that addiction because you're like, oh, restrict. I can do that.

Speaker 2 I can do that shit. And then also, hello, the restricting voice is how I felt like I was curing my bulimia.

Speaker 2 As long as I don't overeat and binge, then I'm safe.

Speaker 1 It's very confusing up there.

Speaker 2 It's, it's very confusing up here. Wow.
That is, thank you.

Speaker 1 It's that, that, that is really hard.

Speaker 2 I actually feel I just like put my mind in there and I'm like, this is confusing. It is confusing, babe.
And thank you for saying that. So for all of my

Speaker 2 the confusing up here, siblings who are listening in the pod squad, I would like to, from my perspective, try to explain what the moment of recovery feels like, the surrender moment.

Speaker 2 So one night, Abby was talking, we were talking about when I had purged. Okay.

Speaker 2 This is a while back. We were talking it through and Abby said to me, so in that moment, like when you went to purge, did you know it was wrong?

Speaker 2 First of all, I was jarred by the wrong

Speaker 2 word.

Speaker 2 But what I realized in that, when she asked me that, was like, oh, no, no, no, no, no. Like in my mind, that was right.

Speaker 2 I had eaten it enough that I felt uncomfortable. And my mind

Speaker 2 was absolutely positive that the right thing to do, the responsible thing to do, was to get that food out.

Speaker 2 Other people might be able to like eat and rest and accept themselves and yada yada, but that is not my path. That is not what's right for me.

Speaker 2 It's not that I was continuously choosing the wrong thing and I just couldn't stop choosing the wrong thing.

Speaker 2 It's that wrong and right, healthy and unhealthy, safe and unsafe were switched completely in my mind

Speaker 2 that i truly believed the truest voice in my head was saying no no no for you this is the right thing this is the right thing don't eat get it out don't eat okay so this is the deepest pain of mental illness

Speaker 2 i i'm like hoping to god i can explain this right because it's a hijacking of your core self For someone who relies so much on intuition, it's this moment where you realize, oh my God,

Speaker 2 I actually cannot trust my intuition. I cannot trust myself.
My guide inside is trying to kill me. It's like the call is coming from inside the house.

Speaker 2 So the moment where you figure out

Speaker 2 that that is what's happening,

Speaker 2 it's like. Even when you're talking to the people you love the most, the smartest people, the whomever, you're nodding and agreeing.
Yes, yes, yes, I hear what you're saying. That sounds sane.

Speaker 2 Yes, yes, yes. But there's a voice inside of us that's saying, nope, that's not for you.

Speaker 1 So you would call that your intuition, or would you call that a part of your brain that wasn't aligned with your intuition?

Speaker 2 So that's what it is. It's a part of my brain that isn't aligned with intuition, but you, it's impossible to know that the difference in the moment.

Speaker 2 When your brain is playing tricks on you, it's impossible to know that.

Speaker 2 Would I say that maybe somewhere there was like a deeper, deeper, deeper, deeper self that was questioning that loud, loud voice?

Speaker 2 Probably,

Speaker 2 which is why

Speaker 2 there's a moment of surrender. There's a moment where I've talked to the doctor, I've talked to the therapist, I've talked to my wife, I know what my kids think.
I suddenly am like, oh,

Speaker 2 okay,

Speaker 2 I can't trust this self.

Speaker 2 I have to actually

Speaker 2 align myself away from myself, if that makes any sense.

Speaker 2 If my core self is standing next to the eating disorder voice who's trying to keep me safe and is saying, no, no, no, don't do what they're saying. Don't do what they're saying.

Speaker 2 You're not going to be safe. Stay with me.
Stay with me. Keep restricting.

Speaker 2 I have to move myself away from that voice and align myself with the experts.

Speaker 2 And now it's me and the experts versus the eating disorder voice, whereas it used to be me and the eating disorder voice versus everybody else, including the experts. Okay.

Speaker 2 And that is a terrifying freaking moment, especially for someone who has been

Speaker 2 in fundamentalist religion, who is like, no, no, no, I have saved myself by not listening to other voices more than my own.

Speaker 2 For a person who has been in a therapist's office before, where the therapist told me when I was in love with you, that I should just keep giving Craig blow a jobs and that's how I should get through my marriage.

Speaker 2 I have

Speaker 2 become very wary of that. I just

Speaker 2 have a very hard time surrendering

Speaker 2 to an expert.

Speaker 2 Is any, first of all, can you check in with me? Is anything in any of this making sense? Yeah.

Speaker 1 My question would be, when was this moment for you that you decided to align with your highest best self and the experts and not your eating disorder voice?

Speaker 1 Because I have an idea.

Speaker 2 I think it was just, I was reading all the books, seeing myself in all the books.

Speaker 2 I felt like I was seeing myself through the doctor and therapists in your eyes.

Speaker 2 And I felt like I was seeing myself when my friends are telling me that the thing that is fucked up about their life is not a problem.

Speaker 2 Do you know what I mean? Yeah.

Speaker 1 Remember the night we got into bed and you said, I'm feeling,

Speaker 1 feeling like, I'm having an urge

Speaker 1 that I want to go maybe throw up or something, or I don't know the exact words you used. And you shared with me the moment that

Speaker 1 you would normally keep to yourself and maybe go do it or not do it, but you put this moment outside of yourself.

Speaker 2 And that was a betrayal of the eating disorder. That's right.
I was like, oh, we're not keeping this secret. I'm betraying you.
Yeah. Yeah.
And then I know what the other moment was. It was so simple.

Speaker 2 It was when my my therapist said,

Speaker 2 okay, that voice inside of you, that eating disorder voice, and we all have the shitty voices inside of ourselves, right? We all have the shitty voices who say, you're not good enough.

Speaker 2 You can't trust anybody. You're not safe.
You're blah, blah, blah.

Speaker 2 So that voice tells you that you need to not eat that, that you need to restrict that. If you eat a whole meal, whatever.
What if Tish came to you and told you that she was thinking in that way?

Speaker 2 What would you say to her?

Speaker 2 And I said,

Speaker 2 okay, well, I would say that is, I immediately had a visceral reaction of thinking of my teenage baby girl, teenage baby girl, my teenage halfway grown daughter coming to me and saying, well, I can't eat that because, I mean, I had a visceral reaction to it.

Speaker 2 I said, I would say, baby, you know, let's get some help. Let's, that is not freedom.
That I, you know, and, and so I'm saying that, this visceral reaction to what I would say to my girl.

Speaker 2 And that's the moment where I was like, oh, I guess I do have a completely healthy self that knows that this shit is not true.

Speaker 2 If my daughter was saying it, I would look at her and say, oh, my God, she's, she's sick.

Speaker 2 But I wasn't saying to myself, oh, my God, I'm sick.

Speaker 2 And so it was that moment of saying, I would say, oh, my God, my baby's sick and she needs help that that I had to intellectually

Speaker 2 admit that that meant that I needed to say myself, oh my God, baby, we're sick, we need help.

Speaker 2 So that was the moment, which is so interesting, right? It's like, I can never understand anything unless I put it in the perspective of my children. That's how I decided to leave my marriage.
Like,

Speaker 2 wait, would you want this marriage for your daughter? No.

Speaker 2 Okay, well, then do we want this for us?

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 that was the moment when I realized, oh, okay.

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Speaker 1 I find it really interesting. I'm a lot slower to process into

Speaker 1 not right or wrong, but the intuition of

Speaker 1 assessing a situation and knowing like the right thing to do. You are like off the charts, like amazing at that, except when it comes to this, this like one part of yourself.

Speaker 1 And I find it really interesting that,

Speaker 1 I don't know, bringing the perspective of a child, it's almost like you have to keep bringing the perspective of your child self.

Speaker 2 When you think of a kid, you think

Speaker 2 they are blameless, like they are pure, yeah. You want the best for them.
You can see all of their beauty and their freshness to the world and their, and you can see so clearly what you want for them.

Speaker 2 It's a strategy to be like, wait, what would I want for her? Okay, wait, I also should want that for myself. Yeah.

Speaker 3 Right. If you personally don't relate to this, maybe you can relate to the fact that

Speaker 2 if

Speaker 3 your dear friend makes one mistake, you would look at that and say, oh my gosh, shake it off. You're awesome.
You're amazing. You do all these other things.
You just made a mistake. Like, let it go.

Speaker 3 You might make a mistake and spend the next three weeks berating the shit out of yourself and think that you are not worthy of the grace that you would give anyone else. So that's my question.

Speaker 3 Like, what does it boil down to? At the end of the day, do you think that

Speaker 3 the

Speaker 3 peace

Speaker 3 that you would think your daughter deserved in that situation, at the end of the day, do you feel like you don't deserve that? Like, yes, I get it.

Speaker 3 For everyone else, that makes sense that they would deserve to have a life

Speaker 3 like that.

Speaker 2 But I don't think that I qualify.

Speaker 2 Well, I don't think it's that intellectualized.

Speaker 2 I think the best way I could describe it at the risk of this being a little bit dangerous, but I'm going to say it anyway because it feels very true to me, is that with this particular kind of thing, it feels a little bit like I understand being in an abusive relationship with, but it's like being in an abusive relationship with self.

Speaker 2 So it's like when you think about the markers of an abusive relationship, you get gaslit constantly, you get isolated, you aren't allowed allowed to talk to anybody else about it the thing tells you i'm just keeping you safe i'm keeping you safe i'm keeping you safe you're different

Speaker 2 you're different this is special that might be what they have but you don't get that this is it's we are the only ones we can count on you and me and you yes and you can just keep the putting the face on the outside because you know that what you have at home

Speaker 2 nobody will understand.

Speaker 2 And all I can tell you is it's not like I'm intellectually thinking, everybody else should have body freedom except for me.

Speaker 2 It feels like the, the, the fuzziness of coming out of an abusive relationship where you're like, oh my God, what happened?

Speaker 3 That feels exactly right to me. I mean, an eating disorder, it feels like it's an abusive relationship with yourself.
Yes.

Speaker 3 And in the same way that when you're in an abusive relationship, anyone that approaches you to say,

Speaker 2 are you sure?

Speaker 3 Do you deserve, is everything okay?

Speaker 3 You're immediately defensive and say, like, you don't understand us. You don't understand.
They don't get us. They'll never understand.
And you, that is in a way what you're doing with yourself. Yes.

Speaker 3 You don't understand how we're keeping me safe.

Speaker 2 Yes. And then somebody you've let in just a little bit says, okay, so what if your baby girl

Speaker 2 was in a relationship with somebody who was saying those things to them? What what would you do?

Speaker 2 And your whole body explodes and you have visions of tearing to shreds the other person and taking your baby and running away with her. And then you're like, wait,

Speaker 2 because, oh, I'm thinking that because I would know that that other person had bad intentions, not good intentions. So why maybe that abusive voice in my head has, does not have our right intention.

Speaker 2 Like,

Speaker 2 that's the best way I can explain it.

Speaker 2 Abusive relationship with self.

Speaker 1 I think that I would like to dig in more to the unfolding of this because i think it's really important that that you have this a few moments where you're starting to consider at least maybe surrender i don't know if that's the word um

Speaker 1 turning down the volume of your eating disorder voice

Speaker 1 maybe once and for all or you're considering this option

Speaker 1 how does that play out in a day for you.

Speaker 1 So in terms of like the thoughts that you would have before

Speaker 2 and after. Yeah, that's so good.
Okay. So, what I want to say about the eating disorder voice is it doesn't work or hasn't worked for me to then continue to understand it as an abusive relationship.

Speaker 2 The eating disorder voice will always be there. So, you know, that saying, like, when

Speaker 2 the only tool you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail.

Speaker 2 So, what my therapist said early on, which blew my mind, was the eating disorder voice will eventually just become the voice that tells you when you need

Speaker 2 something.

Speaker 2 Just become the voice inside of you that will guide you towards what you need. What that means is

Speaker 2 I forever, every time anything happens, every time something's out of control, every time I'm exhausted, every time I'm angry, every time whatever, my only tool is a hammer.

Speaker 2 So my voice says to me, Stop eating. Everything's out of control.
We can control this one thing. The whole world is woo-woo-woo, but you've got it.
You've got this. We've got this.

Speaker 2 No matter what the problem is, my reaction is body food. So, the idea is not to banish this eating disorder voice.
It's to, and I'm putting some of this in my own words.

Speaker 2 So, this is just what I'm doing. My goal is to educate and love and give the eating disorder voice some more options.
And also,

Speaker 2 help the eating disorder voice trust me.

Speaker 2 For example, when my voice says, we're tired,

Speaker 2 I want that voice to know I will say, okay, we're going to rest.

Speaker 3 Yeah.

Speaker 2 Or everything's out of control. Okay,

Speaker 2 you must be really scared. And we're just going to take it really easy for a little while.

Speaker 2 And we're going to just do some more breathing and we're just going to treat ourselves like a little teeny baby and we're going to like, or plant and we're going to water ourselves and we're going to sun ourselves.

Speaker 2 I think that I also have have a responsibility to this other voice to say to it, if you tell me what we need, I will get it for us.

Speaker 2 And we don't always have to resort to this one tool that we thought we had to deal with every emotion or happening or being human on earth. Yeah.
Is that making sense?

Speaker 3 That makes a lot of sense to me. That's really helpful.
It's like a, it's a.

Speaker 3 Toolbox and a feeling. It's like though you say fat is not a feeling.

Speaker 3 Like when if you're feeling lonely or you're feeling sad or you're feeling stressed or you're feeling overwhelmed or you're feeling betrayed or you're feeling hopeless,

Speaker 3 all of that might come in. Your output might be fat.

Speaker 2 I feel fat. Exactly.

Speaker 3 Like that's not accurate. You can have any number of needs, but if your only move,

Speaker 3 if your only move is either deprivation or binging to process whatever emotion, then that makes sense.

Speaker 3 That is what you would naturally do because you do, whether you're recognizing it or not, have a shit ton of emotions

Speaker 3 and a shit ton of things to process through. So if that's your only move, you're sure shit going to be doing that move every day.

Speaker 2 Exactly. And that's the thing is that I offer my story as an example of this, but I know I have a friend who has, is in an abusive relationship in her mind with shopping.

Speaker 2 And every time

Speaker 2 she feels anything,

Speaker 2 her go-to move is scroll, scroll, scroll, cart, cart, cart. By the way, I've got a little of that too.
It's a little bit abusive with herself because it's not going well.

Speaker 3 Oh, and it's secrets. Yes.
And it breaks up relationships and you're hiding the thing and you're feeling guilty for the thing.

Speaker 3 And also, by the way, there's a direct corollary to the purging because there's often like, I buy it all. I got the buzz.
Okay, now I'm going to return it all.

Speaker 2 Like, there's a whole thing there, but that's the same. I do that too.
I do that too. I buy and return.
Yeah.

Speaker 1 I have a question. What are some of the specific tools that you feel like you're employing right now in your life?

Speaker 2 So some specifics, disclaimer, everybody's is different.

Speaker 2 Everybody's recovery is different.

Speaker 2 Through

Speaker 2 my doctor, my therapist, both of which cost money.

Speaker 2 I have someone helping me with food now, which also costs a lot of money. So I have to eat three meals a day and snacks without any talking about it or negotiating about it.

Speaker 2 That's like has to be done. I could talk for hours about that situation.
I wake up every day

Speaker 2 trying to figure out if it's the most amazing like jackpot situation of my life that I get to eat again. Like what? I get to eat again.
I'm going to eat again three times a day. What?

Speaker 2 Or waking up like it's Groundhog Day. Like I cannot believe that I'm going to do this again.
It depends on which voice is louder, I guess.

Speaker 2 On a certain day. On a certain day, yeah.

Speaker 1 So you're still, it's still not necessarily a negotiation, but still a chore or a joy.

Speaker 2 It's both at this moment. And I'm not even ready to like, I think eventually I'll, we'll figure that out, the food thing, but I'm just doing it, doing it.

Speaker 2 So what I'm doing is I am surrendering also to the kind of program thing that I'm in with my therapist. Now,

Speaker 2 one of the things I tend to do with any sort of improvement or therapy or whatever is to get in there,

Speaker 2 read what's going on,

Speaker 2 read what they're trying to teach me, read their books, listen to their things, get smarter than them, and be like, got it, I got it.

Speaker 2 Okay. And I'm saying that, like, that is truly what I do.
I'm like,

Speaker 2 I see your, your resources and your wisdom, and I'm not going to do it all.

Speaker 2 I'm not going to like go through your writing prompts and do your exercises because I've got it. I've intellectualized what you're trying to give.

Speaker 2 And I just feel like I'm taking like an advanced level class. And so I am not doing that.

Speaker 2 I am doing the journals and the writing prompts and the exploration of the past and the feeling.

Speaker 2 Like I'm just,

Speaker 2 and I'm just going to say, I do understand

Speaker 2 why we do those things, why we should. And I understand why perhaps it hasn't worked for me in the past.
It reminds me very much of

Speaker 2 Cole Arthur Riley and how she talks about like liberation being experienced in the body. You can't intellectualize this shit.
Like it all has to be experienced, this sort of recovery.

Speaker 2 I also have a scale that I have to weigh myself on, but I don't get to, there's no numbers on the scale. So the scale sends my numbers to my therapist.

Speaker 2 It's so wild. And the idea behind that is that the goal will be no scales ever, ever again in my entire life, but, but that my recovery does need to be monitored at this moment in terms of weight gain

Speaker 2 or loss. Also,

Speaker 2 what's one of the another reason for that is that when you are recovering from an eating disorder, you don't have any actual

Speaker 2 take on what's happening.

Speaker 3 Yeah.

Speaker 2 Like you can feel like you've gained 25 pounds and you have gained three pounds. So like

Speaker 2 your therapist can kind of give you reality checks too. So our deal between each other is we have a certain number amount

Speaker 2 that

Speaker 2 she promised me if I go over, she will tell me. Yeah, threshold.
And before that, we won't discuss it. So it kind of gives me this safety net for this period.

Speaker 3 So do you feel in the back of your mind like nervous every time you meet like, oh, is she going to tell me today? that we're at that number?

Speaker 2 I have recently thought that a few times.

Speaker 2 Yeah, I have recently thought that a few times. I have gained weight.
Like just factually, I have gained weight. She's told me that.
I know that. I had this amazing day that I want to talk about now

Speaker 2 that I

Speaker 2 went to get dressed and I tried to put on one of my pairs of jeans and they wouldn't fit.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 I looked. at my closet and I just had this moment of, oh my God,

Speaker 2 everything in my closet is so fucking tight. All of my jeans are so tight.

Speaker 2 Like I've probably gained, at this point, I'd probably gained like five pounds or something, and I couldn't wear any of my clothes.

Speaker 2 I gained five pounds and I couldn't wear any of my clothes. Why?

Speaker 2 I looked at my closet and suddenly it turned into this nefarious line. My jeans were lined up.
I was like, they're like a line of fucking police people.

Speaker 2 I have created

Speaker 2 my closet in a way that reminds me every single damn day. Don't you step out of line.

Speaker 3 Yeah.

Speaker 2 I have spent money on clothes that are policing my body.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 the next day,

Speaker 2 I went in my closet and packed up every single tight thing. I own no more tight clothes.
And P.S., another thing that costs money.

Speaker 2 I had to go buy bigger pants and pants that I've decided I don't want clothes that give me any feedback about my body. I don't want fucking feedback from my fucking inanimate clothes.

Speaker 3 From the shit that I buy.

Speaker 2 That I buy this shit and then you have an opinion about my lunch.

Speaker 2 Yeah. Yeah.
And by the way,

Speaker 2 there is a lot of baffling rage that goes on with this process, I have noticed. Yeah.
That day in my closet, I was full of rage.

Speaker 2 I had a day where i was walking from my car

Speaker 2 to my

Speaker 2 i don't know some store and i was walking down the street and i

Speaker 2 every single i mean i we do live in la but every single store every single window every single those little like placards that sit outside said something about like come in here and get your fat frozen off come in here and get your forehead straightened come in here and get your cryo shit taken off your thighs.

Speaker 2 Like everything, it just cryos. It just felt like, oh my God, we don't stand a fucking chance.

Speaker 3 Yeah.

Speaker 2 We do not stand a fucking chance. And like, it's a whole closet outside.
Yeah. It's a whole closet outside.

Speaker 2 We don't even notice it. It's like that, that

Speaker 2 speech about we can't see the water. We're the fish.
We don't even know we live in water because the water is our whole world. When you start to

Speaker 2 wake up to,

Speaker 2 you know, what we would call like diet culture or beauty culture which i don't even think any of that is strong enough or culture or culture right just culture sickness it's so it's it is like a cult

Speaker 2 and then you start seeing it like oh my god we're like if i saw this on a tv show i'd be like oh my god that's not real it's real you'd be like a little heavy-handed on this exact

Speaker 2 on the nose we're gonna melt our asses off okay oh no no no you're gonna melt your ass off somebody's gonna buy that

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Speaker 2 So I have a question.

Speaker 1 Is there any part of your

Speaker 1 self that is having a revolution? So like first is the revelation and then comes the revolution. So now you are wearing, I would say, more comfortable clothes.

Speaker 2 I sure as hella.

Speaker 1 You just were like uncomfortable for a long time. When you're putting those clothes on, are you thinking, gosh, this is how I've been made to feel?

Speaker 1 I was supposed to be feeling this way all along, or are you not there yet?

Speaker 2 No, I am definitely there yet. You know, I'm just having a clothes confusion.
I cannot speak to clothes right now. I'm so confused about clothes.

Speaker 1 Yeah, but your energy feels more comfortable.

Speaker 2 Yes, I would agree with that.

Speaker 1 You might be confused because you're working it out, but like just even the way that you're walking around the house and the way that you lay, clothes restrict you from movement when they're too tight.

Speaker 1 So like you, you are, when you're reading your books on the couch, you're not forced to sit in a specific

Speaker 2 way.

Speaker 1 You're just like laying there as your body should. Yeah.
And I see a little bit of loosening of you

Speaker 2 in that way. So I want to talk then about

Speaker 2 mentally what's happening because i i feel like in some ways this has been the most interesting part i know what i was doing i was walking from ironically i was walking from my car to the hairdresser to get all the gray taken out of my hair um

Speaker 3 because i'm so revolutionized right right what baby steps assholes baby steps

Speaker 2 um

Speaker 2 so i went in there and my hairdresser who i love said what's going on with you your hair are you growing are you taking supplements? Your hair is different. Your hair is growing.

Speaker 2 There's all this new growth. And I was like,

Speaker 2 I think I'm trying this new wellness trend that's called eating food.

Speaker 2 But so anyway, these interesting things started happening. And

Speaker 2 what the hardest part, the most confusing part of the beginning, Now I will try to explain this, which because the rest has made so much sense, I'm sure that this one will be completely understandable.

Speaker 2 So

Speaker 2 the way that I felt in the beginning,

Speaker 2 in the beginning, when I was starting to eat

Speaker 2 three meals a day and snacks, when I was starting to

Speaker 2 do all the therapy, when I was starting to re-understand my own narrative of my life, when I was starting to understand that so much of what I thought was

Speaker 2 unfixable anxiety was actually that I was hungry. I was really hungry.
I've been very hungry for a very long time. And being very hungry has changed my brain.

Speaker 2 When I started doing all that, reprogramming my brain, re living in my body, do you remember when I was talking about

Speaker 2 the in the landing episode, when I was talking about sitting with my family in the car and I said, I feel like all of them just trust gravity to hold them down, and I'm just flying away constantly.

Speaker 2 What I will say about the first month of recovery from anorexia is that I felt like gravity applied to me for the first time.

Speaker 3 And I actually had those thoughts.

Speaker 2 Oh my God. And I did not mean that in a good way.

Speaker 2 I felt like I was every day, and Abby, you remember all of this, I felt like I was walking through molasses. I felt like somebody had poured honey all over my brain.
Nothing was clear.

Speaker 2 Nothing, I was exhausted. It was like walking through split pea soup, just like split pea soup, what? Like thick and green and you can't see through it and it's opaque and like

Speaker 2 and

Speaker 2 I couldn't talk.

Speaker 1 Yeah, you were, you were slow.

Speaker 2 I was slow.

Speaker 1 And you were,

Speaker 1 I think that there was a grieving process because it was like, I don't know, maybe for the first time, it looked like you were realizing you were human.

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 2 It was horrific. I was like, is this how people feel? What is this shit? Anxiety is high and buzzing.

Speaker 2 Anxiety is nervous and it's in your mind and it's buzzy and it's up high and it's quick and it's performing. It's ready.

Speaker 3 It's ready.

Speaker 2 Ready. It's fight or flight constantly.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 this

Speaker 2 settling from my brain into my body

Speaker 2 was very highly uncomfortable. I had moments on the podcast, I couldn't recall words.
I would look at Abby like, what the hell? You said to me one time, it feels like you're a human being.

Speaker 2 You're more human. And you meant that as a compliment.
And I was so offended by it.

Speaker 1 You're no longer slower in your mind. You've come through that.
But I just remember feeling like, oh my gosh, thank God she is human.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 2 And then I went on the road during this monkey in my body human time

Speaker 2 to do my work

Speaker 2 and stand on stages and talk.

Speaker 2 And

Speaker 2 I was sitting on a stage in front of 1,500 people.

Speaker 2 And I looked out at the crowd.

Speaker 2 And I

Speaker 2 was like,

Speaker 2 What the fuck am I doing? I think I've been doing this job for 15 years. I've been standing on stages in front of those freaking stadiums.

Speaker 2 I think I just buzzed it out in my brain, performed it, performed it, left my body, and then came back stage and was like, Whoa, what the fuck was that?

Speaker 2 For the first time, I was in my body staring at these people. And I was like, Oh, this is ridiculous.

Speaker 3 This is not responsible.

Speaker 2 Who proved this?

Speaker 2 Who would do this? But tragically, I had that thought 25%

Speaker 2 into this speech

Speaker 2 that I was in my body for the first time.

Speaker 2 I made it through, left the stage soon after, called our team and said, I'm done with this. I still am at the point where I have to abandon myself and go to my anxiety self to do it.

Speaker 2 So I'm not going to do it until I have more of this shit figured out because I want to be able to speak, but I have to do it from a different energy, from a different place.

Speaker 2 I have to figure out how to do it

Speaker 2 while I'm still in my body. And then I do want to end with this.
After I had made that decision to never leave, then Jane Fonda's people called and said, will you please come do her toast?

Speaker 2 And I wasn't going to say to Jane Fonda, no, because I'm working on embodiment. So I can't go talk to Jane Fonda, who taught me about embodiment.
So

Speaker 2 I said, shit. All right.
Abby and I went together. If you've listened to the Jane Fonda episode, that is the day I stood up.
I stood on stage. I read the toast, which is very unlike me.

Speaker 2 Usually I'd have it memorized, perfected, nail in the,

Speaker 2 I read it and I started crying on stage. Yeah.

Speaker 2 And then when I came off stage, Emily's wife, Tristan,

Speaker 2 she had tears in her eyes and she said, you just seemed so embodied up there.

Speaker 2 And I was like, what the fuck is going on?

Speaker 1 Halfway through the toast, you looked at me

Speaker 2 because I was crying.

Speaker 1 You're crying and you pull the mic away, and you go, What is happening?

Speaker 2 The second time I've said, What is happening?

Speaker 3 I'm like, You're doing great, keep going because tears were coming out of my eyeballs as if you were actually experiencing something as opposed to observing yourself experiencing something.

Speaker 2 That's right,

Speaker 2 as if I was a human being having a human experience instead of a performing being impersonating a human being.

Speaker 2 I felt like so, oh my god, I'm

Speaker 2 I felt like I was being myself and it was going okay.

Speaker 2 I don't know how else to explain it. I felt like, oh my God, I just was myself

Speaker 2 and it wasn't a disappointment to everyone. In fact, the opposite.

Speaker 2 And honestly, that's how I feel on the pod. That's why I can do this and not

Speaker 2 other things yet.

Speaker 3 Is that the end of show when you say I was being myself and it wasn't a disappointment to people?

Speaker 3 Because you can't often tell that. Like there, that's not,

Speaker 3 that can't be a clarity of that's the test. Because like this podcast right now, people could be like, that's amazing.

Speaker 3 She expressed exactly what I've been feeling or I don't understand the damn word she just said. So that can't be the indicia of whether it's working.

Speaker 3 Doesn't it have to be like, I can be myself and it's not.

Speaker 2 effortful or it doesn't require a certain thing of me or yes, but eventually.

Speaker 2 If I were in the ta-da part, if I were coming to you and saying, I've got this figured out, that maybe that's where I would be.

Speaker 2 But for me, that step was about, wait, I just

Speaker 2 surrendered and was myself and the whole world didn't fall apart.

Speaker 2 I don't know. Like what you're saying sounds like the goal for me.

Speaker 2 And once I get to that, I'll be able to speak. Yeah.

Speaker 1 On stages. The pot of gold at the the end of that rainbow is what Tristan said to you.
That affirmation of seeing

Speaker 1 and feeling and being in that moment and seeing somebody else, seeing you being embodied,

Speaker 1 that affirmation will get you down the road of just being yourself all the time, everywhere. And no matter what happens, that's the

Speaker 1 pot of the end.

Speaker 2 Gold of gold at the end of the rainbow. Yes.
And also, that was the moment where I figured out

Speaker 2 this is the magic. Like, I would rather be

Speaker 2 average and embodied

Speaker 2 than amazing and buzzy and shiny and disembodied. And

Speaker 2 I think

Speaker 2 that fully embodied or fully present people are a revolution and a miracle. And so I'm saying all of this.

Speaker 2 And like one narrative of this is, holy shit, batshit crazy and she's just trying to get to normal. But I actually think

Speaker 2 that what is normal is disembodied and I'm trying to get to a miracle, which is embodied. I don't think there's a lot of embodied people walking around.
I think that you are one, Abby.

Speaker 2 But I do not think the people that we have to listen to constantly and compare ourselves to.

Speaker 2 I don't think many of them are embodied, meaning being real in the moment. And so I'm not trying to just get to a baseline.
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Speaker 3 I also think when you're saying I would rather be embodied and normal than be amazing and buzzy,

Speaker 3 I just want

Speaker 3 to hang on that for a second because I think that's what your voices are saying. Your voices are saying when you are the other thing, you're amazing.

Speaker 3 And when you are this thing, you're normal. That's good.
Because some people might see you on stage and be like, that's not amazing. Totally.

Speaker 3 Some people might hear you now and be like, that's amazing. So it isn't objective.
It's not like someone's an A and someone's about a C.

Speaker 3 I think think the distinction is when you're performing and when you're not performing.

Speaker 3 And so I agree with you that it is a miracle to walk through life not performing because most of us don't even know

Speaker 3 when we're performing and when we're not because we're so good at it. So for you, it happens to be a literal stage.
For many people, it's at the pickup line at school.

Speaker 3 It's at their office when you're going to the coffee machine and you're like, yeah, yeah,

Speaker 3 saying whatever you think you're supposed to say, trying to put on the face or react the way you're supposed to react. So you just happen to have a very literal sense of that.

Speaker 3 But

Speaker 3 I don't think it's amazing or not. It's like that click you get when you feel yourself not

Speaker 3 being effortful.

Speaker 2 Yes. Because it's not just stages.
It's like how I am with the family when they come home and I'm like, this is dude, everything has to be perfect.

Speaker 2 Everything has to be, or like, why why do I not want to have people over? Because I have to be on.

Speaker 2 What does that mean?

Speaker 2 Exactly. I have one friend,

Speaker 2 literally, but also I have one friend, Alex. I have figured out when she comes over, I don't dread it because I'm not

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 1 I think that was a really good point that you made about you'd rather be embodied and normal. Like that's your eating disorder brain maybe talking.
Like

Speaker 1 you just want to be embodied because that's not normal or perfect. I just think that's really good, really important point.

Speaker 2 Yeah, there's just something about,

Speaker 2 and everyone has their own version of this. I mean, lots of people are in offices and are performing, are mothers of young children and are performing or whatever.

Speaker 2 For me, there's something about this job that I have read as I have to be this.

Speaker 2 And I think that what I've noticed is the more embodied I am, the more quiet I am.

Speaker 2 And so I don't know how to make that work. I'm on stage and I'm like,

Speaker 3 I'd like to hear what you have to say.

Speaker 3 I'm a speaker who's interested in what you think.

Speaker 2 Anyone have any ideas?

Speaker 1 I don't think that that's totally true. I don't think that you're more quiet.
I think that the things that you're thinking about and the things that come out of your mouth

Speaker 1 aren't going through an exhaustive neurology

Speaker 1 of buzzy vibration. Interestingly enough, you make far fewer metaphors now.

Speaker 2 That's so interesting.

Speaker 3 That's fascinating.

Speaker 2 Isn't it?

Speaker 3 It's like, how many meals did you have today and how many metaphors did you make today?

Speaker 3 I think I know what it is. I think it's

Speaker 3 the responsibility

Speaker 2 we take.

Speaker 3 for the energy in the room.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 3 For what happens in the room. I think that is the thread that goes through everything.
It's the thread between why it's exhausting to think about having people come over to your house.

Speaker 3 It's not the having them over. It's the ensuring that you are maintaining an ecosystem of energy in this space.
And that requires you to do what?

Speaker 3 To buzz, to make sure that person's saying, to make sure that person's not talking over that person, to make sure, like, that's the energy.

Speaker 3 It's the same thing with the speaking, going into the room and being like, not, I'm showing up for your event, that you had me come in.

Speaker 3 You're like, I am here at your event and I will ensure every one of these 6,000 people has the time of their lives

Speaker 2 with you and you and you.

Speaker 3 When you say quiet, I think that's what you mean, where you're like, I'm responsible for me and my energies.

Speaker 3 And I am not

Speaker 3 ensuring that I pour out to make sure everybody's experiences is what it should be.

Speaker 2 Yes. That's what my therapist keeps saying.
That's so interesting. She keeps saying, I don't think you have to give all of yourself.
And I'm like, what do you mean?

Speaker 2 She's like, I don't think you have to keep giving away.

Speaker 2 I think you can do these things without giving yourself whole self away every time. And I think that I never understand what she's saying, but I think that's what she said.
It is.

Speaker 1 It's you owe me $250.

Speaker 3 Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2 Another thing that costs money.

Speaker 1 And the other thing that I'll just say, one thing that has been so

Speaker 1 impressive and important for me is that through your therapy,

Speaker 3 I have been

Speaker 1 looking at you less.

Speaker 2 Yes.

Speaker 1 I have been concerned less because your nervous system and your vibration has lowered and your energy has been more grounded. That I am more

Speaker 1 trusting that you've got you.

Speaker 2 Yeah.

Speaker 1 And this has been really revolutionary for me because now I've got to figure out my shit.

Speaker 2 No such thing.

Speaker 2 Now I got to figure out my shit.

Speaker 2 That's the good news and bad news. Pod squad, if you are still with us, God bless you and keep you.

Speaker 2 And we are forever grateful for you riding this ride with us.

Speaker 1 Glennon, thank you for being so honest and open about this. You're just a dream.

Speaker 2 I'm so grateful for you too, because the reason why I'm able to surrender to this process is because I know I have people who will. It's like this safety net of

Speaker 2 I love talking about it because I feel like that keeps me safe.

Speaker 2 Because then, if I'm saying all the things out loud, one of you will be like, Well, that shit doesn't sound right, and then I'll know if I'm in a cult again.

Speaker 2 So, thank you very much. I love you both so much.
Love you, Pod Squad. We'll catch you back next time, and maybe we'll try to talk about some easier things.
Bye.

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Speaker 2 I made sure

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Speaker 2 A final destination

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Speaker 2 We'll finally find our way back home.

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Speaker 2 that our lives bring,

Speaker 2 we can do a hard thing.

Speaker 2 I hit rock bottom, it felt like a brand new start.

Speaker 2 I'm not the

Speaker 2 problem,

Speaker 2 sometimes things fall apart.

Speaker 2 And I continue to believe

Speaker 2 the best

Speaker 2 people are free.

Speaker 2 And it took some time,

Speaker 2 But I'm finally fine.

Speaker 2 Cause we're adventurers and heartbreaks on that.

Speaker 2 A final destination

Speaker 2 we lack.

Speaker 2 We stopped asking directions

Speaker 2 to places they've never been.

Speaker 2 And to be loved, we need to be known.

Speaker 2 We'll finally find our way back home.

Speaker 2 And through the joy and pain

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Speaker 2 we can do a hard thing.

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Speaker 2 We might get lost, but we're okay with that. We've stopped asking directions

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Speaker 2 And to be loved, we need to be known.

Speaker 2 We'll finally find our way back on.

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Speaker 2 that our lives

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