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What do you feel like is the foulest thing that you've ever done on a date?

We got into some type of argument for some reason.

And I was like, what we argue?

Like, it got to the point I was just like, get out in the middle of downtown.

As a grown woman, you shouldn't be shaving your kudos.

You ain't never had somebody like play, play with that.

Maybe.

I'm moaning.

I'm, oh, yes.

You know, I'm getting myself going.

Yeah.

I don't need you to be doing all of that.

Shut up.

Be quiet.

You used to get to talk and doing all that.

Shut up.

You messing up my constantly.

So you just want someone to be.

What if she's like, ooh, yes, daddy?

Shut up.

I got this.

What?

What's your preferred tone of choice?

Lord, this is getting a little too extra.

Would you get into a relationship with an AI companion?

It depends on if it's hidden.

You walked in, it was a middle of it, like, yeah, yeah, well, yeah,

damn,

goddamn.

And you walked in, he was just making sound effects.

What you doing?

Woo!

I mean, you can be like, damn.

It would just be like, damn, you don't even do all that.

But we at

this is to taking over the game.

All right, everybody.

Welcome to Truth After Dark.

Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

Hello, beautiful people.

Welcome to another episode of The Truth After Dark.

I'm your host, Azar Faraday.

Truth in the building.

How you feeling tonight?

I'm good.

What's up?

What's up?

What's up?

So,

a a lot going on, huh?

Yeah, it was your birthday.

How are you feeling now that you really cooked?

Really cooked?

I'm really cooked.

Damn, I don't think men get cooked.

I don't either.

I think

70.

Even they could still get shit cracking after 70.

Men don't have that expiration date.

Yeah, my boy Al Pacino is still having babies.

Yeah.

He like 80-something.

They be doing that, big one.

Men be popping.

Bill Belichick popping.

Lord.

Okay.

Man, what's going on?

So let's get into it.

So LeBron was just on his wife's pod, and he said that there's a lot of ruthless ass bitches.

That's his words exactly.

Who do men dirty?

Do you agree?

Ruthless, man, of course I agree with that.

Man, because women are way more ruthless at like,

like, this is the thing.

Women be out here setting dudes up, getting them robbed, getting them killed, doing all type of, giving all type of traps out.

Men don't do that to females.

You know what I'm saying?

Yeah.

So when you say ruthless,

it's an evil world.

And girls, sometimes, some women have just a one-track mind.

I'm going to get this dude set up.

I'm going to try to get him child support robbed.

Things that like,

you got to to look out for all type of shit.

Like, for real, you really got to be careful and really vet the person that you trying to hang out with.

You know, everything can be all good and dandy.

The next thing you know, you getting robbed.

You know what I'm saying?

That happens a lot.

That happens a lot.

And that's just,

I mean, men don't do that.

Men don't do that to other, to women.

You know, women are out here doing shit like that.

And it's just, man, I mean, I don't know if he meant it in that type of context or,

you know, like I've seen it in divorces where the woman tries to take everything he gave her a life and women be trying to take it all.

Like, damn, you know, where did the love go at some point?

You know, it's just like, damn, I think things like that is kind of ruthless.

It's like when you try to, it's almost like trying to strip a man down to

just naked bare knuckles, like how they do you in jail.

Damn.

I mean, I'm just saying, I mean, bend over, cough, all.

Bend over, cough all.

Make sure it's nothing in there.

Man, I do.

Do you think that women or men

are who's quicker to be able to like turn off their feelings and go cold?

Do you think it's women or men?

It's men.

I mean, oh, no, no.

Hell no.

It's always women.

You think women?

I feel like women are more emotional.

It's harder.

Like, if I love someone, I can't just be like, I'm turning off my feelings and I'm going cold.

Turn off and go cold?

Damn.

I think,

hmm.

I don't know because the get back is always because of the man, I feel like.

What do you mean the get-back?

Oh, like getting back together?

Yeah.

It's because the man is playing and

he's initiating.

He's initiating all the get-backs.

I think we do all the get-back more so.

But is it because the man is doing the wronging and that's why he had me to do all the get-backs?

I mean, it don't matter who do all the wronging.

Time heals all.

The man is doing the get-back.

But it's just like men are doing the get-back because they're the ones dogging the women most of the time, don't you think?

And that's because what is the woman going to be doing to get back, but you're the one who fucked up?

That don't make sense.

I'm begging to get you back, but you cheated on me yesterday.

Like, of course, you're going to do the get back.

I think women cheat more than men.

I still have not seen that statistic to be true.

I do think that men get caught more because men are more sloppy.

They change the virus.

Because men don't look as hard as women, too.

Unless you just obvious signs, like you know

not all answering your phone

like

just weird just not just doing stuff like when you just out of the norm out of character yeah you know just stuff that you're doing you just be like damn

that's so but you know men don't really harp on it like women do yeah you know but i think that

It goes both ways.

I feel like with men,

they hold on to things, which makes it worse.

I think at least a woman is just like, we'll ask, we'll communicate, we'll have that conversation.

You know what I mean?

And I think men harp by holding on to it, and then they create resentment.

Women know what to do to make a man forget.

Women know what to do to make a man forget.

I don't know.

Yeah,

you know.

I know, I don't know.

Women know what to do to make a man forget.

If you did something wrong to him, you know what to do.

You can be like, damn, I'm good, baby.

I'm good.

Sure.

No, but men be bringing shit up and try to throw shit in your face, too, just like a woman does.

Oh.

And when a man bring it up, you know what to do.

Every time, you know what to do.

Every time.

Okay.

Every time.

He's going to be like, my bad.

I don't feel like women cheat more than men.

I still cannot get behind that.

I'm going to keep it real and I'm going to stand tall on that and 10 toes down because I have yet.

to see a whole bunch of women cheating.

Like, I don't believe that.

Like, I don't see a whole bunch bunch of women cheating all the time like i think women do cheat and i think they get away with it a lot more slicker and quicker than men and i've said that before but i still think that men might have women beat with that one because men have more temptations and desires i think if a woman is cheating it's genuinely because she's checked out the relationship and she's no longer interested and she's just like I'm over this shit right at this point.

He's done cheated.

He done did X, Y, and Z.

And I'm going to cheat back and I'm going to be like, I don't see why else are you cheating then?

Because you cheating because you never really liked him.

You just like the situation he put you in.

Oh, yeah, that's deep.

You know what I'm saying?

I never heard of that, but that's real.

I mean, I've heard of that, but that's real how you put that.

Okay, so people are just in a situation because it's helpful to them type shit.

Okay.

So you're just going to roll along with it and still do you.

And still cheat the whole time.

That makes sense.

I could get him behind that.

I could believe that for sure.

So

back to what LeBron says, what do you think the dirtiest thing you've ever heard a woman do to a man or a woman do to you?

What is the dirtiest thing you ever heard a woman do to a man or like do to you?

Like, what do you feel like is like bottom of the barrel?

Man,

or a woman do to a man?

Well, for me,

I think like if you take care of somebody and they steal from you.

Facts.

I agree with that.

That's the bottom of the barrel for me that's the bottom of the barrel for me too

bottom of the barrel like if you my girl or something and we've been together or something for a long time or

and you steal yeah that's bottom of the barrel like you know I've been able to get over cheating I've been able to get over like maybe even being lied to yeah but like stealing

It's the worst I feel like because that's that because it just cut like we talked about this before because I did it because it cover all it covers everything.

Yeah, we never talked about the show, but yeah, we have talked about that.

It covers everything.

Yeah, lying

covers, I mean, stealing covers lying and cheating.

Yeah, for sure.

Like, cheating is just cheating.

And if you're willing to steal, what else are you willing to do?

Like, that's dirty.

Damn, that's crazy.

I agree 100%.

What do you feel like is the foulest thing that you've ever done on a date?

Like, have you ever left someone mid-meal

or like just decided, like, you're not going to.

Foul is a strong word.

Like, you know, have you ever walked out on someone on a date and been like, you know what, I'm not, I'm not, I'm leaving.

Or have you ever decided like, oh, I'm going to make this girl pay for the dinner?

Have you ever done anything of that nature?

We a lot.

You've done that?

Yeah.

Which one?

Both?

I mean, I've done, I remember one case, I was,

I don't know, I remember I went out with this girl.

We went to a spot.

This is before Uber.

It was like here, downtown L.A.

And then

we got into some type of argument for some reason.

And I was like, what we argue?

Like, it got to the point I was just like, get out in the middle of downtown.

And this was a date?

This is just a date.

This is a date.

Yeah, okay.

I was like, you got to get out.

Kicked her out right there.

And like, it was a dark place, too.

You kicked her out in a dark alley downtown.

It was like in a parking lot at a spot at a parking lot, though.

And it was like, no uber then

why would you that's fake because i don't deal with disrespect either it was something that happened that was disrespectful it was like super disrespectful yeah it was disrespectful and that's one thing i won't tolerate ever so i was like you gotta get out right now and then uh

and the crazy thing about it i didn't see the girl for like some years and then i ran back and i ran into her but i told her about it You know, I was like, damn, you can't, you know.

And we became cool again, but it wasn't like, I don't know, like trying trying to get with her no more.

It was just like, just cool.

Like, I see her or something.

It would just be cool.

Damn, that's cold.

I didn't get it.

I didn't walk out in the middle of a dinner.

Like, I'm good.

You just got up and walked out?

Okay, I'm good.

I'm not feeling that.

And just left her with the bill and everything.

No, I was just like, here, boom, boom, boom, boom, here.

I'm out.

I'm good.

What was said?

Like, why, what makes him?

Oh, what was said?

Like, what made you do that?

Like, what makes someone?

I remember.

Okay, so one day okay

i went out

she came in some she y'all was this our first date

she came in a sweatsuit and i was just like it was me and my boy i had my boy come sit at the table over there you know he's just watching me making sure i'm straight yeah and i was just like she came in a sweatsuit and i was just like damn this are you coming

and so i was like you know what i i'm i'm good And I got up and I was like, hey, man, you know, get her, you know, you stay here, eat with her, have a drink, and I'm out.

because she came in a sweatsuit you felt like it was disrespectful yeah this the first day you don't come in no goddamn sweatsuit like like this is our first day this is what you think of me like this is we I'm taking you to this nice restaurant and you came in a sweatsuit this is how you felt like I'm good you you not my type

off the jump because you didn't know to like put the heels on and get nice yeah for the date like you know what I'm saying that's like

what

like that that I'm like no I'm good I got up and just like, all right, you know, my boy gonna stay.

I gotta bounce.

Damn, that's cold-blooded.

I bet she didn't show up in a sweatsuit again after that.

It wasn't no more days.

No, I'm saying just in her life, she probably was like, yeah, I'm not sure.

She learned her lesson because of that shit.

Yeah, I'm cool on that.

Like, it's this, if you on a first date, don't come in the sweat.

The first date, I think, like, that's like after you get to know them and stuff.

Exactly.

And we cool and we didn't have a vibe going and you just wanted to relax.

But like the first one,

like, like i'm coming with my bomb cologne my like shirt

i'm trying to look proper like i feel like the girl should do that too i agree and i think the girl should maintain that with her man even like you should want to look good there's times where you could be chill like but you know you should want to be looking good and like representing your person and i just believe that too in general that's crazy though you just walked out on her like whatever yeah i was good i was just like no i'm good damn you seem like you just be good off of any little thing, though.

That's not any little thing, though.

No, it's not.

Because if it happens early, it's going to happen once you get into it, it's going to get worse.

Yeah, that's true.

So I'm cool at the beginning.

Like, when it's right there, that's the red flag.

I mean, I don't know if it's considered a red flag, but I ain't feeling it.

For you, you're not feeling that.

You're just not feeling that.

So if we doing it early, then imagine when you get comfortable with somebody.

Right.

You know what I'm saying?

Are you someone that's like, when I'm with my girl or I'm out on a date with some girl or like whatever, you want them to, like, are you the type of man that's like they need to be in heels?

100%.

Like no matter what.

That's standard.

Like we're going to start with just hills and then we'll figure out the rest.

No, but I'm saying like, okay, so not just first date, but like overall, like y'all go out and this is your girl at this point or this is someone you're just dealing with.

Should they always be in heels when you go out?

It depends on where we're going.

Like if I'm taking you to the fair or the carnival.

Right, but I'm saying you guys are going on your dates or you're going out wherever, like dinners, dates.

Are those, are you one of those men like, my girl got to be in hills?

I feel like this.

If you out with me, you are a

representation of me.

You're an extension of me.

Right.

So when you're seen with me, people are going to be like, oh, okay, I get it.

Right, right, right, right.

You want someone to look that.

But do they have to have hills to look that, in your opinion?

You better be looking goddamn good in that outfit that outfit better be outfitting.

That outfit better be outfitted.

Yeah, I mean, it just looks better.

Yeah.

It looks better.

I feel like that's grown woman.

It's classy, I feel like.

Yeah.

I mean, I don't want you coming in no Reeboks

and no Air Force Ones or some Jordans.

That's an old.

That's wild.

Who's doing that?

Don't pull up no no Jordans.

Jordans is crap.

I'm good.

Jordan is out of pocket.

You can wear some Jordans on any of the dates.

You can't wear Jordans on none of the dates.

No, you shouldn't be wearing Jordans.

And that's my favorite player.

Like, it depends where we're going, though.

If we're going to, like, like a fair, the movies, and type shit like that.

Something like that.

Bowling.

Okay, cool.

I get what you're saying, but you're like, if you're out with me, you're not wearing no scams.

Friday, we're going out.

I ain't telling you where we're going.

That's going to be the test.

I'm going to see what she does.

What she puts on type thing.

Right.

So, I mean, yeah, that means something because you setting a standard you know because i'm gonna set a standard like man you know i want i'm look like think about this women do stuff for men just like men do stuff for women yeah like we get the cars we get we get the clothes we get for the woman we get the jewelry we get the look how we want for the woman I feel like the woman should do same thing

you getting your lips right and your hair done and they wear these heels just because you want to look good for the man that you mess with, right?

100%.

Women do that.

Let's do it.

Yeah, I think women do do that.

I think that there is a culture of like more of a kickback, lazy style sometimes.

But I think that most of the time, most women like to get dolled up, like and be feminine and smell good and look good for their man.

I personally believe that most, a lot of women do that, in my opinion.

Yeah, but there's some women out there that might wear a hoodie.

I'm good.

I'm good.

Don't wear a hoodie.

Like, just at all or just all the date?

If we go out to eat, no, not don't wear a hoodie to like to go out to eat at night because this is our night so i want y'all like i'm taking you out because i want to see you looking good right are you one of those like nails not done and it's like this is crazy that are you do you care about like the particulars of things like your nails aren't done i'm looking at all your hair is not done i'm i'm i'm you're peeping it all you're clocking it you're clocking that okay you're clocking all of that you're clocking all of that come back to that i'm gonna see how consistent you are.

Yeah, you're glocking that.

Yeah, I'm going to look.

You know, it ain't going to be on.

Some little stuff I can deal with.

Like the outfit ride heels, the nails ain't done, but it can't be all chipped.

You could just have low nails.

Chipped is crazy.

Yeah.

You could just have no nails.

You have to have a chip.

You know, then have a chip nail.

I can't.

I love to have nails done.

But I will say that upkeep for women, women complain because they're like, that's a lot.

It's not as expensive to upkeep a man than it is a woman.

Like your nails are and your toes are these days like 170

your hair is three something

minimum you're you're you know just like all your stuff going out like that we ain't we like damn once every two twice a month four times you're not going out twice a month you going out more than that for sure just anyone like twice a month is not enough

People are going out hitting it twice a month.

And don't you feel as if

that hair that lasts a couple weeks.

Get that one that's on that, get that wig, get that lace that

lace props.

Get that, whatever you need to get to make that last one.

I'm crying.

That shit look good for a couple weeks.

Okay.

Shit, come on.

Don't be doing me like that.

You mean just every weekend you need to get your hair done?

300, 300.

I don't think it's every weekend, but I'm saying, like, if you want a woman to upkeep stuff, it is, it does add up, Loki.

But then you want to wax, so a woman has to get waxed.

Man,

just go get that

big shaver.

No, it's different because when you shave.

Shave that day you pull up.

It just doesn't hit the same.

I'm going to tell you that right now.

It does not hit the same.

Like as a grown woman, you shouldn't be shaving your cooter.

But you should know how to wax your cooter, too.

You should not know how to

wax your own vagina.

Do you know how hard that is?

You have to look down, get into the lips, hot wax.

Like, who's doing that?

No one is waxing their own vagina.

Oh, I don't know.

I don't know that situation.

Yeah, so don't think that you could just make shit up like, oh, you should be, you should be cutting your own hair.

That's easier for men.

Men can do that, but you're still not doing that.

Waxing your vagina is crazy, which goes into, have you seen the skims has the vagina thongs that have coochie hair on it?

Yeah, I saw that.

Do you know that they sold out?

What are your thoughts on that?

Do you feel like that's fly?

Would you want your girl to be in that coochie thong?

I got to see them on.

They probably look sexy.

I don't know.

Little coochie hairs?

Yeah, I know it's just fake, though.

It probably looked like sexy in some panties.

Like a little fake coochie hair.

That's great.

That's crazy to me.

Like, who's buying those items?

Like, a lot of women did because it's sold out.

And then they come off.

You're like, ooh, okay, that's that wax.

It's really that.

But then what's the point?

Like, because most men prefer

wax or whatever.

So, like, why would you want to see it that way?

It's like different.

No, people do.

I know people who like it.

No, that's like nothing.

Nobody

made that.

So it's like, damn, that could look sexy just when she walking around with those on.

And it just, you know, it look like it's a hairy thing.

And it's just like, damn.

That's crazy.

What do you mean?

But you know.

But when you know in your mind that it ain't, it's just like, you know, it's just like when you wear clothes.

It's just like wearing clothes.

It's just coochie clothes.

That it sounds crazy.

And, you know, she also has the bras that are like a hard nipple.

Yeah.

I think that's cute, but I just think that like you, if you're wearing that.

Don't fool me.

Don't fool me.

You fooling me now.

No, because your nipple can't be hard, but sometimes if you have a supportive bra, you can't see that the nipple is hard.

But the thing about that is if you're wearing a hard nipple,

you getting it cracking.

Like anyone who's buying that bra is trying to get it cracking.

If you wearing it and then it comes off and they ain't that, they don't.

They're not giving that.

They ain't not giving that.

He's like, damn, dog.

I saw them through the shirt.

I thought they was that.

You thought they was giving that.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

I'm like, damn, you fooled me.

I mean, women need to stop fooling me.

Y'all fool us too much anyway.

Yeah,

it's too much foolery going on.

Y'all get the fake hair, nails, eyes.

Now it's the fake nipple.

Like, damn, come on.

Stop killing us.

Oh, and you know what else they have now?

They have, Skims has it, and it'd be sold out.

They have the fake hips.

That's what I'm saying.

Yeah, and the butt, and the butt enhancers.

I'm about to date me an AI.

I'm going to just get me an AI robotic something.

Since everything fake, might as well go AI when them robots coming out.

I'm crying.

So would you get into a relationship with an AI companion?

It depends on if it's hidden.

It's hitting.

It's a vibe.

If they make it to where stuff is hitting.

Yeah, no.

Let's say, because you know how they have the sex dolls on.

I could turn you would you get into like so would you like let's say it's a sex doll because they're really realistic that's alive that's talking and it's talkative because they are gonna have that because they already have them sex dolls and they have the robots so let's say they have and it's talking it's like hi paul hi baby i'm just what do you need today what do you need would you like

this might come in yeah would you have that

Make daddy a sandwich.

Okay, daddy.

Will too.

At a time.

Man, think about it.

They had that after a hard breakup and you get that right in the crib.

You're like, no, that's depressing, though.

That's another depression.

Because then you're like, damn, I missed.

To me, if I go through a breakup and I get around any other person that's like supposed to be like flirting in a vibe, I get so sad because I'm going to compare them.

And then I'm going to be even more depressed.

I'm sitting here with this robot.

I don't have no companion in real life.

I look cracking.

That's because a man is different.

Have a feel.

It has a feel to it.

It has a feel to it.

And it's going to do on command.

Like, hey, you know, go over there.

But so you don't care about like real emotion and real connection then.

You don't value that.

Yeah, of course you value that.

But in times of like

depression, you might want that

to make you feel.

You're going to get that instead.

Okay.

So

moving on.

Okay.

So our girl, Joy Taylor, she said on her podcast, if she comes to a man's house that she's dealing with and he doesn't have extra toothbrushes and stuff like that, like she not, she don't love that.

Like she wants to go over to a man's house and he has the items prepared, washcloths, products, everything.

And then she said that one time she went to a man's house and

when she was over there, he had everything.

And then he also on his headboard had an eyelash and one on the floor, a strip.

So she said she loved that.

She was like, I like that.

He got bitches.

I like that.

Joy, you know what?

I love Joy.

Hey, Joy, you know what else he got?

He got extra panties.

He got extra laundry for you in case you forget.

He got extra heels for you, too.

She's like, man, I love Joy Down, but you want a dude that's a whole player.

Exactly.

You know why, Joy?

You know what I think of Joy?

I think Joy liked that because I think Joy a player, too.

She a little player.

She's a player.

I don't know.

I don't know.

And this is just me guessing.

Don't do her.

That's my sis and I love her.

But like when you say stuff like that, I'd be like, damn, you know,

I'm not even tripping if he got the eyelashes because all right, I ain't tripping.

She said it was her first day over there.

Now, don't get mad at me if I got something.

Okay, I'm crying.

But this is what I'm going to say.

If I go to a man's house and he has all these items available,

I'm going to second guess him.

I don't like that.

Because then it's like, you just have any woman over here.

Like, you just have all this available because you have other women running through here.

And I do not fuck with that because it makes me feel away.

Like, are you just.

He might got extra lashes in case yours fall off.

I don't even have fake lashes.

No, I'm just saying.

But my point is,

he got the extra two.

You mad if he got the extra.

What if he got all the sizes?

I had a boy.

He had extra heels.

He had like all the sizes.

This is

like if you that's wild.

And what if he had like pajamas, like, but not just a man's shirt?

Like, no, because a man will give you a shirt, but like a like actual like little lingerie dress here.

Man, I got it.

If a man has lingerie at his house, I'm cool.

But what if it got the tag on it and it's still brand new?

We got to just closet that.

I hate it because that means why?

Like you have women over here all the time.

Even Joy said it means you have bitches.

I don't like that.

I like, yeah, let me be clear.

Of course, like, I'm not going to be with a man who women don't desire because a man's not a man is, I, men desire me, women desire the person I'm probably be with.

But the point is, is

you are just moving sloppy into me.

And that means I don't know if I could trust you.

I don't want to lay up and have sex with you.

Do you have something?

Do you just all these energies passing through all these women?

Is someone going to pull up here?

Like, I don't feel safe.

I don't feel like it's a safe space for me.

And I don't want to deal with a man who's like in that stage of his life where he still wants to be a player because there's nothing in that for me.

So my boy, he had the, so he had all these clothes for women in all the different sites.

Not only heels, he had tennis shoes, he had clothes.

And what he called the closet.

You making this up.

No, I'm not.

I can't make this up.

I got friends that got a lot of money that do stuff with a lot of different girls.

I've seen it.

And what is the closet?

What is it?

So he got this closet.

He called it the walk of shame closet because he lived in the high-rise.

So, you know, they call it the walk of shame when the girl walk out and she's missing one eyelash and the makeup all messed up and she in her club outfit.

So he got the fits for her to not look like she's going through the walk of shame.

He got like the hoodie for her, the sweatsuit for him.

Like, so when you walk out, you're going to feel like you're walking through the walk of the walk of shame.

And I was like, damn.

That's crazy.

You know what's crazy?

And I'm not even trying to do this.

And I know you'll never believe me because just on the last episode, you said that I have a crazy list of men that I've been with.

But I have never in the history of my life went to the club and went out, met a man, went to his house, and had sex with him.

I've never ever did that.

And maybe that means that I'm just boring because these women are doing that all the time.

But I have never had that experience in my 34 years of living.

And it's crazy that you will go out, meet, because I'm sure you've went out, met a woman, and you've had sex with her that night.

Yeah.

Like, how does that even happen?

Like, she's just with with it, and you just know?

I think it's the energy.

It's not every time.

Like,

you know, like, like I said, I did that to a woman I was with for years.

Yeah, I know you've said that.

You know, and then,

you know, it's just like, damn, it ain't, it ain't like something I'm looking to do.

But how do you know that it's just the energy?

And, because this is what I've learned.

You get with somebody who's did that with you and you may think it's because you're special, but then you find out later later on oh this is what you do yeah you do this all the time oh you do this like this ain't nothing new i'm the fool yeah i'm the idiot yeah like you do this for real yeah and so now that's why we now you did it to me

and you now you met someone and i'm thinking i'm special and i'm different because like I'm telling you right now, that's not in my wheelhouse of just things I do.

Like, I cannot physically do it because I have to have a mental connection with you to have sex with you.

I really do.

Like if I can't feel that, then I can't feel that.

Now, have I kissed somebody when I first met him?

Absolutely.

Have I felt that energy and been like, oh my God, like a kiss, a makeout, a vibe?

Absolutely.

Did he, you know, play with that?

Play with that on the first?

You ain't never had somebody like play with that?

Maybe.

Don't say maybe that's a yeah.

No, I don't think so.

For yes, you said you said that.

No, I'm just playing with you.

I really don't think that that happens.

I was kissing on him and then he was like rubbing on that inner thigh.

An inner thigh rub for sure.

I think

upper inner thigh.

I don't know.

I'm going to be honest.

I don't know, but I don't think so.

Whatever.

I don't.

You've come close on the first night.

I haven't come close to having sex on the first night ever.

Have you come close to any type of sexual activity on the first night?

I've come.

Yeah, I've come close to any type of sexual activity.

Have you had any kind of sexual activity on the first night?

Yeah, I have.

I have.

I have.

But it hasn't been sex.

Oh, well, it's no difference.

We're moving on.

So anyways, why not?

You love to do this.

Now you don't want to talk about it.

Yeah, because

no, I've not blasted my, I've already blasted my business up once.

You've said you've had a sexual something.

I've had an encounter.

It wasn't sex.

I've had

an encounter.

There's only two things that can happen.

Not on the first night, though.

You said, you just said the first night you had a sexual encounter that wasn't sex, but you said it was something else.

What was it?

I've already said it before on the podcast.

No, not this one.

Yeah, this one.

What did you do?

And it went viral and everyone still talks about it.

I'm not doing this again.

So, anyways, back to what we're talking about.

Why, why, why?

I don't want to get into that.

But I very went down on them.

No, like, just get out of my business.

Why are

you like so?

I was a young girl once.

Yeah, once.

But I never.

No, I'm just saying, you are an older lady now.

You're an older lady.

Anyways,

why do you think that?

You look cool, though, still.

I am

below me.

I look good for my age.

Like, the fuck, I'm only 34.

That's really not that old.

That's not old.

That's a good number, though.

Yeah.

That's a great number.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I'm only saying that because.

Because you were number 34.

Yeah, I I know that now.

I know that enough to know that now.

Let's get into that.

And I'm 34 and I'm going to be 34 for a cool little minute.

So guess what?

You, my friend, don't have no, you can't talk because you, well, whatever.

I'm still 34.

I'm young, in my opinion.

I'm not young, but I'm not an older lady.

We've said this.

I think that I'm not young.

I'm not young, but I'm mature.

Mature, mature.

period so why do you think that whatever why do you feel that women are attracted to men who like have

like joy said

is it because i think you already explained it you said you feel like women like i think it's more the thing that the women like men that are

that they that's theirs that

they like all right I know a lot of girls like him, but he mine now.

Well, you know what?

You know what, though?

I don't know.

Maybe it's that he's mine now aisha curry was on call her daddy or some other podcast i can't know i don't know but i just saw this clip and she was like you know

my man because he is who he is gets a lot of attention from women and like a lot of girls and stuff like that and she was like and it just is crazy that i don't get to have that same attention and i don't get attention like that from men

she said that And people like drag her for that or whatever the case is.

She said that before a few times.

She said that she doesn't get a lot of attention.

She wishes she had more attention from men and that she, he gets all the women's attention and it fucks her head up.

Well, this is the thing.

How does she know what type of attention he gets from women?

I mean, it's easy.

If you're with a man, you know what kind of attention they get from women.

Like, I know, like, you know.

But maybe he don't see it.

Like, where is he at?

No, No, no, no, listen.

And listen carefully.

Like,

let's say Steph gets attention from women.

Okay.

Like,

where is he getting attention from?

Are girls actually coming up to him while he's with his wife?

Are girls DMing him and she's looking at it?

Yeah.

It's like

it's like he's getting letters in the mail.

I mean, I don't know where does she see the attention from the women

and because I'm sure like

men are definitely in her DMs.

No, she says they're not because that's complained about it all.

It's tough to be in a position.

Well, the thing is about being married to a high-level celebrity, you know, class A, it's like, you got to understand what comes with that.

Yeah.

You know, and it's not easy to deal with because as a woman, Y'all love attention more than men.

You know, especially a famous man.

Famous men get to the point they hate the attention because it's too much to where we don't even like to go places.

Yeah.

Whereas girls want to get cute and at least be like, dang, girl, you fine and it's good.

And maybe you're not messing with them, but you like to hear it.

You know, you like to hear, you know, the comments on Instagram.

Damn, that outfit is bussing.

Damn, you know, girls like to read that and hear that.

Whereas men, we don't really care.

Like when you at that level, you don't really care.

You get so much attention.

You like, well, you ain't even really trying to.

That's her point.

But Cardi B on Call Her Daddy, she just said recently on her thing, she said, she feels like men respect marriages more than women.

And she said that men respect marriages because when she was married, she would be around celebrity men and they would just be like, hey, Cardi, what's up?

They wouldn't be in her DMs and they wouldn't be trying to get at her.

But she said that when she offset was married to her, girls would be all over him.

Because let me tell you what happens, right?

Women, when they look at a man and they realize he can be a committed relationship man, they want him more.

He's more desirable.

Oh, he's committed to her.

He's willing to marry her.

He's willing to do this.

He can be in a committed relationship.

Oh, he's more desirable.

I want him because I know that he can be with somebody.

But I don't know how it is for men because I've never been married.

So I don't know how men respect the relationship or not.

So this goes back to our first segment where we talked about when LeBron said there are a lot of ruthless ass bitches.

Yeah.

Because that's the ruthlessness in a girl.

Cause they be looking like, oh,

damn.

You know, it was like that for me.

It was like certain girls that I probably liked or I wanted to holler at.

Then when I got married and they didn't talk to me before, they was like, damn, okay, I'm pressing him now.

I'm like, damn, for real?

Like, nah, because girls like the challenge to be like, they want to one-up a girl and they want to one-up that marriage to where this is where the ruthless come in.

Like, okay, I'll break this shit up.

You know what I'm saying?

It's ruthless girls.

It's the ego shit, too.

Like, try to get him and put him in a situation to where they get a flick with him or something in a text or something to where, especially in the social media age,

go ahead and say something.

Run them pockets, homie.

Or I'm going to, this picture is going to go everywhere.

And also, too, it's like, I noticed this too.

Like, if I have a man and even if I'm out somewhere and like girls aren't on them and if I'm to be like, oh, that's my man, that's just going to make them want you more.

Like that's just how women think.

They're just going to make them want whoever that is way more.

Like it just is what it is.

Like women don't respect that.

And even if a man's like, oh, I posted you, like posting you or doing this or showing like acts of love just gets a man way more cracking.

Like I've been with men who got way better bitches because they were with me.

Because they were like, oh, he got her, and we must be doing this, and he must be getting this.

Like, you wasn't even that cracking.

And now you getting cracking women all on you, and you're like folding off of that.

And it's really off the strength of you being with me.

So, like,

you personally?

Yeah, like, that has happened.

Like, you and men, it's like, it's not flattering.

Like, of course, you want to be loved out loud.

After you was

or before?

We're going back to this shit.

No, I'm just saying, was it after or during or when?

I wasn't 280 at that time.

People don't even call me by my name now.

They just be like 280.

So this was before that?

This is before I was 280.

Like, God damn.

So, or after.

No, I'm just saying.

So let's call your 280-ness.

Let's just call that COVID.

You had a COVID period.

It was during COVID.

Oh, that was during COVID.

So you just had a hiccup.

You know, it was like, you know, you had a pre-COVID and then a COVID and, you know, now you back.

You know, so COVID, you know, was a blip in the Matrix.

That's all.

And I can't even say what I was saying.

It was a blip in the Matrix, and now you good.

I can't even tell you.

You don't need no mask no more.

You know, you know, you good.

Why did I need a mask no more?

Because, because, like, that, you need to erase that.

Like, COVID is like, I feel like COVID was like, you need to erase that part of my life or a part part of history.

It was just like, cause it was like so much, nothing you could do.

And then it was just like, damn, people went to depression, lost jobs, didn't know this, people died.

I think it's just flipped that out.

Fucked up that you want me to erase a part of myself.

Like I was still a human being, nigga.

Like, just because I was 280 doesn't mean that I wasn't shit.

Like, I was a person, a breathing woman that was still on the earth.

dealing with people, loving people, taking care of myself, and making an impact in society.

Like, just because I was big, and for any woman, that's big, don't mean they got to erase themselves and they're not worth living or being in the world.

Like, correct yourself before I get pissed off on this show.

Like, what you was making a difference in society, yes, because my energy and my spirit is always making a difference in society.

Because I,

what's the difference you was making?

I'm moving on.

See, you're disrespectful, man.

Like, this is crazy.

Food crisis or what?

Like,

it was people eating.

You get on my dirt.

I'm so sick

of you.

You was taking food out of people, bro.

That's what you was doing.

I'm just messing with you.

I had to go back to that, you know.

Hey, we got to remind people you're inspiration.

And, you know, you're in the gym three, four times a week now.

You had your blip in the matrix, and now you're cracking.

You know, share the story.

It's fine to talk about it.

No, because anytime I talk about it, you want to talk about me crazy.

I'm talking about don't, I don't want to delete that part of my life.

That's a part of something that happened to me.

No, I didn't say delete it, but you could just, you know,

chalk it up to the you know, COVID

and say that was, you know,

you know,

that was like an NBA would have considered that the lockout.

You know, it was a down year

or two.

I'm I'm so sick of that.

The lockout.

That was during the lockout.

Yeah, my bad.

I just, you know, sometimes we got to get back to that.

Okay.

Anyways.

What's popping, though?

There's a Harvard study that says men should ejaculate 20 times per month to reduce prostate cancer risk.

Do you think that number is?

What do you mean?

What does ejaculate mean?

Come.

Oh, damn.

Do you think that's

21.

Do you think that's a risk?

How did they?

I don't understand how Harvard they come up with these numbers.

You always talk about these numbers.

Do they just sit in a room and got to do, you know, he's just like, let me, you got to do this for 21 days, my boy, and then we'll see.

You know,

you got to do this for years now.

Now you have to do it for years, and we're going to sit here and monitor this.

Please, come on now.

Yeah, I want to know what these studies are about, too, because you put me on to really realizing these statistics are crazy.

Do you think ejaculating 21 times a month is realistic?

What does that mean again?

To come.

So that means, okay, to play with yourself or have a sexual encounter where you can...

Is that realistic?

Yeah.

I'm sure it's a lot of people that do that.

I'm sure it's guys that play with themselves every day.

Playing with yourself sounds

crazy.

I mean, that's, you know,

you got to stay, keep the stamina.

Okay.

I'm sure it's dudes that do that every day, you know?

Ain't nothing wrong with that.

So do you think while you're in a relationship, do you like

feel like if you're jacking, playing with yourself, if anyone is playing with themselves in the relationship, the woman or the man, are you offended by that?

Like, let's say your woman is playing with herself using the vibrator on her own, like whatever, like multiple times,

a week, or whenever, however many times.

Is that like, wow, offensive or do you not care?

That's a good question.

Damn.

The reason I ask is because in my past relationship, it was like an issue of like,

you better not

use your vibrator or do anything on your own because that's crazy.

Well, maybe a man be like, why don't you just, you know, save that for me?

You know what I'm saying?

And then

on the flip side, it could be the woman just like, damn, you turned me on so much that I want to do this and I think of you.

I don't know.

It's a fine line between that.

What is your opinion?

I don't have no real problem with that.

You know, I think that if you're in a relationship and that's what you do,

I would like to be present some days you do it.

All right.

So you would watch.

I would like to be present.

Okay.

Like if your girl do that 21 days, like the study say they need to do it, I want to be present some of them days and I just be like watching a movie.

Like,

watching a movie, just that's not a.

That's wild for a woman.

That's uncomfortable.

If you're not like getting into it too, then you're just watching a movie and I'm just watching a movie.

I'm relaxed.

I'm over here looking.

And you're just,

that's like,

that's true.

That feels so crazy.

You have to be like, I have done that to where.

I'm going to be over here in the cut.

No, it's awkward like as a woman trust me you what you want me to do you want a man to like be like ooh something like you gotta have like that's fun if a man is like you want a man you want the sound effects from him yeah like a sound effect a rub a touch a look in the eye i want you to do what you do when i'm not around so i can see what you do

Yeah, you can still see.

You can still use your eyes and interact.

If I'm not there, how are you getting off?

Why you don't need me to do that now?

So I'm going to just.

No, you don't have to do that, but I'm saying, like, you, like, as a woman, you will want your man to, like, at least not just be like, I'm watching a movie.

And then she's

like, it's all that is.

No, I'm not saying he's watching the movie, but y'all like, you're watching the movie, but he's going to be like, okay, yeah, okay, yeah.

Because then you get in your head and you're like, a lot of women don't come because they're in their head.

That's like the number one reason.

And then it's like, for me, if my man is right there and I'm doing that like i want him to be like are you turned on like is it giving like what it needs to give like i don't want to be in my head thinking that so he has to reverse it now so like because if i'm if i'm in my mode to where i'm going yeah

you know i'm getting myself going yeah i don't need you to be doing all of that shut up be quiet

to talk and doing all that uh shut up you messing up my constant so you just want someone to be watching the movie what you doing just don't say nothing nothing.

Let me, because I'm a.

So saying something is going to turn you off.

Your woman saying something while you're doing that is turning you off is crazy.

Why?

Be quiet.

Like, what if she's like, ooh, I love that?

That's be quiet.

You're turned off by that.

Like, what if she's like, ooh, yes, daddy.

Shut up.

I got this.

What?

I got this.

I think that's crazy.

I think that it is like for me, watching a man do that is a turn on for me.

And I feel like it could be be a turn on the vice versa.

But I can't have a man just what you're gonna be doing if he's sitting there doing that.

What you gonna be like, oh, yeah, I've done, I like that actually, and I've yeah, I feel like you don't have to say anything, but it's just the act of just like, I don't know, I don't know what I'm saying, and I don't know if I'm saying anything or not.

Like, I might,

but I don't know.

If he's in there, you and your man laying in a bed,

he like, damn, I just feel like just stroking myself right now.

Like, damn,

You know what I'm saying?

Don't do nothing, baby.

Just,

you know, just,

you know, just lay there.

I'm going to just, you know, rub on you with this hand and on the other hand, I'm going to get myself going.

You don't have to say nothing.

But what about moaning?

Like, okay, I'm getting turned on.

I'm moaning.

I'm, oh, yes.

Like,

is that blowing you?

Like, that's turning you off?

I don't know.

Because what?

Like, you just want someone to just sit there quiet and watch you?

Most men is like going to be just like,

I don't know, maybe closing their eyes and just picturing him and his girl just like if they're doing that.

But what if she's right there?

Why not just look at each other?

Like, you know what I'm saying?

And also for women, I feel like methods.

Why don't the girl do it?

But I feel like, you know why it's good for the man to do it?

Because I think that when a woman watches a man do it, it's like, show me how you do it to yourself.

So then when I'm in there doing different items, like I know your motion.

I know your rhythm.

So that's how, like, I've learned, like, you can learn, like, oh, I know what you are on.

Like, and then you make a mental note and you're like, oh, okay.

Like, just like you said, what would you do if I wasn't like the person wasn't right there?

Like, you have to.

What's your preferred toy of choice?

Lord, this is getting a little too extra.

I would say that, I mean, we did have a whole sex toy box here, so it's going to be all right.

I would say that i'm a clitoral simulation person so for me my toy that i use is for the clit tourists and you vibrate on there

and then boom i'm gonna come okay so the question is yeah what's your toy of choice that's what it is it's a it's a clit toy That's what it's called.

So if I go into the store, I say, give me the clit toy.

So I don't know what it's called.

It's a vibrator.

It's not most girls like the rose massage the massage thing with the ball with the top no you know most girls don't like that's what your mom you pretended was a back scratcher like okay it really was

the rose that just came out a few years ago i don't do the rose though but it's like i do this toy it's called

what it look like so it's like this it has a hole like this and it's like it's like rubber and you put your clit in the little thing in the little hole how big is the clip God damn, that's a, that's a D at that point.

If you could put it in the, if you got a.

The clit gets swollen, right?

But I'm sorry.

So when you turn on, it gets hard and swollen.

The clit gets switched.

Yeah, it does.

That's crazy.

How big is the clit?

This doesn't have to be huge.

You put it over.

That's wild.

That's a double.

You don't have to have a big clit to do that.

You literally, I don't,

you don't have to have that.

And then you could just put.

That might be something else.

No, it's not.

It's really not.

You literally, it's the same concept as the rose.

The rose is just like, I think like a tongue, but this has been my favorite toy for a long time.

And you just, and I don't use it like that.

I probably haven't used it in a minute.

But like,

it is a

thing and it's like a little hole.

And I think it's like a little thing in there, a rubber thing.

And you put it.

I wonder how that one toy feel.

That one that for the men, that

yeah, yeah.

I always wondered that, a little bulb with the flesh in there.

You wanted how that feel too?

For a man.

Like, is that cracking?

I don't know.

I ain't never, I ain't never.

I've always wondered if that was cracking for a man, but like, if I walked in and my man was using that, I don't know how it would feel.

If you walked in, it was the middle of it, like,

damn,

goddamn.

And you walked in, he was just making sound effects.

What you doing?

Woo!

I mean, you can be like, damn.

It would just be like, damn, you don't even do all that.

But we have

like, this is crazy.

This is fire.

yeah that's too much because then now you're addicted to that more than you would have sex with me and i don't like that because it's like this is giving a lot and i don't really love that and then like it's just doing too much i'm not going to be mad or whatever but i just feel like damn like even me it's like i don't mind if a man does that in a relationship and does his own thing like do that get your shit off but sometimes you'd be like well save it for me what if you walk in and he got the sex dog no i'm not i'm not doing that that's cheating it's not cheating it's weird But I'm just saying, if you walk in, what's going to happen?

It's not cheating.

You're going to be arguing.

It's not arguing.

It's like.

Y'all going to break up.

You're just weird.

So, y'all, what's so what?

Yeah, I don't know.

I have to think like you're strange, and I'm going to have to accept that.

Baby, it's been, you've been out of town for three days.

Like, no, it's not that, it's not that serious.

All right, all right.

The sex doll is blowing.

The sex doll is blowing me.

I don't want to do nothing with a sex doll, in my opinion.

I think if a man has that, you're out of control.

Like, you are that.

but what if a man is like i'm a nympho like i have a friend who's married and he

is like i he has to have sex all the time so like he'll be like oh my god i had sex with all these women in one day like like people have an addiction so like maybe those type of people need a little sex doll like need a little doll that they could just get it off

you know what i'm saying

anyways

that was really after dark we got to move on from that for a second do you think do you but this is um on like brand do you think that sex can actually save a relationship that's falling apart

damn wait

can sex save a relationship

well if the relationship

who wait that don't make sense

you know how like when people are fighting and they have makeup sex and stuff and like they use sex to kind of band-aid, I think.

Yeah.

But what are they falling apart?

It depends on what you're falling apart from.

I mean, let's just say you guys are just arguing all the time and then you're like, okay, I'm going to use sex.

Like every time we argue, I'm just bending down to my knees and I'm getting cracking.

Well, it shouldn't get to that point.

You should have been doing that to keep them from the breakup moment.

I'm saying, but what if it's like other stuff and you guys are just going through stuff?

Financial problems.

or like whatever.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Kids.

Yeah, kids, praise.

I think sex

makes it

last

longer than it needs to

because the issue still didn't go away.

That's real.

You know, maybe it just extended the stay.

That's real.

But it's not ultimately going to solve the problem.

Yeah.

If there's an issue outside of sex.

Yeah.

You know, so

and then you got, it's some guys and some girls that's just like, damn,

I really hate this dude or I really won't ever be with him, but I will have sex with him.

You know, or her.

Like, and, but he, like,

it'd be dudes and girls so sprung on the sex, and that's it.

You know, the values go out.

You know, they have a whole nother man, but they like having sex with their ex.

Yeah, and you know who does that a lot?

Baby mom and baby dads, yeah, because they're like, We would never be together, we don't work, but I love the sex because it's this, it's toxic, it's fashion, it's giving.

Yeah, that's what people do a lot in that baby daddy, baby mama situation, yeah, and that's what you'd be having to look out for because it's like it's familiar.

You guys already know each other's bodies, you know what's going on, and then you're just like, okay, cool, like I'm gonna run that.

And to me, it's like, if you

me, I'm telling you right now, if I'm having sex with anybody else, I don't fuck with the person I'm with.

Because when I'm with someone, I'm very into that person.

I'm very like, this is my person.

I'm thirsty for them.

I'm like on them.

If I'm like

doing that, that means like I'm not like, I can't have a sexual connection with someone that I don't fuck with.

Like, I just don't.

And to me, like, I never had sex with an ex on some like, oh, we're just going to become fuck buddies now because we like the sex because I don't like the sex as soon as I don't like you.

That shit is out the window for me.

I don't want to see you.

I don't want to look at you.

I'm very cut, dry.

If I'm fucking with you, I'm rocking with you.

If I'm not, I'm done.

I'm very cut and dry.

I'm blocking you.

You never had a situation to where you got

somebody you got to deal with.

You know what I'm saying?

Yeah, the baby mama, baby daddy thing.

I never had that.

And that's the difference.

And I do think if I did have that situation, I really do think, though, that I would be very cut and dry.

Like I would be very clean.

Yeah, you got to be cut and dry.

Yeah, I'm very clean.

The children.

Don't hit me up about nothing other than the kids.

Don't be calling my phone.

Don't be texting me, little slick shit.

Like we should not be talking about nothing.

And I know that I would be that way because I'm very much like that.

Like if I'm with you in a relationship, that means I'm really locked in and you really got got me.

Let me ask you something.

Yeah.

Like,

is it

what's the limit?

Like, shit.

All right.

So, say, like,

an ex, yeah.

Baby dad, let's say baby kid, baby daddy, or baby mama.

Do you get presents for their birthday and Christmas and Valentine's and stuff like that?

For Valentine's Day, you're going to get a gift to your baby moms or baby dads.

Are you mind gone?

Okay, so what about Christmas?

No, I'm getting gifts for the kids.

We are not getting gifts for each other.

That's out.

And let me tell you this.

Another thing that I always say is like, there's things that could be forgiven in a relationship.

I think one thing that I couldn't forgive in a relationship is someone cheating with their baby mom, their baby, like, or yeah, the mother of their child, because that's not going to ever be, I'll never feel safe.

Because

it's right there and it's always going to be right there.

So, if you cheated on that, then it's over for me.

Like, cause I can't ever get past that, honestly, because now I know you have to see this person, you have to deal with this person, you have to go around this person.

And how do I know that you're not doing that?

Like, I'll never feel safe.

That's one thing.

Like, I always say, like, I'll forgive a lot of stuff.

That's one thing I know that I won't forgive.

And I think crossing that line is like, why are y'all buying each other gifts?

You should be getting gifts for the children.

Period point blank and if the children are old enough to get their

girl period okay yes that's weird to me like it's period like i don't think it's just about see people have but like say you single it doesn't matter why are you not setting the boundary when you're single or when you're in a relationship why are you crossing that weird line whether i'm single or i'm not well there's no line if you're single yeah there's a line within the boundaries of what you set with the person you're with your baby mom or your baby dad.

It is a boundary.

I'm setting boundaries with them, whether I'm single or in a relationship.

Well, I can speak on this because I did this for a lot of you.

Yeah.

You know, I like God gifts for the mama so the kids can see that me just being nice.

I get that.

And I respect that.

You know what I'm saying?

It's just like you don't want to like dog them, like, because the kids see it.

Yeah, but you don't have to dog them out.

But it ain't got to be nothing major.

It ain't got to be a major gift.

I think you get them.

It's going to be something like

a it'd be like

some sandals or some that's crazy i i would never and if i was with somebody who did that i would be cool and honestly too i get mother's day like some flowers or something like a card so what's the difference

because that's respecting the fact that that's the mother like cool i with you you're a cool mom so flowers is cool for christmas I don't think you should be getting gifts for people.

And I think that if I'm with someone who's buying their their baby mom sandals like that's blowing

sandals it's like 30 bucks i don't give a

i think that that's blowing it and i think that what too many people do is they wait till they get into a relationship to set a boundary and then the woman is like even more upset now oh you got in this relationship now you switched up now you had this no no no honey we have boundaries set before i'm in a relationship like my

text how about a text

Is it about the kid?

No, I'm saying, what if he like, happy birthday?

Yeah, I mean, that's crazy.

Yeah, that's crazy.

I think that's fine.

Okay.

That's blowing me if you can't text happy birthday, Merry Christmas.

That's just too strict.

You could be cordial.

You can have a fucking friendship or not a friendship, but like, y'all are cool.

But I think that you have to respect the things.

Like, my ex, he was super boundaried up with his baby mom before I even was with him.

When I got with him, it was an introduction of like, this is my girl.

She's going to be around our daughter.

This is the daughter.

Hey, this is someone that I love.

I'm going to be around.

Like, it was so transparent.

It was so comfortable.

I never worried about nothing.

And it was very cut and dry.

This is it.

Like, boom, boom, boom.

There's no nothing.

And I felt very cool in that situation when it came to that.

But I feel like some people, they blur the lines and they don't set that boundary ahead of time.

So a woman is pissed.

Because I'm going to be pissed.

Like, damn, you got with this girl.

Now I can't get no sandals.

Like, I'm going to save my little slick shit.

Like, where are my sandals now?

Oh, she's a hater.

Now I can't get my shit.

Like, no, you shouldn't have been getting nothing because this is not that type of relationship.

This is for the children.

Set a boundary.

If the kid is very tiny and it's the birthday, I will get a gift on behalf of the kid for the mom or for the dad.

But all that other shit is blowing me.

Yeah.

And I'm just saying, you got to set boundaries to people because they will cross a line for show.

And next episode, y'all having sex.

Anyways, that was a great episode.

I feel like we did our big one.

There was more stuff to discuss, but we'll have to cover it next time because we be chopping.

Man, we've been having some good little conversations, though.

Hopefully people y'all continue to watch.

Yeah.

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