Club Shay Shay - Yung Miami Part 1

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On the latest episode of Club Shay Shay, Shannon Sharpe sits down with the one and only Yung Miami—platinum-selling rapper, award-winning podcast host, viral influencer, and trendsetting entrepreneur. Flying in straight from Dade County, the star brings her signature charisma and unfiltered honesty to the conversation, covering everything from her booming business ventures to her take on love, money, and modern relationships.

Yung Miami and Shannon dive into her new card game, Resha Roulette, playing a few rounds while discussing the inspiration behind turning her love for games into a thriving business. She opens up about dating in the spotlight, her thoughts on 50/50 relationships, and whether kissing on the first date is a green light or a red flag.

No topic is off-limits as she addresses rumors about her love life, including Stefon Diggs, the age of the oldest man she’s dated, and what she’s learned about relationships. Miami keeps it real about the hardships of growing up in the 305, how her mother’s prison sentence shaped her, and the grind that got her to the top. She also shares the story behind the City Girls’ rise, from childhood dreams of being a mortician to making hit records with JT and getting the ultimate co-sign from Drake.

Plus, the two chop it up about social media drama, industry politics, and the reality of fame—whether it's dealing with DJ Akademiks, navigating Quality Control's decisions about her music, or the double standards Black artists face.

And of course, Yung Miami talks about the luxuries she loves—her Ferrari, the importance of investing and paying taxes, and how she’s building an empire beyond music.

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Speaker 4 So, all old gifts are selected. Oh, I know you got them acting feet.

Speaker 4 I'm going to run out of here. I promise you.
I ain't got no authority. I ain't got no feet.
Look at that.

Speaker 4 Ah, look at that. Let me see.

Speaker 4 All my life, been grinding all my life.

Speaker 4 Sacrifice, hustle, paid the price.

Speaker 4 Want a slice. Got to roll the dice.
That's why. All my life.
I've been grinding all my life.

Speaker 4 All my life. Been grinding all my life.

Speaker 4 Sacrifice. Hustle paid the price.

Speaker 4 Want a slice. Got to

Speaker 4 Hello, welcome to another episode of Club Shay Shay. I am your host, Shannon Sharp.
I'm also the proprietor of Club Sheche. And today, we're at Spotlight LA.

Speaker 4 Stopping by for conversation and a drink today is a force to be reckoned with in the music and media.

Speaker 4 She's known for her bubbly down-to-earth personality, hilarious commentary, and catchy sayings like, Period.

Speaker 4 She sets the tone for being a bold and ambitious, a member of the most popular girl group of this decade. She has created anthems for women empowerment and independence.

Speaker 4 She's a larger-than-life presence.

Speaker 4 She's a platinum-selling rapper, award-winning podcast host, must-watch entertainer, viral influencer, trendsetting artist, a talented content creator, a loving mother, a rising executive producer, and exceptional entrepreneur who's building an empire with her car game, Risha Roulette.

Speaker 4 Miami's own. She flew all the way from Dade County.
Carisha is a government name, but you know it's Young Miami. Welcome to the show.
Oh,

Speaker 4 that was a good introduction. Do you like that intro? Yes, I'm like, clock it, clock it, clock it.

Speaker 4 So, when you hear me reading all this off and you're like, damn, I did all that. Do you realize what you've done at such a young age? No, I mean, I realize it, but that right there just settled in.

Speaker 4 I'm like, hold on,

Speaker 4 it just kept going. That just felt good.
Like, okay.

Speaker 4 Well, thank you so much. Thank you for joining us on Club Shea Shea.
Normally, we toast, but you have a game. It's called Risha Roulette, and you have Risha Roulette Reloaded.

Speaker 4 So, we're going to play this game to start off. So give me a brief synopsis of what we're doing here.

Speaker 4 Okay, so the Risha Roulette, which is a card game coming with 100 echo cards, and it comes with some shot glasses. You just take a shot.
The reloaded now, it comes with a wheel. Okay.

Speaker 4 So we're going to spend the wheel. Spend the wheel.
And whatever it lands on. You got to pick from that category.
So it's three categories. Either dare pay,

Speaker 4 take a shot. Okay.

Speaker 4 Or get wild.

Speaker 4 Let me see. Oh.

Speaker 4 You're cheating. You're already looking at the car.
Where the money at?

Speaker 4 You got some money? Because if you ain't gotta do this, they need my money.

Speaker 4 You're gonna have to pay me up. Yeah.

Speaker 4 Oh, yeah. There go the money.
Yeah. Okay.

Speaker 4 So I'm gonna spin the wheel. Okay.

Speaker 4 Take a shot. Damn.
I thought the muscle.

Speaker 4 We didn't even ask no question. No, I gotta pull from the deck of card now.
Take a shot.

Speaker 4 That's what you get.

Speaker 4 Okay, it's a take a shot if you go through the self-checkout to steal when times is hard. I ain't gonna lie, I don't went through this.

Speaker 4 Go to get one.

Speaker 4 Go to get one. Go to get what? I don't went through the self-checkout and like, you ain't scared my eyes before.

Speaker 4 Scam one and take, put two in the bag.

Speaker 4 Shot to Walmart.

Speaker 4 All right, all right. Okay,

Speaker 4 yeah. Okay.

Speaker 4 It says. Oh, no, you moved that.
It says your pick. It was right here.
Okay, y'all pick. Which one you want to pick from? So you get to pick your deck of cards.
What you want to do?

Speaker 4 I will do dare play.

Speaker 4 Okay.

Speaker 4 Allow the player of your choice to purchase something online right now for up to $20 with your debit or credit card or pay $5 to another player.

Speaker 4 I ain't got no debit card.

Speaker 4 I probably should have took a shot.

Speaker 4 I give you $5. Here you go.
You'll give me $5. You could have let me order something off of Amazon.

Speaker 4 You have this money, but are you supposed to have real money? No, so

Speaker 4 you could play with real money or you can use the Risha Bucks. Okay.
I'm going to hear you go Risha Bucks.

Speaker 4 All right. Your turn.
You got to spend. You got to spend.
Okay. I like this.
Okay. Let me see.

Speaker 4 Okay. Okay.
You know. But now you're going to see.
You cheat. Damn.
We just two minutes in the game and you cheat on. You had to take another shot.
Okay. Okay, let's it says, Take a shot.

Speaker 4 I like it. I like it.
I like it. I like it.
I like it.

Speaker 4 You see, that's why I don't like playing my game.

Speaker 4 Yeah. So, what it says, what you got to do? It says, take a shot

Speaker 4 if you got to use loot to get wet. Oh, yeah.

Speaker 4 I don't know, but you got to take a shot. Oh, no.
I ain't got to take no shot at that. You ain't got to get on you? Oh, okay.
No. Okay, slippery went wet.
Okay, come on there.

Speaker 4 Yeah, no.

Speaker 4 Take a shot. Damn.
I want you to get a cook one.

Speaker 4 Can I go? Do I have to pick up the top of the deck? No, you can pick from where you want to pick. Okay.

Speaker 4 Take a shot if you've ever did something strange for a piece of change. Absolutely not.
Didn't ever do that. Ain't got to.

Speaker 4 Go ahead, Yo-Go. Yo-go.
Your turn. Okay, let me see.

Speaker 4 Take a shot.

Speaker 4 Take a shot. Yeah.

Speaker 4 Okay.

Speaker 4 Take a shot if. Okay, this is a good one.

Speaker 4 Tell me if you know this. It says, finish these lyrics.
Yeah, we knucking, they're bucking.

Speaker 4 I don't know nothing about that.

Speaker 4 Nuck if you buck.

Speaker 4 Yeah, we knucking, they're bugging.

Speaker 4 Man, take a shot.

Speaker 4 You know, yeah, we knucking, they're bugging, they're ready to fight.

Speaker 4 See, I'm cool. I'm cool, comic literature.
I don't do that kind of thing. So let me ask you this.
While we're playing this game, how do you come up with the idea of creating a game?

Speaker 4 Because I like to play, like, I'm a type of person. I'm very like,

Speaker 4 I like to get to know people. So, I love to play like never have I ever

Speaker 4 drink out of the person's cup next to you or pay everybody $1

Speaker 4 here. Let me go and get you some of these.

Speaker 4 I don't know. See, I like to play with you.
I know I'm gonna leave with me. A quick change, but see if you was saying some real money.
Yeah, yeah. I leave with some money.
See, here's the thing.

Speaker 4 We ain't got but one player. But see, how many players can play at this game at one time? You could play to 10 people.
How many people you want to play with?

Speaker 4 Like, you know, it's going to be like a little event. So you could play up to 10, 7 people.
So you're sitting around one night and you say, you know what?

Speaker 4 Because obviously, if you're playing this game, you like to play card games. You like to play games.

Speaker 4 I mean, what's your favorite card game to to play tonk tonk okay you like to play tonk yeah i don't know how to play spades okay you so so how do you play tonk so let me ask you a question because we play out of several different ways obviously if you go down and get caught you got to pay that person double

Speaker 4 but the way we also play so i played before if you go down and somebody catches you you have to pay everybody at the board have you see i don't play for money i'm just out there oh no no no ain't nothing for fun

Speaker 4 you you even got you got money right here okay your turn you know why because i know that people love to play card games for money.

Speaker 4 That's what my daddy them do. They play spades and they be talking and they be like, yeah, get my money.
It gets so intense.

Speaker 4 Yeah, yeah. And I'd be like, oh my God.
I'll be sitting. I'm like, damn, this is interesting.
So when I did the first one, I just did it, like, take a shot. This one, I'm like, you know what?

Speaker 4 I'm going to add some of the Risha Bucks to it. So it could be like a little more intense, a little more fun.

Speaker 4 And that's what made me want to add like the money to it. Yeah, but they need to come with their own real money.

Speaker 4 No, you could play with real money, but I know that some of my consumers, yeah, you know, yeah, monopoly, you know, yes, yes, yes, I feel like a little twang to it.

Speaker 4 But me and my friends, we playing with real money, like me and you, we gonna play with real money.

Speaker 4 Oh, you try to get my money, you try to get because I see you, you, you ready to play, you like, yeah, yeah,

Speaker 4 see, you ain't gonna do nothing there. See, me, I ain't giving you my money, so you go, you gonna spill the beans, huh? Yeah, I'm gonna do it there.
What's up? Come on, spit it wheel.

Speaker 4 See, I keep letting them take a shot. Take a shot.

Speaker 4 Let me see.

Speaker 4 See, we ain't got no. It says, eat a spoonful of mustard or take a shot.
We don't got no mustard.

Speaker 4 Well, yeah, you got to take another one. You got it?

Speaker 4 What is it? Thank you. It says, text your ex, babe.
I miss you or take a shot.

Speaker 4 Text him. Let me tell you something.

Speaker 4 I'm just get the on.

Speaker 4 I don't miss you.

Speaker 4 So I'm going to take my shot.

Speaker 4 I don't miss you.

Speaker 4 Damn.

Speaker 4 You know he's going to see this, right? You'll be deviling back.

Speaker 4 What at? Do you double back? No, no, no. Spend the block? Yeah.
Nah. So once you on your...
But he's going to see this. You know this, right? Okay.

Speaker 4 Okay. Text me if you miss me.

Speaker 4 Damn, you know. I just told that man, you're going to miss him.
You talk about text. Yeah, I'm not, you know, like, you know.

Speaker 4 Chase me. But let me ask you this.
Okay, you have this idea for a card game. How do you take that idea and turn it into a business

Speaker 4 so i i feel like i like i i love money i love money so and i love to play games so i gotta turn my game into some money so i just called like i got a creative director i called i said hey can you help me invent this card game and we put the we put the move board together and we just brought it to life how long did it take you

Speaker 4 six months or years i was supposed to say six months okay Because we got to go through the cards. We got to play it.

Speaker 4 I'm the type of person I'll approve something and it'll be like

Speaker 4 in production, it's done. I'm like, hell no, whatever I spent, we got to change it.
Like, I want everything to be right, right?

Speaker 4 So, let me make, so, obviously, these cards, so all a lot of these cards have to be some of your own ideas. It's like, okay, I want this on the card, I want that on the card.

Speaker 4 Did you have other people giving you ideas or insight of what they thought? I did. Okay, I did.
I came up with the majority of the cards, but I did have some people like,

Speaker 4 damn, what I could put on the card. What we be doing

Speaker 4 says wild card. Ooh, it's time to get wild now.
So, what I mean, I can pick any card? You got to pick from the deck of get wild. So, this is right here, get wild.

Speaker 4 Okay, okay. I don't know if you want to pick from the top.
Might want to pick from the middle. Okay, okay.

Speaker 4 Because you're about to set me up. Okay, I got what right here.
Get wild.

Speaker 4 Spend the bottle, whoever it lands on, give them a body massage for 30 seconds.

Speaker 4 We ain't got no bottle. See, that's why you got to play this game.
I always say that. So we got to, so

Speaker 4 there's certain items that you're going to have to have. So you're going to have to have food.
You're going to have to have mustard. You're going to have to have hot sauce or ketchup or X, Y, and Z.

Speaker 4 You're going to have to have a bottle so you can spend the bottle. So there are several things.

Speaker 4 Obviously, you're going to have, is there a certain, I mean, like tequila, cognac, is there any, like any other beverages you can have? Soda, water. You don't play with your own beverage.

Speaker 4 That's just like if you went to a house party, you put out a game, y'all already in the setting. Right.
So y'all let's just play the game. Okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 4 But I always say, like, don't play with your man, don't play with your wife, wife, and don't play with your mama because it's gonna get wild. You and your wife, because it'd be like, text your ex.

Speaker 4 Oh, no, it'd be like, let me go through your phone. The wife, like, oh, go through the phone.

Speaker 4 Well, I'm gonna have to pull that one out before

Speaker 4 it'd be like, let the person next to you go through your phone for 10 seconds, go through your apps, all that. Like,

Speaker 4 yeah, yeah, you ask, you asking for trouble, right? I want to see the last lift you sent.

Speaker 4 Let me see that lift account.

Speaker 4 Don't play with your. Hey,

Speaker 4 I got a my pick.

Speaker 4 I'm gonna do a DR pay. Okay.

Speaker 4 What else? What did it say? Shannon, we can't do that.

Speaker 4 It says,

Speaker 4 transfer a shot from your mouth to the mouth of a person next to you or pay that person $3.

Speaker 4 Come on with it. Come on with it, Carisha.

Speaker 4 Come on with it.

Speaker 4 Dodger Black.

Speaker 4 Babe, you tried to blow me out of there for real.

Speaker 4 Oh, my God. Okay.

Speaker 4 See, this is what I'm saying. This is why it's going to get messy.
It says, type your name in a pair of your church phone and review why your name was mentioned for 10 seconds.

Speaker 4 So that's why I was like, give me your phone. I'm going to type my name in their search history and see what you were saying about me.
I ain't said nothing, but you want to get my phone, Joe. Let me

Speaker 4 go.

Speaker 4 Imagine you was playing with Michelle. Oh, there you go.

Speaker 4 And you had to type with Shannon there.

Speaker 4 So

Speaker 4 where I go?

Speaker 4 Here. Where'd I go? Okay, you'll go to your messages

Speaker 4 and then you'll just type Carisha.

Speaker 4 Wait.

Speaker 4 You ain't saying nothing. See? That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 We are good.

Speaker 4 We all cool.

Speaker 4 So is this a, let me ask you a question. Is this a good game for a first date?

Speaker 4 So would you play this game on a first date? I would.

Speaker 4 You asking for trouble.

Speaker 4 Because you know what? Like.

Speaker 4 Cause you know that that card that you pull says, okay, transfer alcohol to his, to somebody. And then all of a sudden y'all will end up start kissing.
Kiss will lead the other thing.

Speaker 4 On the first date?

Speaker 4 I'm kissing on the first date. Huh? I mean, if I done went on a date with you, that means I like you.
Okay. That means we done got past like the little talking stage.
Really?

Speaker 4 If I want to go on a date, it's like, yeah, we can kiss on the first date. You can kiss on the first date.
Oh, okay. Okay.

Speaker 4 Yeah, it ain't got to be all the time.

Speaker 4 But when you transfer, you got to get down in there because you don't want to spill none on his clothes. You don't want to get none on your dress.
You don't kiss on first dates.

Speaker 4 No.

Speaker 4 I'm a gentleman. I'm old school, though.
I know old school.

Speaker 4 They be kissing on the first date. Because I'm learning a lot.
You know, they be doing a lot of stuff.

Speaker 4 You know, everybody in the world is different. Yes.
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Speaker 4 So let me ask you this. What's an ideal first date?

Speaker 4 I'm not gonna lie. Like, I want the carpet

Speaker 4 rolled out for me on the first hour. On the first date? Yes.

Speaker 4 Damn. It's a first impression.
It's a first impression. So where you go from there? If he does that, if he rolled the red carpet out on the first date, what he going to got to do for the second date?

Speaker 4 Take your ass to Santa Pape? No, now you can see me in the bunny and stuff. See you what? In my little bunny.
You can see me like in my sweats with my makeup and stuff off on the second date.

Speaker 4 Because we done got through the first stage.

Speaker 4 Damn. Like on the first date, what you gonna do? You wanted to just be boring? No, no.
I thought the first date, okay, first date, okay, we done talked. Okay, where would you like to go?

Speaker 4 We're gonna go grab a bite to eat. Where would you like to go? Boom, boom, boom.
Okay, we're going out to eat. Probably.

Speaker 4 She gonna take an Uber lift. I can't remember the last time I've actually driven to some.
I'm from the old school where you used to drive to go pick up the lady. Yeah.
To go take her out.

Speaker 4 Do you still do that? No, hell no. But cause don't nobody trust you like that.
Because it's a first date. You know what I'm saying? So ain't nobody really trusting you like that, even who I am.

Speaker 4 If they know me, blah, blah, blah. I get it.
I ain't have a problem with that. But I grew up in an era where you went and picked the lady up and you had the date.

Speaker 4 You went to where you go, movies, out to eat or to an event, and you brought her back home. Right.
I like that. That's very grown, intimate, and sexy.
That let me know that I can trust you. Yeah.

Speaker 4 You make sure I get back home. You pick me up.
You You a gentleman. Yeah.
You made sure I got back home. Yeah.
All that sending me a lift. I don't know if I could trust you.
Right.

Speaker 4 Because when you see me a lift, where you going?

Speaker 4 Oh, you think he's going somewhere? I'll be. I need you to drop me off and make sure I get home safe.

Speaker 4 And I want you, when I come out, I want you to open up the door for me, get me in the car, we ride. We're going to have a little playlist.
We're going to talk and we're going to be grown and sexy.

Speaker 4 That's what I like. Yeah.
And see, you know, I drop the person off. Hey, hey, thank you.
I, you know, walk you to the door, make sure you get in the place. And then I turn and go.

Speaker 4 I ain't going up to your place.

Speaker 4 Yeah, I don't like that. that we meeting each other you going in before no okay i'm grown okay court me

Speaker 4 make me feel made me feel like you you like me you know you're interested but i'm saying you say you don't like the guy i mean he's being courteous he didn't have to send that he could have made you go get your own a ride share but he sent you an uber he sent you a nice black if it's a date how i'm gonna like but i'm saying so that's what you the expectation level is if he asks you out on a date he's supposed to arrange everything yes where you you don't have hey just tell me where i need to be what time I need to be there.

Speaker 4 I feel like that's a date. Yes.
Okay. As a man, if a man set up a date for you, I feel like he set up the date.
Everything is you just come. Okay.
Okay.

Speaker 4 Do you agree?

Speaker 4 Yes, yes, I do. Yes.

Speaker 4 But for me, okay, what do you like? You know, I need to know what you like to eat. What, you know, what some of the places.

Speaker 4 Obviously, I don't want to go to a particular place that you've probably been before.

Speaker 4 Although you might have been there before somebody else and they're like, well, damn, she was just here, you know, the other day with such and such.

Speaker 4 And if they come to the, oh hey carisha how you do if everybody walk by hey carisha hey young miami how you do i'm like whoa whoa whoa damn how many times you done been up in this joint yeah so i'm gonna be feeling some type of way so i just want you to know when i'm sitting over there quiet i'm on swole

Speaker 4 i'm just gonna go ahead and keep it a thyroid with you i'm i'm on swole because i'm feeling some type of way like well damn she must be a regular up in this piece

Speaker 4 but i'm not gonna lie i got a restaurant in miami that i love poppy state i'm a regular in there ojo told me about that one oh it's so good it's good it's so so good.

Speaker 4 You know how like sometimes you could go to a restaurant and it's like, nah, I need a break. It's so good.
So it's like, I just go down a regular. Like sometimes I go out to eat by myself.
Really?

Speaker 4 Yeah.

Speaker 4 Can I tag along? We go have a ball. Oh, there we go.

Speaker 4 So, okay.

Speaker 4 First date. What is some of the stipulations?

Speaker 4 Okay, if you go on the first date, what's some of the things that he has done to make sure he gets a second date or some of the things that he didn't do to make sure he doesn't get a second date i just don't like boring i don't like a man i feel like i don't like people that can't hold a conversation okay like we can't just be at a dinner we both just quiet really i like personality are you a quiet person i am though okay you quiet so you want somebody to talk yeah like i want you to like get it out of me you want to get me open make me feel comfortable like such as share something so let me ask you a question you go to the uh uh uh you go to the uh you they seat you You want him to sit across from you or you want him to sit next to you?

Speaker 4 So at first I want you to start across from me because i like eye contact i need to look you in your eyes i need to know that we like connecting and then like by the end of the night i need you like next to me okay okay then y'all all hugged up everybody looking

Speaker 4 because by the end of the night i'm gonna know if this a no-go right or if i see you again tomorrow tomorrow tomorrow i was thinking about next week no that's too long too long yeah why next week I need you to text me, good morning, beautiful.

Speaker 4 Like, I really enjoyed last night with you. Really? Yes, yeah.

Speaker 4 i thought that i'll be seeing i'll be feeling some type of way that she think like oh he ain't got nothing to do with this time he already texted me i'm not gonna lie as a woman we are like once we already got them feelings it's be like we be like okay when he gonna text he's

Speaker 4 come for he texts good morning like okay it's that

Speaker 4 when you like somebody right if you don't like them it's just like

Speaker 4 so

Speaker 4 First date, you know, I just saw this story. I don't know if you saw this study.
They say 75, 80% of the man has never asked a woman out on a date personally.

Speaker 4 So me and you having a conversation, hey, I'm Shutchan. I'm Shannon Sharp.
How are you doing? What's your name? Blah, blah, blah. I would like to take you out.

Speaker 4 Most of the time they say it's through DMs, it's third-party interaction. Yes.
We've lost the art of asking another person out on a date. Yes, that's what happened.
I never got asked on a date.

Speaker 4 Really? No. So they slide in your DMs, huh?

Speaker 4 You an answer? Or I just be like, it goes down in the DM. I'm not going to.

Speaker 4 Oh, you a helsler? Yeah.

Speaker 4 Yeah.

Speaker 4 Go get my phone right quick.

Speaker 4 I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 4 I've been in my DM, and I don't, like, I went on a date off of my DM. Did you?

Speaker 4 He had to be. It started in the DM.
Right.

Speaker 4 And then it went to text.

Speaker 4 But I ain't gonna lie. Like, I feel like

Speaker 4 I'm the one that kind of like take the lead a lot because it was like in the DM. I'm like, nigga, just text me.
You, you exit tune off of my nigga.

Speaker 4 Here's my nigga, text text me if you want to go on a date let's just get to it because this whole dm thing is yeah going back and forth yeah i'm not gonna keep waking up opening my apps to see if you like

Speaker 4 so clearly he had to be someone of prominence so that clearly you trust him and you're like okay i can i can go on a date with him so how did that work out it was cool

Speaker 4 it was cool You went on a second date that year? It was cool. Damn.
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 4 He did his one on the first day. I was like, okay, that's how you come on the first date.
It was real cute.

Speaker 4 it was real cute did y'all did y'all go to poppy state no okay i actually um we wasn't in miami y'all weren't in there

Speaker 4 so let me okay this is later dm have you ever been on a a dating app no no i'm not doing that oh really

Speaker 4 i already should get me some cats or something by that time

Speaker 4 So what's the problem? Obviously,

Speaker 4 you're in the music industry. I'm sure a lot of entertainers want to entertain you, but also you have that look, you have that body that athletes crave and desire.

Speaker 4 You have a preference?

Speaker 4 As far as what? The type of man you like athletes or you like entertainers. Even though athletes are.
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 4 Them athletes different, huh? Yes!

Speaker 4 I ain't gonna lie. I don't know if it's like, I don't know.
I think,

Speaker 4 hear me out. I never really dated an athlete like that.
Yeah. But it's a little different.
Like, it's a little, you once was an athlete, right? I was. A football player.
I was. Y'all like to play.

Speaker 4 A little playful, right?

Speaker 4 I'm not, but some do. You was never playful in your younger days.
No, no, I'm not.

Speaker 4 I've always been very matter of fact. For real? Yeah.

Speaker 4 Yeah, I don't do that. I don't do that playing around.
So you never played around in the locker room?

Speaker 4 No, you know, I play the jokes, but I'm saying like with my partner, I've been serious because because i you know it's gonna happen you pill a fight and then you hit somebody hit too hard or you store water and when you're not expecting they get you and so you own swole so i say you know what let's just not even start that and we keep it a relationship relationship but no i i don't you know i do you know what i know you want to know what i do like that athletes do what when they do a touchdown they do they little dance yeah that's so cute well the entertainers they be doing it when i mean when they were on stage yeah but it's like different when you do like a little score you do like the little i like is it because like you're in the music?

Speaker 4 You're in the music business and you caught a lot of a lot of guys that try to approach you.

Speaker 4 I'm saying guys, I've used that loosely. I don't know if,

Speaker 4 but anyway,

Speaker 4 you probably know a lot of them. Athletes, you're not kind of, I mean, you might know, recognize them by the face, but you don't really know them probably like you know.

Speaker 4 No, I'm into sports. I'm not going to lie.
I go to basketball games. I go to football games.
I think that like, I think I would do more of the entertainment world because I think it makes makes sense.

Speaker 4 You know, I feel like athletes is too damn serious. Like,

Speaker 4 like us as rappers is just entertainers, we get to do what we want. Like, with athletes, it's like a schedule.
Like, you got to work out, you got to do this. And it's like, you don't like that?

Speaker 4 It's structure. It's too damn serious.
It's like, goddamn. You like spontaneous, huh? You like being able to just pick up and go do whatever.
Yeah. However, it's like they can't be caught out.

Speaker 4 They got like a, it's too serious. Yeah.
I don't like series. You don't?

Speaker 4 so let me ask you this okay you got you went out with an athlete what was who what athlete i'm just you never gone out for it no you haven't haven't gone out no you want to go out with one i mean i will i'm open to it okay y'all hear that guys you open to an athlete now

Speaker 4 you like you like

Speaker 4 big defensive lineman 6'5 260 you like the i like offense you like off so you like a wide receiver right offense okay

Speaker 4 i like offense okay i like i like i like when the ball is in your court i like the ones that gotta like you know they gotta catch the ball do something get the ball yeah okay so you like wide receivers running backs yeah maybe a quarterback too quarterback you like the quarterback

Speaker 4 I ain't never had no quarterback. I'm just saying, but I'm just saying.

Speaker 4 You know, they like, they're the MVP, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but a lot of most of the quarterback, they're like, they either married or have a serious relationship.

Speaker 4 So I'm trying to get you something that, you know. So who would you hook me up with? If you had to like put me on a blind date, or if you can, like

Speaker 4 what are you gonna give me?

Speaker 4 Damn, that's a very good question.

Speaker 4 Uh,

Speaker 4 I don't know a CJ Stroud. You know, CJ Stroud, quarterback for the Texas.
Why would you go CJ? I damn you just asked me to hook you up. I'm trying to hook you up.
Now you say, Why go him?

Speaker 4 That man is a Christian.

Speaker 4 You might change it.

Speaker 4 You know what you mean?

Speaker 4 You know what? I think it's gotta spin up wheel again.

Speaker 4 Okay, let me ask you. You go on a date.
You go on a first date, second date, whatever the case may be. Give me a red flag.

Speaker 4 Oh, a red flag is you just can't hold no conversation. Like, I hate a nigga that shit can't talk.
Like, hey, babe, like, what's up?

Speaker 4 What about? Get to know me. What about if a guy, y'all having the time, you know, he'll cross with you and he look at his phone?

Speaker 4 Yeah, I don't like that phone shit neither. Put your phone down.
I'm not even going to be on my phone. You probably won't even know that I got a phone.
Wow.

Speaker 4 So he's going to get your undivided attention. You want that in return.
Yeah. Once I'm on a date, you know, I'm here.

Speaker 4 You here. You present.
That means I like you. We made it to this point.
I want to get to know you. And I'm going to give you all my attention.

Speaker 4 How many phone calls a guy got to put in before he gets a date?

Speaker 4 You just got to be consistent, you know, just throughout the day. Maybe you say good morning.
I understand you got to worry.

Speaker 4 It ain't got to be be an all-day thing, but it definitely got to be like some follow-ups. Like, how your day going? Good morning, good night.

Speaker 4 Let me ask you a question. The average length of a phone conversation, somebody trying to get to know a young Miami, how long the conversation is? Is it 10 minutes? Is it 30 minutes? Is it 45 minutes?

Speaker 4 Is it an hour?

Speaker 4 I like the text. Just text me.
Oh, you like texting? Yeah, text. See, see, that's too informal.
That's too impersonal.

Speaker 4 God, you don't want to pick up the phone and talk to me? You told me you want my undivided attention. We go FaceTime.

Speaker 4 Yeah, but at the rip? No, you got to build up the FaceTime.

Speaker 4 Yeah. FaceTime is a thing now.
No, it ain't no thing. I swear to God, everybody's just FaceTime you.
See,

Speaker 4 the young school, what y'all call? Because you're old school, so what y'all calling? Like, the little. The millennials, yeah, them, yeah, them, youngest.

Speaker 4 The youngest, they want to FaceTime you straight off the rip. Like, ain't no calling regular.
They FaceTime straight off the rip. Yeah, what happened?

Speaker 4 They just need to see your face. They want to know the background, where you at.
It's FaceTime. Yeah.
If you try to call me FaceTime. Like, if I call regular, they'll be like, uh-uh, FaceTime me.

Speaker 4 I ain't, I'm like, oh, I ain't doing nothing, babe. My wig was just lifting, but

Speaker 4 no, I just hit decline.

Speaker 4 I'm talking to you. You don't like FaceTime?

Speaker 4 But I'm talking to the person. Why are you FaceTiming me if you're talking to me? You need to see the background.
So that way, when I know the next time I face you,

Speaker 4 that ain't your bad. That ain't your kid.
Damn. Where you at? You tried to figure out all that? Yeah.

Speaker 4 Yeah, man, she.

Speaker 4 What about some green flags? What's a goat? This This is a GOAT. I ain't gonna lie.
A green flag is just always like, how your day going? Are you okay?

Speaker 4 Is there anything I can do to make you feel better? It's just like

Speaker 4 X and M I. Okay.
I love it, man. That's X and M I.
Okay. So, what's the longest you've ever, what's the longest you've ever talked on the phone? You had a, you, somebody they call you.

Speaker 4 Not, I'm saying it could be FaceTime. It could be regular call.
What's the longest you've conversation you've had on the phone? Like with a man? Yeah.

Speaker 4 Like three hours. Okay.

Speaker 4 that's a good conversation. You was into that.

Speaker 4 You was into that card work. No, it's just like we started talking, and I just sat at my phone.
They just sat on the phone while I was just doing whatever I was doing. That's a man that like you.

Speaker 4 That's

Speaker 4 interested in you. Yeah.
Was that FaceTime?

Speaker 4 Three hours of FaceTime?

Speaker 4 Damn. I like men that really likes me.
You know, like, I'm very into that. Like, I like men that's really into me.
You know, like, they want to just know what I'm doing. They can't stay away from me.

Speaker 4 I'm used to that. Like, the men that I date, we do everything together.
Like, we're gonna sit with me to get my hair done, my nails. Oh, no, see, that's too much.
That's

Speaker 4 because you know how long that takes. Yes, oh, I ain't got that kind of time,

Speaker 4 and to get your nails done too, my clam team right there, they can vouch for me. You trying to show him all you say, ah, yeah, y'all ain't got this, do you? You trying to show him, Bob, it ain't it.

Speaker 4 I'm not, I'm just saying what I like,

Speaker 4 Lord. Have mercy, they be doing

Speaker 4 who's more toxic, men or women? Both

Speaker 4 you like toxicity.

Speaker 4 Sometimes I can tell. Sometimes, sometimes.
It keeps the relationship going.

Speaker 4 I had Kel Mitchell on, and he mentioned something about soul ties. You believe there's such a thing?

Speaker 4 I believe in soul ties, yes. You got to spin the wheel.
I spun the wheel last time. You do? Mm-hmm.

Speaker 4 Get wild. Ooh, dad woman get wild on Shena Shark.

Speaker 4 Okay, I think it's the Get Wild.

Speaker 4 Let me see. I know you're laughing.
Let me see what it says. Let me see what it says.
Let me read this. Lick a person opposite sex, toes for 10 seconds or take a shot.

Speaker 4 It's so cute.

Speaker 4 You pull the card.

Speaker 4 You got to lick the toes.

Speaker 4 I'm going to start an OnlyFans for my toes. Make sure y'all zoom in on my toes.

Speaker 4 Hold on. I'm going to start an OnlyFans for this.
I get that. You can start that after this hairbook.

Speaker 4 You the one that read it. But you pour it out.
You said let me read it. I just wanted because I wanted to.

Speaker 4 No,

Speaker 4 I wanted to make sure. No.
I wanted to make sure because you about to be, because you like, mmm. Because I don't think I didn't think you was going to read what was actually on the car.

Speaker 4 So hold on, just a second. Oh, I know.
You got them athlete feet. Don't put out them.
I'm going to run out of here. I promise you.
I ain't got noisy feet. I got no feet.
Look at that.

Speaker 4 Ah, look at that. Let me see.

Speaker 4 Ah. Okay.
Yeah. Okay.
I love a man with girl hygiene.

Speaker 4 I take two to three showers every day. Ooh, you ain't got athlete feet.
I'm surprised.

Speaker 4 Why are you surprised?

Speaker 4 Because, oh, man, feet be bad, especially the athletes. I get a man in pedicule every week.
They be having a corner. They be crusty.
Yeah, they do. That ain't me, though, babe.
That ain't me. Okay.

Speaker 4 Well, you ain't have to take no shot. You ain't got to take no shot.

Speaker 4 Obviously, you like this game. I do.
I do like this game. I'm telling y'all, y'all better go get this game.

Speaker 4 I'm telling y'all, y'all going to have a ball. Y'all might end up just getting married.
That's why you can't play with your husband.

Speaker 4 This reminds me of a game. I don't know if you've ever played this drinking game called Questions.

Speaker 4 So it's like you get like 10. people playing and you ask a question and the person has to respond with a question.

Speaker 4 So I ask you, where are you from? You can't say Miami. You have to say, what's your favorite position? You have to ask a question.

Speaker 4 Okay, I like that. It's called questions.
It's called questions. Now, if you don't answer in the form of a question, you have to take a shot.

Speaker 4 So you can imagine after playing for several hours and people not paying attention, because normally someone asks you a question, you answer. Yeah.
But you have to answer in the form of a question.

Speaker 4 Okay. Yeah, boy.

Speaker 4 There was when I was young, Lord, have mercy.

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Speaker 4 What's some of the most common toxic traits that you see in relationships?

Speaker 4 The tick-for-tack.

Speaker 4 You do something, I got to do something. Like proven important to each other.
I feel like sometimes two wrongs don't make it right. You got to know when to walk away.
Don't make it left either. Yeah.

Speaker 4 But let me ask you this. You believe in getting your lick back? Oh.

Speaker 4 Wow, you ain't going to be. I'm not going to pay for what you did.
I'm not going to lie. But I thought you didn't like tip for tat.
Oh, I said that.

Speaker 4 Listen, i'm gonna get my lick back if i gotta get life trust me babe

Speaker 4 damn

Speaker 4 no because sometimes the could just do you so wrong that you're gonna pay for what you did like you're gonna feel the pain that i felt it just depends on the level of like

Speaker 4 pain that you put me through right if you really did some up

Speaker 4 oh oh you'll get it back

Speaker 4 you're gonna he's gonna pay you gonna make him hurt huh you're gonna suffer

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Speaker 4 so he you gonna get your lick back is it planned out you like uh-uh this ain't gonna be quick this ain't amazing this ain't that this ain't amazon prime you ain't gonna get this the next day or a couple hours this is gonna be methodical you ain't gonna even see this coming i don't want to put nobody on the spot

Speaker 4 but you got your lick back one time thank you and i ain't play

Speaker 4 Damn.

Speaker 4 He was like, you don't play no games. I said, don't ever play like that again in your life.
And then y'all got back together? No.

Speaker 4 But I see him from time to time. But let me ask you a question.

Speaker 4 Could you get your lick back and be back with him? Mm-hmm.

Speaker 4 Oh, now where? Where'd he do that at? Right here.

Speaker 4 Because now we even, now you know. What you mean, we even? Now you know.
Don't

Speaker 4 women licks hurt more. You don't like.
But okay, as a man, this is what I don't understand. Men just be like,

Speaker 4 but I love you, though. I love you too, babe.
I love you just as much as you love me.

Speaker 4 But I just be feeling like, as a woman, I would never, like, I'm the type of woman that it's like,

Speaker 4 I'm never gonna do you like that. I got too much respect for you.
But once you show me you could do me like that, I gotta do you the worst way.

Speaker 4 Because you hurt me. But that lit, but you know, it's like, well, I gotta spell you if you ain't gonna spell me.
Huh? Why do I have to spare you? But see, you're not gonna spare me.

Speaker 4 But see, here's the thing:

Speaker 4 we playing a hitting game. I hit you like that, and do you bah, Yeah.

Speaker 4 Yeah. Bop.

Speaker 4 Oh, baby. You, you dirty.
Man, fan going to play. Call the referee.
Yeah.

Speaker 4 You going to get them back like that? What? At the Super Bowl. What?

Speaker 4 Now you know everybody going to be down there. Thank you.

Speaker 4 Thank you. No, because I just be, I don't like that.
I just be feeling like women are so, I'm going to speak for me. I come with everything genuine.

Speaker 4 Like, I feel like if I don't f ⁇ with you, I'm not going to f ⁇ with you. Like, if I don't see no interest in you, I'll probably have to talk to you for like the first week.

Speaker 4 I thought I'm just like, nah, you know what I'm saying? Like, I don't even want to even make you feel like that if it's not that. Right.

Speaker 4 And I come in every situation genuine because it's like, I f ⁇ with you. Right.
And I'm going to be honest, whatever you want to know, just ask me, babe.

Speaker 4 And if it ain't going to work, it's not going to work. But once you start playing games with me,

Speaker 4 and I'm being genuine and I really f with you, and you're going to hurt me, the queen.

Speaker 4 Let me ask you this. Okay, you've been in a relationship.
Have you lost interest in a guy? Like, damn, I really like this dude. I really like him.
I'm really digging him, blah, blah, blah.

Speaker 4 And then five, six months, seven months in, you're like, this issue ain't what I thought it was. Yeah.
How you tell him? How you tell him, like, bro, this ain't working? Just

Speaker 4 you stop asking this call? Yeah.

Speaker 4 Now see, what, see, all the FaceTime call you don't face. They'll just be like, no.

Speaker 4 You want to go out? No. Because I don't even know what to say to you at this point.
I don't even know how to tell you like it ain't working, you know? Why you don't know what to say?

Speaker 4 Just say it ain't working, bro. Men, a lot of high-value men worried about being in a situation where they get trapped.
Okay. Women have kids, blah, blah, blah.
Do you worry about that?

Speaker 4 Do you worry about being a high-value woman like yourself getting trapped? Oh, I ain't gonna, I got two kids. I do want one more, but I ain't even the type of person.

Speaker 4 I think that, like, women do try to trap men. Yeah.
All the time I see it. But you got a little bit more control.
You ain't gonna lay because, you know, y'all have things now.

Speaker 4 Y'all go to the drugstore. I always tell women, like,

Speaker 4 babe, child support is cool, but like, raising a child is very more important. You know, like, it's not all about

Speaker 4 the money. Like,

Speaker 4 the broken families is a thing. Right.
Like, it's important to have a mom and dad. Like, money can be cool, but it's like this child needs a father

Speaker 4 and it needs to be some type of co-parents. And sometimes, when it's just like a money grab, you have no child, you be miserable with child support, and it's just raising a child on your own.

Speaker 4 It's not easy.

Speaker 4 So, when it comes to like me getting trapped,

Speaker 4 I ain't having no nigga, nigga, baby.

Speaker 4 I ain't even letting nigga trap me. You ain't gonna let it happen.

Speaker 4 I mean, I want more kids, but definitely got to be a family man, though. You want one more? Yeah, probably like two more.
Damn, you say you got two. I do.
I want five. I'm a mom.
I love my kids.

Speaker 4 I feel like

Speaker 4 when you... You want five kids? I can go to five.
I love kids. Like, my house is, you could drop your kids off to my house.
Like,

Speaker 4 I love kids. Like, I love kids.
I'm very like,

Speaker 4 I'm a family person. Like, I love to be in the house with the kids.
I love to go, like, though, you know, Disney World and do stuff with the kids. Like, I feel like that's what life is about.

Speaker 4 Okay, get me up the screen right quick. Take a shot.
Right here.

Speaker 4 Oh,

Speaker 4 act out your favorite sex position. Oh, yes, I want you to do this.
I want you to.

Speaker 4 Like, you set up that live.

Speaker 4 I want to get to that.

Speaker 4 Yes, I already do. Because you know why? I'll be hoping to show you my safety fake position.
I need a muse.

Speaker 4 You just got to act out. You know how, like, you.

Speaker 4 I don't know how to act. I ain't no actor.
You ain't never been in no movies? Mm-mm. Never.
No TV show, nothing. Mm-mm.

Speaker 4 This show's time to shine right here on Club Shay Shake.

Speaker 4 See, that's what happened to me. I went my ass up there on BMF, trying to act.

Speaker 4 Yeah, see? Bitch, why is my husband? Why is uh

Speaker 4 why y'all, why you, why you, why people keep on, everybody that's come up here has asked me. Because

Speaker 4 what? That was iconic.

Speaker 4 For who? It wasn't, but me? Yes, it was. No, it wasn't.
Because I ain't gonna lie, when I heard that, I was like,

Speaker 4 I know what position he was in.

Speaker 4 it was still growling for me

Speaker 4 you would say that thing

Speaker 4 you see you see what happened now my my

Speaker 4 my intimacy has been and how they make you feel How does that make you feel? That's a very important question. I wanted to ask you that.
How does that make you feel?

Speaker 4 Because something's so intimate in front of the world, and we all just got our own perception of what happened. Like, I just knew what position you was in.
I don't even know.

Speaker 4 But it's not that you can tell me that could make me change my mind.

Speaker 4 It doesn't, because I'm such a private person and I've done a great job of keeping my personal life private.

Speaker 4 I did as good a job as I could shielding my kids, my relationships, because I believe public relationships, when they end, they have to end publicly also. So I like to be behind the scenes.

Speaker 4 I like to date. privately.
I like to, if we end this relationship, I like to end it privately. And here I am.
That's the first time that I've ever been on IG Live.

Speaker 4 People actually think I intended to do that. Really? Lose my job potentially, you know, $50 million from Disney.
Gone.

Speaker 4 All these advertising sponsors that Club Shay Shea Nightcap and all the affiliates that's up on the Shay Shay Media lose that.

Speaker 4 For what? That's how that in that. You explained that so well, and that's how I feel in my situation.

Speaker 4 I was just in the situation.

Speaker 4 You just was in it. You didn't even know that happened.
No, I did not. You was just having a good time.

Speaker 4 Thank you.

Speaker 4 Doing the things you like to do.

Speaker 4 And it got in front of the world. Now you got to explain it.
Everybody's like, no, you did that on purpose. And it's like, you didn't.
I didn't. It's telling the truth.
Yes.

Speaker 4 But it's nothing you can say to make people believe that. And that's what you realize that the internet has their own perception of what things is.
They'll believe something that isn't true.

Speaker 4 And then they won't believe something that is true. Right.
And the internet has done a i mean i love the i mean the internet has its pros and cons

Speaker 4 but it's done a horrible job i mean people believe damn near everything that comes out on the internet yeah and it's not the case let me ask you this 50 50 relationships you open to 50 50 relationships oh i'm open to like if i can mean you pay the bills you know like things like that i feel like men and i and i hate like this subject is so you know people i'm tired of this subject i just feel like men are providers

Speaker 4 that's just the way it is have you ever paid for a date I ain't paying for it. I ain't paying for no date.
You ain't gonna pay you, and you're gonna take your man out for it.

Speaker 4 Well, I would, I would

Speaker 4 spend on my man, though. I'm not gonna lie, I'm gonna, I, I give, I'm a giving person.
I'm very selfish. Like, I'm gonna give whatever.

Speaker 4 Like, if I with you, like, I don't look at it as like, you gotta do for me. Like, if I like you, your birthday come, I'm gonna make you, I'm gonna make you feel special.

Speaker 4 So, I just think that, like, 50-50 with bills, if I was like, you know, like, I have been 50-50 before before I became famous. Like, you know, I ain't.
How did it make you feel?

Speaker 4 It made me feel like it's regular to some people it's regular you're trying to say like if this person work a job you have to bring something to the table as a woman and sex is just not everything well that that ain't how they feel no sex is you get this cat and yeah sometimes the cat don't even be hitting on nothing but

Speaker 4 but i just do feel like as a woman like you got to be a mother it got to be something special about you you just can't think sex is the kick you know you gotta you gotta learn you gotta either cook clean,

Speaker 4 something, you gotta be a woman in some aspect. Like, sex is not always the answer, for real.
Would you be okay being the breadwinner? Could you date a guy?

Speaker 4 Let's just say, for the sake of argument, he's not an athlete, he's not a music. Why do you keep saying athlete?

Speaker 4 Because I thought for me, I'm surprised that you haven't been with an athlete, but I'm just gonna, because that one coming, I'm gonna talk it up. Okay, yeah, let's talk of that later.
Uh,

Speaker 4 you just keep referring. I'm like, who is this athlete?

Speaker 4 Musician entertainer. Thank you.
Um,

Speaker 4 a normal guy, he has a I mean,

Speaker 4 he doesn't make the money that you make, but he's a great man.

Speaker 4 Loves your kids as if he was their own. He makes sure when you come home, everything is, hey, the house is in order, everything that you need.

Speaker 4 When you come in from the road, he got you covered. Your kids, you know, he got you.

Speaker 4 You okay in a situation like that? I'm not going to lie. I've been in a situation like that.
It feels good. It always feels good to know that your kids are safe.
You safe, you comfortable.

Speaker 4 Like, that's the best feeling. I feel like just knowing that you're like comfortable and this person loves me.

Speaker 4 But it becomes a time where you just like, you do want to feel special when it comes to like gifting or to like settings like Valentine's Day coming up your birthday, you want that shebang.

Speaker 4 Or sometimes it's just like, damn, like, we don't want to be able to get, you know, but it's like, it all depends on like what you, some people not materialistic, but I would prefer like feeling good over materialistic things because it's for me, it's the memories.

Speaker 4 Like I could always be like, damn, I remember that time. And then these pairs of shoes, them shits is dated.

Speaker 4 So, you want a situation like for Valentine's Day, you want

Speaker 4 rose petals leading up the stairs, you want all these big things. Everyone wants to feel good.
I ain't gonna sit here and say, like, okay, it's got a time's day, it's just another day.

Speaker 4 I do want to feel good, right? I do want, like, so you want me to go all out for your birthday, that thing better be lit. Oh, hello,

Speaker 4 private jet, it ain't gotta be private yet because I don't fly private all the time. I ain't gonna lie, like, every nigga can't send a jet, right?

Speaker 4 But when I land, their room better be sunk.

Speaker 4 But let me ask you this: being a woman in your position,

Speaker 4 you earn a gut living, you've been the head of your house for an extended period of time. Are you okay letting a man lead?

Speaker 4 I like a man that leads.

Speaker 4 People say that. I want a man that leads.
God said, Lead, I'm going to follow.

Speaker 4 I'm going to follow.

Speaker 4 I like a man that leads. I don't want to lead no man.

Speaker 4 What are your thoughts on women saying they're in their soft girl era? I'm in my soft girl era. I'm not going to lie.
That is. What does that mean? Tip away.

Speaker 4 I'm just like, soft girl era is just like when you at peace, you calm, you feeling good. Like, soft girl era is just like, you just focus on you.
You just pouring to you. You just feeling good.

Speaker 4 Like, everything that you just putting out there is just going to

Speaker 4 come back to you. Like, it's just a soft girl era.
Like, I'm just feeling good. I'm focused on me.
I want to get get up. I want to work out.
I want to focus on my business, focus on myself.

Speaker 4 I'm not running out of this. I'm not running out of that.
I'm not gossiping. I'm just in my software era.
I feel like that's me. That's you right now? 2025.

Speaker 4 How long are you going to be in that era? 2025. That's it.
Yeah. Okay.
Next year, I might be talking.

Speaker 4 This year, I'm in my software era. I'm going to focus on me.
You know, I'm going to focus on me.

Speaker 4 I just feel like this year is the year that I need to lock in and focus.

Speaker 4 I don't know if you saw this. This viral tweet of a woman,

Speaker 4 guy sending her woman $200, his woman $200 to go shopping. She said, Don't send $200 to go shopping.
It's not enough.

Speaker 4 I mean, how much if a guy sends you,

Speaker 4 what's the amount of money someone should send you that you're going to like

Speaker 4 not feel like cheap ass or

Speaker 4 send it back to him?

Speaker 4 Oh, like for a regular person, like just

Speaker 4 at least spent, send, I'm gonna say a thousand for a regular dude 500 500 50 like once you split

Speaker 4 gas so high eggs high like everything is high well i mean go vegetarian stop eating it

Speaker 4 i mean but you know it costs more to eat healthy though it does i ain't gonna lie yeah yeah i ain't gonna lie when i just because i just started working out and i just i be going like the joe joe's and the juice if y'all see this for real like a green juice be down at $40.

Speaker 4 Yeah, you might start juicing yourself. That's what I said.
I was like, God damn it. You ain't going to like the cleanup.
Because

Speaker 4 I've juiced before. I've tried it all.
It's the cleanup.

Speaker 4 By the time you, you know, and it takes so much, so many carrots, so many beets, so many green leaves, and all that stuff, apples, oranges, and then the cleanup to break that machine down and clean it.

Speaker 4 It ain't healthy costs a lot. It does.
It costs more than a damn meal. Right.
Like for, I was like, whoa, baby. But let me ask you a question.
He ain't send you a thousand. he sent you 250.

Speaker 4 You gonna send it back? I ain't sending nothing back. I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 4 I made a 250 right. I'm gonna just figure out what I could do with it.
I'm very appreciative. I'm not a person that's not unappreciative.
Like, I appreciate anything somebody do.

Speaker 4 But you, you keeping a middle or note, like, damn, oh boy, ain't send me.

Speaker 4 I be with who I be with. I ain't gonna lie, I'm very locked in.
Okay, so you like this. So, hey,

Speaker 4 I'm locked in. What if he ain't got what if he ain't got no cash apps? The sale, Apple Pay, nope, cash, nope.
Oh, cash. No, no Zelle, no Venmo, no Apple Pay.
What up? PayPal.

Speaker 4 What else they got? They got all types of shit. So many ways to get money.

Speaker 4 I mean, so he ain't got none of that. All he got is cash.
And the only time he can get cash, it'd be see you. But he ain't.
You know what that means?

Speaker 4 I don't like it. Like that.
I gotta pull up and get the money. Uh-uh.
But you gotta pull the A. And

Speaker 4 he don't live in Miami.

Speaker 4 Oh, then it it ain't all right.

Speaker 4 Oh, you can't do long distance? I could do long distance, but like, how I'm getting the money? You got to pull up. So that means I got to fly to get the money for $200? No, no, not $200.
Oh.

Speaker 4 Yeah, I don't mind. Like,

Speaker 4 I ain't going to lie. I'm like, I'm really a,

Speaker 4 I'm really a good girl. Like, I go with the flow.

Speaker 4 You ever flown a guy?

Speaker 4 Mm-mm.

Speaker 4 What you saying?

Speaker 4 No, like, flying man to see me? Yeah. Hell no.

Speaker 4 I ain't buying no man a flight to get on a plane. Why not? That's too sassy.

Speaker 4 That show him that you really, really buy. I don't care.
He better make arrangements to come see me.

Speaker 4 Y'all see,

Speaker 4 y'all ain't trying to do right. Y'all don't want to.
Why would I fly a man to come see me?

Speaker 4 Why not? Why would I? You don't like him like that? I do. Okay, well, go.
He need to be trying to come see me. He's going to come see you, but I'm saying, you know what? That's, you know what? Hey.

Speaker 4 Hey, bro. Me sending us a fight ticket of my dead body.

Speaker 4 I promise you never.

Speaker 4 Well, spend it. Spend it, Will.

Speaker 4 Hey, guys, see what y'all getting yourself into now. No, I'm a good girl.

Speaker 4 Okay, take a shot.

Speaker 4 What it says?

Speaker 4 What it says? It says, show your titties right now and take two shots. Going to take two shots.
Finish that off right there.

Speaker 4 I love that game. Because, guess what? You keep drinking like that, everything that's in them cars gonna be.

Speaker 4 Boy, the end of the day, everything in them cars gonna be happening. I love the game right here.
I love it.

Speaker 4 I love L.A. You see why I'm saying you can't play with your girl.
Mention your girl, like, yeah.

Speaker 4 Yeah, you do that because that late when I'm not around, ain't no telling what you're saying. Okay, hey, now,

Speaker 4 girl, baby girl.

Speaker 4 Also, this lady, a guy sent his, he said he sent his last $30 for her to have lunch.

Speaker 4 I fuck with him.

Speaker 4 She said, well, y'all think I'm going to eat lunch at McDonald's and send it back to him. Man, I would have, girl, don't do that.
A nigga sent his last. Yeah.
That's a nigga that's for you. Yeah.

Speaker 4 Like a nigga that's, he put him, he put you before he put himself. It ain't very many.
I fuck with that. I would have sent it back.

Speaker 4 I probably would have been like, you know what? Here come like 60 or or 100. I don't know.
I would have just sunk that bad, though. I probably would have made me a ham sandwich.

Speaker 4 And you'd have put an extra 30 with his 30 and sent it back to her.

Speaker 4 You're a good woman. Yeah.
Somebody go get them a good woman. Any nigga that like a spend his last summary, that's a nigga that's for you.
They're gonna rock out with you.

Speaker 4 Man, what's the best gift a man has ever given you?

Speaker 4 And y'all say your kids.

Speaker 4 The best gift a man have ever given me was his his time.

Speaker 4 You know what?

Speaker 4 This is some bull job.

Speaker 4 I ain't gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie.
Like, a getaway. I'm gonna say a getaway.
Where y'all go? Bahamas.

Speaker 4 Had a little private little bungalow. Doors open up to the beach.
It was like a, we went to the Bahamas and it was just us. Just there.
And we just had quality time. That was the best gift.

Speaker 4 Promise you. We would just

Speaker 4 communicate

Speaker 4 i bet y'all would body body talking

Speaker 4 do you feel relationships are starting to become transactional of course the marriage

Speaker 4 nobody ain't marrying no broke-ass man and i feel like but that's a contract that's one-sided

Speaker 4 For the most part, now every once in a while, you'll find a woman that outearns the man and the contract is,

Speaker 4 but for the most part,

Speaker 4 the contract, I mean, think about it. You get married, you're signing a contract, right?

Speaker 4 What about that proposition? That's why I used to say, I don't want to get married because I feel like marriage is just like

Speaker 4 it's too much on the title. Like, you feel like, oh my God, I'm married.
Now I'm a wife. I can't do this.
I can't do that. It just becomes too.

Speaker 4 It just becomes like you're a wife. You can't do this.
It's like, God damn.

Speaker 4 Like, yeah, it's just, it's a big commitment. But I also just feel like sometimes like what works for you works for you.
Right.

Speaker 4 But you okay just having a boo? So let's just say y'all hold it down. Because guess what? I want to get divorced.
Now I got to chase you down and sign these people.

Speaker 4 Now everybody's saying, oh, yeah, but you still married. That's aggravating.
Right. Because he don't want to sign the papers or whatever the situation is.

Speaker 4 It's just like, I want to just get the f ⁇ on. Right.
Next, thank you. Next.

Speaker 4 That easy?

Speaker 4 You know how, like, sometimes, you know, like, it will really be a situation that just make you want to leave. Like, you leave, y'all never have contact.
Now I got to pay a lawyer.

Speaker 4 You got like it's it become too many fees.

Speaker 4 It gets dragged out. So let me ask you this.
You're in a relationship. How often does a man have to buy you gifts? Is it weekly? Is it monthly? Is it every three? Or is it how he see fit?

Speaker 4 You expect the thing your birthday, Mother's Day, Christmas. I'm more of like a feeling type of person.
I go off of feelings. For real, for real, for real, materialistic things, it's cool.

Speaker 4 Like, it's cool. You could buy me a bag.
It's cool. You could buy me a car.
But, like, damn, a car?

Speaker 4 The bag, you were doing good with the bag, maybe, some shoes. Damn.

Speaker 4 And then you ain't going to want no camera. You ain't going to want no Honda.
You're going to want bins of BMW. I'm just saying to be tricking big these days.
Dude. Yes.

Speaker 4 This concludes the first half of my conversation. Part two is also posted and you can access it to whichever podcast platform you just listen to part one on.

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