Episode 434: Tara LaFerrara: How to Build Glutes, Time-Wasting Exercises and the Truth about Belly Fat

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Tara, thank you so much for like, you know, stay, you know, to kind of like bearing with us. I appreciate you being here.
And, you know, hopefully we get this. It's works.
It's recorded. You guys are listening to this properly.
Tara's with me because she's a strength and mobility coach. And we're going to be doing a quick Fitness Friday with you.
And Tara, it's nice to have you here. Thank you so much for having me.
I appreciate it. Thank you for being here.
And like I said, thank you for like kind of bearing with our new struggles with technology, which, by the way, is always a problem with me. It's actually a user.

I have to say it's probably half of it's like just a user, but anyway. It's tech.
It's fine. It's tech.
Exactly. Okay.
I want to start. I have to, I want to ask you about glutes right off the bat here.
Okay. Cause me, we talk, I mean, my fitness friends talk about this all the time.
and I want to know your opinion.

What is your opinion, hip thrust versus a versus squats to build your glutes? This is hilarious. Cause I feel like I've been seeing it all over social media recently.
Really? Yeah. Yeah.
I actually saw a post today. Mindpug did a post today about this hip thrust for sure.
And there's a lot of studies that have shown that you get more out of your glutes through a hip thrust than you would a squat. It also depends on what kind of squat you're doing.
So are we talking back squat and are we talking high bar or low bar? Are we talking about front squats, goblet squats? Like they're all very different. It also depends on like what you are more dominant in.
So for example, I'm more quad dominant. So I've literally never felt glutes in squats, no matter what I put on the bar.
And there's just so many more studies that show that you can get so much more from your glutes with hip thrusts. So can I ask you a question? Because how about a deadlift? And before I even go into the next question, what's your opinion on deadlifts? A lot of people think deadlifts are garbage.
They're like an unnecessary lower body move. What is your opinion? I am absolutely not in that camp and love deadlifts.
You love deadlifts. Okay.
Can you tell, just like, just to kind of break it down in the most simplest terms, what can someone get from a squat, from a hip thrust, and from a deadlift? What are the differences and what are the benefits of each? Yeah, so it's great because all of them are compound lifts, meaning they're using multiple muscle and multiple joints. You're getting a lot out of each of them just on their own.
You're always going to get more out of a squat and a deadlift than a hip thrust though, because typically hip thrusts are just a little bit more hip dominant. You're not getting as much and they're more posterior focused.
Whereas squats and deadlifts, you can actually get more in your core and your back and your quads and hamstrings. There's so much more you can get out of them.
So what are they good for? I mean, squats are great for everything. We squat all day long.
We sit on a toilet, we get up, that's a squat. And we're sitting in our chair, we get up, that's a squat.
So longevity-wise, squat is really just such an awesome movement for that.

Deadlifts is great because you're always picking up something off the ground, whether it's a kid or a suitcase or just anything that you're picking up off the ground and standing up.

This is more of a hinge movement, but there's so many different variations of it.

And that's why I personally love deadlifts because you can do a barbell conventional

deadlift, but you don't have to. You can use a kettlebell, you can use dumbbells, you can use a trap bar.
There's so many different variations that you can get so much out of. Hip thrust is great, but to be honest with you, it's not necessary.
I personally don't do a ton of hip thrust anymore, number one, because the setup is a pain in the ass. Totally agree.
I don't, I mean the same way. I hate doing hip thrusts.
It takes way too long to even get set up. Yeah.
But I will say there are a lot of variations that you can do through hip thrusts. Even a single leg hip thrust or a single leg decline glute bridge, you can get so much out of it with body weight or just lighter weight rather than setting up a whole bar and doing the whole thing.
So can we just talk about what are some, what exercises would you say? And I know, let's just say this before we even go any further. Like no exercise is a waste of time because movement is so important regardless.
But with that caveat, what are some exercises that you think are kind of like a waste of time? This is a question that's an unpopular opinion. I think a lot of isolation exercises are personally, especially if you are someone, and I work with a big population of people that don't have a ton of time.
So why would we do bicep curls and tricep kickbacks and calf raises when we're utilizing so many of those in a compound

lift. For example, you can get so much from your arms by doing a row.
So if we think about the

main compound lifts, like a squat, a hinge, a push, and a pull, you're getting a lot of those muscles

already. So not saying that they're unnecessary, but they're just overrated in my opinion.
And again, if you're short on that time, the best possible way to do it is to do compound lifts. Yeah, you're speaking my language.
What about abs? I get so many questions about abs, especially as you age, I should say. When I was younger, it was more like, how do you get a six pack? How do you get a six pack? And now it's more like, how do I kind of just eliminate the belly fat that's accumulating in midsection? I always say personally that abs are always made in the kitchen.
It's not made in the gym. But with that also being said, are there specific things that people can do to target their belly fat to get the most bang for their buck in the gym? Well, you already know the answer to this, I think, Jennifer, but you're asking me to tell them again.
There are no specific ways to spot tone and I'm going to lean back into compound lifts. I'm someone that basically never does core exercises ever because I'm lifting heavy enough where I'm utilizing my core in those exercises.
So for example, one of my absolute favorite core quote unquote exercise is a goblet

squat. In order to hold that weight in front of you, yes, you're using your arms, yes, you're using your legs, but to keep that weight in front of you, bracing your core is a huge aspect of this.
And if we think about moms with their kids, they're holding them in front of them, like bracing your core and making sure that you feel strong there is a way to utilize your core without doing unnecessary crunches or V-ups or bicycles or something like that. Yeah.
You know, it's funny because like a lot of people think that like they're going to do their five minutes of abs or 10 minutes of abs. I think it's so much more beneficial to take those five or 10 minutes and go for actually a walk or do like, or just do like dumbbell, like doing lunges with your dumbbells, because you have to work your stability muscles, just the sheer act of just moving more, more muscle groups at once.
But yeah, like psychologically, women are working out wrong. Like they, we still are in this mindset that we, we should be doing these like bicycle crunches or doing certain aerobic exercises or cardio exercises when like lifting heavy has been proven time and time again all the research has shown that's how you change your body composition don't like do you find that like what is your what do you tell like your women clients like what do you find that happens all the time.
Like there's so people time? The women are fearful of lifting weights. Yeah, I'll be honest.
I've been in this industry for 13 years at this point, and I think my audience knows me well enough to know that they're not going to get that from me. Yeah, I know.
I see your stuff. I used to post a lot of stuff that was like a lot of parody accounts of like, do this one exercise and you get six pack abs.
And I just like would make fun of them all the time because we all, we know now in the fitness industry that that's not the case. But I think now being in it for a while, I have empathy because it is a confusing place.
And if you want something so bad, you're going to believe anything you see. So I really take it with a grain of salt of like, if this, if you want to try this out, great.
Did it not work for you? Let's figure out what the root cause of why it didn't work. And then kind of give that explanation on why crunches and tuck-ins and all that stuff actually doesn't work and why lifting heavy does.
I think also the aspect of you're scared of lifting weights because you're going to look a certain way is really just another society media thing that like you are going to be this bulky human if you lift heavy bicep curls overnight, which we all know is not the case, but maybe sometimes those people need to go through it to figure it out themselves too. Yeah.
How do you know if you're lifting heavy enough? That's a great question. And I like to use the RPE scale, which is rate of perceived exertion.
It's a really great way to understand where you are currently at because everyone is so different. Now you can use this with anything.
So if you have something that you do currently, that feels easy. I mean, it could be something like you want to add a habit in your life, but you don't know where to add it, or you don't know how to add it and be consistent with it.
On a scale of one to 10, like how hard would that be for you to add it in? And then you can gradually start to add in a little bit more. You can do this with weightlifting.
So let's say you can lift bicep curls. I'm using this example, but let's use the squat for a better example.
Let's say you can do a squat for 10 pounds for 10 reps very easily. You're not out of breath at all.
That's a really great chance for you to up the weight. Cool.
Let's do the next set a little bit heavier. So now we're at maybe 30 pounds instead of 20.
Okay, it was a little bit of challenge, but not that bad. We can still go up.
This is why I really love rep ranges. So I do a lot of rep ranges in my training, eight to 10 reps.
We can utilize that scale to find the one, the number in the middle. I like to call that like, you know, Goldilocks and the three bears, like this is the perfect weight for you.
So it can always challenge you if you're on the lower end of the rep range. That means it's maybe a little bit too heavy.
If you're always on the higher, it means you can lift too much, or it means you can definitely lift definitely lift a little bit more. So you can use that perceived exertion to understand where you're at.
And sometimes for newbies out there, it might take a minute to figure out what that level is, but if you utilize it in other situations, you can have a better understanding of how it will feel in the gym. So how many reps should you be doing between eight and 10? It just depends on the person and depends on their goals.
I personally, like I have an app called Broadsit. We do a lot in the eight to 12 rep range, but that is to build strength.
If we're on the lower rep side, we're getting heavier and getting stronger. And then you can also do like a 12 to 20 rep range, which is more muscular endurance.
Now, if you're someone that wants to have some body recomposition, you typically want to be in that six to 12 rep range. So how do you know if you should be doing six reps or 12 reps? It just depends on the exercise.
It depends on the program and really just depends on where you're at in the cycle of training. So this is a really great opportunity for people to be like, all right, what rep range do I want to stick with for at least four to six weeks? How did that feel? And how can I shift my program around to make it work best for me? So it's a lot of trial and error, just like with nutrition and just like with business, like we have to try things out to make sure that they fit and they work really well for us in order to see that progress.
Or, you know, and honestly, like in my opinion, it would be, and this is of course my opinion, I think you do all of it. You do sometimes six reps, you do sometimes eight reps, you do sometimes 12 reps because that's how you kind of get that muscle confusion.
If you're doing the same amount of reps or the same amount of weight over and over again, you're never going to see any different results. It's going to be, you're going to basically just either, your body gets very acclimated and then nothing happens after that.
Yeah, for sure. That's like just another example of progressive overload, right? So we can use, that's why I always do at least a four week plan.
So you see the same exercises. Well, wait, wait, talk about that.
Cause I was going to ask people progressive overload. Cause I think people like, I always say the word, I can never pronounce the word.
Oh, hypertrophy. Yeah.
Yeah. Yes.
I could say I can, my, my lips can't say it. Say it again.
Hypertrophy. Yes.
And which is like basically progressive overload, which they say is the best type of training. Can you explain what that is and how it works with reps and how it works with weight? So progressive overload is just the gradual increase over time.
And that does not necessarily have to be with weights. It could also be variation.
It could be tempo. It could be shortening your rest periods.
It could be adding sets or reps. The easiest way to look at it could be just adding weight week over week.
Now, if you've been doing this for a really long time, you're not going to be able to add weight to your workouts week over week forever. So this is a cool way to add in different variations, maybe single leg exercises, tempo, and such.
But hypertrophy is more based on like really muscle gain, like more of an aesthetic look, whereas progressive overload is just building strength over time. So we can try not to confuse them too much because sometimes people, women specifically, hear hypertrophy.
If they don't know what it is, they might think it's more on that like, oh, I'm going to get too big and bulky. But really, progressive overload is just progressing what you're currently doing and getting better over time.
So let's go back to this whole about muscle confusion, though, because that's what I was like. Initially, I'd like, you know, sometimes in my training, I'll do like one for a while for a few weeks, I'll do like low reps.
And then another week, I'll do high reps. And a couple days I'll do like middle.
Just so my body's not getting used to it. Would you say that? Would you recommend that for somebody so they don't plateau? Or what do you tell people? Like how do you break a plateau? And how do you tell people how they will not plateau? Well, first I always ask like, are you in a plateau? Truly, are you there or do you not feel? You're like, well, actually, yes, I am.
Because truly, a lot of times, specifically with women, because that's all I work with right now, they think that they have pushed to their limit and they're actually not there just yet. If those last two or three reps are not really effing hard, you have more in the tank for sure.
So I would always say like, how hard are you actually pushing yourself to get past that plateau that you might be in? Now, are plateaus real? 100%. Absolutely.
I've definitely been in them before. There's so many different ways to go about this.
I would say for myself and a lot of my clients, we'll switch up variations. We might switch up the days of the week that they're working out.
We might switch up some of the rep ranges, but the exercises stay the same realistically. We're not reinventing the wheel when it comes to fitness, right? Of course, you can add in tempo and there's definitely some program design and scientific science that we can put behind it.
But like a squat's a squat, a deadlift, a deadlift, press is a press. So always know that that's there.
And it's not reinventing the wheel. The funny thing is, especially on social media, right? Like people are trying to be as gimmicky as possible.
And the reality is the things that actually move the needle and work are the basics like the boring boring basics you know when i look at the people who have the best bodies it's because they're doing the push the pull you know what i mean like the they're doing the basic they're doing the squat they're doing the push-up they're doing the pull-up you know what i mean it's not like all these k gimmicks with these kooky things. That gets you really like, it just wastes a whole lot of time.
Yeah. But again, I always think like, you know, people are just trying to, they see a lot.
Social media is hard. It's very hard.
I agree with you. It's very overwhelming.
And if you don't know what you don't know. Yeah.
But like even me, right, who's been doing this for 150 years, right? Like I scroll social media and I'm like, oh, you know, like, oh, maybe I should try this because people can be great salespeople, right? Like it's so convincing. A hundred percent.
Right? Like you don't know. And you're like, oh, maybe this is the panacea that I didn't know about, right? But it takes you down this whole path.
But like, again, like when I stick to the most boring shit,

that's when I get the best results.

And really it's consistency more than anything else.

And I think that's what people really have the hardest possible time with

is sticking to it.

Yeah.