Hot Guy and Dr Drew

Hi guys, this is such a special episode.

I say that on every episode, right?

This is even more because it's the first threesome cat on the loose.

I have two super, super hot guys here.

I wish you could see their faces.

To my left is our mystery guest, the cute guy.

I'm going to keep calling you cute.

You are really cute, by the way.

Cuter puppies, though.

And to my right, I have my...

Dr.

Drew.

Hi, Dr.

Drew.

Good morning.

Are you a doctor cute guy?

I know, right?

It's so chic.

You get cute.

I get cute.

I started feeling guilty because I was calling him Jewel Drew.

I'm like, man, this man is a doctor.

Hello, I want to call him Doctor.

Do you want to change your title?

I can do something.

See, do you want to change your title?

Yeah, but Little Drew.

Lord, Dr.

Drew, or Count Dr.

Drew.

A Baron, there you go.

Oh my Jesus.

Baron Lord.

Baron Cuka should work too.

No, you don't get Baron.

We talked about marriage.

Lady Cuka?

It's not good.

I think the guys in the change group would probably make fun of you.

What I can do for you is upgrade you and call you hot guy if I want.

That's more mature.

Okay.

My friends, we were talking before we got started.

They're going nuts, like sending messages, and my listeners like, who is he?

We want to see his face.

I want to see his face, they found.

I thought you were.

Because I tagged him on all the stars, but they are desperate to find out who you are.

Do they want to be found?

Do they want to be found?

Yeah.

Or

I can do like a Tinder, a personalized Tinder pack.

I can show you all my friends and everybody that wants to find it, and then you decide if you want to find them.

If you match me, if you want to see him, come by fans and have you.

There's a ball gag gag and a mask on, so it's not me.

It could be anybody.

Oh my god, this is getting X-rated.

You must put it in the hardness.

So, speaking of X-rated,

yesterday we were talking, me and Dr.

Drew, Hot, Hot, Mr.

Hot,

about sex.

We did like two episodes about sex.

So, since this is a threesome, I think it's feeding.

Are you guys game to talk about threesomes?

I'm game for a threesome all of it.

Yeah, I'm game for a threesome.

I know, by the way, it's major taboo.

Like when a woman says, like, guys ask me all the time, did you ever do a threesome?

Did you ever touch a girl?

It's like what threesome is, they're asking me.

Yeah.

They're asking you which threesome you have.

No, they want to.

No, no, no, no, no, it's important.

Yeah.

Have you had two penises?

I never did.

The indirection question is that have you had the two penises?

Which is last taboo?

Last taboo is the two chicks.

No, but they think, I swear to to God,

right.

Yeah, okay.

But what they're saying is, is she a hoe or not?

Because she takes all the daddy and stuff.

No, but even when I say, I never did, by the way, I never had two guys, but I have done threesomes for boyfriends, whatever.

But when dates ask me, they're like,

really?

Most people are scared.

See, the way they say that just sounds really,

yeah, like, so they think I'm a hoe just because I say.

But you're doing it for some guy.

I want to have to refresh them?

It's kind of bought that way.

But that's not what they think.

But they think I'm like a whole, like, I'm not a girl for a relationship, just because I admit that I had

good sex in the past, not anymore, but I don't even want sexual purposes.

I just think you're crapped, it's not penises, by the way, it's penanes.

It's what?

Penanes, yeah, P-E-N-E-N-E.

That's actually a thing, pinanges.

And Dr.

Drew has an allergy, by the way.

Okay, so let's move this along.

Threesomes.

I have a gay doctor here, and I have you're straight, right?

Hot and straight.

Oh, my Jesus.

Okay.

Straight.

So let's start with the hot and straight.

I asked you, it's every guy's fantasy to have a threesome, meaning two girls, right?

Yeah, sure.

Yeah.

So you've done it a gazillion times?

I had a few, yep.

A few.

Yep.

I've had foursomes, five some.

So with all women or would you do it with other guys involved?

No chance.

You've never done it in with other.

Oh, yeah, that's a lie.

That's a lie.

I've had a foursome with like two, like two couples.

Like a swinging thing.

Yeah.

But you didn't touch the guy?

No.

No.

But

he was there now.

Yeah, there's a penis proximity distance.

You have to, like...

Bang.

You guys don't touch each other.

It's part of six foot.

Yeah,

it's not a social distance thing.

It's like a penis distance thing.

yeah you gotta keep the you know it's like bags rubbing bags

so it's like it's a guy code that you're not gonna touch each other well there's two ends right there's one end here and there's one end over there you're just gonna but you're like switching the girls around

No, that was that was like a couple thing and couple things are just they're not sexy.

It's just like you're young and you just figured like fuck it.

So if the guy were to approach you or if another couple you would not want a guy threesome to touch you

i don't know i i no no i don't think that's possible but at the same time i don't know if i've ever been propositioned by a couple saying you know sleep with my wife i'm just but it could happen you know it could happen yeah sure i mean whatever i'm not a no person but whatever but you don't know depends how much booze and drugs and what well often the kids will have a double penetration yeah you know at least that's a female male female and what is it wait wait i miss what is that a double penetration don't act like you don't know what that is i never did i never had two guys No, what he's saying is there's two, what are they called again?

Penangs.

Penangs?

There's two penangs inside two, basically.

That's one in your bomb and one in your bomb.

Yeah, I never had that because I never had two guys.

My math was not very good, and we were talking about our distance separation thing.

There's a hole here and a hole here.

You can't see this audience, but I'm giving you a distance.

That's a pretty close proximity.

Yeah, your ball's ideas.

Penangs, yeah, you might do some ball rubbing over there.

Yeah, I did ball rubbing.

So you would not, like, sorry, let's say you would not fuck a girl if another guy was also fucking her to do this double press.

Again, I'm a never say never person.

But you never did it.

But I've never done it.

Okay.

It's just appropriate.

The background noise.

The background noise is always the dogs, guys.

By the way, there's a French bullet.

Yeah, we have three dogs.

My dog.

Dr.

Drew has the nicest, sweetest.

She's just sitting there.

Well behaved.

Nicest?

His name is Clonofin.

Clonophin, I love the name.

And he's very chill.

Okay, getting back to the

threesome, okay, we're going crazy here.

So guys like the threesome if it's usually two girls.

That's the fantasy.

That's the fantasy because you guys like to see the two girls like the little

Again, it's the different strokes for different folks people and there are guys that like to see their girl get

fucking taken down like two dudes

a lot of sausage you never know but no for this at the same time you know i just okay look i'm gonna i'm gonna say my piece about three season only because of whatever but here is what it is when it's like planned and premeditated it's just really weird like when you're the like you said when you're the suburban couple that comes into miami and wants to do the little let's skip down and have a a good time, it's just never really works out very well.

No, I'm not fuming.

I'm not camera shot, but yeah, I know it's that's what I'm saying.

When it's planned out, it's gross.

But when it just kind of happens, you're out, you're at a bar, and it's like, hey,

these two girls are vibing each other, and you're like, hey, let's go.

So, at least two other bubbles too, hot guy.

But

That was hard to get out of my way.

But he is hot.

He is pretty hot.

He's not sweating.

That is true.

And I mean, when we do threesomes, when my partner and I do threesomes, it's typically somebody who we don't know.

It's right.

Because

we don't want to get into the other issue.

And yeah, they go away.

Yeah, you said it on.

Because I've had threesomes with friends.

I lived in a thruffle for a while too, and that was a little bit different.

Actually, yeah.

In a lot?

Thruffle.

What's thruffle?

What's that?

I have basically two partners.

So at one point,

my ex-husband, now isn't that?

What's the term?

Not polygamy, what is it?

Polyamorous.

Polyamores.

Is that what that is?

It is.

Polyamory has a much even a bigger open.

Does that work too?

Polyamores is like somebody that likes people.

People's sex.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And polyamory

has

somebody who, it's not always, it's not a definition of it, but somebody who often is going both ways.

So, one of the partners made me both gay and straightforward there for my sex.

In our case, it was a thruffle.

I had a husband at the time, a different husband than my current husband, husband.

I'm just casey's listening, making that clear.

But my ex-husband, I had my boyfriend move in to our other master suite, and then we basically had free schools all the time and then I had several sets with both of them as well.

Oh wow.

And it worked out well because honestly it allowed for emotional development in different directions.

They fulfilled different needs.

Yeah, sure.

And one of them was a lot harder too.

So

that would be the boyfriend in case he's.

Oh my god.

But I think there's this complication too that maybe one is jealous, right?

One doesn't get as much attention as the other.

So going back to what Huck I was talking about was the threesome piece of having somebody, having that third person, if you're a couple having a threesome, having that third person being anonymous for the most part.

Some of you don't know that though.

Some of you know you're in Puerto Valleta.

Yeah.

There's a hotel person next to you.

Exactly.

Discardable.

Right.

And they're gone the next day.

It's better, right?

You call the Uber at two o'clock.

You're like, thanks for coming out.

Okay, now I have a question for you guys because we started talking about it before we were recording.

A lot of men, they get a little intimidated because they're like, well, whether it's gay or not, because you're going to be with two people, can I handle it?

Am I going to get hard enough to satisfy these two women or these two men?

Is that an issue?

Or should, I said that in the past and I got, oh, the worst backlash on my life.

If you're a guy, if you're a guy, and you know that you're staring down at threesome for sure, like it's on, like it's.

Do you take medication?

You are reaching for a Viagra for sure.

See, no, I mean, like,

me particularly.

Because you want to guarantee that.

No, because I've had enough that I

that shit, they just it's like the biggest I said in one of my past episodes, and it was the number one rated and also the worst backlash of my life.

I said, well, a guy is especially after a certain age, if you're not a teenager and you're gonna go have sex, you need to know your body, you know, know the freaking equipment, get it up.

Listen, no, no, no, that's not

that.

You know, it don't.

You need to know, you need to know that girls are going to go on a fucking podcast and destroy you in the last six seconds.

That's what you need to know.

They're not worried about their performance.

They're worried about the fucking talking to after their friends are going to get.

That was the best four seconds you ever had in your life.

But I mean, it's like you said, if you're going to have sex, if you had dreams, I don't know what you guys need to take.

That's what I'm asking because I'm not a man.

But if I'm going to have sex with a guy or if it's a threesome, whatever, you know,

it was not always rock, solid, superstar, threesome, master that I was in my early days.

There were times where you're there with two girls, a second girl takes your clothes off, off, you're like, oh my god, what am I gonna do?

No, your heart just sinks because you're like, this is all on, and now I gotta do what I gotta do.

It's very taxing, so that 30 minutes before you get hard again is the longest 30 minutes in your entire life.

I don't have an issue.

Do you mind the question?

Do you take fire?

I don't know about your questions, but no, I don't.

I don't either.

I'm luckily in a position of my life where I don't.

You never have to.

I don't have to either.

Even if you have like a threesome, I can multi-orgasm about 10 times without losing a heart.

Me too.

Wow.

Really?

It's a state of mind.

It is.

It's a state of mind.

Can you guys teach it to everybody?

No, you can't.

And see, that's the thing: other guys have it in their head that, like, oh shit, I just came and it's done.

Done.

And they're done.

They roll over and fall.

So, yeah, it's not just much.

Really?

And what I often do, and it's funny because I'll be having sex with somebody.

And I will shoot really fast because I want to.

I want to basically unload.

And they sometimes go, oh fuck you know like

no no no no no no no don't worry I just started that's move now so you know

that was just move now

do you do that too no

or you hold it I won't I won't yeah I'll hold it and I'm an on-demand person so if it's like I want it I'll give it to you really or you can hold it for like half an hour 40 minutes one hour that's what I say when it's mental like that you're in control so you guys think like being good in bed in terms of like lasting and having not more than like 10 minute sex it's all in your it's training

okay listen I'm gonna talk on the hetero side there's a lot of guys that they do that you know who comes first thing right well do you it's a race to come first they look at it like yeah a lot of okay I'm gonna say there are men from particular cultures I'm not gonna name whatever but their whole female thing isn't quite what it is here kind of done what I mean by saying that is they don't give a fuck they'll get with a chick they'll come in six seconds or six minutes.

And 30 seconds after that, they're snoring beside you.

Yeah, no, that's good.

And they're good.

They don't give a fuck about you.

That's what I mean.

They don't care about what they're doing.

I don't think anybody wants a partner like that.

No, but you don't get with a guy thinking he's going to be like that.

This is kind of like those marriages, right?

I know a lot of couples, like they tend to have like this five, ten minute sex.

But I don't think anybody wants to have that kind of sex.

No, not when you get with someone, no.

And certainly not in a three seconds.

That doesn't happen.

But I think what you guys are saying, I never heard before, that like you think it's controlling in your mind.

It is.

100%.

But going back to the,

there is performance society in terms of a threesome.

And I think for especially for guys, for five guys, they have to perform.

And

not always in the gay case, but yeah.

I mean, if you're bottoming, it doesn't matter whether you get a hardware or not.

You're just going to be taking it up.

your ass for the entire time.

So it doesn't really matter, right?

See, I was careful.

I was careful.

Good choice of words.

It's okay, because

producer sounds kind of bruised.

This is an X-ray episode.

But, you know, part of it is you go in there as a guy and you go, all right, this is awesome.

I'm having a threesome workforce or whatever it may be.

This is my fucking fantasy, right?

And then, yeah, the dual-tap was too much.

And now you're not going to get a hard time.

You're not going to perform.

And then it is the worst experience you'll ever have.

Does that whole drugs and boozing play into that too?

Because I don't know.

Like, some people think it makes a difference in that situation.

With anything, there's plateaus.

So, you know, is your drugging or boozing?

I mean, boozing is going to be the most difficult one, to be honest with you, as a depressant.

But there's a certain point where you are hornier.

You are going to perform harder because you are drunk enough.

But once you, you can't see my plateaus.

But once you get up to that top, you're going to go down.

And once you go down, you can't.

You can't go back.

When you drink, do you have a hard time?

Not me.

Having sex.

Me, you still get it on.

I'm good.

Oh,

you guys have modified that used to a couple of times by I have.

I'm not saying it.

But usually it doesn't affect me.

No, it's weird.

It's when it's my mixture if that makes any sense.

Like if I'm having a good time drinking and then something else goes into my body at the wrong time,

sometimes it'll fuck it up as I'm like, oh shit, I wasn't supposed to.

And that's only been recently.

That's only been recently.

Yeah, well, I mean, we're both, you know, moving up to a little bit of ages.

But yeah, it's certainly, and it potentially drops.

And if you're poking eyeballing or anything else, the stimulants will tend to make you continue to perform yeah

now i have a question

i was kind of out the hall

being more difficult so for the girls out there and the boys um somebody that never did a threesome do you guys see that person like or or somebody that did do a threesome do you see that person like oh they're like a slut and a bad person i'm not gonna have a relationship with them

in the world let's be real most girls have had some form of bisexual experience at some point most girls have.

Yeah, they do it to make their boyfriend.

At least in my case, I did it to make my boyfriend happy

because I don't like touching girls.

That's why girls do it.

Yeah.

To make a guy happy.

Yes, for sure.

Seriously.

For sure.

What about your age?

That's it.

Yeah, your own personal.

Look, I'm telling you me.

I've done it before because I wanted to make my guy.

It turned me on to see him so excited.

But I don't like touching women, you know.

Here's the truth.

I don't like the smell.

I don't like the hair.

And Drew said it, said it right.

What happens is, so you get together, you have your little threesome, like you meet a chick at a bar, you bring her home, you do your tea or you're at the hotel, whatever it is, and you send her home.

It's that time you send her home that you turn to your partner and you beat the guts out of her after that.

Because you're just like, wow, she did that for me.

It's amazing.

But you don't do it because of that.

You do it because, wow, I just saw my chick eat some girl's vagina.

You get what I'm saying?

It's hot.

That's sexy.

And that's what he said.

Yesterday he asked me if you said

when I interviewed he said

the hot guy didn't say vagina.

He said pussy said no he was trying to be polite.

But I don't think in your real life it was vagina.

No, but really that's what I mean is that like when you see your girl doing something out of her comfort zone it's like here's the thing too.

threesomes are amazing because it'll give you a really good kind of idea of what kind of personality your girl has with other girls.

Like she can be alpha or beta and when your chick's like an alpha and she's looking at another girl going, bitch, take your fucking clothes off.

You're like, oh my god.

Oh my gosh, she's so fucking hot.

You just can't believe it.

Because like some of these girls are like the quietest, sweetest girls you've ever seen.

All of a sudden they get into the position and they're like, do this, bitch.

They talk to girls differently.

Girls talk to girls, how girls talk to girls, which you've never seen from your girl before.

And then all of a sudden she's talking to this other chick like that.

And you're like, who the fuck are you?

Yeah, where did you come from?

And then you just want to, like I said, it's this whole newfound, you know, hotness.

And the other piece of threesome is the voyeurism, and that is watching somebody.

And I think it's one of the hottest things to watch, in my case, my husband down on another guy

or be pounded by another guy.

It is, there's nothing in the world that fly turns me up on more.

And then I'll get involved in that as well.

And it really is just,

yeah, no, I love to watch, and I like when somebody's watching me.

yeah i really like that

aside i've been the

actor i'm the actor not the director i'm basically the actor yeah

before me the actor i dated a girl that liked girls and uh she honestly liked girls yeah she did so she was bisexual completely bisexual and she had this thing that like Monday nights were her like girl night, if you will, right?

So she had sex.

She had a legit had a tender profile.

her and her and her best friend, which was like her girlfriend, basically, they would go out and they would meet other girls on Monday nights and essentially come back to my place a lot.

And they would do, I'm sitting there watching Monday Night Football and there's four girls right there doing really?

Oh, you must have been in heaven.

It was cool.

Could you jump in?

Yeah, I could, but it just, it gets weird.

After a while, it's a.

You get sick of it.

It's wow.

Because she liked the girls more.

No, no, it wasn't.

It was strictly sexual, but it just became, you know, it was getting a little little muddy there's like there's like wow there is such a thing as too much right off a cliff yeah i think sometimes bringing spice into the relationship bringing other people into the relationship is a great idea but i'm not sure if all the time it's that great of an idea it's hard to turn on and off yeah that's the problem it's hard to turn on and off you can't want one thing and then be like okay i don't want it anymore i know but if you if you get to the point where you're only having three sons yeah um then you know you have an intimacy issue as well from there from the other perspective.

If that's the only way you're going to function,

that does become a problem.

There are relationships with girls that you can get into where that becomes ongoing, and you're like,

maybe this isn't going to work out.

That's what I'm saying.

With that particular situation, I test company, it makes it a little tricky.

Yeah, so I really think you have to go back, you know, this is the psych side of me, but this like you have to go back to that communication: what is healthy and where it becomes unhealthy.

I mean, my last marriage to a female, she knew I loved men, and she basically said, Hey, like, you do you meet a hot guy or that guy when there's hot bring them up and we'll have a freesome together and it fulfilled that side of my my desire at least that's communication right and it was a full communication and she did off on it too but it fulfilled the other side of me because I kept me married to her for a bit longer yeah

you see it's this it's so crazy like people think they have this box is like if some guy is at a row he's only gonna do this and if a guy is game

but actually sex is like such a mess i was also my wife but i needed dick as well

you like what you like right yeah so and that's that's really what he's saying is that if your communication with your partner is like look i got an itch i need to scratch and if you're not with it then but you said that and dr ju said that yesterday but i'm telling you guys as a woman and that's why we started talking about sex it's such taboo it is such taboo most people don't say what they want in bed and we were we were even saying that it's in general especially americans they're very uptight about sex

not all americans but in general like brazilians are super open-minded

so when i talk about sex to me it's like super normal

yeah

but to me it's like i i grew up you know and in paris in france it's the same and but and and here i feel

I was married to an American guy.

We were talking about that yesterday.

And he was, for 15 years, he was super, super, super uptight in that.

Super.

So after.

Did you put a finger in the balm?

Huh?

Did you put a finger in the bump?

No, I couldn't even go.

Did you talk about that?

Did you listen to that?

That's our next show.

It's all about anal sex and fingering that.

Most men, most men don't let you even go near that area.

No, that's not 100% true.

Anyway, let's do the next episode.

But I'm saying, as a woman, many times if I start saying, yeah, I have three sons, yeah, I like this and I like that, the guys will be like, oh, she must be like, oh, oh, my God, yeah.

She sounds like a parnster.

I think a lot of that though is just their them saying it, you know, because again, it's some of it's socially constructed saying, you know, look, oh, that woman must be a slot.

She just told me she must have threesomes.

Where, yeah, it's kind of normal.

I'd be like, you got a phone number, right?

Exactly.

I think it's not.

I agree.

If I have a boyfriend and he's like, oh, can we bring a girl in?

I'm like, sure, sounds like a lot of fun.

I'm not going to say no.

These girls aren't exactly like, sure.

But if I meet the guy.

You know him well enough and you understand that see here's the thing this is really important if you meet somebody and they are a certain type of ways before you meet them as in like they're you know they have a sexual appetite that's pretty full you got to remember that they may be with you on a you know exclusive relationship

i think we talked about this they are looking at other women when they walk down the street So that vibe is there.

Like they are sexually attracted to other women.

Whether they are sexually attracted to you, that's fine.

But there is still a tingling sensation that happens.

But don't you think that's healthy?

That's good.

100% healthy and 100% normal.

But what I'm saying is what it's acting on it.

That's where the line is

across.

Whether you let them do it, like if remember what I was saying, if you walk down the street and you're with a guy and some beautiful woman walks by and he's not like looking at her, you're almost like, that's kind of weird that he didn't even look, right?

So at least if he looks.

And then he looks and you're like, hey, maybe we should go get her phone number.

That's when that's like, whoa.

That's a whole different vibe.

I think it's healthy to look at, even if you're married if you're whatever the relationship i think it's okay to look at beautiful people we all like looking at people

exactly i mean it doesn't mean i don't i don't think it's a big deal i'm less attracted to you it's just yeah yeah that guy's hot absolutely

and if you don't see that he's hot as well then there's something that's true that's what i'm saying it's just like like the instagram things that definitely tell like if i'm on instagram and i'm dating some girl and i like a fucking moth girl's photo and she's like why would you like that girl oh yeah i mean it's like i know it's what i'm only supposed to like guys pictures like what just makes no sense at all.

And I worry more.

Yeah.

Why is it all the guys?

Exactly, right?

Are you curious about men?

But that's too much.

That's beyond being jealous.

That's ridiculous.

I mean, you can't control what people look at.

Let's be honest.

They do.

And so do guys.

I mean, you know, I spent some time when I first married this guy,

where he was very jealous about anything, everything.

And, you know, I'm a hugely social person.

I know at gollas at events and at parties all the time.

And it's like part of my even sort of job, yours too, because you're in media as well, but it's like, it's flirtation.

You know,

I bring in millions of dollars a year because of my personality and who I am and how I interact with people.

And he flipped out for a long time.

I was flirting with the COVID test lady.

She was not attractive.

It's more of your personality.

Hey, beautiful.

How are you doing?

You're just being nice.

It's our personality, but I don't think we mean anything by it.

But people judge.

yeah they judge because of the way it's of course especially for me because i'm a woman and i am flirty by nature touchy

but it doesn't mean i want to everybody and even if i do it doesn't mean i'm going to do it i may want to do it but i don't do it but people judge me and they're like oh my god this girl is like i'm i can't believe the guys give you a hard time oh you have no idea yes

i told you weird none none of those weird guys just mean that they're those are the ones that are raised by like strict hilarities i decided before used to make me feel super bad and then after my last boyfriend i told you the story the italian guy that told me

or like just the thought no when when my last boyfriend criticized me a lot because of my podcast call me a more da da da porn star after i broke up with him now i'm like listen i don't even want to date guys that are not supportive of what i do and if they can handle me if they think it's too much obviously they're not the man for me i need a guy with a super strong personality that is not intimidated by a woman that talks about sex.

You know, it's just my job.

It's my work.

It's not, you know.

It's not just the upbringing by any means.

It's the fact that, you know, it is this insecurity, this jump singer.

You know, it's whether they're Catholics or whether they're whatever.

It's just they're insecure.

Yeah.

And they're, you know, they're holding on as tight as they possibly can.

And that's so, that's them.

When I interviewed him, the hot guy, the first time, in like half an hour, I got maybe 50, 60 messages.

It's your boyfriend.

Who is he?

We want to know.

And then I had to do like a disclaimer stories on my Instagram because I didn't want the guy that I'm supposedly dating to think that the minute he's out of town, I'm banging my guest.

That's how bad things are.

They think whoever I'm with, whoever I'm interviewing, like I'm banging them.

And it's not the case because

for the record, we never banged.

She's lying.

She's lying right by the line.

She's totally lying.

Yeah, totally.

No clothes on.

totally water.

I don't wear M6P away.

No, we're gonna do a second half.

Bagler, Baglert.

This is Cat on the Loose.

We're coming back for a second half.

We'll be right back.

We'll be right back.